A friend from 14 years ago just reminded of this and I came here to listen only to find that I still remember 85% of the melodies and the lyrics. I must have listened to it over a thousand time and sang it over another thousand to retain this much. John created a masterpiece
All of John Legend's songs are written wonderfully so that you feel his emotions. Love listiening to his songs. He is one of the greatest artists of our time.
@@repentnowtomorrowisnotprom8410 thanks for that stvpid religion, my young cousin died from covid for not taking the vaccine even if he wanted to because his parents said so because it's against their religion
I still dig his music, I just hate that he and his wife are sick pedo political pundits. Why can't entertainers just stick to entertaining. Stay out of politics...and children.
I appreciate your great love and support you show me as a special fan of mine🌹🌹. I hope you won't stop listening to our music, and thanks for your sincere Compliment and love towards our music 💞🖤 may god bless you guy. Have you been to any of the show?
This video makes you feel the emotions you went through with the topic that he's talking about, and every single word hits your heart in the parts that you try your hardest to forget ever existed.
And then on The Second Try, She Told Everybody .... Who acted a fuckin fool and I sent Hutu right to Zulu. We can only Hope, my Takeaway from a misplaced eternal Capacity to Expect went as cool as My Infinite Capacity to Reflect.
Mr. Legends music is perfect to listen to when you have to think about life and all the things you've been through and love and loved ones we've lost!!!! It really opens up you mind and just let your emotions take over and enjoy the ride! And pushes you to think about things that hurt us that we would rather not think about and make it okay,and next thing you know you're actually solving a lot of inner emotion that is and has been subconsciously running through your mind and effecting you emotionally and effecting us and our everyday life....
Dear Gregory, me being from 1961 (just turned 61 - hey hey) will join the OPENING concert of the North SEA JAZZ NSJ festival Rotterdam The Netherlands upcoming July 7 FEATURING for the first time in my life Mr. John Legend (and I've seen many hundreds of concerts during NSJ). But you Mr. Green, wrote a wonderful FIRST LINE in your comment 5 years ago "[...] is perfect to listen to when ...[...]. The whole J-L-concert I will be thinking, dancing and enjoying with my 2016-passed-away-darling MARIJKE HERDER, the mother of our beautiful child Lonée-herde van der Ham. So dear dear Gregory, Thursday July 7, 2022 8:30pm Dutch time Mr.Legend will start >> you in where ever you are: I SALUTE YOU!
This is me and ex boyfriends songs. I truly wish I had not messed up our relationship I truly miss him and still hope we're still together but same time I wish him happiness wherever he is . I love you Andrew always!
It gets harder every day, but I can't seem to shake the pain I'm trying to find the words to say, please say It's written all over my face, I can't Function the same when you're not here I'm calling your name and no one's there And I hope one day you'll see nobody has it easy, I still can't believe you found somebody new But I wish you the best, I guess. Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt We've heard it all before, that everybody knows How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try One more try One more try 'Cause everybody knows, but nobody really knows I don't care what the people say They brought it all in anyway Baby don't fill up your head with he-said, she-said It seems like you just don't know The radio's on, you tuning me out, I'm trying to speak, you're turning me down And I know one day you'll see nobody has it easy, I still can't believe you found somebody new But I wish you the best, I guess. 'Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt We've heard it all before, that everybody knows How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try One more try One more try One more try 'Cause everybody knows, but nobody really knows Oh I wish you'd understand Oh, just an ordinary man Wish that we'd have known Everybody knows, but nobody really knows And I know one day you'll see, nobody has it easy I still can't believe you found somebody new I wish you the best, I guess. 'Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt We've heard it all before, that everybody knows How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try One more try One more try One more try 'Cause everybody knows, but nobody really knows
An underrated song and timely for me... Whoooa!! Love can drive you through the most craziest emotions in life!! Imagine getting heartbroken in the new year and just before Valentines day? Haha!! 🤦 Hope you guys get the right people for you in 2022.. 🙏❤️
@@johnlegend106 wow!! Your reply means the world to me... ☺️ Am a huge fan from Kenya... 🇰🇪 Hahaha! Sure, there's still hope... I listened to this song like every other day until my heart found peace.. Thank you so much! ☺️❤️
isn't that so sad that we think we know it all and we should realize we're just beginning to learn. i made a little reminder in one of those old wood burning sets and keep it where i can see it many times during the day that says.. "the older i grow, the more i recall, the little i knew when i knew it all"" works for me!!!!
Myrthe Marres The Free State of Bavaria is a state of Germany, located in the southeast. With an area of 70,548 square kilometres, it is the largest state by area, forming almost 20% of the total land area of Germany.
hes saying that love is pain and pain is love. and when it hurts some people can get passed it and some cant. instead of us just letting go because we really don't know how to handle hurt , we should have tried one more time to fight through the pain. everybody knows but nobody really knows how to make it right.
What a beautiful masterpiece of truth you share with us here ...at a very loss of words I can only do this Thank You to you for providing your love and awareness to open our hearts, minds and souls to see that which is profound and simply real. Namaste.
Thanks for your incredible support and love towards our music from long ago 💐💞 we made it to the top because of you our lovely fans and I hope you have enjoyed every bit of it. May God bless you 🌹🌹. Have you been to our music concert?
We do wrong things, hurt one another do all sorts of things to each other mostly in expressing our feelings all without considering what one more try, one more chance given could yeild yet we know that nobody really knows how to make it work🙇💔💘💥
Hi everyone. I woukd lie to dedicate this one to Obakeng Ncongwanen from Tsakane South Africa. Ekatsane my cousin Lukhanyo umncana ka Karabo would say. I think you would remember these moments back in high school. Heti Maria Heti. Love you sis.
Dear John Legend, One day you'll be feeling down or hurting & I hope you read my post here. Thank you for sharng this song with us. You're song helped me to "give it one more try"...i'll never forget that & I'll never be able to repay the life you helped save tonight. I'm forever in your debt. You ever need something of me, and I've got you. Much Love, WBJ
+nav kaur sidhu Oh well I am sorry maybe I am being a jerk if it makes you feel something of course that is a thing and nothing for me to dismiss. I was just looking for the original 'Everybody Knows' by Leonard Cohen and found this and was maybe in a bad mood thusly plus I am thinking about our human brethren's of Syrian backgrounds troubles and maybe that is making me irritable as well. I come from a very large and wealthy country and my nation and it's government is dragging it's ass right now in terms of helping people. We can't do everything, but we can do a lot more. It's not *bad*, this song, it's just...I find the arrangements contrived and cliche. If you like heartbreak songs I'd suggest: Love Will Tear Us Apart by Joy Division, anything by the Magnetic Fields, especially "Either You Don't Love Me Or I Don't Love You" , Leadbelly's 'Careless Love' (actually the whole album 'Where Did You Sleep Last Night' is brilliant, Nirvana's Heart Shaped Box' or 'Polly', Duffy's 'Warwick Avenue', Leonard Cohen's 'This Waltz", Gordon Lightfoot's "If you could read my mind" and lastly Al Jareau's "Never Explain Love".
"I don't care what people say, they're probably lonely anyway" This line is so true. Most people are just winging it or trying to keep it together but we like to put up a bold face. Lol
co worker played this song on her speaker, gave me chills and I asked who this was..instantly fell in love. listening to other songs now..amazing artist!!
Massively underrated song. This is one of his best songs in terms of lyrics, feel, beat and emotions. A real life gem. Just a magnificent song.
Indeed...beautiful song
Vocal arrangement as well
Perfectly written
Impossible!
Seriously!!😩
A friend from 14 years ago just reminded of this and I came here to listen only to find that I still remember 85% of the melodies and the lyrics. I must have listened to it over a thousand time and sang it over another thousand to retain this much. John created a masterpiece
LINDA MELODIA!
All of John Legend's songs are written wonderfully so that you feel his emotions. Love listiening to his songs. He is one of the greatest artists of our time.
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY.!.
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.!!
@@repentnowtomorrowisnotprom8410 thanks for that stvpid religion, my young cousin died from covid for not taking the vaccine even if he wanted to because his parents said so because it's against their religion
@@repentnowtomorrowisnotprom8410shut up
No after this Album he fell off and got lazy I think Yezzy not producing for him had a little impact.
The beautiful nostalgia that comes with this song 😩 I've got nothing but great memories
2024 this song is still a masterpiece 😍😍
Best song ever
Save Room is also one of my favorites.
I still dig his music, I just hate that he and his wife are sick pedo political pundits. Why can't entertainers just stick to entertaining. Stay out of politics...and children.
I love who do we think we are
@@RMaidla timeless
Broke up with my girl of two years today. And this song is like asprin. I miss her so much
2024 here❤
"It gets harder everyday
but I can’t seem to shake the pain
I am trying to find the word to say
please stay...."
Very very intense.
I appreciate your great love and support you show me as a special fan of mine🌹🌹. I hope you won't stop listening to our music, and thanks for your sincere
Compliment and love towards our music 💞🖤 may god bless you guy. Have you been to any of the show?
This was the first John Legend song I ever heard. I also think it's my favorite and I don't know why. It means a lot for different reasons. ❤
I deeply appreciate you for being a fan. It gives me so much joy that I am able to put smiles on the faces and heart of many.💝
Me too
Hello Bukky, how are you doing?
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!.!
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.!.!
Nobody has it easy 2024...
Nobody has it easy , always remember that if you going through some hardship that you aren't alone❤
This video makes you feel the emotions you went through with the topic that he's talking about, and every single word hits your heart in the parts that you try your hardest to forget ever existed.
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late
"Everybody knows, that nobody really knows" 💙🤞🏽 One Love
And then on The Second Try, She Told Everybody .... Who acted a fuckin fool and I sent Hutu right to Zulu.
We can only Hope, my Takeaway from a misplaced eternal Capacity to Expect went as cool as My Infinite Capacity to Reflect.
❤
♥️❤️💗💙🧡💚💛💜🖤💞💕🖤💜💗💙💙❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️💗💙💗❤️♥️💜💛❤️
This man is so gifted with this music. He has a song for every feeling I'm feeling.
yeh man
Don't worry. You’re not only one listening to this masterpiece in 07/2021
you are legend💝
I am legend!😩🙌🏽🥺🥺♥️
Legendary
every body knows this song is a legend !
Same
R.I.P to my bro who introduced me to this song. -pat
♡
He was a real one
One of my favorite songs by John
Jaemin Robertson i
Great song---I really love it🍃
I. Love you 😘 🍭
Vader3000 John
2024 and this song is still one of my favorites ❤❤❤
I'm listening in 2021 and it still feels like it was only released yesterday. Great music is timeless. John is truly a legend
Indeed
Well said!
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY.!.
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late!!
Mr. Legends music is perfect to listen to when you have to think about life and all the things you've been through and love and loved ones we've lost!!!! It really opens up you mind and just let your emotions take over and enjoy the ride! And pushes you to think about things that hurt us that we would rather not think about and make it okay,and next thing you know you're actually solving a lot of inner emotion that is and has been subconsciously running through your mind and effecting you emotionally and effecting us and our everyday life....
Dear Gregory, me being from 1961 (just turned 61 - hey hey) will join the OPENING concert of the North SEA JAZZ NSJ festival Rotterdam The Netherlands upcoming July 7 FEATURING for the first time in my life Mr. John Legend (and I've seen many hundreds of concerts during NSJ). But you Mr. Green, wrote a wonderful FIRST LINE in your comment 5 years ago "[...] is perfect to listen to when ...[...].
The whole J-L-concert I will be thinking, dancing and enjoying with my 2016-passed-away-darling MARIJKE HERDER, the mother of our beautiful child Lonée-herde van der Ham. So dear dear Gregory, Thursday July 7, 2022 8:30pm Dutch time Mr.Legend will start >> you in where ever you are: I SALUTE YOU!
vpl
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late
Wow! Well put! Articulated it so well!
that moment when your deep in your feelings, and you come across that song that just makes you break💘
감사합니다
Omgosh! Like yesterday... when I cried myself to sleep listening to this💔❤
Ոչ միայն Սիրդտ ու Հոգիտա Իմ Շարունակությունը այլ նաև Խելքդ Դու Իմ Իդեալն ես 🙏🏼
This is me and ex boyfriends songs. I truly wish I had not messed up our relationship I truly miss him and still hope we're still together but same time I wish him happiness wherever he is . I love you Andrew always!
2020 it nor gets old even quarantine time
9 years later and this song still amazes me! Thank you John for this masterpiece!!
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY.!.
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late!!.
The lyrics to this song are well written. JUST BEAUTIFUL!
My favorite John Legend song.
They're just times you come here for this
You will be wishing and you end up soothing your soul with some legendary songs
Years later and I'm still so in love with this song 👌😍
Evolver Is a timeless masterpiece 🔥😭❤
It gets harder every day, but I can't seem to shake the pain
I'm trying to find the words to say, please say
It's written all over my face, I can't
Function the same when you're not here
I'm calling your name and no one's there
And I hope one day you'll see nobody has it easy,
I still can't believe you found somebody new
But I wish you the best, I guess.
Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt
We've heard it all before, that everybody knows
How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try
One more try
One more try
'Cause everybody knows, but nobody really knows
I don't care what the people say
They brought it all in anyway
Baby don't fill up your head with he-said, she-said
It seems like you just don't know
The radio's on, you tuning me out,
I'm trying to speak, you're turning me down
And I know one day you'll see nobody has it easy,
I still can't believe you found somebody new
But I wish you the best, I guess.
'Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt
We've heard it all before, that everybody knows
How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try
One more try
One more try
One more try
'Cause everybody knows, but nobody really knows
Oh I wish you'd understand
Oh, just an ordinary man
Wish that we'd have known
Everybody knows, but nobody really knows
And I know one day you'll see, nobody has it easy
I still can't believe you found somebody new
I wish you the best, I guess.
'Cause everybody knows, that nobody really knows
How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt
We've heard it all before, that everybody knows
How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try
One more try
One more try
One more try
'Cause everybody knows, but nobody really knows
An underrated song and timely for me... Whoooa!! Love can drive you through the most craziest emotions in life!! Imagine getting heartbroken in the new year and just before Valentines day? Haha!! 🤦 Hope you guys get the right people for you in 2022.. 🙏❤️
@@johnlegend106 wow!! Your reply means the world to me... ☺️ Am a huge fan from Kenya... 🇰🇪 Hahaha! Sure, there's still hope... I listened to this song like every other day until my heart found peace.. Thank you so much! ☺️❤️
It will get better
😢💔 i know ur pain. But it will get better.
@@kristiejantzen2950 thanks 🙏
Whose listening in 2024🥺
Me!
Me
Meeeeeee!
Meeeeeeeeee😊
2024!
I found myself revisiting John my Legenday for some healing, his voice heals me perfectly.
isn't that so sad that we think we know it all and we should realize we're just beginning to learn. i made a little reminder in one of those old wood burning sets and keep it where i can see it many times during the day that says.. "the older i grow, the more i recall, the little i knew when i knew it all"" works for me!!!!
Beautiful 👍👍
My dear child , a beautiful?!
I wish she knew the life we could of lived, we could of had it all. But I’ll never be her first choice.
WHO'S WATCHING THIS IN 2020 STAY SAFE AN STRONG GOD BLESS💯🙏♥️
Me in 2021
John Legend you were a GPS in my relationship sir. Thank you for creating this masterpiece for my soul. You're rated by me, not underrated at all.
Loving this song at the moment.
Sorry Susan i can"t see this video here in Germany! GEMA!!!:))
No my dear:)) Ja i come from Germany, Bavaria:))))
Thats great Susan!:)))) Have a nice Evening:))
Ingrid Padwal its funny you think you was talking to the real Susan Boyle
Myrthe Marres The Free State of Bavaria is a state of Germany, located in the southeast. With an area of 70,548 square kilometres, it is the largest state by area, forming almost 20% of the total land area of Germany.
Cant listen to this bloody song without crying like an idiot
That “wish you the best...I guess” always hit hard...
Simple put, this song is goated 🐐
I’ve been looking for this song since I first heard It for a good 8 years and I finally found it 😭
Abby H. Same, I knew the tune but I couldn't think of the lyrics until one day I remembered "I wish you the best, i guess"
hes saying that love is pain and pain is love. and when it hurts some people can get passed it and some cant. instead of us just letting go because we really don't know how to handle hurt , we should have tried one more time to fight through the pain. everybody knows but nobody really knows how to make it right.
The most accurate explain i´ve read so far, many thanks!
Thanks john
Once again,we still come back for his music❤
What a beautiful masterpiece of truth you share with us here ...at a very loss of words I can only do this Thank You to you for providing your love and awareness to open our hearts, minds and souls to see that which is profound and simply real. Namaste.
Not many songs touch me the way this song does :C John Legend is wonderful
Thanks for your incredible support and love towards our music from long ago 💐💞 we made it to the top because of you our lovely fans and I hope you have enjoyed every bit of it. May God bless you 🌹🌹. Have you been to our music concert?
No body has it easy JOHN. Absolute Masterpiece on repeat.
This song is so underrated
Stay strong ......love yourselff......U are a gift 4 the gods
We do wrong things, hurt one another do all sorts of things to each other mostly in expressing our feelings all without considering what one more try, one more chance given could yeild yet we know that nobody really knows how to make it work🙇💔💘💥
One of the BIG ones.
My favorite to this day 😭 Hit it right on the 💰 with this one 🤞🏾
Hi everyone. I woukd lie to dedicate this one to Obakeng Ncongwanen from Tsakane South Africa. Ekatsane my cousin Lukhanyo umncana ka Karabo would say. I think you would remember these moments back in high school. Heti Maria Heti. Love you sis.
Dear John Legend,
One day you'll be feeling down or hurting & I hope you read my post here. Thank you for sharng this song with us. You're song helped me to "give it one more try"...i'll never forget that & I'll never be able to repay the life you helped save tonight. I'm forever in your debt. You ever need something of me, and I've got you.
Much Love,
WBJ
You're so cute :)
Randomly listening to this song in 2024
Me too.
Who's listening in 2025 trust in the Lord we don't know only God knows.
awesomesong
lovesong
This guy has become so popular, I remember listening to this song 3 or 4 years ago and look what's happened!
Hes awesome!
Power of media.
What a voice....I have to agree...magnificent song.....still listening to this in 2021 and loving it....timeless really....
His songs are more real than any other singer .. My new fav .. Love his voice spell bound ..
very true ...
Sarabjeet singh yes ... Thank you ..
+nav kaur sidhu Maybe you need to listen to some more songs. This is sentimental pap.
+pax north would you please suggest me some more songs ? thank you
+nav kaur sidhu Oh well I am sorry maybe I am being a jerk if it makes you feel something of course that is a thing and nothing for me to dismiss. I was just looking for the original 'Everybody Knows' by Leonard Cohen and found this and was maybe in a bad mood thusly plus I am thinking about our human brethren's of Syrian backgrounds troubles and maybe that is making me irritable as well. I come from a very large and wealthy country and my nation and it's government is dragging it's ass right now in terms of helping people. We can't do everything, but we can do a lot more.
It's not *bad*, this song, it's just...I find the arrangements contrived and cliche. If you like heartbreak songs I'd suggest: Love Will Tear Us Apart by Joy Division, anything by the Magnetic Fields, especially "Either You Don't Love Me Or I Don't Love You" , Leadbelly's 'Careless Love' (actually the whole album 'Where Did You Sleep Last Night' is brilliant, Nirvana's Heart Shaped Box' or 'Polly', Duffy's 'Warwick Avenue', Leonard Cohen's 'This Waltz", Gordon Lightfoot's "If you could read my mind" and lastly Al Jareau's "Never Explain Love".
I love everything about this song. It's always played on repeat 🎧❤
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY.!.
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late.!!
"I don't care what people say, they're probably lonely anyway"
This line is so true. Most people are just winging it or trying to keep it together but we like to put up a bold face. Lol
It's on the 22nd of March 2020 and I'm back here. So satisfying 🎶🎵🎼🕺
i listen to this when its raining sometimes. soothing and gentle. I love mellow music with some soul.
Still cant believe this song is so old and felt so new to me in 2022
JHON legend, definitely a Legend, he has the ability to help heal the worst of my pain.
Hello Jenny, I must say you have such an amazing and captivating smile
10 years and 1 month for this legendary song ❤
It's bout to be 2018 and Everybody Knows this shit is STILL DOPE!!!
Shit is indeed dope
U shouldn't be swearing kids might watch this dummy DUHHHH
On everything im practicing now
Piccola anima
2019
Humility, self sacrifice without competition, faith. True de-escalation.
co worker played this song on her speaker, gave me chills and I asked who this was..instantly fell in love. listening to other songs now..amazing artist!!
yes..im that far behind in the music scene...what have I missed in the past 10 years?
Discovered this song after my then fianceé and I called it quits. This song was my pearl at the bottom of the ocean.
" JOHN LEGENDS BEST SONG" NEVER GETS OLD" 😢
I like all your songs you are so passionate while singing. ☺
his voice is amazing.
I like the song but I simply love the feelings expressed in it.
This song is absolutely true!
Haven't heard this in years , still got the soothing vibe 😌 .
Forever a Legend ♥
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY.!.
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late!!!
Really missing her at the moment.Love this song but damn. This got me imagining situations that will just never be.
TO everyone listening this is your sign it's gonna be okay ❤ GOD GOT you 😇...
I always come back to this song when it's Christmas time and I don't know why ❤️❤️❤️
music makes people alive and arouses lots of hidden emotions
I'm 14 years old and this is one of my favorite song ♥️♥️
rodgers sibisi
Evibary gow ranthy
You're 16 now... Still a favorite?
Yes bro
Cristiano Rodrigues crazy to think that you were 6 when this song came out
17 now lol
Հասկացա 🙏🏼 Սիրում եմ Քեզ Ապրես Կյանքս
The lyrics are still so damn relatable !!
2019???
Thank you John for this song. May God continue to bless you and your family. ❤️ 9/2020
2021 will come and I’m still listening to John Legend.
John Legend Is Truly A LEGEND 🤴
@Daisy morgan Hi... We both are watching this song from different ccountries
Timeless music I was a little kid when I first heard this song 💕
This song never fails to make me cry...
Love the lyrics and message. ❤
Used to listen to this song on repeat when I was in high school ❤
Autoplay tonight is on point.. I love this man
2020 will come and I'm still listening to John legend
Ikr..love this man👍❤❤
Very show... i love...😍😍😍
Its upon us in Covid times. still here
John is amazing 🥰
Uh oh. I guess this was what we were all expecting now in 2020
I love the lyrics of this song, tell the truth, all the songs of John Legend are cute.😊
Yesssss, "FOUND SOMEBODY NEW".....but I wish u the best, I guess 🙌🏽
Who's listening to 2024?❤
Me 😢
❤
❤️🥹
😢💔
❤
This is still one of my favorite John Legend songs, and I'm pretty sure this is my favorite album of his.
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY
JESUS is coming soon and JESUS is the only way to Salvation accept JESUS as your LORD and Savior today before it is too late
I love how he got a lesian couple in the vid :) it said to me that love=love, and that's really true