What To Do When A Girl Looks At You
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- Lynn shares exactly what to do when you see a girl looking at you.
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In this video, we'll discuss what to do when a girl looks at you. We'll discuss the importance of eye contact, confidence, and persistence.
There's no time to shy away if she is giving you the cues to approach her. You will be more attractive once the approach is executed perfectly.
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In this video, I'm going to share with you what to do when a girl looks at you. It can be confusing, especially if you're not used to it. But with a little understanding, you'll be able to take control and make the most of the situation.
No matter how a girl looks at you, you can always take the opportunity to improve your social skills. In this video, I'm going to give you some tips on how to react when a girl looks at you. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
If a woman gives me direct contact, it's a trap! 🏃♂️ RUN
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She already knows the amount of your bank account
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Nowadays everyone with a phone and a youtube channel is a dating expert .
Followed the advice....now i am at the police station.
Quick advice....dont follow the instructions whilst jerking off.
This is literally true af
People don't go on the pull anymore 🙄
@@Marjopolo302 Easy fella, I'm pulling everyday!
nowadays everyone with a cellphone thinks that every cares about their opinion XD XD
I was dining at a restaurant one afternoon and a cute girl came up to me and asked are you sitting here alone
i didn't hesitate to say yes and tells her that she could join me but she took up one of the chairs and left 😀
😁😁😁
Been there too
I had similar but the girl actually asked to sit next to me , then she chatted to me for 2 hours. Only thing I wasn't interested in her 😢
@@80skid83Tbh if a girl can chat me up for 2hrs without making me just get up and leave, I’d fuck her… unless she looks like Lizzo or something
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I’ve gone up to many girls, who, as she says, looked at me, and they all failed, and were shocked and weirded out that I was talking to them and asking them out. Don’t listen to her. Not all looking is the same.
Why so?
I don’t know! At my gym I have had 3
Women practically in my face staring at me giving me all these signs to make a move and by golly I will hehe
@@misham2563 Did you make any moves?
Same bro
@@isewatr5610 Have you ever had any partners? If so, do you have any relationship advice for me?
And that's how you end up on social media looking like another creep. Unless you guys want that or worse....stay away. If she wants you that bad....she will approach
True , this girl was always looking at me for over a year when I approached she said she has never seen me anywhere,,,now if someone really wants me bad she should approach
These advices lead to massive lawsuits against men.
Lmfao....
It's true you never know why a woman is looking at you... It's goes many ways.
1. She's looking at how ugly are you.
2. She looking because you're wearing something different
3. She has some goal and you're her test specimen
4. She's teasing and validating herself (90% this what it is)
5. She is really really attracted to you.(10% chance this happens)
I'm 41 now and I'm so use to being this single guy I'm not worried about being single anymore. Now if a woman look at me I'm not going to think nothing of it. It's a different between a girl looking at u vs looking at u sexually. Now I just ghost women and focus on my goals and myself. A woman should have been in my life long time ago and now I'm not worried about them anymore. 👎👎
no, u need help
@@joshh_xyz Joshua, is that u?
Some women use you. Some use you for dumb favors and lie about it. I don’t need a woman cause some shop too much and they think about shopping then men.
@@robertmoore294 Too bad bro!
I feel the same, every word. These days most women get in to a relationship and only focus on how they can improve their lifestyle by benefiting from yours.
Very true, this is a common way that a lot of women show interest but what's aggravating is when you're an attractive guy around a lot of women and one of them that's in a relationship or has no intentions of doing anything shows interest like this and in other ways on the sly to get you to come over and shoot your shot so that she can turn you down to make her friends jealous because I approached her and not them and to give herself an ego boost.
How do you deal with these games they play? I really need red pill here
Why not just take her interest as a confidence boost
Annoying af. Happens more often than not. They show explicit interest upfront. But ghost you the next day
@@sohaib_t dating me for popularity doesn't make me confident💀
@@xxxarimaxxx yeah am just saying If u never go to them and confess and just take them liking or flirting with u as a confidence boost and ignore them nothing gonna happen
If a girl is looking interested, she better come up and talk to me like the independent woman she is. It's not my job to do everything in a relationship after all, 50/50 remember?
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Stooge
@@maximummatt73 😂😂😂
Before you know it you’re 50 and alone man…not a fun path to take in life…you only have one lifetime don’t waste it
@@Squeam9750 which is why he's alone.
It's easier to let her come to you; genuine desire is the goal.
Wow you are gorgeous.
That's what led my men to be paying child support till date.
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A girl stares me then look down 4 to 5 times daily so what should i do😭😭🐸
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@@hacked296 i ended up did ntg🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I’m single because a cute woman looking at me isn’t really a good enough reason to smile, and I don’t fake smile. So I just return the stare with confidence and stoicism. Which probably makes me look like a killer. Which they usually lose their smile pretty quickly and break eye contact.
Same 😂😂
they need time
Boom this a big problem with alot of guys they don’t know how to smile back at women lol
A cashier looked at me then I proceeded to show my dominance all I remember was I was escorted out by security
Me. A girl kept staring at me and giving me all signs for over a year when I approached she said she has never seen me anywhere,,and upto now she is still staring
Men, never ever take dating advice from women!!!
Amen
Is the year of our lord 2023 and this man speech is coming straight from heaven, never have I listen to a more correct statement than this one.
if you're a gay, take advice from men
Don’t take advice from anyone on dating…it’s one of those you have to do it yourself and feel it out…nobody can teach you how to date over TH-cam videos lol
@@JoeWyenz bitches take advices from gay, if you are gay take advices from gay not men
Men tell truth because they are experienced
Can’t do that these days, it’s considered creepy. 😂
How are you supposed to get laid then or have a partner?
Don't think on it, just keep focused on the goal. Stay single, drama free life is best
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Yes Yes Yes Count Me In On That @MaffBuckley !?
Rule #1: Never take fishing advice from fish.
Everyone is giving an advice on dating and stuff.
I feel like you just have to be yourself and do what will make you feel good.
I feel genuineness rules over everything.
If she loves you for who you're, that's the best thing that can happen to anybody on earth. So guys just be you...don't trigger things,it will affect you in the long run. Trust me
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There’s a difference between being glanced at and checked out, versus being looked at and invited over. The problem is the second one is rare, and the first one “could” be actual interest, but there’s no way of knowing without approaching. And approaching when it isn’t actual interest can actually hurt your rep if you are approaching in a place you frequent a lot, like the gym.
Also attraction isn’t everything. Peep this story:
I was at a bar doing my own thing while a homie bought us rounds. I walked past 2 girls and one of them looked at her homegirl and then at me and she says “hey you need to talk to my friend here” I played it cool and said something like ye the music is crazy (because the girls were like what kind of music is this) anyways the girl that I was supposed to talk to seemed shy (though very hot) and I didn’t have my wing so I just quickly excused myself after saying one thing and didn’t even wait for a reply. My boy gets back and now that he’s back he can talk to one girl and I can talk to the other. Me and him go and stand semi next to the girls and make conversation with ourselves. Then we finish up and I told him to be on the lookout for the one girl to say something and sure enough she did. She gets even more crazy and calls my homie over and whispers to him? Then as I’m starting to walk up she yells at me and tells me that I need to take her friend home and the her friend thinks I’m hot (but her friend was super super embarrassed) anyways I played it cool and tried to talk to her friend but she was too embarrassed to actually do much conversation. It turns out they were from across the country and were only here for 2 days. So of course that means that (taking her home that night) would be the only real chance there was. But of course it didn’t happen. EVEN WHEN THE GIRL IS SUPER INTO YOU, things can still mess up. In this case the friend ruined it by making the girl that was into me, feel like a slut. It’s whatever… I get plenty of girls. But it’s just a lesson learned that attraction is t everything. Girls can totally be attracted to you but not at all interested… it happens all the time.
Depends on the women is, I get many looks from women in the gym who are married. They are looking for validation and attention. Only make a move if you really want something with that girl if not just keep moving.
No, you know the real validation/attention seekers are? They are the one who told on you the manager and call 911 on you and post your video on internet. See? Know the difference!
This is the ultimate line go right up to her look her dead in the eye and say stop looking at me if you want to say something walk up and say something use your strength and Independence
Its usually an accidental look up from her phone. Nothing else in the room but her ear piece and her phone.
Us men are not mind reader's period.
I smile at everyone. I dont usually get it in return but I smile anyways. I am oblivious to being flirted with. You have to flat out say "hey I like you" because I just don't see it. I'm a 5 at best, so I tend to just keep my head down lol
I'm paralyzed when this happens. Heck, I'm half-paralyzed looking at her...😂
Don't simp, stay motivated
Pay her, is the correct answer.
Until the end of days arrives, at least.
If 7 women begged me for my name, I might respond.
Maybe. But it'd have to happen all at once.
Isaiah 4:1
I don't make eye contact in general with anyone 🙈. I actually try to avoid eye contact unless they're in my immediate vicinity where I give the smile and nod of acknowledgement. I also do this if I briefly lock eye contact with strangers accidentally. If a woman is looking at me, smile nod then escape 😅
whether a girl is looking at me or not I wouldnt even be able 2 tell
Then you found out she is a sales girl in a store and only wanted to sell you something as she's on commission
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Not all the time they can also be leading you on or being polite
It's definitely game on when a woman looks at me its mean approach her right away
I don't need the opportunity. One word...RUN
Fellas never take women advice when it comes to dealing with women
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@@Theattractiveman GET a passport not a dating coach
@@Theattractiveman Only a simp would hire a dating coach
ABSOLUTELY
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I wish B.W. was like this. Real down to earth women behave this way but not today's women. All she cares about is how much money you got and how much you gone give them. When ladies approach me it let's me know she likes me for me
I could not disagree with this more. Two pointless thoughts:
-attraction signals must be done in aggregate. One look means nothing. One smile means nothing. One conversation means nothing. Politeness means nothing. Several signs must occur to draw a conclusion.
-please keep context in mind. She might just be scanning the room or looking in your direction because you are standing close to something interesting like a plant, the clock, the exit, a hot guy next to you that she is actually attracted to, etc. Context!
-please be realistic and self aware. If you spot a hot 9 or 10, it is extremely unlikely she is physically attracted to you if you look like Brendan Fraser from the Whale.
I did exactly as you said……my wife got really angry!
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Flee, flee for your life (and wallet).
I was searching for this video omg, thanks much ♥️♥️ I am surrounded by many beautiful girls, but i was a shy guy and less confident, low self esteem guy !!
This some middle school type stuff lmfao
So you meet HER gaze. Well, if she likes what SHE sees, then she should walk over and strike up a conversation!!
Right. Their ULTIMATE MOVE is eye contact. Women are literally stuck in child mode 😂
No this ain't gonna happen, nowadays women trap men by looking ant send them jail, better avoid women
when a girls looks out you, she is only looking out how much money you have and what car your having, rest all are shit told by madam, those girls are gone now
MOST DEFINITELY...Especially if she's hot!!!
Totally true, on Saturday I had a date and the question of what car do u have was asked by her now not replying on the messages nor phone calls what happened to the normal girls bro...
I'm a coward when it comes to finding love. I followed some methods of the red pill. But that only made me toxic.
I got my degree, i got my own place with two rooms. I'd think I'd have a girl. But no, none. I get a lot of eyes, from women who earn far more money than me. One girl is one I like, but I'm far too shy to ask her out. Plus, one moment she ignores me, when I'm doing something she looks at me. As soon as I catch her looking at me, she looks away. Idk what to make of it. She looked embarrassed, but i thought it was cute, it melted my heart.
Nailed it. She’s 100% correct. Been doing exactly this since forever and it works every time...because it is what normal people do. NOW, once you’ve chatted, ask for her number. When she says yes, tell her “just text me, it’s easier.” This way she can’t give you a fake number. You’re welcome. ;)
This happened like 8 times in one class and i kept looking away 🤦♂️
My dad is always like, “give people eye contact back” so I do 😂
Most women are comforming to nonsense on social media and what not. Some of us men just want to live a decent life with unnecessary drama.
1 time i did it in my high school and she told her friends that I was watching her and I may like her.
Thank you for this advice! I like the way you think!
I used to look away, but I'm shy
Me when a girl looks at me Runnnnnnn 😂😂😂😂
Maybe but it’s not worth it if she can’t make the first move I’m tired of putting in work just to feel unimportant
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Jesus this is all so interesting. My whole life I have gotten woken through online dating and now that online dating is horrible I’m forced to approach women in person first.
If a girl looks at me I might be flattered or I might wonder what she's thinking but either way a smile is all I'll do and I'll carry on with my life in peace thanks ..
I swear a girl keeps looking at me in class like every day i get nervous i know she likes me i can tell LIKE SHE JUST LOOKS AT ME FOREVER BRO LIKE WHY
ooo there is a reason why. watch more of our videos.
Sounds good I usually do a quick calculation of whether she's worth approaching or not
Oh boy, I have been waiting decades, heck my entire life, for a cute girl to look at me, now I will know what to do when it happens! I can't wait!!!
If she were a man she’d struggle with women too. Who the hell does she think she’s kidding.
My thoughts are the exact opposite. It's not a race. I need to test her persistence. And reciprocally
I love you for these tips 😍😂😂❤
Well, my crush has been staring at me from a distance at work for a year and a half. She will stare at me for a minute, and she will freeze. I really need to make a move. She has given me so much confidence.
She probably just likes the attention, not a good idea to f*** where you work
RUN!
...and when you approach her she calls you creep, laughs at you, records all that on tik-tok and causes you troubles.
I agree with this one completely
I respect you soooooo much and always good advice. I know u are giving us guys all the right things to say or do. But I just want to say that u are so very beautiful. Keep doing what you doing. If I ever find a woman I will try to remember all the advice
Don’t be such a simp, Adam. She isn’t going to pay attention to you.
Her advice is crap, women are only in love with your money and what they can take from you. When you lose everything, divorce is on the way and you will be kicked to the curb like a piece of shit. So don't take advice from a women they talk shit. This women should close this channel her advice is bullshit and misleading. As a man stay masculine as you are and do not fall for the tricks as to what she is saying, make money and enjoy your life, stay away from these westernised women and that includes the feminist psycho's as well. Westernised women are all toxic.😎
Neighbors wife is giving me a little to much eye contact and smiles. Started giving me compliments on my jawline 😭. And I ain’t gonna lie she is one beautiful women. I ain’t making no moves tho unless she makes it not risking it.
Now legend are welcome because they are watching the video after that girl has look at you
Instead, "mouth" to her "come" and signal her with your hand. Then go back to what you are doing and never look at her again unless she obeys.
Good advice 👍
Gorgeous!
Run!!!
After watching the video, I tried this
It took about 20 minutes for my eyes to stop watering from the mace.
Keep your money. recycle the ladies. That’s what they want -
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In the gym when I entered she saw and smiled and started commenting to another girl when she was walking aside me
We are no longer INFERIOR anymore. We are equal 😂
woman:*stares at me"
me:"lower your gaze!"
When a girl looks at me she is only eying up to check out my WALLET!
I usually scour and scoff anyone that looks at me. I genuinely hate human interaction.
Most beautiful girl in our school is keeping looking at me I was so nervous to look back at her😢😂
Sounds good
But these advices are good...they elevate men's confidence 🤗
she gives me these cues 10 times a day in gym but I always make look away, smile seems so unnatural to me after ignoring too much
Run away guys. Women just want your money.
Mutha fucking FACTS
Literally everyday while traveling i find myself in this situation and i don't know what to do so i ignore herbut it feels rude. i hope this helps
I was wondering why every time I go to wal mart, some women make eye contact with me and smile when I'm walking to or from my car.
Omg what a beauty
instructions unclear
she called 911
Im only interested in hot approaches now , cold and warm approaches has always ended in failure for me.
1. Be attractive
2. Don't be unattractive
3.If you're attractive, chances are, you don't need videos of post wall carrousel riding clams telling you how to attract them or what to do to engage with women.
Ha! Savage
Chances are what? Lol. Just because you're good looking doesn't make women come up to you. Maybe they let you know more by giving signals. (I'm autistic and had to learn that people are living metaphors) I still have to do my little bird dance in my little clearing and hope she knows what she's looking for.
Even then there's not a single car that goes up and down my street four times (it's a dead end) unless it's some creepy ass girl hopping in the car to check out that one guy with great hair. Has one even said hey there? hell no. They might get rejected.
P.S. I try to keep it playful, after all I only need one to see me as more than an object.
Doesn't work in a grocery store when she's busy working with lots of customers around. In this case better wait for a better occation. Huge risk for feel very uncomfortable. At least I've got MY message through as well that I'm also interested.
in other words, she's making eye contact with men and they're not approaching and she's assuming it's because they're shy and not that she's frozen her face and is approaching 40 yet still thinks men are interested in playing these types of attraction games with her. Those days are over darling. Go to an investment conference instead.
I was doing all of this before I watched the video😢
I was always bad at reading signals 😊
It's true. Good advise but if you are in a dance club, you'd better not take much time. You aren't the only one who saw her most likely. Don't get up and jog over there, but if she looks again give her some hand signal, 2 hands talking to each other is enough. If you are in a better spot, wave her over to you.
The only problem i have with this is that, she is a friend. We talk and are confortable with each other. So i dont get why she stares at me when we dont talk. So, i dont understand. Im pretty sure we are just friends and she knows that. No need for the random staring.
If she really love u she will come to ur home with any reason. Doing that again & again the certain day come one day she & he really found each Other.
Keep it short keep it real 👍😁
What if I don't play games get hints or clues
I noticed a pretty girl looking at me we made eye contact for 3-4 secs and she smiled abit,then I walked away and she did too , I don't care that much tbh bec I don't rly care abt this whole relationship thingy I was just happy this extremely pretty and bright hazel eyed girl did that bec tbh I don't rly think am that attractive , and she seems like high value girl
Have some respect for yourself and next time talk to the girl. It's like your saying your happy with one gold coin from the treasure chest. Dig in and take the gold while it's there. The more you do it, the more confident you'll become
@@Leon-cd1iy my confidence is growing thankfully and trust me when I say this I couldn't give less of a fuck I take it as a confidence boost and yoink the reason I was watching this was prob bec I felt insecure that day and even so not bec I found someone pretty and got a confidence boost doesn't mean I want to date them , I simply don't want to date I am not rly into the dating shit
And I aint no fuck boy to lead a girl on then tell her I don't like her