How dare you say that?! I envy you. Look at you, young, fun and silly. You got so much in your hand. Hahaha, you are a wonderful young lady full of life. We care about you.
Stay strong ladybug...I'm working hard to help pull myself out of darkness as well. You can do it. 2 days ago, I had so much stress on myself, I felt the sharp spasms in my heart . I had to stop the stress before it physically harms me beyond repair. Keep your head up.
I'm 26 years old & I was just diagnosed with heart disease, it's been very tough & I have been crying non stop. I have my kids who need me & I worry so much about them. My sister was 30 years old & passed away from heart disease 3 weeks ago. Now being diagnosed, it makes me worry so much. This video popped up & it gave me a sense of calmness. Thank you! ❤️
I got a tattoo January 1st with the words this too shall pass. My dad passed away last March and he always told me that. To say I gasped when I saw this in my recommended I knew it was a sign.
It's okay if no one sees this message but I want to say thank you. Thank you because listening to this I started crying knowing that other people feel like sometimes life is too much but everything passes in the end. We are more than enough and we can make it.
I hear you. I read every comment because you and you all warm my heart. I need your encouragements to keep on. Thank you. We are enough and we are making it. Thank you.
Same here. I was muttering to myself how lazy and unmotivated I am. Telling myself that I know I won't finish a project I'm working on. But I have cancer so I worry that if I don't finish soon, I may never finish it.
Crying cause I was in a really bad spot when this came on my recommended. The concept of living to breathe the air of tomorrow really hit me. Even if I'm not perfect, even if I mess up, even if I don't achieve everything I want to or feel I should, every day is a new day and new air to breathe. Thank you so much for calming my anxieties and encouraging me to live another day. Edit: Wow, did not expect so much support from a vent comment... thank you all, every one of your kind words have encouraged me loads, and I'm glad my comment happened to help others
@@jaanvi814 I'm in a better place. Haven't gotten better mentally yet but I went out of myself and got help, so things are finally looking up. Been kind of a crazy week and made a lot of changes. I'm doing fine and should get better very soon, thank you for checking in
I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts. This video really spoke to me. I needed to hear this. I hope my darkest days will pass so that whatever happens next I will be able to overcome it and hopefully recover.
Someone who has been there before, it’ll be okay. I know words can’t do much to help, but it’s true. It’s never worth it, you never will know what can happen to bring you joy.
Your wise words are so soothing. My mom's funeral is tomorrow and I am carrying a lot of guilt due to her getting Covid. I thank you for your calming ways.
Hello!! I’m a young lady and I find your videos very moving. I used to watch you all the time in quarantine and you always made me see the beauty in the things that go unnoticed. I appreciate this video, and I come back to it every time I feel unmotivated. Lately life has been very busy and to clear my mind. You’re videos make me feel more relaxed than what I was before.
I feel like I’ve had such a lucky life, minimal pain, everything always worked out for me. My mom suddenly died and it felt like I was paying for all my previous good fortune
Oh my! You speak my heart. That was exactly what I thought when I had my mother. Then she passed away, I was still lucky. But eventually I feel I am exhausting my good luck and now I am redeeming and pay forward for my own children. I thought this was a Chinese thing. You prove me some profound feeling is universal. Love you.
This is exactly how I felt. Everything in my life was always good if not better than most people's situations and I was great at school,confident had an amazing social and family life until my father passed and it all went downhill and my granpa recently passed,it does truly feel like I'm paying for the good fortune but I know that's not the case,it is just part of life. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad.
You were not punished for your good fortune. You are blessed and will continue to be. Unfortunately bad things are a part of life, but it’s important that we don’t take these as punishments. I’m sorry for your loss and sending you love.
Age gives us this knowledge. I remember when everything was 'chaos' now it seems fewer & fewer things trigger strong reactions. It WILL pass, leave the broken pieces, move on taking only the lessons learned because there was a lesson to be learned & a similar situation will come around & you can recognize it from a distance. Prepare for it, face it, deal with it & be done with it. This is the cycle.
I've been struggling lately, but I've also been hearing and seeing this phrase ' this too shall pass' a lot lately. Tonight has been specially hard, and it feels like this video and your wise words have been sent for me. thank you so much.
Facing homelessness as a 22 yr old college Senior double major...stressful right now to say the least. I am so grateful for you sharing your beautiful wisdom, it really helped me to gain perspective and calm down and look towards the light at the end of the tunnel. Much love, thank you. I am sending many blessings to you and all who are reading this💖💖💖
Greetings, I'm sending light and love. I'm glad you found this video. I"m much older than you and being without a place of my own is something fear. However, I promise myself I will reach out to somebody. Someone is so ready to help you. Ask (which I have hard time with). However, I'm learning to ask, someone wants to help. Be safe. I affirm your very best. allways, peace
Thank you. I was crying in pain beacuse of my constant suicidal thoughts and then I remembered of this video in my watch later playlist. I'm feeling a little better now. A kind virtual hug from Italy to you and everyone struggling.
“Sometimes when you are emotional and it is fresh, you can say things with more.......passion, more feeling, and that can be empowering” I can be a very emotional person, so I try to refrain from talking when I feel like I’m too emotional. But this right here, is a reminder that it is ok to say what we feel, it’s ok to be emotional, and it’s ok to not always say the most logical or rational things 🤍
ive never seen this channel before, it showed up in my recommended by chance. youtube must've known i wasn't having a pretty terrible few months, haha. my mental health has been going down the drain lately and ive considered suicide a lot. i forget about things like this a lot. ive been through a lot, and ive survived it all, and im still standing. i think thats what matters, and this reminded me of that. thank you 💗🌸🌈🐻
You keep beating those suicidal thoughts!!! They only try to get you at your lowest but its your time to beat them tf up and flourish into a better person for yourself
hello friend. I know we don't know each other but I love you and i'm so glad you exist. I wish you peace, well-being, and happiness. you're a survivor for a reason
A year ago I was in your spot. I never knew if I would make it. However, something in me wanted to survive, to live. I kept going, every day, every week. Then at times I would get depressed again, I still kept going, why? Because I noticed the difference in my somber moods. I wasn't as miserable as I once had been; that I once let myself be. That work I put in, all those days, all those weeks. They add up, for good or for bad, it is what you make it. You are in control of your own life, make it what you want it to be. Settle for no less than that.
Keep pushing through and one day you will start enjoying and finding the beauty in life again. Life is full of struggles for all of us and believe me you ARE strong enough to face even the most difficult of them. Remember that talking to someone you trust or seeking professional help is always an excellent option during the darker times. Hoping all the best for you♡♡
An old buddy of mine died last night, and I immediately thought of this video. It's amazing how much just one phrase can make you feel... It hurts. It really really does.
My father has always had an issue with seeing the positive in anything. Every small inconvenience that happens to him becomes a huge issue. He curses and throws fits over things that I address calmly. I try to make him see that these things are nothing, and that whether they upset him or not is within his control. It does no good, and he thinks I'm too soft because I am tolerant of challenges. Everyday I mourn that he can't see how unnecessary his stress is. His whole life he has plagued himself.
I have a similar issue but with my mother, but small incovenience are not what cause her problems & instead of cursing and throwing fits, She has always suffered in "silence" and kept quiet about the causes, not trying to solve them because she doesn't know how to (& has plagued herself over the course of her married life) Funny thing is, my dad has almost no clue about the severity of this & all of her problems' root is _their_ relationship. It *sucks* to not be able to help her, & my dad too of course. And I'm really sorry for ranting like this!! I'm an idiot stranger.
something that really stuck with me from this video was the concept of “putting yourself in the other persons shoes”. I’ve struggled my whole life with feeling wronged by people, feeling like I am the victim , as I often have been bullied and treated badly. but with this mindset I have just sat and pondered from a while. and although I don’t forgive these people, I at least now maybe understand why they did the things they did. I’m not so caught up on them as I was before. their actions are not a reflection of me, it is a reflection of them and their situation.
in my personal experience with forgiveness, it's more for yourself and not the ones that may have caused you harm. I was angry with a lot of people but realized I had to forgive and let go to be free from the suffering I was causing myself. because in a way, I was allowing those people to hold power over my emotions. I was suffering while they were probably not even thinking about what they did to me. so I did it. I forgave everyone and continue to forgive, for myself. it's so freeing! just wanted to share. I wish you peace, well-being, and happiness
@@HeyItsLights Thankyou so much for your reply ! I will try to forgive, I just know it will be a hard process for me . I think everyday I get closer to forgiving though :)
I stumbled upon these comments today, when I wasn't in the best mindset for myself and to others, and I really feel for these comments, thank you for writing this
@22 thankyou so much for this . you may have just changed my life. truthfully I don’t think I can forgive. the battle for me is trying to not hate them .
Thank you for this. My grandmother passed away last week and it's been really hard. Every time my mental health suffered she would always tell me "this too shall pass" and I feel like she was telling me this one last time through you and this video. Thank you. Sincerely, thank you.
Haiying, I’ve been watching your videos since 2009 when I was only 11 years old. I’m 23 years old now and these videos are still so comforting for me. Thank you 🤍
that last part where she smiles and says "lets be happy together" made me cry for some reason. I just needed to release these emotions. Thank you so so much for your words. you have no idea how much this video means to me especially at this difficult time in my life
i don’t know why this was in my recommended but i’m crying now. i’ve been grieving and feeling so lost lately and it’s so comforting to hear these words come from someone’s heart.
Heaven will make things fair. Thank you. I think I take matters to my own hand and try too hard to set my own future, to be heard, to be treated right, to make people realise how they’ve put me through hurt. But heaven will do it’s duty. I am meant to protect myself, but there’s a higher power who’s going to make sure and bring that in my life.
I've just recently graduated yet I feel so lacking in confidence and my own skills, so I don't know how to move on after graduation. Job seeking is very cutthroat and scary and I have social anxiety. Whatever feelings I feel today, I hope they will pass too and then I can walk away much stronger than I am now.
This video mentions taking risk..It's what living is about....I used take risk all the time...And then one thing went wrong, then another, and another...and I stopped taking risk...and I also stopped living. Nothing feels enjoyable. I have a hard time being around people. I often feel so trapped. I'm saying all this to ask you to consider your graduation an opportunity to take risk...and LIVE YOUR LIFE...I am much older than you I'm sure. And I know from experience...this is a great time in your life. You can make no mistakes...just opportunities for growth...YOU ARE READY. YOU CAN DO IT. Congrats!
these were my grandfather's last words before he passed away. i try to remind myself this as i struggle with BPD and am often times anxious and hyper emotional. Thank you for the gentle reminder that everything passes and becomes a memory.
I was kind of sad because of being so alone for so long then I had an epiphany that it means no one knows me. I can literally be whatever I want and no one would know I wasn’t before and that made me realize the past was only being held by me. It’s been said before but I didn’t really have it click. Then I saw your video and it just reaffirmed it. Thank you for speaking.
Thank you. This is a powerful realization. And like you note...it's been said before. The past is THE PAST. Each day we can start a new. I'm re-watching this video because I feel so alone. These videos and people's honest, deep inside hurt and pain, sorrow and sadness help me to be honest with myself. And just as importantly ease the pain of feeling so alone. Thank you.
oh my goodness. exactly where i am right now. though i don't fully understand your struggle, i am in a very similar situation. i don't know why this comes to a shock to me, but this somehow comforts me, knowing that others are struggling similarly. thank u for typing out your comment. oddly enough, this has given me hope.
Whatever you do, do NOT go back to that person. My ex fiance wasted the best young years of my life. He never changed. He cried, he made promises....it's all lies. The right person will come.
The word break up is so common, and we see it everywhere, so its difficult to remember that break ups are one of the most painful things to experience as humans. I know it hurts, and i know it feels like forever before you will get over it, but just like all of us, one day all of this pain will be reduced to a story from way back when. You'll just call it a 'difficult breakup' from years ago and that will be it. No pain. I promise. Dont be afraid to not hurt. Dont shove feelings aside. Cry for days if you need to. Just dont let this say too much about yourself. Youre just a person going through what all of us go through. My thoughts are with you, if that helps. You'll be okay, even if it doesnt seem like you wont. You'll be okay. Sending hugs.
Thank you once again, Haiying. Yes, treasured friend, I do share in the deep peace of inner joy. Your theme got me thinking. Each day I write on a white board what is happening that day, for the benefit of my 95 year old Mom who now lives with us after a hip fracture. It helps her dementia and sense of time and space if I write out our day's happenings. Each night, I erase the board and write out the next day's activities. So, each day that's past, is erased. The new white board is before us. What will we make of it? We set our intention and do our best. And then it passes, as all things do. We are better served to hold things lightly. And, like a butterfly, enjoy the dance. Blessings. ⚘
My name is Lara, I´m 17 and I come from Brazil. i´ve never had a grandma, I don´t know what this kind of love is like, but when I watched this video you seemed the grandma I always wanted to have. Now I know that I have an online grandmother! Thank you so much for your wise words
My husband got injured on the job this week and will be out of work for months, and I’m the caretaker. I’ve been so overwhelmed and scared about being able to pay our bills and get through this..but still.. you are so calming. This made me feel like things will work out
Be thankful that you husband is with you. Me and my husband are separated geographically by border closings. We will not be able to see each other until borders open
you remind me a lot of my grandma when she would calm me down when i was upset. i miss her a lot, and this was really nice to hear, thank you from the bottom of my heart
I've suffered from depression, anxiety, and ptsd for most of my life, but lately even just getting out of the house is difficult. I am constantly in and out of a catatonic state, crying daily, panic attacks every hour or two, vivid flashbacks... but this video really made me feel loved and accepted and... understood. This is the first video i have seen of yours, and now I'm subscribed ♡ Thank you so much for the positivity. I really, really needed it.
There's a group on Facebook that helps people recover from Anxiety and depression . I've been practicing what is taught on the group which is acceptance of my symptoms for about 4 months and I have no physical symptoms anymore
Sorry you were treated poorly. You’re a much bigger person than the Karen’s and Kens out there. You’re loved by many many more than the few ignorants. Keep going and let this pass. 🇨🇦♥️🥰
saw this on my recommended after crying my eyes out because i’ve been feeling so alone and emotionally drained. But after watching this whole video, you have somehow made my night feel reassuring and comforting and for that, thank you so much.
My cousin who was like a sister to me, died in January and I’ve been so depressed and having so much trouble processing my emotions. I’ve never had a death occur in my family so this has been the hardest thing ever. I’m so paranoid about dying when I know it’s inevitable. I don’t know why I feel like this but I feel like I can’t find peace because I’m scared of dying. but you have made me feel so much better. I miss her so much. You have the most relaxing voice.
This video did something in my heart. I feel like I’ve felt peace for the first time in a while and I’m a little bit better for having listened to your words. Thank you for uploading this, you’ve changed my perspective on a few things and greatly brightened my day. You seem so lovely.
My father passed unexpectedly today. I’m already coming back to hear your kind and soothing words because my heart is in shreds. Thank you for sharing your light and positivity
@@hannahjoy9648 He came with a purpose: To give you life, to raise you to be a good human being, to guard you and guide you. Now you are (or going to be) a strong person, he is at peace to leave. Be the person he wanted you to. That's the only way to settle both of you at peace. We love you.
@@yanghaiying Thank you for helping me to have a more positive perspective. Your words are helping to ease the pain a little. I think it’s one of the worst pains in the world but the time I got to spend with him is worth every ounce of the pain now. Thank you.
@@hannahjoy9648 as someone who lost their mother, the pain will pass. It won't be the same. But you will remember their words of wisdom they once shared with you. It will help guide you through the pain. In fact I often find myself seing what she said to me only realising now what she meant. An odd but calm feeling of comfort. I wish you peace on your journey through greif, and peace. Treasure the words of wisdom your father taught you, it will bring you great comfort. 🙏
It’s 4:44 am and I’ve been breaking down since 2am, I came across this video... idk what to even do anymore but you’re absolutely right, it shall pass and eventually I will be ok.
Hey you made me happy I did not take my life yesterday. I have been dealing with depression and suicidal ideation since I was very small. Thank you so much.
My husband died suddenly in January, I am now a solo parent to two little girls. Alone and single at 45. Fighting the court to get access to my husbands money he left as he died without a Will. Trying to keep paying my bills and feed my kids without my husbands high salary. I am going through the worst season of my life right now. Pray for me.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was going through the recent comments and saw this, which resonates with me. My father passed away March 8 2021, and now it's just me and my mom. It's been hard, especially financially, but we are hanging on so far. I hope you and your girls are doing alright
I come back to this video every once in a while when I'm having a really tough time. I keep it saved to a playlist for those days where I just feel like giving up because this video is just so genuine and comforting. Truly, thank you so so much
I grew up quite envious of people who’ve met their grandparents. Mine died/are bed ridden, and I feel like I’ve missed out on so many lovely talks like this💔💔
Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏻 I lost my best friend to a drug overdose last October and have been overworking myself to keep my mind busy but the stress is finally catching up to me... And my heart feels like it is going to explode from the grief and the stress of life.... So thank you so much for this uplifting, therapeutic video.... 🙏🏻
This is actually the hardest time. Not right after, but a few month later. Cry your heart out, scream (in private place) if you feel like. You need to vent out. Then treat yourself. A person who cares so much about friend, you are worthy.
Yang, I have been following you since 2011. I have so much love for you. You helped me create bamboo paintings and helped me practice calligraphy ! And I love these talking videos too.....
We had to put our dog down last week and I keep thinking I see or hear her. It’s so hard, I cry all the time. I miss her so much. Thank you for your video.
First of all, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my cat due to illness a little over two years ago. I still cry to this day every time I think about him. I don't think it gets better, but it might get easier. What helps me get through this is knowing that I loved him with all my heart and that I did everything I could for his well-being. I'm sure you did the same for your dog. She died but her love for you and your love for her keep on living. I believe that's the most important thing ❤
Thank you, grandma Haiying 🧡 I've been worried and anxious lately. This came just in time. Sending you lots of love, because though you give it to us via these videos, you need it too 🤗🧡
She doesn’t know but she is my granma
lmfao right 🧸💝🍯
lol, same
anneanne mi babanne mi which one
@ anneanne daha samimi sanki
I wish I could ask her 🥺
Her: “this, too, shall pass.”
Me: *subscribes*
oh my god literally SAME
Lmao yes
Same 😭
It’s already passing.
It already passed.
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no it didnt
it will eventually pass.
Passed
Haha not for me it didn't, hasn't for 7 years
I hope I'm as beautiful inside and out when I'm her age.
thank you.. im crying and feel like i cant do it anymore but you’re right everything will pass and i’ll be fine. thanks
How dare you say that?! I envy you. Look at you, young, fun and silly. You got so much in your hand. Hahaha, you are a wonderful young lady full of life. We care about you.
Stay strong ladybug...I'm working hard to help pull myself out of darkness as well. You can do it. 2 days ago, I had so much stress on myself, I felt the sharp spasms in my heart . I had to stop the stress before it physically harms me beyond repair. Keep your head up.
Hugs to you all ❤️
@@Chiiirp3 seeing chiiirp in the comments of a “random” video gotta be good luck
@@stillkaryll8835 wow
..how amazing!
It feels so nice when there is no editing and you can enjoy the silences and "see" the thinking process.
Ooo I agree
Wise.
As a trauma / emergency nurse who has been extremely overwhelmed for over a year, I’m so grateful for this video. Thank you.
Thank you♥️
Thank YOU for all your hard work! 💙
Thank you for your work!
thank you ❤️❤️❤️
We can't ever thank you enough
I'm 26 years old & I was just diagnosed with heart disease, it's been very tough & I have been crying non stop. I have my kids who need me & I worry so much about them. My sister was 30 years old & passed away from heart disease 3 weeks ago. Now being diagnosed, it makes me worry so much. This video popped up & it gave me a sense of calmness. Thank you! ❤️
i wish u the best genuinely
Wish you well girl
stay strong! if you stay positive, 'this too shall pass' 💖 lots of love sent to you and your family.💌
Praying for your health and recovery!
how did you get diagnosed? my dad died from it too and sometimes i have heart pangs
I wanna hug every one of you in this comment section, love to all of you! ❤️
I feel you steal my word. Hahahah, echoed. Love to all of you.
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Your comment is pure love. Thank you 🙏🏼
I feel there’s a much deeper reason this video ended up in all of our recommended videos. Thank you. 💖
Most definitely know that I was lead here very gracious and so needed
@@dshay751 i agree
totally
I hope so! 💖
I'm a pretty secular person but maybe u aren't wrong
hearing this made me so happy, thank you ❤️
Dean, YOUR videos make me happy too! Thanks for all the zzz’s! ☺️ 💕
Now this is making me wish Dean ASMR would make a video telling me that bad things will pass. 🥺❤️
I needed to hear this right now! Thanks
Well all love a good lady:)
yep
I got a tattoo January 1st with the words this too shall pass. My dad passed away last March and he always told me that. To say I gasped when I saw this in my recommended I knew it was a sign.
Asmr central right here
fancy seeing you here!
omg literally
gotta relax from all that crate digging, I swear you are in the comments of every video I watch
Why do we have the same taste in TH-cam
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this video feels like a gentle kiss on the forehead 🥺
Tonight is the first time in years that I've not felt alone.
You’re never alone. Sending love and light, my friend 🤍
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This feeling is truly special, i know what you mean
There is love out there don’t worry ❤️God will always be there for you when you are alone please believe me😭❤️
It's okay if no one sees this message but I want to say thank you. Thank you because listening to this I started crying knowing that other people feel like sometimes life is too much but everything passes in the end. We are more than enough and we can make it.
I hear you. I read every comment because you and you all warm my heart. I need your encouragements to keep on. Thank you. We are enough and we are making it. Thank you.
No matter how terrible or good my day has been, these videos bring me peace
im sorry i cant like the comment the number of likes is the reason
We’re in this together. It will pass and we will move onto the next chapter of peace and love.
TH-cam must have heard me sobbing uncontrollably today, I really needed this
Same here. I was muttering to myself how lazy and unmotivated I am. Telling myself that I know I won't finish a project I'm working on. But I have cancer so I worry that if I don't finish soon, I may never finish it.
@@LisaMaryification how are you feeling today?
"Let's be happy together" bro i'm crying. She is so sweet and her smile just radiates it. I wish her forever happiness.
i’ll be fine. you’ll be fine. we’ll all be fine in the end 🌸
Crying cause I was in a really bad spot when this came on my recommended. The concept of living to breathe the air of tomorrow really hit me. Even if I'm not perfect, even if I mess up, even if I don't achieve everything I want to or feel I should, every day is a new day and new air to breathe. Thank you so much for calming my anxieties and encouraging me to live another day.
Edit: Wow, did not expect so much support from a vent comment... thank you all, every one of your kind words have encouraged me loads, and I'm glad my comment happened to help others
We all mess up, being a human is a messy business. It's enough to just keep trying.
You got this friend!
same thing for me 💛 sending so much love
its been a week since u wrote this..i was wondering how are you now patrick
@@jaanvi814 I'm in a better place. Haven't gotten better mentally yet but I went out of myself and got help, so things are finally looking up. Been kind of a crazy week and made a lot of changes. I'm doing fine and should get better very soon, thank you for checking in
I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts. This video really spoke to me. I needed to hear this. I hope my darkest days will pass so that whatever happens next I will be able to overcome it and hopefully recover.
I know your darkest days will pass. Keep your head up, stay strong
Hoping you get well soon and sending you lots of love 💕💕💕
Sending you lots of love and blessings ❤️
Someone who has been there before, it’ll be okay. I know words can’t do much to help, but it’s true. It’s never worth it, you never will know what can happen to bring you joy.
I hope you’re still here with us 💓
Your wise words are so soothing. My mom's funeral is tomorrow and I am carrying a lot of guilt due to her getting Covid. I thank you for your calming ways.
I’m so sorry. My thoughts are with you and yours tonight.
Hi Jasmine. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. I hope and pray for a sense of comfort for you at this time.
My condolences, stay safe and let time heal your wounds!! *hug*
I’m so very sorry for your loss, take time to heal.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I wish all the best to you.
Hello!! I’m a young lady and I find your videos very moving. I used to watch you all the time in quarantine and you always made me see the beauty in the things that go unnoticed. I appreciate this video, and I come back to it every time I feel unmotivated. Lately life has been very busy and to clear my mind.
You’re videos make me feel more relaxed than what I was before.
I feel like I’ve had such a lucky life, minimal pain, everything always worked out for me. My mom suddenly died and it felt like I was paying for all my previous good fortune
Oh my! You speak my heart. That was exactly what I thought when I had my mother. Then she passed away, I was still lucky. But eventually I feel I am exhausting my good luck and now I am redeeming and pay forward for my own children. I thought this was a Chinese thing. You prove me some profound feeling is universal. Love you.
i feel the same way as you.
My condolences. I wish you strength and that better things may come your way
This is exactly how I felt. Everything in my life was always good if not better than most people's situations and I was great at school,confident had an amazing social and family life until my father passed and it all went downhill and my granpa recently passed,it does truly feel like I'm paying for the good fortune but I know that's not the case,it is just part of life. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad.
You were not punished for your good fortune. You are blessed and will continue to be. Unfortunately bad things are a part of life, but it’s important that we don’t take these as punishments. I’m sorry for your loss and sending you love.
My anxiety and depression have been taking over me, listening to a wise stranger tell me I'll be okay makes me feel better. This too, shall pass. ❤
Age gives us this knowledge. I remember when everything was 'chaos' now it seems fewer & fewer things trigger strong reactions. It WILL pass, leave the broken pieces, move on taking only the lessons learned because there was a lesson to be learned & a similar situation will come around & you can recognize it from a distance. Prepare for it, face it, deal with it & be done with it.
This is the cycle.
Beautifully said. Thank you very much.
I think Ive found the meta for life.
I don't have a close relationship with my grandma but this makes up for it.
I've been struggling lately, but I've also been hearing and seeing this phrase ' this too shall pass' a lot lately. Tonight has been specially hard, and it feels like this video and your wise words have been sent for me. thank you so much.
@Gemma Louise thank you so much 💙💜
Hang in there. After we bury this virus there is so much fun to be had
Listen to ‘Let’s Love’ by David Guetta feat Sia 💕💕💕
Sending love and light. It will pass
it did, in fact, pass
Facing homelessness as a 22 yr old college Senior double major...stressful right now to say the least. I am so grateful for you sharing your beautiful wisdom, it really helped me to gain perspective and calm down and look towards the light at the end of the tunnel. Much love, thank you. I am sending many blessings to you and all who are reading this💖💖💖
I hope things got better for you 🙏🏻❤️
Greetings, I'm sending light and love. I'm glad you found this video. I"m much older than you and being without a place of my own is something fear. However, I promise myself I will reach out to somebody. Someone is so ready to help you. Ask (which I have hard time with). However, I'm learning to ask, someone wants to help. Be safe. I affirm your very best. allways, peace
Can you join a sharehouse? I don't know what/if your country has welfare, but its so much cheaper.
@@Ava-ns4go I'm housed now!!! 💗💗💗🦋🦋🦋 thank you
@@TheCraftyCrafter amen!
The Mother of the children of the internet. We love you.
Thank you. I was crying in pain beacuse of my constant suicidal thoughts and then I remembered of this video in my watch later playlist. I'm feeling a little better now. A kind virtual hug from Italy to you and everyone struggling.
Stay strong. I believe in you
@@jessirey4 💕
Hey, its been 2 months but, I hope you're okay. I'm sending a big hug 💜
@@Ykamy11 im such in a better place mentally rn, sending you a hug as well!
Be strong this too shall pass
“Sometimes when you are emotional and it is fresh, you can say things with more.......passion, more feeling, and that can be empowering”
I can be a very emotional person, so I try to refrain from talking when I feel like I’m too emotional. But this right here, is a reminder that it is ok to say what we feel, it’s ok to be emotional, and it’s ok to not always say the most logical or rational things 🤍
She makes me feel like everything is going to be ok. 💜
AND it will 📧📬🙏🎁🤗
@@rashimasimmons7583 ty and amen
@@banderas2000 Welcome 😊
And these were the wise words from ...misses myanghaiying.
ive never seen this channel before, it showed up in my recommended by chance. youtube must've known i wasn't having a pretty terrible few months, haha. my mental health has been going down the drain lately and ive considered suicide a lot. i forget about things like this a lot. ive been through a lot, and ive survived it all, and im still standing. i think thats what matters, and this reminded me of that. thank you 💗🌸🌈🐻
You keep beating those suicidal thoughts!!! They only try to get you at your lowest but its your time to beat them tf up and flourish into a better person for yourself
hello friend. I know we don't know each other but I love you and i'm so glad you exist. I wish you peace, well-being, and happiness. you're a survivor for a reason
A year ago I was in your spot. I never knew if I would make it. However, something in me wanted to survive, to live. I kept going, every day, every week. Then at times I would get depressed again, I still kept going, why? Because I noticed the difference in my somber moods. I wasn't as miserable as I once had been; that I once let myself be. That work I put in, all those days, all those weeks. They add up, for good or for bad, it is what you make it. You are in control of your own life, make it what you want it to be. Settle for no less than that.
you are so strong! Things will get better and everything will work out ✨
You're loved 💗 never forget that
Keep pushing through and one day you will start enjoying and finding the beauty in life again. Life is full of struggles for all of us and believe me you ARE strong enough to face even the most difficult of them. Remember that talking to someone you trust or seeking professional help is always an excellent option during the darker times. Hoping all the best for you♡♡
An old buddy of mine died last night, and I immediately thought of this video.
It's amazing how much just one phrase can make you feel...
It hurts. It really really does.
you radiate pure good. you don’t avoid the bad or pretend like it doesn’t exist, you work through it. thank you for this
My father has always had an issue with seeing the positive in anything. Every small inconvenience that happens to him becomes a huge issue. He curses and throws fits over things that I address calmly. I try to make him see that these things are nothing, and that whether they upset him or not is within his control. It does no good, and he thinks I'm too soft because I am tolerant of challenges. Everyday I mourn that he can't see how unnecessary his stress is. His whole life he has plagued himself.
I have a similar issue but with my mother, but small incovenience are not what cause her problems & instead of cursing and throwing fits, She has always suffered in "silence" and kept quiet about the causes, not trying to solve them because she doesn't know how to (& has plagued herself over the course of her married life) Funny thing is, my dad has almost no clue about the severity of this & all of her problems' root is _their_ relationship.
It *sucks* to not be able to help her, & my dad too of course.
And I'm really sorry for ranting like this!! I'm an idiot stranger.
something that really stuck with me from this video was the concept of “putting yourself in the other persons shoes”. I’ve struggled my whole life with feeling wronged by people, feeling like I am the victim , as I often have been bullied and treated badly. but with this mindset I have just sat and pondered from a while. and although I don’t forgive these people, I at least now maybe understand why they did the things they did. I’m not so caught up on them as I was before. their actions are not a reflection of me, it is a reflection of them and their situation.
in my personal experience with forgiveness, it's more for yourself and not the ones that may have caused you harm. I was angry with a lot of people but realized I had to forgive and let go to be free from the suffering I was causing myself. because in a way, I was allowing those people to hold power over my emotions. I was suffering while they were probably not even thinking about what they did to me. so I did it. I forgave everyone and continue to forgive, for myself. it's so freeing! just wanted to share. I wish you peace, well-being, and happiness
@@HeyItsLights Thankyou so much for your reply ! I will try to forgive, I just know it will be a hard process for me . I think everyday I get closer to forgiving though :)
@@kkochismile5813 take it day by day, there’s no rush. also you’re welcome! have a blessed day ☺️
I stumbled upon these comments today, when I wasn't in the best mindset for myself and to others, and I really feel for these comments, thank you for writing this
@22 thankyou so much for this . you may have just changed my life. truthfully I don’t think I can forgive. the battle for me is trying to not hate them .
Thank you for this. My grandmother passed away last week and it's been really hard. Every time my mental health suffered she would always tell me "this too shall pass" and I feel like she was telling me this one last time through you and this video. Thank you. Sincerely, thank you.
Haiying, I’ve been watching your videos since 2009 when I was only 11 years old. I’m 23 years old now and these videos are still so comforting for me. Thank you 🤍
That's really amazing
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me too, it's been many many years & i'm 21 now, I love her channel.
Omg right? I discovered her in 2011 and I appreciate her vibe!
same! i'm so glad she's still making near-daily videos, she's so soothing
I come to this video whenever I don’t know what else to do in my life. It always helps my brain calm down.
The world is better for your having been in it. Thanks for the smiles and for sharing your art and thoughts.
I feel like your profile picture doesn’t quite fit with the vibe of this video
LMFAO i love ur pfp
Emotional intelligence is not talked about much. Really great silver hair, Lady
that last part where she smiles and says "lets be happy together" made me cry for some reason. I just needed to release these emotions. Thank you so so much for your words. you have no idea how much this video means to me especially at this difficult time in my life
"Heaven will make the judgment, and heaven will put things fear, square, even and flat..." 😭🙏
i don’t know why this was in my recommended but i’m crying now. i’ve been grieving and feeling so lost lately and it’s so comforting to hear these words come from someone’s heart.
Honestly same, with a recent passing everything around me seems to be falling apart. Hearing this really helps, makes you feel heard
omg literally same sending love your way and healing ❤️
Stay strong yall, you REALLY can do it. Sending love
i feel really stressed in my household, my parents constantly pressure me and each other. this gives me a little bit of peace. 💓🌺
Heaven will make things fair.
Thank you. I think I take matters to my own hand and try too hard to set my own future, to be heard, to be treated right, to make people realise how they’ve put me through hurt. But heaven will do it’s duty. I am meant to protect myself, but there’s a higher power who’s going to make sure and bring that in my life.
That is a profound reflection.
I've just recently graduated yet I feel so lacking in confidence and my own skills, so I don't know how to move on after graduation. Job seeking is very cutthroat and scary and I have social anxiety. Whatever feelings I feel today, I hope they will pass too and then I can walk away much stronger than I am now.
All the answers are inside you Darling
Ask God for guidance, the next step.
The way will appear
This video mentions taking risk..It's what living is about....I used take risk all the time...And then one thing went wrong, then another, and another...and I stopped taking risk...and I also stopped living. Nothing feels enjoyable. I have a hard time being around people. I often feel so trapped. I'm saying all this to ask you to consider your graduation an opportunity to take risk...and LIVE YOUR LIFE...I am much older than you I'm sure. And I know from experience...this is a great time in your life. You can make no mistakes...just opportunities for growth...YOU ARE READY. YOU CAN DO IT. Congrats!
these were my grandfather's last words before he passed away. i try to remind myself this as i struggle with BPD and am often times anxious and hyper emotional. Thank you for the gentle reminder that everything passes and becomes a memory.
I was kind of sad because of being so alone for so long then I had an epiphany that it means no one knows me. I can literally be whatever I want and no one would know I wasn’t before and that made me realize the past was only being held by me. It’s been said before but I didn’t really have it click. Then I saw your video and it just reaffirmed it. Thank you for speaking.
Thank you. This is a powerful realization. And like you note...it's been said before. The past is THE PAST. Each day we can start a new. I'm re-watching this video because I feel so alone. These videos and people's honest, deep inside hurt and pain, sorrow and sadness help me to be honest with myself. And just as importantly ease the pain of feeling so alone. Thank you.
going through a breakup with bpd is the absolute worst. i needed this so much, i adore you ❤️
All your suffering is the pray for a better future. I am in it with you.
@@yanghaiying thank you so much :(
oh my goodness. exactly where i am right now. though i don't fully understand your struggle, i am in a very similar situation. i don't know why this comes to a shock to me, but this somehow comforts me, knowing that others are struggling similarly. thank u for typing out your comment. oddly enough, this has given me hope.
Whatever you do, do NOT go back to that person. My ex fiance wasted the best young years of my life. He never changed. He cried, he made promises....it's all lies. The right person will come.
The word break up is so common, and we see it everywhere, so its difficult to remember that break ups are one of the most painful things to experience as humans. I know it hurts, and i know it feels like forever before you will get over it, but just like all of us, one day all of this pain will be reduced to a story from way back when. You'll just call it a 'difficult breakup' from years ago and that will be it. No pain. I promise. Dont be afraid to not hurt. Dont shove feelings aside. Cry for days if you need to. Just dont let this say too much about yourself. Youre just a person going through what all of us go through. My thoughts are with you, if that helps. You'll be okay, even if it doesnt seem like you wont. You'll be okay. Sending hugs.
As someone who suffers PTSD and has currently been going through some trauma again I really needed this video. Bless you Haiying.
Thank you once again, Haiying. Yes, treasured friend, I do share in the deep peace of inner joy. Your theme got me thinking. Each day I write on a white board what is happening that day, for the benefit of my 95 year old Mom who now lives with us after a hip fracture. It helps her dementia and sense of time and space if I write out our day's happenings. Each night, I erase the board and write out the next day's activities. So, each day that's past, is erased. The new white board is before us. What will we make of it? We set our intention and do our best. And then it passes, as all things do. We are better served to hold things lightly. And, like a butterfly, enjoy the dance. Blessings. ⚘
This is poetically spiritual. Thank you my treasure friend.
My name is Lara, I´m 17 and I come from Brazil. i´ve never had a grandma, I don´t know what this kind of love is like, but when I watched this video you seemed the grandma I always wanted to have. Now I know that I have an online grandmother! Thank you so much for your wise words
I love this woman
It's 3 am and I'm shedding tears hearing this while doing some adult existential crisis
I lost my cousin this morning and I just saw this on my recommended, God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
sorry for your loss :(
Hey, how are you feeling today?
@@elisagurnia6312 I’m feeling alright :)
@@mynameisnotvickylol ❤️
I love your murakami piece in the background :)
I have a ring with this saying on.
Who else wants to sit down and speak to her in her kitchen with some herbal tea?
My husband got injured on the job this week and will be out of work for months, and I’m the caretaker. I’ve been so overwhelmed and scared about being able to pay our bills and get through this..but still.. you are so calming. This made me feel like things will work out
Though times like that make us stronger, and it lets you show all the love you can give and you'll get it back. Hang in there!
You got this
TRUST THE UNIVERSE WILL HELP YOU AND RELAX
Be thankful that you husband is with you. Me and my husband are separated geographically by border closings. We will not be able to see each other until borders open
I have such a hard time blaming myself for everything all the time. I feel like everything I do is wrong
❤️💕 aww sweetheart you can only do your best for you. If it isn’t received then it’s not your responsibility.
you remind me a lot of my grandma when she would calm me down when i was upset. i miss her a lot, and this was really nice to hear, thank you from the bottom of my heart
Yanghaiying: This too shall pass.
Gandalf: YOU SHALL NOT PASS!!!
God sent me here to hear this angel, so grateful for these words. I need to move on ❤️
This was recommended to me so randomly, it must be a sign
Same here
I've suffered from depression, anxiety, and ptsd for most of my life, but lately even just getting out of the house is difficult. I am constantly in and out of a catatonic state, crying daily, panic attacks every hour or two, vivid flashbacks... but this video really made me feel loved and accepted and... understood. This is the first video i have seen of yours, and now I'm subscribed ♡ Thank you so much for the positivity. I really, really needed it.
There's a group on Facebook that helps people recover from Anxiety and depression . I've been practicing what is taught on the group which is acceptance of my symptoms for about 4 months and I have no physical symptoms anymore
The group is called Overcome Anxiety,Panic Attacks , Derealization and Depersonalization. Goodluck ❤️❤️
@@awoman5363 thank you so much, I'll have to check it out ❤
@Has Goodles l will ❤
Im sorry you feel like that. I wish you find peace and let go into the uncertainty. Receive my blessings 🙏🏼
that flower painting in the back is so nice, made me so happy
Sorry you were treated poorly. You’re a much bigger person than the Karen’s and Kens out there. You’re loved by many many more than the few ignorants. Keep going and let this pass. 🇨🇦♥️🥰
saw this on my recommended after crying my eyes out because i’ve been feeling so alone and emotionally drained. But after watching this whole video, you have somehow made my night feel reassuring and comforting and for that, thank you so much.
My cousin who was like a sister to me, died in January and I’ve been so depressed and having so much trouble processing my emotions. I’ve never had a death occur in my family so this has been the hardest thing ever. I’m so paranoid about dying when I know it’s inevitable. I don’t know why I feel like this but I feel like I can’t find peace because I’m scared of dying. but you have made me feel so much better. I miss her so much. You have the most relaxing voice.
No one dies. Only the body. Don't be fooled because the spirit never dies. Unconditional love is the only truth, everything else is an illusion.
Hi Lisa everyone is going thru shit hun I lost my 16 year old brother he was stab to his heart and it hurts so bad but am trying
@@mommyandmicah6069 he's alive just not on earth
@@annilanta4583 I know that dear but still we are humans and in this s world we live in we cherish moments
@@mommyandmicah6069 u r still connected thru love ☺
love, unity, presence.
love, unity, presence.
love, unity, presence.
In any amount of pain there is solace that can be found, whether in small things in your surroundings or life changing events.
A lot of Stoic Principles I have noticed in this video, a useful reminder regardless of mental state
This video did something in my heart. I feel like I’ve felt peace for the first time in a while and I’m a little bit better for having listened to your words. Thank you for uploading this, you’ve changed my perspective on a few things and greatly brightened my day. You seem so lovely.
My father passed unexpectedly today. I’m already coming back to hear your kind and soothing words because my heart is in shreds. Thank you for sharing your light and positivity
@@hannahjoy9648 He came with a purpose: To give you life, to raise you to be a good human being, to guard you and guide you. Now you are (or going to be) a strong person, he is at peace to leave. Be the person he wanted you to. That's the only way to settle both of you at peace. We love you.
@@yanghaiying Thank you for helping me to have a more positive perspective. Your words are helping to ease the pain a little. I think it’s one of the worst pains in the world but the time I got to spend with him is worth every ounce of the pain now. Thank you.
@@hannahjoy9648 as someone who lost their mother, the pain will pass. It won't be the same. But you will remember their words of wisdom they once shared with you. It will help guide you through the pain.
In fact I often find myself seing what she said to me only realising now what she meant. An odd but calm feeling of comfort.
I wish you peace on your journey through greif, and peace. Treasure the words of wisdom your father taught you, it will bring you great comfort. 🙏
TH-cam recs made me smile again
It’s 4:44 am and I’ve been breaking down since 2am, I came across this video... idk what to even do anymore but you’re absolutely right, it shall pass and eventually I will be ok.
444 angel number, you’re being looked out for♡
Chin up
Hope you feel better now
Hey you made me happy I did not take my life yesterday. I have been dealing with depression and suicidal ideation since I was very small. Thank you so much.
thank you for the positivity, i’ve been watching you for 7 years and this is one of the best videos ✨
I regularly revisit this video when I am journaling and it always brings me such calm and peace ❤
This is really speaking to my soul. I’m so glad this ended up in my recommendations. I was meant to hear this message, thank you for sending it🙏🏻
My husband died suddenly in January, I am now a solo parent to two little girls. Alone and single at 45. Fighting the court to get access to my husbands money he left as he died without a Will. Trying to keep paying my bills and feed my kids without my husbands high salary. I am going through the worst season of my life right now. Pray for me.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was going through the recent comments and saw this, which resonates with me. My father passed away March 8 2021, and now it's just me and my mom. It's been hard, especially financially, but we are hanging on so far. I hope you and your girls are doing alright
i wish you the best and hope that you and your children are doing good🩷
It’s almost like you knew I needed this. Your wisdom and kindness brings me so much comfort. Thank you, friend.
I come back to this video every once in a while when I'm having a really tough time. I keep it saved to a playlist for those days where I just feel like giving up because this video is just so genuine and comforting. Truly, thank you so so much
Me too! 🥹
I really needed this tonight in particular. Thank you, Haiying.
I grew up quite envious of people who’ve met their grandparents. Mine died/are bed ridden, and I feel like I’ve missed out on so many lovely talks like this💔💔
Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏻 I lost my best friend to a drug overdose last October and have been overworking myself to keep my mind busy but the stress is finally catching up to me... And my heart feels like it is going to explode from the grief and the stress of life.... So thank you so much for this uplifting, therapeutic video.... 🙏🏻
This is actually the hardest time. Not right after, but a few month later. Cry your heart out, scream (in private place) if you feel like. You need to vent out. Then treat yourself. A person who cares so much about friend, you are worthy.
Yang, I have been following you since 2011. I have so much love for you. You helped me create bamboo paintings and helped me practice calligraphy ! And I love these talking videos too.....
We had to put our dog down last week and I keep thinking I see or hear her. It’s so hard, I cry all the time. I miss her so much. Thank you for your video.
Aww I’m sorry ❤️ sending my love
First of all, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my cat due to illness a little over two years ago. I still cry to this day every time I think about him. I don't think it gets better, but it might get easier. What helps me get through this is knowing that I loved him with all my heart and that I did everything I could for his well-being.
I'm sure you did the same for your dog. She died but her love for you and your love for her keep on living. I believe that's the most important thing ❤
I got my heart broke, I just want to heal and feel okay again, move on and improve but it’s so difficult… it hurts so much.
i’m having a panic attack and this came on my recommended 💜 im sure this will help me!
Did it pass?
"it is foolish to listen to someone who will not listen to you" I've never forgotten this quote when confronted with people.
This video managed to find me when I needed it most. Thank you.
The way you say it right touched my heart. I am so happy I found you, my dear friend.
a wave of calmness swept over me hearing this, thank you.
Thank you, grandma Haiying 🧡 I've been worried and anxious lately. This came just in time. Sending you lots of love, because though you give it to us via these videos, you need it too 🤗🧡
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I was jusr crying uncontrollably yesterday. This was nice to hear. Thank you, madam. I hope you live long and prosper ❤️