You're doing a wonderful job, Kevin. Watching you and your parents speak to each other tells me you are an amazing family. I'm so sorry your brother could not stay to be a part of it.
Dr Cindy Hoeflinger, thank you for all your contributions to society not only as a fellow medical professional, but as a Mother. You are truly an inspiration to each of us. May God continue to abundantly bless your family and continue to give you strength and peace.
I can’t imagine all the things your mother has accomplished and the heartbreak she has gone through. Truly an amazing lady! So much admiration and respect for her. Kevin, you do such a great job interviewing! I think you’re wonderful, and I know your parents are so proud of you. Keep up the good work.
Hey Cindy...I grew up in Genoa...my dad owns a trucking company... I went to school to become a rn...I work at the same hospital as your husband does...so does my mom...she's one of the neuro techs there...
Mrs H.what a kind son u have and inspiring spirit u have. I enjoy watching your husbands podcasts and now that i was able to watch yours i enjoy it as equal. I truly am sorry 4 the loss of your son there are no words but u certainly seem like just a wonderful amazing family and sure do have a darling grandson. Thank-you peace and blessings
I am 67 years old & am still working in the medical profession. Graduated high school in 1974. My parents were supportive & said do whatever you would like to do. Times were definately different. I can remember several old grandma patients saying, "I don't want a female doctor" to my face. "I want to see a male doctor."...😅...At first, I was insulted but after a while we would take bets ti see what old lady grandmas would diss me or embrace me. 😅 If they were in pain & I was the only one available, they reluctantly agreed for me to treat them. Then they became my biggest fans. The old men never ever gave me a hard time. 😂
This was so interesting!! I could listen to both Dr. Hs talk all day. 😊😊They have such interesting lives. I love how Cindy explains her thought processes through all her major life changes. Keep these episodes coming ❤❤❤❤
Dr. Cindy, I think it would be so hard to be so capable, work so hard and have so many interesting experiences in your career and give it up to do the most important job in the world, knowing it is not respected as the most important job in the world. I think it would be hard to have all that education and experience and have most people not know your accomplishments. Your children are so blessed to have you for their mom!! It seems like you love them more than yourself and what you want. I am sorry for the children you have lost❣️ Your stories are very interesting.
Impressive family. As a woman who raised only three children, I know first-hand the demands of taking care of children. It is the hardest and best occupation I've ever had. I cannot imagine adding the incredible occupation and training of a pathologist. I am in awe.
You are an amazing and inspiring woman. I am an old lady, living in Spain and it was very difficult to raise children and work in those times. I admire you.❤
This interview is beautiful and special . It appeared on my feed and inspired me. A wonderful brilliant mother coupled with an articulate and eloquent son. Much admiration and awe for this family.
I admire and look up to you guys everyday. Your courage to share you story gives me inspiration to keep going despite my health issues. Honestly, Kevin is such a mature and well-spoken man which is rare. Thank you for being so candid Dr. Hs. I see where the kind and caring children come from. May God bless you ❤.
The time, the sacrifice and the lack of sleep and common sense considerations and decency from the hospitals puts doctors on such a high level in my opinion. We, are the benefactors of your hard earned work to achieve your goals. God's richest blessings on you both and all the other doctors, nurses and other medical staff. I appreciate you.
I could completely relate to so much of your conversation! One of the most enjoyable podcasts I’ve listened to …so real and genuine! Dr. Cindy - really great hearing your story!
I admire this woman so much. Thank you for sharing your amazing story. I’m starting premed this year, and I have decided to pursue forensic pathology in the future. You are my role model !
About your daughter writing about death before your Brian died: “On Death and Dying” (Elizabeth Kubler Ross) tells about the phenomenon that often before the death of a loved one or oneself, people talk openly about death. It happens whether they know that dying is on the way. Blessings to you all! 💙🤟🏼
I’m in awe of you and your family’s heartbreaking losses. It takes one’s breath away of what you all have endured yet by having such an open platform for us all it helps your viewers to not feel so alone in our grief over our loved ones. One of the common experiences of all humans-loss, grief and enduring. Recently, my brother lost his wife from a brain aneurysm. Leaving 2 young men in their early 20 to mid 20s. My sister in law was found outside her workplace in the snow and us not knowing how long as the brain bled before someone found her. Marina had brain surgery but passed 4 days after. Surgeon was so upset so I can only imagine he felt. Tough to go home with that that he also knew my sister in law as a kid. This has shattered the family and we are in such disbelief and pain I pray that my brother and his sons can put one foot in front of the other. ✨
Thanks for sharing your pain and struggles. And telling us it's not about being perfect, or strong all the time. Feeling pain and suffering is normal too.
Good visit. It was really candid how you spoke about the pain and things you felt after your Brother and son passing. A lot of wisdom was shared. Thank you for doing that pod cast. I look forward to more.
Wow That was phenomenal! Very relatable as a mom with a career. I would love to hear more about this incredible woman! I also felt “seen” when she talked about choosing family over career and how profoundly difficult it was on top not having the support from her mom in that decision. Very relatable. Thank you for sharing!❤
This is such a wonderfully insightful and interesting conversation. The depth and insight into your heart, mind and emotional connnection is a blessing. Thank you for time well spent.
Cindy thanks for sharing your background! You have lived a million lifetimes ❤️ I believe the universe (God) does provide insight that a person will verbalize before they die. It’s always in retrospect family and friends remember the little things that were said/done that then make sense. It’s comforting to realize they knew that they were going to pass on. So when that moment comes they are prepared to leave, at peace, and encompassed with love. That provides me comfort, knowing there is an energy or light guiding their spirit so they are not alone❤️ Again, thank you for sharing. Would love to hear more about your background. Wondering if you’ve ever thought of teaching at the college level? Great Podcast! Interesting, emotional, raw and real. Sending good vibes. Looking forward to more content.💕
My nephew made a bad mistake drinking & driving. His best friend was killed instantly. A nightmare he lives w every day. The friend’s parents love my nephew & new it could have been the other way around. They supported him at his trial or it would have been a very different outcome. He was spared jail time. He lives w the decision he made that night & he’s such a good, kind, & gentle kid. So was his friend. 💔
I'm really enjoying the podcast and short videos. I feel very similar to Cindy and can resonate with a lot of things she discussed. If you ever wish to do something from a patient's perspective of how to prepare to have a successful surgery, I'd be more than willing to provide my input. Tips to do ahead of time to help make recovery "easier". Thank you for sharing your knowledge - both Dr. Hoeflingers!
Listened to both episodes of the podcasts while working on some research and 2 hrs went by so quickly! As a med student, I thank you Kevin and Drs Hoeflinger for showing us that we can achieve both our career and family dreams, and mentoring us through your stories that there'll always be light and hope even in the darkest corners. I hope I can be as insightful and empathetic as you duo when I become an attending. Would love to hear more stories!!!
Hi, fun and interesting interview, good job, In 1979 there were tons of women in medicine. I always laugh a bit when young people refer to the not so distance past as if it were primitive , computers existed too.. no internet yet, 10 years later dial up began, ask your mom what kind of a first car she had? It may be a muscle car in someone’s collection but their still on the road, we celebrated birthdays ate cake and ice cream, opened presents, had parties, some drank and smoked pot, everyone wore underwear, socks , shoes, we all tried to get 8 hours of sleep a night , went to work everyday,dated, fell in love got married, they even had barbecue potato chips and Cheetos, pizza and sushi. We who lived in the city got dropped off at the mall, went to the movies ate fake butter popcorn and giant boxes of candy. Not much has really changed, you momma is really a very young chicky , boy.. 😂
Both of the podcast so far a really great keep up the good work. As a question for a short video, I was wondering what nerves look like? And how do you reattach them?
Although.I.love being a nurse and love my specialty in nursing, Neurosurgery and Neurology,. I love forensics, as.well as three of my friends also love forensics. I always watch dateline, 48 hrs. I have such respect for uou and your husband. Some of friends would ask me why I love the brain.They were perplexed that after a conference I presented at, the courses afterwards were different areas of Neurology.I chose the brain cutting This blew my friends away.They thought I was.crazy
I am a mother of two bactidol i inherent to my parents thats it when kids start coughing dried i always tell bactidol to killed bacteria in thyroid gland and its effective see you next time
Enjoyed listening to this. The only thing that I'll note is that actually women are no longer under represented in medicine. In fact, women make up almost 55% of physicians in the US. Over 80% of nurses are women as well. So if anything, males are actually under represented in medicine.
My sister committed suicide in 1987 she was 28. She hung herself in the hallway.Her husband found her when he came home from work. I have alway's said "NO ONE CAN EVER KNOW HOW TORMENTED ONE'S MIND CAN BE." TORMENTED ONE'S MIND CAN BE
You're doing a wonderful job, Kevin. Watching you and your parents speak to each other tells me you are an amazing family. I'm so sorry your brother could not stay to be a part of it.
Dr Cindy Hoeflinger, thank you for all your contributions to society not only as a fellow medical professional, but as a Mother. You are truly an inspiration to each of us. May God continue to abundantly bless your family and continue to give you strength and peace.
We sure is a blessing in our lives!!
You are both amazing compassionate people who have gone through the abyss of grief and kept your family together
A beautiful woman. Great life story.
I can’t imagine all the things your mother has accomplished and the heartbreak she has gone through. Truly an amazing lady! So much admiration and respect for her.
Kevin, you do such a great job interviewing! I think you’re wonderful, and I know your parents are so proud of you. Keep up the good work.
Thanks for the kind words! - Kevin
Fantastic! Thanks for having your mom as your special guest. She is special.
Dr. Cindy, you are an inspiration for the strength you showed in the most difficult time for a mother. My very best wishes!
Hey Cindy...I grew up in Genoa...my dad owns a trucking company... I went to school to become a rn...I work at the same hospital as your husband does...so does my mom...she's one of the neuro techs there...
What a beautiful family. God bless you. ❤
Mrs H.what a kind son u have and inspiring spirit u have. I enjoy watching your husbands podcasts and now that i was able to watch yours i enjoy it as equal. I truly am sorry 4 the loss of your son there are no words but u certainly seem like just a wonderful amazing family and sure do have a darling grandson. Thank-you peace and blessings
Thanks for watching and sharing that, means a lot :) - Cindy
I feel strongly that these podcast are important. It is healing to listen to others process their existence of grief in their life.
I am 67 years old & am still working in the medical profession. Graduated high school in 1974. My parents were supportive & said do whatever you would like to do. Times were definately different. I can remember several old grandma patients saying, "I don't want a female doctor" to my face. "I want to see a male doctor."...😅...At first, I was insulted but after a while we would take bets ti see what old lady grandmas would diss me or embrace me. 😅
If they were in pain & I was the only one available, they reluctantly agreed for me to treat them. Then they became my biggest fans. The old men never ever gave me a hard time. 😂
This was so interesting!! I could listen to both Dr. Hs talk all day. 😊😊They have such interesting lives. I love how Cindy explains her thought processes through all her major life changes. Keep these episodes coming ❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much for sharing your story! Brilliant and inspiring! My condolences to you and your family. Truly God sustains us. ♥️🙏
Dr. Cindy, I think it would be so hard to be so capable, work so hard and have so many interesting experiences in your career and give it up to do the most important job in the world, knowing it is not respected as the most important job in the world. I think it would be hard to have all that education and experience and have most people not know your accomplishments. Your children are so blessed to have you for their mom!! It seems like you love them more than yourself and what you want.
I am sorry for the children you have lost❣️
Your stories are very interesting.
Dr. Cindy you are amazing. Such a lovely family.
So sorry for your loss . Thank you for sharing your life and experiences . 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Impressive family. As a woman who raised only three children, I know first-hand the demands of taking care of children. It is the hardest and best occupation I've ever had. I cannot imagine adding the incredible occupation and training of a pathologist. I am in awe.
Wonderful to hear the stories of other double doctor couples. We are still in the training years ...
Speaking about your grief is so valuable to others.
And all these months later, I am now on TH-cam. Thanks everyone for all the kind words and positive feedback! Women are amazing ❤
You are an amazing and inspiring woman. I am an old lady, living in Spain and it was very difficult to raise children and work in those times. I admire you.❤
Dr.H had great parents to encourage her that she can do anything.
This interview is beautiful and special . It appeared on my feed and inspired me.
A wonderful brilliant mother coupled with an articulate and eloquent son. Much admiration and awe for this family.
I admire and look up to you guys everyday. Your courage to share you story gives me inspiration to keep going despite my health issues. Honestly, Kevin is such a mature and well-spoken man which is rare. Thank you for being so candid Dr. Hs. I see where the kind and caring children come from. May God bless you ❤.
Thank you!
The time, the sacrifice and the lack of sleep and common sense considerations and decency from the hospitals puts doctors on such a high level in my opinion. We, are the benefactors of your hard earned work to achieve your goals.
God's richest blessings on you both and all the other doctors, nurses and other medical staff. I appreciate you.
Wow she has a great memory to still remember the years of schooling and names of her professors.
Wow, talk about being so blessed, having such overachieving parents! I’m so happy for your family. God bless you all.
Thank you for your story and the strong family unit that you have. God Bless .
I could completely relate to so much of your conversation! One of the most enjoyable podcasts I’ve listened to …so real and genuine! Dr. Cindy - really great hearing your story!
I admire this woman so much. Thank you for sharing your amazing story. I’m starting premed this year, and I have decided to pursue forensic pathology in the future. You are my role model !
That’s awesome! Best of luck to you!
Love listening to you both. Great!
really enjoyed this, thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I’ve discovered you both! You’ve been through so much! I cant imagine! Thank you for sharing!
About your daughter writing about death before your Brian died: “On Death and Dying” (Elizabeth Kubler Ross) tells about the phenomenon that often before the death of a loved one or oneself, people talk openly about death. It happens whether they know that dying is on the way. Blessings to you all! 💙🤟🏼
What a tremendous contribution. Thank you.
Thank you very much for sharing your story Dr. Cindy Hoeflinger 🙏🏾❤
Thanks for your honest sharing .
Good interview. Your mom is awesome and inspiring.
Thanks! Yes, she is amazing!! - Kevin
I’m in awe of you and your family’s heartbreaking losses. It takes one’s breath away of what you all have endured yet by having such an open platform for us all it helps your viewers to not feel so alone in our grief over our loved ones. One of the common experiences of all humans-loss, grief and enduring. Recently, my brother lost his wife from a brain aneurysm. Leaving 2 young men in their early 20 to mid 20s. My sister in law was found outside her workplace in the snow and us not knowing how long as the brain bled before someone found her. Marina had brain surgery but passed 4 days after. Surgeon was so upset so I can only imagine he felt. Tough to go home with that that he also knew my sister in law as a kid. This has shattered the family and we are in such disbelief and pain I pray that my brother and his sons can put one foot in front of the other. ✨
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@@doctorhoeflinger Thank you for reading. Praying you and your family and patients many good blessings.
Thanks for sharing your pain and struggles. And telling us it's not about being perfect, or strong all the time. Feeling pain and suffering is normal too.
I like the video version. Glad you’re on YT!! New subscriber here🙋♀️
Thanks for watching!
That was great love ur podcast and luv u Kevin
Thanks for watching!
Good visit. It was really candid how you spoke about the pain and things you felt after your Brother and son passing. A lot of wisdom was shared.
Thank you for doing that pod cast. I look forward to more.
Thank you for sharing
Wow That was phenomenal! Very relatable as a mom with a career. I would love to hear more about this incredible woman! I also felt “seen” when she talked about choosing family over career and how profoundly difficult it was on top not having the support from her mom in that decision. Very relatable. Thank you for sharing!❤
This is such a wonderfully insightful and interesting conversation. The depth and insight into your heart, mind and emotional connnection is a blessing. Thank you for time well spent.
Cindy thanks for sharing your background! You have lived a million lifetimes ❤️
I believe the universe (God) does provide insight that a person will verbalize before they die. It’s always in retrospect family and friends remember the little things that were said/done that then make sense.
It’s comforting to realize they knew that they were going to pass on. So when that moment comes they are prepared to leave, at peace, and encompassed with love. That provides me comfort, knowing there is an energy or light guiding their spirit so they are not alone❤️
Again, thank you for sharing. Would love to hear more about your background. Wondering if you’ve ever thought of teaching at the college level?
Great Podcast! Interesting, emotional, raw and real.
Sending good vibes. Looking forward to more content.💕
My nephew made a bad mistake drinking & driving. His best friend was killed instantly. A nightmare he lives w every day. The friend’s parents love my nephew & new it could have been the other way around. They supported him at his trial or it would have been a very different outcome. He was spared jail time. He lives w the decision he made that night & he’s such a good, kind, & gentle kid. So was his friend. 💔
Thank you for sharing this
I pray God gives you all peace
I think you are a strong family
To your son: You did it!!❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your family journey. I enjoy all of the stories. God bless.
This is a wonderful story! True Grit, Love, Open Minds, Hearts. Deep love for one another! Honesty! ❤
Amazing seeing this podcast
Most enjoyable 👍
You do a great job interviewing your Mom. What is your career?
Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories. You are so inspiring❤
I'm really enjoying the podcast and short videos. I feel very similar to Cindy and can resonate with a lot of things she discussed. If you ever wish to do something from a patient's perspective of how to prepare to have a successful surgery, I'd be more than willing to provide my input. Tips to do ahead of time to help make recovery "easier". Thank you for sharing your knowledge - both Dr. Hoeflingers!
OMG, I love this conversation.
Your family is amazing. Thank you all!!!
Listened to both episodes of the podcasts while working on some research and 2 hrs went by so quickly! As a med student, I thank you Kevin and Drs Hoeflinger for showing us that we can achieve both our career and family dreams, and mentoring us through your stories that there'll always be light and hope even in the darkest corners. I hope I can be as insightful and empathetic as you duo when I become an attending. Would love to hear more stories!!!
Thank you for the very nice comment. Best wishes for you in your own career
I can’t imagine how hard it was to have babies while you were in residency!
I am enthralled ❤
Fantastic interview
Hi, fun and interesting interview, good job, In 1979 there were tons of women in medicine. I always laugh a bit when young people refer to the not so distance past as if it were primitive , computers existed too.. no internet yet, 10 years later dial up began, ask your mom what kind of a first car she had? It may be a muscle car in someone’s collection but their still on the road, we celebrated birthdays ate cake and ice cream, opened presents, had parties, some drank and smoked pot, everyone wore underwear, socks , shoes, we all tried to get 8 hours of sleep a night , went to work everyday,dated, fell in love got married, they even had barbecue potato chips and Cheetos, pizza and sushi. We who lived in the city got dropped off at the mall, went to the movies ate fake butter popcorn and giant boxes of candy. Not much has really changed, you momma is really a very young chicky , boy.. 😂
Both of the podcast so far a really great keep up the good work. As a question for a short video, I was wondering what nerves look like? And how do you reattach them?
Although.I.love being a nurse and love my specialty in nursing, Neurosurgery and Neurology,. I love forensics, as.well as three of my friends also love forensics.
I always watch dateline, 48 hrs.
I have such respect for uou and your husband.
Some of friends would ask me why I love the brain.They were perplexed that after a conference I presented at, the courses afterwards were different areas of Neurology.I chose the brain cutting
This blew my friends away.They thought I was.crazy
❤
God bless
Amen❤
I am a mother of two bactidol i inherent to my parents thats it when kids start coughing dried i always tell bactidol to killed bacteria in thyroid gland and its effective see you next time
not taking questions?
Enjoyed listening to this. The only thing that I'll note is that actually women are no longer under represented in medicine. In fact, women make up almost 55% of physicians in the US. Over 80% of nurses are women as well. So if anything, males are actually under represented in medicine.
This family is missing Jesus
My sister committed suicide in 1987 she was 28. She hung herself in the hallway.Her husband found her when he came home from work.
I have alway's said
"NO ONE CAN EVER KNOW HOW TORMENTED ONE'S MIND CAN BE."
TORMENTED ONE'S MIND CAN BE