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@@cryingwatercolours YES, HE IS. He's literally pulling out "autism card" to get away with criticism and gather sympathy points. There's autistic people in my family, me included, and none of us has gone after kids. Even one of my nieces is autistic, and she's A CHILD.
"oh! I had undiagnosed autism" As an autistic person myself, I can confirm that being autistic does NOT make you a groomer. In fact, autistic people are actually *more likely* to be victims of grooming and SA themselves. This is due to lack of understanding of social rules - > groomers can convince you that their behaviour is normal and appropriate more easily because you yourself have a hard time with social rules, how would you know what's appropriate and what's not? Honestly such a disgusting way to excuse behaviour, like what the hell???
Exactly! I'm also autistic and was groomed by my mum's friend when I was 15. He had told me that he was there to look after me, and that he loved me. I was told not to tell anyone otherwise I'd get into trouble and it really scared me. He showed a more possessive side, even checking my phone to make sure I didn't tell anyone. I eventually wrote an anonymous note to my school about it and they called the police. I will be turning 16 this month and he's no longer allowed to be near me, but I still get nightmares of him pinning me down on his bed.
I'd say it's more anti-social personality disorder. He has a a majority of the symptoms: -Lack of restraint (In his lust and pervertedness) -Irresponsibility -Decietfulness -Manipulativeness -Aggressiveness (As shown in some clips of his Twitch streams -General antisocial behavior as he refuses to leave his home or the internet
@@inky5574maybe don't equate people with aspd to groomers? it's a personality disorder like every other one no matter how "evil" you think it is, and it's not a good practice to armchair diagnose some guy you don't know anyway.
Just bc you have autism doesn’t mean you can get away with what you’re doing. Yanderedev can make as many excuses as he wants but at the end of the day most people had enough of it.
I mingle and have friends who have autism and even my older sister has autism and let me tell you NONE of them ever groomed a child! They are so normal that you wouldn't think they have autism! they act like normal people!!
"I have undiagnosed autism, so me grooming children is fine" A friend of mine was sexually harassed on Discord, and the perpetrator was let scott free by the school due to the fact he was neurodivergant. BEING AUTISTIC DOES NOT EXCUSE CRIMINAL BEHAVIOR
@@veadricikari I agree-I myself have autism and I don’t think it’s offensive, although in hindsight I think I should’ve been a bit more sensitive of folks that might take offense to that
I was a fan of Yandere Simulator but I would’ve liked the development of the game to officially end with this situation. I don’t wanna play the game after he “comes back.” No thanks.
If one more person tries to justify being a bad person with autism, I'm going to lose it. I've had people tell me "You're being too hard on them, what if they have autism?" Cool. I do too. And BPD, which ACTUALLY causes you to do bad stuff, but none to the standard of this man right here.
I'm going to add, even if he does have a personality disorder, there's such a thing as self-control. You don't have to always do what your brain says is OK.
@@hexmo7860 plus, when people are aware, or made aware that their actions are in fact harmful, people go on medication (depending on the disorder) or get therapy. Alex did mention going to an online therapy, but I don't think *online* therapy is efficient enough for people who are struggling to maintain themselves or struggle to have self-control. I don't think he cares about his actions being harmful to begin with though
@@DeadVoxelonline therapy is frequently a scam. If he went to something like BetterHelp then that would probably have done more harm than good... (I'm not saying *all* online therapy is bad, but it really is better to get to know someone in person, both for the therapist and the patient)
@@vickypedia1308 I actually went to a therapist before. To the same one, both online and in person. I chose to mostly stick to online because I wasn't always able to leave the house to go to therapy, and it was much easier on me mentally to do it online. I can't measure how much it helped me, but in my case I could definitely say it was a trustworthy therapist, at least in terms of they didn't bring any harm or anything like that, and I did feel like they understood me But I do agree that online therapy is more often very fishy and harmful. But even if it's not fishy, online therapy won't help everyone, it's more of a choice and matter of preference really. I have a friend who wants to go to therapy and I suggested them the same center I contacted to find my therapist because in that center they accept both online and offline therapy. But they said they would prefer to go to therapy in person, so in some cases it's better off to meet the therapist in person
i have always thought yandev was autistic. i am also autistic, and my groomer was autistic. while, obviously, being autistic does not make you groom people and obviously is not an excuse for anything he has done, its weird that some ppl are acting like its absolutely impossible for it to happen, especially as an autistic person who was groomed by an autistic adult man the same age as alex, and honestly, acted scarily similar to alex. anyone can be a groomer regardless of anything about them. again, him using it as an excuse is still bullshit.
in fact despite me being autistic MYSELF, for years, my groomer being autistic was one of the reasons I kept denying to myself that I was ever groomed. I kept trying to convince myself that I was just being too emotional because he couldn't have possibly done any of that on purpose because he was also autistic and I couldn't understand how he could have done that if I would never do something like that. unfortunately I only kept learning about worse shit he did with other victims (literally illegal stuff) which finally got me to realize that truthfully nothing else about a person matters when it comes to them being a predator.
@peyton-3287 Honestly, it's not *impossible* that YanDev is autistic or not, it's the fact that he uses it as an excuse for why he did what he did. Saying this as an autistic (and a grooming victim) myself, when a bad person brings a disorder or illness into their "reason" for their actions, it puts a bad look on everybody else who may have that disorder or illness. When lawyers try to use the insanity plea or say things like "oh they didn't know what they were doing because they have [X]" it makes that community look bad. Again, not impossible that YanDev isn't autistic, but the way he brought up the subject REALLY makes it sound like he's trying to cover his ass and reduce backlash.
As a young girl who was gr00med, how Alex spoke to that girl is the EXACT SAME WAY the freak was speaking to me while I was between the ages of 16 - 19, becoming a larger freak when I was 20. While my ab0ser hasn't been caught yet, I really hope Yandere Dev goes to jail forever.
@@-VixieeeeI’ve been fighting so hard for months to get the man who hurt me to face the consequences of his actions, as I don’t want any more girls to be hurt like I was. I just don’t know how much fight I have left.
@@mikuenjoyerXD He is in another country, but I contacted the highest level of police in his country. I suggest that; such as the FBI or the country’s equivalent.
Not yet done watching, but I already know what this video is probably talking about. *( cough, cough )* *Alex being a gr00m3r* *( cough, cough )* My thoughts: As somebody with autism, his excuse, *“Oh! I had undiagnosed autism, so that’s why I literally gr00m3d people.”* absolutely baffled me. If the age of consent becomes 16, I bet he *STILL* won’t be satisfied. How is Alex not in prison yet, that’s the bare minimum!
Reminds me of that girl who touched other women without consent and claimed she had ADHD to justify it. Ppl need to stop using it as an excuse. Ppl with autism and ADHD learn and are capable of understanding what these things are wrong. Just as ppl who are neurotypical are capable of understanding too. And both groups can also not know they’re wrong/know and still do it. It’s a failure of character, not identity. Just like there r pdf files who acknowledge their mental illness and take steps to not harm kids, it’s literally a choice.
Autistic people, diagnosed or not, don’t go after children. People in jail won’t care if you’re autistic, they’ll make sure you won’t see the next light of day - from someone who is also autistic
….okay, i feel like you worded that kind of wrong. like, im really hoping you mean “autistic people arent AUTOMATICALLY groomers” because autistic people can 100% still be pedophiles and groomers. im assuming thats what you meant but just to let you know it may come off kind of weird.
5:50 A small correction: Discord seems to have deplatformed Alex, as a quick test by trying to reset the password of his email address shows an error saying "Your account has been diabled". In the coming days, we'll likely see that his account will be fully deleted, which Discord usually does after up to 4 weeks.
Alex has stated in the past he doesn't believe that "DID exists" but is quick to claim he has an "undiagnosed" learning disability. Apparently, the real reason Alex has taken a "break" from Discord and using Guilded instead is because his Discord account has been disabled.
@@luxblitzar a now banned mod on his server had DID and swapped to someone else in the system and he banned them, in an "apology" he said he thought DID was fake and just some "creepy play pretend"
@@faragi_dc uh yes it is real. they have proof about the 9 year old girl now shes 16. and he even admit it on his blog. if thats not proof I dont know what is... this says a lot about our law the very fact people allow this to happen....
@@ladyriethegoldendelmo5441 I'm not talking about the 16 year old. I know that's real. I'm talking about the screenshot of Yandere dev asking a 12 year old if her period is on. That's not real.
@@kittygirl0872 Theres plenty of stories of gr##mers/r#pists/child p#dos getting beat up and murdered in jail cuz of the fact that they did spit those things lmao
I’m a therapist. Online therapy can be as effective as in person therapy but it does depend on the service you’re using and the person who’s providing the services.
Maybe this is pessimistic, but I don't think therapy could fix YandereDev anyway, assuming he deserves such a chance. Alex by all accounts is just a garbage, degenerate guy that blames all his problems on other people. He does what he does because he doesn't WANT to stop himself, not because he can't. Maybe if the guy actually faced jail time or something he'd clean himself up (assuming he'd survive such an experience), but I doubt he'd ever try to fix or atone for anything. Using that "therapy" line is probably just him trying to save face, because what else can he say that doesn't make him out to be an even more garbage person, outside of turning himself in?
The turd room... is such an insane analogy. It literally comes across as a satirical impression of him, how could someone think that was a compelling response to "log tf off"
It's important this doesn't die not only because TH-cam has the tendency to protect these kinds of people, but people should know he's a creep and a weirdo.
There is one thing I hate more than child groomers, and that's child groomers that use their (supposed) mental health problems as an excuse for their disgusting behavior
That makes it harder for people who have the disorder to live, especially if people don't "like" the mental illness. Like being "Oh woe is me. I am so tragic."
@@n.c.pictures @n.c.pictures, 9 days ago: fr. As if the stigma for especially things like autism wasn't already bad enough We shouldn't stigmatize autism, we should stigmatize "people" with paraphilias.
@@professorg2590 I know? Fact is though that autism and mental illnesses in general are stigmatized and predators using their (supposed) own makes it worse
Calli: “…because he has undiagnosed autism” *Star Rail Ad comes on* Seele: “You got a lot of nerve!” BRUH THE AD CAME AT THE PERFECT TIME AND TOLD HOW I FELT ABOUT THAT STATEMENT!! Also fuck Alex. He can burn in hell.
Okay! I have been diagnosed with Autism and the fact he blames undiagnosed autism really angers me as I have the illness and been diagnosed at age 13, I had to go through most things that autistics go through. As an autistic, I do not talk to anyone under my age or even a minor, the youngest I would talk to someone is 1 year younger and one year older. I really hate this as I really had to fight to get the treatment and therapy I needed, I apologies for rambling, thank you for reading.
You don't need to apologise. Your rambling is valid. I'm autistic too and while i, unlike you,do sometimes talk to kids, it is simply because i have younger cousins and do happen to be a part of some fandoms targeted towards kids (ie Percy Jackson,disney, Mario, etc) . But i've never viewed minors as being at the right age for me to date. If they do want to date someone around their own age, that's fine but i would never encourge them to date my 28 year old self or anyone around my age untill they are as old as i am. Kids should be kids!
Yandev being like "b-but I did this because I-i.. I'm autistic ! I'm autistic, I'm innocent. ;-;" is just-.. WTF ALEX !? 💀 ( as a person with autism, it's infuriating ! ) edit : guys, can you please stop liking the comment ? I'm not comfortable having tones of likes. thank you. ^^"
@@chibi_okami nah you're not dumb don't worry ! autism makes it harder for us autistic people to socialize or communicate, we have sensory issues ( for example, our hearing or eye sight might be more sensitive than neurotypicals and some of us can hear each noises at the same time, and some textures feels bad at the touch or in our mouth, smells can be worsen for us and we can get over-stimulated due to that. ), some autistic people can be non-verbal, we can often be overwhelmed easily ( by sudden changes or too much noises for example. ) we can have meltdowns also. so yeah, here you go, hope I explained it well ! ( also, please remember that autism also has positive traits and that every autistic people are different when it comes to symptoms. it's not like a straight line that goes like "from neurotypical to extremely autistic", it's more like a pie schematic if you get what I'm saying. )
“My demographic is made up of mostly adults!” You wanna know how I KNOW that’s bs? When the game was at its peak I was around 13-14 years old and all my friends (other 13-14 yos) WERE WATCHING HIS VIDEOS. In the comments of his videos?? CHILDREN I didn’t know any adults who knew of YanSim until I BECAME an adult
I know it is bs because I and friends of me only watched those videos when we where around 10/11 and aged out of it while still being kids, but just a little older kids, because he himself is so immature and that reflects in his game
Yeah exactly. Adults at the time were repulsed by the game and by him, bc of its creepy mechanics and his immature behavior. After the initial hype for the game after big TH-camrs played it, adults saw YanDev for the weirdo he is and noped out. But unfortunately children do not catch on to those red flags, so they continued to follow his content.
Not only is the way he split the demographics suspicious (e.g., putting minors and legal adults in the same category), but he just ignores the idea that kids can lie. This is like a porn site denying that children have ever accessed its content because of the '18+' question at the site's entry point.
I almost laughed at the absurdity and stupidity of Alex's “Turd Room” analogy. Almost. How is this still continuing? Is there no police investigation on Alex's personal lifestyle? Surely there should be some type of legal enforcement on his behavior instead of all of this crap continuing to fester. Maybe I missed something in the last couple of videos about everything about YandereDev. I hope something actually comes out of this, because simple therapy can't fix this man, though I doubt he's even in therapy in the first place. He's made blatant lies in the past, and he'll do it again and again and again. It's hard to say if even having an extended stay in a psychiatric hospital will change him.
Well, someone needs to actually report it to the police and launch an investigation. I don't think you'd be able to bring a predator situation to the police without being directly involved with said incident, unless you have ample evidence or something. And even then, the police would have to do their own investigation, so they can't just take these TH-cam videos and use them directly.
@@flarestorm9417 The thing is that just a few weeks ago, there WAS a victim of Alex's predatory behavior that exposed him. Callimara even did a video on it. I'm not sure if the victim reported him, though
Some good news to come to light, he has been banned from Twitch following these allegations. Not much, but one chunk of revenue and way of accessing others now cut off.
He's apparently trying to appeal the ban and get his account back. Except the lead coder for Twitch confirmed that his ban is permanent; an appeal will not work. :3c
Having undiagnosed autism doesn't mean you go out and groom people, buddy. Even if you did have undiagnosed autism somehow, that still doesn't justify what you did.
I shouldn't be surprised he lied (again) about staying off the internet. EDIT: The stuff that goes on in that server could make an entire video, just look at what he wrote for Ui's backstory on r/Osana
I'm autistic, upon hearing his bullshit about being 'undiagnosed autistic', I actually had to pause the video. I stimmed like hell, and made an angry sound likening to a steaming kettle. I literally have trauma around this kind of stuff, and him demonizing a community of people (I would bet any amount of money he isn't a part of) to get away with grooming young girls is disgusting. And what makes it worse, is that I reacted more to that stupid claim than the grooming, because that shocked me whereas the grooming was just expected behaviour from him.
deadass. as someone who is neurotypical (though I have super heavy suspicions I won't claim anything until I'm diagnosed) i feel like this can and will be used as fuel for ableism and it sucks. the fact that yandev is such a famous (or infamous) person too is what sucks the most and I really hope this doesn't cause some kind of spike in online hate towards autistic people
bro my online therapist ghosted me 💀and that was one that I was referred to by my PCP, not even BetterHelp or shit like it I kinda doubt that Alex is really getting anywhere in online therapy (if he’s even in therapy), especially as he continues to be coddled in an online hug-box.
I swear - people need to do their research on what Autism is a people just use it as a excuse to be weird and shit , my best freind is autistic I’m on the spectrum and neither of us has any interest in kids below our age- please people online has made such fake reasons of what autism is
Online therapy (specifically BetterHelp) did not help me at ALL. I was undergoing a period of extreme grief and loss and BH made me feel like I was alone and that therapy couldn't help me. However, it did lead me to reconnect with my childhood therapist who I now see once a month. BH seems to be very hit or miss with plenty of misses.
Yandere dev doesn't have austim, he's just using that lie as an excuse to avoid the consequences of his actions and to criminalise the people who actually have that and what's sad is that when people believe in those types of lies they will not only stereotype those people but also harm them which will mess them up real badly to the point where they too might start to do the same thing to others.
Point on the ID thing: You can just not allow people to enter if they don't agree to show a picture of themselves holding it (showing it is both them and up to date). If someone goes so far as to fake one then you have a different problem. Keep logs or some way to prove this has been done for verified users. (As far as the adult-only servers I've been aware of go, this is fairly common.)
The fact people defended Yanderedev and said he’s “growing” as a person are really making me lose my faith in humanity, not once has Yanderedev been shown to grow and these people have been blaming THE VICTIM, the only reason they support Yanderedev is because they want the game to release, I don’t care about the game anymore, I care about PUTTING THIS MAN BEHIND BARS! This man done so much for so long, I’m surprised people still support him, I’m pretty sure they’re the same people to support Dream
Having autism doesn’t excuse his actions. I’m autistic myself and so are many of my close friends, and I can say that we are VERY self aware of the things we do and think and feel. Alex claiming to be an “undiagnosed autistic adult” just further incriminates him as that just shows he is even more aware of his own actions and thoughts. Trying to use autism as an excuse for gr00ming is disgusting and he needs to be put in jail
"You can't demand people's IDs" No, you can. That is 100% something you can do- make sure they block out everything that isn't the picture, your face to compare, name and DOB sure, but you can 100% ask for proof of ID. If people don't want to do that then hey, don't let them join your, a confirmed groomers, server I guess. Edit: Wanted to clarify this a lil better because I'm not blaming people wanting to join the server (although 'why would you want to?', honestly) but blaming the man and the mods that are pretending they can't be better.
Seconding this as someone who helps run a Discord server with adult-only spaces. You absolutely can ask for IDs. It might seem a bit awkward and personal at first but overall it makes everyone of all ages feel much more comfortable and safe because while it's possible to fake IDs it's a lot more effort to do that, and you KNOW with vastly more certainty that who you're talking to in an adult-only space is a fellow adult, and so on. The yes/no 18+ self-verification is basically just an ineffective CYA legal measure at best and fuel for victim-blaming at worst, because we all know that if/when people like YandereDev start their bullshit again, they can claim that the minor faked their age; it is simply not a real solution.
And with that said, if you're worried about verifying people's ages for an adult space on Discord or something, maybe just don't create such a space? Sure, you want to cultivate a community around your game for promotion reasons, but maybe keep the community at an arm's length if that's such a big concern? Just stick to community updates and less direct forms of communication at that point.
I only recently became an adult, and I was a fan of Yandere Dev since it came out. All my classmates and peers were fans, believe me when I tell you his audience were children! Now part of this is because the youtubers playing this game had younger fan. But it is most in part to Alex ACTIVELY MAKING an environment that kids would enjoy
The funniest part of this is that I have autism, Ally has autism, all my friends who told me he was a groomer have autism, like we're literally all autistic and none of us are grooming people
@SunshinePIRRATA I think their point isn't that "autistic people can't be groomers" but rather "autism doesn't make you a groomer" like autism and being a groomer are not inherently related in any way
As someone who’s done both online and in-person therapy, I found them equally helpful in achieving my mental health goals. As long as you have the right therapist and meet with them consistently, it can help a lot. However, Alex doesn’t show desire to change which is vital if you want to improve. All he wants to change is how he’s perceived
omfg... that hurt me HARD "i groomed kids because I'm autistic" my best friend and my boyfriend are diagnosed with ASD and I'm SO offended on their behalf HOLY FUCK!
yonder dev is like an embarrassing memory (hes also an embarrassment) you dont think about it for a while and it suddenly appear randomly and ruin your day
Therapy is only helpful to people who are truly honest to their therapist/s. I had to get get therapy myself, but due to being in an abusive relationship with an ex girlfriend I probably should have broken up with a year or so earlier than I did. So I personally don’t think therapy will help him online or otherwise. Plus my ex supposedly was seeing a therapist, but telling them that everything going wrong was my fault when she was the one treating me like garbage and not the other way around. I just gave her an ultimatum that she needed to both get an actual job and get therapy or we were done as I had enough of being treated that way.
thank you for bring light to this for me i never knew this and even looked up to him for his game and never knew about what he did until now i will most likely play the game and drawl the characters under my own light
i just wanted to say i really like your videos!! i have adhd so sitting through long (but good!) informative videos can be hard for me-and i can't put it on in the background because i'll get distracted and lose what's being said-but i've found that watching you draw is actually a great way to keep me from floating off! and i really enjoy watching your pieces come together. :) it's been really helpful as i learn about this situation! thanks for covering all this, and uh, thanks for doing so in a way i can follow along without rewinding 30 times, lmao? :D
one thing i'd like to say is even the youtube analytics on ages are inaccurate sometimes. there are definitely kids younger than 13 on youtube that use their PARENT'S age instead of their own, or just make up an age, so that they'll be allowed on. i only found out about a year ago that that was the case with my account since i've been watching youtube since i was literally 3 (restricted mode on) and i hated youtube kids because i couldn't watch game playthroughs. i'm over 13 now, but before i was, youtube would've said i was ~50 because my birthday was set to my dad's. i don't think many people realize how often kids lie about their age, if i ever had to sign up for something before i turned 13 i would just set my birthday to 10 years earlier. it's really fucking easy to do, and 9 year olds (at least, me as a 9 year old) can figure it out no problem.
The fact it is so easy to lie about your age and get exposed to potentially innapropriate content for kids is sad to me in a way. YanDev is only like 00000000000000000000.1%, maybe even more than that bc the internet is so damn big, of the internet's problems. "PROTECT THE KIDS!!!" Yeah if we wanted to protect children I don't think it would be easy to find inappropriate stuff, have predators groom kids, and be able to lie about our ages. And it's not even the kid's fault at all. It's the adults that influence these young and impressionable children.
So yandaddydev made another post that is going basically "me me me me". Honestly it reminds me of an episode of southpark, where Kyle's brother Ike (kindergartener) was dating his teacher, and when she was accused of being pedo she announced she needed theraphy and she got scot free.
They don’t they can’t it’s a urge and a mental illness that they struggle to control he won’t ever stop that’s what makes them predators and dangerous im still surprised he hasn’t been investigated yet
When playing this game I always felt uncomfortable with the point system of getting girl's underwear pics, and I would purposely get an easy way out to the end of the game JUST to get the debug menu and give points to myself. That, or I would plant bugs in the important rooms of the school. Even if every character is 18+ (which I know for sure was just a coverup to not have any more controversies) it felt really demeaning to get a point system like that. We could've gotten points by working at the cafe or doing tasks for info-chan/the students like a mini scavenger hunt. There's endless possibilities on making this game less creepy, but he just chose to project himself on it.
exactly. and the fact there is a character named “mai waifu (which means “my wife”) just shows how much of a creep yandev is, noting that all high schoolers are under 18
GOD the Mai Waifu thing is creepy, especially considering she was named after his sex doll (confirmed through email match analysis on a sex doll forum), who he regularly would dress up as underage anime characters like Rei Ayanami, a 14-year-old. And even though high schoolers can briefly be 18 before graduating and moving on to college/trade school/life as a non-student, it's absolutely still a huge no-no to date an 18-year-old who is still in high-school, especially someone who you presumably groomed for years over the internet like Mai Waifu's beloved programmer who she pledged her heart to likely did. A high schooler simply doesn't become an adult overnight and is still lacking in major life experience.
@@tardigradeColonies He could've just implemented a male student that looked like him and call it a day, or have a secret item like the THAT DUDE shades, but he had to use his sexual fantasies and make a character about it. Truly disgusting.
@@inmyvillainarc That's the thing that is most frustrating about it for me, too; just that sheer willingness to directly inject his really creepy fantasies into it. It's so clear that what he really wanted to do was make some kind of eroge to get some kind of incel-like, ephebephilic, misogynistic catharsis out. It's so frustrating how much we (former YS fans) let slide when we were young fans. All the clues and red flags were right there, yet we ended up just accepting the creepy encroachment of this stuff because it was a concept we liked and because we kept gaslighting ourselves and each other (and no doubt Alex gaslit us directly about it) into ignoring the creepiness or thinking it's just normal for a game like this to be needlessly sexual towards high schoolers in middle schooler uniforms and force sexual harassment/sexual assault to be a core, unavoidable game mechanic. I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that Alex groomed the whole fanbase to an extent.
I joined his discord just to see how quickly I would get banned for addressing the drama someone @ one of the mods almost instantly. It’s crazy how blind yandere dev fans are it’s like they don’t want to accept that he’s a bad person
Thank you for covering this, he doesn't deserve to just move on from this. He needs the kind of professional help therapy you only receive in prison (not a euphemism for violence, he needs actual help). Ive said it before but until he's forced to change, he's not going to.
It's disgusting how Yandere dev would make excuses for his actions he choose to take part in. Thank you for talking about Alex. I really hope the victim is ok, and was provided closure. Edit: Off-topic I also play life makeover, it really brings out my inner artist!
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@@abandonedchannel Ikr??
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Undiagnosed autism doesn't cause people to become predators
Exactly this. I'm undiagnosed right now and I don't creep on people!
i don’t think he’s using it as an excuse
@@cryingwatercolours He literally is, what are you on? He said directly that him going after little kids was "because (he is) autistic"
As someone who was undiagnosed for most of my life, I can confirm that he is making bs excuses.
@@cryingwatercolours YES, HE IS. He's literally pulling out "autism card" to get away with criticism and gather sympathy points. There's autistic people in my family, me included, and none of us has gone after kids. Even one of my nieces is autistic, and she's A CHILD.
"oh! I had undiagnosed autism"
As an autistic person myself, I can confirm that being autistic does NOT make you a groomer. In fact, autistic people are actually *more likely* to be victims of grooming and SA themselves. This is due to lack of understanding of social rules - > groomers can convince you that their behaviour is normal and appropriate more easily because you yourself have a hard time with social rules, how would you know what's appropriate and what's not?
Honestly such a disgusting way to excuse behaviour, like what the hell???
^^^^^ 100% agree
As an Autistic person I've nearly fallen victim too grooming multiple times bc I never understood age gaps ect
Honestly mental disorders should never be used as an excuse for unnacceptable behavior, it's just insulting
Exactly! I'm also autistic and was groomed by my mum's friend when I was 15. He had told me that he was there to look after me, and that he loved me. I was told not to tell anyone otherwise I'd get into trouble and it really scared me. He showed a more possessive side, even checking my phone to make sure I didn't tell anyone. I eventually wrote an anonymous note to my school about it and they called the police.
I will be turning 16 this month and he's no longer allowed to be near me, but I still get nightmares of him pinning me down on his bed.
@@Strawbb_chipp I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope your healing process is going well! Take good care of yourself!
as an autistic person it seems that Alex "special interest" is being an emotionally manipulating creep and talking to teen girls
Imagine having a hyperfixation like that fr, gross😨😨
I'd say it's more anti-social personality disorder. He has a a majority of the symptoms:
-Lack of restraint (In his lust and pervertedness)
-Irresponsibility
-Decietfulness
-Manipulativeness
-Aggressiveness (As shown in some clips of his Twitch streams
-General antisocial behavior as he refuses to leave his home or the internet
@@inky5574It does reek of the typical of ASPD
@@inky5574maybe don't equate people with aspd to groomers? it's a personality disorder like every other one no matter how "evil" you think it is, and it's not a good practice to armchair diagnose some guy you don't know anyway.
It's young girls...just look at his game... 😩
Just bc you have autism doesn’t mean you can get away with what you’re doing.
Yanderedev can make as many excuses as he wants but at the end of the day most people had enough of it.
He needs to be in prison.
@@nevaehhamilton3493forever. Or at least 20 years
@@Kyrikrliy and have him register as a sex offender
You know the worse part?
This gives autistic people even a worse reputation then they already have.
This is way to disrespectful for me.
I have autism but no excuse like if I kill someone take me to jail like damn
YANDEREDEV JUST NEEDS TO SIT DOWN AND NEVER SPEAK AGAIN
Here before this blows up-
facts
Yandere dev needs to be 6 ft under
in jail
He fr needs to sit down somewhere 😒
This went through all the stages
problematic, disgusting, terrifying, and now made a nice stop on "ridiculous".
You got that right, 100%!
Also I love your pfp
Indeed. Also omg I love their pfp too. Luca and edgar!!! 💗💗💗💗
I mingle and have friends who have autism and even my older sister has autism and let me tell you NONE of them ever groomed a child! They are so normal that you wouldn't think they have autism! they act like normal people!!
"I have undiagnosed autism, so me grooming children is fine"
A friend of mine was sexually harassed on Discord, and the perpetrator was let scott free by the school due to the fact he was neurodivergant.
BEING AUTISTIC DOES NOT EXCUSE CRIMINAL BEHAVIOR
YES! It's not an excuse. You still severely traumatized someone, having a disorder doesn't erase that.
EXACTLY
that’s disgusting
Talk about an over correction yikes
@@starlinxx_extremely unrelated but hello fellow Murder Drones fan
Way to go Yandev you’ve criminalized an entire disorder
I really think that it’s offensive of him to criminalize a disorder.
Autism is NOT a disorder, but I get your point
@rosinka-.-7725 It is, its a mental disorder. Disorder is not a bad term/language to use to talk about autism.
@veadricikari autism is a different (from neirotypicals) working brain.
@@veadricikari I agree-I myself have autism and I don’t think it’s offensive, although in hindsight I think I should’ve been a bit more sensitive of folks that might take offense to that
I was a fan of Yandere Simulator but I would’ve liked the development of the game to officially end with this situation. I don’t wanna play the game after he “comes back.” No thanks.
If he ever actually hands over development (I doubt it) I would play it but only then
@@dolphinbanana3053i hope he does, but i saw someone else say he refused to sadly
@@basilflower420 Even if he said he was going to before, we know about his wishy-washiness
Scott better than yandereDev
@@luigi_is_nothing Yeah no shit
If one more person tries to justify being a bad person with autism, I'm going to lose it. I've had people tell me "You're being too hard on them, what if they have autism?" Cool. I do too. And BPD, which ACTUALLY causes you to do bad stuff, but none to the standard of this man right here.
I'm going to add, even if he does have a personality disorder, there's such a thing as self-control. You don't have to always do what your brain says is OK.
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@@hexmo7860 plus, when people are aware, or made aware that their actions are in fact harmful, people go on medication (depending on the disorder) or get therapy. Alex did mention going to an online therapy, but I don't think *online* therapy is efficient enough for people who are struggling to maintain themselves or struggle to have self-control. I don't think he cares about his actions being harmful to begin with though
@@DeadVoxelonline therapy is frequently a scam. If he went to something like BetterHelp then that would probably have done more harm than good...
(I'm not saying *all* online therapy is bad, but it really is better to get to know someone in person, both for the therapist and the patient)
@@vickypedia1308 I actually went to a therapist before. To the same one, both online and in person. I chose to mostly stick to online because I wasn't always able to leave the house to go to therapy, and it was much easier on me mentally to do it online. I can't measure how much it helped me, but in my case I could definitely say it was a trustworthy therapist, at least in terms of they didn't bring any harm or anything like that, and I did feel like they understood me
But I do agree that online therapy is more often very fishy and harmful. But even if it's not fishy, online therapy won't help everyone, it's more of a choice and matter of preference really. I have a friend who wants to go to therapy and I suggested them the same center I contacted to find my therapist because in that center they accept both online and offline therapy. But they said they would prefer to go to therapy in person, so in some cases it's better off to meet the therapist in person
i have always thought yandev was autistic. i am also autistic, and my groomer was autistic. while, obviously, being autistic does not make you groom people and obviously is not an excuse for anything he has done, its weird that some ppl are acting like its absolutely impossible for it to happen, especially as an autistic person who was groomed by an autistic adult man the same age as alex, and honestly, acted scarily similar to alex. anyone can be a groomer regardless of anything about them. again, him using it as an excuse is still bullshit.
in fact despite me being autistic MYSELF, for years, my groomer being autistic was one of the reasons I kept denying to myself that I was ever groomed. I kept trying to convince myself that I was just being too emotional because he couldn't have possibly done any of that on purpose because he was also autistic and I couldn't understand how he could have done that if I would never do something like that. unfortunately I only kept learning about worse shit he did with other victims (literally illegal stuff) which finally got me to realize that truthfully nothing else about a person matters when it comes to them being a predator.
@peyton-3287 Honestly, it's not *impossible* that YanDev is autistic or not, it's the fact that he uses it as an excuse for why he did what he did. Saying this as an autistic (and a grooming victim) myself, when a bad person brings a disorder or illness into their "reason" for their actions, it puts a bad look on everybody else who may have that disorder or illness. When lawyers try to use the insanity plea or say things like "oh they didn't know what they were doing because they have [X]" it makes that community look bad. Again, not impossible that YanDev isn't autistic, but the way he brought up the subject REALLY makes it sound like he's trying to cover his ass and reduce backlash.
@@NightmierSanadding to that, he just uses it as an excuse to take any responsibility off of his own actions which is just so disgusting
my groomer was also autistic, and he used it as an excuse for why it was "ableist" for me to say a 29 year old man shouldn't groom a 13 year old :(
exactly. also im so sorry you wnet through that and if u need to talk im here
“I was a groomer because I have undiagnosed autism!”
IF SOMEONE DOESN’T SEW THIS MAN’S MOUTH SHUT RIGHT NOW I SWEAR TO GO-
Yandev, autism does not make you groom people- (this is coming from an autistic idiot)
That and take any and all keyboards away from him.
@aurea. So basically either prison or registering him as a sex offender.
@@autobotstarscream765That would be great, too.
@@autobotstarscream765both
As a young girl who was gr00med, how Alex spoke to that girl is the EXACT SAME WAY the freak was speaking to me while I was between the ages of 16 - 19, becoming a larger freak when I was 20. While my ab0ser hasn't been caught yet, I really hope Yandere Dev goes to jail forever.
I am so sorry you had to go through that. Hope your abuser gets punished soon
@@-VixieeeeI’ve been fighting so hard for months to get the man who hurt me to face the consequences of his actions, as I don’t want any more girls to be hurt like I was. I just don’t know how much fight I have left.
@@sweethistorteaat least the man that you are trying to fight isn't in another country because that's my situation and I can do nothing
@@mikuenjoyerXD He is in another country, but I contacted the highest level of police in his country. I suggest that; such as the FBI or the country’s equivalent.
i hope your staying strong, and nothing was ur fault :)
Not yet done watching, but I already know what this video is probably talking about.
*( cough, cough )*
*Alex being a gr00m3r*
*( cough, cough )*
My thoughts:
As somebody with autism, his excuse, *“Oh! I had undiagnosed autism, so that’s why I literally gr00m3d people.”*
absolutely baffled me.
If the age of consent becomes 16, I bet he *STILL* won’t be satisfied.
How is Alex not in prison yet, that’s the bare minimum!
EXACTLY, I'm autistic as well, and he has no right to use autism to excuse this type of behavior
I’m Autistic too and I know that is no excuse to groom anybody.
Reminds me of that girl who touched other women without consent and claimed she had ADHD to justify it.
Ppl need to stop using it as an excuse. Ppl with autism and ADHD learn and are capable of understanding what these things are wrong. Just as ppl who are neurotypical are capable of understanding too. And both groups can also not know they’re wrong/know and still do it.
It’s a failure of character, not identity. Just like there r pdf files who acknowledge their mental illness and take steps to not harm kids, it’s literally a choice.
Yes , that’s what i does on literally every video i stumbled upon
I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER HEARD HIM SAY THAT UNTIL NOW. That's literally crazy. How the fuck is autism an excuse for grooming people.
Autistic people, diagnosed or not, don’t go after children.
People in jail won’t care if you’re autistic, they’ll make sure you won’t see the next light of day
- from someone who is also autistic
….okay, i feel like you worded that kind of wrong.
like, im really hoping you mean “autistic people arent AUTOMATICALLY groomers” because autistic people can 100% still be pedophiles and groomers. im assuming thats what you meant but just to let you know it may come off kind of weird.
@@decrepitdebauchery thanks for letting me know, I’ll have to fix that
i was an undiagnosed autistic and even tho im relatively young id never go hitting on children
@@brinnuit same
Dropped your soap 😈
5:50 A small correction: Discord seems to have deplatformed Alex, as a quick test by trying to reset the password of his email address shows an error saying "Your account has been diabled". In the coming days, we'll likely see that his account will be fully deleted, which Discord usually does after up to 4 weeks.
This needs to be boosted. The victim also got booted off discord at the same time
@@Poke-Chann and thank god for that
Alex has stated in the past he doesn't believe that "DID exists" but is quick to claim he has an "undiagnosed" learning disability.
Apparently, the real reason Alex has taken a "break" from Discord and using Guilded instead is because his Discord account has been disabled.
He doesnt believe DID exists? Whaat??
@@luxblitzar a now banned mod on his server had DID and swapped to someone else in the system and he banned them, in an "apology" he said he thought DID was fake and just some "creepy play pretend"
@@celihenry3227if the mod wanted to RP they would've said so, not hide it behind DID or something.
... Idk what YanDev was thinking at that point lol
@@crowdemon_archives correct, im agreeing with the mod ofc and not alex because he has his head up his own pedo ass anyway
@@crowdemon_archives you assume he thinks at all
ok but that screenshot of him asking the 12 year old if she started her period is horrifying
Disguting
It's not real, but he's attracted to minors
@@faragi_dc and how is it not real ? you have proofs ?
@@faragi_dc uh yes it is real. they have proof about the 9 year old girl now shes 16. and he even admit it on his blog. if thats not proof I dont know what is... this says a lot about our law the very fact people allow this to happen....
@@ladyriethegoldendelmo5441 I'm not talking about the 16 year old. I know that's real. I'm talking about the screenshot of Yandere dev asking a 12 year old if her period is on. That's not real.
Not suprised people like him will never take accountability, people like him only stop when law enforcement throws the book at them
And that won't happen. Look at Chris Chan and Daniel Larson.
I'm 90% sure I have undiagnosed autism and I'm not only not a groomer. I also hate groomers.
I've heard serial killers don't even like them.
@@kittygirl0872 yeah from what ive heard groomers are despised in prisons and tend to get targetted by even murderers
@@kittygirl0872 Theres plenty of stories of gr##mers/r#pists/child p#dos getting beat up and murdered in jail cuz of the fact that they did spit those things lmao
@kittygirl0872 same, i heard that most of them request to get a new cell if they share one with a gr00mer
@@star_fru1tz Exactly bro. Manipulating children is where I draw the line. Geniunely disgusting.
I’m a therapist. Online therapy can be as effective as in person therapy but it does depend on the service you’re using and the person who’s providing the services.
Isn't there also different types of therapists and the response to the types vary, so it's important to research the methods the practicioner?
Maybe this is pessimistic, but I don't think therapy could fix YandereDev anyway, assuming he deserves such a chance. Alex by all accounts is just a garbage, degenerate guy that blames all his problems on other people. He does what he does because he doesn't WANT to stop himself, not because he can't. Maybe if the guy actually faced jail time or something he'd clean himself up (assuming he'd survive such an experience), but I doubt he'd ever try to fix or atone for anything. Using that "therapy" line is probably just him trying to save face, because what else can he say that doesn't make him out to be an even more garbage person, outside of turning himself in?
The turd room... is such an insane analogy. It literally comes across as a satirical impression of him, how could someone think that was a compelling response to "log tf off"
4:32 As a diagnosed autistic person myself, I am very offended and piss off right now, thanks a lot Alex!
Same wtf.
Same
SAME DAMN IT
Honestly, I never knew about this until I saw your videos. Don't give this guy your time.
Its not about giving time but about awareness.
@neroneroki I've known since the first video.
It's important this doesn't die not only because TH-cam has the tendency to protect these kinds of people, but people should know he's a creep and a weirdo.
There is one thing I hate more than child groomers, and that's child groomers that use their (supposed) mental health problems as an excuse for their disgusting behavior
That makes it harder for people who have the disorder to live, especially if people don't "like" the mental illness. Like being "Oh woe is me. I am so tragic."
@@vvitch-mist20 fr. As if the stigma for especially things like autism wasn't already bad enough
@@n.c.pictures
Exactly this is gonna make it worse.
@@n.c.pictures @n.c.pictures, 9 days ago:
fr. As if the stigma for especially things like autism wasn't already bad enough
We shouldn't stigmatize autism, we should stigmatize "people" with paraphilias.
@@professorg2590 I know? Fact is though that autism and mental illnesses in general are stigmatized and predators using their (supposed) own makes it worse
Calli: “…because he has undiagnosed autism”
*Star Rail Ad comes on*
Seele: “You got a lot of nerve!”
BRUH THE AD CAME AT THE PERFECT TIME AND TOLD HOW I FELT ABOUT THAT STATEMENT!!
Also fuck Alex. He can burn in hell.
This is just beautiful
@@Miss_Annearcy Seele wanted to join the discussion lol
I got kafka doing gun. Even she agrees it's dumb
@@bananatoffeepie lol. a literal terrorist.
The star rail charecters agree with us it seems
bro this is two update vids on this situation and i just know even before watching this that he has not gotten better... alex is fucking insane
Okay! I have been diagnosed with Autism and the fact he blames undiagnosed autism really angers me as I have the illness and been diagnosed at age 13, I had to go through most things that autistics go through. As an autistic, I do not talk to anyone under my age or even a minor, the youngest I would talk to someone is 1 year younger and one year older. I really hate this as I really had to fight to get the treatment and therapy I needed, I apologies for rambling, thank you for reading.
You don't need to apologise. Your rambling is valid. I'm autistic too and while i, unlike you,do sometimes talk to kids, it is simply because i have younger cousins and do happen to be a part of some fandoms targeted towards kids (ie Percy Jackson,disney, Mario, etc) . But i've never viewed minors as being at the right age for me to date. If they do want to date someone around their own age, that's fine but i would never encourge them to date my 28 year old self or anyone around my age untill they are as old as i am. Kids should be kids!
Yandev being like "b-but I did this because I-i.. I'm autistic ! I'm autistic, I'm innocent. ;-;" is just-.. WTF ALEX !? 💀 ( as a person with autism, it's infuriating ! )
edit : guys, can you please stop liking the comment ? I'm not comfortable having tones of likes. thank you. ^^"
as an autistic person, its a shitty excuse of him to do.
I’m autistic too but that’s just fucked bro
@@humansaikik I know right !? and dang it, just because someone's autistic does not mean they're immediatly innocent because of their conditions !
I'm sorry if I'm dumb, what does autism actually does to people?
@@chibi_okami nah you're not dumb don't worry ! autism makes it harder for us autistic people to socialize or communicate, we have sensory issues ( for example, our hearing or eye sight might be more sensitive than neurotypicals and some of us can hear each noises at the same time, and some textures feels bad at the touch or in our mouth, smells can be worsen for us and we can get over-stimulated due to that. ), some autistic people can be non-verbal, we can often be overwhelmed easily ( by sudden changes or too much noises for example. ) we can have meltdowns also. so yeah, here you go, hope I explained it well ! ( also, please remember that autism also has positive traits and that every autistic people are different when it comes to symptoms. it's not like a straight line that goes like "from neurotypical to extremely autistic", it's more like a pie schematic if you get what I'm saying. )
“My demographic is made up of mostly adults!” You wanna know how I KNOW that’s bs? When the game was at its peak I was around 13-14 years old and all my friends (other 13-14 yos) WERE WATCHING HIS VIDEOS. In the comments of his videos?? CHILDREN I didn’t know any adults who knew of YanSim until I BECAME an adult
I know it is bs because I and friends of me only watched those videos when we where around 10/11 and aged out of it while still being kids, but just a little older kids, because he himself is so immature and that reflects in his game
Yeah exactly. Adults at the time were repulsed by the game and by him, bc of its creepy mechanics and his immature behavior. After the initial hype for the game after big TH-camrs played it, adults saw YanDev for the weirdo he is and noped out. But unfortunately children do not catch on to those red flags, so they continued to follow his content.
Fr, I was literally 8 when I watched his videos-
Not only is the way he split the demographics suspicious (e.g., putting minors and legal adults in the same category), but he just ignores the idea that kids can lie. This is like a porn site denying that children have ever accessed its content because of the '18+' question at the site's entry point.
like we didnt expect him trying to crawl back onto social media like nothing happened 💀
I almost laughed at the absurdity and stupidity of Alex's “Turd Room” analogy. Almost.
How is this still continuing? Is there no police investigation on Alex's personal lifestyle? Surely there should be some type of legal enforcement on his behavior instead of all of this crap continuing to fester. Maybe I missed something in the last couple of videos about everything about YandereDev.
I hope something actually comes out of this, because simple therapy can't fix this man, though I doubt he's even in therapy in the first place. He's made blatant lies in the past, and he'll do it again and again and again. It's hard to say if even having an extended stay in a psychiatric hospital will change him.
Well, someone needs to actually report it to the police and launch an investigation. I don't think you'd be able to bring a predator situation to the police without being directly involved with said incident, unless you have ample evidence or something. And even then, the police would have to do their own investigation, so they can't just take these TH-cam videos and use them directly.
@@flarestorm9417 The thing is that just a few weeks ago, there WAS a victim of Alex's predatory behavior that exposed him. Callimara even did a video on it. I'm not sure if the victim reported him, though
Some people need to go to jail and just stay there
THIS!!!! (Also love the mk pfp)
@@Puri_.Masquerade (Omg Cure Happy pfp let’s go)
@@Puri_.Masquerade glitter force :o I love it!!! ( I did not know what emoji to use 🙃)
@@Puri_.Masquerade Agreed 💯
@@KitKatbar168 it's smile precure 😅 (but I can't blame you the whitewashed version is what I watched first too)
Some good news to come to light, he has been banned from Twitch following these allegations. Not much, but one chunk of revenue and way of accessing others now cut off.
He's apparently trying to appeal the ban and get his account back.
Except the lead coder for Twitch confirmed that his ban is permanent; an appeal will not work. :3c
Having undiagnosed autism doesn't mean you go out and groom people, buddy. Even if you did have undiagnosed autism somehow, that still doesn't justify what you did.
I shouldn't be surprised he lied (again) about staying off the internet.
EDIT: The stuff that goes on in that server could make an entire video, just look at what he wrote for Ui's backstory on r/Osana
He just can't resist that sweet, sweet child audience of his 🤢
I'm autistic, upon hearing his bullshit about being 'undiagnosed autistic', I actually had to pause the video. I stimmed like hell, and made an angry sound likening to a steaming kettle. I literally have trauma around this kind of stuff, and him demonizing a community of people (I would bet any amount of money he isn't a part of) to get away with grooming young girls is disgusting. And what makes it worse, is that I reacted more to that stupid claim than the grooming, because that shocked me whereas the grooming was just expected behaviour from him.
deadass. as someone who is neurotypical (though I have super heavy suspicions I won't claim anything until I'm diagnosed) i feel like this can and will be used as fuel for ableism and it sucks. the fact that yandev is such a famous (or infamous) person too is what sucks the most and I really hope this doesn't cause some kind of spike in online hate towards autistic people
At this point he should just release that "Toxic Gossip Train" cover
Even if Alex is autistic, he thinks teen girls or any teen are “naturally sexual” when they aren't, that's gross. I'm autistic and know that.
I have a hard time believing he'd be honest with a therapist. He'd claim he got canceled for being manipulated and did nothing wrong.
bro my online therapist ghosted me 💀and that was one that I was referred to by my PCP, not even BetterHelp or shit like it
I kinda doubt that Alex is really getting anywhere in online therapy (if he’s even in therapy), especially as he continues to be coddled in an online hug-box.
Everytime Yandere Dev shows up in my recommended I get more convinced that the saying "He is a poet when silenced" was made for him
Whew I was not expecting another Yandere Dev video from Calli
I can’t believe he would do this..
Fr
Oh your first! Btw
Congrats on being first!🎉
Yeah congrats 🎉
THANK YOU!!! Thank you for mentioning FunIsInfinite, his research was so in-depth that it's impossible to deny Alex's pedo behavior
The way you’ve made 3 videos on this in a row already says more than enough 😭😭
Audibly GASPED when Alex said he had undiagnosed autism! As an autistic person, it doesn’t excuse grooming A CHILD
I swear - people need to do their research on what Autism is a people just use it as a excuse to be weird and shit , my best freind is autistic I’m on the spectrum and neither of us has any interest in kids below our age- please people online has made such fake reasons of what autism is
A boy with yandere in his name is a immediate red flag
I'm surpried that it's taken SO LONG for the grooming allegations.
You got Alex's inflection down perfectly with that impression 💀💀
You nailed the Alex impression so well that it made me irrationally angry hearing you read out his post.
Online therapy (specifically BetterHelp) did not help me at ALL. I was undergoing a period of extreme grief and loss and BH made me feel like I was alone and that therapy couldn't help me. However, it did lead me to reconnect with my childhood therapist who I now see once a month. BH seems to be very hit or miss with plenty of misses.
BH is a scam that doesn’t employ licensed therapists
Yandere dev doesn't have austim, he's just using that lie as an excuse to avoid the consequences of his actions and to criminalise the people who actually have that and what's sad is that when people believe in those types of lies they will not only stereotype those people but also harm them which will mess them up real badly to the point where they too might start to do the same thing to others.
He really thinks he's the smartest one in any room he walks into.
That Alex impression was spot . You did the passive aggressiveness tone he uses in every video so perfectly.
He speaks in commas and periods LMFAO.
"He.lo, my name is, A.lex."
That is probably the best way to describe it @@vibrantgleam
Point on the ID thing:
You can just not allow people to enter if they don't agree to show a picture of themselves holding it (showing it is both them and up to date). If someone goes so far as to fake one then you have a different problem.
Keep logs or some way to prove this has been done for verified users.
(As far as the adult-only servers I've been aware of go, this is fairly common.)
That was a horrifyingly accurate Alex impression-
I honestly don't even know where the dude was going with that turd room thing. If he had a point to make then he missed it.
The fact people defended Yanderedev and said he’s “growing” as a person are really making me lose my faith in humanity, not once has Yanderedev been shown to grow and these people have been blaming THE VICTIM, the only reason they support Yanderedev is because they want the game to release, I don’t care about the game anymore, I care about PUTTING THIS MAN BEHIND BARS! This man done so much for so long, I’m surprised people still support him, I’m pretty sure they’re the same people to support Dream
Having autism doesn’t excuse his actions. I’m autistic myself and so are many of my close friends, and I can say that we are VERY self aware of the things we do and think and feel. Alex claiming to be an “undiagnosed autistic adult” just further incriminates him as that just shows he is even more aware of his own actions and thoughts. Trying to use autism as an excuse for gr00ming is disgusting and he needs to be put in jail
"You can't demand people's IDs"
No, you can. That is 100% something you can do- make sure they block out everything that isn't the picture, your face to compare, name and DOB sure, but you can 100% ask for proof of ID.
If people don't want to do that then hey, don't let them join your, a confirmed groomers, server I guess.
Edit: Wanted to clarify this a lil better because I'm not blaming people wanting to join the server (although 'why would you want to?', honestly) but blaming the man and the mods that are pretending they can't be better.
Seconding this as someone who helps run a Discord server with adult-only spaces. You absolutely can ask for IDs. It might seem a bit awkward and personal at first but overall it makes everyone of all ages feel much more comfortable and safe because while it's possible to fake IDs it's a lot more effort to do that, and you KNOW with vastly more certainty that who you're talking to in an adult-only space is a fellow adult, and so on. The yes/no 18+ self-verification is basically just an ineffective CYA legal measure at best and fuel for victim-blaming at worst, because we all know that if/when people like YandereDev start their bullshit again, they can claim that the minor faked their age; it is simply not a real solution.
And with that said, if you're worried about verifying people's ages for an adult space on Discord or something, maybe just don't create such a space? Sure, you want to cultivate a community around your game for promotion reasons, but maybe keep the community at an arm's length if that's such a big concern? Just stick to community updates and less direct forms of communication at that point.
I only recently became an adult, and I was a fan of Yandere Dev since it came out. All my classmates and peers were fans, believe me when I tell you his audience were children! Now part of this is because the youtubers playing this game had younger fan. But it is most in part to Alex ACTIVELY MAKING an environment that kids would enjoy
The funniest part of this is that I have autism, Ally has autism, all my friends who told me he was a groomer have autism, like we're literally all autistic and none of us are grooming people
@SunshinePIRRATA I think their point isn't that "autistic people can't be groomers" but rather "autism doesn't make you a groomer" like autism and being a groomer are not inherently related in any way
Alex forgets that children *lie*, like im an adult and according to my youtube date of birth im fucking ancient
Gurl ngl the tea spilling with the art footage is like so chill I love itt
That turd sentence left me in utter silence, seriously this man is insane i am ever so glad that everyone is against him
Yandere Simulator was a huge part of my childhood, it's disappointing to see Alex's actions. On a different note, I LOVE LIFE MAKEOVER AAAAAAAAAA
I don't even think Yandere Dev even has autism. He was likely just looking for a scapegoat.
Exactly.
As someone who’s done both online and in-person therapy, I found them equally helpful in achieving my mental health goals. As long as you have the right therapist and meet with them consistently, it can help a lot. However, Alex doesn’t show desire to change which is vital if you want to improve. All he wants to change is how he’s perceived
At this point, Alex sounds like a Congressman from Florida.
Online therapy is like online classes or remote work. For some people it will work well and for some people it will make things even worse
omfg... that hurt me HARD
"i groomed kids because I'm autistic" my best friend and my boyfriend are diagnosed with ASD and I'm SO offended on their behalf HOLY FUCK!
yonder dev is like an embarrassing memory (hes also an embarrassment) you dont think about it for a while and it suddenly appear randomly and ruin your day
he is a disgrace to all autistic people if he's telling the truth with the autism thing [source: am autistic]
I have autism and I second this !
I was diagnosed with autism and I third this.
i agree, i also have diagnosed autism
As someone who has autism, I agree!
As an undiagnosed autistic person, I agree
Putting the situation aside, your Himari art is really great!
Keep up the good work, Calli!
Therapy is only helpful to people who are truly honest to their therapist/s. I had to get get therapy myself, but due to being in an abusive relationship with an ex girlfriend I probably should have broken up with a year or so earlier than I did. So I personally don’t think therapy will help him online or otherwise. Plus my ex supposedly was seeing a therapist, but telling them that everything going wrong was my fault when she was the one treating me like garbage and not the other way around. I just gave her an ultimatum that she needed to both get an actual job and get therapy or we were done as I had enough of being treated that way.
"Kids know they're not allowed" that'll entice them more most kids are rebels especially if they wanna talk to their idol
girl i just watched this and i already love you
I could herar that wholeee entire monologue in Alex's voice -- you do way too good of a job impersonating his intonations and speaking mannerisms ToT
thank you for bring light to this for me i never knew this and even looked up to him for his game and never knew about what he did until now i will most likely play the game and drawl the characters under my own light
to think i tought so good about him
i just wanted to say i really like your videos!! i have adhd so sitting through long (but good!) informative videos can be hard for me-and i can't put it on in the background because i'll get distracted and lose what's being said-but i've found that watching you draw is actually a great way to keep me from floating off! and i really enjoy watching your pieces come together. :) it's been really helpful as i learn about this situation! thanks for covering all this, and uh, thanks for doing so in a way i can follow along without rewinding 30 times, lmao? :D
one thing i'd like to say is even the youtube analytics on ages are inaccurate sometimes. there are definitely kids younger than 13 on youtube that use their PARENT'S age instead of their own, or just make up an age, so that they'll be allowed on. i only found out about a year ago that that was the case with my account since i've been watching youtube since i was literally 3 (restricted mode on) and i hated youtube kids because i couldn't watch game playthroughs. i'm over 13 now, but before i was, youtube would've said i was ~50 because my birthday was set to my dad's. i don't think many people realize how often kids lie about their age, if i ever had to sign up for something before i turned 13 i would just set my birthday to 10 years earlier. it's really fucking easy to do, and 9 year olds (at least, me as a 9 year old) can figure it out no problem.
I agree with this. When I was a minor I lied about my age constantly because I thought I was "mature enough " to go into adult spaces-
The fact it is so easy to lie about your age and get exposed to potentially innapropriate content for kids is sad to me in a way. YanDev is only like 00000000000000000000.1%, maybe even more than that bc the internet is so damn big, of the internet's problems. "PROTECT THE KIDS!!!" Yeah if we wanted to protect children I don't think it would be easy to find inappropriate stuff, have predators groom kids, and be able to lie about our ages. And it's not even the kid's fault at all. It's the adults that influence these young and impressionable children.
So yandaddydev made another post that is going basically "me me me me".
Honestly it reminds me of an episode of southpark, where Kyle's brother Ike (kindergartener) was dating his teacher, and when she was accused of being pedo she announced she needed theraphy and she got scot free.
CAN'T HE JUST STOP!!!🤬💢
They don’t they can’t it’s a urge and a mental illness that they struggle to control he won’t ever stop that’s what makes them predators and dangerous im still surprised he hasn’t been investigated yet
When playing this game I always felt uncomfortable with the point system of getting girl's underwear pics, and I would purposely get an easy way out to the end of the game JUST to get the debug menu and give points to myself. That, or I would plant bugs in the important rooms of the school. Even if every character is 18+ (which I know for sure was just a coverup to not have any more controversies) it felt really demeaning to get a point system like that. We could've gotten points by working at the cafe or doing tasks for info-chan/the students like a mini scavenger hunt. There's endless possibilities on making this game less creepy, but he just chose to project himself on it.
exactly. and the fact there is a character named “mai waifu (which means “my wife”) just shows how much of a creep yandev is, noting that all high schoolers are under 18
GOD the Mai Waifu thing is creepy, especially considering she was named after his sex doll (confirmed through email match analysis on a sex doll forum), who he regularly would dress up as underage anime characters like Rei Ayanami, a 14-year-old. And even though high schoolers can briefly be 18 before graduating and moving on to college/trade school/life as a non-student, it's absolutely still a huge no-no to date an 18-year-old who is still in high-school, especially someone who you presumably groomed for years over the internet like Mai Waifu's beloved programmer who she pledged her heart to likely did. A high schooler simply doesn't become an adult overnight and is still lacking in major life experience.
@@tardigradeColonies He could've just implemented a male student that looked like him and call it a day, or have a secret item like the THAT DUDE shades, but he had to use his sexual fantasies and make a character about it. Truly disgusting.
@@inmyvillainarc That's the thing that is most frustrating about it for me, too; just that sheer willingness to directly inject his really creepy fantasies into it. It's so clear that what he really wanted to do was make some kind of eroge to get some kind of incel-like, ephebephilic, misogynistic catharsis out. It's so frustrating how much we (former YS fans) let slide when we were young fans. All the clues and red flags were right there, yet we ended up just accepting the creepy encroachment of this stuff because it was a concept we liked and because we kept gaslighting ourselves and each other (and no doubt Alex gaslit us directly about it) into ignoring the creepiness or thinking it's just normal for a game like this to be needlessly sexual towards high schoolers in middle schooler uniforms and force sexual harassment/sexual assault to be a core, unavoidable game mechanic. I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that Alex groomed the whole fanbase to an extent.
4:36 i have diagnosed austim and people with austim don't gr00m and exploit children Alexander or aka yandere Dev
Also great video Calli^^!
I joined his discord just to see how quickly I would get banned for addressing the drama someone @ one of the mods almost instantly. It’s crazy how blind yandere dev fans are it’s like they don’t want to accept that he’s a bad person
Thank you for covering this, he doesn't deserve to just move on from this. He needs the kind of professional help therapy you only receive in prison (not a euphemism for violence, he needs actual help). Ive said it before but until he's forced to change, he's not going to.
Gonna be honest, most 18+ servers, specifically require you to show id before getting access to the server.
I got into yandere simulator when I was 13... I'm 23 now. Dude's fanbase was not adults. This game has been ongoing since I was a middle schooler.
Wanting a gf who is malleable, naive, uncomplicated 😮, yet trusting already says enough like what.
Half of his ideal gf description are just synonyms for "little girl". Somebody check his hard drive.💀
He really needs to learn what being offline means. And then practice it. Forever.
It's disgusting how Yandere dev would make excuses for his actions he choose to take part in. Thank you for talking about Alex. I really hope the victim is ok, and was provided closure.
Edit: Off-topic I also play life makeover, it really brings out my inner artist!
9 months late but i gotta say your alex impression was spot on. i deadass thought it was him with a voice filter over it for a sec 💀
Someone has to arrest or report yandere dev,dude is criminal and vile
They have. It doesn't work.
@@MarquisLeary34 dammit,thank you for this information
ive seen some ppl say that better help isn't exactly a good service for them
Even if kids lie about there age just simply turn them down
It’s a piece of cake to not talk to minors
When you forget to listen cause your just loving watching the drawings 😂