Subhan’Allah. I’m currently finding it difficult to address certain matters with my parents and family as a whole and do feel like giving up a lot of the time. It feels lonely and overwhelming. As if I’m at a brick wall. May Allah SWT ease our affairs and grant us patience, beneficial knowledge and understanding in all tests that we encounter. Ameen
You only know the value of your parents when they are no longer here. May Allaah forgive us and our parents and grant us djanatoel Firdaws aamien ya Rabb ❤❤❤
It's a great test indeed. Sometimes I feel I am pushing my family away when I do my due diligence in Islam. Other times I feel that making dua for them is pointless. But subhanAllah ta’ala, I keeping making dua for them and for sabr because guidance is from Allah.
I am having a hard time connecting with my parents ever since the Gaza genocide. My mom, a Christian, not knowing anything about Islam has no sympathy for the suffering of Palestinians in Gaza, simply because they are Muslims. It made me really really shocked and also very disappointed. Although I am not a Muslim yet, still learning and understanding the religion, I find it unbelievable that one would not feel horrified or saddened by the atrocities all these innocent men, women, and children are going through just because of the religion. Somehow when it comes to Israel, it is a big taboo to criticize or condemn them for their wrongdoings. Feeling betrayed, as they taught me to be kind and empathetic, I just cannot put myself to really believe they are my parents, and they somehow think they are superior to others because they are Christians. What should I do?
O Allah, guide our children in reverence and obedience to You, Your Messenger (peace be upon him), and us as parents (when we are commanded to please You). Make them the coolness of our eyes. O Allah, save my children from debt. Make them givers, not takers. O Allah, strengthen them in their religion so much that they never suffer from doubt. O Allah guide them to enjoy our company, obey us and befriend us in their youth. O Allah, do not allow any negative attitudes to enter the lives of our children. O Allah, help them to love, value and respect each other with good communication always between them. O Allah, grant them piety.
With regards,does a man also have not to obey his wive whatever she speaks or whatever she complains wrongly about ? What i often see is that most of our respectable imaams,muftis and our great scholars saying is that to be good and obey wife but never comment if man has to advise his wife also when she is wrong as in case of parents when they say something that you sense as wrong.Do we only have lecture parents if you sense something that is wrong and isnt it equally applicable to wife also when she is wrong? I am sorry to say it but i never saw any of our great religious imaam or muftis or scholars talking clearly about this topic as to how to balance a sort of relationships with wife and parents without favoring any side for something wrong and be fair enough.How do we justify if parents are being maltreated? I have lot of instance where i came across where wife or husband or sometimes both physically beating parents but this goes under carpet and nobody talks about it & what sharah law is applicable in this matter.There is a fitna now a days in most of the families becoz many people lack clarity in tthis matter about how do we need to maintain a sort of balance in relationship and be honest enough and fair enough to avoid conflicts & it almost always happens that there is one one sided favortism and that's husband going wife's side even when she is wrong.We are ignoring dealing with something that needs a fair judgement & justicce by trying to justify it by selectively choosing selective hadith or verses of Quran to justify what is unjustified.With due respect,plz shed light on this matter in a broader,much clearer way so that a kind of proper balance is maintained instead of just justifying that only wife is above all & justify her for everything becoz this is spoiling youth as they dont have proper clarity and proper understanding on this matter misusing this concept and most often this becomes a justification for them to side with wife everytime even when she speaks something or acts in a way that is not normal as per islamic teachings and that spoils not only peace in many homes but this creates a kind of hatred,animosities even among siblings or parents and at times even such relationships come to an end.This is happening now a days in many parts of world and is not something that shoud be avoided but a proper deen is taught so that people know justice,fairness in our social system.
Mashallah I needed this video… but sheikh please can you give me advice… I don’t want to be committing shirk but my parents follow other religion and they make me join in on their traditions and I really don’t want to it makes me feel awful and I don’t believe any of it but I don’t want to be disrespectful to them… what do I do am I committing sin by sitting through the rituals they perform (I don’t participate but they have begged me to join by sitting with them while they do why they do) I can’t explain how upsetting this is for me… please tell me if you have any guidance inshallah
what if your mom don't listen to you? Ik we do some mistakes but what if they are not good to you? even you have reach the puberty? They don't support you? ........
He is talking about the case when your mom is doing wrong. You should try to advise her patiently and never give up on her. When you were a small baby and you were crying and annoying her, she did not give up on you.
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Subhan’Allah. I’m currently finding it difficult to address certain matters with my parents and family as a whole and do feel like giving up a lot of the time. It feels lonely and overwhelming. As if I’m at a brick wall. May Allah SWT ease our affairs and grant us patience, beneficial knowledge and understanding in all tests that we encounter. Ameen
Ameen
May Allah make it easy for you .
Ameen❤
Ameen ❤
Ameen
Please pray for me!! I really want to change. I don’t want to keep falling into this pit. Ya rabb, allow me to love my parents.
You only know the value of your parents when they are no longer here.
May Allaah forgive us and our parents and grant us djanatoel Firdaws aamien ya Rabb ❤❤❤
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
My fav sheikh
Just praying and trusting Allah....for a change.... Alhamdullilah
It's a great test indeed. Sometimes I feel I am pushing my family away when I do my due diligence in Islam. Other times I feel that making dua for them is pointless. But subhanAllah ta’ala, I keeping making dua for them and for sabr because guidance is from Allah.
Wow 🤩 mashaallah ❤may allah bless him with a good reward 😊
Beautiful Shaikh it touched my heart❤
I am having a hard time connecting with my parents ever since the Gaza genocide. My mom, a Christian, not knowing anything about Islam has no sympathy for the suffering of Palestinians in Gaza, simply because they are Muslims. It made me really really shocked and also very disappointed. Although I am not a Muslim yet, still learning and understanding the religion, I find it unbelievable that one would not feel horrified or saddened by the atrocities all these innocent men, women, and children are going through just because of the religion. Somehow when it comes to Israel, it is a big taboo to criticize or condemn them for their wrongdoings. Feeling betrayed, as they taught me to be kind and empathetic, I just cannot put myself to really believe they are my parents, and they somehow think they are superior to others because they are Christians. What should I do?
May Allah make it easy for you!
Allahu Akbar
Jazakallah khairun
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O Allah, guide our children in reverence and obedience to You, Your Messenger (peace be upon him), and us as parents (when we are commanded to please You). Make them the coolness of our eyes. O Allah, save my children from debt. Make them givers, not takers.
O Allah, strengthen them in their religion so much that they never suffer from doubt. O Allah guide them to enjoy our company, obey us and befriend us in their youth. O Allah, do not allow any negative attitudes to enter the lives of our children. O Allah, help them to love, value and respect each other with good communication always between them. O Allah, grant them piety.
May Allah bless you mother ❤ you remind me of my mother to an extent who is thousands of miles away from me.
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@@khadijafatima9240 ameen ya Rabb. JazakAllahu Khairan ❤ may Allah bless you too
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MashaAllah, heart touching dua, I wish every parents were do the same .
May Allah ta'la granted, Ameen
With regards,does a man also have not to obey his wive whatever she speaks or whatever she complains wrongly about ? What i often see is that most of our respectable imaams,muftis and our great scholars saying is that to be good and obey wife but never comment if man has to advise his wife also when she is wrong as in case of parents when they say something that you sense as wrong.Do we only have lecture parents if you sense something that is wrong and isnt it equally applicable to wife also when she is wrong? I am sorry to say it but i never saw any of our great religious imaam or muftis or scholars talking clearly about this topic as to how to balance a sort of relationships with wife and parents without favoring any side for something wrong and be fair enough.How do we justify if parents are being maltreated? I have lot of instance where i came across where wife or husband or sometimes both physically beating parents but this goes under carpet and nobody talks about it & what sharah law is applicable in this matter.There is a fitna now a days in most of the families becoz many people lack clarity in tthis matter about how do we need to maintain a sort of balance in relationship and be honest enough and fair enough to avoid conflicts & it almost always happens that there is one one sided favortism and that's husband going wife's side even when she is wrong.We are ignoring dealing with something that needs a fair judgement & justicce by trying to justify it by selectively choosing selective hadith or verses of Quran to justify what is unjustified.With due respect,plz shed light on this matter in a broader,much clearer way so that a kind of proper balance is maintained instead of just justifying that only wife is above all & justify her for everything becoz this is spoiling youth as they dont have proper clarity and proper understanding on this matter misusing this concept and most often this becomes a justification for them to side with wife everytime even when she speaks something or acts in a way that is not normal as per islamic teachings and that spoils not only peace in many homes but this creates a kind of hatred,animosities even among siblings or parents and at times even such relationships come to an end.This is happening now a days in many parts of world and is not something that shoud be avoided but a proper deen is taught so that people know justice,fairness in our social system.
Mashallah I needed this video… but sheikh please can you give me advice… I don’t want to be committing shirk but my parents follow other religion and they make me join in on their traditions and I really don’t want to it makes me feel awful and I don’t believe any of it but I don’t want to be disrespectful to them… what do I do am I committing sin by sitting through the rituals they perform (I don’t participate but they have begged me to join by sitting with them while they do why they do) I can’t explain how upsetting this is for me… please tell me if you have any guidance inshallah
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what if your mom don't listen to you? Ik we do some mistakes but what if they are not good to you? even you have reach the puberty? They don't support you? ........
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He is talking about the case when your mom is doing wrong. You should try to advise her patiently and never give up on her. When you were a small baby and you were crying and annoying her, she did not give up on you.
Is this Syeikh Belal's official channel??? I want to ask him something about my parents. And I don't know what to do
En if your parents do sihr ?
If they are engaging in black magic, keep trying your best to stop them from it. Ask Allah for their hidayah and forgiveness
Yes. Like the Sheik said, no matter what, you never disrespect them.
Try to make them stop and be respectful and patient with them. Don't fall into the trap of wanting them to enter hellfire.
I hate my mother. She’s a narcissistic mother. She ruin my life. I love my dad.