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Thank you!!! I understand❤ Allah keep us all patient and remember his blessings

And they say this is all in the name of Islam. These narcissistic dysfunctional Muslims who portray this as Islam while they pray at the mosque and pretend they’re good people.

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I am having a hard time connecting with my parents ever since the Gaza genocide. My mom, a Christian, not knowing anything about Islam has no sympathy for the suffering of Palestinians in Gaza, simply because they are Muslims. It made me really really shocked and also very disappointed. Although I am not a Muslim yet, still learning and understanding the religion, I find it unbelievable that one would not feel horrified or saddened by the atrocities all these innocent men, women, and children are going through just because of the religion. Somehow when it comes to Israel, it is a big taboo to criticize or condemn them for their wrongdoings. Feeling betrayed, as they taught me to be kind and empathetic, I just cannot put myself to really believe they are my parents, and they somehow think they are superior to others because they are Christians. What should I do?

This is literally 99% of all Muslim families i know, the house i grew up in and what my friends grew up in!! Please seek protection and healing from the trauma of such a childhood The single most relevant topic this man has just covered Unbelievable how messed up our family's have become. Very scary stuff the future holds

Sometimes the only way of breaking the cycle of trauma is actually cutting ties. But it is a very complex Situation and needs to be done Individually. Everyones Situation is different, so the Solutions Are also different. Take Professional help contact a therapist. Unfortunately Imams and scholars has no psychological knowledge. They should ve Trainer in These Masters

I am hurrying to reach kawthar. ya Allah make me one of those who drink from it🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

Not just single rather a mixture of these disfunctional traits are common in families nowadays

It’s near impossible

Few 50 LIFE INSTRUCTIONS FROM THE QUR'AN 1. Do not be rude in speech (3:159) 2. Restrain Anger (3:134) 3. Be good to others (4:36) 4. Do not be arrogant (7:13) 5. Forgive others for their mistakes (7:199) 6. Speak to people mildly (20:44) 7. Lower your voice (31:19) 8. Do not ridicule others (49:11) 9. Be dutiful to parents(17:23) 10. Do not say a word of disrespect to parents(17:23) 11. Do not enter parents' private room without asking permission (24:58) 12. Write down the debt (2:282) 13. Do not follow anyone blindly (2:170) 14. Grant more time to repay if the debtor is in hard time (2:280) 15. Dont consume interest (2:275) 16. Do not engage in bribery (2:188) 17. Do not break the promise (2:177) 18. Keep the trust (2:283) 19. Do not mix the truth with falsehood (2:42) 20. Judge with justice between people (4:58) 21. Stand out firmly for justice (4:135) 22. Wealth of the dead should be distributed among his family members (4:7) 23. Women also have the right for inheritance (4:7) 24.Do not devour the property of orphans (4:10) 25. Protect orphans (2:220) 26. Do not consume one another's wealth unjustly(4:29) 27. Try for settlement between people (49:9) 28. Avoid suspicion (49:12) 29. Do not spy and backbite (2:283) 30. Do not spy or backbite (49:12) 31. Spend wealth in charity (57:7) 32. Encourage feeding the poor (107:3) 33. Help those in need by finding them (2:273) 34. Do not spend money extravagantly (17:29) 35. Do not invalidate charity with reminders (2:264) 36. Honor guests (51:26) 37. Order righteousness to people only after practicing it yourself(2:44) 38. Do not commit abuse on the earth (2:60) 39. Do not prevent people from houses of God (2:114) 40. Fight only with those who fight you(2:190) 41. Keep the etiquettes of war (2:191) 42. Do not turn back in front of an invading army(8:15) 43. No compulsion in religion (2:256) 44. Believe in all prophets (2:285) 45. Do not have sexual intercourse during menstrual period (2:222) 46. Breast feed your children for two complete years (2:233) 47. Do not even approach unlawful sexual intercourse (17:32) 48. Choose rulers by their merit (2:247) 49. Do not burden a person beyond his scope (2:286) 50. If it is difficult for someone to repay a debt, postpone it until a time of ease. And if you waive it as an act of charity, it will be better for you, if only you knew. (2:280) There are many moreee

for Sure Sheikh Belal Thank you so much

Yes Sheikh Belal Thank you so much

Must say muslim women have made it very complicated for their husbands to keep their heads up and live in peace. They are involving in everything their parents and when men does the same they say your parents are not important. Specially Pakistani women, dont know what they think of themselves. You first marry a men in which your family is involved and her family and after marriage all of sudden its only about her parents because your parents are garbage. From deciding the name to how you want your husband to do every household work to interferring on how you earn(unless you are earning haram). What a garbage culture they have made and they then defile the name of Islam. sometimes men have no choice but to leave their parents so that they dont have to divorce their wives. I curse these types of so called cultures.

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It seems to be a personal opinion based on the life experiences of Sheikh. It would be better to explain the relationship between spouses and their in-laws in light of the Quran and Sunnah.

سلام من دختر ۳۲ سال هستیم بر من دعا کنید هنوز ازدواج نکردم

My man forces me to talk to his family more than himself. What he wants is I shouldn't talk much to my parents but should take care of his parents. He is ready to compromise his time with me so that I and him can individually give time to his family.

Why don't you say what women wants from her husband. We women need to be treated like a humans.

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But we can stop them from doing wrong you know how children are they want a girl or boyfriend from the age of 10????

May Allah guide us & forgive us...the true guidness the true forgiveness......💯

Sallullaahoo alehyheewasalam.🥇🏆🌹

Jazakallah khairan

Can everyone please make Dua for me, my in-laws have destroyed my marriage, on verge of divorce and I’m mentally unstable now🙏🏻

It's a great test indeed. Sometimes I feel I am pushing my family away when I do my due diligence in Islam. Other times I feel that making dua for them is pointless. But subhanAllah ta’ala, I keeping making dua for them and for sabr because guidance is from Allah.

My dad is doing favoritism, he neglects me, he does not help me financially even though he has the means to do so, I am unemployed and I suffer enormously to the point that it affects me mentally, please make duaa for me brothers and sisters

Sea snakes, alligators…

Mariam RA said she wanted to die(19:22-23).. pessimism can sometimes occur so to say it is HARAM is a big statement. Rather it is makrooh (sinful) depending on our situation we can sometimes experience hard times which make us pessimistic but we always have to patient and be optimistic and trust Allah no matter the situation. Instead of saying it's HARAM and calling maryam sinful; Allah understood her pain and told her to not grieve (ayat 24 surah maryam) ALLAHUALAM MAY ALLAH FORGIVE ME IF I AM WRONG BUT IT IS NOT HARAM TO BE PESSIMISTIC. ALLAH UNDERSTANDS YOUR PAIN AND HE WILL GRANT YOU EASE IF YOU ARE PATIENT!

Assalamualaikum.I need your du'a my beloved sisters and brother in islam. It's said that du'as that made by a muslim for another muslim secretly is surely accepted by Allah swt.Please pray for me and my family so that Allah swt save me and my family from this calamity,solve all of our problems and fulfill my wishes with 'aafiyah.

I am much inspired . parents should also understand this as well as wife

Whenever I say salam to my mother in law ,she doesn't answer, I feel bad

Allah test those he love more. Still our test of not been able to get married is easy than those of living in gaza. May Allah(s.w.t) accept it from them n us.

But Unfortunately people are least bothered about religious and good character wife/husband, what they are bothered about is looks.

Im 31 man rejected of my height and my looks.. still i have patience pray for me ameen

This is what happens to me know my mother want to control me. She don't want my Opinions at all

I’m dealing with this and in my case I feel so bad for my husband. I’m an only child and my mom pretty much imposed herself to living with me 1/2 of the year. It even stresses me out but she won’t hear it and now she wants to come live here permanently. She’s always saying she’s not a bother to anyone but just her presence can be stressful. I don’t know what to do.

25 here naver dated, only focused on goals and career till I find a man of good character. I did find we never met in really life. but he rejected me because he is not healed from his past experiences. This reason is very invalid for me but I had no choice but to respect his decision and move on. I just pray Allah that please bless me with good spouse, I have full faith only Allah knows what's best for me. Ameen

SubhanAllah ❤

It wasn’t from any documents you said bro, literally what are you talking about😂😂

How about Indian Mother In laws Literally Threatening the Daughter in law in front of the Husband, saying I need Grand Children and I'll wait for sometime more, If I don't get Grandchildren soon, I'll get my Son Re-Married as a Second Marriage to someone else who can Reproduce and give me Grand Children! And Discussing Infertility issues with all Her Extended family in an open forum to humiliate the Daughter in law! I personally know a Sister who's Mother in law actually got her Son Re-Married for the THIRD time, and got the Husband and Wife separated after Nikah within a Year as none of them Conceived! Allahu Akbar!😭 May Allah Save us all from Such Evil, Illiterate and UnIslamic Mothers in Law! Ameen🤲🏻

Thank u😢😭

Now i know why muslim born in 1990 are better then 1970 or 1980 because they are not educated properly. There is so many reasons

So he was just perfect in every way?

Islam is so beautiful. But why dont people follow this. I am crying writing this, me and my husband had an argument today and he immediately involved my mother in law and she yelled at me said me so many bad things and blamed me for everything. Even my husband abused me a lot. There is no privacy between us. Wallahi i don't know how do i get over this i feel so much pain inside. I just cant stop crying by the words and action of my husband. He keeps threatening me that he will send me back to my parents house and he dont want me.

The thing is no one sees values of a girl to get married Atleast here in India every man here wants a show piece

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What husbands hate about their wives: 1) Not accepting a co-wife. 2) Wife fighting for not being traumatized for the rest of her life because of the selfish choices of husband. Husbands want wives being content with every male desire or hiding the sufference and hurt and damage like it's not their business at all.

I don’t talk to anyone in my family anymore. I grew up in the most emotionally abusive family. I experienced continual violence and neglect and abandonment. Im still trying to be ok. I almost perished in a car accident a couple years ago and went through even more traumatic events after that. Im trying to be ok. Its hard.

No one can take place of a father but one must not make life difficult for others,one must make everything in life in the obedience of ALLAH.

Jazakallahu Khairan Sheikh. I am going through though times, I love and want to marry one of my relatives, and the girl is Alhamdulillah good with her religion and a good person. But my mom still doesn't want us together. And this action has made me want to start going away from home. Alhamdulillah I keep praying to Allah. And I have hope that some day Allah will make things change and make it happen