Parent-Child Relationships - Nouman Ali Khan

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  • @rhanakhanaz2264
    @rhanakhanaz2264 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I just had an argument with my mother and subhannellah this video came at the right time, I needed the reminder. May Allah guide us all and give us the ability to have rahma even when it's hard

    • @theogrash1919
      @theogrash1919 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same i swear سبحان الله

    • @durdurdikir4021
      @durdurdikir4021 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen Yaa Rabbi Yaa Rahman Yaa Raheem🤲🏾

    • @anikak3021
      @anikak3021 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how? i just had an huge argument and the video popped right up.

    • @BaqarMohiuddin
      @BaqarMohiuddin ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Did you say sorry to her now?

    • @reginaldanglin4264
      @reginaldanglin4264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. May Almighty Allah grant me patience and tolerance. Ameen

  • @BishakhaDe
    @BishakhaDe ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This video came to me as a reminder that I just failed the test two days ago with my father raising his voice and I telling my mother that she needs to tell him not to do that with me anymore because I'm an adult now. It felt like God just spoke to me through you and I feel so sorry right now. I leave home in two days and I'm like please God test me once again and let me try clipping my wings. Thank you teacher for this video. I'm very new to Islam, I was born in a Hindu family and I've learnt a lot from you.

    • @Ilovemd-p3f
      @Ilovemd-p3f ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mashaa Allah Alhamdulillah❤

    • @enmei__________
      @enmei__________ ปีที่แล้ว

      Sahih Muslim 2691
      Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
      He who uttered these words:" There is no god but Allah, the One, having no partner with Him. Sovereignty belongs to Him and all the praise is due to Him, and He is Potent over everything" one hundred times every day there is a reward of emancipating ten slaves for him, and there are recorded hundred virtues to his credit, and hundred vices are blotted out from his scroll, and that is a safeguard for him against the Satan on that day till evening and no one brings anything more excellent than this, except one who has done more than this (who utters these words more than one hundred times and does more good acts) and he who utters:" Hallowed be Allah, and all praise is due to Him," one hundred times a day, his sins are obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the ocean.Sahih Muslim 2691
      Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
      He who uttered these words:" There is no god but Allah, the One, having no partner with Him. Sovereignty belongs to Him and all the praise is due to Him, and He is Potent over everything" one hundred times every day there is a reward of emancipating ten slaves for him, and there are recorded hundred virtues to his credit, and hundred vices are blotted out from his scroll, and that is a safeguard for him against the Satan on that day till evening and no one brings anything more excellent than this, except one who has done more than this (who utters these words more than one hundred times and does more good acts) and he who utters:" Hallowed be Allah, and all praise is due to Him," one hundred times a day, his sins are obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the ocean.
      Edit:- These words most be uttered in Arabic.
      Reference is given

    • @farzelhossen6561
      @farzelhossen6561 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ma sha allah sister.❤

    • @lisamohammed-irvine5733
      @lisamohammed-irvine5733 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu alaykom wa rahma'tullah wa barakatuh, just say sorry, sorry to your father, and to your mother who you unwittingly pulled into an emotional tug of war. Say sorry to both of them, and if that gives you humility in your heart, be grateful to Allah because it is difficult to say especially when we are acknowledging our own shortcomings to, May Allah make everything easy for you and help you keep good relations with your family. may He also bring them into islam, ask Him. We are all after all, only people, and we will inevitably make mistakes, it is in our nature. Seek the help of Allah and make peace with your folks - don't compromise your deen, islam is your way of life now, may Allah keep you in his guidance and mercy and enable you to reach him in every success, but just be gentle and kind with your family, even when they struggle with your faith. Fi amanillah

  • @penguinplays2673
    @penguinplays2673 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I did the same " trying to be the best for parents"
    but got nothing other than injustice from my mom 💔

  • @candicecole19
    @candicecole19 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “The eyes shed tears & the heart grieved, but we will not say except that which is pleasing to our Lord” ✨SABR & SALAH✨
    - Prophet Muhammed (ﷺ) 🤍

  • @zoha_raza19
    @zoha_raza19 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's sometimes very challenging...I hope Allah gives us all the strength to be kind and sensitive towards our parents even when it gets tough

  • @LocaMoca328
    @LocaMoca328 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Alhamdulilah. May Allah swt protect us from arrogance towards the ones who loved and cared unconditionally for us when we were little bundles of absolutely horrible packages of terror and exhaustion.

  • @arts_kay_
    @arts_kay_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful analogy. Ustadh's commitment to promoting a positive image of Islam is truly praiseworthy. May Allah, the Most Gracious, reward him for his dedication and make his efforts a source of inspiration for others to follow. May Allah bless him with wisdom and perseverance to continue his impactful work in promoting understanding and tolerance. Ameen to the heartfelt dua. May his journey be filled with divine guidance and success.

  • @shaziadavids1659
    @shaziadavids1659 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ya Allah Dr Haifa, every lesson I listen of yours, shatters my heart and makes me CRY and sob. May Allah always guide you and grant you the highest ranks in Jannah. From S A❤

  • @SamSam77771
    @SamSam77771 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mashallah a great vlog. Sometimes it's sad and very hard to understand how parents play favorites, are unfair, abuse and fail to love the only child who really wants them. Exhausted and bitter I just turn to Allah...and pray hard hoping to forget it all. I look at the lesser fortunate people, my friends, my house help and pretend they are my family. And Sabr comes.

    • @Ilovemd-p3f
      @Ilovemd-p3f ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah swt open their eyes and hearts and put love and mercy in their hearts Ameen🤲🏻❤️

    • @SamSam77771
      @SamSam77771 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ilovemd-p3f Ya rabbul Alamin. I want to ask Dr NAK so much. About aging parents...when elderly abuse sets in....and u witness it and can do nothing except pray. How to help parents come out of the clutches of selfish greedy narcissistic kids.

    • @_-FreePalestine-_
      @_-FreePalestine-_ ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah SWT bless your parent's heart with so much love and affection towards you and may they show it every single day and may you do the same for them. May Allah SWT soften your siblings hearts towards your parents and May He SWT bless your family and your home and fill with with joy, Dikr and laughter ❤ Ameen. Allah SWT is always with you.

    • @SamSam77771
      @SamSam77771 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@_-FreePalestine-_ AMEEN SOOM AMEEB Sis or Brother? U r too kind and bring tears to my eyes. I pray your prayers are granted. I was so disturbed. Allah blessed me ur support and duas.

  • @TonyWr-wg9cf
    @TonyWr-wg9cf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just need to move forward. I have feelings and emotions too. Thank you allah for everything 🙏❤️

  • @phd_suguru
    @phd_suguru ปีที่แล้ว

    Always find myself come back to this

  • @sohanurrahman9851
    @sohanurrahman9851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And salam to Nouman Ali khan

  • @annoor_quranic_school_7418
    @annoor_quranic_school_7418 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I recommends all Muslim Ummah to pray for oppressed Palestine Muslims brothers and sisters. 👏👏

  • @LearnQuranWords
    @LearnQuranWords ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah help us with understanding, patience and in having rahmah on parents and others of creation. May Allah grant us His Rahmah.

  • @sohanurrahman9851
    @sohanurrahman9851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many many thanks form Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩

  • @apuislam8303
    @apuislam8303 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's a wonderful information for everyone basically for I, even though, I trying to viable behavior to my parents for entire time, you know, you open my deeper eyes. I owe you one for that.

  • @durdurdikir4021
    @durdurdikir4021 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yaa Rabbi Yaa Rahman Yaa Raheem...Forgive Us and Grant Us Success😢🤲🏾

  • @rosequartz3783
    @rosequartz3783 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My brother, he is 18 years old he’s very rude & very disrespectful he gives my parents such a hard time and even hurts their emotions. he avoids going into public places with my dad out of embarrassment, he is always looking at what my mum has and be like why do you have that this should be mine, she doesn’t appreciate any single thing my parents do for him. please guys please please please pray for him that he changes that Allah guides him

  • @arifatahsin2083
    @arifatahsin2083 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah..it's down to earth..and full of practical guidance .. Jazakallahu khairan.

  • @modolucci
    @modolucci ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really miss the longer videos :(

  • @faysal1261
    @faysal1261 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great one much needed today. Jazakallah.

  • @hudajamil3890
    @hudajamil3890 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u 😂 that makes me feel a bit better .. even though i may have been the teacher. Muhammad saaw loved hearing the Quran when others recited it.😊.

  • @fahadali-kl2dn
    @fahadali-kl2dn ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhan'ALLAH ❤
    Insightful, so true

  • @Gain_Knowledge7
    @Gain_Knowledge7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Abu Hurayra said, "I heard Abu'l-Qasim say, 'The best of you in Islam is the best of you in character when they possess understanding (of the deen)." Al-Adab Al-Mufrad Sahih (Al-Albani)

  • @Arwiedi
    @Arwiedi ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah…Jazaakumullahu khairan

  • @Traveller_Healing_Process
    @Traveller_Healing_Process ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite personality mashallah!

  • @phomR
    @phomR ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this! Learned soo much. Thanks

  • @kousaranjum639
    @kousaranjum639 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost my parents 😢sometimes they were test to me I did my best lowered my wings 🪽 may Allah swt grant them jannah

  • @LilLion1818
    @LilLion1818 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Birds also open their wings to attack or to defend themselves 😊

  • @petal21
    @petal21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    رب ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا

  • @MeemNun_ALiF_Revived_LykNvrB4
    @MeemNun_ALiF_Revived_LykNvrB4 ปีที่แล้ว

    BASMALA
    when considered as 1st AYAH in Fatihaa .. makes most SENSE .. coz then it matches with the 7 habits ..

  • @CoolDude-sf6rd
    @CoolDude-sf6rd ปีที่แล้ว

    السلام عليكم incredible information

  • @nafuafrida
    @nafuafrida ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this❤

  • @ملاحتپوپلزایی
    @ملاحتپوپلزایی ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ماشاءالله تبارك الله الحمدالله 🎉شيخ

  • @FatimaMarong-be8gj
    @FatimaMarong-be8gj ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @mosunolaribigbe3446
    @mosunolaribigbe3446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant as usual 👏 👌

  • @astghferseb724
    @astghferseb724 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah
    Alhamdulillah
    La Ilaha Illa Allah
    Allahu Akbar🌹

  • @soniazakir3934
    @soniazakir3934 ปีที่แล้ว

    JazakAllah ustad 💙

  • @Nuzzek
    @Nuzzek ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He says when you were young your parents did everything for you. Ofcourse i love my mother and father but what if the parents were really bad parents who did not take care of their children, abusive parents who done really bad to their children and still are treating their children really bad and using them in a bad way. I try to find lectures about how we should behave and guars ourselves with these kind of parents please

    • @kamaalsoeker4431
      @kamaalsoeker4431 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even if they were not Muslim, Islam teaches us to be kind to them regardless. There's a huge lesson in that for those who reflect ❤

    • @chronosverse4797
      @chronosverse4797 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I believe Ustad has already given the answer to your question. In short: Allah has told us to to distance ourself from toxic parents/relatives/friends when we have the ability to, this does not necessarily mean to sever our ties completely with them; if they ever come back to apologize to you, then forgive them if you find it in your heart. Bit if you believe that what they've commited is too grave then leave them in the hands of Allah.
      Either way, I hope you search and watch the video in which Sheikh explained how to deal with these situations islamically, assalamualaikum.

    • @sabaakram9333
      @sabaakram9333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sir Nouman already said that ..
      They are test for us

  • @enmei__________
    @enmei__________ ปีที่แล้ว

    Abu Huraira reported:
    The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
    “Whoever recites ‘Say: He is Allah, the One,’ (112:1) ten times, a palace will be built for him in Paradise. Whoever recites it twenty times, two palaces will be built for him. Whoever recites it thirty times, three palaces will be built for him.”
    Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ lil-Ṭabarānī 281
    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

  • @jacktayloor
    @jacktayloor ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all:
    May Allah give success, victory and freedom to our brother and sister in Palastine. Aameen
    The reminder you gave is great, but the acting could/should be reviewed introspectively imho.
    Of course, now and then jokes can be made, but if the talk centers around this and oneself, then it's time to check and correct it, according to the Sunnah.
    Islam isn't a comedy show ☝️
    May Allah correct our affairs, strengthen our Iman and let us be steadfast. Aameen
    #palastinewillbefree

  • @Mrjasurhere
    @Mrjasurhere ปีที่แล้ว

    I want a hutba about the situation in Palestine ❤❤❤

  • @UzmaKhan-g8x
    @UzmaKhan-g8x ปีที่แล้ว

    You don’t have to say anything regarding prayers we are constantly doing that

  • @Arabicclasses2
    @Arabicclasses2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Subhanallah ❤❤😢

  • @astghferseb724
    @astghferseb724 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    َ'' What led you into Hell Fire?
    They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43)
    🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers🌹

  • @luqmanramzan3712
    @luqmanramzan3712 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting

  • @shimmerjaysondelalu
    @shimmerjaysondelalu ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam alaikum sheikh..

  • @hauwaabubakar9594
    @hauwaabubakar9594 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Question: how can someone lower their wings to a parent who has not been there in their life? Whose only contribution was in giving birth to you, but has contributed nothing in upbringing.

  • @fahmidasultana3294
    @fahmidasultana3294 ปีที่แล้ว

    when ur father always torture ur mother,raise his hands badly,verbal abuse,then what should we do against such kind of mother?? what will be our duties.what islam says..
    let be tortured ur mother by ur father?? hope someone with hikmah will answer me

  • @fatimaayub201
    @fatimaayub201 ปีที่แล้ว

    Food for way of conduct..

  • @pencaritokek
    @pencaritokek ปีที่แล้ว

    from which surah is this please? lower the wings of humility out of love

  • @mpiiya_2007.
    @mpiiya_2007. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please where is the ayah he had started, in which surah is this, please can someone tell me?

  • @s-evo7015
    @s-evo7015 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you give the reference from where you quoted this ayah plz?

  • @arminkhan7416
    @arminkhan7416 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please tell me the chapter and the verse number

  • @i_Zareena
    @i_Zareena ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I find the full video

  • @jenajej147
    @jenajej147 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ofcourse if i have wings at the first place! They are putting hand cuffs from gold , idont want gold i want wings im 24 damn it , but a girl , i have money but yet can freely use it!
    May allah help me with dealing with this nonsense life

  • @DeenislamAsia
    @DeenislamAsia ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you please talk about the terrorism facing by palestinian people, what israel is doing with our muslim brothers and sisters and here we are doing lectures on parent child relationships

  • @dr.lubna78
    @dr.lubna78 ปีที่แล้ว

    تندی باد مخالف سے نہ گھبرا اے عقاب ۔
    یہ تو چلتی ہے تجھے اونچا اڑانے کے لیے ۔

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    Familyyyyyy familiessss systems.

  • @AdamBinDawood
    @AdamBinDawood 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍

  • @noorfatimaaofficial
    @noorfatimaaofficial ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to talk to You Sir😢 Plzzz

    • @Aesh004
      @Aesh004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't get hurt by someone who you might never meet. Its a psychic think may be and leads a subconscious of mind far astray. Hope Yyou get to talk to him.

    • @teddycabana
      @teddycabana ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Aesh004Salam alaikum wat?

    • @Aesh004
      @Aesh004 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teddycabana I said hope you get to talk to him

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    Frontfront Familyyyy

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    down.

  • @anonymousgirl8706
    @anonymousgirl8706 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pray for Palestinian 🇵🇸

    • @theredbomb
      @theredbomb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May Allah protect them and grant them victory over the oppressors

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    E, who iam

  • @thasneedbabu8431
    @thasneedbabu8431 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just have to tell you something why don't people talk about Gaza or Palestinians, there are many muftis there on TH-cam giving beautiful lectures, and all are helpful maybe, but when some of our brothers need help even if it is through your words and plz talk about those spineless, brainless, traders and foodies Arab leaders, are there any ashamed society than this umma and world leaders, though they were gifted and granted the most precious thing in the world( OIL) which controls the world's economy, they are like a donkey, this is the Azab of Allah once people the one forget their Maksath of Dunya and lose the fear of Allah and fear someone else.
    Dare to talk about those spinless Arab leaders if it awakens them or help out brothers in Palestinians.
    Allah's Apostle said, "Help your brother, whether he is an oppressor or he is an oppressed one. People asked, "O Allah's Apostle! It is all right to help him if he is oppressed.

  • @hellonightmare1394
    @hellonightmare1394 ปีที่แล้ว

    A.Salam there is a brother in Pakistan who has seen Prophet Muhammad(SAW) and Allah(SWT) more than 800 times and has divine dreams about Islam and Pakistan
    The only way for Pakistan and Islam to survive is if we remove shrik and it’s form in Pakistan and Allah(SWT) will help
    So plz whoever is reading this research yourself if he is lying or no I’m saying he is not lying
    Plz brother and sisters listen to Muhammad Qasim dreams and he is the Imam Mahdi. People are calling him Imam Mahdi and he NEVER claimed he is Imam Mahdi

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    Work on Earthearthhh land

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    E.

  • @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe
    @FarhiaFarah-wg5qe ปีที่แล้ว

    Nonseseseseseses EvEr, whowho

  • @nickalan8586
    @nickalan8586 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @astghferseb724
    @astghferseb724 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah
    Alhamdulillah
    La Ilaha Illa Allah
    Allahu Akbar🌹

  • @astghferseb724
    @astghferseb724 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    SubhanAllah
    Alhamdulillah
    La Ilaha Illa Allah
    Allahu Akbar🌹