I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
Miss Henry (Maya) - I wanted to reach out and share something with you. Several years ago, my nephew came out "gay", so naturally, believing this to be abnormal and a mental illness, I went in search of ammunition to use against his decision and coming out. On my searching endeavors, I came across you, much before your surgery. I was intrigued by your mannerisms. So every once and awhile I'd catch up with what was happening in your life, your aspirations, dreams, hopes and I watched as you shared almost every aspect of your transition. Along with way I realized wait - She's not mentally ill or any of that. Maya seems genuine. Well now years have passed and I've found, for this old Baby Boomer that perhaps nature got you wrong. At one point in pregnancy we're all both male and female, and the fathers gene's take over and decide the sex. It's obvious to me you were meant to be a girl (lady). Nothing about you is a boy (man) nothing! I wanted to share this with you because if I can change my mind and reasonings along these beliefs, than I'm clearly in the wrong and need to leave it alone. You've actually helped me, image that. Peace !
I just had sex with a cisman for the first time last week. As we started, we discovered that the angle of my vagi was quite different than that of a ciswoman. I started freaking out. I already had issues with my bottom surgery quality. The guy wasn’t fazed. He led me to different positions until we found one that worked. He was patient with me when I got upset. He assured me that everything was okay. It was the right way to respond, as far as I can feel. I might go for a revision, for a few other reasons, but regardless, I’m really lucky that he was my first experience, because he was kind and treated me as a person with feelings.
@@ronferguson9695no, biological *males* (sex can be different from gender) who's gender identity is congruent with his sex assigned at birth. Cis is the opposite of trans. Not all biological males are men, not all men are biological males.
You are so sweet, and I think that's what makes you so good at delivering all of this information. It's easy to learn from someone patient enough to explain it!
Hello Maya❤️ I can honestly say, the first time I seen one of your videos, I actually didn't know you were trans, not till I had seen several of your videos. By the time I had heard you say the word trans, I already thought of you as a beautiful woman, that I wish we were friends, cause I think your an awesome girl, I've been hurt too many times to want anything but friends. But I have always thought of you as a Beautiful woman that I wish was a friend. Love you girl❤
I'm dating a transgender woman, and she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen and the first woman I've dated. I'm so glad I've found your channel and this video. You give valuable information and food for thought. You're so patient and you put things plain and simple. Plus you don't judge us or see us as rude when we ask questions! :)
I am getting so much from your wonderful videos. You, Maya are being so authentic and encouraging. We are all on a journey, and my own wish is to find someone like you; a beautiful, intelligent and caring woman. I want to share my life with someone like that. Thank you so much for your excellent advice and coaching. You rock, girl!
Great video Maya. I feel like most of this does not apply to me because I have never ever been attracted to men in any way (abusive father), so I am a gold star lesbian. I am not straight at all -- don't get me wrong, I went on a couple dates and fooled around a little bit, but I was disgusted by the pressure and mansplaining. Most of my relationships have been "trans for trans" T4T because there is almost no chance that I am being fetishized, zero chance for mansplaining, and I feel that I have always been treated like a woman (except for one girl who was always a bottom -- and I felt used because she made it all about her). I also have explored several other non-traditional relationship styles like polyamory and a recent throuple situation. My best relationship now is a non-intimate one with a beautiful femme cis woman who has ALWAYS said the right things and made me feel like a beautiful woman. We have more of an emotional relationship, but we do make out a little bit; I do wish that we were closer, but it is truly so good otherwise. I just want to live my life and feel companionship and love -- just like EVERY other human.
Being a Pre-Op Trans myself & who Was married for a decade, it’s all about communication & compromises in long relationships. Plus? If you don’t have that connection & love for each other? Then you’re just waisting time with that partner. Back in the Dating pool? Being Trans? Makes it hard to find someone who have a good balance in being with you. Judgmental, insecurities, fetishers, and self centered types litter the dating space badly. I dated a post op Trans who was so self centered into themselves? They never once said I looked good while dating them. That was during those two very abrasive months, constantly saying aloud to themselves: “I look good, I’m so damn good looking….” While smiling staring constantly in the mirror or pics of themselves. Felt like I was talking to a wall to. I did my best to look good on a date out, & never once got a compliment, just them asking how they’re looking so damn fine. They never asked about my life? Always about theirs. About myself, knowing your flaws helps to. I’m all about Love & Care, but the moment it gets questioned when I’ve fallen to hard for them? Is when I have to step back & make sure I’m not being to much. So I definitely agree with ALL you said in this video Maya. Great video! Love it when you’re so open to tell it like it is for you. 😘👍
Love this Video! Me as a trans woman agree with the whole Video. However my opinion is if you like trans women pre op than maybe it’s just a complete category on its own.
Maya: You are a real trooper! Keep up the good work! You are a beautiful young lady who has a lot to offer. I appreciate the courage you exhibit in your approach to these issues. You are helping many of us understand the struggles of being a trans gendered lady. 😍
Dear Maya, you shed so much light on these matters for us ordinary hetero people out here, who find all of these things so confusing. Getting to know you is such an eye opening as well as enjoyable experience. ❤ Blessings
This was such "Killer" content! I've followed you a long time, to see this level of maturity is so refreshing ! Your beauty and personal maturity is electric! I'm almost 80, starting HRT, very much influenced by you content. Thank you!❤❤
@@jeromesamuels8977 ikr, might as well just see things through at this point. Can't be healthy for someone's body to go through such a drastic change?
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
Trans people are never ''true'' to themselves, like if someone claim to be ''trans'' it means they do not accept what they are since the womb and they biew themselves negatively, completely going against reality is what they do instead of actually accepting that they can not change what is impossible to change which is biology.
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
More thoughtful words of wisdom from Maya! Yes! I agree with everything you said. I always find you one of the wisest and most humanistic (if I can use that term here) people in the trans community. You inspire me every time I listen to a new post from you. I love your sense of humor and your playful attitude. Thank you for all your posts. Sorry you have to put up with so much hate from the transphobes out there. Seriously, how could anyone feel hate towards someone as warm and beautiful (inside and out) as you? I admire your courage Maya. You are such a good person. Keep up the good work. The world is definitely a better place with you in it!
A pandabulous video Maya. I've had hard times finding and keeping partners too but I think I've now found my forever partner. She's very supportive. Being trans in the best and worst journey but I wouldn't have it any other way. Looking forward to your next video.🐼💖🏳⚧
As a Romanian woman born and raised in the 80s Romania with an old fashion mentality, I see you and I see a woman. Ok pre op you were a trans woman but ( in my humble opinion) you did it all for being a woman on outside ( because inside you were born a woman anyway)and still have a lot of problems with a lot of fk people it’s not fair for you …I am really sorry that you can’t live you’re life as a woman 💯 and you must always think and explain yourself, and the stigma and a lot off bs people saying things about you 😢. I admire you because you are a f strong woman ❤️
@@Ruministania Tu crezi ca m am trezit vorbind aiurea in tranvai ?😂poza e de acum câțiva ani ca nu țin neapărat să o schimb în fiecare an …am 42 de ani și da îmi amintesc bine și de când era Ceaușescu și de mentalitatea care era și care din păcate mai este …unele femei încearcă să se mențină bine și cu trecerea anilor 😉
I love this. Maya everything you said is so true. Ive dated two trans women that were pre-op and did not look like men at all. In the relationship to me they were women and both lived to be treated like not only a woman but a person. The only reason we didn't stay together was because one moved out of the country and I couldn't leave with her and the second one wanted to get into the porn and I didn't agree with it. Much like you said, your either in it because you care and love the person and not for a fetish or experimentation
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
Can I say that you are really pretty, and have gorgeous eyes. I am a single man, a batchelor ( never married. ). I will make friends with anyone, but I am attracted to a pretty face. I do not care if trans, or a straight women. I would treat a trans the same as a born women. If you can make me laugh, and can make a good friend, I am happy. Anyway, all the best.
Such a wonderful video! (from another trans woman who is currently navigating dating). I may send this video to any guy that expresses interest from now on as homework lol
Thanks for video really interesting, I’d never intentionally look to date a trans woman but wouldn’t be a problem for me and wouldn’t bother me if she felt she had to hide it in the beginning. I would treat her like a princess and make her feel special. If anyone had a problem with me dating a trans woman that would just make me question if they are the sort of people I want in my life. Sending you love and positive vibes ❤
I've always been of the mind that everyone deserves to be treated fairly, no matter who you are, or your lifestyle, orientation etc. I grew up in the 80's and 90's back when things were way more conservative. Things like being gay or bi were out of the question. Yet even as a teen and young adult I had fantasies like we all do. But as I got older and learned more about myself and what I like I learned to appreciate the experiences and partners I shared them with more. While the majority of my partners have been women over the years, one of my best and favorite experiences was with a beautiful trans person. Another time was with a guy I had met. He had this magnetism about him that could not be denied. Plus being really cute didn't hurt his case either. I guess what I'm trying to say is that as I've gotten older, I've learned to appreciate beauty in life wherever we can find it. And if it leads to a pleasurable experience I'm all for it.
WOW Maya, I love what you have to say and your perspective. As a straight, Afro-Canadian male, I want to tell you that I think you're beautiful, intelligent and classy as hell. I would date you in a New York minute. Thank you for posting.
Also just about the "is it gay" thing, there is a very interesting TED talk about how men are biologically coded to like penises, as in we are obsessed by them, our own and others in a sense. This was used as an explanation about trans porn, since most of the ppl consuming it are straight men, but studies show that it might be because its a hot woman but with a penis which we idololize biologically etc.
Dear Maya, seeing you and listening to you gives hope for a civilised life for us humans in the future. Thank you for your emancipatory commitment. Satisfaction and happiness for you in your courageous being
maya, I admire your guts in trying to dissolve the stigma around trans women, as you say we all have the same blood running through our bodies keep doing what you do .
It's important to note that while this video is mostly addressed toward potential male partners, some trans women are mostly or exclusively attracted to women. Being a lesbian is a thing, just like for cis women. All the comments about respect and family and such still apply, but intimacy and attraction are obviously different. As always, thank you for a thoughtful, honest video.
As always, your words of your own view on the matter align with mine and this video is very educational and I hope this helps people with their questions on the matter after all we like what we like ❤ you are a force and I adore your content now as always, keep it flowing ❤
Especially regarding the insecurities with the body. Not only transpeople suffer from this. I'm a cis guy, who has a very difficult relationship with my own body. I don't find myself attractive at all, I have a "dad bod" and I in general don't find myself comfortable in my own skin, as I should be. So when you say that everybody has some issues, I can totally relate to that.
Your video showed in my feed, I am subbed, so I watched the whole thing. Here is my humble opinions: 1. Confirmation bias heavy instructions in this video, but personal investment makes this a forgivable human trait. 2. Science used in validating the narrative, but ONLY when perceived to bolster the argument, wherein all other science is ignored entirely, or discarded as phobic and archaic. 3. Inflation of academic study outcomes, with conclusions drawn without comprehending the linked study's lack of any Standard of Division validity, as well as ignoring underwelming single study limitations, resulting in grossly inflating illusionary outcomes to fit The Narrative. Refer back to #1. 4. Entirely morally vacant dialogue. Lifestyle = to stand for nothing but Self, falling infinitely for everything, as long as it feels good for now, resulting in amorality and debaucherous hedonism. It is your choice, however, so have at it. 5. High disillusionment probability for any target engaging with host, due to the image sold not matching the stark reality, resulting in a chronic and unfulfilling revolving door of multiple social and sexual engagements, with a wasteful trail of trauma and objectification left behind for both the host and their liaisons. 6. Confusing personal boundaries with ethical standards. Refer back to #4 and #5. 7. The mantra call for empathy, love is love, feelings above reason, and removal of all shame is singularly legitimized. Hypocrisy prevails, howver, as shame and brutality will be the tools used by host against any dissenters, no matter a mirroring call to empathy for their own value system, morals, and religious beliefs that simply are misaligned with host's amoral hedonism. Simply put, a standard of "empathy for me, but not for thee" is wielded with wide spreading brutality. See #8. 8. Any disillusionment or challenge towards host is labeled "phobic," which this commentor notes as utterly ironic, because phobias are very real and life threatening dangers passed down in human archtypal collective unconscious, and should be listened to, not shamed (ie, spiders, snakes, heights, flying, falling, deep water, confined spaces, etc are innate phobias because they WILL absolutely kill a human when ignored). So, what ironic witchery is actually being stated when calling someone "phobic" who refuses to normalize the abnormality of trans? So...Yes. Yes, indeed yes! Absolutely phobic, because this is very, very dangerous to lifestyles that refuse woke ideologies, and our daily news feeds expose these suffered costs. And surely, the belittling call to get "better educated" is wilfully and utterly synonymous with "indoctrination." See #7. 9. You ask frequently, "You know?" No. No, I do not. And I choose not to, and that should be just fine between us. See #10. 10. In conclusion: You are lovely, just lovely. Most importantly, you are human, and as such I respect and love you; not because you demand it from me, but rather my Lord asks it of me. Enjoy your choices, accepting the consequences thereof. Just don't censor, nor censure, me and mine into validating or integrating your lifestyle into my norma!cy. And don't call me foul names like "cis" and "hetero-normative" and "breeder," and in return will be the ubiquitous compassion to not call you folks hurtful names either. Peace be with you.
Wow ! Best talk I ever heard on the subject ! Also , aside from the fact you can't bear children you are a woman absolutely and the term "trans" is really unfair to you in my estimation ! I remember you from years ago and know that your journey to this point has not been easy by any stretch of the imagination !
What great advice, centered on good, healthy relationships, not toys - unless that's what people want, no shame :-) Also, just wanted to say, every single girl I've been with had shit they were insecure with about their bodies. Honestly, it's annoying because I've never seen what they had a problem with, but you learn just to manage it however works best for her. (^that probably sounds cold, but like I said, it never made sense to me, so I just learned to figure out what makes it better - which seems like basically nothing lol, but different girls need different things around that, so it's always a learning process. I'm sure it's the same with trans, but just a guess, it's just not that abnormal in my experience)
Do you have any thoughts about T4T dating or being in a lesbian relationship as a transwoman? Since starting my transition about 4 months ago from a straight guy to a transwoman, I've not changed my sexual preference but I have noticed that I'm now finding other transwoman to be particularly attractive and also interesting to converse with. I'm not finding this feeling unpleasant, but I do find it odd. Another thing I've noticed is that I am getting far more attention from both cis and trans women as a non-passing transwoman than I got as a straight man. I guess that I am still in that early phase of my transition whereby I have a pretty good male physique and yet wear hyperfeminine clothes and have better makeup than the vast majority of women. I'm finding that girls / women whom I had thought were out of my league previously are only too happy now to kiss and fool around with me, but never take it further. Getting the attention is nice, but it feels that they see me as some kind of play thing that they don't take seriously.
I am a straight man and I watched this because I was genuinely curious to hear from a trans person about some of these topics, just to get that perspective. The first 6 minutes I think were quite informative but once the third topic after the intro started, some of the side comments were kind of pointless and putting down those who don't want to be with a trans person. I had to skip over some of it as it was quite off-putting, and frankly is counterintuitive with Maya's desire to be accepted and not treated differently. The whole study about being attracted to a trans person has nothing to do with being gay so I agree with Maya and the study, it just seems unrelated to the topic. Maya looks a lot like a woman so a straight man being attracted to Maya or some other man that is trans would not be gay. Being friends with a trans person is not gay. However, actually dating and sleeping with one is gay. It's two men for goodness sake. Of course, regarding trans who have the surgery, people will have differing opinions, but surgery doesn't change who someone is. If the partner is gay that's totally fine, but a straight person should not be deceived and the trans person should be open to their partner that they are trans. It sounds like Maya is very open and would be very open in that conversation so I respect that.
This came up in my feed and so want to gloat about the beautiful world of T4T. I’m in a T4T Hetero relationship. It is the most gender affirming thing ever. Everything feels so natural and as it should be. I had trouble presenting as a cis hetero but figured as I’m not attracted to cis males I must be attracted to cis females which I am but difficult having a sexual relationship when I have to be masculine dom. oh dear. So I had relationship aversion and then when I’d be in a relationship I’d have sexual aversion as being the male triggers gender dysphoria. Now it’s 100% gender euphoria 😊
Maya you look ravishing. You have everything together with hair, make-up, jewelry and blouse.❤ ... Paul isn't my name my name is Pamela and I'm trans too.
Had a question Maya. What is your long term goal with relationships. Is it to get married to one person? Is it to remain unmarried with one partner? Is it to be single and focus more on situationships? Where do you see yourself relationship-wise when you're 60 or 70 years old? I ask because everyone's goals tend to be different depending on their sexuality, etc.
I enjoyed this video, I have always admired trans women even though I am cis female. I have always felt compassion for trans community in general. I just really wish trans women didn't think that all cis gender women hate them or are jealous but their are a percentage of us cis females that don't hate on trans women. I just really wanted you to know that. I say all these things with love and kindness. Please know I think trans women are gorgeous and I do have follow many trans women with platforms. Yes, I'm pansexual but I watch them for educational reasons and to learn how to be sensitive and kind towards them. Blessings ❤
Your could not have said it better. What I found is you get so many “chasers”. When you are with someone it’s almost more like a “experience” rather than a relationship.
Through my son I know two trans people, both AFAB young trans men. One of them still hasn't told his parents but is certain his father has figured it out and is okay with it. However his mother is a woman of "certain convictions", which is to say not very tolerant. It's very sad. Incidentally it seems that I'm an outlier, in my 60's and more concerned with people being strong, happy, morally mindful and a positive influence in society. Gender isn't really relevant. Sexual preferences and exactly what you genitals are like isn't any of my business. Being a good human being is my personal benchmark. My experience (as a retired university professor) is that gay, bi and trans people have had to think through a lot of issues. It makes many of them stronger and more philosophical. I wish the general population was more accepting, there's really nothing to fear (any more than people in the rest of society, at least).
respecting a persons personhood is a must for society to seal the divide along with dismantling the ideas that keep the world from seeing trans people as nothing more but a resource to obtain.
You are amazing and beautiful and informative. I know from your posts, and from what I have learned in the real world, that it is imperative to be respectful of all and not just leap. But damn, lady you have it going on.
I'm honestly kinda happy I came out once I was already in a stable relationship. Dating as a transwoman sounds so hard and scary. I'm so blessed my partner loves me for me.
Well done for being your best self regardless of how you got there. A funny conversation I had with my daughters just before xmas was them asking if I was Gay.(divorced). When I asked why they said I must have a gay gene to have 2 daughters who are both gay. Had to laugh though.
My girlfriend has two close friends who are transgender; these two girls are very pretty, & well established in their appearance. As a cross dresser myself, I can understand the hardships they go through; they accept me for who I am, and love to give me hugs, when I'm dressed like a girl. I believe that transgender woman ♀️ are women, & the poisons of social norms is the real problem. Maya Henry; you are as pretty as my girlfriend, & her friends, who I 💕 love to be with, & I wish you all the best.❤😂❤🎉😅❤😊.
I started transitioning about 11 years ago and due to health it's taking a lot longer and then I've been out of the dating pool for both 15 years now and the idea of dating is kind of terrifying
I’m a transsexual female and while I don’t date men anymore I do have a very very close friend who does and she actually described her elucidating experience watching (of all things) a Jerry Springer episode from the 90s. She said that seeing very intelligent and beautiful trans women with boyfriends who are proud to be with them had a profound effect on her. As you said it is very important to be with a man who will not only uplift you but will be proud to do so, and they’re definitely out there! It’s a dated episode regarding the terminology used but beyond that it’s an extremely interesting and very raw time capsule that truly depicts the beauty and excellence of trans women. th-cam.com/video/CZ7wBXNXdZE/w-d-xo.htmlsi=rvlOZ6DPZMOpMdDD
Thank you very much for the suggestion of watching that show. It was great, very interesting, and all of the ladies were stunning, gorgeous and brave! 😍
Maya, this video has been so informative to me and I really appreciate you. You are so pretty that you probably don't have any issues but Ilove your attitude about everything. Love you much.
I thought that when I became a trans woman that I would start to love men but I don't I still love women and I thought something was wrong with me. I have felt female all my life but was brought up that men with women and vice versa but I feel why I would change if I want to be a lesbian but I can't help the way I feel ❤❤
Great video, Maya it was very insightful. I decided that at the beginning of the year, I want to date trans woman only. 2023 was an exploration year for me, and I found that I am most attracted to trans on a physical and mental level. I also have family and friends who are transgender and I openly support them, and I'm an ally to the community as well. I had to watch your video a few times to let all that you said sink in. Keep up the great work, and I can't wait for your next video on relationships.
Dating trans person, my advice is simple... don't be a dick. treat them like anyone else. be mindful of their unique struggles. be aware of what they may be sensitive to and do not bring them up. If they bring those things up, show empathy to them. This video is good. for those who get older and in a ltr and this is your life partner, accepting their fertility is HIGHLY IMPORTANT. it is a small part of this video, but i cannot overstate the importance of this. even non-trans relationships fall a part due this issue. If you cannot accept that early on, forget it. Maya is unique in this space as an influencer. She is almost unbelievably even keeled and balanced in her statements without being as radical in her statements and beliefs.
Hey Maya, Just wanted to comment on your movie. Dawn,Her Dad and the tractor. I watched it last night and cried most of the time. You're an amazing actress and I'm glad I found it. Thank You!
I live in Asia which is the worlds largest demographic of these women ! Over here, which is so nice, soft, and gentle, they are referred to as "special women" :) My girlfriend has had "zero" transitioning and is more loving, feminine, beautiful, and ladylike, than any American women iv`e interacted with. Special women in Asia have evolved over a thousand years and are "revered" with honor and respect and treated as "priceless gems" :)
I’ve been following you since the beginning of your journey, finding you as really a brave woman going her own way. Unfortunately I’m a old, old man with old children who probably wouldn’t understand my attraction. But always wishing you well and will follow you until you decide to stop . Bless you ❤️♍️🗝🧙🏻♂️
Why is the internet always the avenue for meeting people? It just seems like the people who are using apps as a tool for deception and potentially dangerous situations considering they are complete strangers.. but maybe I'm just too old fashioned..
"Where can I find a trans woman to date?" If this is what you're asking yourself, you aren't looking at dating for the right reasons. Just because a person happens to be trans, doesn't mean he/she is some kind of conquest to be marked off on your check sheet. If so, you're a person with zero character and hopefully, you won't find anyone: Trans or Sis that will date you. I am a Sis Gendered Male who is not gay. This is only my opinion.
I agree with this 100% I personally prefer to be single but back when I was considering dating and remotely interested I feel like there were too many people that fetishized me rather than treated me like a human being and with respect when in all reality we’re human just like everyone else.
Great video! Having a trans partner is great. However, I saw the news about an organ transplant on a transwoman and would soon become pregnant in the future. It would be a miracle.
I'm a good looking man who dates females or trans women, depending on who I'm attracted to, and who is better for our chemistry. All I ask is be honest with me, especially when we first form a friendship or a relationship. Don't date me for weeks and not let me know your transgender. I dont bite unless you want me to,lol. But seriously, straight men or anyone I think, would appreciate someone being upfront. And another thing I been experiencing, trans women who are sex workers, I have chatted with many trans women on social media and I am not interested in prostitutes trans or not. I want to meet down to Erath potential partners, someone I would be comfortable with and have meaningful friendship or relationship with. I work full-time, I go to the gym at least 4 days a week. I dont smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol. I do like weed or edibles, those are good for my sleep and appitite and stress. Plus I like to get stoned occasionally. I'm being honest. I have been interested in trans women most of my life, I wish you trans women were more available when I was younger. It was difficult to meet anyone who were trans 25-30 years ago. I was 20 years old when I had my first relationship with a trans women I meet, at first I was attracted to her pretty face and beautiful legs she had. She had small brests , because she was doing hormones to make her move feminine. I felt compassion for her and she asked me to stay with her overnight with her. I was with her for almost a year. She had to move back to NYC to be with her sick mother, she asked me if I could come with her. I couldn't move from my situation. We kept in touch for a while but I moved on, just memories now. Good memories of a beautiful person I shared a part of my life with ❤. Just a man who loves the beauty of feminine women. ❤❤❤
Maya dropping another great video to no one's surprise
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
Miss Henry (Maya) - I wanted to reach out and share something with you. Several years ago, my nephew came out "gay", so naturally, believing this to be abnormal and a mental illness, I went in search of ammunition to use against his decision and coming out. On my searching endeavors, I came across you, much before your surgery. I was intrigued by your mannerisms. So every once and awhile I'd catch up with what was happening in your life, your aspirations, dreams, hopes and I watched as you shared almost every aspect of your transition. Along with way I realized wait - She's not mentally ill or any of that. Maya seems genuine. Well now years have passed and I've found, for this old Baby Boomer that perhaps nature got you wrong. At one point in pregnancy we're all both male and female, and the fathers gene's take over and decide the sex. It's obvious to me you were meant to be a girl (lady). Nothing about you is a boy (man) nothing! I wanted to share this with you because if I can change my mind and reasonings along these beliefs, than I'm clearly in the wrong and need to leave it alone. You've actually helped me, image that. Peace !
So what about your nephew?
@@ShaneJMcEnteeI love him he’s is family and I support him in his choice
@@Tim_Takacs that's great, but I would say it's not a choice to be gay. It's just who he is
I'm proud of u and I'm so glad that you did ur learning and research and became more accepting!
@@ShaneJMcEnteeI guess what they mean is they respect their choice to live their life in a way that makes them happy
I just had sex with a cisman for the first time last week. As we started, we discovered that the angle of my vagi was quite different than that of a ciswoman. I started freaking out. I already had issues with my bottom surgery quality. The guy wasn’t fazed. He led me to different positions until we found one that worked. He was patient with me when I got upset. He assured me that everything was okay. It was the right way to respond, as far as I can feel. I might go for a revision, for a few other reasons, but regardless, I’m really lucky that he was my first experience, because he was kind and treated me as a person with feelings.
When did you tell him you were a trans woman?
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A Trans Gender woman?
I think is a reasonable question!
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Apparently biological men are now called (Cis male) in the transgender community!
@@ronferguson9695why does that concern you?
@@ronferguson9695no, biological *males* (sex can be different from gender) who's gender identity is congruent with his sex assigned at birth. Cis is the opposite of trans. Not all biological males are men, not all men are biological males.
You are so sweet, and I think that's what makes you so good at delivering all of this information. It's easy to learn from someone patient enough to explain it!
Hello Maya❤️ I can honestly say, the first time I seen one of your videos, I actually didn't know you were trans, not till I had seen several of your videos. By the time I had heard you say the word trans, I already thought of you as a beautiful woman, that I wish we were friends, cause I think your an awesome girl, I've been hurt too many times to want anything but friends. But I have always thought of you as a Beautiful woman that I wish was a friend. Love you girl❤
I'm dating a transgender woman, and she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen and the first woman I've dated. I'm so glad I've found your channel and this video. You give valuable information and food for thought. You're so patient and you put things plain and simple. Plus you don't judge us or see us as rude when we ask questions! :)
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I am getting so much from your wonderful videos. You, Maya are being so authentic and encouraging. We are all on a journey, and my own wish is to find someone like you; a beautiful, intelligent and caring woman. I want to share my life with someone like that. Thank you so much for your excellent advice and coaching. You rock, girl!
He's not going to have sex with you calm down
Great video Maya. I feel like most of this does not apply to me because I have never ever been attracted to men in any way (abusive father), so I am a gold star lesbian. I am not straight at all -- don't get me wrong, I went on a couple dates and fooled around a little bit, but I was disgusted by the pressure and mansplaining.
Most of my relationships have been "trans for trans" T4T because there is almost no chance that I am being fetishized, zero chance for mansplaining, and I feel that I have always been treated like a woman (except for one girl who was always a bottom -- and I felt used because she made it all about her).
I also have explored several other non-traditional relationship styles like polyamory and a recent throuple situation. My best relationship now is a non-intimate one with a beautiful femme cis woman who has ALWAYS said the right things and made me feel like a beautiful woman. We have more of an emotional relationship, but we do make out a little bit; I do wish that we were closer, but it is truly so good otherwise.
I just want to live my life and feel companionship and love -- just like EVERY other human.
You’re so eloquent, like a modern day philosopher 👏🙏 loved this real-talk yet respectful perspective!
Being a Pre-Op Trans myself & who Was married for a decade, it’s all about communication & compromises in long relationships. Plus? If you don’t have that connection & love for each other? Then you’re just waisting time with that partner.
Back in the Dating pool? Being Trans? Makes it hard to find someone who have a good balance in being with you.
Judgmental, insecurities, fetishers, and self centered types litter the dating space badly.
I dated a post op Trans who was so self centered into themselves? They never once said I looked good while dating them. That was during those two very abrasive months, constantly saying aloud to themselves:
“I look good, I’m so damn good looking….”
While smiling staring constantly in the mirror or pics of themselves. Felt like I was talking to a wall to. I did my best to look good on a date out, & never once got a compliment, just them asking how they’re looking so damn fine. They never asked about my life? Always about theirs.
About myself, knowing your flaws helps to. I’m all about Love & Care, but the moment it gets questioned when I’ve fallen to hard for them? Is when I have to step back & make sure I’m not being to much.
So I definitely agree with ALL you said in this video Maya. Great video! Love it when you’re so open to tell it like it is for you. 😘👍
I’m so glad there are TH-cam’s like you Mayr to educate people.
For this reason alone you are an amazing human being.
Educate on what exactly? What do you think the person is ''educating'' them on?
Want to know.
Póngale cero maestro 👨🏫
Wonderful subject Maya ✨ I'm trans and love to have positive creators to listen to! Stay awesome 😎
Love this Video! Me as a trans woman agree with the whole Video. However my opinion is if you like trans women pre op than maybe it’s just a complete category on its own.
Maya: You are a real trooper! Keep up the good work! You are a beautiful young lady who has a lot to offer. I appreciate the courage you exhibit in your approach to these issues. You are helping many of us understand the struggles of being a trans gendered lady. 😍
Dear Maya, you shed so much light on these matters for us ordinary hetero people out here, who find all of these things so confusing. Getting to know you is such an eye opening as well as enjoyable experience. ❤ Blessings
This was such "Killer" content! I've followed you a long time, to see this level of maturity is so refreshing ! Your beauty and personal maturity is electric! I'm almost 80, starting HRT, very much influenced by you content. Thank you!❤❤
Really 80 years old and just going on HRT
@@jeromesamuels8977 ikr, might as well just see things through at this point. Can't be healthy for someone's body to go through such a drastic change?
Society needs more compassion and understanding, you are a pioneer and you can help spread awareness. Great video Maya 👍
Spread awareness of what?
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
a pioneer of what?
Hey Maya.Proud of you. This video is much needed. Stay safe & true to yourself
Trans people are never ''true'' to themselves, like if someone claim to be ''trans'' it means they do not accept what they are since the womb and they biew themselves negatively, completely going against reality is what they do instead of actually accepting that they can not change what is impossible to change which is biology.
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
The thumbnail is one of the best pictures of you ever, Maya.
More thoughtful words of wisdom from Maya! Yes! I agree with everything you said. I always find you one of the wisest and most humanistic (if I can use that term here) people in the trans community. You inspire me every time I listen to a new post from you. I love your sense of humor and your playful attitude. Thank you for all your posts. Sorry you have to put up with so much hate from the transphobes out there. Seriously, how could anyone feel hate towards someone as warm and beautiful (inside and out) as you? I admire your courage Maya. You are such a good person. Keep up the good work. The world is definitely a better place with you in it!
A pandabulous video Maya. I've had hard times finding and keeping partners too but I think I've now found my forever partner. She's very supportive. Being trans in the best and worst journey but I wouldn't have it any other way. Looking forward to your next video.🐼💖🏳⚧
As a Romanian woman born and raised in the 80s Romania with an old fashion mentality, I see you and I see a woman. Ok pre op you were a trans woman but ( in my humble opinion) you did it all for being a woman on outside ( because inside you were born a woman anyway)and still have a lot of problems with a lot of fk people it’s not fair for you …I am really sorry that you can’t live you’re life as a woman 💯 and you must always think and explain yourself, and the stigma and a lot off bs people saying things about you 😢. I admire you because you are a f strong woman ❤️
@@Ruministania Tu crezi ca m am trezit vorbind aiurea in tranvai ?😂poza e de acum câțiva ani ca nu țin neapărat să o schimb în fiecare an …am 42 de ani și da îmi amintesc bine și de când era Ceaușescu și de mentalitatea care era și care din păcate mai este …unele femei încearcă să se mențină bine și cu trecerea anilor 😉
@@Ruministania acum 20 de ani eram la facultate deja anul 3 😂😂😂
I love this. Maya everything you said is so true. Ive dated two trans women that were pre-op and did not look like men at all. In the relationship to me they were women and both lived to be treated like not only a woman but a person. The only reason we didn't stay together was because one moved out of the country and I couldn't leave with her and the second one wanted to get into the porn and I didn't agree with it. Much like you said, your either in it because you care and love the person and not for a fetish or experimentation
I also want to add that im secure in my sexualality and I am not attracted to men. Trans women to me are women whether pre-op or post op.
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
Maya, Another wonderful video. Thank you. I have learned so much through your videos. I could listen to you all day long.
I'm married to a transgender woman since 2019 a lot of reassurance and been there for every major surgery
Super classy and casual glamorous look for this vid. Impressive.
Can I say that you are really pretty, and have gorgeous eyes. I am a single man, a batchelor ( never married. ). I will make friends with anyone, but I am attracted to a pretty face. I do not care if trans, or a straight women. I would treat a trans the same as a born women.
If you can make me laugh, and can make a good friend, I am happy. Anyway, all the best.
Such a wonderful video! (from another trans woman who is currently navigating dating). I may send this video to any guy that expresses interest from now on as homework lol
list it as a Prerequisite to your 101 class :)
Sameeeee
Thanks for video really interesting,
I’d never intentionally look to date a trans woman but wouldn’t be a problem for me and wouldn’t bother me if she felt she had to hide it in the beginning.
I would treat her like a princess and make her feel special.
If anyone had a problem with me dating a trans woman that would just make me question if they are the sort of people I want in my life.
Sending you love and positive vibes ❤
I wish my parents would watch your videos over time. I think it could change their limited world views.
Just want to say you are so PRETTY 🥺♥️
I've always been of the mind that everyone deserves to be treated fairly, no matter who you are, or your lifestyle, orientation etc. I grew up in the 80's and 90's back when things were way more conservative. Things like being gay or bi were out of the question. Yet even as a teen and young adult I had fantasies like we all do. But as I got older and learned more about myself and what I like I learned to appreciate the experiences and partners I shared them with more. While the majority of my partners have been women over the years, one of my best and favorite experiences was with a beautiful trans person. Another time was with a guy I had met. He had this magnetism about him that could not be denied. Plus being really cute didn't hurt his case either. I guess what I'm trying to say is that as I've gotten older, I've learned to appreciate beauty in life wherever we can find it. And if it leads to a pleasurable experience I'm all for it.
WOW Maya, I love what you have to say and your perspective. As a straight, Afro-Canadian male, I want to tell you that I think you're beautiful, intelligent and classy as hell. I would date you in a New York minute.
Thank you for posting.
Just awesome views and ideas. Very open and free ❤ thank you Maya for inspiration 😊
I've followed you off and on for a few years.
Good job and you've earned it
the honest way. Much respect.
Also just about the "is it gay" thing, there is a very interesting TED talk about how men are biologically coded to like penises, as in we are obsessed by them, our own and others in a sense. This was used as an explanation about trans porn, since most of the ppl consuming it are straight men, but studies show that it might be because its a hot woman but with a penis which we idololize biologically etc.
Dear Maya, seeing you and listening to you gives hope for a civilised life for us humans in the future. Thank you for your emancipatory commitment. Satisfaction and happiness for you in your courageous being
Ile Wood be open to now more about trans woman lifes😊
maya, I admire your guts in trying to dissolve the stigma around trans women, as you say we all have the same blood running through our bodies keep doing what you do .
I personally myself I think the best of both worlds would be the bomb
It's important to note that while this video is mostly addressed toward potential male partners, some trans women are mostly or exclusively attracted to women. Being a lesbian is a thing, just like for cis women. All the comments about respect and family and such still apply, but intimacy and attraction are obviously different.
As always, thank you for a thoughtful, honest video.
Maya, I feel what you’re saying! I am autistic and it is hard to explain to people about autism!
As always, your words of your own view on the matter align with mine and this video is very educational and I hope this helps people with their questions on the matter after all we like what we like ❤ you are a force and I adore your content now as always, keep it flowing ❤
Especially regarding the insecurities with the body. Not only transpeople suffer from this.
I'm a cis guy, who has a very difficult relationship with my own body. I don't find myself attractive at all, I have a "dad bod" and I in general don't find myself comfortable in my own skin, as I should be.
So when you say that everybody has some issues, I can totally relate to that.
Your video showed in my feed, I am subbed, so I watched the whole thing. Here is my humble opinions:
1. Confirmation bias heavy instructions in this video, but personal investment makes this a forgivable human trait.
2. Science used in validating the narrative, but ONLY when perceived to bolster the argument, wherein all other science is ignored entirely, or discarded as phobic and archaic.
3. Inflation of academic study outcomes, with conclusions drawn without comprehending the linked study's lack of any Standard of Division validity, as well as ignoring underwelming single study limitations, resulting in grossly inflating illusionary outcomes to fit The Narrative. Refer back to #1.
4. Entirely morally vacant dialogue. Lifestyle = to stand for nothing but Self, falling infinitely for everything, as long as it feels good for now, resulting in amorality and debaucherous hedonism. It is your choice, however, so have at it.
5. High disillusionment probability for any target engaging with host, due to the image sold not matching the stark reality, resulting in a chronic and unfulfilling revolving door of multiple social and sexual engagements, with a wasteful trail of trauma and objectification left behind for both the host and their liaisons.
6. Confusing personal boundaries with ethical standards. Refer back to #4 and #5.
7. The mantra call for empathy, love is love, feelings above reason, and removal of all shame is singularly legitimized. Hypocrisy prevails, howver, as shame and brutality will be the tools used by host against any dissenters, no matter a mirroring call to empathy for their own value system, morals, and religious beliefs that simply are misaligned with host's amoral hedonism. Simply put, a standard of "empathy for me, but not for thee" is wielded with wide spreading brutality. See #8.
8. Any disillusionment or challenge towards host is labeled "phobic," which this commentor notes as utterly ironic, because phobias are very real and life threatening dangers passed down in human archtypal collective unconscious, and should be listened to, not shamed (ie, spiders, snakes, heights, flying, falling, deep water, confined spaces, etc are innate phobias because they WILL absolutely kill a human when ignored). So, what ironic witchery is actually being stated when calling someone "phobic" who refuses to normalize the abnormality of trans? So...Yes. Yes, indeed yes! Absolutely phobic, because this is very, very dangerous to lifestyles that refuse woke ideologies, and our daily news feeds expose these suffered costs. And surely, the belittling call to get "better educated" is wilfully and utterly synonymous with "indoctrination." See #7.
9. You ask frequently, "You know?" No. No, I do not. And I choose not to, and that should be just fine between us. See #10.
10. In conclusion: You are lovely, just lovely. Most importantly, you are human, and as such I respect and love you; not because you demand it from me, but rather my Lord asks it of me. Enjoy your choices, accepting the consequences thereof. Just don't censor, nor censure, me and mine into validating or integrating your lifestyle into my norma!cy. And don't call me foul names like "cis" and "hetero-normative" and "breeder," and in return will be the ubiquitous compassion to not call you folks hurtful names either.
Peace be with you.
Wow ! Best talk I ever heard on the subject ! Also , aside from the fact you can't bear children you are a woman absolutely and the term "trans" is really unfair to you in my estimation !
I remember you from years ago and know that your journey to this point has not been easy by any stretch of the imagination !
What great advice, centered on good, healthy relationships, not toys - unless that's what people want, no shame :-)
Also, just wanted to say, every single girl I've been with had shit they were insecure with about their bodies. Honestly, it's annoying because I've never seen what they had a problem with, but you learn just to manage it however works best for her.
(^that probably sounds cold, but like I said, it never made sense to me, so I just learned to figure out what makes it better - which seems like basically nothing lol, but different girls need different things around that, so it's always a learning process. I'm sure it's the same with trans, but just a guess, it's just not that abnormal in my experience)
Do you have any thoughts about T4T dating or being in a lesbian relationship as a transwoman?
Since starting my transition about 4 months ago from a straight guy to a transwoman, I've not changed my sexual preference but I have noticed that I'm now finding other transwoman to be particularly attractive and also interesting to converse with. I'm not finding this feeling unpleasant, but I do find it odd.
Another thing I've noticed is that I am getting far more attention from both cis and trans women as a non-passing transwoman than I got as a straight man. I guess that I am still in that early phase of my transition whereby I have a pretty good male physique and yet wear hyperfeminine clothes and have better makeup than the vast majority of women. I'm finding that girls / women whom I had thought were out of my league previously are only too happy now to kiss and fool around with me, but never take it further. Getting the attention is nice, but it feels that they see me as some kind of play thing that they don't take seriously.
Your sharing was good for me to hear and feel. Thanks for sharing. 7:46
T4T just makes sense in my opinion.
Time stamp. 15:26 I’m not gay I just like girls with extra fun. OMG. Thanks. 15:26
Great video Maya. As a Trans woman myself I agree with your points and advice in this video.
I am a straight man and I watched this because I was genuinely curious to hear from a trans person about some of these topics, just to get that perspective. The first 6 minutes I think were quite informative but once the third topic after the intro started, some of the side comments were kind of pointless and putting down those who don't want to be with a trans person. I had to skip over some of it as it was quite off-putting, and frankly is counterintuitive with Maya's desire to be accepted and not treated differently.
The whole study about being attracted to a trans person has nothing to do with being gay so I agree with Maya and the study, it just seems unrelated to the topic. Maya looks a lot like a woman so a straight man being attracted to Maya or some other man that is trans would not be gay. Being friends with a trans person is not gay. However, actually dating and sleeping with one is gay. It's two men for goodness sake. Of course, regarding trans who have the surgery, people will have differing opinions, but surgery doesn't change who someone is. If the partner is gay that's totally fine, but a straight person should not be deceived and the trans person should be open to their partner that they are trans. It sounds like Maya is very open and would be very open in that conversation so I respect that.
I would love to have the privilege and total Honor to have the chance to experience the best of both worlds
Very good. Someone at least got it right. Your content is always on point. Stay beautiful and and always sweet.❤
very well explained as usual. all women should be more like you.
No worries. So much better having a mic.
I would walk proudly beside anyone of you girls
This came up in my feed and so want to gloat about the beautiful world of T4T. I’m in a T4T Hetero relationship. It is the most gender affirming thing ever. Everything feels so natural and as it should be. I had trouble presenting as a cis hetero but figured as I’m not attracted to cis males I must be attracted to cis females which I am but difficult having a sexual relationship when I have to be masculine dom. oh dear. So I had relationship aversion and then when I’d be in a relationship I’d have sexual aversion as being the male triggers gender dysphoria. Now it’s 100% gender euphoria 😊
one video a week, Maya started 2024 showing that she is here to stay. 😍👏🏼
Maya you look ravishing. You have everything together with hair, make-up, jewelry and blouse.❤ ... Paul isn't my name my name is Pamela and I'm trans too.
I love watching your content Maya I support anyone from the LGBTQ community you know know as a Progressive Christian
Had a question Maya. What is your long term goal with relationships. Is it to get married to one person? Is it to remain unmarried with one partner? Is it to be single and focus more on situationships? Where do you see yourself relationship-wise when you're 60 or 70 years old? I ask because everyone's goals tend to be different depending on their sexuality, etc.
Oh. My GOD Maya you are SO pretty. I can't even.
I enjoyed this video, I have always admired trans women even though I am cis female. I have always felt compassion for trans community in general. I just really wish trans women didn't think that all cis gender women hate them or are jealous but their are a percentage of us cis females that don't hate on trans women. I just really wanted you to know that. I say all these things with love and kindness. Please know I think trans women are gorgeous and I do have follow many trans women with platforms. Yes, I'm pansexual but I watch them for educational reasons and to learn how to be sensitive and kind towards them. Blessings ❤
I never knew you hadn't done a video on this topic before.
Your could not have said it better.
What I found is you get so many “chasers”.
When you are with someone it’s almost more like a “experience” rather than a relationship.
Thank you Maya for another classy and intelligent video. ❤❤
Through my son I know two trans people, both AFAB young trans men. One of them still hasn't told his parents but is certain his father has figured it out and is okay with it. However his mother is a woman of "certain convictions", which is to say not very tolerant. It's very sad.
Incidentally it seems that I'm an outlier, in my 60's and more concerned with people being strong, happy, morally mindful and a positive influence in society. Gender isn't really relevant. Sexual preferences and exactly what you genitals are like isn't any of my business. Being a good human being is my personal benchmark.
My experience (as a retired university professor) is that gay, bi and trans people have had to think through a lot of issues. It makes many of them stronger and more philosophical. I wish the general population was more accepting, there's really nothing to fear (any more than people in the rest of society, at least).
I love you so much Maya ❤
1:07 I love the snow balls in your hair, Maya!! LOL.
Yes, you are looking especially fine today, Maya.
respecting a persons personhood is a must for society to seal the divide along with dismantling the ideas that keep the world from seeing trans people as nothing more but a resource to obtain.
One must respect and care about everyone you intend to have a sexual and/or a personal relationship.
You are amazing and beautiful and informative. I know from your posts, and from what I have learned in the real world, that it is imperative to be respectful of all and not just leap. But damn, lady you have it going on.
I'm honestly kinda happy I came out once I was already in a stable relationship. Dating as a transwoman sounds so hard and scary. I'm so blessed my partner loves me for me.
Well done for being your best self regardless of how you got there. A funny conversation I had with my daughters just before xmas was them asking if I was Gay.(divorced). When I asked why they said I must have a gay gene to have 2 daughters who are both gay. Had to laugh though.
Well said, Love! WHO CARES!
My girlfriend has two close friends who are transgender; these two girls are very pretty, & well established in their appearance.
As a cross dresser myself, I can understand the hardships they go through; they accept me for who I am, and love to give me hugs, when I'm dressed like a girl.
I believe that transgender woman ♀️ are women, & the poisons of social norms is the real problem.
Maya Henry; you are as pretty as my girlfriend, & her friends, who I 💕 love to be with, & I wish you all the best.❤😂❤🎉😅❤😊.
You made me change my thoughts on about transgender people. Now I have doubts.
@@jeanpierrelabonte2868 doubts about what?
I started transitioning about 11 years ago and due to health it's taking a lot longer and then I've been out of the dating pool for both 15 years now and the idea of dating is kind of terrifying
I’m a transsexual female and while I don’t date men anymore I do have a very very close friend who does and she actually described her elucidating experience watching (of all things) a Jerry Springer episode from the 90s. She said that seeing very intelligent and beautiful trans women with boyfriends who are proud to be with them had a profound effect on her. As you said it is very important to be with a man who will not only uplift you but will be proud to do so, and they’re definitely out there!
It’s a dated episode regarding the terminology used but beyond that it’s an extremely interesting and very raw time capsule that truly depicts the beauty and excellence of trans women.
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Thank you very much for the suggestion of watching that show. It was great, very interesting, and all of the ladies were stunning, gorgeous and brave! 😍
Maya, this video has been so informative to me and I really appreciate you. You are so pretty that you probably don't have any issues but Ilove your attitude about everything. Love you much.
You are very well spoken, classy !!
Don't tell I would never know or care if your beautiful inside and or out it's you qualities you possess
I thought that when I became a trans woman that I would start to love men but I don't I still love women and I thought something was wrong with me. I have felt female all my life but was brought up that men with women and vice versa but I feel why I would change if I want to be a lesbian but I can't help the way I feel ❤❤
This is a fantastic video with very valuable information that we can pass on to others. Also, loving the necklace. You look WOW today.
Great video, Maya it was very insightful. I decided that at the beginning of the year, I want to date trans woman only. 2023 was an exploration year for me, and I found that I am most attracted to trans on a physical and mental level. I also have family and friends who are transgender and I openly support them, and I'm an ally to the community as well. I had to watch your video a few times to let all that you said sink in. Keep up the great work, and I can't wait for your next video on relationships.
Dating trans person, my advice is simple... don't be a dick. treat them like anyone else. be mindful of their unique struggles. be aware of what they may be sensitive to and do not bring them up. If they bring those things up, show empathy to them. This video is good. for those who get older and in a ltr and this is your life partner, accepting their fertility is HIGHLY IMPORTANT. it is a small part of this video, but i cannot overstate the importance of this. even non-trans relationships fall a part due this issue. If you cannot accept that early on, forget it. Maya is unique in this space as an influencer. She is almost unbelievably even keeled and balanced in her statements without being as radical in her statements and beliefs.
Hey Maya, Just wanted to comment on your movie. Dawn,Her Dad and the tractor. I watched it last night and cried most of the time. You're an amazing actress and I'm glad I found it. Thank You!
Good for you for having the courage to be yourself.
I live in Asia which is the worlds largest demographic of these women !
Over here, which is so nice, soft, and gentle, they are referred to as "special women" :)
My girlfriend has had "zero" transitioning and is more loving, feminine, beautiful, and ladylike, than any American women iv`e interacted with.
Special women in Asia have evolved over a thousand years and are "revered" with honor and respect and treated as "priceless gems" :)
Everyone should just live their own lives and let others live theirs, as long as no one is getting hurt all good.
I think you can go into modeling the way you are right now and you can be doing a lot more
Your necklace is very pretty. Much respect.
Last night I played a blank tape at full blast. The mime next door went nuts.
I’ve been following you since the beginning of your journey, finding you as really a brave woman going her own way. Unfortunately I’m a old, old man with old children who probably wouldn’t understand my attraction. But always wishing you well and will follow you until you decide to stop . Bless you ❤️♍️🗝🧙🏻♂️
You are jaw-dropping gorgeous
Why is the internet always the avenue for meeting people? It just seems like the people who are using apps as a tool for deception and potentially dangerous situations considering they are complete strangers.. but maybe I'm just too old fashioned..
"Where can I find a trans woman to date?" If this is what you're asking yourself, you aren't looking at dating for the right reasons. Just because a person happens to be trans, doesn't mean he/she is some kind of conquest to be marked off on your check sheet. If so, you're a person with zero character and hopefully, you won't find anyone: Trans or Sis that will date you. I am a Sis Gendered Male who is not gay. This is only my opinion.
Do you mean cis gendered? Sis gendered male makes me think femboy.
I agree with this 100% I personally prefer to be single but back when I was considering dating and remotely interested I feel like there were too many people that fetishized me rather than treated me like a human being and with respect when in all reality we’re human just like everyone else.
@@Rezkeshdadesh No femboy here pal. Just a white, heterosexual, male, that thinks Maya is a pretty cool person.
@@theraptorsnest5891 glad to have people like you as allies
Great video! Having a trans partner is great. However, I saw the news about an organ transplant on a transwoman and would soon become pregnant in the future. It would be a miracle.
You are totally absolutely the bomb
I'm a good looking man who dates females or trans women, depending on who I'm attracted to, and who is better for our chemistry. All I ask is be honest with me, especially when we first form a friendship or a relationship. Don't date me for weeks and not let me know your transgender. I dont bite unless you want me to,lol. But seriously, straight men or anyone I think, would appreciate someone being upfront. And another thing I been experiencing, trans women who are sex workers, I have chatted with many trans women on social media and I am not interested in prostitutes trans or not. I want to meet down to Erath potential partners, someone I would be comfortable with and have meaningful friendship or relationship with. I work full-time, I go to the gym at least 4 days a week. I dont smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol. I do like weed or edibles, those are good for my sleep and appitite and stress. Plus I like to get stoned occasionally. I'm being honest. I have been interested in trans women most of my life, I wish you trans women were more available when I was younger. It was difficult to meet anyone who were trans 25-30 years ago. I was 20 years old when I had my first relationship with a trans women I meet, at first I was attracted to her pretty face and beautiful legs she had. She had small brests , because she was doing hormones to make her move feminine. I felt compassion for her and she asked me to stay with her overnight with her. I was with her for almost a year. She had to move back to NYC to be with her sick mother, she asked me if I could come with her. I couldn't move from my situation. We kept in touch for a while but I moved on, just memories now. Good memories of a beautiful person I shared a part of my life with ❤. Just a man who loves the beauty of feminine women. ❤❤❤