Mike Shouhed Breaks His Silence On All Things 'Shahs Of Sunset' and Finally Puts Rumors To Rest

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ส.ค. 2023
  • Join Rachel in this exclusive interview where Mike Shouhed pulls back the curtain on 'Shahs of Sunset,' recounting it’s humble beginnings marked by low pay and uncertainty. Mike reveals the candid advice he received from friends about navigating the reality TV game and shares a deep dive into life after the show's cancellation.
    The impact of producers, editing, and the influence of alcohol, to the toll of sleep and food deprivation. Mike and Rachel discuss how these elements shape people into personas they’re not.
    Mike also opens up about the truth behind the night of the domestic dispute call and provides a candid account of what transpired. While shedding light on the complexities of how accusations can carry the weight of a conviction in the court of public opinion. We'll delve into the nuances of how such incidents are perceived, the impact they have on one's reputation, and the broader implications for those involved.
    They delve into Mike’s personal journey of reconciling the end of the show versus the reaction to that of his peers, as well as Bethenny Frankel and the rising movement to unionize reality TV stars, and seeking compensation for the back end of these shows massive success.
    Finally, the current chapter of Mike’s life, as he unveils new ventures and offer insights into life beyond 'Shahs of Sunset.'
    This is an interview you won't want to miss!
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  • @karenblaesing535
    @karenblaesing535 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    He skipped right over his arrest! He's still a gaslighting control freak.

    • @kristyhawes
      @kristyhawes 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly

  • @jojomiller1630
    @jojomiller1630 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Mike LIES. LIES. LIES. You cannot believe a pathological LIAR!❤

  • @kellycurry9164
    @kellycurry9164 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I thought Reza hurt alot of people. He didnt care about MJ at all. Nobody says those things to another person. He never seemed to get thrown under the bus like the rest of the cast.

    • @jjalo410
      @jjalo410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree 💯 he gets away w it. Every franchise has a bully it's not right. I'm over all the BS & toxic people

    • @jae6335
      @jae6335 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reza was the biggest fraud - desperate for attention, will throw even his mother under the bus for relevance. I will never forget how, on Shah's first reunion, he unnecessarily embarrassed MJ with information that wasn't even on the show.

  • @Merbella
    @Merbella 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    The way he described needing attention vs sex, sounds like narcissism.

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yep, text book!

    • @Vxruxxss
      @Vxruxxss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Literally a narc

  • @laurenbytlupian5256
    @laurenbytlupian5256 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Mike is text book narcissist! But such good TV to watch! Shahs was the best! Can't believe it's gone😢

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly 😂 everything is someone elses fault, he craves validation and rewrites history in his favor each time...plus the ego!!😮

    • @liliyanne8857
      @liliyanne8857 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is amazing. There is no growth still blaming others. It is never him he is just so cool and calm and has all the answers to his bad behaviour.

  • @lolacookie453
    @lolacookie453 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    When he refers to his tv persona as “heartthrob sex symbol” 😂 the complete lack of self-awareness…. I can’t! 😂

    • @marciestoddard730
      @marciestoddard730 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      yeah that was NEVER the image of mike i got...more like meathead

    • @aspencolorado1190
      @aspencolorado1190 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Random6015
      @Random6015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly. He was the 40 year old loser.

  • @lthomas3478
    @lthomas3478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Mike if you wanted to change the perception of you, don't start this interview with how you were coerced from the start. You make a choice to become a womaniser and cheat not because the producers edited it to make you look a certain way. And it wasn't a magic show where 40 officers turn up out of nowhere for no reason. Otherwise you'd have CCTV showing you were set up. You scared people not police that's why they were called. Own it

    • @gigisielaff
      @gigisielaff 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ryan seacrest strong armed him lololol

    • @vashposh
      @vashposh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gigisielaffbefore i knew it 😂 i was sizzling in a backyard full of iranians 😂

  • @DonnaArias-dx8bb
    @DonnaArias-dx8bb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    My daughter worked on the show and said Mike & GiGi were the nicest of the cast .

    • @Atchooo11117
      @Atchooo11117 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Gigi is the best❤

    • @livinlovelee2683
      @livinlovelee2683 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Abusers are extremely nice to others to try and throw them off, Mike. I love GG!

  • @karenblaesing535
    @karenblaesing535 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    So he talks about the arrest but its still Paulinas fault. And the cops fault.

    • @gitana1384
      @gitana1384 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly. I don't know if there is some weird law in California specifically but what he said about one person needing to be arrested when there's a DV call is absolutely NOT TRUE. I am in another major US city with very similar laws to CA and have a neighbor who is a chronic domestic abuser and we've had to call the cops on him several times over the years. A couple of times, he was arrested, a couple not. The times he wasn't arrested, it was because the victim would lie and say he didn't hit her even if there were eyewitnesses who saw him do it and told the cops it happened. The cops said they can't arrest if the victim denies it and there is no undeniable proof like video footage they can use to arrest. California is a state that is known to do everything in its power to avoid arresting people so this story of his seems highly implausible. The fact that the charges were dropped don't mean anything either because prosecutors wouldn't go forward with the case if the victim recants or refuses to cooperate. We've seen Mike show signs of violent and controlling behavior towards Paulina on the show so it seems more likely there were visible signs of abuse on her body giving the cops reason to arrest or she was so upset and frazzled she actually admitted it to the cops when it happened. Then decided to recant. This woman was obsessed with marrying Mike and we saw her lie to protect him several times. I'm guessing the father of the kids finally stepped in after this incident, esp bc there were guns involved and was so public, and forced her to end her relationship for the children's safety otherwise she'd gone back for more. I don't think Mike was always this bad and deep down there was, maybe still is, a good overall person in there, but between his misogynistic upbringing (proven by his mom and family blaming Jessica for the divorce when he cheated), his already there insecurities (not being successful in any of his business ventures) leading him to getting addicted to the ego BJ attention from the show got him, coupled with alcohol and drug abuse (rumors are he overdid the coke and maybe did 'roids), Mike ended up where he did. I do hope he changes for the better but this interview showed that this man is still lying his a** off while telling half-truths in order to deflect taking any real accountability. I wish him what he deserves.

  • @thatcoolkidchris9965
    @thatcoolkidchris9965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Nice job, Rachel! Thanks for not interrupting your guest!

  • @sunfield34
    @sunfield34 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    When he said they would starve them I was shocked because there was always so much delicious looking food around on the show.

  • @lthomas3478
    @lthomas3478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    I am a survivor of DV, he's nothing but full of excuses and blames everyone else for his behaviour. My ex husband would say to me after threatening to punch me and then laugh at me before spitting in my face, if i was to punch you, you would know about it. I've always really liked Mike but after listening to this I'm appalled that there's no accountability. Just like Rachel's interview blames everyone Mike is the same.

    • @tanyadouglas5241
      @tanyadouglas5241 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      He was Exactly the way the show claimed him to be hist can't admit it to Himself!

    • @ClarissaX10
      @ClarissaX10 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You have to take accountability for being in that relationship as well. Especially with children and mother allowing them to witness so much violence. Your ex husband needs a therapy and so do you 😔 everyone blames, but don’t look at themselves. I hope you grew from the experience and became a better person.

    • @lthomas3478
      @lthomas3478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@ClarissaX10 oh I do. And my children were not there then. It was a rare night out and he dragged me to black and blue. I found the strength to leave. I have trained in counselling, and had some myself. This was decades ago and I've grown so much. I no longer have anger towards him, actually only sadness. He lives in a hospice and neither of his children want to see him. Which is really sad. I'm a very happy wife now with more children and grandchildren. But I don't blame my past on anyone, he did what he did, and same for me. I would never be in a position like that ever again

    • @JusttLizz
      @JusttLizz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If the story is true , she took him back, so who's really to blame 🥴?

    • @belindapurser760
      @belindapurser760 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sorry you had to go through that.

  • @katherineferguson9880
    @katherineferguson9880 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Not smart to have an “arsenal” of unsecured guns in your bedroom when there are kids in the home. He is not admitting that it was wrong.

    • @christineb6392
      @christineb6392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, even with that it wasn't his fault. He didn't know you need to keep guns in safes. My 5 year old niece knows that.

  • @AP-wq9dv
    @AP-wq9dv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    The ego on this guy is crazy. Bethany beat him to Unionizing reality TV performers? She has a platform to create change. Mike does not. I use to love watching Shaws and Mike, but he really lacks self awareness and is saying the words of emotional change but just doesn’t get it.
    I’m really liking your show Rachel and seeing you on The Velvet Rope, thank you.

    • @gigisielaff
      @gigisielaff 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      mike doesn’t think of anyone but himself! what a joke he would organize anything for others. he can’t organize his own BS in this interview. he is always the victim of a “false” narrative. cringe.

    • @kathyquinn3224
      @kathyquinn3224 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t think she clicks on velvet robe.. David takes over the podcast!

    • @Msm9004
      @Msm9004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s a loser never kept a job just wanted to get rich quick. Don’t care for a cheater

  • @robinbee7799
    @robinbee7799 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    He blames everybody but himself. He hasn’t changed and never well.

    • @dprecious6402
      @dprecious6402 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Disagree. Re-listen to the whole interview.

    • @daniellefield7838
      @daniellefield7838 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *will

  • @jillschemanske
    @jillschemanske 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Women and people beware, nothing is his fault

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Narcissist

  • @brownsuga9740
    @brownsuga9740 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I wish you would have asked him about his relationship with Asa now. She left the show early because I think the pressure from her cast members to show more about her life, took a toll on her. She exited quickly and never looked back.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      True. But there were also so many questions to ask

    • @gerardguida7727
      @gerardguida7727 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She was the smart one 😊

    • @martinanixon294
      @martinanixon294 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Asa was my favorite!

    • @thatcoolkidchris9965
      @thatcoolkidchris9965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They were horrible towards her. They weren’t thrilled with her genes mixing with a Jackson.

    • @dila4834
      @dila4834 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@thatcoolkidchris9965 A hint of racism floated in the air at that time. Mike had things to say.

  • @Jaedoe888
    @Jaedoe888 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I was 10 minutes in before I realized the interviewer was Not Bethany.

    • @shawnatv4355
      @shawnatv4355 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bethany who? FRANKEL? She is atleast 40 years younger.

    • @mgal6234
      @mgal6234 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shawnatv4355not even close…Bethenny is 53 and Rachel is 49 so they’re only a few years apart. But at least Bethenny is recognizable 😅

    • @Shay-nu7id
      @Shay-nu7id 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same !!!!

  • @missiris1234
    @missiris1234 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So why did Mike do ten seasons if he was treated so badly? Did you ask him that? Maybe I missed it. You are a great interviewer Rachel. New sub here😀😍😀

  • @sippinthattea8064
    @sippinthattea8064 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    He controlling his ex wife said it the ex girlfriend said it Paulina to scared to say it

  • @rochellepizza5802
    @rochellepizza5802 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Rachael I loved the questions that you asked, however I didn’t believe a word that Mike said. Reality TV is a choice. He could have walked away at any time, yet he showed up to film for 10 seasons. Andy asked Mike at the last reunion if he had to choose between the show or Paulina what would he choose? He took the longest pause in history before giving an answer. The police allegedly being called to his home had absolutely nothing to do with The Shah’s of Sunset which he claimed in your interview. IMO if Mike was offered enough money he’d sign on the dotted line just like Bethenny had. She returned to the show after leaving for a few seasons. She needed to promote her skinny jeans project. This is just my opinion.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the compliment.
      And the end of the day, we all have our opinions and I appreciate your objective perspective.
      Cheers!

    • @kathyquinn3224
      @kathyquinn3224 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The money was too good to walk away! He was relieved the show got canceled!! I get it.. he is being honest!

    • @kathyquinn3224
      @kathyquinn3224 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sure Mike had issues with addictions during filming

  • @TheOhHellNoPodcast
    @TheOhHellNoPodcast 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Why does this lady sound just like Bethenny...it is so strange listening to her but she did a great interview. I am glad Mike has found peace in his Real life. I watched every season of Shahs but it started to get exhausting to watch. Producers think that the only thing viewers want to see is conflict but that is not true especially when it is forced and falsely created it just becomes ridiculous and exhausting for us. We want real life situations and seeing people live and navigate their way through their lives is good TV because we all have things to figure out and overcome.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do I sound like her?
      If you want to hear more from me, I have bonus episodes on my Patreon!
      www.patreon.com/MissUnderstoodwithRachelUchitel

    • @TheOhHellNoPodcast
      @TheOhHellNoPodcast 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@missunderstoodpodcast yea you do sound like her it’s crazy lol only your voice though not the craziness and you did a great interview. Thanks for the link.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have more bonus episodes coming out soon on my Patreon!!

    • @Msm9004
      @Msm9004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      New listener you sounds like Bethenny but you’re-a lot prettier and nice 😊

  • @tovalieber5666
    @tovalieber5666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    no one forces these people to stay on the show... if you are mistreated you can leave...so easy to play a victim

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly

    • @dirty_hammy
      @dirty_hammy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      30-50k an episode. I would stay till the wheels fall off 🤣🤣

    • @myahnombre
      @myahnombre 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dirty_hammy I was shocked when he said that’s what they made. That’s more than some network actors, hence why they were protesting.

  • @dianeyvon
    @dianeyvon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Love this interview Rachel ❤ Thanks for sharing the behind the scenes Mike.

  • @karenlemire5159
    @karenlemire5159 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am so glad to see Mike is doing well. I knew the bad things printed about him were totally untrue. All you have to do is see him to see what a good person he is on the inside. The tv show made everyone look so wild and bad. These shows are sadly so very toxic. So glad he got completely away from it all to get back to himself. Best of luck in the future. ❤🙏

  • @saramims1592
    @saramims1592 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I was a fan of Shahs of Sunset and always wondered what the update was on Mike. Appreciate this interview and found it interesting. Rachel's interview style is just the best. I like how she asks great questions, doesn't interrupt the interviewee, and doesn't start telling her own stories (competing with the interviewee answering questions). I see many interviewers do all the things I mention and it is refreshing to have someone keep a good cadence, be involved, but patiently let the person interviewing fully tell their story!

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your words, Sara!

    • @sweetest247
      @sweetest247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@missunderstoodpodcastJust catching up.
      Ditto on last comment. Your interview style is to be commended. And yes I hear podcasters interrupt guests ALL the time. Good job!
      Really enjoyed Mike.
      I did not enjoy 1 interview w Kelly Dodd & Mike Levanthal. I don't understand the interests that their viewers have in their podcast. They sound like they are bragging & absolutely no content. She interrupts him he allows but you see his frustration at times & she just runs her mouth. Very very boring. Pickle ball, wine sponsor & all their personal tasks & this is daily! At least that is how it comes across to me. Just my humble opinion. I really did try to keep them in the loop of CA gossip & reality TV. Kelly is just too obnoxious. It appears that Rick is morphing in to her unfortunately or trying to keep the peace. Then he falls all over her. 🤢
      I don't believe that therapy at this point would necessarily help her nor do I really care. More of a personality trait of hers. Lol.
      I rarely comment on a podcast but just wanted to give you thumbs up on yours & your interview style.
      You & Mike would make a beautiful 🔥 couple.
      Btw I'm a boomer & proud of it. A couple careers as a single mom x2 & one was in law enforcement. We have changed the laws to some degree in terms of a DV in some states. Now... nine times out of 10 not one but two people are going to go to jail on this type of case. Emotions are high & now we do arrest for both no bond, they go to first appearance & the judge decides if they can bond out or not. Follow up court date. We'll see how the stats turn out on that after a couple years. Obviously this does not pertain to clear evidence at the time of arrival by law enforcement.
      😘❤😘🙏

  • @purplebus6415
    @purplebus6415 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If he really valued his mental health and sanity, he wouldn't have returned to the show. He phrases everything like he was forced to do it and he wasn't forced - it was of his own free will. If he admitted he actually enjoys the attention more than his own well being, that would make people respect him more.

  • @francescastephenson2688
    @francescastephenson2688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Very eloquent interviewing, I’m impressed. I came for this interview but I’ll definitely check others out. Rachel has skills ❤

  • @paulinedwyer4217
    @paulinedwyer4217 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Glad to hear from Mike, happy to see him looking happy and healthy!
    You sound just like Bethany, I have the phone down just listening and I keep thinking I am listening to Bethany’s podcast.

    • @Lee886244
      @Lee886244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bethenny doesn’t listen.

  • @UnderExposedKate
    @UnderExposedKate หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a former host I am impressed with and grateful for how you don’t interrupt your guests. I get so frustrated listening to podcast hosts interrupting and not allowing the guests to finish a thought. Some do all the talking and the guest never gets the opportunity to have their voice heard and I have to shut them off. I heard one recent interview and have now watched several older ones for this very reason. Thank you for your professionalism and respect for your guests.

  • @wisewillow5731
    @wisewillow5731 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Gosh Rachel and Bethany Frankel sound so similar, sorry Rachel 🤭😬

  • @bombast718
    @bombast718 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Dude is a confirmed THUG and battery

  • @ava7317
    @ava7317 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    👏 I had to comment - you impress me so much with your interview skills, u listen and ask the questions we want to ask. Been following you over the years and best of luck with this podcast/TH-cam channels!

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Ava!
      This comment has made my day 😊

    • @virgosun_leorising_caprico7434
      @virgosun_leorising_caprico7434 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes I agree! You even interact with David Yontef well and tell it like it is with him and with great delivery.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@virgosun_leorising_caprico7434 thanks! 💕

  • @stonedbynita6879
    @stonedbynita6879 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Nice job Rachel, I really enjoy your interview style.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate it!
      I’m glad you like the way I do interviews

  • @lthomas3478
    @lthomas3478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Was a good interview though, you asked all the right questions. But someone who over explains is normally hiding something, you questioned him well. 👍

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!

    • @oceanbluewaves4918
      @oceanbluewaves4918 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting. I am a grown adult and I find myself "overexplaining" at times because my thought process is to put the receiver into the actual scene, if necessary. I don't want to skip a thing, regardless if I am wrong in their eyes. For me, everyone has the right to give their side. If you think he is lying, so be it. That's for him to deal with.

  • @jennwillo
    @jennwillo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I loved Shahs, and always had a soft spot for Mike, so I was looking forward to watching this… until he opened his mouth.
    Zero accountability, and everything happened TO him, so it’s everyone else’s fault. This entire interview just proved that he’s still a Misogynistic Narcissist.
    When it comes to “stroking one’s own ego”, he really gives Bethenny a run for her money. He should get together with Raquel. They could sit in a corner together, and point their fingers at the rest of the world.🫵🙄

  • @hopes.t.1092
    @hopes.t.1092 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Has anyone seen the home snapshots of what he did to her. He needs real help because what hes saying here and what I just saw in another channel are two differnt things for sure.

    • @Sheriiblossom
      @Sheriiblossom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same. I’m hoping Rachel has a response or update to this because ain’t no way you can see those photos and believe this goon.

    • @Daijxo
      @Daijxo หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am here because I started watching shahs and then saw these allegations and snapshots. Now seeing this interview shows that Mike is more of the person he is on the show then he is willing to own. I understand reality tv is produced and exaggerated but there are certain things about these people personality that is hard to hide from. Mike has a hard time being the “bad guy” so he skirts around the truth to uphold an image or the version of himself he really wants to be. And I am also a libra so I can kind of “see” him. Lol

  • @rudysan09
    @rudysan09 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Total DEFLECTION....the fact that the show ended because of him 😅He is turning it around like they did him a favor.. What a TOOL😅

  • @katievolk5368
    @katievolk5368 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just found you today!! Love your interview style!! Sorry I didn't know who you are but so happy I found you😊😊😊

  • @sunfield34
    @sunfield34 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved this! Good job !

  • @Rlove4547
    @Rlove4547 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Glad to hear you are healthy now and I can definitely see how this dominoed for you and many many more! 😊

  • @DJonez-hi7pj
    @DJonez-hi7pj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Interview, U're an AMAZING host!
    Good luck Mike🖤

  • @melinehhacopians1184
    @melinehhacopians1184 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great interview 🎉 thanks!

  • @sweetjalight
    @sweetjalight 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This is an interesting interview so far. I'm not done with it. But I would like to know if he was so miserable during the show, why wouldn't he leave. And I would love to her a very uncesored opinion about how Asa felt during the years she was on and her leaving. I also want to know why he went along with the 'lies' about how close they were or how they knew each other. I want to know if Rza and Mercedes are really life long friends. I need to know it all

    • @nataliemesbah1639
      @nataliemesbah1639 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Asa left because of the treatment that was encouraged on set. She decided it wasn’t worth changing who she was.

    • @Mya_water
      @Mya_water 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nataliemesbah1639 Which was so said because I loved her but I noticed how she started to change

  • @sheri4359
    @sheri4359 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Came to watch your show with Kelly Dodd and now I’m hooked. Great interviews!

  • @running-with-scissors664
    @running-with-scissors664 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If you close your eyes and listen to this host she sounds just like Bethenny!!! Its unreal

  • @belindapurser760
    @belindapurser760 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview, reminds me of Caesar from Black Ink Crew NY interview about their production. Ty for doing this interview.

  • @Booberry12
    @Booberry12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So glad to find your podcast!

  • @Amiyelvovna
    @Amiyelvovna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved Shahs of Sunset and so sad that it was cancelled 😢 This was a great interview. I think those in comments calling out Mike negatively didn’t really listen to the interview and what he was actually saying. I thought he sounded like he has reflected on himself and claimed his mistakes. For those who ask why did he keep going - well you go back if you need the money. It was his job with compensation at the time. People need to relax. I guess for those who do not like him nothing he says will matter and he will be for them a narcissist and a liar - For those calling him a liar were you there in those moments to know that he was lying?

  • @CecileH730
    @CecileH730 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First time listener, immediately hooked. Rachel, I’m sure you’ve been told 100 or more times that you sound like Bethenny Frankel, but you are a much better interviewer.

  • @reynamotley1990
    @reynamotley1990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Good to hear Mike speak about how the show started and the behind the scenes development.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m glad you liked it! 🙂

    • @labadoor2607
      @labadoor2607 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He's still abusive. He threw up smokescreens...all his exs can't be wrong... It's hard to accept a nice looking guy, who handles himself well, outside his home being abusive. TRUST me they are. They play a character, OUTSIDE the home. Their REAL personality showes up, once they pull in their driveway and go into the house!! A narssists, will NEVER hold themselves accountable and always play the victim. Its Mike to a tee!!

  • @Lee886244
    @Lee886244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He’s got an excuse for everything!

  • @ingridsouthcoast_
    @ingridsouthcoast_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Nope. Sorry. Barely managed 45 mins. I can't with this guy. Big fan of Shahs when it was on TV but I don't need to hear from Mike. He's embarrassing.

  • @gerardguida7727
    @gerardguida7727 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We're finding out more and more every day about how these "so called reality shows" are produced. I hope all these reality personalities get the residuals, i think they deserve. I appreciate hearing Mike's thought process. It certainly makes sense to me. Its good to see Mike on a good path. Great interview 👍

  • @michellemeyer1649
    @michellemeyer1649 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great interview! I’m glad Mike got to tell his side of what went down. And….I’m so happy I found your channel! New subscriber!

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Michelle!
      I’m glad you liked the interview.

  • @deeash9955
    @deeash9955 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved this I am rooting for Mike

  • @terrikaye12114
    @terrikaye12114 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a hard hard thing for him to have to talk about! So very sorry! They wanted to get you!!
    On your thoughts of bravo all I can say is…join Bethenny!!!
    PLEASE PLEASE JOIN BETHENNY, this has gone to to far!!
    So glad your back and you seem really really good!
    Team Mike!!! You will find the right lady for you!!!
    Just one more thing…I remember you always looked exhausted and now you look GREAT!!! You are more that a show! Your a kind, good, loving man!!!

  • @katievolk5368
    @katievolk5368 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fantastic interview

  • @anap8595
    @anap8595 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great interview.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! 😊

    • @lizdahl847
      @lizdahl847 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@missunderstoodpodcastDid u clone Bethanys voice?? It's unreal how u sound just like her😅

  • @dprecious6402
    @dprecious6402 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I admit feeling judgmental at the beginning of both the host and the guest. In the end I thought it was an excellent interview, that Mike did admit to his bad choices and conduct but also the inside tweaks that Production adds to make the shows more interesting. I believe most of us put our own mistakes while taking accountability for them in the best light as much as possible. I think that’s what he is doing in this interview and still being accountable. Great interview very informative from Mike’s perspective.

    • @kathyquinn3224
      @kathyquinn3224 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mike got more honest as the interview went on!

  • @myahnombre
    @myahnombre 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When Mike was talking about manipulation on the set, I remember seeing a little of that during one of Shahs reunion shows, GG was upset, she walked off set, took her dress off and was leaving and Andy came and said you need to tell your side, as well as Destiney even though GG was trying not to blow up. But, they know going in they won’t get paid that good money if they don’t continue.

  • @Maetaaaaaa
    @Maetaaaaaa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You look beautiful and I commend you for sitting through having to listen to him with his arrogance 😫 I set my phone down and I thought it somehow skipped to Bethany’s podcast you sound just like her lol

  • @janetgoier23
    @janetgoier23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I always liked Mike on the show, but I'm not sure that he did himself any favors in this interview. I sincerely hope all of the things he said are true, but there was a bit too much protestation for me. Hopefully, he finds his happy ending soon.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good point.
      However, he needed to explain his version

    • @christineb6392
      @christineb6392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why? He's dellutional. @@missunderstoodpodcast

  • @ejames6431
    @ejames6431 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a wonderful, cool woman doing the interview.

  • @miningho5913
    @miningho5913 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super cool how mike spilled the beans 🫘

  • @erinb.1399
    @erinb.1399 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mike is right- when the OJ murders happened now if police are called someone goes to jail in DV- I was arrested while fighting with my ex that cheated - no hands were put on each other and I went to jail 1999 battery DV charge- Im not gonna judge Mike because reality TV is not realistic- if he’s a abuser he will face consequences- but as a woman I was not an abuser but was taken to jail for a fight that all that went down was yelling- but that law mixed with me having a record previously the cops made clear that’s the law period they can’t leave with out arresting someone and that was in Florida- I also have been in a very abusive physical relationship with serious injuries- seems the cops are never there when the real deal goes down- and the stuff mike is saying is real , I personally know men that have this issue and as a whole many men now with this social media and access to the entire globe online- as a men I can only imagine how hard it is with multiple gorgeous women sending u messages sexting ect- but there are men and women that THRIVE OFF ATTENTION- the chase, the beginning stages of a relationship where it’s exciting fun and sexy- and then the day to day relationship while wants that, has this addiction to sexual attraction attention, and hearing they are WANTED! I applaud your honesty Michael - we must listen to men and their hurt also - not saying he’s innocent of everything but WE ALL HAVE DONE THINGS WE ARE SHAMED OF - when u admit and grow and repent is when you can’t do anything but respect -

  • @thatcoolkidchris9965
    @thatcoolkidchris9965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Shahs was a very good show. I don’t think Mike is a bad guy whatsoever. I wish him well.

  • @anamarquezkoch4392
    @anamarquezkoch4392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mike and his doula are the OG Scandoval's of Bravo.. I like how he's deflecting and saying that the girl "baited" him, you can't rape the willing, typical macho behavior and wanted the picture pefect girl to obey his every need and still wasn't enough and had to keep his side chicks coming

  • @ryanmichelle6624
    @ryanmichelle6624 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I hear no accountability or responsibility. It wasnt the reality show that made him do the things he did. There's a pattern..

  • @catherinecalvert7742
    @catherinecalvert7742 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Always liked Mike! Great interview ❤

  • @jessicavelasco2281
    @jessicavelasco2281 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It is really good to see mike in a different light. Taking accountability and continuing to work through his issues and pain. Hopefully Paulina and him can find peace and rebuild . ❤

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed, Jessica!
      We all hope they can get back together and be a happy couple

  • @user-mc9zv3yn1u
    @user-mc9zv3yn1u 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great interview..ur voice sounds just likebethany frankel!!

  • @freudianslipandfallover
    @freudianslipandfallover 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Rachel: kudos to you for showing chill/grace....you KNOW something and chose to not say something. Notice how many times she repeats the question to Mike about the outcome of his DV case. It wasn't until the second time she asked, he told of his community service and classes for the gun charges. Of course he's not being completely transparent.
    Of course they're gonna ask you to come out if someone calls in a DV to the police. it would "scare the kids if two police officers came in", but you two throwing stuff at each other and screaming at each other so much so that the walls were "vibrating" wouldn't???? what a clown.
    you think PD don't do their due dilligence when responding to the most dangerous type of calls, domestic violence call, and find out who lives at the residence??? that's how they knew your name. glad they did. and the fact he didn't peacefully come out, resulted in the response he got/
    once again HIS ACTIONS resulted in the consequences.
    but a narcissist cant see it this way. a narcissist sees it the way he described it.
    again, kudos to Rachel. love her patience and especially enjoy those moments catching the glimmer in the eye when, as viewers, we can see she's recognizing the BS but let it flow like lava

  • @Sheriiblossom
    @Sheriiblossom 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Serious question - what’s your stance now with the lawsuit out about him??

  • @chef_unkn0wnn
    @chef_unkn0wnn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There’s footage of him with his hands on her.. pushing her on the ground and looks like he was strangling her..

  • @radiolola718
    @radiolola718 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    43:48 😂😂😂😂😂is that a FART??????

    • @whiterussia9232
      @whiterussia9232 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      OMG!!!! I rewinded 3 times 😮it is a fart!!! 😂😂😂

  • @whiterussia9232
    @whiterussia9232 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    43:48 she FARTED 😂no doubt! Listen and tell me I am wrong 😂

    • @johnmore4861
      @johnmore4861 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That huge mic is fart catcher!

  • @Evelyn-yw3yy
    @Evelyn-yw3yy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview, it shows Mike is really a great guy.That was hard to see on Shahs of Suhset.
    Again, I loved the interview .
    The interview with him was so good and interesting.He is open and honest and gave a really great interview.I really hope his life opens up to really great and wonderful things.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for the support!
      Mike is an awesome man.

  • @cheryljanzen9286
    @cheryljanzen9286 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did you build the apartment building, 10-30 units? I don't remember the unit count.😢

  • @user-ox9po2ex6k
    @user-ox9po2ex6k 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed this podcast, and I usually never enjoy long podcast episodes.

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so glad you liked it!
      Thanks for your comment! 😊❤️

  • @sweetest247
    @sweetest247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And I forgot and interested to know if all these reality stars are getting proceeds from something like the vault? At times I turn that on & go to sleep with it running... Until they start screaming. But that runs all the time on one app that I use so just curious. I would think that's pretty damn good little money trickling in for something done many many many years ago!
    Great interview.
    😘😘

  • @stud6414
    @stud6414 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow i was duped. I thought the everyone on the shahs of sunset really knew each other

  • @nancyann2701
    @nancyann2701 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked this video and also still like Mike. G G was my favorite person in the show.

  • @anamarquezkoch4392
    @anamarquezkoch4392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So he was worried about the kids being affected by the Hooka smell which i'm sure is NOT what she was smoking but he stockpiled on guns and did not have them in a safe with a house full of kids, SMH, get your story right and how about stop victim blaming, and "b/c the DA did not like that I had guns not properly stored" it was against the law, how about rewording that since you like to talk in circles.. man I always liked Mike but this does not make him look any better, thanks for the content!

  • @Gnj2017
    @Gnj2017 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m noticing a lot of reality stars speaking out against bravo lately 😩 is bravo about to go down ?

  • @daneemfragrance
    @daneemfragrance 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great podcast Rachel. I really enjoyed watching it. I have done a podcasting episode on my fragrance content TH-cam channel but no whereas good as yours. Just subscribed to the channel and will definitely be reaching out to you about collaborating.

  • @debralopeznacario6175
    @debralopeznacario6175 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Right- Mike who are you kidding

  • @Frizzbeegirl
    @Frizzbeegirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m not buying that. The show was canceled because it got too expensive for the “talent.” Some of the housewives are making 2,000,000 per season, so by that standard, those shows would’ve been canceled as well.
    Thoughts????

  • @mshanny5
    @mshanny5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have you ever thought of not leaving your bare leg up high. You don’t need that. You’re a beautiful woman

  • @crissiegirls2434
    @crissiegirls2434 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best part of the show was when you all for along... To bad the cast ruined that. Always liked you Mike!

  • @sheenabeena
    @sheenabeena 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So glad Paulina left his ass

  • @Shelly58485
    @Shelly58485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I Believe everything mike said,love that show DRAMA makes the show,more Drama more views no Doubt

  • @artaa3217
    @artaa3217 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A very long interview and he’s not gonna talk about his arrest ?

  • @robinmorelli8759
    @robinmorelli8759 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOVE RACHEL!!!!! U ROCK GIRL!

    • @missunderstoodpodcast
      @missunderstoodpodcast  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Robin! 😉
      I appreciate it a lot your comment!

    • @robinmorelli8759
      @robinmorelli8759 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @missunderstoodpodcast I very much understand everything in your life that you went through! You're gorgeous and extremely intelligent. From neighbor to neighbor, I wish you all the best!

  • @kimzeigler-xm1nb
    @kimzeigler-xm1nb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lobe you mike....

  • @nicolegonzalez6178
    @nicolegonzalez6178 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m confused… did the photos of him pushing her and covering her mouth on camera come out after this interview?

  • @Booberry12
    @Booberry12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I miss the show!!

  • @virgosun_leorising_caprico7434
    @virgosun_leorising_caprico7434 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Idk i still sensed some excuses and lies. I watch peoples behaviors not their words. His behaviors dont match his actions n words. Peoples behaviors is the truth serum, not their words 🤷🏿‍♀️. Mike is full of 💩 🙄

  • @jjalo410
    @jjalo410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its funny i was just thinking these two would be good together. Ofcoarse Mike likes her shes gorgeous & confident ✨🥂

  • @adamben-shimon7513
    @adamben-shimon7513 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's funny how people really believe that their astrological sign determines their personality. It is just stupid.