The 1960s is where the denigration of modern society began. Baby boomers threw the grenade, walked away, and have the audacity to comment on today’s generation.
Exactly! I’m sick of seeing pajama pants with fuzzy slippers, tank tops with holes, wadded up hair that hasn’t been combed, etc at all hours of the day/night in the stores. Looks like they haven’t showered at all. Disgusting. 🤢
I remembered once a long, long, long time ago in the past everybody wore clothes that fit properly and covered the whole body. I miss those good ole' days
As my weight has fluctuated over the years I've had to accept that I am a few sizes bigger than I was 20 years ago. I dress for comfort now and love me a good ol' elastic waistband. I find it hard to imagine that outfit is comfortable!
I'm at Union Station D.C, one of our people gets off Amtrak in a T shirt drops her money nothing but bare ass hanging out, no shame at all teenager at that. I miss ass whippings and switches.
My late parents (who would have in their nineties now) would never have left the house looking like this. They lived in an era of more racial inequities and more limited financial resources but they were always well groomed and neatly dressed. They took pride in being “sharp.” This woman is disgraceful.
Our women need to take better care of their health. There used to be a weight standard too. I live in the hood so I see it all the time. Low income, poor nutrition, poor motivation all leads to a whole lot of this....
There are some fabrics, like Lycra and Spandex, that should not be made into clothing over a size 12. I’m a size 18 and I don’t know how women go out in public looking like this. Have some self respect for crying out loud! If your belly done flopped over the top of your britches and your shirt is riding up so the whole world can see your business, get some clothes that fit! If your boobs are hanging out the bottom of your shirt and resting on your belly flap, put on a damn bra! The only other solution is to go around in a caftan like we wore in the 70’s. You can be buck naked under one of those and nobody will ever know. 😂
Wearing the right clothes in your proper size will actually make you look slimmer and as you say be able to move freely and feel better. It’s because the stigma of wearing a size zero or whatever ….just because you squeeze into something does NOT mean that it actually FITS. Please, have some self respect and also don’t let people you care about go out looking ridiculous. I would be heartbroken if my friends or family let me go out knowing I’d be ridiculed. It isn’t about other people dictating what you should wear, it’s about wearing something that flatters you and your body…..been plus size all my life… and sometimes it felt unfair that I couldn’t wear what my slim friends could, but that’s life. Not all fashion suits all people anyway. Thick or thin. ❤
We Black women get a bad rap, especially plus-sized. Please don't feed into the stereotype. I'm plus-size, and my belly hangs from Hernia surgery, but I put on my girdle (yes, girdle) and keep it Classy...
Same here....there was an expectation of you to dress appropriately! for the occasion and Heaven forbid!!!! absolutely no shorts/tanktops/flipflops in church!!! you did not have to wear designer stuff or suits but clean slacks/shirts and a nice house dress or pantsuit....people argue that with me and say "God dont care, he just wants you there" and that may be true,....but YOU should care and show respect for HIS HOUSE.....same as the wedding dresses women wear now, bustier's no backs lotssss of cleavage, they are dressed for the CLUB, nothing wrong with being modest and elegant for the special day, wear the club clothes at the dance/dinner later if you want, but not walking down the aisle, just my opinion and no one else's.
In my younger days we would get dressed up and even wear gloves to pick someone up at the airport! I love comfort now to a point but, so many people look like slobs even wearing pj's and slippers to the grocery store.
Mirrors ladies, mirrors, I'm on the larger side so I buy for my shape, there are alot of flattering clothes, and very cheap, you don't need to spend alot. No one wants to see all that hanging out, believe me, we look nicer covered up! Mirrors, they are like gold to us.
While i agree with you. I too look in the mirror b4 I head out. 😂 I'm sick of seeing women of any size walking around here with their boobs and behind splattered all out. 🙄
@@unreadthoughts2588 You must’ve felt that one… Lol 😉 Why did you take this personal🤪 I am not talking about one person, I’m talking about as a collective as a whole…. A hit dog holla…wow!!!
Unread Thought... you just said what I just typed on someone else's post. Thus MESS is NOT all black women. Stop labeling ALL for one person FOOLISHNESS
@@sheliamincey7510 I had that class I could NEVER figure out how I got in there, room full of washing machines and stoves. Made a pizza from scratch and got a peanut butter cookie recipe out of it.
@@UppityOne she does so I feel sorry for her daughter. When you know better you do better. Her size is not the problem to me. It is her sloppiness and having on an outfit too small.
Born in the 70's, elementary, middle, and high school years in th 80's. 90's college and Graduate school. 2000 started grown folk life. And during those times, Black folks especially, wouldn't dream of going out not looking their best. You were CLEAN! (Physically and Metaphorically). No way, NO WAY would anyone dare to present themselve like this...mercy why😢 (and I grew up poor)
King you’re worried about hurting her feelings, but she hurt her own feelings when she put on her 10 y/o daughter’s clothes and left her house with them on.
HER FEELINGS HELL ; WHAT ABOUT SHE HURTING OUR FEELINGS SHE JUST BROKE MY FEELINGS INTO THOUSANDS OF PIECES THAT WILL NEVER BE PUT BACK TOGETHER AFTER SEEING ALL THIS MESS HANGING FROM EVERY SIDE OF HER BIG BODY.... THIS IS NOT A WOMAN THIS IS WHAT I CALL A NOTHING (WHAT'S YOUR NAME. ; NOTHING) YELP !
Exactly mr4224!!! Same thing. No pride and self-respect. Why look like that? It's not appealing, classy or cool. If an individual doesn't think much of himself/herself, how much respect will they have for someone else?
I think she did care, she just wanted some kind of dialog with whoever dared to say something to her about! she's standing up there like she's got a negative attitude. I hope she was ignored.
@@lovinlifewithlaine ...Good question. Was she demoralized and abused growing up? Is she intellectually impaired? Or are some people simply born without the facility of shame? Could be all 3 of these conditions at work.
As a big woman i have kinda always had a motto of " if i don't want to see it, why would anyone else?". Another one being.. " just because you can get that item on your body DOES NOT MEAN IT FITS! " & That goes for anyone at any size
Amen Ms. Marjorie. He he the king of delivering these messages while having us cracking up at the same time. I love him so much. Everything he is saying is so true. But he is correct because folk get offended even when the most gentle of comments are made. Love this guy!
I'm plus size woman who prides herself in looking presentable & respectful. If only sis knew the pleasure that comes from shopping for clothes that fit & look good on she wouldn't be walking around looking this ridiculous.
I often get praised by other plus sized women and smaller women about my clothes and my hair/head wraps. My mother instilled in me to always look presentable from my sweat clothes to formal wear.
I understand that sometimes we become products of our environments. I was privileged to grow up with a woman who knew her body, what fit it, and what was both fashionable and fit with her style. We just have to remember not everyone has access to that. We also have to remember not everyone has the right people around them to tell them the truth versus what they want to hear.
Mmmman! I swear plus sized women have some of the best styles! Used to accompany a plus sized friend when she shopped at Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart and wished they had many of the clothes in my size. My homegirl ALWAYS looks classy, sophisticated, stylish and nice. Maybe she can reach out to this lady...
Speaking about that My waist is fighting me trying to force move up from 32 to 34 but, I am still in the fight to remain on 32 by cutting carbs, exercising and fasting
@@Defenderofthefaith-o8z Keep at it! I had a 19-inch waist when I married, but it's waaaaay above that after pregnancies and prednisone and some surgeries and old age. But I'm fighting it, too, the same ways. We all need to fight obesity and stay healthy. Blessings to you!
Mary I’m white girl from Glasgow Scotland & please believe me this is a normal look 4 sooooooooooo many ‘ladies’ 😳 in my hometown. I’ll never understand why family or friends don’t speak up 2 these people n let them walk about looking like that 🤷♀️ ❤️
@@nataliemccabe3290 I don't understand either. Just like the men that sag their clothing. They think it makes them look good or something. But in all honesty I know what it is. It's the sign of the times. In the bible God speaks of in the last days where everything will be turned upside down. Where what was once good will be seen as bad and the things that was once seen as bad will be excepted . Now think. Look around, what do you see?
Thank you, I'm half European, the pale skins wear the same shit. Its a culture thing in today's society. Thankfully we who do not fit this stero type, are cultivated differently.
I am from North Eastern part of India... I don't know...why.. we women wants to expose... Our body... Hmmmm 🤔 I think before men...we women are slowly going.. back to Eden garden...
Speaking for myself as a big girl, my mother taught me to have pride in myself and especially in my appearance, and I am a firm believer in that if an outfit doesn't look good on you no matter how much you like it, Don't Buy It!!!
Bless you my dear. I’m no light weight myself. So I try to be very reserved on the way I dress. No one ever made fun of me for wearing the proper clothing for my size.👍🏻
@@beverlyjordan8957 Amen to that! When I was a teenager I wasn't as heavy as I am now, but if I would be wearing the latest fad back then and my mom didn't like it she'd say to us, "don't tell anyone that I'm your mother!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What happened to society? Who has a picture of their grandparents, and can compare it to what we see today. They all looked so beautiful. Hair, clothes, shoes, and makeup. They looked like movie stars, and took pride in their appearance.
My old grandad dressed like Humphrey Bogart. Pressed trousers, polished shoes clean shaven,trench coat and trilby. He never left the house if he wasn't smart.
"If you need to use a damn shoehorn to get your clothes off.........they ain't your size!!" 🤣🤣 this man just be calling it as he sees it! He's still being respectful whilst being honest
"I want ya'll to be able to breathe properly; I'm concerned about your respiratory system". 🤣💯. "How the hell did you get it on, and how the hell do you get it off?" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same….. I’m 52…. My moms is 84…. She lives up the street from me. Let me tell you, if I left the house looking like that…. My moms would suddenly appear out of the bushes and drag my booty back in the house…. By my ear… Once in the house her shoe would come off faster than you can say “yes Ma’am” and it would be wrapped around the side of my head, over and over and over…. I’d be deaf after…. But at least I’d be dressed right ❤️💕😵💫😬🙏🏽
I donated ALL of my Mothers clothes to different Womens Shelters. She had all sizes some still had price tags on them. Some Designer outfits as well. Stockings, perfume, gloves, hats, shoes, pocketbooks. All for free. If you can't afford to buy, you can get beautiful clothes there. I donated my Fathers clothes as well to Mens Shelters. Please take advantage of their goods.
I am a big girl and I wouldn't dare go out in public like that. You got to always keep it classy. People already looking at you because of your size. So dress to impress because when you dress good you feel good....
Amen to that, Mz Rite! I used to be big and I was demonized and treated like I was the only big woman on the planet. I've since lost more than 100 pounds. But when I was larger, I bought larger-sized clothes that fit my body.
But that's not always possible. I've tried for 20 yrs to lose weight with drs help as well. Nothing works. I do not over eat in fact I eat less than most ppl I know. I have a thyroid problem also. It's easy say lyse weight but for many it just doesn't work no matter what we do. @@TruusvanEs
I see it all the time, it's embarrassing! I wouldn't come outside in hair rollers! We have to represent the next generation! Our young girls are learning from us to love and respect themselves! If I go outside wearing pajamas and slippers our little girls will think this is ok! We need to represent! 🙏✝️❤️😊
Amen!! I don’t care what color skin you have, wear clothes that are for your current Size! Please for the love! You will look nicer, feel better and walk taller with confidence in yourself! Thank you Mr. for this message!
Dignity & Decency: quality or condition of being decent; propriety of conduct and speech; proper behavior, modesty, courtesy, etc. When did we loose these beautiful things?
I can hear her now, walking out the door saying, this is just how I am!!! Ain't nobody's business what I got on!!! I dare somebody say somethin' to me!!!!
I absolutely 'HATE" to see young ladies wearing their clothes like this !!And Shuler you are so right as soon as you say something these young people get offended and proceed to curse you out. At one time people took pride in their appearance.
@@marydavis7978 she's saying "if flat stomach people can wear it and it's acceptable then I can too". She's probably saying "if I can live in it then they sho nuf can live out of it". 😉
Why? That doesn’t even LOOK like it’s comfortable on her. She’ll have to push down and pull up ever 30 seconds with neither the shirt nor the tights ever moving anywhere close to where they’re supposed to be. Who has time to do that without being constantly irritated and uncomfortable with what she has on. What’s the point when she can find clothes that actually fit, are comfortable and actually accentuate her body shape. I just don’t get it, and I doubt I ever will.
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And fellas pull your damn pants UP!
THANK YOU!!!!
Exactly 💯💯💯
Say it again for the people in the back!❤😂 please pull em up!
Amen to that, I get tired of seeing that, it AIN'T cute, NOR SEXY!!!
YESSS!!!!! PLEEEEASE!!!!
Thinking about the civil rights marches where every woman was dressed BEAUTIFULLY…..classy and elegant. How far we’ve fallen as a society.
Yes ! Elegance over sloppy. Aim for elegance!
I wish I could give this comment a thousand likes! Honestly it should be pinned!!! We have fallen as a generation, society and culture!!!
The 1960s is where the denigration of modern society began. Baby boomers threw the grenade, walked away, and have the audacity to comment on today’s generation.
@@VelveteenRabbit77This sint sloppy. It's just plain nasty looking. Not her or her size, just what she did with what she had.
Exactly! I’m sick of seeing pajama pants with fuzzy slippers, tank tops with holes, wadded up hair that hasn’t been combed, etc at all hours of the day/night in the stores. Looks like they haven’t showered at all. Disgusting. 🤢
I remembered once a long, long, long time ago in the past everybody wore clothes that fit properly and covered the whole body. I miss those good ole' days
Amen.👍🏼
Agree wholeheartedly.
As my weight has fluctuated over the years I've had to accept that I am a few sizes bigger than I was 20 years ago. I dress for comfort now and love me a good ol' elastic waistband. I find it hard to imagine that outfit is comfortable!
I'm at Union Station D.C, one of our people gets off Amtrak in a T shirt drops her money nothing but bare ass hanging out, no shame at all teenager at that. I miss ass whippings and switches.
No cheeks were showing from our short shorts. :-)
You’re NOT shaming anyone, you’re just being honest and much respect you’re 💯🫶🏼
She’s shaming herself.
No one else.
Have some self-respect. A little dignity, please.
@@carriesathame6070 She's ghetto. She seriously thinks she looks good. They don't call it ghetto for nothing.
Lots and lots of those bakery
women with lots of rolls on
display
That can’t even be comfortable!!!
😂😂😂😂
Exactly!
I know she feel a draft.
Right😂😂
It cant be good for her circulation at all. I hurt just looking at how those pants are. God bless her! 🙏🙏🙏
I am a plus size female and I have always said just because you can squeeze your fat butt into it, doesn't mean you should wear it. Yes I said it!
Amen, sister! ~ plus sized white woman who keeps it covered.
Say it again for those in the back 😂
@@kathiedavis7282 if anyone comes for you, you can hide at my house. I agree
Tell it like it is sister
I always wear 2 sizes bigger. Hide that 💩
“Dress the body you HAVE, not the body you WANT” - Tim Gunn
🤣😂😂
Amen
Absolutely
.lol 😁🤣
I like that! Yessss! 👍🏼💯😅
That’s not a muffin top, that’s a whole damn wedding cake.
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Underrated comment! 😂😂😂
😂 My new fave saying.. 😂
She Can't Think She's Looking Suave Ve' As That Old Song Goes. She Looks Like A HOT Mess!!!
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When, One Size Fits All, goes wrong 😊.
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Best one yet!
LMAOOO 🤣🤣
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We use to have a standard as black women. No matter if you were rich or poor we had dignity and manners.
My late parents (who would have in their nineties now) would never have left the house looking like this. They lived in an era of more racial inequities and more limited financial resources but they were always well groomed and neatly dressed. They took pride in being “sharp.” This woman is disgraceful.
Key word "had" which means you no longer have....
Not now/ Not her 😕🤣 She's got to be SICK, l shouldn't be laughing it's really sad.
Very true
Our women need to take better care of their health. There used to be a weight standard too. I live in the hood so I see it all the time. Low income, poor nutrition, poor motivation all leads to a whole lot of this....
Monique tried to tell the women to look presentable.
She tried.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And they tried to crucify her but she never lied!
And they argued with her to continue looking ratchet!
@@UppityOne they sure did!
On gawd!
it is clearly not working 👀😳🥴🤦🏽♀️
There needs to be a “Pounds per square inch” warning on Lycra clothing.😂😂😂😂
😆🤣😂 LOL too funny !!
There are some fabrics, like Lycra and Spandex, that should not be made into clothing over a size 12. I’m a size 18 and I don’t know how women go out in public looking like this. Have some self respect for crying out loud! If your belly done flopped over the top of your britches and your shirt is riding up so the whole world can see your business, get some clothes that fit! If your boobs are hanging out the bottom of your shirt and resting on your belly flap, put on a damn bra! The only other solution is to go around in a caftan like we wore in the 70’s. You can be buck naked under one of those and nobody will ever know. 😂
The first store buyer that said printed yoga pants in plus sizes was a good idea should have been fired.
If it turns shiny when you put it on, it's too small.
Most people wouldn't walk through their own home like that.....even if they were alone.
I know I wouldn't!!! I used to be fat and I still didn't dress like this!!!
This isn't confidence. This is "I DONT GIVE A ☆◇*K.
Facts 💯
For real!!!
Preach bro!😅🤣
BIG FUKN FACTS !!!
Absolutely!!!!
The only thing she has on that’s her size is the head scarf
And she even wrapped that too tight too 🤣
And she's pushing it with THAT
I’m pretty sure thats a shirt on her head
@@mbb8001 I'm cryin!!!!!
and bracelet .....
Wearing the right clothes in your proper size will actually make you look slimmer and as you say be able to move freely and feel better. It’s because the stigma of wearing a size zero or whatever ….just because you squeeze into something does NOT mean that it actually FITS. Please, have some self respect and also don’t let people you care about go out looking ridiculous. I would be heartbroken if my friends or family let me go out knowing I’d be ridiculed. It isn’t about other people dictating what you should wear, it’s about wearing something that flatters you and your body…..been plus size all my life… and sometimes it felt unfair that I couldn’t wear what my slim friends could, but that’s life. Not all fashion suits all people anyway. Thick or thin. ❤
😂I Love The Way He Says Wear YOUR Size !!😅
@@patsysmothermon7861 absolutely! Me too…it’s not rocket science is it😉
There is a fine line between confidence & not caring.
@@tiffanyrose9311 there are lot of people like her, just the copies of her. So no one's gonna spot her for being shown here.
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And clearly she doesn't care😮😮😮
He said Tina top too small!!! I died 😂😂😂😂😂
This is not caring!
We Black women get a bad rap, especially plus-sized. Please don't feed into the stereotype. I'm plus-size, and my belly hangs from Hernia surgery, but I put on my girdle (yes, girdle) and keep it Classy...
Fat don't equate sloppy. Some people just don't get that.
Amen 🙏
Amen!
I don't see how she could ever look classy in that "condition".
Your situation based on surgery
HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH
This woman wearing clothes that are way too small. She's dead wrong
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I came from a generation that if your forgot your clean white gloves you werent dressed correctly. How scary-far we have come.
How wonderful ❤
Same here....there was an expectation of you to dress appropriately! for the occasion and Heaven forbid!!!! absolutely no shorts/tanktops/flipflops in church!!! you did not have to wear designer stuff or suits but clean slacks/shirts and a nice house dress or pantsuit....people argue that with me and say "God dont care, he just wants you there" and that may be true,....but YOU should care and show respect for HIS HOUSE.....same as the wedding dresses women wear now, bustier's no backs lotssss of cleavage, they are dressed for the CLUB, nothing wrong with being modest and elegant for the special day, wear the club clothes at the dance/dinner later if you want, but not walking down the aisle, just my opinion and no one else's.
In 1979 after H.S., I went to a ladies finishing school. We wore white gloves coming and going from school.
In my younger days we would get dressed up and even wear gloves to pick someone up at the airport! I love comfort now to a point but, so many people look like slobs even wearing pj's and slippers to the grocery store.
Was just scrolling thru Little Rock 9 images, now that is unstoppable morale and confidence and dignity.
Even bread wears a fitting crust. Seriously, ladies show a modicum of dignity. I am loving your channel. Hugs from England.
Mirrors ladies, mirrors, I'm on the larger side so I buy for my shape, there are alot of flattering clothes, and very cheap, you don't need to spend alot. No one wants to see all that hanging out, believe me, we look nicer covered up! Mirrors, they are like gold to us.
They sure do tell us the truth. Lol
While i agree with you. I too look in the mirror b4 I head out. 😂
I'm sick of seeing women of any size walking around here with their boobs and behind splattered all out. 🙄
A mirror or a truthful friend
@@morningworship👍
Here in the UK we say "are there no mirrors in her/his house". 😊
This is exactly what Monique the comedian was talking about we as black women we have to do better.
Not we, I'm not part of this mess.
@@unreadthoughts2588 You must’ve felt that one… Lol 😉 Why did you take this personal🤪 I am not talking about one person, I’m talking about as a collective as a whole…. A hit dog holla…wow!!!
Unread Thought... you just said what I just typed on someone else's post. Thus MESS is NOT all black women. Stop labeling ALL for one person FOOLISHNESS
Tell Mo mind her business. This lady looks like she cares 😂😂😂😂
When Ill...Na-Na becomes Eww... Nope-Nope!
This gives a whole new meaning to busting loose😂😂😂
@ERICA Brown 😂😂😂😂
Looking like baby Huey 😂🤣
Biggie Smalls
@@applecider9968 the witch from The Wiz
@Erica Brown🤣🤣🤣🤣 hollin
Some ppl have no couth, shame, class, or style. Just let everything hang out.
This is a prime example of why home economics must be taught in schools. Mothers please talk to your daughters. This looks bad!
She looks like somebody’s mother.
😲 They still teach home economics!!
@@sheliamincey7510 I had that class I could NEVER figure out how I got in there, room full of washing machines and stoves. Made a pizza from scratch and got a peanut butter cookie recipe out of it.
@@UppityOne she does so I feel sorry for her daughter. When you know better you do better. Her size is not the problem to me. It is her sloppiness and having on an outfit too small.
@@ladyveevee2888 Agreed. I am not body shaming but I wish all Black women would take pride in our personal appearance.
Everything is too small. Stop taking that 3% spandex to its limits.
Im WEAK!!!!!
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OMG 😩😂🤣 You have me in tears!
Thank you Mr.King. You speak the truth.
Born in the 70's, elementary, middle, and high school years in th 80's. 90's college and Graduate school. 2000 started grown folk life. And during those times, Black folks especially, wouldn't dream of going out not looking their best. You were CLEAN! (Physically and Metaphorically). No way, NO WAY would anyone dare to present themselve like this...mercy why😢 (and I grew up poor)
Pants ironed with a crease!!!!
King you’re worried about hurting her feelings, but she hurt her own feelings when she put on her 10 y/o daughter’s clothes and left her house with them on.
I died ..... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯🙏🏽
Okay 👌
HER FEELINGS HELL ; WHAT ABOUT SHE HURTING OUR FEELINGS
SHE JUST BROKE MY FEELINGS INTO THOUSANDS OF PIECES THAT WILL NEVER BE PUT BACK TOGETHER AFTER SEEING ALL THIS MESS HANGING FROM EVERY SIDE OF HER BIG BODY....
THIS IS NOT A WOMAN THIS IS WHAT I CALL A NOTHING (WHAT'S YOUR NAME. ; NOTHING) YELP !
Lolololololol Too True!! Lol
No...she NEEDS her feelings hurt!!
Does this include all the men who's pants are "falling" off?
Well.....their breathing is not restricted....so probably not.
I hate it!!! Sagging is shameful too! Shouldn't be too big or too small.
Exactly mr4224!!! Same thing. No pride and self-respect. Why look like that? It's not appealing, classy or cool. If an individual doesn't think much of himself/herself, how much respect will they have for someone else?
@@jlcollins7673 Their running is.
Yes it should be
Amen! A proper size makes a person look soooo much better. The size is nothing but a number. Get the number that fits best.
Amen!!!!
Well Said and Funtay😂😅🤣😂😅🤣😅😂
Ginny...you ain't lying. Whichever one fits best IS YOUR SIZE!
I used to work retail doesn't matter bragging this is a size 10 when people see you should've bought a 16 looking like a busted can of biscuits
She actually looks bigger but she brought the wrong size
Not fat shaming. Its a fact.
If an “open can of biscuits” was a person 💀💀
Nooooooo whahahahaha..... You wrong for making me laugh....
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's a nice way to put it.
😭😭😭💀💀💀
😭😂😭😂🤣🤣😂😭🤣😂😭
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This is what happens when you got more body than clothes and more confidence than sense.
More confidence than sense. I gotta use that.😉
Say it louder for the people in the back 👏
😂😂😂😂 you's a beast!!! 😂😂
@L. T. DEFFO!! lol
Facts 😌
You're not body shaming her Shuler, she did that to herself coming out dressed like that
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Right!!😂🤦♀️
That part!
Correct
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You metabolism slowed down….SLIDING DOWN THE WALL LAUGHING!
She knew how she looked before leaving her house. She just didn't care.
Some people think that you can dress 3 sizes to little. Just don't look right period
I think she did care, she just wanted some kind of dialog with whoever dared to say something to her about! she's standing up there like she's got a negative attitude. I hope she was ignored.
@@kimberlitee6100 ....Not caring is how she got that body.
But why didn't she care is my question 🤔
@@lovinlifewithlaine ...Good question. Was she demoralized and abused growing up? Is she intellectually impaired? Or are some people simply born without the facility of shame? Could be all 3 of these conditions at work.
Mirrors + Daylight = Reality Check: Don't leave home without it.
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Amen and in that order.
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Like American Express 😂
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As a big woman i have kinda always had a motto of " if i don't want to see it, why would anyone else?". Another one being.. " just because you can get that item on your body DOES NOT MEAN IT FITS! " & That goes for anyone at any size
Say it louder for the people in the back!! 📢
And not all attention you get is good attention so be aware of that
“All I want is for you to breathe properly!” FACTS 💯
Ohhh lordy lord! 🤦🏻♀️
When “One Size Fits All” doesn’t work for all.
she looks pregnant and instead of wearing a maternity tank top she kept the same tank top from BEFORE she got pregnant...smdh
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Tell it! And just because it’s in your size doesn’t mean you should wear it.
@BethChambers now you know that was the greatest lie ever told by the fashion marketers 😒😆
What a loving, kind, gentle-man. No one could have delivered that message better. Tell your mother that she did a great job raising you.
Amen Ms. Marjorie. He he the king of delivering these messages while having us cracking up at the same time. I love him so much. Everything he is saying is so true.
But he is correct because folk get offended even when the most gentle of comments are made. Love this guy!
I love you Brother Shuler !
Yes
Yet, the message will not be received by the intended party
@@brignjesus he is an amazing black man.
I'm plus size woman who prides herself in looking presentable & respectful. If only sis knew the pleasure that comes from shopping for clothes that fit & look good on she wouldn't be walking around looking this ridiculous.
I often get praised by other plus sized women and smaller women about my clothes and my hair/head wraps. My mother instilled in me to always look presentable from my sweat clothes to formal wear.
I would never walk outside looking like that!!
I understand that sometimes we become products of our environments. I was privileged to grow up with a woman who knew her body, what fit it, and what was both fashionable and fit with her style. We just have to remember not everyone has access to that. We also have to remember not everyone has the right people around them to tell them the truth versus what they want to hear.
Mmmman! I swear plus sized women have some of the best styles! Used to accompany a plus sized friend when she shopped at Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart and wished they had many of the clothes in my size.
My homegirl ALWAYS looks classy, sophisticated, stylish and nice. Maybe she can reach out to this lady...
My mother was 500lbs when I was growing up...but she always dressed well and tried her best to look presentable. Like we all should.
I AGREE!! Men should be wearing the right sized pants!!!
With belts
Speaking about that
My waist is fighting me trying to force move up from 32 to 34 but, I am still in the fight to remain on 32 by cutting carbs, exercising and fasting
@@Defenderofthefaith-o8z Keep at it! I had a 19-inch waist when I married, but it's waaaaay above that after pregnancies and prednisone and some surgeries and old age. But I'm fighting it, too, the same ways. We all need to fight obesity and stay healthy. Blessings to you!
This man is exactly right. We women of color want respect but we also first have to respect our selves in how we dress and talk and act.
Mary I’m white girl from Glasgow Scotland & please believe me this is a normal look 4 sooooooooooo many ‘ladies’ 😳 in my hometown. I’ll never understand why family or friends don’t speak up 2 these people n let them walk about looking like that 🤷♀️ ❤️
@@nataliemccabe3290 I don't understand either. Just like the men that sag their clothing. They think it makes them look good or something. But in all honesty I know what it is. It's the sign of the times. In the bible God speaks of in the last days where everything will be turned upside down. Where what was once good will be seen as bad and the things that was once seen as bad will be excepted . Now think. Look around, what do you see?
There's some white trash out there make this look like vogue!
Thank you, I'm half European, the pale skins wear the same shit. Its a culture thing in today's society. Thankfully we who do not fit this stero type, are cultivated differently.
I am from North Eastern part of India... I don't know...why.. we women wants to expose... Our body... Hmmmm 🤔 I think before men...we women are slowly going.. back to Eden garden...
Speaking for myself as a big girl,
my mother taught me to have pride in myself and especially in my appearance, and I am a firm believer in that if an outfit doesn't look good on you no matter how much you like it,
Don't Buy It!!!
Thank you I've said the same. Dignity pride self-respect , modesty.
You are correct, I'm a big girl as well. If your clothes don't fit properly, you're not going to be comfortable.
That's true.
Bless you my dear. I’m no light weight myself. So I try to be very reserved on the way I dress. No one ever made fun of me for wearing the proper clothing for my size.👍🏻
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Amen to that! When I was a teenager I wasn't as heavy as I am now, but if I would be wearing the latest fad back then and my mom didn't like it she'd say to us, "don't tell anyone that I'm your mother!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He is ABSOLUTELY! Right. Wear your size.Listen.❤US,WE ALL Got To Do Better🫡👏
Just because they make it in your size doesn't mean you should wear it.
It is not even her size !! 🤦♀
What happened to society? Who has a picture of their grandparents, and can compare it to what we see today. They all looked so beautiful. Hair, clothes, shoes, and makeup. They looked like movie stars, and took pride in their appearance.
My old grandad dressed like Humphrey Bogart. Pressed trousers, polished shoes clean shaven,trench coat and trilby. He never left the house if he wasn't smart.
I'm kinda conservative person..
Damn I love old fashion❤️
It's classy, elegant and decent.
So true.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
SOOO TRUE....
this is not the old days no more lol and not all look like movie stars lol times change were not in the old days
You're not trying to hurt anyone feelings. If she came out dressed like, there isn't a chance in hell you can hurt her feelings.
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Real talk
Agreed
"Please wear your size"
yes man yes 🙌🏿 👏🏿
Yes ! Lord Jesus !
You are simply a speaker of the truth, pure and simple 😅
What in a “Biscuit Bussin’ out of a Can” is going on here?!🤔😳😆🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
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Somebody tell me please 😁😊😁😊😂😊
D.J. finest I needed that laugh!!🤣
"If you need to use a damn shoehorn to get your clothes off.........they ain't your size!!" 🤣🤣 this man just be calling it as he sees it! He's still being respectful whilst being honest
Yes he is. If you have to put on your clothes with lubricant, then it's time to go shopping for some bigger threads.
Fr!!@@jamesmathu5227
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If “my clothes shrink in the dryer”was a person 😂😂🤣😅
Screaming 😂😂😂😂😂
Her clothes done shrunk too many times !
Those clothes never was her size in the first place..
AMEN! Brother!!!!
Some things we can’t do nothing about - but we can absolutely make better choices.
“Babygirl, you got on your kids clothes” 😂😂😂😂😂 that shit took me out 🤣
🤣⚰️As I read your comment
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Weak 💀
This is the kind of woman that got mad when Monique said what she said.
You ain't never lied.
True. They embarrassing
What she said Girrrrl
Say ittttttttttiat😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😃😃🤣
Yes
And You Know That's Right
Chileeeee! If you don’t take off your teenage daughters clothes & dress your age 🤣🤣🤣.
A friend and I used to always say, "Just because it zips-doesn’t mean it fits."
If your belly is bigger than your pants, please find something else to wear! 💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣 on God
She pregnant and she's showing us her baby bump...🤔☺
@@geministwin6074 bumps, lumps, & humps! 😂😂😂🤮
“Booty do” is real! 😂😂😂😂
@@joemomma3208 LMAO!!!!!!!!!
A new meaning of
“🎶just letting it all hang out🎶”.
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She ain't no Brickhouse tho....
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Right!
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@@ryanbrown938 I am Leo Queen👑👠and I agree with your comment👈🏾
@@leoqueen300 thank you Queen.... at least somebody knows I wasn't trying to be rude, jus telling facts
@@ryanbrown938 👍
U delivered this message VERY RESPECTFULLY, VERY HONESTLY & IN LOVE.
Mr. king you are just adorable 😊. Thx for your words of wisdom.
*What in the Tina top too small is going on here? I cant!!! I love you..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!*
It's not the top it's the paniculus (butt belly) that won't fit into those leggings.
Just cause you can get in it don't mean you supposed to be in it🙄
She's not in it, though
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@@aredub6924 you got a point🤣🤣🤣
Shuler King 👑
When You Wear The Right Size
You Look Better and You Feel Better
And It's More Respectful So
Respect Your Self...Period😂
He's too kind.
Yes, respecting yourself is loving yourself!!!❤
Thank you, sir, for this public service announcement. 🤣
"I want ya'll to be able to breathe properly; I'm concerned about your respiratory system". 🤣💯. "How the hell did you get it on, and how the hell do you get it off?" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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RIGHT!! And if you need to use a shoe horn to get it off 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Why, Oh, WHY did she think her 11 year old niece's clothes would fit ha' a55? WHY!!!!!?????
She is really dreaming !
@proxyuxer I typed the 55 to replace ss. I didn't want this chic in this picture to make me curse.😂 But I'm pissed! Her outfit makes my a55 itch.😂
Nobody loves her because who let her go out the house looking like that?
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Nooooo!!!! Not the niece's clothes!!!🤣🤣🤣
2:45 17 to 38 is *21 years* 😂 but your point is still valid
I came here to say this. 😂🤣😂
Me too !
Spandex has really changed how we dress and not for the better.
Thank you, sir, for speaking about this in a mature, professional way! 😊❤❤
Nothing wrong with high self confidence like this BUT walking out looking like a can of busted biscuits ain't doing it 🤣🤣
@Artemis M 😁😂🤣😀😄😆🤐🤐🤐
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Remember there's a thin line between confidence and crazy and she just crossed it
Hahahahahaha oh u said it well 🤪
She doing her laundry so she had to put her daughter outfit on 😂
I'm a late 40's big woman and I wouldn't be caught dead wearing that. It's crazy. 🤦🏿♀️
Exactly, I wouldn’t even wear that in the house by myself.
Same here
Same….. I’m 52…. My moms is 84…. She lives up the street from me.
Let me tell you, if I left the house looking like that…. My moms would suddenly appear out of the bushes and drag my booty back in the house…. By my ear…
Once in the house her shoe would come off faster than you can say “yes Ma’am” and it would be wrapped around the side of my head, over and over and over….
I’d be deaf after…. But at least I’d be dressed right ❤️💕😵💫😬🙏🏽
Same! Wouldn’t be caught dead in that!
Even when I was in my twenties, I didn't or wouldn't dress like that.
I donated ALL of my Mothers clothes to different Womens Shelters. She had all sizes some still had price tags on them. Some Designer outfits as well. Stockings, perfume, gloves, hats, shoes, pocketbooks. All for free.
If you can't afford to buy, you can get beautiful clothes there.
I donated my Fathers clothes as well to Mens Shelters.
Please take advantage of their goods.
Xtra smedium pants and xtra large bodies don’t work well together. Aka “oil and water don’t mix” 😂😂😂😂
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This what happens when you read for entertainment and not for value.
@Joe Momma 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🎶 Little in the back but she got much middle! Baby got backs! 🎶
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Thank you so much for making me laugh at 9am on a Thursday morning 🙏😁😆😂🤍🕊️
I am a big girl and I wouldn't dare go out in public like that. You got to always keep it classy. People already looking at you because of your size. So dress to impress because when you dress good you feel good....
Amen to that, Mz Rite! I used to be big and I was demonized and treated like I was the only big woman on the planet. I've since lost more than 100 pounds. But when I was larger, I bought larger-sized clothes that fit my body.
You will feel much better by loosing some weight. Nothing beats that.
But that's not always possible. I've tried for 20 yrs to lose weight with drs help as well. Nothing works. I do not over eat in fact I eat less than most ppl I know. I have a thyroid problem also. It's easy say lyse weight but for many it just doesn't work no matter what we do. @@TruusvanEs
I love big girls, but I hate when a big girl wanna dress like a skinny girl showing their stomachs, but it end up looking like this 🤦🏾
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What is it that draws you to big women?
@@sparklesp9304 They can't run away from him.
@@lisageorge4599 - Damn, Lisa. LOL
LMAO at this entire comment section.
My grandmother used to say, "IF IT DOESN'T LOOK GOOD, DON'T STICK IT ON THE FRONT PORCH"!!!!
I understand
@@barrimartin9533 I don't understand but for this person I do!
@@triples5822 in other words leave something to the imagination
@@barrimartin9533 I doubt it bol
You just wrong for this statement ,thanks for the laugh ,I heard big momma in my head ,dont do it baby
I see it all the time, it's embarrassing! I wouldn't come outside in hair rollers! We have to represent the next generation! Our young girls are learning from us to love and respect themselves! If I go outside wearing pajamas and slippers our little girls will think this is ok! We need to represent! 🙏✝️❤️😊
A woman should ALWAYS have pride in her appearance, it shows she loves herself and respects herself.
Shiiiiiiiiiiit
This is disgraceful. She knew it was too damn small. She doesn't care. We shouldn't either
Nooo way that respect on herself ...
And a man is bringing this to her attention 😮
There is a BIG difference between "Confidence & Ignorance!!!" & THIS is my proof!
Exactly
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What she got to look good for her local neighborhood dusty kangzs
Personal pride and personal responsibility is becoming rare in USA.
Yes it is
I just love this comment!!
That part‼️
Becoming????
You just spoke volumes with those words!! They take no responsibility for their actions, their obligations, their children...
You said it so nicely, you really care about the women in your community
How can you even walk out the door like this? Someone, please...make it make sense.
It's not possible to make any sense. Makes me embarrassed and I don't have a personal reason to be.
I’m just ashamed as a human being, some women these days. Just shameful.
Ykr
Men too
Dont get 1 sided. Men doing the same
@@vjones3471 true
@@preciousbaby3652 so because men do it too that justifies it...smh y'all are some clowns
Amen!! I don’t care what color skin you have, wear clothes that are for your current Size! Please for the love! You will look nicer, feel better and walk taller with confidence in yourself! Thank you Mr. for this message!
Not when they don't give a rat's behind how they look
But I don't mean to offend but it seems black women are worse about this....
Dignity & Decency: quality or condition of being decent; propriety of conduct and speech; proper behavior, modesty, courtesy, etc. When did we loose these beautiful things?
I can hear her now, walking out the door saying, this is just how I am!!! Ain't nobody's business what I got on!!! I dare somebody say somethin' to me!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂exactly 💯 👏
And we won’t, if they don’t want to hear it enough said.
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Thank you for being respectfully honest 💖
I absolutely 'HATE" to see young ladies wearing their clothes like this !!And Shuler you are so right as soon as you say something these young people get offended and proceed to curse you out. At one time people took pride in their appearance.
She's not that young.
@@rosemarypierre4353 👀 Gurllllll, l was just about to say that... she ain't no sweet 16, 18, 21 or even 30!!
@@baileysice2715 Sista getting her sexy own! Y'all jealous!😅😅😅😅
@@marydavis7978 beautiful!😍
@@marydavis7978 she's saying "if flat stomach people can wear it and it's acceptable then I can too". She's probably saying "if I can live in it then they sho nuf can live out of it". 😉
The shoe horn got me…😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shuler, "I don't want anybody to feel bad about how they look."
She don't! No worries...
NOOOooooo🤣😂🤣😂👏🏾
She sure don't! Better believe that! According to her, she look fly! Love the confidence but damn!!!!!
🤣😂🤣😂 She doesn't feel bad or shame at all.
I just hollered!!!!!😂🤣😂🤣
Awwwww hell no 😂😂😂😂 chile????
Why? That doesn’t even LOOK like it’s comfortable on her. She’ll have to push down and pull up ever 30 seconds with neither the shirt nor the tights ever moving anywhere close to where they’re supposed to be. Who has time to do that without being constantly irritated and uncomfortable with what she has on. What’s the point when she can find clothes that actually fit, are comfortable and actually accentuate her body shape. I just don’t get it, and I doubt I ever will.
She don't look too concerned about pushing down and pulling up. She's just letting it all hang out!
And I bet you she thinks she sexy too
you dont want to accentuate that!
When you feel a breeze in places a breeze ain't supposed to be, your clothes ain't the right size. Period.
Periodt hahahaha
Well said sir. Bless you.