ISFJs are definitely the sweethearts of all the types. My mum, aunt and close pal are all proud ISFJs , and they are all generous, warm and giving. They take pleasure in the small things in life.
Thank you. Everyone knows there’s several types that are difficult. I’m not ISFJ but no less problematic at times. It’s people like you who are so very important to so many of us. 💯🙏
My husband is an ISFJ cop and his favorite assignment was when he worked as a detective. He’s extremely observant and hyper vigilant and protective. He dotes over me and his family. Very loyal in his relationships and selective about his friendships. He stays on task, is a self starter, and extremely humble about his accomplishments (many even very heroic which he would deny, thinking risking your life to save others is perfectly normal). He deserves more praise than he would ever consider acknowledging.
This video is what people need to know more about ISFJs. They don't get enough love in the MBTI community and that sucks. HAPPY YOU MADE THIS VIDEO! WELL DONE!
@@rahasiamanusiaanalyticalps3273 Hey! To answer your question, I'm not sure... When I was type, i was using the 16 personality test which is an inaccurate way to type someone, until I found out about cognitive functions, i started to learn what is it. I type myself as INFP for now, the same as i got 16 personality test because I think I'm morely dominant to Fi and have Ne, Si as i do things but again I'm not sure. Regardless what type i am, I think every type has it's uniqueness and strength, as well as weaknesses.
This was just fantastic! I am isfj and always frustrated by the stereotypes in the MBTI community… NI is always attributed to spotting patterns, and I know I see patterns but know I’m not infj… I love this explanation, it’s really about seeing consistencies that create patterns about people and ultimately make us good at reading people even though we’re not “intuitive “. If you’ve read Agatha Christie’s miss Marple, she always solves the case because the culprit reminded her of some other person she knew and she could see the people pattern. “The detective” was a perfect description. We isfj’s may be uncomfortable with compliments, but feeling seen and appreciated for something other than just being “nice” (which we are… 😂) is such a breath of fresh air. Thank you!!
This vid further demonstrates why you're my favorite MBTI commentator. No one else makes me feel as seen and accepted as an ISFJ, while still gently getting me to chuckle at my ISFJ quirks. You're absolutely right - even though I know "The Genius Of" is one of your series, I still felt a pang of embarrassment at having it applied to my type. So it helped that you acknowledged that right at the top! Also, I test out very high on N, which made settling on a type difficult for me for a long time, so I always benefit from contrasting my type with my almost-type, INFJ. I feel like I can "N" pretty well, but I always feel irritable and impatient when things get too immaterial or stay immaterial for too long. I love me some reality. :) Thank you for not seeing ISFJs as simple-minded or naive; it means a lot to get the encouragement and respect that you offer in your videos.
I couldn't agree more in that. The stereotypes have been pointing out just one side of us, in a very simplified way in a society where being "the good kid" equals boring, simple and surface pushover. They don't see the real us. And as you said very correctly, we can "N" pretty well. We have Ne after all and we aren't only using it to keep ourselves scared of the future, but to also understand others' perspectives and have thoughts and ideas and see all the possible outcomes and ways to solve the troubles, even before we even face them. And in the end, Si gifted us with incredible memory and focus on the detail. So...isn't that something that would help us be witty and learn to the heart what life, study and experience have to offer?
I know isfjs can be pretty smart but their si limits them somehow. Having to unlock your unconscious N is just a wonder to behold as a sensor. Makes me wonder how you perceive the world as an natural isfj going out of bounds with the typing system.
@@Dios_of_Autumn-1999 That depends on the upbringing of the person, their environment and culture as well, not just being sensor or intuitive. There are many ISFJs that while having strong Si, utilise their Ne and Ti highly. And if the person is mature and their lifestyle or circumstances call for it, they can put those cognitive functions into action and help them grow. So, let's not fall into the stereotypes' trap. It's too surface, as it would be to call an Ni dominant narrow-minded for focusing on just their own perspective. There is always more in people than just some sort of personality metric system. The best we can do is to see the data MBTI provides us with as a base to understand others, then go beyond that and see the people as individuals for what they really are.
@@CineMairon You really handled that comment very well although the person is literally looking down on S function. Keep doing you and keep defending what you are.
Thank you for this video. They are my favorite type and I really fucking hate lots of people in the mbti community for all the slander they did. Whenever highlighting the ISFJs, a lot of people are tunnel visioned on their weaknesses and underestimates what Si can do.
@@AnyaAnnika67 Here's the thing, I don't like for things to be appreciated just because it is comparable to other things. ISFJs are good by themselves. A lot of high N people of the mbti community got too fucking cocky online.
Really interesting analysis ! It's nice to highlight that their 1st function is Si and not Fe ! (ISFJ are often only described as nice people in MBTI communities, as if they had nothing interesting to say about. That's a bit saddening.)
My grandma is an ISFJ (sort of the 'perfect grandmother' type), and my youngest brother is also an ISFJ. They notice many details that others do not, in their physical environment and with reading people. Their wit and impressionistic views can be surprising. ISFJs tend to make great gift givers and enjoy serving others to some extent, and all they require in life is a little appreciation! They are just nice people. The only potentially negative thing about ISFJs could be stubbornness or close-mindedness if they think harmony or traditional values are being compromised. They might rather 'sweep things under the rug' or may even enable or enforce certain traditions or values that might not work for everyone as individuals. That said they tend to "get people" and not mean any harm, and just want what's best for everyone. I also appreciate their quiet confidence and resolve. Another thing I noticed is they tend to be home bodies. They like a little fun and adventure, but not for long, and must return to their space, which they tend to keep organized. Both ISFJs and ISTJs tend to need a more strict routine in their lives.
@@AnyaAnnika67 No, I would never say all of any given type is anything, but generally speaking, yes, ISFJs seem to be traditional. My brother who is an ISFJ isn't a traditionalist I would say, however he still leans towards some kind of convention/tradition within his world.
Wow! You really get ISFJ's. I agree the stereotype of their type is limiting, ('the Genius of the ISFJ'- great title). My ISFJ friend's wit is off the chart, if you come at her she can match wit for wit. Recently we hung out, & she was driving, we rode around a cude-sac, but she decide to park on another street at the corner, as we were walking to the house on the cude-sac, she notice a car that was now sitting where we had just past & said "that car wasnt there a minute ago, and I usually notice everything, it must have just parker there", (me SE🤯) this is after she related a conversation between me and another person in such details, that I was astounded!! as I had forgotten those details. SI-TI in ISFJ do not get enough credit. I feel they can be the Most balanced type. She has also traveled to other countries & around the U.S., she's pretty fun. She said she 'just realized she (unknowingly) has an expiration date on certain adventures/activities. She loves to be home & would love if she can stay put.' I love her quiet confidence, & real humililty. I think she cringes a little because I compliment her a lot. She feels, she's just does what she ought to do. And yes, she gives the best gifts.
Yes..I call going home 'touching base'. I can only function properly if I can touch base somehow..even If only mentally. I think it is the overload of 'data' or detail processing, and the 'camelion' tendency to try to find how I 'fit' best..i.e.what is the current need.
I so very much appreciate the part about open and close mindedness!! It's a stereotype I've been most frustrated about. The thing is that I have to admit that I'm not to be described as a curious person. As you say, I see a lot of patterns in the world (stereotypical a Ni thing, very happy you used it for us) and draw conclusions from that, make predictions and build my database. But I don't often ask questions I think, at least not compared to my N friends, this may be personal and not totally ISFJ related but I just don't think I'm of a curious or out of the box thinker. Questions are always practical to solve gaps in my thoughts. So when I hear about someone else doing something or living their life in a completely different way, I tend to react (silently) mesmerized, like (in my mind): "Oh! That's how you do it?" And I've had it happen with closer friend that they straight up say: "you're judging me aren't you?" But I'm really not. I'm simply taking this new information, processing why it does or doesn't make sense and storing it in my library. I never judge, I admire when people do their own thing, I love listening to new ideas. I just don't often come up with them myself. But I will always listen, accept and think with you!
same thing for me, actually, I relate to what you said a lot including that interaction with your friend😅. I often tell people I'm not an ambitious or curious person, but they always reply with "Oh, but you seem to know so much about a lot of things!", and my only explanation for that is that even though I don't actively seek out all that knowledge, I just happen to stumble upon it, and I still collect and store it away when I do find it cause you never when it might come in handy later on in other situations. As you said, it's particularly informative to hear the points of views of people who live very different lives to mine or have opposite personalities to me, I think it helps me hear different perspectives that I might have not thought of otherwise.
I want to thank you for this video even if I am blushing just by watching it. It's rare for my type to get any appreciation about these things that actually define us so much... So, thank you. The detective part is also very spot on when it comes to memory and detail. In both our workplaces, my ENTP brother and I have been the detective kind of problems solvers and lost item finders for some reason. So, we have an inside joke that we would do a perfect detective duo, with him being the outgoing one that looks for patterns doing the outer research and I would be the one that studies people and evidence, remember everything and catch the details.
@@AnyaAnnika67 Thank you for the recommendation. I think I have once happened to see some of their content. And yes, these mistypes are quite regular indeed.
AHHHH HE MADE ONE HE DID IT AHAHA Appreciate this video, my brother is an ISFJ and this video definitely feels like it describes the inner workings of his mind. I honestly wasn't aware of the stereotype that ISFJ's are close-minded and I really do think this couldn't be further from the truth. My bro is constantly asking questions and listening to new ideas to try and understand them but he's able to sift through information that he thinks is going to be used later and sort of discards what isn't really necessary. I think that this perceived closed-mindedness is actually more just a kind of tunnel vision they get but usually, once they get to the other side of their idea, they're ready for new information. I just think people don't give them the chance to reach the end of that tunnel ahahah. This was a great video, definitely don't think ISFJ's are the type to boast about themselves so it's nice to see someone else do it for them. I'm sure they're probably a little embarassed by it but man, the world needs to know about this underrated type imo, they're fantastic
I believe you are misunderstanding it. He cares about your and other's opinions, but more importantly he rejects everything he doesn't agree with. Hearing out others isn't same as being acceptable of other ideas.
@@kresovk5 I think what he tends to agree with tends to line up with what is credible and grounded in some level of reality. He's not afraid to be right or wrong as long as it helps him distinguis what's right and wrong, which isn't the nature of a close-minded person.
@@slipskolt7300 Hm, way you said is in first sentence (only agreeing with what he views as realistic) goes with what I said, cares about your opinion (Fe), but accepts for himself only with what he agrees with (Si). While close-mindedness can be extreme to point of rejecting everything unfamiliar, what word to use then when someone is reluctant to go with something that doesn't go well with their already established system? Because close-mindedness fits the bill for me then. I get where you are going with it, this is mostly semantics now to find exact word.
I work with an ISFJ and people see him as stubborn af, hard to work with, etc. But he is the person who I better get along with, work with and seek advice from. Si-Ti is an interesting combo, he is capable of foreseeing problems by finding inconsistencies in our working processes and past experiences, and guide to a better solution, but people usually dismiss it because we work in a highly Te-Se environment. Being secondary-Fe doesn't mean ISFJs have shallow feelings, they just throw at your face that they like or don't like you.
@@AnyaAnnika67 actually I get a bit from different places, I don't focus on specific methods :) but it's fascinating when you pair up the functions, I think it explains better some behaviours than when you look at them isolatedly.
As an INTJ married to an ISFJ, she encourages me to act upon the probability and not get stuck on figuring out all the possibilities and I can help her by offering her deep insight into other perspectives that could help shape decisions or offer new considerations for her, but I haven’t figured out when explaining how to “get to the point” (as I’m politely asked) or “make sense” (as accurately described) before I have to give up because it’s time to move on and discuss dinner
I couldn't agree more. My aunt is an INTJ and I am an ISFJ. We are both goal oriented, but methodology is slightly different. She has an abundance of ideas where I help her hone on them and make the jump, and she helps me think outside the box 📦 lol
@@AnyaAnnika67 MBTI lays out both similarities and differences between any two people/types, for INTJs and ISFJs have both dom Ni and Si respectively highlights our similarity of both being information gathers and needing time to sort through the data through our own lenses to make conclusions. Given we are both IJs, both can get oversocialized pretty easily and both value a definitive path or plan to a goal, how we process life to get there can be totally different and given our functional stacks are the exact opposite going all the way through the shadow functions, the best "answer" to any situation typically is a blend of our perspectives, easier said than done of course
@@bradleyj7801 I'm an ISFJ. And I'm quite intrigued with INTJs. You guys are very different from us. May I ask if you don't mind, what's the relationship of an ISFJ-INTJ like? This pairing isn't what's common in most mbti articles I read. But there are some.. I'm curious
@@keziahkeren7163 my MBTI journey began with dating my wife and trying to figure out in my head why logicially it should never work out because we function so differently yet why am I so attracted and want to be together, I could write a book, but to get to the point, God, faith, family, shared goals brought us together and then as this channel has put it, our individual approach to those goals have their own preferred routes. We naturally tend to operate in each other's blind spots which provides great security and admiration in a trusted relationship, but can lead to moments where the obvious to one is not on the radar for the other and requires communication and patience. When it comes to problems or helping, she prefers to be right in the middle of it and make sacrifices necessary, where I may prefer to try to solve it from a distance (provide tools/methodologies) or even avoid if I deem my help is not beneficial, but not for lack of caring (hence the "misunderstood" INTJ sterotype being seen as cold and uncaring). In the end, in addition to our foundation of faith, family, etc., we are both highly conscientious, loyal, down to earth, information gatherers, but function differently where I look at the big picture/perspectives in areas she would prefer to cling to one perspective and fully explore, I look at decisions from what is best for the group where she's better at looking at the needs of each individual, I look at how I personally feel and each individual could feel where she values harmonizing everybody's feelings, and then I like just getting stuff done my own way and trying new things where she'd prefer to do things as they have been proven or time and hold to traditions so with every situation, there is a balanced, introverted view we both share
@@bradleyj7801 thank you for taking time answering my question! I think it's great that God, faith, family and your shared goals brought you together. That is a good foundation. Are you both perhaps Christians? If so, I'm glad to know! I'm a Christian too. And it's vital for me to have a partner who share the same faith and love for the Lord aside from shared goals and values. Anyway, I've read from some ISFJs describing their relationship with INTJs as something very hard but also very rewarding. What are your challenges as a couple? And how do you deal with it? (if you don't mind sharing) And btw, I think both my parents are Si Dom types. My father is an ISTJ, my mother an ISFJ. I think ISTJs and INTJs are quite similar but very different in their thought processes. Have you ever doubted your type? And maybe consider ISTJ or different type? (Apologies for too many questions ✌️ It's okay if you don't feel like answering some of it. Thank you!)
I think my one of my friends is an ISFJ. She is really sweet and truly friendly and loving. She has a more quiet demeanor and doesn’t feel the need to be in the spotlight but she isn’t antisocial. She is very good at science (chemistry, biology, mathematics) and wants to work in that field later. She likes acting, drawing and going to the gym. She makes very thoughtful gifts which are often DIY. She rarely gets angry. She has problems standing up for herself. She can quickly change her mind about something if I bring in an aspect she hasn’t considered before which is why she can be perceived as a little naive or weak-minded. She procrastinates but always manages to do stuff on time. She is very perfectionist. She enjoys getting ready and loves looking at and creating beautiful things. Overall she is very pure, doesn’t have a manipulative bone in her body and is just genuinely caring but in a more passive and accepting way (unlike me as an ENFJ). Her friends often refer to her as a sweetheart and I feel very protective over her. Would you say that sounds like an ISFJ?
As an ISFJ I went to my great grandmother's once and I immediately noticed her new glasses. She said she had them for a week and I was the first person to notice.
I'm an INTJ and my two best friends are ISFJs and its fascinating to see the similarities in how the two behave. I appreciated the point that ISFJs are not closed-minded. I agree with that. In fact they're mistaken for closed-minded in precisely the same way that conservatives are mistaken for closed-minded. In fact they're both conservatives and not closed-minded at all.
I’m not sure ‘conservative’ is the right word, but ‘traditional’ might be. We certainly love traditions and routine. I’m an ISFJ and am very much a centrist. I don’t think ISFJs end up with extreme views either way as we value harmony and hate conflict. Politically I think we are mostly centrists, with some leaning slightly left or right but no ISFJ going far right or left.
Very accurate with our sensory description. I can spot a change within seconds. I would have made an outstanding detective lol, but behavior analysis it is!
I’m an INFJ who’s been dating an INFP. I’ve recently went on a date with an ISFJ and I must say it was a breath of fresh air the INFJ / INFP relationship can be deep and intense 😂
I like this description, but for me it needs additional elaboration. When not 'sick, ' or ready to collapse; I am observant, perceptive and present in the moment. That is data collecting mode..conscious and subconscious. I don't require what some may call concrete realism unless by it one means ANYTHING that I experience. I fully accept the existence of the Supernatural Realm, BECAUSE I experience it over and over. As a data collector I can back up my every experience with data whether another chooses to believe me or not. For THE RECORD..that other unseen dimension?.. is SUPER real. If anyone was wondering. 🤔👍❤! I really relate to this video.
I work in a crime laboratory, which is such a highly detail oriented job that requires us to leave no stone unturned in many different aspects. So as an ISFJ, I guess this is quite fitting! No wonder I wanted to pursue this career.
My wife is ISFJ and I am an INFJ man. We laugh all the time about her being in the real world and I am pie in the sky. She amazes me. For example, she does not have a degree...but she was asked to fill in and help out the accounting department. SHE caught the head of accounting embezzling money from the company. The guys at Corporate wanted to put her in charge! She is good as gold AND a force to be reckoned with. I love her. She keeps me in line...lol. ❤
just wanted to share that my mom has 30+ notebooks recording the most important and memorable events about my brother and I from birth to age 18. Drawings, funny things we said, movie and theater tickets, there is everything inside. Don't know if it counts as genius or craziness but it is impressive for sure
I'm an ENTP but I'm writing a novel and I wanted to know what mbti is my main characters are so I can help or be able to show and write them better, more human. For my main girl character I thought she would be an F and I. Absolutely. She is an artist but not confident. She hates the eyes being on her and to be expected of so many things that she feels overwhelmed that is that what she wants to do. She faced and will face so many obstacles in life and she will learn how to get through them, heal past traumas and accept the mistakes she made. I really love how you explain the types so I came here to make sure. I want to know my characters, to make sure I understand them first and then show them to the world.
In addition, ISFJ's Si-Fe can change it into information absorbing function (Ne like). What i mean is They have thinking of "Possibilities" on why people are like this or why people act like this. So they are looks like in Ne Grip.
I have an ISFJ friend who is a super-competent hard-working biological research scientist. She is smiley and bubbly and talkative so I thought she might be an extrovert. But she's like, no, she presents like that to be socially pleasant. That sounded familiar, so I said, maybe you're the same type as me (INFJ, once-upon-a-time also a biological research scientist)? She was immediately adamant that that was not the case 😂. She's probably thinking, um, no, coz I'm not some weirdo freakazoid lunatic. (I'm starting to wonder if friends and acquaintances think I'm weirder than I think they think I am).
Nah, she has nothing against you. It's just that when you know you have Si, you just know. Once I figured out what Si really was without considering ISFJ stereotypes, I just knew I was ISFJ and not INFJ. I still often relate to the INFJ in mbti sketches, since ISFJ tends to be so poorly represented. But once you've found the Si there's really no way to unsee it! And I totally relate to the bubbly personality. I present like that a lot, more often around introverts, since I feel the need to compensate and step up as the social kind introvert to make them feel more comfortable.
@@marta83809 Some definite similarities between the IxFJs. I got her to do two of the online tests. Both ISFJ. Thing with introverts is, you don't know all what is bubbling away in their heads. I asked if she lay in bed at night trying to conceive the size of the universe, or trying to picture all human suffering happening in that very moment. She said no.
@Caz Bee hahaha, I would say no as well. When I lay in bed, I am reevaluating the day, not necessarily worrying and overthinking (though it happens) but more taking the time to process things and arrange them properly. Take the time to look at things that happened from every angle, see where it connects, and can be useful, find a solution for problems during the day. I just let my mind wander through what pops up and process and arrange with my Si-Ti system. I also tend to wonder what went through other peoples minds when they talked to me or greeted me. Not because I'm insecure or scared, but because I'm genuinely curious about how they perceive me. Sadly, I know that it would be weird if I straight up asked them.
@@marta83809 Sounds healthy! And can relate to that. But more often I'm projecting forward to tackle future problems. Whether my own or other people's. Mental research. I was already thinking a lot about death and the universe as a child. Not sure if this is why INFJs (are rumoured to) suffer more anxiety and depression, or if that (neurological/biological) propensity opens our minds up to extra levels of thought. I think it's the latter.
I'm an ENFP and my lifelong best friend is an ISFJ and she's basically the best person I've ever met in my life. She's understanding, hardworking and doesn't hesitate to ground my stupid ideas back into reality while still giving credit to my creativity. She loves to talk about other people's drama but she never comes off as judgemental or rude, she's just very curious. She's also very quick to notice changes even though she mostly doesn't point them out. I'm very lucky to have her and I can't seem to find her any flaws 😂
I think the two (true crime) podcasts I listen to to get to sleep at night are by ISFJs (Killer Instinct, Blood Ties Podcast). But they are not particularly detailed recountings. Very calming storytelling though (played at 0.6x). Anyhow, they have both mentioned that they prefer weekdays to weekends. And Geoffrey Wansell (BTP) has said he doesn't like holidays. So I suppose that is a strong attachment to (Si) routine. I have wondered if an interest in true crime is more correlated with Fe/Ti. (Haven't come to a conclusion as I have no data. Plus, I listen to a couple of TCPs by INTJs, so...)
We love ourselves some riddles/puzzles. It's a puzzle and the pieces are there, we just have to figure out which details are important. It's a great way to stimulate our Si-Ti.
I've thought some more about this. And you know who DOES have incredibly detailed podcasts? isTjs!! Stephanie Harlowe here on youtube, and Stephen Pacheco of Trace Evidence Podcast. Very thorough researchers. If you listen to Stephen you will definitely think he's winding up, but he's actually only 2/3 of the way through because he wants to rehash the guts out of it 😄. I think listeners asked Stephanie if she was an INTJ (I was wondering the same) as she specifically mentioned she had to do things to understand them (I presume rather than visualising them).
So I've answered my own question by mentioning the IxTJ podcasters. I've tried to leave my blunder uncorrected. I'm REALLY working hard at being OK with inaccuracy. But it's deeply painful. So, ignore the Fe comment, please. *dying* 🤣
fum fact i have always thought i would be a great detective since childhood and so does my mum cuz even as a child, id always find things my mum hid from me like tv remote etc and would strategically use it and keep it back there so she never knew i found it in 5 minutes, similar happened so many times and now i know why
I wanted to watch the video after I learned one of my all time favorite characters in anime/manga is an ISFJ man (Senshi of Delicious in Dungeon). He is masculine yet nurturing, protective, wise and very hardworking.
My own mother is such an ISFJ as she’s the kind of person, to provide for the family, throughout the night, and not get swamped with petty demands, outside dire emergencies, (think NIMH’s Mrs. Frisby (not Frisbee, like the disc throwing toy, though it’s pronounced the exact same way)/Brisby, as an existing example).
Some people on a typology server tried to type me as an ISFJ due to me expressing concerns about my social life due to my social anxiety, as well as recounting former experiences as examples or analysis for my usual behavioural patterns- But while I think they seem like pretty cool people, the more I look into it, I just don't identify with this type at all. (Ironically my strongest function, according to 3 separate tests, my own understanding of myself, is actually the ISFJ's inferior function - Ne.) But at the same time, I've been in this spiral of doubting my judgement whenever I try to identify with one type, to a point I just vaguely started calling myself an xNxP of some sort. I wanted to stop thinking about it, but I can't. I can't handle not fully understanding my own mind but the deeper I dig, the more confused I get-!
I am isfj and Idk why I am so competitive and always want to be perfect idkk and I fear literally fear smart people like those who are mature and having intelligent mind and well mannered I fell like I am in a competition with them. Idk is a weird feeling and really strange idk why I have this Is this Isfj think idk.
@@افراحابراهيم-ن4ن It was her competitive nature as you described where she thought she always needed to prove me wrong. She could not handle the fact I would be right and it could be anything really. It was more an instinct from here based on emotions. I don't go into these type of arguments if I haven't done my homework and if there is an emotion based response from your side it means you don't engage the brain and think logically. You haven't done the homework really to discuss the issue its more about shooting the messenger.
They can be really judgmental because of their big respect for routines and traditions and also because of their blindspot about potentialities and about new approaches.
It depends on what do you see as traditions because in addition to the stereotype, it's not what most people think that might be. We don't actually much care about social traditions, but instead the traditions we create ourselves like spending Sunday night watching our favourite anime with our sibling, or so. And about Ne being our blind spot...well...it depends on how much each of us utilises our cognitive functions. And it also has to do with our upbringing and culture. Personally speaking, as a Greek with a culture based on analysing and questioning everything and an ENTP brother, my Ne is rather way too high.
I can't see most Si being employed towards outcomes. Either it would always be doing, about to be doing, or just having finished doing, something. These people would be hyperactive, or bored out of their minds. It must be about making memories, like cats, who memorize every square inch of a home property. Then notice when anything has changed.
The funniest thing is, none of the quotes you mentioned there are from an ISFJ type, as an INTP Si and Fe are my tertiary and last functions, but they do play a role, and INTPs and INTJs are the best detectives, cuz we have insights on things. And I think if ISFJs were great detectives they would have figured this out.🤔
@@solarisan_ SiFe constantly gathers information from their external world to find out if people think they are good or bad, and then they weigh this against their own internal Si values/opinions.
@@DrMeikoHayakawa Interesting. In practice, the cognitive process does not stop at Si Fe, but ok. Si is the first step of the mental/subjective step while Fe the first objective one. First. Not last.
As an entp, easy way to win against the isfj. I would like to use an excerpt from perun: When there the country is at the brink of civil unrest, and the political leader, religious leader, and economic leader are inside a room, who is the most powerful in the room? It is a trick question. It is the guard at the gate with a gun. Be the guard at the gate. Threaten the isfj, and they won’t have a fucking clue what to do.
Even after this video, I still can't see the ISFJ genius in any of the ones around me. Someone help! Not trying to be rude forreal, I just can't understand ISFJs -ENFP.
It’s because we rather be humble and maintain our sentiments without feeling the need to flex how intelligent we are. Our “geniuses” is usually over something we are passionate about and keep to ourselves without feeling the need to show it to others.
No name Thank you for explaining this. I don't think the ISFJ I'm friends with realize her genius, humility is just her definition. She learned another language as I and traveled to the country of that language, and wouldn't allow anyone to take advantage of us, she says she's not fluent but I witnesses something different. She masters whatever at the time has decided to do. She was asked to learn a whole new process at work, in which she had to take a course for a few weeks, and is like an expert now...I jokingly say she runs that business now, because she is Super competent the owners answers all her request 🤣
I'm an ENFP with an ISFJ partner. Not sure about your friends but my ISFJ keeps me real, is someone I can lean on when all my abstract thinking buds are busy with their own drama (NFs and NTs). He is there with open ears and arms and is smart- so it is invaluable to have a mate like this for us (I think so anyway). He does notice everything, and so we talk about people a lot. He is not perfect, by the way, but when I realized how lucky I was, I had to sort out my baggage pretty quickly. He was just patient. He really listens. I give him space. I can trust him. All that has been incredibly freeing. I have different criteria for a mate than for friendships. Hope that helps?
They really love to stay under the radar. Any form of boasting or not being humble is seen as very cringe to them, even if them speaking up in reality would not be seen as such, they would see it as such. So they will remain silent although they probably know the answer to many different things that are being discussed or at least have a really good understanding of how things will play out. Try asking your friend directly their opinion on certain things or their opinion on a certain dilemma. You may be astonished by the sheer logic and reasoning behind their answer and may leave you feeling like a light bulb turning on in your head.
although I didn't bother watching a single millisecond of this video, I'd like to state that it'd be fabulous if you can share some insight on the admirable strengths of healthy and confident ESFJs
ISFJs are definitely the sweethearts of all the types. My mum, aunt and close pal are all proud ISFJs , and they are all generous, warm and giving. They take pleasure in the small things in life.
Thank you. Everyone knows there’s several types that are difficult. I’m not ISFJ but no less problematic at times.
It’s people like you who are so very important to so many of us. 💯🙏
Thanks. I’m ISFJ.
Healthy ISFJs
My husband is an ISFJ cop and his favorite assignment was when he worked as a detective. He’s extremely observant and hyper vigilant and protective. He dotes over me and his family. Very loyal in his relationships and selective about his friendships. He stays on task, is a self starter, and extremely humble about his accomplishments (many even very heroic which he would deny, thinking risking your life to save others is perfectly normal). He deserves more praise than he would ever consider acknowledging.
This video is what people need to know more about ISFJs. They don't get enough love in the MBTI community and that sucks. HAPPY YOU MADE THIS VIDEO! WELL DONE!
This is sadly true, thank you.
I too simply wanted to thank you, excellent observation and inclusive. 🫶💯
@Ifa Syafia
Hi are you an isfj?
@@rahasiamanusiaanalyticalps3273
Hey! To answer your question, I'm not sure... When I was type, i was using the 16 personality test which is an inaccurate way to type someone, until I found out about cognitive functions, i started to learn what is it.
I type myself as INFP for now, the same as i got 16 personality test because I think I'm morely dominant to Fi and have Ne, Si as i do things but again I'm not sure.
Regardless what type i am, I think every type has it's uniqueness and strength, as well as weaknesses.
This was just fantastic! I am isfj and always frustrated by the stereotypes in the MBTI community… NI is always attributed to spotting patterns, and I know I see patterns but know I’m not infj… I love this explanation, it’s really about seeing consistencies that create patterns about people and ultimately make us good at reading people even though we’re not “intuitive “. If you’ve read Agatha Christie’s miss Marple, she always solves the case because the culprit reminded her of some other person she knew and she could see the people pattern. “The detective” was a perfect description. We isfj’s may be uncomfortable with compliments, but feeling seen and appreciated for something other than just being “nice” (which we are… 😂) is such a breath of fresh air. Thank you!!
You wrote what I had in my heart!😍
Jenn Karol
Are you an isfj?
I like your example in your comment.
This vid further demonstrates why you're my favorite MBTI commentator. No one else makes me feel as seen and accepted as an ISFJ, while still gently getting me to chuckle at my ISFJ quirks. You're absolutely right - even though I know "The Genius Of" is one of your series, I still felt a pang of embarrassment at having it applied to my type. So it helped that you acknowledged that right at the top! Also, I test out very high on N, which made settling on a type difficult for me for a long time, so I always benefit from contrasting my type with my almost-type, INFJ. I feel like I can "N" pretty well, but I always feel irritable and impatient when things get too immaterial or stay immaterial for too long. I love me some reality. :) Thank you for not seeing ISFJs as simple-minded or naive; it means a lot to get the encouragement and respect that you offer in your videos.
I couldn't agree more in that. The stereotypes have been pointing out just one side of us, in a very simplified way in a society where being "the good kid" equals boring, simple and surface pushover. They don't see the real us. And as you said very correctly, we can "N" pretty well. We have Ne after all and we aren't only using it to keep ourselves scared of the future, but to also understand others' perspectives and have thoughts and ideas and see all the possible outcomes and ways to solve the troubles, even before we even face them.
And in the end, Si gifted us with incredible memory and focus on the detail. So...isn't that something that would help us be witty and learn to the heart what life, study and experience have to offer?
I know isfjs can be pretty smart but their si limits them somehow. Having to unlock your unconscious N is just a wonder to behold as a sensor. Makes me wonder how you perceive the world as an natural isfj going out of bounds with the typing system.
@@Dios_of_Autumn-1999 That depends on the upbringing of the person, their environment and culture as well, not just being sensor or intuitive. There are many ISFJs that while having strong Si, utilise their Ne and Ti highly. And if the person is mature and their lifestyle or circumstances call for it, they can put those cognitive functions into action and help them grow. So, let's not fall into the stereotypes' trap. It's too surface, as it would be to call an Ni dominant narrow-minded for focusing on just their own perspective. There is always more in people than just some sort of personality metric system. The best we can do is to see the data MBTI provides us with as a base to understand others, then go beyond that and see the people as individuals for what they really are.
@@Dios_of_Autumn-1999 stop talking lol
@@CineMairon You really handled that comment very well although the person is literally looking down on S function. Keep doing you and keep defending what you are.
I guess that's why Watson (an ISFJ) is a good partner to Sherlock (an INTP) when they work cases.
Best husband ever!! ❤ He notices things I need and spoils me. I’m INFJ and appreciate him very much.
Thank you for this video. They are my favorite type and I really fucking hate lots of people in the mbti community for all the slander they did. Whenever highlighting the ISFJs, a lot of people are tunnel visioned on their weaknesses and underestimates what Si can do.
@@AnyaAnnika67 Here's the thing, I don't like for things to be appreciated just because it is comparable to other things. ISFJs are good by themselves. A lot of high N people of the mbti community got too fucking cocky online.
When I was little I was pretty sure I could conquer...I think ISFJ's really soar.. when we're up..we're up.🦅❤
Really interesting analysis ! It's nice to highlight that their 1st function is Si and not Fe ! (ISFJ are often only described as nice people in MBTI communities, as if they had nothing interesting to say about. That's a bit saddening.)
My grandma is an ISFJ (sort of the 'perfect grandmother' type), and my youngest brother is also an ISFJ. They notice many details that others do not, in their physical environment and with reading people. Their wit and impressionistic views can be surprising. ISFJs tend to make great gift givers and enjoy serving others to some extent, and all they require in life is a little appreciation! They are just nice people. The only potentially negative thing about ISFJs could be stubbornness or close-mindedness if they think harmony or traditional values are being compromised. They might rather 'sweep things under the rug' or may even enable or enforce certain traditions or values that might not work for everyone as individuals. That said they tend to "get people" and not mean any harm, and just want what's best for everyone. I also appreciate their quiet confidence and resolve. Another thing I noticed is they tend to be home bodies. They like a little fun and adventure, but not for long, and must return to their space, which they tend to keep organized. Both ISFJs and ISTJs tend to need a more strict routine in their lives.
@@AnyaAnnika67 No, I would never say all of any given type is anything, but generally speaking, yes, ISFJs seem to be traditional. My brother who is an ISFJ isn't a traditionalist I would say, however he still leans towards some kind of convention/tradition within his world.
Wow! You really get ISFJ's. I agree the stereotype of their type is limiting, ('the Genius of the ISFJ'- great title). My ISFJ friend's wit is off the chart, if you come at her she can match wit for wit. Recently we hung out, & she was driving, we rode around a cude-sac, but she decide to park on another street at the corner, as we were walking to the house on the cude-sac, she notice a car that was now sitting where we had just past & said "that car wasnt there a minute ago, and I usually notice everything, it must have just parker there", (me SE🤯) this is after she related a conversation between me and another person in such details, that I was astounded!! as I had forgotten those details. SI-TI in ISFJ do not get enough credit. I feel they can be the Most balanced type. She has also traveled to other countries & around the U.S., she's pretty fun. She said she 'just realized she (unknowingly) has an expiration date on certain adventures/activities. She loves to be home & would love if she can stay put.' I love her quiet confidence, & real humililty. I think she cringes a little because I compliment her a lot. She feels, she's just does what she ought to do. And yes, she gives the best gifts.
@@optimist-ri1439 Sounds like a great friend 😊. ISFJs can make you feel at home and grounded.
Yes..I call going home 'touching base'. I can only function properly if I can touch base somehow..even
If only mentally. I think it is the overload of 'data' or detail processing, and the 'camelion' tendency to try to find how I 'fit'
best..i.e.what is the current need.
Wow the noticing details is me especially reading people
They are the sweetest nicest people ❤️ps. And loyalty is just outstanding 😍
I so very much appreciate the part about open and close mindedness!! It's a stereotype I've been most frustrated about. The thing is that I have to admit that I'm not to be described as a curious person. As you say, I see a lot of patterns in the world (stereotypical a Ni thing, very happy you used it for us) and draw conclusions from that, make predictions and build my database. But I don't often ask questions I think, at least not compared to my N friends, this may be personal and not totally ISFJ related but I just don't think I'm of a curious or out of the box thinker. Questions are always practical to solve gaps in my thoughts.
So when I hear about someone else doing something or living their life in a completely different way, I tend to react (silently) mesmerized, like (in my mind): "Oh! That's how you do it?" And I've had it happen with closer friend that they straight up say: "you're judging me aren't you?"
But I'm really not. I'm simply taking this new information, processing why it does or doesn't make sense and storing it in my library. I never judge, I admire when people do their own thing, I love listening to new ideas. I just don't often come up with them myself. But I will always listen, accept and think with you!
same thing for me, actually, I relate to what you said a lot including that interaction with your friend😅.
I often tell people I'm not an ambitious or curious person, but they always reply with "Oh, but you seem to know so much about a lot of things!", and my only explanation for that is that even though I don't actively seek out all that knowledge, I just happen to stumble upon it, and I still collect and store it away when I do find it cause you never when it might come in handy later on in other situations.
As you said, it's particularly informative to hear the points of views of people who live very different lives to mine or have opposite personalities to me, I think it helps me hear different perspectives that I might have not thought of otherwise.
I want to thank you for this video even if I am blushing just by watching it. It's rare for my type to get any appreciation about these things that actually define us so much...
So, thank you.
The detective part is also very spot on when it comes to memory and detail.
In both our workplaces, my ENTP brother and I have been the detective kind of problems solvers and lost item finders for some reason. So, we have an inside joke that we would do a perfect detective duo, with him being the outgoing one that looks for patterns doing the outer research and I would be the one that studies people and evidence, remember everything and catch the details.
@@AnyaAnnika67 Thank you for the recommendation. I think I have once happened to see some of their content. And yes, these mistypes are quite regular indeed.
AHHHH HE MADE ONE HE DID IT AHAHA
Appreciate this video, my brother is an ISFJ and this video definitely feels like it describes the inner workings of his mind. I honestly wasn't aware of the stereotype that ISFJ's are close-minded and I really do think this couldn't be further from the truth. My bro is constantly asking questions and listening to new ideas to try and understand them but he's able to sift through information that he thinks is going to be used later and sort of discards what isn't really necessary. I think that this perceived closed-mindedness is actually more just a kind of tunnel vision they get but usually, once they get to the other side of their idea, they're ready for new information. I just think people don't give them the chance to reach the end of that tunnel ahahah.
This was a great video, definitely don't think ISFJ's are the type to boast about themselves so it's nice to see someone else do it for them. I'm sure they're probably a little embarassed by it but man, the world needs to know about this underrated type imo, they're fantastic
I believe you are misunderstanding it. He cares about your and other's opinions, but more importantly he rejects everything he doesn't agree with. Hearing out others isn't same as being acceptable of other ideas.
@@kresovk5 I think what he tends to agree with tends to line up with what is credible and grounded in some level of reality. He's not afraid to be right or wrong as long as it helps him distinguis what's right and wrong, which isn't the nature of a close-minded person.
@@slipskolt7300 Hm, way you said is in first sentence (only agreeing with what he views as realistic) goes with what I said, cares about your opinion (Fe), but accepts for himself only with what he agrees with (Si).
While close-mindedness can be extreme to point of rejecting everything unfamiliar, what word to use then when someone is reluctant to go with something that doesn't go well with their already established system?
Because close-mindedness fits the bill for me then.
I get where you are going with it, this is mostly semantics now to find exact word.
I really enjoy your ISFJ videos. They're so accurate.
I work with an ISFJ and people see him as stubborn af, hard to work with, etc. But he is the person who I better get along with, work with and seek advice from. Si-Ti is an interesting combo, he is capable of foreseeing problems by finding inconsistencies in our working processes and past experiences, and guide to a better solution, but people usually dismiss it because we work in a highly Te-Se environment. Being secondary-Fe doesn't mean ISFJs have shallow feelings, they just throw at your face that they like or don't like you.
@@AnyaAnnika67 actually I get a bit from different places, I don't focus on specific methods :) but it's fascinating when you pair up the functions, I think it explains better some behaviours than when you look at them isolatedly.
I'm an isfj and I've always been able to forsee problems. But people stubbornly don't listen or go into denial. It's kinda nightmarish.
One of the best types out there
As an INTJ married to an ISFJ, she encourages me to act upon the probability and not get stuck on figuring out all the possibilities and I can help her by offering her deep insight into other perspectives that could help shape decisions or offer new considerations for her, but I haven’t figured out when explaining how to “get to the point” (as I’m politely asked) or “make sense” (as accurately described) before I have to give up because it’s time to move on and discuss dinner
I couldn't agree more. My aunt is an INTJ and I am an ISFJ. We are both goal oriented, but methodology is slightly different. She has an abundance of ideas where I help her hone on them and make the jump, and she helps me think outside the box 📦 lol
@@AnyaAnnika67 MBTI lays out both similarities and differences between any two people/types, for INTJs and ISFJs have both dom Ni and Si respectively highlights our similarity of both being information gathers and needing time to sort through the data through our own lenses to make conclusions. Given we are both IJs, both can get oversocialized pretty easily and both value a definitive path or plan to a goal, how we process life to get there can be totally different and given our functional stacks are the exact opposite going all the way through the shadow functions, the best "answer" to any situation typically is a blend of our perspectives, easier said than done of course
@@bradleyj7801 I'm an ISFJ. And I'm quite intrigued with INTJs. You guys are very different from us. May I ask if you don't mind, what's the relationship of an ISFJ-INTJ like? This pairing isn't what's common in most mbti articles I read. But there are some.. I'm curious
@@keziahkeren7163 my MBTI journey began with dating my wife and trying to figure out in my head why logicially it should never work out because we function so differently yet why am I so attracted and want to be together, I could write a book, but to get to the point, God, faith, family, shared goals brought us together and then as this channel has put it, our individual approach to those goals have their own preferred routes. We naturally tend to operate in each other's blind spots which provides great security and admiration in a trusted relationship, but can lead to moments where the obvious to one is not on the radar for the other and requires communication and patience. When it comes to problems or helping, she prefers to be right in the middle of it and make sacrifices necessary, where I may prefer to try to solve it from a distance (provide tools/methodologies) or even avoid if I deem my help is not beneficial, but not for lack of caring (hence the "misunderstood" INTJ sterotype being seen as cold and uncaring). In the end, in addition to our foundation of faith, family, etc., we are both highly conscientious, loyal, down to earth, information gatherers, but function differently where I look at the big picture/perspectives in areas she would prefer to cling to one perspective and fully explore, I look at decisions from what is best for the group where she's better at looking at the needs of each individual, I look at how I personally feel and each individual could feel where she values harmonizing everybody's feelings, and then I like just getting stuff done my own way and trying new things where she'd prefer to do things as they have been proven or time and hold to traditions so with every situation, there is a balanced, introverted view we both share
@@bradleyj7801 thank you for taking time answering my question! I think it's great that God, faith, family and your shared goals brought you together. That is a good foundation. Are you both perhaps Christians? If so, I'm glad to know! I'm a Christian too. And it's vital for me to have a partner who share the same faith and love for the Lord aside from shared goals and values.
Anyway, I've read from some ISFJs describing their relationship with INTJs as something very hard but also very rewarding. What are your challenges as a couple? And how do you deal with it? (if you don't mind sharing)
And btw, I think both my parents are Si Dom types. My father is an ISTJ, my mother an ISFJ. I think ISTJs and INTJs are quite similar but very different in their thought processes. Have you ever doubted your type? And maybe consider ISTJ or different type?
(Apologies for too many questions ✌️ It's okay if you don't feel like answering some of it. Thank you!)
I think my one of my friends is an ISFJ.
She is really sweet and truly friendly and loving. She has a more quiet demeanor and doesn’t feel the need to be in the spotlight but she isn’t antisocial. She is very good at science (chemistry, biology, mathematics) and wants to work in that field later. She likes acting, drawing and going to the gym. She makes very thoughtful gifts which are often DIY. She rarely gets angry. She has problems standing up for herself. She can quickly change her mind about something if I bring in an aspect she hasn’t considered before which is why she can be perceived as a little naive or weak-minded. She procrastinates but always manages to do stuff on time. She is very perfectionist. She enjoys getting ready and loves looking at and creating beautiful things. Overall she is very pure, doesn’t have a manipulative bone in her body and is just genuinely caring but in a more passive and accepting way (unlike me as an ENFJ). Her friends often refer to her as a sweetheart and I feel very protective over her.
Would you say that sounds like an ISFJ?
Yeah 1000%
I am isfj and I can definitely relate but
Idk if I am as sweet tho
Yes, very much likely!
I'm a ISFJ too, it made me feel like was a description of myself
Definitely relatable! I’m an ISFJ and I was wondering if you were an INFJ but see you’re an ENFJ:) Very intuitive of you!
Love our descriptions! Thank you! -ISFJ
As an ISFJ I went to my great grandmother's once and I immediately noticed her new glasses. She said she had them for a week and I was the first person to notice.
Thank you for this. Some I love so dearly have always been a mystery to me.
Just give them a compliment once in a while
This was so incredible! So sick of ISFJ MBTI stereotypes lol. Thanks! 😁
One of my favorite ISFJ videos yet. Thank you!
2:05 I love how you clarify this point :)
Thanks for making this! As an ISFJ, the ending really resonated with me and I appreciate it
That’s really awesome to hear! ISFJs don’t get many videos made about them, so it’s always nice to push back against that trend ~ Nathan
Yeeey another video about ISFJs😊
Dedicated loving family and career persons who analytically try on things to see if they'll work as well as what's past.
Thank you for the compliment 🥹🌻☀️🤸🏼♀️💕
I'm not an ISFJ, I think one of my buddies is...already subbed but I liked this video because of the devilishly witty closing remark.
I'm an INTJ and my two best friends are ISFJs and its fascinating to see the similarities in how the two behave. I appreciated the point that ISFJs are not closed-minded. I agree with that. In fact they're mistaken for closed-minded in precisely the same way that conservatives are mistaken for closed-minded. In fact they're both conservatives and not closed-minded at all.
I’m not sure ‘conservative’ is the right word, but ‘traditional’ might be. We certainly love traditions and routine. I’m an ISFJ and am very much a centrist. I don’t think ISFJs end up with extreme views either way as we value harmony and hate conflict. Politically I think we are mostly centrists, with some leaning slightly left or right but no ISFJ going far right or left.
Very accurate with our sensory description. I can spot a change within seconds. I would have made an outstanding detective lol, but behavior analysis it is!
I’m an INFJ who’s been dating an INFP. I’ve recently went on a date with an ISFJ and I must say it was a breath of fresh air the INFJ / INFP relationship can be deep and intense 😂
I like this description, but for me it needs additional elaboration. When not 'sick, ' or ready to collapse;
I am observant, perceptive and present in the moment. That is
data collecting mode..conscious and subconscious. I don't require what some may call concrete realism unless by it one means
ANYTHING that I experience. I fully accept the existence of the
Supernatural Realm, BECAUSE I
experience it over and over. As a
data collector I can back up my
every experience with data whether another chooses to believe me or not. For THE RECORD..that other unseen dimension?.. is SUPER real. If anyone was wondering.
🤔👍❤! I really relate to this video.
I work in a crime laboratory, which is such a highly detail oriented job that requires us to leave no stone unturned in many different aspects. So as an ISFJ, I guess this is quite fitting! No wonder I wanted to pursue this career.
My wife is ISFJ and I am an INFJ man. We laugh all the time about her being in the real world and I am pie in the sky. She amazes me. For example, she does not have a degree...but she was asked to fill in and help out the accounting department. SHE caught the head of accounting embezzling money from the company. The guys at Corporate wanted to put her in charge! She is good as gold AND a force to be reckoned with. I love her. She keeps me in line...lol. ❤
I was mistyped as INTP, but after a little observing find your channel. Thanks❤
just wanted to share that my mom has 30+ notebooks recording the most important and memorable events about my brother and I from birth to age 18. Drawings, funny things we said, movie and theater tickets, there is everything inside. Don't know if it counts as genius or craziness but it is impressive for sure
I think you'll see more and more value about these notebooks as you get older.
sounds like something da vinci would do
I'm an ENTP but I'm writing a novel and I wanted to know what mbti is my main characters are so I can help or be able to show and write them better, more human. For my main girl character I thought she would be an F and I. Absolutely. She is an artist but not confident. She hates the eyes being on her and to be expected of so many things that she feels overwhelmed that is that what she wants to do. She faced and will face so many obstacles in life and she will learn how to get through them, heal past traumas and accept the mistakes she made. I really love how you explain the types so I came here to make sure. I want to know my characters, to make sure I understand them first and then show them to the world.
In addition, ISFJ's Si-Fe can change it into information absorbing function (Ne like). What i mean is They have thinking of "Possibilities" on why people are like this or why people act like this. So they are looks like in Ne Grip.
More ISFJ videos please!!!
Most of famous detectives are actually ISFJs, especially those created by Agatha Christie. Hercule Poirot and Miss Marple are definitely ISFJs
I have an ISFJ friend who is a super-competent hard-working biological research scientist. She is smiley and bubbly and talkative so I thought she might be an extrovert. But she's like, no, she presents like that to be socially pleasant. That sounded familiar, so I said, maybe you're the same type as me (INFJ, once-upon-a-time also a biological research scientist)? She was immediately adamant that that was not the case 😂. She's probably thinking, um, no, coz I'm not some weirdo freakazoid lunatic. (I'm starting to wonder if friends and acquaintances think I'm weirder than I think they think I am).
Nah, she has nothing against you. It's just that when you know you have Si, you just know. Once I figured out what Si really was without considering ISFJ stereotypes, I just knew I was ISFJ and not INFJ. I still often relate to the INFJ in mbti sketches, since ISFJ tends to be so poorly represented. But once you've found the Si there's really no way to unsee it!
And I totally relate to the bubbly personality. I present like that a lot, more often around introverts, since I feel the need to compensate and step up as the social kind introvert to make them feel more comfortable.
@@marta83809 Some definite similarities between the IxFJs.
I got her to do two of the online tests. Both ISFJ.
Thing with introverts is, you don't know all what is bubbling away in their heads. I asked if she lay in bed at night trying to conceive the size of the universe, or trying to picture all human suffering happening in that very moment. She said no.
@Caz Bee hahaha, I would say no as well. When I lay in bed, I am reevaluating the day, not necessarily worrying and overthinking (though it happens) but more taking the time to process things and arrange them properly. Take the time to look at things that happened from every angle, see where it connects, and can be useful, find a solution for problems during the day. I just let my mind wander through what pops up and process and arrange with my Si-Ti system.
I also tend to wonder what went through other peoples minds when they talked to me or greeted me. Not because I'm insecure or scared, but because I'm genuinely curious about how they perceive me. Sadly, I know that it would be weird if I straight up asked them.
@@AnyaAnnika67 Yes, I'm sure she loves being in her home, but definitely not a "homemaker". Not married, no kids, no religion. Same as me.
@@marta83809 Sounds healthy! And can relate to that. But more often I'm projecting forward to tackle future problems. Whether my own or other people's. Mental research.
I was already thinking a lot about death and the universe as a child. Not sure if this is why INFJs (are rumoured to) suffer more anxiety and depression, or if that (neurological/biological) propensity opens our minds up to extra levels of thought. I think it's the latter.
After listening to this, I think I love you. - A (formerly) misunderstood ISFJ
Thank you for sharing.
isfj is so cool. im estp and i think our personality types have alot in common.
Im an ISFJ female. Ive had many crushes on ESTPs! 😆
@Peonies925 me too!
I'm an ENFP and my lifelong best friend is an ISFJ and she's basically the best person I've ever met in my life. She's understanding, hardworking and doesn't hesitate to ground my stupid ideas back into reality while still giving credit to my creativity.
She loves to talk about other people's drama but she never comes off as judgemental or rude, she's just very curious. She's also very quick to notice changes even though she mostly doesn't point them out.
I'm very lucky to have her and I can't seem to find her any flaws 😂
I think the two (true crime) podcasts I listen to to get to sleep at night are by ISFJs (Killer Instinct, Blood Ties Podcast). But they are not particularly detailed recountings. Very calming storytelling though (played at 0.6x). Anyhow, they have both mentioned that they prefer weekdays to weekends. And Geoffrey Wansell (BTP) has said he doesn't like holidays. So I suppose that is a strong attachment to (Si) routine.
I have wondered if an interest in true crime is more correlated with Fe/Ti. (Haven't come to a conclusion as I have no data. Plus, I listen to a couple of TCPs by INTJs, so...)
We love ourselves some riddles/puzzles. It's a puzzle and the pieces are there, we just have to figure out which details are important. It's a great way to stimulate our Si-Ti.
@@marta83809 Same. Love the Ni-Ti stimulation. My happy place.
I've thought some more about this. And you know who DOES have incredibly detailed podcasts? isTjs!! Stephanie Harlowe here on youtube, and Stephen Pacheco of Trace Evidence Podcast. Very thorough researchers.
If you listen to Stephen you will definitely think he's winding up, but he's actually only 2/3 of the way through because he wants to rehash the guts out of it 😄.
I think listeners asked Stephanie if she was an INTJ (I was wondering the same) as she specifically mentioned she had to do things to understand them (I presume rather than visualising them).
So I've answered my own question by mentioning the IxTJ podcasters. I've tried to leave my blunder uncorrected. I'm REALLY working hard at being OK with inaccuracy. But it's deeply painful. So, ignore the Fe comment, please. *dying* 🤣
Thank you-ISFJ.
If you have an ISFJ couple, you're very lucky but don't ever cheat on them cause it will hurt them so much.
fum fact i have always thought i would be a great detective since childhood and so does my mum cuz even as a child, id always find things my mum hid from me like tv remote etc and would strategically use it and keep it back there so she never knew i found it in 5 minutes, similar happened so many times and now i know why
I wanted to watch the video after I learned one of my all time favorite characters in anime/manga is an ISFJ man (Senshi of Delicious in Dungeon). He is masculine yet nurturing, protective, wise and very hardworking.
My own mother is such an ISFJ as she’s the kind of person, to provide for the family, throughout the night, and not get swamped with petty demands, outside dire emergencies, (think NIMH’s Mrs. Frisby (not Frisbee, like the disc throwing toy, though it’s pronounced the exact same way)/Brisby, as an existing example).
ISFJ are the best wife material 100%
I can take criticism all day but the compliment throws me off
Some people on a typology server tried to type me as an ISFJ due to me expressing concerns about my social life due to my social anxiety, as well as recounting former experiences as examples or analysis for my usual behavioural patterns-
But while I think they seem like pretty cool people, the more I look into it, I just don't identify with this type at all. (Ironically my strongest function, according to 3 separate tests, my own understanding of myself, is actually the ISFJ's inferior function - Ne.)
But at the same time, I've been in this spiral of doubting my judgement whenever I try to identify with one type, to a point I just vaguely started calling myself an xNxP of some sort.
I wanted to stop thinking about it, but I can't. I can't handle not fully understanding my own mind but the deeper I dig, the more confused I get-!
Now I want to write a book about an ISFJ and INFJ detective team :D
im an isfj and i would like to become a detective!
I may be a self typed infp but after watching this video, I wouldn't mind if someone thought I was an isfj. I kind of wish I was one.
you might be one. they share similar cognitive functions and both use barely any Se
I am isfj and
Idk why I am so competitive and always want to be perfect idkk and I fear literally fear smart people like those who are mature and having intelligent mind and well mannered I fell like I am in a competition with them. Idk is a weird feeling and really strange idk why I have this
Is this Isfj think idk.
Like my ISFJ ex-wife.
I'm INTJ. She couldn't handle that I was always right. 😂
@@fredrikdippel3664 😹okay.......
But like how could u always be right?? We should be realistic isn't it.
@@افراحابراهيم-ن4ن It was her competitive nature as you described where she thought she always needed to prove me wrong. She could not handle the fact I would be right and it could be anything really. It was more an instinct from here based on emotions. I don't go into these type of arguments if I haven't done my homework and if there is an emotion based response from your side it means you don't engage the brain and think logically. You haven't done the homework really to discuss the issue its more about shooting the messenger.
ISFJ: umility, looking patterns in reality specially the ones that they apply
This is actually accurate
Isfp video next pleaseeee
I got isfp before twice in the mbti test but after a few months when I took the test again i got isfj..idk which one i am now
my wife
weird how interesting my personality type is... being a isfj is cool B)
2:06 🧐
ISFJ is the human Occam's Razor: If you don't make a beeline through the facts, and no funny stuff, I'll know you're full of crap... kiddo.
They can be really judgmental because of their big respect for routines and traditions and also because of their blindspot about potentialities and about new approaches.
Si does not follow traditions and ISFJs don’t even recognize them. Stop following these dumb stereotypes about is.
It depends on what do you see as traditions because in addition to the stereotype, it's not what most people think that might be. We don't actually much care about social traditions, but instead the traditions we create ourselves like spending Sunday night watching our favourite anime with our sibling, or so.
And about Ne being our blind spot...well...it depends on how much each of us utilises our cognitive functions. And it also has to do with our upbringing and culture. Personally speaking, as a Greek with a culture based on analysing and questioning everything and an ENTP brother, my Ne is rather way too high.
Anyone can respect traditions, discipline and even respect itself. Even ENTPs. No stereotypes
I can't see most Si being employed towards outcomes. Either it would always be doing, about to be doing, or just having finished doing, something. These people would be hyperactive, or bored out of their minds. It must be about making memories, like cats, who memorize every square inch of a home property. Then notice when anything has changed.
me!
You look ENTJ
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disagree on abstrakt painter. you don't need to be a good painter for that 🤣
The funniest thing is, none of the quotes you mentioned there are from an ISFJ type, as an INTP Si and Fe are my tertiary and last functions, but they do play a role, and INTPs and INTJs are the best detectives, cuz we have insights on things. And I think if ISFJs were great detectives they would have figured this out.🤔
Isn’t Miss Marple ISFJ? Imo, she was pretty good at figuring stuff out.
@@solarisan_ SiFe constantly gathers information from their external world to find out if people think they are good or bad, and then they weigh this against their own internal Si values/opinions.
@@DrMeikoHayakawa Interesting. In practice, the cognitive process does not stop at Si Fe, but ok. Si is the first step of the mental/subjective step while Fe the first objective one. First. Not last.
2:15 easy. Just be an entp. Use your intuition to do something unpredictable. Case closed. Checkmate. They can’t fucking access that shit.
As an entp, easy way to win against the isfj.
I would like to use an excerpt from perun:
When there the country is at the brink of civil unrest, and the political leader, religious leader, and economic leader are inside a room, who is the most powerful in the room?
It is a trick question. It is the guard at the gate with a gun. Be the guard at the gate. Threaten the isfj, and they won’t have a fucking clue what to do.
Even after this video, I still can't see the ISFJ genius in any of the ones around me. Someone help! Not trying to be rude forreal, I just can't understand ISFJs -ENFP.
It’s because we rather be humble and maintain our sentiments without feeling the need to flex how intelligent we are. Our “geniuses” is usually over something we are passionate about and keep to ourselves without feeling the need to show it to others.
@@NoName-zh1jz Oh okay, I will have to look out for that. Thank you for giving me something to look for.
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Thank you for explaining this. I don't think the ISFJ I'm friends with realize her genius, humility is just her definition. She learned another language as I and traveled to the country of that language, and wouldn't allow anyone to take advantage of us, she says she's not fluent but I witnesses something different. She masters whatever at the time has decided to do. She was asked to learn a whole new process at work, in which she had to take a course for a few weeks, and is like an expert now...I jokingly say she runs that business now, because she is Super competent the owners answers all her request 🤣
I'm an ENFP with an ISFJ partner. Not sure about your friends but my ISFJ keeps me real, is someone I can lean on when all my abstract thinking buds are busy with their own drama (NFs and NTs). He is there with open ears and arms and is smart- so it is invaluable to have a mate like this for us (I think so anyway). He does notice everything, and so we talk about people a lot. He is not perfect, by the way, but when I realized how lucky I was, I had to sort out my baggage pretty quickly. He was just patient. He really listens. I give him space. I can trust him. All that has been incredibly freeing. I have different criteria for a mate than for friendships. Hope that helps?
They really love to stay under the radar. Any form of boasting or not being humble is seen as very cringe to them, even if them speaking up in reality would not be seen as such, they would see it as such. So they will remain silent although they probably know the answer to many different things that are being discussed or at least have a really good understanding of how things will play out. Try asking your friend directly their opinion on certain things or their opinion on a certain dilemma. You may be astonished by the sheer logic and reasoning behind their answer and may leave you feeling like a light bulb turning on in your head.
(INTJ) I quite like ISFJ men, but ISFJ women are one of the types most likely to rub me up the wrong way. Sorry about that.
let me guess, you type every mother and karen as an isfj
p.s: not trying to be rude btw, im sorry if it comes across as that
@@lookiamsNo (Karens) and yes (ENTPs).
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although I didn't bother watching a single millisecond of this video, I'd like to state that it'd be fabulous if you can share some insight on the admirable strengths of healthy and confident ESFJs
A detective, huh? Remind me to be extra wary of anyone with ISFJ traits.
Why?
Didn't bother watching a single millisecond of this video