Hello Counselor - Lee Chunsoo, Kim Seunghyun, Ki Huihyeon, Jung Chaeyeon [ENG/2017.05.08]

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    - Ep.323 : Joining the program today are a frustrated wife whose husband always talks rudely, a mom who dreams to become an actress, and a worried granddaughter whose grandmother is obsessed with baseball.
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  • @amynguyen2178
    @amynguyen2178 7 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    I swear on every episode of Hello Counselor there's always an ungrateful husband bullying his wife and thinking it's okay solely because he's the man in the family. Disgusting.

  • @meikamazaki
    @meikamazaki 7 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    The guy in the first concern is a bully, an ugly one at that. Being so self-centered and ungrateful when he cant do anything himself. Rude just because he feels superior is just bulling and his bulling tendencies disgust me.
    Ok i need to carm down😤

    • @CottidaeSEA
      @CottidaeSEA 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I actually kind of understand him. While he's certainly acting poorly, it's not like everything escalated to that point overnight. She kept being indecisive even before he started acting that way, so it got more and more frustrating. He also clearly has issues expressing his emotions, and as I've got the same issue, I know what it ends up like. The easiest emotion is anger, so that's how you end up expressing it. So I think the wife is as much at fault as the husband.
      As for the food thing, he said that there are two dishes that she cooks, and sure, those might be decent enough, but when you're eating that dish over and over again, it starts feeling bland. She didn't deny this fact either, and as it sounds, she doesn't cook every single day either. She also seems to be a housewife, so those responsibilities usually falls on that person. Yet there are expired food products, clothes lying around, etc.
      I wouldn't say a thing about it if she had a job, but as a housewife, that is the job.
      They both have to change, yet the MCs don't see this. It's annoying. I understand that they are supposed to be on the side of the person sending in the message, but they are also supposed to help. It feels like they avoid putting blame on her just because she's unstable due to being treated poorly by the husband for an extended period of time.

    • @xxr0ckerxx1
      @xxr0ckerxx1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree with you, it's frustrating to see people so often just take one side without trying to understand the other. He was definitely acting poorly, but most of his issues seemed valid. This got too annoying to watch seeing it being so one sided. This is one of the reasons I'm starting to dislike this show. They should get actual counseling instead of this.

    • @CottidaeSEA
      @CottidaeSEA 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They should have an actual pro among them. There was this one time when they actually had a psychologist as a guest. I wish they would have more people like him on the show. I do like the show because they actually do try to help, but I feel like it's very inadequate at times.

    • @jilln.4256
      @jilln.4256 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I completely agree. Especially with the child I feel like, even if the wife is picky, she should still feed her child well so she would not be like her.

    • @ron8675309
      @ron8675309 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Whatever the wife's faults, none of that is an excuse for the way her husband treats her, particularly because he's so nice to people he's far less close to. He married her, he has a responsibility to her. That's why the MCs sided against him - because he views their relationship as entirely servicing his wants and his needs, and he abuses her because other people clearly take advantage of him and it's the only way he can feel big. Take a close look, that's the kind of behavior you're rationalizing away. If she's so substandard in his eyes, then he should divorce her and try and find some imaginary someone who will cater to him the way he wants. And by the way, good luck with that, that underpants stain.

  • @VengefulHanyou
    @VengefulHanyou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    "I love you, that's why I want to fix you. It's for your own good"
    This sentence alone makes me want to punch the screen. This guy need to live on his own 'cause he'll be disappointed no matter how the wife acts. It's just how he is. She can be the perfect wife but he wont be satisfied. Maybe for a week or two but later he will find something else that's wrong with her. He does not love her.

    • @worldbytl
      @worldbytl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ematheo They’re a poor match. He needs someone who stands up to him and rejects him when he misbehaves. Those types should never be allowed to get away with bad behavior in the first place. She’s not making it clear enough for him.

  • @alhsu
    @alhsu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Honestly, the first guy has an inferiority complex. He's too weak to face his friends, so he takes it out on his wife, whom he thinks is weaker than/underneath him. He wants to feel superior, and the only one he can feel that way is to his wife, that poor kind soul

    • @karen-bl3wi
      @karen-bl3wi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was thinking the same thing, since he can't speak up towards others the only place he can feel he's on top is with his wife, because she more timid. I hate those type of people, and I'm sure he just married her because she liked him not because he liked her. I hope her life becomes better after this, and he realizes that what he's doin can hurt their child

  • @ms.dannyd9219
    @ms.dannyd9219 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The first husband was horrible. He didn't want to take any responsibility or even acknowledge his terrible behaviour. The fact that he had the nerve to complain about the food being the same is so childish. He should have either married a chef or a maid. It's so obvious that enjoys being a bully

  • @theguyfromspongebob9962
    @theguyfromspongebob9962 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    the grandma(and the video call) in the last concern made my heart so happy

  • @noornajm5741
    @noornajm5741 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The second concern about the 2 daughters, i feel like no one will understand them esp the girl in the white because they think her feelings arent that hurt, but honestly i completely understand her bc my mother didnt pay much attention to me either, didnt care about my grades, never really ever had a proper converstaion with her that left me with a 'wow she loves me', she never even uttered the word. Like first of all the mother isnt good at acting, she just has a blunt face which is easy for her to control because smiling doesnt seem like her thing. I got really annoyed when that lady called the daughter annoying, like i thought you wanted her opinion?? but yeah since the daughter seems like an introvert i dont think she'd be the type to share those deep feelings. I wish they took that into consideration. Being a mother means to sort of 'surrender' your desires in a way - it just comes naturally as an instinct and thats how they usually are, but with her i dont like how she torments her by saying ' oh i did this for you now its your turn' seriously like it doesnt sound harsh putting it like that but you dont know what she really says, since she's stressed she couldve sworn here and there like nobody really knows anything. but yeah this is my rant

  • @1125oboe
    @1125oboe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    The first husband... why did he even marry her in the first place? Was she forced into the marriage? If he wants an obedient being then get a dog, although i'd feel bad for the dog...

    • @ron8675309
      @ron8675309 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Notice he says he married her because she loved him, because he felt like she would take care of him. It was for purely selfish reasons. Not once in this whole exchange do you hear him considering her feelings. It's all deflection; "because she's like this, I react like that." >:(

  • @misst-1538
    @misst-1538 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chanwoo is the best support!
    He really listens to his people and helps then fight thier case. I would want him on my side in anything.
    YeongJa is the best at tearing people apart when she gets riled up

  • @rinaldymaulana8496
    @rinaldymaulana8496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear grandma and mother at last concern thank you for the passion, that i can feel it. Now i miss my grandma who really love football. 🙏

  • @nurshawani986
    @nurshawani986 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My dad and my parents have been married for 27 years.. But my dad still do the most house chores and he never complains. Always go dating with my mom and do over time job just to go for family holiday. The guy from the first section really a jerk.

  • @dinaadriyani8379
    @dinaadriyani8379 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really understand the situation the wife of first concern was experiencing because i have person i lived with who the EXACT same like her husband, my father. I'm living with him in my lifetime and i got stressed and hurtful almost everyday. And it's our lifetime family concern. I lived with him more than 20 years and still trying to understand and trying to get numb with all his act.

  • @tyishaallen5061
    @tyishaallen5061 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Man that 1st worry made me want to slap him. They're like I won't push the button. But I bet after I fix her part they wished they would have pushed their buttons. You thought it was a worry why don't you push the button. Ugh sometime those celebs upset me when they don't push the button.

  • @yourusernamejustmademyday8035
    @yourusernamejustmademyday8035 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    for some strange reason I never liked a hello counsler video but I did today because I love the grandma at the end she's so cute and funny

  • @lrdlhndrsn
    @lrdlhndrsn 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Passionate fans are like that I think. When my husbands team lost the Super Bowl... It took him a week to get over it. he stayed home for 3 days and wouldn't talk to anyone including me. The next day he cried and eventually got back to reality.

  • @tzuyuxsinb998
    @tzuyuxsinb998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    holy fuck the girls from the second concern are fucking pretty

  • @simajilen690
    @simajilen690 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last concern was so cute..

  • @VK.x
    @VK.x 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1:09:28 🤣 This is brilliant

  • @jacksonlmao7633
    @jacksonlmao7633 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The guy in first concern is so like my dad. He is very generous to others especially his friends and ladies who is actually slims, one day my dad was been tricked by a lady(welp he said that he has a winning price....thats what i heard) instead of getting mad he immediately forgives her cuz she's slimer than my mom, he gave her some money that is 1,000pesos for her snack. When my mom heard about it she immediately picks a fight with him cuz of the money. Welp he isn't very generous towards his family😕

  • @jellojiggle1
    @jellojiggle1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jung Chaeyeon 😍 You are the most beautiful to me! 💖

  • @laraasskalany2574
    @laraasskalany2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    okay but the first husband seriously reminds me of my dad. Though this guy is a significantly better person, my dad does so many things this guy does too, except worse but still

  • @lilacosmanthus
    @lilacosmanthus 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those daughters were really pretty. I wonder what their dad looks like.

  • @bebecherielynn
    @bebecherielynn 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for thaisub ^^

  • @siswantomaheswara5566
    @siswantomaheswara5566 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    whenever chaeyeon speaking she always with lowest sound n when she into shy she will move her hand kekekek

  • @tiffanylee4849
    @tiffanylee4849 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first concern… omg. The husband fuxxxx

  • @pettyhoe4007
    @pettyhoe4007 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    the older daughter is so pretty...

  • @AfroJeffrey
    @AfroJeffrey 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    GIVE Chaeyeon some food, she is really looking at the food.

  • @Jayisqueen
    @Jayisqueen 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg.... the first concern is just like my parents.... my dad treats my mom and us like shit but treats others nicely....

  • @jjkayhelp45
    @jjkayhelp45 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was so disgusted at the man on the first worry and how the heck is it not a worry?! Aso disappointed at the ones who said it was not. I hope she left him... I really like Taejoon and his principles. We should not keep quiet at the bad things.

  • @odinsword30
    @odinsword30 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So fucking early!

  • @a.l.5786
    @a.l.5786 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow i'm really early

  • @zidnyrobbyradhiya1340
    @zidnyrobbyradhiya1340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cutie chaeyeon for a haour

  • @hahano8440
    @hahano8440 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    how the fuck did two judges not press the worry button for the first dude. jfc

  • @annehuynh7901
    @annehuynh7901 7 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I really cried when she said that her dad was deaf and how he turned away because he couldn't bare to even see his daughter being yelled at.... how could you even bash on someone's deaf parents like that

  • @SarahYukia
    @SarahYukia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    some men tend to forget that their wives are someone else's precious daughters, that they aren't born for them. Yeah she's your wife. I get it. She's isn't "yours" tho. Respect her as someone that married you and bore your child damn that 1st concern

    • @skeywoo318
      @skeywoo318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sarah Yukia I love your comment.

    • @SarahYukia
      @SarahYukia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      naveah james Thanks, it came from my little distressed heart lmao

    • @mimahalliez7110
      @mimahalliez7110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sarah Yukia ur right honey😍😙

    • @alanietakaitani8090
      @alanietakaitani8090 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The guy is a total jerk. I've never been more angry watching this episode

    • @ashleyk7857
      @ashleyk7857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      when the husband said that he thinks everyone has that type of relationship at the beginning, i thought "yeah, it could happen a lot, doesn't mean it's right."

  • @nourachann
    @nourachann 7 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    I have been watching this for a while and I rarely comment but honestly the first husband and wife should just split ... he doesn't understand one bit what is the problem .... he probably will get in a fight with her after the program and say even worse stuff .....

    • @lilxredxrida7089
      @lilxredxrida7089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      nourachann thats exactly what i thought, and did you notice that when he "apologized" at the end he smiled and she was shaking her head, cause she knows it won't change

    • @nourachann
      @nourachann 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He doesn't want to change, he came so he can show of that he is on top and she should just follow what he says .....

    • @lilxredxrida7089
      @lilxredxrida7089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      nourachann too true, especially talking down on her parents 😖 she needs to just end it

    • @riapark4113
      @riapark4113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      nourachann and damn he's still smiling after his woman cried! Now I get ideas that he only married her because like what he said "he's on top of her head". I CAN'T FEEL EVEN A BIT OF 1% OF LOVE THERE. Maybe if they don't have a child, they would probably split up.

    • @savannahwilliams3014
      @savannahwilliams3014 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nourachann I studied a little bit of astrology I can tell he is a CAPRICORN a real one

  • @vic_97
    @vic_97 7 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Please tell me I'm not the only one that pissed with the first husband for the reason he got married. Seriously, his reason wasn't that he loved her but that he could feel how much she loved him and, therefore, saw her as the best choice.

    • @VengefulHanyou
      @VengefulHanyou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Me too! So pissed. But it was clearly to me that he didn't love her by the way he reasoned.

    • @CapyPurin_celestial
      @CapyPurin_celestial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Actually, almost all the problematic spouses who came to this show gave the same reason. It's so frustrating and maddening. They are not married for love --- They got married because they believed this person would 'serve' them well since he/she took good care of them and made them feel loved. They should just go to hell instead >:(

    • @Chellz801
      @Chellz801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All the hosts and guests were pissed you could see it in their faces. He’s a piece of garbage

    • @elledumble
      @elledumble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He chose someone he considered weaker so he could bully her! He can't stand up to his friends so dumps his frustrations on her!

    • @none7759
      @none7759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      this is probably an old program but im disgusted at the husband on the first case...

  • @senika
    @senika 7 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    the first concern is clearly domestic abuse...where I come from domestic abuse can by law be both verbally and physical. So if she went to court she would probably win the case. But it seem to be different in Korea :/

    • @lidiaqq888
      @lidiaqq888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      senika exactly! i had pretty much the same parents (they split up now) but it also involved alcohol and physical abuse and i wouldnt even try to keep the marriege together. I want this guy to have that kind of restriction when a person cant be close to you to a certain point. i want him to be away from them!

    • @lidiaqq888
      @lidiaqq888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      prison is the best ; )

    • @BL00DYR0S31
      @BL00DYR0S31 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      senika Single moms always get the heat so unless her parents support her after the divorce she'd end up struggling to make ends meet theirs also the child to worry about since bullying is prevalent especially if it's a child of a single mom.

  • @mooonce5511
    @mooonce5511 7 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    If I was there I wouldn't be able to control my anger at the first guy.I would've punched him and then leave😡😤

    • @Andysnyc
      @Andysnyc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I swear with half of these concerns that end up on the show, some of these people need to catch some hands from the audience

    • @alhassan5623
      @alhassan5623 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Moomoo 1 sorry but he is not the only one at fault. The wife shouldn't be picky on what to cook. Even if she doesn't like to eat vegetables, she shouldn't keep her family away from eating food with nutrition. The wife is slow and lazy to began with. I mean leaving rotten food in the fridge shows how she doesn't cook much or care about her family's health.

    • @samm169
      @samm169 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      alhasan thats all you got from all the the things he does and how he acts?

    • @sjbaem4448
      @sjbaem4448 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm sitting infront of my computer wishing I could reach through my screen and grab him by the neck. They he just sits there smiling and coming up with excuses for his disgusting behaviour makes my blood boil.

    • @bvip8309
      @bvip8309 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Moomoo 1 I suggest to eliminate that freak before it multiply.. LOL just kidding **

  • @AmanishaketoMeroe
    @AmanishaketoMeroe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    second concern I find both mom and daughters became self-centered. Daughters are old enough to understand why mom wants to pursue her dreams now, and mom is old enough to understand consequences of her past choice and not blame it on daughters because in a way that's what she's doing

  • @veniceremmus5958
    @veniceremmus5958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Lee chunwoos reactions to the first concern was so real i have so much respect for him

  • @xannielle
    @xannielle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    For the 2nd concern, I do feel that the older daughter has made some (possibly unpopular) but very valid points.
    First, the feeling that she was uncared for and neglected, while growing up. This is super important because it sets the entire context behind why the daughter acts this way. It's probably hard to empathise if you didn't grow up in the same situation. But as a child, when your mum forgets your birthday each year, or gives you lukewarm responses towards your dreams / progress when you're a clueless young adult (and I believe these small acts of neglect extend to other everyday activities too) - you start to wonder whether she even cares.
    It seeds a very deep-rooted feeling of hurt and emptiness inside you. And resentment towards your mum. Unfairness about why other kids have parents who care so much, while yours neglects small things like these that mean a lot to you. 22 years of feeling like this. Wouldn't there be an emotional wall that she subconsciously has, towards her mum?
    Secondly, having "I brought you up so you should do this for me" brought up 5 times a week as a bargaining chip. She makes a good point that while she's grateful, it's also a conscious decision that her mum has made when she was younger. Having this brought up frequently as a bargaining chip, diminishes the value of this noble act of love. It makes the whole "I raised you up" act seem so transactional. It may be fine if she has a great relationship with her mum, but remember that this is set in the context of the long drawn misunderstanding she has with her mum.
    Yes. The lady is a good, sacrificial mum. But she was lacking as a parent. Neglecting this, and just blaming the daughter for being ungrateful wouldn't solve the problem. Only being aware that it is a deep-rooted issue, and that the daughter is also hurt by her mom's actions (or lack thereof) will lead both sides to take the right actions to start making amends.
    I've seen most comments berating the daughters, and felt the need to share this alternative pov. Also found Yeongja's comment that "She is annoying" utterly unnecessary and distasteful. The key to solving this issue is to tackle its roots and let them talk it out frankly & sincerely. Communicate. Not censor what the daughter has to say, and only expect her to say sweet, superficial things that her mum wants to hear.
    The daughter should cheer her mum on more. But at the same time, I agree with what she says. It takes a family member to give you honest, straightfoward feedback. Better that your loved ones do it, than hear sweet nothings all the time, but face even harsher rejections from the real world when you're actually put to the test.

    • @dt4654
      @dt4654 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The woman is a manual on how to demotivate your kid 101,you can't even take 5 mins out of your day to praise your kid? And then you make them feel obligated to spend time with you when you never did the same thing for them...does the quote 'treat someone the way you want to be treated' come to mind? You made your kid feel like their achievements were nothing...the oldest one probably finds that it is fine to blow off your achievements the way you did 🤷‍♀️

  • @princessnicki63
    @princessnicki63 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This show should just be called "Every single husband on here is abusive, no one on this show cares about mental illnesses whatsoever, and korea loves discriminating against people who are different" counselor 🙄

  • @blessuzo
    @blessuzo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Damn I wish the woman in the first concern had an older brother so he can knock the husband out lol.

  • @dalbomi
    @dalbomi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Wow, that first guy's actions are just plain verbal/emotional abuse. I understand that they want to work things out, and I hope they do, but he is a bully and she needs to learn how to protect herself

  • @InLKdream
    @InLKdream 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It took 26 minutes to understand the reason behind the husband in the first concern's anger issues. I couldn't make sense of it until they discussed his interaction with others/his friends. He criticizes his wife for being timid and not changing because those are the very qualities he himself exhibits around his friends and he hates it deep down. He knows they take advantage of him but he doesn't say anything because he wants to be liked and not looked down on. So he goes home and pushes his wife's buttons and when that doesn't work he actually verbally abuses her and hurts her hoping she'll snap at him and stand up for herself the way he wishes he could for himself. He needs to get rid of such friends or learn to accept his role in social hierarchy

  • @lorenas6477
    @lorenas6477 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I think the husband and the wife in the first concern should split up or go see a therapist. What the husband is doing is not understandable, it is domestic violence. Sure, he has a right to disagree with his wife but the way he is handling the situation is very poor and this will affect their daughter's life in a negative way. I'm saying all of this because they remind me of my parents, my mom was like the wife someone quiet, passive personality and nice. My dad on the other hand has always been like the husband, he'd always pick fights with my mom, nothing is ever good enough, he's always nicer to other people than his own family, etc... Despite all the obvious domestic abuse, my mom never left my dad because she was afraid my brother and I would grow up without a dad but watching them fight has damaged my brother and I's mental health. I am afraid that the wife will do the same and wont leave the husband because she's too scared to "ruin" her daughters life. What also gets to me is that when the husband was asked why he married her, he did not say he loved her but instead said that it was because he could see how much she loved him. This is another similarity he has with my dad because my dad has always told me "don't look for someone to love, look for someone who loves you" and I find that very disgusting because when you have someone who loves you and you don't, it means that you know you can manipulate them. A relationship/ marriage should be built on mutual love and this marriage is clearly not the case. For the wife's and baby's sake I REALLY hope they split. They will all be very unhappy if they don't put a stop to this and as someone whose parents are like this couple, I can say that their daughter will be unhappy. I will keep this family in my prayers and hope that they don't turn out like mine.

  • @rhiannemee1208
    @rhiannemee1208 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    to be honest, i think the daughter in the white has a fair point. the fact that their parents raised them shouldn't be used as a bargaining chip, because it makes the parent seem like they're saying raising their child was a hardship when the parents chose to have the child in the first place. plus i'm sure she and her sisters, being young adults, need to think about their own futures rather than take care of their mother's. neither of the daughters seem to know much about acting anyway, so how can she expect them to know how she could improve. my own mum once set up a blog, and when she couldn't do something she asked me, and i have never in my life set up or visited a blog, and she got frustrated when i couldn't help her, despite the fact that she could easily look up the solution on the internet, and i can assure you all that it does get slightly irritating, so personally, i don't think the daughters are that selfish (although i do agree that they could easily cook their own meals and do other chores themselves from time to time and let the mother get on with her acting)

  • @xiutie
    @xiutie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    seems like my korean is getting better ??? I just noticed 20 minutes in that the subs were off 😂😂😂

    • @skeywoo318
      @skeywoo318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Xiutie Congrats 🍾😁

    • @DefineMorena
      @DefineMorena 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Xiutie Yeah, that happens to me sometimes but rarely 🙁

    • @camaricargle4207
      @camaricargle4207 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Xiutie good job 👏🏾

  • @ZoroJL-e1l
    @ZoroJL-e1l 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Maybe my dad is a weak spot too but the first one actually made me cry .. I was sad for her when I heard all the stories she said, but when he said he took advantage of the fact her father couldn't hear to shout at her in front of him, I was honestly ready for murder. Like really imagining the satisfaction I would feel if the guy in the blue sweater just punched him straight up.
    I wish him the worst in life.

  • @jeanner6807
    @jeanner6807 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The man in the first concern shouldn't have gotten married. He's such a disgusting bully😡

  • @lidiaqq888
    @lidiaqq888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The first guy.... oh my god. I feel like going to the program changed nothing. The issue is too big to talk it out in 30min. How can is it possible that people dont think its a worry!!!!! Its a legitimate abuse!!!!! I felt like the woman held back a lot, it was showing by her body language. ugh im so mad right now. i thought the hosts of the program did bad with recognizing the issue. in my opinion this guy wont change, the divorce is needed, and i would suggest a therapy for this woman... poor her and poor child!!

  • @BlasianChineseBoy
    @BlasianChineseBoy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Taejoon has really stepped it up when it comes to character interpretations during the reading of concerns. He interpreted the rude husband in the first concern quite well.😅

  • @ScribblerinPanic
    @ScribblerinPanic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i am not a hardcore feminist but the first concern makes me one. we, women, shouldn't allow men to treat us like we're the weaker gender. women shouldn't just cry and stay away from the problem. we must speak up, make our point, and stand by it. we must defend ourselves against bully husbands/boyfriends or whoever from the men species. men tend to overpower us because women tend to just follow them like we cannot do anything for ourselves. real men doesn't treat women unfairly. if ever we, women, find one, stay away from them. we deserve much better..

  • @springtempo446
    @springtempo446 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That husband is a bully. He is abusing her, she's afraid to speak because he's always shouting. She does not need to raise her daughter in such an environment. She'll grow up thinking its okay for speak and behaviour like that. Get divorced and leave him. I wouldn't be surprised if he's always cheating on her.

  • @shackylicious
    @shackylicious 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love Korean men! But honestly some of these concerns leave me next level triggered ! 😡 I have nothing but respect for these women as I'll never truly understand the culture enough to stay under those conditions. I just know it could easily be a war zone with me.

    • @safakfrank3776
      @safakfrank3776 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      shackylicious Dont fool yourself...we all love k.dramas. but men arent like the ones in dramas. even handsome actors who act innocent and heroic bully their girlfriends and cheat on them. I can name for you some of them...

    • @shackylicious
      @shackylicious 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I wasn't entirely judging only from Kdramas. Trust me I know there are fckboys everywhere! I have male Korean friends and they are really cool guys. So I don't want to judge the whole Korean male population. But after watching these concerns I get the feeling that cultural differences might be an overwhelming problem.

  • @BANAN1E
    @BANAN1E 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm not even going to get into how P.O.ed the guy in the first concern made me because this isn't the first time those kind of guests came out, but I always make my opinions known. What I really came here for was: why doesn't Seung Hyun (his claim was so dumb...making more money will make him......less himself?) and Chae Yeon think the first concern isn't a worry, but the second one is a worry?

    • @BANAN1E
      @BANAN1E 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oopsy. Seung Hyun said the second concern wasn't a worry.

    • @jungkooksbeautifulvoice7326
      @jungkooksbeautifulvoice7326 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BANAN1E I used to think Chaeyeon was a very nice girl because she seemed quite shy and humble, but when she didn't press the button I was like "HOW CAN YOU NOT PRESS THE FREAKING BUTTON??????"

  • @torototoro9696
    @torototoro9696 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If I had a husband who spoke to me like the first guy, I'd slap the life out of him. No manners, no respect and no gratitude, absolute worst of the worst.

  • @stephaniemendoza2207
    @stephaniemendoza2207 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Stan DIA they're so cute and the first man is a bastard I'm not even sorry

  • @alexanderv.r8362
    @alexanderv.r8362 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The two daughters are so pretty o.o. I think it's both the mothers and daughters fault in this case, neither of them understand what the other went through. I experienced events similar to the daughters so I know that you become unemotional and listless when you have no source of affection (father seems MIA). Hopefully they'll sort it out and understand each other better.
    But sometimes the fact that your parents sacrificed their dreams for you is not real and you cannot blame the kids.

    • @melodyynotes
      @melodyynotes 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexander V.R i agree

    • @yellowmoon1759
      @yellowmoon1759 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexander V.R do you know her insta

  • @DefineMorena
    @DefineMorena 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The guy in the first concern should learn how to cook. Seriously 😂 😂 😂 Stop complaining when you can learn how to cook without anyone preventing you.

  • @awkwardfirstdate_official901
    @awkwardfirstdate_official901 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I could barely get through the first concern w/o pausing every other minute to cool down. There has been some shitty people on this show, but this guy takes the cake. I've been in that situation not only as the child, but as the victim as well and that is domestic abuse. I'm sure what we saw was only scratching the surface of everything that was really going on. They need to divorce ASAP. I know divorce is never easy, but it will be better for the wife and the child in the long run.

  • @hopeali
    @hopeali 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I actually understand the girls in the 2nd concern.

    • @BANAN1E
      @BANAN1E 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in what ways?

    • @rueexxi
      @rueexxi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      their mother didn't react to her daughters at all even when her first daughter was being honest and was talking about being neglected as a child maybe kinda proves she doesn't really care for them as much? I mean I'm sure there's a reason for her daughters behavior?

    • @taeminiexshinee
      @taeminiexshinee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      rueexxi she said she was sorry ? She was clearly feeling down and was speechless, she looked like she was about to cry (body language), what else do you want ?
      But she's not perfect, the mother was taking care of her husband, her sick mother in law, the two brats while struggling with multiple part-time jobs. She was taking care of 4 people. Who was taking care of her ? She got herself sick and shit omg. Maybe the daughters are simply selfish (like the first husband) and stupid.

    • @rueexxi
      @rueexxi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I really would like to think that's the case. The younger daughter showed more affection towards her mom so maybe the older daughter is just being selfish and inconsiderate.

    • @dt4654
      @dt4654 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taeminiexshinee but don't ask a child to review your acting and blame them for not taking prettier pictures for your profile...you ain't that pretty in the first place 🤦‍♀️

  • @safakfrank3776
    @safakfrank3776 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    that mother came to the show to appear on TV. she have no talent. just came to embarass herself and her family.

  • @nganesme1336
    @nganesme1336 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wanna know the daughter's instagram they're sooo pretty

  • @ANDSTONE100
    @ANDSTONE100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    She's really attractive but the bluntness the daughter in the white has really annoys me.

    • @yrneheslehc5160
      @yrneheslehc5160 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ANDSTONE100 me too .

    • @NayaRizkita
      @NayaRizkita 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ANDSTONE100 u dont understand cuz u never in her position...

  • @gavingallagher3816
    @gavingallagher3816 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg I have never been so mad at a concern on this show .... that man in the first part seriously needs to get lost . If i was a counselor on this show hed be catching these hands RIGHT NOW

  • @kdramacrazy94
    @kdramacrazy94 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the lady from the first concern deserves better and she needs to get a divorce ASAP that man is a digusting pig

    • @ericsetiady4928
      @ericsetiady4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you think she can get another husband

  • @RekhaKumari-od4zf
    @RekhaKumari-od4zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i love how practical tae joon is. he not only understands the situation of both the parties but he keeps himself in their shoes. no wonder i love him so much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @abby1167
    @abby1167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    chaeyeon is so flawless

    • @jungkooksbeautifulvoice7326
      @jungkooksbeautifulvoice7326 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      abby pena I found a flaw. She didn't press the button during the first concern...

  • @inspirit-lc4mw
    @inspirit-lc4mw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think that in the first concern the husband needs to think about what he is actually doing. Hurting someone with words can be way more painful than hitting them. He may not be satisfied by his wife's house management and else but saying it so roughly is just lame.

  • @joelinepretty79
    @joelinepretty79 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so so so SHOCK and ANGRY at her husband. I can't believe he nasty to her deaf father! I'm deaf and I can talk too but he had no RIGHT what he did to his father in law. I understood it what deaf felt like! -.-X

  • @lightningjuniorsuper
    @lightningjuniorsuper 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First concern if that husband doesn't change then things will stay the same

  • @arpitanayak3753
    @arpitanayak3753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    okay but i hate it when parents say "i raised u, be thankful to me, do this for me coz i gave birth to you" like no. i never asked to be born in this shithole and being thankful?? in this economy?? nahh
    if she wants to pursue her dream then go ahead, why r u forcing ur daughters to support u?? let them be, they ain't even interfering in any way, they're just minding their business n letting u live ur life

  • @joycewong2690
    @joycewong2690 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow the first concern totally got me raged. It's the first time i see a husband being so proud of what he did towards his wife and not showing any signs of guilt, happily nodding his head away acting as if it wasn't his wife's concern. Guess what, his wife deserves to be freed from this marriage to end her sufferings.

  • @Stilbe
    @Stilbe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First concern: DIVORCE
    2nd: lack of communication and understanding
    3rd: ADORABLE

  • @badleo789
    @badleo789 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They really had a whole meal on stage😂😂😂

  • @PJ-ql4pw
    @PJ-ql4pw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For the first one, The guy is definitely wrong in speaking wise, but the woman also never was able to argue back about not cleaning and leaving something in the fridge for a long time, which means she is not doing her job really well and he is telling her to work on it, so she has something to fix too. Also the way he talks is really not appreciating, but it is true that the babies' health needs to be cared more in nutrition wise.

  • @bilguunu5034
    @bilguunu5034 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Two daughters were eyesome and caused honest distraction putting the subject aside lol.

  • @yellowmoon1759
    @yellowmoon1759 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does anyone know the insta or twitter of the two daughters?

  • @user-sp5ll5fx3s
    @user-sp5ll5fx3s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    off topic but the daughters are REALLY PRETTY like even their voices are all delicate soft and pretty omfg

  • @azminationz
    @azminationz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2nd concern i think the mother have a great potential to be an actress just like ra miran.. age is not a problem as long u have the passion and 3rd concern was cute,adore her grandma.. and why tae joon look so hot in this ep.... #taejoonHwaiting

  • @blinkerhawk
    @blinkerhawk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It tears my heart for the wife in the first worry. the husband won't change. He is so full of himself, and he think he is special. The way he pretend to admit what he have done wrong in front of the crowd makes me wanna cry. Man, i can't believe once was like him. I wanted to be logical, rational, and smart to impress people with not much of knowledge but huge desire to understand everything and desire for admiration. Everything was revolve around me. I thought i was wise and thoughtful listening to other people's concerns whatever, but only what I was thinking was to tell or showoff what I know and etc. I was not truthful to myself. It might not be the case like me, but treating other people better than your wife and communication with the wife with no respect but egocentric mind doesn't look like it's a good relationship.

  • @bulletx6889
    @bulletx6889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TH-cam is being a dick with all those ads 🙄

  • @dijahmunawar
    @dijahmunawar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel disgusted with how the husband in the first concern could smile and just shamelessly admit all his disgusting behaviour. He doesn't deserve her kindness and patience, he should realized that the way he act, talk, and behave is horrible. He said that she do nothing right, but he was doing way worse as a husband. He failed to treat his wife nicely.
    He's such a manipulative person and use his wife's kindness as a weapon to attack her.
    What a nasty personality.

  • @ANDSTONE100
    @ANDSTONE100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The daughter in the grey reminds me of both Gugudan's Sejeong and Sistar's Bora, especially when she speaks.

  • @cyaracanales1956
    @cyaracanales1956 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The 2 daughters really made me angry, especially the one in white. the mother had to throw her biggest dream out the window just so she could take care of her 2 children and an elder. of course she wouldn't have time to be with her children every second of the day. she had to work so many part time jobs just to provide for her family and she still cooks and washes her kids clothes when their in their twenties. when I was around 10 I started washing my own clothes and started learning how to cook simple dishes. how they treat their mother is such an outrage.

    • @AmanishaketoMeroe
      @AmanishaketoMeroe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When you choose to have children you choose to be responsible for them and take care of them. It's not ok to act like they have to pay you back for raising them as if it was a favor from you. If you feel it's a favor and sacrifice to raise children don't have any because it's not a favor its your responsibility that you chose. The mother is wrong.

    • @worldbytl
      @worldbytl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Korean culture fosters over-dependency of children on their parents and vice verse (as parents age they hold expectations). The mother probably was raised dependently herself so she doesn’t feel she can do things on her own without support. The daughters are exhibiting under-maturity as well by the fact they don’t cook or clean yet at 20&23.
      I visited my relatives in Korea and found they hand feed kids up to school age, whereas in America kids feed themselves as soon as they’re able. It’s this idea that someone else will do it for you which is displayed by both sides.
      Korean kids who study abroad also don’t have household skills down, causing undue pressure on their host-moms who may hold busy jobs and expected more independence from those grown kids they’re hosting from various countries. It’s not just Koreans who have this culture. I’ve heard various Asian nations having similar characteristics.
      It’s easy for it to devolve into resentment in families except for the most patient and reasonable ones who practice politely asking and not resort to complaining and feel bad about asking too much so hold back. It takes emotional maturity and empathy to do that. When children are raised taking things for granted, it’s not easy to undo. I wouldn’t blame anyone here but they should ask themselves what they take for granted. Personally I think it’d help for the parents to ask their grown children to contribute at home to allow their mother more time for herself. Then she can take computer classes and pursue her dreams more actively, lifting the burden from her kids too. It’s way more comfortable for people to work on their own interests than others’.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Those kids are brats and ungrateful. A family is a cycle of life: parents take care of you when you're a kid and in turn, you take care of them when they're old, not make their lives harder.

    • @Lala168-love
      @Lala168-love 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ge MIIO yes but now they become adults with the age of 20,23 why won’t they learn to cook and clean by themselves. Mom just want them to do something by themselves she doesn’t ask for money so it is not hard to do that for their mom. Good children will take a good care of their parents since they were young. There is one statement that many people share and keep in mind, “ it’s not ur parents fault if they are poor and can’t give u all what u want as others but it definitely wrong if u don’t try ur best to make ur parents live happily and comfortably”. “ a mother can take a good care of 10 children but 10 children can’t even take a good care of a mom when they were old”. That’s why there is a first statement to stimulate all children to work hard for their life and parents because normally parents will do it for sure to their children but their children may not.

  • @amysticalmyth
    @amysticalmyth 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really wish I live at Korea so I could send a concern. My family is in ruins and its similar to the first concern. My father finds fault in everything my mom does, he says her cooking is bad, she's irresponsible, blames her for wasting money, and asks my mom to take care of everything alone then blames her for everything. On the other side, my mom came to be afraid and hates my father. She can't refute to anything he says and vents on me and acts overly sensitive when he's around. My brother is still young and he witnesses my parents fight all the time. My brother is also pressured to get good grades and have to bare all my mom's pessimistic thoughts. I feel like getting and advice here would help :)

  • @aks.u365
    @aks.u365 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Third concern grandmum is adorable. I wish i would find smthn i could be as passionate as her in that age.

  • @maemae3351
    @maemae3351 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The daughters in the second concern are cute lol

  • @annannan97865
    @annannan97865 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In their country it s a shame to divorce but they re not ashamed to live with these shi*heads 😂? Logic ….

    • @VK.x
      @VK.x 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is no logic🤦🏻‍♀️ He’s a Effin PRICK! If this show was abroad there would be security near stage & crowd. Even people from crowd would be so angry they’d slam dunk him. I don’t know how everyone is just sat or even mood for jokes! Problem’s don’t get resolved like this at all. I get pissed off watching this. Happy new year btw, well wishes from 🇬🇧

  • @hottod0996
    @hottod0996 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what a pity her daughters are so pretty...

  • @Mel_20895
    @Mel_20895 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The husband in the first concern is a complete jerk.

  • @shantresi9702
    @shantresi9702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeongja's headlock ...53:00...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    I crack up every time when I see them teasing each other...especially dongyeob teasing yeongja ...🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tu1417
    @tu1417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lee Sang Woo and choi Taejoon acted in ALL ABOUT MY MOM together and they were in happy together...

    • @tu1417
      @tu1417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/video/uI0w2U6T9FQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @tu1417
      @tu1417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And then this is a video of Lee Sang Woo and Eugene Kim in happy together! With a few others like Boath,Oh Minsuk Choi Taejoon...

    • @tu1417
      @tu1417 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/QwPr0UDQYp8/w-d-xo.html

  • @Sone94ver
    @Sone94ver 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I see Jung Chaeyeon. I clicked. I miss IOI. Loving DIA too❤❤❤

  • @elyssasjourney2400
    @elyssasjourney2400 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    emm ... the daughters damn pretty tho

  • @jhandielee2510
    @jhandielee2510 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh my god I'm to sleepy right now but watching the first concern make my blood boiling.. if I'm your wife i will definitely divorce you my god your such an 😠☻😠☻😠☻😠☻😠☻😩😾😠☻😠☻😠☻😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠 you look like this..

  • @jupitermomo
    @jupitermomo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YES MY GIRLS HEEHYUN AND CHAEYEON :D

  • @ASHNA199312
    @ASHNA199312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This first concern is giving me flashbacks and anxiety. As I am watching this man bells are going off in my head and I've been thinking about everything he's doing and how he is and it kept bothering me and just now I put it all together and I had to pause the video to write this. He is a NARCISSIST. Classic. A devil to his wife and an angel to the world. No empathy, no sense of compassion, very manipulative and condescending. Doesn't see anything wrong with himself. Thinks he's doing her a favor and helping her change through his vicious ways. Overpowering soft hearted people. And at the same time a philanthropist and a charitable person to the world. The world sees him as the kindest and most generous person.
    Omg !!!!
    I know a narcissist when I see one and this man is a malignant narcissist to be precise.
    The only way his wife can life a sane life is by getting away from him ASAP. RUN! AS FAST AS YOU CAN.