@@IAm_DylanJames what if you suspect them of cheating with a 3rd party. And you have already established a relationship? how do you turn those circumstances around?
@@lydia7827 Lydia ❤ Those are very valid emotions and thoughts. No matter what the situation is (suspicion in relationship, no contact situations or any other area of life like career, money or anything), whenever we are in a state of doubt/worry/frustration/distress...the best we can do is 1. Work on our Self-Concept 2. Prioritizing emotional stability. This is what I have learnt from Dylan and it is greatly helping me to turn situations around! Stay strong, you can do this. ❤ The possibilities are limitless. 😊
Lately, I’ve been feeling so calm and I just know that everything is done for me. The money, the body, the SP-it’s all done. I was even sad about my grandma because her dementia has gotten bad but I FaceTimed with her today and she got excited to see me. I’ve been imagining that she’s okay and her situation is improving. So that gave me comfort. I think you have to get to a point where you realize that manifesting works for EVERYONE. You have to get out of your own way and if you think it’s not working for you, that’s actually your ego talking. I had to get out of this place where i thought the universe was like: “everyone can get everything they want, except for you. You can’t manifest a better life. It’s just not for you.” It’s simply not true at all. I’ve felt so calm and even if I never get my manifestations, it’s okay because I just feel more secure, and thats something I’ve always lacked in my life. If we’re doing the work, we’re already the best option for anything we want because we already have the upper hand!! Thank you, Dylan!!
Also, I have to add that a lot of what he’s saying in this video is lining up with how I’ve been feeling. I just know that what I want is coming for me. It’s inevitable. I’m not in a rush because I know it HAS to manifest. These are definite synchronicities! I love it!!
When you just naturally let it flow to you and you have the neutral feeling, it's so off to me cause it's just NEVER what I did in the past at all. I used to have such fixed mindsets and never broke them.... I remember when I used to try so hard and now all that I desire just naturally flows into my life... 🖤
I can vouch for this. Do take care of yourself and be self sufficient and regulating, but show up as all you are. SP loves me for my full on loving and empathetic self and we actually really balance each other out and inspire each other to grow, without codependency.
I think I’ve realized that whenever we want to push something, or even wanting to have conversations where we want to feel validated, what we’re doing is trying to fight for our limitations. In the sense where we know what might come from us really doing that, which then in turn perpetuates the old story. This way when your person comes back in a way you kind of knew would happen, you have a pass to go back into victim mentality. E.g. “I knew he/she didn’t like me like that. I knew that he/she was up to something.” I always got told growing up, if you try hard enough to find something you will find it. I was always told never to go digging. And now I get it, the simple act of wanting to look for something is just us truly wanting to stick with the old story. This requires a lot of discipline.
I really needed this video! "Trust that no one is intentionally hurting you, and trust in a better version of yourself and them". Thx to you Dylan, I'm in a relationship with a guy that I was crushing on for 2 years and now I think I'm in loveeeeee. However, we both have busy schedules and due to uni he can only see me twice a week. I was pretty upset the other night starting to think that he did not care to see me, but then I caught myself getting back to my old thought pattern, which I don't believe in anymore. I said to myself that ofc he wants to be with me, and as long I trust and make the best I have with the two days I have with him, in no time the circumstace will change! I went to bed and now enjoying my morning as I look forward to our date.
This is absolutely beautiful. Thank you. Edit: I commented before the end and now I’d like to add how fucking inspirational this message is. Edit again: you have honestly moved me so much with this video Dylan. I literally felt myself welling up. I am sending you the biggest hug right now to thank you. I am a little over 2 weeks into this journey with the affirmations at night. This past day or two I have really begun to listen to your message, not just hear it. Persisting is hard but you are so so so right, if something is important than it’s so worth it. I am so genuinely excited for my new self-concept. I started this journey to get my SP back, now I realise that it’s sooo much bigger than that. My break up is the catalyst for me building an amazing, healthy, committed relationship with MYSELF. My SP coming back is only byproduct and honestly not that important in comparison! Thank you thank you thank you. Love from Ireland 🇮🇪
Omg I’m 6 months in to listening to the night tracks. I swear to you I have been given a new life! The reward he gives is insane. Trust and believe and you can have ANYTHING you want. I am proof and so thankful for Dylan
8:00 when you know what you want you’re not gonna get triggered 9:55 hold on let me remember who I am let me trust that I’m gonna get that. Holding a feeling I’m gonna get what I want. Trust - I can relax in the challenge 10:52 HOW you respond in a moment to moment basis is either gonna move you towards what you want or away from what you want 14:45 if I feel desperate for something I’ll repel that from me. Operate in a way that is confident, trusting and knowing
This video is so calming! Your tone the message all of it! If you’re frantic after watching this, watch it again! How beautiful is this message! Love is about trusting, trusting yourself, trusting your partner! How beautiful is it that we are all connected. You’re focusing on you so you’re the best version of yourself for you. People WANT to show up in a beautiful way for you but if your thoughts are so against them, you’re not honoring them or yourself. You’re not allowing them the space to show up the way they want to! I’ve watched this video 3 times now and each time I get more information from it! ❤️
Ohhh thank you for this. Before finding Dylan, I used to see my ex in a negative light because he could have a negative mindset... we broke up last month but got to meet up last night!!! 😍 and obviously from doing this work I've released seeing him in a negative way and only though compassion and love. Our first meeting last night was incredible and we both left sooooo happy ❤🎉
This video couldn't have come at a better time in my life. I manifested my SP back into my life and things were going great, but then I saw some things in my reality that were undesirable and brought up past issues with a 3P so I started to lose trust in him. It's been chaos, so I've had to take a step back and realize that I need to get back into the state of trust and knowing it will all be ok and work out the way I want it to. Thank you!
Exactly! Trust that no matter what you’re getting everything you want. At some point you will! No fears, no doubts, no ifs or buts! It’s done ✅…. Just learn to love the process and keep persistent. ♥️
‘Trust’ has been the key word with my sp. I have been doing the work on trusting myself and my emotional self. I know that it would be reflected back as everything is a mirror. Trusting that people would believe in me as well
Listened to 7 rings by ariana grande twice on the way to dropping my son off at school today lol. I've been using little things to build my momentum -in every area I've seen improvement from sleeping with your nighttime affirmations and doing your meditation in the mornings. This morning I was rushing to the office but didn't eat and thought I should grab something quick for when I get hungry but then I said yoy know what there will probably be food at the office (not typical) and a co worker was like I brought a bunch of fruit and plates if you want some! I was saying affirmations while running at the gym like "I'm so beautiful, I'm a goddess "and the lady at the gym daycare told me how pretty she thought I was when I picked my son up. 😅 Told myself I'd get yellow flowers And my son picked them for me randomly. This was all today, our minds are so powerful and the work you do is incredible dylan. Thank you thank you thank you!!
This brings me to 5 values I asked myself in a relationship in how I prioritize them: trust, respect, love, understanding and tolerance. I remembered asking my friend what value she will prioritize and she first answer love, to later hearing me saying, without trust, everything is nothing. It is only trust we can respect. Anything we are not trusting is not even relating or connecting. Come respect, we start to see more and more of that corresponds and we started to love. When we love, we understand and then we can tolerate. The sequence hasn't been change since 7 years ago I asked myself, and it brought me to Dylan's video. Woohoo🙏😉✨
Would love to see more success stories from clients that struggled a lot and then got their sp. hearing their up and downs too that pulled them through!
But fr thank you so much, Dylan, I’ve gotten huge movement and I dreamed about you today, you were guiding me in my dream, as always 🥺 thank you so much for existing ❤️ I adore you fr.
I wish I wasn't such an obstacle to myself. I persist. It's so engrained inside of me. All I can do is keep trying to affirm my belief in myself until it sticks.
@@devdollazz thank you so much. The love of my life depends on it. It's hopeless now but that's also my old beliefs that I need to shed. Gotta keep pushing!
Dylan, I have been following you for a few months and in today's video something clicked- you said what we really want is connection. When you said that I thought- what I want is connection to myself that I am trying to find through my person. I know he likes me but when I dont have that connection to myself, it confuses the connection to him. This calmed me even more. :)
This is so true. I'm older and want kids with my SP whom I am not in contact with for the last few months (not keeping track lol). Previous to this period, we were urgently hard at work in starting our family. Kids are so important to both of us us in the way we see our futures unfolding. So when he found out he has a daughter from a previous relationship and started to find a place for that in his life, I reacted from a place of insecurity and lack. It caused a real division, and I see now that my own self concept was involved. His reaction to my reaction triggered him to a place of hurt. I see that clearly now thank to the affirmations. I am a wonderful nurturer, and he tells me am an awesome mom already even though our children exist in the future. I am learning to love and trust myself in knowing what I want. I am able to forgive myself and extending that love and forgiveness to him which he will then be able to reflect to me. A good example to our children. thank you for providing all of this as I felt very lost. I can have exactly what I want. it's already on the way...
As i rewatched this just now, my SP literally FaceTimed and said a bunch of sweet nothings after about a week of him being salty/cold. Trust, it’s all about trust ♥️
Hey Dylan, I just wanted to thank you for your very helpful and useful insight, it's been very encouraging to me. I've followed a lot of coaches, and I love them all, but for whatever reason when I listened to you talk about 'validating yourself', it really clicked for me. Though I'd been doing the visualizing, affirming, scripting, I found myself continually looking outside of myself to see 'has it worked yet, has it worked yet?!'. I used to get so frustrated, angry and discouraged when I saw it hadn't, when I'd thought for SURE I'd done everything right. Listening to you though I realized that, no matter what I see outside of myself, I need to feel validated, loved, appreciated, admired, *NOW*. Feeling these things WITHOUT need of seeing it outside of myself, and being consistently in that state until it's just a natural thing to feel all the time with our without outside sources. I do art, and it became so habitual for me to compare myself to others, and seek worthiness outside of me that it wasn't easy at first, but I'm becoming progressively better at it. So I just wanted to thank you for helping me see that missing piece, I was just about close to giving up when I started watching your videos.❤️
I’m glad to have found you Dylan. You’re really helping people to change their lives and it’s coming from a genuine place. Thanks love, much appreciated 💙
Hey Dylan ✨🙏✨Thank you so much for this video. I realized at the midpoint of doing the nightly recordings that I need to apologize to my SP. When I look back I see he was wanting another chance but at the time he wasn’t showing up exactly how I wanted. Under it all, I didn’t TRUST. Even though I could manifest him reaching out first, my apology I see would make me feel at ease and peace. It is like you say so important to do anything for the ones you love 💕
It has become a beautiful habit to listen to a random video of yours every morning when I’m having breakfast…and Dylan, it’s amazing how everytime it’s exactly what I need to hear to motivate myself and to reassure myself of how good I’m doing. Thank you, it was a blessing finding you❤️ After I listen to your videos, I’m ready to start my day, put my motivational music and feeling good, living my best life knowing it’s done. I’m in a state where everything you say about being stable and secure is just an automatic response in my head that says “yeah, that’s exactly how I feel, that’s how I am, it’s done”… Life is not happening to me, it’s happening through me.❤️
Thanks alot for this video i have really been struggling . I completed Listening to 21 day night affirmations and then stopped . But all of a sudden i realised that i still sometimes get triggered . Started listening to it again . You are a Life saver thanks alot 🙏
This is absolute gold Dylan. What sets you apart from other coaches on here is your heart, maturity and your genuine love and care for others. You do not come from a place of selfishness and it's all about me when it comes to manifesting....you come from a place of truly caring for the other people and situations we want to manifest. Brilliant. I also really appreciate that you touch on our mental and emotional health in the process. This is Soooooooo important. It all starts with US. 💗
You have restored my faith so many times. I have been having movement but then after so much shifting I started to create resistance... I was inconsolable when I felt like my worst fears are being realised and couldn't forgive to even want to persist. I can see past it to know it's sabotage but I get thrown off course rarely just for like these big triggers. Thank you for reminding me when I need it most, I love you Dylan James.
Update: I persisted and it shifted in a big way 💕 it was that as I was getting closer and seeing movement more would come up from deep within as I would start to push it away in fear. As I realised this, I calmed my state, was kind, immersed myself in the reminding like watching DJ... This is crazy and amazing and cool, how did something so seemingly impossible 180 so well and not with any effort to try only to refocus and relax, life changing perspective shift and state of being since getting on board with this. So much calmer now in every moment, world is a nicer place and I fit in easily now where before I never felt like I did and would always make things awkward thru my own non-acceptance of self, projected outward to affirm it back to me as real, now I'm relaxed and I am not thinking about being accepted, cos I accept myself and people seem to sense this and smile back in kind the way they see and respond, even strangers, but mostly my SP... You wouldn't ever believe it if I told you the situation and it's complex so it was really hard to maintain the persistence or even believe at all for ages, I am so much better now and only been tested after so long of being on top of it confidently... Then this, it really works, just remind yourself this and as long as you believe, it actually really truly works. This feels like magic. I feel like I'm discovering who I am and the purpose of life but also such a better way to experience it, I feel so lucky to have manifested finding this wisdom from DJ and a few other great teachers who share the same knowing and each have their own way of communicating it and offering other perspectives that help wrap my head around some of the more profound concepts. THANK YOU ❤️
Here's something new I've been noticing since I began this journey in June. All my immediate family have passed (too early). Since my brother's passing, I have had dreams about having so much rage for my mother. In my waking state, I never feel that much anger, or any at all. So these dreams were so intense they tripped me out and I wasn't sure what it meant. So, since I have been listening to the tapes over these last few months, I'm having dreams about me and my mom going to the movies, out to lunch. Really pleasant dreams and also, my grandmother who I never dreamed about and we did not have a good relationship in life I am suddenly having dreams of her where we are pleasant as well. It's amazing to me how much this has been changing my life!
this man brings so much comfort to me when he speaks. his words are so empowering it literally uplifts you and makes you believe that any situation can always be turned to your advantage. I love you and your work Dylan!!!!!!!!!!
Watching this video almost 2 years later ! I needed to hear this and get my mindset back on track ❤thank you for the love you definitely know what you’re doing Dylan. I’ve been listening to you since 2020 and my life has changed for the better !!! The universe is listening and if you want it you got it period!
Much needed this right now. I caught myself crying coz I feel he doesn't love me anymore even when he just told me he loves me. I'm feeling insecure again. I still believe in us though. I'll persist and trust him more. Trust the process. Thank you. 😊♥️😘
Dylan, i am so grateful to you. I watch your old videos daily to have a strict mental diet and self concept. Can you please make videos about other topics like weight loss, looking the best, social connections, money with action and also without action, career, etc
Thank you!! Every time I watch one of your videos, it’s like I’m having a conversation with you. And I’ve watched all of your videos except for like 3. You’ve helped me make some huge changes in my life, and I’m working on crushing some more goals. Yesterday, while watching the video you uploaded, I had an epiphany about what I need to improve on. And there’s a lot of synchronicity going on, and I know that means I’m on the right track and my self concept is getting stronger. I trust, I accept, I allow, I believe. 💯❤️
Wow. I think you just fixed me. First video I’ve seen on this channel. Thank you universe for bringing this video to me today. Never heard anyone deliver this concept like this before. Beautiful. Genius. Thank you so much. Just what I needed. You are amazing.
Well, the experience of TRUSTING, BELIEVING AND pleasantly EXPECTING more videos from DYLAN (without long gaps) and getting this 3rd one in just a couple of days, has convinced me that if the same RELAXED approach is taken with persistence in other areas of life, they are definitely going to show desired results too 👍
I’m in some wild circumstances with 10-30k dangling in front of me over the past 3 weeks and facing eviction on Tuesday… I’ve got a rent relief program reviewing my application for help and I’m so close to landing this jump with the above sign on bonus, so I feel pretty good about it working out but I’m transitioning out of a self concept that is all 11th hour Hail Mary by the skin of my ass miracle moments of glory. I’m ready to transcend this pattern of dramatic suspense in my manifesting. Watching you helps me dial it back down to 12.
Third and final comment- I know you say dont watch these videos all day long but some of us have been believing lies about our limitations for A LONG time...so I posit, that in the beginning, it is a good thing to listen to your videos on a loop until our new thought habits take hold.
I needed this message so much. I have had trust backwards, feeling unsafe to trust until I know someone is trustworthy, and never trusting myself. I now see how I manifested certain things in my relationship and then did all the things you talked about at the end of this video. You have helped me understand and embrace trust - and it is a beautiful concept. Thank you so much for the incredible work that you do, and for putting all of this out there for us, FOR FREE. I appreciate you so much. 🙏
It was the best content that ive ever seen throughout my manifesting journey.. Ive been beating myself so hard on the manifestation but you made ne realised how can i actually get things done in my own preferred way where i want to totally feel my presence and his presence at the same time.. Thanks for this
Dylan I reacted bad because of alcohol and now sp is angry but I am Doing my work and watching your videos again. I deserve to be forgiven. And I am seeing and set the intention that This is only making our connection stronger. I am doing it Well but oh This is hurting. Ty ❤️
I had such an interesting experience today. While my sp isn’t here yet I’m ok with that because I’m learning. I didn’t hand a in a test so I then I did some breath work and said some affirmations and my professor was so nice to me about it but then today I had my old belief system pop up but I was still confident even though I got triggered. I know I’ll start living in the end with my sp soon but tbh I’m sorta glad he isn’t here yet because I still have a lot of work to do on myself and I really have to prioritize my stability!
@@violanovakova4752 yeah I mean I hope it did. Itreally depends on how disciplined you are because I only started doing the breath work yesterday I had been struggling a while to do it. I didn’t do it today but I’m gonna do it tomorrow I gotta promise myself. But this is really good feedback in my opinion about my state of being
Great video, I will apply what you have said, thank you so much, rebuilding trust in a relationship is so difficult, but it resonates what you said that I should be living in the end, It is done... thanks.
My significant other completely transformed instantly he’s so committed, consistent, loving and affectionate 🥰 I’m meeting his father and uncle and childhood friends tonight 🙏🏽😘
Hi Dylan i listened to you and me and my sp we meet yesterday then today i applied what you told us have a self concept and everything around you will change thankyou it helps me a lot in all aspects of my life. 😍❤😊
Dylan, it would be Soooooo cool To have one video that combines segments of all your mindset meditations so one video can be played throughout the night with all the different mindset topics ‼️💜
Even though I did manifest my SP out of a 3rd party situation awhile ago, with her being back in my reality; I was able to discover that I truly didn't work on myself to the extent that I truly needed to, and it has reflected. As of a few days ago, we stopped talking as much, and I will say that it hasn't been the easiest thing to drop that focus, but I know it's what I need to do, not only to get her back, but because I'm in a point in my life where I truly don't want to be, and placing my focus on myself is going to be getting me out of this current spot...The manifestation of a relationship with my SP again will be the byproduct of doing so. Just gotta have that faith, and that trust that what I do want will ultimately manifest, and not place all my time/energy into it everyday, regardless of what the 3D has presented.
Omg I'm in the same boat! Question; how did you manifest your sp out of a 3rd party and get back together? And how long did it take? Cus my sp (ex) is also in a relationship with the 3rd party, even moved from my place to his place without getting something for her self (a apartment for example) and I want her to move back in with me.
Beliefs- third eye Confidence- solar plexus Trust- heart and crown chakras = being in alignment 😊 aligning is your energy at its highest, it’s all pointing in the direction of your manifestations. Everything is energy! So you’ll attract what’s on that vibration. It really really works and I couldn’t believe my first couple evidences of it!
I really needed this video, it's honestly surprising how you know what I need on the day that I need it. Me and my sp will be happy and filled with abundance. Thank you so much Dylan 💗
Thank you for these insightful words Dylan. I am in my monthly cycle and my emotions wobbled a bit and I was forcing affirmations on me which was stressful. I was thinking about time and my mind was wandering about time, age and the urgency that I want to manifest my sp back. However this video opened my eyes. Worth watching. Thank you
I love this! I have been getting anxious because I want to get married and have kids.. I want to give birth to my own baby. As I have just turned 37 this has been a fear. But thank you for this video. I can have as many babies as I want :)
I’m in the same boat. Just turned 39 and recently my long term relationship ended as well, so I’ve been anxious about my future 😕 I’m trying to stay positive and not have this urgency feeling…it’s hard sometimes, but I also have feelings of “everything will be okay and I’ll get what I want.” 😊
@@WamsyAmsy watch this video again! And then see your future. Establish the believe that you get everything you want. Keep that vision. It will make you happy. And you don’t have to discuss it with everyone because people will bring up our fears.
@@Thingsimobsessedwith just listen to an audio at sapien medicine yt channel to reverse menupause, you can literally give birth at 60yo. or hypnodaddy's subliminal audio for the same objective
Dylan I just found your channel, and I must say that I am truly grateful for you ❤️ you’ve changed my manifestation game for the absolute better, your self concept meditation is AMAZING✨ thank you!! You are my new coach!
I would love to hear an inDepth explanation of ways to encourage fat loss /curb over eating or increase the amount your body can burn instead of always struggling to be in a calories deficit or the mental block that stops a person from succeeding to get their body into the condition they want .
I relax and also I confidence. Very important. That is why I do your video Guided Meditation Start Your Day _End Your Day and It is helped to me relax and talk to other people and not getting annoyed of others presence. Now I focus on myself and let the God move through me. Thank you for your wisdom.
I feel like this is difficult because my capacity to trust and be safe was ruined by early childhood trauma. Growing up in so much terror and fear, now i'm slowly getting out of it, but it was a dark pit. Now being able to let down my guard and trusting is so hard, because things went so wrong when this happened. I do have hope because I'm improving and reaching that level of faith, but it is hard to remain patient
Hi Dylan👋 Would you be able to do a short video on following one’s intuition and a meditation video on having the courage to follow ones intuition every single day and so all the time.
Trust is so hard, it's true faith.
: ) "growth occurs when someone is pushed past their limits"... it may be hard, but it's never impossible 💕
Ty! Pinning this comment was a beautiful demonstration.
@@IAm_DylanJames it’s hard to manifest when life seems to be falling apart around you. It’s a true test of faith.
@@IAm_DylanJames what if you suspect them of cheating with a 3rd party. And you have already established a relationship? how do you turn those circumstances around?
@@lydia7827 Lydia ❤ Those are very valid emotions and thoughts. No matter what the situation is (suspicion in relationship, no contact situations or any other area of life like career, money or anything), whenever we are in a state of doubt/worry/frustration/distress...the best we can do is 1. Work on our Self-Concept 2. Prioritizing emotional stability. This is what I have learnt from Dylan and it is greatly helping me to turn situations around! Stay strong, you can do this. ❤ The possibilities are limitless. 😊
Lately, I’ve been feeling so calm and I just know that everything is done for me. The money, the body, the SP-it’s all done. I was even sad about my grandma because her dementia has gotten bad but I FaceTimed with her today and she got excited to see me. I’ve been imagining that she’s okay and her situation is improving. So that gave me comfort. I think you have to get to a point where you realize that manifesting works for EVERYONE. You have to get out of your own way and if you think it’s not working for you, that’s actually your ego talking. I had to get out of this place where i thought the universe was like: “everyone can get everything they want, except for you. You can’t manifest a better life. It’s just not for you.” It’s simply not true at all. I’ve felt so calm and even if I never get my manifestations, it’s okay because I just feel more secure, and thats something I’ve always lacked in my life. If we’re doing the work, we’re already the best option for anything we want because we already have the upper hand!! Thank you, Dylan!!
Also, I have to add that a lot of what he’s saying in this video is lining up with how I’ve been feeling. I just know that what I want is coming for me. It’s inevitable. I’m not in a rush because I know it HAS to manifest. These are definite synchronicities! I love it!!
You've been manifesting your SP for quite sometime
@@romeojung8954 and? for some people it just takes more time because of their limiting beliefs. time is a concept and it doesnt matter at all.
BEAUTIFUL.
I'm so happy for you, Christy!!
Everytime I start to doubt myself, I hear Dylan saying "Trust" from the sleep affirmations! Thank you Dylan!
Hahahahah 😆
This happens to me😂. I instantly start that mental tape on, the T the R the U the S the T
Me too! 😁👍💜
Life is not a race. There’s no rush. Trust the process and believe in me.
When you just naturally let it flow to you and you have the neutral feeling, it's so off to me cause it's just NEVER what I did in the past at all. I used to have such fixed mindsets and never broke them.... I remember when I used to try so hard and now all that I desire just naturally flows into my life... 🖤
Wow, such an inspiration to me. I'm struggling to let go of control. Thank you
I can vouch for this. Do take care of yourself and be self sufficient and regulating, but show up as all you are. SP loves me for my full on loving and empathetic self and we actually really balance each other out and inspire each other to grow, without codependency.
I think I’ve realized that whenever we want to push something, or even wanting to have conversations where we want to feel validated, what we’re doing is trying to fight for our limitations. In the sense where we know what might come from us really doing that, which then in turn perpetuates the old story. This way when your person comes back in a way you kind of knew would happen, you have a pass to go back into victim mentality.
E.g. “I knew he/she didn’t like me like that. I knew that he/she was up to something.” I always got told growing up, if you try hard enough to find something you will find it. I was always told never to go digging. And now I get it, the simple act of wanting to look for something is just us truly wanting to stick with the old story. This requires a lot of discipline.
❌ urgency, fear, insecurity!
✅ Trust, Know, Believe!
I really needed this video! "Trust that no one is intentionally hurting you, and trust in a better version of yourself and them". Thx to you Dylan, I'm in a relationship with a guy that I was crushing on for 2 years and now I think I'm in loveeeeee. However, we both have busy schedules and due to uni he can only see me twice a week. I was pretty upset the other night starting to think that he did not care to see me, but then I caught myself getting back to my old thought pattern, which I don't believe in anymore. I said to myself that ofc he wants to be with me, and as long I trust and make the best I have with the two days I have with him, in no time the circumstace will change! I went to bed and now enjoying my morning as I look forward to our date.
This is absolutely beautiful. Thank you.
Edit: I commented before the end and now I’d like to add how fucking inspirational this message is.
Edit again: you have honestly moved me so much with this video Dylan. I literally felt myself welling up. I am sending you the biggest hug right now to thank you. I am a little over 2 weeks into this journey with the affirmations at night. This past day or two I have really begun to listen to your message, not just hear it. Persisting is hard but you are so so so right, if something is important than it’s so worth it. I am so genuinely excited for my new self-concept. I started this journey to get my SP back, now I realise that it’s sooo much bigger than that. My break up is the catalyst for me building an amazing, healthy, committed relationship with MYSELF. My SP coming back is only byproduct and honestly not that important in comparison! Thank you thank you thank you. Love from Ireland 🇮🇪
Omg I’m 6 months in to listening to the night tracks. I swear to you I have been given a new life!
The reward he gives is insane. Trust and believe and you can have ANYTHING you want. I am proof and so thankful for Dylan
Update?
8:00 when you know what you want you’re not gonna get triggered
9:55 hold on let me remember who I am let me trust that I’m gonna get that. Holding a feeling I’m gonna get what I want. Trust - I can relax in the challenge
10:52 HOW you respond in a moment to moment basis is either gonna move you towards what you want or away from what you want
14:45 if I feel desperate for something I’ll repel that from me. Operate in a way that is confident, trusting and knowing
Decide what you want!
Reinforce you’re beliefs in your confidence!
Trust in your ability to a achieve it
With no urgency ♥️
This video is so calming! Your tone the message all of it! If you’re frantic after watching this, watch it again! How beautiful is this message! Love is about trusting, trusting yourself, trusting your partner! How beautiful is it that we are all connected. You’re focusing on you so you’re the best version of yourself for you. People WANT to show up in a beautiful way for you but if your thoughts are so against them, you’re not honoring them or yourself. You’re not allowing them the space to show up the way they want to! I’ve watched this video 3 times now and each time I get more information from it! ❤️
Same!! You're so right! This was a MUCH needed & timely message for me.. and yes, i've also watched several times, each time gaining something new!
Ohhh thank you for this. Before finding Dylan, I used to see my ex in a negative light because he could have a negative mindset... we broke up last month but got to meet up last night!!! 😍 and obviously from doing this work I've released seeing him in a negative way and only though compassion and love. Our first meeting last night was incredible and we both left sooooo happy ❤🎉
This video couldn't have come at a better time in my life. I manifested my SP back into my life and things were going great, but then I saw some things in my reality that were undesirable and brought up past issues with a 3P so I started to lose trust in him. It's been chaos, so I've had to take a step back and realize that I need to get back into the state of trust and knowing it will all be ok and work out the way I want it to. Thank you!
Exactly! Trust that no matter what you’re getting everything you want. At some point you will! No fears, no doubts, no ifs or buts! It’s done ✅…. Just learn to love the process and keep persistent. ♥️
‘Trust’ has been the key word with my sp. I have been doing the work on trusting myself and my emotional self. I know that it would be reflected back as everything is a mirror. Trusting that people would believe in me as well
Yes! This is what i'm working on as well.
Listened to 7 rings by ariana grande twice on the way to dropping my son off at school today lol. I've been using little things to build my momentum -in every area I've seen improvement from sleeping with your nighttime affirmations and doing your meditation in the mornings.
This morning I was rushing to the office but didn't eat and thought I should grab something quick for when I get hungry but then I said yoy know what there will probably be food at the office (not typical) and a co worker was like I brought a bunch of fruit and plates if you want some!
I was saying affirmations while running at the gym like "I'm so beautiful, I'm a goddess "and the lady at the gym daycare told me how pretty she thought I was when I picked my son up. 😅
Told myself I'd get yellow flowers And my son picked them for me randomly. This was all today, our minds are so powerful and the work you do is incredible dylan. Thank you thank you thank you!!
This brings me to 5 values I asked myself in a relationship in how I prioritize them: trust, respect, love, understanding and tolerance.
I remembered asking my friend what value she will prioritize and she first answer love, to later hearing me saying, without trust, everything is nothing.
It is only trust we can respect. Anything we are not trusting is not even relating or connecting. Come respect, we start to see more and more of that corresponds and we started to love. When we love, we understand and then we can tolerate.
The sequence hasn't been change since 7 years ago I asked myself, and it brought me to Dylan's video. Woohoo🙏😉✨
Would love to see more success stories from clients that struggled a lot and then got their sp. hearing their up and downs too that pulled them through!
I had a counter productive moment yesterday, just dwelling in frustration, but this post got me all the way together!! TRUST!!!!
Trust is CRITICAL omg. I love this video!
Love. I’m 39 and want kids, I think that’s putting me in the wrong state of mind/fear. But I’m working on it, I can do this!! Thanks 🙏🏼
Wishing you the best 💞 it will happen 🥰
Me too! There’s good and bad days 🥺
Janet Jackson got a child when she was 50! I became mother when i was 37. Fond a GOOD docter van help!
Imagine holding your child, listening to it's first cry before you sleep. Boom you're a momma now!! Congratulations new mama
Me too! I’m 43.
But fr thank you so much, Dylan, I’ve gotten huge movement and I dreamed about you today, you were guiding me in my dream, as always 🥺 thank you so much for existing ❤️ I adore you fr.
I wish I wasn't such an obstacle to myself. I persist. It's so engrained inside of me. All I can do is keep trying to affirm my belief in myself until it sticks.
You will get there! I believe it..
Keep going Martin!! We believe in you!!!
@@devdollazz thank you so much. The love of my life depends on it. It's hopeless now but that's also my old beliefs that I need to shed. Gotta keep pushing!
His face is different now, is it a manifestation of yours Dylan? Looks really cool on ya
Yeah I noticed that too
I said that too
He removed his beard
@@janiceblissy it’s more about his chin and jawline
It looks like jawline fillers. Whatever it is.. he looks fine af!!
Dylan, I have been following you for a few months and in today's video something clicked- you said what we really want is connection. When you said that I thought- what I want is connection to myself that I am trying to find through my person. I know he likes me but when I dont have that connection to myself, it confuses the connection to him. This calmed me even more. :)
This is so true. I'm older and want kids with my SP whom I am not in contact with for the last few months (not keeping track lol). Previous to this period, we were urgently hard at work in starting our family. Kids are so important to both of us us in the way we see our futures unfolding. So when he found out he has a daughter from a previous relationship and started to find a place for that in his life, I reacted from a place of insecurity and lack. It caused a real division, and I see now that my own self concept was involved. His reaction to my reaction triggered him to a place of hurt. I see that clearly now thank to the affirmations. I am a wonderful nurturer, and he tells me am an awesome mom already even though our children exist in the future. I am learning to love and trust myself in knowing what I want. I am able to forgive myself and extending that love and forgiveness to him which he will then be able to reflect to me. A good example to our children. thank you for providing all of this as I felt very lost. I can have exactly what I want. it's already on the way...
As i rewatched this just now, my SP literally FaceTimed and said a bunch of sweet nothings after about a week of him being salty/cold. Trust, it’s all about trust ♥️
Hey Dylan, I just wanted to thank you for your very helpful and useful insight, it's been very encouraging to me.
I've followed a lot of coaches, and I love them all, but for whatever reason when I listened to you talk about 'validating yourself', it really clicked for me. Though I'd been doing the visualizing, affirming, scripting, I found myself continually looking outside of myself to see 'has it worked yet, has it worked yet?!'. I used to get so frustrated, angry and discouraged when I saw it hadn't, when I'd thought for SURE I'd done everything right.
Listening to you though I realized that, no matter what I see outside of myself, I need to feel validated, loved, appreciated, admired, *NOW*. Feeling these things WITHOUT need of seeing it outside of myself, and being consistently in that state until it's just a natural thing to feel all the time with our without outside sources. I do art, and it became so habitual for me to compare myself to others, and seek worthiness outside of me that it wasn't easy at first, but I'm becoming progressively better at it.
So I just wanted to thank you for helping me see that missing piece, I was just about close to giving up when I started watching your videos.❤️
I’m glad to have found you Dylan. You’re really helping people to change their lives and it’s coming from a genuine place. Thanks love, much appreciated 💙
Hey Dylan ✨🙏✨Thank you so much for this video. I realized at the midpoint of doing the nightly recordings that I need to apologize to my SP. When I look back I see he was wanting another chance but at the time he wasn’t showing up exactly how I wanted. Under it all, I didn’t TRUST. Even though I could manifest him reaching out first, my apology I see would make me feel at ease and peace. It is like you say so important to do anything for the ones you love 💕
you are a blessed treasure dyl. we must protect you at all costs. Just such a sweet soul!
You're very gifted!
It has become a beautiful habit to listen to a random video of yours every morning when I’m having breakfast…and Dylan, it’s amazing how everytime it’s exactly what I need to hear to motivate myself and to reassure myself of how good I’m doing.
Thank you, it was a blessing finding you❤️
After I listen to your videos, I’m ready to start my day, put my motivational music and feeling good, living my best life knowing it’s done.
I’m in a state where everything you say about being stable and secure is just an automatic response in my head that says “yeah, that’s exactly how I feel, that’s how I am, it’s done”…
Life is not happening to me, it’s happening through me.❤️
Thanks alot for this video i have really been struggling . I completed Listening to 21 day night affirmations and then stopped . But all of a sudden i realised that i still sometimes get triggered . Started listening to it again .
You are a Life saver thanks alot 🙏
This is absolute gold Dylan. What sets you apart from other coaches on here is your heart, maturity and your genuine love and care for others. You do not come from a place of selfishness and it's all about me when it comes to manifesting....you come from a place of truly caring for the other people and situations we want to manifest. Brilliant. I also really appreciate that you touch on our mental and emotional health in the process. This is Soooooooo important. It all starts with US. 💗
You have restored my faith so many times. I have been having movement but then after so much shifting I started to create resistance... I was inconsolable when I felt like my worst fears are being realised and couldn't forgive to even want to persist. I can see past it to know it's sabotage but I get thrown off course rarely just for like these big triggers. Thank you for reminding me when I need it most, I love you Dylan James.
Update: I persisted and it shifted in a big way 💕 it was that as I was getting closer and seeing movement more would come up from deep within as I would start to push it away in fear. As I realised this, I calmed my state, was kind, immersed myself in the reminding like watching DJ... This is crazy and amazing and cool, how did something so seemingly impossible 180 so well and not with any effort to try only to refocus and relax, life changing perspective shift and state of being since getting on board with this. So much calmer now in every moment, world is a nicer place and I fit in easily now where before I never felt like I did and would always make things awkward thru my own non-acceptance of self, projected outward to affirm it back to me as real, now I'm relaxed and I am not thinking about being accepted, cos I accept myself and people seem to sense this and smile back in kind the way they see and respond, even strangers, but mostly my SP... You wouldn't ever believe it if I told you the situation and it's complex so it was really hard to maintain the persistence or even believe at all for ages, I am so much better now and only been tested after so long of being on top of it confidently... Then this, it really works, just remind yourself this and as long as you believe, it actually really truly works. This feels like magic. I feel like I'm discovering who I am and the purpose of life but also such a better way to experience it, I feel so lucky to have manifested finding this wisdom from DJ and a few other great teachers who share the same knowing and each have their own way of communicating it and offering other perspectives that help wrap my head around some of the more profound concepts. THANK YOU ❤️
Seeing Dylan posting videos just makes me so happy 😭❤
sending love to everyone in the comment section ❤️
Here's something new I've been noticing since I began this journey in June. All my immediate family have passed (too early). Since my brother's passing, I have had dreams about having so much rage for my mother. In my waking state, I never feel that much anger, or any at all. So these dreams were so intense they tripped me out and I wasn't sure what it meant. So, since I have been listening to the tapes over these last few months, I'm having dreams about me and my mom going to the movies, out to lunch. Really pleasant dreams and also, my grandmother who I never dreamed about and we did not have a good relationship in life I am suddenly having dreams of her where we are pleasant as well. It's amazing to me how much this has been changing my life!
Wow that is a sign of massive movement 👏 😳 👌 🙌 🥰
this man brings so much comfort to me when he speaks. his words are so empowering it literally uplifts you and makes you believe that any situation can always be turned to your advantage. I love you and your work Dylan!!!!!!!!!!
Watching this video almost 2 years later ! I needed to hear this and get my mindset back on track ❤thank you for the love you definitely know what you’re doing Dylan. I’ve been listening to you since 2020 and my life has changed for the better !!! The universe is listening and if you want it you got it period!
Much needed this right now. I caught myself crying coz I feel he doesn't love me anymore even when he just told me he loves me. I'm feeling insecure again. I still believe in us though. I'll persist and trust him more. Trust the process. Thank you. 😊♥️😘
Dylan, i am so grateful to you. I watch your old videos daily to have a strict mental diet and self concept. Can you please make videos about other topics like weight loss, looking the best, social connections, money with action and also without action, career, etc
Thank you!! Every time I watch one of your videos, it’s like I’m having a conversation with you. And I’ve watched all of your videos except for like 3. You’ve helped me make some huge changes in my life, and I’m working on crushing some more goals. Yesterday, while watching the video you uploaded, I had an epiphany about what I need to improve on. And there’s a lot of synchronicity going on, and I know that means I’m on the right track and my self concept is getting stronger. I trust, I accept, I allow, I believe. 💯❤️
Wow. I think you just fixed me. First video I’ve seen on this channel. Thank you universe for bringing this video to me today. Never heard anyone deliver this concept like this before. Beautiful. Genius. Thank you so much. Just what I needed. You are amazing.
Well, the experience of TRUSTING, BELIEVING AND pleasantly EXPECTING more videos from DYLAN (without long gaps) and getting this 3rd one in just a couple of days, has convinced me that if the same RELAXED approach is taken with persistence in other areas of life, they are definitely going to show desired results too 👍
I’m in some wild circumstances with 10-30k dangling in front of me over the past 3 weeks and facing eviction on Tuesday… I’ve got a rent relief program reviewing my application for help and I’m so close to landing this jump with the above sign on bonus, so I feel pretty good about it working out but I’m transitioning out of a self concept that is all 11th hour Hail Mary by the skin of my ass miracle moments of glory. I’m ready to transcend this pattern of dramatic suspense in my manifesting. Watching you helps me dial it back down to 12.
I love that you are speaking slowly sometimes you speak so fast I miss the content that you share
Third and final comment- I know you say dont watch these videos all day long but some of us have been believing lies about our limitations for A LONG time...so I posit, that in the beginning, it is a good thing to listen to your videos on a loop until our new thought habits take hold.
I really get something new with each video. Sometimes when I'm feeling wonky, I'll listen to a few and it really helps with stabilizing too.
I needed this message so much. I have had trust backwards, feeling unsafe to trust until I know someone is trustworthy, and never trusting myself. I now see how I manifested certain things in my relationship and then did all the things you talked about at the end of this video. You have helped me understand and embrace trust - and it is a beautiful concept. Thank you so much for the incredible work that you do, and for putting all of this out there for us, FOR FREE. I appreciate you so much. 🙏
Thank you Dylan Love!! Inner peace, patience, Trust, and letting go of the "out comes" of my goals definitely helps A LOT!! Love you!!❤️❤️✌️
It was the best content that ive ever seen throughout my manifesting journey.. Ive been beating myself so hard on the manifestation but you made ne realised how can i actually get things done in my own preferred way where i want to totally feel my presence and his presence at the same time.. Thanks for this
Dylan I reacted bad because of alcohol and now sp is angry but I am Doing my work and watching your videos again. I deserve to be forgiven. And I am seeing and set the intention that This is only making our connection stronger. I am doing it Well but oh This is hurting. Ty ❤️
This is exactly what I needed to hear
I had such an interesting experience today. While my sp isn’t here yet I’m ok with that because I’m learning. I didn’t hand a in a test so I then I did some breath work and said some affirmations and my professor was so nice to me about it but then today I had my old belief system pop up but I was still confident even though I got triggered. I know I’ll start living in the end with my sp soon but tbh I’m sorta glad he isn’t here yet because I still have a lot of work to do on myself and I really have to prioritize my stability!
the end of this comment helped me a lot, reminder that maybe things are delayed in our favor, loosens the urgency
@@violanovakova4752 yeah I mean I hope it did. Itreally depends on how disciplined you are because I only started doing the breath work yesterday I had been struggling a while to do it. I didn’t do it today but I’m gonna do it tomorrow I gotta promise myself. But this is really good feedback in my opinion about my state of being
Great video, I will apply what you have said, thank you so much, rebuilding trust in a relationship is so difficult, but it resonates what you said that I should be living in the end, It is done... thanks.
Perfect timing, thanks Dylan you are such a reassuring voice x ❤
Glad you posted again! I have been trusting with all my heart and it just feels better.
God bless you Dylan, supporting so many people to live their best life
This video came in perfect timing and alignment✨✨✨
Thank you, Dylan. This video encourages me! I believe I will repeat watching it whenever I feel triggered. Love this!
My significant other completely transformed instantly he’s so committed, consistent, loving and affectionate 🥰 I’m meeting his father and uncle and childhood friends tonight 🙏🏽😘
I love this lesson💙💙 persevere, trust yourself, have faith and hold the knowing,
Hi Dylan i listened to you and me and my sp we meet yesterday then today i applied what you told us have a self concept and everything around you will change thankyou it helps me a lot in all aspects of my life. 😍❤😊
Dylan, it would be Soooooo cool
To have one video that combines segments of all your mindset meditations so one video can be played throughout the night with all the different mindset topics ‼️💜
12:12 marking it to hear again
Trust takes time to build and seconds to lose
Trust the other person. Trust that if they're being untrustworthy that it's for the greater good and that you'll be guided to something better.
Even though I did manifest my SP out of a 3rd party situation awhile ago, with her being back in my reality; I was able to discover that I truly didn't work on myself to the extent that I truly needed to, and it has reflected. As of a few days ago, we stopped talking as much, and I will say that it hasn't been the easiest thing to drop that focus, but I know it's what I need to do, not only to get her back, but because I'm in a point in my life where I truly don't want to be, and placing my focus on myself is going to be getting me out of this current spot...The manifestation of a relationship with my SP again will be the byproduct of doing so. Just gotta have that faith, and that trust that what I do want will ultimately manifest, and not place all my time/energy into it everyday, regardless of what the 3D has presented.
Omg I'm in the same boat! Question; how did you manifest your sp out of a 3rd party and get back together? And how long did it take? Cus my sp (ex) is also in a relationship with the 3rd party, even moved from my place to his place without getting something for her self (a apartment for example) and I want her to move back in with me.
Missed watching you guru!
Beliefs- third eye
Confidence- solar plexus
Trust- heart and crown chakras
= being in alignment 😊 aligning is your energy at its highest, it’s all pointing in the direction of your manifestations. Everything is energy! So you’ll attract what’s on that vibration. It really really works and I couldn’t believe my first couple evidences of it!
Your always so spot on, thank you
Also, I just finished the video and you made me cry, haha 🥲 of course I will do anything for the people I love. 💓
THANK YOU DYLAN 🙏
You are simply the best 💜
I really needed this video, it's honestly surprising how you know what I need on the day that I need it. Me and my sp will be happy and filled with abundance. Thank you so much Dylan 💗
You have to give yourself the love you been looking for...
Thank you for these insightful words Dylan. I am in my monthly cycle and my emotions wobbled a bit and I was forcing affirmations on me which was stressful. I was thinking about time and my mind was wandering about time, age and the urgency that I want to manifest my sp back. However this video opened my eyes. Worth watching. Thank you
I love you Dylan!!! You are so awesome!!!
This video was very much needed. Thank you Dylan!
I love this! I have been getting anxious because I want to get married and have kids.. I want to give birth to my own baby. As I have just turned 37 this has been a fear. But thank you for this video. I can have as many babies as I want :)
I’m in the same boat. Just turned 39 and recently my long term relationship ended as well, so I’ve been anxious about my future 😕 I’m trying to stay positive and not have this urgency feeling…it’s hard sometimes, but I also have feelings of “everything will be okay and I’ll get what I want.” 😊
@@WamsyAmsy watch this video again! And then see your future. Establish the believe that you get everything you want. Keep that vision. It will make you happy. And you don’t have to discuss it with everyone because people will bring up our fears.
@@Thingsimobsessedwith just listen to an audio at sapien medicine yt channel to reverse menupause, you can literally give birth at 60yo. or hypnodaddy's subliminal audio for the same objective
Dylan I just found your channel, and I must say that I am truly grateful for you ❤️ you’ve changed my manifestation game for the absolute better, your self concept meditation is AMAZING✨ thank you!! You are my new coach!
Fantastic, thank you so much!
Love you much! Thanks Dylan! Keep sharing 💙
Dylan you are truly becoming a guru! I love you so much ❤️❤️❤️
T. R. U. S. T! 💪🏽🥂👑
I would love to hear an inDepth explanation of ways to encourage fat loss /curb over eating or increase the amount your body can burn instead of always struggling to be in a calories deficit or the mental block that stops a person from succeeding to get their body into the condition they want .
“If I want it, I’m gonna get it eventually”
Thanks Dylan is all I am going to say here ( If I say more, it will turn into a novella)
Thanks so much Dylan ❤️
You look soooooo amazing!
Just, wow!
💜😘😘😘😘
Your videos always make me feel a thousand times better. Thank you
Thank you for explaining it this way.
I relax and also I confidence. Very important. That is why I do your video Guided Meditation Start Your Day _End Your Day and It is helped to me relax and talk to other people and not getting annoyed of others presence. Now I focus on myself and let the God move through me. Thank you for your wisdom.
I feel like this is difficult because my capacity to trust and be safe was ruined by early childhood trauma. Growing up in so much terror and fear, now i'm slowly getting out of it, but it was a dark pit. Now being able to let down my guard and trusting is so hard, because things went so wrong when this happened. I do have hope because I'm improving and reaching that level of faith, but it is hard to remain patient
It’s worth it : ) keep going
The end of this video 🙏🏼🥰 ily
Hi Dylan👋
Would you be able to do a short video on following one’s intuition and a meditation video on having the courage to follow ones intuition every single day and so all the time.
Someone has been working OUT!
It was all worth it ❤️
What a beautiful message
Thank you 🙏