Therapist Reacts To: Boarding School by Lizzy Grant/Lana Del Rey *Sensitive Topics - Use Discretion*
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some songs from the Lizzy Grant era she approaches things like this in an ironic/satirical way as if touching a wound, Which causes a confusing feeling because the sound is something sweet and lively but the lyrics are super heavy, another example is "put me in a movie"Where she talks about something very common that young actresses go through in the Hollywood film industry.
"let's enroll our daughter in boarding school it might help her with her alcohol problems"
Lizzy Grant about boarding school:.
That's wild
Sooo backward!
honestly 😭
I CLICKED SO FAST I never thought you would react to this song!!!!!
frr
i remember when i was like 10 dancing to this in my room 😭crazy times
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SAME this and jump from aka😭 I had no reason doing that omg
Been there doing that
You are everywhere under the reaction videos😭@@dylancook8863
The last verse was cut off but it’s “when they said prolific they weren’t kidding, you thought that I was just a calendar kitten, but now you heard me purring, tiger you’re smitten, so let’s begin to major in the art of sinning”
Oh my
This song is an unrealised, and yes, it is completely satirical. Lana went to a boarding school when she was young, sent by her mother because of her problems with alcohol. So it was like, okay, you have a problem. So get as far away from us as possible. And in the lyrics, she exposes the reality of that place. And you heard the live version in a bar, there is the studio song, but anyway. When you react to unrealised songs, it would be more interesting to listen to them on Soundcloud, since on TH-cam they are usually other people's versions, etc., because TH-cam takes them down. 😂
I do have to check this information, but I believe she talks about her personal experiences/things she saw there while she was on a boarding school, she has several old songs about being “naughty” as a teenager, she told once in an interview that she was a bit of a hurricane herself and another where she tells that boarding school didn’t work on her. Now, what I know about her boarding school experience is that her mother sent her to one in Spain at 14 or 15 bc she was an alcoholic (and I heard a drug addict too), so while I do find it a fun song to listen, this whole story is all very sad, at least Lana is sober for a while now, as far as we know
Not a drug addict. Just an alcoholic. She did drugs but she was never an addict to them.
@GreenwichAcid Thank you! and her boarding school was called Kent. In Connecticut. Not Spain. Rumor.
i feel like its deff part satire part of what she saw on bording school and part of what she lived
8:30 Thank you so much for pointing out that 'diet culture' is partially about keeping women focused on food and getting smaller, in order to control them.
Been watching you for a while now and been listening to Lana for a very very long time. I love hearing your opinions and thoughts on Lana's lyrics, seeing as I used to(and still do) relate heavily to a lot of Lana's darker lyrics. Since I used to not find them dark, but rather relatable, and they made me feel incredibly seen, it almost feels as though you're indirectly giving me therapy for relating to these lyrics so much. Thank you!
Wow, that means so much! Glad that my video can help! 🤍
As someone who had a teacher who wasn’t appropriate to the girls in the class (we were 12), I love that this sheds light on the topic. We weren’t necessarily believed by everyone. There was an investigation opened up for something separate but it was closed and we weren’t allowed to be taught by him the following year. Thank you for this reaction, I loved it ❤
Horrible. I agree, it needs to have light on it. Sorry you’ve had a similar experience. Sending 🤍
I tolllll you!!! It’s wild!!!
It is!!!❤
Pawn shop blues pleaseeeeeee
YESSS
mother has posted. didn't expect that coming!!! I'm amazed ❤
Hope you enjoyed it!
@@mendwithmere absolutely, I always love watching your interpretations. hats off!
I looooooveeee this Mere!!! I always wanted u to react to this, the og is a bangerrrrrr!!!! would u please react to Because of you??? ♥
Yes!! And thank you for the super thanks!!! Means so much!!
@@mendwithmere of course, I wish I could do more to help you
Because of You by Kelly Clarkson?
‘Boarding School’ It's a sarcastic way to talk about her problems, talking about them in a direct humoristic way.
i already know what the reaction is going to be without watching this video omg
Lol
YES driving and listening to your reactions while driving to grab my lunch must’ve manifested this! Been waiting for this specific reaction for a minute haha. I’m gonna look into becoming a member. Also there may or may not (hint) be a leaked studio version on SoundCloud :)
I love your reactions so much!
was it a lizzy grant interview?
@@mayalol3934 I’ll see if I can find a link and send ittt
you should def do more of her lizzy grant era songs
More Lizzy Grant!!! ❤❤
You should do “is this happiness”
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I think the “cheap trailer trash and everyone knows it” lyric is lana talking about herself she got teased by being called “white trash” so i think that part is self aimed.
Yes
lana actually got into boarding school through a families contact, she posted a now deleted statement that is still up on youtube though, adressing peoples assumptions of her coming from money and faking the trailer park life she had before becoming famous. she said that she had almost no friends and that they called her "white trash from lake placid" since she was the only one who had the boarding school staying paid not from her or her family aka the scholarship she sings about. i guess thats a interesting side note. we dont know too much about her past since she keeps things private and just recently started to talk about some parts of her past but i her teenage years have been tough from being an addict at a very young age (I guess her way to get along with her abusvie mother) to later being sent away to spain to live with a foster family to not being allowed back home since her mom didnt want her and put into boarding school and later living on a trailer park, motels and (wierd) boyfriends homes...
I Think that you should react “Put me in a movie”
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Many people here talking about Lana's mother who sent her to boarding school and then to Spain "because she didn't want Lana at home or "because she didn't want to deal with her"....Do they forget that Rob existed?? do they forget that Rob was there and also made those decisions with Patty? I love Lana but we must not forget that every story has two sides and we only know the LITTLE Lana has told, we don't know Patty's story and I think if Patty was a abusive, miserable and bad mother Rob would NEVER have stayed married to her, I think Charlie and Caroline would have walked away from her just like Lana did...ppl forget that it must be very complicated to be parents of a rebellious, problematic, drug-addicted, alcoholic and mentally ill girl!!! No one here puts themselves in Patty's shoes... What I believe is that Patty is the only one who tried to put order and limits and try to contain and control Lana when she was out of control and she was the only one who told her the things that Lana doesn't want to hear. It is no secret to anyone that Lana has a very complicated personality and adding all the addictions and bad behavior that is the nightmare of any parent. Patty wasn't the only one who made the decisions...
Rob also did it, Rob also sent her to boarding school and then to Spain with Lana's uncle and aunt, Rob is as responsible as Patty but here the only one who has told her story is Lana and we don't know Patty's story... clearly Lana and her mother became estranged and I'm sure Lana will have her reasons but Rob doesn't get rid of responsibilities, he just knew how to deal with Lana in a "better" way.
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please do "Off to the races" by Lana!!!❤
OMG YES
You should react to ‘Cry kill die’ (unreleased) by lana
I second that
I have been waiting for this one!!!
"is it wrong" intro accidentally playing towards the end lmaoo
Thank you so much ❤❤
You're welcome 😊
This song is 💯 satire and it doesn't apply only to rich kids. I mean, I switched highschool a few times due to mental health and I was in one for "problematic kids" (with weekly group therapy too): many students there were attending classes high as a kite. And it was around 2016/2017 so peak pro-ana tumblr era and I've known a few girls who took drugs specifically to stop the food cravings/lose weight. This is a dark song but it captures my highschool experience really well (and I don't come from money either)..
And it was a time when, I'm from Europe, so called 'research chemicals' weren't yet banned so drugs were very cheap and widely available too 🤷♂️ And we still have OTC codeine and dxm to this day (I remember classmates from my middle school taking it too..). The line between satire and reality becomes blurry sometimes
Thank you Mere❣️
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i would really like to see and hear your reaction to "listen before i go" by billie but also not sure how much this song will be hard to react to as it heavely influensed with billie`s depression
Omfg IV been waiting for thissssss
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It is very important!
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I love your reactions to Lana, they always introduce me to a new perspective on how to understand her, esp. lyrically. I'd love to suggest a song from Lana if you're open to take suggestions :) it's called "Old Money"
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Hi! This definitely has a lot going on! Super disgusting when adults, especially in an additional position of power, like a teacher or tutor use that poeer dynamic to exploit/target underage kids. Highly disturbing and disgusting. It’s a very interesting & odd sounding song that has such a flippant sound about very intense, serious circumstances.🤔🧐
Absolutely!
i would love to see you react to “homesick” by madison beer! it’s one of my favorite songs ever, and i think you could probably discuss some themes of mental health in it! love your channel ♡
Omg her unreleased stuff is just way wilder
Hey, I’m OBSESSED with your videos, you should react to “pretty isn’t pretty” by Olivia Rodrigo it’s soo touching and it’s abour insecurities and body dysmorphya
I'd love to see some autism content from you! I am 30 years old and thanks to TikTok, just this year, I realized I am autistic. Knowing this now, I have so many answers but also so many more questions.
To whoever paid her, THANK YOU 😂
Wait- you guys got her to listen to this song. I'm dying. 😭😭😭
Family jewels or any song from Electra Heart by Marina please 😭
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Hi there so I just discovered you and I watched most of your Lana reactions and I recommend you listen to her songs Heroin or Fu*ked my way up to the top
Cult Leader debe ser el siguiente 🫶🏿🇲🇽
PUT ME IN A MOVIE NEXT PLEASE!!
the lyrics "i'm a fan of the pro-ana nation" always get me bc one of her old interviews they asking about her favorite food? then she's said "when i eat,,, i do my lemonade maple syrup diet" like 😟 but years later she said it was fiction and the mentality of the pro-ana community was just something that interested to her,,, wild song ha
Ooo thank you for that insight. She is something else!
i was shocked when i see “boarding school” in the title cuz WHAT??!!! BOARDING SCHOOL BY LIZZY GRANT??
You should react to ‘The Feminine Urge’ by The Last Dinner Party
please react to more lizzy grant songs...I love your channel and reactions..."put me in a movie" and "serial killer" are good ones to react to❤
Love your videos! Can you also react to Shame by Mitski? 💗
can u check out halsey’s the great impersonator album
up!!
I think you should react to the cut that always bleeds by Conan Gray its got a meaning behind it
I love you and I noticed that you look like Taylor swift in her music video Anti-hero
pls, stop apologizing for your appearance, u are beautiful as aways❤
I think advertising your channel more on tiktok would bring a massive audience in but it is so strategic with hashtags and trends and takes so much time😖😖
Yeeesss
Should I just put snippets on there?
@@mendwithmereyes leave them wanting more😂❤
Im pretty sure this isnt based of her life during boarding school but how the other girls acted when she went to school with them. But im not sure if its 100% true!
Please do ‘listen before I go’ by Billie Eilish
you should really react to camden by gracie abrams!!!
You should watch Smile 2!! It's insane and I think you'll have a fun time with it, and I'd love to see your reaction
could you pleaaaase react to no one noticed by the marias??
Make a reaction/analysis of "My Love Mine All Mine" song from Mitski
Love your thoughts; this song, not so much.
Pleeease Put Me In a Movie next!
Oh, she did NOT bring up Pepsi again! What the actual heck? 😠 Seriously, though, it seems to me that "upbeat song with depressing lyrics" could practically be a genre all its own. I've written some of those myself, in fact.
(P.S. I like that bright pink pillow on your couch! 👍)
can you please react to the short film of all too well?
Yes!
React crybaby album by Melanie Martinez, talks about childhood trauma in a way that talks to the older person etc. It's a good album for a therapist to listen to.
Hi! I’m new here, and i love your videos so so much! Can you please react to Agust D Amygdala? Have a nice day everyone!❤️
can you react to your girl by Lana del rey - it’s un released .🙏🏽🙏🏽
Can you react to "Put me in a movie"
Im surprised you didn’t mention anything about the pro-Ana nation part…
She did. She just approached it in a different way.
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I’m begging, more Ethel Cain reactions please🙏🙏😭
please react to put me in a movie 🙏
Reaction Melanie Martinez
You should lessen to trash music; it's another unreleased Lana song I think you'll like.
I’m a long time fan of Lana, but this era makes me cringe.
I’m feeling gaslit for my sportscruiser reaction🥹 I’ve been on the waiting list for maybe 8 months now, I bought the self help kit🥲
Sportscruiser by Lana is not dark and depressing like this I promise 🤣
Kyle!!!!!!!!!! I promissssseeeeee
@ ok I trust you Mere💜💜💜