Every time she calls herself an empath, I get violent flashbacks to her filming that poor babies grave and how she treated Beckys mom as she was dying.
Singing and dancing on the way to the grave, going to "help" pick out Becky's mom's headstone, only because she thought she was going to get food. Then sitting in the car making tiktoks about lesbian porn
@@LWolf12 Yep especially as she idolises creatures like Shane Dawson who also play the whole fake empath thing and cry about muh muh mentuls and muh muh eating disorder to deflect from valid criticism about predatory behaviour towards children.
@@nickywal bingo. I was thinking the same thing. Shane Dawson. And as for mental health disorders, some may cause people to act harmfully or toxically to others, it's not unheard of, but that's an explanation, NOT an excuse. People who pull that card need to be reminded of that very loudly.
@@GrandGrimory The way I see it, no one chooses mental health issues, but when you've had the time and money that Amber has to be able to get help and you didn't. You don't then get to keep using a truly awful childhood as an excuse into your 30s.
There seems to be an unlimited demand for “pop” psych quizzes, especially when a certain disorder gets talked about a lot in public. Thinking you’re a narcissist is “cool” now to a certain subset. As someone who has more than a little knowledge in this area, I always find it hilarious when people like AmberLynn treat free, unstructured, untimed, ill-defined quizzes online as having ANY meeting whatsoever. The general concepts are appropriate - exploitation, entitlement, vanity, etc. - so it’s probably a dumbed-down version of the NPI, but everyone has some level of narcissistic traits. The serious condition of narcissistic personality disorder would be diagnosed with a different battery of tests, and only after extensive interviews in person by clinical psychologist or psychiatrist.
Those tests are not legitimate psychological tests. Real assessments are too expensive and time consuming to make and administer for anyone to put it online for free. That test was likely one of those stupid Facebook quizzes she found where the answers are obvious so she can pick the ones that are "correct" to avoid being labeled a narcissist.
i was starting to wonder if she’s eating on camera bc she’s getting paid by feeders? bc if she wants people to stop commenting on the food she can just stop filming it?? 😭
That clip of her not remembering the name of Becky's dead cousin. And she seems completely unbothered that she didn't remember an important member of Becky's family. It's obvious she never really listened to Becky.
That absolutely broke my heart. Especially since she even made a video on ALR’s channel talking about how much it messed her up and how she celebrates his death anniversary every year. It really shows how little she actually listens to anyone other than herself.
I find it really weird that she brought him up during a bean-boozled trivia game though? 🤔 You think Becky knew that Amber wouldn't remember? Like, she was angry and wanted Amber to look bad on camera for everyone to see? Not saying that Becky shouldn't have asked, it's just a little strange to turn your dead cousin into a trivia question. I don't remember watching the full game, so maybe it's just strange out of context.
@@Ivy-Woods Maybe since the jelly bean tasted bad it was almost like a direct revenge on Amber for being callous or even for something else. It's like a very light/sad attempt to get back at Amber for being abusive to her or at least a bad partner. But I could be looking into it too deeply. It was just weird to bring up something like that, like you said, over a light little game.
@@GhostofaSiren oooh that’s true!! I think maybe it’s a mix of that and a mix of she knew that ALR wouldn’t remember that answer which was the point of the jelly game. But I do think it was a weird question of her to ask so maybe there was a bit of resentment towards it. Especially when she said that she’s told ALR many times and ALR should know the name. So yea I’m not sure if she said it out of anger but I’m sure she said it because she knew ALR wouldn’t remember!
The only things she knew about Becky was she was gay and liked nickelodeon. Look at that last Christmas, the only thing any of those presents were about. Then Destiny when she not only bought her 100 presents related to different fandoms and interests but was able to tell her sister Destiny's favourite snacks etc. Of course she wouldn't care about a death that still clearly hurt Becky, she moved her away from her dying mother and when Becky tried to break up with her, got her so zombied out on psych meds she can't remember that whole year
Amber: "I'm not manic, I'm not bipolar, stop diagnosing me" Amber after being diagnosed with bipolar: "I've known for a very long time, even before they told me, that I am bipolar"
@@allisonfick7748 she got "diagnosed" with bipolar *and* unipolar depression within one session, so we can assume that the diagnosis isn't all that valid anyway. Don't worry about her giving bipolar a bad reputation, everyone knows Amberlynn is a very unique gorl and doesn't represent anyone!
@@allisonfick7748 at this point all her diagnoses are sus. i dont doubt she has something, multiple somethings but ill take all specifics with a grain of salt lol
Given the tea Destiny just spilled, my heart goes out to Becky even more. Amber is abusive, narcissistic, unbelievably obnoxious, immature, and just the worst person.
And ALL of this hit during this week or so while I’m in bed recovering from surgery. I am not ashamed to admit that I’m easily watching 4 hours a day of ALR coming in for some highly-deserved criticism. 😂
I’m sure Becky went through hell in the relationship. She was much more passive than Destiny, so I’m sure AL took complete advantage of that. So glad she got out…..I’m sure the healing process is gonna take a bit, but she seems to be doing better & better every time she uploads her updates.
"If I could be anywhere, I'd be in a field of sunflowers looking up to the sky and asking, 'Why me?'" Perfectly encapsulating 90% of her problem and not remotely realizing it
And this also encapsulates her narcissism perfectly because she chooses to be somewhere just thinking about herself lol. If you could choose to be _anywhere,_ you'd be in a field thinking about yourself and why you're such a victim? Like, no. People that are not narcissists would say something like they'd choose to be in a gorgeous place taking in the view or something along those lines.
There are literal on camera examples that contradict her answers. Just as an example, the mirror one, she looks at herself in the viewfinder CONSTANTLY
Watching all of these clips together just proves that Amber isn't actually that bothered about losing weight. She says the things she thinks people want to hear, but then continues to do what she wants to do. She is lazy and she will not change.
Correct! She loves the _idea_ of losing weight and constantly buys (literally) into the image of caring about weight loss, but deep down, all she cares about is food.
Amber doesn’t have any hope to lose any weight…. Amber is Cashin in Amber does not care what people think about her .(Amber is a trick )she setting they’re smelling as if something crawled up into her and died and setting there showing a sprite showing a candy bar why because Ching Ching 💵💵💵💵💵it brings in the views the more drama and the more hate this woman gets the more she makes 💵💵💵Amber was making like 32,000 a month with this kind of behavior .that is not going to change her she loves the money more than she loves her self. myself I just lost my daughter 32 years old from lupus 😭😭😭 my daughter was diagnosed at the age of 18 with lupus she had two strokes and a hip replacement and she put up the biggest fight of her life once they started her on dialysis and her stomach was so full of fluid they were taking liters off of it my daughter passed away within two weeks.😭😭and then we got this bitch Making a mockery out of life just so she can cash in …but the only reason she can cash in is because some people still support this behavior…
Yeah, I thought she was going to say she skidded on a dog-toy, which would have been more believable. I accidentally step (and pulverize) cat kibbles and treats all the time and it doesn't make me lose my balance.
That narcissist quiz though!!!! She literally answered the opposite to how she acts in every question. Either she is that delusional about herself or she intentionally answered wrong to get a rise from her audience.
lol the narcissistic test 😂😂😂 “I don’t like looking in the mirror” “I’m not special” “I don’t like manipulating people” so she just lied on the entire thing 😂😂
i think the main issue with the test is that is named as such and very obvious at pointing out negative behaviours. narcissists will easily look through those.
I love how in early eps (1&2) snowflake was kind and sympathetic and then as he learned more about how horrible she is as he’s gone along he’s now calling her out on her crap and using the inside jokes, like zooming in on the infamous bra lmao. Sorry Amber but we all lose our sympathy bone when we learn about the disgusting things you’ve done
Everyone sees this girl/woman who was in the foster system and clearly has trauma hurting herself and they start out feeling sympathy and empathy. But watching her treatment of those animals and humans closest to her makes it really difficult to maintain that same energy. She is genuinely awful.
@@marilynsgirl01 Yeah, it's frustrating when people are like: "Oh, you just don't like her because she's fat and living her life!". Er, no. We don't like her because she's a liar, because she treats both the people and animals close to her terribly, because she's a manipulator and a perpetual victim. She'd be all those things even if she lost all that weight.
What in the heck does "Becky has never known someone my size and never got the chance to understand how important it is to not be my size" mean? Delicious word salad.
It illustrated how ignorant and unconcerned Amberlynn was towards Becky and things she had talked about. Best believe if my partner told me about their cousin dying traumatic death on his birthday, I'd at least remember that person's name!
Lmao ‘I stopped taking my lexapro’ ‘My lexapro ran out and I don’t have any refills’ miss ma’am it sounds like YOU chose to stop taking your meds and YOU chose to let your prescription run out without setting a follow up Appt. She’s delusional for sure if she thinks people should feel sorry for her over something she willingly did.
Lexapro is a dangerous drug to stop Coke turkey. My mom was taking it and one time she fell at home and had to go to the emergency room. From there she had to go to a rehab facility. With all of the paperwork and extra stuff you have to do when this happens things fall through the cracks. We forgot to tell the nurse she was on Lexapro so my mom didn’t get it for the first 2-3 days. She started seeing alligators crawling up the walls and people there who weren’t there and finally found out about her not getting her Lexapro. Some drugs you just need to stay on top of to make everything go a bit easier!
Yeah, I don't know about others, but it's easy to refill prescriptions, and that's done BEFORE running out. Unless the psychiatrist or whoever closed their office for a vacation or something, running out of meds should be easy enough.
That poor dog is f|_|cking terrified of her!! Leave the dog alone, beast! "I'm extremely empathetic, If I see a stranger crying, I follow suit" that's not empathy, that's a narcissistic need for attention that someone else was getting. She has no clue smh.
An empath will definitely cry when seeing someone else cry, but _saying_ "I'm *SUCH* an empath" when actively showing the world that you are mean, abusive, and a narcissist, is definitely not what an empath would do lmao.
I do wonder if narcissists call themselves "empaths" (Like ALR and Shane Dawson) because they think the most surface level display of empathy is somehow really special, not knowing most people feel deeper than that level of empathy without feeling the need to declare it like a super power.
20:55 "You know I feel other people's pain." We know Amber, we noticed that when you left Becky's mom that awful message after she had just left surgery
The entire alr hater community also treated her mom like shit and accused her of scamminh but yall conveniently forget that because yall are hypocrites that love to act like you are so much better than alr when you’re… exactly like her! I am sure the stress of being hated on by a disgusting community that thrives off of picking amberlynn’s life apart and making fun of her and becky (yall conveniently forget how you all bullied becky for her chin, calling her necky) must have not helped becky’s mom feel at peace in her final years of her life. This entire hater community is so gross. You cherry pick just as much as alr and forget when people within your own community say and do disgusting things. I am no fan of alr but oh my god how sad to you have to be to be a “haydur” and be proud of it. The subreddits on her, the stalking, the trolling, yall are obsessed and it’s incredibly pathetic.
Destiny in hospital with severe chest pains mere months before her grandad has one of the most serious forms of heart attack Amber filming her handbag, playing Pokémon go, then waddling off home to bitch about the "doctor's little minions"
And when Becky was feeling so sick that she had trouble with energy to make a meal for herself, Amber's response was, "maybe you should go get some food." 😒 with a camera in her face.
When they get pulled over, the expression on the cops face was priceless. Looked like a mixture of shock and awe and trying not to laugh at the same time. He probably thought the struts were busted on the passenger side at first
@GothBoiCrybabyyes! i have personally noticed this (think Trump) but Ive never heard anyone else mention it before. I think its a disassociative tactic, like as a bizarre way to protect the very fragile yet inflated ego.
@ʟɪʟ ᴘᴇᴇᴘ's ʟᴇғᴛ sᴏᴄᴋ 🐣 I've actually witnessed this first hand. A coworker tried to talk back to our boss, Philip. The boss gave him a hard stare and said "PHILIP DOES NOT LIKE TO BE INTERRUPTED" followed by am always silence before continuing his monologue.
@@ccchhheeennn2my dad too and he does this constantly!! It’s always “you know dads sorry about that” I’m like bud, you know you can just say you’re sorry right??
Before you press play, lets take a moment to thank Mr. Snowflake and his sanity for continuing to make these. Thankyou Mr. Snowflake, you go above and beyond every time ❤ 🙏 🤲
That narccisism quiz was hilarious. Every question was like "are you narcissistic? Yes or no" because the "correct" answer was so obvious every single time
The fact that she can claim she's "the most hated TH-camr" with a straight face never ceases to amaze me. Delusional. She really thinks she's infamous.
I get the sense that she kind of genuinely might be an enigma to herself. 😅 Her sense of self is so fundamentally unclear to her that she can’t even keep her accent straight. I actually think this is why she lies all the time and contradicts herself- she has a shifting sense of her own perspectives. It’s so WEIRD to watch, bc to everyone else, she couldn’t possibly be more transparent and predictable.
She didn’t say that in the early days though. I noticed that she said the plural form back in the Krystle and Density eras, so I have no idea why she changes it to “A Ben and Jerry” all of a sudden in 2018
@@jessicakey-olmsted9838 Yes, I am. I just had 3yrs clean on August 17th. I'm having a hard time and I'm in Crisis but I'm not going to relapse. That'll just make it worse. How are you doing?
@@ZISKAMAKES It breaks my heart 😢 Destiny pretty much confirmed that Amber killed Gracie. Dusty is a terrible person and pet owner herself, but Amber is a thousand times worse. She killed Gracie so she could get Wasabi, only to force Wasabi to be an outdoor cat when she got Twinkie, and eventually abandoned her cats altogether.
Those tests are not legitimate psychological tests. Real assessments are too expensive and time consuming to make and administer for anyone to put it online for free. That test was likely one of those stupid Facebook quizzes she found where the answers are obvious so she can pick the ones that are "correct" to avoid being labeled a narcissist.
lmao love how she admits to selecting the option that “sounds better” rather than how she actually feels. that will surely result in accurate results 😂
It blows my mind that Amber *still* quotes her negative score on the narcissist test to prove she doesn’t have NPD thinking that somehow a crappy, surface level internet quiz has any shred of credibility.
It’s getting harder. The thing that has been the most difficult to watch is her stupidity. I thought the constant lies would be it but no. Her being so stupid is making me more stupid.
Ive never watched ALRs vids, but have been happily listening to Mr Snowflake's summary while I work on my PC. Its truly inspiring! It spurs me on to get out and walk, to clean the house, to be kind to my dog, to cook great food, to read and expand my dull old mind...I mean I do those things anyway, but listening to this jellyfish-brained person gives me that extra motivation.
This series continues to inspire me to work out and count calories. (This past year I have lost close to the famous 89 pounds!) It’s a great way to get the gist of ALR’s awfulness without being bored to death by her inanity.
Congrats for your dicipline and self love! 🥳🍾🥂🍀💐💪🏼 Good to see you don't listen to Fat Acceptence Activists who try to tell you that striving to make your life better is #fatphobic . You have accomplished so much and I wish you the best for your life now and for your future! ❣🍀
Raise your hand to anyone who went a little cray cray over covid and washed the amazon mailer bags 😮 oh and shopping bags when i had instacart delivered
Its so weird how when she runs out of lexapro she just stops taking it. Im on lexapro and i would NEVER stop taking it abruptly, it can have terrible side affects. She cant even refill a script once a month!!!
Right! I took lexapro for years, and I found my ‘time limit’ for missing doses was around 3/4 days, I’m on Cymbalta at the max dose now and in one day of missing it I become a whole different person. I know meds affect everyone differently but I feel like my experiences were standard
Emotionally abuses Becky and calls it . …‘I’m snippy and snappy’ … no you don’t get to do that. This woman has been abusing Becky and everyone just stood by and let her make excuses for it. Which is sad she was able to manipulate people that well.
It's the same how she was when talking about how Becky first saw the binge monster, wanting to workout BUT at a place with smoothies with protein bars. You could see Becky see through it right then.
@@brookiki looll that is so funny. Yeah thats what abuser usually do . First they to like litterally say its not that bad. then that you're hallucinating their mistreatment of you to it never happened. Im sure this is what happened to becky. She control ALT deleted the every moment she ever made becky feel insignificant. She replaced that with her being the true victim. She knows how to twist things lol
@@sarasdramaticlife That is the only proof that is needed that there was abuse happening. I feel in the past she had a moment where she could see that she was being a bad person to becky, but then somewhere down the line- she found a perfect person to use. /: She could never do this destiny and wifey because those two have self esteem, becky and even her old gf idk krystal were easy targets. There's accounts of Amber making Krystal cry over a iphone she got amber as a gift that she didn't want by casey (Also a victim of Amber) . Amber has a history of emotional abuse towards her partners.
The reason she didn’t film the Halloween party was because nobody actually showed up and it was just her, Becky, Ricky and Eric. It was a sad party I remember someone else had filmed it and posted it somewhere
This is what I assumed. 35:11 seemed like she was trying hard to talk about how great and awesome it was, a Lil too much.. probably Eric & Ricky filmed it?
I needed this. I have an interview in 30 minutes after job hunting for 6+ months and Snowflake comes to remind me that no matter if I fail spectacularly, at least I'll never know "the struggles" of being Pookie. #blessed.
Amber "I'm known on youtube as the most hated TH-camr" also Amber a few seconds later "I'm not a narcissist" Claiming to be the most hated person on TH-cam, is exactly what a narcissist would do to manipulate others for sympathy and attention 😂
@@lottiecash seriously! I feel like if she just was like completely real with herself and others, it would be so much easier to like her. But she lies ABOUT everything and then constantly is like "oh you mean that one time I lied in 2016" girl, be for real. As if wipey isn't the same person as the girl right after you and Becky broke up. She will never hit rock bottom, little miss pick me, victim complex, with a big dash of narcissist.
She was so empathetic that she was absolutely inconsolable when Destiny was sad after Gracie ‘ran away’.😂 This woman’s tears are reserved for her alone.
A narcissist would never be able to look at themselves objectively and answer those questions accurately. Why does that quiz even exist? The idea that she really thinks she scored 0% on ENTITLEMENT is insane.
@@hannahmacdonald9040 Amberlynn: "I expeted the main doctor to consult Destiny for her tummy ache, but nope, we just got *one of his little minions* (aka a nurse, a trained medical professional!)" Also Amberlynn: "Hehe I scored a zero on 'entitlement' yay me" Yeah, totally legit 😂
@@notayoutuber4496 lol she has a medical degree clearly 🤣🤣 also Amber “I literally have the lowest self esteem, like I’m ugly” goes on her tik tok *video after video of wannabe thirst traps* she’s a walking hypocrite at this point 🤣
@@notayoutuber4496 I think it was the same rant where she was like "they said to do this for a while then if it doesn't get better then they'll run the test? Ummm no, no, no, you'll run the test NOW. That's why I think doctors are lazy."
i’m probably one of the few who feel for amber’s ‘bedbound’ era. my depression got so bad two years ago, i barely left my bed and spent most of my time sleeping, for six months. i rarely ate though and lost a ton of weight. it’s an experience i’d rather not go through again.
Depression is hell and I'm glad you're doing better. ❤️ But you didn't give yourself depression. Big Pookie ate herself bed bound. She saw what she was doing and refused to stop stuffing her face. She did it all to herself by her own choice. So don't worry about feeling too bad for her. You've got empathy; she does not. No one WANTS to see anyone end up like that, but when it's by their own hand and they ignore the people telling and begging them to stop....then it's hard to have a "sympathy bone" for that person.
@@ZazooEel57 that doesn’t excuse her being a terrible person. An alcoholic didn’t choose to have alcoholism. That doesn’t mean you can run over school children and be absolved of your actions. You need to take the necessary steps to be a good person and she has had every opportunity to be a better person with help from everyone in her life, and she repaid them all by being an abusive bully. There is a reason every single person in her life hates her. It’s because she’s a terrible person with a huge ego that doesn’t think she has anything to fix to begin with. Depression, eating disorders, childhood abuse don’t excuse your actions. It’s not your fault if you were abused as a child, but it IS your fault if you don’t get help and then abuse others as a result of it. And that makes you a terrible person.
@@kelf114that’s a whole lot to project onto a stranger. Also, imagine how it feels to read this if you’re depressed and your depression manifests in overeating rather than undereating. Your efforts to shame Amber really just reveal your own ableism
imagine getting stuck while entering the shower and gaining another 60lbs/not showering & wearing the same bra for a year straight rather than taking that as a sign to get healthy.
Love watching this series Mr Snowflake! Whenever I have flare ups of my autoimmune disease, I play your videos in the background to help distract me from the pain and fever. Apart from Entertainment, your videos help a lot of people to escape their hardships for a little bit, so thank you so much for your hard work and providing this for us! 😊
About a month ago, I tried to stand from a crouch, and my knees HURT like hell. I’m nowhere near as overweight as Amberlynn, but that minimal pain was a wake-up call, and I’ve been working out ever since. It’s insane to think about how many little- and large- wake-up calls she’s been hit with her entire life, day by day, and how she’s managed to ignore, minimize, or justify each one. Part of me (a small part, granted) does feel pity: at this point, the progress that she has to make to reach something resembling healthy is overwhelming. It’s an entire lifetime of bad habits to correct, and it’s an entire lifetime to maintain good ones. It can be paralyzing. But it’s her life at stake- if she cared about anything outside of herself, maybe she’d have some urgency to live for those people and things.
And I’m only 220 rn from 250 after a episode of depression. It was as devastating on my body. 50 lbs in two months!!! I don’t know how she survives sober at that weight… I neeed constant pain management now
My knees and my heart were my wake up call, and I was only 210 pounds at my largest. Took about 5 years but I have managed to keep my weight at about 124 for 9 or so months now. Good for you 🎉
You’re subscriber count should be higher. You’re dedication to this series is unreal! The research and the amount of videos you have to watch has to be brutal.
@@nightsgrow6575unrealted but it reminds of that one buzzfeed "am i gay" quiz where the only question is "are you attracted to the same gender" yes- you are, no- you are not its equally black and white but at least that one is funny
I'm at the 15 minute mark and so far I've learned that according to Amber she does not lie she's just misunderstood. And she never falls but when she does it's Twinkie's fault. LOL 😂
@@MrSnowflake the algorithm is always changing so the youtube gods can push your channel out at anytime. You deserve that so it'll happen! Bye babe😘 lol
I haven't watched this video yet, but I would like to say a couple of words about your YT opus so far. I have found your channel via the TH-cam recommendations. Algorithm decided to serve me your Boogie2988 video. At this point, I have watched and often times rewatched all of your content. You are currently my favorite commentary channel, bar none. The amount of work you put into each one of your videos is incredible. Moreover, despite the extremely thorough research you perform for each one of these mini-documentaries you create, you either refrain from giving any opinions on the topic or you provides us with a couple of well-put together, fairly unbiased thoughts of yours. Your storytelling skills are also praise-worthy, your pacing is absolutely impeccable and I believe that I have laughed at every single joke you have planted in your vids (even the Jimmy Bunker's ones, insane right?). Please keep rocking my dude, you are doing God's work :D
Wow what a lovely comment. Aww cheers for that. I try my best. Just happy you like the channel. Check out the second channel. Got some amazing stuff coming soon ha as big headed as that makes me sound
Amber is truly an addict. She says she wants to change, but deep down , she doesn't. Unfortunately , we all probably have addicts in our families and it is so devastating to see them rationalize every bad decision, and continue to chase their drug of choice. I have an addict in my family and it is exhausting wanting change for him, but him not wanting it for himself. Watching people you love self destruct is a painful thing. Amber can only change if she wants it . We can't will it for her.
I need to watch this every day while working out to stay on track. I just watched it while I did my cardio and weight lifting. Anytime I want junk food I need clips of this to watch. I’ve lost 50 lbs watching Amberlynn since February.
Woke up with pancreatic pain and took a pain pill and am ok. But awake now at 3am. And yay - an Amby video! Becky is such a sweetheart, my goodness. Thanks, Mr S!
I have two theories on the TV sow. 1. Amber was told about the obligatory shower scene from 600 pound life and bailed faster than a bean bag in hurry 2. TLC wanted her for the slanton show first but after a deep dive came across the rain and petals eavesdrop incident and bailed faster than a bean bag in a hurry.
Therapist here. Therapists *CAN* diagnose if you are a Master's level or Doctorate level practitioner and licensed by your state to do so. *•* Psychiatrists (medical doctors), *•* Psychologists (PhD or PsyD in Psychology), and *•* Master's level clinicians • LCSWs • LMHCs • LMFTs can all diagnose, if their organization allows it (like most private practice therapists diagnose, but something like BetterHelp they don't allow diagnosis from my understanding). I routinely did diagnosing when I worked in private practice, not only because I believe it's helpful to assign names to certain things to help clients have a focus (there are exceptions), but because insurance companies require you to assign a diagnostic code for billing purposes. If her therapist said they couldn't diagnose her, my best bet would be she was relying on a BetterHelp therapist. I personally think BetterHelp is a bad therapeutic model and is designed to have you rely on the therapists (since you have unlimited access, versus having once a week appointments with homework, unless something urgent comes up and you need to be seen sooner). The way I phrase it to my clients is from the first day we meet, I'm planning for the day you leave this office permanently, because you'll have learned all the tools and techniques you need to succeed.
Thank you for writing this! I scrolled through the comments once I heard AL say the BetterHelp "therapist" wasn't allowed to diagnose. BetterHelp (including BetterUp) is a scam and it is well documented the company engaged in unethical behavior.
@@RadhuyaOmg same! If I knew her, I'd be so damn mean lol. I hate thinking like that because I know it's not right and I don't like being that way, but I just hate her so much and wish more people would bring her ass down.
It's crazy that she did hit rock bottom. She had cancer and THAT didn't even wake her up. She's a lost cause at this point there is nothing that is going to make her change
The "mental things are scary" clip where she cries about snipping at becky gives me major red flags. I grew up around toxic adults that would say incredibly abusive fucked up garbage out of anger before flipping a switch and being remorseful. Whatever 'snip' she took at Becky was terrible and she knew it, so as tactic to not take responsibility she wallows in woe of having uncontrollable emotions. Having someone you love flipflop between two heavy emotions consistently like that is exhausting to experience. I do believe it is a pattern in Amber that is amplified by mental illness, but quite frankly it's still possible to regulate through dedication to serious behavior change via self servalence alongside therapy. Watching Becky getting cornered on camera by an apologetic amber after what was most likely a very shitty argument or insult just feels so grimy too, like she's using the threat of posting Becky's response as a way to stifle any real rebuke. The entire clip is a snipit of the situations Becky had to constantly maneuver through in her day to day life being a literal caretaker for Amber :(
The cackle I let put at 29:44, you sir cannot randomly zoom in like that! 😂😂 Somehow you manage to out do yourself with every video. I applaud you and your patience. 👏 Now, rest that voice!
Those "psych" quizzes aren't supposed to be filled out by the individual. They're supposed to be filled out by a psychiatrist after talking to you and indirectly asking the questions. If you know what the answers are, you're more likely to go with the better sounding one, that's why a psychiatrist would ask you an open-ended question. Also, her narcissism is well documented by her sooooo 😅
Snowflake I cannot tell you how much I appreciate this video! Going into surgery today and super nervous! This is just what I needed to chill
Good luck! God Bless 👍 xx
Let us all know how it goes xxx
Best of luck to you, lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
Best of luck for a speedy recovery 🌻
Good luck and get well soon.
Every time she calls herself an empath, I get violent flashbacks to her filming that poor babies grave and how she treated Beckys mom as she was dying.
Singing and dancing on the way to the grave, going to "help" pick out Becky's mom's headstone, only because she thought she was going to get food. Then sitting in the car making tiktoks about lesbian porn
Anyone who calls them self selves empathic automatically sets off red flags for me. Same with people who calls themselves good people.
@@LWolf12 Yep especially as she idolises creatures like Shane Dawson who also play the whole fake empath thing and cry about muh muh mentuls and muh muh eating disorder to deflect from valid criticism about predatory behaviour towards children.
@@nickywal bingo. I was thinking the same thing. Shane Dawson. And as for mental health disorders, some may cause people to act harmfully or toxically to others, it's not unheard of, but that's an explanation, NOT an excuse. People who pull that card need to be reminded of that very loudly.
@@GrandGrimory The way I see it, no one chooses mental health issues, but when you've had the time and money that Amber has to be able to get help and you didn't. You don't then get to keep using a truly awful childhood as an excuse into your 30s.
I’m no psychologist, but why would someone create a narcissistic personality quiz? A narcissist is obviously just going to lie on every question lmao
There are better tests out there that don't give obvious choices. She probably scrolled past those to find an "easy" one.
There seems to be an unlimited demand for “pop” psych quizzes, especially when a certain disorder gets talked about a lot in public. Thinking you’re a narcissist is “cool” now to a certain subset.
As someone who has more than a little knowledge in this area, I always find it hilarious when people like AmberLynn treat free, unstructured, untimed, ill-defined quizzes online as having ANY meeting whatsoever. The general concepts are appropriate - exploitation, entitlement, vanity, etc. - so it’s probably a dumbed-down version of the NPI, but everyone has some level of narcissistic traits. The serious condition of narcissistic personality disorder would be diagnosed with a different battery of tests, and only after extensive interviews in person by clinical psychologist or psychiatrist.
For fun and profit, of course!
Those tests are not legitimate psychological tests. Real assessments are too expensive and time consuming to make and administer for anyone to put it online for free. That test was likely one of those stupid Facebook quizzes she found where the answers are obvious so she can pick the ones that are "correct" to avoid being labeled a narcissist.
THANK YOU…not to mention you get two choices…lolol. Very reliable test for sure .
'I don't cry for views, I don't eat for views' GIRL THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOING FOR OVER A DECADE
"If I wanted to make money I'd be doing them mookbangs, honey (awkward laugh)" - ALR
@marie she still doing that shit to this *VERY DAY*
She may as well have said - I don't exploit my health disorders for views....
Perfectly said!
i was starting to wonder if she’s eating on camera bc she’s getting paid by feeders? bc if she wants people to stop commenting on the food she can just stop filming it?? 😭
That clip of her not remembering the name of Becky's dead cousin. And she seems completely unbothered that she didn't remember an important member of Becky's family. It's obvious she never really listened to Becky.
That absolutely broke my heart. Especially since she even made a video on ALR’s channel talking about how much it messed her up and how she celebrates his death anniversary every year.
It really shows how little she actually listens to anyone other than herself.
I find it really weird that she brought him up during a bean-boozled trivia game though? 🤔 You think Becky knew that Amber wouldn't remember? Like, she was angry and wanted Amber to look bad on camera for everyone to see? Not saying that Becky shouldn't have asked, it's just a little strange to turn your dead cousin into a trivia question. I don't remember watching the full game, so maybe it's just strange out of context.
@@Ivy-Woods Maybe since the jelly bean tasted bad it was almost like a direct revenge on Amber for being callous or even for something else. It's like a very light/sad attempt to get back at Amber for being abusive to her or at least a bad partner. But I could be looking into it too deeply. It was just weird to bring up something like that, like you said, over a light little game.
@@GhostofaSiren oooh that’s true!! I think maybe it’s a mix of that and a mix of she knew that ALR wouldn’t remember that answer which was the point of the jelly game. But I do think it was a weird question of her to ask so maybe there was a bit of resentment towards it. Especially when she said that she’s told ALR many times and ALR should know the name. So yea I’m not sure if she said it out of anger but I’m sure she said it because she knew ALR wouldn’t remember!
The only things she knew about Becky was she was gay and liked nickelodeon. Look at that last Christmas, the only thing any of those presents were about. Then Destiny when she not only bought her 100 presents related to different fandoms and interests but was able to tell her sister Destiny's favourite snacks etc. Of course she wouldn't care about a death that still clearly hurt Becky, she moved her away from her dying mother and when Becky tried to break up with her, got her so zombied out on psych meds she can't remember that whole year
"stop self diagnosing me"
Such a bright statement from 140 IQ Pookielynn
Pookielynn💀💀
Shes just more smarter than us we don’t understand
My fat orange cat is named Pookie. I should rename him now.
Wah, I dipped out of gorlworld for a second. Where did Pookie come from? 😩
Yes that 140 IQ.
I have too assume her real IQ is around 80.
Amber: "I'm not manic, I'm not bipolar, stop diagnosing me"
Amber after being diagnosed with bipolar: "I've known for a very long time, even before they told me, that I am bipolar"
**stop self diagnosing me
😂😂
I hate that she has bipolar. She makes the rest of us look terrible. I promise we are not like her!
@@allisonfick7748 she got "diagnosed" with bipolar *and* unipolar depression within one session, so we can assume that the diagnosis isn't all that valid anyway. Don't worry about her giving bipolar a bad reputation, everyone knows Amberlynn is a very unique gorl and doesn't represent anyone!
@@allisonfick7748 at this point all her diagnoses are sus. i dont doubt she has something, multiple somethings but ill take all specifics with a grain of salt lol
A liar and incredibly lazy, abusive, lies about illnesses, and my heart goes out to anyone who has the misfortune of meeting that woman...
Amber recording herself while taking a narcissist test is peak comedy
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Have to agree 😁
Given the tea Destiny just spilled, my heart goes out to Becky even more. Amber is abusive, narcissistic, unbelievably obnoxious, immature, and just the worst person.
And ALL of this hit during this week or so while I’m in bed recovering from surgery. I am not ashamed to admit that I’m easily watching 4 hours a day of ALR coming in for some highly-deserved criticism. 😂
@@kimberlyoldschool I hope your recovery is going well. Here's a duck to help you feel better 🦆
Fr. Her gigantic body is the least offensive thing about her.
Did y'all see that collage Becky made for Destiny after her mom died? Such a thoughtful thing to do
I’m sure Becky went through hell in the relationship. She was much more passive than Destiny, so I’m sure AL took complete advantage of that. So glad she got out…..I’m sure the healing process is gonna take a bit, but she seems to be doing better & better every time she uploads her updates.
"If I could be anywhere, I'd be in a field of sunflowers looking up to the sky and asking, 'Why me?'"
Perfectly encapsulating 90% of her problem and not remotely realizing it
And this also encapsulates her narcissism perfectly because she chooses to be somewhere just thinking about herself lol. If you could choose to be _anywhere,_ you'd be in a field thinking about yourself and why you're such a victim? Like, no. People that are not narcissists would say something like they'd choose to be in a gorgeous place taking in the view or something along those lines.
The narcissism test was such bs. We can all answer it truthfully for her
The way she said that she was scared for the results, like she didn't answer all the ones that sounded the most positive 😅
There are literal on camera examples that contradict her answers.
Just as an example, the mirror one, she looks at herself in the viewfinder CONSTANTLY
the NARsa Cis TISt TICK PER son aLITy quiz
"Proof is in the cards" Kittywaffles... If that is your real name! You a lah!
@@ComfyMumfy83 Especially when you deliberately lie to get the result you want.
“It was ridiculous seeing Amber on her scooter, while wearing her FitBit” 😂😂😂
😆😆
🤣🤣🤣
Its funny that she doesn't understand that nobody else can SELF diagnose her. It's in the title.😂
Hahaha
Like, duuuhhh.
bro is she is as dumb as a doornail
Watching all of these clips together just proves that Amber isn't actually that bothered about losing weight. She says the things she thinks people want to hear, but then continues to do what she wants to do. She is lazy and she will not change.
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
This is why WLS won’t even help her.
her recent flowery language about "saving" her life.. lmao it's just a manipulation tactic
Correct! She loves the _idea_ of losing weight and constantly buys (literally) into the image of caring about weight loss, but deep down, all she cares about is food.
Amber doesn’t have any hope to lose any weight…. Amber is Cashin in Amber does not care what people think about her .(Amber is a trick )she setting they’re smelling as if something crawled up into her and died and setting there showing a sprite showing a candy bar why because Ching Ching 💵💵💵💵💵it brings in the views the more drama and the more hate this woman gets the more she makes 💵💵💵Amber was making like 32,000 a month with this kind of behavior .that is not going to change her she loves the money more than she loves her self. myself I just lost my daughter 32 years old from lupus 😭😭😭 my daughter was diagnosed at the age of 18 with lupus she had two strokes and a hip replacement and she put up the biggest fight of her life once they started her on dialysis and her stomach was so full of fluid they were taking liters off of it my daughter passed away within two weeks.😭😭and then we got this bitch Making a mockery out of life just so she can cash in …but the only reason she can cash in is because some people still support this behavior…
Her sliding on Twinkie's dog treats is such BS... 😂😂😂😂 Gorl, you're 500 lb, you pulverized them, no way you can slide on them like glass marbles.
Yeah, I thought she was going to say she skidded on a dog-toy, which would have been more believable. I accidentally step (and pulverize) cat kibbles and treats all the time and it doesn't make me lose my balance.
@@GhostofaSiren same 😄
She's the human embodiment of a mortar and pestle.
Also the trajectory was completely messed up. Stepping forward but her foot slid back and she landed on her knee…
You have to realize tho gorl her feet are baby butt soft not sweaty tho gorl
That narcissist quiz though!!!! She literally answered the opposite to how she acts in every question. Either she is that delusional about herself or she intentionally answered wrong to get a rise from her audience.
She answered the way a narcissist would. She's perfect! 🙄
Bolth 😬🤭
Def intentional.
The best part is if you put her answers in, it totally does give the result of a narcissist. She lied 😂
she’s 100% delusional
lol the narcissistic test 😂😂😂 “I don’t like looking in the mirror” “I’m not special” “I don’t like manipulating people” so she just lied on the entire thing 😂😂
But she doesn’t like looking at the mirror, she looks at herself though the camera instead, doesn’t need to get up that way 😂
i think the main issue with the test is that is named as such and very obvious at pointing out negative behaviours. narcissists will easily look through those.
"I don't like manipulating people" while actively trying to manipulate her audience. lol
@@LabMousette The way she looks at herself in the camera reminds me of the way a bird looks at itself in a mirror lol
@@ischeele7203*”pretty bird!! SQUAAAWK, pretty bird!!”*
I love how in early eps (1&2) snowflake was kind and sympathetic and then as he learned more about how horrible she is as he’s gone along he’s now calling her out on her crap and using the inside jokes, like zooming in on the infamous bra lmao. Sorry Amber but we all lose our sympathy bone when we learn about the disgusting things you’ve done
Everyone sees this girl/woman who was in the foster system and clearly has trauma hurting herself and they start out feeling sympathy and empathy.
But watching her treatment of those animals and humans closest to her makes it really difficult to maintain that same energy. She is genuinely awful.
@@marilynsgirl01 Yeah, it's frustrating when people are like: "Oh, you just don't like her because she's fat and living her life!". Er, no. We don't like her because she's a liar, because she treats both the people and animals close to her terribly, because she's a manipulator and a perpetual victim. She'd be all those things even if she lost all that weight.
I'm 95 pounds down as of today, been a year since I started my WL journey. ALR is inspiring.
Congratulations!
Congratulations!! That’s amazing
Way to go! That's phenomenal!
I hope ur still doing good and reaching ur goals Martin!!
What in the heck does "Becky has never known someone my size and never got the chance to understand how important it is to not be my size" mean? Delicious word salad.
I love Becky but "what's the name of my cousin who died in a head on crash collision on my birthday" is a WILD question
Thank you, I was thinking the same.
right, that was a lot 😳
Yeah, like, "Damn" that's escalating from 1-100.
that’s why i love becky. sometimes she be saying the weirdest stuff with a dead pan face and it’s wonderful
It illustrated how ignorant and unconcerned Amberlynn was towards Becky and things she had talked about. Best believe if my partner told me about their cousin dying traumatic death on his birthday, I'd at least remember that person's name!
Lmao ‘I stopped taking my lexapro’ ‘My lexapro ran out and I don’t have any refills’ miss ma’am it sounds like YOU chose to stop taking your meds and YOU chose to let your prescription run out without setting a follow up Appt. She’s delusional for sure if she thinks people should feel sorry for her over something she willingly did.
Lexapro is a dangerous drug to stop Coke turkey. My mom was taking it and one time she fell at home and had to go to the emergency room. From there she had to go to a rehab facility. With all of the paperwork and extra stuff you have to do when this happens things fall through the cracks. We forgot to tell the nurse she was on Lexapro so my mom didn’t get it for the first 2-3 days. She started seeing alligators crawling up the walls and people there who weren’t there and finally found out about her not getting her Lexapro. Some drugs you just need to stay on top of to make everything go a bit easier!
Yeah, I don't know about others, but it's easy to refill prescriptions, and that's done BEFORE running out. Unless the psychiatrist or whoever closed their office for a vacation or something, running out of meds should be easy enough.
@@jupitersorbit9314depends on the meds. If you have a common issue as I do, shortages happen and sometimes do force you to go without
@@Creepystalker102it’s happened to me too bc I got fired and owed the Dr. money
That's her entire schtick tho!
That poor dog is f|_|cking terrified of her!! Leave the dog alone, beast!
"I'm extremely empathetic, If I see a stranger crying, I follow suit" that's not empathy, that's a narcissistic need for attention that someone else was getting. She has no clue smh.
An empath will definitely cry when seeing someone else cry, but _saying_ "I'm *SUCH* an empath" when actively showing the world that you are mean, abusive, and a narcissist, is definitely not what an empath would do lmao.
I do wonder if narcissists call themselves "empaths" (Like ALR and Shane Dawson) because they think the most surface level display of empathy is somehow really special, not knowing most people feel deeper than that level of empathy without feeling the need to declare it like a super power.
I was just thinking the same thing.
20:55 "You know I feel other people's pain." We know Amber, we noticed that when you left Becky's mom that awful message after she had just left surgery
Yeah or the sympathy bone molment. I hate her.
oof
The entire alr hater community also treated her mom like shit and accused her of scamminh but yall conveniently forget that because yall are hypocrites that love to act like you are so much better than alr when you’re… exactly like her! I am sure the stress of being hated on by a disgusting community that thrives off of picking amberlynn’s life apart and making fun of her and becky (yall conveniently forget how you all bullied becky for her chin, calling her necky) must have not helped becky’s mom feel at peace in her final years of her life. This entire hater community is so gross. You cherry pick just as much as alr and forget when people within your own community say and do disgusting things. I am no fan of alr but oh my god how sad to you have to be to be a “haydur” and be proud of it. The subreddits on her, the stalking, the trolling, yall are obsessed and it’s incredibly pathetic.
Destiny in hospital with severe chest pains mere months before her grandad has one of the most serious forms of heart attack
Amber filming her handbag, playing Pokémon go, then waddling off home to bitch about the "doctor's little minions"
And when Becky was feeling so sick that she had trouble with energy to make a meal for herself, Amber's response was, "maybe you should go get some food." 😒 with a camera in her face.
She won second place in a costume contest at a party of only 4 people 😂
Lmaoo the only costume element was the cape wrapped around her tree trunk neck
People she paid to be there 😂
When they get pulled over, the expression on the cops face was priceless. Looked like a mixture of shock and awe and trying not to laugh at the same time. He probably thought the struts were busted on the passenger side at first
His reaction was adorable 😂
Destiny confirmed that the shocks/struts on her passenger side were messed up, so you’re prob not too far off 😂
@@susieqz813really? 💀
@@salvobunny yes 😂
"My muffler's dragging, my suspension gettin' weak"- Sir Mix A Lot
It just seems to fit...😂
"I'm not a narcissist"
Immediately refers to herself in the third person 😞
@GothBoiCrybabyyes! i have personally noticed this (think Trump) but Ive never heard anyone else mention it before. I think its a disassociative tactic, like as a bizarre way to protect the very fragile yet inflated ego.
NOT ‘TELEPORT US TO MARS’
Pfffft 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ʟɪʟ ᴘᴇᴇᴘ's ʟᴇғᴛ sᴏᴄᴋ 🐣 I've actually witnessed this first hand. A coworker tried to talk back to our boss, Philip. The boss gave him a hard stare and said "PHILIP DOES NOT LIKE TO BE INTERRUPTED" followed by am always silence before continuing his monologue.
Wow. Damn. My mom’s a narcissist and that’s a very specific observation I never thought of 😮
@@ccchhheeennn2my dad too and he does this constantly!! It’s always “you know dads sorry about that” I’m like bud, you know you can just say you’re sorry right??
Before you press play, lets take a moment to thank Mr. Snowflake and his sanity for continuing to make these. Thankyou Mr. Snowflake, you go above and beyond every time ❤ 🙏 🤲
Oh more is coming to the second channel tomorrow or day after. You’re gonna love it
@@MrSnowflake thank u king snowflake 🙏
@@MrSnowflake you're too good to us! (And bad for your own mental health if it's one of her stores 😂)
THANK YOU , Mr Snowflake ❤
@@MrSnowflake What is your second channels name?
That narccisism quiz was hilarious. Every question was like "are you narcissistic? Yes or no" because the "correct" answer was so obvious every single time
I feel like Amber truly thinks she’s an enigma of sorts. Like she’s special.
It's called terminal uniqueness and it's very common in people with addictive personality 😅
The fact that she can claim she's "the most hated TH-camr" with a straight face never ceases to amaze me.
Delusional. She really thinks she's infamous.
Yeah, she's so unique she turns into a freak..and the complains that people call her the same.
Logic..where art though?
Oh it's unique alright, so unique to be a whale on dry land.
I get the sense that she kind of genuinely might be an enigma to herself. 😅 Her sense of self is so fundamentally unclear to her that she can’t even keep her accent straight. I actually think this is why she lies all the time and contradicts herself- she has a shifting sense of her own perspectives. It’s so WEIRD to watch, bc to everyone else, she couldn’t possibly be more transparent and predictable.
How Amber says she never falls while we had her dangling ankle saga recently is sending me 😂
Yeah & bigAL dragged it out for days; trying to garner sympathy from her "fans." ..
dangleen ankle*
I love how she says "I had a Ben & Jerry" as if Ben & Jerry's only applies if you have more than one carton 😆
One reason I stopped buying it. I will eat the whole thing and it's a massive amount of calories and sugar/carbs.
Came here to say this 😂😂😂
Her problem with diets is the fact you have to use commen sense and she does not possess any
She didn’t say that in the early days though. I noticed that she said the plural form back in the Krystle and Density eras, so I have no idea why she changes it to “A Ben and Jerry” all of a sudden in 2018
@@TalkBack17fr????? That’s so interesting I never noticed that
Ironically enough I quit using Opiate pain pills on August 17th 2021. I'm 640 days clean today from the pills.
Congratulations! That's amazing. You're doing great🎉
im late to the party but GOOD JOB MAN YAYY
You still clean, my dude?!
@@jessicakey-olmsted9838 Yes, I am. I just had 3yrs clean on August 17th. I'm having a hard time and I'm in Crisis but I'm not going to relapse. That'll just make it worse. How are you doing?
@@Fupadema Many Thanks. I just had 3yrs clean on August 17th this past Saturday
OMG! Thank you for including those dancing clips! Really brings me back to my SPACE days. They loved me there!
You were were quite the dancer
And all those competitions you won with your kory-ah-gruffed dances!
I love this community 😂
You were so good, even when you didn't participate you still won, like when you kory-ah-gruffed dances for other contestants!
@@kelf114 - 😆
Gracie's meows get sadder with every episode
Edit: ww4 in the comments
Meee-owwww 😭😭
Desteny said it wasn't Amber who let Gracy out that night.
I don't know what to think about that...
God thats so sad... and true 😢
@@CordeliaWagner i dont believe that. At all.
@@ZISKAMAKES It breaks my heart 😢 Destiny pretty much confirmed that Amber killed Gracie. Dusty is a terrible person and pet owner herself, but Amber is a thousand times worse. She killed Gracie so she could get Wasabi, only to force Wasabi to be an outdoor cat when she got Twinkie, and eventually abandoned her cats altogether.
The entire narcissist quiz did my head in. She can’t help but lie, even just to herself about herself for a stupid quiz!
The quiz is a joke to begin with. Ask a narcissist to describe themselves? It will be SOOO accurate.
@@robotgorilla-man6193 I feel like those tests are for other people to take to find out if a toxic partner or family member is one.
Those tests are not legitimate psychological tests. Real assessments are too expensive and time consuming to make and administer for anyone to put it online for free. That test was likely one of those stupid Facebook quizzes she found where the answers are obvious so she can pick the ones that are "correct" to avoid being labeled a narcissist.
Welcome to NPD. They’re so delusional it’s not even funny
lmao love how she admits to selecting the option that “sounds better” rather than how she actually feels. that will surely result in accurate results 😂
So her date night is a dinner and "dessert" somewhere. She was on a date with the binge monster, not Becky.
“Date night” is such a manipulative tactic. It has nothing to do with romance or connection. Food food food!
Ty for all the hard work you put into these.
No problem just hope you like it
@@MrSnowflake I appreciate it, and you. . The quality of this series is amazing. Thank you.
ALR: “DEFINITELY, I am no better or worse than most people”
Also ALR: “I am so much better than majority of you💅🏻”
Amber "I don't like it when I manipulate people."
Also Amber when the gloves came off, "Who freaking cares if I gaslight my audience?!"
It blows my mind that Amber *still* quotes her negative score on the narcissist test to prove she doesn’t have NPD thinking that somehow a crappy, surface level internet quiz has any shred of credibility.
I don't know how you watch all Amber's vids without going fully off your rocker. Thank you for your service, Sir!
It’s getting harder. The thing that has been the most difficult to watch is her stupidity. I thought the constant lies would be it but no. Her being so stupid is making me more stupid.
@@MrSnowflake I've always said her biggest hurdle is her very low IQ 😂
@@MrSnowflake have you tried eating more hardboiled ayggs?
I can feel months of research for my dissertation leak out my brain every time she gets in that bathroom and tries to make us ruhlize something.
Ive never watched ALRs vids, but have been happily listening to Mr Snowflake's summary while I work on my PC. Its truly inspiring! It spurs me on to get out and walk, to clean the house, to be kind to my dog, to cook great food, to read and expand my dull old mind...I mean I do those things anyway, but listening to this jellyfish-brained person gives me that extra motivation.
This series continues to inspire me to work out and count calories. (This past year I have lost close to the famous 89 pounds!) It’s a great way to get the gist of ALR’s awfulness without being bored to death by her inanity.
Congrats for your dicipline and self love! 🥳🍾🥂🍀💐💪🏼
Good to see you don't listen to Fat Acceptence Activists who try to tell you that striving to make your life better is #fatphobic .
You have accomplished so much and I wish you the best for your life now and for your future! ❣🍀
good job 🫶🏻🫶🏻
Congrats on your hard work and continued health! Stay strong 💪😊
Um, it's 89 el bees, thank you. J/k. Awesome job! Watching this trainwreck definitely helps keep my worst behaviors in check.
Agreed. Way to go!
Her putting her mouth on an Amazon package to open it is absolutely disgusting.. those bags are FILTHY
Raise your hand to anyone who went a little cray cray over covid and washed the amazon mailer bags 😮 oh and shopping bags when i had instacart delivered
YES, I cringed.
@@Michelemybelle1986 I would wipe over them with a lysol wipe.
Haha covid times 😅 (only funny now were looking back lol)
Well, she's filthy too, so..
Its so weird how when she runs out of lexapro she just stops taking it. Im on lexapro and i would NEVER stop taking it abruptly, it can have terrible side affects. She cant even refill a script once a month!!!
Takes effort
Right! I took lexapro for years, and I found my ‘time limit’ for missing doses was around 3/4 days, I’m on Cymbalta at the max dose now and in one day of missing it I become a whole different person. I know meds affect everyone differently but I feel like my experiences were standard
"I'm not a narcissist, but I want to share my life that's super super boring. Because that's a normal thing to do constantly"
I think Destiny saw your SBTA series and it made her want to share her side of things. So thank you for that and your continued service.
Emotionally abuses Becky and calls it . …‘I’m snippy and snappy’ … no you don’t get to do that.
This woman has been abusing Becky and everyone just stood by and let her make excuses for it.
Which is sad she was able to manipulate people that well.
But she’s not *abusive* mean, just regular mean!
It's the same how she was when talking about how Becky first saw the binge monster, wanting to workout BUT at a place with smoothies with protein bars. You could see Becky see through it right then.
@@brookiki looll that is so funny. Yeah thats what abuser usually do . First they to like litterally say its not that bad. then that you're hallucinating their mistreatment of you to it never happened. Im sure this is what happened to becky. She control ALT deleted the every moment she ever made becky feel insignificant.
She replaced that with her being the true victim. She knows how to twist things lol
@@sarasdramaticlife That is the only proof that is needed that there was abuse happening. I feel in the past she had a moment where she could see that she was being a bad person to becky, but then somewhere down the line- she found a perfect person to use. /: She could never do this destiny and wifey because those two have self esteem, becky and even her old gf idk krystal were easy targets. There's accounts of Amber making Krystal cry over a iphone she got amber as a gift that she didn't want by casey (Also a victim of Amber) . Amber has a history of emotional abuse towards her partners.
Just dragging this out into 47 parts like Destiny... and I'll watch all 47, probably more than once.
The reason she didn’t film the Halloween party was because nobody actually showed up and it was just her, Becky, Ricky and Eric. It was a sad party I remember someone else had filmed it and posted it somewhere
This is what I assumed. 35:11 seemed like she was trying hard to talk about how great and awesome it was, a Lil too much.. probably Eric & Ricky filmed it?
Amber truly doesn’t listen to Becky. She has told that cousin dying story SO many times.
I needed this. I have an interview in 30 minutes after job hunting for 6+ months and Snowflake comes to remind me that no matter if I fail spectacularly, at least I'll never know "the struggles" of being Pookie. #blessed.
Good luck!
Good luck!!!
Good Luck!!!
How did it go?! 😁
@@carinagomes773 I feel like it went pretty well and he did talk to me about a followup interview so...?? 👀 we will see next week hopefully 🤞🤞
poor becky, imagine living with with a bedbound binge monster
Profile pic twins lol
@@jackograckothis is weird but I tried to google the photo because I want to save it and can't find it
Any help?
@@bostonb4kedbeans “simpson’s skinner pathetic meme” try that lol
You take that back, right now! She never had a binge problem, REMEEEMMMBER?!😅
Becky dated Amber at her absolute worst and I feel bad for her.
What's worrying is that this narc actually believes her own lies. Her reality is distorted to a point of no return.
@Miss And there is no cure because for that to be possible, they'd have to admit their own wrongdoing. I have a narc mom of my own, I know...
Every time she says that she gained weight (after the tv show video) her highest weight, she smiles. Don't think she's aware she's smiling..🤦♀️
God I didn’t even notice
@@MrSnowflake tell me if you see it or do i imagine it?😄
That narcissism test was written by a 12 year old 🙄🙄 The questions/answers were so leading and obvious
and the fact she still was like "omg what am i gonna get" 😭😭😭
We are watching Mr. Snowflake becoming more and more of a haydur throughout the 13 episodes.
Oh it gets worse soon haha
I could feel the irritation.
@@MrSnowflake -are you there yet?? I know I am...
Binge watching her is like pure, concentrated Amber. It's overwhelming and you need a palette cleanse afterwards.
Amber "I'm known on youtube as the most hated TH-camr" also Amber a few seconds later "I'm not a narcissist"
Claiming to be the most hated person on TH-cam, is exactly what a narcissist would do to manipulate others for sympathy and attention 😂
And expecting to be know by enough people, to be the most hated 😂 i've met *maybe* two people outside of youtube, who knows Amber 😂
@@kristelbrok998 I'm saying 😂 the only people I know who know about Amber are people I've talked to about her to 😂 she's so full of herself
@@amandaanderson1007 but no, she's not a narcissist 😂🫠
and she completely burnt her TLC bridge...
@@lottiecash seriously!
I feel like if she just was like completely real with herself and others, it would be so much easier to like her. But she lies ABOUT everything and then constantly is like "oh you mean that one time I lied in 2016" girl, be for real. As if wipey isn't the same person as the girl right after you and Becky broke up. She will never hit rock bottom, little miss pick me, victim complex, with a big dash of narcissist.
Did this 500+ pound woman really say she slipped on some dog food??? Most outrageous lie I’ve heard in a while. A toddler would crush some kibble 🙄
She has baby soft feet and is very dainty
Have you heard her spider lie.. that turned out to be a frog when Gracie was lost?
Now that lie was unbelievable.
She was so empathetic that she was absolutely inconsolable when Destiny was sad after Gracie ‘ran away’.😂 This woman’s tears are reserved for her alone.
She just said she had many bfs in k-12. Its interesting to see her say she was known as “fat amber” in k-12. She truly forgets her lies.
Now seeing these agian, Becky should be compensated for the trauma she was subjected to. Her sense of smell will never be the same again.
I hope Becky can heal, now that she's finally free
The narcissism quiz was painful to witness 😑
Ok, we NEED a montage of Amber answering the questions from the narc quiz with clips showing herself contradicting how she answered each one 😂
Her dead fish eyes 👀 always creep me out. She’s literally eaten herself cationic-also better help is a proven scam and data brokers😂 good job Pookie
A narcissist would never be able to look at themselves objectively and answer those questions accurately. Why does that quiz even exist? The idea that she really thinks she scored 0% on ENTITLEMENT is insane.
She is the most entitled person! Ugghhh I want to smush her like a pimple!
Lowest on entitlement and vanity....YeAh SuRe SuRe AmBeR... XD
@@hannahmacdonald9040 Amberlynn: "I expeted the main doctor to consult Destiny for her tummy ache, but nope, we just got *one of his little minions* (aka a nurse, a trained medical professional!)"
Also Amberlynn: "Hehe I scored a zero on 'entitlement' yay me"
Yeah, totally legit 😂
@@notayoutuber4496 lol she has a medical degree clearly 🤣🤣 also Amber “I literally have the lowest self esteem, like I’m ugly” goes on her tik tok *video after video of wannabe thirst traps* she’s a walking hypocrite at this point 🤣
@@notayoutuber4496 I think it was the same rant where she was like "they said to do this for a while then if it doesn't get better then they'll run the test? Ummm no, no, no, you'll run the test NOW. That's why I think doctors are lazy."
i’m probably one of the few who feel for amber’s ‘bedbound’ era. my depression got so bad two years ago, i barely left my bed and spent most of my time sleeping, for six months. i rarely ate though and lost a ton of weight. it’s an experience i’d rather not go through again.
Depression is hell and I'm glad you're doing better. ❤️
But you didn't give yourself depression.
Big Pookie ate herself bed bound. She saw what she was doing and refused to stop stuffing her face. She did it all to herself by her own choice.
So don't worry about feeling too bad for her.
You've got empathy; she does not.
No one WANTS to see anyone end up like that, but when it's by their own hand and they ignore the people telling and begging them to stop....then it's hard to have a "sympathy bone" for that person.
@@kelf114 she also didn't choose to have an eating disorder. It's not something you can switch on or off.
@@ZazooEel57 that doesn’t excuse her being a terrible person. An alcoholic didn’t choose to have alcoholism. That doesn’t mean you can run over school children and be absolved of your actions. You need to take the necessary steps to be a good person and she has had every opportunity to be a better person with help from everyone in her life, and she repaid them all by being an abusive bully. There is a reason every single person in her life hates her. It’s because she’s a terrible person with a huge ego that doesn’t think she has anything to fix to begin with.
Depression, eating disorders, childhood abuse don’t excuse your actions. It’s not your fault if you were abused as a child, but it IS your fault if you don’t get help and then abuse others as a result of it. And that makes you a terrible person.
@@kelf114that’s a whole lot to project onto a stranger. Also, imagine how it feels to read this if you’re depressed and your depression manifests in overeating rather than undereating. Your efforts to shame Amber really just reveal your own ableism
How did you get out of that state? Asking for a friend 😶
The narcissist quiz is pure comedic gold. I swear you couldn’t write a funnier comedy sequence if you tried.
imagine getting stuck while entering the shower and gaining another 60lbs/not showering & wearing the same bra for a year straight rather than taking that as a sign to get healthy.
Love watching this series Mr Snowflake!
Whenever I have flare ups of my autoimmune disease, I play your videos in the background to help distract me from the pain and fever. Apart from Entertainment, your videos help a lot of people to escape their hardships for a little bit, so thank you so much for your hard work and providing this for us! 😊
Aww I’m sorry you’re going through that :( sucks
About a month ago, I tried to stand from a crouch, and my knees HURT like hell. I’m nowhere near as overweight as Amberlynn, but that minimal pain was a wake-up call, and I’ve been working out ever since. It’s insane to think about how many little- and large- wake-up calls she’s been hit with her entire life, day by day, and how she’s managed to ignore, minimize, or justify each one.
Part of me (a small part, granted) does feel pity: at this point, the progress that she has to make to reach something resembling healthy is overwhelming. It’s an entire lifetime of bad habits to correct, and it’s an entire lifetime to maintain good ones. It can be paralyzing. But it’s her life at stake- if she cared about anything outside of herself, maybe she’d have some urgency to live for those people and things.
And I’m only 220 rn from 250 after a episode of depression. It was as devastating on my body. 50 lbs in two months!!!
I don’t know how she survives sober at that weight… I neeed constant pain management now
In my best Aragon Helms Deep voice.......Show Big Pookie no mercy, for you shall receive none.
My knees and my heart were my wake up call, and I was only 210 pounds at my largest.
Took about 5 years but I have managed to keep my weight at about 124 for 9 or so months now.
Good for you 🎉
@@wonwon3251 CONGRATULATIONS! 🎊
Awesome work! ✨🎉
It always catches me by surprise with how she frames her shots for the majority of her "vlogs" how truly massive she is when a body shot shows up.
She's fast forwarding to 600lbs; if she's not there already; I'd be surprised. She's massive. Her arms are huge. Wow.
You’re subscriber count should be higher. You’re dedication to this series is unreal! The research and the amount of videos you have to watch has to be brutal.
That narcissist test was Option A.) Mother Theresa Option B.) Disney Villain
Such BS.
Proper buzzfeed quiz quality
@@nightsgrow6575unrealted but it reminds of that one buzzfeed "am i gay" quiz where the only question is "are you attracted to the same gender" yes- you are, no- you are not
its equally black and white but at least that one is funny
@@zidian1356 *Bisexual panic*
I'm at the 15 minute mark and so far I've learned that according to Amber she does not lie she's just misunderstood. And she never falls but when she does it's Twinkie's fault. LOL 😂
Love how you can make anything interesting. Hope you get 100k subs by the end of this year.
Aw cheers Moe. Won’t happen but thank you
@@MrSnowflake the algorithm is always changing so the youtube gods can push your channel out at anytime. You deserve that so it'll happen! Bye babe😘 lol
I saw this comment and after watching this series up to this episode I realized I hadn’t subscribed! I did now! Hoping you get your 100k
I haven't watched this video yet, but I would like to say a couple of words about your YT opus so far. I have found your channel via the TH-cam recommendations. Algorithm decided to serve me your Boogie2988 video. At this point, I have watched and often times rewatched all of your content. You are currently my favorite commentary channel, bar none. The amount of work you put into each one of your videos is incredible. Moreover, despite the extremely thorough research you perform for each one of these mini-documentaries you create, you either refrain from giving any opinions on the topic or you provides us with a couple of well-put together, fairly unbiased thoughts of yours. Your storytelling skills are also praise-worthy, your pacing is absolutely impeccable and I believe that I have laughed at every single joke you have planted in your vids (even the Jimmy Bunker's ones, insane right?). Please keep rocking my dude, you are doing God's work :D
Wow what a lovely comment. Aww cheers for that. I try my best. Just happy you like the channel. Check out the second channel. Got some amazing stuff coming soon ha as big headed as that makes me sound
Everyone hit the thumbs up button for Mr. Snowflake ❄️ For all his hard work on these vids and endless entertainment. Another great vid.
That’s kind. Got some beautiful stuff coming soon
Amber is truly an addict. She says she wants to change, but deep down , she doesn't.
Unfortunately , we all probably have addicts in our families and it is so devastating to see them rationalize every bad decision, and continue to chase their drug of choice. I have an addict in my family and it is exhausting wanting change for him, but him not wanting it for himself. Watching people you love self destruct is a painful thing.
Amber can only change if she wants it . We can't will it for her.
Loved how she LAHed her way through a narcissist quiz
Ikr If only she answered honestly lmao why do this at all while lying with every question🙄🙄
I need to watch this every day while working out to stay on track. I just watched it while I did my cardio and weight lifting. Anytime I want junk food I need clips of this to watch. I’ve lost 50 lbs watching Amberlynn since February.
I have stuff like this on in the background while I stretch a lot of the time.
I love the subtle troll of zooming in on the bra strap. Well done, as always. Xxx
Who else was wayyy happier than they should’ve been when they saw this pop up on their feed? 😭😭
Just think about that this all took place maybe half a decade ago and ALR is basically the exact same weight.
My god
27:19 the complete lack of eyebrows in this section is killing me 😂
Woke up with pancreatic pain and took a pain pill and am ok. But awake now at 3am. And yay - an Amby video!
Becky is such a sweetheart, my goodness.
Thanks, Mr S!
Are you ok x
@@MrSnowflake Yes, but we'll see what an MRI will say at the end of the month. Thought it was all over. Thanks, sweet person!
I have two theories on the TV sow.
1. Amber was told about the obligatory shower scene from 600 pound life and bailed faster than a bean bag in hurry
2. TLC wanted her for the slanton show first but after a deep dive came across the rain and petals eavesdrop incident and bailed faster than a bean bag in a hurry.
I needed this today! I’m home alone with a terrorist, er I mean toddler. And it’s raining so we can’t even go outside 🥲
Haha join the club. Although I’m about to go trampolining:)
@@MrSnowflake Jealous! But let’s be honest, I’d probably break my ankle on a trampoline 😂
😂I live with a terrorist too. It’s very scary!
I live with a fluffy doggo terrorist. Please send wine lol
Therapist here.
Therapists *CAN* diagnose if you are a Master's level or Doctorate level practitioner and licensed by your state to do so.
*•* Psychiatrists (medical doctors),
*•* Psychologists (PhD or PsyD in Psychology), and
*•* Master's level clinicians
• LCSWs
• LMHCs
• LMFTs
can all diagnose, if their organization allows it (like most private practice therapists diagnose, but something like BetterHelp they don't allow diagnosis from my understanding).
I routinely did diagnosing when I worked in private practice, not only because I believe it's helpful to assign names to certain things to help clients have a focus (there are exceptions), but because insurance companies require you to assign a diagnostic code for billing purposes.
If her therapist said they couldn't diagnose her, my best bet would be she was relying on a BetterHelp therapist. I personally think BetterHelp is a bad therapeutic model and is designed to have you rely on the therapists (since you have unlimited access, versus having once a week appointments with homework, unless something urgent comes up and you need to be seen sooner). The way I phrase it to my clients is from the first day we meet, I'm planning for the day you leave this office permanently, because you'll have learned all the tools and techniques you need to succeed.
Thank you for writing this! I scrolled through the comments once I heard AL say the BetterHelp "therapist" wasn't allowed to diagnose. BetterHelp (including BetterUp) is a scam and it is well documented the company engaged in unethical behavior.
If I genuinely hate one person in the universe it’s her.
I can't decide who i hate more, her or "foodie beauty" i go back and forth constantly.
Me too. If she was next to me I would probably be the bully most bullies were to me. Just because she really is disgusting and mean.
Same
@@RadhuyaOmg same! If I knew her, I'd be so damn mean lol. I hate thinking like that because I know it's not right and I don't like being that way, but I just hate her so much and wish more people would bring her ass down.
Love the new intro. Thank you for your hard work on this series & also for your twisted humor.
Aw that’s kind of you. Got something lovely planned for you weird bunch :)
@@MrSnowflake can't wait 😝
If mental gymnastics burnt calories, Amber would be an Olympic athlete.
amber 2018: I'm not bipolar, so stop self diagnosing me.
amber 2019: so I'm bipolar.
It's crazy that she did hit rock bottom. She had cancer and THAT didn't even wake her up. She's a lost cause at this point there is nothing that is going to make her change
The "mental things are scary" clip where she cries about snipping at becky gives me major red flags. I grew up around toxic adults that would say incredibly abusive fucked up garbage out of anger before flipping a switch and being remorseful. Whatever 'snip' she took at Becky was terrible and she knew it, so as tactic to not take responsibility she wallows in woe of having uncontrollable emotions. Having someone you love flipflop between two heavy emotions consistently like that is exhausting to experience. I do believe it is a pattern in Amber that is amplified by mental illness, but quite frankly it's still possible to regulate through dedication to serious behavior change via self servalence alongside therapy. Watching Becky getting cornered on camera by an apologetic amber after what was most likely a very shitty argument or insult just feels so grimy too, like she's using the threat of posting Becky's response as a way to stifle any real rebuke. The entire clip is a snipit of the situations Becky had to constantly maneuver through in her day to day life being a literal caretaker for Amber :(
The cackle I let put at 29:44, you sir cannot randomly zoom in like that! 😂😂 Somehow you manage to out do yourself with every video. I applaud you and your patience. 👏 Now, rest that voice!
Those "psych" quizzes aren't supposed to be filled out by the individual. They're supposed to be filled out by a psychiatrist after talking to you and indirectly asking the questions. If you know what the answers are, you're more likely to go with the better sounding one, that's why a psychiatrist would ask you an open-ended question. Also, her narcissism is well documented by her sooooo 😅
“Stewing in her disgusting filth” the best description of hamber.
Halloween costume idea for Ambie: a huge black trash bag. She can portray her personality...and it may be the only thing she can fit in.
I honestly don’t think they make trash bags that big. Think tarps…
"I haven't felt the sun on my skin in a week"
British people in winter: ha amateur