How We Manage Bills + Finances As An African Couple In The UK | Money & Marriage

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  • @Kukuak82
    @Kukuak82 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A good tip that helped my credit score to jump is to put your household expenses on your credit card! You’re already putting your money aside for that monthly, put it on the card & pay off before the due date.

  • @py20
    @py20 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My wife and I have had everything together from day one. Our salaries go into a joint account and from it we pay our bills and whatever else we need to do. There's no such thing as "my money" or "her money", only OUR money. Circumstances may be different for other couples but for us, Marriage is a ONE FLESH UNION and that means having all things, assets and liabilities included, together. Nice couple; blessings to you both.

  • @katulavibes282
    @katulavibes282 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your husband is so sweet, one can tell from the way he looks at you that he genuinely loves you

  • @Roses_are_red614
    @Roses_are_red614 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He's so soft spoken & calm and the wife is so bubbly and loud. You guys compliment each other 💜
    I tap into the blessing Lord. Amen.

  • @ayebatoguoruwori2830
    @ayebatoguoruwori2830 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for sharing and being honest about how you both handle your finances in marriage.
    A lot of people will not, and even if they do, they subscribe to ‘my money is mine and his is ours’. Financial role and all other roles within marriage are fluid in nature…it’s about understanding the season you’re in and working together to victoriously go through that season.

  • @tessyshotkitchen
    @tessyshotkitchen ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I never see someone who is open like you. As old as I am I have learned a lot from your videos. You know what you want and you don't pretend about it. Love your videos

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww thank youuuuuu🥺♥️♥️

  • @benitaadusei5800
    @benitaadusei5800 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’re so reasonable and I see myself in you. I won’t feel proud and comfortable leaving my burdens on a man.

  • @adebowaleyemisi9854
    @adebowaleyemisi9854 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have no idea how much I love this video. The partnership and transparency is adorable and of course, you guys look amazing together.

  • @Miss_Yusuf
    @Miss_Yusuf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started following you cause I wanted to move to the UK. I won’t be moving anymore (sadly) but I won’t be unsubscribing cause I love your page ❤

  • @spotlightonthesilverlining6006
    @spotlightonthesilverlining6006 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love is beautiful, this man is already blessed, a man that knows how to water his garden will always have it evergreen.

  • @chinweoti9115
    @chinweoti9115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice one Chidera. Was your credit bank from a bank? I ask because I couldn't get one from my bank because I haven't lived in the UK for up to 2 years. So I will interested to know banks that could offer me credit card if I have lived for at least 18 months? xx

  • @Slimphizzy
    @Slimphizzy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your husband is such a charming gentleman. You guys kinda complement each other perfectly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @stephaniechidii
    @stephaniechidii ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love couples that understand each other ❤
    You guys are too good together ❤

  • @jemimahbassey2728
    @jemimahbassey2728 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes please!!! A video on monthly expenses 🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @oluwaseunonijala
    @oluwaseunonijala ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the sense of balance that has come with the strayegy you have both adopted.
    In my estimation, it doesn't necessarily have to be exactly 50/50, but not leaving your man to shoulder the entire responsibility shows great wisdom & consideration.
    In the end, everyone will choose a path that works for them, but it's only fair that the burden is not placed on one side whilst the other party chills.
    Well-done!!!

  • @GinaDanielTV
    @GinaDanielTV ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me I'm just smiling watching the both of you talk🥰😂 such a cute couple🙏🏼😍 More bliss, more wisdom, more love

  • @nyenbiogeh2006
    @nyenbiogeh2006 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for always giving good content.

  • @eniolaodunuga7747
    @eniolaodunuga7747 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are so adorable honestly! Always love your content and vibe! Cheers ❤

  • @ijeomai3746
    @ijeomai3746 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Agreed! I wanted to marry a “boss” lol! A boss in everything because I had been a “boss “ all my life. My job was also a boss job”.You get fed up and want to be led!! I don’t even want to work!

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fammmm you get it!😭😂😂

    • @ijeomai3746
      @ijeomai3746 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChideraPeters For sure!! My Adaness don do. I refuse knowledge of how to do anything. Grab any attention you see walking down the street 😂! I will lift that 50 pound box when I am alone . As As soon as he is back, I can’t. I had always wished I had a job that paid so little that me working will be a waste of money. But I figured this is my last chance of being a follower, so don’t waste it!!🤣🤣🤣You two are looking so happy and full of beans!!

    • @JoyAjuluchukwu
      @JoyAjuluchukwu ปีที่แล้ว

      An Ada trait. Relatable

  • @CLOUDVIEWTRAVELS
    @CLOUDVIEWTRAVELS 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wisdom.. thanks for sharing ❤

  • @olufunkederin-davies2459
    @olufunkederin-davies2459 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love you guys and the understanding is top notch. Well done guys. Chimera, it's good to see your happy bubbly self again

  • @kemiandtheyouths6455
    @kemiandtheyouths6455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chidera anytime you are with your hubby you laugh more.
    I love the way he comes in quietly. I love to see two of you sha. Well done

  • @angelnuni
    @angelnuni ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i sincerely enjoyed this 🥰🥰and yes!!! I vote for video on monthly expenses

  • @dav8749
    @dav8749 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so good to know that you contribute to the bills in my family it's based on income but mostly 50% each partner

  • @greenbutterfly2421
    @greenbutterfly2421 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!!!! My kind of content! I love the marriage centered videos. Keep it up. Really enjoyed it.😊

  • @preciousokung1888
    @preciousokung1888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can totally understand you feeling bad about not being able to contribute at the time. This was such a good watch, thank you both for sharing.

  • @dolapoalabi5660
    @dolapoalabi5660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chidera is like me I don’t like not having money 😂😂

  • @folafoluwaasabi8387
    @folafoluwaasabi8387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He has a very calm spirit..you guys are good together ❣️

  • @kelechiokoro-williams7334
    @kelechiokoro-williams7334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Expecting the monthly expenses. Great job.

  • @SimplyTemmyDee
    @SimplyTemmyDee ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very good. Transparency in marriage is so important and being in a relationship where both parties are open and transparent regarding finances is so good. Well done! You guys are doing well. Stay open and transparent with each other and God will continue to bless your union

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Well, for me; my money is my money and his money is ours!😂

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol preachhhhhh😂

    • @devineolubakin3091
      @devineolubakin3091 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChideraPeters ah

    • @mamahazbaima6732
      @mamahazbaima6732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Old fashion way of thinking

    • @Jaay2022
      @Jaay2022 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mamahazbaima6732
      I accept it with full chest.

    • @benitaadusei5800
      @benitaadusei5800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does that mentality still exist in our world?

  • @JosephElmwood
    @JosephElmwood ปีที่แล้ว

    The most expensive bills are those you give to God in the end - your answers at that lovely gate? Are you saving enough for that big spend? You look really good as a couple though.

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very insightful , team work makes the dream work 👍

  • @yarabalogun8128
    @yarabalogun8128 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quick gentle correction: HSBC have direct debits, in fact all banks do. HSBC are one of the largest and most competent banks in the world.

  • @miss_sennie
    @miss_sennie ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes please, monthly expenses video

  • @titilolaadejare3228
    @titilolaadejare3228 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sincerely,I love your chemistry 🥰. This video is helpful to incoming couples. I really appreciate your videos before now. Your videos have been so helpful 👍👍. Please try to do more topics that will be of great help to new immigrants couples. Regards to your husband. Thank you for the transparency.

  • @chisomlilian7396
    @chisomlilian7396 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ma'am for this ❤️❤️❤️❤️. It was quite helpful 💯💯💯. I stan and restan

  • @chidinmanjoku-obinna2951
    @chidinmanjoku-obinna2951 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another amazing video, I love how you both work together as a team. I laughed when you said you are his sugar mummy😅. Thanks for always uploading great contents.

  • @freespirit3972
    @freespirit3972 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You both are so cute! ❤

  • @damilolaorija7713
    @damilolaorija7713 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for thissss ❤️❤️

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My absolute pleasure sis!♥️♥️

  • @nambuyaaisha1921
    @nambuyaaisha1921 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kindly make a video on your monthly grocery shopping

  • @BTT040
    @BTT040 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did the video end so fast?
    All I can say is congratulations.

  • @delighteze5980
    @delighteze5980 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chidera, I'm a sugar Mummy 🤣.

  • @MEDIA.AFRICA
    @MEDIA.AFRICA ปีที่แล้ว

    Your husband is kind of shy lol

  • @interpretingtravel
    @interpretingtravel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a very good video...well done ✔️ 👏

  • @sisiadebanke5007
    @sisiadebanke5007 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why am I smiling like this 😂😂😂😂😂sweet me❤

  • @chidinmanwabugwu6483
    @chidinmanwabugwu6483 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does bank offer credit card

  • @alliabigail9649
    @alliabigail9649 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your transparency and talking on this very important topic ❤

  • @peaceikeh-madufor5877
    @peaceikeh-madufor5877 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a very open hearted video.. weldone

  • @emeliajansky6538
    @emeliajansky6538 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes sister I want a vedio of your monthly expenses I am a Ghanaian living in Europe Vienna Austria

    • @belloshakirutaiwo8616
      @belloshakirutaiwo8616 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is Vienna like?Are there jobs there?I have been thinking of moving to the country

  • @lisabethvlogs
    @lisabethvlogs ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos

  • @folasadelydiaoladipo3850
    @folasadelydiaoladipo3850 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God chidera,you are back again.

  • @olumidedavid4870
    @olumidedavid4870 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys.. Back2back

  • @DrSammie
    @DrSammie ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this

  • @chinenyennamdi4926
    @chinenyennamdi4926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do a video on your monthly expenses

  • @catherineokoli52
    @catherineokoli52 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot for this video.

  • @amarachiigwilo1406
    @amarachiigwilo1406 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video❤

  • @jemimahhezekiah218
    @jemimahhezekiah218 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful

  • @favournrabalu
    @favournrabalu ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes please to the video on monthly expenses.

  • @ms_adannaya
    @ms_adannaya ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree, Gen Z has money 😄😄

  • @PatriciaAbijah
    @PatriciaAbijah ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your outfits

  • @mobolajiakinola3
    @mobolajiakinola3 ปีที่แล้ว

    An amazing and thoughtful video

  • @lotannaagbaegbu4238
    @lotannaagbaegbu4238 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww love this!

  • @Miss_Yusuf
    @Miss_Yusuf ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys 😍😍

  • @yvonneoshevwe2334
    @yvonneoshevwe2334 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just started watching. I truly appreciate you doing this video.

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching too♥️♥️

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🎉1

  • @chisimdi
    @chisimdi ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so sweet!!

  • @lydiao.9476
    @lydiao.9476 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh you guys are the cutest

  • @joychizzy6603
    @joychizzy6603 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the information

  • @gracechukwurah6125
    @gracechukwurah6125 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys. You dope

  • @fombangrelindisenih8480
    @fombangrelindisenih8480 ปีที่แล้ว

    Informative

  • @rightmuves
    @rightmuves ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting...

  • @chelseanews2482
    @chelseanews2482 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys look so colourful! It’s beautiful ❤️

  • @adebunmiadeleke1362
    @adebunmiadeleke1362 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done chichi❤

  • @bukky9241
    @bukky9241 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely video😊. Jason, HSBC does direct debit o😁. Hurry and go set it up lol

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahaha I’ll relay to him, thank you!

  • @mbahmarieclaire2411
    @mbahmarieclaire2411 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sweet and educative too

  • @maryaiwuyo2803
    @maryaiwuyo2803 ปีที่แล้ว

    First to comment. I'm excited

    • @Jaay2022
      @Jaay2022 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎊

    • @ChideraPeters
      @ChideraPeters  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay! Thanks for showing up ♥️♥️

  • @portiaplange3687
    @portiaplange3687 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never commented on here but this is such a timely video❤,feels like you were reading my mind😂
    It’s nice to have such contents from fellow africans living elsewhere!

  • @mariamsvlog1
    @mariamsvlog1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed watching you two, so beautiful!😍

  • @bessfavoured1675
    @bessfavoured1675 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Chidera,I appreciate you!
    Keep doing your thing and know that you are appreciated.