just lost my childhood dog this morning.. harder then you'd think And now, as of yesterday, almost 5 years and 1 month after my dog passed away, my childhood cat passed away at home at the age of almost 16. He will be deeply missed
Morgan White I'm more at peace now. She was very old and ill, And it was just so sad to see her in that condition.. she's better off now. And it now just feels like I got something off my chest. Because all I did was sorry about her before
The Douglas Yes, my dog was run over when he was a puppy and could never jump or anything after. He had terrible arthritis, and I know it's for the best. He's much happier now.
losing a pet is like. losing part of yourself... these animals. love ud unconditionally. i just lost my 14yr old dalmatian & i. cannot stop the tears even if i am. physically drained
I lost my first dog at age 14 and its been 3 years, I still miss her. I 100% agree with what you said. Its like actually losing a family member and you never really move on. U just learn to deal with how it feels over time. It gets better over time but you'll still miss them and remember.
I honestly agree with you. Just recently, Our ten year old black labrador Lady, just passed away after losing the battle against pneumonia. It is by far a dark day, not just on me, but on my family as well. Losing a pet is like a nightmare turned real. It gets so hard to the point of breaking down and crying until your eyes are red. The hardest part for me was trying to move on, but the pain is real... so real, I kept thinking about her. It made me wish I could've done something to prevent it.
Zevy I’m sorry to hear that, my friend. It’s been about two weeks and it’s still hard as hell, but just keep pushing. It gets easier as your mind processes it. Memories with him/her that make you sad now, will make you happy later on. I promise :)
same , I had a baby chick , I still can hear her voice rn although she's dead , I can't explain how much I adore her , I can't get over it , I can't stop crying it's all my fault , I put her on my arm and that was when she fell asleep but I woke up at night and was like where tf is she , my sis turned the lights on and I saw her dead behind me , turned out I moved when I was sleeping and couldn't control myself bc I was sleeping . idk if I accidentally layed my arm or body on her , it's all my fault , maybe if I didn't put her besides me , wtf is wrong with me , she'd be laying on my neck now with her little cute furry body warming up my neck , we'd be playing and she'd still be following me , please tell me something and help me , I'm crying as I'm writing this. my dad doesn't understand why I'm so devastated... he even screamed at me bc I was crying about her, I miss her so much , I love her so much , I'm never getting another pet it only causes pain after all the happiness... I can't stop blaming myself , I hope she only died by herself because of nothing or because she was sick. (cause her siblings died too and that adds a lot to my pain bc I couldn't help them at all I just watched them , fed them and warmed them up hoping and crying they'd get stronger and be alive eventually but it didn't work. ) I hope it isn't my fault sinse I found her body besides me not under me . and she was closing her eyes which means she died during sleeping ( I'm gonna copy paste I need motivation now )
@@sunshinesweetlove8238 hope all is well for you right now. I just adopted a new puppy a month and a half ago and it certainly has helped. Still have some difficult nights though. Much love, anyway❤️
I just lost my cat. I still expect him to be sitting at the end of my bed, purring. I miss him so much. Rest in peace, Mango Edit: i haven't checked this comment in awhile so sorry for being late. For all those who have replied, thank you for your words and i'm so sorry for all of your losses. I know it's hard, but I hope you are all well :)))
I also miss my cat and him sleeping and purring at the end of my bed too! Though I don't know if he's gone now. He was sick and he went to the back of our house where there are trees and bushes. I feel very sad. :(
Isabella A I lost my cat named Tom, I used to have 3 but he was my favorite, I’ve had him for 5 years and he was my first cat in my life, he ran away 3 months ago and I haven’t seen him but I still think about him all the time 😣
@Aallison K I agree with you and understand what u are feeling...Today I lost my dog and it 's the hardest thing to deal with so far. From my relationship with my dog I see and felt what unconditional love was so I tell my friends now...if you ever want unconditional love get a dog.
@Aallison K Hmmm...I feel you This weekend was hard for me, getting up, not seeing her around and off to work this morning and my morning routine has changed now....it's hard to take, I know it's going to take awhile for me to move on. I miss her so much
Im sorry to whom lost pets . My Max was Everything to me , more then a friend . He was Family . Im a better berson for having him in my life .🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🐕 BFF
For the first time in my life I no longer have a dog with me. I’m so used to taking care of a dog and the fellow healing my wounds in return... it feels wrong not having one now
@@factbeaglesarebest I know that feeling especially when you had so much love for them and miss them, I feel weird that I love dachshunds but I don't have one anymore, I will someday but the love I had for her.. it makes me feel guilty. Its been almost a year and half, I know the right time will come and I hope you get another dog someday too
My heart goes out to anybody who knows the agony of loosing a beloved pet. So may people just do not understand the tremendous loss it is to loose their pet, and I wish I could put into words how utterly heart wrenching it is. I lost my sweet Niki (a female yellow lab) 17 years ago, and to this day, I still miss her and still get choked up just thinking about her. RIP Lulu
My best friend just passed away today, her name was Daisy and she was a 9 year old boxer. Shes been my best friend since I was 7 and the pain is agonizing. She died laying with me on the couch, I knew she was gonna pass away but it still caught me by surprise. She was very weak and didnt eat much all week, she was breathing heavy and I knew this was it so I played down with her on the couch and watched dragonball z. She looked up at me, gave me a kiss and I could feel her heart and lungs stop working as her muscles tensed up. I petted her, kissed her, told her how much I love her and that she was my best friend until her muscles relaxed and she stopped breathing. Hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I didnt cry this much even when my grandma died. People think losing a pet is easy but to me she wasnt a pet she was my best friend. It's really hard for me, she was there for me when I had nobody else. Atleast shes in a better place now. R.I.P Daisy, I will always love you and I thank you for everything you've done for me.
@@jennadavis8505 Kind of, I still think about her often. I mean shes been my best friend for 9-10 years so losing her was very hard. I dont think I'll ever stop thinking about her but the pain isnt as bad as it was. I still miss her but not as much. It's a good thing I have another dog here, if I didnt then I dont know what I would've done. Anyways, I'm sorry for your loss. It's probably one of the hardest things ever to lose a family member/best friend and that's what dogs are to us. I hope you feel better.
@@jennadavis8505 i guess for everyone its different for me it was really hard for 2 to 3 years after. To this day I can't talk about her last day without crying. I still miss her and think about her often but i think u leàrn to live without them but u never completely stop missing them.
Jim Lambert I hear you. Just lost mine today and I was not expecting it to be this bad either, but it is. So I know exactly what you had to go through.
@@lessacto +1. Just lost mine yesterday and I wasn't nearly expecting to be this heart broken over her leaving. My condolences for you all and hopefully we'll see our pups down the road.
Jasmijn as more time passes, it does start to get easier as your tears and memories start changing from sad to happy thoughts and happy memories. But it will take a long time to totally get over it, if ever. Now and then, as we walk around the house, we’ll see or hear something that reminds of our Roxi and the sad feelings hit you again.
I’ll never see her again... I’ll never be able to tell her that I love her, or embrace her in my arms for 2 hours and I’ll never have that ever again.. I kind of feel guilty for not crying or thinking about her more than I am which is everyday after school.. I look around my room and have these memories that come back and I’ll remember her and I’ll start to tear up... She was a chicken, and even though she wasn’t a dog or cat, she was still a huge part of my life and so important.. she was a therapy animal. I would take her to senior homes and the seniors would be so happy to see her, and I’ll never experience their joy in seeing her, next week I have to tell them that she passed away and all I’ll get from it is sadness... She would lay in my arms for hours and not move or make noise, she never pooped while I was holding her.. I Remeber one time I was holding her in my room and I wanted to go get something so I set her down on a towel on the ground and the minute I set her down she pooped and it was so funny, idk why, but she was so adorable.. Her name was Alice, and she was a Silkie hen (google it, they’re so adorable) and even though she’s not a dog or cat she was so important to me and now I won’t ever see her or embrace her or have those awesome moments with her.. I just want to say goodbye...
I’m so sorry, I have 4 silkie chicks that we are giving away today because they can’t live in our flat anymore. I love them so much but I know they’re going to be happier in a better home. I didn’t expect anyone to have a silkie chick/chicken, they’re amazing chickens and I’ll kiss my chicks so much. 😭✨✨🎀🎀
I just lost my cat today we haven’t had her that long and she got out yesterday (she was a stray that we took in) and we have other feral cats outside and we couldn’t find her and she got attacked and we took her to the vet and they couldn’t do anything for her so we had to put her down. That was the hardest thing i never realized how close i was to her till she was laying in my arms i came home and her bed was there and her food and water bowl was empty and for a split second i was like “nala does have food or water” and then i was brought back to reality I miss hearing her meow and i miss her sleeping in the crook of my neck i just miss her and it hurts it hurts so bad
Morgan Harrell i have a schnauzer and i have had her for 6 years i think soon she will be gone and im scared for the day she does pass. After she does pass i plan on no more pets to not have to feel the pain after.
@@Mike-ne9cw i lost my brother 2 years ago so a year ago i got a kitten and i loved her so much, she used to be in the back yard playing all time she never whent far. One day i coulnt find her and i found her far away across a road dead, i have neve seen anything that terrefieing and painfull to see all my life exept for my bro passing. she helped me with my depression but she didnt stay long with us R.i.p Lucy 😭. This was 4 days ago btw ,i still cry when i go to bed. But may be it will get better. Sry about you dog.
just lost my kitty of 17 years. i feel your pain, ive never had my heart literally hurt before, its like someone stuck dagger right in your chest and gave a good twist and turn. i believe they are still loving us though, and would want us to continue to live life and be happy. i had thoughts that i didnt want to continue life anymore without her, as she was my best friend, the one i would come home to to make my bad day better for my entire life, but then had the realization she would not want her passing to spread so much pain. now i think its best to live life to the fullest and be happy for her, and let my love for her continue as long as possible, and hope to meet one day again. i hope you are doing well
I lost my first cat two months ago,my new cat is nothing like him at all and it makes me realize how great he was. I still love my Fox but never as much as my Tiger.
My darling baby Cat Ace died 4 hours ago I miss him so much I've been crying and screaming I would die for him it's so hard to believe that he's actually dead he was so young too he didn't deserve to die so young and he even died in Christmas which makes it even worse I hate Christmas
My goat died while at my friend's house, I found out 30 minutes ago. I wasn't close with her but its still hard. She was my first ever pet even though she was a goat. My cousins and aunts knew before me. It hurts me to know that I won't hear or see her ever again.
I had a fish. His name was Link Raine Hensley-Singh. He has just died, and I miss him. I know it probably sounds stupid that I'm grieving over a fish, but he was my friend, and a fish is a pet too.
I’m sorry for your loss 💔 I understand and it’s not stupid. In fact, I cried when my fish Dorthy died today. I acted fine, but I broke down. But please know if you missed him, he was probably a happy fish
It’s been almost a year and I still cry every single day. I don’t know how to cope still she was the only thing that got me through the hardest times. I’m so lost without her
i really hope you can find peace and comfort. i am also searching for the same. i just lost my kitty of 17 years, it is the hardest thing i have ever gone through. my heart literally hurts and my stomach is turning. i think we have to try our best to think of all the good times that we were able to spend with them, and that we were able to give them such a good life for as long as possible. i believe they are still loving us as well someway somehow, and would want to see us continue to live a happy life.
my condolences, i just my lost my lil butterfly today and i dont think this hole will ever fill even if i get a replacement cat :( i feel so lost without her as well and she barely even lived her life.....
I lost my dog yesterday. I was in school then going to my classmates house. Then just got home and the first thing i heard from my father was our dog just died. It just hurts so much that I didn't get to say goodbye. I feel so guilty.
Gelo Endaya my dog had to be put down from cancer this morning and we just found out he had it and his kidneys were failing, I got to say goodbye but it still hurt coming home from school.
I lost my dog on Sunday 11/13/2016, and i know what you're going through. I failed him at his last moment by not getting him to the vet on time and making huge mistakes at the time. I will regret and blame myself forever. I hope my dog and your dog know that we love them very much and that we are sorry.
jorbjorb1 my dog just dies in my arms this morning. My dad had been by her all night and got up to go to the bathroom and I look over and my dog picked her head up like she wanted me to come over so I did. And I was petting her like I usually do and I looked down and she wasn’t breathing. It really scared the heck out of me haha but I called my dad over and she had passed. I’m glad I got to be with her though because she’s my best friend and no one deserves to die alone. 💗
i understand your guilt, i wasn’t there for my dog and i’ve regretted it. however, i have to believe they understand our pain and know how we feel for them regardless of whether or not we were there in that one moment. they love us and we love them, and that’s all that matters.
micki dumesnil me too:( my dog was almost 17 and he’s been here for me for so many years. I get so many flashbacks and I miss him so much. He was a schnauzer but he got too weak and couldn’t get up and he died later in the afternoon:( I’ll miss him but I know he’s not in pain anymore, and I’m positive about seeing him again in another life
I lost my dog of 12 years yesterday. I’ve been so depressed about it. The void is so real. Miss him so much. I was so lucky to have him in my life. Until we meet again ❤️
I lost my cockatiel of 9 years yesterday. I lost my first on in 2018. It's so tough. I couldn'y stop crying. I had a panic attack an hour ago. Im calm now but my emotions are all over the place. It feels like ptsd just thinking about it. Im going to seek therapy. It's been a year since you lost your pet. I hope you are doing better. Im so sorry about your loss.❤❤
Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss as well. The emptiness for me was very painful, but I adopted a cat from the shelter this month. I didn't think I could ever have another cat as my cat's loss really hit me, but it's helped me feel better. The pain is still there of course, but a new friend really helps with those feelings
I am so sorry to hear! That's a long time. My cat got run over, he was fit and healthy and full of life. Mischievous but very human like. He would climb on top of you and tap your face as if to say... stroke me! I remember also when I was a little boy when I was upset or had temper tantrums he was the only one who wasn't scared and would come up to me and tap my face and rub himself against me, he knew very well when I was upset and he helped me cope very well. Arrgh just writing this is hard! I can't describe how much I miss him there are no words :( x
Laid my baby of 12 years to rest exactly one week ago today. I knew i would be sad, but I had no idea of the pain and emptiness i would feel. It really feels like I lost an actual person. To anyone experiencing this lost PLEASE allow yourself to feel AND heal. Take it one day at a time. Be around those that truly understand your grief & don’t expect the rest of the world or even many people you know to understand. That hurt that most, but some people just won’t ever understand. You are not alone. Love and light to all of you missing your babies❤️
my heart still hurts too, a year ago i lost my cat as well. christmas eve i was told she needed to be put down and my whole world felt like it had been twisted around. she was my best friend. all i can think about now is seeing her again when i’m gone.
i lost my dog a few days ago. i had to euthanize him and it was hard to watch him die. But i would rather be there to say goodbye than not. I mean im only 12 and my mom would allways tell me to spend more time with him. but i didnt listen. It is heartbreaking and it is nothing like i have ever had in my life. my mom said she found me screaming on the floor at night saying " I miss him i want him back". My point is if you have a dog spend time with him. you will never get to see him/her until the day you die after they pass. I learned my lesson the hard way. but im telling you not to
It’s too late for me😭 my dog died on Tuesday afternoon.. in the morning he was crying in pain and I was home alone and I called my mom and told her to come home fast and take care of the poor dog screaming in pain. But my mom never came home, then I come home from school and I found my dog dead😭💔 but at least he is not in pain anymore. He needed to be in peace. And at least I got to see him in the morning before he left me in tears. He was so brave to live up to 17 years:) but god wanted him back to the place where he belongs, heaven. I hope I’ll see him again in another life. I miss you Lucas❤️ R.I.P
I made the same mistake too, my dog of 15 years died this morning. My mom told me to spend time with it for the past week but I didn't realize how terrible it would be when she died. I cant stop crying.
John M yea man i lost my cat named max yester day from lung cancer he was only 7 years old and cats normaly live from 10-12 years so it hurts to know he died so young the funny thing is its been a day now since he died and i havent shed one tear i dunno maybe it hasent sunk in yet or something or maybe im just unintenisionaly holding my feelins in i really dont know but sorry for your losss and sorry to all anamils who die from cancer #FUCKCANCER
I lost my cat yesterday. She managed to get to 20 years old. There hasn’t been a time of my life without her, but at I’m eternally grateful for the time I had with her.
A long life a long time to enjoy her companionship. I hope the pain is lessening but all the great memories are strong. I lost my girl a Cat of nearly 16 years, I cried for days. I miss her I had cats for 35 years and now with out that companionship. I am at a age that I might not have 6 or 10 years left. I miss the coming to see what I am doing or lets play or coming to talk to me. Feels so alone for the first time since 1985. They never live long enough.
@@sweetpea2839 thank you for sharing this. Though I wrote that comment a year ago and the pain has soothed, it is still there. I hope you find a greater happiness in your future.
He, I know it's an old comment, but I just had to share this; my little boi is 22 years old and I am 27.. He got diagnosed with stage 1 heart failure, don't know how long he has.. But I couldn't agree with you more on how grateful I am to have him as a comrade for basically my whole life. I hope he stays a while longer with me.
@@R-SXX I hope your pet stays with you as long as possible. I remember before my cat died she had terrible joint problems and found it painful to work, so in a sense I am glad her suffering came to an end. Nothing lives forever, but if we love something enough we can remember them for as long as possible. I’m only 14 and my cat was alive even before I was, so when she passed, it was the first time I knew I could never see her again. But believe it when people say it gets easier; I thought I wouldn’t be able to get over it but just thinking of her every so often makes me remember that she loves a long for life which I’m very grateful of the love and affection she gave me. And thank you for making this comment - now I’ve been able to explore the feelings again and remember the great memories she gave..
My dog Bella was more than a dog to me. My best friend, she was always there with me and barked and ran around the pool when I went swimming. She passed the basketball so u could dunk and she was more than a dog to me. She had a kidney problem that appeared out of nowhere and said we had to put her down but we decided not to to see if she would get any better and the next day she was running around the pool. But about a week later she got bad again and had some kind of attack and passed away. I made a promise to her that I would make it in professional in volleyball cause she played everything with me. I made varsity half way through sophomore year and played in playoff games. I hope to fulfill my promise and that she'll lead me to it from heaven
Sadly, pets tend to fake being better and want to appear happy and healthy in order to cause less grief for their owners when they die. I’ve sadly seen it three times now. First with my dog Callie, 8.5 years ago, two days before we were going to move into our new house (it was a Wednesday). She was also suffering from kidney problems, but on the day we were going to put her down, she appeared to be all better, and acted like she used to in order to try and make us all happy. The second time I experienced this was with my grandparents’ (used to be my dad’s) dog named Molly. She was old, and was suffering from numerous problems like blindness, deafness, and couldn’t smell anything. During the last week with her, she was noticeably happier, as if she was at peace with what was going to happen soon. Finally, and the most heartbreaking for me, was the passing of my cat, Jenny, yesterday. I didn’t know it at the time, but over the past 4 months, she has been showing physical signs (nothing related to health but interactions with he family in general) that she was about to die. She was always attached to me, but her approach was quicker, and she would willingly pester me for hours. She would also not stir when our other cat, our two dogs, or other people would get near her. Most tragically of them all, she would meow every night for three months until I got home, and for the two weeks after I left to head back to College, before passing away. She was crying for me, and sadly, I wasn’t able to answer her back. Our pets are magnificent creatures that experience a lot of the same things we go through. Sadly, their lives are far too short, and their deaths are always heartbreaking.
Sign...... I just lost my girl to Kidney Disease its horrible, she had ups and downs. She was very strong in spirit and mental strength, the pain she must have been in. Yet she refused to go down for my sake. Her levels were astronomical yet she was still up and walking albeit painful. When she was given the sedative we were surprised to see her still standing including the vet. She really didn't want to go down I held and hugged her told her it was okay, but she still fought. She taught me so much I miss her. Love you big girl
Just lost my cat in my hands yesterday honestly didn't understand before how much of an impact it would be. These cats dogs etc are in our daily lives and seeing them as family. I miss my cat so much . My house feels empty without her
Jaaay i treated my cat like it was a human being. I treated him like a king. I gave him all that he could have wished for. We would always play around and fight. I tried to make him stronger. He would also protect me from strangers he would chase stray dogs away. He truely was my protector i love you
I just lost my hamster an hour ago. I know hamsters are small but she meant everything to me. I’m 20 years old and never had a dog or cat (bc my family is allergic) she was the first pet I’ve ever had and was my whole life during 2020 and got me through quarantine. I love animals so much and never having one prior I feel like all my pet love that has been building up over the years went into caring for her and I genuinely feel like I lost a part of me and part of my daily source of happiness. she was the sweetest and cutest hamster I’ve ever seen and lives to be almost 3. I miss her so much.
Came back from my first solo vacation today and my family told me that my cat of 10 years had passed while I was gone after I went around the house looking for him. As a kid who was bullied in elementary and middle school, Kitty meant everything to me. I miss him so much.
Yes, i just called my dog's name into the garden where she loved to stay until dark. She loved the evening breeze and sunset. It feels like she is sitting there somewhere and enjoying as usual. I called her name several times. But she didn't return. My tears are overflowing and my heart is ache. May God understands my heart is so broken and i miss her.I am sitting here all alone crying and crying, it feels like i am in hell right ow or everlasting night mare.
I am so sorry for your loss. You're absolutely right-losing someone that you truly loved is devastating. I hope your hamster went peacefully and without pain.
What hurts is you expect your pet to be waiting for you outside your door because you're so used to it by then but they're not there anymore and the moment of realisation hits everytime you open the door
Hardest thing for me is when I shake the cat food bag my little buddy isn't there with the other cats all walking towards me, and when I go to the bathroom used to be his favorite area he doesnt climb outta the cabinet to greet me on the toilet or paw and meow till I pick him up and turn on the bathroom faucet so he can drink.. I'll always love you Napoleon
I lost my dog today. He was just 10 months old too young to die. A car hit him in the head and he died instantly but the car owner didn’t have the decency to stop and own up to it he just ran away. I miss my baby so much he was my everything idk how I’m gon’a continue living without him. 😭😭😭
@@Ellobuhbyehair I'm sorry for your loss, that's terrible. I hope I can provide comfort. I'm here if you want to talk. I'm sure your dog was happy with the time he/she had
I lost my cat yesterday. I was coming home from somewhere and got told that my cat, had to be put down because she had been very very sick. I didn't get to say goodbye, she passed away just before my birthday and I miss her so much, she always had this high pitched meow that was adorable and she always meowed, she purred 24/7 and she wanted company every single day. When I was sad she would always make me happy, and she loved me just like I loved her.
I am going to loose my cat this monday. He has been with me my entire life and I don’t know what life is going to be like anymore. No more morning cuddles, no more scratching on my bed so I will pick him up, no more meowing so I will open the door to let him play outside and sniff the air. It’s so hard. I cant stop crying
My 12 y.o. cat passed away yesterday. I miss her so so much, i can't stop crying and I really can't believe she is gone! I got her when I was 7 years old and she helped me get through a lot! I love her so very much and I will never ever forget her
Just had to put down my miniature Schnauzer today. First time I have shed a tear in front of my family. I've never experienced something that impacted me so much like losing my best friend. 11/30/09 - 1/19/18. R.I.P and I'll see you again soon enough.
Being an introvert, and an antisocial mess, I really had nobody but my furbaby. She was the light in my darkest times. When I lost her, I lost a part of me. They say there are worse things than death - this is it. Every mean things I did to her, hurts me now 1000 times more. She passed unexpectedly, and I feel so much regret and hatred for myself. I didn't even get to say goodbye. I wish I could do things differently, but most of all I wish I could hold her once again, and say "I'm truly sorry, and that I love you, don't ever forget that. Thank you for being a part of my life, and for loving me so unconditionally. Rest in peace." 😭💕
Atom Sim I'm so sorry for your loss. Please do not let yourself be overwhelmed with guilt. We all do wrong. I'm sure your fur baby felt your love. I do not know whether you will see your pet again, but I can assure you that God never meant for animals to die by disease, predation or other horrible things. He meant for them to live long and happily and then their lifespans would end peacefully. Look forward to the day when you can enjoy animals and not have the unrelenting pain when they pass away. You will miss them but you will have no painful memories, only very precious memories of happy times with all the animals that you love.
I lost my puppy yesterday and I'm heart broken :( he was only 7 months old but he was my best friend and he never left my side.i just miss him so much.
Janis Ian I feel this I lost my 6th month old baby cocoa recently she got ran over and the amount of pain I continue to feel is unbearable it’s about to be a month on the 7th of July but I still find myself crying in the parking lots before going into work or in the most random places because I get this lingering feeling within me that I can’t shake about how I will never get to enjoy her love again and it kills me.
Jocelin Mel me too. My lovely little boy died 3 weeks and 1 day ago and I miss him so much it hurts. I miss the feelings of my hands touching his soft fur, I miss his scent when I kiss him and I miss how he would kiss me back...I just keep getting so emotional at unexpected moments and places that sometimes it’s so hard to hold back my tears when I was at work and talking to customers the reality that he’s not waiting for me at home after a hard working day just hit me and I feel devastated...I miss my little May so much...I wish I had loved him more, cared for him more and showed him how much I love him every single day that we had together...now that time of me and him together on this world has gone and I am filled with regrets...I realise there is nothing, nothing I could do that will get him back to me and it hurts... he had always been there for me, always been there for me...like no one in this world has been...
Khanh Hong Nguyen the only thing I can tell you is that it never really goes away. It’s been 3 months for me now almost 4 and I still feel empty and sometimes I even pet the air because I miss her being around. She was my world and continues to be my world. But one thing that puts me at ease is that I know that one day I’ll see her again and she’ll see me. It is a sad thought to know she is probably confused and misses me and my family but if I do cross paths with her again I’ll make sure she knows just how much I missed her .
Had to say goodbye to my best friend two days ago. She was with me and by my side for a little over 11 years. She would comfort me even before I felt upset and she would always make me laugh when I needed cheering up. A dog, or any kind of animal, is not just a dog/pet. It's an individual, a soul, a best friend and companion. Unconditional love that runs so deep it's almost magical. Don't care about people thinking you're silly or whatnot. Grieve the way you need to. I know I am and I'll always miss you, Toya. I'll always remember you. Thank you for everything.
Just lost my cat this morning. He has been with me for nineteen years and you writing about "unconditional love that runs so deep it's almost magical" is everything to me right now. Thank you. So sorry for your loss.
I`m here to support everyone who has lost their pet. My dachshund has passed away this morning in front of my eyes. My sweet boy Charlie. Heart attack. I`m devastated. He`s been my best friend for 12 years since I was a kid. We are to be grateful for all the happy moments we shared together and always remmember them 💔 Don`t be shy to express your grief, write a thank-you letter or make something in his (her) memory. I`m about to paint a picture. God rest his (her) soul 🙏
My beautiful long haired dachshund oh, she's completely black with the biggest most beautiful black eyes you've ever seen. She developed a lump on her belly I thought was kidney stone. Turns out she has cancer. Is hard watching her get weaker every day. I just found out two weeks ago she has cancer. A lot of blood in her urine. I'm having a hard time dealing with it. I have three other dachshunds to care for and a cat. I watch them play. Well my sick Chrissy oh, that's her name oh, just lay there on the sofa uninterested. I'm spoon-feeding her with the baby spoon, in syringe feeding her water.
My dog is dying, and we probably have a month, maybe longer but I’ve had her for almost my whole life ( I’m 13 ) and I’m sooooo sad to be losing not my dog, not my best friend, but my family, because she is my family, she is so near and dear to me that I cannot express my love for her! If you could take a minute to blow a kiss to crystal I, and her would appreciate it 😊 thank you
I lost my dog 2 days ago and I’m having the hardest time. My family and I had Lily for almost 12 years. She was our everything, our baby, our joy. Losing her has completely crushed us. But it brings comfort to see how so many others know how we feel. To all those who have lost your baby, my heart goes out to you.
I lost my cat yesterday, I keep on crying I still want to open tge backdoor to see her. I regret every moment i didnt cuddle her pet her when she wanted to. Every time i didnt have time for her. Shes been with me since her birth, for years trough my depression she was the reason to go on, to get up from from my bed. Tonight i kept dreaming of trying to find her spirit but i didnt and it broke my heart. Even in my sleep i couldnt ascape these feelings of loss regret and enormes guilt. Sissi 08 07 2005 - 16 12 2017 I never forgive myself for her death. No matter what anyone says i promest her i would take care of her.
Esther Hulst I understand how you felt and I’m feeling the same way....there are moments when the feeling of regrets is just so enormous and I’m feeling like being drown in guilts and in my memories of my little dog... Don’t be so harsh on yourself and I hope you are feeling better now...
I feel guilty for letting my cat out. Not knowing it would have lead it to its death. Its clearly my fault he's dead. I hope he forgive me i gave him all a human could have given to an animal. He would always wake me up on mornings. It makes me so sad i can almost see him walking around my house and meowing at me. I think im going crazy over him i love and miss him so much. RIP my little buddy ❤️ you were my bestfriend
I'm so sorry. I just lost my cat last night and he had gotten sick and was breathing heavily from being outside. Idk what happened to him but his breathing was heavy and it just got worse... I didn't know any better and he eventually had a seizure in my arms. Its absolutely devastating. 😭
I lost my cat today. I grew up with her. Her last consious moments were on my lap💛. I love her so much and the thought of never cuddling her again is just heartbreaking.
kraniuz I'm so sorry for your loss. I first of all think that feelings of guilt are always normal. I think that I should've cuddled her more for example. Remember that you probably spared your dog a lot of suffering. Another thing that really helps me is to allow myself to be sad. Try to find a lot of distractions throughout the day, so you don't sit at home feeling depressed. But when tears are coming, let them. It's an important part of grieving. Hope I helped you a bit☺ Good luck.
LittleFairySparkles thank you for your words. Yeah I think the guilt is the toughest part but I know I was a great dog Dad to her. Just argue in my head about the timing of everything
I just lost my turtle.😭 She was the youngest of the other three I have, and she had an eye infection for weeks. She couldn't see her food so she couldn't eat it, and the eyedrops weren't working. We didn't have enough to take her to the vet, so all we did is pray the eyedrops would do their job. RIP. People will say "it's just a turtle" but she meant so much to me. Turtles are my therapy, and I feel like I had a bond with them.
Good luck everyone. We are in this together. We all have to just get through this. Time continues to move on and loss feels temporary. Even if it feels like the end, you/we all will move on and feel happiness and not sadness. Stay strong everybody
@@selincagatay1017 mine passed away yesterday. She crossed the rainbow bridge to meet with his mate. They are no mor in pain. So sorry for your loss. It's hitting me so hard💔 im shattered and lost. I feel so much pain physiy and mentally. But i know that time and grief will heal
My Maltese dog died three days ago. He was the best. Lost him at only six months. Only. It breaks my heart to know people lost their pets 12 years, I didn’t even get a chance. We both didn’t even get a chance
My baby girl died the 7th of this month and I cry every day. I miss her so damn much. I just cannot get over it. I miss my baby, she was mine ! She was my company, she was 100% okay and then all of a sudden 2 days later she was gone. It was too quick , I wasn't ready, I need her and I miss her so damn much. She was my child ! I have no one else. I only had her. I can't be without her.
My dog had epilepsy and I had to put her down last night. She was only 6, seeing her happy and wagging her tail like nothing was wrong makes me feel like a horrible person. There wasn't any other option but it doesn't help me feel any better. Cherish your pets, because they may not be there tomorrow. You may not be able to tell them "I love you" one last time or take them for one last walk. R.I.P. Willow 4/30/13 - 11/24/19
My dog also has epilepsy since last year and he has a bad one yesterday morning. He is in hospital now but he doesnt get better. If he doesnt her better in two days we will have to put him down. I feel horrible and i cant think i can live without him. He is my brother and i love him so much. We got him when i was 6 and now im 20.
I feel that last part so much. Lost my dog today. God what I'd give to tell him I love him again. Id sell my soul to see him for a while. It hurts. My feelings go out to all those who have lost and will in the future lose theirs.
She was my best friend, went through everything with me. I don’t know what I can do without her. Love you Ruby, I would do anything to have 1 more second with you❤️🐱
My dog was put down today. Again, he was more than just a dog to me, he was my best friend. Wherever I went, he followed me. If I sat on the couch, he would jump up and snuggle into me. One day your hugging and playing ball with your dog and the next, your burying his ashes. Life is too short but all I can say is he is in a better place now😭💔🐶🙏
I lost my dog this night and I spent 8 hours crying and still crying for him. I miss him so much, but I'm happy my dog is no longer in pain, rest well my dog...♡
I’m so sad , my baby died just yesterday . He escaped from the gate and a neighborhood came to my door and said he ran over my dog😭he was only 8months and I can’t believe I lost him so soon, I feel empty I feel like my life is a whole dream , I want to see him again and hug him like me and him always do, I can’t stop crying and I just wish he was here and I wish I would have prevented his death, I’m so sad , I wish I could hug him tight in my arms and never let him go ❤️rip baby 10.16.17😭💓
Same here last night. My sweet honey ive lost pepole and it didnt hurt this much. I love her and it is just like a dream i wanna wake up to be able to love her. I pray for you both love you guys and hope god lightens your path with love.
My dog just got ran over today. I'm jealous of these people who got to euthanize their dogs. I found my dog dead because no one came to me to tell me. He was missing and when I finally found him he was there, dead. It's so painful, how are you doing now?
My dog died this morning. Found his body out the front of our house. We left the gate open. I grew up with him and now I can’t believe he’s gone. I can’t believe how easily it happened while I was sleeping.
My cat just got ran over and im crying my heart out. Such bad things been happening to me lately i am very sad about it nothing can make me feel better. I feel sick to death right now. I have a major headache im just holding his box and all his stuff crying my heart out. Love you my little angel 😭😭😭
I lost my cat, Gus, this afternoon. Sweetest cat ever and he’s been with me since I was a newborn. He was so sweet and kind and I’m dedicating the rest of my life to being a better person because of him. Rest in piece Gussy, you will not ever be forgotten.
I lost my dog when I was 7 and it was the hardest thing I had to deal with I'm still not over it but I know one day I will see her again but it hurts so much after all I felt like I lost a part of my soul that that I can never get back.
Just found this! I know exactly what that man is going through! I had to put the centre of my universe to sleep last week! There’s no way to describe the pain! I feel like someone put a dagger through my heart! I just pray to God for the strength to carry on! Only those who have experienced the bond of a dog can understand! Devastating!
You are absolutely right. They had to put my Harley to sleep on August 27, 2020. It has been just over two months and I still feel like my heart is absolutely hollow it actually hurts in my chest. I cried my eyes out every single day I don’t know how I’m going to ever recover from this tremendous loss. But I can tell you this, the only thing that gives me any peace and comfort at all is knowing that he is In heaven waiting for me! If you are a born again Christian, a follower of Jesus Christ you will see your pets again. They are waiting in heaven for us looking for us, please make sure that you show up! May God bless and keep us everyone!
I feel your pain Mia. I know it’s been over a year for you with your loss and I am so sorry. I just put my baby down last night. We’ve had him almost 15 years. I can’t stop crying and I have no idea if I ever will stop. He was a huge part of our lives everyday. I hope you are finally able to cope with your loss and that the pain in your heart has eased up.
This made me cry so hard. I'm surrounded by people who only see pets as... they have a different meaning for pets, pets are like a part of a picture for them... I couldnt decipher the pain I felt, and acknowledge it when I lost my cat because common sense said: OK you're over acting, it's just a cat.. FOR ME, I love the way he listens to Ed Sheeran in the middle of the afternoon and fights sleep but fails... I love when he gets curious about sounds and climbs the windows, I love his blue eyes dilating when he's excited then turn to slits when he's calm or just doesnt care... My gosh.. I miss him, but he's in a better place now.
I lost my guinea pig 3 hours ago. His life was pretty rubbish. I kept making promises to make his living conditions better the past five years but couldn't be bothered, or, as I liked to tell myself I wanted to avoid bickering with my family because we always fought over the topic of our guinea pigs and how they should live. I kept convincing myself that wanting to spend time with them is enough, that I was being a good person focusing on my studies and family values, that the guinea pigs didn't like my company anyway. Always worried this day would come. I'd worry about it sleepless, convincing myself that I was overthinking, just to get through the rest of my day. It's different mistreating a human because you know they have their own strength to be okay eventually and they are able to depend on themselves. With a pet their fate lies in your hands, and if you can't give them a good life it is entirely your fault if they die miserable. And that's what happened, and I found out just after having a mental breakdown.
Don't beat yourself too much. You are just a human and its so hard when we know we are responsible and yet sometimes its almost impossible to have everything under our control no matter how much we care, but i know what you are talking about, endless sleepless nights feeling guilty because just like you said - its different with pets, their life is completely in our hands....The best thing to do for yourself is to take care of some other animal in need and there are plenty at the shelters everywhere. That is what I am doing. I felt obligated to do more with my life and there is no greater purpose and no better way to use my life than to help those that are completely helpless. I also thought before the most important thing is to do well in school and then in career, that is 'success" but now i consider those things secondary to the only way i can live my life successfully and that is do as much as i can for the helpless creatures that need is so much and that cannot do anything for themselves...but the best part is - they bring so much happiness!! No human could ever bring so much joy as an animal can. At least that is the case with me and i was extremely dedicated and loyal to humans as well but all i got in return is disappointment so i've decided i am not going to waste my life like that anymore ...i used to walk my dog by the ocean and miss human presence but now i cherish the quiet times with my dog away from all the human 'drama. PS " All his life he tried to be a good person. Many times, however, he failed. For after all, he was only human. He wasn't a dog." Charles M. Schulz
Thanks so much. It's nice to know someone isn't blaming and spitting on my incompetence, laziness, stupidity, selfishness and pure delusional lack of common sense for once (look at that I'm victimizing myself). :') I find it very difficult to accept that everyone, especially myself, at any given point of their life no matter what decision they are making, for whatever reason are trying their very best and somehow our mind has, regardless how much knowledge and logical wisdom we possess against it, rationalized that this is the action we must take. As a society we've overlooked that concept of compassion and are focusing on making sure the decisions we make in the future by putting absolute shame and disgust on previous and current ones, not saying that our faults are with the flawed design of our minds and we ourselves are not obligated to fix the problem (but hey, look at me thinking I'm making rational points and criticizing others). Funny thing about me being 'only human', is that I, by others who know me, am not even considered up to the standard of human yet. But yeah, thank you again for taking time out of your life for being so incredibly kind and writing such comforting words for someone you don't even know, I am humbled by your generosity, I hope what I've written mirrors the magnitude of my appreciation. Sorry if that was really cheesy and took too long to read, I'm absolutely floored if you've made it this far. It's been a mountain-surface-rough few days.
Actually I loved your reply and it wasn't too long(or 'cheesy" lol) ! I think about all the same issues you mentioned and I also felt almost a 'disgust' on how irresponsible and cruel people can be and I realized they are that way because its easier to close our eyes on all the pain and suffering in the world we cause every day by not wanting to take the responsibility for own actions, regardless of what others are doing (or not doing). We should never turn the blind eye to our own flaws so that our ego doesn't get hurt. We should be courageous enough to admit to ourselves our mistakes but what we should NOT do is keep blaming ourselves and that way let our guilt prevent us from doing the right thing in the future. I liked your post because I see that you recognize it all, in yourself and others, but you should put a stop to that 'blame game' because it will only demobilize you and prevent you from making necessary changes TODAY, and will also alienate you from the rest of the world. So recognize when you or somebody else does something wrong but don't hold it against them or yourself, just DO the right thing any time you can and don't dwell on your feelings or past mistakes. There is also no point in arguing with those that still do not understand our responsibilities as humans on this planet, but show them by your example how it is (should) be done. People do not like being judged so when we talk about these issues we should never put them on the spot, but live your life in a way so there is a message (of love and gentleness and humility) in there and the message is that you have the understanding for your own as well at the flaws of others but don't let that knowledge be a burden to you and something that will be preventing you from changing the situation, a little by little , each day , without looking back and how you were before and all the 'wrong decisions' you made. If you could have, you would have done it differently!! The only way to "correct" the past is by doing the good deeds today, every day, and if you mess up again, just keep going. You can deal with your guilt by doing good things you would not have done if you did not make mistakes before, how about that? Think about that but don't spend too much time thinking, act on it, and you will see that rewards are far greater than the work invested. So, start fixing this world, every person counts, every little action counts. Start with those that are helpless the most. The funny thing is, we think we are helping them, but we are also helping ourselves because it brings us gentleness and humility and clarity of mind like nothing else could. Remember: "Love is a bridge between us and everything else" Good Luck to you :)
Humble Eurus i know how that feels. I just lost one of my birds. She just got sick this morning and was unable to do anything. But i know it will get better and shes in a better pkace
One of my biggest fears is losing my dog. There are moments when I cry just thinking about it and moments were I wonder if I'll ever get another dog after her. I try to not think about it so hard and just enjoy the fact that she's still here with me but the older she gets and more aging signs I see, the harder it is. I worry that I'll end up grieve too much. I hate when people act like it's not that big of a deal. "Oh you can just get another dog." or "Why are you so emotional about it, it's not like it was a person?" I use to worry that people would think I'm weird if I took too long to get over her death. I'm still working on realizing that to some people, when you've formed such a beautiful emotional bond with your pet losing them is losing an entire part of yourself. And it's ok to grieve and be as emotional as you want. And until that time comes I need to not worry so much about it and give her my love when she's alive to feel it.
Yep, I used to dread the idea of losing my dog and now it is my reality.. I’ve been in a fog for a week and it is a horrible feeling. There is no answer just embrace what you have and when the time comes I hope you have people around you to help.
I lost my dog on Tuesday. I’ve been crying for days. My eyes are swollen from crying so much and I can’t stop thinking about him. Next month he would have been 17. He was my boyfriends dog but I knew him and lived with him for 9 years. It just feels like a nightmare that I just want to wake up from. I want to hold him and love him so bad. The pain of losing a loyal and sweet animal is absolutely excruciating. My heart is broken. I will love him and think about him for the rest of my life.
my dog is not dead but i get teary when i see my dog growing up so fast that i hate to loose him. if i can slow time and spend more memories with him...
My entire body and soul is scattered into pieces. She was more than just a dog. I can’t believe how painful it is. Someone help I can’t take it please 💔💔
I lost my cat of 12 years recentally, as a guy who never shows emotion I will admit it hit me like a truck. I unfortunetally had to put him down about 5 months early so he wouldnt be in pain due to an illness which was the hardest part knowing I could have had more time with him. The house is almost silent with him gone and it feels like a lost my best friend. I'm happy he didn't suffer due to the illness but I do miss him greatly.
Your story is just like mine. My 12 years old cat had enlarged kidneys. I took him in because he had rapid breathing and they said even though he acted mostly normal, he was in pain and hiding it. I definitely think about how I could've had more time with him, but I respected my cat and knew if I had a choice to go quickly with dignity, I would... So I did the same for him. I'm not a very emotional person normally, but this has broke me down hardcore. It's been 2 weeks today and I'm still crying everyday. Sometimes so hard, I can hardly breathe. 💔 My other cat seems to see his Spirit and informs me when he's there. I've also gotten lots of signs from him so I know he's not upset with me for letting him go too early. I hope you are ok now. Did you adopt another pet yet? I hear the lost pet picks them out for you. 🌈🥰😸
Ryan Palmer I’m so sorry for your loss, my dog died last night after being grabbed by a coyote it’s the worst man dogs are more than just pets their family... mine was also 14
@@gersidi darling, right now its okay to feel angry, confused, and to be in so much pain. Sit with it, sit with it, sit with it. Cry it out. I 100% understand what youre going through and im sending you all my love from the bottom of my heart! Only time will heal and i hope your baby parrot is in a more beautiful place💛
My ferret, Bear, just passed yesterday. I can’t think or eat or sleep. Seeing him sick and suffering is something I will never forget but I also won’t forget the unconditional love he offered into my life. I love that little troublemaker and I will always. I will never forget you Bear. may you rest in peace
My heart hurts so much. My cat died this morning after being with him since the day he was born 14 years ago. It hurts more than I ever knew it could. All he’s ever wanted was to love and be loved. He was SO GOOD. I will always love you Cupid. 😻
Unfortunately today I know exactly how he feels. Today I lost my dog, Lacey after 14 beautiful years. I never knew how it would feel to grieve a pet. She was my first dog. A loving, very smart and beautiful Cocker Spaniel. Thank you Lacey for being my support. I will miss you!! 🐕
I lost my dog yesterday she could barley walk anywhere she came out of the bush and never left she was already an adult when I got her and only had her for 3.75 years
I got my doggie Beatrice from the pound 2 years ago, she was 5. It was obvious she was abused previously, and it took a while for her to gain my trust. I showered her with love. Free from her cage she ran free and happy on my 2 acres here in AZ. She lost her battle with kidney failure, and was humanely euthanized today. I know I did the right thing, she isn't suffering, and I know I will see her again. Thanks for posting your comment, your dog still remembers you!
Groovyman 1968 So sorry to hear this. Almost a year later since I've seen my girl (in pic) and still grieve at times. It sounds like you have your dog an amazing life and I love hearing you got Beatrice from the pound. May she run free in Heaven now. God bless her soul.
Just had to put my cat Roscoe down today. He was very sick so I just had to end his suffering as he was very unhappy and barely moving. Losing him has honestly left the biggest hole in my heart and I will forever miss him. Our furry companions play a big part in our lives as they give us unconditional love no matter what mood they are in. They are nothing less than family. My heart goes to anyone who has lost a beloved pet and if you have pets still with you today, make sure you give them a big hug ❤ Rest in love Roscoe my boy ❤️
Roscoe sounds like a beautiful cat. I am so sorry for your loss. You can never forget those beautiful moments they shared with you, and how significant they were to your life. I hope you and your loved ones are doing well. May Roscoe’s life continue to live on in your heart. ❤️
Welp, tomorrow we are going to put my childhood dog down. She lived a good life, 14 years. But, she's in pain. She has been having a lot of blood in her pee and there's nothing we can do. Rest in peace, Roxy.... I hope everyone has a great day! :')
It’s dire, I lost my main man last month and sometimes I will think he is still here and then realise. Life feels empty if I’m honest, even when it’s full of others who I love etc.
I lost my dog max on Christmas morning over 10 years ago, he was my first dog when I turned 13. I understand the irony, I’m so sorry I’m about to lose my second dog and its terrible. It’s does get easier but you never forget.
My ginuea pig passed away yesterday and her cage is still up and I miss her so much and life will never be the same without her and I'm crying right now
I just wanna say I love every single one of you in the comments cuz It takes a big heart and so much courage to love a pet mostly cause we humans understand so well that our bond is only temporary... yet we do it often and with grace, no fear, no hesitation to potentially get our hearts broken. I think it says a lot about us. We know the pain is worth it for the love we get in return. 💗 Rest in paradise my fur babies.
I lost my beloved cat just a few hours ago. He would have turned 3 in August. He was everything to me and helped me through so much. It was totally unexpected, he died because of a heart disease no one knew about, no one even knew if he was suffering and how long. I just wish he didn’t have to suffer and that he may Rest In Peace.
My dog just died today. She was 17.5 years old Maltese. I had her since i was in middle school (14yrs old) until now (31 years old). She was the most precious thing to me and It's so hard to believe that she is gone. I came home expecting her to greet me but the realization that she is gone from this world really got to me today. I will miss you so much, Snoop. Please know that I loved you so much and I'm so thankful to have had such an amazing dog like you for the past 17 years. Please rest well.
We're putting my dog down this morning I got her when I was 6 and I'm 12 now. She had lymphoma and it just got too much for her she had so much life left though. I miss her already.
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just lost my childhood dog this morning.. harder then you'd think
And now, as of yesterday, almost 5 years and 1 month after my dog passed away, my childhood cat passed away at home at the age of almost 16.
He will be deeply missed
Kyle Knighten mine is going to sleep tomorrow it's like pain I've never felt
The Douglas very very hard.
Morgan White I'm more at peace now. She was very old and ill, And it was just so sad to see her in that condition.. she's better off now. And it now just feels like I got something off my chest. Because all I did was sorry about her before
The Douglas Yes, my dog was run over when he was a puppy and could never jump or anything after. He had terrible arthritis, and I know it's for the best. He's much happier now.
I lost my child hood friend 2 hours ago ... the pain is too much
losing a pet is like. losing part of yourself... these animals. love ud unconditionally. i just lost my 14yr old dalmatian & i. cannot stop the tears even if i am. physically drained
D Pagne even though my little chicken was 5 weeks old, I was devastated when she died
Its not a big deal bitch...
Rip
I lost my first dog at age 14 and its been 3 years, I still miss her. I 100% agree with what you said. Its like actually losing a family member and you never really move on. U just learn to deal with how it feels over time. It gets better over time but you'll still miss them and remember.
I honestly agree with you. Just recently, Our ten year old black labrador Lady, just passed away after losing the battle against pneumonia. It is by far a dark day, not just on me, but on my family as well. Losing a pet is like a nightmare turned real. It gets so hard to the point of breaking down and crying until your eyes are red. The hardest part for me was trying to move on, but the pain is real... so real, I kept thinking about her. It made me wish I could've done something to prevent it.
I’ve never felt this terrible. Just lost her 15 minutes before I left for school this morning
Zevy I’m sorry to hear that, my friend. It’s been about two weeks and it’s still hard as hell, but just keep pushing. It gets easier as your mind processes it. Memories with him/her that make you sad now, will make you happy later on. I promise :)
My baby, he got diagnosed with cancer today.
same , I had a baby chick , I still can hear her voice rn although she's dead , I can't explain how much I adore her , I can't get over it , I can't stop crying it's all my fault , I put her on my arm and that was when she fell asleep but I woke up at night and was like where tf is she , my sis turned the lights on and I saw her dead behind me , turned out I moved when I was sleeping and couldn't control myself bc I was sleeping . idk if I accidentally layed my arm or body on her , it's all my fault , maybe if I didn't put her besides me , wtf is wrong with me , she'd be laying on my neck now with her little cute furry body warming up my neck , we'd be playing and she'd still be following me , please tell me something and help me , I'm crying as I'm writing this. my dad doesn't understand why I'm so devastated... he even screamed at me bc I was crying about her, I miss her so much , I love her so much , I'm never getting another pet it only causes pain after all the happiness... I can't stop blaming myself , I hope she only died by herself because of nothing or because she was sick. (cause her siblings died too and that adds a lot to my pain bc I couldn't help them at all I just watched them , fed them and warmed them up hoping and crying they'd get stronger and be alive eventually but it didn't work. ) I hope it isn't my fault sinse I found her body besides me not under me . and she was closing her eyes which means she died during sleeping ( I'm gonna copy paste I need motivation now )
I put my dog to sleep and I cried for months and months. I finally adopted a new dog because I couldn’t cope anymore. It’s very hard.
@@sunshinesweetlove8238 hope all is well for you right now. I just adopted a new puppy a month and a half ago and it certainly has helped. Still have some difficult nights though. Much love, anyway❤️
I just lost my cat. I still expect him to be sitting at the end of my bed, purring. I miss him so much.
Rest in peace, Mango
Edit: i haven't checked this comment in awhile so sorry for being late. For all those who have replied, thank you for your words and i'm so sorry for all of your losses. I know it's hard, but I hope you are all well :)))
Aww rip💔🙏🏼🙏🏼
also lost my cat this morning (late) but I hope you're okay now :')
I also miss my cat and him sleeping and purring at the end of my bed too! Though I don't know if he's gone now. He was sick and he went to the back of our house where there are trees and bushes. I feel very sad. :(
Isabella A I lost my cat named Tom, I used to have 3 but he was my favorite, I’ve had him for 5 years and he was my first cat in my life, he ran away 3 months ago and I haven’t seen him but I still think about him all the time 😣
I just lost my cat Winslow this morning, he was turning 4 this year.
Hey it's a devastating thing. When pets become part of your family be they pass away it's like losing a member of your human family. Rough as hell
j2times2006 so true):
It is like I lost a family member too. My little cat died from eating crab. I didn't know he was allergic
j2times2006 it's true I can't stop crying and screaming I just remember his name and oof I'm crying again
@Aallison K I agree with you and understand what u are feeling...Today I lost my dog and it 's the hardest thing to deal with so far. From my relationship with my dog I see and felt what unconditional love was so I tell my friends now...if you ever want unconditional love get a dog.
@Aallison K Hmmm...I feel you
This weekend was hard for me, getting up, not seeing her around and off to work this morning and my morning routine has changed now....it's hard to take, I know it's going to take awhile for me to move on. I miss her so much
My dog was with me for 16 years, my best friend, only being I could be around 24/7 and never get tired of her. I loved her so very much.
Mine too! My dog was euthanized yesterday. 😥 Her 17th birthday would have been next month! Loved her so much!!! ❤
Im sorry to whom lost pets . My Max was Everything to me , more then a friend . He was Family . Im a better berson for having him in my life .🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🐕 BFF
For the first time in my life I no longer have a dog with me. I’m so used to taking care of a dog and the fellow healing my wounds in return... it feels wrong not having one now
@@candacedawn357 I am so sorry to hear, it is so hard isn't it.. they are truly a blessing in our lives.
@@factbeaglesarebest I know that feeling especially when you had so much love for them and miss them, I feel weird that I love dachshunds but I don't have one anymore, I will someday but the love I had for her.. it makes me feel guilty. Its been almost a year and half, I know the right time will come and I hope you get another dog someday too
My heart goes out to anybody who knows the agony of loosing a beloved pet. So may people just do not understand the tremendous loss it is to loose their pet, and I wish I could put into words how utterly heart wrenching it is. I lost my sweet Niki (a female yellow lab) 17 years ago, and to this day, I still miss her and still get choked up just thinking about her. RIP Lulu
My best friend just passed away today, her name was Daisy and she was a 9 year old boxer. Shes been my best friend since I was 7 and the pain is agonizing. She died laying with me on the couch, I knew she was gonna pass away but it still caught me by surprise. She was very weak and didnt eat much all week, she was breathing heavy and I knew this was it so I played down with her on the couch and watched dragonball z. She looked up at me, gave me a kiss and I could feel her heart and lungs stop working as her muscles tensed up. I petted her, kissed her, told her how much I love her and that she was my best friend until her muscles relaxed and she stopped breathing. Hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I didnt cry this much even when my grandma died. People think losing a pet is easy but to me she wasnt a pet she was my best friend. It's really hard for me, she was there for me when I had nobody else. Atleast shes in a better place now. R.I.P Daisy, I will always love you and I thank you for everything you've done for me.
These posts scare me. Thinking about losing them terrifies me because I know how bad it's gonna hurt.
@@Rouxgarou96 Has the pain gotten better? I lost my dog a month and a day ago and I feel like it's getting harder again.
@@jennadavis8505 Kind of, I still think about her often. I mean shes been my best friend for 9-10 years so losing her was very hard. I dont think I'll ever stop thinking about her but the pain isnt as bad as it was. I still miss her but not as much. It's a good thing I have another dog here, if I didnt then I dont know what I would've done. Anyways, I'm sorry for your loss. It's probably one of the hardest things ever to lose a family member/best friend and that's what dogs are to us. I hope you feel better.
@@jennadavis8505 i guess for everyone its different for me it was really hard for 2 to 3 years after. To this day I can't talk about her last day without crying. I still miss her and think about her often but i think u leàrn to live without them but u never completely stop missing them.
I lost my dog few hours ago the most painful thing i have gone through
Thais_brazil 90 Sorry to hear that , how are you doing now ?
How did you get through it? It just happened to me too... When does food start tasting good again? Maybe it's the shock of losing her so suddenly
My lungs and heart hurt I’ve never cried so much. I miss and love her with all my heart, I wish I hugged her a little tighter yesterday morning.
Me too... Any suggestions would be wonderful. I’m so sorry for your loss. Or anyone else’s loss that may see this.
I've just lost mine this morning. I'm so broken.
I am 58 and just lost my dog, it's been 3 weeks now and I am still crying in tears every time I remember him , it's really painful if you don't know.
Please have faith she will be in ur heart 😊
It's been 3 months for me
So sorry for your loss I am going through the same xx
We deeply know 💔
Me too and I can't stop crying. Nobody will understand the deep bond you have with your pet. ❤️🐶
Didn't expect losing my dog to be this bad. Wish I could play with just one more time. 😔
Jim Lambert I hear you. Just lost mine today and I was not expecting it to be this bad either, but it is. So I know exactly what you had to go through.
@@lessacto how are you now?
@@lessacto +1. Just lost mine yesterday and I wasn't nearly expecting to be this heart broken over her leaving. My condolences for you all and hopefully we'll see our pups down the road.
Mine died yesterday and every time I see him in his kennel I cry
(We kept him in his kennel yesterday we are burying him today )
Jasmijn as more time passes, it does start to get easier as your tears and memories start changing from sad to happy thoughts and happy memories. But it will take a long time to totally get over it, if ever. Now and then, as we walk around the house, we’ll see or hear something that reminds of our Roxi and the sad feelings hit you again.
I’ll never see her again... I’ll never be able to tell her that I love her, or embrace her in my arms for 2 hours and I’ll never have that ever again.. I kind of feel guilty for not crying or thinking about her more than I am which is everyday after school..
I look around my room and have these memories that come back and I’ll remember her and I’ll start to tear up...
She was a chicken, and even though she wasn’t a dog or cat, she was still a huge part of my life and so important.. she was a therapy animal. I would take her to senior homes and the seniors would be so happy to see her, and I’ll never experience their joy in seeing her, next week I have to tell them that she passed away and all I’ll get from it is sadness...
She would lay in my arms for hours and not move or make noise, she never pooped while I was holding her.. I Remeber one time I was holding her in my room and I wanted to go get something so I set her down on a towel on the ground and the minute I set her down she pooped and it was so funny, idk why, but she was so adorable..
Her name was Alice, and she was a Silkie hen (google it, they’re so adorable) and even though she’s not a dog or cat she was so important to me and now I won’t ever see her or embrace her or have those awesome moments with her..
I just want to say goodbye...
I’m so sorry, I have 4 silkie chicks that we are giving away today because they can’t live in our flat anymore. I love them so much but I know they’re going to be happier in a better home. I didn’t expect anyone to have a silkie chick/chicken, they’re amazing chickens and I’ll kiss my chicks so much. 😭✨✨🎀🎀
Alexis Rose dude it’s okay it doesn’t matter what animal it was as long as you remember the good times.
All of our beloved animals are equally important ❤
I just lost my cat today we haven’t had her that long and she got out yesterday (she was a stray that we took in) and we have other feral cats outside and we couldn’t find her and she got attacked and we took her to the vet and they couldn’t do anything for her so we had to put her down. That was the hardest thing i never realized how close i was to her till she was laying in my arms i came home and her bed was there and her food and water bowl was empty and for a split second i was like “nala does have food or water” and then i was brought back to reality I miss hearing her meow and i miss her sleeping in the crook of my neck i just miss her and it hurts it hurts so bad
@@kaylee.ingram I understand your pain, lost my dog yesterday
I’m still grieving the loss of my cat I’ve had for 13 years. Taking it one day at a time.
Morgan Harrell i have a schnauzer and i have had her for 6 years i think soon she will be gone and im scared for the day she does pass. After she does pass i plan on no more pets to not have to feel the pain after.
@@Mike-ne9cw i lost my brother 2 years ago so a year ago i got a kitten and i loved her so much, she used to be in the back yard playing all time she never whent far. One day i coulnt find her and i found her far away across a road dead, i have neve seen anything that terrefieing and painfull to see all my life exept for my bro passing. she helped me with my depression but she didnt stay long with us R.i.p Lucy 😭. This was 4 days ago btw ,i still cry when i go to bed. But may be it will get better. Sry about you dog.
just lost my kitty of 17 years. i feel your pain, ive never had my heart literally hurt before, its like someone stuck dagger right in your chest and gave a good twist and turn. i believe they are still loving us though, and would want us to continue to live life and be happy. i had thoughts that i didnt want to continue life anymore without her, as she was my best friend, the one i would come home to to make my bad day better for my entire life, but then had the realization she would not want her passing to spread so much pain. now i think its best to live life to the fullest and be happy for her, and let my love for her continue as long as possible, and hope to meet one day again. i hope you are doing well
To All Of You :
My heart goes out to each and every one of you who has lost a "Fur Baby"....●♡● It's so painful.
Thanks. I lost my cat 13 hours ago, and I feel myself drowning in tears. SOOOOOO PAINFUL AND AGONIZING.
I lost my first cat two months ago,my new cat is nothing like him at all and it makes me realize how great he was. I still love my Fox but never as much as my Tiger.
My darling baby Cat Ace died 4 hours ago I miss him so much I've been crying and screaming I would die for him it's so hard to believe that he's actually dead he was so young too he didn't deserve to die so young and he even died in Christmas which makes it even worse I hate Christmas
My goat died while at my friend's house, I found out 30 minutes ago. I wasn't close with her but its still hard. She was my first ever pet even though she was a goat. My cousins and aunts knew before me. It hurts me to know that I won't hear or see her ever again.
Thank you. I lost my dog an hour ago and he was the sweetest gentle dog ever. :(
I had a fish. His name was Link Raine Hensley-Singh. He has just died, and I miss him. I know it probably sounds stupid that I'm grieving over a fish, but he was my friend, and a fish is a pet too.
Nothing stupid about that. You formed an emotional connection with another living being, it's that simple.
Nothing stupid about that.
I understand u 100%. Especially when the fish is your only pet. Not stupid about missing an animal, doesn’t matter what kind
Yes you’re not alone Badman also cope the loss of captain fishy...
I’m sorry for your loss 💔 I understand and it’s not stupid. In fact, I cried when my fish Dorthy died today. I acted fine, but I broke down. But please know if you missed him, he was probably a happy fish
It’s been almost a year and I still cry every single day. I don’t know how to cope still she was the only thing that got me through the hardest times. I’m so lost without her
i really hope you can find peace and comfort. i am also searching for the same. i just lost my kitty of 17 years, it is the hardest thing i have ever gone through. my heart literally hurts and my stomach is turning. i think we have to try our best to think of all the good times that we were able to spend with them, and that we were able to give them such a good life for as long as possible. i believe they are still loving us as well someway somehow, and would want to see us continue to live a happy life.
I totally understand what you're going through I feel the same only time will heal the wound
I’m so sorry, I’ll be praying for you ❤️
I am there now...lost our little girl March 26th and I am still so sad...she was like my baby.
my condolences, i just my lost my lil butterfly today and i dont think this hole will ever fill even if i get a replacement cat :( i feel so lost without her as well and she barely even lived her life.....
I lost my dog yesterday. I was in school then going to my classmates house. Then just got home and the first thing i heard from my father was our dog just died. It just hurts so much that I didn't get to say goodbye. I feel so guilty.
Gelo Endaya im sorry to hear about that bro :(
Gelo Endaya my dog had to be put down from cancer this morning and we just found out he had it and his kidneys were failing, I got to say goodbye but it still hurt coming home from school.
Gelo Endaya I know how that feels, I'm sorry
I'm so sorry to hurt! Don't feel guilty love the memories 💕💔
I lost my dog on Sunday 11/13/2016, and i know what you're going through. I failed him at his last moment by not getting him to the vet on time and making huge mistakes at the time. I will regret and blame myself forever. I hope my dog and your dog know that we love them very much and that we are sorry.
My dog died in my arms last Tuesday. I didn't want him to be alone when we put him to sleep. The image of him passing still haunts me. I miss my dog.
jorbjorb1 my dog just dies in my arms this morning. My dad had been by her all night and got up to go to the bathroom and I look over and my dog picked her head up like she wanted me to come over so I did. And I was petting her like I usually do and I looked down and she wasn’t breathing. It really scared the heck out of me haha but I called my dad over and she had passed. I’m glad I got to be with her though because she’s my best friend and no one deserves to die alone. 💗
My cockatiel tripped and fell from his branch a month ago.he hit his head and died in my hug while getting him to the vet...
BlockGirl 11 awwwww😓. I’m sorry!🙏😓
I wasn’t there when we had to put my dog down yesterday and I feel incredibly guilty and miss her tremendously
Rest In Peace, Goldie
Don't feel bad, I would love to spend another minute with my dog but i can't physically, but in my heart she will always be with me.
i understand your guilt, i wasn’t there for my dog and i’ve regretted it. however, i have to believe they understand our pain and know how we feel for them regardless of whether or not we were there in that one moment. they love us and we love them, and that’s all that matters.
Rest In Peace Goldie 💛
I’m going thru the same thing right now 🥺 I wasn’t there to see her get put down I’m so sorry for your loss RIP
I just lost my dog of 11 years today. I already miss him, and I still can't stop crying about it.
I know how you feel :(
Batman Injustice2 Statham oh and by the way I think red dead redemption 2 is beating whatever the fuck dead or alive 6 is, bitch ass.
@@batmaninjustice2statham534 your an ugly bald bastard ain't ya
I just lost my furbaby of 16 years. The pain is so real.
micki dumesnil me too:( my dog was almost 17 and he’s been here for me for so many years. I get so many flashbacks and I miss him so much. He was a schnauzer but he got too weak and couldn’t get up and he died later in the afternoon:( I’ll miss him but I know he’s not in pain anymore, and I’m positive about seeing him again in another life
I lost my dog of 12 years yesterday. I’ve been so depressed about it. The void is so real. Miss him so much. I was so lucky to have him in my life. Until we meet again ❤️
I lost my cockatiel of 9 years yesterday. I lost my first on in 2018. It's so tough. I couldn'y stop crying. I had a panic attack an hour ago. Im calm now but my emotions are all over the place. It feels like ptsd just thinking about it. Im going to seek therapy. It's been a year since you lost your pet. I hope you are doing better. Im so sorry about your loss.❤❤
I lost my 12 yr old boy August 29 2021 …..my heart is so broken 💔😢
@@kikihowe4799 - Lost my Lily girl of 15 years today. Cancer. The sadness is almost unbearable. I pray that I’ll find peace with it soon.
i lost my baby dog 10 years yesterday and i wasn't even there when it happened will regret it for my whole life
I lost my cat on the 28th. I miss her so badly 😿 She was my best friend for 11 years
Sorry for your loss. I lost my dog 2 days ago. The emptiness thats left behind is devastating.
Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss as well. The emptiness for me was very painful, but I adopted a cat from the shelter this month. I didn't think I could ever have another cat as my cat's loss really hit me, but it's helped me feel better. The pain is still there of course, but a new friend really helps with those feelings
I am so sorry to hear! That's a long time. My cat got run over, he was fit and healthy and full of life. Mischievous but very human like. He would climb on top of you and tap your face as if to say... stroke me! I remember also when I was a little boy when I was upset or had temper tantrums he was the only one who wasn't scared and would come up to me and tap my face and rub himself against me, he knew very well when I was upset and he helped me cope very well. Arrgh just writing this is hard! I can't describe how much I miss him there are no words :( x
Alli D same my beloved cat is dying rn. I am so sad.
Alli D aw I'm so sorry 😖
I lost my little baby poodle of 10 years. She died on the way to the vet. RIP my little one.I love you so much, Roxy!
Rosy Pie mine is called roxy as well and she is going to be put down on Tuesday 😪 she will be with her brother though :) love you roxy x
Shay My oldest dog (13 years) is also named Roxy. Fortunately she is very healthy and I love her
Shay DJ,9, Labrador retriever, on the way to vet.. this is so devastating
My dog named roxy died friday, she was a jack terrier...
Laid my baby of 12 years to rest exactly one week ago today. I knew i would be sad, but I had no idea of the pain and emptiness i would feel. It really feels like I lost an actual person. To anyone experiencing this lost PLEASE allow yourself to feel AND heal. Take it one day at a time. Be around those that truly understand your grief & don’t expect the rest of the world or even many people you know to understand. That hurt that most, but some people just won’t ever understand. You are not alone. Love and light to all of you missing your babies❤️
I lost my beloved cat a year ago tomorrow. She was 16 and the best cat I've ever seen or had. My heart still hurts.
my heart still hurts too, a year ago i lost my cat as well. christmas eve i was told she needed to be put down and my whole world felt like it had been twisted around. she was my best friend. all i can think about now is seeing her again when i’m gone.
Z Alex you will see her again in heaven
My cat died this morning. He was my everything. 2019 is off to a great start.
I am so sorry for your loss! I am sending hugs your way ❤
I know how it feels. I lost my pet two days before 2020 New Years Day
2020 too:(( lost my dog this morning😭. She was in my arms though so I’m glad I was by her
FoxFang Dusk yes haha
Do not worry my friend when the bad times are coming ,you'll know when the good times are coming
Hurts so bad. Get back home and the house feels so empty. Their energy is completely gone . Loneliness and tears is what’s left .
I lost my dog today...my heart aches 😢
@@trishb5738 I am so very sorry . :(
Yeah that shit hurts like hell..like a dark cloud but gets better over time.
I know the feeling 😢
i lost my dog a few days ago. i had to euthanize him and it was hard to watch him die. But i would rather be there to say goodbye than not. I mean im only 12 and my mom would allways tell me to spend more time with him. but i didnt listen. It is heartbreaking and it is nothing like i have ever had in my life. my mom said she found me screaming on the floor at night saying " I miss him i want him back". My point is if you have a dog spend time with him. you will never get to see him/her until the day you die after they pass. I learned my lesson the hard way. but im telling you not to
It’s too late for me😭 my dog died on Tuesday afternoon.. in the morning he was crying in pain and I was home alone and I called my mom and told her to come home fast and take care of the poor dog screaming in pain. But my mom never came home, then I come home from school and I found my dog dead😭💔 but at least he is not in pain anymore. He needed to be in peace. And at least I got to see him in the morning before he left me in tears. He was so brave to live up to 17 years:) but god wanted him back to the place where he belongs, heaven. I hope I’ll see him again in another life. I miss you Lucas❤️ R.I.P
I made the same mistake too, my dog of 15 years died this morning. My mom told me to spend time with it for the past week but I didn't realize how terrible it would be when she died. I cant stop crying.
lost my dog just 2 hours ago she had terminal cancer :(((😭
John M me too 😢
John M I'm sorry for your loss
Thank you! Everyday is a struggle :( I'm so sorry for your loss too :(
My cat had terminal cancer. The worst part was he had tumors.
John M yea man i lost my cat named max yester day from lung cancer he was only 7 years old and cats normaly live from 10-12 years so it hurts to know he died so young the funny thing is its been a day now since he died and i havent shed one tear i dunno maybe it hasent sunk in yet or something or maybe im just unintenisionaly holding my feelins in i really dont know but sorry for your losss and sorry to all anamils who die from cancer #FUCKCANCER
I lost my cat yesterday. She managed to get to 20 years old. There hasn’t been a time of my life without her, but at I’m eternally grateful for the time I had with her.
A long life a long time to enjoy her companionship. I hope the pain is lessening but all the great memories are strong. I lost my girl a Cat of nearly 16 years, I cried for days. I miss her I had cats for 35 years and now with out that companionship. I am at a age that I might not have 6 or 10 years left. I miss the coming to see what I am doing or lets play or coming to talk to me. Feels so alone for the first time since 1985. They never live long enough.
@@sweetpea2839 thank you for sharing this. Though I wrote that comment a year ago and the pain has soothed, it is still there. I hope you find a greater happiness in your future.
He, I know it's an old comment, but I just had to share this; my little boi is 22 years old and I am 27.. He got diagnosed with stage 1 heart failure, don't know how long he has.. But I couldn't agree with you more on how grateful I am to have him as a comrade for basically my whole life. I hope he stays a while longer with me.
@@R-SXX I hope your pet stays with you as long as possible. I remember before my cat died she had terrible joint problems and found it painful to work, so in a sense I am glad her suffering came to an end. Nothing lives forever, but if we love something enough we can remember them for as long as possible. I’m only 14 and my cat was alive even before I was, so when she passed, it was the first time I knew I could never see her again. But believe it when people say it gets easier; I thought I wouldn’t be able to get over it but just thinking of her every so often makes me remember that she loves a long for life which I’m very grateful of the love and affection she gave me. And thank you for making this comment - now I’ve been able to explore the feelings again and remember the great memories she gave..
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My dog Bella was more than a dog to me. My best friend, she was always there with me and barked and ran around the pool when I went swimming. She passed the basketball so u could dunk and she was more than a dog to me. She had a kidney problem that appeared out of nowhere and said we had to put her down but we decided not to to see if she would get any better and the next day she was running around the pool. But about a week later she got bad again and had some kind of attack and passed away. I made a promise to her that I would make it in professional in volleyball cause she played everything with me. I made varsity half way through sophomore year and played in playoff games. I hope to fulfill my promise and that she'll lead me to it from heaven
Sadly, pets tend to fake being better and want to appear happy and healthy in order to cause less grief for their owners when they die. I’ve sadly seen it three times now. First with my dog Callie, 8.5 years ago, two days before we were going to move into our new house (it was a Wednesday). She was also suffering from kidney problems, but on the day we were going to put her down, she appeared to be all better, and acted like she used to in order to try and make us all happy.
The second time I experienced this was with my grandparents’ (used to be my dad’s) dog named Molly. She was old, and was suffering from numerous problems like blindness, deafness, and couldn’t smell anything. During the last week with her, she was noticeably happier, as if she was at peace with what was going to happen soon.
Finally, and the most heartbreaking for me, was the passing of my cat, Jenny, yesterday. I didn’t know it at the time, but over the past 4 months, she has been showing physical signs (nothing related to health but interactions with he family in general) that she was about to die. She was always attached to me, but her approach was quicker, and she would willingly pester me for hours. She would also not stir when our other cat, our two dogs, or other people would get near her. Most tragically of them all, she would meow every night for three months until I got home, and for the two weeks after I left to head back to College, before passing away. She was crying for me, and sadly, I wasn’t able to answer her back.
Our pets are magnificent creatures that experience a lot of the same things we go through. Sadly, their lives are far too short, and their deaths are always heartbreaking.
My dog was called Bella too she died today 😣
Did the suffering go away...? How long does it take to adjust?
Sign...... I just lost my girl to Kidney Disease its horrible, she had ups and downs. She was very strong in spirit and mental strength, the pain she must have been in. Yet she refused to go down for my sake. Her levels were astronomical yet she was still up and walking albeit painful. When she was given the sedative we were surprised to see her still standing including the vet. She really didn't want to go down I held and hugged her told her it was okay, but she still fought. She taught me so much I miss her. Love you big girl
Just lost my cat in my hands yesterday honestly didn't understand before how much of an impact it would be. These cats dogs etc are in our daily lives and seeing them as family. I miss my cat so much . My house feels empty without her
Jaaay i treated my cat like it was a human being. I treated him like a king. I gave him all that he could have wished for. We would always play around and fight. I tried to make him stronger. He would also protect me from strangers he would chase stray dogs away. He truely was my protector i love you
I just lost my hamster an hour ago. I know hamsters are small but she meant everything to me. I’m 20 years old and never had a dog or cat (bc my family is allergic) she was the first pet I’ve ever had and was my whole life during 2020 and got me through quarantine. I love animals so much and never having one prior I feel like all my pet love that has been building up over the years went into caring for her and I genuinely feel like I lost a part of me and part of my daily source of happiness. she was the sweetest and cutest hamster I’ve ever seen and lives to be almost 3. I miss her so much.
I lost my bird today. I've had him from he was 3 weeks old. I miss him so much.
Came back from my first solo vacation today and my family told me that my cat of 10 years had passed while I was gone after I went around the house looking for him. As a kid who was bullied in elementary and middle school, Kitty meant everything to me. I miss him so much.
Did it ever get easier
Just lost my dog an hour ago. It’s the hardest lost I’ve ever had
How long did it take to get over it?
@@Walteralexander1 like a month
i just lost my dog 20 minutes ago. i don’t even know how to feel
@@thedrspod lost my baby boy today. Didn't expect it and thought he'd come back home to kiss and hug us. 😔
@@thedrspod hope your feeling better lost my dog at 5 years old yesterday
my dog Bona died yesterday. sometimes I called her name. I forgot she not here anymore
Same here, so sad
Yes, i just called my dog's name into the garden where she loved to stay until dark. She loved the evening breeze and sunset. It feels like she is sitting there somewhere and enjoying as usual. I called her name several times. But she didn't return. My tears are overflowing and my heart is ache. May God understands my heart is so broken and i miss her.I am sitting here all alone crying and crying, it feels like i am in hell right ow or everlasting night mare.
+jbrett yoo just want to let you know you are not alone I feel like i lost everything i been crying every night I hope everything gets better .
Same, it's horrible.
Same, every little thing reminds me of her..I don't want go forward with my life.
My hamster died..
(It's sadder than you think)
I am so sorry for your loss. You're absolutely right-losing someone that you truly loved is devastating. I hope your hamster went peacefully and without pain.
that's sad i have a hedgehog that if she died i would to
I had to euthanize my mouse just three hours ago. It’s a terrible pain. I hear you. 😢
Burnt Toast I feel you...
I have multiple small animals. I know how you feel ❤️
What hurts is you expect your pet to be waiting for you outside your door because you're so used to it by then but they're not there anymore and the moment of realisation hits everytime you open the door
Hardest thing for me is when I shake the cat food bag my little buddy isn't there with the other cats all walking towards me, and when I go to the bathroom used to be his favorite area he doesnt climb outta the cabinet to greet me on the toilet or paw and meow till I pick him up and turn on the bathroom faucet so he can drink.. I'll always love you Napoleon
I lost my dog today. He was just 10 months old too young to die. A car hit him in the head and he died instantly but the car owner didn’t have the decency to stop and own up to it he just ran away. I miss my baby so much he was my everything idk how I’m gon’a continue living without him. 😭😭😭
So so sorry
I’m so sorry
@Faye ChristieMy baby was too young as well. That's the worst part about it. My condolences to all who've lost their pet, young or old
Same thing happened to my dog today. He was only 4 😥
@@Ellobuhbyehair I'm sorry for your loss, that's terrible. I hope I can provide comfort. I'm here if you want to talk. I'm sure your dog was happy with the time he/she had
I lost my cat yesterday. I was coming home from somewhere and got told that my cat, had to be put down because she had been very very sick. I didn't get to say goodbye, she passed away just before my birthday and I miss her so much, she always had this high pitched meow that was adorable and she always meowed, she purred 24/7 and she wanted company every single day. When I was sad she would always make me happy, and she loved me just like I loved her.
I am going to loose my cat this monday. He has been with me my entire life and I don’t know what life is going to be like anymore. No more morning cuddles, no more scratching on my bed so I will pick him up, no more meowing so I will open the door to let him play outside and sniff the air. It’s so hard. I cant stop crying
My 4 years old cat died today! He was my everything. I don't know how to live without him
My 12 y.o. cat passed away yesterday. I miss her so so much, i can't stop crying and I really can't believe she is gone! I got her when I was 7 years old and she helped me get through a lot! I love her so very much and I will never ever forget her
I lost my dog in July. I would give anything for her to come back.
Feel the same way…..this pain is killing me
i lost my cat yesterday and i loved him so much and I'm still grieving over his loss but what makes me feel better is the good times i had with him.
Just had to put down my miniature Schnauzer today. First time I have shed a tear in front of my family. I've never experienced something that impacted me so much like losing my best friend. 11/30/09 - 1/19/18. R.I.P and I'll see you again soon enough.
Being an introvert, and an antisocial mess, I really had nobody but my furbaby. She was the light in my darkest times. When I lost her, I lost a part of me. They say there are worse things than death - this is it. Every mean things I did to her, hurts me now 1000 times more. She passed unexpectedly, and I feel so much regret and hatred for myself. I didn't even get to say goodbye. I wish I could do things differently, but most of all I wish I could hold her once again, and say "I'm truly sorry, and that I love you, don't ever forget that. Thank you for being a part of my life, and for loving me so unconditionally. Rest in peace." 😭💕
Atom Sim I'm so sorry for your loss. Please do not let yourself be overwhelmed with guilt. We all do wrong. I'm sure your fur baby felt your love. I do not know whether you will see your pet again, but I can assure you that God never meant for animals to die by disease, predation or other horrible things. He meant for them to live long and happily and then their lifespans would end peacefully. Look forward to the day when you can enjoy animals and not have the unrelenting pain when they pass away. You will miss them but you will have no painful memories, only very precious memories of happy times with all the animals that you love.
Thank you for sharing! I needed this today💕
I lost my puppy yesterday and I'm heart broken :( he was only 7 months old but he was my best friend and he never left my side.i just miss him so much.
Janis Ian I feel this I lost my 6th month old baby cocoa recently she got ran over and the amount of pain I continue to feel is unbearable it’s about to be a month on the 7th of July but I still find myself crying in the parking lots before going into work or in the most random places because I get this lingering feeling within me that I can’t shake about how I will never get to enjoy her love again and it kills me.
Jocelin Mel me too. My lovely little boy died 3 weeks and 1 day ago and I miss him so much it hurts. I miss the feelings of my hands touching his soft fur, I miss his scent when I kiss him and I miss how he would kiss me back...I just keep getting so emotional at unexpected moments and places that sometimes it’s so hard to hold back my tears when I was at work and talking to customers the reality that he’s not waiting for me at home after a hard working day just hit me and I feel devastated...I miss my little May so much...I wish I had loved him more, cared for him more and showed him how much I love him every single day that we had together...now that time of me and him together on this world has gone and I am filled with regrets...I realise there is nothing, nothing I could do that will get him back to me and it hurts... he had always been there for me, always been there for me...like no one in this world has been...
Khanh Hong Nguyen the only thing I can tell you is that it never really goes away. It’s been 3 months for me now almost 4 and I still feel empty and sometimes I even pet the air because I miss her being around. She was my world and continues to be my world. But one thing that puts me at ease is that I know that one day I’ll see her again and she’ll see me. It is a sad thought to know she is probably confused and misses me and my family but if I do cross paths with her again I’ll make sure she knows just how much I missed her .
Lost my cat 1 hour ago, it got hit by a speeding car. Im crying my heart out. 😭😭😭
K Jon I’m so sorry to hear that. My doggie passed away in a similar way. Hang in there.
Had to say goodbye to my best friend two days ago. She was with me and by my side for a little over 11 years. She would comfort me even before I felt upset and she would always make me laugh when I needed cheering up. A dog, or any kind of animal, is not just a dog/pet. It's an individual, a soul, a best friend and companion. Unconditional love that runs so deep it's almost magical. Don't care about people thinking you're silly or whatnot. Grieve the way you need to. I know I am and I'll always miss you, Toya. I'll always remember you. Thank you for everything.
Just lost my cat this morning. He has been with me for nineteen years and you writing about "unconditional love that runs so deep it's almost magical" is everything to me right now. Thank you. So sorry for your loss.
I`m here to support everyone who has lost their pet. My dachshund has passed away this morning in front of my eyes. My sweet boy Charlie. Heart attack. I`m devastated. He`s been my best friend for 12 years since I was a kid. We are to be grateful for all the happy moments we shared together and always remmember them 💔 Don`t be shy to express your grief, write a thank-you letter or make something in his (her) memory. I`m about to paint a picture. God rest his (her) soul 🙏
Its heartbreaking! :(
My beautiful long haired dachshund oh, she's completely black with the biggest most beautiful black eyes you've ever seen. She developed a lump on her belly I thought was kidney stone. Turns out she has cancer. Is hard watching her get weaker every day. I just found out two weeks ago she has cancer. A lot of blood in her urine. I'm having a hard time dealing with it. I have three other dachshunds to care for and a cat. I watch them play. Well my sick Chrissy oh, that's her name oh, just lay there on the sofa uninterested. I'm spoon-feeding her with the baby spoon, in syringe feeding her water.
My dog passed away today he was suffering he was my best friend and i didnt really have any friends so its really hard for me
@@hopeestheim7219 my dog just died of cancer a few hrs ago.
@@trudybarnhart2423 im so sorry man it fucking sucks man
My dog is dying, and we probably have a month, maybe longer but I’ve had her for almost my whole life ( I’m 13 ) and I’m sooooo sad to be losing not my dog, not my best friend, but my family, because she is my family, she is so near and dear to me that I cannot express my love for her!
If you could take a minute to blow a kiss to crystal I, and her would appreciate it 😊 thank you
I lost my dog 2 days ago and I’m having the hardest time. My family and I had Lily for almost 12 years. She was our everything, our baby, our joy. Losing her has completely crushed us. But it brings comfort to see how so many others know how we feel. To all those who have lost your baby, my heart goes out to you.
I lost my cat yesterday, I keep on crying I still want to open tge backdoor to see her. I regret every moment i didnt cuddle her pet her when she wanted to. Every time i didnt have time for her. Shes been with me since her birth, for years trough my depression she was the reason to go on, to get up from from my bed. Tonight i kept dreaming of trying to find her spirit but i didnt and it broke my heart. Even in my sleep i couldnt ascape these feelings of loss regret and enormes guilt.
Sissi 08 07 2005 - 16 12 2017
I never forgive myself for her death. No matter what anyone says i promest her i would take care of her.
It's sad. I just lost my dog because she couldn't breathe. 9 years isn't enough.
Priscilla Marrs did you find him??
Esther Hulst I understand how you felt and I’m feeling the same way....there are moments when the feeling of regrets is just so enormous and I’m feeling like being drown in guilts and in my memories of my little dog...
Don’t be so harsh on yourself and I hope you are feeling better now...
I feel guilty for letting my cat out. Not knowing it would have lead it to its death. Its clearly my fault he's dead. I hope he forgive me i gave him all a human could have given to an animal. He would always wake me up on mornings. It makes me so sad i can almost see him walking around my house and meowing at me. I think im going crazy over him i love and miss him so much. RIP my little buddy ❤️ you were my bestfriend
I'm so sorry. I just lost my cat last night and he had gotten sick and was breathing heavily from being outside. Idk what happened to him but his breathing was heavy and it just got worse... I didn't know any better and he eventually had a seizure in my arms. Its absolutely devastating. 😭
I lost my cat today. I grew up with her. Her last consious moments were on my lap💛. I love her so much and the thought of never cuddling her again is just heartbreaking.
I’m dying inside. Put my 16 yr old dog down today. I feel like I betrayed her. Feel like I rushed the decision. How are you dealing with it?
kraniuz I'm so sorry for your loss. I first of all think that feelings of guilt are always normal. I think that I should've cuddled her more for example. Remember that you probably spared your dog a lot of suffering.
Another thing that really helps me is to allow myself to be sad. Try to find a lot of distractions throughout the day, so you don't sit at home feeling depressed. But when tears are coming, let them. It's an important part of grieving.
Hope I helped you a bit☺ Good luck.
LittleFairySparkles thank you for your words. Yeah I think the guilt is the toughest part but I know I was a great dog Dad to her. Just argue in my head about the timing of everything
I lost my cat today, it was so hard and I can't stop crying
I mean we can cuddle instead
My bunny passed away yesterday, and my heart just hurts, it feels like there’s a ton of bricks at the bottom of my heart and I just miss him so much.
I’m sorry.
I just lost my turtle.😭 She was the youngest of the other three I have, and she had an eye infection for weeks. She couldn't see her food so she couldn't eat it, and the eyedrops weren't working. We didn't have enough to take her to the vet, so all we did is pray the eyedrops would do their job. RIP. People will say "it's just a turtle" but she meant so much to me. Turtles are my therapy, and I feel like I had a bond with them.
Enough money*
I'm Sorry A turtle is not just a turtle. A little soul is more important than anyone thinks. 🐢
Lmao make turtle stew
@@stopowo3921 One day you are going to regret this heartless comment.
It’s been 2 years I’m sitting here crying about how much I miss my furbaby
Good luck everyone. We are in this together. We all have to just get through this. Time continues to move on and loss feels temporary. Even if it feels like the end, you/we all will move on and feel happiness and not sadness. Stay strong everybody
My bird died today.
I don't think I'll ever stop crying.
Same here😭
My pet budgie died today too😔🙏
my bird died a week ago
@@selincagatay1017 mine passed away yesterday. She crossed the rainbow bridge to meet with his mate. They are no mor in pain. So sorry for your loss. It's hitting me so hard💔 im shattered and lost. I feel so much pain physiy and mentally. But i know that time and grief will heal
My Maltese dog died three days ago. He was the best. Lost him at only six months. Only. It breaks my heart to know people lost their pets 12 years, I didn’t even get a chance. We both didn’t even get a chance
My baby girl died the 7th of this month and I cry every day. I miss her so damn much. I just cannot get over it. I miss my baby, she was mine ! She was my company, she was 100% okay and then all of a sudden 2 days later she was gone. It was too quick , I wasn't ready, I need her and I miss her so damn much. She was my child ! I have no one else. I only had her. I can't be without her.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I just lost my dog of 3 1/2 years a few days ago and it's been rough on me. My dog was like my child also.
It's ok I'm here for you
I’m going through this and feel the exact same way. Sorry this happened to you I wouldnt wish it on anyone
My dog had epilepsy and I had to put her down last night. She was only 6, seeing her happy and wagging her tail like nothing was wrong makes me feel like a horrible person. There wasn't any other option but it doesn't help me feel any better. Cherish your pets, because they may not be there tomorrow. You may not be able to tell them "I love you" one last time or take them for one last walk.
R.I.P. Willow
4/30/13 - 11/24/19
My dog also has epilepsy since last year and he has a bad one yesterday morning. He is in hospital now but he doesnt get better. If he doesnt her better in two days we will have to put him down. I feel horrible and i cant think i can live without him. He is my brother and i love him so much. We got him when i was 6 and now im 20.
I lost mine this year in May cookie got sick in March and she died in May
Rip cookie
July 23, 2012 - May 30, 2020
I lost mine this year in May cookie got sick in March and she died in May
Rip cookie
July 23, 2012 - May 30, 2020
I lose my 4yr old poodle 4/26/22 suddenly from pneumonia I’m heartbroken
I feel that last part so much. Lost my dog today. God what I'd give to tell him I love him again. Id sell my soul to see him for a while. It hurts. My feelings go out to all those who have lost and will in the future lose theirs.
She was my best friend, went through everything with me. I don’t know what I can do without her. Love you Ruby, I would do anything to have 1 more second with you❤️🐱
My dog was put down today. Again, he was more than just a dog to me, he was my best friend. Wherever I went, he followed me. If I sat on the couch, he would jump up and snuggle into me. One day your hugging and playing ball with your dog and the next, your burying his ashes. Life is too short but all I can say is he is in a better place now😭💔🐶🙏
I lost my dog this night and I spent 8 hours crying and still crying for him. I miss him so much, but I'm happy my dog is no longer in pain, rest well my dog...♡
I lost my cat Sandy this morning after 17 incredible years!
I’m so sad , my baby died just yesterday . He escaped from the gate and a neighborhood came to my door and said he ran over my dog😭he was only 8months and I can’t believe I lost him so soon, I feel empty I feel like my life is a whole dream , I want to see him again and hug him like me and him always do, I can’t stop crying and I just wish he was here and I wish I would have prevented his death, I’m so sad , I wish I could hug him tight in my arms and never let him go ❤️rip baby 10.16.17😭💓
Same here last night. My sweet honey ive lost pepole and it didnt hurt this much. I love her and it is just like a dream i wanna wake up to be able to love her. I pray for you both love you guys and hope god lightens your path with love.
My dog just got ran over today. I'm jealous of these people who got to euthanize their dogs. I found my dog dead because no one came to me to tell me. He was missing and when I finally found him he was there, dead. It's so painful, how are you doing now?
My dog died this morning. Found his body out the front of our house. We left the gate open. I grew up with him and now I can’t believe he’s gone. I can’t believe how easily it happened while I was sleeping.
LuKeS happened to me too dude. I feel for you, you'll get through it.
My cat just got ran over and im crying my heart out. Such bad things been happening to me lately i am very sad about it nothing can make me feel better. I feel sick to death right now. I have a major headache im just holding his box and all his stuff crying my heart out. Love you my little angel 😭😭😭
I lost my cat, Gus, this afternoon. Sweetest cat ever and he’s been with me since I was a newborn. He was so sweet and kind and I’m dedicating the rest of my life to being a better person because of him. Rest in piece Gussy, you will not ever be forgotten.
That's lovely to read xx
I lost my dog when I was 7 and it was the hardest thing I had to deal with I'm still not over it but I know one day I will see her again but it hurts so much after all I felt like I lost a part of my soul that that I can never get back.
Just found this! I know exactly what that man is going through! I had to put the centre of my universe to sleep last week! There’s no way to describe the pain! I feel like someone put a dagger through my heart! I just pray to God for the strength to carry on! Only those who have experienced the bond of a dog can understand! Devastating!
You are absolutely right. They had to put my Harley to sleep on August 27, 2020. It has been just over two months and I still feel like my heart is absolutely hollow it actually hurts in my chest. I cried my eyes out every single day I don’t know how I’m going to ever recover from this tremendous loss. But I can tell you this, the only thing that gives me any peace and comfort at all is knowing that he is In heaven waiting for me! If you are a born again Christian, a follower of Jesus Christ you will see your pets again. They are waiting in heaven for us looking for us, please make sure that you show up! May God bless and keep us everyone!
Just lost my best friend of 15 years😭💔. Its unreal. I miss her so much. Nobody and nothing can replace her. Its so hard. Cant cope with that😢
I feel your pain Mia. I know it’s been over a year for you with your loss and I am so sorry. I just put my baby down last night. We’ve had him almost 15 years. I can’t stop crying and I have no idea if I ever will stop. He was a huge part of our lives everyday. I hope you are finally able to cope with your loss and that the pain in your heart has eased up.
This made me cry so hard. I'm surrounded by people who only see pets as... they have a different meaning for pets, pets are like a part of a picture for them... I couldnt decipher the pain I felt, and acknowledge it when I lost my cat because common sense said: OK you're over acting, it's just a cat.. FOR ME, I love the way he listens to Ed Sheeran in the middle of the afternoon and fights sleep but fails... I love when he gets curious about sounds and climbs the windows, I love his blue eyes dilating when he's excited then turn to slits when he's calm or just doesnt care... My gosh.. I miss him, but he's in a better place now.
I lost my guinea pig 3 hours ago. His life was pretty rubbish. I kept making promises to make his living conditions better the past five years but couldn't be bothered, or, as I liked to tell myself I wanted to avoid bickering with my family because we always fought over the topic of our guinea pigs and how they should live. I kept convincing myself that wanting to spend time with them is enough, that I was being a good person focusing on my studies and family values, that the guinea pigs didn't like my company anyway. Always worried this day would come. I'd worry about it sleepless, convincing myself that I was overthinking, just to get through the rest of my day. It's different mistreating a human because you know they have their own strength to be okay eventually and they are able to depend on themselves. With a pet their fate lies in your hands, and if you can't give them a good life it is entirely your fault if they die miserable. And that's what happened, and I found out just after having a mental breakdown.
Don't beat yourself too much. You are just a human and its so hard when we know we are responsible and yet sometimes its almost impossible to have everything under our control no matter how much we care, but i know what you are talking about, endless sleepless nights feeling guilty because just like you said - its different with pets, their life is completely in our hands....The best thing to do for yourself is to take care of some other animal in need and there are plenty at the shelters everywhere. That is what I am doing. I felt obligated to do more with my life and there is no greater purpose and no better way to use my life than to help those that are completely helpless. I also thought before the most important thing is to do well in school and then in career, that is 'success" but now i consider those things secondary to the only way i can live my life successfully and that is do as much as i can for the helpless creatures that need is so much and that cannot do anything for themselves...but the best part is - they bring so much happiness!! No human could ever bring so much joy as an animal can. At least that is the case with me and i was extremely dedicated and loyal to humans as well but all i got in return is disappointment so i've decided i am not going to waste my life like that anymore ...i used to walk my dog by the ocean and miss human presence but now i cherish the quiet times with my dog away from all the human 'drama. PS " All his life he tried to be a good person. Many times, however, he failed. For after all, he was only human. He wasn't a dog." Charles M. Schulz
Thanks so much. It's nice to know someone isn't blaming and spitting on my incompetence, laziness, stupidity, selfishness and pure delusional lack of common sense for once (look at that I'm victimizing myself). :') I find it very difficult to accept that everyone, especially myself, at any given point of their life no matter what decision they are making, for whatever reason are trying their very best and somehow our mind has, regardless how much knowledge and logical wisdom we possess against it, rationalized that this is the action we must take. As a society we've overlooked that concept of compassion and are focusing on making sure the decisions we make in the future by putting absolute shame and disgust on previous and current ones, not saying that our faults are with the flawed design of our minds and we ourselves are not obligated to fix the problem (but hey, look at me thinking I'm making rational points and criticizing others). Funny thing about me being 'only human', is that I, by others who know me, am not even considered up to the standard of human yet. But yeah, thank you again for taking time out of your life for being so incredibly kind and writing such comforting words for someone you don't even know, I am humbled by your generosity, I hope what I've written mirrors the magnitude of my appreciation. Sorry if that was really cheesy and took too long to read, I'm absolutely floored if you've made it this far. It's been a mountain-surface-rough few days.
Actually I loved your reply and it wasn't too long(or 'cheesy" lol) ! I think about all the same issues you mentioned and I also felt almost a 'disgust' on how irresponsible and cruel people can be and I realized they are that way because its easier to close our eyes on all the pain and suffering in the world we cause every day by not wanting to take the responsibility for own actions, regardless of what others are doing (or not doing). We should never turn the blind eye to our own flaws so that our ego doesn't get hurt. We should be courageous enough to admit to ourselves our mistakes but what we should NOT do is keep blaming ourselves and that way let our guilt prevent us from doing the right thing in the future. I liked your post because I see that you recognize it all, in yourself and others, but you should put a stop to that 'blame game' because it will only demobilize you and prevent you from making necessary changes TODAY, and will also alienate you from the rest of the world. So recognize when you or somebody else does something wrong but don't hold it against them or yourself, just DO the right thing any time you can and don't dwell on your feelings or past mistakes. There is also no point in arguing with those that still do not understand our responsibilities as humans on this planet, but show them by your example how it is (should) be done. People do not like being judged so when we talk about these issues we should never put them on the spot, but live your life in a way so there is a message (of love and gentleness and humility) in there and the message is that you have the understanding for your own as well at the flaws of others but don't let that knowledge be a burden to you and something that will be preventing you from changing the situation, a little by little , each day , without looking back and how you were before and all the 'wrong decisions' you made. If you could have, you would have done it differently!! The only way to "correct" the past is by doing the good deeds today, every day, and if you mess up again, just keep going. You can deal with your guilt by doing good things you would not have done if you did not make mistakes before, how about that? Think about that but don't spend too much time thinking, act on it, and you will see that rewards are far greater than the work invested. So, start fixing this world, every person counts, every little action counts. Start with those that are helpless the most. The funny thing is, we think we are helping them, but we are also helping ourselves because it brings us gentleness and humility and clarity of mind like nothing else could. Remember: "Love is a bridge between us and everything else" Good Luck to you :)
Just think how lucky he was to live a long life with you in it, he loved you as much as you loved him no matter how he lived, with you he was happy.
Humble Eurus i know how that feels. I just lost one of my birds. She just got sick this morning and was unable to do anything. But i know it will get better and shes in a better pkace
My dog just passed away this morning. Whenever I think about him, my tears just falling down.. I hope we can get through this.
One of my biggest fears is losing my dog. There are moments when I cry just thinking about it and moments were I wonder if I'll ever get another dog after her. I try to not think about it so hard and just enjoy the fact that she's still here with me but the older she gets and more aging signs I see, the harder it is. I worry that I'll end up grieve too much. I hate when people act like it's not that big of a deal. "Oh you can just get another dog." or "Why are you so emotional about it, it's not like it was a person?" I use to worry that people would think I'm weird if I took too long to get over her death. I'm still working on realizing that to some people, when you've formed such a beautiful emotional bond with your pet losing them is losing an entire part of yourself. And it's ok to grieve and be as emotional as you want. And until that time comes I need to not worry so much about it and give her my love when she's alive to feel it.
Yep, I used to dread the idea of losing my dog and now it is my reality.. I’ve been in a fog for a week and it is a horrible feeling. There is no answer just embrace what you have and when the time comes I hope you have people around you to help.
I lost my dog on Tuesday. I’ve been crying for days. My eyes are swollen from crying so much and I can’t stop thinking about him. Next month he would have been 17. He was my boyfriends dog but I knew him and lived with him for 9 years. It just feels like a nightmare that I just want to wake up from. I want to hold him and love him so bad. The pain of losing a loyal and sweet animal is absolutely excruciating. My heart is broken. I will love him and think about him for the rest of my life.
my dog is not dead but i get teary when i see my dog growing up so fast that i hate to loose him. if i can slow time and spend more memories with him...
I lost my dog today, its the worst pain I’ve ever felt.
I just lost my bird this morning. Even if if is small it is still so hard...I love you so much❤️
My entire body and soul is scattered into pieces. She was more than just a dog. I can’t believe how painful it is. Someone help I can’t take it please 💔💔
I lost my cat of 12 years recentally, as a guy who never shows emotion I will admit it hit me like a truck. I unfortunetally had to put him down about 5 months early so he wouldnt be in pain due to an illness which was the hardest part knowing I could have had more time with him. The house is almost silent with him gone and it feels like a lost my best friend. I'm happy he didn't suffer due to the illness but I do miss him greatly.
Your story is just like mine. My 12 years old cat had enlarged kidneys. I took him in because he had rapid breathing and they said even though he acted mostly normal, he was in pain and hiding it. I definitely think about how I could've had more time with him, but I respected my cat and knew if I had a choice to go quickly with dignity, I would... So I did the same for him. I'm not a very emotional person normally, but this has broke me down hardcore. It's been 2 weeks today and I'm still crying everyday. Sometimes so hard, I can hardly breathe. 💔
My other cat seems to see his Spirit and informs me when he's there. I've also gotten lots of signs from him so I know he's not upset with me for letting him go too early. I hope you are ok now. Did you adopt another pet yet? I hear the lost pet picks them out for you. 🌈🥰😸
My dog Ruby died today to cancer.....she was my best friend for 14 years.....
Ryan Palmer I’m so sorry for your loss, my dog died last night after being grabbed by a coyote it’s the worst man dogs are more than just pets their family... mine was also 14
I lost my baby parrot yesterday i cried so much i couldn’t breath im so sad i dont know what to do
I lost my baby kitten today and i completely get you. im so sad its unexplainable😭😭
So so sorry
Just lost my parrot too he was a baby and he drowned and I’m really upset 😭😭😭😭
@@gersidi darling, right now its okay to feel angry, confused, and to be in so much pain. Sit with it, sit with it, sit with it. Cry it out. I 100% understand what youre going through and im sending you all my love from the bottom of my heart! Only time will heal and i hope your baby parrot is in a more beautiful place💛
rebeka thanks very much I feel a lot better today😊
My ferret, Bear, just passed yesterday. I can’t think or eat or sleep. Seeing him sick and suffering is something I will never forget but I also won’t forget the unconditional love he offered into my life. I love that little troublemaker and I will always. I will never forget you Bear.
may you rest in peace
My heart hurts so much. My cat died this morning after being with him since the day he was born 14 years ago. It hurts more than I ever knew it could. All he’s ever wanted was to love and be loved. He was SO GOOD.
I will always love you Cupid. 😻
Unfortunately today I know exactly how he feels. Today I lost my dog, Lacey after 14 beautiful years. I never knew how it would feel to grieve a pet. She was my first dog. A loving, very smart and beautiful Cocker Spaniel. Thank you Lacey for being my support. I will miss you!! 🐕
My dog would always be there for me when i was sad and feel like he wants me to be happy still
I lost my dog yesterday she could barley walk anywhere she came out of the bush and never left she was already an adult when I got her and only had her for 3.75 years
God bless your dog's soul. I feel your pain...
+Nise R thank you
I got my doggie Beatrice from the pound 2 years ago, she was 5. It was obvious she was abused previously, and it took a while for her to gain my trust. I showered her with love. Free from her cage she ran free and happy on my 2 acres here in AZ. She lost her battle with kidney failure, and was humanely euthanized today. I know I did the right thing, she isn't suffering, and I know I will see her again. Thanks for posting your comment, your dog still remembers you!
Groovyman 1968 So sorry to hear this. Almost a year later since I've seen my girl (in pic) and still grieve at times. It sounds like you have your dog an amazing life and I love hearing you got Beatrice from the pound. May she run free in Heaven now. God bless her soul.
Kris Danielson I lost my fog the same way. He couldnt walk. He was only about for about 3 years
Just had to put my cat Roscoe down today. He was very sick so I just had to end his suffering as he was very unhappy and barely moving. Losing him has honestly left the biggest hole in my heart and I will forever miss him. Our furry companions play a big part in our lives as they give us unconditional love no matter what mood they are in. They are nothing less than family. My heart goes to anyone who has lost a beloved pet and if you have pets still with you today, make sure you give them a big hug ❤
Rest in love Roscoe my boy ❤️
Roscoe sounds like a beautiful cat. I am so sorry for your loss. You can never forget those beautiful moments they shared with you, and how significant they were to your life. I hope you and your loved ones are doing well. May Roscoe’s life continue to live on in your heart. ❤️
@@maxwellbowe thank you so much, really appreciate your comment 🙏🙏🙏. He will always be in my heart ❤️
I’m sorry for your loss. I know the pain
@@rubixcubesolve thank you so much 🙏
our dogs will live in us forever, they are with OUR SOUL
always believe in that, that they are here beside us all the time even in death
Lychee Myusic thx
Welp, tomorrow we are going to put my childhood dog down. She lived a good life, 14 years. But, she's in pain. She has been having a lot of blood in her pee and there's nothing we can do. Rest in peace, Roxy.... I hope everyone has a great day! :')
I lost my dog whom I've had for almost 10 years earlier this evening. To make it worse, it's Christmas. Merry Christmas to me
Same omygod, my dog was poisoned, and when I get home people lied to me that it ran away.... I'm not giving up until whoever did this pays
It’s dire, I lost my main man last month and sometimes I will think he is still here and then realise.
Life feels empty if I’m honest, even when it’s full of others who I love etc.
I lost my dog max on Christmas morning over 10 years ago, he was my first dog when I turned 13. I understand the irony, I’m so sorry I’m about to lose my second dog and its terrible. It’s does get easier but you never forget.
Grace Hewitt just lost mine my heart hurts and i’m empty
I’m sorry Grace I lost mine this morning
I lost my 15yr old Jack/Yorkie a little over 5 months ago. It still hurts so much. I dont like being here without her, I have to admit!
My ginuea pig passed away yesterday and her cage is still up and I miss her so much and life will never be the same without her and I'm crying right now
I just wanna say I love every single one of you in the comments cuz It takes a big heart and so much courage to love a pet mostly cause we humans understand so well that our bond is only temporary... yet we do it often and with grace, no fear, no hesitation to potentially get our hearts broken. I think it says a lot about us. We know the pain is worth it for the love we get in return. 💗
Rest in paradise my fur babies.
I lost my beloved cat just a few hours ago. He would have turned 3 in August. He was everything to me and helped me through so much. It was totally unexpected, he died because of a heart disease no one knew about, no one even knew if he was suffering and how long. I just wish he didn’t have to suffer and that he may Rest In Peace.
I’ve just been crying so much, my darling tich had a blood clot and had to be put down
Everyone will remember you my little boy.
Rest easy ticha
My dog just died today. She was 17.5 years old Maltese. I had her since i was in middle school (14yrs old) until now (31 years old). She was the most precious thing to me and It's so hard to believe that she is gone. I came home expecting her to greet me but the realization that she is gone from this world really got to me today. I will miss you so much, Snoop. Please know that I loved you so much and I'm so thankful to have had such an amazing dog like you for the past 17 years. Please rest well.
We're putting my dog down this morning I got her when I was 6 and I'm 12 now. She had lymphoma and it just got too much for her she had so much life left though. I miss her already.
Anna Dewey my dog just died today of this :(
My dog just died today I wasn’t even there when she died I’m so depressed i didn’t even say good bye
@FURYTHEONE 1 I understand! I lost my dog as well and she was my BFF and ...she’s gone
I lost mine Sunday, and she was in a different city. I understand what you mean
I’m so sorry, that is the worst hell