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  • @irene08
    @irene08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2734

    "and they had a white refrigerator "-Nene Leakes

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +396

      the way I recite this every day

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@Shanspeare same. I'm obsessed

    • @MaxineRayviaMarseille-cw4bh
      @MaxineRayviaMarseille-cw4bh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @SkippyLaughlin
      @SkippyLaughlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      I hate elitism but Nene in this clip was effing hilarious. I love her

    • @daisyslovebot
      @daisyslovebot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      “i was ughhh not a white refrigerator, girl pls put ur shoes on, let’s go find u a home honey ooo lord”

  • @TheLeah2344
    @TheLeah2344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2495

    I remember being made fun of for wearing braids, hoop earrings, wigs, and sew in weaves. I was experimenting with different hair styles because I was bored with my hair. It wasn’t just white people who bullied me. Black people made fun of me as well and even said I wore weave because I’m trying to be white. I was also bullied for my dark skin. Now 10 years later, what I was bullied for is now in style.

    • @meanmuggin0384
      @meanmuggin0384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      I feel you. It's sad how you got to be bullied for now being praised for your look :/ this the world we growing up in that I hate

    • @justrenee2640
      @justrenee2640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      First they hate then they emulate... Its an ancient idea and quote

    • @k_a_y_l_e_e
      @k_a_y_l_e_e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@justrenee2640 "imitation is the highest form of flattery" it just takes a decade or two for _some people_ to figure it out and catch up lolol

    • @StackzB
      @StackzB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Black people probably bullied u because they seen straight hair and compared it to white

    • @genesistafari9006
      @genesistafari9006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      People leave out the most important part.. mediocrity
      “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness.”- Oscar Wilde.

  • @ajamoore6540
    @ajamoore6540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2880

    I love how yt people just discovered long acrylics with designs. Never saw them w anything beyond French tips until recently. Goes to say, that we drive the culture and set the trends

    • @lalasarchive1
      @lalasarchive1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +382

      This is so true. I'm a licensed nail tech and can't be more surprised that bold colorful designs, length, and bling has become more popular outside the black and latinas community, when a few years ago normal french tips was the standard and anything else was "ratchet", "impractical, over the top", and "ugly".

    • @baik4499
      @baik4499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

      Black culture is the new pop culture fr. I’ve watched a ton of video essays on how this happened and it’s interesting and strange. As a white person who loves street style I get it but also people tend to take things too far (appropriate) and don’t give credit where credit is due. it’s a very weird time to be alive.

    • @nancym3041
      @nancym3041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@baik4499 Can you recommand me (us, for anyone interested) some of these videos please?

    • @iamwinklebottom
      @iamwinklebottom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Exactly

    • @baik4499
      @baik4499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@nancym3041 khadija mbowe (I believe that’s how it’s spelled) does excellent videos and also tee noir. A lot of suggested creators will come up who are similar if you look up those two

  • @imani0nline
    @imani0nline 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3163

    Finally Lil Kim getting the recognition that she deserves, she walked no, STRUTTED so the girlies can run today. 💅🏾

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      PERIOOOOOD

    • @sseraphim2818
      @sseraphim2818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      And that's on period! Kim is the it girl that inspired all the girlies.

    • @Curleu
      @Curleu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      To see how she has changed now is so heartbreaking, yes to giving her more of the credit she deserves!

    • @stephanie6676
      @stephanie6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Gotta give flowers to Misa Hylton who curated that ICONIC style thru Kim and Mary J. Blige 😍😍😍

    • @monicacreator3168
      @monicacreator3168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You know none of them are running, gliding, slidding, maybe? But not running in heels

  • @akiverma8802
    @akiverma8802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1642

    the video helped me realize the extent of appropriation of black culture by the kardashians and it makes me more furious than ever about when black women were getting mocked, ridiculed and disrespected for this lifestyle (more early 2010s) on social media, the kardashians were using this to enter "high fashion" and then were regarded as icons for "inventing" and influencing a new fashion style. and their lack of acknowledgement and understanding even today is so disheartening.

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      No but keeping talking about it. The Kardashians are legit colonizers in every sense of the word.

    • @YaraShammas
      @YaraShammas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Omg exactly, looking at the pictures of Lil' Kim you can really see how Kylie is just styled exactly like her then claims she invented that style

    • @Dave102693
      @Dave102693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts

    • @apinchofdisappointment
      @apinchofdisappointment 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I will never understand how some of the Kardashians are married/have married black men like Kanye for example did he just not care that Kim & her family regularly appropriate our culture???

    • @justrenee2640
      @justrenee2640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@apinchofdisappointment you wanna know how girl... She's white 2) she has BOOKU money 3) she's culturally relevant

  • @bappiekortram7607
    @bappiekortram7607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    Best example is Dapper Dan. His custom pieces and logomania were first labeled as ghetto until Gucci was caught stealing his designs and they were celebrated for their "creativity"

  • @spittersarequitters420
    @spittersarequitters420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +772

    "imma always ride for my black barbies" I KNOW THATS RIGHT

  • @najwillaims
    @najwillaims 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1427

    The red hair with your skinnnnnn
    Edit: you eating this aesthetic upppp

  • @user-ov9vr1wc2j
    @user-ov9vr1wc2j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    I feel like “ghetto fabulous” subculture could also be a reaction to black women (especially dark skinned bw) being masculinised in media as well?

    • @uhmmmmm123
      @uhmmmmm123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I also feel that way !

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Is it at all similar to the way that gay men are stereotyped as being extremely clean/well kept to combat the other raging belief that they are “dirty/sinful”?

    • @fenelopewindsors3354
      @fenelopewindsors3354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I get that

    • @ihateyouall9940
      @ihateyouall9940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@RomanZolanski123 you both really brought up a great point. i would love to see a discourse for both topics honestly.

    • @whatsonhermind1768
      @whatsonhermind1768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RomanZolanski123 interesting!!

  • @traderjoestotebag
    @traderjoestotebag 2 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    Growing up and realizing in hindsight how black femininity was always denied for me. I was raised by my black father into white respectability. Even as a teenager hed hold me down to cut my nails down when they got too long to avoid being “ghetto” or having “witchy poo nails”. He took my eyebrow scissors and tweezers and i had my hair relaxed for as long as i can remember. Also was discouraged from wearing any jewelry that was too flashy. Now that I’m older I’m glad i can embrace these things and in a way take control of my own body and identity

    • @tamiwithani
      @tamiwithani 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He did you a favour. Those types of people do not advance in this life run by white people. I believe in respectability politics.

    • @orangeblossom9168
      @orangeblossom9168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tamiwithani So you let white people control your life

  • @Bee-id4kp
    @Bee-id4kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    "white people just whitepeopling"
    Is the best discription of the tiktok algorithm I've ever heard.

  • @vanessa-iv8qz
    @vanessa-iv8qz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    Black American femininity is just on it’s own lane! Truly one of a kind!!!

    • @_VISION.
      @_VISION. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah on its own lane into destruction

    • @frilledgyaru291
      @frilledgyaru291 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@_VISION. What are you going on about?

    • @_VISION.
      @_VISION. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frilledgyaru291 what is black femininity? What are the characteristics?

    • @frilledgyaru291
      @frilledgyaru291 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@_VISION. Simply being black and feminine while engaging in your culture,especially when it has been masculine see for so long.Elaborate on how that’s destructive.

    • @frilledgyaru291
      @frilledgyaru291 ปีที่แล้ว

      *masulinised

  • @monjuee
    @monjuee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    My inspo during my childhood but of course respectability politics had me thinking it was wrong. I saw luxury 🤧

  • @micah3k
    @micah3k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +646

    so unrelated but you look SICKENINGLY good

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      thank you bestie

    • @st3ll497
      @st3ll497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she always does

  • @alphabettical1
    @alphabettical1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    "Get a 'Ghetto Fabulous' mug for your friend Rihanna" 😂

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I KNOW that killed me! i wanted to point it out but i was side tracked by the "unbeweavable" LMAO

    • @miaomiaou_
      @miaomiaou_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      PLEASE😭😭 where did it say this??

    • @WildArtistsl
      @WildArtistsl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@miaomiaou_ when she read the urban dictionary definition bottom

  • @collyflower6623
    @collyflower6623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    There's an expectation that black girls be feminine but also not "try too hard." You know people would talk shit either way

  • @Jojo-tf2zp
    @Jojo-tf2zp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +746

    ..and THATS why a wt women rolling her eyes at my nails is a microaggrestion.
    You better go off!! I really appreciate how much effort you put into this video. The topics, the editing, the memes, the background, the outfit, the history, the citations! I'm in awe 🙌🏾

    • @GDL364
      @GDL364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Now it’s shocking to me that so many young white girls are wearing their nails like that.

    • @youraveragelesbian4181
      @youraveragelesbian4181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@GDL364 Oh you talking bout Bully Eyelash

    • @reserveeuphoric2283
      @reserveeuphoric2283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @Motown Gayes why’re you bringing other women down

    • @chatman4998
      @chatman4998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@youraveragelesbian4181 I mean she is an example 😭

    • @chatman4998
      @chatman4998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@reserveeuphoric2283 she is just as bad pls don’t oblivious to the things she has done

  • @baileyfortney
    @baileyfortney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    Your channel is so underratedddd. I learn more and more about the black community and black women in particular from you each time. Please keep them coming! 💖

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      💜💜💜💜

    • @mahlatsemokgope9011
      @mahlatsemokgope9011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Capitalize the B in Black.

    • @Bii940
      @Bii940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@mahlatsemokgope9011 its not that deep

    • @brianawest7800
      @brianawest7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@mahlatsemokgope9011 lmfao what

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @Motown Gayes people never write "White" either bruh

  • @brookesmith6998
    @brookesmith6998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    Aww, this video was truly a love letter to the "ghetto fabulous" look that so many every day black girls are ridiculed for rocking. That last quote summed everything up really well. Thank you!

  • @scott2k23
    @scott2k23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    That Urban Dictionary definition triggered my flight or fight response

    • @shaggy_lemons
      @shaggy_lemons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao 😭😭 too funny

  • @rebeccan8290
    @rebeccan8290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    damn... you've really opened my eyes on how classism and elitism and our perception of what is "ghetto" and the fact that that even is considered a bad thing is so deeply rooted in racism, colonialism and misogyny. I really gotta look into my own biases here, thank you for making this video. brb gotta go educate myself

  • @crazydancingchick95
    @crazydancingchick95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    “Why do so many black people have tones of animals print things”
    Me, a black girl who can’t get enough of animal print clothing: 👁 👄 👁 🐆🐆🐆

    • @LBYRNTH_
      @LBYRNTH_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I screamed. Not me coming home from a thrift store last week with a leopard print plate, a rainbow zebra print pillow case, and regretting not getting a leopard print blanket I saw. 💀💀💀💀

    • @strawberryvixen4269
      @strawberryvixen4269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I also love animal print things. They're so pretty. Especially the white tiger ones

    • @kamilareeder1493
      @kamilareeder1493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah 👀, I remember in 2009 when I was a kid, going to the outlet store in my area and buying these outfits that were FULLY matching monochrome sets. I stopped wearing them after someone told me I looked ghetto in 6th grade. To this day, I love a matching set lol. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

    • @twiggledowntown3564
      @twiggledowntown3564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I had more animal printed stuff. The only animal print stuff I own is on Animal Crossing.

    • @tw0tr1ckp0nyficated
      @tw0tr1ckp0nyficated ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait did the video mention this? Anyone has the timestamp if so

  • @sohila-953
    @sohila-953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    I love the way you make your videos aesthetically pleasing while talking about these important and yet interesting topics. It’s perfect ෆ

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      thank you bestie!

  • @HimekaR
    @HimekaR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    That robe looks so comfy! Imma put on my own and get some tea before I watch 💅🏽🍵

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      get comfy!!

    • @HimekaR
      @HimekaR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Shanspeare ❤❤❤

  • @miahwebb1135
    @miahwebb1135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Damn I feel so embarrassed that I used to have a racist mindset (associating satin mini dresses, animal print and long acryllics with 'cheapness' and 'tackyness') and was too damn ignorant to realise that it was even racially rooted, let alone ridiculous and misogynistic, despite it being right in front of me. Can I get a yikes, please.

  • @marthawrites
    @marthawrites 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Your take on black people culture is quite educational for me as an African.
    From my view I see the struggle to maintain your roots and embrace your culture that has for so long been deemed unfit until white people tried to take it.
    I wish you could make a video on the need for unity between the mother land and the diaspora and african Americans

  • @laurtary
    @laurtary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    The library background is everything 😍

    • @vyentro29
      @vyentro29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love it!

    • @mysticangel192
      @mysticangel192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was just about to say that 😂

  • @goodytwoshoes6559
    @goodytwoshoes6559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    naurrr imagine watching a video from one of your fav youtubers and seeing your channel pop up🥺🥺 absolutely loved this video it's so amazing to see black women talking more about these topics and how important our contribution to fashion/pop culture is and how it continues to live on decades later❤️❤️

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I love your channel! You’re doing amazing bestie 💜💜💜

  • @suchastrangegirl36
    @suchastrangegirl36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Honestly I used to side eye “Ghetto Fabulous” fashion, but now after seeing this video it sorta opened my eyes and now I’m kinda digging it. It’s not something I would *personally* wear, but one other black women it looks dope. They make it look cool and hip, as we black people always have.

  • @ruthe8726
    @ruthe8726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    ty for talking about the Jewish origin of the word ghetto- it means a lot to see us being represented in history

  • @sophiem3794
    @sophiem3794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Celebrities are worshipped. That needs to stop.

  • @gatometalero2138
    @gatometalero2138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    HEEEYYY the aesthetic is wonderfull as aways❤️

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      thank you bestie!! :))

  • @SebastianSeanCrow
    @SebastianSeanCrow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    18:00 I’ve been wanting fake nails for years and my mom has been getting them for almost 20 years and like... hell yeah it’s a lot of effort, even with the simple stuff my mom and I get/want. Being able to put together and coord any wardrobe takes a lot of time and effort too, props to the girls who have this look honestly.

  • @Crystalfav17
    @Crystalfav17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Great video. I would love to see you talk about afrofuturism.

  • @PleasantSludge
    @PleasantSludge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    When did your voice get so soothing?? 😴

    • @Shanspeare
      @Shanspeare  3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      around the time I got this microphone that drowns out everything else LMAO

    • @PleasantSludge
      @PleasantSludge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It's a really nice mic, tbh. I've been loving watching you upgrade your equiptment lately. Your channel looks great!

  • @user-ld1px2us7d
    @user-ld1px2us7d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Thank you so much for your work!
    I'm Russian, and I've never been anywhere near the US, but regardless of that your content is extremely interesting and educational to me
    Good luck with everything you do!

  • @chenanigans2cents931
    @chenanigans2cents931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    RIP lil Kim's old face. I wish she saw the beauty in herself that we all saw in her 😢

    • @boredasf4856
      @boredasf4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She went true alot so i dont even blame her

    • @oblimistic
      @oblimistic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I heard she got work done bcs her face was damaged from abuse

    • @GDL364
      @GDL364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oblimistic emotional abuse from men. She thought she was ugly.

    • @oblimistic
      @oblimistic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@GDL364 In an interview, she talked about how she suffered a broken nose and other Injuries from a past relationship, which is why she got a nose job :/

    • @Silly_u1908
      @Silly_u1908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oblimistic I read the same article. I hate that she went through that.

  • @monsieurfrancoise
    @monsieurfrancoise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    "Alright I pushed that hernia back in and I am ready to go!" - every amazon warehouse employee

  • @SebastianSeanCrow
    @SebastianSeanCrow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    15:48 a lot of the things in that blog post don’t match up with how we used “ghetto” when I was a kid. Though also as a kid one of my parents called my South Pole jacket “ghetto” and I was so confused cuz I was like “but it’s a nice jacket” and I was 10. I know now why they said that though :/

  • @elliejasmine7752
    @elliejasmine7752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Watching this as a Brit IMO it's interesting to hear your take on this as a lot of this is what would be considered 'chavvy' and 'tacky' in the UK and more of a class issue than a race issue. Chavs are typically white working class individuals (however rich people, even celebs who act like this are considered chavvy as well) who are on benefits and live in a council house, behave uncouthly and have a lot of (probably fake or nicked) designer items such as clothing and bags. The women typically have acrylics and excessive makeup/eyelashes/badly filled lips.

    • @twiggledowntown3564
      @twiggledowntown3564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've heard of that phrase, but I could barley understand it.

  • @meanmuggin0384
    @meanmuggin0384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    *I feel like the old ghetto "fashion" has become the new modern "icy" if you know what I mean*
    *like Mary J Blige is like the modern Saweetie*
    and also I see now a lot of white people trying to look boogie/expensive which is cool because I never tought that they would ever do that. Black people are the blueprint never forget that.

    • @zoejackson9668
      @zoejackson9668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      No sweet Queen Mary is the blueprint sweetie is trying to look like mary and other black women artis

    • @k_a_y_l_e_e
      @k_a_y_l_e_e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@zoejackson9668 ya that sentence really had me confused. like do kids really not know who mary j blige is????

    • @meanmuggin0384
      @meanmuggin0384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zoejackson9668 ooh

    • @TyraStanks
      @TyraStanks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mary J didn’t even dress similar to Saweetie back in the day. Maybe some of the hairdos but that’s about it. Mary dressed in baggy clothes and had a tomboy type swag when she first came out. Then eventually she was styled by Misa Hylton. Misa had a very monochromatic or sometimes matchy style of dressing people. Saweetie doesn’t really give that. Mary wouldn’t even be comfortable in a lot of stuff Saweetie wears because she doesn’t like showing a lot of skin. Watch The Remix on Netflix if you would like to learn more about black fashion from the 90’s.

    • @meanmuggin0384
      @meanmuggin0384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TyraStanks you're right

  • @elleliteracy
    @elleliteracy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    when you threw in *deep ancestral sigh* ... i screamed. amazing video as per usual !!!!

  • @ireallyreallydontwannabehe2158
    @ireallyreallydontwannabehe2158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Can we take a minute to appreciate how good she looks💅🏾

  • @megsnets
    @megsnets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I know it’s not new, but your set is just ✨chef’s kiss✨

  • @meepymoof
    @meepymoof 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You bringing up how much work goes into "ghetto fabulous" fashion kind of hit the nail on the head for me---I feel like conservative white people go after poor woc who fit that aesthetic especially because "of course if you're putting your time into looking like that, you're not spending that time working and therefore it's of course YOUR fault entirely that you're poor."

  • @suchastrangegirl36
    @suchastrangegirl36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Girl your outfit is really giving me 90s classy cool Lil Kim vibes and I LOVEE IT💕✨

  • @messychelsea
    @messychelsea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    i feel like you should have discussed more abt how this impacts dark skin nonmen (colorism). as well as how have they contributed in the ghetto fabulous aesthetic, same with Black lgbt+. the examples that you gave were of light skin women and a culture vulture. (just a critic and an observation)

    • @NanaLia_18
      @NanaLia_18 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤

  • @alenovoa5338
    @alenovoa5338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    she never fucking misses! all of your videos are AMAZINGGGGGG OUTSTANDING AND SIGNIFICANT . the production, script, and everything involved in your videos is just 🤌🏼🤌🏼 you can see the amount of effort you put into them! love you and your channel, thank you for all of this!!!!
    it’s the way i looked for synonyms of outstanding and none of them described how i feel ab your work

  • @ariannasilva4462
    @ariannasilva4462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The usage of "Ghetto" even 300 years later is sad as it shows both the common conditions we create that cause ghettos as well as the normalization of racist city building.

  • @noom5723
    @noom5723 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've never been so grateful for ad breaks in my life. I really needed the break while I had to listen to that blog post. Great video!

  • @ABCDEFG-um5td
    @ABCDEFG-um5td 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t watch your videos late at night, with this voice Imma fall asleep right away, watching it again now cos I was really enjoying it

  • @watsonmelon6575
    @watsonmelon6575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this. The editing, your outfit, just everything is amazimg

  • @noctswife
    @noctswife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just discovered your channel a day ago and god each of your videos is A+ material. Not to mention that your voice is so beautiful istg I could listen to it to hours on end

  • @tacrewgirl
    @tacrewgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the ambiance of this video. It sets the tone and gives a shout out to the video's topic.
    Great video. Good content. Love the facts.

  • @jamiejusthappenedtobehere2434
    @jamiejusthappenedtobehere2434 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that your glasses are louder than your voice. Thank you not yelling, your videos are so soothing.

  • @ms.wilson6439
    @ms.wilson6439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE that you bring in history with your vids.

  • @miaomiaou_
    @miaomiaou_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t think there’s EVER been a TH-cam video that’s appealed to me as much as this one 🤍🤍 thank you 🤗

  • @Svengali764
    @Svengali764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay so I watched your twilight video and I am in love with your voice! So I am gonna binge watch everything by you. Also loved your analysis. So happy with myself on finding you. Sometimes algorithm is a gift.

  • @mariadiaz8617
    @mariadiaz8617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    your style is so captivating to me and your soothing voice is everything!

  • @Bioshocking12
    @Bioshocking12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like... damn. You went tf off in this and I don't mean that lightly. You are an incredible researcher, writer, AND entertainer. As someone with the same interests, I love how much I learn from you.

  • @notmychairnotmyproblem
    @notmychairnotmyproblem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The growth of this channel over the past few months is *chef's kiss* 🤌🏾

  • @emilia9154
    @emilia9154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    okay but your videos are literally so GOOD like wow-

  • @aliallen7925
    @aliallen7925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the spongebob clips were everything to me. love the Bob. also as always, a great video

  • @uluvjordan
    @uluvjordan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love how informative this was, layered with your amazing aesthetique 🖤

  • @psychopathetic5341
    @psychopathetic5341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm sorry, I'm not even a minute into the video and DAMN THAT OUTFIT IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AMAZING. I LITERALLY HAD A DOUBLE TAKE WHEN YOU CAME UP.

  • @vershaestewart
    @vershaestewart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You ATE and left NO crumbs 🧚🏾‍♀️Shaniya like Twain but Fabulous 💅🏾

  • @BryonyClaire
    @BryonyClaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing video as always! I hope the algorithm picks you back up again because I had to search for you to pop back up on my recommended even though I'm subscribed and have watched most of your videos

  • @michellemalonza
    @michellemalonza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always learn so much from you and your videos. Thank you so much for all the work you put into your videos!

  • @leninochwas9454
    @leninochwas9454 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    just another incredibly well made video. thank you so much for all this amazing content you share with us, i learn so much from you every time!

  • @miracletheharajuku5506
    @miracletheharajuku5506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love the way you speak! so articulate with such high vocabulary🤩

  • @999Lumen
    @999Lumen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really appreciate the research you do regarding terms etc. Good stuff!

  • @sulllysullysully
    @sulllysullysully 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're quickly becoming my favorite youtuber. I adore your content. keep it up!

  • @lesbiangoddess290
    @lesbiangoddess290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    No I'm glad you brought it up because I've been dying to talk about for a hot minute.

  • @blacksheep1924
    @blacksheep1924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your fluffy coat looks so warm and nice. It also just looks really good on you.

  • @normalgirlbim
    @normalgirlbim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    oh we’re eating good tonight. i haven’t clicked so fast on a video in a while

  • @alexisatkinson7420
    @alexisatkinson7420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love LOVED this video girl! Thanks for sharing your bright beautiful mind!

  • @THEBLACKELLEWOODS
    @THEBLACKELLEWOODS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another amazing video 💗 you never miss !

  • @cinnamoncandy2480
    @cinnamoncandy2480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video as always! Thank you for creating such high quality content for us all

  • @nueshb4797
    @nueshb4797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I remember seeing a brand of miss-matched socks being sold at toys r us when I was 12 and Cece from shake it up either wearing or referencing miss matched socks while simultaneously getting the memo that non-matching socks are trashy and ghetto from everyone around me.

  • @kiahp759
    @kiahp759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've never been happier with my youtube algorithm I think you're my new fave

  • @Just_a_Goth
    @Just_a_Goth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just found your channel, and I'm loving it!

  • @erikzherrllo6960
    @erikzherrllo6960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Idk where I heard this, but like some notorious designer person or smn said that to find true fashion trends or new inspo you had to go down to the “poor” zones and see what kids where wearing or experimenting with.

  • @Ribbonsandsage
    @Ribbonsandsage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every video you make is outstanding! 🥰🥰

  • @tristenjames2065
    @tristenjames2065 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww your outfit looks sooo cute!!! Great video as usual! ✨

  • @lyrablack8621
    @lyrablack8621 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much needed video! Well done

  • @vintageincolor
    @vintageincolor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On point as always. Oh u dropped this btw 👑

  • @rileydauber5699
    @rileydauber5699 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    your videos are so amazing, i'm obsessed

  • @grenalien
    @grenalien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I learned so much from this video, thank you!

  • @ambriaashley3383
    @ambriaashley3383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Urban decay from divestment in Black areas and investment in the white suburbs. Learning this history from you is so great 😌

  • @RisforRachel88
    @RisforRachel88 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am in the ER on morphine, which has kicked in. Your voice is ASMRazing. Thank you for helping to keep me calm.

  • @emiliepryor51
    @emiliepryor51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is great. This background is great. The jokes are great and goddamn, You look great. 😊

  • @alexisatkinson7420
    @alexisatkinson7420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many good moments and mic drops as always but my fave has to be the bright exposure on "Yes, she is." 😆

  • @venusangelic_o
    @venusangelic_o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your background, I'm in love 😍📚

  • @laysaferreirasilva2146
    @laysaferreirasilva2146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm not a native english speaker so AAVE wasn't thought at school to me and growing up without that much internet access or even a smartphone I'd only see this language in movies and it would be heavily portrait as unintelligent or wrong. Only last year I discovered it's like regionalism in Brazil. Thus depends of where you live and how was your upbringing (in cultural sense) and it's not wrong at all. 🤯 #themoreyouknow

  • @SatansRoerhat
    @SatansRoerhat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your voice makes my adhd calm down 💕

  • @sportluver98
    @sportluver98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I just don’t get people. I don’t get why we can’t appreciate and enjoy that poc have brought so much culture, fashion, ideas and knowledge to the world and should be giving credit and adored for sharing the knowledge
    You can’t get long nails but call black girls with long nails ghetto. It makes zero sense to me. I don’t understand why people have to hate so much and put people down for shit we all participate in and love and enjoy. I went to a racist school and have had people try to force me to say the n word and got jumped by drunk 40 year old men with my baby daddy and had to watch my family shit talk my beautiful daughter all because of skin. It makes no sense and makes me want to cry and I’m Hispanic i don’t even face no where as much racism as my daughter will or my friends have had :(

    • @_VISION.
      @_VISION. ปีที่แล้ว

      It's called white supremacy bro

  • @gabytaiwo9146
    @gabytaiwo9146 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely love your videos!

  • @AshleyIsArtsy
    @AshleyIsArtsy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was literally watching some of your videos today at work, and here you are! 💜

  • @annabel8180
    @annabel8180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the background: )

  • @siearramm
    @siearramm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yesssss love this video❤️