He's genuine-- nothing shallow about him-- and a real gentleman to boot. Not sure she's genuine enough to value his qualities. He might do well to look elsewhere.
@@Doom_Head95 yeah that sucks considering Tom seems perfect for her because he went through the same thing as her. Plus dude's a firefighter and seems chill as heck.
Just because two people have the same condition doesn't mean they belong to each other. This guy deserves someone better than her. She just complains all the time.
Yeah but tbh it would be a good match in other circumstances due to shared experiences and mutual understanding but also... well they just wouldn't look wrong together.
what's wrong with being judgemental? If the right person comes around and actually respects her for the way she acts, they could be a perfect match. Judgemental isn't for everyone, yeah. ... But you are acting like she's the worst person ever. Deep down she's a sweetheart and been through a lot. Those experiences shaped her personality and it's deeper than her just being "a complainer"
All she did was say “he’s so nervous” and I agree with her the firehouse tour is a weird first date. Maybe she isn’t into him or maybe she was just nervous too?
I love that Tom doesn't let his size get in the way of living a fulfilling life. I love that his peers see him as an equal, and even value Tom's unique physique because it helps him reach places others cannot. He's a warm soul. I hope he finds the right partner.. this lady ain't it.
@@le4864besides her attitude? Shauna wants to be mature but it’s more like she’s actually wanting to playing pretend. Getting tattoos, vaping, and drinking? That isn’t what makes someone be seen as a mature/adult. Those are just some things you get to do “as an adult.” Meanwhile the date her and her sisters clowning on for his looks actively DOES work/something progressive with his life despite his own disability.
Tom deserves an extremely faithful girl who will treat him well. He's truly made the most of his situation, he's out there fighting fires alongside people who are much larger than himself. He respects himself and his peers, he's kind to Shauna and those around him and he is EXTREMELY respectable. What a great dude, I really hope he finds the right one.
Imagine having a 23 year old daughter that still looks like 6 I would do the same, who knows what creeps tried to hit on her in the past but I get what you mean
@@SusiiUkraina She is 23, she knows what a creep is and has mentioned the "red flags" multiple times. She is not a child, she can be independent - sheltering her like this, will just make it worse, they even talk to her like she is a child, I would flip my shit if I was in her situation.
@@Krogdalo I understand thing is despite all those red flags creeps can still take advantage. The world isn't prefect. Their should be a balance between keeping her safe and letting her be independent.
@ Сузанна Снежинка Yeah, smart move. Follow her around everywhere and completely CRIPPLE her learning development skills. You treat her like she can’t do a damn thing on her own, she will learn to believe that is true. >.>
if women would bloody actually date shorter men sometimes like they should, that would be lovely... He should get some dates.. it wouldn't be fair to him just cause he HAPPENS to be short.
This family is harsh. Come on Tom was absolutely charming, this family just has high expectations… “this guys seems nervousssss” well duh yall tailgating them to the diner and them say the dad is going to sit next to him. He handled it very well.
and also the date is being recorded for the entire world to watch. If he makes any mistake, then he knows that it's going to be recorded and everyone including his family and friends is going to see it.
@NICKI814 she's an influencer, bottom of the barrel person. He's a firefighter, he literally saves lives while all she does is seek attention from strangers
Are you absolutely crazy do you know how much terrible stuff happens on camera they would have to get to her first for them to even stop anything from happening.
They have to let her live in a world where she needs to figure stuff out herself. She needs to be allowed the space to be an adult. They won’t be here forever.
@Lilly Rose But they are there now. And she is only 22. My 3 girls are 21, 20 and 19 and I still watch over them as if they are toddlers. When I am with them. They are all far away at college but when they are with me, I can't help it. I am their Momma Bear!
@@skontheroad But you aren't there when they're at college. I doubt Shauna would be allowed to go to college alone! If she doesn't learn how to be independent, she will never have a life!
Man kudos to Tom. Talk about the pressure. A first date is awkward enough, but he had to go through cameras and her dad AND sister hanging out in the booth next to them. Shauna is 22 I am with the dad, she needs to venture out a little on her own. No romance is going to blossom in a crowd, although I do always suggest a crowded place for a first date.
Right??? How the hell he even did it I don't understand. I would have had a panic attack or take too much anti-anxiety meds before and not made any sense. That is super brutal dude, you should have been able to hang out with her without any cameras or family around...
@@Lynn-zx3th If you watch the show her family (mainly sisters and mom) tend to treat her like a kid most the time even though she's in her 20's. Her body stop growing but her mind is very much that of an adult. When I see her I just see a little adult person. But when others see her as child they are just pushing the narrative that she's still a child.
She seems so beaten down by her situation, and a bit quick to judge others by looks herself. You can sense her wanting love but projecting insecurities on others. I sincerely hope she gives this man a chance. First thing she notices about him is is height . Like girl…
I think she wants to date a regular sized Man. She seems a little judgemental and entitled for this really great Guy. I hope for happiness for the both of them😊
@@Lynn-zx3th if you couldn't hear from this vid she had cancer that was found around 6 months old had surgery and then had to do chemo to get the rest gone the tumor was on her pituitary gland which is dormant so she needed growth hormones after they realized she wasn't growing in Kindergarten that didn't work too well but she grew just a few more inches till she hit puberty... Tom also has a different type of cancer that was found early on which also caused his pituitary gland to be dormant but no one questioned his height till he was 15 or 16 so they did a scan of his hand and the doctors said his growth plates were too close to being fused for the growth hormones to work at all
worrying so much about height is a major flaw in society honestly. This isn't natural selection time anymore. we have defeated the need for such a process. girls should be more willing to date men under 5'6" in the American height model.
@Bobby Physical attraction isn’t rational, it’s deep in our evolutionary past and DNA. Your body doesn’t know it lives in “modern” times. Man or woman, people will be attracted to what hundreds of millions of years of ancestry program them to be attracted to and you can’t just flip a switch and choose not to care.
@@wesscott7497 how is she snobbish he’s not that attractive she’s actually attractive despite her condition he looks 40 already , has a gut , balding . She isn’t opinionated she barely spoke ?
This man is a beast, strong and confident. No joking this man is definitely one one hell of man. A fire fighter, a hero and never letting jack stop him. Talk about an American hero, dude deserves way better then her.
I think it’s a bit odd that her dad and sister tag along like she is 13 , she is a grown adult who is clearly very sheltered , I know plenty of little people who have their own business and live life without having their parents watching their every move
That guy is friggen awesome, i'm 6'5 but id probably feel average standing next to him. Rare to meet any man with that kind of spirit and passion for something like that.
I watched this show like twice. Let’s be real her appearance may be different but she’s just as stand-offing as many other girls who are in high school or middle school. The whole family is but you’d think she’d at least be more understanding.
Im 4”7, not as a result of anything, I just happen to be short and yeah. I don’t get her, or other midget women who care so much about height of men, it’s weird and makes no sense.
Reading the comments I can tell the true protagonist of this episode was Tom. I support this love for the short king and he has more than earned his crown.
She's complaining about him being taller....but the guy she's dating wayyyyyy more taller I like this guy he actually understands what she's going threw she wants a Instagram model looking guy not someone for their personality
Nope, I think you put it nicely. I had a very specific description in mind, little to high on her horse. These 2 are very different. One has accepted and is living life, nothing stopping him. The other is 22 and wants to get a degree or something….. very different attitudes towards their situation
I think the contrast between her and Tom makes it worse. Tom is such a sweetheart and no one around him treats him like he's different. He's fully embraced life and doesn't allow his disability to keep her down. Shauna lives life with a bit of a chip on her shoulder and centers her entire life around her disability. She is also treated (or acts) like she's much younger. Like, what the heck were her sister and step-dad doing there? She's grown. I think she wants to be coddled on her terms by her family, but expects the general public to assume she's an adult. Totally entitled.
I’m barely watching this and I like this guy already ! His voice is relaxing but he seems like a good guy for her. She could have something very healthy with Tom vs other guys that are very likely to want to date her for the wrong reasons cuz it’s obvious
Such a cute date! He was obviously nervous and trying to impress you on his manly hood. But he did finally ask you about you... so points there! And so glad you continues the date!... try to get to know eachother but dont settle if your not feeling it!!! Oh... btw... your dad is intimidating! Lol Good luck!
the guy is a legend and all the best to them both , gives me hope for the world that people can find others with so much in common no matter how rare .. amen guys
he probably wouldn't have ended up with her either way. Though I think it's her experiences that are really shining what her personality comes from. people who been through a lot of hardships are more likely to be self-centered and selfish, more likely to be childish and complain because they want to throw their weight around, really show themselves, they are just trying to live their best life and trying to be a good person in their own mind. it's not like it really matters how she acts, only her man really has to worry about that part. aren't we judging her too harshly without being in her shoes? like seriously. Does anyone really understand what YOU been through? maybe like 3 people tops. your doctor your parents or your sibling. but everyone else probably isn't close enough to you to truly judge your full appearance or your outlook, So seriously we shouldn't be treating her like she's some kind of bad person... It might not even be her fault for this.
They both had childhood cancer, and she’s the one with the attitude. FYI, true survivors of hardship are some of the most selfless ppl I know-like this firefighter. Not Shauna.
imagine being in your early 20s and having your family around you on a date. just because shauna has pituitary dwarfism doesnt mean she should be treated like a child by her own family
So Shauna has a lot of growing to do but we are forgetting she is 22. She is extremely young. She is still growing as a person and is going to make mistakes, she is also going to be more picky with dates. She will probably annoy us with her dating mistakes. A young man like Thomas would impress me as a 33 year old. I am dating a young man (In his 30's also) who is handsome, with a beautiful kind caring soul and is quite mature as well. I was not ready for someone like this at 22. I am 33 and am at that point to where I can do this. Thomas seems in the bracket of finding some to settle down with, I don't think Shauna is there yet. Shauna would benefit from some therapy and dating a few guys first before she is ready to find someone to settle down with. She needs some growth first. She is young. Very young. Thomas seems a bit to mature for her in a way
I had no choice but to be ready. I had my son at eighteen. I was married at twenty. Still married and he is the father of my son. I finally earned an MBA in my thirties. Kids this day and age are given trophies even if they are not earned. They do not have to work hard to get anything. It seems this young gentleman has head on tight. Good for him. I hope he finds a woman that deserves him.
@@carolynmaynard3694 That is good for you however I disagree with the "Kids these days" phrasing. Generations have been saying this and honestly it's not fair.
I think he is a phenomenal fit for Shauna but it also seems like she's more into that average height guy (can't remember his name lol) but I really love Tom. His personality is awesome, he seems to shows a ton of interest in her...also I think he could be super beneficial in teaching her sort of how to loosen up and be more comfortable with living more of a adult life and being a little person. It would sooo cool of she gives him more of a chance, I want to see where it goes with them, I can totally picture them together. 💯❤✝️🙏💍
She seems self absorbed. Throwing her size up. She didn't give poor Thomas a chance. I agree with the comment on her being treated like a child. No matter if someone has a disability or has a small stature my family treats them the same as everyone else. We have both in my family. She needs to be more kind to people. Thomas does deserve better.
Oh come on now girl!! This is a nice guy, genuine and shy what's better than this?? You shouldn't push him because he is feeling very VERY uncomfortable, so PLEASE TRY to make him feel welcomed and encourage him to open up more.
The guy seems very genuine and kind, he deserves better. The girl seems very judgmental and complains a lot. I think its very hard if not impossible to please her. Her entire family is actually very toxic.
he seems like a stand up guy. and a real asset to the fire department. having physical abilities that your peers do not, such as being able to fit in to confined spaces could literally save lives.
The comments here are gross. Shauna is 22 and has dealt with a lot of difficulties in her life. Don’t know why everyone is being harsh on her and saying he’s too good for her. Just because someone shares a diagnosis doesn’t mean they are the one for you.
It's disappointing that no one has respect for her past that made her more likely to act this way. It's probably not even her fault if she acts "bratty" "complains a lot" "selfish". It's her experiences that she couldn't avoid that made her this way, she doesn't CHOOSE to be any of these things... So they should just leave her alone.
@@TheUltimateRare Nobody respects sich prick-behavior. She's had 10s of ex's and her parents enable her to do it. MOST humans look down on such behavior, no matter how you look like. Her family is toxic and she has inherited it. It's clear as day to pretty much everywhere here.
Taking her on a tour of the firehouse is a great idea for a first date, because it shows immediately how big a part of his life it is, and he can see her reactions as to how accepting/supportive she'd be in the future.
What's up with these volunteer jobs? Give him a salary. Are there any other benefits? I just don't get it. Can anyone explain what is the point of volunteering next to people that you work as hard as them, but they get paid and you don't? Explain please. Thank you.
He's genuine-- nothing shallow about him-- and a real gentleman to boot. Not sure she's genuine enough to value his qualities. He might do well to look elsewhere.
Yeah cos I'm sure he's got loads of options 🙄
@@89kilemal , well, myself and 207 other folks, so far, think so .
He def deserves way better than her.
I agree with you 100%
You guys sound awful.
If he had his own show... I'd watch it on the regular
Me too
me too!
Yes!
Facts
The Tom show 😎
He's so sweet!! You can tell he likes her and he respects her. I would like to see more of him, honestly..
That's not gonna happen since she's apparently in a relationship now with someone else
Hopefully he'll be able to ignore all the hate his getting from random strangers on social media or whenever they're out in public together.
I hope we see him as a friend in the series
Poor Tom gets friend zoned
@@Doom_Head95 yeah that sucks considering Tom seems perfect for her because he went through the same thing as her. Plus dude's a firefighter and seems chill as heck.
Just because two people have the same condition doesn't mean they belong to each other. This guy deserves someone better than her. She just complains all the time.
Exactly, she’s so judgmental
Yeah but tbh it would be a good match in other circumstances due to shared experiences and mutual understanding but also... well they just wouldn't look wrong together.
@@neriumsuitedher Basically, if she had a better personality, maybe they'd work.
what's wrong with being judgemental? If the right person comes around and actually respects her for the way she acts, they could be a perfect match.
Judgemental isn't for everyone, yeah. ... But you are acting like she's the worst person ever. Deep down she's a sweetheart and been through a lot. Those experiences shaped her personality and it's deeper than her just being "a complainer"
All she did was say “he’s so nervous” and I agree with her the firehouse tour is a weird first date. Maybe she isn’t into him or maybe she was just nervous too?
I love that Tom doesn't let his size get in the way of living a fulfilling life. I love that his peers see him as an equal, and even value Tom's unique physique because it helps him reach places others cannot. He's a warm soul. I hope he finds the right partner.. this lady ain't it.
She comes off incredibly unlikable.
@@alysskennedy8661 why?
@@le4864besides her attitude? Shauna wants to be mature but it’s more like she’s actually wanting to playing pretend.
Getting tattoos, vaping, and drinking? That isn’t what makes someone be seen as a mature/adult. Those are just some things you get to do “as an adult.”
Meanwhile the date her and her sisters clowning on for his looks actively DOES work/something progressive with his life despite his own disability.
she has to first act as a lady to be considered one
What a lovely man.
Tom deserves an extremely faithful girl who will treat him well. He's truly made the most of his situation, he's out there fighting fires alongside people who are much larger than himself. He respects himself and his peers, he's kind to Shauna and those around him and he is EXTREMELY respectable. What a great dude, I really hope he finds the right one.
hes to good for her XD
Imagine being 23 years old and have your parents follow you on your dates. If you treat her like a child, she will act like a child :/
Imagine having a 23 year old daughter that still looks like 6 I would do the same, who knows what creeps tried to hit on her in the past but I get what you mean
@@SusiiUkraina She is 23, she knows what a creep is and has mentioned the "red flags" multiple times.
She is not a child, she can be independent - sheltering her like this, will just make it worse, they even talk to her like she is a child, I would flip my shit if I was in her situation.
@@SusiiUkraina That mentality is only gonna create issues got the person. Nothing positive will come of it
@@Krogdalo I understand thing is despite all those red flags creeps can still take advantage. The world isn't prefect. Their should be a balance between keeping her safe and letting her be independent.
@ Сузанна Снежинка
Yeah, smart move. Follow her around everywhere and completely CRIPPLE her learning development skills. You treat her like she can’t do a damn thing on her own, she will learn to believe that is true. >.>
This was a good experience for Tom. When he finds someone who isn’t connected to reality TV he’ll do even better.
if women would bloody actually date shorter men sometimes like they should, that would be lovely... He should get some dates.. it wouldn't be fair to him just cause he HAPPENS to be short.
@@TheUltimateRare everyone has preferences regardless of gender. Tom does seem like a great guy and I hope he meets someone who is into him.
@@MyDuckSaysFucc she just doesn't like people easily. too prideful i feel.
@MyDuckSaysFucc he's never gonna find a women interested in him sadly. That's reality.
Tom exudes genuine masculinity
Like? I genuinely what to know what "masculinity" means to different people.
@@MultiSciGeek Character
I get what you're saying. Sometimes it is hard to describe it but you know it when you see it. And yes, he most certainly does.
He’s a firefighter. I’d say that’s pretty masculine
kind and confident, hes awesome!
Dudes a solid 10/10 man. Hard working, confident, chivalrous, and direct. Hope he finds someone who can match what he brings to the table 🙏🏼
This family is harsh. Come on Tom was absolutely charming, this family just has high expectations… “this guys seems nervousssss” well duh yall tailgating them to the diner and them say the dad is going to sit next to him. He handled it very well.
Ikr? How would the guy NOT be nervous in this situation?
@@NICKI814 Tom is putting his life at risk
and also the date is being recorded for the entire world to watch. If he makes any mistake, then he knows that it's going to be recorded and everyone including his family and friends is going to see it.
@NICKI814 she's an influencer, bottom of the barrel person.
He's a firefighter, he literally saves lives while all she does is seek attention from strangers
Society idolizes her, its a wide open invitation.
The guy however its a pity party to the point of suicide. He is going to have a extremly hard life.
I'd actually watch a show with him and the crew responding to emergency calls.
“I Am Tom” would be a much better show than Shauna Rae imo
That'd be adorable lmao
@@Edward.Rippett. fckin brutal lmao.
@@Edward.Rippett. not really. Dudes a real man working a real man’s job putting his life on the line to save others.
That’s the opposite of adorable
The fact that Dad & sister come along is creepy! She isn't 12! There's obviously a cameraman there, she's safe!
Ikr? I donno if creepy but definitely gives uneasy vibes
Are you absolutely crazy do you know how much terrible stuff happens on camera they would have to get to her first for them to even stop anything from happening.
They have to let her live in a world where she needs to figure stuff out herself. She needs to be allowed the space to be an adult. They won’t be here forever.
@Lilly Rose But they are there now. And she is only 22. My 3 girls are 21, 20 and 19 and I still watch over them as if they are toddlers. When I am with them. They are all far away at college but when they are with me, I can't help it. I am their Momma Bear!
@@skontheroad But you aren't there when they're at college. I doubt Shauna would be allowed to go to college alone! If she doesn't learn how to be independent, she will never have a life!
Dude has a good soul. Hope he finds the love he is searching for
Man kudos to Tom. Talk about the pressure. A first date is awkward enough, but he had to go through cameras and her dad AND sister hanging out in the booth next to them. Shauna is 22 I am with the dad, she needs to venture out a little on her own. No romance is going to blossom in a crowd, although I do always suggest a crowded place for a first date.
Right??? How the hell he even did it I don't understand. I would have had a panic attack or take too much anti-anxiety meds before and not made any sense. That is super brutal dude, you should have been able to hang out with her without any cameras or family around...
are you talking aboutpressure on his date or when she was holding the fire hose lmao
@@NICKI814 lol, I was talking about the pressure from the date and everyone watching them
I mean I know she’s little but am I the only one thinking it’s weird af that her sister and stepdad is there? Y’all that’s odd/creepy
@@Lynn-zx3th If you watch the show her family (mainly sisters and mom) tend to treat her like a kid most the time even though she's in her 20's. Her body stop growing but her mind is very much that of an adult. When I see her I just see a little adult person. But when others see her as child they are just pushing the narrative that she's still a child.
She seems so beaten down by her situation, and a bit quick to judge others by looks herself. You can sense her wanting love but projecting insecurities on others. I sincerely hope she gives this man a chance. First thing she notices about him is is height . Like girl…
Lmaoo right, like that suprised me. How can you be so hypocritical.
I think she wants to date a regular sized Man. She seems a little judgemental and entitled for this really great Guy. I hope for happiness for the both of them😊
She’s looking for a 6’2 chad that makes $200,000 per year and has numerous rental properties in Dubai, not realizing she’s a 1.
Truth 👍🍻
Like every chick she believes she deserves a man thats 6'4 and makes at least 500k a year while being below mid themselves.
What a great guy Tom is. I truly hope and pray he find a nice lady, shauna is not it. He is grounded, genuine and a great guy
Yep he is a great guy, there’s definitely other girls that will snap him up and find him atttractive and genuine
lol women are delusional, they say hes a great guy but most women would not actually date him even though they say otherwise.
They just don't mesh as a couple but i hope they become/stay friends
What is wrong with Shauna? I’ve only seen short clips and this video & so many are commenting about her not being the best?
@@Lynn-zx3th if you couldn't hear from this vid she had cancer that was found around 6 months old had surgery and then had to do chemo to get the rest gone the tumor was on her pituitary gland which is dormant so she needed growth hormones after they realized she wasn't growing in Kindergarten that didn't work too well but she grew just a few more inches till she hit puberty... Tom also has a different type of cancer that was found early on which also caused his pituitary gland to be dormant but no one questioned his height till he was 15 or 16 so they did a scan of his hand and the doctors said his growth plates were too close to being fused for the growth hormones to work at all
Their height difference looks normal for a man and women. She comes up to his shoulder which is quite common for couples.
worrying so much about height is a major flaw in society honestly. This isn't natural selection time anymore. we have defeated the need for such a process. girls should be more willing to date men under 5'6" in the American height model.
It's so weird on how people obsess with heights so much,were not jungle animals where we have to find the biggest mate to survive anymore??
@Bobby
Physical attraction isn’t rational, it’s deep in our evolutionary past and DNA. Your body doesn’t know it lives in “modern” times. Man or woman, people will be attracted to what hundreds of millions of years of ancestry program them to be attracted to and you can’t just flip a switch and choose not to care.
My grandma was taller than grandpa. He liked to say "when we're toe to toe I'm nosing it and when we're nose to nose I'm toeing it!"
I don’t even reach my man’s shoulder lol. I’m almost a foot shorter and we are average heights (5’2, 6’)😂
Tom seems like a genuine guy I wish him the best in the life fr
“First dates are always awkward” Yeah and y’all are making it worse by tagging along…. Just let them go by themselves geez
Tom seems like a sweetheart, but she is very snobbish and opinionated. I hope he finds someone that he can share his life with.
She's a girl in her early 20s. Find me one that isn't anymore lol
@@wesscott7497 how is she snobbish he’s not that attractive she’s actually attractive despite her condition he looks 40 already , has a gut , balding . She isn’t opinionated she barely spoke ?
@@Kreeplifeinc Chill chill chill
Totally agree
@@Kreeplifeinc She is shallow as all get out and Tom is so cute.
This man is a beast, strong and confident. No joking this man is definitely one one hell of man. A fire fighter, a hero and never letting jack stop him. Talk about an American hero, dude deserves way better then her.
I think it’s a bit odd that her dad and sister tag along like she is 13 , she is a grown adult who is clearly very sheltered , I know plenty of little people who have their own business and live life without having their parents watching their every move
You mean 23 not 13😊
@ did you read what I wrote, I said they treat her LIKE she is 13
He adorable and respectful. This guy is gonna find that special lady one day for sure 😊
That guy is friggen awesome, i'm 6'5 but id probably feel average standing next to him. Rare to meet any man with that kind of spirit and passion for something like that.
He actually said "we got a hose you can handle" with a straight face. lmao Bravo. And thanks Tom for your volunteer service.
I wanna be Tom's friend
I watched this show like twice. Let’s be real her appearance may be different but she’s just as stand-offing as many other girls who are in high school or middle school. The whole family is but you’d think she’d at least be more understanding.
Im 4”7, not as a result of anything, I just happen to be short and yeah. I don’t get her, or other midget women who care so much about height of men, it’s weird and makes no sense.
I don’t find her standoffish, just immature, and coddled by her family 😂
Do you mean off putting?
@@ericjay6021 I means stand offish but idk what happened there xD
Tom seems like a sweet guy
Truly an incredible young man, absolutely incredible with all the hardships he faced he’s been able to succeed and is a handsome, confident man! 💪💪
Tom is so cute and has so much confidence in himself ❤️😊
Crazy how confidence can carry a person he does it well
He shouldn't.
@@azazello1784what is wrong w u
@@silk132 everything is wrong with him.
@@paolacrown868 you are so cute 🥰
Reading the comments I can tell the true protagonist of this episode was Tom.
I support this love for the short king and he has more than earned his crown.
She's complaining about him being taller....but the guy she's dating wayyyyyy more taller I like this guy he actually understands what she's going threw she wants a Instagram model looking guy not someone for their personality
blackpill moment
Why can’t u have both?
Even if he is taller it’s a pretty normal height difference in any relationship.
He seems like a sweetie he’s talking nonstop because he’s nervous but he also loves his job
TLC need to give thomas a spinoff.
Am I the only one realllly not liking her?…. She seems so entitled and dramatic half the time.
Her sister says the same thing.
Nope, I think you put it nicely. I had a very specific description in mind, little to high on her horse. These 2 are very different. One has accepted and is living life, nothing stopping him. The other is 22 and wants to get a degree or something….. very different attitudes towards their situation
Yup and she's rude
I think the contrast between her and Tom makes it worse. Tom is such a sweetheart and no one around him treats him like he's different. He's fully embraced life and doesn't allow his disability to keep her down. Shauna lives life with a bit of a chip on her shoulder and centers her entire life around her disability. She is also treated (or acts) like she's much younger. Like, what the heck were her sister and step-dad doing there? She's grown. I think she wants to be coddled on her terms by her family, but expects the general public to assume she's an adult. Totally entitled.
She's your initials with a u and t added. That's as nicely as I can put it. Abrasive, stuck-up, and just straight up rude to everyone.
Most people are not lucky enough to have a job they are so passionate about this guy is awesome .he hid his nerves really well
Tommy is cool af I love him. He is a real man, secure in himself ❤
Indeed! A lesson for all us awkward people!
I guarantee she judges him for being small n won’t like him
He's single. You should date him.
@@daved1113 I’m good
@@prihaps lol
Can we give Tom a show instead of this girl? He’s much better of a person and has much more to teach us about life ❤
This is literally the only relationship Shauna could be in where the guy isn't perceived as having a fantasy for young looking girls.
This is an absolute true true statement. I hope they fall in love.
@@kittycat8222they won’t, she’s looking for something unrealistic.
@@joshuacox1559how? Someone she is attracted to is asking a lot lol??
I’m barely watching this and I like this guy already ! His voice is relaxing but he seems like a good guy for her. She could have something very healthy with Tom vs other guys that are very likely to want to date her for the wrong reasons cuz it’s obvious
Such a cute date! He was obviously nervous and trying to impress you on his manly hood. But he did finally ask you about you... so points there! And so glad you continues the date!... try to get to know eachother but dont settle if your not feeling it!!!
Oh... btw... your dad is intimidating! Lol
Good luck!
She and her family to snobbish . She probably only like guys who are dickbags
He is a real alpha male with a genuine heart.
A life experience lesson for all of us.
The parents need to give her some space, its brutal
_I'm rooting for them, I hope this love is strengthened ❤️❤️_
Yes! He's a strong male! So is she 😍
Get rid of her overbearing family sisters are annoying
Why she didn't kept going out with this dude then?
Nah she's in a relationship now with someone else
@@paolacrown868 she is a narcissist
the guy is a legend and all the best to them both , gives me hope for the world that people can find others with so much in common no matter how rare .. amen guys
Tom you deserve better than this little kardashian
Yes! Exactly.
Her body language makes it obvious she's disinterested.
he probably wouldn't have ended up with her either way. Though I think it's her experiences that are really shining what her personality comes from. people who been through a lot of hardships are more likely to be self-centered and selfish, more likely to be childish and complain because they want to throw their weight around, really show themselves, they are just trying to live their best life and trying to be a good person in their own mind. it's not like it really matters how she acts, only her man really has to worry about that part. aren't we judging her too harshly without being in her shoes? like seriously.
Does anyone really understand what YOU been through? maybe like 3 people tops. your doctor your parents or your sibling. but everyone else probably isn't close enough to you to truly judge your full appearance or your outlook,
So seriously we shouldn't be treating her like she's some kind of bad person... It might not even be her fault for this.
They both had childhood cancer, and she’s the one with the attitude. FYI, true survivors of hardship are some of the most selfless ppl I know-like this firefighter. Not Shauna.
@@TheUltimateRare Thank you, that needed to be stated. 100% agree.
Tom Is Such A Gentleman He Deserves Someone Special That Makes Him Happy I’m Hoping He Finds What He Looking For
What a handsome, kind, cool young man!!! He’s got a bright future for sure :)
imagine being in your early 20s and having your family around you on a date. just because shauna has pituitary dwarfism doesnt mean she should be treated like a child by her own family
"Right now I'm working on a lot of Little Things" not gonna lie that made me chuckle a little lol
I like this little man hes got a clean heart and good things are coming for him.
Whether it works out or not, I think they could both benefit from staying friends.
nah.. Tom will be taken advantage of.. he’s too wholesome.. he should def stay away from the lil dramas 😂
tom is a savage much love for him including the other guys for treating him like one of them
Tom dodged a bullet. Pray for Tom!!!
Friendliness, bubbly Personality, height difference, positive attitude and similar health issues they seem compatible.
Tom is an awesome guy. God bless him. He is soo real.
“This guy seems nervous”.
Most people don’t have family and a camera crew on a first date
Thomas seems like a real sweetheart, good people are few and far between
The dad being like “we’re following” in such a stern way… like back off dude no wonder Tom was nervous
So Shauna has a lot of growing to do but we are forgetting she is 22. She is extremely young. She is still growing as a person and is going to make mistakes, she is also going to be more picky with dates. She will probably annoy us with her dating mistakes. A young man like Thomas would impress me as a 33 year old. I am dating a young man (In his 30's also) who is handsome, with a beautiful kind caring soul and is quite mature as well. I was not ready for someone like this at 22. I am 33 and am at that point to where I can do this. Thomas seems in the bracket of finding some to settle down with, I don't think Shauna is there yet. Shauna would benefit from some therapy and dating a few guys first before she is ready to find someone to settle down with. She needs some growth first. She is young. Very young. Thomas seems a bit to mature for her in a way
I had no choice but to be ready. I had my son at eighteen. I was married at twenty. Still married and he is the father of my son. I finally earned an MBA in my thirties. Kids this day and age are given trophies even if they are not earned. They do not have to work hard to get anything. It seems this young gentleman has head on tight. Good for him. I hope he finds a woman that deserves him.
@@carolynmaynard3694 That is good for you however I disagree with the "Kids these days" phrasing. Generations have been saying this and honestly it's not fair.
@@carolynmaynard3694 you chose to be married and have kids young ?
She is 22 but acts 14
Love this comment, I think it’s spot on!
She’s gonna ruin him with her negativity
He deserves better than this bratty princess.
they aren't even together anymore so nope.
he seems so sweet😭
Awww hoping they both find love ❤
He’s so positive and passionate, he’s a great young man.
I think he is a phenomenal fit for Shauna but it also seems like she's more into that average height guy (can't remember his name lol) but I really love Tom.
His personality is awesome, he seems to shows a ton of interest in her...also I think he could be super beneficial in teaching her sort of how to loosen up and be more comfortable with living more of a adult life and being a little person.
It would sooo cool of she gives him more of a chance, I want to see where it goes with them, I can totally picture them together. 💯❤✝️🙏💍
The parents on the first date is too much. She’s an adult
The long Island accent 😍
The best NYC accent
She seems self absorbed. Throwing her size up. She didn't give poor Thomas a chance. I agree with the comment on her being treated like a child. No matter if someone has a disability or has a small stature my family treats them the same as everyone else. We have both in my family. She needs to be more kind to people. Thomas does deserve better.
Omg he's so cute, so humble, gentle and kind. I'd give him a chance frfr
hopefully she can find more people with her similar diagnosis. it feels like the only right match
She has a narcissistic personality
Oh hes a sweetheart! If it doesnt work out romantically i hope they have a great friendship!!
Tom seems like a great guy, something bout him makes me shine like a rock star. I hope he finds his other half
He has great outlook she is a bit bitter and jaded . I think she Carrie’s a lot of her parents energy .
This dude is cool and she’s like overanalyzing everything. He’s probably a cool dude to hang and have a few beers with.
Ton telling her that there's a fire hose that she can handle was pure gold.
What an incredible young man
This girl is a puppet for TV.
Don't let her bring you down in the same situation. You're a good hearted man and deserve better.
When he said you wanna handle a hose my mind went dirty not actual hose 😂
Thankyou for what you do you’re a genuine person wish there was more positive people like you 🚒
Hello Alyssa I am Alyssa too ❤
I hope st least they end up friends. It's always good having ppl who have similar experiences in your life.
The perfect size firefighter, he can go into any fire and not worry about burns or smoke inhalation. That stuff all rises
Oh come on now girl!! This is a nice guy, genuine and shy what's better than this?? You shouldn't push him because he is feeling very VERY uncomfortable, so PLEASE TRY to make him feel welcomed and encourage him to open up more.
kinda too late. she already jumped to a different guy.
The guy seems very genuine and kind, he deserves better. The girl seems very judgmental and complains a lot. I think its very hard if not impossible to please her. Her entire family is actually very toxic.
He seems like a good dude. I bet he’s a decent friend
he seems like a stand up guy. and a real asset to the fire department. having physical abilities that your peers do not, such as being able to fit in to confined spaces could literally save lives.
The comments here are gross. Shauna is 22 and has dealt with a lot of difficulties in her life. Don’t know why everyone is being harsh on her and saying he’s too good for her. Just because someone shares a diagnosis doesn’t mean they are the one for you.
It's disappointing that no one has respect for her past that made her more likely to act this way. It's probably not even her fault if she acts "bratty" "complains a lot" "selfish". It's her experiences that she couldn't avoid that made her this way, she doesn't CHOOSE to be any of these things... So they should just leave her alone.
@@TheUltimateRare Nobody respects sich prick-behavior. She's had 10s of ex's and her parents enable her to do it. MOST humans look down on such behavior, no matter how you look like. Her family is toxic and she has inherited it. It's clear as day to pretty much everywhere here.
love how the career discussion at the end is her saying "i have no job, just kinda looking at what will happen". no different
This reminds me of those awful hilarious dating shows on MTV when I was younger 😂 remember Next?? That would never fly now 😂
Taking her on a tour of the firehouse is a great idea for a first date, because it shows immediately how big a part of his life it is, and he can see her reactions as to how accepting/supportive she'd be in the future.
Sweet guy just wanted to share his passion and his job with her. She doesn’t appreciate almost anything..
Why would people judge other people so annoying people need to grow up
He’s very sweet. It seems like she’s not that into him. I think she likes more confident guys and he’s not her type.
“Is it a garden hose?” She’s hilarious😂❤️
Oh come on everyone has seen firemen work those big hoses, she is acting like a little girl...she ain't Marilyn Monroe.
@@elishabraun196 she was making light of her height which I’m sure she has to do all the time. 🤷🏻♀️🙄🤦🏻♀️
@@paisleyrae207she’s actually pretty manipulative. I see a bunch of those qualities in her.
Tom needs his own show 🚒💕 imagine a show to show that size doesn't mean anything hes a firefighter. Seems really genuine.
She's looking for fortune & fame, and he's looking for a genuinely respectful & proper women. 👍🍻
What's up with these volunteer jobs? Give him a salary. Are there any other benefits? I just don't get it. Can anyone explain what is the point of volunteering next to people that you work as hard as them, but they get paid and you don't? Explain please. Thank you.
Tom is the guy she needs but she will never go for him because she is used to being treated like crap. Nice guys always finish last.
He’s unattractive and older it doesn’t matter about him being nice
@@Kreeplifeinc All of the guys she dates are older than her so that is a none argument. 🙄
She will remain single.
Oh don't worry he didn't finish last. He dodge a bullet.
@@Kreeplifeinc unattractive? You say that like its a universal fact.
you think he's ugly? that's pretty rude. he looks pretty average. which isn't ugly in the slightest :/
He is a firefighter! Awesome!