What Is Self-Care • In The Closet
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Cameron Esposito
@CameronEsposito
I absolutely love how this series is run by two cis lesbians, but they choose to actively seek out guests from more marginalized identities like bisexual and trans guests. I love how even though they are both cis, they make it a point to ask everyone's pronouns so as to normalize self-identification and not assume anyone's gender :)
Giuli M yes I agree! I'm just ready for these episodes to keep coming, haha!
CRosco1541 So what is gender? What are the differences between men and women? And how do genitals affect how men and women act? What about intersex people (people who were born with ambiguous genitals, reproductive organs, or chromosomes: for example, a person born with a vagina, internal testes instead of ovaries, and XY chromosomes. What gender would they be?) Also, do you think gender transcends culture? In other words, would people from different cultures see gender in the same way, or would there be differences? Like, how different is gender in the U.S. compared to Iraq, compared to Korea? Just trying to get an idea of how you view gender :) Defining terms is the most important part of having a productive discussion. If you would like, I'll answer my own questions to define my own terms too :)
Okay so "gender" does not necessarily go hand in hand with "gender roles" what one country expects out of a male may differ completely with another. In asking about intersex individuals I do not know a single thing about that, if you could inform me a little more on that I would be thankful. But I believe sex is biological and so is gender in my opinion. I hope to continue this discussion if you would have me.
CRosco1541 Just Google intersex! There's a lot of content about it on youtube, too
CRosco1541 could you explain more how gender is biological? I believe sex is biological but gender is not.
I have a pink snake like the one around Jens neck. Not like anyone cares
Smol Bean I care ❤
Smol Bean, this is a safe space. And we care.
Aw thank guys 😊
Your right I don't
Popular MMO's
My right?
Am I gay? Straight? Anything? I DON'T KNOW AND IT'S TERRIFYING
AnnaLeo i feel you, honestly do what I did for the past 2/3 year; put it aside and don't focus on it. I only came to terms with it when my crush came out ngl, and still haven't come out to the majority of people
AnnaLeo I am in the same situation...
AnnaLeo it's okay not to know right now :)
you're awesome! thats the one that counts :) #DFTBA
Thanks for the lovely comments y'all :)
For the longest time I thought I was straight, and then I met this one person who changed everything, and made me realise that I could be bisexual. My world came crashing down around me, and I was happy that I was beginning to understand myself more but completely and utterly terrified about how little I actually knew about myself all this time. I eventually came to the conclusion that it simply doesn't matter to me whether someone id male or female, I am simply either attracted to them or not, regardless of their gender (I could well be pansexual, but I have never had a crush on anyone who wasn't one of the binary genders as they are so few and far between where I live, so idk as of yet!) But then, just as I was beginning to understand it and accept it, the election result happened and I lost all confidence in my self discovery again. And that's with me living in the UK, I cannot even imagine how terrifying it would be if I was going through this living in the US right now... For anyone who feels the same as me, you're not alone, please remember that. There are so many other people like you and me out there who are confused and scared by their sexuality, and maybe we'll never really have a definite label to stick to ourselves, but that's okay. Stay safe, stay strong and most of all, stay true to who you truly are. Love is love, no matter what form it takes, and that is something beautiful that nobody can ever take away from you ❤️💛💚💙💜
That was so beautiful! ❤️
I thought self care was a code word for masturbation xD
John H PLEASE LETS MAKE IT A THING
Aleksandra Baryżewska ale to jest a thing przeciez
John H is it bad i thought the same thing
John H is that why you clicked on it?
CookieJarGirl 123 ob j gt u. Migrfr .u
Ijnu. #uyM:ojj:-C :O:'(>_
this is my favorite buzzfeed series, with ladylike and try guys following close behind
Erica Bourland buzzfeed is cancer
VERITAS stop trying to be edgy
VERITAS Melanoma is cancer.
is cancer
ZozziGames buzzfeed is cancer
I live in a closet......
AsianInTheCloset Nice to meet you, Mister Potter
Paranoid Penguin i really Want to give you 97462902 thumbs up because of your comment, but sadly, thats Not possible
Harry?
harry potter lived in a cupboard under the stairs, not a closet
if there's one thing Harry potter taught us, no-one should have to live in a closet (cupboard/under the stairs)
💛 a hufflepuff
Has anyone else missed Jen soo much, love her!
Are there any other straight folks out there that are comfortable with their sexuality but love In The Closet anyway?
Moa Nilsson I honestly thought I was the only one
Moa Nilsson me!!
Moa Nilsson I love watching it too. Very informative & interesting plus I'm learning stuff. Win win!
kir57y82 Exactly!
Moa Nilsson
yes i am "straight"
i love the closet and thats where im stayinnggg
I love how there is a lilo dress in the background
I have vivid memories of my mom telling me to close my legs.
Ethan Champion 😂😂
I want to take Jen on a date. 😭
SAME! She is such a bean!!!
Don’t we all
Same but I’m 12!
Is that weird😂
@@theunknownbunny9285 same
Lexa deserved better
Olivia Searcy I'm still not over it 😢💔
Olivia Searcy THANK YOU.
I legitametly CRIED
Olivia searcy me neither
I haven't already watched the video so no idea why is Lexa here, but damn, SHE DESERVED BETTER #Clexa
"I'm a comedian my pronouns are she and her" oh well you sound like a riot, nothing funnier than a politically correct comedian!
They literally have everyone who comes on this show say their pronouns.
Ben Macdowall She is hilarious... and definitely not PC
They get everyone to say their pronouns, I don't think she said it just from herself, I'm sure they asked her
TransBoiable And thank God they do too, otherwise I'd have no way of knowing what sex they are
Pronouns and sex aren't the same thing.
They mentioned the 100. That is my favourite tv show😁. RIP lexa ❤
I like Cameron, but I don't really understand her haircut
Карина Гладчук ?
Карина Гладчук "Side Mullet". Its a good haircut for when you want people to know you're a lesbian without wearing a "Hi. I'm a lesbian, ask me how" button.
I love her hair though! I freaken love her
people; "you're not alone"
me: * remembers skam *
me: * cries *
"I thought what was going on in The Loo was really great"
*sad face from everyone*
"WAS really great"
*happy face from everyone*
Sidenote: Lexa deserved better
Having a dog has helped me SOOOO much. I have a
100 lb. Akbash and a 60 lb. Pitbull.
Do you think you guys could talk about being genderfluid and what it means? pretty please?
The way jen's eyes lit up when she said having a dog 💗 my bby loves dogs so much
YAY! I love this woman
No matter what or who you are, there are always people who support you and go through the same things.
This series is amazing. Keep it going Jen and Buzzfeed!! ❤️
I love Jen so much, she is so adorable!
I want a collab with Ingrid Nilsen talking about femme invisibility! Please!!!!
Merry christmas to all of you! Remember to take care of yourself and others.
self care is going to a macys with a water bottle filled with crushed advil and vodka and drinking it all in one gulp
1:44 Whose hand is that in the corner? xD
I love Cameron Espisito she's so funny
Love how Cameron's so positive
I love watching in the closet! It's just so much fun to watch. So thanks Jen and Niki for making this series xx
I thought she meant rocking climbing lol
I really love watching these, it's nice to see people talk about different aspects of queer life and self-care out in the open rather than just amongst me and friends. really opens up the conversation more
camerons side mullet gives me life
Can we all agree to the fact that Jen needs her own channel?
OMG Cameron Esposito and Jen in one video????
It's always Jen *&* Nikki. How can you split them up? Whoever gets only Nikki would feel guilty thanks to those sad, puppy dog eyes.
Yey! The real Carmen Esposito!
I really love how spacey Cameron gets :)
Love this series guys. Much love, and forever an ally. 💜💛💚💙
Jenn is just perfect! ❤️
Jen is so adorable
Jen is my favorite!
For self-care I curl up with a blanket watching TH-cam, reading fanfiction, take a shower, listen to music and just stay in a room all day to de-stress
Self care is dumpster diving behind a Taco Bell, finding a hot sauce packet, and then using a syringe to inject hot sauce into your bloodstream so you can meet our true lord and savior Cthulhu.
her hair agitated me SO MUCH
jen😭you're great
So proud that Teagan and Sarah are from my city. :) Calgary, AB represent!
Her hair reminds me of when Edward scissor hands gave everyone hair cuts
I have become more fashionable when i started living in a closet 🤣
THE SIDE MULLET IS GODLIKE
This is the best! This combination, yes!
CAMERON AND JEN IN THE SAME VIDEO...how did someone else see my heartfelt desire when I looked into the mirror of Erised?
The 100 omg Lexa ❤😭
I agree about the 100 like seriously
Best Christmas Present. Thanks Buzzfeed! :)
the green screen bother me and i dont now why it just in the background
My room is a closet no joke , I love this video
They are beautiful!
Buzzfeed should create a channel that relates to sexuality. Like Trans, LGBTQ, Just plain sex etc... they could call it BuzzfeedRainbow!
I love Cameron! and she low-key looks and sounds like she could be Jim Carrey's lost daughter xD
With the utmost respect to all my lgbtq friends, this helped me (as a straight person) a LOT. Thank you, guys, for posting this.
*Brooklyn 99 fans* : Seeing Cameron Esposito
"Rosa's (ex)girlfriend with the leather jacket of S6 Ep14!!!"
I missed this😔💗
I love Jen & Cameron
Jen is such a babe
JENNY SCHECHTER GETS KILLED?!? I'm only in season 3!!!! OMG
Moment of silence for the Clexa ship that could have been....
Aww she's so cute. I love it when people don't know how to use snapchat. Someone show her and blow her mind.
In the closet" in the main Chanel of BuzzFeed?
I love this so much
She's my queen
OH MY GOD THE ONE HUNDRED THAT WAS A GREAT SHOW!!
They should do a architects play jenga
Happy holidays my friends
Another awesome video!!!
That moment when Jen's Oprah bread joke whomped 💔
I always thought queer was a bad word
Good_vibess 23 it used to sort of be considered a slur, but now it's used more commonly to describe LGBT+ people
Clexa shall live on !!!!!!
Cameron has beautiful hair.
I have that snake plushyyyy :OOOOOO
I really want AmandasChronicles to be on this show :3
Jen, you're the kind of girl I'd take to meet my momma! 😍😍😍
Jen😻💕💕💕💕
3:16 anyone else watch nomad's entire joiner storyline? anyone?
jonnor*
UHHG I LOVE THESE THREE I CAN'T CONTAIN THE GAY!!!!!
Also, I just started watching Supergirl for JUST the gay stuff.
Have a great 2017 guys
Francesca Springall have a great 2018
OH MY GOSH SHE LIKES THE 100!
I'm watching all of these.
Yes Cameron!!!!!
My bisexual self in my corner: JEN PULL UP THAT SHIRT, STOP LEANING FORWARD, AND STOP BEING JEN, IMMA HAVE A HEART ATTACK
I want the Butcher- Espositos (Espositoes?) to adopt me
Get Tegan and Sara on the show! XD
GET HANNAH HART ON HERE
Yes
Jen ♡♡♡
This is such a good video
anyone else small crush on Jen
I'm not queer, but I like this series. I think I just really like Jen and Nikki