How to Figure Out What You Want to Do With Your Life: 7 Helpful Exercises

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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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  • @FabiolaSuarez
    @FabiolaSuarez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1629

    To whoever is reading this... You WILL find your purpose. You are amaIng and worth it. I believe in you.

    • @joymae
      @joymae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fabiola Suárez think you fabiola

    • @emmajeanbx
      @emmajeanbx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💖

    • @justicevale1
      @justicevale1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ❤️😞

    • @NicoleMinabe
      @NicoleMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love the positivity! We need more of it in this world!

    • @aurora-gx8mx
      @aurora-gx8mx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you too,, ly 🥺🥰💕

  • @melanieharry2463
    @melanieharry2463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    I am 35 and I've only just figured out what I want to do with my life. I thought I had figured it out over a decade ago but apparently not. life is a process, don't be afraid to change things up.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    The worst thing one can do is to live by others expectations of what you should be.
    They don't know how it is to be you.

    • @joymae
      @joymae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me that’s when I began living my life and feeling happy

    • @emmajeanbx
      @emmajeanbx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      100% agree!

    • @RababAlhunaidi
      @RababAlhunaidi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me you always win the best comment

    • @NicoleMinabe
      @NicoleMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed!! I just created a TH-cam video about this...or it was one of my tips. People will always pass judgements, or you feel like you have to prove yourself to others but you really don't! We always have to remember that

    • @ginasahota
      @ginasahota 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yess!!

  • @JENerationDIY
    @JENerationDIY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    thank you for making this video, aileen! I'm going through this exact struggle right now

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      aww jen! happy to help ❤️ you're doing amazing already

  • @alexmcginness8859
    @alexmcginness8859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    The first year after I graduated was so painful! I got a job in my field and quickly realized (truthfully, I already knew) that I didn’t want to keep pursuing a career in biology. One yoga teacher training later, I decided to dive into content and social media. That led me to design which I now do full time on my own! It’s crazy to think I created a career where I’m my own boss and live on my own terms. You’ve reminded me to be proud of what I’ve accomplished! ☺️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you go girl ❤️❤️

    • @ginasahota
      @ginasahota 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Follow what makes you happy in the end! Life is short!

  • @quarterlife2400
    @quarterlife2400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    This is exactly what I need!! I’m just starting to figure out what I want to do in my life.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      good luck dear!

    • @lihinihimara
      @lihinihimara 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 💕

    • @DebFoley
      @DebFoley 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great info!

    • @ginasahota
      @ginasahota 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree 100 %

    • @watchme7076
      @watchme7076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have your fingered it out what you want to do ?

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Always beautiful! Congrats on the workbook 🌈🙂

  • @Kirakiraanimations
    @Kirakiraanimations 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    What puts me into flow state is just starting! Not waiting for the right moment but just starting what i need to do and then i will eventually fall into that flow state~ :)

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      love that!

    • @saintessa
      @saintessa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I was wondering how to start it but you could be right.

  • @leae2731
    @leae2731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Last night i was just crying and praying because i don't know what career i will pursue after college, i feel like i am not good at the things i used to be good at, this pandemic really making me emotionally unstable , and here you are aileen 😭💗💗💗 Thank you srsly

  • @mariah2892
    @mariah2892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I’m graduating in a month and I feel very lost right now so this is exactly what I need right now. Thank you so much, there has never been a person online that inspired and motivated me so much like you do 🥺👉🏼👈🏼❤️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      sending you lots of love! ❤️

  • @theselfredefined
    @theselfredefined 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When she says “when I edit my videos and I look up and four hours has passed” really resonated with me. It’s so fun to anticipate the end result with what you enjoy creating

  • @mayrell031093
    @mayrell031093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I graduated 7 years ago, got several jobs and thought I found what I want to do in my life. I was wrong, I moved to a new country 3 years ago and that's where I got lost like completely lost. I keep asking what should I do to my life, I felt this pressure from my surroundings. But I'm glad I found your channel 💙. Thank you.

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    French, Japanese, Portuguese & Spanish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

    • @natachaphoolcharoen8026
      @natachaphoolcharoen8026 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Aileen. I’m your TH-cam fan from Thailand. I’m happy to help with translate into Thai in case there's someone needed.

  • @daniellemayber6509
    @daniellemayber6509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Your videos are so aesthetic! They seriously give me the warm fuzzies. I aspire to get to your level of artistry.

    • @mojojojo8223
      @mojojojo8223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well get over 1 million subscribers like her and you can make over 60k a month...not a yr ..a month just like her....check it out

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you ❤️

  • @nosibusisocele984
    @nosibusisocele984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Exactly what I needed. What puts me into flow state is writing (short stories, poems and content for youtube). I love writing so much. When I write, I forget about food, social media, and all.

  • @Luna-rr3qu
    @Luna-rr3qu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    I was literally having a crisis thinking about my future and my purpose a little d then this notification pops up

    • @emmarivallain5658
      @emmarivallain5658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same.. like yesterday evening i just laid on my bed thinking about what to do and had a small existencial crisis because i have no idea

    • @erickacaraballo8301
      @erickacaraballo8301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Luna A. This is big facts

    • @ruchika.1201
      @ruchika.1201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG yes. The same for me. :)

    • @NicoleMinabe
      @NicoleMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its always great when something like that happens

  • @krisydays
    @krisydays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is so timely and helpful! I'm in the age in my life where people (including me!) expect me to achieve so much while the other half is telling me to slow down and let life lead me. And honestly, i like the option two better 💕 Thank you so much for this ❤️✨

  • @elizabethmary2439
    @elizabethmary2439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Things that put me in flow:
    Cleaning
    Cooking
    Organizing
    Budgeting/paperwork
    Writing/journaling
    Helping people through personal issues/volunteering
    Research
    Being in nature
    North node in Scorpio = North Node Scorpios are meant to explore the most profound matters when it comes to psychology. During the present lifetime, they're all the time learning how to place value on how others' mind is working.
    First House = North Node in the first house brings the conflict between the need for self-development and the pursuit of harmony; mental balance and the ability to adapt in a relationship; tension between giving and receiving.
    These people need to develop the courage to step out of old relationship habits and create the right relationship with themselves. They need to do what they think is right. They should concentrate on developing their independence and self-confidence. They should be willing to deal with conflicts and accept losses in relationships.
    Beware of over-adaptability and inclination to help everyone, even if it is against their own needs.

  • @officxlsofti8558
    @officxlsofti8558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love art. anything about art, whether it's writing books, drawing digitally, canvas art, crochet, embroidery, sketching, music, makeup, etc. i just love to do art. the world needs a positive person to help people through hard times like right now. wow..already thinking through what i want in the very far away future

  • @kmilurbano2924
    @kmilurbano2924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Badly need this! I feel lost and I'm crying because I don't know what to do. Thank you so much, Aileen! I really love your videos.

    • @NicoleMinabe
      @NicoleMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep your head up! It's ok to feel lost but just take small little tasks to get you in the right direction every day. Then it will become easier over time. You got this!

    • @ginasahota
      @ginasahota 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      great video!

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Pls share this video w/ anyone who needs it 💛 Get the FREE Life Path Workbook download here → lavendaire.com/lifepathwb
    // TIMESTAMPS
    1:20 - Self reflection & finding your career sweet spot
    3:02 - Self discovery: exploring, taking action, getting feedback
    5:48 - Why knowledge is never wasted
    6:20 - Questions to guide you to the right path
    6:29 - Flow
    7:57 - The Sh*t Sandwich
    9:42 - Vivid Vision Exercise
    10:37 - Dreamlining Exercise & Ideal Life Costing
    13:23 - What astrology can tell you about your purpose

    • @madeleineediop
      @madeleineediop 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love you!!

    • @katoliviea
      @katoliviea 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much!! you help so many people 💖

    • @patrickgabrielmendy9337
      @patrickgabrielmendy9337 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Sntiago hi

    • @SweetAsElle
      @SweetAsElle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lavendaire I really needed this. To say that I’m lost again in what my purpose is and what I want to do with my life is an understatement.
      This pandemic really screwed up my initial path to my dream life after being laid off from my main job right after winning Employee of the Month and before formally receiving a promotion and a raise for my excellent performance with the company.
      I also can’t work at my side barista job or any other essential worker jobs, because I’m immunocompromised. I haven’t received any unemployment benefits or payments even though I’ve been approved since March 27, 2020.
      I’m trying so hard not to stay negative and down in the dumps with all the problems I have because of this pandemic, especially since I’m not alone in feeling that way and there’s people in worse situations than me because of this. Thanks Aileen/ Lavendaire for still posting content that inspires, motivates and gives people like me hope 🥺💜💗✨

    • @randyandreipadernos2061
      @randyandreipadernos2061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm lost😔

  • @tulip135
    @tulip135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    This might sound really depressing lol but what if I don’t love anything? Like I’m not necessarily passionate about specific things. I don’t even know what to major in for college.

    • @madamemagiquee
      @madamemagiquee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Tulip Tulip you’re not alone

    • @lilyboniface8738
      @lilyboniface8738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I feel exactly the same way

    • @randomcarrot7970
      @randomcarrot7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same here... but I think it's alright if we still don't know our purpose in life. It's not like it's the only thing we should be worried about anyway.

    • @confusingdaisyxo7601
      @confusingdaisyxo7601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      that's me~ I do love things but to be paid for it? nah fam, I hope watching Netflix gets me paid but oops

    • @sruthisj7703
      @sruthisj7703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same here! Idk what major to choose too. People say TRY DIFFERENT THINGS. But idk WHAT to try. Pls help out anyone

  • @ameliagentes2406
    @ameliagentes2406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Vivid Vision exercise (among the others in the workbook) is POWERFUL. I was feeling so lost, and ideas just started flowing into my head, things that I never would've thought about beforehand. A life that I wanted was coming into my head and I saw steps to start to take immediately to get there. I don't feel STUCK for the first time in a very long time. I'm inspired and motivated and EXCITED. Thank you!! Seriously, I can't express my gratitude, literally a life changing boundary-breaking moment for me.

  • @pulkitsrvstva
    @pulkitsrvstva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been feeling low about so many things, but then I saw this and its like universe telling me, everything will be okay.
    You and your videos uplift people. Thank you. Thank you so much ❤

  • @FaithandLife3
    @FaithandLife3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love your channel and spirit 💕

  • @misakinishimya6115
    @misakinishimya6115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    two things put me on flow: reading fiction and studying Japanese

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      beautiful

    • @samankhalid8590
      @samankhalid8590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same, except that I love to study English as a second language!

    • @minyoonjistoenail2276
      @minyoonjistoenail2276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same except I study korean

    • @love_anneliese
      @love_anneliese 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Misaki nishimya I love Japanese too 💕 and reading self enrichment book

    • @axmy0613
      @axmy0613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@minyoonjistoenail2276 yes army you got this! 💜

  • @SuperHaven7
    @SuperHaven7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for your kind words. They are really caring, and I seriously need that. :) Really good video.

  • @patriciapegueros7092
    @patriciapegueros7092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in my late 30's and barely realized what i want out of life, but its like you said I've had different jobs and now I'm doing something that I enjoy and has taken me to a different path same field but i have realized i enjoy helping kids and giving them advice about life and the importance of education, I realized that i love when kids come up to for advice that it made realize to pursue a career as a school counselor.

  • @hbet9021
    @hbet9021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Puts me in the flow: cleaning & organising ❤

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Find your WHY ❤ your purpose
    What you really love to do and you're passionate about !
    You came here to add value and light up this world
    Thank you for this beautiful video !!!

    • @love_anneliese
      @love_anneliese 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erika K “You came here to add value and light up this world” ✨ Quote of the day for me 😌😌😌

    • @NicoleMinabe
      @NicoleMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this and its so true! Everyone is special and unique and has so much to offer to this world! We cant forget to shed our own light on others :)

  • @ajackson0077
    @ajackson0077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly, I've watched MANY videos on "How to find your passion". This is the best I've found. It's clear you've actually looked this up. Good job and keep it going.

  • @koolkayak
    @koolkayak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Making art, editing videos, creating prototypes, writing, and exercise brings me into a flow. Never realized it until you asked in this video. ☺️

  • @mirjamjoustra3424
    @mirjamjoustra3424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recently started my own business. Do I know everything? Nope. But I’m open to developing my skills along the way. Love being my own boss!!

  • @ofeliamicewicz7861
    @ofeliamicewicz7861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how practical your content is❤️
    I needed this so badly, you inspired me to finally get to know myself and start my dreamed YT channel. I am so grateful for finding your channel. I’m staying here forever.
    Have a peaceful day ✨

  • @meicarter1647
    @meicarter1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You don’t realize how much I needed this! Thank you for your content! 💞

  • @saadah91
    @saadah91 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lately,ive become so low &lost on what im going to do in my life.then i remembered u..and comes to this video.thank you for your encouraging words&strategies ..truly i need them..

  • @chandelperez1007
    @chandelperez1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ight Imma download those worksheets cause this girl is feeling overwhelmed due to graduation. I just sign up for for skillshare for I want to improve in my writing. The downside of being bilingual is that is that I am constantly translating in my mind and it show through my writing. Love this video and you have always been a good role model. 💕

  • @DamiresSuk
    @DamiresSuk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The universe introduced me to you. It took me only a year to learn to speak English and after two years of watching your video today I was able to understand 80%. Thank you for your help in finding my way.

  • @SincerelyMaria
    @SincerelyMaria 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People that are able to make a living off of what they love to do are truly blessed! I hope everyone here is able to find that passion and turn it into a career! Thanks for the great video Lavendaire!

  • @AyshaArts
    @AyshaArts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I find myself needing and finding myself again. Your videos help me a lot growing on my journey as person, my life and my dreams ✨ so thank you for being an inspiration and wonderful videos 🌸

  • @F0reverblessed
    @F0reverblessed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yess!! YOU [WE] ARE GOING TO BE OKAY! Life it’s about discovering yourself and REdiscovering yourself time and time again! Life is about growth and change! Find yourself and do what makes you happy! ❤️
    From a self love content creator to another- Great video Aileen. I really enjoyed it! 🤗💗

    • @joymae
      @joymae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      D.E.Y.A thank you girl you are too

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joy Mae Thank you!! 🤗

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes girl! happy we're here growing together ❤️

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

  • @saintessa
    @saintessa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm turning 29 this year and still working on it. I have the artist of life workbook, brought me to tears because it's so beautiful and I want to change but have trouble 'believing' I can change in time and that I won't be able to achieve it. But as long as I don't give up completely... I still keep coming back to your videos, hopefully this work sheet will help and I'll have a crack at it.

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ✨ Plan your most intentional & successful year with the 2024 Artist of Life Workbook, a powerful guided journal for achieving your dream life → lavendaire.com/workbook

  • @vijaypatil8702
    @vijaypatil8702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Aileen, How do you know what I really need at the moment? It's just so fantastic that you uploaded this video. I was so stuck in my life and I really want to figure out my purpose in my life and coincidencly I was recently watching your other soul search videos. So, Thank You so much for another GEM video that you added in your list. Sending you lots of love. 🥰😍

  • @annamayyy9771
    @annamayyy9771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really needed this. I just graduated this April. (interior design) I still haven't received my certificate due to COVID. I've been working for almost 2years now. I really need a change in my life. A lifestyle that's created by me. 🙁One where I don't have to work for someone else. Thank you so much it's like you read my mind. 😢🙏

    • @NicoleMinabe
      @NicoleMinabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats on graduating with interior design! That's a great career path.

  • @c.h.6855
    @c.h.6855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Aileen! Honestly, I felt so overwhelmed and just watching this made me feel like I can totally handle anything! I really appreciate all your hard work and you are an inspiration! 💖

  • @alyssahopethomas7838
    @alyssahopethomas7838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    creating music/ songwriting puts me into flow state !!

  • @baconkaryn
    @baconkaryn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi I just want to say, I love you. I can feel your vibe and energy. I feel like we somewhat experience the same thing in life. I recently discovered that I have a childhood wound because I kept on looking for answers before why I'm feeling like this, why is this happening to me and it's amazing that all the answers were really just within our inner core or soul. It was in my subconscious mind for years! I'm glad that I finally got aware of it. Once you get to fully understand yourself, healing comes along. It may never be easy and but it will always be worth it. I really do love watching your videos 'cause it brings me joy and more growth. it is really indeed a journey of finding your true self. I know that everything that you speak out, that Wisdom you have, came from all the struggles and pain you've conquered and you used it as a voice to inspire and bring others up. keep doing what you do. You're a conqueror. Thank you so much!!

  • @Oumnia-hq1vw
    @Oumnia-hq1vw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m 15 and i’m very much confused about my life’s purpose i don’t know my passions or my hobbies i’m constantly worried bout my future and it’s such a scary thing to me i’m so grateful i found your channel it’s helping a lot thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @seabreezebrit1933
    @seabreezebrit1933 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Things that put me into the flow: designing tiny houses, off-grid layouts and staying green, and travel. Late, but this video is really helpful. Thank you.

  • @eglekazlauskaite4028
    @eglekazlauskaite4028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so grateful for an amazing opportunity to listen these beautiful tips💖Thank you Aileen 🙏. I am so lost at the moment. I really don't know what to do with my career. The good news are I am searching for it and I believe I will find it. 🙂. Good luck everyone with self discovery. 🏆

  • @ievabereisaite
    @ievabereisaite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is such a super important topic! love love love it! EVERYONE goes though this in some stage of your life, but remmember: YOU ARE GANNA BE OK, its AAALLLLL ganna be ok
    all of these tips are so crazy!! so good!

  • @SusanaCardich
    @SusanaCardich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video is so helpful. I love music and I'm a musician but of course everybody says that you can't live of music. The best way to empower your life is to believe in yourself and organize your ideas. Thank you for this video. 🙏🙏

  • @blacktrapeze7744
    @blacktrapeze7744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so helpful! I still quite haven't figured out what I want to do with my life but this was so so helpful. I feel like I'm on the right path 💛🧡💛 thank you!!!

  • @naynikag7792
    @naynikag7792 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These past few months, I've been figuring out what I wanna do and which career path to choose. I have felt so lost and confused, even upset because other people around me are going to college/uni with a strong idea of what they want. So far, I have identified my passions like filmmaking, design & I'm having fun with coding in the last weeks. You need to be honest and put yourself out there to live with purpose

  • @beomgyusmcnugget1055
    @beomgyusmcnugget1055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, that piece about flow state may have just changed my life … thank you

  • @Zitheristi
    @Zitheristi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am literally right now thinking about my future, where to go and stuff. Your video helped me so much, I am doing the things I love, but at the moment a haven't found a way to make a living out of it. Making music, doing videos - all these things put me into the flow-state. I hope, I will make a living out of it someday 😊🍀

  • @naurafadiya
    @naurafadiya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a highschool graduate (gonna be an Earth Science student this year) and I am so relieved after watching your video because sometimes i doubt my uni major (eventhough that's my choice) but now i feel grateful and i am no longer feel lost. Thanks for always inspiring me on my darkest days, Aileen

  • @BloomWithBri
    @BloomWithBri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omggg yes! Same. Indecisive Libra! But this is SO relatable. Definitely done all of this and I’m just now getting closer to discovering and finding my purpose. It’s such a beautiful journey (I’m realizing now haha) but you’re absolutely right - we are going to be ok!!! Have patience and be gentle with ourselves

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this upload! I absolutely love your channel! You have inspired me to go all in on my TH-cam channel and media business this year! Keep rocking the YT airwaves and blessings to you from this new TH-camr!💕

  • @ant_venture
    @ant_venture 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You so much for your being! You are so natural and warm person. I used to listen to your podcast so that I’m here. I love all topic ideas and how you make it.

  • @lalakshmiiiiiii
    @lalakshmiiiiiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:52 the relief I had when you said this is on another level ❤️

  • @stillbrook
    @stillbrook 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    for those who are reading comments before starting this video..........
    sure you will get a solution from this for what you are searching for.....
    this video will sure uplift everyone's aura because she is talking directly to our heart.....
    she is not like exaggerating things ......
    the way she expresses her views indicate that she reads a lot of books
    for the youtuber---->keep doing this........hatts off to you......

  • @withloverafaela
    @withloverafaela 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just want to say 'THANK YOU'! I had never heard of North nodes before this video and in looking for my north node - I had a wonderful revelation! And, that's all thanks to you!

  • @travekitchen7573
    @travekitchen7573 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My flow state is the same with yours..What a coincidence..Maybe because I am also an Aquarius..You are such a light leading those who are on the dim path of life..
    Thank you so much once again for sharing your knowledge with us..You are so admirable!💖🌻

  • @tasneemmohammed1974
    @tasneemmohammed1974 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel that your videos become a habit to me , every time I open TH-cam I must watch one of your videos 💕
    I am still 17 and I am happy to know you from young age to be build on your great rules ❤
    REALLY Thanks so much , I love you , you give me a great power 💝

  • @gaganam8201
    @gaganam8201 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    After going through lot of things in life I came to know that I self love is so important but I didn't knew how to start or what to do .your channel is really helping me raise my vibrations .. Thanks and lots of love from Bangalore

  • @lillyb6260
    @lillyb6260 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anytime you discuss this topic, you light up! Your previous video on ikigai totally changed my life! This video was amazing! Thanks for this!

  • @lyrrmd
    @lyrrmd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so lost these past few days, and I felt really anxious. I am pressured within my society, because I am an incoming college student but I haven't figured out yet what course to take and I can't see what future was ahead on me. I am really afraid that I might chose bad decisions in life/ wrong choice of course. And thank you for this, I hope this can help me find myself and what I really want to do :(( I love you Aileen

  • @StarringEliJ
    @StarringEliJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! I have never watched your videos or come across your page. On the other hand, you have got another subscriber. Thank you for your positive words and exercises.

  • @DenokLestari
    @DenokLestari 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    glad to see that i'm not the only one person that feeling insecure, less confident, still figure out what exactly the purpose of my life. Thanks for sharing this, hope your day blessed with love :)

  • @watchme7076
    @watchme7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your channel has everything I need for life all that my thoughts thinking how what where ect Thank You so much 😢 🙏you also make me happy feel good to have help when you don’t have anyone.
    My parents don’t help no friends can you do video people who don’t have help

  • @anushkapathak7427
    @anushkapathak7427 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm addicted to your videos
    They so helpful
    I'm getting better day by day
    Thank you so much sis 💕💕

  • @naamakolin486
    @naamakolin486 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing! I have watching your videos over the last two years and always finding meaning and inspiration in your content.

  • @rachell783
    @rachell783 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    For the most part I know what I’m doing with my life, but The Dream Life Series was EVERYTHING for me when I didn’t know! I’ll always love when you make videos like this!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw thank you! ❤️

  • @flowerbloom5782
    @flowerbloom5782 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think visualizing life was an eye opener for me. I couldn't imagine anything, no matter how hard i tried. Though I know I want more out of life than I'm currently at.

  • @amirashaikh867
    @amirashaikh867 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I m 20 and this is what exactly i need in my life ...😘
    Thanku so much for being my inspiration 💕

  • @murphmanin
    @murphmanin ปีที่แล้ว

    45 years old and still lost af lol. With these vids I always immediately get hung up on “what am I good at?” Always throws my mind way off course.

  • @Haileyroz
    @Haileyroz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im in love with this kind of videos. So much light from them. Thank u.

  • @Jihyeway
    @Jihyeway 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your voice! I usually listen to your video before I go to bed. It helps me feel relax 😌

  • @dolly2863
    @dolly2863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE FROM INDIA ❤️🇮🇳
    THANK YOU FOR SHARING....

  • @daniellemariemanalo1930
    @daniellemariemanalo1930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video. I'm struggling a lot lately. I'm glad I stumble upon youu

  • @BloomWithBri
    @BloomWithBri 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg had to come back! The flow state is REAL with me. Whenever I’m writing on my blog or editing videos for TH-cam I get so into it and look up and it’s been like hours passed. Which has shown me I’m clearly on the right path. Wow we are so similar!!!

  • @sersastark
    @sersastark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am actually loving my artist of life workbook and I just ordered two blank notebooks earlier today. I love this vibe I'm on!!!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ahh that makes me so happy! ❤️

  • @jemmaroseogayan
    @jemmaroseogayan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know why I always felt at ease every time she says "It's okay, everything will be okay". This really hit me hard, reminded me to feel okay

  • @universehealth514
    @universehealth514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you explain the things are amazing.

  • @nancyloera6906
    @nancyloera6906 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Divine synchronicity I have been seeking guidance from this subject I have been feeling lost uncertain about my future during this pandemic. Thank you for being the vehicle for the universe to answer my prayers ❤️🙏

  • @dagmarmedabrejlova8825
    @dagmarmedabrejlova8825 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    your videos are great, i love how naurally you sound, your kind soul, and that you include astrology, that's awesome

  • @Neko-xw7bs
    @Neko-xw7bs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ws feeling so much lost lately..Much needed motivation fr today n coming year.. Tnk u so much..❤

  • @verafides9
    @verafides9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aligning with your channel has been a delightful blessing. Thank you for your balanced perspectives 💛💜💛

  • @altoids404
    @altoids404 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    what puts me in the flow is reading about politics of post-soviet countries and language learning. i just dropped out of college and now working to gather some money to take language courses. and to anyone reading this: it's okay to restart. it's never too late. figuring your life out is a process. everything will be okay 💕

  • @karlyroth8596
    @karlyroth8596 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow... I am shook... I looked up my North Node and I've never read anything more related to myself... I feel I understand myself so much more now. Thank you for this

  • @andreyaaugst6247
    @andreyaaugst6247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I JUST GOOGLED MY NORTH NODE AND IT WAS SCARY ACCURATE ( I read all the other ones too and they didn't make sense for me) Thank you for telling me about this I literally didn't even know and now I feel confident that I'm on the right path

  • @sroolov5710
    @sroolov5710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favourite TH-camr eveeerr
    I noticed with ur lasts vedios ur filming and ur seen r more clear and its just so much better. Sorry bad English

  • @martasoleniec7309
    @martasoleniec7309 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so on fire in this video! And so right. I am 35 and still afraid to take the risk to invest in what I've always dreamt to be doing. But slowly getting there. Thanks for being a fanstastic motivation.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      best of luck Marta 🩷

  • @YumeHatter
    @YumeHatter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god, I can't thank you enough for this video, for your work, for your beautiful light and how it lifts us up when we need it most. I've felt lost my entire life. A year ago, I thought I'd finally found my path, a dream I could pursue. But recently, things fell apart. I felt like I was back to square one (even thought it wasn't because I learnt a lot with the experience). I didn't know how to go about finding my path again, and these exercises are finally igniting the spark to explore again. I feel my curiosity coming back to me. It's the energy and love that you put into the wisdom you share with us that makes it so magical and uplifting. You were definitely born for this! We are lucky to have you. I feel better just from watching the video, hearing your calm voice and calming words. And it made me absurdly happy that you mentioned astrology at the end!

  • @geraldineedejeran5862
    @geraldineedejeran5862 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am soooooo amazed upon checking my astrology. It somewhat approved my thought on pursuing my life long dream career. Thank you so much Aileen. Continue to shine brightly😘😘😘😘

  • @mt_0528
    @mt_0528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I realized how this word ikigai ( in Japanese 生きがい) is powerful, thank you