Ep 17 Are We The Actual Red Flags?🚩 Naina Bhan and Sakshi Shivdasani
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- In this episode, our hosts Naina and Sakshi come out with their own red flags in the dating world and find out why they would drive each other crazy if they ever dated(core incompatibilities such as ordering styles and ,well, ordering styles). We also talk about feminism and how gender roles have affected us to date.
Time codes:
0:00 - Intro
2:07 - Is being bitchy a red flag
3:25 - Sakshis fav red flags
7:02 - Hiding your partners red flags from your besties
10:10 - Dating apps are a c*ck block
11:20 - I am Ali from Dhoom
11:54 - Are you ok with big body counts?
14:35 - Calling your ex crazy
15:28 - Women give up pre-breakup
19:30 - Curse of the cool girl
22:06 - Mothering your bf
24:30 - WIP feminism
26:35 - Dowry jokes are a red flag
30:00 - Dating a vegan
35:35 - Changing your personality for your partner
38:00 - Feeling pressured
39:22 - We’re losing all my female friends
42:30 - Struggling to set boundaries
44:12 - Help he still idolises his parents
47:40 - Every family has drama
48:20 - Training your partner to impress your parents
49:30 - Inappropriate touches
51:40 - Follow your gut
53:27 - Weaponising our incompetence
55:29 - Don’t date on potential
57:00 - Outro
40:20 my aunt was the first woman in my village who had a bachelor's degree and my mom was the first working woman in my family and they both did that while doing all the household chores and I became the first person in my family to binge watch all 10 seasons of friends in 4 days😊
This episode reflects the troubles widely we face personally when we see start dating.The red flags discussion was spot on
This episode was just PHENOMENAL!!Loved the topic, your insights, your advices, the hilarious jokes in bw! and here's to being DIFFICULT this year!!💗💗
i’m literally so naina coded. (i love her personality, relate max fr.)
love y’all girls, keep creating more.
I really love your podcast. It feels as if im sitting down with my friends and talking about stuff . Lots of love to Moment of Silence ❤. Sakshi and Naina, dont stop making these podcasts, we absolutely love them ❤️.
I recently found ya'll and I can not stop watching!!! There is so much power in the messages that you give and the stream of thought is sublime. Mad relatable and inspiring!! Rooting for Moment of Silence to get the attention it deserves 🎉
I'm in my late 20s & related a lot to the Feminist friends running together analogy that Naina mentioned! I struggle with the same and now, find myself alone...I studied in a DU Women's college and I feel like I know what she is saying! ( I thought I was the only one who feels it)
Guys how are yall so underrated!! This is the best girl podcast 🤍
Please tell all your friends 💕🎤
This ep was crazyyyyy yall!! Love you girls ❤️❤️❤️
Wow just last week I was thinking about you girls making a podcast on this topic..
Yeahhhhh❤❤🎉🎉❤
One of the MOST relatable episodes is for me honestly!! Keep slayin'! ❤🎉🔥
Oh my god. Love love loved this episode. The other thing I also noticed is that, every female is aware about all the red flags while its all happening, we know that its happening. But we still ignore it. Because we're taught that ✨love is tolerance✨ Just want to throw a huge-ass sofa set at myself at some point!!!!!
reallll
Genuinely great and insightful episode. You guys are my go to gym podcast lol and that's saying a lot cause I hate the gym!
so glad its friday!!!
Love the episode ❤️
This pod is giving TGIF a whole new meaning
your podcast is so informative to understand women. I watched most of your videos. Thanks for creating such good content keep doing the great work. My best wishes are with both of you.
I have been following since day 1 and I swear you guys are the reason im not unaliving my self and getting thru every week I love you guys so so much is baar toh mumma ne bhi relate kar lia ✨️
Alfiya that’s beyond sweet. We love you and we’re here for you. Love to your mumma also x
Just watching this makes me so happy 🤍
The conversation about Mom was really sweet❤
Omgggg I love this episode ❤❤❤
I literally wait every Thursday for this podcast and they decided to release it on friday. Btw love your content. Sakshi your amaze ❤️.
stoppp hahaha we’ve always released it on fridays
THE BEST. PODCAST. EVER!!!!!!!
Pleaseee tell me where your tops are from they are so prettyyyy
Congratulations on 10k folks
Looking cutes as usual ✌️
Y’all made it happen xxx
Yay 10kk!!🥳🎉🎊
IT FEELS LIKE A THERAPY EVERY FRIDAY 💕
I love you guysss
Their vibes is bfff at this pointt
I was literally thinking about this. Soulmates fr
Hey Naina, you didnt tap out which is why you are here. If not immediate, your podcasts do help shape and give structure to a lot of young girl trying to make sense of this culture and time we are living in. Lots of love 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
i love your contnent i just discovered yourr podcast verry recently and i have heared all of them doing great job girls kepp going !!
We love you ❤️ thank you x
Loove you guysss. Ignore the haters ❤❤❤❤❤
I feel more understood in this episode than therapy LOL
Recommended to all my girl-friends! ❤
34:50 I’m the kind of person who loves ordering food for the sake of tasting but only to the point where I know it won’t go waste.
💞you guys are my feminism enlightenment pod
Naina where is your top and jewellery from?❤
Thank you ❤ the top is from urban outfitters and the jewellery is from this Instagram store called Vaanizcreations.
imma do a virtual hi five to you both & hugs 💖🙌
I feel so normal after watching this episode 😅🤭
Same sis 🚩
Podcast about content creation plssss❤
im sad this episode ended
Naina Your pants from?
Where's Sakshi's top from?
I am obsessed with this pod!! @saakshi @Naina keep rocking
Queen 👑❣️👑 vlog mam 😊 love respect and support you from Pakistan 🙂. Best regards from Pakistan 🙂.
Finally new pod aagya(but isse kal exam ke baad binge karunga) XOXO
ho gaya exam???
@@MoS-Pod (after watching ep) exam was as rocking as this pod was (in an optimistic way) no sarcasm
Happy Women’s Day queens. Wish y’all were my besties. Keep being badass 💞 love from Pakistan
Who’s hating you guys.. totally harmless Mao much fun❤
"How can a guy learn Crypto and not know what he's done wrong?" - The moment of the podcast xD deserves to be a reel
Why isn't this on Spotify
It is now!
Hey!! I really really love your podcasts and I am binging on it right now, but please Naina can you acknowledge Sakhis views as well? I feel like she does that and listens to what you have to say and also acknowledges it, but most of the times her views or thoughts are not acknowledged! Kind off putting me off. Thanks and love you guys ❤
Helloo done done. Thanks for your feedback x
This podcast is the girl talk I need in real life.
Love your content❤️
You should invite apoorva (the rebel kid) all three of you togetherwould be banger
Happy international women’s day! Hope you don’t get such vile hate comments going forward. It’s just sad to see all the hate you guys get.
Thanks Tushar ❤
Going to have a viewing party with my friends w this episode 🎉
yes you are!!!!!!!
y’all are my holy bible
In my opinion Red flags and green flags are totally on the point of view of person like they can be red for one but green for other at the same time, right? wht's ur opinion?
Edit:- aaplog kisi din to intro me bologe this is sakshi bhan and i am naina shivdhashani(iski spelling tough hai JEE se jyda)
Exactly, if your girlfriend sleeps with another dude and after sleeping she blames it on the boyfriend as he never made her feel loved, that is a red flag in some countries and green in others.
/sarcasm
There is objective good and bad, and dishonesty is one of them.
Koel ❤❤❤
The timing of this podcast, while I'm getting played by a new boy, is chief's kiss. Felt like this one was aimed at me lol.
How’s everything going? Do you need some healthy bff enabling?
Naina in sakshis top right?
Sometimes Nainas younger sister gifts her things to spice up her wardrobe
how can you say about my tauji like that🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
The music which plays at the start of the podcast when the name appears, it is so freaking loud, bad and irritating! like some weird ringtone in old phones!!! everytime I have to mute it. PLEASE CHANGE IT.🚫🚫
wdymmm yaa we love it
Paratha pizzaa😂😂😂😂😂
Tell us you remember!
Hi Averages ! How about spicing up your podcast with some fresh perspectives.
Kaunsa wala perspective
lmao, wasnt this about your red flags> how did this end with a rant about guys
Old habit
Great podcast. You girls are amazing 🎉 @nainabhan I really resonate with your thought process
same normal shit with mediocre thoughts and ideas. believe me they can't handle a minor inconvenience from real life.
We’ve been in therapy for it. Trying to get to a place where we can handle at least mid sized inconvenience.
yeah what ur minor inconvenience not getting that damn kissan ketchup parantha from your mommy. go cry in a corner
yoo we hit 10k
This is good place to stay updated on how indian wokes/feminist think.
Not relatable. Unfollowing
The Girlfriends talk session vibe you guys pass through screens🤌🏻✨
This is amazing advice if you truly FUCKING listen ladies .. gold stuff 🫡