It’s mind boggling. Show after show women come on here loaning or gifting men money. And most times after they’ve cheated, beat them, haven’t paid back a previous loan and most of the men don’t have current employment. I just don’t understand it.
I had an ex that got mad at me and punched the crap out of me in the arm, I got up out of there and never looked back. One time is all it took for me and we were together for like 2 years
We need to normalize leaving when someone hits calls names abuses our kids in any way. Get use to the idea that some people will attempt to abuse you, get prepared for what you will do if that ever happens to you. Staying should not be an option. Get out and look for better
@@mmmfun77 True and yes plan B. Remember when we use to do fire drills in school? There was no fire. We were being prepared in case there was one. Same with abuse, its easier to do and take action if we prepare ourselves with what we will do if it ever happens in our lives or our kids lives.
Ladies, why do you bail/bond anyone out of jail?? 3 rules: Never bail/bond anyone out of jail, never take a cheater back, never stay w/someone that abuses you. Think of how much crap you go thru if you stay with anyone doing the above.
Judge Mathis checked out with the plaintiff when she brought up the history of domestic violence in their relationship . She didn’t press charges! He’s abusive and she has low self esteem! It’s good that they are no longer together.
Women telling these stories in effort to make the man look bad when they go down with the ship as well - and actually look even worse. The love you claim to have (it’s not love) for a person to put up with their abuse is the love you should have for yourself.
A lot of men like that aren’t happy with themselves, so they spew that hate into others. I.e cheating, lying, being extremely abusive. He seemed a tad sassy too. The woman shouldn’t have helped him. F that!!!
Judge 👨⚖️ Mathis really doesn’t have tolerance for women who doesn’t press charges on there abusers but not every women is strong enough to press charges they be too lost in the relationship is toxic as hell
I have to agree with JM on this case, 5 months? He beats you 3x's in 5 months and you stay and don't press charges? Not pressing charges is becoming the norm.
Women have stayed with men who physically and sexualy abused them for decades. Does not justify the abuse nor mean that they wanted or deserved it. Judge mathis has been apart of the system long enough to know that there are a myriad of reasons why women stay and do not call the police .
No because if you broke up with him, after he abused you, why tf would you go bail him out? I’m sorry but she’s stupid. The first time he put his hands on you, you should’ve left but you stayed and then bailed him out. You’re dumb. For 5 months and you’re staying??? Why? Mchewww
Yea, that's something the plaintiff needs to ponder on, eventhough she make that statement, because she's obviously a da*n fool for putting up with his alleged abuse, then putting $$ in his books, and paying to bail him out..smh
Do not confront just leave block delete.. They show up at your work on your house call the police. Cut off all communications. Done because the words it will never happen again are meaningless.
A month!? Girlfriend...the first time you suspected him of cheating, leave! And then, if he put his hands on you??? Giiirrll...leave and never look back...he is obviously a gross, insecure fool and she needs to gather up her self worth.
She’s insane after the first month their masks are not off! Definitely not enough love in the world after the first time you put your hands on me. Hope she has made better choices since this relationship. Him too
Possibly. I just think her lack of self-esteem is the major issue. For instance, if this low-life male was not a physical abuser, her actions of accepting his disrespectful and philandering behavior is her personal issue before the actual abuse even started. That self-esteem issue will set her up for all forms of abuse from spouses, lovers, children, employers, etc. In what other way do you think JM could have handled this case that was not about abuse? Sincerely interested in your thoughts and opinions.
Y’all know not to come in my Uncle’s court room with an attitude, rolling yo eyes, bad body gestures because clearly he ain’t the one. Who gonna check you Boo? Is Judge Gregory Mathis. Betta put some respect on his name 😭😭
6:50 - "even more reason why it was a loan" after the defendant says they were no longer together. This ALL would have been a gift if he still slept with her. Mad because the relationship wasn't the outcome you want and now want to sue for any contributions made. You get no more than what he signed for.
I will never understand why some women stay in a relationship like this. Within months of meeting he's cheating and beating on her. She's paying his bail and paying his "book". Why are some women so desperate to be with someone that they will tolerate anything.
$800 for commissary?! & after a few months. Lady, just bye! My Ex-Husband(we weren’t married at the time) spent 7 years in jail. I NEVER sent a dime while he was there.
First of all, the defendant sounded like a fool. She should've had him arrested the first time he put his hands on her. I would have told him that he would be leaving willingly or he would be rolled out on a gurney headed towards the nearest hospital or morgue. There would NEVER have been a second opportunity for him to hit me!!! I'm NOT a violent person but I do NOT play which is why i've had my Rottweiler for several years since he was a few weeks old AND my cousins SMITH & WESSON residing with me for decades.
Okay she standing up there looking all ragged off cause Judge only gave her the amount of the promissory note!! “Granmma didn’t raise no fool!! Apparently Grandma did raise a fool, this man got in trouble (or cops were called) at least 3 times for putting his hands on her, but he only got in trouble & jailed for only one of the altercations?? But then, this woman turns around & puts a total of 800.00 on his commissary books!! Wow!! Yes, I’m sorry, but she is a big fool for this man!! Both of them need to grow up & stay away from each other!!!
SOMEONE BESIDES GRAND MA NEEDS TO TELL SIS. TO STOP BEING SO SLOW. DANG! SHE JUST WANTS A MAN .ATTACKS AND ALL. I CAN'T STAND IT WHEN WOMEN ARE TO SOFT.
They’re both FOOLS. All that in one month?! Her grandma didn’t raise a fool because grandma was raising BOO BOO THE FOOL.🤡
“Grandma didn’t raise a fool..” that’s EXACTLY what grandma raised.. A DAYUM FOOL!!!
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Lmfaoooo what's wrong with you lmaooooooo I said the same exact thing up there sounding stupid!
Absolutely!
Omfg 😩😂 not JUST a fool a DAYUM ONE
“I didn’t really beat her like she’s tryna say…” Chile! 🤦🏾♀️
Right! 🙄 he’s a 🤡
I don't understand how some women can be so free with their money. I just can't
I always said when it comes to my $ I’m not sharing… I always say I’m brok!!!😃
It’s mind boggling. Show after show women come on here loaning or gifting men money. And most times after they’ve cheated, beat them, haven’t paid back a previous loan and most of the men don’t have current employment. I just don’t understand it.
Exactly lol
I never understood it, either. I wasn't going!
Facts, why would a grown man not have savings?
Ebony better find her some self confidence because he ain't nowhere near the one
People really don’t wanna be alone. I love this single life. No men no problems
We not 100% of the problems, but 99% of them sure. 😁
@@pictureofmyjunk2279 I only said men because that's what I date. If it were women I'd say women. Because the whole world is fucked up. All genders
Amen. Living the single, free life.🙃
Amen honey
@@crystalturner152 💕
Dated a guy that snapped after a month by throwing something at the wall. That was it for me. He called later to apologize. I was all set. ✌ Deuces
I had an ex that got mad at me and punched the crap out of me in the arm, I got up out of there and never looked back. One time is all it took for me and we were together for like 2 years
Good for you. 💯💯💯💯💯💯👏👏👏👏👏👏
I wish that type of common sense was in all women.
Why did he get mad
👏👏👏👏 good for you 💞
Look baby, just like judge said. Ain’t that much love in the world 🥺😩
We need to normalize leaving when someone hits calls names abuses our kids in any way. Get use to the idea that some people will attempt to abuse you, get prepared for what you will do if that ever happens to you. Staying should not be an option. Get out and look for better
. . . AMEN! 🤌
Good in theory but, when caught up in it, not so easy. So true though. Plan B should always be on the table
@@mmmfun77 True and yes plan B. Remember when we use to do fire drills in school? There was no fire. We were being prepared in case there was one. Same with abuse, its easier to do and take action if we prepare ourselves with what we will do if it ever happens in our lives or our kids lives.
Ladies, why do you bail/bond anyone out of jail?? 3 rules: Never bail/bond anyone out of jail, never take a cheater back, never stay w/someone that abuses you. Think of how much crap you go thru if you stay with anyone doing the above.
Depends on what they are in jail for 🙄 parking tickets could land you in jail. You breaking up over parking tickets?
@@fadethechannel I do not care why you are in jail though. You are a man in jail, figure it out!
@@fadethechannel If anyone I date goes to jail for any reason we are done no exceptions.
@@neisci it’s interesting people want you to put up with all their baggage in relationships. No way!!!
@@neisci 😂😂😂😂 I’m there now… Should’ve done the right things to stay free. 😂😂😂
Even if you are afraid to press charges. Why would you loan him money? She said she felt sorry for him. Wow
Yeah. A lot of women are just sad and pathetic and make the dating world very difficult.
She needs to feel sorry for herself
I didn't understand that. I would have ghosted him....after pressing charges for assault!
and that’s AFTER she was choked out! she claimed the light bulb came on. Girrrrrl that light bulb ain’t even got no sockets to screw into.
“Grandma didn’t raise no fool.”
Me: 🥴
Me too 🙄💞
she dang sure turned into one. ABRACADABRA 👈
Lol JM’s “ouuuuuu” after she said five months tickled me.
Me too
I hopes she gets the therapy she needs because that "lightbulb" didn't go off as she thinks....
And for him.....just SMH.....
My grandma would pinch 🤏🏾 me from the grave for bringing her into this trifling mess 😡
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"I didn't beat her like she say.."
Right
Dang he really said that as if it was all right! Lock 🔒 him up....
That means that he did beat her somewhat.
I can't take this wig 😭
I'm glad JM told her there isn't that much love for 5 months.
Judge Mathis checked out with the plaintiff when she brought up the history of domestic violence in their relationship . She didn’t press charges! He’s abusive and she has low self esteem! It’s good that they are no longer together.
He has NO tolerance for women who tolerate domestic violence. If you didn’t prosecute he doesn’t want to hear it
Both are abusive
This is definitely a Karen mentality 😂😂😂 you don’t know shit about them and only a fool would take it at face value
Ladies always press charges
Red flag….if someone’s family don’t deal with them, RUN!!
false some people choose to leave toxic family red flag is this comment 😂
Some people are the black sheep & the chosen one in their family.
It depends on the situation
JM you weren't that much in love after 5 months...ain't that much love in the world....lmaooooo
Women telling these stories in effort to make the man look bad when they go down with the ship as well - and actually look even worse. The love you claim to have (it’s not love) for a person to put up with their abuse is the love you should have for yourself.
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This is it! ❤️🫶🏾
Amen say it!!!💞
I want to know what he thinks “irate” means.
He didn’t technically misuse it the second time, but he clearly doesn’t know that. 😂
Lmao! Now you know that’s “irate”!
Must sound like a big word to him! He couldn’t wait to say it in court!😂
"Grandma didn't raise no fool"......well she sure raised Boo-Boo
She was sprung and got upset because he did not want her anymore.
Damn defendant should have learned stop 🛑 cheating he always gets caught 😂😂😂😂
And she should have learned to leave after 5 months
@@vanessakenney3144 facts I agree ☝🏾
Right lol he’s a slow learner just like her
Stop giving these males your money
Said the light bulb went off but still bailed him out and put 800 on his books..I believe she did do it as a gift as a way to stay in touch
she needs therapy big time…stay away from these violent men!
it all sounds so unfortunately typical🙁and he clearly has no idea what irate means🤣
I had to chuckle 🤭 when I read this. That was one of the first things I noticed. I’m like that word DO NOT belong in that sentence.
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"I did cheat, alot "
Ye,s and he's going to keep on cheating no matter who he's with! Period!!
He was proud about it too.
He should just stay single or involve himself in open or polygamy relationships. Unless, he just likes dramA🤷
Grandma did raise a Fool. Unless she raised you to accept abuse, bail out the abuser and put money on his books....??? 🤔
A lot of men like that aren’t happy with themselves, so they spew that hate into others. I.e cheating, lying, being extremely abusive. He seemed a tad sassy too. The woman shouldn’t have helped him. F that!!!
he needs serious therapy
He smiling like what he did was funny smh he didn’t care at all for her
Judge 👨⚖️ Mathis really doesn’t have tolerance for women who doesn’t press charges on there abusers but not every women is strong enough to press charges they be too lost in the relationship is toxic as hell
I have to agree with JM on this case, 5 months? He beats you 3x's in 5 months and you stay and don't press charges? Not pressing charges is becoming the norm.
Women have stayed with men who physically and sexualy abused them for decades. Does not justify the abuse nor mean that they wanted or deserved it. Judge mathis has been apart of the system long enough to know that there are a myriad of reasons why women stay and do not call the police .
Lost in a relationship in 5 months? Lol
No because if you broke up with him, after he abused you, why tf would you go bail him out? I’m sorry but she’s stupid. The first time he put his hands on you, you should’ve left but you stayed and then bailed him out. You’re dumb. For 5 months and you’re staying??? Why? Mchewww
There?? Where
How can you feel sorry for someone that don't feel the same as you
“iRaTeLy” 🙄🤦🏾♂️😂
“ grandmama didn’t raise no fool” 🤔🤔
Yea, that's something the plaintiff needs to ponder on, eventhough she make that statement, because she's obviously a da*n fool for putting up with his alleged abuse, then putting $$ in his books, and paying to bail him out..smh
Obviously she did...
LISTEN! This is the comment I was looking for!
Ya'll all got it wrong. 😄 Grandma raised a damn fool. Cuz that's what she truly is.
Dude is a woman beating coward. She could do better by herself
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He break up before he go to jail lmao ok sir
Why confront him? Why not just leave? We love drama!
Just pressed to have a man, how do you become so emotionally invested in someone within a month.
LSE= It's a terrible disease that many suffer from. 😢
Do not confront just leave block delete.. They show up at your work on your house call the police. Cut off all communications. Done because the words it will never happen again are meaningless.
Let me see those pictures 😂😂😂😂
JM had a good time with this case 😂
That wig she got on. Looking str8 goofy.
Hahaha
A month!? Girlfriend...the first time you suspected him of cheating, leave! And then, if he put his hands on you??? Giiirrll...leave and never look back...he is obviously a gross, insecure fool and she needs to gather up her self worth.
I don't feel sorry for nobody who put they self in these situations!
Exactly.
When his ass got locked up. She should have ran and never looked back period!! She choose wishing them all blessings.
The light bulb came on but u still was with him
And she still come off confrontational to him
She’s insane after the first month their masks are not off! Definitely not enough love in the world after the first time you put your hands on me. Hope she has made better choices since this relationship. Him too
Grandma did indeed raise a fool 🥴
I don't think Judge M, understand that mindset of abused women, don't like the way he handled this case at all.
Possibly. I just think her lack of self-esteem is the major issue. For instance, if this low-life male was not a physical abuser, her actions of accepting his disrespectful and philandering behavior is her personal issue before the actual abuse even started. That self-esteem issue will set her up for all forms of abuse from spouses, lovers, children, employers, etc.
In what other way do you think JM could have handled this case that was not about abuse? Sincerely interested in your thoughts and opinions.
JM always knows how to lighten up a serious situation.
She doesn’t know her worth.
Y’all know not to come in my Uncle’s court room with an attitude, rolling yo eyes, bad body gestures because clearly he ain’t the one. Who gonna check you Boo? Is Judge Gregory Mathis. Betta put some respect on his name 😭😭
That rod a helluva thang
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Who’s here to say something about his use of the word “irate” lol
The defendant is a player and an abuser.
6:50 - "even more reason why it was a loan" after the defendant says they were no longer together. This ALL would have been a gift if he still slept with her. Mad because the relationship wasn't the outcome you want and now want to sue for any contributions made. You get no more than what he signed for.
She looking like sister Patterson lmao
Why does in love equate to I can't leave or I'll except these punches because of my love for you!! Smh
This was a mess. She needs to go to therapy because she can’t possibly think this is acceptable. She’s better off being alone.
At what point do you stop confronting him and just leave
I will never understand why some women stay in a relationship like this. Within months of meeting he's cheating and beating on her. She's paying his bail and paying his "book". Why are some women so desperate to be with someone that they will tolerate anything.
Checking a man phone will never stop the other women's
I knew by that wig that she was lying about her grandma not raising a fool. Cause only a damn fool would wear that wig
If a man cheats and you know you won't leave... Girl, let him cheat in peace 🙄
$800 for commissary?! & after a few months. Lady, just bye! My Ex-Husband(we weren’t married at the time) spent 7 years in jail. I NEVER sent a dime while he was there.
Ain’t one dropped from his mother’s womb that I would ever be their 24 hour fool
First of all, the defendant sounded like a fool. She should've had him arrested the first time he put his hands on her. I would have told him that he would be leaving willingly or he would be rolled out on a gurney headed towards the nearest hospital or morgue. There would NEVER have been a second opportunity for him to hit me!!! I'm NOT a violent person but I do NOT play which is why i've had my Rottweiler for several years since he was a few weeks old AND my cousins SMITH & WESSON residing with me for decades.
She said "mama didn't raise a fool", but that's what you are exactly girl. I hate when fools use tha line.
you had me at jail and he choked me ....desperate thirst women ..when you find a fool ...ride it
Why keep checking a phone……LEAVE!!!!
Get a restraining order put him out
Okay she standing up there looking all ragged off cause Judge only gave her the amount of the promissory note!!
“Granmma didn’t raise no fool!! Apparently Grandma did raise a fool, this man got in trouble (or cops were called) at least 3 times for putting his hands on her, but he only got in trouble & jailed for only one of the altercations?? But then, this woman turns around & puts a total of 800.00 on his commissary books!! Wow!! Yes, I’m sorry, but she is a big fool for this man!! Both of them need to grow up & stay away from each other!!!
Rodger, from American Dad let him cheat in peace✌🏽
Who raised this man? He should pay back all of it even if there was no agreement.
Wow. The unprofessional “ooohhh” about her abuse. He makes me sick sometimes with his shit
Who is Judge Mathis to say when one can be in love
Dr. Jekyl & Mr. Hyde...
She's SPOT ON.
Personal experience!
This a lifestyle for this lady. 😬
I wonder why he kept cheating. She mentioned they were supposed to be exclusive. It seems like monogamy is not for him
How do you ask someone who is incarcerated to pay back the money put on the commissary books????
Just ask. Most people who are in prison or jail eventually get out then find work.
Lady why did you go back after the first time
She just didn’t want to be alone lol judge was done from the beginning lol
Red Flag: Spending everyday together. No one should have that much free time. You don’t have a career, ambitions, hobbies, friends and family?
She's slow...like most.
This is what desperate for a piece of man look like
Lol I think she lying about the 800 way she said verbal agreement
You don’t need 6months to fall in love
I'm picking up "DL" vibes
You should have kept him lock 🔒 up.
$800 for damn commissary?!!!
SOMEONE BESIDES GRAND MA NEEDS TO TELL SIS. TO STOP BEING SO SLOW. DANG! SHE JUST WANTS A MAN .ATTACKS AND ALL. I CAN'T STAND IT WHEN WOMEN ARE TO SOFT.
did JM say oohhhhhhhh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😬
They always say, I'm happy to be done with it. Why come to court if you don't care lol.
Tired of the excuse I was in love 🫤
What a fool in love! Lol