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I can't fckin stand this evil, soulless- thing anymore . He wouldn't let me out of the car so I finally acted on what I was feeling and I guess I punched him a few times. I knew in that moment though that I sealed my fate. But I just reacted and it felt great! I want to add something to what I wrote. I'm in no way saying that reacting physically at all is ever okay; however, my narc had been torturing me for hours and I reacted by striking him a couple of times. I am not a violent person nor do I condone the behavior. Then he hit himself so hard that it left a mark and kept saying that if I tried one more time to get away, the police would arrest me. I said great! Call them rn and I'll tell them the truth, but it only made him more angry bcuz he knew that they would believe me. Ok, sorry 4 the long story but I felt as though I needed to clarify what I had written. Thanks for your support and violence is never the answer, it wasn't premeditated. It was like something inside of me just couldn't take it anymore.
I always have had good luck with my own ways of dealing with a Narcissist . While I know my Narcissist was ready and waiting for a low caliper tactic to happen , I believe I'll refrain from these guidelines as to not suffer a loss like that again. It actually is good to see them win one though if only for awhile I do see her smile and looks very good wearing it.
@@harmonymillett2970 hey, thank you for reading what I had written and responding to me. I wish I could express my gratitude to you for helping me to deal with the way I reacted. I believe strongly in action not reaction, bcuz it is a sign of the kind of person that I strive to be and not who I've become due to repeated trauma. I agree with you that it was a natural reaction, but not the kind that I would suggest. Bcuz the second I realized what I had done, I knew I was really gonna get the wrath of the devil. I like to think I survived bcuz I was strong but it was probably bcuz he allowed me to. Sincerely, G
That disarming doesn't work with my soon to be ex. As soon as I say okay you are upset or angry. He immediately denies it! "No I'm not!" Is his favorite line. Conversations go no where.
Rebecca Zung saying "say bye bye" 12:38. CUTEST THING EVER!!! Thank you Rebecca for giving light and reason for our side of dealing with a narcissist. Thank you!
@Octavio You may not know. Look up the information you need by title. Then #research your state, your county. Yes, many lawyers on TH-cam do give FREE information tutorials, and even classes for law students that we can benefit from. Best regards.
Super great stuff. Advanced Narc management tips in here. I was reared by multiple narcs. All this advice is GOLDEN - throw out a decoy; always conceal your true goal or desire. NEVER give up your leverage. No matter how many conflicts you "resolve" with a narc, you'll never build any good lasting memories with them. Get rid of them, and invest in memories that will make you happy.
Mine uses silent treatment. COMPLETELY!! Months at a time! He is older and a sociopath on top of it.I know how to deal with people who argue. He literally acts like I have said nothing, like I don't exist.
I'm fighting back but I know now that things will never be the way we thought so we adopt and shut boundaries and all the other good stuff you're teaching us so thank you!
Well this narcissist that I live with doesn’t want me to laugh because she claims I am shouting, she covers her ears and cringes away from me. But of course, she can screech like a banshee whenever she wants. At first, I was shocked, like, no she just didn’t. But today, again, I made a mild gurgling laughter which enraged this empty shell (she hates any joy) she started up again (“don’t shout”) I completely ignored her, my face was gray rocked, no emotions showing and I changed the subject as if I didn’t hear her. It worked. She looked shocked and seemed to respect me more. They always do this ‘$hit’ test to push at your boundaries. Then they watch your face like a hawk to get narcissistic supply. You cannot argue, defend or explain yourself to an irrational person. Like demonic toddlers who want to destroy your joy and authenticity
Shebakali6, great job keep up the good work however, once you know you go... Untill then, you can't even trust a narc to not spit in your food, put Nair in your conditioner or use your bathsponge to clean mold off the shower or stick your toothbrush up their.... Yeah.... sounds like I'm a sick person but actually all of these are acts that took place, done to me by a narc or to someone else by a narc. Hate to sound harsh please in the least get your own frig in your own br, put a damn good expensive dead Lock on your br door and lock your br door at all times especially while asleep and not home, even while you are at home in another room or if you step outside. Watch you ph, purse, documents, money c cards. Lock ur car. Yeahhh I know, I get it, I sound nuts. I learned the hardway. Also if you don't have your own bathroom put all your stuff for bathing in a basket, carrying when in use and right back to your own bedroom. But how do you explain to her why you're living behind locked doors etc.. Hmmm just say "I'd rather not talk about it" Ummm .... not sure totally about how to handle this but just get the heck out asap. These people only get worse. Careful, extremely careful w u sharing w anyone who knows her at all about you picking up on her b n a narc. Trust me on this one, these ppl have a way of turning someone's own mama against them, they're demonized🤷♀️ like they have unusual abilities. Till then try to play it cool, def gray rock the sht out of her and don't get her worked up. Wish you well🌻
My enabling mother is also a covert.. therapy has revealed our codependency and sick trauma bond. I have moved out in no contact and she’s seething with no control over her 44 yo daughter
Heey brother I just found out about this a few days ago, now I'm unemployed, have no vehicle, do not own anything really, I'm not concerned about it anymore, it still hurts tho, it's difficult to Trust, death feels better than meeting someone new for me, I'm tired, lost too many close friends and family during covid and now this, I can only cry when she's asleep, I'm sorry that you had to go through this
Bro…. Don’t give up… put you a plan together right now and ACT!!!! I got caught up just like you did… those with the power are gonna flex right now… people like you and I gotta stay humble so we can keep seeing clearly and keep it moving… best of luck… I fell into a 6 week depression and got off my ass like 4 weeks too late… almost lost everything… SCRAMBLE NOW sir!!!!!!!!!!!
@@travdeem 🙏🏾, I know I'll make through with God's Hand over me, just a hard pill to swallow I guess, I pity her now, can't unsee who my "wife" really is
@@evilc7094 yep I lost my girl too... Engine blew on my truck and destroyed my little nest egg 🥚 and she slid off on me... It's the worst feeling in the world but prepare yourself for the future... It's certainly ok to start dating again... What else can you do...
To a Narcissist every victim is like rocks in the river of life_ where the Narcissist jumps from one to another victim until finally finds the most obedient and docile for him to thrive ......
You are soooo right! My Ex knows that I want to move out of state with our kids and he is literally stonewalling mediation. We held off notifying his Attorney for as long as we could and now we're twiddling our thumbs...
@@RebeccaZungEsq a friend of a friend and ex head honcho at the SEC came over and then took over and immediately got them home! We fell in love and boom! He was arrested by FBI and gone…just like that.😑 For something he did 7 yrs ago drinking a lot. Sober for 6 yrs and the nicest and smartest man jumped in as a father figure and GREAT Guy. Sentencing in Junein Alexandria. I’ll be going again to support him but, he is looking at 15-25 yrs. Sooooo Sad. Thank you so much Rebecca for turning on the light in an otherwise, very dark corner. I have shared with anyone who’ll listen how great it is, the a-HA! moment. Much love!❤️🔥
I got bamboozled ! Taken ! That rascal beat me to the punch line . Pulled the rug out from under me, a complete blowout . I'll have to brush the dust off and just take the loss on this one . Ya can't win em all .
Your are very good! I having problems with a narcissist at work as a young boss and your advices are giving me more understanding of what I am dealing with.
Ok so now I'm in love with your channel you're talking about my marriage my experience for the last 13yrs my Husband have drove me insane 15yrs together 3yrs married 2 kid's omg I'm TIRED now the up and down the humiliation on social media or anybody who listen then later nothing never happens or gifts so on TIRED
Rebecca u are a amazing person, ur videos step by step have helped me go no contact with the narc in my life. I feel like u have helped save my soul, and for that I'm every grateful, thank you. 3 weeks no contact I live 2 hours from a narc with no d.l. iv dealt with her for 14 years. I can't describe the relief off my chest
Another great video!! Rebecca is so right, she gives a lot of information FREE!! Many lawyers don’t and I pray it is returned to her a million times over!!! She is definitely contributed to my narcissistic education which has changed my life!!!
I'm going through this right now the narcissist is holding my father's trust without acknowledging us of any goings on we have no information since he passed in July of 2018 and she knows we don't have the resources to go after her and if we question this knock monster she just makes the story up about IRS it's in probate which is a lie it's she refuses to deal with the beneficiaries of the trust and we haven't gotten her to release copies to all beneficiaries I'm at a quandary
Get the cops involved even if it is a mental/psychological abuse. This will become a huge trump card in court (divorce or suing him for domestic violence). This happened to me. My in=laws sent in the cops to investigate the abuse (they knew about it since he abused them also), and the cops suggested that I make a report on that incident, adding a possible other abusive situations to it. I did it. This is a win-win in court. Also strengthens you emotionally - you took action.
I'M FIGHTING BACK NOW! GETTING HIM OUT OF MY LIFE! AM LOST ON EXACTLY HOW TO ACCOMPLISH THIS ! HE'S IN MY HOME! WILL BE DROPPING HIM OFF IN THE CITY BECAUSE HE IS HOMELESS NOW ! DON'T WANT HIM ANY WHERE NEAR ME!!! HAVE SUFFERED PHYSICAL , EMOTIONAL, AND MENTAL ABUSE FOR ALMOST 8 YEARS NOW ! I DON'T WANT ANOTHER MINUTE OF AMY OF HIS ABUSE!
I will be leaving to drop him off in a few minutes. Am wondering how I am going to be able to just drive off and leave him standing there? I can feel my heart hurting already! Asking myself how can you do that to another human being? I need advice. I need help ! Well he manipulated me. Convinced me to take him to the Emergency Room for a headache he's had for 3 or 4 days. I dropped him off. Realized he left his cell phone in my car. I knew then he had done that on purpose. As I thought the ER called me. Asked me to come back. I didn't know what to tell them so I said yes! I went back. There really was no reason for me to be there . Just part of his games. I got there and they took me back to his room. He of course started bitching about how long it's taking. I said yea well you knew it would take for ever before you came here. I'm out in the parking g lot now. Just can't stand being in there wuth him. He's trying to play the feel sorry for me card. card . So far I've been pretty quiet. But I just want to scream you didn't care when you Choked me, or tore my rotator cuff, or punched me in the face when I was driving..... Why should I care how you feel ! But I stayed quiet........
Good idea. Never explain or justify. Im a stickler for always doing this to establish peoples understanding. But your absolutely wright-explanations only give them power. Thank you so much
It's like this take time to get to another person make good judgement don't just wear smartpants be a smarty pants remember you're responsible for yourself take control at all times cuz you are the one who will pay with consequence will behave choose before and Choose Wisely and make sure that you when you say no it means no greatest advice for life and any narcissistic
Hey girl, I followed you on Twitter too. I tried doing your webinar class and I cried and cried and then I fell asleep! I'm trying to make u laugh but it's true. I had just gone through q situation with him that was so far beyond normal, that well I'm sure u can imagine. Idk what to say..with love, G
Pretending the thing you don’t really want is the thing you want because they would definitely not give you what you want. For instance, if your difficult child plays two sports and you want them to chose one. Praise their abilities in the sport you don’t want them to chose because they do the opposite of what you want.
Just got away from my narcissist who was a coworker. But she was a covert malignant narcissist and had everyone fooled even I was sucked in but she decided to target me but I was only with her for a week thank god what a miserable week of anxiety and anger over her constant attack and gas lighting she is totally toxic rage and miserable blackmail rolled into a big ball of unpleasantness. I told my employer that I will no longer have any contact with that person she is a covert malignant narcissist and she is toxic. He agreed and said okay you will not have to work with her again but I said no I will not have any contact with her period. I’m still reeling from the constant attacks and shaming and she was using my other coworkers as flying monkeys against me. Just hope that she blows her self up and self-destructs before she can triangulate other’s against me. I VV think i got away from her without causing her to panic and try to destroy my reputation or my career but I will have to see how things shake out. Thank you for your insight and useful information.
I’ve been stuck in that financial trap for years. Finally hit the end, and asked him to leave last November, not sure how I could survive financially and support my daughter, but knowing we couldn’t go on another minute. Well, guess what? It’s now mid-July and he’s still here, intermittently (not successfully) hoovering me while he dates someone I now suspect he’s been seeing (probably along with others) for a couple of years. Arrrgh
I need some help understanding the whole "Leverage part" please 🖤.. I need some more elaboration..how to go about this etc..& the not giving it away to early isn't connecting for me.. Somthing is missing on that for me to fully understand.
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I can't wait to support you there.
I can't fckin stand this evil, soulless- thing anymore . He wouldn't let me out of the car so I finally acted on what I was feeling and I guess I punched him a few times. I knew in that moment though that I sealed my fate. But I just reacted and it felt great! I want to add something to what I wrote. I'm in no way saying that reacting physically at all is ever okay; however, my narc had been torturing me for hours and I reacted by striking him a couple of times. I am not a violent person nor do I condone the behavior. Then he hit himself so hard that it left a mark and kept saying that if I tried one more time to get away, the police would arrest me. I said great! Call them rn and I'll tell them the truth, but it only made him more angry bcuz he knew that they would believe me. Ok, sorry 4 the long story but I felt as though I needed to clarify what I had written. Thanks for your support and violence is never the answer, it wasn't premeditated. It was like something inside of me just couldn't take it anymore.
I always have had good luck with my own ways of dealing with a Narcissist . While I know my Narcissist was ready and waiting for a low caliper tactic to happen , I believe I'll refrain from these guidelines as to not suffer a loss like that again. It actually is good to see them win one though if only for awhile I do see her smile and looks very good wearing it.
I wish I could have one consult with you so I can figure out when and how to use my leverage.
@@harmonymillett2970 hey, thank you for reading what I had written and responding to me. I wish I could express my gratitude to you for helping me to deal with the way I reacted. I believe strongly in action not reaction, bcuz it is a sign of the kind of person that I strive to be and not who I've become due to repeated trauma. I agree with you that it was a natural reaction, but not the kind that I would suggest. Bcuz the second I realized what I had done, I knew I was really gonna get the wrath of the devil. I like to think I survived bcuz I was strong but it was probably bcuz he allowed me to. Sincerely, G
That disarming doesn't work with my soon to be ex. As soon as I say okay you are upset or angry. He immediately denies it! "No I'm not!" Is his favorite line. Conversations go no where.
Rebecca Zung saying "say bye bye" 12:38. CUTEST THING EVER!!! Thank you Rebecca for giving light and reason for our side of dealing with a narcissist. Thank you!
You´re so great Rebeca, giving away free legal advise; you´re right, no lawyer I know would do it, LOL.
@Octavio You may not know. Look up the information you need by title. Then #research your state, your county.
Yes, many lawyers on TH-cam do give FREE information tutorials, and even classes for law students that we can benefit from. Best regards.
@@Dani-cg9hn Thanks
True 👍
Super great stuff. Advanced Narc management tips in here. I was reared by multiple narcs. All this advice is GOLDEN - throw out a decoy; always conceal your true goal or desire. NEVER give up your leverage.
No matter how many conflicts you "resolve" with a narc, you'll never build any good lasting memories with them.
Get rid of them, and invest in memories that will make you happy.
Mine uses silent treatment. COMPLETELY!! Months at a time! He is older and a sociopath on top of it.I know how to deal with people who argue. He literally acts like I have said nothing, like I don't exist.
I'm fighting back but I know now that things will never be the way we thought so we adopt and shut boundaries and all the other good stuff you're teaching us so thank you!
Cut-off all energy supply_ no contac _ keep your distance from his/her .....💯
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I will fight back and I will win
Every divorce lawyer needs to be an expert, like you, in dealing with divorcing a N. My attorney was completely incompetent.
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Well this narcissist that I live with doesn’t want me to laugh because she claims I am shouting, she covers her ears and cringes away from me. But of course, she can screech like a banshee whenever she wants. At first, I was shocked, like, no she just didn’t. But today, again, I made a mild gurgling laughter which enraged this empty shell (she hates any joy) she started up again (“don’t shout”) I completely ignored her, my face was gray rocked, no emotions showing and I changed the subject as if I didn’t hear her. It worked. She looked shocked and seemed to respect me more. They always do this ‘$hit’ test to push at your boundaries. Then they watch your face like a hawk to get narcissistic supply. You cannot argue, defend or explain yourself to an irrational person. Like demonic toddlers who want to destroy your joy and authenticity
Shebakali6, great job keep up the good work however, once you know you go...
Untill then, you can't even trust a narc to not spit in your food, put Nair in your conditioner or use your bathsponge to clean mold off the shower or stick your toothbrush up their....
Yeah.... sounds like I'm a sick person but actually all of these are acts that took place, done to me by a narc or to someone else by a narc.
Hate to sound harsh please in the least get your own frig in your own br, put a damn good expensive dead Lock on your br door and lock your br door at all times especially while asleep and not home, even while you are at home in another room or if you step outside. Watch you ph, purse, documents, money c cards. Lock ur car. Yeahhh I know, I get it, I sound nuts.
I learned the hardway.
Also if you don't have your own bathroom put all your stuff for bathing in a basket, carrying when in use and right back to your own bedroom.
But how do you explain to her why you're living behind locked doors etc..
Hmmm just say
"I'd rather not talk about it"
Ummm .... not sure totally about how to handle this but just get the heck out asap.
These people only get worse.
Careful, extremely careful w u sharing w anyone who knows her at all about you picking up on her b n a narc.
Trust me on this one, these ppl have a way of turning someone's own mama against them, they're demonized🤷♀️ like they have unusual abilities.
Till then try to play it cool, def gray rock the sht out of her and don't get her worked up.
Wish you well🌻
Secretly film her.
You have helped me so much!
Fight back, this is the hardest thing I ever had to deal with.
My enabling mother is also a covert.. therapy has revealed our codependency and sick trauma bond. I have moved out in no contact and she’s seething with no control over her 44 yo daughter
Thank you Rebecca...I'm learning a lot.
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How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
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You are so knowlegable, charming and engaging. I wish you were My lawyer.
Thank you soooooo much.... I had to use these tactics for the last few weeks because the narc rage is real
Heey brother I just found out about this a few days ago, now I'm unemployed, have no vehicle, do not own anything really, I'm not concerned about it anymore, it still hurts tho, it's difficult to Trust, death feels better than meeting someone new for me, I'm tired, lost too many close friends and family during covid and now this, I can only cry when she's asleep, I'm sorry that you had to go through this
Bro…. Don’t give up… put you a plan together right now and ACT!!!! I got caught up just like you did… those with the power are gonna flex right now… people like you and I gotta stay humble so we can keep seeing clearly and keep it moving… best of luck… I fell into a 6 week depression and got off my ass like 4 weeks too late… almost lost everything… SCRAMBLE NOW sir!!!!!!!!!!!
@@travdeem 🙏🏾, I know I'll make through with God's Hand over me, just a hard pill to swallow I guess, I pity her now, can't unsee who my "wife" really is
@@evilc7094 yep I lost my girl too... Engine blew on my truck and destroyed my little nest egg 🥚 and she slid off on me... It's the worst feeling in the world but prepare yourself for the future... It's certainly ok to start dating again... What else can you do...
Thank you brother appreciate you Love and Peace from Cape Town South Africa
Thats when they can steal our energy when we get mad or upset just gray Rock then Run.......💛
I’ve watched a couple of channels on this subject but I find yours the most empowering. I walk away from your videos feeling resilient and strong.
To a Narcissist every victim is like rocks in the river of life_ where the Narcissist jumps from one to another victim until finally finds the most obedient and docile for him to thrive ......
Exactly
I did ask for more than I wanted and settled for what I actually wanted.
Love your energy!! & personality! You keep it fresh and interesting in all of your videos.
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
Fight back! 💪😎❤️🍀
You are soooo right! My Ex knows that I want to move out of state with our kids and he is literally stonewalling mediation. We held off notifying his Attorney for as long as we could and now we're twiddling our thumbs...
Fight back? Yeah you fight back you start confronting their bullshit, digging up the truth and then you get ghosted by them, the nerve.
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So much free content! You are so helpful, wow!!!
You are such a giftand totally adorable, thank you so much, Rebecca!❤️
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
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@@RebeccaZungEsq a friend of a friend and ex head honcho at the SEC came over and then took over and immediately got them home! We fell in love and boom! He was arrested by FBI and gone…just like that.😑
For something he did 7 yrs ago drinking a lot. Sober for 6 yrs and the nicest and smartest man jumped in as a father figure and GREAT Guy. Sentencing in Junein Alexandria. I’ll be going again to support him but, he is looking at 15-25 yrs.
Sooooo Sad.
Thank you so much Rebecca for turning on the light in an otherwise, very dark corner.
I have shared with anyone who’ll listen how great it is, the a-HA! moment.
Much love!❤️🔥
Oof! I meant that I have pointed many in your direction! But, A-HA! Because you are out there KILL’IN it!💪👱🏻♀️👊
I so appreciate finding these videos
I got bamboozled ! Taken ! That rascal beat me to the punch line . Pulled the rug out from under me, a complete blowout . I'll have to brush the dust off and just take the loss on this one . Ya can't win em all .
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Thank you! Fight back. My son and his dad are this.😢
Your are very good! I having problems with a narcissist at work as a young boss and your advices are giving me more understanding of what I am dealing with.
Ok so now I'm in love with your channel you're talking about my marriage my experience for the last 13yrs my Husband have drove me insane 15yrs together 3yrs married 2 kid's omg I'm TIRED now the up and down the humiliation on social media or anybody who listen then later nothing never happens or gifts so on TIRED
so glad I bumped into this content.
Your Great Thank you. Happy Easter. God loves you.
Rebecca u are a amazing person, ur videos step by step have helped me go no contact with the narc in my life. I feel like u have helped save my soul, and for that I'm every grateful, thank you. 3 weeks no contact I live 2 hours from a narc with no d.l. iv dealt with her for 14 years. I can't describe the relief off my chest
Another great video!! Rebecca is so right, she gives a lot of information FREE!! Many lawyers don’t and I pray it is returned to her a million times over!!! She is definitely contributed to my narcissistic education which has changed my life!!!
Eveyone gives free info on youtube..there is no need to keep mentioning it..
That’s a big thing.. escaping the right way.
Thank u Beautiful You're Awesome Sauce 💛
Fight back & slay! I need an attorney like you!
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
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FIGHT BACK!!!!!!
And a narcissistic negotiation professional like really how many other people are in that field
Thank you for stopping in
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Yes Rebecca. “Fight Back.”
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Sounds like my mother. Thank you for sharing. Helpful words. 🌹👑💫⚜
I'm going through this right now the narcissist is holding my father's trust without acknowledging us of any goings on we have no information since he passed in July of 2018 and she knows we don't have the resources to go after her and if we question this knock monster she just makes the story up about IRS it's in probate which is a lie it's she refuses to deal with the beneficiaries of the trust and we haven't gotten her to release copies to all beneficiaries I'm at a quandary
No contact ♥️
Best advice I’ve ever heard, thank you for your help ♥️
The ONLY way to win and drive the nuts! Also to move on! This is how I beat mine. Good luck 💕 lovie
Get the cops involved even if it is a mental/psychological abuse. This will become a huge trump card in court (divorce or suing him for domestic violence). This happened to me. My in=laws sent in the cops to investigate the abuse (they knew about it since he abused them also), and the cops suggested that I make a report on that incident, adding a possible other abusive situations to it. I did it. This is a win-win in court. Also strengthens you emotionally - you took action.
Thanks
Fight Back!
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Yes! Fight back!!
I'M FIGHTING BACK NOW! GETTING HIM OUT OF MY LIFE! AM LOST ON EXACTLY HOW TO ACCOMPLISH THIS ! HE'S IN MY HOME! WILL BE DROPPING HIM OFF IN THE CITY BECAUSE HE IS HOMELESS NOW ! DON'T WANT HIM ANY WHERE NEAR ME!!! HAVE SUFFERED PHYSICAL , EMOTIONAL, AND MENTAL ABUSE FOR ALMOST 8 YEARS NOW ! I DON'T WANT ANOTHER MINUTE OF AMY OF HIS ABUSE!
I will be leaving to drop him off in a few minutes. Am wondering how I am going to be able to just drive off and leave him standing there? I can feel my heart hurting already! Asking myself how can you do that to another human being? I need advice. I need help !
Well he manipulated me. Convinced me to take him to the Emergency Room for a headache he's had for 3 or 4 days. I dropped him off. Realized he left his cell phone in my car. I knew then he had done that on purpose. As I thought the ER called me. Asked me to come back. I didn't know what to tell them so I said yes! I went back. There really was no reason for me to be there . Just part of his games. I got there and they took me back to his room. He of course started bitching about how long it's taking. I said yea well you knew it would take for ever before you came here. I'm out in the parking g lot now. Just can't stand being in there wuth him. He's trying to play the feel sorry for me card. card . So far I've been pretty quiet. But I just want to scream you didn't care when you Choked me, or tore my rotator cuff, or punched me in the face when I was driving.....
Why should I care how you feel ! But I stayed quiet........
The Narcissist can smell your weakness and use against you the lure and hook with the bait 🐬
@Lou S Bingo ! 👍
I want to get out of a Job I'm currently trapped in... Only after watching your videos have I actually figured out what is wring with him
"FIGHT BACK"!!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Good Morning Rebecca! Thank you
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Thank you.
Good idea. Never explain or justify. Im a stickler for always doing this to establish peoples understanding. But your absolutely wright-explanations only give them power. Thank you so much
It's like this take time to get to another person make good judgement don't just wear smartpants be a smarty pants remember you're responsible for yourself take control at all times cuz you are the one who will pay with consequence will behave choose before and Choose Wisely and make sure that you when you say no it means no greatest advice for life and any narcissistic
With all of this information to use for tools it dawns on me that with this info it will take a con to con a conI am going to fight back
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Hey girl, I followed you on Twitter too. I tried doing your webinar class and I cried and cried and then I fell asleep! I'm trying to make u laugh but it's true. I had just gone through q situation with him that was so far beyond normal, that well I'm sure u can imagine. Idk what to say..with love, G
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Thank you , perfect 😊❤️🌹
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Liking your energy today!👍👍❤🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Best form of defence is attack... Then detach.
Fight Back
Fight back!!
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Tina Bushi,You look gorgeous ❤,Hope you are not with a narcissist….
#10 easier said then done. They pick at you until you finally explode
Fight back ………if I can🙏
FIGHT BACK,GOOD PRESENTATION MADAM. ☺️👍
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Thanks.
Your videos are so positive ans powerful
So helpful, thank you!
FIGHT BACK!
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Fight back !!!!!!
Could you be more specific or use example of decoy? Thanks!
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Pretending the thing you don’t really want is the thing you want because they would definitely not give you what you want. For instance, if your difficult child plays two sports and you want them to chose one. Praise their abilities in the sport you don’t want them to chose because they do the opposite of what you want.
Just got away from my narcissist who was a coworker. But she was a covert malignant narcissist and had everyone fooled even I was sucked in but she decided to target me but I was only with her for a week thank god what a miserable week of anxiety and anger over her constant attack and gas lighting she is totally toxic rage and miserable blackmail rolled into a big ball of unpleasantness. I told my employer that I will no longer have any contact with that person she is a covert malignant narcissist and she is toxic. He agreed and said okay you will not have to work with her again but I said no I will not have any contact with her period. I’m still reeling from the constant attacks and shaming and she was using my other coworkers as flying monkeys against me. Just hope that she blows her self up and self-destructs before she can triangulate other’s against me. I VV think i got away from her without causing her to panic and try to destroy my reputation or my career but I will have to see how things shake out. Thank you for your insight and useful information.
Off topic Did you have the fan on ? because your folder was moving on the book shelf .good info
I listen to your videos while driving….. All so true and spot in! Question….. what does it mean when someone is sending “light”????
Thank you again for the sharing
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Thank you!!!
Fight back!
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Let’s GO! Thank you
Thank you for very helpful tips.
Going to fight back
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What are some examples of creating leverage? ??
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Very good info
I’ve gone no contact
I would love nothing more than to go no contact. But how can I accomplish that when finances will not cover living anywhere BUT in the same house??
I’ve been stuck in that financial trap for years. Finally hit the end, and asked him to leave last November, not sure how I could survive financially and support my daughter, but knowing we couldn’t go on another minute. Well, guess what? It’s now mid-July and he’s still here, intermittently (not successfully) hoovering me while he dates someone I now suspect he’s been seeing (probably along with others) for a couple of years. Arrrgh
Thankyou mam🙏
Fighting back
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Good advice! Thanks,
Fight back! That really is what I’ve been doing for the last few months and it’s not going so well for the narc.
Fight back and don’t let them get you down your worth fighting for!
Thank u much appreciated
Hello Dr Zung 👋🏽🌹
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Fight back
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I need some help understanding the whole "Leverage part" please 🖤.. I need some more elaboration..how to go about this etc..& the not giving it away to early isn't connecting for me.. Somthing is missing on that for me to fully understand.