Don't listen to Paul Washer, he will fill you with guilt and fear. Listen to Jesus, he will give you peace, strengthen you, transform you and give you courage.
I'm 23 and I can proudly say I got a lot of these things down but there's a couple I still need to work on. God has worked hard on me and I have great parents.
I'm almost 30 now, married, had no father growing up, but I wish I heard this when I was younger, would've really helped kicked me in the butt and I wouldn't have put us through so much hardships but at the same time, I'm happy I learned the lessons I did. Thanks for this video even if this video is years old.
1. When the time drew near for David to die, he gave a charge for Solomon his son. 2. "I am about to go the way of all the earth," he said. "So be strong, show yourself A MAN" (1st Kings 2:1,2).......
I have a son and a daughter. Both of them are teenagers so I pay attention to the dating scene. At this point, I don’t know who I would distress more. The boys or the girls. I have seen extremely bad decision-making and bad behavior from both and from both of people inside the church. I tell my son to never let himself be alone with a girl because he might end up in prison. I tell him that people lie about 90% of the time and not just non-Christians. It doesn’t matter your sex. People are pretty terrible. And I include myself. Probably the harder question is after you have become a man how do you get a woman to not reject you? 😅 you have to be persistent. I found a wife after hundreds of rejections and only had to travel around the world to do it. 😅 I respect Paul washer and he has a very good point. You need to become a man and act like a man. The girl also needs to act like a woman and that is getting harder and harder to find as well. Even in the church.
That last statement is so true. I try to be the best man I can be, and i am having a hard time with women. Im 22 but feel more mature than most of them. And I got burned for trying to do the right things.
Someone, preferably an older woman needs to say a similar lesson to girls on how they should become women. I’m not against either lesson, but I am noticing such a one sided focus on men and a lot of ease for women.
@@Vincent-yp1gj But nothing. You honor God by reflecting the image of Christ the Lord. Dont worry about other folks, seek to honor God. Specks and planks and the like
This is a good message for young men. And I would also like to add, to all men: once you get to a point of maturity (and guys mature at different ages too), find a younger/less mature man and help him. Don't just bash on younger/immature men. Teach them, show them how to love others, and also love them like brothers. This life is not a game. And we are not at war with each other. The real enemy, satan, is looking for souls to devour. Take less mature guys under your wing and help them. Too many guys are floundering, and don't really know where to get help.
If i were a single and watched this i would have completely agreed with his statement but being in a new relationship knowing all her secrets promising her a future even though I'm not capable rn. It really hits hard
Im a 17 yr old and I tell all my young Christian friends don’t get into a romantic relationship. Some listen some don’t, those that don’t get hit like a truck once they’ve seen what I said happen. It’s nice to see a community that agrees not those weak little boys who are complacent and are like the world. When the Bible says be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
i now know why some people hate this man, it is because he speaks the truth and the truth in our time is called ''judging''. I am thinking right now about what he said and it hits really hard.
Time are hard for young man me being one 24 years old. Been looking for a job that gives me money to support my self but to no avail. Prayed to God but nothing, and then this world sucks and frankly some people just love to drag your face in the place your at. I have no problem managing money I pay my own finacial commitments, and save money. Its just I try my hardest and find nothing I want to have a relationship but God tells me or something tells me not ready and feel like Ill never be.
22 here brotha, I understood every single word and sentiment behind them. Any advice? Submit more to Him..what does that mean? Just go in ur prayer closet and keep asking Him and keep seeking Him! Everything else will come. I don’t have it better than you but the only thing I’m holding on to is Him.
I feel you bro. Try to put yourself in God's shoes though; would you do well if he immediately brought you into the full blessing he has prepared for you? Would you squander the wealth? Would pornography trouble you marriage? Would you live a self-focused life? So work in the field God has given you, whether with honour or without, and have full confidence that God will exalt you when you are ready and his timing comes. Praying for you.
Find mentors, hang out with men paving their way through life. This will make it 10x better. Journal your journey because God will take your emotions through the furnace.
Thank you LORD. As young men, it is very important to let the word of GOD work in us, and to guide us in our every day lives. Psalms 119:9- Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his ways, by taking heed thereto, according to thy word.
I am so thankful for the Lord putting me on the right path in life. I’m not perfect (far from it) but I’ve been able to focus on personal and spiritual growth. Thank you Lord for protecting me from something I wasn’t ready for!
It's a personal thing people join themselves together The male female attraction Isnt governed by rules or Regulations whatever works Out for the best Love will find a way!
Non of these Men are going to get on this or any other platform today. They will not openly state your wife my daughter is to be a VIRGIN. My daughter is to be a VIRGIN in order for Her to be Wife. This is a gift you as Her husband. This to only you as a husband on your wedding night??!
Being married doesn’t make you a man. Being a man doesn’t make you married. It’s possible to marry someone not being a man. But you must be a man to have a successful marriage.
Correct. He leaves out everything Paul says about marriage and singleness in 1 Corinthians 7. Paul implies it's actually better not to marry so you can devote your entire life to the Lord.
I'm learning now that dating and marriage to a woman is pain and suffering. It's not meant to be rewarding like we think it is. It's constant work, hardship, and heavy lifting. All the time. And Christians make it this way it seems. But regardless, the pain of relationships is inescapable.
If we all waited until everything was in order and we were mature and capable of handling most of life's troubles then everyone would be grey haired and well past the age of child bearing before we'd go looking for anything. Marriage and relationships like most other things are growth processes in themselves.
Paul Washer! Is it your intent to build up and edify and make strong?? Or to tear down condemn and weaken?? And which of those motivations bring about the language of calling men boys?? This is not the only time...he does this often. Preachers of the law, that cannot rightly distinguish between the law and gospel, drive men even deeper into the very sins they preach against. And there will always be a condescending language used, and a spirit of superiority when they talk..no matter how they frame their tone of voice ever so softly...they cannot escape it because self-righteousness must needs lift itself up over others to condemn them..and that is where the confidence then lies..within the comparison that they are better than others. Praise God for Paul Washers stance aginst immorality in this wicked world...But without correctly distinguishing law and gospel it will lead to further sin and condemnation. I recommend Charlse H. Spurgeons sermon "the warrant of faith".
The gospel (that we are saved by faith) is presumed by Paul, he is preaching the gospel often. This is for Christians - who already stand on the firm foundation of salvation ny grace - and who want to know how to be sanctified in the area of relationships and marriage. You don't get saved by "growing up, getting your act together and finally becoming a man", rather, you are saved by grace. But what then after we are saved? Our of thankfulness we WANT to grow more godly in every area of life. For these, he gives this advice in this clip. Be blessed!
Paul Washer leaves out what Paul the Apostle says about marriage and singleness in 1 Corinthians 7. It is actually better to remain single so you can devote your entire life to the Lord.
While I agree with a lot of this message, I want to know why there is hardly any messaging like this for young women. Within the church, sermons directed towards men are always harsh and corrective, while sermons directed towards women are complementary and lavish praise upon them. Do these preachers not realize that women are falling men as well? Even if a young man does everything he ought to in this video, he very likely will not find a lady, because there are no standards for women anymore.
Great video! The only thing is that while we need to normalize Christian guys being men in society we also need to normalize Christian family. There are certain Christian women it is okay I am alone with because they are my SISTERS in Christ and they also understand I am their brother in Christ. We need to take seriously spiritual sisters just as much, in fact more seriously then having a physical sister. This requires wisdom because if a sister in Christ doesn't understand i am her brother in Christ and how serious that is then yeah maybe I can't be alone with her and if their is a woman that I want to marry then i need to be careful being alone with her as well
This is cringe beyond belief, he randomly brings his son into this? That is akward and uncalled for, where did Jesus teach to save for a diwn payment for a house before getting married? Paul washer is so holy and dignified yet he's joking about beating a young man on stage, crazy.
No you didn't get the point, He says guys man up, grow up think about your future and if you want to build a family start now change your mindset and discipline yourselves, and even if you're a 14 years old kid start now practice yourself be a hardworking person gain knowledge and experience, take this advice seriously if you don't want to learned the hard way. Experiencing your own failure because of the wrong decision you've made will be a very painful experience and a very regretful one.
@@sharingJesusChrist te agradezco tu respuesta! Asumo que somos hermanos en Cristo, gloria a Dios por eso. Siguiendo con el punto, a veces cuando un punto es claro, los ejemplos traen más oscuridad que luz. En este caso es una carga muy pesada e imposible para personas que no son del primer mundo y que encima no tienen la suerte de heredar una fortuna como el hermano Washer. Considero que como somos de todo el mundo los que escuchamos los mensajes de Paul, sería bueno considerar que nuestros países no tienen la misma economía y la admiración por Washer nos lleva a sentirnos mal por no cumplir con lo que él está diciendo. Saludos.
Absolutely it’s patriarcal and thats a good thing. That word has been turned into a bad word but its biblical. The old testament prophets and new testament apostles were patriarchs of the faith! REAL MEN!!!!
On this subject, Paul Washer isn't talking about being saved...assuming that these young boys he is speaking to are already Christians, he is talking about Biblically-based wisdom and common sense concerning these young boys becoming men who qualify for a marriage commitment. As a Christian bachelor who is about to turn 50 years old, I have had many life delays because of being a caregiver to my sickly family, which nearly destroyed my life. My caregiving responsibilities finally ended in 2015 and I am still picking up the pieces of my life in order to prepare for marriage. I can tell you as I turn 50 years old, I face the reality that I'm still not financially ready to financially provide that kind of commitment for a wife and children....I can barely provide for myself alone on my current salary. I would have been ready for marriage earlier in life had it not been for my caregiving responsibilities to my sickly family for most of my adult life thus far. My only hope is in the Lord God directing me to a position where I am financially ready to provide for a wife and children....otherwise, I'm just content with remaining a bachelor for the rest of my natural life. Do I still desire marriage one day? Yes, but also it is written in the Bible, "Godliness with contentment is great gain," so as long as I have Christ in my life, I'm content even as a bachelor. These young boys need this sort of wisdom if they wish to become men who qualify for the responsibilities of a marriage commitment....regardless of the woman they are attracted to.
You recognize an apple tree by the fruit it carries. You also recognize a follower of Christ by being Christlike. Yep, by the works they want to do because they are a new creation. They don't do works because they have to but because they can't help it.
This man teaches a Calvinist gospel, a gospel that we must hate and despise ourselves, he is a religious man that you will not see smiling, he teaches you that it is a sin to love yourself, he fills your mind with guilt and prejudice, as a result, you end up living a life with low self-esteem, guilt, anxiety, depression
He’s being truthful. No one will create a God who condemns oneself. The problem is many don’t like to or want to hear the truth. If people did they’d recognize it and realize their own sins instead of calling a man speaking the truth “a little overly harsh.” This is why we have soft men now. Men letting women lead, men being boys until they are 35, and men who can barely take care of their physical much less spiritual selves. Men who don’t know how to be men because being a biblical man is too “hard” or goes against the current culture.
Yep 19 yr old here… the kick in the butt I needed
Same bro
@@cuvantul.evangheliei_ yeah it seems the message that hits the hardest is the one we need huh.
same bro
Facts man
Don't listen to Paul Washer, he will fill you with guilt and fear. Listen to Jesus, he will give you peace, strengthen you, transform you and give you courage.
Thank you so much, Todd. As a young man, I really needed to hear this.
😢thank you for your honesty. I'll treasure this comment.
"when i was still a child, i thought like a child, reasoned like a child, but now that i am a man, i laid down the things of a child"
"Including the worry that people would see me as childish"
I'm 23 and I can proudly say I got a lot of these things down but there's a couple I still need to work on. God has worked hard on me and I have great parents.
Same man it’s a blessing
im 21 and im just starting man
I'm also 23 and also have great parents
Very humbling and I really needed to hear this. Coming from a 33 year old. God bless you all
I'm almost 30 now, married, had no father growing up, but I wish I heard this when I was younger, would've really helped kicked me in the butt and I wouldn't have put us through so much hardships but at the same time, I'm happy I learned the lessons I did. Thanks for this video even if this video is years old.
1. When the time drew near for David to die, he gave a charge for Solomon his son.
2. "I am about to go the way of all the earth," he said. "So be strong, show yourself A MAN" (1st Kings 2:1,2).......
Thank you for the verse
Im 24 and I truly needed to hear this. All I can do is pray that God lead me.
I really needed this I am 18 and my dad wants me to be a bum and I don't want to I want to live my life for christ as a man
Godspeed
Follow Jesus all the days of your life. ❤
God has your back 🕊️
I live with my parents and I agree 100% what he says men think as men and boys think as boys
21 year old...This isn't a game really. I am now filled with grief. Sorrowful.
Felt that man, I really wish I had more guard rails when I was as young as nine....20 now...10 years of bad choices before I got saved
Jesus loves you...
Be healed, in jESUS' name, dear brother 🙏🤝🙇♂️
I'm an older women with two grownup sons... I'm glad to hear a godly man like this tell it as it is...
I have a son and a daughter. Both of them are teenagers so I pay attention to the dating scene.
At this point, I don’t know who I would distress more. The boys or the girls.
I have seen extremely bad decision-making and bad behavior from both and from both of people inside the church.
I tell my son to never let himself be alone with a girl because he might end up in prison. I tell him that people lie about 90% of the time and not just non-Christians.
It doesn’t matter your sex. People are pretty terrible. And I include myself.
Probably the harder question is after you have become a man how do you get a woman to not reject you? 😅 you have to be persistent. I found a wife after hundreds of rejections and only had to travel around the world to do it. 😅
I respect Paul washer and he has a very good point. You need to become a man and act like a man.
The girl also needs to act like a woman and that is getting harder and harder to find as well. Even in the church.
well said
Amen and Amen
That last statement is so true. I try to be the best man I can be, and i am having a hard time with women. Im 22 but feel more mature than most of them. And I got burned for trying to do the right things.
how should a man act in your opinion?
That's why Paul says it's better to remain single. Read 1 Corinthians 7.
Timely reminder for me as a young pastor
Someone, preferably an older woman needs to say a similar lesson to girls on how they should become women. I’m not against either lesson, but I am noticing such a one sided focus on men and a lot of ease for women.
Yeah. What is the point of becoming a righteous godly man who walks the path to find a woman if there aren't any woman on the path?
@@jllemin4Because you honor God by reflecting the image of Christ.
@@uriahedwards ok. But isn't that for both genders?
@@Vincent-yp1gj But nothing. You honor God by reflecting the image of Christ the Lord. Dont worry about other folks, seek to honor God. Specks and planks and the like
Vincent-yp1gj yes it does go for both genders or it should
This is a good message for young men. And I would also like to add, to all men: once you get to a point of maturity (and guys mature at different ages too), find a younger/less mature man and help him. Don't just bash on younger/immature men. Teach them, show them how to love others, and also love them like brothers. This life is not a game. And we are not at war with each other. The real enemy, satan, is looking for souls to devour. Take less mature guys under your wing and help them. Too many guys are floundering, and don't really know where to get help.
If i were a single and watched this i would have completely agreed with his statement but being in a new relationship knowing all her secrets promising her a future even though I'm not capable rn. It really hits hard
Im a 17 yr old and I tell all my young Christian friends don’t get into a romantic relationship. Some listen some don’t, those that don’t get hit like a truck once they’ve seen what I said happen. It’s nice to see a community that agrees not those weak little boys who are complacent and are like the world. When the Bible says be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
i now know why some people hate this man, it is because he speaks the truth and the truth in our time is called ''judging''. I am thinking right now about what he said and it hits really hard.
He hasn't told the whole truth about marriage, though. Read 1 Corinthians 7.
Time are hard for young man me being one 24 years old. Been looking for a job that gives me money to support my self but to no avail. Prayed to God but nothing, and then this world sucks and frankly some people just love to drag your face in the place your at. I have no problem managing money I pay my own finacial commitments, and save money. Its just I try my hardest and find nothing I want to have a relationship but God tells me or something tells me not ready and feel like Ill never be.
22 here brotha, I understood every single word and sentiment behind them. Any advice? Submit more to Him..what does that mean? Just go in ur prayer closet and keep asking Him and keep seeking Him! Everything else will come. I don’t have it better than you but the only thing I’m holding on to is Him.
We are all on the same page man, we really frikn are. I don't know what God has planned for each of us but he is the ONLY one who can help us!
You are doing well
I feel you bro. Try to put yourself in God's shoes though; would you do well if he immediately brought you into the full blessing he has prepared for you? Would you squander the wealth? Would pornography trouble you marriage? Would you live a self-focused life? So work in the field God has given you, whether with honour or without, and have full confidence that God will exalt you when you are ready and his timing comes. Praying for you.
Find mentors, hang out with men paving their way through life. This will make it 10x better. Journal your journey because God will take your emotions through the furnace.
Thank you LORD. As young men, it is very important to let the word of GOD work in us, and to guide us in our every day lives.
Psalms 119:9- Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his ways, by taking heed thereto, according to thy word.
I am so thankful for the Lord putting me on the right path in life. I’m not perfect (far from it) but I’ve been able to focus on personal and spiritual growth. Thank you Lord for protecting me from something I wasn’t ready for!
Honestly, this is profound, sound doctrine. Unfiltered truth 😢
Not the whole truth, though. Paul warns against marriage in 1 Corinthians 7.
Women same thing we need to be ready. Spiritually mature is necessary.
Thank you..I really need to hear this it come at the right time 🙌
Beautiful tribute!!!!!!
It's a personal thing people join themselves together
The male female attraction
Isnt governed by rules or
Regulations whatever works
Out for the best
Love will find a way!
Non of these Men are going to get on this or any other platform today. They will not openly state your wife my daughter is to be a VIRGIN. My daughter is to be a VIRGIN in order for Her to be Wife. This is a gift you as Her husband. This to only you as a husband on your wedding night??!
I love the way this guy talks
One of the great mistakes of the church is the conflation of marriage and manhood. And whether intentionally or not, Paul Washer is making it here.
Why do you say it's a mistake?
Being married doesn’t make you a man. Being a man doesn’t make you married. It’s possible to marry someone not being a man. But you must be a man to have a successful marriage.
Correct. He leaves out everything Paul says about marriage and singleness in 1 Corinthians 7. Paul implies it's actually better not to marry so you can devote your entire life to the Lord.
God bless you Paul washer. Real word of God is this that you teach❤
This message needs to be taught aggressively in this generation, a lot of young boys aren't on the right part in this era
I wish I had seen this and believed it at least 5 years ago
standing ovation 👏
This is so true even thought is hard to hear but it’s the truth and we accept for its regardless how it feel this what my dad thought us as men’s!!
Thank you for the honesty brother Paul, I also don't trust myself that's why I need Jesus to help me live this life for His glory!!!
I'm learning now that dating and marriage to a woman is pain and suffering. It's not meant to be rewarding like we think it is. It's constant work, hardship, and heavy lifting. All the time. And Christians make it this way it seems. But regardless, the pain of relationships is inescapable.
Reading 1 Corinthians 7 would have prevented that.
Who is the fellow sitting with Paul?
If we all waited until everything was in order and we were mature and capable of handling most of life's troubles then everyone would be grey haired and well past the age of child bearing before we'd go looking for anything. Marriage and relationships like most other things are growth processes in themselves.
Paul Washer's advice gave me a roundhouse kick, an uppercut and a good jab.😂
😂 He said "men have relationships with girls" but I know he really meant men have relationships with women .
Im 14 and i needed to hear this😅
You can tell Paul Washer. He can keep modern woman to himself. We don't care....
We got a tough guy here 🤓
@@Ksksjdhdjak Was Paul the Apostle a tough guy? Read 1 Corinthians 7.
@@tutnod2449 what
If she likes you, she will come say hi, look up cassady campbell, "asking drunk girls for money"😅
Paul Washer! Is it your intent to build up and edify and make strong?? Or to tear down condemn and weaken?? And which of those motivations bring about the language of calling men boys?? This is not the only time...he does this often. Preachers of the law, that cannot rightly distinguish between the law and gospel, drive men even deeper into the very sins they preach against. And there will always be a condescending language used, and a spirit of superiority when they talk..no matter how they frame their tone of voice ever so softly...they cannot escape it because self-righteousness must needs lift itself up over others to condemn them..and that is where the confidence then lies..within the comparison that they are better than others.
Praise God for Paul Washers stance aginst immorality in this wicked world...But without correctly distinguishing law and gospel it will lead to further sin and condemnation.
I recommend Charlse H. Spurgeons sermon "the warrant of faith".
The gospel (that we are saved by faith) is presumed by Paul, he is preaching the gospel often. This is for Christians - who already stand on the firm foundation of salvation ny grace - and who want to know how to be sanctified in the area of relationships and marriage.
You don't get saved by "growing up, getting your act together and finally becoming a man", rather, you are saved by grace. But what then after we are saved? Our of thankfulness we WANT to grow more godly in every area of life. For these, he gives this advice in this clip.
Be blessed!
Paul Washer leaves out what Paul the Apostle says about marriage and singleness in 1 Corinthians 7. It is actually better to remain single so you can devote your entire life to the Lord.
Amen
While I agree with a lot of this message, I want to know why there is hardly any messaging like this for young women. Within the church, sermons directed towards men are always harsh and corrective, while sermons directed towards women are complementary and lavish praise upon them. Do these preachers not realize that women are falling men as well? Even if a young man does everything he ought to in this video, he very likely will not find a lady, because there are no standards for women anymore.
there is no way the girls said that
Great video! The only thing is that while we need to normalize Christian guys being men in society we also need to normalize Christian family. There are certain Christian women it is okay I am alone with because they are my SISTERS in Christ and they also understand I am their brother in Christ. We need to take seriously spiritual sisters just as much, in fact more seriously then having a physical sister. This requires wisdom because if a sister in Christ doesn't understand i am her brother in Christ and how serious that is then yeah maybe I can't be alone with her and if their is a woman that I want to marry then i need to be careful being alone with her as well
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wow...what a wonderful women..! Praise God .
This is cringe beyond belief, he randomly brings his son into this? That is akward and uncalled for, where did Jesus teach to save for a diwn payment for a house before getting married? Paul washer is so holy and dignified yet he's joking about beating a young man on stage, crazy.
Very called for and great sermon for young men and many old boys obviously
Righteous 🙌🏽🫡🦅
So, if you have money, you can be with anybody? Dont have sense for me. Sorry Paul, but i dont agree with and terrible example of buying a car.
No you didn't get the point, He says guys man up, grow up think about your future and if you want to build a family start now change your mindset and discipline yourselves, and even if you're a 14 years old kid start now practice yourself be a hardworking person gain knowledge and experience, take this advice seriously if you don't want to learned the hard way. Experiencing your own failure because of the wrong decision you've made will be a very painful experience and a very regretful one.
To understand Tod's analogy you are at least a parent or put yourself in the position of a parent with a daughter.
@@sharingJesusChrist te agradezco tu respuesta! Asumo que somos hermanos en Cristo, gloria a Dios por eso.
Siguiendo con el punto, a veces cuando un punto es claro, los ejemplos traen más oscuridad que luz. En este caso es una carga muy pesada e imposible para personas que no son del primer mundo y que encima no tienen la suerte de heredar una fortuna como el hermano Washer. Considero que como somos de todo el mundo los que escuchamos los mensajes de Paul, sería bueno considerar que nuestros países no tienen la misma economía y la admiración por Washer nos lleva a sentirnos mal por no cumplir con lo que él está diciendo.
Saludos.
Patriarchal prescriptions.
No. It's biblical
Absolutely it’s patriarcal and thats a good thing. That word has been turned into a bad word but its biblical. The old testament prophets and new testament apostles were patriarchs of the faith! REAL MEN!!!!
🚨🐺🚨🐺🚨🐺🚨🐺🚨🐺🚨
A man
It's actually better to remain single than to marry according to Paul the Apostle. Read 1 Corinthians 7.
I can’t take a man who backloads works into the gospel seriously. No thanks Paul Washer, no thanks.
On this subject, Paul Washer isn't talking about being saved...assuming that these young boys he is speaking to are already Christians, he is talking about Biblically-based wisdom and common sense concerning these young boys becoming men who qualify for a marriage commitment. As a Christian bachelor who is about to turn 50 years old, I have had many life delays because of being a caregiver to my sickly family, which nearly destroyed my life. My caregiving responsibilities finally ended in 2015 and I am still picking up the pieces of my life in order to prepare for marriage. I can tell you as I turn 50 years old, I face the reality that I'm still not financially ready to financially provide that kind of commitment for a wife and children....I can barely provide for myself alone on my current salary. I would have been ready for marriage earlier in life had it not been for my caregiving responsibilities to my sickly family for most of my adult life thus far. My only hope is in the Lord God directing me to a position where I am financially ready to provide for a wife and children....otherwise, I'm just content with remaining a bachelor for the rest of my natural life. Do I still desire marriage one day? Yes, but also it is written in the Bible, "Godliness with contentment is great gain," so as long as I have Christ in my life, I'm content even as a bachelor.
These young boys need this sort of wisdom if they wish to become men who qualify for the responsibilities of a marriage commitment....regardless of the woman they are attracted to.
Faith without works is dead. Life without doing good things is not a life worth living.
@@ezekielgdk if you say so
@@ReligiouslyIncorrectThe book of James emphatically says works WILL happen or the faith never existed. Faith first, works logically follow.
You recognize an apple tree by the fruit it carries. You also recognize a follower of Christ by being Christlike. Yep, by the works they want to do because they are a new creation. They don't do works because they have to but because they can't help it.
I think Paul Washer is being a little overly harsh and legalistic here
It's a wake up call, it's not supposed to sound lovey dovey wishy washy.
It's meant to sting so you can get off the couch and get to work
This man teaches a Calvinist gospel, a gospel that we must hate and despise ourselves, he is a religious man that you will not see smiling, he teaches you that it is a sin to love yourself, he fills your mind with guilt and prejudice, as a result, you end up living a life with low self-esteem, guilt, anxiety, depression
Don't listen to Paul Washer, he will fill you with guilt and fear and anxiety.
@@davidgonzalez825 Ohkk I know that, but here in this videos it's about relationships, and I think he is right.
He’s being truthful. No one will create a God who condemns oneself. The problem is many don’t like to or want to hear the truth. If people did they’d recognize it and realize their own sins instead of calling a man speaking the truth “a little overly harsh.” This is why we have soft men now. Men letting women lead, men being boys until they are 35, and men who can barely take care of their physical much less spiritual selves. Men who don’t know how to be men because being a biblical man is too “hard” or goes against the current culture.