Six Keys to FULFILLMENT and SATISFACTION In Your Life - Matthew Kelly

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  • Six Principles to Live By
    Six Keys to FULFILLMENT and SATISFACTION In Your Life - Matthew Kelly
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    Highs and Lows of Life 0:00
    Live a Meaningful Life 0:18
    Find Friends Worth the Hurt 0:24
    Don't Complain 0:38
    Give People the Benefit of the Doubt 0:44
    Don't Waste Your Life 0:54
    Ignore your Critics 1:28
    Live a Life Uncommon 2:22
    Video Transcript:
    "Every life has highs and lows. I’ve had more than my fair share of mountaintop experiences, but like everyone else, I live in the valleys and on the plains.
    There have been storms in my life and I know there will be more. Here are six truths that put things in perspective:
    1. You cannot live a meaningful life by filling your life with meaningless things and activities.
    2. Everyone is going to hurt you. Find the ones that are worth the suffering and heartache, don’t let anyone harden your heart, and remember, that even with your best efforts to avoid it, you are going to hurt people too.
    3. Don’t complain. It’s not attractive or productive.
    4. Give people the benefit of the doubt. Life is difficult and messy, and everyone is carrying a heavy burden.
    5. Death comes to us all. When death approaches, the person you have become meets the person you could have been. This is a humbling encounter. Don’t wait for it. Meet with the person you are capable of becoming for a few minutes each day, then use your thoughts, words, choices, and actions, to close the gap between who you are today and who you are capable of being. This is the path that leads to a deeply fulfilling life.
    6. Ignore your critics. Everyone has them. They will tear down in an hour what they couldn’t build in a lifetime. But life eventually puts all critics in their place. With time critics become remote and unimportant. The people who love you don’t care about what your critics care about; they care about you as a human being. Your critics, they don’t see you as a human being. They have dehumanized you. They see something in you that unsettles something in them. So, they have to decide: attack you or investigate their own dark mystery. Most people don’t know you well enough to compliment you or criticize you, and it is the unseen moments of our lives that define us.
    Allow these six principals to guide your life and you will live an uncommon life of fulfillment and satisfaction."
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  • @brookesmith4018
    @brookesmith4018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "Meet with the person you are capable of becoming for a few minutes each day, then use your thoughts, words, choices, and actions, to close the gap between the person you are today and who you are capable of becoming." Love this!

  • @ellemarie1077
    @ellemarie1077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    “When death approaches, the person you have become meets the person you could have been.” That hit me hard. 🤯 This entire clip is a keeper.

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Many people have said that Elle Marie, it really gives a different perspective, doesn't it? Thanks for watching!

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh my goodness, this is so true.

  • @alicyr9631
    @alicyr9631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "The people who love you don't care about what your critics care about, they care about you as a human being." True friends love you and treat you as a human being. Love this.

  • @DavidTysdal
    @DavidTysdal หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good stuff! Haters gonna hate. Just try to be better each day.

  • @t34bravo
    @t34bravo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Man, this guy's awesome. I want to hire him to follow me around a work saying all this inspiring stuff all day. I've been binging him for the last 45 hour.

    • @maverick1956hk
      @maverick1956hk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Read your bible. Especially proverbs.

  • @aashishthakur77
    @aashishthakur77 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello from India. thank you for these words of wisdom. what I like about your videos is they are crisp and to the point. keep sharing.

  • @cristinaferrero
    @cristinaferrero 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ma che pensieri meravigliosi, e tutti così veri. Grazie di cuore, un grande abbraccio dall'Italia.❤

  • @aticketforone1323
    @aticketforone1323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "It is the unseen moments of our lives that define us". Such a powerful message, Matthew! Thanks for sharing.

  • @pearlmidde89
    @pearlmidde89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so hurt and bitter for the critics who have torn me down for more than a decade now.. I needed to hear this ❤️ thanks!! You are such a blessing 🙏🏼

    • @tonygville2969
      @tonygville2969 ปีที่แล้ว

      I too know that horrible feeling of bitterness when the ones around me, aren't seeing what's going on with humanity right now. Everyone is so busy and they don't or won't take the time to look. If the Children of The King aren't willing to Defend His Holy Name, who else will?
      God could be chosen anyone else for this moment of time, but in His Divine Wisdom, He created You and Me to Collaborate with Him and get it Done 🙏
      Those who have gone before Us, would die, no pun intended, for this opportunity to Serve The King.
      Those who call on the Holy Name of Jesus Christ need to Come Together and fight for the many who are still sleeping.
      It's Time, it's Time to make a Change, and We The People are here to do it. It's Time!!!
      Viva Cristo Rey

  • @ccbarr58
    @ccbarr58 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is excellent. I need to copy it down

  • @madelineharris4974
    @madelineharris4974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great truths!! I think I need a post-it note on my desk to remind me of these every day. Thank you for your insights, Matthew!

    • @lauramirecki3468
      @lauramirecki3468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      “Even with your best efforts to avoid it, you will hurt others.” Difficult to accept, but so true.

  • @jimondrus7987
    @jimondrus7987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Matthew. I look forward to the WISDOM you share. You cause me to truly think and then I can take action to enhance my life. I would love to see you on a series of Tedx talks.

  • @KateVolmanMedia
    @KateVolmanMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wow!! Love this so much. "When death approaches, the person you have become meets the person you could have been." Powerful. Thank you, Matthew.

    • @TheToomack
      @TheToomack 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I,m touched...

  • @Unknownlll123
    @Unknownlll123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant video, this information makes a lot of sense. ❤.

  • @bodavis99
    @bodavis99 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes be kind to others because they have the same struggles that you are experiencing.

  • @jimondrus7987
    @jimondrus7987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Six Truths are amazingly simple and powerful. You pack a great deal into 60 seconds. Thank you for sharing Matthew.This would be great for a deeper dive on a TED Talk.

  • @katherinejohnson1381
    @katherinejohnson1381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can't go a day without the wisdom of Matthew Kelly! You inspire me and so many to try harder, and strive to be closer to our Lord and a be a better human being!😇🥰🙏

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Katherine. Really appreciate it. Needed some encouragement today.

    • @katherinejohnson1381
      @katherinejohnson1381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MatthewKellyAuthor 💗❤💕 sending love and prayers to you and your family

  • @lynnesanchez4551
    @lynnesanchez4551 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Meet the person you are met to be - this will need work - thanks for the reminder

  • @melissalayne5439
    @melissalayne5439 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to share this! Thank you!!

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm delighted this resonated with you, Melissa! Thanks for sharing the message!

  • @joanmadjid2855
    @joanmadjid2855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning! Thank you! You have a gift for helping others on The Way to Jesus...step by step. Praise God! 😊🙏🙏🙏

  • @stevemorrisanamericaninasia
    @stevemorrisanamericaninasia ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thx. Great video.

  • @froass
    @froass 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good ❤

  • @bethclaudio
    @bethclaudio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love u

  • @janeapplebyart
    @janeapplebyart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the reminders on striving to live a meaningful life. There is a purpose for us all.

  • @sandramillar9067
    @sandramillar9067 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my! These principles are SO right on. Thank you 🙏 we need to hear this regularly. Bless you Matthew Kelly.

  • @DancinstarJill
    @DancinstarJill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Matthew Kelly for all this beautiful videos and books that you shared to us, it’s really helpful.🙏🏻 God bless you.

  • @michelleapple1214
    @michelleapple1214 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @agnesfaifua5617
    @agnesfaifua5617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for speaking the Truth with such humility and sincerity. God bless you brother. Will keep you and your followers in my prayers. In J+M+J 🙏

  • @murrygandy6546
    @murrygandy6546 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All excellent advice. Glad I found you Mr. Kelly.

  • @shallot3068
    @shallot3068 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just bought your book life is messy and i cant wait to read it

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful. Thanks @Shallot, I would love to hear your thoughts/reactions once you have read it.

  • @Unoriginal42069
    @Unoriginal42069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always compelling Matthew. I’m beyond grateful for your time and efforts. These videos help me make adjustments in my life. Keep up the good work

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad to hear this Raymond, thank you for sharing!

  • @daisyfigueroa8960
    @daisyfigueroa8960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so awesome

  • @enaukara5535
    @enaukara5535 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 💐

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're very welcome Ena. I am delighted it served you. Hope you will share it with many.

  • @rosemarymaher6726
    @rosemarymaher6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good. Succinct and to the point. Shared with my neighbours. Complaining about critics and hurt. Thank you.

  • @alissabell4662
    @alissabell4662 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for saying yes to God's plan for you. You will never know the immense impact you have on your followers.

  • @bobandjolenecrum9222
    @bobandjolenecrum9222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now this is wisdom!! Thank you Matthew. You continue to inspire me to be a better person and most importantly, a better Christian.

  • @marthammiller2280
    @marthammiller2280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love them all! They are truisms! Not easy to live by them daily but its imperative we do it!
    I love the one that most people don’t know you enough to praise you or critize you!

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a powerful insight that changes how you let people's words affect you. So glad you enjoyed the video, thanks for watching!

    • @marthammiller2280
      @marthammiller2280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MatthewKellyAuthor i watch all your videos, I look forward to them because they are always insightful, Thank you for your gift,
      .

  • @pinkfloydadmirer
    @pinkfloydadmirer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dont’ complain! This!

  • @ashleydias1429
    @ashleydias1429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the great reminder!

  • @richardgriffin3446
    @richardgriffin3446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Matthew for reminding me of these six great Truths. They are soooo TRUE. Hope you haved a blessed 2023 !

  • @jacobdaley3158
    @jacobdaley3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, so much!! O

  • @ansleywilk
    @ansleywilk ปีที่แล้ว

    This message really spoke to me today, especially the part about the critics. People will try to tear you down, but you have to make the decision as to whether you are going to let them manipulate you like that! Thank you for these wise words, I really needed this :)

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm delighted this served you. I hope you will share this video with someone in your life who needs to hear it!

  • @naomiwelch6715
    @naomiwelch6715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truths, indeed!

  • @user-gn4mq5cs6e
    @user-gn4mq5cs6e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Short and Meaningful

  • @lindarandazzio4687
    @lindarandazzio4687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you❤️❤️
    I recieved your book a couple of days ago …. I finished it this morning …. And want to share with others . Thank you , it has been a true gift and wholeheartedly appreciated! Thank you for thinking of others and choosing to share what you have learned through your struggles . God Bless You! And all you love and who love you ❤️

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm delighted you received it and delighted it resonated with you Linda, thanks for commenting. God Bless.

    • @lindarandazzio4687
      @lindarandazzio4687 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MatthewKellyAuthor You’re welcome. I’m glad I have the opportunity to thank you too !

  • @cleightry19
    @cleightry19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏 You are a Godsend. Thanks!

  • @MaxHarden
    @MaxHarden 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've listened to this at least 10 times. Love it.

  • @jjcm3135
    @jjcm3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful insight. Especially the one about love.

  • @mariethomas4703
    @mariethomas4703 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matthew, this video was inspired! One of the best I've heard you do. Number five and six really hit home! Thank you for this. Will share everywhere.

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad this was helpful Marie, thank you for watching and sharing - so many people need to hear these!

  • @gene2049
    @gene2049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed the video. Thanks.

  • @adelinaleon4745
    @adelinaleon4745 ปีที่แล้ว

    So awesome! so wonderfully fulfilling! when will you be in Miami?. I heard you visited St. John Newmann Church a while ago.

  • @christoscharlie3364
    @christoscharlie3364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant...

  • @catholicmum3450
    @catholicmum3450 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the beautiful inspiration

  • @franciscorivera327
    @franciscorivera327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Life is complicated.

  • @danielleneri4031
    @danielleneri4031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "It is the unseen moments of our lives that define us"

  • @WisdomSeekingWriter
    @WisdomSeekingWriter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such BEAUTIFUL WISDOM❣️ Thank you, Matthew, for these ENCOURAGING, INSPIRATIONAL and Life-Giving Principals. 🙏🏻💕

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Wisdom Seeker! Glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @lauramirecki3468
    @lauramirecki3468 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @mariettakhimatian9892
    @mariettakhimatian9892 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It amazes me every time I see you your video you give me something that I truly did need for that day

  • @tattoobabe911
    @tattoobabe911 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad this served you, Mary Ann. I hope you will share it with someone in your life who needs to hear it!

  • @rubymarple7156
    @rubymarple7156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Mr. Kelly, I needed this today, thank you for sharing, GOD BLESS PRAYERS for HIS continued BLESSINGS for you all at Dynamic Catholic🙏💝

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome. I am grateful for the prayers

    • @patriciagriffith7175
      @patriciagriffith7175 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Inside our weakness is the inner Strengh conveyed by the unfathomable Peace bestowed on us through

  • @jenniferharth7195
    @jenniferharth7195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome thank you

  • @kategoddard5076
    @kategoddard5076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much for this, Matthew, these six principles are so very powerful and helpful, and I needed to hear them! They put the things of this life into perspective and at the same time, help to safeguard our dignity as children of God too. I shall definitely pass this video on.

  • @joolz5747
    @joolz5747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just saw this. Very thought provoking.
    Some people think the person they could have become is based on worldly values. So they might misunderstand this. In reality and truth aren’t we supposed to become more like Jesus? So we must decrease and He must increase…true?🙏

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But why.. so we can become perfectly who we were created to be

  • @darrinmenard1783
    @darrinmenard1783 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This information is a perfect way to help guide my daughter as she enters adulthood. Have been using the techniques in raising her from your book Building Better Families and now at age 17, she can progress further in life with using these fundamental introspection techniques. Thank you for your insight!

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So wonderful, thanks for watching and thanks for sharing this with your daughter! Glad it's helping out!

  • @Irisphotojournal
    @Irisphotojournal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't know why I haven't heard of this man before.? Wise words indeed. Maybe I'll buy his books and hope my wife forgives me; again.!

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad these videos found you @IPJ Bradley, and glad you enjoy them and they are helping. Thanks for watching!

  • @hectoraceves1494
    @hectoraceves1494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gold

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Hector!

    • @hectoraceves1494
      @hectoraceves1494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MatthewKellyAuthor Thank you Mathew, for the inspiration and the work that you do, may God continue to bless you!!

  • @EvanAtkins
    @EvanAtkins 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, these 6 points are VITAL. #2 especially, is incredible perspective. Thank you for sharing Matthew, you definitely don't get the recognition you deserve. I would love to see you interview with Jordan Peterson, I think you two could have a really interesting conversation!

  • @mariaorta7384
    @mariaorta7384 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    desearía estás charlas en español porque entiendo muy poco inglés

  • @Ashenwolf888
    @Ashenwolf888 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love these videos but i have so many questions. For example, i understand that everyone is carrying a heavy burden. But alot of people threat others like shit because of their heavy burden. I cannot understand why they do that. Especially if the other people have nothing to do with the heavy burden or its people that don't know eachother.

  • @barbaragoetzman703
    @barbaragoetzman703 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such powerful reminders. Once again...which one of your books has these in it? Thank you .

    • @MatthewKellyAuthor
      @MatthewKellyAuthor  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm delighted this served you, Barbara. This is from near the end of Life is Messy: amzn.to/3vPiwR9

  • @sdaloia2
    @sdaloia2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please credit Bob Marley with the second principle, everyone is going to hurt you, find the ones worth suffering for etc. it’s on record. Thank you -

  • @bethclaudio
    @bethclaudio 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @AmititRathore
    @AmititRathore 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why didn't I find you earlier?

  • @joannadavignon1608
    @joannadavignon1608 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does it mean when someone asks if your human yet?

  • @tsb7911
    @tsb7911 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't tell if you are from England or New England? :)

  • @joolz5747
    @joolz5747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I share God’s word and try to point out ways for my family to know God…they take it as criticism. I am not a critic though. With my adult kids I am perceived as one. I love them and want to build them up. Is this not good? 🙏

  • @darz3829
    @darz3829 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The first rule is to try for good health. When you're young, old age seems miles away, but it is a bitch. So if you live as though obesity isn't a factor - like this guy - the health problems will torture you far worse than any imaginary demon. I do think if he can't even address that he has no right to advise others on how to live their lives.