Something I uncovered in the last 10 months and what I have really been unfolding is NOT having a purpose but that my purpose is wholeness. My own wholeness. So in a sense my purpose isn't wholeness. I just simply only deeply feel and exist in wholeness and I don't need another word like purpose to experience it. I have no ambition to create or live a "purpose" and it is peculiar in this world where being seen doing something is a hallmark of a person with a clear path, with an impact and with knowing life. And in the sphere of wellness, knowing a purpose is considered a moment we get to and we start glowing. This feeling inside me however, it is so powerful. I feel that I have nothing to do and no one to help and nothing to achieve, no ambition in me at all, because I don't have to have any of that because I can feel wholeness from just existing. I can metaphorically and literally feel the value and worthiness of my taking up space on this planet and in this universe. It's so intangible but I haven't ever felt such a tangible value, knowing and meaningfulness in my life...and that having no purpose, no ambition, no need for achievement really gives so much if not all space for my feeling of wholeness. And now I know this has always been and currently is and will always fill up my life. It feels endless. Huh!?
At the age of 24 I am JUST now learning the importance and freedom of being yourself. Not beating myself up for being a human, learning how to take accountability and apologize, communicating my feelings in a healthy manner, and allowing myself to grow daily.. understanding that we are never done growing. These are all things that I have learned in the past year or so and have helped me be myself ! It has genuinely boosted my confidence and self esteem in a way I never imagined.
I’ve been watching and listening to your videos constantly for just about 2 weeks now and I’ve realized how linear your videos are. You often say the same phrases or give the same ideas in a different context and I think that shows how intertwined all of these ideas are. I disconnected with my sense of self over the semester and hearing you speak on it has helped me reconnect. Hearing you talk about being yourself and renovating rather than just rebuilding has left me, well, pondering on just about every aspect of my life and I can’t help but thank you for that liberty.
you have helped me sm growing as a person, everyday in class i put on your videos on headphones while doing my work and i feel so calm and separate from the immature people around me.
I understood recently that being ourselves starts with ACCEPTING that what we’ve been being is not what we are. With that, layer by layer, we start deconstructing the lies we told ourselves, letting the persona we created for ego or fear reasons, and what we are starts reappearing. Merry Christmas, everyone 🎄🙏
Your articulation and intelligence is admirable, I always enjoy the insight of your videos. I also wanted to leave the compliment that you’re super handsome!! have a good day (night)
Earlier this year, when I first subscribed to you and became invested in your videos, I was "lost" I guess you could call it but hearing the reassurance about some of the things you've said have made me finally think for myself. I definitely have been blessed with many folks who have given me great guidance over the years on some of the vary things you speak of but sometimes its not just who tells you it, it's how it's said. Sometimes it just clicks hearing it be told a certain way and you've definitely done that. This is the first time I've watched one of your videos in months but I can say that I'm a lot better than who I was earlier this year. Even with currently being unemployed and struggling with keeping myself afloat, I give myself a goal to work towards every day and just simply do what I enjoy and I could not have asked for a better turn around on that front. And I thank myself for that....finally
@7:13 this is something i struggle with as well. Ive always been a people pleaser and im just now starting to learn how to get out of that, as well learning how to talk about my feelings with my spouse
Being grateful for the opportunity is such a powerful reframe! I want to keep reminding myself of that when I get anxious. I appreciate you sharing your insights!
I genuinely tear up when watching your videos, i’ve been going through a lot and watching them helps me so much and i thank you for that, i always feel better after watching one of your videos
Like always, thank you for the beautiful message, your videos help me work on being a better version of myself and also help me be more kind to myself and be grateful for what I DO have. In a world where factors like social media causes individuals to be easily influenced to do the same thing or act the same way, being different causes you to be looked at weirdly and makes you hesitant to just publicly and unapologetically be yourself. Being yourself and going your own path is okay!
Saw some of your video screenshots as I scrolled instagram. Absolute perfect timing. I’m 53 days clean today, yet I have so many resentments toward my actions and behavior while using. I was a terrible person - liar, manipulator, arrogant, apathetic. It’s so difficult for me to learn to forgive myself, even when many of the people I wronged have forgiven me. This still made my night, however. Your wisdom can change lives, it changed my mindset in mere minutes. Thank you for providing such great insight to this platform, it’s desperately needed. Keep going!
I am grateful about my past, even the very painful moments because they’ve made me who I am today. They had to happen for me to be the person I am now. And I can finally apply that love and care I mainly had for others to myself now. And it all makes me grateful.
just recently started listening dawg. has your playlist on play for a while and ended up falling asleep to it dawg. newly found channel and i plan to stick around this is some insane words and i can’t thank you enough for sharing you emotional intelligence in such a blissful way. much love man
I've been watching your channel for about a month now, Listening to every video I can during my freetime or while doing other tasks. You have helped me overcome most of my day to day anxieties and overthinking and I've noticed I am coming out of my shell a lot more. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you.
Real smartly said about not waiting to be happy until x happens, cus why delay happiness? Basically every time we delude ourself with another thought that we will become happier once we attain a certain achievement or whatever we also instill the belief that we do not already have enough to be happy. It’s almost like we lock happiness away behind doors and say until I get that key I won’t get happiness, and once we do get the thing that was supposed to make us happy we realize happiness was never a place outside of ourself, but a place within :)
@lizziedoesthings1450 (Your question isn't weird or personal, it's very much valid btw) Simply put, it would mean I'm dwelling on the past. I would live as if I'm saying because. "I can't do this because... I've never done this because... They treated me like this because... So I've never done... because..." So many past experiences trap me into living or doing a certain thing when it doesn't have to. If I create my own reality then every moment or every day doesn't have to relate to the last painful experience I've had. If I've truly moved on and healed, I won't have to keep bring up old scars or create and edit a retrospective past that includes all the hurtful memories that I can recall, allowing them to have sway over my present actions. I prefer letting it go. It doesn't matter. It hurt, sure. Now it's over.
@FrostGemMonster54 so it sounds like dwelling on your past makes you feel like you're getting stuck and not moving forward. For me, ignoring how my past defines my patterns is exactly how I get stuck. I would tell myself "I should be able to do this". Nowadays I think to myself "this might be easy for some people, but for me it's hard because i havent ever prioritized this/this emotional experience made it hard". Observing my past in new ways sometimes empowers me to remember to never give up on myself. Then again I do this to unlearn some shame about my past so if you don't have that or have other ways of dealing with it that's cool
@@lizziedoesthings1450 Yeah, I get you. I've been like that before. I've done all the things you're talking about and felt very similar to how you feel (empowered, etc). So I hope that you never experience what it is I'm getting at. I pray you never get that low and tired. My past isn't my problem. Getting stuck isn't an issue either. My problem is my mind.
Something I uncovered in the last 10 months and what I have really been unfolding is NOT having a purpose but that my purpose is wholeness. My own wholeness. So in a sense my purpose isn't wholeness. I just simply only deeply feel and exist in wholeness and I don't need another word like purpose to experience it. I have no ambition to create or live a "purpose" and it is peculiar in this world where being seen doing something is a hallmark of a person with a clear path, with an impact and with knowing life. And in the sphere of wellness, knowing a purpose is considered a moment we get to and we start glowing. This feeling inside me however, it is so powerful. I feel that I have nothing to do and no one to help and nothing to achieve, no ambition in me at all, because I don't have to have any of that because I can feel wholeness from just existing. I can metaphorically and literally feel the value and worthiness of my taking up space on this planet and in this universe. It's so intangible but I haven't ever felt such a tangible value, knowing and meaningfulness in my life...and that having no purpose, no ambition, no need for achievement really gives so much if not all space for my feeling of wholeness. And now I know this has always been and currently is and will always fill up my life. It feels endless. Huh!?
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You articulated this very well, I feel the exact same.
I believe that the purpose is you
At the age of 24 I am JUST now learning the importance and freedom of being yourself. Not beating myself up for being a human, learning how to take accountability and apologize, communicating my feelings in a healthy manner, and allowing myself to grow daily.. understanding that we are never done growing. These are all things that I have learned in the past year or so and have helped me be myself ! It has genuinely boosted my confidence and self esteem in a way I never imagined.
I’ve been watching and listening to your videos constantly for just about 2 weeks now and I’ve realized how linear your videos are. You often say the same phrases or give the same ideas in a different context and I think that shows how intertwined all of these ideas are. I disconnected with my sense of self over the semester and hearing you speak on it has helped me reconnect. Hearing you talk about being yourself and renovating rather than just rebuilding has left me, well, pondering on just about every aspect of my life and I can’t help but thank you for that liberty.
Thank you
you have helped me sm growing as a person, everyday in class i put on your videos on headphones while doing my work and i feel so calm and separate from the immature people around me.
Thank you
I understood recently that being ourselves starts with ACCEPTING that what we’ve been being is not what we are.
With that, layer by layer, we start deconstructing the lies we told ourselves, letting the persona we created for ego or fear reasons, and what we are starts reappearing.
Merry Christmas, everyone 🎄🙏
Your articulation and intelligence is admirable, I always enjoy the insight of your videos. I also wanted to leave the compliment that you’re super handsome!! have a good day (night)
Thank you
Earlier this year, when I first subscribed to you and became invested in your videos, I was "lost" I guess you could call it but hearing the reassurance about some of the things you've said have made me finally think for myself. I definitely have been blessed with many folks who have given me great guidance over the years on some of the vary things you speak of but sometimes its not just who tells you it, it's how it's said. Sometimes it just clicks hearing it be told a certain way and you've definitely done that. This is the first time I've watched one of your videos in months but I can say that I'm a lot better than who I was earlier this year. Even with currently being unemployed and struggling with keeping myself afloat, I give myself a goal to work towards every day and just simply do what I enjoy and I could not have asked for a better turn around on that front. And I thank myself for that....finally
@7:13 this is something i struggle with as well. Ive always been a people pleaser and im just now starting to learn how to get out of that, as well learning how to talk about my feelings with my spouse
W real
Being grateful for the opportunity is such a powerful reframe! I want to keep reminding myself of that when I get anxious. I appreciate you sharing your insights!
Thank you
I genuinely tear up when watching your videos, i’ve been going through a lot and watching them helps me so much and i thank you for that, i always feel better after watching one of your videos
Thank you
Like always, thank you for the beautiful message, your videos help me work on being a better version of myself and also help me be more kind to myself and be grateful for what I DO have. In a world where factors like social media causes individuals to be easily influenced to do the same thing or act the same way, being different causes you to be looked at weirdly and makes you hesitant to just publicly and unapologetically be yourself. Being yourself and going your own path is okay!
W
your changing the world brother, keep it going🤞🤝
Thank you
Saw some of your video screenshots as I scrolled instagram. Absolute perfect timing. I’m 53 days clean today, yet I have so many resentments toward my actions and behavior while using. I was a terrible person - liar, manipulator, arrogant, apathetic. It’s so difficult for me to learn to forgive myself, even when many of the people I wronged have forgiven me. This still made my night, however. Your wisdom can change lives, it changed my mindset in mere minutes. Thank you for providing such great insight to this platform, it’s desperately needed. Keep going!
Thank you
you always say the right things at the right time and i thank you for that 🙏
Thank you
I am grateful about my past, even the very painful moments because they’ve made me who I am today. They had to happen for me to be the person I am now. And I can finally apply that love and care I mainly had for others to myself now. And it all makes me grateful.
just recently started listening dawg. has your playlist on play for a while and ended up falling asleep to it dawg. newly found channel and i plan to stick around this is some insane words and i can’t thank you enough for sharing you emotional intelligence in such a blissful way. much love man
Thank you
I've been watching your channel for about a month now, Listening to every video I can during my freetime or while doing other tasks. You have helped me overcome most of my day to day anxieties and overthinking and I've noticed I am coming out of my shell a lot more. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you.
Thank you
Real smartly said about not waiting to be happy until x happens, cus why delay happiness? Basically every time we delude ourself with another thought that we will become happier once we attain a certain achievement or whatever we also instill the belief that we do not already have enough to be happy. It’s almost like we lock happiness away behind doors and say until I get that key I won’t get happiness, and once we do get the thing that was supposed to make us happy we realize happiness was never a place outside of ourself, but a place within :)
the fact that i needed to hear this and it was posted on my birthday
Happy birthday!
I am not religious I am spiritual and the universe has given you such a unique insanely valuable gift please keep making these
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@ these videos have changed the entire way I look at the world myself and others around me
I love watchjng your video’s brother!! Keep going
Grateful for the insight always (glad the trolling is back 😂)
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changing lives bro❤
Thank you
Great video as always
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This pulled me out of my mind's hysteria. My wounds don't define me so it's okay.
Sorry if this is too weird or personal to ask, but what would it mean to you if your wounds did define you?
@lizziedoesthings1450 (Your question isn't weird or personal, it's very much valid btw) Simply put, it would mean I'm dwelling on the past. I would live as if I'm saying because. "I can't do this because... I've never done this because... They treated me like this because... So I've never done... because..." So many past experiences trap me into living or doing a certain thing when it doesn't have to. If I create my own reality then every moment or every day doesn't have to relate to the last painful experience I've had. If I've truly moved on and healed, I won't have to keep bring up old scars or create and edit a retrospective past that includes all the hurtful memories that I can recall, allowing them to have sway over my present actions. I prefer letting it go. It doesn't matter. It hurt, sure. Now it's over.
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@FrostGemMonster54 so it sounds like dwelling on your past makes you feel like you're getting stuck and not moving forward. For me, ignoring how my past defines my patterns is exactly how I get stuck. I would tell myself "I should be able to do this". Nowadays I think to myself "this might be easy for some people, but for me it's hard because i havent ever prioritized this/this emotional experience made it hard". Observing my past in new ways sometimes empowers me to remember to never give up on myself. Then again I do this to unlearn some shame about my past so if you don't have that or have other ways of dealing with it that's cool
@@lizziedoesthings1450 Yeah, I get you. I've been like that before. I've done all the things you're talking about and felt very similar to how you feel (empowered, etc). So I hope that you never experience what it is I'm getting at. I pray you never get that low and tired.
My past isn't my problem. Getting stuck isn't an issue either. My problem is my mind.
“What ur not changing ur choosing” barrr
so amazing.
Just thank you for existing 😊
Thank you more
God bless
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Bro just changed my life again for the 384738th time
Guy I'm looking for this kind videos since.
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heyy bro just wondering what’s your mbti personality type?
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thank you for your lessons but please bro shine a bit less, my eyes hurt
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