@@macsiebert8503yes, I agree, we also need more respectful men as well. For example, if a man approached me, I would respectfully have the conversation and politely tell him that I am not interested in a relationship and that I am currently married (because I am married). As I don't want to lead him on or waste his time, so I will tell him early on that there is no use of a conversation with intentions of flirting, so he can decide whether or not he wants to continue the conversation knowing this. But it seems that most of the time if I'm approached by men (especially younger men), they do not respect my decision and say "oh your husband will never know" or they are offended and keep flirting regardless. I then ask them to leave if they are not going to be respectful.
The toxic feminist idea is that women don’t care about the average male who isn’t super confident by nature. That’s 99% of the male population. They only care about the ones with such superb genetics that they can’t remember ever not being confident-the ones’ who are very confident by nature and probably had the right upbringing, too, to further instil confidence.
The vast majority of women will allow men to approach them. I think too many young guys especially think that most women will shun them or call them creepy if they approach them. This is nonsense. If you approach a woman sensibly and you have decent social skills - the worst that will happen is she rejects you
As a young man, I was often rejected by women that I approached. Later in life that changed and also, women started approaching me and I had to reject them. But while women could be rude and arrogant towards my younger self, I have never been rude or arrogant to them when it’s been the other way around.
I have never rejected anyone in a rude way. And I make sure I compliment their good manners so that they get encouraged. No one should be rude to anyone. Except married guys, I'm really rude to them, I make it clear that it's because they are married and I hope they get the message and DON'T EVER approach other women while they are married. I think we get a pass to be rude to married people when they want to cheat.
@@hamlet557good on you…people who are married really need to remember what a promise is, makes me sick even if I am single to see people not understanding the weight of that promise.
Women are supposed to be kind and nurturing, but so many are so cruel. Thank you for being nice to that man and being classy. You left him feeling good about himself even though you turned out to have a boyfriend already. Way more men would approach women if things went this way.
@@GDUniverse I’m not saying that It’s an act of extreme respect to let someone down gently, I’m saying that I have great respect for people with that skill. I should have made it clearer.
I am ok with them not understanding it... the problem is them not caring at all when you straight up tell them that is the case. The truth is that the average woman is a souless harpy
I appreciate that. I find that most women are like this. It isn't as bad as the reels make it look. You can just walk up to someone, saw hi and start a conversation. Sometimes they have a boyfriend and they'll let you know, sometimes they don't. If they have a boyfriend, don't keep hitting on her. If you're the type of guy to hit on someone with a boyfriend, you're causing the behavior this woman is shaming.
This /\ women don’t have a “duty” to jerks, if a woman senses that the guy is actually pretty nervous, this is a good way to let him down gently, but if he’s “that guy” be as harsh as you please
"Treat others the way you want to be treated." It's a phrase that seems forgotten in modern times. Thanks for being a woman all good intentioned men want.
@@JourneyDestination lol i wish it was that easy. Im 32 i have tried i am honestly just not a ladies man. I'm just a good man that wants a wife and kids
I've been turned down by women and the ones who let me down, similar to your method, always left me feeling better even though it didn't go the way I wanted.
Just thinking basic psychology: I wonder if this may be because you were able to even speak to a woman without "negative reinforcement" and instead were rewarded with a pleasant interaction, not the one hoped for obv, but still a positive one, so doing so again in the future would be easier. 🤔
@empireofthewolvesI think her whole point is that it's okay to talk to other men even if you're in a relationship. If he makes his intentions clear that's where you respectfully turn him down. Assumptions are usually toxic. It's okay to talk. If you feel like your time is wasted on a conversation then sorry but you're probably not worth spending any time with 😅
Very well said. As a guy that has never approached a random girl with romantic intent it is VERY nerve wracking. I’ve wrestled in front of 20k+ people but somehow talking to a girl you like is more pressure than that xD. Rip my confidence
@@noonookinz4560 That's because unlike wrestling where your skill, practice, and experience has weight on the outcome of your engagement, attempting to approach a woman with romantic interest is the complete opposite. You can have great experience and a host of successful relationships and that has absolute 0 weight in the outcome of that engagement. The woman holds all the power to turn that engagement into a nightmare no matter how positive your previous relationships were or how sincere your interest was.
Men built society to make women’s lives easier. There is no such thing as a strong independent woman.🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ Look out the window everywhere you go. There is nothing women built in society. Now feminism is tearing it down. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
Nevertheless, I think the more we back off, the more they are forced to do it. It is good for them to feel what it is like walking in a man's shoes. Also, do not forget all the crap that can happen: false sexual assault allegations, walking out on a date halfway through the date, expecting you to do everything while she just has to show up. Now, if you get passed all that then you may have to deal with her: lying about being on the pill, using a false pregnancy test and lying about it being your baby, emotional abuse, physical abuse. Of course it you get married then: You have to buy the ring, you have to propose, you also pay for the dinner or event that you use to propose to her, then you are married: Then you may have to deal with then the minute she is pregnant with your child she is locked into your income for 20 years whether she stays with you or not, or she can lie about domestic violence. Then you may have to deal with divorce:
What a self aware and responsible person you are. I wish more people had this mindset of being an actual part of society that is thus responsible for how it behaves. We need more people so graceful and full of class
I went through a similar situation, except the woman was staring at me and smiling at me, every day. I asked her out, and she said, "I have a boyfriend, sorry." While blushing. It was a bit confusing because she had been staring at me and smiling, for months. That behavior usually means a girl likes you. (I mean, she was constantly staring at me, even with dilated pupils and smiling)
I am a lot older so remember when social interaction was normal and not considered creepy. I stopped dating in the US in the mid 1990s because the hostility was starting 30 years. In the first week I moved to another country where males and females actually like each other. Every day I meet really interesting, highly cultured attractive women, and the response is always pleasant interaction. It is great fun and often leads long term friendship. Why would I want female friends? Because a socially adept woman of any age is a joy to interact with. I do date a lot but not seeking marriage but a dinner date, hiking in the wood, attended opera or ballet or just sitting in a pub in conversation is a great way to spend my time. The reason is simply that a feminine articulate happy attractive woman is a great addition to my life. I do have a couple regulars who are interested in physical intimacy, sort of friends with benefits so I am not hitting women with that goal. Men and women in the US do not really like the opposite sex, but they want someone. It was not like that in their mothers prime social age. The fear, distrust and anger between the sexes in the US is very destructive to the people and society in general. I have dated in most of the 92 countries I have spent time in and very few societies are as suspicious of the opposite sex as the US.
That's what cracks me up. Women complain that men don't approach them, but they also complain when men do approach them. So what do they want from us lol.
@@jehu4067by lowering their standards and going for some big tough guy who may look like he can lift a car with his bare hands but he’s actually a self centered dick
Thank you for that. When I was single, it took a lot for me to hype myself up to go up to a girl and get rejected. It was tough but much worse when the girl is rude
@@TheArsenalMan125 which girl is it?. And how did you approach?. I tend to agree by looking at the current environment, but in my heyday at 90's, women were not like today. However, should you think they are, then just don't approach, and as reciprocate also don't be approached. We live aimed for our own happiness. A woman is miniscule and just a complement in regards to our own happiness.
About 3 years ago now, I had a short, fun conversation with a manager at a stationery shop. I thought about her a lot afterwards. So the next day, I went back in and passed her a short, light-hearted note with my phone number. She very kindly said she'd recently started a new relationship. But she was so warm and genuine - as I wished her all the best and left, she thanked me for having "just made her day". No laughter, no mockery - just the warmest, most genuine smile I had seen in months. She was a real woman. And so is this lady. I didn't just walk away from that with my dignity and reputation intact. I was inspired.
That's awesome man. 😎 Seriously, keep it up! Being able to have conversation skills and the confidence to talk to anyone goes a LONG way. You can do it 🙂
I had a similar experience last summer. A very nice interaction, I returned the next day to ask her out, and learned she was in a relationship. She was kind, thanking me for making her day and encouraging me to keep doing what I was doing. I thanked her and wished her and her partner the best.
We'll as a married man thank you!! I am glad your parents raised you right, to stand up for yourself, be a responsible citizen and normal person eager to engage in conversation with others no matter what their Gender might be!
You have my entire respect, the first and last time I directly asked out a girl, I got her number as she sayd she was single, told me she had a boyfriend later the same day and insulted me as the biggest pervert of the highschool in front of every one the tomorrow. Honestly she traumatised me and I thought I really had a problem (being absolutly respectful) for the last 4 years.
If women ruled the world there would be no war... Just a bunch of countries not talking to each other. In all seriousness, she has my vote for President of The United States of America 2024!
@@FerociousPoofyPeanutThey'd be talking to eachother, they'd be super nice and friendly in discussions and then the moment they say goodbye they'd be talking for 5 hours about how much they hate the other girl.
@@kidfox3971, not this lady. She just proved that she's kind even after she was sarcastic and made fun of clout chasers and stitch up over-excessive users (i.e., to deliberately make someone look guilty for doing something that they did not do.) at the start.
@@saintejeannedarc9460Most women don’t like shy men, stop the cap. Men need to learn to be more confident and overcome their anxieties. Shyness only serves as a weakness.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Shyness isn't a weakness, it's a personality trait. People are only shy at first, when they don't know people. You get past a shy exterior, and you usually get to know a sweet, gentle person and they often have a great sense of humour behind that. I was w/ a man for 6 years, he wasn't lacking confidence, he was masculine and had a close friend circle and great family. He was just shy, but only at first.
From a man who is naturally shy I really love the message in this video. If all women shared this beautiful mindset the world would be a better place. Thanks for offering hope ❤
@@alfredoortiz6756are you suggesting she’s « not like other girls 🙀💅🧢😎 » K but anyway I’m a girl and I fully agree And I rly doubt she could’ve ever been the ONLY WOMAN IN THE WORLD to think this way That would be very unlikely
You have no idea how much your message hits me.. I approached a lot of women in my life but over time I hesitated more and morw because of bad and unfriendly reactions. Some women are nice and really happy to get approached but the majority isn't. Or at least not for me, Idk.. it took Idk how many years and women to actually "succeed" and find a girlfriend. It is far better and easier to get in contact with women over same friends, courses or whatever but I was always only among men so I had to be brave (way too) often..
It’s also possible to have empathy for women who are afraid of men. Over 60,000 pregnancies induced by rape (from men)have happened in red states SINCE abortion was banned not too long ago. 60,000 pregnancies from rape. A lot of those victims are also children.
@@resir9807Most women have a severe fear of men in public because of what happens in the United States, but that doesn’t mean women should just avoid men in public like they do nowadays. Men are not diseases and not all are threats. I understand many women believe men are bad because they cause rape and assault (physical and sexual) to increase rapidly in the US, but practically all young women also have taken all of what they believe in the world by social media, where so much as looking at a girl in a gym is harassment. Good Day.
@@resir9807 I think I spelled it out pretty clearly, but I’ll add this: Men’s biggest fear is being rejected/embarrassed. Women’s biggest fear is being raped or murdered by a man. These things have very different consequences and you don’t have to be thinking what if she was raped every time you approach a woman, but definitely spend some time, reflecting on what that experience would be for us. Have empathy :-)
A woman's role is to make a man's life not as hard as it usually is. Even confident chads get exploded at by these western women. It's a cultural problem, not a biological problem. Western women are brainwashed to hold their femininity hostage until they find the high status, 1% of men, get rejected and just keep looking again. They'll never find it so their options are mostly simps willing to spend money on them and they will never be satisfied.
Wow, and here I am fine with a polite: I appreciate that you approached me, but I have a boyfriend/ I am not interested. But this is on another level. Wow , you are goals for any girl in dating. Keep spreading wisdom, girl ! And yeah...I struggle as well, very much with fear of approaching, mostly because emotional wounds tho. And I only have good intentions.
Yeah that’s the problem, it’s only the guys watching her content. The message isn’t making it to the intended audience which should be the ladies. Look at every comment on this video. It’s from a dude.
@@SimRacingVeteranThe problem is other women may see her as a "pick me woman"! But the truth is we NEED MORE "pick me women" in our world to put a check on this femiNAZI gaslighting insanity!
Women not wanting to get approached and asked out randomly in public is also a safety thing. it's not just a I only want top 2% looking guys approach me issue etc.. That isn't the real answer for the women wanting to be left alone@@SimRacingVeteran
She is right. Women have made approaching them such a horrid,unpleasant, humiliating experience men do not want to bother. Too much risk, too little reward is no prize to any man. Guys are avoiding the liabilities women bring in just approaching them. Protect yourselves guys and your assets and sanity from these modern day pariahs.
Well sadly she wouldn't soon have no rights anymore to even go out alone, when 70% of the men on this Alpha BS on the internet Channels would be in charge.
@@watchdog6619find a nice tree and hug it at midnight, look up to the sky and do your best woof howl, ideally if it is a full moon. Or if midnight's too late try doing it during a solar eclipse, one is coming up this year. 🌙 🐺 Now to have some sherry trifle, yum yum.
The nice woman who delivered my food to me at the drive through at Culvers said that I have a nice truck. I responded "I'm married" with a sarcastic overtone and a smirk on my face. She laughed so hard that she snorted, which caused her to laugh some more. I smiled and said thank you for that. People aren't always a-holes. Sometimes they're just being friendly.
The way she puts it sounds good, but if I was your girlfriend would you like me to encourage other men to chat me up? Or if you were asking to date me would you like me to prolong the conversation even if I know I’m not going to? We get mixed messages from guys, I’ve always been told it was time wasting or leading you on to not let you know right away that I’m not interesting.
@@jaybee4288 so what? It's not that easy to seduce a girl with small talk alone. And honestly, if my girl wanted to leave for someone else, I have no problem with that. There are still so many fish in the sea.
@eldarkorkmasov I’m not saying she should be rude to him. Just I wouldn’t chat to guys who like me when I have a boyfriend because it’s not really fair if I’m flirting with other men. Which really is what she’s doing, it’s an ego boost. He didn’t talk to her because she’s a great person, he wanted to have sex. The fairest and best thing to do is just say you’re unavailable and move on.
@@jaybee4288Encourage? She simply said that when someone approaches her, she makes it known that she has a boyfriend by not interrupting the conversation and simply adding it in that conversation. I don’t see what’s wrong, it’s a very mature way to say that you’re not single instead of making him have social anxiety for a long time.
Honestly, the fact that is being/acting like decent human being has to be posted on social media so that people get informed about is just sad, how low has society sinked for this to not be common sense? Maybe im overthinking it
@@iateabigmac6978 Nope, I had the same reaction. This was common sense, be polite & maybe reciprocate the compliment by saying something like, you seem awesome if I didn't have a boyfriend I'd be thrilled to get to know you, but thank you for the conversation.. Now it needs to be pounded into the younger chicks!!!
You truly are one of the good ones. As a single man, it is very intimidating approaching women in this day in age, knowing there is a better than 70% chance that you will be shamed or labeled as some sort of creep for doing what, a generation ago was normal and acceptable. You keep doing you!! Love your content!!
I can count on one hand the amount of times that i actually went up to strange and asked them out -- instead of talking ot someone at a bar and leading it play or or online -- and reason is 99 percent of the interactions were exacly like what she described at first -- including litrerally yelling "I have a boyfriend" every time it happens we just say to ourselves, "well not doing that ever again"
A few weeks ago a took a woman's order at the restaurant I work at. We made small talk, and chit chatted, and seemed to have a real nice vibe. I very rarely have the guts to do this, but I asked her if I could give her my number. She told me she has a boyfriend, BUT, she was super polite about it, thanked me for asking, and at least pretended to be flattered. A few days after that, I had the guts to do it again (with a different woman, obviously) and now we have a coffee date set! If that first woman hadn't handled it so wonderfully, and given me such a confidence boost even in rejection, I doubt I would have tried again. At least so soon. So thank you nice lady! You don't know how much your kindness meant to me!!
Thank you for being you. I wish there were more like you. Trying to raise my daughter like you. And I'm kinda there, except she likes girls. What a relief ;)
This is appreciated, understanding what you're doing but please stay safe, there's a small percentage of dudes that's crazy, no matter how cordial you are to them
The way I've been brutally rejected by women at times does take a toll on my confidence. I'm glad you and others are encouraging women to be kinder and more decent.
It strongly affected my confidence in high school, prior to high school I felt like I was on top of the world! It took a decade to rebuild from the damage that was done. I’m thankful to move on from it.
I have diagnosed general anxiety. When I was younger, I'd get anxiety from watching my friends get rudely denied. It kept me from talking to women for years.
It’s such a breath of fresh air to see a woman that realizes that it is nerve racking for a lot of men to approach women, especially for the first time. Like the first time I tried to talk to a girl I could kinda tell she wasn’t interested but if she just shut me down right away it would have ruined the little confidence I already had.
@@headshotfaze9371 I’m sorry to hear that. One saying that has really comforted me is “don’t chase butterflies because they will fly away. Instead build a beautiful garden to attract butterflies, and if no butterflies come, at least you have a beautiful garden.” The right girl will come when the time is right, until then work on building that garden. When you feel you found the right girl, take your shot because if you don’t it’s automatically a no. I know it’s scary, it’s not supposed to be easy, but it takes confidence to put yourself out there, either way it turns out. Good luck and God bless ❤️
This is the first time I’ve seen u and I hated u for hot minute but I gave u the benefit of the doubt and now I’m subscribed to u. Life lesson hear people out. ❤
As a man raised by a single mom and taught to make sure a woman's safety is number 1 on my list in any scenario, I appreciate there are women out there who see it this way towards men as well. Thank you, you just gave me some hope in the world
Please tell me she didn’t mean any scenario. If you were in a situation where you are being threatened with a gun by a woman she don’t mean you need to make sure she safe?
I absolutely hate the fact that when ever people bring up or talk about how women should treat men a human being, and be respectful, the Most common response is for them to bring up how "its a woman safety thing". As much as people don't want to admit it. If its coming up that much, either at least a quarter of woman are getting attacked by random strangers or they are using it to ignore and dismiss a very well known issue.
Haven't been able to approach girls anymore in a long while, just been feeling uncomfortable and intimidated. Seeing a woman understand how a man feels makes me smile. Thanks for sharing.
Thank god! Wow a woman with decency and respect for the guys feelings and what he was trying to do. That’s all guys really want, just being nice and a chance to say hi to girls they might be interested in without fear of being screamed at saying he’s a creep and just getting all embarrassed and never working up courage ever again. We need more girls like you with your kind of attitude 👏👏
I think that is how most women start out. Then they get sick of, after indicating they're not interested keep getting pressure put on them. Even to the point where they pressure her to cheat or otherwise compromise their morals. It is a two way street.
@@jaegrant6441It’s difficult. I can definitely understand why some women can be so closed off if a guy approaches them especially if they’ve had bad experiences with guys who won’t take no for an answer before. I think both men and women can do their part to make the already anxiety inducing situation of approaching someone and initiating that contact easier for everyone. Men need to understand that if a woman politely says no and makes it clear she isn’t interested, THAT MEANS NO and it should be the end of it - you approached, you were rejected, it sucks but it’s part of life and you need to move on. She doesn’t owe you anything and she certainly doesn’t owe you an explanation as to why she isn’t interested. 99% of men understand this and will back off if a woman makes it clear she isn’t interested but unfortunately you do get psychos who don’t take no for an answer that make the rest of us look bad. On the flip side I think some women need to understand that rejection is already bad-feeling enough but to then be immediately labelled as a creep after only innocently exchanging literally a few words can be extremely damaging. If a guy approaches you and you say no and he accepts that without any drama and respectfully backs off there’s no need to be rude and call him a creep for no reason - if he continues pestering you and won’t take no for an answer then yes, he is absolutely a creep. Like you say, it’s a two way street.
@@JohnDoeanonymous392 Just a regular weekend out bud. I'm quite friendly and I try not to let the assholes warp my overall view of men, and try to give every guy a fresh opinion when out and about and chatting. I'm a big advocate of men's rights. I can understand how some women get sick of it though and begin to form biases and opinions from past negative experiences.
That was so kind of you to do because most normal men are very nervous about approaching someone they have feelings for, and these are the kind of decent men I would think most women would appreciate because their not stock on themselves and are cautious to put the woman he may like at ease, showing respect right off the bat!! But frankly, being 58 years old I couldn't begin to understand the proper way to court a woman today because I can't understand what they want! A sensitive guy, but not too nice that's he's a wimp! Be willing to spend absurd amounts of money on this woman, as long as you understand your not getting anything back in return except being humiliated and thinking that maybe one of these girls might like him back and not using him like an ATM machine until someone she finds attractive, shows her no respect and uses the heck out of that woman, but she found love with Bubba who gave her more kids and then took off again for younger fields. But this woman had good men who wanted to be with her but escaped the disaster she is but 3 children and dysfunctional relationships remain! Stay away from woman like that!! There looks are good for 10 years maybe, and then the real ugly comes out and you thank God your penece and your brain are on the same level of thinking and you mature and realize their are plenty of beautiful women in the world, but there are very few tolerable beautiful women with no skills after the looks are gone and are just an extra mouth to feed, but she will disappear soon enough! Guys, don't waste your time on a beautiful women, who's only thing going on is her looks!! They make terrible company and are no fun to hang around with, most other women don't like em either so they will be around you until you find a nice girl for your self and treat her the way she treats you or keep moving on but their is someone for everybody!! Keep away from the new modern woman and find a sweet young girl that appreciates her man the same way he approves of her!!, A happy, nice , family will emerge and you will realize your the richest husband and wife you know, and it didn't cost much money!! Because happiness doesn't come from money, looks, or evil! It may happen despite those wicked vices! Seldom does it though! I hope women go back and let men be men, and I also hope woman will let women go back to what men like sometimes also and so do the women! Today's young dating aged woman have to many hangups and lead guys on until someone richer comes along!!
I love how you handled this. I think we as a society overall have forgotten how to have even innocuous conversations with strangers in public. That even if a man were approaching a woman with "romantic intent" that there could still be a civil conversation that happens and he still be told she's already spoken for. The same could be true if roles were reversed. It's okay to engage with people outside your normal social circle. That's how adults make friends.
I've been a regular at a local restaurant. After a while, a woman who worked there began sitting across from me and starting conversations. I knew a little about her and what dating her could cause if I fell for her. I'm old enough that I just want peace in my life. After several short, pleasant conversations, I came right out and said that, if she was hoping I would ask her out, I would if I was looking for a serious relationship but that she's not the kind of woman I would use for what I might want a woman for.
I think you handled that very well and i think we need more of that compassion in this world. I feel like it should be mentioned that it is not solely womens responsibility here, but also as men ,when we see other men abuse this common courtesy, to step in even if they are our friends. Because if women do not feel save giving this common courtesy then that is also a problem.
I think most women are nice about it. Just try and keep in mind that women are also nervous. Some of them have had bad date or getting hit on experiences too. They don't know if the guy will get really pushy and hostile, because that happens too. That is sometimes why some women will overcompensate and just shut down coldly. Empathy goes both ways. So while I definitely want as many women to see this and remember it as possible, I'd also like men to keep in mind that sometimes women aren't jsut being cold or rude if they aren't too friendly. They can be nervous and ready for the worst too.
@@saintejeannedarc9460If she finds you attractive, she’ll make it easy for you; it doesn’t really matter what you say. However, if she finds you unattractive, gaining and keeping a woman’s attention is going to be near impossible.
@@NiaEmiliaI get it but, you're fooling yourself into misery if you forget to put the numbers into perspective! Consult your country's official "statistics website" and look up the "murders per 100000 citizens per year" statistics of the last, say, 30 years or something like that. Specifically for your region if possible. And if available look at the number of male va female victims and male vs female murderers. And also how many % knew each other vs strangers. If people were able to date and have normal sane interactions with strangers in public in the past decades despite the existence of murderers, then we could still do it too today. After all, your boogeyman is still one in a million. Have you ever used an airplane? If yes: why? Some of them crash every year and kill everyone on board! 😮 That's not exactly 100% safe! AVOID AT ALL COSTS!1!! Did you ever trust a doctor about a medicine or a surgery? Shocking truth: you took a huge risk! Worldwide 10000s of people DIE every year, because a doctor f'ed up. So never visit a doctor or hospital again! It's not 100% safe! What I'm trying to say here is that avoiding every human interaction like the plague is neither helpful nor necessary. It only hurts yourself. Or do you really think you will find "the right one" on f'ing tinder? And if yes: that you never have to meet in person, not even for sex? Just "to be safe"? Because that seemingly awesome handsome tinder dude, that you fell for, that you texted with for months, and that didn't murder you yet, because he still doesn't know your address, could murder you on your first face to face date. 🤷♂️ So, the internet is not any safer than the good guy at costco that you call a creep because he "harassed" you because he dared to say "Hi, I'm Daniel!" So what's the solution, if every man is a potential threat? 100% home office, social media strangers as your circle of friends, and masturbation till death by old age? Learning to tell OBVIOUS assholes and OBVIOUS kind guys apart, would help a lot better. Because on average, women totally suck at that for some unknown reason. You fear the obvious good ones, and instantly fall for O B V I O U S psychopaths. It's the exact opposite of a rocket science. Learning this skill would enable women to not get a panic attack when some normie flirts, while not naively and happily getting into the car of an obvious serial killer. Plus, learning just some very basic self defense and body language reading skills would help too. Combine that with carrying one or two of the usual self defense tools like pepper spray, and you are in a good position. After reading all this, please realize that all of this applies to us men too! We need to learn to judge strangers. We need to learn to read body language. We need to learn self defense, and use tools if necessary. We aren't safe from other men. We aren't all physically much stronger or bigger then women. Most people these days have office jobs and are too burnt out for exercise. We aren't murdered for rejecting a flirt, but for hundreds of other reasons where women get a free pass. And yet, men need to interact with men they don't know every day without getting panic attacks. And it works. Because it is possible. It's a mindset thing. Sorry for writing this book 😅
@@thetruthalwaysscaryWay to generalize 🙄 Whenever I’m not interested I’ve never lied about being taken unless I actually was. I also try to not lead anyone on I’m not interested in.
@@nathanielalderson9111lol what does this have to do with the topic lol 😂 People wear makeup to look pretty It’s the same as dressing well Honestly I think more men should wear makeup it’s just cool and pretty
@@nathanielalderson9111it’s okay to admire how it looks on them though. If you’re attracted to a woman’s face with it on, you’ll probably be attracted to her without it.
Hehe so many choices on where to go 😂 this is why in general I prefer linear like 10 and 13, but eventually you'll go everywhere anyway. It's sort of like DA: Origins in that you can choose from numerous areas and do them in any order
I definitely agree as long as he approaches respectfully, which it sounds like he did. Thanks for doing that, guys get VICIOUSLY rejected all the time. Even when he’s doing everything right. You likely gave him hope for the future. So…thank you. Even if I’m not him, I’m thanking you.
I really appreciate that. I’m taken and haven’t been single in over a decade but women don’t really fully comprehend how anxious you can feel when simply attempting to speak to a woman you find attractive or interesting etc. Meeting your soulmate begins with you approaching her so I really hate it when women treat men like they are disgusting for approaching them and trying to start a small conversation or even a “Hello, how are you?” Women hardly ever approach men and most guys aren’t the 10% or less of men that all women are attracted to. So men have to initiate the interaction. When you work up the courage to do so only to be met with a look of disgust it really hurts your self esteem. Us men aren’t heartless emotionless robots. We aren’t simply sex charged. We want meaningful relationships. We want love. We want to be the love of someone’s life. When we get looked at like we are some predator it makes us feel like we are doing something wrong when we didn’t feel like that. Sometimes we accruals have no intention of asking you out or asking for your number we are just trying to keep ourselves from being nervous around women by talking to them when we don’t absolutely have to. We are always told that we should “read the signs” and see on tv and movies and from women that some guy they liked didn’t hit on them and how this guy could be so blind to their desires albeit entirely hidden want for the guy to approach her. But alas we are not mind readers so in fact we do have to just talk to you and see if there is some chemistry or if you find us anything other than repulsive. And if you have a boyfriend you literally have nothing to worry about. We don’t want to steal you from your man. We just want to talk to the single girls and see if they want to hang out sometime. If you aren’t comfortable meeting in our suggested location then suggest another. Don’t just go “ick” and ghost us. Most of the time we are simply trying to guess what you like and know almost nothing about what you like or hate. We are just trying and doing our best out here. We aren’t all Chad, we don’t all make $40k/month, we don’t all have Teslas and we all aren’t charming. Most of us by default are average guys who simply want to make a girl happy and have a family together. If that makes us evil then so be it. But I’m 41 and have three kids so I’ve been out of the game for a long time and than goodness for that. I don’t think I would be able to tolerate dating in 2024. Stay up my dudes. Stay up.
You're imploring women to understand how difficult it is for you to approach them. I wonder therefore if you can understand how difficult it can be for women who have never met you to discern your motives. If you want to be understood first try to understand others. So many women get approached by truly creepy and scary losers. As a man you never experience that and you know that your intent is innocent but the woman doesn't know this. Speak to women you know and it is remarkable how many of them have had deeply negative encounters with strangers approaching them. Men get anxious about being laughed at or treated meanly...women fear being raped and murdered. And why do you feel it's your right to have access to women in these kind of public settings? Being introduced by friends and family or through clubs, classes or church meetings or even through apps is more promising anyway
@@howeffingridiculousthis entire reply is out of sorts. Have you ever asked men if they've been approached by creeps? If they feel unsafe being approached by people. Maybe meet men in the middle here instead of trying to one up them in the suffering Olympics. Every one of your examples can and do happen to men. You don't want understanding. You want to feel affirmed in your sadness
@@theguythatsaysthings Why do you apparently fail to understand the power imbalance between men and women when it comes to the experience of being approached by creeps? You're not stupid, so why do you reach for an argument you know to be faulty? As a man I can indeed affirm that I have been approached by creeps. As a young boy it was terribly hard to deal with being assaulted so I know about the experience of power imbalance. As a grown man it's a different matter. I can hold my own with the creeps and crack skulls if needed. And why the hell do you feel the need to sarcastically talk about suffering Olympics except to minimise and discount the suffering of women? What's your goal? In place of self reflection and understanding you would rather shut women up.
She is absolutely right. But it also has to be said that most common anxiety in people in general is the fear of being rejected. And the only way to learn how to handle rejection is by getting rejected often enough and easing up.
What a fucking hero! Amen! I still remember trying to approach this girl in college at one of the local bars and tried to introduce myself and when I asked what her name was she told me her name was princess Elsa and then laughed at me to her friends like she said some comedy gold. Even though I walked away not saying anything else, I found myself remembering that moment everytime I thought about approaching somebody and would find myself thinking twice about it. Guess you can say it took me awhile to “let it go” 😂😭
@@zinzincoetzee1934 lol true story at my end man it was on Halloween night at Ohio University actually 😂 I do want to try stand up too maybe I’ll write this one down 🤣
You should have leaned over and said quietly "well you look more like Christoff!" And then walked off. Who cares what some obviously rude bitch says? She prevented you from involving yourselves from someone who would have given you grief!
@@colerigo6658Halloween?! Was she maybe wearing a princess Elsa costume? And she was just telling you her name? And you got it the wrong way? And all your pain was in vain? And she was heartbroken and confused, and thought "I'll never try to be funny/witty again after I accidentally chased away the only guy that ever approached me! I suck at flirting! I'm such a pathetic little worthless idiot 😢" Just brainfarting here 😂 But who knows? Perspective matters a lot in life!
The issuenis the algorithm. This creator's videos actually aren't for women. They mostly reach men in the red pill community. From my experience if you're nice when you ask a woman out, she's also going g to be nice whether she says yes or no. This video's not going to reach the women that don't do that.
@@d.k.s.5919I can tell you from my experience that brutal rejection is real. It’s not some glorified community thing. And let me tell you, that shit hurts
@@paytonallen1027 It definitely stings esp if you like her. Rejection is worse than a punch in the face. I was mostly talking about who is going to see this video, and it's definitely not going to be the "women" she's supposedly talking to.
Exactly. And thank you for keeping that in mind. I stopped approaching a LOOOOONG time ago, and I will never approach again. I got tired of the way in which ladies reject. As disappointing as it is to be rejected, the real bothersome part about it is the way in which ladies reject. We know we'll get rejected. We understand that you're not obligated to like us. We just want respect during rejection. So again, thank you for reminding everyone about that.
I’m Confused. What type of women are u approaching if they are so rude to you when you approach? I don’t think I’ve ever had a single woman act rude after I approached them
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This isn’t just decency, this response is class and grace.
yessss bro say it again we need more classy women
That’s the point. It should just be decency but it’s not.
@@macsiebert8503yes, I agree, we also need more respectful men as well.
For example, if a man approached me, I would respectfully have the conversation and politely tell him that I am not interested in a relationship and that I am currently married (because I am married). As I don't want to lead him on or waste his time, so I will tell him early on that there is no use of a conversation with intentions of flirting, so he can decide whether or not he wants to continue the conversation knowing this.
But it seems that most of the time if I'm approached by men (especially younger men), they do not respect my decision and say "oh your husband will never know" or they are offended and keep flirting regardless. I then ask them to leave if they are not going to be respectful.
Well said.
Fool
Exactly, if women want more confident men, they need to let our young men practice like this. We don't get there magically.
The toxic feminist idea is that women don’t care about the average male who isn’t super confident by nature. That’s 99% of the male population. They only care about the ones with such superb genetics that they can’t remember ever not being confident-the ones’ who are very confident by nature and probably had the right upbringing, too, to further instil confidence.
Well said
Well said indeed. Doubtful about it happenin' though. Here's hoping!
The vast majority of women will allow men to approach them. I think too many young guys especially think that most women will shun them or call them creepy if they approach them. This is nonsense. If you approach a woman sensibly and you have decent social skills - the worst that will happen is she rejects you
@@brianmeen2158how many women have you approached?
As a young man, I was often rejected by women that I approached. Later in life that changed and also, women started approaching me and I had to reject them. But while women could be rude and arrogant towards my younger self, I have never been rude or arrogant to them when it’s been the other way around.
We appreciate you 🔥🙌🏻
I have never rejected anyone in a rude way. And I make sure I compliment their good manners so that they get encouraged.
No one should be rude to anyone.
Except married guys, I'm really rude to them, I make it clear that it's because they are married and I hope they get the message and DON'T EVER approach other women while they are married.
I think we get a pass to be rude to married people when they want to cheat.
@@hamlet557good on you…people who are married really need to remember what a promise is, makes me sick even if I am single to see people not understanding the weight of that promise.
granny?
This is called having class. Thank you for talking about this. I can’t understand why so many women are cruel to them for just saying hello.
Women are supposed to be kind and nurturing, but so many are so cruel. Thank you for being nice to that man and being classy. You left him feeling good about himself even though you turned out to have a boyfriend already. Way more men would approach women if things went this way.
Had one recently just so rude and arrogant...Normal people are at least sociable.
Letting someone down gently and respectfully is a real art form. Respect to the people who actually do it.
Which, thankfully, is more people than we might at first think
It’s not respect to people that do it, it’s just common decency
Woman don't care about being labeled decent and respectful.
Doing this and putting it on TikTok is better then anything else they have exp it seems
@@GDUniverse I’m not saying that It’s an act of extreme respect to let someone down gently, I’m saying that I have great respect for people with that skill. I should have made it clearer.
@@leafheart3213 Thanks for the clarification, I fully agree.
A lot of women don't understand how crippling and painful constant rejection feels like and what it does to your soul. Thank you for sharing this
Yet when it happens to them they turn into the hulk
Relatable in ways tht Hurt the ver core of the soul
And its not even the initial cause for social anxieties and issues like that.
I am ok with them not understanding it... the problem is them not caring at all when you straight up tell them that is the case. The truth is that the average woman is a souless harpy
They don't want to understand nor do they care 🤷♂️
I appreciate that. I find that most women are like this. It isn't as bad as the reels make it look. You can just walk up to someone, saw hi and start a conversation. Sometimes they have a boyfriend and they'll let you know, sometimes they don't. If they have a boyfriend, don't keep hitting on her. If you're the type of guy to hit on someone with a boyfriend, you're causing the behavior this woman is shaming.
This /\ women don’t have a “duty” to jerks, if a woman senses that the guy is actually pretty nervous, this is a good way to let him down gently, but if he’s “that guy” be as harsh as you please
"Treat others the way you want to be treated." It's a phrase that seems forgotten in modern times. Thanks for being a woman all good intentioned men want.
“The worst she could say is no”
Her: *starts speaking an ancient tongue and curses my entire bloodline*
lool
😂😂
Aww man, third time this week!!
Not long ago, girl screamed and put her head into girl friend's arms in a night club because I was too scary for her, apparently hahah
😂😂😂
As a Man that can not approach women thank you for being kind to that Man
I am right there with you man.
Losers.😂😂
Seriously brothers, hang with me a few nights and you’ll get there.
@@JourneyDestination lol i wish it was that easy. Im 32 i have tried i am honestly just not a ladies man. I'm just a good man that wants a wife and kids
@@spotcafe1222So what do you do?
As a man that's afraid to approach women because of today's society, I greatly appreciate you and women like you.
what? men being held accountable for their actions? please
You are stupid @@theff3480
@@theff3480Being aggresive because of trying to start one of most basic social interactions isn’t great attitude and shows what kind of person you are
@@theff3480Can I ask? What on earth are you talking about?
@@Jaguar21010"the society today" is just men being held accountable for their actions and their prolific levels of self aggrandizement cant handle it
With great power comes great responsibility. Thank you for being a good role model for women and girls
Shout out to the dude that approached her even when he was nervous.
Yes, he did what many could not
He was courageous!
I'd be sh*tting bricks too, look hlw beautiful she is.
Same result tho.
@@Subhumanoid_ It's about the journey
I've been turned down by women and the ones who let me down, similar to your method, always left me feeling better even though it didn't go the way I wanted.
Me too, just asked for the first time and she was so kind about it
Just thinking basic psychology: I wonder if this may be because you were able to even speak to a woman without "negative reinforcement" and instead were rewarded with a pleasant interaction, not the one hoped for obv, but still a positive one, so doing so again in the future would be easier. 🤔
@@ripred178i mean its better than being embarrassed by a woman screaming at the top of her lings to STOP FOLLOWING ME YOU CREEP I HAVE A BOYFRIEND
@empireofthewolvesshe literally did that dumbass 😂 watch the video before complaining
@empireofthewolvesI think her whole point is that it's okay to talk to other men even if you're in a relationship. If he makes his intentions clear that's where you respectfully turn him down. Assumptions are usually toxic. It's okay to talk. If you feel like your time is wasted on a conversation then sorry but you're probably not worth spending any time with 😅
This woman deserves an award .. she's an angel
107 likes !! MOM I AM FAMOUS !!
She's normal
113 :)
@@yytv4d4x65sadly, no
Shut up and take my like
Make that 300
This is an absolutely lovely response. We should all try to follow her lead!
It's very classy of you to sense the situation and get ahead of it rather than treat him rudely.
May he have a speedy recovery
Very well said. As a guy that has never approached a random girl with romantic intent it is VERY nerve wracking. I’ve wrestled in front of 20k+ people but somehow talking to a girl you like is more pressure than that xD. Rip my confidence
I would have liked this HOWEVER you have 420 likes exactly, I'm not ruining that 👍
@@noonookinz4560 That's because unlike wrestling where your skill, practice, and experience has weight on the outcome of your engagement, attempting to approach a woman with romantic interest is the complete opposite. You can have great experience and a host of successful relationships and that has absolute 0 weight in the outcome of that engagement.
The woman holds all the power to turn that engagement into a nightmare no matter how positive your previous relationships were or how sincere your interest was.
@@noonookinz4560who are you?
@@Mario_Lugo excellent question
This is the power of Female Energy. And she right there is a true one.
Thank you madam 🙏🏾
Are you simping or just saying sarcastically
@@ZAND4TSUprob sarcasm
@@ZAND4TSU Complimenting a women on how she gracefully handled a situation is not simping
@@neosozavac idk
@@ZAND4TSUDon’t mix up compliments with obsessions.
Finally some real old school lady charm and finesse refreshingly breath taking! Thank you.
Such a compassionate and intelligent person. Thank you for your kindness.
Yes! Teach our young girls how to be nice, but strong women.
Humankind. Be Both.
Men built society to make women’s lives easier. There is no such thing as a strong independent woman.🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ Look out the window everywhere you go. There is nothing women built in society. Now feminism is tearing it down. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
yes but a large portion of men are actual creeps and sexual harassers
Women cant be strong. Only men can. Stop using strong without having any basis to it.
why are girls obsessed with strength? The always talk about being strong. lol.
We dont need strong women. We need feminine women. Not pseudo males.
As a guy who struggled badly with anxiety and was always self conscious, I so appreciate her approach to this. Classy, smart, and kind.
Nevertheless, I think the more we back off, the more they are forced to do it. It is good for them to feel what it is like walking in a man's shoes.
Also, do not forget all the crap that can happen: false sexual assault allegations, walking out on a date halfway through the date, expecting you to do everything while she just has to show up. Now, if you get passed all that then you may have to deal with her: lying about being on the pill, using a false pregnancy test and lying about it being your baby, emotional abuse, physical abuse.
Of course it you get married then: You have to buy the ring, you have to propose, you also pay for the dinner or event that you use to propose to her, then you are married: Then you may have to deal with then the minute she is pregnant with your child she is locked into your income for 20 years whether she stays with you or not, or she can lie about domestic violence.
Then you may have to deal with divorce:
Guy was a Poindexter. Otherwise her panties would have come off
Thank you for this, you are the reason men still have some confidence in themselves in these situations
What a self aware and responsible person you are. I wish more people had this mindset of being an actual part of society that is thus responsible for how it behaves. We need more people so graceful and full of class
The world needs more women like you.
I went through a similar situation, except the woman was staring at me and smiling at me, every day.
I asked her out, and she said, "I have a boyfriend, sorry." While blushing.
It was a bit confusing because she had been staring at me and smiling, for months.
That behavior usually means a girl likes you.
(I mean, she was constantly staring at me, even with dilated pupils and smiling)
I am a lot older so remember when social interaction was normal and not considered creepy. I stopped dating in the US in the mid 1990s because the hostility was starting 30 years. In the first week I moved to another country where males and females actually like each other. Every day I meet really interesting, highly cultured attractive women, and the response is always pleasant interaction. It is great fun and often leads long term friendship. Why would I want female friends? Because a socially adept woman of any age is a joy to interact with. I do date a lot but not seeking marriage but a dinner date, hiking in the wood, attended opera or ballet or just sitting in a pub in conversation is a great way to spend my time. The reason is simply that a feminine articulate happy attractive woman is a great addition to my life. I do have a couple regulars who are interested in physical intimacy, sort of friends with benefits so I am not hitting women with that goal. Men and women in the
US do not really like the opposite sex, but they want someone. It was not like that in their mothers prime social age. The fear, distrust and anger between the sexes in the US is very destructive to the people and society in general. I have dated in most of the 92 countries I have spent time in and very few societies are as suspicious of the opposite sex as the US.
The world has too many vain women trying to exploit low smv boys now. Sorry, not sorry.
This is why she did a vomit smiley in her title right ?
@@stanspb763ur job?
Exactly. Women make it impossible to approach them and make a good impression, yet they also insist on the man making the first move...
How do women make it impossible?
It's only impossible if you are ugly or average Chad does it for fun the easiest thing ever
American women make it impossible. British women are this way too now.
That's what cracks me up. Women complain that men don't approach them, but they also complain when men do approach them. So what do they want from us lol.
@@jehu4067by lowering their standards and going for some big tough guy who may look like he can lift a car with his bare hands but he’s actually a self centered dick
As a man i thank you for not only doing this but trying to ensure more people do too.
Even if you're not interested, you can still leave with an interesting conversation, and that is one of the small forgotten beautiful things in life.
Thank you for that. When I was single, it took a lot for me to hype myself up to go up to a girl and get rejected. It was tough but much worse when the girl is rude
All is needed is a brief talk and then a casual "I do have a boyfriend but i admire your confdience but keep it up"
For most men, the enemy is not her response. The enemy is our own esteem and pride. Whether she accepts or rejects, that is secondary.
@@budbas I don't agree,most girls are brutal when guys approach. Why do you think men are not approaching women in person anymore?
@@TheArsenalMan125 which girl is it?. And how did you approach?. I tend to agree by looking at the current environment, but in my heyday at 90's, women were not like today.
However, should you think they are, then just don't approach, and as reciprocate also don't be approached.
We live aimed for our own happiness. A woman is miniscule and just a complement in regards to our own happiness.
Honestly tho, I think of it as dodging a bullet very early on. If that person can’t even be respectful, it’s a good thing to not have their number.
About 3 years ago now, I had a short, fun conversation with a manager at a stationery shop. I thought about her a lot afterwards. So the next day, I went back in and passed her a short, light-hearted note with my phone number.
She very kindly said she'd recently started a new relationship. But she was so warm and genuine - as I wished her all the best and left, she thanked me for having "just made her day". No laughter, no mockery - just the warmest, most genuine smile I had seen in months.
She was a real woman. And so is this lady. I didn't just walk away from that with my dignity and reputation intact. I was inspired.
That's awesome man. 😎 Seriously, keep it up! Being able to have conversation skills and the confidence to talk to anyone goes a LONG way. You can do it 🙂
I had a similar experience last summer. A very nice interaction, I returned the next day to ask her out, and learned she was in a relationship. She was kind, thanking me for making her day and encouraging me to keep doing what I was doing. I thanked her and wished her and her partner the best.
Love that for you! Sounds like you were respectful
✨💙:')
We'll as a married man thank you!! I am glad your parents raised you right, to stand up for yourself, be a responsible citizen and normal person eager to engage in conversation with others no matter what their Gender might be!
You have my entire respect, the first and last time I directly asked out a girl, I got her number as she sayd she was single, told me she had a boyfriend later the same day and insulted me as the biggest pervert of the highschool in front of every one the tomorrow.
Honestly she traumatised me and I thought I really had a problem (being absolutly respectful) for the last 4 years.
Yes! Thank you!
The world needs more women like you.
More women need to be like her*
This is what Class looks like.
I can’t believe the comment section, y’all being fooled, she’s making money out of y’all.
If only all women were as intelligent, kind and compassionate as you, the world 🌎 would be a much better place.
If women ruled the world there would be no war... Just a bunch of countries not talking to each other.
In all seriousness, she has my vote for President of The United States of America 2024!
@@FerociousPoofyPeanutThey'd be talking to eachother, they'd be super nice and friendly in discussions and then the moment they say goodbye they'd be talking for 5 hours about how much they hate the other girl.
@FerociousPoofyPeanut men would be sent out to die in unimaginable multitudes fighting over petty squabbles.
@@charlesrhodes1089, it's a joke and flew over your head...WHOOSH!
@@kidfox3971, not this lady. She just proved that she's kind even after she was sarcastic and made fun of clout chasers and stitch up over-excessive users (i.e., to deliberately make someone look guilty for doing something that they did not do.) at the start.
You are a decent and considerate human being. The world needs MANY more people like you.
She had us in the first half not gonna lie.
Fr fr, the council appreciates that
Thank you. Some of the best men are shy. But once you get past their shyness, they are great, loyal men.
I appreciate shy men.
@@saintejeannedarc9460 Paired with a good woman can be a wonderful match.
@@saintejeannedarc9460Most women don’t like shy men, stop the cap. Men need to learn to be more confident and overcome their anxieties. Shyness only serves as a weakness.
@@ilikepancakes2368 only a damaged woman would view shyness as a deal breaker.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Shyness isn't a weakness, it's a personality trait. People are only shy at first, when they don't know people. You get past a shy exterior, and you usually get to know a sweet, gentle person and they often have a great sense of humour behind that. I was w/ a man for 6 years, he wasn't lacking confidence, he was masculine and had a close friend circle and great family. He was just shy, but only at first.
From a man who is naturally shy I really love the message in this video. If all women shared this beautiful mindset the world would be a better place. Thanks for offering hope ❤
I am shy also which is one reason of countless many why l would never approach women.
No woman has her mindset. She has a channel to monetize and cares enough about the plight of men to slightly care.
Your not shy your just needy of their approval.learn to have high internal self validation(look it up ) and all that will go away
@@alfredoortiz6756are you suggesting she’s « not like other girls 🙀💅🧢😎 »
K but anyway
I’m a girl and I fully agree
And I rly doubt she could’ve ever been the ONLY WOMAN IN THE WORLD to think this way
That would be very unlikely
You have no idea how much your message hits me.. I approached a lot of women in my life but over time I hesitated more and morw because of bad and unfriendly reactions. Some women are nice and really happy to get approached but the majority isn't. Or at least not for me, Idk.. it took Idk how many years and women to actually "succeed" and find a girlfriend. It is far better and easier to get in contact with women over same friends, courses or whatever but I was always only among men so I had to be brave (way too) often..
That genuinely makes me feel very understood and appreciated, wish more women approached us with this level of empathy
It’s also possible to have empathy for women who are afraid of men. Over 60,000 pregnancies induced by rape (from men)have happened in red states SINCE abortion was banned not too long ago.
60,000 pregnancies from rape. A lot of those victims are also children.
@@nikitabanks7230 Ok, but what does that have to do with my comment
@@nikitabanks7230The fuck are you on about
@@resir9807Most women have a severe fear of men in public because of what happens in the United States, but that doesn’t mean women should just avoid men in public like they do nowadays. Men are not diseases and not all are threats. I understand many women believe men are bad because they cause rape and assault (physical and sexual) to increase rapidly in the US, but practically all young women also have taken all of what they believe in the world by social media, where so much as looking at a girl in a gym is harassment. Good Day.
@@resir9807 I think I spelled it out pretty clearly, but I’ll add this: Men’s biggest fear is being rejected/embarrassed. Women’s biggest fear is being raped or murdered by a man. These things have very different consequences and you don’t have to be thinking what if she was raped every time you approach a woman, but definitely spend some time, reflecting on what that experience would be for us. Have empathy :-)
What a wonderful person, putting herself in the mans shoes and not embarrassing him, u are a real gem , thank you on behalf of every guy
Men need to become stronger emotionally. They don't need women to constantly be nice to them to accomplish this.... its an internal job..
A woman's role is to make a man's life not as hard as it usually is. Even confident chads get exploded at by these western women. It's a cultural problem, not a biological problem.
Western women are brainwashed to hold their femininity hostage until they find the high status, 1% of men, get rejected and just keep looking again. They'll never find it so their options are mostly simps willing to spend money on them and they will never be satisfied.
You actually believe this story? It’s just made up content for her audience which is predominantly male 😂
@@Cittamatraindeed we need to be more masculine
Wow, and here I am fine with a polite: I appreciate that you approached me, but I have a boyfriend/ I am not interested. But this is on another level. Wow , you are goals for any girl in dating. Keep spreading wisdom, girl ! And yeah...I struggle as well, very much with fear of approaching, mostly because emotional wounds tho. And I only have good intentions.
I struggle with rejection anxiety. Thank you for giving me a splash of faith in humanity today.
This wins the Internet today. As a guy, I'm very grateful for hearing this take.
She called men “ sexually charged pigs “ and you’re ok with that ? Call HER a pig and then we’ll see what happens
Yeah that’s the problem, it’s only the guys watching her content. The message isn’t making it to the intended audience which should be the ladies. Look at every comment on this video. It’s from a dude.
@@SimRacingVeteranThe problem is other women may see her as a "pick me woman"! But the truth is we NEED MORE "pick me women" in our world to put a check on this femiNAZI gaslighting insanity!
@@SimRacingVeterandamn straight!👏🏽 well said! Women dont want to do personal growth cuz they already have all the validation they need
Women not wanting to get approached and asked out randomly in public is also a safety thing. it's not just a I only want top 2% looking guys approach me issue etc.. That isn't the real answer for the women wanting to be left alone@@SimRacingVeteran
She is right. Women have made approaching them such a horrid,unpleasant, humiliating experience men do not want to bother. Too much risk, too little reward is no prize to any man. Guys are avoiding the liabilities women bring in just approaching them. Protect yourselves guys and your assets and sanity from these modern day pariahs.
Yeah. Women are TOLD that they are victims if a man looks at them, much less talks to them I have given up, at least with American women..
weak
Idk it's what you see on social media that screws up reality most women aren't nasty like that. Odds are she'll just say she has a bf and move on
@@Renaissance-dude I have seen you before. You always troll for attention.
@@Ratio429 from who? cope loser
Lady
You are the vary definition of a class act 👍🏽❤️
Lady, you are solid gold on this already insane planet! You're boyfriend is very blessed having you!
The other day, I approached a woman, just to tell her I have a girlfriend. I then left.
😂😂
Reminds me of those prank channel videos
😂😂
nice!😀
based
She needs to be protected at all costs...the world needs more great humans like her....
Well sadly she wouldn't soon have no rights anymore to even go out alone, when 70% of the men on this Alpha BS on the internet Channels would be in charge.
@@watchdog6619find a nice tree and hug it at midnight, look up to the sky and do your best woof howl, ideally if it is a full moon. Or if midnight's too late try doing it during a solar eclipse, one is coming up this year. 🌙 🐺 Now to have some sherry trifle, yum yum.
@@watchdog6619no they won’t. None of us will give them any power and it’s not 70% it’s only like 10% or less that believe in that crap
@@watchdog6619 STFU where do i even start to disprove you...
It's ironic you say this if you have seen her older videos.
Words of Wisdom and Grace. I applaud you. Well said.
The nice woman who delivered my food to me at the drive through at Culvers said that I have a nice truck. I responded "I'm married" with a sarcastic overtone and a smirk on my face. She laughed so hard that she snorted, which caused her to laugh some more. I smiled and said thank you for that. People aren't always a-holes. Sometimes they're just being friendly.
Protect this woman at all costs
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The way she puts it sounds good, but if I was your girlfriend would you like me to encourage other men to chat me up? Or if you were asking to date me would you like me to prolong the conversation even if I know I’m not going to? We get mixed messages from guys, I’ve always been told it was time wasting or leading you on to not let you know right away that I’m not interesting.
@@jaybee4288 so what? It's not that easy to seduce a girl with small talk alone.
And honestly, if my girl wanted to leave for someone else, I have no problem with that. There are still so many fish in the sea.
@eldarkorkmasov I’m not saying she should be rude to him. Just I wouldn’t chat to guys who like me when I have a boyfriend because it’s not really fair if I’m flirting with other men. Which really is what she’s doing, it’s an ego boost. He didn’t talk to her because she’s a great person, he wanted to have sex. The fairest and best thing to do is just say you’re unavailable and move on.
@@jaybee4288Encourage? She simply said that when someone approaches her, she makes it known that she has a boyfriend by not interrupting the conversation and simply adding it in that conversation. I don’t see what’s wrong, it’s a very mature way to say that you’re not single instead of making him have social anxiety for a long time.
That very polite of someone. Really good mentality.
Damn ya out here helpin the cause. What an inspiration.
This is a lost art on the modern twits. Good on you for having some humility and humanity.
Ye, it's nice of her. Especially considering some women say that they wouldn't want the type of guy who would even be nervous anyways
Gentlemen, protect this one at all costs.
Honestly, the fact that is being/acting like decent human being has to be posted on social media so that people get informed about is just sad, how low has society sinked for this to not be common sense? Maybe im overthinking it
@@iateabigmac6978 Nope, I had the same reaction. This was common sense, be polite & maybe reciprocate the compliment by saying something like, you seem awesome if I didn't have a boyfriend I'd be thrilled to get to know you, but thank you for the conversation..
Now it needs to be pounded into the younger chicks!!!
She established early on that she has a boyfriend. Let him protect her 😂😂😂
You truly are one of the good ones. As a single man, it is very intimidating approaching women in this day in age, knowing there is a better than 70% chance that you will be shamed or labeled as some sort of creep for doing what, a generation ago was normal and acceptable. You keep doing you!! Love your content!!
I can count on one hand the amount of times that i actually went up to strange and asked them out -- instead of talking ot someone at a bar and leading it play or or online -- and reason is 99 percent of the interactions were exacly like what she described at first -- including litrerally yelling "I have a boyfriend" every time it happens we just say to ourselves, "well not doing that ever again"
A few weeks ago a took a woman's order at the restaurant I work at. We made small talk, and chit chatted, and seemed to have a real nice vibe. I very rarely have the guts to do this, but I asked her if I could give her my number. She told me she has a boyfriend, BUT, she was super polite about it, thanked me for asking, and at least pretended to be flattered.
A few days after that, I had the guts to do it again (with a different woman, obviously) and now we have a coffee date set!
If that first woman hadn't handled it so wonderfully, and given me such a confidence boost even in rejection, I doubt I would have tried again. At least so soon.
So thank you nice lady! You don't know how much your kindness meant to me!!
May the Force be with you always!
It's refreshing to see that common sense, decency, and respect aren't dead.❤
Thank you for being you. I wish there were more like you. Trying to raise my daughter like you. And I'm kinda there, except she likes girls. What a relief ;)
This is appreciated, understanding what you're doing but please stay safe, there's a small percentage of dudes that's crazy, no matter how cordial you are to them
The way I've been brutally rejected by women at times does take a toll on my confidence. I'm glad you and others are encouraging women to be kinder and more decent.
It strongly affected my confidence in high school, prior to high school I felt like I was on top of the world! It took a decade to rebuild from the damage that was done. I’m thankful to move on from it.
@@anthonykhoury9292glad you were able to find that peace
Have u ever heard of rejecting rejection? It works wonders on ur confidence!😊
I have diagnosed general anxiety. When I was younger, I'd get anxiety from watching my friends get rudely denied. It kept me from talking to women for years.
Bros got 0 rizz
It’s such a breath of fresh air to see a woman that realizes that it is nerve racking for a lot of men to approach women, especially for the first time. Like the first time I tried to talk to a girl I could kinda tell she wasn’t interested but if she just shut me down right away it would have ruined the little confidence I already had.
8th grade I was trying to get a girls number and she said “tuff”
Haven’t talked to a female singe
@@headshotfaze9371 you sure that wasn't a positive response?
@@bigswaggy298 how would it have been?
@@headshotfaze9371 everyone I know uses tuff in a way that it has a similar meaning to 'cool' or 'sweet!' or 'sick!'
@@headshotfaze9371 I’m sorry to hear that. One saying that has really comforted me is “don’t chase butterflies because they will fly away. Instead build a beautiful garden to attract butterflies, and if no butterflies come, at least you have a beautiful garden.” The right girl will come when the time is right, until then work on building that garden. When you feel you found the right girl, take your shot because if you don’t it’s automatically a no. I know it’s scary, it’s not supposed to be easy, but it takes confidence to put yourself out there, either way it turns out. Good luck and God bless ❤️
High respect for this lady💯
This is the first time I’ve seen u and I hated u for hot minute but I gave u the benefit of the doubt and now I’m subscribed to u. Life lesson hear people out. ❤
👏🏻 A woman who gets it! Thank you ma'am. 🙏🏻
As a man raised by a single mom and taught to make sure a woman's safety is number 1 on my list in any scenario, I appreciate there are women out there who see it this way towards men as well. Thank you, you just gave me some hope in the world
Please tell me she didn’t mean any scenario. If you were in a situation where you are being threatened with a gun by a woman she don’t mean you need to make sure she safe?
@@DarkishAxolotl I don't think that was the intent of the words. You're taking that way too literally.
I absolutely hate the fact that when ever people bring up or talk about how women should treat men a human being, and be respectful, the Most common response is for them to bring up how "its a woman safety thing".
As much as people don't want to admit it. If its coming up that much, either at least a quarter of woman are getting attacked by random strangers or they are using it to ignore and dismiss a very well known issue.
Unfortunately not all men think like you do. The fast majority don't.
So YOUR safety is less important than a random woman her safety? 💀
*The girl won the hearts of every straight man ever.*
Haven't been able to approach girls anymore in a long while, just been feeling uncomfortable and intimidated. Seeing a woman understand how a man feels makes me smile. Thanks for sharing.
This is Extremely Valuable Information.
I hope women watch this channel.
keep dremaing
Thank god! Wow a woman with decency and respect for the guys feelings and what he was trying to do. That’s all guys really want, just being nice and a chance to say hi to girls they might be interested in without fear of being screamed at saying he’s a creep and just getting all embarrassed and never working up courage ever again. We need more girls like you with your kind of attitude 👏👏
I think that is how most women start out. Then they get sick of, after indicating they're not interested keep getting pressure put on them.
Even to the point where they pressure her to cheat or otherwise compromise their morals.
It is a two way street.
@@jaegrant6441It’s difficult. I can definitely understand why some women can be so closed off if a guy approaches them especially if they’ve had bad experiences with guys who won’t take no for an answer before.
I think both men and women can do their part to make the already anxiety inducing situation of approaching someone and initiating that contact easier for everyone. Men need to understand that if a woman politely says no and makes it clear she isn’t interested, THAT MEANS NO and it should be the end of it - you approached, you were rejected, it sucks but it’s part of life and you need to move on. She doesn’t owe you anything and she certainly doesn’t owe you an explanation as to why she isn’t interested. 99% of men understand this and will back off if a woman makes it clear she isn’t interested but unfortunately you do get psychos who don’t take no for an answer that make the rest of us look bad.
On the flip side I think some women need to understand that rejection is already bad-feeling enough but to then be immediately labelled as a creep after only innocently exchanging literally a few words can be extremely damaging. If a guy approaches you and you say no and he accepts that without any drama and respectfully backs off there’s no need to be rude and call him a creep for no reason - if he continues pestering you and won’t take no for an answer then yes, he is absolutely a creep. Like you say, it’s a two way street.
@@jaegrant6441What is going on bro who hurt you god damn that’s specific
@@JohnDoeanonymous392 😭
@@JohnDoeanonymous392 Just a regular weekend out bud.
I'm quite friendly and I try not to let the assholes warp my overall view of men, and try to give every guy a fresh opinion when out and about and chatting. I'm a big advocate of men's rights.
I can understand how some women get sick of it though and begin to form biases and opinions from past negative experiences.
Thank you thank you thank you thank you OMG this one actually gets it thank you thank you thank you. You speak volumes of truth. Thank you.
That was so kind of you to do because most normal men are very nervous about approaching someone they have feelings for, and these are the kind of decent men I would think most women would appreciate because their not stock on themselves and are cautious to put the woman he may like at ease, showing respect right off the bat!! But frankly, being 58 years old I couldn't begin to understand the proper way to court a woman today because I can't understand what they want! A sensitive guy, but not too nice that's he's a wimp! Be willing to spend absurd amounts of money on this woman, as long as you understand your not getting anything back in return except being humiliated and thinking that maybe one of these girls might like him back and not using him like an ATM machine until someone she finds attractive, shows her no respect and uses the heck out of that woman, but she found love with Bubba who gave her more kids and then took off again for younger fields. But this woman had good men who wanted to be with her but escaped the disaster she is but 3 children and dysfunctional relationships remain! Stay away from woman like that!! There looks are good for 10 years maybe, and then the real ugly comes out and you thank God your penece and your brain are on the same level of thinking and you mature and realize their are plenty of beautiful women in the world, but there are very few tolerable beautiful women with no skills after the looks are gone and are just an extra mouth to feed, but she will disappear soon enough! Guys, don't waste your time on a beautiful women, who's only thing going on is her looks!! They make terrible company and are no fun to hang around with, most other women don't like em either so they will be around you until you find a nice girl for your self and treat her the way she treats you or keep moving on but their is someone for everybody!! Keep away from the new modern woman and find a sweet young girl that appreciates her man the same way he approves of her!!, A happy, nice , family will emerge and you will realize your the richest husband and wife you know, and it didn't cost much money!! Because happiness doesn't come from money, looks, or evil! It may happen despite those wicked vices! Seldom does it though! I hope women go back and let men be men, and I also hope woman will let women go back to what men like sometimes also and so do the women! Today's young dating aged woman have to many hangups and lead guys on until someone richer comes along!!
I love how you handled this. I think we as a society overall have forgotten how to have even innocuous conversations with strangers in public. That even if a man were approaching a woman with "romantic intent" that there could still be a civil conversation that happens and he still be told she's already spoken for. The same could be true if roles were reversed. It's okay to engage with people outside your normal social circle. That's how adults make friends.
It didn't happen. This post is pure fiction.
Because they want you to be afraid of everyone else. Part of the globalist agenda that the weak left (especially) is blindly helping to bring about.
You understand not only common decency but also good human interactions. Thank you for this.
I've been a regular at a local restaurant. After a while, a woman who worked there began sitting across from me and starting conversations. I knew a little about her and what dating her could cause if I fell for her. I'm old enough that I just want peace in my life. After several short, pleasant conversations, I came right out and said that, if she was hoping I would ask her out, I would if I was looking for a serious relationship but that she's not the kind of woman I would use for what I might want a woman for.
I think you handled that very well and i think we need more of that compassion in this world.
I feel like it should be mentioned that it is not solely womens responsibility here, but also as men ,when we see other men abuse this common courtesy, to step in even if they are our friends. Because if women do not feel save giving this common courtesy then that is also a problem.
I've heard many women say they judge a man by how he treats wait staff. Perhaps they should be courteous to men who approach them, too.
I think most women are nice about it. Just try and keep in mind that women are also nervous. Some of them have had bad date or getting hit on experiences too. They don't know if the guy will get really pushy and hostile, because that happens too. That is sometimes why some women will overcompensate and just shut down coldly. Empathy goes both ways. So while I definitely want as many women to see this and remember it as possible, I'd also like men to keep in mind that sometimes women aren't jsut being cold or rude if they aren't too friendly. They can be nervous and ready for the worst too.
@Daathiel See, this is what I'm talking about.
I had a woman approach me in a coffee shop and decided to be a drama queen about it all. I relocated to another country.
@@saintejeannedarc9460If she finds you attractive, she’ll make it easy for you; it doesn’t really matter what you say. However, if she finds you unattractive, gaining and keeping a woman’s attention is going to be near impossible.
@@saintejeannedarc9460👉Talking Out Of Both Sides Of Your Mouth👈
YES. men aren't evil and have anxieties about these things just like women do. I'm so glad you treated him like this!!!
"Men arent evil." We have access to the internet be so serious for a second 😑
@NiaEmilia You be more serious dawg, there's also "evil" women in this world.
Most evil are women actually.
@@NiaEmiliaWhat does that even mean?
@@NiaEmiliaI get it but, you're fooling yourself into misery if you forget to put the numbers into perspective!
Consult your country's official "statistics website" and look up the "murders per 100000 citizens per year" statistics of the last, say, 30 years or something like that. Specifically for your region if possible. And if available look at the number of male va female victims and male vs female murderers. And also how many % knew each other vs strangers.
If people were able to date and have normal sane interactions with strangers in public in the past decades despite the existence of murderers, then we could still do it too today.
After all, your boogeyman is still one in a million.
Have you ever used an airplane? If yes: why? Some of them crash every year and kill everyone on board! 😮 That's not exactly 100% safe! AVOID AT ALL COSTS!1!!
Did you ever trust a doctor about a medicine or a surgery? Shocking truth: you took a huge risk! Worldwide 10000s of people DIE every year, because a doctor f'ed up. So never visit a doctor or hospital again! It's not 100% safe!
What I'm trying to say here is that avoiding every human interaction like the plague is neither helpful nor necessary. It only hurts yourself. Or do you really think you will find "the right one" on f'ing tinder? And if yes: that you never have to meet in person, not even for sex? Just "to be safe"? Because that seemingly awesome handsome tinder dude, that you fell for, that you texted with for months, and that didn't murder you yet, because he still doesn't know your address, could murder you on your first face to face date. 🤷♂️
So, the internet is not any safer than the good guy at costco that you call a creep because he "harassed" you because he dared to say "Hi, I'm Daniel!"
So what's the solution, if every man is a potential threat? 100% home office, social media strangers as your circle of friends, and masturbation till death by old age?
Learning to tell OBVIOUS assholes and OBVIOUS kind guys apart, would help a lot better. Because on average, women totally suck at that for some unknown reason. You fear the obvious good ones, and instantly fall for O B V I O U S psychopaths. It's the exact opposite of a rocket science. Learning this skill would enable women to not get a panic attack when some normie flirts, while not naively and happily getting into the car of an obvious serial killer.
Plus, learning just some very basic self defense and body language reading skills would help too.
Combine that with carrying one or two of the usual self defense tools like pepper spray, and you are in a good position.
After reading all this, please realize that all of this applies to us men too!
We need to learn to judge strangers.
We need to learn to read body language.
We need to learn self defense, and use tools if necessary.
We aren't safe from other men.
We aren't all physically much stronger or bigger then women. Most people these days have office jobs and are too burnt out for exercise.
We aren't murdered for rejecting a flirt, but for hundreds of other reasons where women get a free pass.
And yet, men need to interact with men they don't know every day without getting panic attacks. And it works. Because it is possible. It's a mindset thing.
Sorry for writing this book 😅
You're a fuckin legend, miss
Whoever her boyfriend is is lucky af shes wise and understanding very rare convo
You handled this with class like a Lady. THANK YOU!!!
An actual strong woman handles these situations in such mature and smart ways... you are awesome ma'am
All the good women are taken 😂 but i am glad that you were so kind and honest
I know this is backhanded, but this is probably one of your few shorts that I actually agree on.
Thank you VERY much, kind Lady for TRYING to TEACH these young WOMEN how to behave like PROPER Human beings!💯👍👍✌✌🤞🤞👏👏😊😊💓💗💖😊😊
One of the most beautiful things a Woman can do is tell the truth.
Could do. Unfortunately they do not.
@@thetruthalwaysscaryWay to generalize 🙄 Whenever I’m not interested I’ve never lied about being taken unless I actually was. I also try to not lead anyone on I’m not
interested in.
@@nathanielalderson9111lol what does this have to do with the topic lol 😂
People wear makeup to look pretty
It’s the same as dressing well
Honestly I think more men should wear makeup it’s just cool and pretty
@@nathanielalderson9111it’s okay to admire how it looks on them though. If you’re attracted to a woman’s face with it on, you’ll probably be attracted to her without it.
You're a good person and even though the dude struck out, he likely had an enjoyable 5 minutes and you made his day that much better.
Hehe so many choices on where to go 😂 this is why in general I prefer linear like 10 and 13, but eventually you'll go everywhere anyway. It's sort of like DA: Origins in that you can choose from numerous areas and do them in any order
I definitely agree as long as he approaches respectfully, which it sounds like he did. Thanks for doing that, guys get VICIOUSLY rejected all the time. Even when he’s doing everything right. You likely gave him hope for the future.
So…thank you. Even if I’m not him, I’m thanking you.
I really appreciate that. I’m taken and haven’t been single in over a decade but women don’t really fully comprehend how anxious you can feel when simply attempting to speak to a woman you find attractive or interesting etc. Meeting your soulmate begins with you approaching her so I really hate it when women treat men like they are disgusting for approaching them and trying to start a small conversation or even a “Hello, how are you?” Women hardly ever approach men and most guys aren’t the 10% or less of men that all women are attracted to. So men have to initiate the interaction. When you work up the courage to do so only to be met with a look of disgust it really hurts your self esteem. Us men aren’t heartless emotionless robots. We aren’t simply sex charged. We want meaningful relationships. We want love. We want to be the love of someone’s life. When we get looked at like we are some predator it makes us feel like we are doing something wrong when we didn’t feel like that. Sometimes we accruals have no intention of asking you out or asking for your number we are just trying to keep ourselves from being nervous around women by talking to them when we don’t absolutely have to. We are always told that we should “read the signs” and see on tv and movies and from women that some guy they liked didn’t hit on them and how this guy could be so blind to their desires albeit entirely hidden want for the guy to approach her. But alas we are not mind readers so in fact we do have to just talk to you and see if there is some chemistry or if you find us anything other than repulsive. And if you have a boyfriend you literally have nothing to worry about. We don’t want to steal you from your man. We just want to talk to the single girls and see if they want to hang out sometime. If you aren’t comfortable meeting in our suggested location then suggest another. Don’t just go “ick” and ghost us. Most of the time we are simply trying to guess what you like and know almost nothing about what you like or hate. We are just trying and doing our best out here. We aren’t all Chad, we don’t all make $40k/month, we don’t all have Teslas and we all aren’t charming. Most of us by default are average guys who simply want to make a girl happy and have a family together. If that makes us evil then so be it. But I’m 41 and have three kids so I’ve been out of the game for a long time and than goodness for that. I don’t think I would be able to tolerate dating in 2024. Stay up my dudes. Stay up.
This one needs more likes
I aint reading allat
You're imploring women to understand how difficult it is for you to approach them. I wonder therefore if you can understand how difficult it can be for women who have never met you to discern your motives. If you want to be understood first try to understand others. So many women get approached by truly creepy and scary losers. As a man you never experience that and you know that your intent is innocent but the woman doesn't know this. Speak to women you know and it is remarkable how many of them have had deeply negative encounters with strangers approaching them. Men get anxious about being laughed at or treated meanly...women fear being raped and murdered. And why do you feel it's your right to have access to women in these kind of public settings? Being introduced by friends and family or through clubs, classes or church meetings or even through apps is more promising anyway
@@howeffingridiculousthis entire reply is out of sorts. Have you ever asked men if they've been approached by creeps? If they feel unsafe being approached by people. Maybe meet men in the middle here instead of trying to one up them in the suffering Olympics. Every one of your examples can and do happen to men. You don't want understanding. You want to feel affirmed in your sadness
@@theguythatsaysthings Why do you apparently fail to understand the power imbalance between men and women when it comes to the experience of being approached by creeps? You're not stupid, so why do you reach for an argument you know to be faulty? As a man I can indeed affirm that I have been approached by creeps. As a young boy it was terribly hard to deal with being assaulted so I know about the experience of power imbalance. As a grown man it's a different matter. I can hold my own with the creeps and crack skulls if needed. And why the hell do you feel the need to sarcastically talk about suffering Olympics except to minimise and discount the suffering of women? What's your goal? In place of self reflection and understanding you would rather shut women up.
She is absolutely right. But it also has to be said that most common anxiety in people in general is the fear of being rejected. And the only way to learn how to handle rejection is by getting rejected often enough and easing up.
That's also why people don't cold call for their business. It's all a bit silly really.
Thank you ma'am. You are a kind and classy lady. More couples would get together if encounters were handled this way.
Bless your heart and as a single man thank you for being nice to him 👍
What a fucking hero! Amen! I still remember trying to approach this girl in college at one of the local bars and tried to introduce myself and when I asked what her name was she told me her name was princess Elsa and then laughed at me to her friends like she said some comedy gold. Even though I walked away not saying anything else, I found myself remembering that moment everytime I thought about approaching somebody and would find myself thinking twice about it. Guess you can say it took me awhile to “let it go” 😂😭
😂😂😂Bro this sounds like a story a professional comedian would make up
@@zinzincoetzee1934 lol true story at my end man it was on Halloween night at Ohio University actually 😂 I do want to try stand up too maybe I’ll write this one down 🤣
You should have leaned over and said quietly "well you look more like Christoff!" And then walked off. Who cares what some obviously rude bitch says? She prevented you from involving yourselves from someone who would have given you grief!
@@colerigo6658Halloween?!
Was she maybe wearing a princess Elsa costume?
And she was just telling you her name?
And you got it the wrong way?
And all your pain was in vain?
And she was heartbroken and confused, and thought "I'll never try to be funny/witty again after I accidentally chased away the only guy that ever approached me! I suck at flirting! I'm such a pathetic little worthless idiot 😢"
Just brainfarting here 😂
But who knows? Perspective matters a lot in life!
@@allesdurchprobiert nah lol she was just in a black dress so I doubt it 😂 had me thinking for a second but no I would of caught that
More women need to see this video!
The more that a narcissistic princess wannabe needs to see this video, the less likely it is do any good. Pearls before swine.
The issuenis the algorithm. This creator's videos actually aren't for women. They mostly reach men in the red pill community. From my experience if you're nice when you ask a woman out, she's also going g to be nice whether she says yes or no. This video's not going to reach the women that don't do that.
@@d.k.s.5919I can tell you from my experience that brutal rejection is real. It’s not some glorified community thing. And let me tell you, that shit hurts
@@paytonallen1027 It definitely stings esp if you like her. Rejection is worse than a punch in the face. I was mostly talking about who is going to see this video, and it's definitely not going to be the "women" she's supposedly talking to.
@@d.k.s.5919 true. I guess we just hope people share these videos to women they know who act like this
The problem is, some creep will take the initial welcoming attitude and then the I have boyfriend attitude afterward as a "hard to get play".
Way to go girl! Being polite with a guy who is trying to talk to a girl will help society so much. Great video. 👍
Exactly. And thank you for keeping that in mind.
I stopped approaching a LOOOOONG time ago, and I will never approach again. I got tired of the way in which ladies reject. As disappointing as it is to be rejected, the real bothersome part about it is the way in which ladies reject. We know we'll get rejected. We understand that you're not obligated to like us. We just want respect during rejection. So again, thank you for reminding everyone about that.
Very true, well said.
Im in the same state of mind as you lol.
Aint worth the onslaught anymore!😅
Get out there dude before life is over. Me too!
What country are you in?
@@CenationTroopIt sounds like modern USA to me.
I’m
Confused. What type of women are u approaching if they are so rude to you when you approach? I don’t think I’ve ever had a single woman act rude after I approached them