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Hey Stirling ! Where did you buy your shirt ? :)
"Comfort is where masculinity goes to die" So true.
As a mother of 2 young alpha men and widow of an alpha husband I could not agree more! I want my girlfriends to be sensitive but I want my man to be masculine in every way.
Yet I bet you don't like Trump
@@rotekanale8124 they want Sean Connery not trump.
@@rotekanale8124 Its not about showing disrespect to women. It's about realizing that they are not as good as men, and hence having that understanding when interacting with them.
this is what I am realizing now.
@@rotekanale8124 I have no clue why trump was brought into a thread about masculine men.
Your kids will be simps.. 100%
1) Fight/Self-Defence
2) Lift
3) Pushing ones self
4) Outside with Shirt Off
5) Being unfiltered, say what you want (not offend someone)
6) Loud Centre of Attention
Load mouth punks usually get their mouths shut!!!💯
Agree with list besides outside with shirt off and loud center of attention. Being lowkey is great and being loud and brazen aren’t really parallel with “alpha”
@@Awkward_Inc3l Don't be silly. If it's good enough for Vladimir Putin, then it's good enough for the rest of us. O yes, and have a couple billion in your Swiss bank accounts... from looting your country. Never hurts your seductive powers, either. 😂
@@Awkward_Inc3l "outside with shirt off" is to get vitamin D. The point here was not to show off ha ha. But to be healthy, get some sun, be outside, all amazing for that. Women are attracted by healthy, energetic men.
1. No need to fight if you carry a gun. 4. Outside with shirt off good way to get skin cancer 6. Loud center of attention come off as an idiot. Not very goid advice coming from a guy that has lost his hair from taking too many steroids
This girl I'm seeing "had a talk" with me about my toxic masculinity, when I was legit just being myself - confident, assertive, disagreeable, and speaking my mind with no filter. She told me that it was off-putting and that her sister and her sister's friends could notice it. Funnily enough, when it's just the two of us, she can't keep her god damn hands off of me and gets wet when we're just cuddling.
Because her feminist relatives ... that's why ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@GbpsGbps-vn3jy It was actually one of her male feminist friends who gets absolutely no sexual attention from her haha
@@joelgaal6438 The question is if this makes her less waifu material for you, when it's clear she's easily influenced by other people's opinions
@@GbpsGbps-vn3jy I personally don't mind. We're both young and no one is perfect. What I do like about this girl is she's open, honest and willing to have conversations that may not be easy to get through. She reciprocates effort and I see that as incredibly admirable.
It’s not toxic if ur being those things, what is toxic is a guy like Biff from back to the future and other guys that are similar to that
"Comfort is where masculinity dies", words to live by.
I have made this mistake multiple times my girl is deeply in love with me multiple years passes then I become soft and they always get an instant replacement for me. It's like a click usually when in my mind I think "I really love her I will make her happy" then she leaves lolol
same here, i can tell it happened to me 3 times already and i’m only 20 yo
Patrice said it best they try to F ag you up and then leave you.
Yeah men become complacent. Hanging around with a woman 24/7/365 is the worst influence. My remedy is no cohabitation for each one to have their own space. That's not a cure but it does help. It sucks your manhood dry when forced to listen to their emotional bullshot and before long she won't wish to be around you at all. Leave or stick a sock in the pie hole spouting the unpleasant noise.
Then they hit their 30s and 40s then alphas are not attractive.
@@rotekanale8124 aaaaand that's you!
As a Latin man, I'm glad we don't have that issue with our women telling us to get in touch with our feminine side, bla, bla, bla and all that manipulative - brain washing BS. They know who they are and they expect men to be MEN in every way. Great video, thank you! 💪💪💪
Ya nos va a tocar...
Las mujeres latinas cada vez son mas feministas (por moda) asi que ya estan empezando a pedir eso.
Are you crazy? Look at Mexico (my country) or Argentina..
Beware, this western ideology is spreading worldwide.
Lucky you
To be honest.... masculine men are less likely to be toxic (according to my observation). Considering they are so confident they don't have to show their masculinity by doing stupid thing.
Yes. The males that women will describe as ‘creepy’ are usually the effeminate, nervous, insecure guys. Masculine dominant chads don’t get described like that.
Agreed
Depends if u r ugly 🤪
@@shiamr1424.. Depends also on the moment mood and its situations
This is true . From experience my first gf I was not masculine but very toxic. Now I stay masculine and stoic and find no reason to be toxic if I don’t like you you are outta here
"Comfort is where masculinity goes to die." That says it all.
I couldn't agree more...I'm not sure if it's because I've been in the oilfield for 10+years where it hasn't been PC'd or what but that's gotta be it because I have no filter and just speak my mind. Not saying I'm ignorant or anything but I simply speak louder and am more assertive in situations when I'm in normal society...I call it that because the oilfield is a different world and it's male dominant and everything that we rig up and down is heavy. When I'm in "normal society" I often get looks and omg moments from people when they look and talk to me because I feel everything is being censored/feminized...but in doing that I do notice that wherever I go or whatever I do I am noticed by females. I do work out and I am 6' 2 but so are a lot of guys....the difference is assertiveness/ tone/masculinity... everything that is being neutered in today's society
I've noticed this too. Social hierarchies are morphing into feminine forms. Female hierarchy is 'binary': you're either at the very top, in which case you're perfect and aren't accountable for anything (cult of positivity), or at the very bottom, meaning you might as well be a nazi and effectively exiled from society (cancel culture). It's increasingly just the extremes of relentless positivity and being pathologically neurotic.
Male-specific spaces have been eradicated, and women have constructed enough cultural assets for themselves that they hold authority over men in most social spaces. Unfortunately, that trend hasn't been reversed, so neither will the feminization.
Oilfield for 10 years, helped me too. Confidence and life experience.
@@stevegwizzle3560 Keep it up mate. Your life will only get better.
Not long ago I heard an older gay man say that his ‘gaydar’ does not work very well with younger men because of how effeminate even straight, younger guys are today. At first I thought that he was joking but after a moment I realized that he wasn’t.
Yeah, something went wrong during evolution ... damn it
@@GbpsGbps-vn3jy Something went wrong during the last 30 years
😂
Know your worth kings.
Men can not remake themselfs with out suffering. For he is the marble and the sculptor
By the way, that vitamin D deficiency is a huge problem for covid patients. Studies show vitamin D reduces the risk of hospitalization by 80%.
how much vitamin D should u take
@@hetapolski Do a blood test. I did 6000 UI/day and at it was okay but could be higher. And to absorb D properly you need Magnesium (not in oxid form!), and K2 also helpful. And yeah D-vitamin is hyper important! They even doing fake studies that "prove" D-vitamin is ineffective, yeah, look at the study what/how they did it..
Because they are in rooms
@@jungervin8765 are vitamin d supplements effective? if they are, which are the best brands?
Generally if you take 2000 or 3000 international units per day during the winter when sunlight is poor, you will keep yourself out of a deficiency. If you catch covid, you can take 10,000 international units per day for 2 weeks. There are no side effects. You can take up to 50,000 units per day before overdosing.
It took me many many years to learn what really turns a women ON and being a gentleman and treating them like a china doll that might easily break is far off the mark in many cases but every be women is it different in there sexual style .I found They love to be manfully and passionately handled My experience is women wanna know that there man can dominate them sexually and know what they want and being assertive and verbally direct and not being afraid to stand your ground with them and others because they like to test you ..that's the way it goes ....for they respect and are attracted to strength and aren't TURNED ON by a doormat . Women love a guy who knows his mind ..Great video he knows his stuff 👍
Thank you my man
Martial arts, weightlifting, exercise in the sun, uncensored/ loud interaction with buddies = dominance and masculinity!
That first suggestion I loved. Coming home w a black eye from sparring makes my girl crazy af. She doesn't care if I won or lost that day , she just knows I'm willing to do what it takes and she takes whatever I give her. Females want to feel safe w you but scared of what you can do. The fact she knows she can't do anything if I grab her , makes her wet af, as "insensitive " as that sounds.
That’s why the pool for dating for someone like Ronda rousey is so small. She can probably beat up the average dude and probably has a masculine aura/personality about herself which is a necessity for her profession but a major hindrance when it comes to dating. She has to find some guy in the fighting circle and even then why would those men want a her type of woman.
As a woman I can confirm that what you're saying is 100% true 💯
Learn to take risks when approaching women . You won’t know if you don’t try .Real women won’t chase . Spot on with the video !!!
That's bullshit
This!!👏🏾
It's not worth it there no " indicator of interest" from women
This is the first I've come across Stirling, I like him 🙃. Funny he mentions healthy testosterone levels & not being censored. Since I've started TRT I stopped censoring myself & naturally got louder too 😂
TRT is what?
@@galimir Testosterone replacement therapy
Stick around mate. There's much more to come.
This video is amazing, i rarely comment but all of this is so true. I've become less masculine through the last 2 years and my confidence is so low, now im trying to regain it and videos like this really help me out. Thank you
Do it! Regain your masculine side! If a girlfriend wants to feminize you tell her to get her own girlfriend or a cat.
You’ll get back g
Your brothers are with you all the way
Sup Denton. good to see your face around these parts.
You, Mr. Cooper were right about a thing in one of your previous videos - about handling acne on shoulders (or backne). You advised someone here to stop consuming milk. Even though I stopped using milk decades ago, I still enjoyed yoghurt. I followed your advice, stopped consuming it, and acne stopped appearing. Great success! (imagine Borat here)
Thanks.
High five ✋
Verrry niice
Works for me as well
You always make me giggle and my husband to always say-see I'm right! As my husband says he stepped in a 🪣 of feelings once, he wiped that shit right off. I don't need to worry about martial arts, he is an excellent shot and is a very BIG farmer
Comfort is where masculinity goes to die.....wow thats profound
Walking around with the shirt off increases testosterone by super saiyan levels
Only if you have a front to show off 😆
Especially if you go fully naked, expose the sausage too
You are doing the lord's work Stirling. Please keep up this amazing content
Thanks mate! More is definitely coming.
Hit the head right on the nail Sir Stirling! Boom happy Friday! 💯❤
Stirling is Australia's #1 treasure.
💯
That is an affront to so many Aussie heroes.
Mate the quality of your content is booming! Great tips, now with all this stay at home rules our Vitamin D level is going down the drain!
Cheers mate! You can always take supplements.
I am a woman and everything that you say is so correct!
And i would enjoy only an alpha male like you !
Thanks love
I think there is a blurred line made by popular media around this matter.
Getting “in touch with your emotions” doesn’t need to equal being more feminine. What we (counselors and therapists) are typically suggesting is a man’s ability to acknowledge his emotions and handle them appropriately.
I think what’s blurred is what a man should actually be doing about those emotions.
I'm becoming more dominant and obviously Stirling know what he's talking to. I got this girl obsessed with me and I almost wish I could reverse it.
Great job mate 💪🏼
I go too the bar with my workmates often. Every time I arrive i make a big scene and be loud intentionally so everyone can know I have arrived. DANNY BOY! HOWS IT GOING!!! With arms wide open and drawing attention to myself. But secretly I am an introvert at heart and hate attention lol.
What women say they want and then go for couldnt be more apart than the sun and the moon
This needed to be said 🔥🔥
Great Advice! I’ve been competitively boxing for 3 years and it has completely changed my life. Got these girls legs shaking , Money is Stacking, Family is good. Life is great for those who fight for it.
Find that circle of friends is very important
How do you find them?
Always
Im a skinny guy and I do amateur MMA. I'd say scrawny is different than skinny! I'm still physically fit looking.
If I could sum up most of my mistakes in my adult life regarding women was trying to follow their advice.
Even with the best intentions they can’t give men advice any more than men can tell them how to deal with menstrual cramps. Yes there are male gynecologists but that’s a very rare individual
Excellent video, very very important stuff!
Turns out toxic masculinity is not that toxic for most normal men and women..? Thanks Stirling...
I'm hit 🎯 40 tomorrow and my stamina is good run my 4 Miles every 3 days per week, weightlifting, in my job people notice how I work, run the place and pace I work the area even my supervisor ask me if I'm fine cause I never 🪑 unless I need to fill document or use the computer and o work third shift I walk around 8,000 steps every time run the area .
Best intro ever.
Women:" I want you to be more emotional ".
(Guy become emotional)
Women: We must broke up I feel something is wrong 😂😂
That's how it always is
Finally some actually good masculinity going on here
Cheers mate. Send me a dm on IG if you ever have any questions @CooperStirling
instagram.com/cooperstirling
Was heavy lifting around 8-9 years. The common problem is that not a small part of the guys have that kind of body that it's very hard to gain weight/increase muscle mass, so they need a very hard training program - better food (expensive), specific exercises and time because it must be done EACH day. 5-6 meals, training only in specific hours. Those guys also don't spare enough time and money for doing this transformation, others have some chronic disorders (heart problems, skeletal, hormonal, etc) which is somewhat dangerous for lifting.
So, good advice, but not 100% doable
@Jo Jo believes me I do.
Just for the title this vid deserves a like. 😂
i literally listened to them and changed way back from that party boy to the nice one... lord did i pay for it 🤣
Wow that's an intro!, nice job😂
Thanks mate!
Awesome tips man! Nothing gets a woman wet like coming home from sparring with a black eye..win or loose it feels good to fight, and it's Natural for us men. Thanks again Sterling Cooper
Cheers mate!
Finally someone said it
Nietzsche understood. They call him a misogynist without ever explaining how he was wrong.
Being in touch with your feelings is pretty important. Make sure you exercise but it doesn't matter how. Just do something. Playing bball is exercise fyi. Toxic masculinity exists, and if you deny it you might be toxic and need to do some reflection. Walking outside with your shirt off in a public area where its not socially acceptable, you will feel judged and create a barrier between other people. But maybe you just embrace the awkwardness go for it. Its unnecessary imo.
Life is hard enough to be good at and using women to lift your ego is self sabotaging. Find some people who really accept you to be vulnerable around them.
Don't start making weird jokes. It's hard to read a room. Get good at empathizing. That will help you be good at social situations.
I’ll take my 62 year old fit, BBJ/boxer, hairy-chested, very masculine guy over wimpy pretty boys any day!
I love the intro👍👍👍
Just realized I used to do all of these until my ex pushed it all out of me.
I'm just coming out of a divorce of 9 years and my Feminist Ex wife gradually ground down all of my masculine traits, fortunately I'm fighting to get them back. Don't get comfortable, put these women in their place.
Im a scrawny guitar player in a band. With some muscles. Form an orderly queue ladies 😄
Great stuff
I don't understand why you say its toxic masculanity? Taking care of your body and make it strong is not toxic. Having no filter is being honest and on the other hand helps to choose your friends based on who they realy are. Being loud in public is just bit rude and uncultural but it goes to men and women just the same. Its just part of good manners. That's how close to toxicity you've got. I think you guys make disservice to yourselves by not to sticking to definitions of terms you use.
Click bait
@Jo Jo exactly. That's how we can distinguish people and choose our friends based on what kind of behaviour we would accept from them
Boomer in the internet 🙄. Don't know what click bait and buzz words are.
When people say "toxic masculinity", they are really just referring to actual masculinity.
Men should be toxically masculine.
They shouldnt be actually toxic though.
Spot on mate. Toxic masculinity is just masculinity.
Always great content.
Thanks mate
Make toxic masculinity great again
Damn right Stirling¡ you da man
Cheers mate!
I just noticed that’s you’re favorite shirt.
Always stay in your frame and your woman will always be by your side
Stirling you are doing great work.
Cheers mate!
Not that i am proud of this But i figured Out that 9 days of NoFap in Cobination with Lifting Heavy stuff at the Gym 4 days a Week INSANELY raises Your T
iam 41 and feel like a 16 year old in Energy Levels on Day 7.
I can imagine you in a restaurant with a few beers under your belt Stirlo.
Tips for men who want to bed or date younger women?
Just talk to them like the masculine and assertive man you are. Simple but it works. Assuming you are healthy, fit and have your life together.
She'll also thank you when you apply the transitions you learn from BJJ to the bedroom. Word of caution though. IME some BJJ schools may work you hard when you first come in. They're testing you to see if you have the mental resolve to keep coming back. I was put into a key lock and had to physically tap. The instructor didn't take verbal submission.
People keep saying that we live in a highly feminized society… I think aspects of this are true, but the energy required to function in our society is largely masculine. When women are working they are in their masculine energy because they need to get shit done. There isn’t really much space or appreciation or celebration over feminine energy…it’s always been ridiculed or passed off as silly or flaky. I’m only now realizing that men like feminine women, so why aren’t men and women encouraging and speaking positively about feminine energy? Especially around little girls…don’t give little girls the message that they are weak or less value yo the world than men. Give them a voice and celebrate their feminine qualities/energy. Our society is more masculine than people would like to admit nowadays. More social sensitivity is certainly there which you could argue is feminizing everybody… But to say that society has become more comfortable with feminine energy isn’t altogether true in my opinion anyway… Not when you consider what feminine energy truly is.
Excellent points
The woman is the sensitive one who is in touch with her feelings. Hence it's why she can bond with the one that rocks that world. So women are basically saying what they are not what they want.
I literally have no hair on my chest and have small balls 😂. Mentally tho… I’m all in
Exactly, get vitamin D, feel and act sexy. Especially if you keep fit!
You can exercise from home as long you have the willpower
Definitely
and equipment.
"COMFORT IS WHERE MASCULINITY GOES TO DIE."
*this*
Finally someone saying the truth.
Cheers mate 🍻
another amazing video
Thanks mate
@@StirlingCooper of course!
Arigato sensei👨🎓
What is the best response if I'm told 'You are too loud'?
Just seen Jeffrey and Adonis characters used in Hamzas videos! Genius
I think they just like regular masculinity. Like, being manly but not emotionally stunted.
Right. A good balance.
Totally
100% agree
Manly? Yes, please. Toxic? Hells naw. They 100% can -- and should -- be mutually exclusive.
It's just to get you to understand what masculinity should look like.
What most people mean when they say "toxic masculinity" is just actualy masculinity.
But don't be actually toxic obviously.
@@paccawacca4069 I'll concede that's true for some VERY vocal people, but it's also problematic and reinforcing the incorrect language when calling the desirable form of masculinity (as detailed in this video) "toxic". I get that it's click-bait, but it's not helping with the stupidity that's being perpetuated.
I also worry that the men who don't know better -- and let me pre-empt by saying that's NOT the majority of men -- will conflate the two and will shut out any valid criticisms of what actually is "toxic". They'll incorrectly label non-toxic masculinity as toxic.
@@w00tastic nah man, when you use words like problematic that makes me think you err on the side of those people.
Would you consider dread game toxic? Because I wouldn't. I suspect we have different standards of toxic.
@@paccawacca4069 What Stirling described in this video isn't toxic. The clickbait title called it "toxic" despite it not being toxic. That is problematic because it perpetuates a damaging and inaccurate narrative of just what "toxic masculinity" is. Language matters. Words hold power. Connotation drives meaning.
Does it get angry and frustrated guys through the door to learn some valuable and much-needed knowledge? Yup. That's a desirable outcome. Does it help revise a negative, inaccurate narrative into something more accurate? Nope. That's an undesirable and avoidable side-effect. Does it instead help perpetuate that negative, inaccurate narrative? I think so, yeah, at least to some degree. I'd rather see no degree.
It just as easily could've been titled "Unabashed Masculinity" or "Unrepentant Masculinity". Those words come from a place of power. Using "toxic" even in a sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek "fuck you" way is still giving into a bullshit narrative that needs to be shut down.
@@paccawacca4069 That's the thing, masculinity shouldn't look like anything. Every man is different. There shouldn't be a wrong and a right way to be a man. If you want to lift weights and ran a million dollar business and do traditionally masculine things do you but you're not more masculine or superior to a guy who is a musician and writes poetry and is more emotional. That's what toxic masculinity is, a very narrow view of what a proper man is, and that's why it is problematic. We should encourage proper moral values for both genders ( honesty, loyalty etc) but other than that people should be allowed to live their own life as they see fit without someone dictating the "proper" way.
Thanks for the content
You're welcome mate!
For some reason, youtube will not let me like this video. 🤔
Stirling, top it off with reading some old greek philosophy books ( like meditations or the encheridion) instead of watching TV, play chess instead of video games and watch a naughty movie with her instead of netflix...
Facts. Straight facts. I’m all of these except the working out part. So my lazy ass is about to start working out right fuckin now. But honestly, bitches love me. And it is simply because of everything he described. Zero problems with the bitches.
How's your workouts so far?
@@StirlingCooper going well sir. I’m going to hit the gym today. I’m noticing results already. You are the man!!!
Sorry but if you refer to women as bitches many of them won't be attracted to you anymore
Gotta love the controversial titles 😂
Its martial art. ART not martial violence. Its the art of heat energy in the art of your body. The true battle is in the mind. The body is shaped by the will of the mind.
Sex is also a art. Forging a man is art in motion.
Some of us cannot go out in the ☀️ sun, because we have had skin cancer removal already! We have to lather up in spf 50-80, so why bother? After you bear stitches on your body, with scars, then you’ll give up taking your shirt off, avoiding pool side, etc. Sorry, not for some of us.
Our friends work out, play rugby, work hard ern good bank. No Woke To$$ers around in our group or around us ........ Just men being men, funnily enough women are always hanging around making themselves available/known, strange eh?
Great video Cooper!
I wanna add some fighting to my routine, I go to the gym a lot though, and always push myself to the max, so I usually have some kind of muscle aches, so don't really know where to fit that in atm. Could wait till my body is less responsive to my gym routine.
Toxic masculinity is a feminists phrase. Lads ..be lads. Keep it real
Hmmm. Awesome content, mate.
Thanks mate!
Another great video! I really like that shirt and that fit. What brand/fit is that?
Appreciate it brother.
Solid fucking advice!
Very good video, sharing
I keep getting told i am a misogynist when I am showing my toxic masculinity, I guess I do have misogynistic tendencies. Should i work on that or will it help me in the long run
They only lecture you when surrounded by feminist friends and family, but they themselves would always love you to be toxically masculine, societal programming and pressures effect emotional people more so don't listen to them 100% of the time.
What is your opinion on the black pill movement? According to this theory you can be fit and muscled, having a nice car, ... (anything hyper masculin) if you are not 1m90 with a brad Pitt face (the 1%) you won't get any ladies or just a couple of gold diggers. So what the point of all that?
Stay away from black pill. The mindset does you more harm than good
The more masculine you are, the more conservative and disagree with Woke stuff you become.