If I have to walk away which I always have to I’m not coming back. I cut people off and move on. Healed people see your value n don’t play these games. What you’re saying is correct. I’m not playing that game. If someone doesn’t want to love or value me. Don’t. I’m gone.
You are being delusional. He will make the same mistake again. People don't change that easily. As soon as he sees another one who thinks is better than you, he will leave again. Rinse. Repeat.
@hiddenname9809 well he did say this only works on people who do like you. And to early.on identify the ones who don't care about you because u have to walk away for real foreal
You know, I completely agree with you and it definitely worked before! BUT you don't take into consideration one aspect if it comes to dating - people are easily replaceable these days with all these dating apps. I'm a white single Russian woman, I'm good-looking and have morals and standards, I'm loyal and kind, I don't have kids and I live a happy life and I'm willing to walk away but I've been on dating apps for almost a year and men ghost you if you don't do what they want. And I don't sleep around with guys, but it's just impossible to find someone decent just because as soon as you set your boundaries guys will replace you with another girl. The exact same thing happens to all of my single friends. I've been studying men's psychology for a while but I just give up because it's impossible to fight this enemy, which is "having a lot of options and being easily replaceable". Maybe you can make a video about this in the future. Thanks a lot for your content!
Are you a Russian living in Russia or other Eastern European countries, where Russian women are valued? Or are you a Russian emigrant and you emigrated to the west where people are racists towards Slavs and Slavic Eastern European? Westerners don’t think you are “white”. They are racist and for them Eastern Europeans are a different race. Unfortunately Russian women are viewed terribly abroad, as cheap prostitute without morals or as evil women. And that’s an handicap. Russian men are also a lot more simple and masculine with more values then western men. I know what I am talking about cause I come from a very mixed family Anyway if you have morals why are you on dating apps? Men go on dating apps for booty calls and hookups and they all think a woman on a dating app is there to hookup not to marry or have morals
@@FoundSheep-AN I've lived in the US for most of my life. The fact that I'm Russian doesn't affect me at all:)))) You're funny:))) I would say the opposite, I attract a lot of interesting men only because I'm Russian. I'm exotic:)
😮@tinalyle5086 if you do attract alot of men cos of your looks then you have options too..do you meet other men in natural circumstances other than dating apps? People are getting tired of dating apps and being "replaced" and I feel this trend hopefully will die soon and lots of singles opt to start meeting f2f in real life. I prefer meeting naturally in person as dating apps take the magic away
First of all don’t look for men on dating apps go find them in the real world. Most of these men are just looking for hookups or superficiality. Second, you should change your mentality from victim to victor. You are the prize not them, they are the options not you. If they don’t accept your boundaries who needs to deal with such men anyway you better keep enjoying your happy life til you meet someone worth it. Best wishes from another woman
Walking away carries no weight unless you stick with it. If you take the person back (even if they reach out first) or you come back, you are still disrespecting yourself. That's why walking away is not for "stoking the fire" of a relationship. It's for cutting them off permanently because you respect yourself first and foremost. Who cares how it makes the other person feel because they can no longer be part of your life, so it's of no consequence to you.
I am waiting to see if this works for my ex, but either way, best lesson I learned from my ex dumping me and all the relationship coach videos and advice I have watched, its to walk away ASAP if they say they don’t want a relationship with you. You need to leave ASAP. There is no downside. They already broke up with you! This is the hardest part for dumpees to understand I think, especially when ex is a breadcrumber but once you decide to take your power back and go radio silent no contact its the best move for your own health and if there is any possibility your ex will want you again
I really love your analogies and metaphors! the cake is brilliant, and also the part on death is so beautiful - it's those moments when time stops and we have to ponder and look inwards and take decisions that can literally shape the rest of our lives - that is where we are deeply attuned, on crossroads, on the verge of losing people... If there is love there - it will reveal itself and flow through our hearts - And I feel that this ability comes with age, especially in men who can be more arrogant when young - when age hits us, mostly in our 40's and up, we humble, we do not throw away people and opportunities for imagined greener pastor, as at this age wisdom come and we know true love and connections that are caring and deep are rare, those who care and stay ARE RARE. PLEASE hold on to the presents god sends you in the shape of people who love you, it is rare, you will all see. become humble and thankful. writing these words as a woman in her forties who went through a lot of grief and abandonment in her life.
That's weird. If someone thought I was the one for them, that's like the biggest compliment for me. I don't know why anyone would be turned off by that honestly. It takes a lot for people to think that way about someone, especially with the abundance of sex and other options out there. Everything else though, I pretty much agree.
That's deeply effed up...I mean if I got to the point where I am willing to walk away, well I just WILL, it's too late I aint U turning after that U lost me😢
This is exactly the part I don't understand too. So they fall in love when we walk away - but then we have walked away, so how does that help anything? Now we just both in love without each other.
okay so obviously we all respect someone thats willing to walk away, men or woman vice versa, it shows us whats at risk and like they say 'never know you loved her till you let her go' yeah thats all cool, personally when my ex used to talk about breaking up she did it in every argument that it got to the point that i didnt believe her or respect her ,in my head i was like yeah yeah bi*** you aint going nowhere. and same when i said it i dint mean it or i thought i did. people need to know when to let go, stop forcing love , if shes amazing she wont be easy but at the same time what if she shows traits that you hate, she could be a good woman, good morals ,loyal , etc but does that mean i dismiss her traits that i can not deal with in my partner. i think not. toxicity is a real thing and i choose to not deal with it , but i stumbled on this video because , my woman always walks away , not like breaks up with me but like will randomly abruptly turn around and say im going,i dont chase her anymore as i refuse to be a simp dealing with her ish, instead of talking like adults and realising that a lil heated conversation isnt that deep she runs away , shes done it from the start.example ,years ago we were out somewhere far from both our homes and we were bickering about whatever and she says im going , she walks in to the train station and dissapears, i get a cab back , and other times too similar, so my question is , what do you lot think of someone that is quick to walk away in that way, am i wrong for thinking that shes a runner a trackstar, or do i think too hard, even when im in the right and i have the right to be annoyed or angry she still walks away instead of saying the right things to solve the situation , help me guys
Then he won’t miss you and he feels relieved and let you go be someone else pain while he learns from that and go be with someone who is fully healed cause he knows what it’s like to be with one who’s not. Nobody wants someone who’s being a pain and burden, they get tired and it’s draining. Instead work on yourself .. why are you giving someone pain. You’re not ready to be in relationship yet and will continue to bleed on others. Heal your own pain and work on yourself
no man it doesnt work that way, a man who is not in love with you will not be, even if you walk away, he might feel bad for you but he is not coming back!!!! Infact if you walk away, he might think you are not interested, and move on!!!!
Walking away isnt working if he is a womanizer with long list of side chicks n ex girlfriends😅just move on never come back he's just using u maybe for sex, money etc.
“Don’t be so sweet , you’re going to give them cavities” 💕💯💕
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I will never forget this 🌟
Exactly 💯 gal
If I have to walk away which I always have to I’m not coming back. I cut people off and move on. Healed people see your value n don’t play these games. What you’re saying is correct. I’m not playing that game. If someone doesn’t want to love or value me. Don’t. I’m gone.
"Healed people see your value and don't play games." 💯
Yes walk away never look back
Yes! We fall for people because of their character and when they play games or seem disrespectful, they have officially compromised that character.
Same!
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Yes and if he loves you he will apologize and never make the same mistake again because he will fear loosing you forever
Losing.
You are being delusional. He will make the same mistake again. People don't change that easily. As soon as he sees another one who thinks is better than you, he will leave again. Rinse. Repeat.
@hiddenname9809 well he did say this only works on people who do like you. And to early.on identify the ones who don't care about you because u have to walk away for real foreal
You know, I completely agree with you and it definitely worked before! BUT you don't take into consideration one aspect if it comes to dating - people are easily replaceable these days with all these dating apps. I'm a white single Russian woman, I'm good-looking and have morals and standards, I'm loyal and kind, I don't have kids and I live a happy life and I'm willing to walk away but I've been on dating apps for almost a year and men ghost you if you don't do what they want. And I don't sleep around with guys, but it's just impossible to find someone decent just because as soon as you set your boundaries guys will replace you with another girl. The exact same thing happens to all of my single friends. I've been studying men's psychology for a while but I just give up because it's impossible to fight this enemy, which is "having a lot of options and being easily replaceable". Maybe you can make a video about this in the future. Thanks a lot for your content!
Are you a Russian living in Russia or other Eastern European countries, where Russian women are valued?
Or are you a Russian emigrant and you emigrated to the west where people are racists towards Slavs and Slavic Eastern European? Westerners don’t think you are “white”. They are racist and for them Eastern Europeans are a different race.
Unfortunately Russian women are viewed terribly abroad, as cheap prostitute without morals or as evil women.
And that’s an handicap.
Russian men are also a lot more simple and masculine with more values then western men.
I know what I am talking about cause I come from a very mixed family
Anyway if you have morals why are you on dating apps? Men go on dating apps for booty calls and hookups and they all think a woman on a dating app is there to hookup not to marry or have morals
Are you a Russian in Russia or abroad? That’s the core reason of your issues
@@FoundSheep-AN I've lived in the US for most of my life. The fact that I'm Russian doesn't affect me at all:)))) You're funny:))) I would say the opposite, I attract a lot of interesting men only because I'm Russian. I'm exotic:)
😮@tinalyle5086 if you do attract alot of men cos of your looks then you have options too..do you meet other men in natural circumstances other than dating apps? People are getting tired of dating apps and being "replaced" and I feel this trend hopefully will die soon and lots of singles opt to start meeting f2f in real life. I prefer meeting naturally in person as dating apps take the magic away
First of all don’t look for men on dating apps go find them in the real world. Most of these men are just looking for hookups or superficiality. Second, you should change your mentality from victim to victor. You are the prize not them, they are the options not you. If they don’t accept your boundaries who needs to deal with such men anyway you better keep enjoying your happy life til you meet someone worth it. Best wishes from another woman
Walking away carries no weight unless you stick with it.
If you take the person back (even if they reach out first) or you come back, you are still disrespecting yourself.
That's why walking away is not for "stoking the fire" of a relationship.
It's for cutting them off permanently because you respect yourself first and foremost.
Who cares how it makes the other person feel because they can no longer be part of your life, so it's of no consequence to you.
I am waiting to see if this works for my ex, but either way, best lesson I learned from my ex dumping me and all the relationship coach videos and advice I have watched, its to walk away ASAP if they say they don’t want a relationship with you. You need to leave ASAP. There is no downside. They already broke up with you! This is the hardest part for dumpees to understand I think, especially when ex is a breadcrumber but once you decide to take your power back and go radio silent no contact its the best move for your own health and if there is any possibility your ex will want you again
😂😂😂😂😂 he said moonwalk your a$$ back
Your quotes are unforgettable. Im grateful!
I love you so much thank you for your work to help women improve their dating life
If someone will only like you if you play games... youre with the wrong person! Walk tf away. These people are toxic, hurt and have traumas.
I really love your analogies and metaphors! the cake is brilliant, and also the part on death is so beautiful - it's those moments when time stops and we have to ponder and look inwards and take decisions that can literally shape the rest of our lives - that is where we are deeply attuned, on crossroads, on the verge of losing people... If there is love there - it will reveal itself and flow through our hearts -
And I feel that this ability comes with age, especially in men who can be more arrogant when young - when age hits us, mostly in our 40's and up, we humble, we do not throw away people and opportunities for imagined greener pastor,
as at this age wisdom come and we know true love and connections that are caring and deep are rare, those who care and stay ARE RARE.
PLEASE hold on to the presents god sends you in the shape of people who love you, it is rare, you will all see.
become humble and thankful.
writing these words as a woman in her forties who went through a lot of grief and abandonment in her life.
The metaphor about cake is just brilliant ❤️
😅 this is so true! It took me years to figure out that my motherly love was not the answer! ❤
I've been listening to you for a GOOD min now, you always get better with time ❤❤ Keep the good vids coming !
You got mentioned on Jonathan Aslay this week...
That's weird. If someone thought I was the one for them, that's like the biggest compliment for me. I don't know why anyone would be turned off by that honestly. It takes a lot for people to think that way about someone, especially with the abundance of sex and other options out there. Everything else though, I pretty much agree.
Right... seems like games to have to do these things. This is a new society mental issue. I don't recall grandparents talking about these dumb games.
this is the first video you've done for a while now. i even checked at the weekend too!!
The metaphore of fire and gunshot is great. Great communicator. You explain the process of feelings and emotions like a surgeon.
The cake analogy ! ❤ haha amazing
You are so on target with everything. Love your advice ❤️
That's deeply effed up...I mean if I got to the point where I am willing to walk away, well I just WILL, it's too late I aint U turning after that U lost me😢
This is exactly the part I don't understand too. So they fall in love when we walk away - but then we have walked away, so how does that help anything? Now we just both in love without each other.
Another super practical and informative video. Appreciate all that you do bro Alex! 😊
Don't mess with that f*cking cake when it's in the oven, guys!
Good example with the cake Alex!
The absolute truth! 💯
Way Too Much Mental Gymnastics, This Is Why Decentering Men Is So Important.... What's Meant For Me Will Bring Clarity Not Confusion
Absolutely!
Well I left everyone and I don’t miss any of them family and all
Intelligent content
¨ Sometimes the hidden ingredient is you walk your ass back¨ LEGEND!
Omg I love you bro! I finally get it. I was so naive
Too bad it's cut at 5:40...
Thank you father Alex🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
love this!
how long do we need to start acting cold for ?- weeks or months? its difficult wen you work together..
okay so obviously we all respect someone thats willing to walk away, men or woman vice versa, it shows us whats at risk and like they say 'never know you loved her till you let her go' yeah thats all cool, personally when my ex used to talk about breaking up she did it in every argument that it got to the point that i didnt believe her or respect her ,in my head i was like yeah yeah bi*** you aint going nowhere. and same when i said it i dint mean it or i thought i did. people need to know when to let go, stop forcing love , if shes amazing she wont be easy but at the same time what if she shows traits that you hate, she could be a good woman, good morals ,loyal , etc but does that mean i dismiss her traits that i can not deal with in my partner. i think not. toxicity is a real thing and i choose to not deal with it , but i stumbled on this video because , my woman always walks away , not like breaks up with me but like will randomly abruptly turn around and say im going,i dont chase her anymore as i refuse to be a simp dealing with her ish, instead of talking like adults and realising that a lil heated conversation isnt that deep she runs away , shes done it from the start.example ,years ago we were out somewhere far from both our homes and we were bickering about whatever and she says im going , she walks in to the train station and dissapears, i get a cab back , and other times too similar, so my question is , what do you lot think of someone that is quick to walk away in that way, am i wrong for thinking that shes a runner a trackstar, or do i think too hard, even when im in the right and i have the right to be annoyed or angry she still walks away instead of saying the right things to solve the situation , help me guys
What a kitchen!!!!!!me like
With all this kind of games I become really cold
What if the guy feds up and leave you because he can’t tolerate more pain given by you?
Then he won’t miss you and he feels relieved and let you go be someone else pain while he learns from that and go be with someone who is fully healed cause he knows what it’s like to be with one who’s not. Nobody wants someone who’s being a pain and burden, they get tired and it’s draining. Instead work on yourself .. why are you giving someone pain. You’re not ready to be in relationship yet and will continue to bleed on others. Heal your own pain and work on yourself
@@NKbutnot why ? Since im playing hot and cold so why would ge go away with someone else?
Not fk up the Betty Crocker 😂
Does this count when stop contacting after few desperate tries 💔😞 ?
Hey, can you do a video on how to be crazy attractive to the opposite sex. Thanks
Become the best version of yourself and it will exude confidence, which will naturally give off an attractiveness.
How old are you father alex?
I think 34
He’s said it before, like 40. Looks young.
no man it doesnt work that way, a man who is not in love with you will not be, even if you walk away, he might feel bad for you but he is not coming back!!!! Infact if you walk away, he might think you are not interested, and move on!!!!
Cmon bro don’t tell the secrets
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What happened to you man channel?
This is stupid. They don't even know what love is. You don't play games with people you love.
No we don't keep walking 😂
Lol why this dude lying to these women? 💀 if a woman is willing to walk away she's too masculine for me
We are victims of our hormones..
Walking away isnt working if he is a womanizer with long list of side chicks n ex girlfriends😅just move on never come back he's just using u maybe for sex, money etc.
So fucking true
Way Too Much Mental Gymnastics, This Is Why Decentering Men Is So Important.... What's Meant For Me Will Bring Clarity Not Confusion