Retired in the Philippines/Why I Choose to Live a "Boring" Life/Old Dog New Tricks
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- Retired in the Philippines/Why I Choose to Live a "Boring" Life/Old Dog New Tricks@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Finding the Extraordinary in the Ordinary
As an Christian elder and minister of the gospel of Jesus Christ, I can undoubtedly say that this was one of the best messages that I have ever heard on TH-cam!
There is nothing to add.... just a word of encouragement to keep sharing forgiveness, love and an opportunity to receive and enjoy the free gift!
God bless you Paul and Jay!
what a DUMB response......... nobody cares whether or not you"re a so-called Christian minister.......you're actively supporting sex - tourism ............
Yes, Christ is my all. I've ended my search!
This is awesome
I'm not a Catholic but I woke up and told my fiancee that we needed to attend Easter Mass which she did not expect to hear from the Christian American. She was so proud to go with/take me to Mass that day. Good people are good people which may sound corny but if it's in your heart it will come out.
Paul, I'm an Expat living in Chile married to a CHILEAN Lady, and I still talk to fast and won't things done now , 23 years I'm a slow learner. Relax and enjoy I remind myself.
I wish I could be bored instead of stressed all the time
Get out and do more exercise and eat well!
Nonsense. Boring is stressful as your wanting to chase bikinis but don’t have enough self esteem to try so you end up watching TH-cam and keep doing all the things that doesn’t really make you happy instead of doing the things you do so you become bored and stressed. Not a good combination so grab your speedo and show the ladies your pot bellied hula dance.
Hi Paul, is there a way I can pm you regarding some questions I'd like to ask you with regard to moving in the Phils. It's mostly going to be my husband's questions about it...
It's called Stoicism Uncle Pauly! Finding the joy in the mundane, the beauty in the ordinary. What others consider boring is in fact a wonderful life. I didn't realise just how fulfilled my grandfather was until I came to understand that idea. He would happily sit for hours just listening and watching. When he spoke, however, you knew he had considered it deeply.
Keep being boring.
And the words are simple, but magic (besides the alzheimers) 😂 but knowledgeable and truth.
i second Stoicism!
A boring day is a good day. When times get rough, those boring days is what we will long for.
@@rl8571 Absolutely RL, it is I suspect, why so many of us chaps who have been completely reamed by the system in the West crave the "normality" of the East. Those boring days of counting navel hairs and pondering are a joyous luxury :)
stupid response........
I've already developed some of that, which is strange while still being in the US. I used to work 50 to 70 hours a week, made a ton of money, and was miserable. About 4 years ago, I started turning down all overtime after remembering a good friend of mine who years ago told me "No one on their death bed ever said Damn it, I wish I spent more time at work!" Thing is, after all that my ex took all that money I made. Poof. Now I am an average 60 year old man getting ready to retire in a year and a half. Invisible here in the States. No other goals other than retire in Bacolod makes one strange here. That's okay, because I get to watch everyone get miserable on the gerbil wheel trying to get "ahead" while sitting contentedly in the park or wherever.
what a STUPID response.........OMG
Sounds familiar, good to get out before it's too late. A lot of my past co-workers developed medical problems, were miserable and some past away maybe due to stress. One of my best friends worked a lot all the way up to retirement, he retired, then when I visited him at home he was talking about just coming back from the office. I told him that he did not go to the office and that he retired a while ago. Eventually, turned out that he entered into a dementia stage. It was happening as he thought he was still working. I helped out getting him help. He went from hospital to assisted living to nursing home to death. His home was paid off, had a large amount of money in the bank and it's all gone by the vultures.
That was a lovely reflection Paul and I'm so happy to hear about Pastor Jay ( barber ) who is so very learned in his Theology! You are so very fortunate to experience such great spiritual insights in your retirement years in the Philippines. You Paul are slowly maturing to be the new ' St Paul the Preacher' in the Philippines. You never know when the Lord is going to call you to fulfill His mission! God Bless!
if that is boring life, sign me up
Amen
Enjoying boredom is the discovery of true happiness. Not many people know the route to happinees. It is an art that transcends science of it. Keep it up!
@@kumchongloh4791 True ! 👍
Great video. Another great video by Paul.
You probably don’t realise it but you’re actually an extremely rich man. You wake up every morning at peace with yourself, breathe easy and smile.
In all Western countries we’re programmed to consume; to want more and more “things” to make us complete. You’ve now managed to see through that falsehood! 😁👍🏻
Exactly the American and Australian dream buy a big house then be a slave for 25 years to the bank and the boss
@@suphatrachaiyasit7531
And in Britain 🇬🇧
WOW ! I have been a Christian for many years and never knew that the Apostle Paul was a lawyer. Thank You!
I am right there with you I am only 53 and had it and all lost it to the ex. and realized that there is more to life than money and stuff .moved from the city back to my home town and live a good quiet life and surround myself with good people with no egos and great values . love the channel and all your words of wisdom hope to be in the Philippines some day .
39 year old american expat 5 years in south america here and you have a really delightful message that resonates with my experience and gave me helpful words and ways to describe it. wishing you peace and love.
That was Awesome . Thank you for shareing . 👍
Hi Paul . Another EXCELLENT video. I amongst many other viewers WISH I could live your BORING life. GOD BLESS you and BABY MAE CIAO
Thanks for your great videos. I'm Canadian & moving to the Philippines in October. I'm 62; retired - widowed for 6 years. Ready to start a new chapter. Thanks for your insight. 👍
Excellent video Paul. Many years ago in Canada, I climbed that crazy "ladder to success" and became very "successful". It also brought great anxiety, failure and grief. After beating my head against that impenetrable wall, I finally leaped straight out of the box and moved here to stay with my Filipina wife. We live a very simple life in the provinces on a tiny pension but we manage. Life is very slow and boring and I love it!
Discovering the extraordinary in the ordinary......how you observe the world around you will keep you curious indefinitely.
You know Paul, I keep coming back to this video. Every time I get more out of it. Thanks for everything
A great video and thanks for sharing !
Hello pretty how are you doing m, hope you are doing well with your family?
What a wonderful, inspirational story! Thank you so much for sharing with us.
Thanks Paul, sometimes we Christians, need to be reminded of this. We all fall short of the grace of God. He continues to pick us up, brush off the dust and forgives us as long as we believe. I never belived that until later in life. I didn't figure it out until I was into my 50's. So this guy was 23 years old - probably a lot younger. I wished I would have got it back then, it would have saved me and those who knew me, a lot of grief. Ok I will get off the pulpit - I am debating on retiring to the Philippines or Panama. I will be 65 next month. Healthy but struggling with the decision.
Speaking words of wisdom Paul. The song says “mother Mary comes to me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be, let it be”. But today Brother Paul came to me speaking words of wisdom! Here’s the secret, when we let go and let God handle the details, everything we need shows up. Be in Gratitude even before God provides it. Blessings to you Paul.
Great video, thanks for sharing.
Awesome! God is good to all!
Another outstanding feature Paul.
Your right Paul. Money can't give us real happiness in this world. Only the presence of God in our hearts.
Watching you helped me make the decision I’ve been trying to make for 11 years and really retire. September will be two years since I turned off the television. Now I need to turn off the desire to get up and go do something for somebody else and start doing something for me and with my wife.
I’ll keep watching and I might just pass through your area in October and say hello. I last five weeks in the Philippines was the most relaxing time I’ve had and I’m looking forward to that again. Jesus is not for the perfect people he came to allow those of us who are not perfect to keep trying and doing the best we can. You have found happiness I am working on that myself! One of your crazy people! Thank you for being you!
So true. I have never found anyone saying that they found joy in their overtime but definitely heard many say they found joy in the Lord.
Paul for a few weeks I have watched your video's, you have a gift of reaching threw that screen and talking directly to me. Thank you !! God Bless ............................Friend !!
I bought into the “success” program for 55 years and I WAS successful. The minute I decided to retire though I put that behind me. It was a career and a life I was mostly proud of but now that is over and it is the time to do something else like have my own version of a successful retirement. i go to the movies. Read books. Swim in the pool. Visit a museum. I get a massage. Travel locally a little. Mostly I am in the condo with my wife. Once a week I go out and meet English speaking friends. I never had an identity problem with retirement. I am a retiree. Getting rid of all my possessions to move to Thailand . . . I call that a success!
Same here.
dumb message.........
Thanks for sharing Paul
The Holy Spirit connects, and communicates through us, and is Amazing! "Offer it ALL (pains & joys of our day) up to God!" Thanks for sharing your... our Faith in Jesus Christ! Amen brother Paul
Paul, very inspirational video, I really enjoy your sharing your thoughts. I walked away from this video feeling uplifted and happy.
Thankyou for the great video.concerning your stress free new live. Thankyou Paul
God bless you. I have the same Christian experience as you and your young barber friend Jay. "Have no fear of tomorrow. Sufficient today is the evil therof". The Word of God. Thanks be to God 🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing Paul. Great chat!
You are getting younger.
Boring is good. That has helped me save money. No get rich schemes, going on cruises, gambling, lottery tickers or buying a lot of things I don't really need. My idea of going out to eat is cooking a hot dog over a fire. Follow the herd and you will be just like the herd. I married a Filipina, brought her to Arizona and am very happy. Very hard working, with a pleasant disposition. Sent her to a cooking school before she came over and she loves it. I can't wait to send her to an advanced cooking class in the Philippines and drop another $2000 as she loves that stuff. I saved her from a slow, painful life and she is happy every day. Love your channel.
Great Video! You know how to keep viewers engaged 🙂
Thanks Paul I enjoy watching your videos.
when i started to make decent money towards the end of my career, i just lived the same except paid off all debts and saved money. retired at 61. now 65 (nearly 66)... focus on losing weight and getting in good shape. biking 1 to 2 hours a day. living in canada. nice house but in no way rich. unfortunately my wife is ill and i really cannot travel. i enjoy your mental attitude. success is what each individual thinks it is. my concept of success is being kind.
This is the best video I have seen from you. Lots to reflect upon.
Profound.... WOW
Being an average guy is not so bad Paul... I liked your story. So keep living the good life in the Philippines !
That was one of the BEST video I heard from you Sir Paul 👍👍👍
Wow, Paul! That was an inspiring video. I remember one of your videos where you mentioned the age when folks were most happy and it was 10 years old. At 10, you had some independence, some responsibilities, but your aim for the day was just to get together with friends and enjoy life. You said that was what your life felt like now... and for us still in America, in the rat race... all we want is your life, my friend. Thanks for sharing your adventures, it is much appreciated. Take care and God bless!
I like your point, we start that way and finish that way .. lol
Most of my back home in the USA friends are like their cars. They have logged 120,000 miles but have not really gone anywhere.
Tell them to fly as you can’t get to the Philippines by car anyway.
Wonderful! The whole difference is you are in love with a real woman! That’s what most people want but can’t buy!!🤩
I just want to say you're videos is like a breath of fresh air inspiring heartwarming and also informative oh yes and I find you to be very funny 🤣
Great video I loved the content
Excellent Paul
Words of wisdom and experience.
Thank you for this video Paul. Very nice!
Excellent video and story Paul......keep 'em coming!
Glad you enjoyed it
What a beautiful story. I needed to hear it today. Thank you, Paul. A life lived in peace and contentment is truly success. The Lord desires us to enjoy our relationship with Him. We cast our worries upon Him. Trusting Him. It's a life of joy apart from the world's measure. God bless you, Paul.
Enjoyed this video very much. Thank you Paul.
Outstanding video. Loved especially the last story.
The only person that would ask you about your 'boring' life just doesn't get it. You are living life on your own terms. As a bonus you have been blessed to find that jem Baby Mae. Bravo my friend on your journey, and taking your sweet time getting there.
Hi Paul. As a retiree here in America for 3 years now, two things you said in earlier vlogs resonated with me: (1.) "I'm comfortable being alone." (2.) "I like not having to "show up."" Even with those two wonderful attributes, transitioning from the hurried lifestyle in the States to the slower lifestyle in the Phils. has to be pretty damn difficult. Even in retirement here in the states, I have to constantly remind myself I'm not "on the clock."
Great points on age and success. Thanks!
Well, I had to watch this twice.......Love this , thank you for opening up and sharing.
Great video and great message from Jay.
Paul that was an excellent story..... That's all I can say.....WOW !
Just enjoy the life that's given to us, for there's riches in the common things around us than all the gold of the world. Blessing and peace be with you Paul and of course baby Mae.
Great video. Makes so much sense! 👍👍 ✌
You are a very wise man, Sir.
Boring can be happiness. I can't wait - working on it now. Nice video Paul!
Paul, we are on the same page ,I just turned 69 and happy with my life
Good video!
The amazing insight of this young man and the wisdom this young man has is priceless.
Paul, u are a great story teller........ Keep it up
I've lived the life society labels successful. I was anything but happy and successful. I discovered the programming too. Now, I define my happiness and success.
One of your best videos yet ✨
I really enjoyed this video and I always like when you mention that your a Christian. I try to read the Bible at night before I go to bed and when I read God’s word it really comes alive for me. Thanks for the beautiful message….
Sooo good to finally hear from someone who's not afraid to mention God or Christ. I knew there was a greater source behind your wisdom than just yourself.
I know this is a little older video Paul but what you basically mention in this video is the art of not giving a F about what others think. I stopped caring what other think of me about 10 years ago, if they don't pay my bills or live my life then I don't an F what people think or say about me. It's made my life so much more enjoyable. I'm 53 and my 5 year plan is to move there and live out a happy and relaxing retirement.
I just joined this channel. I appreciate your understanding and knowledge. I just met a Filipina girl. I’m going slow. learning and watching your videos. I hope to meet you some day . First time to visit Philippines. Hopefully November or February. thanks again
Thank you Paul, you are a good pastor to us ordinary people. You are doing great. Thank you for this moving story. I also tell people I do nothing when they ask me what I do here (in Spain btw).
Excellent video message!!
Thank You for just being you!
Greetings All & Good Health !
In the words of George Bernard Shaw . . . a-hum . . .
'' Yesterday is the Past ,
Tomorrow is the Future ,
TODAY is a Gift . . . .
* That is WHY It i s Called . . . ' ' The PRESENT ' ' !
THIS IS GOOD ! ! - Enjoy Paul !
You may say you have a boring life but I’m seeing the opposite based on your blogs and your humor. I’m 65 and envious of your stature.
very good vid Paul
Amen to the whole video Pual!! Since I've been here, I have slowed down and enjoy all the simple things with my girl. Been past your house a few times, at least I think it is yours. Anyway, thanks for all the videos past and present!! Maybe we will see you around sometime. God bless brother!!
Great post Paul!
Paul I've been watching your vlog for about a year and I knew you were special ! Your testimony about the young barber, Jay, was very moving! You may not realize how much you are impacting the people who watch your videos. I was born again in 2014 at the age of 66. All my life I thought I was a Christian because I went to church and thought I was a good person. I found out later thankfully that my only way to be saved was by confessing my sin to God, repenting, and claiming Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. It was because my second wife, a Filipina, steered me in the right direction. I know it wasn't just by chance that I met her because God had it planned for me that way. Because of my being born again I'm at peace. Paul, keep doing what you're doing. God bless you brother! Best wishes always. Don Haren, Clearwater,Florida
AMEN 🙏 BROTHER
Glory to God
Great reflection
Great Vlog. Maybe someday I will get to shake your hand. I appreciate you. Thank you
Paul I could listen to you every day! Your format of welcome your sincerity and rather Buddha like wisdom ( I know you are laughing here!)about the simple life .
I think your strength is as a story teller (although interviews are good some are too rambling depending on the interviewee)and are blessed with a captivating Avuncular voice.
I look forward to your blogs!
From a quality of life perspective, you are one of the most successful people I know Paul
More blessings Paul!
Wow what a wonderful video so happy I happened to find your blog and I will continue to follow your blogs you and I so similar in our thinking I live in the Philippines and happy I'm 73 hope someday we can meet and I'm really happy for John and that you helped him get back to the states and looking forward to hear how his life goes
I'm Chad Chivrell from California usa happy to know you and hope we can meet someday
Very good,,,,
Brilliant simple message. You have a gift, my friend. Thank you, Paul, and all the best!
Me a coffee and simple....... perfect 😎👍
Dude, very cool. I get it. I'm a 52 year-old visiting professor at Incheon National University here in Korea and a novelist. I discovered, perhaps like you, that once you molt the bs social rhetoric of life, you discover a contentment in it's thin folds. And boy howdy, the feeling is absolutely wonderful. Good for you. I believe that your channel helps a lotta cats get their heads straight. Hope you keep on keeping on. Cheers dude!
I have to hand it to you. As the rest of the TH-cam channels are jumping on the "the sky is falling" content, you give insightful content. I always liked the people from the Philippines and I thought it would be a nice place to live. I think that was what directed me to watch your video. Now I watch your channel to understand the people of the Philippines. I don't think I will ever live there but would love to visit. Your content keeps improving every year! Keep up the great work!
Paul, you will always be the "cream" for all of us : )
I*m 73 Michigan man. These are the best years of my life. Anytime someone ask if I ever get bored? I love to tell them, "Remember, "Being bored is self--inflicted"
Greater story & message in this video Paul I really enjoy you and baby Mae and I’m sure you would agree she is a large reason for the happiness that you found in the Philippines 🌝
Understand every word
I am 73 and living in Roxas Capiz Panay island
I too had to learn how to slow down. Getting there slowly
Be safe mate