Great video! You have a gift in the way you deliver your message! Very engaging! I drank alcohol since I was 14. I was very good at it! I never threw up, hangovers were manageable and I loved drinking! Then it began to interfere with my life, physically and mentally! On August 13, 2020, I lost my wife , 2dogs, and a cat along with all of my possessions in a house fire. I was 69 years old and lost. I began binge drinking alone! I started realizing I was going down a bad path and began praying for help, literally. I had my last drink on December 9, 2022! Best decision I ever made in my life. The fog has been lifted from my brain and physically I have never felt better! Listening to videos like yours only reinforces my choices! Keep up the great work helping those who need it! God Bless 🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼 I made a video about loosing my parents . Although not the same situation , I can semi understand you. Amazing that you found the strength to pull yourself back up after all that. You’re a F&KIN LEGEND 💥💥 Im glad you share that with us I appreciate you and thank you for watching
I am not the legend. God is the legend. I literally was gifted by the Lord to quit with No traumatic effects what so ever!!! I still can’t believe it at times. He has gifted the world with Love and people like You to help him in his mission to help and Love everyone! Again, God Bless You and continue Your Great Work! You are a Legend to Me 🙏
Two things: 1. When I quit drinking, after I hit the 4-month mark, it suddenly felt like, mentally, someone had turned the lights back on. I was totally floored by the realization that, yes, drinking does, in fact, make you very stupid if you do it regularly. 2. The quality of this video is amazing. You have skills. This is by far the most engaging "I quit drinking" video I've seen, and I've watched a lot of them.
That light switch analogy is perfect. “Wish i thought of this one” 😂 good one👍🏽 And yes indeed, it does makes you stupid, just hard to see when you’re a daily drinker. But when you stop, and see your friends that still does, Jesus Christ im happy I quit😂😂 Thank you so much for watching I appreciate you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sventice I really appreciate you sharing your experience. I am at approx. 60 days and am still in the very irritable, emotional, and extremely bored phase and have already lost a long time friend because she was a trigger to my drinking habits. Thanks for giving me hope.
@@reneeenglund498 Hang in there, I felt the same way as you. I'm 6 months sober, my mind is in absolute peace and never bored. The best part is the thought activity that sharpens ;)
@@rantamaula When did that started to feel like that for you? I am 106 days sober today and although I feel great physically, mentally I am all over the place. I have to battle a nagging feeling everyday that's pressuring me to drink and its exhausting honestly.
I'm 4 yrs 5 months alcohol free after about 45 yrs of drinking. I drank daily and heavily for many years and "breakfast bourbons" weren't unheard-of. I had a true out of body experience as I was walking into a liquor store which scared the crap out of me and provided the immediate motivation to quit. After hearing a couple of radio interviews and reading 2 books I stopped drinking without any real difficulty or drama. The biggest factor in being able to stop was being able to picture my life without drinking. Life seems much more dull now but I'll never go back to that voluntary enslavement that is alcohol dependency.
Well said 👏 I think one decide if life is dull or not after drinking. Its just the matter of finding the right “replacement “ to make it interesting again. Thank you for watching and sharing, I appreciate you
I believe I have a developing problem with drinking way too much. I drink every single day and I drink a whole lot. I’m only 21 but I’ve been drinking since I was 16. Recently I’ve been thinking I have a bad problem and I could end up sick. Then I see this comment and I think I might be alright
@@HeywoodJablomike I wish I understood that when I was your age. you don’t have to go through half of your life poisoning yourself . Take advantage of your young age. The older you get, the harder it is to stop Thank you for sharing 🤝🏽💥
@@HeywoodJablomike I wish I understood that when I was your age. you don’t have to go through half of your life poisoning yourself . Take advantage of your young age. The older you get, the harder it is to stop Thank you for sharing 🤝🏽💥
I used to drink to kill the pain at the end of the day. It seemed like the only time I could truly relax. At some point it started to become increasingly clear that the vast majority of the pain I was trying to kill was only there because of alcohol. Drinking is the perfect solution to a problem caused by drinking. What a stupid endless loop.
Go for it pal. That was my last big thought ‘I’m done with this’. Stopped at 40, 52 now. There is no better decision you will ever make . Strap yourself in … it’s a great life when you can see it clearly.
“Alcohol is the only drug you have to justify not doing”. So true. When you tell people that you aren’t drinking at a party or some other social gathering where alcohol is served, they automatically ask you if you have a drinking problem or are religious. And they seem quite puzzled when you tell them that “no, I just don’t want to drink”.
The first two weeks were the most difficult for me; after that, it got easier. Alcohol is actually like a poison that can alter your cells and DNA. Every time you feel like you want to drink again, just think about how it will damage your body. It's true, and I'm not sure why they sell this stuff.
Great video, and congrats! I’ve been drinking too much for years now, but after my breakup 6 months ago, I’ve been binge drinking and vaping most nights. Proud to say that, for the first time in about 3 years or so, I’ve officially gone a week without drinking or using nicotine. I feel amazing. I want this feeling to last forever.
'If you think you're drinking too much for yourself'...perfect words, perfectly said 👌. That is the only thing that matters in order to make the change.
Jonathan I am from India. Sober for last 8 months. Alcohol is destroying our society. It was never a part of our culture but off late it is normalised a lot in India.Feel proud of myself
That's ironic. I'm from America and all the liquor stores are owned and operated by folks from India. Lol. Congratulations on sobriety. Enjoying my own as well. Best of Luck to you and your family!
This is so real. Thank you for being so courageous. Gorgeous and fair views of the pros and cons of sobriety. I can relate, as its a beautiful thing to re-inspire the mind without the unnatural vibes of booze. I was also that habitual drinker and have decided to have a break, and am already feeling clarity of mind and yes better moods. I leap out of bed in the mornings and my short term memory has improved. Also agree that anxiety and facing feelings is a big part of why I "escaped" via booze, but the present moment is a better place to hang out in. I appreciate YOU.
This resonates so much… dry January in 2023, my friends called me a martyr, that I thought I was better than them. They don’t call me anymore. I feel so damn good, so happy, and I can FEEL. I admire myself every evening and never wake up hating myself. Thank you 🙏🏼
@@Betheother '29 WAYS TO MAKE LIFE EASIER', It's like you've watched me fvck everything up. You're talking about me. This has had a profound effect on me. Thanks again, truly appreciate you. 🙏
Congratulations Jeremy💥 Ya man you have to focus on the goal. Theres one good trick for social gatherings, its gonna be harder not to have a drink when everyone is drinking, BUT, hold on till they had 3-4 drinks. When you see what they look like from a sober eye, you won’t want to have a drink 😂 It worked for me👌🏽 Thank you for watching and congrats again I appreciate you sharing your time with me
One thing that has helped me over the last 4 yrs being alcohol free at events has been to have a "mocktail" or nonalcoholic beer in hand as I socialize.
@@Betheother this is my problem, im not even interested to be with them once they reach that point neither 3-4 drinks .. I recently stopped drinking due to my injury + pain meds. I want to keep going and cut down on weed as well ( im eating less sugar and trying to eat healthy for a while now already). I am also worry once im back at work, I ll get pissed off and will want to have a drink or smoke after work, that will be hardest part for me. :/
@@saboSK its all about control at some point. Being stronger than the urge. You got this my friend. The first step is to be conscious of what we want to improve and then take it one moment at the time. Urge comes, breathe. Thanks for watching I appreciate you🙏🏼
I was 14 years old when i started using substances. Drugs, cigarettes, alcohol. I stopped using drugs, quit smoking. Now i do my 2nd attempt to quit alcohol and im so confident to do that. There were so many indicators that i have huge problem with drinking. Thank you Jonathan for your perspective!
Oh yeah Shawn I hear ya. Its easy to feel like you’re the only one living something. Felt the same way before I made this video! Glad you enjoy the talk! Thank you for watching, I appreciate you 🙏🏼🤝🏽
Mate. What an engaging video. Happened to stumble across your 4 month video from a random article on facebook, then lured me in to watch this one. I never subscribe to anyone ever, but you my friend have just earnt yourself a subscribe, worthy one at that. Been struggling with alcohol since losing my dad to cancer 7 years ago. Ive known for years its no good for me but every time i pull myself away, i get pulled back in. Done dry January for the last few years and the benefits are astounding, then i find myself back in a cycle and find myself making up for "lost time". I quit cannabis in Feb of this year after 20 years of smoking it which im proud of, but Ive leaned on alcohol more since then. Starting to think i should of knocked drink on the head first and the weed would of naturally followed. Massive well done on your milestone, I am proud of you for all you've overcome. Hoping i can do the same myself soon! Holding me back in so many avenues and doesn't help with my anxiety/depression/adhd. Feel like throwing my phone away and going off grid.
@@LewisBorland-c4d hey Lewis, thanks for watching and reaching out. I hear you my friend this sh*t is not easy. Funny you should mention cigarettes, I have a video coming up on that subject this week. I also quit 15 years ago. Im still not drinking and one thing I realized in the last 4 months since making that video is that, This time is much easier than all other times I tried to quit because theres no pressure. I told myself that it was ok to have a drink if I wanted to…. That it was just a break. For some reason , since it not final in my head, makes it easier . I know it might seem strange😂 for stress and anxiety, I started this little book, MEDITATION by Ryan Holiday, one page a day for a year. Working out for me anyway. Sorry you loathe your dad. I know the feeling all too well. I think the best way to honour them is to live our best life. What ever that may be for you. Thanks again for watching 🙏🏼 and welcome to the channel! I appreciate you and you got this🤝🏽💥
I also quit drinking - I was easily drinking 3-4 big IPAs, half a bottle of wine, everyday. And more when I had a chance. And hiding it. And it feels pretty good to barely drink anymore. I still have a drink here and there (one drink), if I go out with friends and we are at a special place that I can get some nice quality drink or craft beer. But that craving is GONE. Like, the daily craving and need to store alcohol in the house at all times. Its quite liberating, really... I thought i could never do it, and here we are. Anyone reading: if you think you might be drinking to much, you probably are.. But be kind to yourself.
You don't need this special situation drinks. Trust me. If something really really difficulty happens, this will lead you to your old behavior. Stay sober ❤️🙏 wish you all the best
@@Kiefert.Clove this. You’re so right and I haven’t thought about it that way. The other day I really craved it over stressful couple of days and I didn’t have any. I guess I have only allowed myself for a glass if I didn’t NEED it. I guess I never really need to poison myself anymore! Thanks for the comment because it made me come back here and refresh my memory on the topic. Staying sober! ❤
Awesome Inspiring Video! I’m 1 Year Sober, and counting 🙏🏼 . Alcohol controlled most of my life. Started drinking at the age of 16 with a bunch of my “Buddies”. It started cool in the beginning. Then after, it’s just a dangerous slippery slope that you can never get off. I’m glad I caught myself early. Alcohol may be fun, but it’s Dangerous when it takes over your entire Life. I hope everyone find themselves and reach their goals of becoming better than yesterday.
Amazing video!!! I just passed my 1 year sober from alcohol mark and I love hearing these kinds of stories. Similar to your experience I wasn’t a raging alcoholic either but took a few weeks off and felt so good afterwards that it motivated me to keep going. 1 year later and I can say I never want to go back to that again. It definitely has its hurdles though. I’m definitely fine with not being nearly as social as I used to be but I’m starting to feel like I might be isolating too much. I’ve been invited to parties and events and haven’t gone not because I fear I’ll drink again, I just didn’t feel like being social. As a matter of fact, I’m at a point where I can go to a party or a concert or any social event and not feel tempted to drink at all. At first it was almost imperative that the event or concert sell non-alcoholic beer for me to curb the temptation. Another hurdle I’m working through right now is that my old hobbies don’t hold my interest as much as they used to. Even playing music which has been a staple of my entire adult life. Although drinking was also a big part of that hobby as well. Without interest in the hobbies that have been a huge part of my life I feel a bit lost, like I have to rediscover who I am without drinking. But with everything you have highs and lows and even when I’m my lowest I still don’t feel like drinking will make it better and I’m never tempted to do it and as you said, “It feels pretty good to be a non-drinker in a sea of drinkers”. Thanks for sharing your story.
Hey Tim! Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts! In ear you with the hobbies. Same here, but then again, was it really the hobby itself that we liked or we used the excuse of the hobby to drink more?!😂 Love reading stories like those Tim! Thank you so much and congrats on your new life style 🤝🏽💥
I loved this video. I found it because I figured out that I like my drink a little bit too much… So I started looking through YT videos to find some motivation or something. You somehow managed to talk about this topic without sounding preachy, which is something many ex-drinkers do. I also appreciate the filmmaking skills that were put into this vid.
I recently decided to take a little break myself. Going on 13 days now. I didn't intent on it going this long but there has been a sense of accomplishment by every additional day I go without. I have to agree that now in my 40's, and maybe because of other reasons, the steady drinking was/has been greatly contributing to my regular fatigue I have been experiencing. I also have to acknowledge that I'm way less productive and less inclined to get shit done when I'm 4 days into drinking and my body is basically telling me to fuck off. I currently have a 12 pack of beer in the fridge and I'm likely going to crack one today. But the fact that I worked-out 4 times this week and gave my body/organs a break has given me a reason to be proud of myself. Having balance in ones life can bring out the best in us. Thanks for the video good Sir. All the best moving forward.
Thank you so much for watching and reaching out! Well said about the balance life. I’m still trying to figure this one out😂 Im all or nothing kinna guy . Keep up the good living and thank again for watching I appreciate you
You can make it. I drank whiskey nearly daily for 22 years. I was a functional drinker. Since 2022, I stopped drinking alcohol completely. I am surprised that the urge to drink alcohol is completely gone. I am now a new person. The old me is gone. I can be with drinkers. It doesn't bother me at all. No amount of temptation will make me drink alcohol, again.
Wonderful story, beautifully delivered. Stoped drinking after my 40th. Woke up dreadfully hungover and decided I’d had enough. I have never made a better decision. 12 years later and still, daily, getting the buzz of clarity and self awareness. Sobriety does not get old, drinking certainly does. Best of luck on your path Jonathon.
We as people have to be aware of the people/energy that surround us. They may be enemies in friend disguise. The truth is sometimes hard to see but self control and confidence is difficult to obtain but is a form freedom. My opinion is that anyone or anything that goes against someones progress and health is no friend. Congratulations on ascending past the hold of alcohol. Many blessings 🙏🏾
Happy to read this Jack💥 Wish you the best! You’ll see this gets better and better. Enjoy ! Thank you for watching and reaching out , I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Your take on this subject is fantastic.I'm having another break from alcohol and can relate to so much of what you describe. Very motivaing: Thank you.
Hey there! I just turned 2 months sober and I could not be more happy! I had the idea for a long time but after seeing your video I took the decision and did it. Thanks for the inspiration!
That’s awesome 💥 congrats on your new lifestyle! Thank you so much for watching and reaching out. Comments like yours are the reason why I keep doing this! I appreciate you 🙏🏼
God Bless you. I am sure this video will help many people to quit drinking so thank you for sharing. I will share it with someone I know but they may not be open to it yet. With prayers, it may spark a start in them.
Ive not had a drink since 31 dec 2023 and feeling a lot better. Today was the first day in a long time wanted a drink which was strange but just remembered all the reasons why i have stopped. I like the crack analogy. I have alcohol = crystal meth on my fridge to keep it at bay. Great video
@@stellagirl4552 yeah i like those none alcoholic beers sometimes. I don’t know where you are in the world but if you can put your hands on THE SOBER CARPENTER they make really good none alcoholic beers 🍻
I'm at three years or so i didn't really remember quit date but there were two days last week when I didn't think about drinking or not drinking or being sober or not sober . I was just myself for the first two days in 45 years. Congratulations on your success. It's major accomplishment!!!
Great video! You just pooped up on my feed….glad you did! I quit drinking January 2023 like you did…and for some reason just kept going…was so proud of myself. Until Christmas. It’s my birthday so I decided why not give yourself a nice buzz for a day….that day switched me right back to where I was. I was so mad at myself. The only thing that was good about falling off was I finally realized that I can’t be a “normal” drinker. I’m all or nothing I suppose… I’m on day 3…can’t hardly sleep and when I do the dreams are just terrible. I’m trying again….better than not trying I guess
I hear ya…. I just finds that its easier not to have the first drink then trying to stop after the first. I say ill drink again but I doubt it. It feels too good and im too busy now with youtube😂 I wish you the best my friend, and remember that the hardest day is always number 1 🤝🏽💥 Thank you for watching 🙏🏼 I appreciate you sharing
Congratulations to you and your new life. Once I sobered up, I felt a bit sad at the loss of social invites and certain old buddies, but then I realized it made room for real memories with people who loved me before I was a drunken idiot who had to do stupid things to entertain them. All of my real relationships have improved off the chart and I can remember things I truly enjoyed doing without having to have a drink. As you pointed out early on, I do not judge anyone who drinks or blame problems on the booze for taking the wrong fork in the road. There is absolutely no man or woman who will win at the drinking game. It will beat you eventually. As a former bartender, I am certain you could pick those people out quite easily. Brightest blessings on your sober journey and I wish you continued success in whatever you do.
Thank you so much for the kind words my friend 🙏🏼🙏🏼 That new life is quite exciting indeed! Thank you for watching and reaching out I appreciate you 🙏🏼🤝🏽
Nice one ❤ I realized I needed to change my drinking habits years ago. It took a while for me to take that step. Over the last years, Ive been drinking daily and my mental and physical health deteriorated. My dog helps me a lot to stick to my decision, Im responsible for him and I always wanna be sober and clear. Smells like conscious living and freedom!!
Good video. Was basically a daily drinker for years. Stopped doing it and the change was pretty amazing. Lost weight, most energy, more productive professionally. Over all just feel like a new person.
Respect brother! Keep it up! Living in Estonia, drinking is the only way for me to relax during the cold dark winters (at least that was what I used to think)... Looking forward every other day to have 3 or 4 beer only to become foggy and grumpy and day by day more depressed. That needed to stop once I got my 1st born daughter. What helped me was the Allan Car's Easy way method and watching videos like yours! Thanks!
@@michalidez congrats my friend on your new life style ! Yes Allen car, I quit smoking with that book 15 years ago. But at the end of the day, no matter how many books you read of videos you watch, its all because of you doing what needs to be done 🤝🏽 Thank for watching and reaching out I appreciate you🙏🏼
Awesome video! This the first video of yours that I watch. The self-awareness is top notch. I think that your drinking situation and results can be applied to many things that we as humans tend to overindulge in, be it video games, TV, social media, women, playing victim, etc. If we replace the word “drinking” with any of the aforementioned subjects, our results will not differ by too much, which is what I think makes your video and message very powerful. And yes, when one tries to improve oneself, the resistance and hate one gets from the outside world never ceases to amaze me. People have a problem with change, even if it’s for the better. But you gotta keep going. You can’t change people, you can only influence them by consistently being who and what you are and want to be. Consistency is key.
SPOT ON! Yes it does apply to anything, thank you for pointing it out👌🏽 Thats absolutely right , consistency and “keep showing up” is in fact the key. Thank you for your kind words and thank you for watching . I appreciate you
Alcohol free for 18 months. Made me a better mother, wife, and business owner. I’m starting to like myself again and look forward to tackling the days whereas before every day felt like such a challenge that I just wasn’t up for. Thank you for posting- great vid, and the extra support is needed with my 40th b-day around the corner!!
4 months sober and I feel amazing, mind clarity and the whole body coordination is on another level. I drank heavily for 10 years and just stopped, did not realize the after effect in terms of Delirium Tremens, it was just pure horror and panic for 5 days. Alcohol is a dangerous drug, the damage it does to your brain and body is severe. Great and inspirational video from you, keeps me inspired to continue being sober.
This ran across my feed because i love watching people "click" into things that make things better, and soberiety is one of them. Peeped a few videos and love your path. Just wanted to drop some appreciation and encouragement!
@@Betheother I appreciate you getting past your anxiety and doing this. Seeing people like you in this sphere is so encouraging. As someone from an art BG as well, artists can be reluctant to look at self improvements content. Now in corporate world, lots of love for self help but it's very hustle bro mentality, which I don't gel with. You're like a friend whose willing to be honest with themselves and lord knows we all need more of those (me especially). You make it seem possible and it lit up my morning. Lots of thinking while doing mundane adult stuff. So thank you again!
Thanks for this inspiring vidéo! I think about getting rid of the habit of drinking for the same reasons as yours, and eating your experience helps me! I know it is not going to be easy but it definitely worth it!!
“Just” a 100 days…. Gary most people cant do 1 week😂💥 Congratulations brother on 100 days sober!! Thats a huge mile stone and you should be proud. Thank you brother for watching and sharing, I appreciate you
@@Betheother Hi Jonathan. Haha thank you. I guess when I compare to other landmarks like yours it feels small but thank you for the nice words 😊 It’s such a rewarding journey as you know 👌 Glad I found your channel and positivity. Many thanks and best of luck 😎
I have been sober for 8 months now and I too am in my 40s. I feel like I have struggled socially because of it but my health and mental well being have far exceeded anything I anticipated. Kudos to you!
Thank you for your video. Great quality. This is very encouraging for someone who was also on the slippery slope, negotiating with myself every way possible for it NOT to mean quitting alcohol... yet 1 wk sober and already having greater benefits! Love the way you present this!❤
Thank you for sharing. Living with an alcoholic for the last 24 years has been a struggle. I drink occasionally, but for those who suffer with trying to quit, it can be not just personal, but affect all of those around them. It has to be something you do for yourself. Not for your partner, not for your family and not for your friends...for yourself. Of course everyone else will benefit from it, but it has to be a personal decision. I think you are doing great!😊
Great video. I just tallied up my alcohol free days, and I currently am at 572. Talking about the relationships and judgment aspects resinated over here. Thanks for sharing your experience, as mine has been similar. All the best!
I quit drinking early in the year as my way of supporting a friend who was undergoing surgery (and wasn't able to drink with me anymore). It seemed like a real sacrifice, because I was drinking every day before then. Anyway, like you, the more time I spent sober, the more I realised how much better life was like this. It's crazy to me that what seemed like a huge sacrifice a few months ago, now feels totally obvious - like I can't think of a single good reason to ever drink again.
This is a great video bro. One I can relate to. Alcohol is the world’s largest killer, and unfortunately by the time you are diagnosed as an alcoholic a large amount of damage to your overall health and relationships has been done. There isn’t enough support for those that drink a lot but are not classed as alcoholics so I think making these videos or podcasts are inspiring to those that realise that their habits could turn nasty. I’m currently on 75 days of sobriety, and do 100 days a year to ‘clean up’ but this time it’s for good. Kudos to you my man!
That's exactly how I feel I'm just over one year sober and I can completely agree with everything u said here, I too will will never go back to the excuses and the need for alcohol at every event or every occasion. My financial situation is 100 times better, and probably the most notable change I've noticed is my cognitive abilities in pretty much any situation. It takes awhile, a few months maybe even a half a year but eventually I started thinking fast speaking more clearly and I'm able to communicate my different ideas and thoughts better than ever before. It's also true my social life has pretty much all but vanished, but I'm also ok with that too. There's a time in life for making friends and laughing then eventually of ur lucky u decide u actually want a future, not just to live in the moment. Anyways great vid man, chears and congrats
@@jarednorris9559 thank you so much Jared! Congrats on the lifestyle 💥 I agree, when the brain fog lifts, what a difference. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts I appreciate you🙏🏼
Great video. I’ve quit, started, many times. I felt tired. Didn’t like my job, where I was drinking alone. It was time to stop again and see what happens. On day 5. Withdrawals tapering off now. I was drinking 1/2 liter of whiskey a night. A a terrible lot, but certainly not healthy coupled with working 12-15 hour days 6 days a week for 2 1/2 years. I quit the job too. I have some savings to help me through to the next job. We’ll see what happens. Keep up the good work.
One thing I tell myself every day and that I truly believe “ I trust the flow of life to provide me with what I need and want and in abondance “ Helps me get through stress and anxiety. Congratulations on your new lifestyle choice Jeffrey! You got this brother 💥 Thank you for , watching and sharing I appreciate you. Come back for updates from time to time💥
I've been in a terribly dark place lately, and quitting alcohol was one of the best decisions I've ever made.. Yes, it helps killing inner demons and memories, but it kills your soul too. For all those of you who are struggling in life. Life is beautiful, don't think when you die it's all over. I've been near death and at that point, life seems overwhelmingly beautiful. Even if you are alone , completely alone, you will always have yourself. And if you have someone by your side, you have a treasure . Do it for them, find the will you lack in them. We are lone warriors, proud warriors. Cheers from Spain!
same here...drank all my life with no side effects to speak of.woke up at.6, walked the dog til 7:30....on the tennis court at 10...then my life took a turn and a faced a huge amount of stress and my body could take it any longer.. All my money went into drinking. cooking great ,eats but really drinking. last 2 years i was washed out every morning. had to stop. it's a year that i am on and off barely making the 20 days mark. but i am convinced that i can break thru.
Well done JB....it's hard to have an awakened mind and perspective on life if always in a low grade fog. I still drink, low amounts, almost daily but it's getting old and I see the day when I too will only make exceptions for that '88 Petrus!!
I really enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing your experiences. It's shocking the reactions that you received when trying to move away from drinking, but it makes sense. Proud of you for making this change!
i love this positive take. Looking over at my beer I ask myself.. am I ready to leave that behind... I want to more and more after every day. . . Congrats JB
Thank you🙏🏼 One thing is sure, if you’re asking yourself that question, that might mean alcohol has a little more control over you that you might like. I know that was the equation for me. Thank you for watching and sharing your thought I appreciate you
Legend!!! I do 100 day stretch off every year, which has been a long journey for old party boy Pablo! 😂 I'm very proud of it and wish the same success for everyone else! 🙏
Hey Jonathan, thanks for Your Video. I enjoyed it and saw a lot of parallels to my drinking and my quitting. I was sober for 20 months. About 1,5 years sober I began to ask myself whether I cant have a drink again after so much time. I knew from quitting smoking weed (what I did for 15 years straight) that I can do it from time to time (2-3 ocassions per year) but never went back to smoking regularly. And I thought that should be possible with alcohol too. But that was absolutely not possible. I started feeling boring (like you) and tried one drink in the summer holidays 2022 and the drink tasted afwul. I had three more and threw up the next morning. My body couldnt handle four drinks anymore. Now Im back to drinking regularly (2 weeks straight in my holiday in France) but thats it. Im quitting again. Dont forget the „Fading Bias Effect“ which makes us think more about the positive things in the past and the many occasions where people drink. Ist different than weed. So my Tip is: Stay sober. You are Not boring. You found your hobbies again which are fantastic. Stay with it. Peace ✌🏻from Beer-Country Germany…
Salutations friend from Germany! Thank you for watching and reaching out! So far I have no plans of drinking again. I use to smoke too and now just enjoying a cigar once in a while. Dunno if ill ever drink again, and to be honest, I don’t really think about it. If it happens it happens. I find that putting pressure makes it worse for me. Go with the flow! Hahah worst case scenario ill do a “I started drinking again, here’s what happened “😂 Thank again for watching and sharing your thoughts I appreciate you🙏🏼
I just quit drinking wine about 1.5 weeks ago. As you mentioned, I just realized I had sort of lost control. Not an alcoholic, but could see it happening if I didn't stop. I have already lost weight, have more energy, and sleep better. It does feel great to be a non-drinker in a sea of drinkers!! I hope to continue, but I won't be super rigid with it, as my rebellious nature might kick in and make it backfire. 😆
Hey Andrea! Hahah thats all good, we all this rebellious nature somewhere inside! As long as you are aware, thats perfect! Thank you for watching and reaching out! I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Don't know why that video popped up. Google is listening again. Cut down alcohol dramatically since January, lost 20 pounds, cut out sugar, too, high protein diet, working out every day. Experiencing the same as you, the social changes, people feel intimidated by others with a lot of discipline and self control, called boring and so on. But also met new people with the same mindset, successful people. Fascinating how this works, isn't it?! 😊
I’m a strong believer that the universe sends you what you need and want. Change your life, your inner self, the rest will follow. It’s inevitable! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate you🙏🏼 And congrats on your new lifestyle 💥
What a great, fun, inspirational video! Thank you! I’m day three🎉 for like the hundredth time, but I’m really sick of letting myself down. So thanks for the inspiration! I’ll definitely follow you!
@@AnnaAwesome77 thank you so much Anna for watching and reaching out! Im glad my video inspires you, comments like yours makes it all worth it! Enjoy your alcohol break! You got this💥💯
this earned a sub, really well made. good for you man, im happy for you and i don't even know you lol. I quit for 6 months around this time last year but unfortunately fell back into bad habits and this has kinda inspired me to get off the boose again, which i was already contemplating.
Thank you🙏🏼 this was not my first try at quitting. Never thought I would have to try hard at quitting 😂 If I could, you can🫡💯 Its all about embracing the new you and not be scared of letting go of the old version. You got this! Thanks for watching and your words, means alot
Man, good to see. 15 years for me. Besides having my daughter, its the best thing (and the hardest) I have ever done in my life. I am an alcoholic. I used to drink 6-12 beers a night, sometimes half a liter, a couple bottles and a couple cases on the weekend. It was not a social thing, I mostly drank alone. The day I quit, I was sitting on my deck with my 2 year old. I looked at her knowing if someone bad were to happen, there would be nothing I could do, being mentally incapacitated and unable to drive. In that moment, I knew if I was going to be a good father, I couldn't drink another drop for the rest of my life. It can be done!
Great video! I'm so glad that I found it now, I've been drinking since 2004-2005 I've dicided to clense myself like you've said, however my choise was made cuz of planned surgery after week from now and I can say that you motivated me to do it a bit longer, thanks for that! P.s. Sorry for my grammar not a native.
man o man. I have always said I had more peer pressure in my 30-40's.i did not start really drinking until I was 43. then I dove into the deep end of the bottle and did the backstroke. so manipulative my own mind was to myself. love your video
Great video!. I especially loved your crack analogy as I am also currently dealing with people asking me the same questions about why I'm not drinking. I am, in fact, a raging alcoholic lol. I am almost 1 month sober this time around. I had 7 years when I lived in Boston. Went on a 4 year bender when I moved down here to the Virgin Islands. Back on track though and have my own TH-cam channel about my journey in addiction and recovery. Thanks again for the video.
Congratulations Ron your 1 month💥 It took me about 3-4 tries in 3 years to finally get there. Thank you for watching and sharing brother, I appreciate you
Duude! I just tried to see a video of how bad alco is (been without for 3 months). And omg! U are kinda a new/small youtuber (still), and you motivate in your videos. My second thing i wanted to search for was - How to start to make videos, I am feeling PERFECTIONISM and stuck. So THANK YOU, thank you for sharing you, thats how people can really find you!
Thank you soo much🙏🏼🙏🏼. And congrats on your 3 month off the booze! Feels amazing doesn’t it 💥 Yep , all 3 subjects I covered here so far! Thank you for watching and reaching out! I appreciate you 🙏🏼
I was never one for drinking until I got into the nightlife scene😬 I don’t drink every day, but I have a habit of drinking socially, and I definitely want to work on stopping it for health reasons. Your video was amazing, and perfectly executed😅 The energy is definitely in my favor at the moment I’m gonna keep going😅
Really love your approach. I work in addiction, and I think things easily get bogged down with labels and agendas, no matter how good the intention. If something bothers you, how about taking a closer look? Don't need to let terms like alcoholic or addict get in the way. I really like your tip of scheduling your day to counteract boredom. And boredom can really be an opportunity for creativity and something new, instead of filling the time with something you're used to doing all the time... Thanks again and keep doing your thing, brother! (Oh, and what were the book and poster tubes you were opening at the beginning?)
💯 my friend! Boredom is was a major catalyst for me to drink and I know I was not the only one! Thank you watching and sharing your thoughts my friend, I appreciate you 🙏🏼 That was the box of confetti tubes😎💥
3.5 years off..... every aspect of my life has improved immeasurably... self confidence grows as time passes and my mental health / anxiety has fully disappeared.... set positive goals for yourself whether it's financial / fitness / family and watch your life transform
So first of all, congrats! Its good to hear a more objective opinion on this matter. Now, how in the hell, is this level of quality production, but you only hav 2.6k subscribers ?:)) Keep it up!
Great video! You have a gift in the way you deliver your message! Very engaging! I drank alcohol since I was 14. I was very good at it! I never threw up, hangovers were manageable and I loved drinking! Then it began to interfere with my life, physically and mentally! On August 13, 2020, I lost my wife , 2dogs, and a cat along with all of my possessions in a house fire. I was 69 years old and lost. I began binge drinking alone! I started realizing I was going down a bad path and began praying for help, literally. I had my last drink on December 9, 2022! Best decision I ever made in my life. The fog has been lifted from my brain and physically I have never felt better! Listening to videos like yours only reinforces my choices! Keep up the great work helping those who need it! God Bless 🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼
I made a video about loosing my parents . Although not the same situation , I can semi understand you.
Amazing that you found the strength to pull yourself back up after all that.
You’re a F&KIN LEGEND 💥💥
Im glad you share that with us
I appreciate you and thank you for watching
I am not the legend. God is the legend. I literally was gifted by the Lord to quit with No traumatic effects what so ever!!! I still can’t believe it at times. He has gifted the world with Love and people like You to help him in his mission to help and Love everyone! Again, God Bless You and continue Your Great Work! You are a Legend to Me 🙏
@@harrisonmallory8486 🙏🏼
I quit drinking on the same day!!!
You are a soldier. That’s an dreadful loss you suffered. Absolutely dreadful. Much love to you.
Two things:
1. When I quit drinking, after I hit the 4-month mark, it suddenly felt like, mentally, someone had turned the lights back on. I was totally floored by the realization that, yes, drinking does, in fact, make you very stupid if you do it regularly.
2. The quality of this video is amazing. You have skills. This is by far the most engaging "I quit drinking" video I've seen, and I've watched a lot of them.
That light switch analogy is perfect.
“Wish i thought of this one” 😂 good one👍🏽
And yes indeed, it does makes you stupid, just hard to see when you’re a daily drinker. But when you stop, and see your friends that still does, Jesus Christ im happy I quit😂😂
Thank you so much for watching I appreciate you.
🙏🏼🙏🏼
Exact the same feeling for me, it takes time for the system to wake up and heal properly.
Sventice I really appreciate you sharing your experience. I am at approx. 60 days and am still in the very irritable, emotional, and extremely bored phase and have already lost a long time friend because she was a trigger to my drinking habits. Thanks for giving me hope.
@@reneeenglund498 Hang in there, I felt the same way as you. I'm 6 months sober, my mind is in absolute peace and never bored. The best part is the thought activity that sharpens ;)
@@rantamaula When did that started to feel like that for you? I am 106 days sober today and although I feel great physically, mentally I am all over the place. I have to battle a nagging feeling everyday that's pressuring me to drink and its exhausting honestly.
I'm 4 yrs 5 months alcohol free after about 45 yrs of drinking. I drank daily and heavily for many years and "breakfast bourbons" weren't unheard-of. I had a true out of body experience as I was walking into a liquor store which scared the crap out of me and provided the immediate motivation to quit. After hearing a couple of radio interviews and reading 2 books I stopped drinking without any real difficulty or drama. The biggest factor in being able to stop was being able to picture my life without drinking. Life seems much more dull now but I'll never go back to that voluntary enslavement that is alcohol dependency.
Well said 👏
I think one decide if life is dull or not after drinking. Its just the matter of finding the right “replacement “ to make it interesting again.
Thank you for watching and sharing, I appreciate you
Thank you for writing. Very insightful and motivational.
I believe I have a developing problem with drinking way too much. I drink every single day and I drink a whole lot. I’m only 21 but I’ve been drinking since I was 16. Recently I’ve been thinking I have a bad problem and I could end up sick. Then I see this comment and I think I might be alright
@@HeywoodJablomike I wish I understood that when I was your age.
you don’t have to go through half of your life poisoning yourself .
Take advantage of your young age.
The older you get, the harder it is to stop
Thank you for sharing 🤝🏽💥
@@HeywoodJablomike I wish I understood that when I was your age.
you don’t have to go through half of your life poisoning yourself .
Take advantage of your young age.
The older you get, the harder it is to stop
Thank you for sharing 🤝🏽💥
I used to drink to kill the pain at the end of the day. It seemed like the only time I could truly relax. At some point it started to become increasingly clear that the vast majority of the pain I was trying to kill was only there because of alcohol. Drinking is the perfect solution to a problem caused by drinking. What a stupid endless loop.
Indeed my friend 💥 thank you for watching, I appreciate you
I agree with you. I am just discovering this myself. I quit nicotine and alcohol and have more energy than I thought was possible.
@@videosaboutnothing7503 yes ! Congratulations for your new self!
Thank you for watching, I appreciate you🙏🏼
@@videosaboutnothing7503 no joke, congrats!
12 years and counting ! lets go !!
Congrats Danny💥💥
Thank you for watching and reaching out!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
I think I’m truly done with drinking.
It never helps anything, I always regret it, and it holding me back from reaching my personal goals.
Good for you my friend 💥
Thank you for watching and reaching out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
I’m approaching a year and it’s the best thing I ever did! I feel like a kid again and I’m never going back! You won’t regret it!
Go for it pal. That was my last big thought ‘I’m done with this’.
Stopped at 40, 52 now. There is no better decision you will ever make . Strap yourself in … it’s a great life when you can see it clearly.
“Alcohol is the only drug you have to justify not doing”. So true. When you tell people that you aren’t drinking at a party or some other social gathering where alcohol is served, they automatically ask you if you have a drinking problem or are religious. And they seem quite puzzled when you tell them that “no, I just don’t want to drink”.
Thank you for watching ! I appreciate you
oh no.
the younger crowd talks like that about coke.
no really.
and the right crowd doesn't care about drinking.
it's funny that it's you who have a drinking problem by not drinking and not the ones who do
@@BartekWezgraj life works in mysterious ways 😂🤝🏽
I'm so glad I found this video. I'm 5 days into my journey. Stories like yours give me hope. Thank you for sharing!
Congratulations on your new life!
Thank you for watching and reaching out
I appreciate you🙏🏼💥
The first two weeks were the most difficult for me; after that, it got easier. Alcohol is actually like a poison that can alter your cells and DNA. Every time you feel like you want to drink again, just think about how it will damage your body. It's true, and I'm not sure why they sell this stuff.
Don't look back. It's a beautiful life. Going on 4 years myself. ❤
Awesome.! Go strong.!
Great video, and congrats! I’ve been drinking too much for years now, but after my breakup 6 months ago, I’ve been binge drinking and vaping most nights. Proud to say that, for the first time in about 3 years or so, I’ve officially gone a week without drinking or using nicotine. I feel amazing. I want this feeling to last forever.
Congratulations Matt💥 only get better my friend
Thank you for watching and sharing
I appreciate you
And it can. You can do it.❤ You deserve it.
One day at a time
'If you think you're drinking too much for yourself'...perfect words, perfectly said 👌. That is the only thing that matters in order to make the change.
Indeed!
Thank you for watching Keren!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Jonathan I am from India. Sober for last 8 months. Alcohol is destroying our society. It was never a part of our culture but off late it is normalised a lot in India.Feel proud of myself
thats awesome! congrats
thank you for watching and reaching out.
I appreciate you🙏
That's ironic. I'm from America and all the liquor stores are owned and operated by folks from India. Lol. Congratulations on sobriety. Enjoying my own as well. Best of Luck to you and your family!
This is so real. Thank you for being so courageous. Gorgeous and fair views of the pros and cons of sobriety. I can relate, as its a beautiful thing to re-inspire the mind without the unnatural vibes of booze. I was also that habitual drinker and have decided to have a break, and am already feeling clarity of mind and yes better moods. I leap out of bed in the mornings and my short term memory has improved. Also agree that anxiety and facing feelings is a big part of why I "escaped" via booze, but the present moment is a better place to hang out in. I appreciate YOU.
Thank you so much Nicky for watching and sharing your thoughts!
I appreciate you🙏🏼
This resonates so much… dry January in 2023, my friends called me a martyr, that I thought I was better than them. They don’t call me anymore. I feel so damn good, so happy, and I can FEEL. I admire myself every evening and never wake up hating myself. Thank you 🙏🏼
Congrats Erin!
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts, I appreciate you🙂🙏🏼
This is great! I'm at day 400+ here and sobriety is lifechanging... Thanks for the video, Jonathan.
Congrats Daniel 💥 yes indeed it feels amazing !
Thank you for watching and reaching out!
I appreciate you🙏🏼
This is the first video about drinking that made sense to me. Man, it has truly inspired me. Thanks for posting.
Glad I could help my friend!
Message like yours makes it all worth it.
Thank you for watching and reaching out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
@@Betheother '29 WAYS TO MAKE LIFE EASIER', It's like you've watched me fvck everything up. You're talking about me. This has had a profound effect on me. Thanks again, truly appreciate you. 🙏
@@MrTipperooo we all go through a phase like that!
All the best brother🤝🏽💥
30 days off the boose today! Feeling great! The peer pressure will be bad for upcomming events
Congratulations Jeremy💥
Ya man you have to focus on the goal.
Theres one good trick for social gatherings, its gonna be harder not to have a drink when everyone is drinking, BUT, hold on till they had 3-4 drinks.
When you see what they look like from a sober eye, you won’t want to have a drink 😂
It worked for me👌🏽
Thank you for watching and congrats again
I appreciate you sharing your time with me
One thing that has helped me over the last 4 yrs being alcohol free at events has been to have a "mocktail" or nonalcoholic beer in hand as I socialize.
If people are pressuring you to drink when you don’t want to they aren’t true friends.
@@Betheother this is my problem, im not even interested to be with them once they reach that point neither 3-4 drinks .. I recently stopped drinking due to my injury + pain meds. I want to keep going and cut down on weed as well ( im eating less sugar and trying to eat healthy for a while now already). I am also worry once im back at work, I ll get pissed off and will want to have a drink or smoke after work, that will be hardest part for me. :/
@@saboSK its all about control at some point. Being stronger than the urge.
You got this my friend.
The first step is to be conscious of what we want to improve and then take it one moment at the time.
Urge comes, breathe.
Thanks for watching
I appreciate you🙏🏼
I was 14 years old when i started using substances. Drugs, cigarettes, alcohol. I stopped using drugs, quit smoking. Now i do my 2nd attempt to quit alcohol and im so confident to do that. There were so many indicators that i have huge problem with drinking. Thank you Jonathan for your perspective!
I was around the same age as well when I started.
You got this Adrian!
Thank you for watching and reaching out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Dry January turned into 5 months sober and going! Thank you for sharing ❤ I’m going through the exact same things so glad to know you’re not alone :)
Oh yeah Shawn I hear ya.
Its easy to feel like you’re the only one living something. Felt the same way before I made this video!
Glad you enjoy the talk!
Thank you for watching, I appreciate you 🙏🏼🤝🏽
Mate. What an engaging video. Happened to stumble across your 4 month video from a random article on facebook, then lured me in to watch this one. I never subscribe to anyone ever, but you my friend have just earnt yourself a subscribe, worthy one at that. Been struggling with alcohol since losing my dad to cancer 7 years ago. Ive known for years its no good for me but every time i pull myself away, i get pulled back in. Done dry January for the last few years and the benefits are astounding, then i find myself back in a cycle and find myself making up for "lost time". I quit cannabis in Feb of this year after 20 years of smoking it which im proud of, but Ive leaned on alcohol more since then. Starting to think i should of knocked drink on the head first and the weed would of naturally followed. Massive well done on your milestone, I am proud of you for all you've overcome. Hoping i can do the same myself soon! Holding me back in so many avenues and doesn't help with my anxiety/depression/adhd. Feel like throwing my phone away and going off grid.
@@LewisBorland-c4d hey Lewis, thanks for watching and reaching out.
I hear you my friend this sh*t is not easy. Funny you should mention cigarettes, I have a video coming up on that subject this week. I also quit 15 years ago.
Im still not drinking and one thing I realized in the last 4 months since making that video is that,
This time is much easier than all other times I tried to quit because theres no pressure. I told myself that it was ok to have a drink if I wanted to…. That it was just a break. For some reason , since it not final in my head, makes it easier . I know it might seem strange😂
for stress and anxiety, I started this little book, MEDITATION by Ryan Holiday, one page a day for a year. Working out for me anyway.
Sorry you loathe your dad. I know the feeling all too well.
I think the best way to honour them is to live our best life. What ever that may be for you.
Thanks again for watching 🙏🏼 and welcome to the channel!
I appreciate you and you got this🤝🏽💥
I also quit drinking - I was easily drinking 3-4 big IPAs, half a bottle of wine, everyday. And more when I had a chance. And hiding it. And it feels pretty good to barely drink anymore. I still have a drink here and there (one drink), if I go out with friends and we are at a special place that I can get some nice quality drink or craft beer. But that craving is GONE. Like, the daily craving and need to store alcohol in the house at all times. Its quite liberating, really... I thought i could never do it, and here we are. Anyone reading: if you think you might be drinking to much, you probably are.. But be kind to yourself.
Happy for you Bianca!
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
You don't need this special situation drinks. Trust me.
If something really really difficulty happens, this will lead you to your old behavior. Stay sober ❤️🙏 wish you all the best
@@Kiefert.Clove this. You’re so right and I haven’t thought about it that way. The other day I really craved it over stressful couple of days and I didn’t have any. I guess I have only allowed myself for a glass if I didn’t NEED it. I guess I never really need to poison myself anymore! Thanks for the comment because it made me come back here and refresh my memory on the topic. Staying sober! ❤
24,5 years clean and sober. All the best to you
Thank you Edward and congrats on your 24.5 years!
Thank you for reaching out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Awesome Inspiring Video! I’m 1 Year Sober, and counting 🙏🏼 . Alcohol controlled most of my life. Started drinking at the age of 16 with a bunch of my “Buddies”. It started cool in the beginning. Then after, it’s just a dangerous slippery slope that you can never get off. I’m glad I caught myself early. Alcohol may be fun, but it’s Dangerous when it takes over your entire Life. I hope everyone find themselves and reach their goals of becoming better than yesterday.
@@nakkeung1992 thank you so much brother for watching and sharing your thoughts.
I appreciate you🙏🏼
Amazing video!!! I just passed my 1 year sober from alcohol mark and I love hearing these kinds of stories. Similar to your experience I wasn’t a raging alcoholic either but took a few weeks off and felt so good afterwards that it motivated me to keep going. 1 year later and I can say I never want to go back to that again. It definitely has its hurdles though. I’m definitely fine with not being nearly as social as I used to be but I’m starting to feel like I might be isolating too much. I’ve been invited to parties and events and haven’t gone not because I fear I’ll drink again, I just didn’t feel like being social. As a matter of fact, I’m at a point where I can go to a party or a concert or any social event and not feel tempted to drink at all. At first it was almost imperative that the event or concert sell non-alcoholic beer for me to curb the temptation. Another hurdle I’m working through right now is that my old hobbies don’t hold my interest as much as they used to. Even playing music which has been a staple of my entire adult life. Although drinking was also a big part of that hobby as well. Without interest in the hobbies that have been a huge part of my life I feel a bit lost, like I have to rediscover who I am without drinking. But with everything you have highs and lows and even when I’m my lowest I still don’t feel like drinking will make it better and I’m never tempted to do it and as you said, “It feels pretty good to be a non-drinker in a sea of drinkers”. Thanks for sharing your story.
Hey Tim!
Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts!
In ear you with the hobbies. Same here, but then again, was it really the hobby itself that we liked or we used the excuse of the hobby to drink more?!😂
Love reading stories like those Tim!
Thank you so much and congrats on your new life style 🤝🏽💥
Best video on quitting alcohol I’ve seen!
Thank you so much 🙏🏼I appreciate you
I loved this video. I found it because I figured out that I like my drink a little bit too much… So I started looking through YT videos to find some motivation or something.
You somehow managed to talk about this topic without sounding preachy, which is something many ex-drinkers do.
I also appreciate the filmmaking skills that were put into this vid.
Thank you so much🙏🏼 means alot!
I’m glad that my video found you.
Thank you for watching and reading out
I appreciate you
Couldn't have said it any better myself!
Just the video I needed right now ❤ I've been on and off with sobriety over the last 3 years and I feel like I'm truly ready now 🙏
Awesome Melissa! Glad the video found its way to you!
Thank you for watching and reaching out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
I recently decided to take a little break myself. Going on 13 days now. I didn't intent on it going this long but there has been a sense of accomplishment by every additional day I go without. I have to agree that now in my 40's, and maybe because of other reasons, the steady drinking was/has been greatly contributing to my regular fatigue I have been experiencing. I also have to acknowledge that I'm way less productive and less inclined to get shit done when I'm 4 days into drinking and my body is basically telling me to fuck off. I currently have a 12 pack of beer in the fridge and I'm likely going to crack one today. But the fact that I worked-out 4 times this week and gave my body/organs a break has given me a reason to be proud of myself. Having balance in ones life can bring out the best in us. Thanks for the video good Sir. All the best moving forward.
Thank you so much for watching and reaching out!
Well said about the balance life. I’m still trying to figure this one out😂
Im all or nothing kinna guy .
Keep up the good living and thank again for watching
I appreciate you
You can make it. I drank whiskey nearly daily for 22 years. I was a functional drinker. Since 2022, I stopped drinking alcohol completely. I am surprised that the urge to drink alcohol is completely gone. I am now a new person. The old me is gone. I can be with drinkers. It doesn't bother me at all. No amount of temptation will make me drink alcohol, again.
Love your honesty! Great message to put out in the world. Thank you!
Thank you so much Peter for watching and reaching out!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Wonderful story, beautifully delivered. Stoped drinking after my 40th. Woke up dreadfully hungover and decided I’d had enough. I have never made a better decision. 12 years later and still, daily, getting the buzz of clarity and self awareness. Sobriety does not get old, drinking certainly does. Best of luck on your path Jonathon.
Well said friend!
Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts
I appreciate you🙏🏼
We as people have to be aware of the people/energy that surround us. They may be enemies in friend disguise. The truth is sometimes hard to see but self control and confidence is difficult to obtain but is a form freedom. My opinion is that anyone or anything that goes against someones progress and health is no friend. Congratulations on ascending past the hold of alcohol. Many blessings 🙏🏾
Wise words🤝🏽 thank you for watching,I appreciate you🙏🏼
I'm on day one, and this video has put a smile on my face and given me the motivation to want to continue. Thank you!
Happy to read this Jack💥
Wish you the best! You’ll see this gets better and better.
Enjoy !
Thank you for watching and reaching out , I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Your take on this subject is fantastic.I'm having another break from alcohol and can relate to so much of what you describe. Very motivaing: Thank you.
Hey Robert! Thank you so much for watching and reaching out💥
I appreciate you my friend 🙏🏼
Love love love this! So much of my life was exactly what you shared. Good for you for truly finding freedom from this stuff! 🙌
Thank you!
I appreciate you🙏🏼💥
Love this video. So honest and raw. Things I have done to justify my alcohol consumption etc. week 3 almost and I want to stay sober forever x
Thank Rachel for watching and reaching out!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Congrats on your new lifestyle 💥
The most REAL video I've seen about alcohol. Thanks!!
@@tonylangworthy5479 thank you Tony!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Hey there! I just turned 2 months sober and I could not be more happy! I had the idea for a long time but after seeing your video I took the decision and did it. Thanks for the inspiration!
That’s awesome 💥 congrats on your new lifestyle!
Thank you so much for watching and reaching out.
Comments like yours are the reason why I keep doing this!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
“If you think you’re drinking too much for yourself, you take the proper steps.” I think this is the key. Well said
Thank you for watching and reaching out, I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Well done dude 👍🏻 I’ll be 3 years at the start of August. Not going back now. Keep strong brother 💪🏻
@@delboyg2690 congrats on 3 years my friend 💥💥
Thank you for watching and reaching out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼💯
God Bless you. I am sure this video will help many people to quit drinking so thank you for sharing. I will share it with someone I know but they may not be open to it yet. With prayers, it may spark a start in them.
@@johnthomas8120 thank you for your kind words and truly hope your friend gets better.
Thank you for watching and reading out
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Ive not had a drink since 31 dec 2023 and feeling a lot better. Today was the first day in a long time wanted a drink which was strange but just remembered all the reasons why i have stopped. I like the crack analogy. I have alcohol = crystal meth on my fridge to keep it at bay. Great video
Thanks pippaboy🙏🏼 I appreciate you
@@stellagirl4552 yeah i like those none alcoholic beers sometimes.
I don’t know where you are in the world but if you can put your hands on THE SOBER CARPENTER they make really good none alcoholic beers 🍻
I'm at three years or so i didn't really remember quit date but there were two days last week when I didn't think about drinking or not drinking or being sober or not sober . I was just myself for the first two days in 45 years. Congratulations on your success. It's major accomplishment!!!
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Great video! You just pooped up on my feed….glad you did! I quit drinking January 2023 like you did…and for some reason just kept going…was so proud of myself. Until Christmas. It’s my birthday so I decided why not give yourself a nice buzz for a day….that day switched me right back to where I was. I was so mad at myself. The only thing that was good about falling off was I finally realized that I can’t be a “normal” drinker. I’m all or nothing I suppose… I’m on day 3…can’t hardly sleep and when I do the dreams are just terrible. I’m trying again….better than not trying I guess
I hear ya…. I just finds that its easier not to have the first drink then trying to stop after the first.
I say ill drink again but I doubt it. It feels too good and im too busy now with youtube😂
I wish you the best my friend, and remember that the hardest day is always number 1 🤝🏽💥
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Congratulations to you and your new life. Once I sobered up, I felt a bit sad at the loss of social invites and certain old buddies, but then I realized it made room for real memories with people who loved me before I was a drunken idiot who had to do stupid things to entertain them. All of my real relationships have improved off the chart and I can remember things I truly enjoyed doing without having to have a drink. As you pointed out early on, I do not judge anyone who drinks or blame problems on the booze for taking the wrong fork in the road. There is absolutely no man or woman who will win at the drinking game. It will beat you eventually. As a former bartender, I am certain you could pick those people out quite easily. Brightest blessings on your sober journey and I wish you continued success in whatever you do.
Thank you so much for the kind words my friend 🙏🏼🙏🏼
That new life is quite exciting indeed!
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Truly inspiring video mate well done and thank you for sharing 👍
@@aaronbensemann2880 my pleasure Aaron! Thank you for watching 🙏🏼
Nice one ❤ I realized I needed to change my drinking habits years ago. It took a while for me to take that step. Over the last years, Ive been drinking daily and my mental and physical health deteriorated. My dog helps me a lot to stick to my decision, Im responsible for him and I always wanna be sober and clear. Smells like conscious living and freedom!!
Dont we love those little fur balls❤️
Good on you taking care of yourself
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Good video. Was basically a daily drinker for years. Stopped doing it and the change was pretty amazing. Lost weight, most energy, more productive professionally. Over all just feel like a new person.
💯 thank you for watching 🙏🏼
Same here. 3 weeks into the change and I am amazed at the difference.
Respect brother! Keep it up! Living in Estonia, drinking is the only way for me to relax during the cold dark winters (at least that was what I used to think)... Looking forward every other day to have 3 or 4 beer only to become foggy and grumpy and day by day more depressed. That needed to stop once I got my 1st born daughter. What helped me was the Allan Car's Easy way method and watching videos like yours! Thanks!
@@michalidez congrats my friend on your new life style !
Yes Allen car, I quit smoking with that book 15 years ago.
But at the end of the day, no matter how many books you read of videos you watch, its all because of you doing what needs to be done 🤝🏽
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Awesome video! This the first video of yours that I watch. The self-awareness is top notch. I think that your drinking situation and results can be applied to many things that we as humans tend to overindulge in, be it video games, TV, social media, women, playing victim, etc. If we replace the word “drinking” with any of the aforementioned subjects, our results will not differ by too much, which is what I think makes your video and message very powerful.
And yes, when one tries to improve oneself, the resistance and hate one gets from the outside world never ceases to amaze me. People have a problem with change, even if it’s for the better. But you gotta keep going. You can’t change people, you can only influence them by consistently being who and what you are and want to be. Consistency is key.
SPOT ON! Yes it does apply to anything, thank you for pointing it out👌🏽
Thats absolutely right , consistency and “keep showing up” is in fact the key.
Thank you for your kind words and thank you for watching .
I appreciate you
Alcohol free for 18 months. Made me a better mother, wife, and business owner. I’m starting to like myself again and look forward to tackling the days whereas before every day felt like such a challenge that I just wasn’t up for.
Thank you for posting- great vid, and the extra support is needed with my 40th b-day around the corner!!
@@Mobsy-bw7yj congrats 💥💥
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Congrats!! and thank you for sharing your experience :)
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I liked ur sense of humor! Thank you, inspiring people in Brazil too
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4 months sober and I feel amazing, mind clarity and the whole body coordination is on another level. I drank heavily for 10 years and just stopped, did not realize the after effect in terms of Delirium Tremens, it was just pure horror and panic for 5 days. Alcohol is a dangerous drug, the damage it does to your brain and body is severe. Great and inspirational video from you, keeps me inspired to continue being sober.
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Congrats on your 4 month 💥
Thanks dude, something I needed to hear
Glad the video found you Geoff!
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This ran across my feed because i love watching people "click" into things that make things better, and soberiety is one of them. Peeped a few videos and love your path. Just wanted to drop some appreciation and encouragement!
Thank you so much Jackie for your comment 🙏🏼 I appreciate you and thank you for watching!
@@Betheother I appreciate you getting past your anxiety and doing this. Seeing people like you in this sphere is so encouraging. As someone from an art BG as well, artists can be reluctant to look at self improvements content. Now in corporate world, lots of love for self help but it's very hustle bro mentality, which I don't gel with. You're like a friend whose willing to be honest with themselves and lord knows we all need more of those (me especially). You make it seem possible and it lit up my morning. Lots of thinking while doing mundane adult stuff. So thank you again!
Amazing. Thanks for the positivity and inspiration and humility in your story. And like, it looks like you can still Rock an Roll, so blap!
Thank you William for watching and reaching out!
I appreciate you my friend 🙏🏼💥
Thanks for this inspiring vidéo!
I think about getting rid of the habit of drinking for the same reasons as yours, and eating your experience helps me! I know it is not going to be easy but it definitely worth it!!
Glad I could help!
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Great video Brother.678 days here. I have shared many of the experiences you described. Thx!
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And congrats on you 678💥
Really enjoyed this very well produced video Jonathan. I relate to so much of what you said being sober just 100 days after 25 years almost each day.
“Just” a 100 days…. Gary most people cant do 1 week😂💥
Congratulations brother on 100 days sober!! Thats a huge mile stone and you should be proud.
Thank you brother for watching and sharing, I appreciate you
@@Betheother Hi Jonathan. Haha thank you. I guess when I compare to other landmarks like yours it feels small but thank you for the nice words 😊 It’s such a rewarding journey as you know 👌 Glad I found your channel and positivity. Many thanks and best of luck 😎
I have been sober for 8 months now and I too am in my 40s. I feel like I have struggled socially because of it but my health and mental well being have far exceeded anything I anticipated. Kudos to you!
Congrats to you Mathew!
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Thank you for your video. Great quality. This is very encouraging for someone who was also on the slippery slope, negotiating with myself every way possible for it NOT to mean quitting alcohol... yet 1 wk sober and already having greater benefits! Love the way you present this!❤
Awesome! Congrats 💥
It only gets better I promise ❤️
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Thank you for sharing. Living with an alcoholic for the last 24 years has been a struggle. I drink occasionally, but for those who suffer with trying to quit, it can be not just personal, but affect all of those around them. It has to be something you do for yourself. Not for your partner, not for your family and not for your friends...for yourself. Of course everyone else will benefit from it, but it has to be a personal decision. I think you are doing great!😊
Absolutely right Roberta 👌🏽
Great video. I just tallied up my alcohol free days, and I currently am at 572.
Talking about the relationships and judgment aspects resinated over here. Thanks for sharing your experience, as mine has been similar.
All the best!
Thank you so much for watching and reaching out! Congrats on your 572 days💥💥
I appreciate you my friend🙏🏼
I quit drinking early in the year as my way of supporting a friend who was undergoing surgery (and wasn't able to drink with me anymore). It seemed like a real sacrifice, because I was drinking every day before then. Anyway, like you, the more time I spent sober, the more I realised how much better life was like this. It's crazy to me that what seemed like a huge sacrifice a few months ago, now feels totally obvious - like I can't think of a single good reason to ever drink again.
💯 JM. I guess the daily drinking makes it hard to see the obvious.
You’re a good friend 🤝🏽
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Amazing content! I like the way you share your story without making people feel bad about the journey they're on. Rock on!
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This is a great video bro. One I can relate to. Alcohol is the world’s largest killer, and unfortunately by the time you are diagnosed as an alcoholic a large amount of damage to your overall health and relationships has been done. There isn’t enough support for those that drink a lot but are not classed as alcoholics so I think making these videos or podcasts are inspiring to those that realise that their habits could turn nasty. I’m currently on 75 days of sobriety, and do 100 days a year to ‘clean up’ but this time it’s for good. Kudos to you my man!
Congratulations on your new lifestyle choice brother!
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great Video, 746 Days and no plan to ever drink again. Made the same experience, greetings from Austria
Beautiful! Congratulations 🤝🏽💥
I appreciate you, thank you for watching 🙏🏼
That's exactly how I feel I'm just over one year sober and I can completely agree with everything u said here, I too will will never go back to the excuses and the need for alcohol at every event or every occasion. My financial situation is 100 times better, and probably the most notable change I've noticed is my cognitive abilities in pretty much any situation. It takes awhile, a few months maybe even a half a year but eventually I started thinking fast speaking more clearly and I'm able to communicate my different ideas and thoughts better than ever before. It's also true my social life has pretty much all but vanished, but I'm also ok with that too. There's a time in life for making friends and laughing then eventually of ur lucky u decide u actually want a future, not just to live in the moment. Anyways great vid man, chears and congrats
@@jarednorris9559 thank you so much Jared! Congrats on the lifestyle 💥
I agree, when the brain fog lifts, what a difference.
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Great video. I’ve quit, started, many times. I felt tired. Didn’t like my job, where I was drinking alone. It was time to stop again and see what happens. On day 5. Withdrawals tapering off now. I was drinking 1/2 liter of whiskey a night. A a terrible lot, but certainly not healthy coupled with working 12-15 hour days 6 days a week for 2 1/2 years. I quit the job too. I have some savings to help me through to the next job. We’ll see what happens. Keep up the good work.
One thing I tell myself every day and that I truly believe “ I trust the flow of life to provide me with what I need and want and in abondance “
Helps me get through stress and anxiety.
Congratulations on your new lifestyle choice Jeffrey!
You got this brother 💥
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I appreciate you.
Come back for updates from time to time💥
"if you think good things happens only to other people - well, just become the other" - this is just great! :)
Thank you so much for watching , and till the end😆💥
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Jonathan, amazing video! entertaining, fun, and honest. Your TH-cam site is going to be very popular. also love your dog.
Thank you so much Eric for watching reaching out🙏🏼
I appreciate you my friend
I've been in a terribly dark place lately, and quitting alcohol was one of the best decisions I've ever made.. Yes, it helps killing inner demons and memories, but it kills your soul too.
For all those of you who are struggling in life. Life is beautiful, don't think when you die it's all over. I've been near death and at that point, life seems overwhelmingly beautiful. Even if you are alone , completely alone, you will always have yourself. And if you have someone by your side, you have a treasure . Do it for them, find the will you lack in them.
We are lone warriors, proud warriors. Cheers from Spain!
Hey Daniel! 💯 agreed
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same here...drank all my life with no side effects to speak of.woke up at.6, walked the dog til 7:30....on the tennis court at 10...then my life took a turn and a faced a huge amount of stress and my body could take it any longer.. All my money went into drinking. cooking great ,eats but really drinking. last 2 years i was washed out every morning. had to stop. it's a year that i am on and off barely making the 20 days mark. but i am convinced that i can break thru.
Of course you can💥
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Well done JB....it's hard to have an awakened mind and perspective on life if always in a low grade fog. I still drink, low amounts, almost daily but it's getting old and I see the day when I too will only make exceptions for that '88 Petrus!!
Cheers my friend to clarity and control!
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Wow, amazing video and your message is truly inspirational! I've never been much of a drinker but I know someone who needs to hear this.
Awesome! Glad this video made it to you💥
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Excellent work Jonathan!
Thank you Terry 🙏🏼
I really enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing your experiences. It's shocking the reactions that you received when trying to move away from drinking, but it makes sense. Proud of you for making this change!
Thank you so much MJ for watching and reaching out!
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I found this really interesting thank you. Wise man!
Thank you Elaine for watching 🙏🏼
i love this positive take. Looking over at my beer I ask myself.. am I ready to leave that behind... I want to more and more after every day. . . Congrats JB
Thank you🙏🏼
One thing is sure, if you’re asking yourself that question, that might mean alcohol has a little more control over you that you might like.
I know that was the equation for me.
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@@Betheother 100% on all fronts. Thank you as well
Legend!!! I do 100 day stretch off every year, which has been a long journey for old party boy Pablo! 😂 I'm very proud of it and wish the same success for everyone else! 🙏
@@pablohurford3645 thats a great discipline every year! Congrats 💥
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Hey Jonathan, thanks for Your Video. I enjoyed it and saw a lot of parallels to my drinking and my quitting. I was sober for 20 months. About 1,5 years sober I began to ask myself whether I cant have a drink again after so much time. I knew from quitting smoking weed (what I did for 15 years straight) that I can do it from time to time (2-3 ocassions per year) but never went back to smoking regularly. And I thought that should be possible with alcohol too. But that was absolutely not possible.
I started feeling boring (like you) and tried one drink in the summer holidays 2022 and the drink tasted afwul. I had three more and threw up the next morning. My body couldnt handle four drinks anymore.
Now Im back to drinking regularly (2 weeks straight in my holiday in France) but thats it. Im quitting again.
Dont forget the „Fading Bias Effect“ which makes us think more about the positive things in the past and the many occasions where people drink. Ist different than weed. So my Tip is: Stay sober. You are Not boring. You found your hobbies again which are fantastic. Stay with it.
Peace ✌🏻from Beer-Country Germany…
Salutations friend from Germany!
Thank you for watching and reaching out!
So far I have no plans of drinking again.
I use to smoke too and now just enjoying a cigar once in a while.
Dunno if ill ever drink again, and to be honest, I don’t really think about it.
If it happens it happens. I find that putting pressure makes it worse for me. Go with the flow!
Hahah worst case scenario ill do a
“I started drinking again, here’s what happened “😂
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11 years of continuous sobriety here. Your experience was a lot like mine.
Congratulations ! Thank you for watching, I appreciate you🙏
I just quit drinking wine about 1.5 weeks ago. As you mentioned, I just realized I had sort of lost control. Not an alcoholic, but could see it happening if I didn't stop. I have already lost weight, have more energy, and sleep better. It does feel great to be a non-drinker in a sea of drinkers!! I hope to continue, but I won't be super rigid with it, as my rebellious nature might kick in and make it backfire. 😆
Hey Andrea! Hahah thats all good, we all this rebellious nature somewhere inside!
As long as you are aware, thats perfect!
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Don't know why that video popped up. Google is listening again. Cut down alcohol dramatically since January, lost 20 pounds, cut out sugar, too, high protein diet, working out every day. Experiencing the same as you, the social changes, people feel intimidated by others with a lot of discipline and self control, called boring and so on. But also met new people with the same mindset, successful people. Fascinating how this works, isn't it?! 😊
I’m a strong believer that the universe sends you what you need and want.
Change your life, your inner self, the rest will follow. It’s inevitable!
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And congrats on your new lifestyle 💥
What a great, fun, inspirational video! Thank you! I’m day three🎉 for like the hundredth time, but I’m really sick of letting myself down. So thanks for the inspiration! I’ll definitely follow you!
@@AnnaAwesome77 thank you so much Anna for watching and reaching out!
Im glad my video inspires you, comments like yours makes it all worth it!
Enjoy your alcohol break!
You got this💥💯
this earned a sub, really well made. good for you man, im happy for you and i don't even know you lol. I quit for 6 months around this time last year but unfortunately fell back into bad habits and this has kinda inspired me to get off the boose again, which i was already contemplating.
Thank you🙏🏼 this was not my first try at quitting. Never thought I would have to try hard at quitting 😂
If I could, you can🫡💯
Its all about embracing the new you and not be scared of letting go of the old version.
You got this!
Thanks for watching and your words, means alot
Man, good to see. 15 years for me. Besides having my daughter, its the best thing (and the hardest) I have ever done in my life. I am an alcoholic. I used to drink 6-12 beers a night, sometimes half a liter, a couple bottles and a couple cases on the weekend. It was not a social thing, I mostly drank alone. The day I quit, I was sitting on my deck with my 2 year old. I looked at her knowing if someone bad were to happen, there would be nothing I could do, being mentally incapacitated and unable to drive. In that moment, I knew if I was going to be a good father, I couldn't drink another drop for the rest of my life. It can be done!
That’s awesome brother! Congrats on your lifestyle 💥
All the best to you and your family, thank you for watching and sharing I appreciate you 🙏
That (11:28) is also my essential experience. You're just clearer in your head. Very simple... Thanks for the good and entertaining video!
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Great video mate
Thank you my friend !
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Great video! I'm so glad that I found it now, I've been drinking since 2004-2005 I've dicided to clense myself like you've said, however my choise was made cuz of planned surgery after week from now and I can say that you motivated me to do it a bit longer, thanks for that!
P.s. Sorry for my grammar not a native.
Hey Stan! Glad my video found you!
Hope all goes well for your surgery !
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Problems related to that shit are the same in all over the world. Wish you all the best in your life Man.
@@CamilleGarifull 💯 Camille.
Thank you and right back at you.
All the best
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Congrats for your year and a half sober and your channel! Very inspiring! 🔥🔥🔥
You made it here!!! Merci mon ami🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
man o man. I have always said I had more peer pressure in my 30-40's.i did not start really drinking until I was 43. then I dove into the deep end of the bottle and did the backstroke. so manipulative my own mind was to myself. love your video
Hey Kristi! “The backstroke “ 😂
I can relate 💯
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Great video!. I especially loved your crack analogy as I am also currently dealing with people asking me the same questions about why I'm not drinking. I am, in fact, a raging alcoholic lol. I am almost 1 month sober this time around. I had 7 years when I lived in Boston. Went on a 4 year bender when I moved down here to the Virgin Islands. Back on track though and have my own TH-cam channel about my journey in addiction and recovery. Thanks again for the video.
Congratulations Ron your 1 month💥
It took me about 3-4 tries in 3 years to finally get there.
Thank you for watching and sharing brother, I appreciate you
Duude! I just tried to see a video of how bad alco is (been without for 3 months). And omg! U are kinda a new/small youtuber (still), and you motivate in your videos. My second thing i wanted to search for was - How to start to make videos, I am feeling PERFECTIONISM and stuck. So THANK YOU, thank you for sharing you, thats how people can really find you!
Thank you soo much🙏🏼🙏🏼.
And congrats on your 3 month off the booze! Feels amazing doesn’t it 💥
Yep , all 3 subjects I covered here so far!
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I was never one for drinking until I got into the nightlife scene😬 I don’t drink every day, but I have a habit of drinking socially, and I definitely want to work on stopping it for health reasons. Your video was amazing, and perfectly executed😅 The energy is definitely in my favor at the moment I’m gonna keep going😅
Thank you so much Jessica for reaching out!
Im glad the video could help!
I appreciate you 🙏🏼
Really love your approach. I work in addiction, and I think things easily get bogged down with labels and agendas, no matter how good the intention. If something bothers you, how about taking a closer look? Don't need to let terms like alcoholic or addict get in the way. I really like your tip of scheduling your day to counteract boredom. And boredom can really be an opportunity for creativity and something new, instead of filling the time with something you're used to doing all the time... Thanks again and keep doing your thing, brother! (Oh, and what were the book and poster tubes you were opening at the beginning?)
💯 my friend!
Boredom is was a major catalyst for me to drink and I know I was not the only one! Thank you watching and sharing your thoughts my friend, I appreciate you 🙏🏼
That was the box of confetti tubes😎💥
Great message that was told beautifully, and your editing is 100% legit. Keep doing what you're doing!
Thank you so much🙏🏼
I appreciate you and thank you for watching 💥
Lovely outlook man. Thank you!
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Loved this video! 16 days today! Which is the longest I’ve been sober in many years 🎉
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Congrats on your alcohol break!
3.5 years off..... every aspect of my life has improved immeasurably... self confidence grows as time passes and my mental health / anxiety has fully disappeared.... set positive goals for yourself whether it's financial / fitness / family and watch your life transform
Amen my friend! Well said
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So first of all, congrats! Its good to hear a more objective opinion on this matter.
Now, how in the hell, is this level of quality production, but you only hav 2.6k subscribers ?:))
Keep it up!
Aaaw thank you so much for saying that. I appreciate you🙏🏼
Thank you for watching!