10 Good Questions to Ask to Get to Know Someone FAST!

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  • @Mantelligence
    @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Check out the full post here: www.mantelligence.com/good-questions-to-ask-to-get-to-know-someone/
    I LOVE these questions! Each tells you something insightful, and different, about a person... and helps you get to know them better QUICKLY!
    Which is your favorite? What other questions to you ask to get to know someone?
    ...My favorite is #7 (2:14)

    • @rigidfinger
      @rigidfinger 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      1. Do you have any spare change?2. Can you get some spare change?.........that is typically enough to at least get me a different interviewer.

    • @cosmopolitan4598
      @cosmopolitan4598 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh, that superpower thing. Well on a second thought, not gonna ask it. I'm gonna ask it to MYSELF!

    • @anantakurak6501
      @anantakurak6501 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If someone is broke up with their partner what are the questions that i can probably ask or tell inorder to know whether he or she is broke up or not? Please make this video.

    • @sasruto9089
      @sasruto9089 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about for someone you just met you can't just start asking this

  • @maithilisingh5457
    @maithilisingh5457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The questions -
    10. If you could only take three items with you to a deserted island, what would they be ?
    9. If One of your Five senses will be lost forever, which one would it be ?
    8. What animal best represents you and why ?
    7. If you could've one superpower, what would it be and how would you use it ?
    6. If you could live in a book, T.v show or movie, what would it be ?
    5. If you're OK a death row, what would your final meal be?
    4. What's the craziest thing you've ever done ?
    3. If your house was burning and you could save 1 item, what would it be and why ?
    2. If you could've dinner with one person living or dead, who would it be and why ?
    1. Which 90's era would you travel back to and why ?
    Yeah ! you're welcome :)

    • @jezwc
      @jezwc ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saved me a lot of time, thanks

    • @proshunsaha8757
      @proshunsaha8757 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

  • @georgekolotouros230
    @georgekolotouros230 7 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    What is your credit card limit ?

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Hahahah, I ldon't think that's gonna go that well my dude

    • @A.I.-
      @A.I.- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @MantelligenceDating Super rich and plenty of successful people have an advice on the matter:
      Never marry someone who is in debt. Never marry someone who is financially incompetent. You can marry them if you want at your own risk/demise. th-cam.com/video/PkbWBDeLrJ4/w-d-xo.html

    • @DayanaDeHabana
      @DayanaDeHabana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No, first you ask whats your social number? XD

    • @ac-nf5hu
      @ac-nf5hu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Golddigger

    • @ghia.the.aussie3918
      @ghia.the.aussie3918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      60 million

  • @idunoh1902
    @idunoh1902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    “What is your Social Security #?” Works every time.

  • @jacobsmith1912
    @jacobsmith1912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I didn't need this for dating I needed it for making friends and small talking to people online.

    • @tomato1087
      @tomato1087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      online people are boring man

  • @joshuasmith7369
    @joshuasmith7369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    A real question: if you had six months to live what would you do? Answer: go live my mother in law, because it will be the longest six months of my life. Haha.

  • @Bugumir
    @Bugumir 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    This is a two-sided situation. If you're cool and she likes you, these'll help. If you're awkward and weird (the very sub-species that needs these tips) you'll just come off as creepy.

    • @phalvorantos
      @phalvorantos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bugumir damn who hurt you

    • @danielguansing
      @danielguansing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe ask this questions if she's already comfortable with you, and I think it's how you approach her using this questions.. Is it lame approach or a cool attitude approach? I hope you get my point

  • @jacklincoln7786
    @jacklincoln7786 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I always ask one question that has gotten me through.
    “Do you have herpes?”

  • @sarahgranados1929
    @sarahgranados1929 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You should ask what thier passion is when you ask that their face just lights up I may be a kid but I love that question

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's a great question, man! Thanks for joining the conversation!

    • @zaki_ounoughi3239
      @zaki_ounoughi3239 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shane

  • @tbtb9431
    @tbtb9431 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Nice video. But lol
    If someone asks me those questions I do feel like I’m getting job interview.

  • @melgarifico323
    @melgarifico323 7 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    This is not typical of what a real human being would ask.these questions are a cliche. These questions would be asked by a serial killer to get to know you before turning you into a lampshade. I would be suspicious of a person asking these questions.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It's all about delivery big man. If you ask these out of the blue, without a normal-human intro... or if you just fire them off... it will come off as not normal. But if you ask them correctly, and use them correctly, they're neither cliche or serial-killer-y. They're fun, and tell you a surprising amount about a person

    • @maliaagf3846
      @maliaagf3846 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      MAURIFICO then what questions would you ask ?

    • @homebrandrules
      @homebrandrules 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MAURIFICO
      maybe you should have yourself tested, see what kind of psyche you have, your opinion maybe indicative

    • @requiembeatz4476
      @requiembeatz4476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MAURIFICO A surprisingly easy way to make questions like these less weird is to just be transparent and say "chit-chat questions are honestly kinda boring for me, you game for more thought-provoking ones?"
      It also helps if you answer them as well. Predatory individuals generally try to keep the playing field tilted in their favor, and avoid revealing information about themselves. Sharing equally as they do displays that you are willing to be as vulnerable as they are.

    • @cosmopolitan4598
      @cosmopolitan4598 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But, "Meal on a dead row" and "Losing which sense" are not what I'm gonna ask. Love the "three things in a island or what superhero strength" though.

  • @markjones6358
    @markjones6358 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1: A large role of tear resistant, thick mill plastic, long-lasting firestarter and a machete 2: Taste, there are few really good cooks in the world 3: Crow, inquisitive/adventurous/territorial/loyal 4: Teleportation, I could travel and acquire needed supplies easily 5: Avatar, far too many humans suck 6: A glass of hemlock juice on the rocks, One must rage against the machine 7: I'm not telling 8: USB drive with my passwords on it. Enough said. 9: Nikola Tesla, provided that he was talkative and the meal was light 10: I wouldn't…

  • @najlasyed9172
    @najlasyed9172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If you wanted to change your profession... what would it be and why?

  • @BunnyDump1ings2010
    @BunnyDump1ings2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’d choose to have dinner with my great grandpa one more time... I would want to get to know him more. He tried to get to know me but I wasn’t very interested because he didn’t seem interesting- but now I regret it now that he’s gone...

  • @parthagarwal4328
    @parthagarwal4328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Each one gives us important information about the world, and different way to enjoy it. Ummm like seeing beautiful views, hearing music, tasting food

  • @punkpoetry
    @punkpoetry 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The only thing you'll learn by asking most people these questions is how much patience for unbearably earnest & cliched bs they have.

  • @alfonsolandin1083
    @alfonsolandin1083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video to elicit "speaking" in my English Class. Thanks!

  • @adina9751
    @adina9751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10. I don’t want to go to a deserted island, why would i? If i got stranded, how can? I don’t go outside of my home unless it’s in the same city.
    9. Probably i would rather to not be able to taste things so i can eat vegetables.
    8. Panda lol. I do love lion tho.
    7. Be invisible.
    6. No. I don’t live in a lie world
    5. My traditional country meal.
    4. Nothing. I just laugh in the mall & people stop to watch me
    5. My phone
    6. Marilyn monroe
    7. 1900. Because people look more formal in their clothing lol.

  • @deepaktopno126
    @deepaktopno126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's really helpful for me... thankyou mantelligence

  • @alexdagreat4008
    @alexdagreat4008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Sooo... basically ask lots of hypothetical questions. Gotcha

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some are. They lead to fun conversations... others on there aren't

  • @liyon316
    @liyon316 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    An addendum to question #5: What would you be on Death Row for?!?!? lol

  • @NibberKSmooth
    @NibberKSmooth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No sane person would ask or answer these questions. Be spontaneous, thoughtful and genuine, that's the most important thing.

  • @Mainline2U
    @Mainline2U 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    STRONGLY DISAGREE!
    Since this channels name is "Mantelligence", and most videos are related to dating girls, I would ask these dating related questions:
    1. Political perspective?
    2. Age?
    3. Wedding ring - price she would expect you to pay?
    Bonus Question (If you make it through the first 3):
    4. How much debt do you have?

  • @unknown-jd3dz
    @unknown-jd3dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it worth it to get to know a guy who I haven’t met before, who lives a few states away, and I’m unsure about how it’ll work out?

  • @jandoherty5299
    @jandoherty5299 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Would be fun to ask family members and friends that you know well

  • @klarskov283
    @klarskov283 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This works to well, i did habe to back to each question because i started to think

  • @DoubleAIV
    @DoubleAIV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Question 1 is a white ppl only kinda thing ..

  • @aidanwatt9276
    @aidanwatt9276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you ask any of these questions is how you fuck your chances up. Just ask her to the movies

  • @katieobrien8301
    @katieobrien8301 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im using this to try and make friends

  • @techgamerboy8807
    @techgamerboy8807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Song at 0.00 is adventures by A himitsu, thank me later :)

  • @wtf_huntergt9385
    @wtf_huntergt9385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanted to ask my crush this but I realised that I was asked this Qns by some anonymous person on a social media and now I m like wow

  • @emilycunningham8125
    @emilycunningham8125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Interesting vid. Helpful. Ignore the critics.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yoo big man! So glad that you liked the vid! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!

  • @robertwhite386
    @robertwhite386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Honestly these videos have helped a lot. I hope to see more😊.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Robert! More videos coming soon brother!!!

  • @johnschaefer1904
    @johnschaefer1904 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow, you're really going to to remember all these questions and then retain his or her answers?

    • @Mainline2U
      @Mainline2U 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      John Schaefer
      Most guys don't think in these terms.
      These questions may be suitable for several dates down the road when/if you really want to get serious and know each other at a deeper level for a long term relationship / marriage.

    • @yct5458
      @yct5458 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      John Schaefer

  • @DYKWINNING
    @DYKWINNING 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Remember to ask a question and say your own opinion so it's not a clinical interview

  • @tanviroi7057
    @tanviroi7057 ปีที่แล้ว

    Supper interesting!

  • @Tmkeady
    @Tmkeady 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Death row meal = Would love to get fresh pesto sauce to put on chicken or some veggies (tomatoes) from my garden!

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much healthier than what I would do... but love it!

  • @balakishore376
    @balakishore376 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for awesome information.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course my man! Glad you liked it!

  • @sidharthpullarkkattumukund963
    @sidharthpullarkkattumukund963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The answer for 3rd Question is --"house "

  • @eggs2627
    @eggs2627 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds like I am going to have an interview with someone

  • @nathanbryan8655
    @nathanbryan8655 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wages, "ETC" and so on…

  • @lindseyboureston2681
    @lindseyboureston2681 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this!! Such great questions to ask!

  • @varunshridhar1310
    @varunshridhar1310 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They'll feel like being interviewed :-D

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude, that's a great observation. Interviewers ask questions that are meant to reveal a lot of info, and these questions do the same thing.

  • @GutFeelings
    @GutFeelings 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome deep inspiration​, thank you! Great video style with text and b-roll, love it! ​I think I'll try asking some of these even to my clients... curious what happens. :-)

  • @mimilils9335
    @mimilils9335 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are good to do in 20 questions

  • @shrishtipuri6279
    @shrishtipuri6279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great questions to ask👍

  • @TheHappyWanderer
    @TheHappyWanderer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you could ask an intriguing question to anyone, what question would that be?

  • @curtiserecacho1401
    @curtiserecacho1401 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's really cool. I like the what tv show book or movie would they live in. Interesting.

  • @Pippemi
    @Pippemi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like you should only ask one or two of these per conversation

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely gotta pace yourself.

  • @christopherellis2663
    @christopherellis2663 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Taste is the least useful
    Save my bug out bag!
    George Orwell

  • @gonnawantseconds6090
    @gonnawantseconds6090 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love this video! These questions are super thought provoking.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad that you liked it!

    • @davidgarcia9308
      @davidgarcia9308 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are to a certain degree, but instead of asking these questions and having to "decode" their replies. Why not just ask the question directly?

  • @utkrandy4936
    @utkrandy4936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would go with smell or taste

  • @davidwhitcher1972
    @davidwhitcher1972 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What animal represents me best: Human. I read SiFi and Fantasy, These worlds are full of death. I would not want any of them. The most dangerous thing i have done on purpose is jump out of a third story window.

  • @aspectaura
    @aspectaura 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *I cant think of anything to type*

  • @ronmiller7916
    @ronmiller7916 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found these questions pedestrian

  • @ablegr
    @ablegr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If my house was burning i’d save my house

  • @blessedmslady7016
    @blessedmslady7016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds fun🤗

  • @requiembeatz4476
    @requiembeatz4476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On that last one, can I choose to not go back at all? xD

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure! There are no wrong answers - only bad explanations...

  • @motherdaughtervlog.8653
    @motherdaughtervlog.8653 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahaha i try this to my friend and i laugh at her answers!!!! Hahahahahahaha

  • @rontomsethman4366
    @rontomsethman4366 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if you had to take a sit, and there was no toilet paper, what would you do

  • @FirstnameLastname-co2cq
    @FirstnameLastname-co2cq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How da fuck do i put those in a normal conversation?🤷‍♂️

  • @cyberkitty172639
    @cyberkitty172639 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Um.. I would be very concerned and weirded out if someone I barely knew would ask me these kind of questions.. I mean "If you were on death row what would be your LAST MEAL" like... way to kill the mood... I mean... I don't really think anyone would ask this to people whom they just met... and even in a "Hypothetical situation" where we were with our group of friends with whom you already share stuff in common and have somewhat a bit more confidence to talk about other topics more openly... Not even in this situation I would use any of these questions... These would just make people very uncomfortable!

  • @sun-illrai304
    @sun-illrai304 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What animal best represents you and why?..

  • @jaredleemease
    @jaredleemease 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great! 😀

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, man! We're working hard to keep the good stuff coming.

  • @redsox4life
    @redsox4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was another great, practical video.

  • @joshuajuniorkingal
    @joshuajuniorkingal 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best video

  • @medjisont.493
    @medjisont.493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Imagine asking a girl thes question lmao

  • @theUnicornOfPower
    @theUnicornOfPower 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    7. Laser eyes

  • @samislam2746
    @samislam2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video summary: ask weird questions

  • @elite4436
    @elite4436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please do not use these questions. These are super awkward. These will tell you nothing about a person. No offense to the video creator, he clearly just doesnt know better. You should ask questions that pertain to who people are and their interests. Watch a video on the FORD method, those are a 1000 times better than these.

  • @garymitchell5899
    @garymitchell5899 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get your point, but I'm not sure these are good date questions.

  • @BOMBAGUY25
    @BOMBAGUY25 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question 5 is a serial killer question

  • @mbotasofficial4172
    @mbotasofficial4172 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respect!!!!

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you brother!!! Welcome to the channel/community!!!

  • @100yearsand6
    @100yearsand6 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My answers to some of these questions would be more like my fantasy (which I'm not at all so I could imagine only in this kind of hypothetical situation) than what I exactly am (because it'd boring to regurgitate what I already know very well).
    For instance,
    I (don't have a pet because a pet keeps away from much else. but I) would definately bring one to a no man's island because there is not much else.

  • @ronnie9572
    @ronnie9572 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow

  • @josephashie5140
    @josephashie5140 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im watching this in 2020.......who else?

  • @kokokok8288
    @kokokok8288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate all of those questions because I have to think

  • @guruprashanthrao1093
    @guruprashanthrao1093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    try asking these questions to an introvert, he/she would run away to an another continent !

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha. Good call man. You do have to be able to tell when the other person isn't comfortable and ease.

  • @kick7132
    @kick7132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hearing

  • @EON314
    @EON314 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    8. I’m a bear chill and calm until you bother the fuck out of me

  • @adambutts2608
    @adambutts2608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doesn’t question 7 reveal an insecurity

  • @AnimeSongsNightcore
    @AnimeSongsNightcore 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this could never work in my country (Tunisia)

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brother! TBH, we made some of these vids with US in mind... but since our vids are already reaching guy worldwide, we're working to improve that. Stay tuned big man!!!

    • @yasminly5169
      @yasminly5169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      3andik el 7a9😂

  • @aaronfield7899
    @aaronfield7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    or they could just say "I don't know" to literally every question on this list

  • @curtisnewton895
    @curtisnewton895 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    10 x the same question..this sucks, this is not how you break the ice

  • @guilherminhu
    @guilherminhu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd rather talking about my job than answering those stupid questions...

  • @tinolino58
    @tinolino58 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ca I get my 36 seconds back?

  • @luziela.dugart6987
    @luziela.dugart6987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t think that is good for knowing the core of a human being this is just silly cuz u never know their real self

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Luziel A. D ugart what you suggest I'm just wondering

  • @geoffreymongella714
    @geoffreymongella714 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dope

  • @jkbleach4902
    @jkbleach4902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd lose my sense of smell

    • @mrmadness278
      @mrmadness278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Taste. Taste is made up mostly from smell

  • @markreilly4577
    @markreilly4577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These sound more like job interview questions and not questions I would ask while on a date. Just be yourself, talk about your interests and goals in life and if there is a connection it will come naturally, if not then just move on. Leave this cheesy shit for the romantic comedies.

  • @Rachmanfan4life
    @Rachmanfan4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Horrible

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's like your thing on YT, huh big guy? Be negative and not helpful? If you actually think it's horrible, you gotta say WHY and you gotta be able to back it up.

    • @Mainline2U
      @Mainline2U 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MantelligenceDating
      Scolding is not helpful.

  • @jacksonthomas6381
    @jacksonthomas6381 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    D

  • @Ilovecats082
    @Ilovecats082 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    im a girl.....oh welp

    • @watisean.
      @watisean. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      SHIT THE OTHER GENDER IS INVADING

    • @eyelash2751
      @eyelash2751 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @כורשמשרתו
    @כורשמשרתו 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These are very awkward questions, it ain't work in real life

  • @drizzy-rm1mm
    @drizzy-rm1mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz don't ask any of this shit when your trying to get to know someone

  • @Bubbles99718
    @Bubbles99718 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    No.

  • @toothbrush5190
    @toothbrush5190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10 really bad questions

  • @darkjolt9571
    @darkjolt9571 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wanna get a girlfriend with no effort? Listen carefully! What you have to do is say to the girl " Hi how is your day going." They say what they have to say then what you do is say " Hey sexy you like my ninty trillion dollar car outside?"

  • @judyradin
    @judyradin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys dont this😂 its a bit socially off

  • @gti500
    @gti500 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those questions are not going to get you laid.