He talked like he back in slavery. You will come back, you will be a good wife, and you will wait until I marry you, you will humble yourself. What kind of relationship is that
Her father saw something about this guy that this girl didn't see years ago. That is the reason why he wouldn't allow his daughter to marry this control freak. He doesn't want to marry her but he doesn't want anyone else to marry her. This girl needs to move on with her life before she gets too old to marry or to have any more children.
Any man that will tell you they will marry when they want to and on their terms. Let him have access to his child and move on with your life. He is very controlling. He is possessive of the woman. He is very manipulative. He can only marry a woman like him. If that lady marries this man she is a first class mumu.
This guy is displaying narcissistic attitude, gas lighting, threats, and possessive, this lady should get rid of this guy,go to court and get a court order to restrain him and arrange custody for the child. The guy is insane, run 🏃♀️
Sister, please see a family lawyer to help both of you in this case. Let him visit his son at your parents. Let a lawyer arrange this. Be civil with him. PRAY
George is not serious, if it was your sister, will you allow someone take her home without paying her bride price? Let her family stand for her, it's time to show she's their daughter and teach this guy a lesson
There was no marriage he refused to pay bride price on the woman wasting her time You know women have limited time to born children. The guy is arrogant
Talking as a paralegal, The domicile of a child gotten out of wedlock follows that of the mother until the child gets to the age of 18 and then he/ she will take a domicile of choice. Amanda in as much as I will advice u not to get back with this narcissistic man, but he has every right to see his son. The most u can do is take him to court and the court will grant u full custody of your child while George will be given visitation rights . U taking a child that he has been in his life from birth is wrong . George on the hand has no right whatsoever to call your man and start threatening him. I will equally suggest u get the police involve for him to go sign and undertaking / restraining order from interfering with your relationship .
This guy is not serious. He wants the milk and will decide on the cow later. The lady should go and call all the elders in their village to get involved because this guy is selfish.
Some people are not realistic o, Because she's been a good girl,you want to hold her hostage. You're not married to someone and you're ordering her around because she has a child for you. You want her standing by you forever. Nobody is taking your child, she only wants to get a commitment from you but he's selfish to notice the strings she's pulling. As educated as he appears, he doesn't want to pay for her. Tomorrow after wasting her life and time, he will say he saw a better person.
Oga is full of pride. Go to child protection lawyers and get help. George is no worth to love the child he wanted you to comot. The thing with these guys if they say comot the belle, just go your way and keep it but let them know you comot it as per their wish. Now he wants to destroy your happiness who does that?
Another thing is if the current guy can perform the marital right, take the child away from him. He can't do shirts until he's humble he will not see the child again. After all, he suggested abortion. I need you to teach him a lesson by going far till after 15 yrs time. He's such an epp
This George man doesn't want this lady to get married. He's just too proud to acknowledge he still wants her.......... it's scary in hearing him threatening her. Please go for serious prayer and deliverance closing the past
Oga I don't know what he smokes, he is not schooled well, he will get married when he wants. Whose daughter are you talking about? Narcissist, he wants her to be an object a slave? Thats long gone this is the 21st century. It will not work. Chimamanda please go to the court for custody.
This angry man is possessed and jealous of the guy with his baby mama. He better strengthen up and find someone else to marry not this one. The lady must allow him access to see his child even on weekends. Children must not be caught in the middle of family feud.
Hmmmm, he's not a responsible man, she should avoid him and stop going to his house, he's the kind of man that won't respect his wife, he should go and look for another that will accept his conditions, he can't force a woman to marry him against her wish, because that will be an offence.
This woman is looking for trouble,even if she wants to marry another person ,telling the man to his face that he won't be seeing his child is attacking attracting unnecessary trouble
Allow him access to his child cos he has been in the picture nor matter how you try to denial it. He has full right to his child but you are not his property. You can decide to settle down with him or move on
You will perform the ,rites at your own time'. This is another jide ooo. Ben handle this case well kindly make a report to the police because threatening is a criminal matter let the government take it from there.
Ochichi Idi Amin 😂😂😂 Girl, how did you put up with this for years without being .arried to him. If you were married, I will be saying you are trying to. Uild your home. You might have put up with him because of your child. I am not judging but i can tell this guy is a lot to put up with. Jisike and do what is good for you
Please, Ben, b4, this matter gets worse. Tell the girl not to deny him of his child. Whether both of them get married or not, l am not bother about that. Let her give him his son. PERIOD
The child is probably not his. The womam seems to be using a code phrase to convey that --- "you are not in the picture; just send money". This guy needs to do DNA test on the child no matter the relationship outcome with the woman. I do not think they should marry again especially now the woman has come out in the open that she has a new fiancee, openly declaring to this guy that she's knacking another man. She will never respect this man again with such audacious declaration. In the same way, this man will never truly love or trust her again even if he marries her now.
All of you blaming this guy when you not finally off from a guy that you had son together and jump into a relationship and you people don’t see that the guy is pained and he still love this lady
Proud George Confuse George Self centered George It seems this guy has something off his sleeve that we dont know. He is raising some kind of threat that we shiuld not take likely. Ben please take care oh
This man gives you money for his child up keeping and pays for the child’s education there is no way you have the right keep his child away from him. No Court will decide that.
She continued saying the guy was not in the picture, but he was sending you money for the boy's up keep. So bring his son to him and l don't support you saying his son now belong to your new found boy friend when the father is alive. You can go and marry a man of your own choice, but take the son to the father. This is just my opinion and I am entitled to it. Thanks
This guy is delusional and kindly teach him a lesson. Ben, I want you and the girl to stop making him relevant by not even going close to him. Secondly, if the current boyfriend can afford it, let them quietly relocate to another city, say one of the African countries. How can he be fooling himself that way. He will marry at his pace after 6 years. this is the highest insults that can be given to someone
Live this woman to go and try the other side let her try the other boy after she will understand later you will come back to the father of your child that place you think that you are going is not the best I told you truth let her remember this
Ben cash are you blind to see the man still love her and the lady is wrong to be in a relationship when you not finally end it with the father of your son and I don’t know how you people judge this guy… the lady was cheating on him behind before now una don’t know how to judge I swear
He talked like he back in slavery. You will come back, you will be a good wife, and you will wait until I marry you, you will humble yourself. What kind of relationship is that
He is definitely in the dark ages. Marriage is not by force, do or die. He is controlling and out of his mind!
Exactly. lol. Thats Nigerian men 😂😂😂😂
Her father saw something about this guy that this girl didn't see years ago. That is the reason why he wouldn't allow his daughter to marry this control freak. He doesn't want to marry her but he doesn't want anyone else to marry her. This girl needs to move on with her life before she gets too old to marry or to have any more children.
Exactly
Any man that will tell you they will marry when they want to and on their terms. Let him have access to his child and move on with your life. He is very controlling. He is possessive of the woman. He is very manipulative. He can only marry a woman like him. If that lady marries this man she is a first class mumu.
Ben Cash, you are a patient and respectful man. You will go very far in life..
This man is not looking for a wife.He’s looking for Army people that he will command and boss around.
This guy is displaying narcissistic attitude, gas lighting, threats, and possessive, this lady should get rid of this guy,go to court and get a court order to restrain him and arrange custody for the child. The guy is insane, run 🏃♀️
Please respect each other and let him see his child. He has visitations right. Let peace reign in your lives. ❤ from London 🇬🇧
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This is a good example of the people who light the house on fire when everyone else is asleep ..
Sister, please see a family lawyer to help both of you in this case.
Let him visit his son at your parents. Let a lawyer arrange this.
Be civil with him.
PRAY
This man is controling
This blind man get waitin e hold that's why he so bold
Girl please 🙏 run away from this wicked man before is too late.
Let him see the child that is all so he can be free and you can be free
George is not serious, if it was your sister, will you allow someone take her home without paying her bride price?
Let her family stand for her, it's time to show she's their daughter and teach this guy a lesson
Ben has the two reconciled
George is delusional, he as already lost his mind 😂😂😂Guyana 🇬🇾
The way Ben is looking at this man like what can of foolish mn is this
This man is very proud.
But why are these women like this? She needs to get him clear before all these noises.
That gadem man is dreaming.
The guy still love the lady!
This man is going down.He have over steps his limit
Chimamanda give him access to his child and go your separate way.leave him cos the marriage has broken down irretrievably
There was no marriage he refused to pay bride price on the woman wasting her time You know women have limited time to born children. The guy is arrogant
Girl listen to his words catefully.
This is " if I can't have you no one wt" and so woman needs to run, fast even relocate
Talking as a paralegal, The domicile of a child gotten out of wedlock follows that of the mother until the child gets to the age of 18 and then he/ she will take a domicile of choice. Amanda in as much as I will advice u not to get back with this narcissistic man, but he has every right to see his son. The most u can do is take him to court and the court will grant u full custody of your child while George will be given visitation rights . U taking a child that he has been in his life from birth is wrong . George on the hand has no right whatsoever to call your man and start threatening him. I will equally suggest u get the police involve for him to go sign and undertaking / restraining order from interfering with your relationship .
This guy is not serious. He wants the milk and will decide on the cow later. The lady should go and call all the elders in their village to get involved because this guy is selfish.
Women dis should be a good example of not forcing a man to marry u,let Dem do tins at dia own will.
🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ girl.........
His house, his relationship, his time.
Some people are not realistic o, Because she's been a good girl,you want to hold her hostage.
You're not married to someone and you're ordering her around because she has a child for you. You want her standing by you forever. Nobody is taking your child, she only wants to get a commitment from you but he's selfish to notice the strings she's pulling.
As educated as he appears, he doesn't want to pay for her. Tomorrow after wasting her life and time, he will say he saw a better person.
Oga is full of pride. Go to child protection lawyers and get help. George is no worth to love the child he wanted you to comot. The thing with these guys if they say comot the belle, just go your way and keep it but let them know you comot it as per their wish. Now he wants to destroy your happiness who does that?
If he is the father then he should have visitation rights with the child. She is wrong to keep his child from him even if she is not with him.
Another thing is if the current guy can perform the marital right, take the child away from him. He can't do shirts until he's humble he will not see the child again. After all, he suggested abortion. I need you to teach him a lesson by going far till after 15 yrs time. He's such an epp
Masa you love the girl stop being proud and talk to her to come back and get ready to pay the bride price
Oga,do the needful and settle it
Ben respect the man decision the guy never Collect his bride price ok,so she still his wife
What is this one saying?
This George man doesn't want this lady to get married. He's just too proud to acknowledge he still wants her.......... it's scary in hearing him threatening her. Please go for serious prayer and deliverance closing the past
He is too proud this man is something else sis God will save you
My sister please run this man is using juju on you. Don't go back.
Let him see his child, however the child can stay with him till the child is six years old. From Australia
Oga I don't know what he smokes, he is not schooled well, he will get married when he wants. Whose daughter are you talking about? Narcissist, he wants her to be an object a slave? Thats long gone this is the 21st century. It will not work. Chimamanda please go to the court for custody.
This angry man is possessed and jealous of the guy with his baby mama. He better strengthen up and find someone else to marry not this one. The lady must allow him access to see his child even on weekends. Children must not be caught in the middle of family feud.
Girl, run from this man, your father knew that is why he rejected this man. This man is mad and don't even marry him again
Very Proud , arrogant guy and selfish.
My time, at my pace, my this, my that haba. only you. So she doesn't have a say? damnmn!!
Hmmmm, he's not a responsible man, she should avoid him and stop going to his house, he's the kind of man that won't respect his wife, he should go and look for another that will accept his conditions, he can't force a woman to marry him against her wish, because that will be an offence.
Girl run for ur life he can do and undo try to keep safe and report to the police but be very careful of him
This woman is looking for trouble,even if she wants to marry another person ,telling the man to his face that he won't be seeing his child is attacking attracting unnecessary trouble
George may be using something indeed. Sister, run for your life o. He wants to frustrate your life.
If you no dey chop
You leave who wants chop
Go up no no
Go up no no
Which one you dey
That means all this while the girl self has been cheating
Ben cash this one pass you
The matter don get belle. George should move or leave the road. Do not be an obstacle. Wahala everywhere!
If George ask her to marry him right there and then, the fiancé will be a thing of the past. George marry this girl and stop wasting our time.
This guy is not serious. He wants to keep her and marry her at his own time. You need to pay her bride price to claim the child oga
Mr man is too authoritative /autocratic!
How women take dey meet these type of psychopath, sociopath. and narcissist?
.hmmm these spcial media content creators need to be verg careful ohhhh.
I don't think that man likes women he's giving zesty vibes
The guy sound so foolish and proud of himself
Allow him access to his child cos he has been in the picture nor matter how you try to denial it. He has full right to his child but you are not his property. You can decide to settle down with him or move on
He didn't pay pride price so he is not the owner of the child. He can only see the child but not have access to him
He is psycho,the way he is saying you are going to do this and that as if the girl has no say
When you are ready, who the fuck are you?? At your pace who the fuck are you?? Co parent yes but you can't force her
Oga go and marry this woman and all this will stop.
Some cultures say another man's child can go to another ,on the condition you did not marry her.
Are you MAD??? SIT DOWN MY FRIEND MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE!!!!
You will perform the ,rites at your own time'. This is another jide ooo. Ben handle this case well kindly make a report to the police because threatening is a criminal matter let the government take it from there.
Ochichi Idi Amin 😂😂😂
Girl, how did you put up with this for years without being .arried to him. If you were married, I will be saying you are trying to. Uild your home. You might have put up with him because of your child. I am not judging but i can tell this guy is a lot to put up with. Jisike and do what is good for you
Please, Ben, b4, this matter gets worse. Tell the girl not to deny him of his child. Whether both of them get married or not, l am not bother about that. Let her give him his son.
PERIOD
How old is the child she should give to this narcissist.
That guy is a manipulator
This is evil person talking.My sister makes sure you pray up. Because ,people like these will go t the extreme to fight you.He’s dangerous 😂😂😂😂
The child is probably not his. The womam seems to be using a code phrase to convey that --- "you are not in the picture; just send money". This guy needs to do DNA test on the child no matter the relationship outcome with the woman. I do not think they should marry again especially now the woman has come out in the open that she has a new fiancee, openly declaring to this guy that she's knacking another man. She will never respect this man again with such audacious declaration. In the same way, this man will never truly love or trust her again even if he marries her now.
So!!! She isn’t married to this man. She has a RIGHT to move on.
I love this man.pls lady comply 😊
All of you blaming this guy when you not finally off from a guy that you had son together and jump into a relationship and you people don’t see that the guy is pained and he still love this lady
He needs to get over it. She isn’t his wife.
The son was raised under his roof for how many years and she’s saying the man not in the picture
This guy is a proud fool
Proud George
Confuse George
Self centered George
It seems this guy has something off his sleeve that we dont know.
He is raising some kind of threat that we shiuld not take likely.
Ben please take care oh
She is not your woman, go and pay her bride price. Dear man, you are complicated.
Ben, involve police ASAP
Ben cash shey d guy dem sabi other?
Give him access to his child,it will enable him to Free u.
Release his child....
Please don't ho back to this man. He is toying with your life. Don't.
This man gives you money for his child up keeping and pays for the child’s education there is no way you have the right keep his child away from him. No Court will decide that.
Who knows whether that child belongs to this young man ? The lady is not being real to you bro
Let him see his child. You are provoking by hiding his child from him.
Madam allow him access to his child nah
You guys stop confusing us please…Don’t you know the difference between fiancé and fiancée???? 😂😂😂
Culture.
This man is a bag of pride...I really don't like him
Do l sense jealousy here?😂😂😂
She continued saying the guy was not in the picture, but he was sending you money for the boy's up keep. So bring his son to him and l don't support you saying his son now belong to your new found boy friend when the father is alive. You can go and marry a man of your own choice, but take the son to the father. This is just my opinion and I am entitled to it. Thanks
Lady don't marri this man ok
But the child u haven't paid are mummy bride price isn't ur child mr George
He must be occltic
This presenter is going ban.an.as, how dare you ask someone if he is using something
Is this whole thing about you? Man, be considerate and let her be please. It seems you are not ready to settle down
I think you need to involve a man of God. The way he is speaking
This guy is delusional and kindly teach him a lesson. Ben, I want you and the girl to stop making him relevant by not even going close to him. Secondly, if the current boyfriend can afford it, let them quietly relocate to another city, say one of the African countries. How can he be fooling himself that way. He will marry at his pace after 6 years. this is the highest insults that can be given to someone
Live this woman to go and try the other side let her try the other boy after she will understand later you will come back to the father of your child that place you think that you are going is not the best I told you truth let her remember this
😂😂😂. If he truly loved her, he should’ve married her. Stop 🛑 the nonsense.
This man is full of himself what the hell am I hearing he a narcissist
This bro toi is so selfish😢😢😢
both of u shod settle
Ben cash are you blind to see the man still love her and the lady is wrong to be in a relationship when you not finally end it with the father of your son and I don’t know how you people judge this guy… the lady was cheating on him behind before now una don’t know how to judge I swear