@@kairanelle1380so you shouldn’t know your role as a woman? So many women want men to know their role but it’s a problem for men to want a women to know her role??
Unlike the bad shallow minded representations of ur gender, that are quick to pop balloons becoz the female next to her pops hers or coz of the way the man walks out
@@advanced8998Exactly. Most of them were not interested in the second woman! They were just waiting for a moment to pop and potentially go viral! lol it’s too obvious. Secondly the men don’t pop right away. The women do.
I don't care what NO ONE says...Arlette is that girl (woman)!!!! She's so classy, beautiful, well-mannered, well-spoken, well-dressed, sophisticated, she needs her own TV SHOW! She is an example of an elegant black woman that deserves a huge platform. She's entertaining, sparks controversy (some people don't like her mannerisms, others like myself do). She puts out consistent, HIGH-QUALITY, enjoyable content. May God bless her abundantly. :)
I totally get Alexis. I’m glad that she stood her ground. Allot of times some men expect you to ride through his laziness. He wants you to stay through all his toxicity. She wants someone who knows his role, who takes responsibility, and is mature in his life and career. There is nothing wrong with that. Best wishes for her.
I just got fired from my 9-5 but thanks to this show I may become an entrepreneur and run a lot of businesses and maybe become a model while Im at it 😂😂😂
Prayers to the first woman with the Heart Condition that may impact her ability to have kids. That’s not something that was in her control and she probably had a tuff time receiving that news. Someone will come along love that accepts you and wants to build something with you.
She did spark a good debate, I just hope she realizes that it's not a "man's perspective". If two people are operating on different definitions of a specific word, ofc there's going to be confusion and disagreements. I guess her and the people around her have their own definition of a ride or die and that's what ended her chances there.
You must be a woman 😂… she was annoying. The only thing interesting about the debate she sparked is that I like debating. She was fortunate to come across respectful men that were willing to listen. The balloons should have popped on sight…
@@coreyjohnson4801agreed. My immediate thought was “if men collectively have a definition of a saying then the definition is theirs if you actually want a man…”. She should have conceded the point once the panel gave her the definition however she executed the N in sign language.
Agreed! She articulated herself clearly and what her point of view was and she didn’t let them mansplain “ride or die”. And I actually agree with her point of view, ride or die is sometimes negative, that if your partner says let’s go rob a bank to get some money that you’re just expected to go along with it for love.
Styles 33 is such a well rounded guy! I hate that the women looked over him because his height. He shows the most emotional maturity. We can 5’8 together baby 😂😍
They gave the 2nd woman a chance even tho , respectfully, she was a bit out of shape. Yet here she is talking about ‘I’m not a ride or die’….‘I like to travel and eat’ 🤦🏿♂️
The second girl was right. Some men stay in their “potential stage “ for way too long and sometimes never get out of it. So I understood her points regarding this.
Men on the show and in these comments could sense that she will not be going for any bullsh!t games boys play when they want to postpone taking the wheel and being a man. She let them know it's not even her role to pick up your slack if you fall down on your man duties,.. A man dusts himself off, gets back in the game. Basically a real man doesn't even consider his woman ever having to pick up his duties of the man's role. If he loses his health or passes he made sure to have plenty life & disability insurance, he's a saver, obtains assets, etc. He knows she's there to assist and facilitate. She's actually right in the sense that, a real man will have made contingency plans, and be moving and thinking a few steps ahead so hard times don't catch him behind the eight ball.
All of your opinions are subjective. This is their point. What you and the lady above me consider being a man, and potential stage is not actually in matter of what makes a man a man, and what makes someones psychological ambition at a certain stage. Context is all that matters, and that what makes a subjective opinion objective. If you dont strive to gain that context yet claim this and that about a situation, then your being disingenuous to what you really mean and are implying. Theres no fake men whos a man. This is like me calling a women a fake women. The guys sensed that her opinions on her claiming she wants a guy not in the potential stage is a greenhorn of selfishness in a relationship. She wants a man who has his shit together, and thats fine. But all of the men according to definition also had their shit together, which implies that its something else she wants that she is not telling them. She has her own ambitions with dating, yet says she wants a man who puts those ambitions or "potential" on a halt for her. Is disengenous and telling of her past and future behavior.
Right, the guy named Styles was talking about his future. That’s selling a dream that may never happen. She was more concerned about where he is now and what he has already three accomplished. And he couldn’t understand that thinking.
Woman in the green outfit was spot on with her perception of a ride or die... Everyone looks at it differently, I like the way she explained why she perceived it that way.
Why did I get emotional from the first young lady when she spoke on her fertility situation. How noble of you to share that. May God continue to bless you!
The lady in green jumpsuit was definitely my favorite. She is so self aware and articulate! You can see they tried to make her feel bad about her convictions and standards (ride or die/submissiveness comments), but not once she shook in her boots lol. The woman stood her ground with politeness and dignity, love it for her!
Ride or Die is definitely what men are looking for. The simpler term is "LOYALTY". If she expresses that to any many, they would be a fool to cuff her. Life happens.
You know what else I like about this show (without the cursing and the inappropriate talking at times) is it is raw, no music, no sound-effects -- you just get to listen and hear the thoughts and feelings of the men and women.
RICO IS SO FINE BRO. I cannot comprehend people actually popping his balloon wtf. His smile. The way he looks at them. His height. His hair. He’s literally perfect I’m in love 😭💗
@@kameraboyd1960 yes 🙈 cause that means he knows his role too and I’m fine being a stay at home wife if he’s bringing in the big bucks as his “role” and also he’s just hot so 🤷♀️
Man with the glasses and brown pants is SO FINE. Intellectually, his answers and questions were intentional the entire time and that’s so freaking attractive.
All of these fella's are beautiful intelligent men that have spoken very well . They are looking for a woman of integrity, intelligence, kindness , communication on a deeper level , supporter's to their man through thick and thin, i loved this group of men. ❤
Only dude hiding behind shades and a hat, and the fact that he brought his 1 and 2 yr old up once he was the last man standing. He knew what to say and what not to say to get her. Textbook manipulator
Girl in yellow dress literally just finished telling him “it’s the little things” in regards to love language and he deadass was bout to leave the room without leading her out plus he has two new babies….red flagsss
I love the Jamaican lady. She's intellectually intelligent, smart, I love how respectful she is, and I love how she expressed what she wants and didn't settle.
But did you guys notice how he spoke eloquently when he shared his understanding of the “ride or die” phrase. He’s probably really well spoken but putting on a front. I would’ve popped his balloon as soon as he opened mouth.
I thought it was just me. I expected so much more from him growing up in a two parent household. He kinda gave off he was playing a character and that’s not really him. Like suburban kids that try to act hood.
I am unsire if Arlette reads the comments but I love this show, she is the only Pop the balloon host I can watch. Always beautiful and professional and entertaining
Ladies, please leave something to be desired and go over questions at home. If you've watched the show, you should know what to expect. These men were the best group of men I've seen on here that actually looked for the women to have depth. Good job guys.
Why would the women go over questions? You're right this is best group of men, after 8 episodes. If anything they're most likely responding to all the valid complaints that the women had on the show, about the men not dressing appropriately, and eliminating the women for very superficial reasons like the color of her dress or not wearing a watch. Most of the women have always dressed nice and asked solid questions to the men, now these men are stepping their game up trying to match the women's energy.
@@missyd1215I thibk they are saying they should come prepared. Some came on the show as if they hadn’t considered their own deal breakers or what they what in a man or even a couple questions to have ready since you know you’ll need to ask some
@missyd1215 For instance, the guy with the tight plaid pants kept having to tell some of the women to ask questions of substance. The lady in the green spoke well but ended up shooting herself in the foot. The girl in all black from Phoenix was extremely shallow. She just wanted a guy with money and had nothing to share with them about herself. She likes going out but couldn't even figure out how to say that she's clubs. She said multiple times that she goes out and she likes dating and going out to eat. She recently lost 65 pounds said something about the gym but couldn't really communicate that she goes. Several guys were models, and the 2 on either end are heavily in the gym but she never ask them questions that would tell her anything about them.
@@bkbk-rn6nyme either. She was contradicting herself, especially when it came to the discussion of ride or die/hard times. She came off as confident on the surface but…
@@in_vas_por8810 It's one thing to not be attracted. It's another thing to say it the way he did. It's like saying I don't like you cos your lips are too big. It was disrespectful. She was a nice lady so totally unprovoked.
I can’t wait to see the Ivory and Prince update 😂😂😂 girl you spoke about intuition and ignored yours! Prince said his kids were far away to convince her that’s not a problem when it is. That means you are not a present father and you have two toddlers.
definitely, I never thought about it that deep, but I have at the same time; because I associate with negative things too, as well as positive, but in a lot of her answers, similar to her reason for why she doesn't do ride or die is because she doesn't want to stay in a gray area, but be direct.
A lot of these candidates in this episode actually have depth and real emotional intelligence ❤️ I feel like so many people on this show can be shallow af. And I love when they calling people out for being too shallow too! This is easily one of my favorite episodes!
The lady in the green jumpsuit is the perfect example of, “That’s just not your room/audience.” She was gorgeous, authentic, eloquent and spot on with everything she said; the men just didn’t share her perspective. There is an amazing man who will understand and love her completely. He just wasn’t in that room! ❤
I have a Jamaican girlfriend she reminded me exactly of. Smart driven classy same body type and the same voice lol. My friends in a very healthy relationship with a great guy so I think she'll find hers too
@@lj9352 women keep women single. Gorgeous? Smh… There’s no room for you with men, if men collectively share a perspective and you refuse to accept the perspective… She’s either going to realign her pov to get a man, be with women, or be alone…
She and I have similar views. I'm happily married. I say all the time, I'm not a woman that any man would want- but the RIGHT man wanted me...and INSPIRED a submission my family was SHOCKED to see 🤷🏾♀️ She'll find her match, the guys that don't like her just aren't it 😂😂🤣
This is the best line up of men I've seen on this show. They are well-put together, handsome, well-spoken, searching for depth, didn't pop their balloons immediately, nice smiles, intelligent, etc.
I'm a woman... and these fits these women are rocking ---aint it at all. But this line up of men----their mindset, intellect, questions/conversations are top tier.
Same here. I'm watching and thinking what's up with these outfits? 🤦🏾♀️ I like watching these videos but the mindset of the people on the show is wild. They're young but woah.
I love the second woman. She knows what she wants. She handled herself with grace, even after she was being tried. Additionally, she explained very well how “Ride or Die” is negative in her opinion, and didn’t back down.
lol…that phrase “ride or DIE” is sooooo detrimental…..usually “ride or die” women, a piece of THEM DIES while the “struggling man” THRIVES….there’s being there during hard times & then there’s taking on the WHOLE load while he doesnt even TRY smh
She do better than most but when it’s a cast of woman and it’s a guy doing the line up she should not ask if that woman’s the guys type. Because most of the time if the man says yes. The woman get jealous or insecure and pop because the man saw something in the woman in question
What a refreshing episode full of mature men and women, they are self aware and true to themselves, above all else they express themselves respectfully. That girl in yellow dress chose the wrong guy, he is self absorbed no acts of service from that one lowl
When people say im an Entrepreneur and do not elaborate or qualify it, its a tell that theyre either unemployed, still fumbling with ideas or struggling financially.
I said this in an other comment Seems like the safe occupation to say is I'm in entertainer or Entrepreneur To act like they making moves but don't have anything really going on So they masked it like you said
On my 3rd episode my first 1 with the all dude lineup & these guys have been more respectful & patient when it came to popping balloons & answering questions than the women lineups I’ve seen
@@blackbutterfyeLOL what do you mean that exactly? She will remain single forever. Nowhere near an attractive women and her beliefs are pretty one side and not putting her thought on another perspective.
Me too. She spoke very well and was firm in what she was saying. Those guys talking about ride or die know damn well it's usually on the lady side to stick by some trash men.
Arlette is the best host on TH-cam for this series. The best structure, the most professional w/ grown and sexy vibe. The best editing & quality of people.
Bro she is the best at this. I tried watching other videos and they’re goofy and silly, not saying anything is wrong with that, but on other channels they play too much
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
I'll be real: I've gone down a rabbit hole. I'm learning so much from these answers and making me question my own views. I love this. You're a fabulous host!
on one show the lady asked straight up does anyone here have a criminal history. I thought that was an excellent question young ladies need to start bluntly asking early and upfront, while informing the men that she normally does google search and background checks on any man she is serious about.
The Jamaican queen from Atlanta was classy, beautiful, insightful, engaging and stood her ground. I honestly feel like she set the bar higher for the next ladies that followed her.
She’s the women’s favorite. I saw it completely different. First and foremost she doesn’t actually know what things mean. I.e she conflated being a self starter with being established when they’re not necessarily tied together.
Shouts out to the Black Brothas ✊🏾 on this panel they stood on their morals and philosophies. Just because she looks attractive doesn’t mean she’s will be a good woman to you. This one of the best episodes
Agreed, ladies, us men don't like strong independent women who are not ride or die, .. who are petty and go out on dates, (which men pay for) and the weaves are getting longer and longer...
Semen retention and delayed gratification is 🔑 as a man When your lens of life isn’t focused on pedastalizing the power of vagina and looks, you can fairly judge women better
Especially the last chick she actually thought lyte skin, long weave and a big trunk could overcome that toxic tude she was trying to hide. Well done gentlemen!! Well done! ✊🏾
That second lady, honestly I respect the actual hell out of her. She's so very blunt. Her points were valid. As a woman I need someone who adds to me not subtracts from me. I want someone who is at a secure place in their life same as myself. I want someone who doesn't put me in a situation where the choices are ride it out or die trying. Constant endurance and emotional/physical labor is not her happy ending, and that's not wrong. She wants a love that flourishes, nourishes, a love she can relish in not endure and "hang on" to. Respect, mad respect.
Isn't 'subtraction' the thing that women do?? Let's face the fact, most women in relationships only subtract, most of you'll don't add anything of physical value apart from take take take.
You're not in control, however. None of us are. I can have a 10 million dollar hustle, but what happens if things that are outside of my control make me lose most of it? You're just going to run away? Lol she has more red flags than a Chinese new year parade, although i do like the way she carries herself. She has a very bright aura, and itll get brighter when she leaves you 🤣
@@lejamesbron5880 she offered enough insight to convey that she would stick around in that kind of hypothetical scenario you offered, granted that said partner has a capacity to get back on their feet. The "ride or die" she is referring to is to do with not wanting to tolerate acts of disrespect, harm or dysfunction, which no self-respecting person should settle for regardless.
No, she is not. She is arrogant, masculine, and overbearing. First, she said she is open to dating a younger man, and then she pops his balloon because he is younger.
@@ThiaFort-fk7shhow is that arrogant? It’s literally her preference. The boy sounds unserious as hell she was doing him a favor by saying it was age instead of embarrassing him.
And the young lady in the green, don’t give up! You are so poised and evolved. Unfortunately, your match wasn’t in this lineup but I guarantee your match is on the way💗
I love how Arlette walks backwards and the women follow her lead. It’s so men aren’t staring at their backsides as they walk. Love it! I’m new to this series and I’m very intrigued.
I think this technique is just to not give their backs to the audience. The men on the left side of the lineup would still have a view of their back sides as they walk further down the line
She did an amazing job articulating her stance when it comes to that; it really is asking for a "yes" woman and only required of women and never expected of men who society supports being flighty at best in contrast. Millions of women who are starting to take themselves and their futures seriously have expressed the same concerns she has and repented from previously being sacrificial lambs living up to the "ride or die" trope.
I feel like Styles needs an appreciation thread...that man is foine and brilliant and shouldn't be limited to height because with that personality, intellect, maturity and smile...he stands at 7 feet tall.
I'm glad sis stood her ground about the "ride or die" concept. I do think the men on both of the ends of the line were her best matches. She was sweet. Also Preston is the BOMB!
Having your own perspective on things is great but there's a point where you're trying to hard and over complicating things. Like you LITERALLY don't have to die to be "ride or die". 🤦🏿♂️
I caught that too. The info about his kids was too big to be left till the very last second. I felt she believed she just had to choose him since he was her only option.
The girl in the green had an AWESOME take on "potential". Love how she stuck by her opinion and wasnt swayed. "Ride or Die" sounds great on paper... not when you have kids. Girl is a QUEEN 👏
There’s a reason she’s single and likely will remain single. With 50% of sisters never being married, you don’t have time to play semantics… If the men give you a definition of something, then that is what it is if you actually want a man. The last part of the acronym SIGN language is “Need to be right”… You just witnessed how the need to be right can prevent you from procuring a man in a room full of men when women typically out number men. If you can’t get a man in a confined room that is 8 to 1, how are you going to get one in the world? The world will not be as respectful as the men in this room.
@BigCore- I totally agree with you there! At the same time, I think there are two sides to that coin. Yes, the need to be right could potentially be an issue of hers, but it's also important for a potential partner to be on the same page with how she interprets phrases like "ride or die". Different words mean different things to different people. If they can't even agree on the definition of a word for conversational sake, it would be incredibly difficult to build a relationship on that basis since there are no agreed upon fundamentals. Does that make sense? 😅 There's gotta be someone out there who's on the same page as her - can't fault her for being upfront and honest about her opinion. I'm sure most men would rather have that than a "cool girl" who will tell them what they want to hear, then switch personalities as soon as you put a ring on it lol
Frrrrrrr!!!! Until you've dealt with a person who had "potential" and never went past that, you can't understand how frustrating it is because it wastes your time.
These guys are intelligent, articulate, well-dressed and decent. This was the best line-up I have ever seen on this show!!! Great episode!!! I love Ivory's energy!!!!
“Comebacks” ? That’s exactly why she-and likely you as well-did not find a match. Clap back for what; in doing so she exposed herself inability to accept rejection, which gives insight into how she would respond to the criticisms from her partner. Y’all gotta think lol.
I love how my brothers are listening to the ladies before popping their balloon’s. Much respect brothers!
Exactly!!!! This is the best episode thus far.
Or the ladies was just attractive that’s y like 😂
@@emoneroberson5026 ok….. but I’m glad that they’re letting them respond 😊
Because at the very least, they wanna get laid😁😁
Maybe the women can learn from the bruddas when they're lined up with they're balloons ready to reject mandem off rip.
I'm starting to feel like "entrepreneur" is code for "haven't quite figured things out yet" 😂😂
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Literally
It is lol
Bingo😂🤯
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This is actually the best cast of men so far! Love that they are respectful, well spoken and just well rounded.
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I don't. "You a woman you should know your role" and the men behind him nodding is concerning
@@kairanelle1380 compare to all the previous casts of men worse has been said
@@kairanelle1380so you shouldn’t know your role as a woman? So many women want men to know their role but it’s a problem for men to want a women to know her role??
Is it? The guys seems to have an arrogant take on a woman's submissiveness. Like they want a woman who wouldn't talk back or anything
I love the way the lady in green presented herself classy, articulate and beautiful
She was shallow asf 😂
@@Space_Cowboy333 To each it’s own
@@9lockstar718 I’m stating a fact but ok 👌🏾🤣🤣
@@Space_Cowboy333😂😂😂😂😂
I think you misunderstood the definition of shallow
This group is not disqualifying women on toes, attire or advertising... I like them
Most of these women were either IG models, on onlyfans, or incredibly shallow. And almost all of the men sniffed it out.
That light skin girl in the black dress was definitely not it …dress too short and not the right fit for her body type
@@CashCollectashe is a confused type 😐
I was saying the same exact thing. One of my favorite group.
Hope it was a both way traffic. Really want the show to bring women with a bit more depth.
I like how they stopped popping the balloons as soon as the contestants walk out!. Everyone looking for depth. Love to see it!
Unlike the bad shallow minded representations of ur gender, that are quick to pop balloons becoz the female next to her pops hers or coz of the way the man walks out
Yeah but it doesn't seem honest though. It's like they're just waiting because they don't want any backlash. I preferred the raw honesty
@@advanced8998Exactly. Most of them were not interested in the second woman! They were just waiting for a moment to pop and potentially go viral! lol it’s too obvious. Secondly the men don’t pop right away. The women do.
Lol it ain’t that they looking for depth , men are simple asl lmao that’s it meaning they passed the looks test initially
I think they just don't want to seem shallow
I don't care what NO ONE says...Arlette is that girl (woman)!!!! She's so classy, beautiful, well-mannered, well-spoken, well-dressed, sophisticated, she needs her own TV SHOW! She is an example of an elegant black woman that deserves a huge platform. She's entertaining, sparks controversy (some people don't like her mannerisms, others like myself do). She puts out consistent, HIGH-QUALITY, enjoyable content. May God bless her abundantly. :)
I agree !
She's African women, she Carry herself with class ❤
I agree☺️🩷
She is so fine. Glad she is married and don't have to get on a show like this
@@titanjake8640 She's definitely beautiful & hopefully happily married💕
I totally get Alexis. I’m glad that she stood her ground. Allot of times some men expect you to ride through his laziness. He wants you to stay through all his toxicity. She wants someone who knows his role, who takes responsibility, and is mature in his life and career. There is nothing wrong with that. Best wishes for her.
Yes yes me to I totally gets what she said
I just got fired from my 9-5 but thanks to this show I may become an entrepreneur and run a lot of businesses and maybe become a model while Im at it 😂😂😂
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I'm screamingggggg!!!!!!!!!!!! 😂
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It’s working so give it a try😂
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Prayers to the first woman with the Heart Condition that may impact her ability to have kids. That’s not something that was in her control and she probably had a tuff time receiving that news. Someone will come along love that accepts you and wants to build something with you.
God works in mysterious ways. It could be a reason for that not in a good way.
Facts 👐🏽
I loved that she was vulnerable enough to share that. ❤ I wish her happiness.
Man popped the balloon as soon as she said she had a heart condition. 😂😅
@@snicholson8884and it’s nothing to laugh about…
The woman in green held the best conversation. She was very directed and expressed her views maturely. She sparked a good debate.
She did spark a good debate, I just hope she realizes that it's not a "man's perspective". If two people are operating on different definitions of a specific word, ofc there's going to be confusion and disagreements. I guess her and the people around her have their own definition of a ride or die and that's what ended her chances there.
You must be a woman 😂… she was annoying. The only thing interesting about the debate she sparked is that I like debating. She was fortunate to come across respectful men that were willing to listen. The balloons should have popped on sight…
@@coreyjohnson4801agreed. My immediate thought was “if men collectively have a definition of a saying then the definition is theirs if you actually want a man…”. She should have conceded the point once the panel gave her the definition however she executed the N in sign language.
I do agree but also, the lil queen in yellow did too! She just picked the wrong man lol
Agreed! She articulated herself clearly and what her point of view was and she didn’t let them mansplain “ride or die”. And I actually agree with her point of view, ride or die is sometimes negative, that if your partner says let’s go rob a bank to get some money that you’re just expected to go along with it for love.
Styles 33 is such a well rounded guy! I hate that the women looked over him because his height. He shows the most emotional maturity. We can 5’8 together baby 😂😍
Yes, the girl in the yellow dress and him would have made a cute couple and they both carried a in depth conversation well.
This! Justice for him lol
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I also love how none of the men popped their balloon until the women started speaking and answering questions. This group of men was by far the best!
I agree! These men had real depth! Give them another round!
Yes!!! Love this
Because they are young. The older men above 30 do not have the time for endurance 😂
agree
They gave the 2nd woman a chance even tho , respectfully, she was a bit out of shape. Yet here she is talking about ‘I’m not a ride or die’….‘I like to travel and eat’ 🤦🏿♂️
The second girl was right. Some men stay in their “potential stage “ for way too long and sometimes never get out of it. So I understood her points regarding this.
Men on the show and in these comments could sense that she will not be going for any bullsh!t games boys play when they want to postpone taking the wheel and being a man.
She let them know it's not even her role to pick up your slack if you fall down on your man duties,..
A man dusts himself off, gets back in the game.
Basically a real man doesn't even consider his woman ever having to pick up his duties of the man's role. If he loses his health or passes he made sure to have plenty life & disability insurance, he's a saver, obtains assets, etc.
He knows she's there to assist and facilitate. She's actually right in the sense that, a real man will have made contingency plans, and be moving and thinking a few steps ahead so hard times don't catch him behind the eight ball.
All of your opinions are subjective.
This is their point. What you and the lady above me consider being a man, and potential stage is not actually in matter of what makes a man a man, and what makes someones psychological ambition at a certain stage.
Context is all that matters, and that what makes a subjective opinion objective. If you dont strive to gain that context yet claim this and that about a situation, then your being disingenuous to what you really mean and are implying.
Theres no fake men whos a man. This is like me calling a women a fake women.
The guys sensed that her opinions on her claiming she wants a guy not in the potential stage is a greenhorn of selfishness in a relationship. She wants a man who has his shit together, and thats fine. But all of the men according to definition also had their shit together, which implies that its something else she wants that she is not telling them.
She has her own ambitions with dating, yet says she wants a man who puts those ambitions or "potential" on a halt for her. Is disengenous and telling of her past and future behavior.
Facts!!!! I was with someone 4.5 years and never got out of that stage
Right, the guy named Styles was talking about his future. That’s selling a dream that may never happen. She was more concerned about where he is now and what he has already three accomplished. And he couldn’t understand that thinking.
@@misrmistthis is a profound round up 🙌🏾.
Bring back this panel of men! They were funny, well spoken, respectful, and presentable. Loved the energy they gave.
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Best line up so far. Not shallow at all!
Agreed
Loved how they all actually waited on responses from the women no matter what their preference was.
And they all look pretty well put together for the most part / are actually handsome . Brava t✨
Woman in the green outfit was spot on with her perception of a ride or die... Everyone looks at it differently, I like the way she explained why she perceived it that way.
Why did I get emotional from the first young lady when she spoke on her fertility situation.
How noble of you to share that.
May God continue to bless you!
It was foolish of her to share that. She’s only 20 ppl outgrow and live full lives with heart conditions.
It was brave not necessarily wise
I receive that. I Honor transparency. God Bless that Queen
How is that noble? It is a challenge which she will overcome that's all.
Ameen! Felt the same way
These people have the most creative ways to say they’re unemployed
"Entrepreneur"😂
They’re creatively avoiding saying they do perfectly fine, regular ass jobs
Most of them be in they early 20s and in school
😀 right!
😅
these men deserve awards for being the most respectful group of men out EVER assembled together. they all gave that short lady with the heels a chance
What you trying to say.... about the short lady🤨🤨
@@ian.rotichBc she’s stunning like what
They were so much more intellectual
Definitely this group has been top tier so far!
Wym gave her a chance she was beautiful?
I love the host , like she brings the whole show together and it makes it more comfortable and she seems so genuine and beautiful
Arlette Is Phenomenal...
I love how none of the men were superficial; they all wanted to dig deeper before popping. It was a great panel.
Correct. And That also shows you the women STILL need a lot of work to do
Yes unlike the last group of men! Hopefully the next group of women will do the same because they were off the chain too
@@HoneybadgerQWhy are you so dense?
Men are visual and it doesn’t make them superficial. You can dislike that but it not changing
Agree
The lady in green jumpsuit was definitely my favorite. She is so self aware and articulate! You can see they tried to make her feel bad about her convictions and standards (ride or die/submissiveness comments), but not once she shook in her boots lol. The woman stood her ground with politeness and dignity, love it for her!
She's still going to be single for the rest of her life with that thought lol
@@JorgeCortes-t4yno she’s not , trust there’s a man out there for her. Not any of the weak sauces
Ride or Die is definitely what men are looking for. The simpler term is "LOYALTY". If she expresses that to any many, they would be a fool to cuff her. Life happens.
@NinaSnaden doubt it. Haha
She is definitely going to be single for life. Anyone else stating anything else is just coping. She already pushing 30
You know what else I like about this show (without the cursing and the inappropriate talking at times) is it is raw, no music, no sound-effects -- you just get to listen and hear the thoughts and feelings of the men and women.
Good points. I like a show without sound effects and background music.
Absolutely! Someone in the comments on one of the shows said they wanted background music...I say HECK TO THE NAW! Keep it quiet.
@@REM977 LOL, exactly!!
@@applesomething Yep 🙂
RICO IS SO FINE BRO. I cannot comprehend people actually popping his balloon wtf. His smile. The way he looks at them. His height. His hair. He’s literally perfect I’m in love 😭💗
Are you referring to “know your role” RICO??? Lol
Your thirsty af relax
Are you just fetishing Rico. You said nothing about his personality but just how he's looks...
@@kameraboyd1960 yes 🙈 cause that means he knows his role too and I’m fine being a stay at home wife if he’s bringing in the big bucks as his “role” and also he’s just hot so 🤷♀️
Girl yes!!!! Like gimmie him!😂🥺
Man with the glasses and brown pants is SO FINE. Intellectually, his answers and questions were intentional the entire time and that’s so freaking attractive.
😅
He's my favorite!
Lol I thought it was just me who thought he was fine.
I didn’t even have to see his eyes 👀 #intellegence = #drawersoff
Yes he is sexy as heck
Having a 1 year old and 2 year old on a dating show is crazy 😂😂😂
With them sunglasses on
What's his @?
I was hoping she went with the other guy. He didn’t even bother to take off the glasses. No manners. If I can’t see ur eyes I can’t trust you
Metro boomin was wilding for real for real😂
@@pal4025 for realll
And he just passed ahead of her when they were leaving
He was the brightest red flag in the room
All of these fella's are beautiful intelligent men that have spoken very well . They are looking for a woman of integrity, intelligence, kindness , communication on a deeper level , supporter's to their man through thick and thin, i loved this group of men. ❤
This was the best group of men. They actually let the women speak before popping their balloon. None of them were shallow or rude. Love this
Several ladies were not good with rejection, however, the fellas didn’t reciprocate. Definitely a step up from previous line ups.
I Must COMMEND the guys on their MATURITY👏👏👏👏👏🎉
The one comment about the forehead was the worst it got I think
@@bleeka325 I thought it was unnecessary until they zoomed on the edges. It did look very unnatural.
Attraction is necessary. To call them "shallow" if they immediately popped their balloon, is pretentious and pseudointellectual
I feel the girl on yellow gown with all her intelligence and right questions chose the wrong guy
100%!!!!!!
She got swayed by the smooth talk
Yesss omg
Only dude hiding behind shades and a hat, and the fact that he brought his 1 and 2 yr old up once he was the last man standing. He knew what to say and what not to say to get her. Textbook manipulator
He a PIMP🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ She trippin
Girl in yellow dress literally just finished telling him “it’s the little things” in regards to love language and he deadass was bout to leave the room without leading her out plus he has two new babies….red flagsss
The fact that she matched with him and didn’t even looked him in the eyes or have him take the hat off🚩She smart but she not smart
@@Paulieshashe appears smart. But isn't actually intelligent
The glasses was on, never even gave eye contact. 2 young babies under 2 huge red flag 🚩
And the babies at near him!!!! Like what!!!??
She couldn’t even stand still for 2 seconds, she ain’t in the right state of mind lol
If ONE more person says they're an entrepreneur,
I'm going to SCREAM😂😂
or model.
I love the Jamaican lady. She's intellectually intelligent, smart, I love how respectful she is, and I love how she expressed what she wants and didn't settle.
wtf is “intellectually intelligent” lmao
She should find her wife, so she can pretend to be the man that she wants to be. 4/10 & masculine...
@@LoomiebbShe has no idea herself 😂
Are you talking about the 'i'm not your ride and die?' If so then that's crazy😅😅
@@Loomiebb 🤣😭
“If we have a similar name i can’t take you serious”
Girl grow up. 💀😂
Right😂😂😂
Same thing I said 😂
That was so random 😩
He was too cheeky for that 😂
She was petty and immature
“Im Rico and I’m TwentyFo”🤣
Cringed everytime he open his mouth. His African parents must be stressedddddd
But did you guys notice how he spoke eloquently when he shared his understanding of the “ride or die” phrase. He’s probably really well spoken but putting on a front. I would’ve popped his balloon as soon as he opened mouth.
I thought it was just me. I expected so much more from him growing up in a two parent household. He kinda gave off he was playing a character and that’s not really him. Like suburban kids that try to act hood.
Him & the first dude was genuinely getting on my nerves 😂
😂
I am unsire if Arlette reads the comments but I love this show, she is the only Pop the balloon host I can watch. Always beautiful and professional and entertaining
I agree.
Ladies, please leave something to be desired and go over questions at home. If you've watched the show, you should know what to expect. These men were the best group of men I've seen on here that actually looked for the women to have depth. Good job guys.
Why would the women go over questions? You're right this is best group of men, after 8 episodes. If anything they're most likely responding to all the valid complaints that the women had on the show, about the men not dressing appropriately, and eliminating the women for very superficial reasons like the color of her dress or not wearing a watch. Most of the women have always dressed nice and asked solid questions to the men, now these men are stepping their game up trying to match the women's energy.
@@missyd1215I thibk they are saying they should come prepared. Some came on the show as if they hadn’t considered their own deal breakers or what they what in a man or even a couple questions to have ready since you know you’ll need to ask some
I agree 100%. This time the women were a let down when it came to depth and self awareness. These guys were top of the line for sure.
Idk about the best group of men a lot of them didn’t have real jobs/ careers the majority of were putting on fronts like they were “deep”.
@missyd1215 For instance, the guy with the tight plaid pants kept having to tell some of the women to ask questions of substance. The lady in the green spoke well but ended up shooting herself in the foot. The girl in all black from Phoenix was extremely shallow. She just wanted a guy with money and had nothing to share with them about herself. She likes going out but couldn't even figure out how to say that she's clubs. She said multiple times that she goes out and she likes dating and going out to eat. She recently lost 65 pounds said something about the gym but couldn't really communicate that she goes. Several guys were models, and the 2 on either end are heavily in the gym but she never ask them questions that would tell her anything about them.
Alexis, in green, is such girl power. I just know she a baddie and STAND on BUSINESS. She protecting her peace and HEALED.
I love her!
Meh.. I wasn’t feelin her like that
Yes loved her
@@bkbk-rn6nyme either. She was contradicting herself, especially when it came to the discussion of ride or die/hard times. She came off as confident on the surface but…
She didn't understand her own blunt words and evolving reality based on her perspective is kinda red flag.
Shout out to this lineup for not being petty n popping for no reason. Really enjoyed this episode
He popped because of her forehead
@@robertneal8244exactly, great episode
@@robertneal8244Is it petty to have a preference?
@@robertneal8244that's not really petty, it's just preference
@@in_vas_por8810 It's one thing to not be attracted. It's another thing to say it the way he did. It's like saying I don't like you cos your lips are too big. It was disrespectful. She was a nice lady so totally unprovoked.
I love how these guys are giving each girl a chance not just popping straight away
Finally, it's a mature bunch. They seem like they really came to find someone without being overrrrly shallow.
Guys are but the females on the show were terrible
I can’t wait to see the Ivory and Prince update 😂😂😂 girl you spoke about intuition and ignored yours! Prince said his kids were far away to convince her that’s not a problem when it is. That means you are not a present father and you have two toddlers.
I saw that too
Exactly!!!
I was definitely looking at him sideways...
Best match on the show today, and has the potential to be a blissful mess. Ivory is TOP TIER! I would have fought for the spot too!!
Also the 2 kids are 1 & 2 yrs old. There’s definitely drama behind that. She should’ve asked if they were by the same woman.
The lady in the green jumpsuit was so thoughtful. I really enjoyed learning her POV. She stimulated real discourse around the concept of ride or die.
lol what?! She’s an absolute fool
definitely, I never thought about it that deep, but I have at the same time; because I associate with negative things too, as well as positive, but in a lot of her answers, similar to her reason for why she doesn't do ride or die is because she doesn't want to stay in a gray area, but be direct.
She has no idea how to interpret ride or die 😅
She gave off masculine energy that no man likes. That's why she wasn't matched.
It amazes me how some women see women like her as inspirational when she has her head up her butt
A lot of these candidates in this episode actually have depth and real emotional intelligence ❤️ I feel like so many people on this show can be shallow af. And I love when they calling people out for being too shallow too! This is easily one of my favorite episodes!
The lady in the green jumpsuit is the perfect example of, “That’s just not your room/audience.”
She was gorgeous, authentic, eloquent and spot on with everything she said; the men just didn’t share her perspective. There is an amazing man who will understand and love her completely. He just wasn’t in that room! ❤
I have a Jamaican girlfriend she reminded me exactly of. Smart driven classy same body type and the same voice lol. My friends in a very healthy relationship with a great guy so I think she'll find hers too
Overweight
@@lj9352 women keep women single. Gorgeous? Smh… There’s no room for you with men, if men collectively share a perspective and you refuse to accept the perspective… She’s either going to realign her pov to get a man, be with women, or be alone…
@@BigCore-she eliminated herself with almost every answer. She’s gonna be single for a long time
She and I have similar views. I'm happily married. I say all the time, I'm not a woman that any man would want- but the RIGHT man wanted me...and INSPIRED a submission my family was SHOCKED to see 🤷🏾♀️ She'll find her match, the guys that don't like her just aren't it 😂😂🤣
This is the best line up of men I've seen on this show. They are well-put together, handsome, well-spoken, searching for depth, didn't pop their balloons immediately, nice smiles, intelligent, etc.
U bugging. Grown men with braids? Not attractive. Every episode everyones a model or marketer.
Agree , the first man in the line up got my attention most definitely 😩
@@Liz_yo1 True! He even has a book on Amazon. He seems to practice what he preaches.
Definitely the best batch of men by far , and I was surprised only one had kids
@@anisaantoinette6381 I know right!
I'm a woman... and these fits these women are rocking ---aint it at all.
But this line up of men----their mindset, intellect, questions/conversations are top tier.
Same here. I'm watching and thinking what's up with these outfits? 🤦🏾♀️ I like watching these videos but the mindset of the people on the show is wild. They're young but woah.
Okay, I was thinking the same thing. The outfits were missing this time.
Same, I actually loved this video. Shame on the women.
Yeah.. The lady from Terrence episode looked nice in her yellow dress and i wasnt mad at that and the 2nd lady in the green jumpsuit
❗️
Arlette holding her laugh makes the joke or whatever the person said so much funnier 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love the second woman. She knows what she wants. She handled herself with grace, even after she was being tried. Additionally, she explained very well how “Ride or Die” is negative in her opinion, and didn’t back down.
She was an intellect, not meant for this group of men.
BIG
She was built like a line backer and she cry herself to sleep on her deathbed alone
@@aguy9071😂😂😂😂 I love how woman look at things men don't even pay attention too.
@@sandrafernandez3839 she was an intellect huh ? You must be as bright as her
I noticed Rico really liked the lady in the yellow. Even pronounced twenty-FOUR properly for her lol
Same and we say all 37 of his teeth when they started talking 😂
Thought nobody else caught that. Everbody talking about him saying it wrong nobody noticed when he said it right 😂
him and styles was feeling her from the jump . was smiling as soon as she walked out
😂
LMFAOO
The girl in green was very sophisticated, Well spoken, and charismatic
Yes by far was my favorite contestant
She gave me the ick😂. The user mentality, and the tongue is powerful. You will reap what you sow.
Sis said she wasn't a ride or die & that's a disqualifier because she will leave if the man falls on hard times.
lol…that phrase “ride or DIE” is sooooo detrimental…..usually “ride or die” women, a piece of THEM DIES while the “struggling man” THRIVES….there’s being there during hard times & then there’s taking on the WHOLE load while he doesnt even TRY smh
That’s the extreme though. Ride or die is a must for us men
Arlette is such a natural counsellor , really in the flow of her purpose. A great Ambassador of encouragement .
I like her version of this show. The others are thirst traps
One thing about Arlette, she’s gonna host a show the CORRECT way!! I love it for real!
Me to i love it
The spread hand on the leg deserves more recognition!! Arlette is a sophisticated host. Respect 🤣
Facts. I've been watching the ghetto ones waiting patiently for her balloons popping video to be released!
@@doubleb_tv YESS!!!😂😂
She do better than most but when it’s a cast of woman and it’s a guy doing the line up she should not ask if that woman’s the guys type. Because most of the time if the man says yes. The woman get jealous or insecure and pop because the man saw something in the woman in question
I vote to prohibit sunglasses. Really?? That's an immediate pop.
Ironically wearing sunglasses actually gives you a higher chance of success on this show😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree. That's not even something an adult should think of wearing in this situation!
He's hiding his eyes because he's high. POP!
the finest chic went for the guy with the lamest outfit and shades on tho lol
@@mzgymeni and a 1 year old and 2 year old she found out after picking him. Probably 2 mothers.
"I ain't grow up around adopted kids"
Man what does that mean???😂😂
He means he has no experience with them nor does he want to deal with them 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@BREASHONTELL
Or that he wants to give his kids the same kind of life he had.
@@BREASHONTELL Adopted kids are literally just kids lol
@@kno3730 I mean adopted kids can still have that life lol
What a refreshing episode full of mature men and women, they are self aware and true to themselves, above all else they express themselves respectfully. That girl in yellow dress chose the wrong guy, he is self absorbed no acts of service from that one lowl
When people say im an Entrepreneur and do not elaborate or qualify it, its a tell that theyre either unemployed, still fumbling with ideas or struggling financially.
I said this in an other comment
Seems like the safe occupation to say is I'm in entertainer or Entrepreneur
To act like they making moves but don't have anything really going on
So they masked it like you said
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree or list 100 different occupations, it’s like come on. 😂
☠️🤣🤣🤣
All Jasmine said was she needs a provider and likes to go out and have fun.
“healthy love is boring, healthy love is safe” is a word!
What? Bro yall keep yallselves single with that nonsense.
@@anonspectre1796 HOOOOOOW?! i think men got this false narrative of what being a ride or die is. healthy love is boring and safe wtf!
@@theedanishow they are applying ride or die to "for richer or for poorer, through sickness and in health".
@@anonspectre1796 A man cant say he wants a woman to be his peace then complain when a relationship is consistent and "boring"
@@samanthayates8812 the only ones who do that is women. And thats word to the divorce rate of 80 percent all initiated by women
I want a panel of women that are this respectful and come with the questions and energy.
On my 3rd episode my first 1 with the all dude lineup & these guys have been more respectful & patient when it came to popping balloons & answering questions than the women lineups I’ve seen
You not finding that
@@jagan9235 I don’t think so either and that’s sad.
Agreed! A lot of time, the women pop right from the jump... no regard for depth.
Good luck with that
Girl I am so proud of you as a great Jamaican woman. Powerful . There is no such thing as a Ride or Did . Love you to Life .❤❤❤
My guys are dressed well, This is one of the best dressed lineups ever. Finally they are representing us Men well.
I was thinking the same thing off rip too
No Diddy
Yep
Dude with the shades on indoors was a no but otherwise yeah! Lol
@@cvokoyedon’t turn ts into sum real cus i be seeing everyone saying “no diddy”
I love how the 2nd girl in the green handled her turn, she was very very well spoken and handled the men’s opinions very well💕
Her level headed perspective on things threw the men off. I love how she handled herself.
@@blackbutterfyeLOL what do you mean that exactly? She will remain single forever. Nowhere near an attractive women and her beliefs are pretty one side and not putting her thought on another perspective.
@@blackbutterfyeLOL she will remain single forever and if you think otherwise you’re crazy.
@@blackbutterfyein what way? She will never have a man take her serious.
Me too. She spoke very well and was firm in what she was saying. Those guys talking about ride or die know damn well it's usually on the lady side to stick by some trash men.
Arlette is the best host on TH-cam for this series. The best structure, the most professional w/ grown and sexy vibe. The best editing & quality of people.
Arlette is so good at it is like it's a who tv series.. can't wait for her to post a new video everytime
Bro she is the best at this. I tried watching other videos and they’re goofy and silly, not saying anything is wrong with that, but on other channels they play too much
she might as well just copyright the idea.
I absolutely agree. Actually worth the watch!
Arlette is the best hostess of this show....classy
I admire the first man because he has an awesome vocabulary and is a strategic thinker.
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
fr!! plu he's handsome. he was asking them simple question that could tell him of it was going to be a match or not. He seems like a very wise young man😂
Jasmine was pissing me off😭 that girl couldn’t answer no questions… & all she wants is a provider
And looking like she ain’t never been provided with nothing but a heavy meal.
The women were just off, the men were more on point. Asking and answering questions they took it more seriously.
like most BW
The 2nd lady sounds like she don't need to be dating at the moment. She got alot of stuff to unpack personally
😂😂@@user-gu6vf3je1d
I'll be real: I've gone down a rabbit hole. I'm learning so much from these answers and making me question my own views. I love this. You're a fabulous host!
on one show the lady asked straight up does anyone here have a criminal history.
I thought that was an excellent question young ladies need to start bluntly asking early and upfront, while informing the men that she normally does google search and background checks on any man she is serious about.
This is like watching a social experiment
@@kvonbruce2911yes, literally it’s very informative
Same here
@@kvonbruce2911yes
The Jamaican queen from Atlanta was classy, beautiful, insightful, engaging and stood her ground. I honestly feel like she set the bar higher for the next ladies that followed her.
She’s the women’s favorite. I saw it completely different. First and foremost she doesn’t actually know what things mean. I.e she conflated being a self starter with being established when they’re not necessarily tied together.
She definitely set the bar high, but I don't think that the men in the panel realised that.
Men see her completely differently. And guess what, it is men who are doing the choosing. So, next!
They were not attracted to her. She was the best out of the bunch of women.
@yanou4u no she wasn't
After all of the episodes ive watched so far this has got to be the best lineup of men.
This is the first time I've liked every single one of these guys. They all seemed genuine, engaged, and they are all cute!
This entire line up of men was absolutely phenomenal, the intelligence and self awareness was amazing.
Everyones a model 😂😂
Exactly wtf
Better than saying unemployed! But damn it must suck to be short! That one dred got called out every single time early on for that
Thats probably the networking pool theyre getting most of the contestants from
translation - I've modeled once for my friend's clothing brand.
😂😂😂😂 yes, I’m confused!
Im addicted to this show..... I freely and completely admit it!!!! Dont care....LOL
Great selection of men. The way they responded, they were respectful, mature, listen and knew exactly what they wanted. Love it.
I like this batch of men they seem to stick together and genuinely pay attention to qualifying women
Finally
yea they were very united, similar to how women be, especially when dealing with other people and handling unfavorable situations.
The quality of women was dire though.
@@SuperMuneera I wish the batch of women from the last episode were on this episode. They would’ve matched very well with the men on this episode.
@@RealdealKobI wanna see more success of this show with better pairs on both sides. Depth with depth. Shallow with shallow. Love with love
Shouts out to the Black Brothas ✊🏾 on this panel they stood on their morals and philosophies. Just because she looks attractive doesn’t mean she’s will be a good woman to you. This one of the best episodes
Agreed, ladies, us men don't like strong independent women who are not ride or die, .. who are petty and go out on dates, (which men pay for) and the weaves are getting longer and longer...
@@indianrider956you sound so bitter 😭 no woman has ever been near you, and if you don’t like ‘independent women’ what do you like??? Children?…
Semen retention and delayed gratification is 🔑 as a man
When your lens of life isn’t focused on pedastalizing the power of vagina and looks, you can fairly judge women better
@@onikapinkk fam, no shade at all from me...but us men love your natural hair...not the weaves, wigs or attachments...
Especially the last chick she actually thought lyte skin, long weave and a big trunk could overcome that toxic tude she was trying to hide. Well done gentlemen!! Well done! ✊🏾
The second girl, green girl… WOW super educated, classy, sexy.. her answers were super sophisticated and was on point!!! Bless her!!
That second lady, honestly I respect the actual hell out of her. She's so very blunt. Her points were valid. As a woman I need someone who adds to me not subtracts from me. I want someone who is at a secure place in their life same as myself. I want someone who doesn't put me in a situation where the choices are ride it out or die trying. Constant endurance and emotional/physical labor is not her happy ending, and that's not wrong. She wants a love that flourishes, nourishes, a love she can relish in not endure and "hang on" to. Respect, mad respect.
Isn't 'subtraction' the thing that women do?? Let's face the fact, most women in relationships only subtract, most of you'll don't add anything of physical value apart from take take take.
She should go buy a dog
You're not in control, however. None of us are. I can have a 10 million dollar hustle, but what happens if things that are outside of my control make me lose most of it? You're just going to run away? Lol she has more red flags than a Chinese new year parade, although i do like the way she carries herself. She has a very bright aura, and itll get brighter when she leaves you 🤣
@@lejamesbron5880 she offered enough insight to convey that she would stick around in that kind of hypothetical scenario you offered, granted that said partner has a capacity to get back on their feet. The "ride or die" she is referring to is to do with not wanting to tolerate acts of disrespect, harm or dysfunction, which no self-respecting person should settle for regardless.
@lea1000 no she didn't she clearly stated she wouldn't stick around🤦🏾🤷🏾
I love Alexis!
She's so strong, confident, intellectual, direct, and articulate. LOVE HER!
No, she is not. She is arrogant, masculine, and overbearing. First, she said she is open to dating a younger man, and then she pops his balloon because he is younger.
@@ThiaFort-fk7shhow is that arrogant? It’s literally her preference. The boy sounds unserious as hell she was doing him a favor by saying it was age instead of embarrassing him.
lol articulate but not necessarily intellectual
@@ThiaFort-fk7sh😂😂 she’s all over the place. She’s giving the energy that: she’s flaky, stubborn, and looking for a come up
@@indigonai1565she gave me the energy of someone who’s been hurt and never healed like get off the dating show and go work on opening up 😂
And the young lady in the green, don’t give up! You are so poised and evolved. Unfortunately, your match wasn’t in this lineup but I guarantee your match is on the way💗
So be it! 💖
@@lrbanks2584amen !!!
i just know she'll end up with someone great!
I love how Arlette walks backwards and the women follow her lead. It’s so men aren’t staring at their backsides as they walk. Love it! I’m new to this series and I’m very intrigued.
I think this technique is just to not give their backs to the audience. The men on the left side of the lineup would still have a view of their back sides as they walk further down the line
As a man her ride or die explanation was pretty straightforward and makes sense to me.
She not into no criminal activities if y get locked or go broke she out
She did an amazing job articulating her stance when it comes to that; it really is asking for a "yes" woman and only required of women and never expected of men who society supports being flighty at best in contrast. Millions of women who are starting to take themselves and their futures seriously have expressed the same concerns she has and repented from previously being sacrificial lambs living up to the "ride or die" trope.
I do believe that men and women see Ride or Die very differently.
Definitely a misinterpretation on both sides, I understood her definition of ride or die and what the men meant by it as well
As she should be
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Girl in the yellow dress realized she picked the wrong one! 😂
She went for deep and thoughtful questions and forgot the simple questions are the most important ones 😂😂
Yes she did. The sun glasses would have been a question mark and the young babies.
Instantly!!!!!!!!!!!!
My name is Keyshawn and they call me Key. Say it one more time and I'm going to scream. 😮
😂😂😂😂shoulda popped the balloon after he left her
I feel like Styles needs an appreciation thread...that man is foine and brilliant and shouldn't be limited to height because with that personality, intellect, maturity and smile...he stands at 7 feet tall.
yessss
When prince walked off without the girl in yellow I was dead af😅 all the other dudes were crackin tf up 😂
Preston just say you’re an author bro😩 you killing me with the “ wrote a book” line
It gets me every time😂
He seems to impress himself a little too much
That's good though you can tell he is proud of what he did.
I literally was saying the same thing !😂
Oh my gosh I was thinking this everytime he had to say I wrote a book.
Arlette the worst thing about your show is that i can’t have enough of them! You should at least have 1 video every week please🥲
I agree! An upload every Sunday. Or Wednesday. Or PICK A DAY, but make it WEEKLY!
Agree 😅 I was so happy when I saw she finally uploaded lol
It probably takes time interviewing and getting people to attend due to work hours etc.
@Summer_li53 We know. We're just being greedy because we really enjoy the show.
Yes yes yes!!! Her videos are the best of this kind ❤
Bro i respect this panel of men, seem like they kept it real and didn't pop thier balloons based on looks
They sure did
The woman in the green jumpsuit was an intellectually stimulating Queen! These guys were not marure enough for her.
I'm glad sis stood her ground about the "ride or die" concept. I do think the men on both of the ends of the line were her best matches. She was sweet.
Also Preston is the BOMB!
I totally agree she can have her perspective just like them. I loved her answers and questions the entire time.
Having your own perspective on things is great but there's a point where you're trying to hard and over complicating things. Like you LITERALLY don't have to die to be "ride or die". 🤦🏿♂️
“But they live far away” is some filthy work😮
I caught that too. The info about his kids was too big to be left till the very last second. I felt she believed she just had to choose him since he was her only option.
I hate men like that. You should be dating if your kids are 1 and you're not a present father
red flag too whenever he walked off stage past her lmao
@@TheNyakaatshould’ve went with the other guy she had a chance to walk away with. They both had being a person of vision in common.
So glad other people get that. So many men think it's ok to be a part time or sometimes dad. Who moves away from their kid?
Why when he said her forehead was too big somebody popped they balloon 🤣 these people funny
Cause nobody wants the other person’s reject🤣🤣🤣
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Arlette's outfit is so pretty! She pulls it off so well.
The second lady was direct, knew what she wanted and expressed herself really well.
Please bring back these men again - best lineup so far! we have suffered with the men from previous episodes 😂😂
Right!! I hope she brings some of them back!
lol not all of them but most are def better than previous men I’ve seen on her show 😂
Yess this group was soo emotionally intelligent
Except the one in the all white 🤮
The girl in the green had an AWESOME take on "potential". Love how she stuck by her opinion and wasnt swayed. "Ride or Die" sounds great on paper... not when you have kids. Girl is a QUEEN 👏
There’s a reason she’s single and likely will remain single. With 50% of sisters never being married, you don’t have time to play semantics… If the men give you a definition of something, then that is what it is if you actually want a man. The last part of the acronym SIGN language is “Need to be right”… You just witnessed how the need to be right can prevent you from procuring a man in a room full of men when women typically out number men. If you can’t get a man in a confined room that is 8 to 1, how are you going to get one in the world? The world will not be as respectful as the men in this room.
@BigCore- I totally agree with you there! At the same time, I think there are two sides to that coin. Yes, the need to be right could potentially be an issue of hers, but it's also important for a potential partner to be on the same page with how she interprets phrases like "ride or die". Different words mean different things to different people. If they can't even agree on the definition of a word for conversational sake, it would be incredibly difficult to build a relationship on that basis since there are no agreed upon fundamentals. Does that make sense? 😅 There's gotta be someone out there who's on the same page as her - can't fault her for being upfront and honest about her opinion. I'm sure most men would rather have that than a "cool girl" who will tell them what they want to hear, then switch personalities as soon as you put a ring on it lol
Man you tripping she'll leave you for dead
She's kinda tubby
Frrrrrrr!!!! Until you've dealt with a person who had "potential" and never went past that, you can't understand how frustrating it is because it wastes your time.
These guys are intelligent, articulate, well-dressed and decent. This was the best line-up I have ever seen on this show!!! Great episode!!!
I love Ivory's energy!!!!
Arlette gon make sure we know why somebody popped that balloon! I love it😂😂😂
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EVEN if it's obvious. Lol
Deal breaker: Kids
Men with kids: 💢🎈💢
I love it too
Exactly cuz if not everyone will give the same general answer or no answer at all and then it really wouldn’t be entertaining
Me too😂😂
The fourth male with the brown pants is gonna make a great spouse someday. He’s handsome, intelligent and genuine.
I swear he is Spritual ❤ so handsome. Instantly gave me londrelle vibes 😍💕
He just smacks his lips too damn much. Mr attitude lol
@@YettaDean , 😅😂😂
I agree. He stood out the most to me.
He needs to be on the show again. Let’s find him love. He gives everyone grace and that’s a beautiful hard trait to find.
finally!!! woman in the green jumpsuit is articulate, smart, and quick with the classy comebacks
“Comebacks” ? That’s exactly why she-and likely you as well-did not find a match. Clap back for what; in doing so she exposed herself inability to accept rejection, which gives insight into how she would respond to the criticisms from her partner. Y’all gotta think lol.
This episode was very educative ❤
A lot of touchy topics were covered ❤
All the guys were sweet 😊
The presence of the second woman in the green was everything. I love her aura.
She's gorgeous 😍🩷
Like seriously! She was phenomenal!
Very articulate, thoughtful, knows what she wants, and not combative. I agree
Here’s my thing. She seems like a scammer a lil bit 😅 she’s got a great sales pitch but ultimately wants somebody with money and dips in hard times
@@JDtheGemini13she did say she was from Atlanta 😅 you are what made ya but it didn’t give the user type kindof just her natural operation.