Ep 2: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2024
- Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across Phoenix, Arizona! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
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Who else thinks the Doc is the one who actually needs therapy 😂
🙋🏾♀️
MEEEE
He’s such an asshole 😅
Facts
the fact that this guy wears manicure says a lot abt him💀
As a doctor (physician) myself, be weary of people who introduce themselves as such in social situations. It's very telling when someone introduces them as Dr. such and such unless you are at work or a work-related event.
As a doctor myself, I agree. 😂😂😂
As someone that dated a doctor, I agree. 😅😂😅
Bingos
My aunt is a doctor but she refuses to tell anyone lol I admire that
Exactly.. dr is not your name.. it’s a title
The guy standing next to the Dr just keeps laughing every time he talks 😂 I'd be laughing too, he's so full of himself 🤣
😭😭😭 I noticed in the second girl
Hes a fan
he just keeps giggling like a lil bitch omg
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is that what’s going on I was wondering why is he shaking so much.
the dentist guy was talking about humility but has none 😂
Exactly
Exactlyyy
Is it just me or the doctor purposely waited last minute to pop his balloon so the host can go up to him & he can give lectures? 😂
Yes!
I peeped that with the first girl
Absolutely. He’s so full of himself.
Yes lol 😭 although some of his points I get , but still.
Doc was on point though
The doctor is making me think he’s not an actual doctor. He says he’s a dentist but then speaks to some like he’s a therapist saying he charges by the hour. Sir, is your name Legion?
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Not Legion 😭😭😭
He a banker too 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@amandaclbn8324 baby, he don’t know who the hell he is. His face is fine but then you look at his clothes and listen to him speak and it’s an absolutely not!
The guy in suit and glasses.. wth is his type? He gives such a cranky vibe, someone give him a snack or smt😅
😂😂😂😂😂
When it's a thick girl he says he wants her thinner when it's a thin he says he wants her a bit thicker
Frr😂
@@ninanouna262😂😂😂
yt women. that’s that nigerians type 😂
I love the short king ❤
Also really liked the guy on the end with the hippie style shirt on. Such genuine dudes
Me too he’s cool reminds me of kyrie Irving
Those 2 were my favs
Yes last guy was my favorite
@@maryj4106 yeah but i found out he's the doctor's cousin! they are so different
@@KnicksNYanks84 that's exactly what I was thinking
Man...the Dr looked a lot better when he was silent.
😅😅
I was about to say same thing 😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely
He’s full of himself 😂
He's throwing me...hes God's gift to Women...o. a pop ur balloon dating show! Wearing work boots😂😂😂😂😂
You're calling a woman stubborn bc she doesn't want to change her body and make it bigger for you is the wildest thing I've ever heard
Rightttttt
you mis heard
I think you listened to respond. What I got is the guy picked up on her being the stubborn type, he’d want someone that’d hit the gym and sculpt the booty but since he thinks she’s stubborn she would likely not be agreeable with what he’d want.
@@user-sj5ju4jb7t they are not used to having to qualify for a man. At all.
@@user-sj5ju4jb7t this woman is thin for real I think it would be a struggle for her to build up. so I know It would be off putting for me somebody asking to change my natural body that I worked hard to be confident in but people can have different requirements
The fact that the doctor and the one with the dreads are cousins is going to be a problem later on if they connect further in the future.
That was very shocking they have like opposite personalities lol
First cousins or second cousins
They need to do correct age ranges for the contestants… if I’m 35, don’t ever line me up with a 20-33 nothing!!
Exactly lol
Yessss
Right, some of these age gaps are problematic and unhealthy. Dr. Whatever his name was kept going on about therapy, but now that young woman he matched with is going to end up needing it if they actually get into something more than a date, because he's a predatory creep. How unfortunate. He knows dang well his lived experience creates an extreme power imbalance between himself and his match.
Agree
Dr came thinking he's the main character is cracking me up
🤦🏾♂️ They literally still wanting his zesty azz too🤷🏾♂️😂😂 I’m convinced Blk women just like the “Look” and not nothing else.
He’s so annoying 😭 He thinks he’s HIM
Somebody call they auntie and get them off this dating show. What is that hair🤢 these men are young they don't want no ogre looking female. And she pregnant? Omg.
@@Akhona3well he’s right. She’s annoying and immature. He has to pick what’s best for him. Not his type. Just to be honest😊The fact that she said you is. In this day and time Ugg . We as black people shouldn’t be saying you is.
Dr was definitely the main character
the dr. guy is a _text book_ example of a person with narcissism.🙌🏼 the girlies dodged a bullet fr
Not the last girl who he switched up so hard for 😭 he fr saw a chance to mold someone so young and open, and probably was scared bc he knew if he didn't match with her he'd be going home alone. Dude needs serious help
I noticed that too!! Using culture as a vulnerability… what a shame she should’ve picked the one next to him.
You can't call someone yo don't no a narcisist yall need to stop this. You are not his doctor you have not assessed him to give him that diagnosis.
frfr
Idk if it’s even narcissism it just seems like he needs therapy lol
"walking masculine" was wild😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Terrance is FUNNY 😂 had me cracking up the whole time.
Right? I think the previous episode (where they brought him out) wouldn't work for him because style and height, etc. but i would keep his balloon up in this set up coz he's hilarious and sweet. Even the balloons he popped he was respectful.
Edit to add: Wait did he say 8 inches? He still single?👀
Dr Elom is a nutcase. He was analyzing everyone but himself 🤣😬
Whew this one!!! Lmao
A true narcissist 😂. The fact he told ole girl she was insecure and need help. Like what. Everybody insecure like no sir not everybody 😅
And one of the weird things that I feel like no one talks about is the charity question! When that lady asked him what type of charity organization he runs, he couldn’t answer. He gave some broad answer like “to better the world” and tried to deflect by asking her to elaborate on the charity she does. Even though “mental health” is a more specific answer.
Exactly!!! He was super vague about every question ask@@kallie9059
Yall so pressed
The dentist trying to diagnosis people's mental health is CRAZY
Didn't he say he can offer therapy to someone lol just to find out his a dentist
I would hate him as a boss 😂😂😂
Ok. I was sure he said he pulled teeth. 🦷. I was wondering how we got to mental health from that. 😅
I was lost when he said he could offer therapy sessions 😂
😂😂😂
“Because I’m beautiful” MAN WHAT?! I would hope a woman he’s dating wouldn’t call him “Dr. Elam” like tf are you even talking about, goofy?! He thinks he knows everything. She said NEXT & he was still going just so he could get the last word like a woman. He’s giving 🌈‼️
"You're not a doctor you're just a dentist. Don't try to be all fancy. If someone has a heart attack you would still need to call 911."
-The Hangover
😆🤣😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 so true.
🤣🤣🤣😭
Stoooop😭😭
Crying
I mean roasting the girl because she’s confident in her body. It’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself.
You kinda just answered why they were doing it in your own sentence you literally just said “it’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself”……….BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT AGREE TO CHANGE 🤦🏾♂️
The slowness
Let’s say I was a confident crackhead and didn’t wanna change, wouldn’t you assume people want you to be insecure about yourself ?
Her body being compared to being a crackhead is wild. Stick to music
@@vontevbb8922you’re slow because why should someone change their BODY??! That’s like her asking them to lighten their skin and if they say no…they’re stubborn. Like uhhh noooo.
@@vontevbb8922crackhead is a terrible example because crack is actually bad for you. Her body is what it is. She isn’t unhealthy so why should she change it to suit someone’s preferences?!
Imagine a room full of people saying you have no ass and then them getting upset with you when you say you think your body is fine the way it is.
Ima be real ion think it was the fact she had no ass it was the unwillingness to put in the work natural to build ass and it’s not like that wouldn’t have benefited her if she’s really a model having more curves or define curves especially for her slim build would have been a plus she don’t gotta get major ass but a slim gym fit bod with the nice butt would have made that girl a instant 10 scale breaker imo plus yeah she did get defensive about it and I mean aye it’s a bunch of guys 🤷🏾
Exactly but that's all BM ever care about when it comes to BW & they'll never say a WW has to have a Body.
@@briasworld8 no mam that is false men hell even black men really like women with nice body features either ass or tities, the men you are mainly referring too or about are goofies who are weird asf. But a majority of men love women of any color especially black men retaining black women love a woman with some nice physical features it’s not all we care about truthfully cause majority of black men date black women and in the majority im pretty sure not all of em have nice or over bearing physical features but it’s just how men are 🤷🏾
Right, whenever I've mentioned that I'm trying to lose some weight (10-20) pounds in front of a black man, they're always like nahh I like them slim thick, then Dr. Elom talking about "your health problems are a risk." Which is it?
Point is, don't listen to these men & definitely don't change in a way you don't already want to for a man. Especially one that is not your husband -- not a boyfriend, not a fiancee, a husband only. And even then, proceed with caution. We're not blow-up dolls or avatars. Looking in the mirror and liking what I see is more important -- that's where confidence comes from. If I will be happier at a lower weight, I'm losing it.
like girl that pissed me off so bad 😂
I could tell the Second Lady just went through a dramatic weight loss, which is very commendable. But, with certain features I can also understand how they would think she’s older.
Yeah her hairstyle ain’t doing her no favors. 😮
@jessj953 ..that and her face. I need to see an i.d lol
yeah i think the hair & makeup didnt help her….or her outfit
The moment between the doc and the funny girl who made us all laugh at the Jordans & “hold De ba-loon!” was nice to see. She humbled him in a way that brought some humanity to him in a cute way not a stuck up way.
I'm going to need them to get some short girls that like short guys for Terrance. He seems so genuine and down to earth. I be rooting for him so hard!!
But the short girls allot of times be the worst ones because they short themselves they also want a super tall guy , its been my experience that the girls that give "short" (I'm 5'7) guys the most love are the average height girls like 5'4 , 5'5 .
Omg me tooooo
me tooooo
that boy gotta stop dressing like he don’t got no money 😂😂
He was side eyeing the whole time 😆 Can't hide anything on his face.
A doctor in a dating show is a serious red flag.
you didn’t lie . at all .
He seems to have some sugar in his tank.
@@ebonynaomi108580% of them seem to 😅
by the end of the video when he was throwing the balloon, he raised his arm and you can see he wasnt wearing underwear
now what type of doctor...
@@buttcheeksguyHe was wearing what looked like a reddish colored plaid boxers. And no t-shirt or tank underneath his sweater. What did you see?
The last guy with the locs and beard, is so beautiful to me 🤍
Most definitely! Simply, gorgeous in every way 😍
What’s wrong with you people. Such a guy will get zero girls where I come from.
The fact that the Dr. calls her immature for saying next contestant when he then goes on to do the same thing 2 seconds later like??? Make it make sense😭
THE DOCTOR STAY AVOIDING QUESTIONS ABOUT HIMSELF. HE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS THERAPY AND HE'S A PLAYER 😂😂😂
You guys just don’t get it 👀She’s truly not his type. Just being honest. When she said you is. I was done ✅
@mrs.p4349 He tricked her. He wanted that 22 yr old girl that went with his cousin.
He had his way. Every woman wanted him. You mad?
@@blissdad13that’s a problem. They wanted him because he’s attractive and many women on the street would give him a chance thinking he’s a catch and find themselves with an emotionally abusive man
@@lv2756 you don't get it. he didn't hide who he is.... he wasnt up there selling a dream.. he was brutally honest.. unapologetic. Confident. And every woman chose him. Every single one.... the chose him BECAUSE he is "abusive" not because they didn't know he was...
He was the only man up there that not one woman could control or manipulate.... thats the man that women call narcissist...
Homeboy thinks dentistry qualifies him as a psychologist 💀
😂😂😂
He watched Kev Samuels one day whilst having an angry w**k after hearing his high school sweetheart cheated with the mailman. He only became a dentist to so he could have “DR” on his credit card hoping it would stop her cheating ways, but it didnt. Now Dr Elam just runs around the planet smoothly destroying cute women because they all deserve to pay for what his ex did.😂😂😂😂😂😂….. just kidding! Elam is doing too much though for real😂
Omg 💀💀
You study psychology on your way to dentistry
@@Theberrychica😂😂 goofy a55 😂😂😂 🤦🏽♂️
Omg Terrence is so funny 😂😂😭 he had me laughing the whole time.
I have 3 doctors in my family & they neverrr tell everyone they are a doctor 🤣
And I am sure they are actual doctors😂
@@Mya_ThePooh 😂😂
Dental guy didn't come for a date. He came to hear himself speak and put people down.
The wmn were still rockin' with him regardless, so what does that say?
Yesssss
@@user-xk5ng4fd6y she is young and dumb
And to find employees. The first girl, he made that clear
half these men look like they want men more than they want women-- the dentist included
Everytime the doctor opened his mouth I was hoping it would end soon😭 he needs to be humbled EXPEDITIOUSLY
I’m so glad everyone else felt the same way 😭 😂
He was talking about humility and integrity, like he has any of that himself.
Expeditiously 😂period
@@Cobras17 right. half the shit he was saying I was in awe. like😟
I know . The skinny girl was very pretty but I feel doctor was upset that she had a sassier attitude than him
The dentist is really getting on my nerves 😂 like sir go HOME!!
50:26 Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Those with narcissistic personality disorder may
- Have a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents).
- Be preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.
- Believe that they are “special” and can only be understood by other special or high-status people.
- Require excessive admiration.
- Have a sense of entitlement (i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment).
- Take advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends.
- Lack empathy: or is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others.
- Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of them.
- Show arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.
the doctor being 38 years old on a dating show LMAO he definitely ain’t the catch.
100%. He should have his pick if there wasn't something off.
🤣🤣
But there were 41 year old women on the dating show. What does that even mean? Lol. The Dr. was doing too much tho lol.
And settling for a 21 year old!!!
He lacks so much self-awareness
The doc is displaying all the attributes of why he is single... He used his job title to win the woman, but that only goes so far.
Frrrrr
Exactly he’s pretentious and arrogant and I can't see anyone putting up with his foolishness
Yea he’s clearly the one with issues. That was definitely proven when you’re 38 and choose to date a 20 year old. Sick
It gets him between them legs
Y'all say this and still go for guys like that hoping they treat you well then the nice guys you girls don't go for get the left overs 🤣🤣😂
The 20 years old girl who asked him "what is wrong" is my hero. He’s telling girls that they need therapist but maybe he should focus on himself. Defending yourself as doctor when people simply asking about your name not your job is not that good
The “Dental Guy” was on a mission.😂
Telling a complete stranger she’s insecure and tried to convince her he knew her more than she knew herself was crazy. She stood in a room where everyone spoke on her shape and she was still confident enough to sY shes happy in her skin took strength and he took that as insecurity. Thats why he's standing on the line now.
Right, that Dr needs help
Right, I did think that was weird. If she got a bbl then ppl will complain but she don’t and she’s happy and now that’s still a problem.
He’s obnoxious AF
Naw dude was right about her
😂😂Fact!
Dr Elom be popping his balloon just so he can hear himself speak
I had my eye this way😏😏😏😏 the moment he first opened his mouth...
Facts 😂😂😂
lmaooooo
I’m saying
Facts
Jessica was actually hilarious and smart 😂
Yessss i loved her sm, they don’t deserve her 🥺
I felt when leona says she’s not dealing with nonsense! I know that’s right!! Thank you for your service as well❤
That doctor just proved why he is single at 40
Yea, it just seems like the doctor is there to belittle those who are younger than him and stroke his ego. At 38 years old you shouldn’t be telling a 22 year old that they would be a liability to you especially when they are still trying to figure out life themselves. He was in her shoes once upon a time so he should understand being young and trying to figure out the unknown, the unknown being what you like. It just seemed so rude to me. She’s not going to act 40 in her 20s, she is a baby adult at that point.
Facts!! Speaking of proving points.
RIGHT🤣
Let’s hope no woman ever has to deal with him. I hope he finds the man of his dreams.
That’s a fact !
“Not married, never been engaged no kids, your 38 and a doctor? What’s wrong ” CLOCK IT
🌈
Maybe he hasn't found the right one. I'm in my 40s, no kids, never been married. I chose my career...not everyone is meant to have that life or wasn't at that stage yet
And the way he was gaslighting every women, I wouldn't be shocked if he has kids, he looks like a 304 who has created multiple broken homes. He is also giving sassy gay, bi, he is arguing like a teenage school girl 💅🌈
Says A lot about what’s wrong with todays women if he’s single at 38 no kids and a dr
@@michellesmith1540 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the age, not having kids and never been engaged . I think a lot of people choose their careers for financial stability for the future so they can have certain luxuries. That’s not the problem people see in him, it’s the arrogance, his lack of respect and empathy towards these women . Telling someone they struggle with self love or they need therapy is not in his scope of practice as a “Dentist” . He should hand out dental floss not his obnoxious attitude .
I wish the electrician the best. He seems like a genuinely sweet, hard working, family oriented man.
I love the short Rasta man soooo much. So sweet and great vibes 🥹
My girlfriend is a psychologist and she diagnosed the good doctor as a narcissist. He gaslights, he attempts to assume power over others and he's condescending.
I’d doubt she is because no psychologist worth their salt would assume they could make a diagnosis based on someone’s behaviour on a dating show
@@AT-mu6ov a) the word diagnosis was used by me and not by her; b) it's not a formal diagnosis, it's a bit of fun; c) his narcissistic personality traits are so pronounced that even without an assessment she is certain that he is one. There are just too many behaviours in such a short period, how he positions himself above others, how he attempts to assume power, the way he switched into charm when there was competition, etc
Anyway, believe what you like bud. Well done for learning the psychology disclaimer.
@@callme_fakezthat person who did that to you and didn’t let you again to confirm is horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you but their girlfriend mentioning it in passing with the obvious signs isn’t a issues. Search up the signs and try to compare he hits some of them. she isn’t saying that the doctor has to take that as fact just an educated opinion. The funny thing is he tried to diagnose someone else and offer them therapy without really knowing if she was insecure or not. Makes sense people are pointing out things he may have
@@callme_fakezman shut up
Which is why he dates younger women. He assumes they are easier to control.
The fact that everybody is a “model” is hilarious lmao
lol people use that term so loosely
Foreal. "I'm a model" 😂😂😂
They just let anyone be models these days. I remember when it actually used to mean something 😭
Fax 😭😭
One key thing to remember is there are now different types of models 🤐
That man ain’t no real doctor he works for a non profit organization he was out here playing these females and they all fell for it 😂😂
Why is the doctor diagnosing everyone 😂😂
Every time the doctor opened his mouth I got the immediate ick. He really thinks he’s all that 😂
Lol this dr is self absorbed and rude
He’s very condescending and he always has to have the last word. Likes to hear himself speak 🤢
So how do you think us men feel if these women open their mouths? These women who cant do absolutely nothing. They cant do nothing and bring absolutely nothing to the table but still act like theyre the prize. So how do you think we feel? At least the doctor is a DOCTOR, is smart and well spoken. You just dont like him, bc he destroys you womens delusions
@@tcfranco6228yall dont like him bc he puts yall on your bullshit. He makes yall realize how delusional yall are
He is. 🤷🏾♂️
"i may not be able to date you but i would hire you" is so condescending omg 😭😭😭😭
That took me out
It’s really not. Most women make better workers than wives today lol
I honestly don’t think he meant it as shade but it really came off that way lol. She didn’t seem offended though, I would’ve said f*ck your job 😂
I caught that! lol 😂
Explain
54:25 Terrence is funny as hell talking about "I ran from the lasss one" 🤣🤣🤣
The model wasn't defensive. She was respectful to everyone. The men just got upset because she didn't want a bigger butt. She's a model who is good with her size. What's wrong with that?
Navy lady was the ONLY one doctor Elom COULDNT tussle with and I fuck with that
SAME 😂 watching him finally get stfu was a healing moment for me lmao
You love him.
😂😂😂
Exactly. She asked what’s wrong with you. She picked it up.
Yes! I think everything he’s saying to the model is everything he wanted to say to the lady before her but he was scared. So now he’s throwing it on someone that he feels isn’t gonna come at him like she would.
That doctor was insufferable. He is literally the worst kind of man to encounter: delusional, self-centred, arrogant, gaslighting, and pushy. Going on these diatribes on a dating show with no self awareness.
👏🏻
@@_iamkadijakimAnd this is where the ignoring of red flags and heartbreaks come in.😢😂
@@_iamkadijakim His only saving grace.
@@berniceabenaboadi4829 I’m working on myself 😩😩😭😭
💯💯💯
The doc is my favorite, he’s always catching you off guard because he speaks so elegantly. 😂
"I know how to do that... My Dad" the 22yr old handled his 38yr old toxicity 😂😂
The guy with dreadlocks is really down to earth, very kind and respectful can't believe all the ladies are concerned about his height I pray that he find true love
Might be the best and committed dude in there, who knows. But because of height, he may have been passed over. Imagine the young lady going for the most egotistical dude on the lineup vs the dread guy who said come back if you don't get matched AND the guy who asked for a balloon back. Tomorrow, it'll be "men" are assholes.... nah your decision making is butt lol
@@fistandpen2505Looks matter. Everything else is an after thought.
yeah, the third girl showed him some love though...she also was the best I think
😂😂😂😂 y’all don’t know how to pick em
@@fistandpen2505 as a fellow dreadhead I would've picked him 1st so quick!
Dr. Elom is the kind of man who writes doctor everywhere. Once when he is on the plane they will call him for an emergency and he will have to admit he is only a dentist 😂 so embarassing 🤭
But they're Drs tho
@@shizman8037yeah but no. He probably got his degree from like ITT Tech or University of Phoenix before they closed down 😂
my goodness he has a stinking personality!
Ikr😂😂😂
Lol for real and he is SO creepy he was always preying on the young girls 🤢 if a woman was 38 and she chose a 21 year old guy she would get DRAGGED. This old man is creepy asf for choosing a 21 year old girl. Actually all the girls were too young for him 😂 at his big age he should be married with kids by now not in a TH-cam dating video
“How old is your father?” is a legendary line
😂😂 The doctor is here for Networking
The guy with the dreads is sweet, blue collar worker, nice smile, good energy and has a peaceful spirit. I hope he finds a nice woman
Yeah same☺️
He would have definitely been my pick… dark skin, nice teeth, a trade career, and I’m sure he can cook being from the south. And I love a man w toys ( fast cars, 3 wheelers, bikes, atv’s etc)
Yes, and seems to be fun and funny, too! 😂
He was such a chill dude, I hope he does too. He doesnt deserve all the rejections. That height is runnin em off sadly lol
fr i hope so too
it was irritating to see everybody say they didn't want Jessica because she was plus-sized. Then, immediately after, they all criticized the skinnier woman for not being thick enough.
Don't forget the bulk of them drooling over the first young lady because she is thick.
That just winded me up.
It makes perfect sense. People don’t lie excess. Not too high, not too small.
@@JuleneSings it doesn't because the lady before that wasn't even big she just had thicker thighs and they still judged her. seems like to me they want some girl with plastic hips n booty
😅😂😅 seriously!! Jessica is very rude, to all the men that popped on her.
Terrence should have a short girls edition 😭😭
He’s from Episode 1 lol omg 😂he is still leaving single 🤦🏾♀️
Nah the Anita Baker comment was wild 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 and she talking about “ I got sweet love “ making it worst
@MrsSam611 😂😂😂
I like how the young 22 year old noticed how toxic "dr" elom is and dismissed him, his whole insecurity showed and he wanted to talk all over her.
yes!!
If a high value man with options has a high value demand, he is automatically toxic?? Nah my brother, he knows what he’s looking for in a woman.
But then they matched!! I'm so confused
@@MistyMarie You're only confused because you do not know the nature of your own sisters. A lack of observation on your part, a trait most of you lack.
@@warrioreon11facts
That "doctor" guy is the definition of an energy vampire with a superiority complex.
THIS. OMG ENERGY VAMPIRE😭😭
Unless you’re offering free sex to the men in the comments, we really don’t care.
He was literally projecting what he is, how ironic... Also funny when he is asked his name, he feels the need to present himself with his title to hide behind it to act superior.
He has no right to "evaluate" the girl based off a few minutes observation.. which isn't his field in the first place. Since when do Dentist's give therapy sessions?
What’s crazy is some of his clips went viral on tik tok and he everyone’s talking about he’s amazing
yes, his energy is disgusting. yuck
“You seem like you’re taking the criticism harshly” she is saying “that’s ok” to everyone lol
My husband is 12 years younger, we are happy and won't change it for the world. Its about respect, love and honoring each other,
My man Terrance be out there loving everybody😂
Like a true short king 😂
I want him to get chose so bad 😂
My dawg fr🤣🤣
Lmaooo fr! He calls every woman gorgeous
@@daeona a true short king? I’m screaming 😭
Doctor is for sure the type that tries to get into your mind FIRST and basically rewire it to fit his reality! It’s insane to come across these types. But what he’s doing is, he’s seeing if you’ll submit to his version of reality. This is exactly how it starts out with a narcissist, he’s playing cat and mouse with their minds, literally testing how far he can go. If that girl at any point said “maybe I do need therapy” and believes it, you best believe he’ll feel accomplished! He’s the truest of a toxic narcissist. Take note ladies!
Dude is definitely a narcissist. Thinks he's the smartest in the room type of dude. And corny. He going be single for a long time with his attitude.
@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera actually quite the contrary. I hate to say this but usually Narcissists are very successful in having relationships. It might be a revolving door, but most can find people. Mainly because there are so many broken, emotionally hurt people seeking love. They come swooping in because they see them as prey, and opportunity to rise their ego.
@@Stroproducedit They are good at starting relationships due to the charm but they never hold them.
@@Cayorootsbro isn’t a narcissist everything he said was so on point and came from experience + seeing other people’s mistakes that’s so evident especially when he made the statement on the fact that they’re on a platform where they should expect criticism so him just speaking his mind shouldn’t get the girls turned up the same way the girls putting down the men and the men just take it
@@aizensouske6440 Oh you haven’t seen his other videos..
This Dr walking outta there with a 21 year old is crazy! Good luck to her. Wish we could get a catch up session in these matches
the doc seems like he'd ask Jesus, why you wanna turn water into wine
Bro that’s too funny lol😂
So, she's insecure because she's fine with the way she looks and doesn't feel the need to change it.... That's literally what it means to be secure.
exactly, and better yet, she's a MODEL. she's out there to represent herself because she's comfortable in her own body. she also agreed to join this dating session, there's NOTHING insecure. if anything, the "doctor" was throwing shade because she wasn't willing to change her appearance for somebody. I mean come on, most of these guys want a thick woman, and when they can't get it, shade is thrown. ridiculous
THANK YOU! My sentiments exactly!
His point wasn’t about looks. His point was about humility. That she needs therapy cause of her humility. He even popped it after he heard her continue to speak. 2 totally different things
@@dblxdei mean They are all little boys there! Haven’t seen a single men there
Right! They're so weird. Anymore butt and she's not fitting in tbe model size clothes.
The doctor guy is talking about humility while he introduces himself as a doctor in a social experiment 😂😂😂😂
This 😂😂😂😂
I would too if I had worked hard all those years to earn those credentials…put some respect on my name
Very cringey!
@southernkeyz1 I hear you. That was my first thought when I read that comment. However, I also think people need to have some humility. There is a time and place and the way its said matters too.
Annoying
This one was a great one, I really enjoyed it. Everyone was very mature with their answers, and maybe only 1 or 2 petty moments. Thank you for these, they really help my slow days at work get by!! 💕❣🤗
The first girl has such a contagious smile! 😭❤️
No Dr she isn’t insecure …. She accepted the fact all rejected bc of her size but she kept the smile bro she is confident and loved at home
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Exactly! She was so graceful & that man is NOT qualified to be anyone's "therapist," when it's obvious he's an egomaniac sociopath, himself 😂😂
Yeah she took the criticism with grace.
Nah she def was feeling some kinda way about it lol. Her feelings was hurt n she had a lil attitude behind it.
@@SAVAGEoLIFEno shit… they were dogging her for her body
the fact that all these dudes were trying to imply that girl is not ''willing to compromise'' cause she loves her body and doesn't want to walk around with a fat ass is absolutely INSANE WORK.
agreed that was nonsense
Agree🙄
Agreed. Not all women want a bbl and are content with what God blessed them with. I can appreciate that…those men have issues within themselves
INSANE. I had to come to the comments bc I knew I wasn’t tripping 😂. Now if she had a bbl they would say “these women don’t love themselves”. This guys were cringeeeee
My wife is fat now since she already gave birth to 3 children, she’s no longer what she used to be before, but I love her anyways, I’m not deceived by physical beauty, no even by her interior beauty, because I made up my mind to make that lady happy, and what I do for her, makes her love me, I receive the love I provide and I teach her to be a good woman and person all the time.
The doctor is ruffling a lot of feathers! Very interesting show! It reveals so much! I have been married over 31 years and this dating market is……………😎❤️.
I thought I was watching a dating show not sitting in a doc’s office 🤣
That beautiful young woman just earned herself the privelage of getting to hear Dr Elom talk about himself for two days straight 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
"But he can fly me out" 🙄 smh GURL RUN!
‼️‼️‼️ this I was soooo mad at her decision, like girl he literally told you he’s not paying for your tuition ( the embarrassing way ) & he just wants to mold her… smh she fell for the game like 2nd pick said. 👎
@@LaBrittanyAmuThomas she will be chasing that high from the first trip for the rest of that relationship.
When you introduce as I'm dr so and so..big red flag..she could not get past DR...😂😂it's silly
The fact that Dr.Elom calls himself Doctor means he is caught up with his career and it's all he identifies with! Your career is not all of who you are.😮💨
He's trying to garner brownie points. It really seemed like he was hoping they'd be interested in his job and not notice how creepy he was the entire time.
My eyes were like this every time he spoke: 😬
What's wrong with that? No disrespect I'm only asking
@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801😅😅I’m an MD and it’s so weird to introduce yourself as that in a social setting. These women are not his patients neither is he at a conference presenting a paper.
@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801Having a career and being your career are different
@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801 Nothing, this is just bozo logic. If they put in the work and dedication to achieve that title, they would also call themselves doctor
This is one of my favorites, that doctor gave a good speech 😮
This is very entertaining. Man! Glad I’m off the dating scene! I hope you all find love!!!
The Dr is so full of himself. The guy with the jordans bothered me too. I loved the one lady asking the Dr what was wrong 😂
Where's your ring at ? 😂 The truth hurts doesn't it
😂😂😂😂
@@bulletsRflying where's yours?
@@yadinoba I got mine since 2016. You?
@@bulletsRflyingthat is quite sad, to be married and to worry about other women's marital status... thoughts and prayers for your wife
The doctor is a gaslighter, strongly, the fake calmness and lack of humility, gag reflex 🤧
Yup. He’s 100% emotionally abusive
Fake calmness😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀. Saying that calmness is fake...is wild.
Interesting take. Now rate your head game.
@@sampeter2714 please grow some brain cells
I’m Team Terrance. He’s cute, kind, successful and confident 💙
Jessica has that real sophisticated look. She seems safe, super mature and keeps peaceful company.
That Doctor seemed too comfortable talking down to these women. I feel for anyone who enters a relationship with him.
This!
Who hurt you?
Docs have a God complex.
@@KEwashethis one certainly does
Y’all talk down on men every chance yall get 😂
My dawg with the dreads still keeping his balloon when they already said they wan a tall man is hilarious
😂😂😂😂
Bless him
😂😂
He did say that he wants whoever wants him. He just trying to get chose 🤣💀
😂
I feel bad for the second girl, only because I could see how she’s developed a defensive outer shell losing so much weight. And then to have lost so much weight and people still just see you as plus size can be discouraging. She’s beautiful and should continue just be herself
This episode has me cracking up lmfaoo this is the first episode of these type of videos that I laughed like this 😂😂
They all judged the model for being too petit and because she stood firm on being content w/ her looks, unwilling to bend to what’s aesthetically pleasing to them, they viewed her as combative. Dr likes her just wanted to debate like a narcissist SMH
Literally every guy popped their balloon , she deff has a much higher perception of herself than what men perceive her ass.
Wasn’t a judgement, it happens to be their preference.
They didn't judge her. If that's the case, then she judged the shorter dude.
Her hair was a mess I think they just didn’t want to say it
I agree you said well
The Dr thinks he's the smartest person in the room. If anyone needs therapy..it's him
He’s literally a DENTIST with the mindset of a surgeon talking like a “qualified” therapist 😭
Yeah, inflated ego for sure
I’ve worked at a few hospitals & the doctors behave as if they are gods gift to the planet.
FACTSSSS
He thinks because he’s a doctor, he’s such a catch but that arrogance is so unattractive
Dude asking somebody to pop his balloon after she said she don’t work out had me dying lmaoooo
‘I like to pull teeth’ lmao this guy