Well. He said most conversation are lacking substance that he seeks- and he probably has enjoyed the many beauties of the world… show brings even more exposer to beauties of the world… because the man is good looking we cannot deny.😊
As a doctor (physician) myself, be weary of people who introduce themselves as such in social situations. It's very telling when someone introduces them as Dr. such and such unless you are at work or a work-related event.
Disgusting! 🤢 He was just there to network and get his name out there. Not there for the show, he was there to promote himself! I hope they're casting better this time. That poor (young) girl that he picked didn't see it. I guess being one year older than the older girl made her more sophisticated.
@o0jency0o The young girl only wanted him for his money and he knew it. That's why he told her he would fly her out on a first date. They both chose each other for shallow reasons.
@@jamesmali8233 He seems to have strong narcissistic tendencies. Thankfully he doesn't hide those tendencies very well, so the majority of people will notice quickly and steer clear. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
The 20 yeare old lady who dismissed dr elom was so spot on ti question his situation considering the fact that he is 38, handsome, doctor and single.... So spot on i loved how she scnaned this situation quickly
I'm going to need them to get some short girls that like short guys for Terrance. He seems so genuine and down to earth. I be rooting for him so hard!!
But the short girls allot of times be the worst ones because they short themselves they also want a super tall guy , its been my experience that the girls that give "short" (I'm 5'7) guys the most love are the average height girls like 5'4 , 5'5 .
@user-sj5ju4jb7t this woman is thin for real I think it would be a struggle for her to build up. so I know It would be off putting for me somebody asking to change my natural body that I worked hard to be confident in but people can have different requirements
The doctor calling the slim girl insecure when she stood tall and firm on loving her body even though a ton of men were insulting her for being slim is the biggest gaslight I’ve ever witnessed. I hope she knows she’s always loved and valuable no matter what size.
He gave me SUCH toxic vibes, I felt horrible hearing him go on and on. I would reject him Sooooooooo quick Edit: I went to his instagram to chew him out but it didn’t work, he responded but he was indifferent😡, some people are just toxic and they don’t care and you can’t change them 🤷🏻♀️
They were definitely not insulting her, they were just telling her what they thought. But I agree with everything else, he was acting like it was objectively an issue and if she didn't wanna change it it's because she's insecure. The idea that they may not like it but she does and would not want to change it seemed like a concept that he just couldn't understand. He was very full of himself.
This show is ADDICTIVE and part of the reason is because it showcases so much about human behavior. The ones who look most presentable don't necessarily have the substance to back it up - meanwhile the ones who carry grace and kindness really leave a lasting impression even if they weren't that compelling at first glance. You really see that people's energy matters most at the end of the day.
Not the last girl who he switched up so hard for 😭 he fr saw a chance to mold someone so young and open, and probably was scared bc he knew if he didn't match with her he'd be going home alone. Dude needs serious help
Dr Elom is a dentist and all of a sudden he’s a therapist, nutritionist every kind of doctor but a dentist , didn’t even mention anyone’s smile even 😂😂
The doctor is making me think he’s not an actual doctor. He says he’s a dentist but then speaks to some like he’s a therapist saying he charges by the hour. Sir, is your name Legion?
@@amandaclbn8324 baby, he don’t know who the hell he is. His face is fine but then you look at his clothes and listen to him speak and it’s an absolutely not!
You kinda just answered why they were doing it in your own sentence you literally just said “it’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself”……….BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT AGREE TO CHANGE 🤦🏾♂️ The slowness
@@vontevbb8922you’re slow because why should someone change their BODY??! That’s like her asking them to lighten their skin and if they say no…they’re stubborn. Like uhhh noooo.
@@vontevbb8922crackhead is a terrible example because crack is actually bad for you. Her body is what it is. She isn’t unhealthy so why should she change it to suit someone’s preferences?!
Crazier still is the fact that therapy is useless psychobabble. Skinny would b better off buying drinks 4her friends. Phycology is NOT a science. Sociology is NOT a science. Neither can employ the scientific method 2test or confirm abstracts.
Lmfao I swear I rewinded that part so many times. When she praised God in her cute African accent and followed that with a subtle read omg 😂 I needed this timestamp you gave because I need to know where to find her
Somebody call they auntie and get them off this dating show. What is that hair🤢 these men are young they don't want no ogre looking female. And she pregnant? Omg.
@@Akhona3well he’s right. She’s annoying and immature. He has to pick what’s best for him. Not his type. Just to be honest😊The fact that she said you is. In this day and time Ugg . We as black people shouldn’t be saying you is.
The guy with dreadlocks is really down to earth, very kind and respectful can't believe all the ladies are concerned about his height I pray that he find true love
Might be the best and committed dude in there, who knows. But because of height, he may have been passed over. Imagine the young lady going for the most egotistical dude on the lineup vs the dread guy who said come back if you don't get matched AND the guy who asked for a balloon back. Tomorrow, it'll be "men" are assholes.... nah your decision making is butt lol
And one of the weird things that I feel like no one talks about is the charity question! When that lady asked him what type of charity organization he runs, he couldn’t answer. He gave some broad answer like “to better the world” and tried to deflect by asking her to elaborate on the charity she does. Even though “mental health” is a more specific answer.
Telling a complete stranger she’s insecure and tried to convince her he knew her more than she knew herself was crazy. She stood in a room where everyone spoke on her shape and she was still confident enough to sY shes happy in her skin took strength and he took that as insecurity. Thats why he's standing on the line now.
This episode was off the hook! Lol. When that one girl actually asked about sizes, I nearly choked on my cereal! 😂 Arlette is really amazing. I don't know how she handles all the chaotic personalities with such grace and skill. Hats off to her!!
Ima be real ion think it was the fact she had no ass it was the unwillingness to put in the work natural to build ass and it’s not like that wouldn’t have benefited her if she’s really a model having more curves or define curves especially for her slim build would have been a plus she don’t gotta get major ass but a slim gym fit bod with the nice butt would have made that girl a instant 10 scale breaker imo plus yeah she did get defensive about it and I mean aye it’s a bunch of guys 🤷🏾
@@briasworld8 no mam that is false men hell even black men really like women with nice body features either ass or tities, the men you are mainly referring too or about are goofies who are weird asf. But a majority of men love women of any color especially black men retaining black women love a woman with some nice physical features it’s not all we care about truthfully cause majority of black men date black women and in the majority im pretty sure not all of em have nice or over bearing physical features but it’s just how men are 🤷🏾
Right, whenever I've mentioned that I'm trying to lose some weight (10-20) pounds in front of a black man, they're always like nahh I like them slim thick, then Dr. Elom talking about "your health problems are a risk." Which is it? Point is, don't listen to these men & definitely don't change in a way you don't already want to for a man. Especially one that is not your husband -- not a boyfriend, not a fiancee, a husband only. And even then, proceed with caution. We're not blow-up dolls or avatars. Looking in the mirror and liking what I see is more important -- that's where confidence comes from. If I will be happier at a lower weight, I'm losing it.
He was literally projecting what he is, how ironic... Also funny when he is asked his name, he feels the need to present himself with his title to hide behind it to act superior. He has no right to "evaluate" the girl based off a few minutes observation.. which isn't his field in the first place. Since when do Dentist's give therapy sessions?
@@blissdad13that’s a problem. They wanted him because he’s attractive and many women on the street would give him a chance thinking he’s a catch and find themselves with an emotionally abusive man
@@lv2756 you don't get it. he didn't hide who he is.... he wasnt up there selling a dream.. he was brutally honest.. unapologetic. Confident. And every woman chose him. Every single one.... the chose him BECAUSE he is "abusive" not because they didn't know he was... He was the only man up there that not one woman could control or manipulate.... thats the man that women call narcissist...
Maybe he hasn't found the right one. I'm in my 40s, no kids, never been married. I chose my career...not everyone is meant to have that life or wasn't at that stage yet
And the way he was gaslighting every women, I wouldn't be shocked if he has kids, he looks like a 304 who has created multiple broken homes. He is also giving sassy gay, bi, he is arguing like a teenage school girl 💅🌈
@@michellesmith1540 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the age, not having kids and never been engaged . I think a lot of people choose their careers for financial stability for the future so they can have certain luxuries. That’s not the problem people see in him, it’s the arrogance, his lack of respect and empathy towards these women . Telling someone they struggle with self love or they need therapy is not in his scope of practice as a “Dentist” . He should hand out dental floss not his obnoxious attitude .
My girlfriend is a psychologist and she diagnosed the good doctor as a narcissist. He gaslights, he attempts to assume power over others and he's condescending.
@@AT-mu6ov a) the word diagnosis was used by me and not by her; b) it's not a formal diagnosis, it's a bit of fun; c) his narcissistic personality traits are so pronounced that even without an assessment she is certain that he is one. There are just too many behaviours in such a short period, how he positions himself above others, how he attempts to assume power, the way he switched into charm when there was competition, etc Anyway, believe what you like bud. Well done for learning the psychology disclaimer.
@@callme_fakezthat person who did that to you and didn’t let you again to confirm is horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you but their girlfriend mentioning it in passing with the obvious signs isn’t a issues. Search up the signs and try to compare he hits some of them. she isn’t saying that the doctor has to take that as fact just an educated opinion. The funny thing is he tried to diagnose someone else and offer them therapy without really knowing if she was insecure or not. Makes sense people are pointing out things he may have
@southernkeyz1 I hear you. That was my first thought when I read that comment. However, I also think people need to have some humility. There is a time and place and the way its said matters too.
‼️‼️‼️ this I was soooo mad at her decision, like girl he literally told you he’s not paying for your tuition ( the embarrassing way ) & he just wants to mold her… smh she fell for the game like 2nd pick said. 👎
So how do you think us men feel if these women open their mouths? These women who cant do absolutely nothing. They cant do nothing and bring absolutely nothing to the table but still act like theyre the prize. So how do you think we feel? At least the doctor is a DOCTOR, is smart and well spoken. You just dont like him, bc he destroys you womens delusions
If I spent 10 plus years in higher education and took out hundreds of thousands of dollars in student loans 💸 I will ALWAYS introduce myself by Doctor wherever I go, lol 😆 Hw has earned the right; he has invested the time and money to be addressed and greeted according ly 😊
it was irritating to see everybody say they didn't want Jessica because she was plus-sized. Then, immediately after, they all criticized the skinnier woman for not being thick enough.
@@JuleneSings it doesn't because the lady before that wasn't even big she just had thicker thighs and they still judged her. seems like to me they want some girl with plastic hips n booty
@@MistyMarie You're only confused because you do not know the nature of your own sisters. A lack of observation on your part, a trait most of you lack.
Dr. Elom is the kind of man who writes doctor everywhere. Once when he is on the plane they will call him for an emergency and he will have to admit he is only a dentist 😂 so embarassing 🤭
Lol for real and he is SO creepy he was always preying on the young girls 🤢 if a woman was 38 and she chose a 21 year old guy she would get DRAGGED. This old man is creepy asf for choosing a 21 year old girl. Actually all the girls were too young for him 😂 at his big age he should be married with kids by now not in a TH-cam dating video
his intro was fire not going to lie. I 100% understood what she meant tho. Carrying that energy as a man should mainly be reserved for other men, but not around women or in more social settings. It can definitely come off as too aggressive vs just being a mature man.
@@YurrahAlHadi imo it wasnt really that agressive just really defensive and non-telling. As in, you can't read him or tell any personality just from looking at him. He's in a dating show, but doesn't seem open at all, probably so he doesn't get hurt. Which is why he was defensive immediately and tried to find solidarity with other men.
I just want to know why he is on the show. Shouldn't he be busy....with teeth or something? In a different socio-economic arena then this show? That's how he acts to me.
4th girl was so entertaining and GORGEOUS. Like them flaming her for saying she doesn’t know what she wants but also saying age wasn’t important? Ofc she’s not gonna know she’s 22 💀
Terrance!! I want Terrance to find his match. He’s so genuine, very respectful & so funny. He did his best to be nice to everyone even when he popped his balloon. I love him he’s so precious
That doctor was insufferable. He is literally the worst kind of man to encounter: delusional, self-centred, arrogant, gaslighting, and pushy. Going on these diatribes on a dating show with no self awareness.
the fact that all these dudes were trying to imply that girl is not ''willing to compromise'' cause she loves her body and doesn't want to walk around with a fat ass is absolutely INSANE WORK.
INSANE. I had to come to the comments bc I knew I wasn’t tripping 😂. Now if she had a bbl they would say “these women don’t love themselves”. This guys were cringeeeee
My wife is fat now since she already gave birth to 3 children, she’s no longer what she used to be before, but I love her anyways, I’m not deceived by physical beauty, no even by her interior beauty, because I made up my mind to make that lady happy, and what I do for her, makes her love me, I receive the love I provide and I teach her to be a good woman and person all the time.
The way they treated the third girl was crazy ! They complain and say black women are all over weight . This woman is slim and they tear her a part . She was confident enough to still love her body regardless and actually didn’t get defensive. I think she handled them well given how badly they talked about her frame. I’m stunned that all the women still wanted the doctor after he opened his mouth sheesh .
Dr. Elom will either never get married or he will be divorced multiple times. Women will definitely fall for him because he’s handsome and his career, but they will go through the worst emotional trauma with this man. 🗣️Run!
I feel so bad for the last girl bc she doesn't even know she "matched" with a predator. She fell right into his trap. As soon as he heard her age, and she said "I'm looking for a leader and a mentor", his ears perked up. He turned on the charisma, turned off the aggression, and sold a delusion of grandeur to seal the deal. You can tell by his interactions with the previous women, that he is a malignant narcissist, and all he wants is control. The way he was almost preaching and diagnosing the other women is a clear mark of a controlling and dangerous man. It's a tragic story of a blind and unsuspecting 21 year old girl who thinks she found love, running into the arms of a guy MUCHHHHH older than her who lures her into his life for his own nefarious and controlling reasons. He's just found someone to "mentor" to "shape" to ..... "groom".
you are very discerning, and I agree. Are you a victim of narcissistic abuse? Once you've been entangled with one, you see the world differently. And you can spot predators and see what others don't see. False charm, manipulation, and grandeur, are like the game between the snake and the snake charmer. Narcissists are weak people who are not in touch with reality. Elom uses his resources and status not to help but to enclose him in his fantasy. With the young woman he will cause her to share in his fantasy and in that emergence, the abuse will begin.
@@celestejones-vd8vq fortunately I’ve never been in a relationship like this, unfortunately I’ve never been IN a relationship (but it’s bc I am very aware and discerning and WILL stay away) Ive just always been able to see past facades.
exactly, and better yet, she's a MODEL. she's out there to represent herself because she's comfortable in her own body. she also agreed to join this dating session, there's NOTHING insecure. if anything, the "doctor" was throwing shade because she wasn't willing to change her appearance for somebody. I mean come on, most of these guys want a thick woman, and when they can't get it, shade is thrown. ridiculous
His point wasn’t about looks. His point was about humility. That she needs therapy cause of her humility. He even popped it after he heard her continue to speak. 2 totally different things
I know! But are we similar to our cousins? I have some similarities with mine but there isn't one I'm too much like. I also have some major differences to my brother. Anyways, I liked him! He was well-spoken and seemed open-minded.
I’m rooting lil ok Terrance he seem real down to earth and he keep saying he want a strong black woman lol we all strong black woman but he needs one that’s not snobby, Golding, genuine like him and a bit on the more normal end if that makes sense
The Dr. Aggravates me so bad! It’s good to see the men who weren’t easily influenced by his dramatics.. I wouldn’t even waist me energy on this man , he’s exhausting 😅
The dentist who acts like he's a doctor of psychology. The skinny girl actually though he was a therapist based on the bullshit manospehere talk he was talkin. Complete fraud.
I ran to the comments just to see if everyone felt the same way about "Dr." Elom. Just wow wow wow. Speaking from experience he's deep down into his narcissism. Lord help him.
But she didn’t shut him up though🥴😂😂 she used a immature way i’m getting out the conversation, This girl literally didn’t know what she wanted in a man how is she she shutting anybody up
what a blessing that “Dr” elam chose to come on this show because i hope EVERY woman steers clear of this gaslighting holier than thou sad facade of a man after watching this🙄 good god
@@cocotrain2002I thought it was only me. Good lord he's so annoying. Honestly he's like an epitome of what a true narcissist is like and more like u said😅
Yes! I think everything he’s saying to the model is everything he wanted to say to the lady before her but he was scared. So now he’s throwing it on someone that he feels isn’t gonna come at him like she would.
He would have definitely been my pick… dark skin, nice teeth, a trade career, and I’m sure he can cook being from the south. And I love a man w toys ( fast cars, 3 wheelers, bikes, atv’s etc)
that “dr” is a trippp wtf he talks about the kayla being a liability bc but when the last girl came all of a sudden he changes his mind. he’s so contradicting and a narcissist
Narcissist is key, Kayla was too independent but a 21 year old, college student, who doesn’t have a self-sufficient income is a prime target for him to groom, use for sex and then discard. There is a reason he is almost 40, never married and childless.
Doctor is for sure the type that tries to get into your mind FIRST and basically rewire it to fit his reality! It’s insane to come across these types. But what he’s doing is, he’s seeing if you’ll submit to his version of reality. This is exactly how it starts out with a narcissist, he’s playing cat and mouse with their minds, literally testing how far he can go. If that girl at any point said “maybe I do need therapy” and believes it, you best believe he’ll feel accomplished! He’s the truest of a toxic narcissist. Take note ladies!
@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera actually quite the contrary. I hate to say this but usually Narcissists are very successful in having relationships. It might be a revolving door, but most can find people. Mainly because there are so many broken, emotionally hurt people seeking love. They come swooping in because they see them as prey, and opportunity to rise their ego.
@@Cayorootsbro isn’t a narcissist everything he said was so on point and came from experience + seeing other people’s mistakes that’s so evident especially when he made the statement on the fact that they’re on a platform where they should expect criticism so him just speaking his mind shouldn’t get the girls turned up the same way the girls putting down the men and the men just take it
There’s a reason why DOCTOR ARROGANT over there is still single at his age. He’s highlighted it well during the entire episode. Talking down to every single person, tearing them down, doing actual put downs instead of the “constructive criticism“ he claims to be doing. I have a hard time believing an actual doctor (dentist or otherwise) would offer to provide therapy to someone via an hourly rate. A real doctor would know how inappropriate it is without having the actual credentials to do so. Dentists don’t provide therapy, genius.
I totally agree. She has class and grace. Noticed that she’s married and her husband is involved in the shoes production, I believe. Yes, quality entertainment. Arlette is a gem.
Found myself rolling my eyes every time “Dr Elom” opens his mouth. He’s single at 38 for a reason.
Well. He said most conversation are lacking substance that he seeks- and he probably has enjoyed the many beauties of the world… show brings even more exposer to beauties of the world… because the man is good looking we cannot deny.😊
Same here!
@@bellefemmekenishahe's good looking and yet single at 38...
@@ComedyGlor Looks like you've skipped right over most of Belle's comment
@@TheRaifShow tbh I don’t understand what she’s saying reading it now
As a doctor (physician) myself, be weary of people who introduce themselves as such in social situations. It's very telling when someone introduces them as Dr. such and such unless you are at work or a work-related event.
As a doctor myself, I agree. 😂😂😂
As someone that dated a doctor, I agree. 😅😂😅
Bingos
My aunt is a doctor but she refuses to tell anyone lol I admire that
Exactly.. dr is not your name.. it’s a title
You can literally see ”The Doctor” waiting and thinking about how he can manipulate each person. Strange character.
He belongs to the 20% that 80% of women want. The ones that make them think all men are dogs😂😂😂
Disgusting! 🤢 He was just there to network and get his name out there. Not there for the show, he was there to promote himself! I hope they're casting better this time. That poor (young) girl that he picked didn't see it. I guess being one year older than the older girl made her more sophisticated.
@o0jency0o The young girl only wanted him for his money and he knew it. That's why he told her he would fly her out on a first date. They both chose each other for shallow reasons.
@@jamesmali8233 He seems to have strong narcissistic tendencies. Thankfully he doesn't hide those tendencies very well, so the majority of people will notice quickly and steer clear. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Doctor spoke the truth that women can’t handle. Respect to that guy.
The 20 yeare old lady who dismissed dr elom was so spot on ti question his situation considering the fact that he is 38, handsome, doctor and single.... So spot on i loved how she scnaned this situation quickly
I so enjoy that part ❤❤❤
I'm going to need them to get some short girls that like short guys for Terrance. He seems so genuine and down to earth. I be rooting for him so hard!!
But the short girls allot of times be the worst ones because they short themselves they also want a super tall guy , its been my experience that the girls that give "short" (I'm 5'7) guys the most love are the average height girls like 5'4 , 5'5 .
Omg me tooooo
me tooooo
that boy gotta stop dressing like he don’t got no money 😂😂
He was side eyeing the whole time 😆 Can't hide anything on his face.
You're calling a woman stubborn bc she doesn't want to change her body and make it bigger for you is the wildest thing I've ever heard
Rightttttt
you mis heard
@user-sj5ju4jb7t they are not used to having to qualify for a man. At all.
@user-sj5ju4jb7t this woman is thin for real I think it would be a struggle for her to build up. so I know It would be off putting for me somebody asking to change my natural body that I worked hard to be confident in but people can have different requirements
@user-sj5ju4jb7tit’s her body tho.. she doesn’t have to change it just because of what he wants.. he’s not gonna change his body for her.. like bffr
The doctor calling the slim girl insecure when she stood tall and firm on loving her body even though a ton of men were insulting her for being slim is the biggest gaslight I’ve ever witnessed. I hope she knows she’s always loved and valuable no matter what size.
He gave me SUCH toxic vibes, I felt horrible hearing him go on and on. I would reject him Sooooooooo quick
Edit: I went to his instagram to chew him out but it didn’t work, he responded but he was indifferent😡, some people are just toxic and they don’t care and you can’t change them 🤷🏻♀️
He is the insecure one. People with doctorate outside their job don't introduce themselves as - Hi,my name is Dr. Elim....
like i’m gagged
They were definitely not insulting her, they were just telling her what they thought. But I agree with everything else, he was acting like it was objectively an issue and if she didn't wanna change it it's because she's insecure.
The idea that they may not like it but she does and would not want to change it seemed like a concept that he just couldn't understand. He was very full of himself.
He's the smartest one. Value man.
if you don't have confidence this show will knock it down
I'd kill to hear Elom's exes talk about their past relationships with him. I know those girls have stories to tell ☠️
😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah he seems nuts
@@ohmisskaimi right, for daysssss lol
Surviving Dr Elom 😂😂
Boyyyy arguments every damn day
This show is ADDICTIVE and part of the reason is because it showcases so much about human behavior. The ones who look most presentable don't necessarily have the substance to back it up - meanwhile the ones who carry grace and kindness really leave a lasting impression even if they weren't that compelling at first glance. You really see that people's energy matters most at the end of the day.
Very well said and i agree!!
Yeah dude at the end looked less put together than the others in suits and such but his soul seems rich as hell. Cool dude and vibes
Well said
Agreed. The dude from Alabama is probably the least desirable physically for most, but has the nicest personality.
Omg!!! I just found it 2 days ago and I stayed up all night last night
the dr. guy is a _text book_ example of a person with narcissism.🙌🏼 the girlies dodged a bullet fr
Not the last girl who he switched up so hard for 😭 he fr saw a chance to mold someone so young and open, and probably was scared bc he knew if he didn't match with her he'd be going home alone. Dude needs serious help
I noticed that too!! Using culture as a vulnerability… what a shame she should’ve picked the one next to him.
You can't call someone yo don't no a narcisist yall need to stop this. You are not his doctor you have not assessed him to give him that diagnosis.
frfr
Idk if it’s even narcissism it just seems like he needs therapy lol
Dr Elom is a dentist and all of a sudden he’s a therapist, nutritionist every kind of doctor but a dentist , didn’t even mention anyone’s smile even 😂😂
The doctor is making me think he’s not an actual doctor. He says he’s a dentist but then speaks to some like he’s a therapist saying he charges by the hour. Sir, is your name Legion?
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Not Legion 😭😭😭
He a banker too 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@amandaclbn8324 baby, he don’t know who the hell he is. His face is fine but then you look at his clothes and listen to him speak and it’s an absolutely not!
I mean roasting the girl because she’s confident in her body. It’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself.
You kinda just answered why they were doing it in your own sentence you literally just said “it’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself”……….BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT AGREE TO CHANGE 🤦🏾♂️
The slowness
Let’s say I was a confident crackhead and didn’t wanna change, wouldn’t you assume people want you to be insecure about yourself ?
Her body being compared to being a crackhead is wild. Stick to music
@@vontevbb8922you’re slow because why should someone change their BODY??! That’s like her asking them to lighten their skin and if they say no…they’re stubborn. Like uhhh noooo.
@@vontevbb8922crackhead is a terrible example because crack is actually bad for you. Her body is what it is. She isn’t unhealthy so why should she change it to suit someone’s preferences?!
Dental guy didn't come for a date. He came to hear himself speak and put people down.
The wmn were still rockin' with him regardless, so what does that say?
Yesssss
@@CullodenJones she is young and dumb
And to find employees. The first girl, he made that clear
half these men look like they want men more than they want women-- the dentist included
The Dr has the “I’m that b*tch” 💅🏾 walk in the intro 😮💨 very fitting for how he acted on the show 🤣.
😂😂😂
The dentist trying to diagnosis people's mental health is CRAZY
Didn't he say he can offer therapy to someone lol just to find out his a dentist
I would hate him as a boss 😂😂😂
Ok. I was sure he said he pulled teeth. 🦷. I was wondering how we got to mental health from that. 😅
I was lost when he said he could offer therapy sessions 😂
😂😂😂
Dr Elom be popping his balloon just so he can hear himself speak
I had my eye this way😏😏😏😏 the moment he first opened his mouth...
Facts 😂😂😂
lmaooooo
I’m saying
Facts
Telling someone they can’t handle criticism and need therapy just because she said she liked herself the way she looked and wouldn’t change is crazy
yes exactly. he was intimidated by her confidence and tried to gaslight her publicly.
I was thinking the same thing! like why a person can’t like the way they are? Wtf
Crazier still is the fact that therapy is useless psychobabble. Skinny would b better off buying drinks 4her friends. Phycology is NOT a science. Sociology is NOT a science. Neither can employ the scientific method 2test or confirm abstracts.
That model girl is better off without any of these guys...she's comfortable with herself and stands up for herself and they all popped cuz of that
Exactly!!!
I LOVEEE HERRR 😂😂😂😂 1:04:54 she read that man !!! “You’re a doctor… what’s wrong?” 😂
Lmfao I swear I rewinded that part so many times. When she praised God in her cute African accent and followed that with a subtle read omg 😂 I needed this timestamp you gave because I need to know where to find her
Dr came thinking he's the main character is cracking me up
🤦🏾♂️ They literally still wanting his zesty azz too🤷🏾♂️😂😂 I’m convinced Blk women just like the “Look” and not nothing else.
He’s so annoying 😭 He thinks he’s HIM
Somebody call they auntie and get them off this dating show. What is that hair🤢 these men are young they don't want no ogre looking female. And she pregnant? Omg.
@@Akhona3well he’s right. She’s annoying and immature. He has to pick what’s best for him. Not his type. Just to be honest😊The fact that she said you is. In this day and time Ugg . We as black people shouldn’t be saying you is.
Dr was definitely the main character
Is it just me or the doctor purposely waited last minute to pop his balloon so the host can go up to him & he can give lectures? 😂
Yes!
I peeped that with the first girl
Absolutely. He’s so full of himself.
Yes lol 😭 although some of his points I get , but still.
Doc was on point though
The guy with dreadlocks is really down to earth, very kind and respectful can't believe all the ladies are concerned about his height I pray that he find true love
Might be the best and committed dude in there, who knows. But because of height, he may have been passed over. Imagine the young lady going for the most egotistical dude on the lineup vs the dread guy who said come back if you don't get matched AND the guy who asked for a balloon back. Tomorrow, it'll be "men" are assholes.... nah your decision making is butt lol
@@fistandpen2505Looks matter. Everything else is an after thought.
yeah, the third girl showed him some love though...she also was the best I think
😂😂😂😂 y’all don’t know how to pick em
@@fistandpen2505 as a fellow dreadhead I would've picked him 1st so quick!
Omg the 22 yr old was hilarious she’s so funny! I love her interaction and questions I was cracking up!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dr Elom is a nutcase. He was analyzing everyone but himself 🤣😬
Whew this one!!! Lmao
A true narcissist 😂. The fact he told ole girl she was insecure and need help. Like what. Everybody insecure like no sir not everybody 😅
And one of the weird things that I feel like no one talks about is the charity question! When that lady asked him what type of charity organization he runs, he couldn’t answer. He gave some broad answer like “to better the world” and tried to deflect by asking her to elaborate on the charity she does. Even though “mental health” is a more specific answer.
Exactly!!! He was super vague about every question ask@@kallie9059
Yall so pressed
Telling a complete stranger she’s insecure and tried to convince her he knew her more than she knew herself was crazy. She stood in a room where everyone spoke on her shape and she was still confident enough to sY shes happy in her skin took strength and he took that as insecurity. Thats why he's standing on the line now.
Right, that Dr needs help
Right, I did think that was weird. If she got a bbl then ppl will complain but she don’t and she’s happy and now that’s still a problem.
He’s obnoxious AF
Naw dude was right about her
😂😂Fact!
Man...the Dr looked a lot better when he was silent.
😅😅
I was about to say same thing 😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely
He’s full of himself 😂
He's throwing me...hes God's gift to Women...o. a pop ur balloon dating show! Wearing work boots😂😂😂😂😂
This episode was off the hook! Lol. When that one girl actually asked about sizes, I nearly choked on my cereal! 😂 Arlette is really amazing. I don't know how she handles all the chaotic personalities with such grace and skill. Hats off to her!!
The doc is displaying all the attributes of why he is single... He used his job title to win the woman, but that only goes so far.
Frrrrr
Exactly he’s pretentious and arrogant and I can't see anyone putting up with his foolishness
Yea he’s clearly the one with issues. That was definitely proven when you’re 38 and choose to date a 20 year old. Sick
It gets him between them legs
Y'all say this and still go for guys like that hoping they treat you well then the nice guys you girls don't go for get the left overs 🤣🤣😂
The guy standing next to the Dr just keeps laughing every time he talks 😂 I'd be laughing too, he's so full of himself 🤣
😭😭😭 I noticed in the second girl
Hes a fan
he just keeps giggling like a lil bitch omg
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is that what’s going on I was wondering why is he shaking so much.
Everytime the doctor opened his mouth I was hoping it would end soon😭 he needs to be humbled EXPEDITIOUSLY
I’m so glad everyone else felt the same way 😭 😂
He was talking about humility and integrity, like he has any of that himself.
Expeditiously 😂period
@@Cobras17 right. half the shit he was saying I was in awe. like😟
I know . The skinny girl was very pretty but I feel doctor was upset that she had a sassier attitude than him
The Ghanaian girl gathered them all up. Nice one, sis! ❤
Imagine a room full of people saying you have no ass and then them getting upset with you when you say you think your body is fine the way it is.
Ima be real ion think it was the fact she had no ass it was the unwillingness to put in the work natural to build ass and it’s not like that wouldn’t have benefited her if she’s really a model having more curves or define curves especially for her slim build would have been a plus she don’t gotta get major ass but a slim gym fit bod with the nice butt would have made that girl a instant 10 scale breaker imo plus yeah she did get defensive about it and I mean aye it’s a bunch of guys 🤷🏾
Exactly but that's all BM ever care about when it comes to BW & they'll never say a WW has to have a Body.
@@briasworld8 no mam that is false men hell even black men really like women with nice body features either ass or tities, the men you are mainly referring too or about are goofies who are weird asf. But a majority of men love women of any color especially black men retaining black women love a woman with some nice physical features it’s not all we care about truthfully cause majority of black men date black women and in the majority im pretty sure not all of em have nice or over bearing physical features but it’s just how men are 🤷🏾
Right, whenever I've mentioned that I'm trying to lose some weight (10-20) pounds in front of a black man, they're always like nahh I like them slim thick, then Dr. Elom talking about "your health problems are a risk." Which is it?
Point is, don't listen to these men & definitely don't change in a way you don't already want to for a man. Especially one that is not your husband -- not a boyfriend, not a fiancee, a husband only. And even then, proceed with caution. We're not blow-up dolls or avatars. Looking in the mirror and liking what I see is more important -- that's where confidence comes from. If I will be happier at a lower weight, I'm losing it.
like girl that pissed me off so bad 😂
That "doctor" guy is the definition of an energy vampire with a superiority complex.
THIS. OMG ENERGY VAMPIRE😭😭
Unless you’re offering free sex to the men in the comments, we really don’t care.
He was literally projecting what he is, how ironic... Also funny when he is asked his name, he feels the need to present himself with his title to hide behind it to act superior.
He has no right to "evaluate" the girl based off a few minutes observation.. which isn't his field in the first place. Since when do Dentist's give therapy sessions?
What’s crazy is some of his clips went viral on tik tok and he everyone’s talking about he’s amazing
yes, his energy is disgusting. yuck
I wish the electrician the best. He seems like a genuinely sweet, hard working, family oriented man.
Dude is so nice.
Same! He’s my favorite. I feel so bad for him
Which one?
@@shfc5463The short one
I agree! Dude was humble and seemed pretty authentic
it's so cool to watch this and see how much Arlette has perfected her craft over time!
perfect host
THE DOCTOR STAY AVOIDING QUESTIONS ABOUT HIMSELF. HE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS THERAPY AND HE'S A PLAYER 😂😂😂
You guys just don’t get it 👀She’s truly not his type. Just being honest. When she said you is. I was done ✅
@mrs.p4349 He tricked her. He wanted that 22 yr old girl that went with his cousin.
He had his way. Every woman wanted him. You mad?
@@blissdad13that’s a problem. They wanted him because he’s attractive and many women on the street would give him a chance thinking he’s a catch and find themselves with an emotionally abusive man
@@lv2756 you don't get it. he didn't hide who he is.... he wasnt up there selling a dream.. he was brutally honest.. unapologetic. Confident. And every woman chose him. Every single one.... the chose him BECAUSE he is "abusive" not because they didn't know he was...
He was the only man up there that not one woman could control or manipulate.... thats the man that women call narcissist...
“Not married, never been engaged no kids, your 38 and a doctor? What’s wrong ” CLOCK IT
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Maybe he hasn't found the right one. I'm in my 40s, no kids, never been married. I chose my career...not everyone is meant to have that life or wasn't at that stage yet
And the way he was gaslighting every women, I wouldn't be shocked if he has kids, he looks like a 304 who has created multiple broken homes. He is also giving sassy gay, bi, he is arguing like a teenage school girl 💅🌈
Says A lot about what’s wrong with todays women if he’s single at 38 no kids and a dr
@@michellesmith1540 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the age, not having kids and never been engaged . I think a lot of people choose their careers for financial stability for the future so they can have certain luxuries. That’s not the problem people see in him, it’s the arrogance, his lack of respect and empathy towards these women . Telling someone they struggle with self love or they need therapy is not in his scope of practice as a “Dentist” . He should hand out dental floss not his obnoxious attitude .
My girlfriend is a psychologist and she diagnosed the good doctor as a narcissist. He gaslights, he attempts to assume power over others and he's condescending.
I’d doubt she is because no psychologist worth their salt would assume they could make a diagnosis based on someone’s behaviour on a dating show
@@AT-mu6ov a) the word diagnosis was used by me and not by her; b) it's not a formal diagnosis, it's a bit of fun; c) his narcissistic personality traits are so pronounced that even without an assessment she is certain that he is one. There are just too many behaviours in such a short period, how he positions himself above others, how he attempts to assume power, the way he switched into charm when there was competition, etc
Anyway, believe what you like bud. Well done for learning the psychology disclaimer.
@@callme_fakezthat person who did that to you and didn’t let you again to confirm is horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you but their girlfriend mentioning it in passing with the obvious signs isn’t a issues. Search up the signs and try to compare he hits some of them. she isn’t saying that the doctor has to take that as fact just an educated opinion. The funny thing is he tried to diagnose someone else and offer them therapy without really knowing if she was insecure or not. Makes sense people are pointing out things he may have
@@callme_fakezman shut up
Which is why he dates younger women. He assumes they are easier to control.
I’m watching this episode almost a year later and the show has gotten so much better. Incredible work! ❤
The doctor guy is talking about humility while he introduces himself as a doctor in a social experiment 😂😂😂😂
This 😂😂😂😂
I would too if I had worked hard all those years to earn those credentials…put some respect on my name
Very cringey!
@southernkeyz1 I hear you. That was my first thought when I read that comment. However, I also think people need to have some humility. There is a time and place and the way its said matters too.
Annoying
the dentist guy was talking about humility but has none 😂
Exactly
Exactlyyy
Came here to say that
Have an idea what he likes
He’s tryna launch a podcast or something.
'Ur 38, ain’t marred, never been engaged… what’s wrong?' hahahaha jeez I love this girl, she so right.
That's me! :(
@@utarian7I'm juuuust watching this episode, and you made me fall out laughing! You're funny.
The man has standards, I'm guessing.
He isnt into modern women..thats why
She read him!
Ms 20 vibing authentically! Love how she switch up the lingo.
The woman hosting the show is soo beautiful and professional love her classiness
@@tf2432277 She’s average let’s not look past make up ladies
Dude! She's married, to the producer of the show dude.
Just saying , she's beautiful tho.
@@rasadams9034 average woman
She's also married
Excatly
the doctor being 38 years old on a dating show LMAO he definitely ain’t the catch.
100%. He should have his pick if there wasn't something off.
🤣🤣
But there were 41 year old women on the dating show. What does that even mean? Lol. The Dr. was doing too much tho lol.
And settling for a 21 year old!!!
He lacks so much self-awareness
That beautiful young woman just earned herself the privelage of getting to hear Dr Elom talk about himself for two days straight 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
"But he can fly me out" 🙄 smh GURL RUN!
‼️‼️‼️ this I was soooo mad at her decision, like girl he literally told you he’s not paying for your tuition ( the embarrassing way ) & he just wants to mold her… smh she fell for the game like 2nd pick said. 👎
@@LaBrittanyAmuThomas she will be chasing that high from the first trip for the rest of that relationship.
When you introduce as I'm dr so and so..big red flag..she could not get past DR...😂😂it's silly
Not the girls melting over the Dentist whilst he repeatedly insults them 😭😭
He’s feminine
Couldn’t be me. I would’ve tore him a new one 😂😂
It's cause he's Ghanaian
Right! I saw that episode too!
@@dinajones2761how? 😂
A doctor in a dating show is a serious red flag.
you didn’t lie . at all .
He seems to have some sugar in his tank.
@@ebonynaomi108580% of them seem to 😅
by the end of the video when he was throwing the balloon, he raised his arm and you can see he wasnt wearing underwear
now what type of doctor...
@@buttcheeksguyHe was wearing what looked like a reddish colored plaid boxers. And no t-shirt or tank underneath his sweater. What did you see?
Every time the doctor opened his mouth I got the immediate ick. He really thinks he’s all that 😂
Lol this dr is self absorbed and rude
He’s very condescending and he always has to have the last word. Likes to hear himself speak 🤢
So how do you think us men feel if these women open their mouths? These women who cant do absolutely nothing. They cant do nothing and bring absolutely nothing to the table but still act like theyre the prize. So how do you think we feel? At least the doctor is a DOCTOR, is smart and well spoken. You just dont like him, bc he destroys you womens delusions
@@tcfranco6228yall dont like him bc he puts yall on your bullshit. He makes yall realize how delusional yall are
He is. 🤷🏾♂️
Dr. Elom waited to the last minute to pop his baloon so he could be the last one to speak 😅
No Dr she isn’t insecure …. She accepted the fact all rejected bc of her size but she kept the smile bro she is confident and loved at home
💯
Exactly! She was so graceful & that man is NOT qualified to be anyone's "therapist," when it's obvious he's an egomaniac sociopath, himself 😂😂
Yeah she took the criticism with grace.
Nah she def was feeling some kinda way about it lol. Her feelings was hurt n she had a lil attitude behind it.
@@SAVAGEoLIFEno shit… they were dogging her for her body
Not gonna lie, Ive been married for 22 years but this show is my guilty pleasure lol. Love Arlette's energy and she's classy.
🚩🚩🚩
Yes, she's a great host. Now the 22 yr old contestant in black shocked me! I cannot believe she asked that kind of question on national TV!
I love it🤣🤣🤣
"i may not be able to date you but i would hire you" is so condescending omg 😭😭😭😭
That took me out
It’s really not. Most women make better workers than wives today lol
I honestly don’t think he meant it as shade but it really came off that way lol. She didn’t seem offended though, I would’ve said f*ck your job 😂
I caught that! lol 😂
Explain
The fact the host keeps her composure when they first come out with all those balloons popping 😅 My eyes would be twitching 😂😂
The guy who introduced himself as doctor every single time is talking about humility?😂😂😂😂💀
Correction 1 x he said my name is Elom. Does he even know what he's looking for.
He said it a few times. He’s so condescending….
😂😂
Yeah, he was crap 😂
If I spent 10 plus years in higher education and took out hundreds of thousands of dollars in student loans 💸 I will ALWAYS introduce myself by Doctor wherever I go, lol 😆 Hw has earned the right; he has invested the time and money to be addressed and greeted according ly 😊
it was irritating to see everybody say they didn't want Jessica because she was plus-sized. Then, immediately after, they all criticized the skinnier woman for not being thick enough.
Don't forget the bulk of them drooling over the first young lady because she is thick.
That just winded me up.
It makes perfect sense. People don’t lie excess. Not too high, not too small.
@@JuleneSings it doesn't because the lady before that wasn't even big she just had thicker thighs and they still judged her. seems like to me they want some girl with plastic hips n booty
😅😂😅 seriously!! Jessica is very rude, to all the men that popped on her.
Man really said "Did I say I was a Doctor?" ..... that's how you know that man just be talkin
got his degree in Yapology
A HOLE
@@monsterlovesmemost definitely did go be a therapist already lol
HahahahahhahahahahH@@monsterlovesme
@@monsterlovesme 4 years to get a undergrad degree in pure Yaponomics and a Associates Degree in Yapology.
how is she defensive because she loves the way she is????? do yall hear this guy 41:38
I like how the young 22 year old noticed how toxic "dr" elom is and dismissed him, his whole insecurity showed and he wanted to talk all over her.
yes!!
If a high value man with options has a high value demand, he is automatically toxic?? Nah my brother, he knows what he’s looking for in a woman.
But then they matched!! I'm so confused
@@MistyMarie You're only confused because you do not know the nature of your own sisters. A lack of observation on your part, a trait most of you lack.
@@warrioreon11facts
The 22 year old low key ate the doctor UP!! 😅 she said my daddy taught me well , i don't need your BS advice. DEEEAD 😂😂😂😂
She ended up with his cousin. Lol 😆
That's not what she said. She said she got her AirBnBs from him.
She didn’t humble him.😂😂 she was immature and ridiculous.
@@belizegal29 you're a bozo
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dr. Elom is the kind of man who writes doctor everywhere. Once when he is on the plane they will call him for an emergency and he will have to admit he is only a dentist 😂 so embarassing 🤭
But they're Drs tho
@@shizman8037yeah but no. He probably got his degree from like ITT Tech or University of Phoenix before they closed down 😂
my goodness he has a stinking personality!
Ikr😂😂😂
Lol for real and he is SO creepy he was always preying on the young girls 🤢 if a woman was 38 and she chose a 21 year old guy she would get DRAGGED. This old man is creepy asf for choosing a 21 year old girl. Actually all the girls were too young for him 😂 at his big age he should be married with kids by now not in a TH-cam dating video
"Hes intimidating" "It's called male energy" somehow he dissed himself 😂
his intro was fire not going to lie. I 100% understood what she meant tho. Carrying that energy as a man should mainly be reserved for other men, but not around women or in more social settings. It can definitely come off as too aggressive vs just being a mature man.
@@YurrahAlHadi imo it wasnt really that agressive just really defensive and non-telling. As in, you can't read him or tell any personality just from looking at him. He's in a dating show, but doesn't seem open at all, probably so he doesn't get hurt. Which is why he was defensive immediately and tried to find solidarity with other men.
The Dr is so full of himself. The guy with the jordans bothered me too. I loved the one lady asking the Dr what was wrong 😂
Where's your ring at ? 😂 The truth hurts doesn't it
😂😂😂😂
@@bulletsRflying where's yours?
@@yadinoba I got mine since 2016. You?
@@bulletsRflyingthat is quite sad, to be married and to worry about other women's marital status... thoughts and prayers for your wife
This Dr is a wholeeeee RED FLAG🚩
he is probably not a doctor
A walking red flag going somewhere to happen😅
THANK YOU!!!
He's Legion😂😂
I just want to know why he is on the show. Shouldn't he be busy....with teeth or something? In a different socio-economic arena then this show? That's how he acts to me.
The conversation with the “doctor” and the third girl has my mouth on the FLOOR. He is unbelievable
hes funny
@@m3vm3yea if you’re weird and insecure
Everybody so obssessed with the doctor. lol.
Third girl was definitely a model. She had such a pretty face and smile. I’m athletic so I like them slim. She seemed really nice too
I can tell the first guy was good with number #3. He kept looking at her
4th girl was so entertaining and GORGEOUS. Like them flaming her for saying she doesn’t know what she wants but also saying age wasn’t important? Ofc she’s not gonna know she’s 22 💀
Wait them calling her stubborn for not being open to changing her body just because she’s slim is actually insane
Ikr! Crazy...
men
She didn’t have a backside and clearly does not eat enough.
THIS!!!! I instantly got the ick with every single guy after that
Literally
“I can afford you financially but not emotionally” lmfao he called himself out. He knowww damn well he ain’t ready for no damn relationship
Terrance!! I want Terrance to find his match. He’s so genuine, very respectful & so funny. He did his best to be nice to everyone even when he popped his balloon. I love him he’s so precious
Yea he seem like a good dude just tryna find his one
YES!!!!!!!!
She would have to be short and not wear heels…
Yeeesssss!
Terence is the man! Why no one snapping him up! Women need to get over the height issues.
These are actually the funniest set of guys on the show
Actually the funniest episode so far for sure Lol
I just said that! I binge watched all the episodes in the last 3 days, and this one is soo funny. She probably wanted it more serious later on..
That doctor was insufferable. He is literally the worst kind of man to encounter: delusional, self-centred, arrogant, gaslighting, and pushy. Going on these diatribes on a dating show with no self awareness.
👏🏻
@@_iamkadijakimAnd this is where the ignoring of red flags and heartbreaks come in.😢😂
@@_iamkadijakim His only saving grace.
@@berniceabenaboadi4829 I’m working on myself 😩😩😭😭
💯💯💯
the fact that all these dudes were trying to imply that girl is not ''willing to compromise'' cause she loves her body and doesn't want to walk around with a fat ass is absolutely INSANE WORK.
agreed that was nonsense
Agree🙄
Agreed. Not all women want a bbl and are content with what God blessed them with. I can appreciate that…those men have issues within themselves
INSANE. I had to come to the comments bc I knew I wasn’t tripping 😂. Now if she had a bbl they would say “these women don’t love themselves”. This guys were cringeeeee
My wife is fat now since she already gave birth to 3 children, she’s no longer what she used to be before, but I love her anyways, I’m not deceived by physical beauty, no even by her interior beauty, because I made up my mind to make that lady happy, and what I do for her, makes her love me, I receive the love I provide and I teach her to be a good woman and person all the time.
The way they treated the third girl was crazy ! They complain and say black women are all over weight . This woman is slim and they tear her a part . She was confident enough to still love her body regardless and actually didn’t get defensive. I think she handled them well given how badly they talked about her frame. I’m stunned that all the women still wanted the doctor after he opened his mouth sheesh .
This!!!! I feel exactly the same way. He is full of shit.
The goalpost always moves
She was very attractive, but no blk man wants a microphone stand.
Status is power.
They just want non-black women. They don’t care about the weight Cuz black men are the only race of men to date obese white women with attitudes
Dr. Elom will either never get married or he will be divorced multiple times. Women will definitely fall for him because he’s handsome and his career, but they will go through the worst emotional trauma with this man. 🗣️Run!
Spot on!
The fact that everybody is a “model” is hilarious lmao
lol people use that term so loosely
Foreal. "I'm a model" 😂😂😂
They just let anyone be models these days. I remember when it actually used to mean something 😭
Fax 😭😭
One key thing to remember is there are now different types of models 🤐
I feel so bad for the last girl bc she doesn't even know she "matched" with a predator. She fell right into his trap. As soon as he heard her age, and she said "I'm looking for a leader and a mentor", his ears perked up. He turned on the charisma, turned off the aggression, and sold a delusion of grandeur to seal the deal. You can tell by his interactions with the previous women, that he is a malignant narcissist, and all he wants is control. The way he was almost preaching and diagnosing the other women is a clear mark of a controlling and dangerous man. It's a tragic story of a blind and unsuspecting 21 year old girl who thinks she found love, running into the arms of a guy MUCHHHHH older than her who lures her into his life for his own nefarious and controlling reasons. He's just found someone to "mentor" to "shape" to ..... "groom".
To finance! Lol if he ain't paying, trust me, she ain't staying. She's the perfect match for him.
@@sweetradicalRight
There was something very attractive and yet familiar about Dr. Elum, then it hit me… he reminds me of my ex. Charm, high self regard, self righteous
you are very discerning, and I agree. Are you a victim of narcissistic abuse? Once you've been entangled with one, you see the world differently. And you can spot predators and see what others don't see. False charm, manipulation, and grandeur, are like the game between the snake and the snake charmer. Narcissists are weak people who are not in touch with reality. Elom uses his resources and status not to help but to enclose him in his fantasy. With the young woman he will cause her to share in his fantasy and in that emergence, the abuse will begin.
@@celestejones-vd8vq fortunately I’ve never been in a relationship like this, unfortunately I’ve never been IN a relationship (but it’s bc I am very aware and discerning and WILL stay away) Ive just always been able to see past facades.
These women are strong. One person pop the balloon on me I’m walking away crying.
Especially if I was in the middle of talking
Same 😂 I’m a Leo I’m too sensitive
@@alexia8365🤣🤣🤣 yes!
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"I already know how to do that. My dad. That's how i acquired the properties"
DR (in all caps) Elum: *triggered*
So, she's insecure because she's fine with the way she looks and doesn't feel the need to change it.... That's literally what it means to be secure.
exactly, and better yet, she's a MODEL. she's out there to represent herself because she's comfortable in her own body. she also agreed to join this dating session, there's NOTHING insecure. if anything, the "doctor" was throwing shade because she wasn't willing to change her appearance for somebody. I mean come on, most of these guys want a thick woman, and when they can't get it, shade is thrown. ridiculous
THANK YOU! My sentiments exactly!
His point wasn’t about looks. His point was about humility. That she needs therapy cause of her humility. He even popped it after he heard her continue to speak. 2 totally different things
@@dblxdei mean They are all little boys there! Haven’t seen a single men there
Right! They're so weird. Anymore butt and she's not fitting in tbe model size clothes.
The fact that the chill guy with the locs was related to Dr. Elom is absolutely crazy… like total opposite😂
It's beyond me...
I know! But are we similar to our cousins? I have some similarities with mine but there isn't one I'm too much like. I also have some major differences to my brother.
Anyways, I liked him! He was well-spoken and seemed open-minded.
it was the guy with big hair not the guy with the locs lol
@@pinkorangesodaHe had dreadlocs.
@@o_m8717 Oh true. I thought he had a afro for some reason
My boy Terrance the electrician ain't popping his balloon for shyt even when he hears them say specifically that you have to be a tall man 😂
That man been pulling from half court
That’s what I love about him 😂😂
he seems like a genuine guy though
I’m rooting lil ok Terrance he seem real down to earth and he keep saying he want a strong black woman lol we all strong black woman but he needs one that’s not snobby, Golding, genuine like him and a bit on the more normal end if that makes sense
He popped for the skinny girl and someone else lol
The Dr. Aggravates me so bad! It’s good to see the men who weren’t easily influenced by his dramatics.. I wouldn’t even waist me energy on this man , he’s exhausting 😅
I can see why the “doctor” is single 🤣🤣
The dentist who acts like he's a doctor of psychology. The skinny girl actually though he was a therapist based on the bullshit manospehere talk he was talkin. Complete fraud.
me too
This doctor is giving narcissist. Periodt!
Dude is moist
Fr
My man Terrance be out there loving everybody😂
Like a true short king 😂
I want him to get chose so bad 😂
My dawg fr🤣🤣
Lmaooo fr! He calls every woman gorgeous
@@daeona a true short king? I’m screaming 😭
The doctor irritates my soul!!🤣🤣
And you hate that you love it
@@Ytremz There's nothing to love about a man putting down any woman.
He needs mental help. He’s a dentist and wants to give the model beautiful young lady therapy. How, by cleaning her teeth. `
And the guy in the suit
He needs someone that he can bully
I ran to the comments just to see if everyone felt the same way about "Dr." Elom. Just wow wow wow. Speaking from experience he's deep down into his narcissism. Lord help him.
The girl who shuts the so called Dr up while he is trying to talk down to her is my heroine...
AMEN
Womp womp
But she didn’t shut him up though🥴😂😂 she used a immature way i’m getting out the conversation, This girl literally didn’t know what she wanted in a man how is she she shutting anybody up
she called a dude in another episode a Ninja Turtle, that girl is cold 😄
She's amazing 😊
what a blessing that “Dr” elam chose to come on this show because i hope EVERY woman steers clear of this gaslighting holier than thou sad facade of a man after watching this🙄 good god
i hate when women use the terms gaslighting and narcissist but this guy is a raging red flag and comes off as all of those and more .
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
@@cocotrain2002I thought it was only me. Good lord he's so annoying. Honestly he's like an epitome of what a true narcissist is like and more like u said😅
Facts
Navy lady was the ONLY one doctor Elom COULDNT tussle with and I fuck with that
SAME 😂 watching him finally get stfu was a healing moment for me lmao
You love him.
😂😂😂
Exactly. She asked what’s wrong with you. She picked it up.
Yes! I think everything he’s saying to the model is everything he wanted to say to the lady before her but he was scared. So now he’s throwing it on someone that he feels isn’t gonna come at him like she would.
Terrence has me cracking up!! The doctor is calming and so insightful - his woman's gotta come goooood. And Elam - his aura is just beautiful.
The guy with the dreads is sweet, blue collar worker, nice smile, good energy and has a peaceful spirit. I hope he finds a nice woman
Yeah same☺️
He would have definitely been my pick… dark skin, nice teeth, a trade career, and I’m sure he can cook being from the south. And I love a man w toys ( fast cars, 3 wheelers, bikes, atv’s etc)
Yes, and seems to be fun and funny, too! 😂
He was such a chill dude, I hope he does too. He doesnt deserve all the rejections. That height is runnin em off sadly lol
fr i hope so too
Whew! That Dr. Is a Quackadoo! 😂. He's single and trying to give therapy sessions on a dating show 😂😂😂
Bruh ain't even a mental health professional. He's a dam dentist. Lol. 😂
He thinks highly of himself and needs a little humility.
that “dr” is a trippp wtf he talks about the kayla being a liability bc but when the last girl came all of a sudden he changes his mind. he’s so contradicting and a narcissist
He just didn’t want to leave alone 😂😭😂😭😂
I think it's because she's African and the other girl was African American
Narcissist is key, Kayla was too independent but a 21 year old, college student, who doesn’t have a self-sufficient income is a prime target for him to groom, use for sex and then discard. There is a reason he is almost 40, never married and childless.
Facts bruh
N she pick him cus he gt money n look good to her
deffo a narcissist!!!
I love when Arlette be trying not to laugh but can't hold it in lmaooo
She is class. In her later episodes she has become even better. There is positivity all about her.
That Doctor seemed too comfortable talking down to these women. I feel for anyone who enters a relationship with him.
This!
Who hurt you?
Docs have a God complex.
@@Liloshunthis one certainly does
Y’all talk down on men every chance yall get 😂
Doctor is for sure the type that tries to get into your mind FIRST and basically rewire it to fit his reality! It’s insane to come across these types. But what he’s doing is, he’s seeing if you’ll submit to his version of reality. This is exactly how it starts out with a narcissist, he’s playing cat and mouse with their minds, literally testing how far he can go. If that girl at any point said “maybe I do need therapy” and believes it, you best believe he’ll feel accomplished! He’s the truest of a toxic narcissist. Take note ladies!
Dude is definitely a narcissist. Thinks he's the smartest in the room type of dude. And corny. He going be single for a long time with his attitude.
@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera actually quite the contrary. I hate to say this but usually Narcissists are very successful in having relationships. It might be a revolving door, but most can find people. Mainly because there are so many broken, emotionally hurt people seeking love. They come swooping in because they see them as prey, and opportunity to rise their ego.
@@Stroproducedit They are good at starting relationships due to the charm but they never hold them.
@@Cayorootsbro isn’t a narcissist everything he said was so on point and came from experience + seeing other people’s mistakes that’s so evident especially when he made the statement on the fact that they’re on a platform where they should expect criticism so him just speaking his mind shouldn’t get the girls turned up the same way the girls putting down the men and the men just take it
@@aizensouske6440 Oh you haven’t seen his other videos..
There’s a reason why DOCTOR ARROGANT over there is still single at his age. He’s highlighted it well during the entire episode. Talking down to every single person, tearing them down, doing actual put downs instead of the “constructive criticism“ he claims to be doing.
I have a hard time believing an actual doctor (dentist or otherwise) would offer to provide therapy to someone via an hourly rate. A real doctor would know how inappropriate it is without having the actual credentials to do so. Dentists don’t provide therapy, genius.
The host is so beautiful from the inside out she really brings the glow to the show with her personality and looks
agreed. She carries the flow smoothly and doesn’t let uncomfortable banter take over the goal.
I totally agree. She has class and grace. Noticed that she’s married and her husband is involved in the shoes production, I believe. Yes, quality entertainment. Arlette is a gem.
I agree, love how she stays neutral besides all the stupid things being said by both women and men
This woman in leather pants is the female Version of the plumber guy
She is
Who else thinks the Doc is the one who actually needs therapy 😂
🙋🏾♀️
MEEEE
He’s such an asshole 😅
Facts
the fact that this guy wears manicure says a lot abt him💀