DEBUNKING COMMON LGBTQ+ MYTHS

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  • @samuelombagi644
    @samuelombagi644 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    Such an empowering and mature conversation. Homophobic people need to hear this. Much love guys

  • @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE
    @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    “When something is new, people are going to focus on you, and I’m going to milk the attention “ yasss ✨✨🔥🔥❤️ I love this!

  • @DennisMwangiWairimu
    @DennisMwangiWairimu 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    The Podcast is very educative on so many levels .you don't have to be queer to listen to it,(if not a Queer) it explains on how to handle and appreciate your queer pals ,siblings and FMs etc. if you are queer don't feel the rush to come out of the closet,take your time and figure yourself out on your own pace till you ready and if or not you decide to come out Always remember 1 rule (SELF LOVE IS ALWAYS THE KEY TO YOUR OWN HAPPINESS) ..

  • @kennedymunene1221
    @kennedymunene1221 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    Olubayi's accessories😍😍top notch

  • @SamNgatia-707
    @SamNgatia-707 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    I'm 16 & gay, it's really hard to come to act straight, my parents are like super homophobic. I vow to myself never to come out to them coz I owe no one no explanation as to why I should be happy, I don't want negativity, my sisters know I'm gay & don't care they accepted me along time ago that's all I need, I know someone out there who will accept me.
    To all gay people out there be u don't give fvcks don't people pliz just to fit in, be u hangout with a crowd that accepts u.

    • @jacobkipchumba621
      @jacobkipchumba621 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I love that for you omg we should be friends

    • @SamNgatia-707
      @SamNgatia-707 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jacobkipchumba621 sure girll

    • @muthonisonnie2380
      @muthonisonnie2380 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Hi Sam, your age really intrigued me and I immediately had big sister instincts. Please ensure that you never let anyone take advantage of you and always use protection. If you are in an exclusive relationship make sure you and your partner test together for all STIs and remain faithful to each other. All the best small bro.

    • @SamNgatia-707
      @SamNgatia-707 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @muthonisonnie2380 Aww thnx ♥️

  • @joythe1wakeni
    @joythe1wakeni 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I was outed, shamed, blamed, kicked out, called all sorts of demonic (lol), denied healthcare and social support, beaten up then cut off, and its been haaard famlakini the strength I have found within myself and in the queer community imenibebaa. Sisemi come out and face these tribulations, but come out to yourself. Out here, people have a looot to say about you so you have to have strong and firm values and insight on who you authentically are😌Na ka hawakutaki usijali, tuko wengi out here😅You will find us and you will find community,and love and acceptance

  • @phoenix23rio
    @phoenix23rio 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    For anyone feeling like they are struggling coming out, your journey will be so unique and don't compare yourself to anyone else's story. Like Olubayi said, you'll come out the RIGHT time. My advice is if your family doesn't support or approve you, stay in the closet until you can financially support yourself. That will avoid alot of hate, physical abuse, being kicked out, being locked up. For your sake seek a therapist or a friend you can talk to. There so many lgbtq+ organisations in Kenya that help us. Just reach out . Side note I'm 28 and gay and looking for an older woman to date and marry. hmu

    • @njorogan
      @njorogan 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am nurturant 27M, 5’7, 67kg, and liquid. Come hivi

  • @Unfilteredreflections-t3j
    @Unfilteredreflections-t3j 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Loved this episode. I was outed from the closet and it was tough, the homophobia was hell, but it gets better when you love yourself and find spaces like.these even online, to.feel some safety and community.

  • @LifeasTeicY
    @LifeasTeicY 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    "I was one at some point" continues to feed my delusions.

  • @thescribe7645
    @thescribe7645 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    "the face card has been declining.." 😂😂😂 tell 'em Rono

  • @Sammy-e6w
    @Sammy-e6w 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    y'all gonna ruffle some feathers with this one😅😅😅😅😅

    • @NoChillsEA
      @NoChillsEA  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😅😅😅 We got No Chills

  • @petermuroki5290
    @petermuroki5290 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Clock that tea,this conversations was much needed kudos y'all😊😊

  • @Antoinette-v1k
    @Antoinette-v1k 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Ghai these guys.
    Where have you been all this time

  • @vinnykenya2
    @vinnykenya2 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This episode is what people need to listen to cos people are here finna be in denial 😂😂😂

  • @Joshy_254
    @Joshy_254 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is so empowering. Keep it up!

  • @augustinakamau7357
    @augustinakamau7357 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love love loved every minute of it ❤

  • @annenjogu8
    @annenjogu8 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Never subscribed to a podcast that fast😂

    • @ValenciaMaturu-wm5eq
      @ValenciaMaturu-wm5eq 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same😂lol

    • @NoChillsEA
      @NoChillsEA  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Happy to hear this. Happy to have you here!

    • @virgy_w_
      @virgy_w_ 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      same😅

    • @informed101
      @informed101 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      fr fr

  • @stephanieiman
    @stephanieiman 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Olubayi is giviiiiingggggggg!!!!!!

  • @DATArtDesigns
    @DATArtDesigns 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Much needed conversation...love it❤

  • @jacintaakee9938
    @jacintaakee9938 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i love these two🥰🥰 perfect combo

  • @teddyombewa4079
    @teddyombewa4079 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Based on true story😢
    Can we deeply talked abt self acceptance and how to improve on yoh self...based on your true stories ...the liitle you share moreso ukiwa mic cheque...has been putting me in a position of wanting to grow myself in whatever way....lastly...based on this episode ..would you advice me yo come out of the closet.. or under what circumstances would force me to...and how to deal with whatever comes

  • @Jewel0612
    @Jewel0612 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ronoh is crazy 😂 "I was one at some point"

  • @claudiakananu3465
    @claudiakananu3465 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You guys are such a vibe

  • @Spinkly
    @Spinkly 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s sad that people are taking their own lives because they found out they are gay and can’t be open about it because of homophobia…Especially when it’s their own family members. Then there’s the ones who date yet hate their partners because they live in denial 😢

  • @akankwatsaconrad9593
    @akankwatsaconrad9593 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love you guys

  • @Maryzens
    @Maryzens 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    im 20 right now and oh my im gay to the core i know its not a phase as most ppl say ..the thing is i have a loving family supportive with all perspectives of things apart from homosexuality.like my mum is the most loving person but when it comes to things like this she is so not into it she calls it taboo and demonic and not according to God's word and i really love her more than anything and i will never want to disappoint her and my family coz like they are my number ones so ofc im still in the closet and im struggling mentally with that fact ....but im grateful yall talked about this guys it helps to know im not the only one❣️

  • @viviankibe
    @viviankibe 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Eeiy Rono's dress is 🔥 🔥 yu guys look so hot

  • @kabarecharity5796
    @kabarecharity5796 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Gimme that documentary title😍😍

  • @lexxusmashel6842
    @lexxusmashel6842 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    my fav 2are back 🥳🥳🥳

  • @virgy_w_
    @virgy_w_ 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    omg ronoh loveeee😍

  • @peresidiana1646
    @peresidiana1646 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

  • @thekway_
    @thekway_ 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    which documentary was that?
    i need to watch it, right now.
    apart from that, love my queens!

  • @misskay-zs2ow
    @misskay-zs2ow 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mtu anakula kuku halafu anakula kuku😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what is the documentary Olulu talking about...

  • @rebeccanjaaga737
    @rebeccanjaaga737 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you are watching this and you are thinking about it, and YOU FEEL THE PRESSURE TO GET THE PROCEEDURE, DON'T DO IT

  • @dace9205
    @dace9205 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lavender marriages is where it's at

  • @wangarikariuki6522
    @wangarikariuki6522 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Here’s the thing about God: He is a God of system and purpose and all is to His glory. Yes, used the most unworthy (by human standards) like David, Joseph & Paul (David and Paul are my own personal favourites because one was a former adulterer and the other a literal murderer) for His work and glory. He called them to do His work.
    But here’s where it gets tricky. Whereas He calls the most unworthy of us, He also demands obedience to Him and to lead lives worthy of and reflective of Him. This is where being gay is not aligned to God’s purpose and glory.
    May you both experience God’s love and be worthy in His eyes, and not ours because we are equally faulty even though different from you. Sending you all the love 💜💜💜💜

  • @YnaWanjiku
    @YnaWanjiku 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Download option...

  • @sherlynamimo3820
    @sherlynamimo3820 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But does it satisfy the other person really? Even if they provided for their family..😊

  • @c_h_i_l_l_i_s
    @c_h_i_l_l_i_s 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @simplyloren3139
    @simplyloren3139 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Change or perish

  • @GladysMuthoni-y6b
    @GladysMuthoni-y6b 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The trauma i was given bc of being me lemmi just hide it i was chased away from home at night

  • @GabrielMbuthia
    @GabrielMbuthia 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    And that's why Trump's election is seen as a big win here bcz Trump believes in the same derogatory views as some aspects of our culture 😢😢

  • @georgina889
    @georgina889 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You need to apologize to a tree for using its oxygen 😭😭 I mean😂

  • @rebeccawanjiru7068
    @rebeccawanjiru7068 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Where have you been all my life

  • @theeyoutubeadmin001
    @theeyoutubeadmin001 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Kumbavu zenu. May God save Us.

  • @SkyleAkherwa
    @SkyleAkherwa 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    its 2024 .. 😂😂😂

  • @francmemuc6445
    @francmemuc6445 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Mkishuta haitoagi sauti, arufu tu ndo unanusa, breaks zishaa fail. NKT!

    • @epainitowabwile4020
      @epainitowabwile4020 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      get a life

    • @jacobkipchumba621
      @jacobkipchumba621 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Wanna find out 😏

    • @chepkoechkatam3664
      @chepkoechkatam3664 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Do you have a fart fetish or what😂 it's giving obsessed with such detailed facts!!!

    • @billskeyy
      @billskeyy 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@jacobkipchumba621 staaap😂😂he can't survive

    • @vicvids
      @vicvids 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      why are you watching this video.. you are in denial 😅

  • @platter-house
    @platter-house 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    im here to listen and learn😂so you guys are gay because yall dont like women or prefer women or yall just couldnt pull any woman,or what?😂i aint judging im trying to understand how "to be gay works"

    • @OliverKiprutomitei
      @OliverKiprutomitei 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's an innate feeling,just know that 😂

    • @platter-house
      @platter-house 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @OliverKiprutomitei so you feel gay?😂

    • @OliverKiprutomitei
      @OliverKiprutomitei 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@platter-house like you feel the attraction to persons of the same gender just the way you feel it to girls 😅.

    • @ronniemusau1798
      @ronniemusau1798 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol you are probably the fruitiest in your whole friend group

  • @sheshesamentertainment
    @sheshesamentertainment 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤