Adulting and friendships can be alot. I’m too old to question motives, intentions, where you stand. I’d rather compartmentalize and know the box you’re in to minimize the shock and awe.
I am literally experiencing this right now. I connected a high school friend with a friend of about 8 years (both living in a different state from me) 2 years ago. I connected them because my friend had just moved to the new state and had trouble making friends so I connected her with my friend. They went out twice in 2 years but didn’t hit it off. Fast forward to me moving to the state they both are in 6 months ago with my daughter as a single mom needing a change. We all hung out together a couple times in the beginning. I fell out with the hs friend within 3 months of living here. Surprisingly following the fall out now all of a sudden the two that never made a connection are now hanging out every weekend…🤔 I did like you and tried to give it the benefit of the doubt for a while, but after seeing pics posted to IG every weekend of outings that did not include me I had to vocalize my frustration. I feel like I’m typing too much lol but needless to say I was very hurt and confused by the sudden connection.
Hmmm.... I'm with Tasha ... I would have been done once the loyalty was lost .... not sure why the hurt was so deep and it took so long- especially since it wasn't a childhood friend
It's okay to ghost - it's better for your mental health -at this big age people know what they're doing .... this episode flowed a lot better
Say that again!
And yasss! We’re getting our flow down whoop whoop 🙌🏽
I'm reading this book called Sisterhood Heals...there is a chapter in the book that speaks directly to this. Great conversations.
Thank you for sharing! We’ll have to check it out
Adulting and friendships can be alot. I’m too old to question motives, intentions, where you stand. I’d rather compartmentalize and know the box you’re in to minimize the shock and awe.
Well said!! Thanks for sharing
I am literally experiencing this right now. I connected a high school friend with a friend of about 8 years (both living in a different state from me) 2 years ago. I connected them because my friend had just moved to the new state and had trouble making friends so I connected her with my friend. They went out twice in 2 years but didn’t hit it off. Fast forward to me moving to the state they both are in 6 months ago with my daughter as a single mom needing a change. We all hung out together a couple times in the beginning. I fell out with the hs friend within 3 months of living here. Surprisingly following the fall out now all of a sudden the two that never made a connection are now hanging out every weekend…🤔
I did like you and tried to give it the benefit of the doubt for a while, but after seeing pics posted to IG every weekend of outings that did not include me I had to vocalize my frustration. I feel like I’m typing too much lol but needless to say I was very hurt and confused by the sudden connection.
OMG! Yeah, that’s weird behavior! Thank you so much for sharing. We know that this is a sensitive. Hope you find your tribe in your new city 💗
I just ended my friendship of three year
Hmmm.... I'm with Tasha ... I would have been done once the loyalty was lost .... not sure why the hurt was so deep and it took so long- especially since it wasn't a childhood friend
Listennnn! After deep reflection I was like whoa that took way to long but you live and you learn
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts
Loyalty is really important and a deal breaker for sure
Wow. Y’all wild lol
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No not that fake laugh Val 😂
She needs to figure it out!