3 Habits High Quality Men Are Attracted To

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  • @emilandersson1382
    @emilandersson1382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    As a man, I can relate to them all, but especially the attitude. It doesn’t matter how good you look, if you have a bad attitude I’m long gone. But if you have a good attitude, it can compensate, especially for looks. And you will definitely stand out, because there are many women, with terrible attitudes

    • @herrgegenwart5037
      @herrgegenwart5037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I only take both ... good looks with good character .... I don't understand at all why people compete with something like that .... Character is enough for friendship .... for more I have to focus on the body and the body Energy getting real pleasure .... everything else is fooling itself

    • @whydoesitworryyou2547
      @whydoesitworryyou2547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      what a relief to hear someone talk about attitude. im female btw and a truly genuine, great attitude (and not just when life is going our way) is quite rare in humans. i regularly keep mine in check and i have decided that will be my no1 requirement from a romantic partner. cheers

    • @minacerra
      @minacerra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@herrgegenwart5037 the body fades. So that concept will only grow with you if you can continue to appreciate and find beauty in a maturing body.

    • @anjaknatz7157
      @anjaknatz7157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@herrgegenwart5037 A Body without a spirit is not abel to send out energy. So concentation on flesh and bone will not bring you a lot of joy, I bet..

    • @herrgegenwart5037
      @herrgegenwart5037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@anjaknatz7157 a body without a soul is called a corpse ...
      that's what I mean ... I don't see the competition, and I don't understand where this or that would be more important comes from ... the body is 100% an expression of spirit ... there is no distinction at all ... the expression of something is part of it ...

  • @jyotsnadeka695
    @jyotsnadeka695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Initially they want our attention and give us their attention,once we start giving them little attention,they need space 🤣

    • @jeccym8715
      @jeccym8715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      And they run away😅

    • @RK-su4hs
      @RK-su4hs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Keep a little cool in your game ...always
      People ALWAYS want the can hold for a moment, but then again is out of reach
      Play to win pretty 😎

    • @remio1377
      @remio1377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol…

    • @cmiller415
      @cmiller415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There is a fine line between giving just enough attention and smothering a man. A needy possessive woman is almost never attractive. Let him have time with his friends without texting him every few minutes, give him space and he will be more likely to want time with you and make you a priority. One of the things my bf told me attracted him to me in the beginning of our relationship was that I didn’t expect his world to stand still when I came over. I didn’t expect to be ignored but I understood that there would be times his children would need his attention, and when he was on-call, his patients would need to be more of a priority than I was, It’s just a reality, and I think it actually makes him want to focus more attention on me when I am there because I don’t demand it.

    • @nattywai2078
      @nattywai2078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cmiller415 amen. I learned to do the same with my man and its a good feeling when he wants to focus on me without me asking for it

  • @Omodsgnl
    @Omodsgnl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    2020 and men are still the prize

    • @michellewall6748
      @michellewall6748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No...... they are not....you are!

    • @TH-eb5ro
      @TH-eb5ro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The relationship is the prize, it is mutual or it is not healthy. Especially with women the nuances are as he describes.

    • @sunmoonstars0369
      @sunmoonstars0369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you sound like a girl 🤣 @tos

    • @parirubhogal4664
      @parirubhogal4664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😄😄👌👌

    • @Thenoobestgirl
      @Thenoobestgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smh...

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I've watched countless videos and trying to get a man's attention long term is exhausting. I give up .... They are not motivated!

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Alxamdulilah7 Agreed. Women please live your best life FIRST, then you can think about having a relationship. It doesn't make sense that you would attract the right man when you aren't even right yet.

    • @itsreallyrona
      @itsreallyrona 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It shouldn’t be this hard lol.

    • @Pal-ms2vw
      @Pal-ms2vw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hear hear! More power to us!

    • @gabriellewhalley1328
      @gabriellewhalley1328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have also watched countless videos and this one has the least waffle and is fast paced and witty.

    • @gabriellewhalley1328
      @gabriellewhalley1328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry not the video, I mean Brian Knox is awesome.

  • @vitabuonavita2565
    @vitabuonavita2565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Too bad men don't actually have THE COURAGE to be MEN and COURT when he is interested NOT PLAY A GAME

    • @goddessglow6996
      @goddessglow6996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The new generation

    • @niyserenjiy
      @niyserenjiy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hell all generations these older men out here playing the same games.

  • @domeniquedelafield1278
    @domeniquedelafield1278 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was super interesting. Blessings to one of my favorite gurus 💖

  • @nadzirahfarhah3423
    @nadzirahfarhah3423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great input Brian!

  • @abduls.h4385
    @abduls.h4385 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb advice heath thanks 😊

  • @evelynbarry5046
    @evelynbarry5046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to watch Top Gün again 😁

  • @violet6848
    @violet6848 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best! Great advice

  • @InaDaWinna777
    @InaDaWinna777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love his funny side tho!

  • @sihamwong3228
    @sihamwong3228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your name! And I pronounce it perfect 👌🏻 hhhhh

  • @jeevanjyoti3999
    @jeevanjyoti3999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video

  • @juliepollard8332
    @juliepollard8332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh I know he's well pleased with himself when he's just right and has a little win,but I say you have to loose a little to win the war 🤭

  • @nnese22
    @nnese22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ok, so apparently, im just the banana on the floor ...lol i guess game playing is not my thing.

  • @ChiChi-td9qm
    @ChiChi-td9qm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just love yourself ❤️👍💯✔️👆🥰😆

  • @Draphonic13
    @Draphonic13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PREACH!!! 🙏

  • @durchessnina5830
    @durchessnina5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First to comment n like....

  • @bethwiedemann434
    @bethwiedemann434 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some men r to selfish so here’s a question what if u was friends with someone for 4 years n then u start dating for a year then break up stop talking for 6 months n then start talking again n give ur relationship another chance but it’s different he can’t find time to b with u don’t do anything can’t ever stay the night always says things will b different when I end it but nothing changes I still can’t go to his house n stay the night or have a date night at his house he still can’t stay the night at my house don’t come around for holidays don’t even give gifts he let his kids mother self quarantine at his house n spends the holidays with her family says we in a relationship but I’ll see him maybe once a week for about an hour or 2 n that’s like we horse play n then scrump (have sex) then he leaves about 5mins later when I’m going through something n I need him to help me do something he will get mad n act like I just pulled his teeth out I tried to do to him as he does to me just so he can see how it feels but I take the whole sex thing away n I tried to stop asking for his time n for him to stay the night n he don’t seem to notice that anything has changed instead he thinks I’m cheating on him that’s y I won’t have sex with him I have addressed this to him n we have talked about it but he doesn’t put the effort in so now I only talk to him if he talks to me first n that lets me know how often I cross his mind n it’s not a lot so how do I fix something like this I am mad that he wasted 7years of my life when we break up he wants to b around all the time calling me all the time threatening my new boyfriend to stay away n no matter how many times I say something about it he don’t stop so I tell him if u want me then want me when u have me don’t want me when u don’t u didn’t put the effort in like I did so now someone else will

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just cut all ties. Why keep going backwards. This is the mistake most women make

    • @bethwiedemann434
      @bethwiedemann434 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sansadrake4133 I try to cut ties but then that’s when he actually wants to come around n I loved him for 7 years it’s so hard to just walk awake from a love like that but I will say we r not talking n haven’t in days n I refuse to message him if he wants to talk to me he knows where I live n knows my number n I won’t give in n I’ll start to move forward with someone who wants to put the effort in n show me I’m worth his time n love I do watch all your videos n it helps me n I find myself crying bc I can relate to the things u say n I hurt bc u say things I don’t want to hear but I am doing as u said n letting go if u love someone set them free right

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bethwiedemann434 he only wants to know he can get you at the click of his fingers. It gives him power probably. Love or not ..try to follow logic and not your heart be cause in the end youre only wasting your time..

    • @bethwiedemann434
      @bethwiedemann434 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sansadrake4133 right I told him that he can play this game alone because I quit him n my twin brother got into it because of the things he’s done but thank you for given me the strength to give up n walk away

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bethwiedemann434 no probs. Your best bet is to no respond at all. Not even to reject him. Just keep it silent.

  • @Gem6910
    @Gem6910 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have this man that always go banana, that annoys me alot. Bcoz I don't want to be attached with him, coz he has time 1 diabetes!... So ... How the banana goin? It's going to be peed all the time .

  • @jodyjackson5475
    @jodyjackson5475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    Men have 2 speeds as my mother used to say .... get you and got you, that’s the truth

    • @andraacram
      @andraacram 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Interesting 🤔

    • @shubhisharma4261
      @shubhisharma4261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Meaning?

    • @diouranke
      @diouranke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol I love that

    • @jodyjackson5475
      @jodyjackson5475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@shubhisharma4261 overdrive ... and
      cruise control 🙄

    • @shubhisharma4261
      @shubhisharma4261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jodyjackson5475
      Means they want to conquer n then control u later?

  • @lovetrustandpixiedust
    @lovetrustandpixiedust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I love that you applied Stoicism to your dating concepts. "They are the dessert, not the meal that will prevent you from starving." Indeed, not getting too attached to the outcome prevented me from sacrificing my inner peace any further. Thank you for this video, Brian!

    • @BuddhaBlume
      @BuddhaBlume 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But than dating isnt necessary and doesnt make sense and fun.

    • @nimfabangay7318
      @nimfabangay7318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want that banana that men would climb for, hahaha.😀 Ty.my friend.😊 good night.😴😘

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some dudes say sh like ya done fd up. That couldve been your golden ticket. I once heard a guy try to bait me. Something about me being a gold digger. Do these same males know how fn intolerable they r? Id rather od. And im not even an addict

    • @bethanyfonseca1728
      @bethanyfonseca1728 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BuddhaBlume l

  • @lauradiphlipo9332
    @lauradiphlipo9332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I just read this somewhere and thought it was great:
    LOVE is: a natural attraction towards virtues!
    If a person possesses several virtues, it's only a matter of TIME before the love will naturally form.
    So it just comes down to each person working on their own character.

  • @user-im1kr6yy1g
    @user-im1kr6yy1g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    So sad we live in a world that women have to be taught just to be themselves,. to remember who they are and to assert that. Its pathetic. No one should ever dim their power for another-ever. And no offense to your vlogs but historically speaking, if you look far back, women were the matriarchs of all societies. My feeling is that you're referring to a new society of little girls, adult children, who frighteningly need the assistance of a very young male to teach them how to be women! So sad indeed.

    • @MotherlyEssence
      @MotherlyEssence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Well said.

    • @user-im1kr6yy1g
      @user-im1kr6yy1g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      What the system is trying to do is to turn everything upside down to confuse people. So men feel like women and women feel like men at this point which actually goes against nature. It's designed to build insecurity. The truth is men are biologically hard wired to chase whether they're chasing an animal for food or female for sex and partnership. If you hear anything other than that then you know it's not coming from a truthful source. Have you ever seen a lion in nature chase his prey versus a lion in a zoo that's fed every day? The lion that's fed everyday forgets that he's a lion, he gets fat, lazy and has no interest in chasing anything anymore. He also loses his pride and joy! Chasing a man is robbing him of his nature. See what happens when women decide to let them chase again by not exhausting themselves trying to get one, what happens when men realize getting a woman isn't going to be easy. That's when the instinct to chase and behave themselves kicks in. They are primates!The drive for sex is so strong that it pushes them to chase and behave!!

    • @LankaHuliganka
      @LankaHuliganka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think no matter what just be yourself, as fake behaviour and a mask will fall off eventually and then it will be even worse that if you'd be natural.

    • @LisaGemini
      @LisaGemini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      My mother, luckily, taught me not to sleep with a man before you love each other. That rule still applies in my world. I've never been hurt by a one-night stand.

    • @michellewall6748
      @michellewall6748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally agree! Well said!

  • @smitha5022
    @smitha5022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Getting his attention isn't my problem...its keeping it. Men have such short attention spans these days.

    • @catherineaubert2098
      @catherineaubert2098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Men who are not truly interested have short attention spans. Pace yourself.

    • @MsLee-oh7hy
      @MsLee-oh7hy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@catherineaubert2098 amen 🙏

    • @biancafelton6087
      @biancafelton6087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They have short attention spans because there are a lot of women on instagram and tinder

    • @barbarag.269
      @barbarag.269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lisa Tran watch Dr. Ramani videos, especially about twin flames, soul mates etc. If you hear these terms at the beginning of dating, it's a red flag, he's a toxic liar! . Watch out! He's probably a narcissist and you a codependent.

    • @kokolatte825
      @kokolatte825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I really hate all this gender blaming. Women are the same way. We've all dated guys who come on too strong, too soon. Maybe they like us WAY more than we like them and it's annoying. You become less interested and less responsive to his advances. It's the sake for.men dealing with anxious women.

  • @tinygirl
    @tinygirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    You look like hiccup from how to train your dragon.

    • @alphahandy2021
      @alphahandy2021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You’re hilarious girl

    • @Awoman-ty7qh
      @Awoman-ty7qh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you got a point here :-)

    • @joanierogerson5194
      @joanierogerson5194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He does!

    • @tino6229
      @tino6229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahaha cute

    • @cheryltsao
      @cheryltsao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ohhhh THAT'S why he looked familiar!!! 😂👍👍

  • @MsLee-oh7hy
    @MsLee-oh7hy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Around 2:40 is the main point of the video occurs.
    1. Your not afraid to loose him. 2. Small Wins
    3. Put him in his place

    • @iamfatii1352
      @iamfatii1352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks 😊😊

    • @ShinjineeDas
      @ShinjineeDas 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It hurts but i just did this. 30s and no sign of honest love

    • @madeleineprice3556
      @madeleineprice3556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No, the video starts at the 0:00 mark, he develops his ideas before making the point. Patience.

  • @Optimus77Prime
    @Optimus77Prime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I have done all of them and they call me : COLD LADY. Hhhfffff... Is there no gentleman left in this world?

    • @nanditadas663
      @nanditadas663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol same here.I have my boundaries up.No one has that much time to break it so they all go for easy one.I mean no gentleman left 😂

    • @gabriellewhalley1328
      @gabriellewhalley1328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      good for you

    • @gabriellewhalley1328
      @gabriellewhalley1328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that is code for just wanting a shag

  • @momentsformoms9467
    @momentsformoms9467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I was most definitely not attractive when I met my husband 😂😂 poor guy. I was kinda big,sweating a lot in my work uniform & didn’t wear makeup. Plus when the masks first started I also broke out a bit (we weren’t dating but he wanted to-true love). I did lose 30lbs within a few months just from work. I do want to lose another 20,get in shape,& be healthier. That’s for myself though,he’s always called me beautiful.

    • @lpsensei522
      @lpsensei522 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww ❤

    • @momentsformoms9467
      @momentsformoms9467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lpsensei522 thank you. 🥰
      We never ended up getting married or farther than just dating. Kinda brought up a couple times but we didn’t have the same view on it-he didn’t want to get married unless I got pregnant for him first (he asked twice and I said no).

    • @lpsensei522
      @lpsensei522 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@momentsformoms9467 @momentsformoms9467 Oh my... I'm with you on this one. That sounds scary. 🏃🏃

    • @lenoracooper7729
      @lenoracooper7729 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@momentsformoms9467 very smart choice you made. Well done.

  • @lex28lush10
    @lex28lush10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Men's psychology are Hardwork n complex . Have to keep them entertained to keep them..
    Studying men is like a college degree.

  • @natthebratster
    @natthebratster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I lost it at "the monkey wants the banana!" Got a twisted visual and couldn't stop laughing. I get the message though. My monkey is only sweet to me after I break it off with him. Tired of this crap!

    • @cassielee1114
      @cassielee1114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sounds like “lovebombing”. Run for the hills

    • @natthebratster
      @natthebratster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@cassielee1114 yes an insane loop on repeat of insults and disrespect followed by semi apologies and attention seeking.
      I'm going to stay by myself for an extended period of time.

    • @romansworld8891
      @romansworld8891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@natthebratster Forget that guy he sounds like a complete waste of time and a head case. #ThankYouNext

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're not just wasting your time, you're setting yourself up for mental problems. I'm 66 and I've seen it all. I once dated a man that made me question if the sky was blue if he said it was. Run. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200.

    • @romansworld8891
      @romansworld8891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope you're staying strong and doing well ladies!!♡♡

  • @vargsmalnorway9246
    @vargsmalnorway9246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    1. Use your attitude to get his attention. Not even your intelligence, just you attitude. When he feels you're not afraid to lose him you will not only get his attention but his respect.
    2. Small wins. Take your time, let him use his imagination. Don't play hard to get but be somehow hard to get. Make him earn the important things. He wants to feel he worked hard for you and he wants to enjoy that feeling of getting the reward.
    3. Put him in his place whenever needed. They know when they should be put in their place. That way he feels you're not afraid to lose him and stand up for what's important for you.

    • @lucilapastore6558
      @lucilapastore6558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I really like this dude. Hi brian your content is great ☺

    • @MyWorld-xw6ic
      @MyWorld-xw6ic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you

    • @AnnzzLyfe
      @AnnzzLyfe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve realised I’ve done all of this before I even watched this video but he still doesn’t want me in a serious way! He’s a narcissistic f boy. He does keep coming back to me however he jus wants to use me🥺😩he’s claiming he’s serious bout me but Ik he isn’t deep down! So unfortunately this video didn’t work for me!

    • @vargsmalnorway9246
      @vargsmalnorway9246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@AnnzzLyfe if your gut tells you he's a player, walk away. Block his number and social media and be done with him. You'll suffer a bit but at least you get to be free and can concentrate on other potential partners. Wasted years are not coming back, darling! Be strong!🤗

    • @originalgoldengoddess
      @originalgoldengoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol I don’t have to pretend to not be afraid to lose him because I’m actually not... I know my worth... I know who I am and I know what I bring to a relationship. The right one for me will see that and we won’t need to play games.

  • @loisabartolome3720
    @loisabartolome3720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Brian I love this topic. I didnt realize just now that I have these 3 attitudes that you have mentioned. Now I am very much confident that I'm doing the right thing without consciously thinking about it!
    Thank you!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @mehenazislam9228
    @mehenazislam9228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I have an Aquarius attitude and it works :)

    • @dkxrasha
      @dkxrasha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Can you give some tips to my Cancer-being? 😂

    • @mehenazislam9228
      @mehenazislam9228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Rasha KB cancers seem to be quite emotional. Show some attitude to your man. Show you can be strong. Don’t show any emotions until it really gets deep between you both can your comfortable enough to share. Wait till he shares with you xx

    • @positivevibes5709
      @positivevibes5709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😌

    • @ariesadanna9808
      @ariesadanna9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@dkxrasha Mirror him, treat him exactly the way he treats you.

    • @ariesadanna9808
      @ariesadanna9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mehenazislam9228 My boyfriend is an Aquarius guy and I am An Aries. It wasn't easy for me, until I started watching videos about Aquarius Men. It helps me a lot. He said he loves me but I do find it difficult to believe because of the way he detached easily. I went silence on him yesterday and he drove to my house, he told me to come out and check my post box that he sent something to me... Believe me... he was standing outside and I was shocked. Anyway I love him but I haven't told him because I don't want to scare him away. He is a weirdo, but I love his Humanitarian heart. That's what attracted me more to him.

  • @adrianamar8831
    @adrianamar8831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Brian. Your books and your videos have helped me a lot. To find the lioness energy inside me. This is a gift that I value a lot. Thank you for your love and respect towards women.

  • @pulsesecure1894
    @pulsesecure1894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    🤣🤣😂😭😅🤣 this guy is so funny! His stories and scenarios just kill me!😂

  • @GoodWill-d2w
    @GoodWill-d2w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Yeah great advise as always, and these three treats only appeals to high quality guys.
    The bad quality one will run since they can't take advantage of you.

    • @jessicalatorraca8507
      @jessicalatorraca8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or, they peter out b/c they aren’t willing to work for you. Likely not interested in a high-quality relationship in the first place.

    • @GoodWill-d2w
      @GoodWill-d2w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jessicalatorraca8507 yeah exactly! they are the wrong ones anyway!

    • @exoticpash8823
      @exoticpash8823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      >_< seen it time and again

  • @kiralawliet1382
    @kiralawliet1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Summary : sweet and caring women don't attract men 😒

  • @samb4183
    @samb4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Trust me, these tips really makes 100 % sense 💯

    • @JB-km1yk
      @JB-km1yk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      haha, read that as 'these lips really make sense' and agreed

    • @samb4183
      @samb4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JB-km1yk haha so funny 😂😂😄😂

    • @samb4183
      @samb4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ThatOneGirl best of luck 💖💖

  • @sanchezbruno2705
    @sanchezbruno2705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like i am raising them... which is like a chore, i complement and flirt bcz it is in my nature, i am stern and bold and a bit shy, yet i seem not to find the right type, either they are depressed and want physical intimacy too early or don't know how to court properly or have communication issues. It is just frustrating, you see potential but they ruin it...

  • @jessicalatorraca8507
    @jessicalatorraca8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You are so right, and you dignify everyone. Thanks for this insight into men’s need to ‘win it’, it makes perfect sense! 🌸 On a side note, would you mind sharing the spelling of your real name?

    • @loekbrandts1606
      @loekbrandts1606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey Jessica, his real name is Geert. It is a Belgian and Dutch name.

    • @jessicalatorraca8507
      @jessicalatorraca8507 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loekbrandts1606 🙂 Thanks!

    • @empressstaceyjackson5375
      @empressstaceyjackson5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good question @JessicaLatorraca I thought you were Hungarian Geerta. I really like the examples you give. Top gun /Troy

  • @Yangyang-1995-
    @Yangyang-1995- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i actually want to climb trees after watching this..ahaa

  • @terrierichards6738
    @terrierichards6738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your information it’s right on. So much clarity. Can you give an example of calling the man out When they’re falling short or in the wrong Without having an attitude LOL

  • @maryharvey724
    @maryharvey724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ah. Born in Brussels ! The Hercule Poirot of dating and relationships. No wonder I love listening to your voice.

  • @Aden288
    @Aden288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You shouldn't have to apologise for the pronunciation of your birth name. Tbh, it's not difficult to pronounce. At all.

  • @tenthousanddaysofgratitude
    @tenthousanddaysofgratitude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Brian, my ex (still a friend, along with his wife) is Flemish with your same colouring and sense of humour. He’s a speaker too. I love how that makes me feel like an old friend is giving me advice. I think your style makes many people feel the same way when watching you. I appreciate you and your advice. PS read one of your books a few years ago. Time for another. Great work!

  • @its_just_kagiso7546
    @its_just_kagiso7546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sir, you are preaching! Yassssss!

  • @lunaleiwhite6756
    @lunaleiwhite6756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    If I have to limit how much i love someone to keep them around then what's the point : ( That's the opposite of being my loving self, loyal, and trusting they will love me the same.

    • @lapeaches8006
      @lapeaches8006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Men don't like or respect all of that affection, honey. Go love and nurture your kids, family, pets etc. All of the fathomal love that you possess isn't all to go and dump off on a man. They don't want IT Or YOU if you're doing all of that.

    • @lapeaches8006
      @lapeaches8006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@contagiousintelligence5007 It's true. Wrong one or right. We have different needs. I'm sorry to all of the lovely women who this disappoints. I want more than anything for women understand this. You would be unstoppable 😌💞✨️

  • @nathaliebrenon8465
    @nathaliebrenon8465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    yes my exhusband has done very very funny things to ger my attention hahaha

  • @alisonvanbockel8146
    @alisonvanbockel8146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have a friend who was using an alias for the purpose of utube vids - as it's easier for people to say /understand..
    Then he changed back to his real name and owned it regardless of how others thought.. now he is highly successful..
    I like your real name better!

  • @mollychan5167
    @mollychan5167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My boyfriend he like it when I don’t pay attention to him
    But don’t mean I don’t love him
    I love my man also I want him to respect me and always
    Thanks for another good advice
    I love to see more of your videos

  • @larakdesigns6227
    @larakdesigns6227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey Brian. How can I get my boyfriend to take me on dates without being desperate or needy? He literally never does that or makes the effort for it. Is there a video about that? Thank you so much.

    • @universaltraveller8510
      @universaltraveller8510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      If your boyfriend doesn’t take you for dates find a new one who will... or ideally few and don’t give husband benefits to someone who can’t even take you on a date.

    • @sunvavachi
      @sunvavachi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe spark it up or communicate it to him. That you want to try to do it once a week...if you guys have been dating awhile or in a relationship you should be able to. :)

  • @sab4895
    @sab4895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Here's an idea...why cant men get tips to be actual men not a guy who just wants 20 year old instagram wannabe models. There is no real love anymore. Everything became a game,keeping track of meaningless things etc.. I've been around high class couples and I was disgusted to see how arrogant and egoist these ppl think of the other sex. Men feel entitled to have the arm candy type of wife and women feel entitled to have the rich man paying for their luxuries. I felt so uncomfortable and isolated, yet they were the ones miserable knowing there was no depth in their relationships. So sad to live in this world of fake class and relationships just for show.

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for that helpful info! The guy I was crazy mad for kept telling me he didn't like my attitude. I thought he just didn't like my looks. Guess he was honest after all!😊

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Though I Am a Christian I also apply or I learn how to be stoic. 👍💪

  • @Starsnits90
    @Starsnits90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what could be going through the male-mind when he is confident to believe a woman who likes him will not get rid of him completely to be with other ;so he happy being the side-man

    • @lilredhaze72
      @lilredhaze72 ปีที่แล้ว

      And women feel the same way... I want to really be with somebody but was it worth all the emotional self-doubt and disrespect... We're supposed to believe we're going to find a guy that's going to leave us the same way after we put our trust & love into him even when you built your world around them? Why can't we just all be honest respectful & communicate... Why can't we be honest with each other and stop playing games.... Recently I heard the phrase...
      WE'RE WILLING TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX & PUT EACH OTHER'S PRIVATE PARTS IN OUR MOUTHS BUT YET WE CAN'T TALK ABOUT FEELINGS OR COMMITMENT?

  • @sameichang3928
    @sameichang3928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    but ,he would think that I'm not that into him, or he is not important , so he would walk away

    • @linathomas3854
      @linathomas3854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If it’s meant to be ......

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If he walks away, he ISN'T that into you. Maybe the hormones aren't right (hormonal compatibility indicates a good match for healthy babies and is totally subconscious) or just not a good personality mesh. Don't angst over it.

  • @joannawrzelikowska3273
    @joannawrzelikowska3273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well in my case, if I do not do the first step, if I do not chase or overinvest, guys just simply are not interested in me. If I would apply all this advice in my life, I would never ever be in a relationship.

  • @beauxmimi77
    @beauxmimi77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahaha High Quality Men??? this is a joke! I don't see any around anywhere that I travel..... big ugly beards, tatoos, camoflage and thinking of themselves all day every day is what I see.... they can't spell and think about sports all day or try to tell a woman what to do to be better for them just like in this video. If a man doesn't like me the way I am I am not going to submit to his desires to make him want me.... I am fine on my own without him.

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So Brian does this continue after marriage? Playing hard to get forever?

    • @nurarich4945
      @nurarich4945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It is self control

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      After marriage self control? Like pretend you do t see them and ignore them for several days? 😂😂

    • @devfern2270
      @devfern2270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@africanqueenmo regards the hard to get part.
      I read this sonewhere. After marriage the petrol pump which supplies gas (an essential element to drive the car) cannot have the sign "closed". Yoi would not want that car to go to other petrol pumps which could be available to tank up.
      A woman has to be available for a man then 24 x7.
      Do hear Jimmy Evans. He is a good marriage counsellor.
      Hear the The 2nd video first. is humorous and good.
      Hope it helps.
      Role of husbands & wives by jimmy evans
      th-cam.com/video/EzPrqWF0wak/w-d-xo.html
      Understanding & Meeting your spouse’s needs by Jimmy Evans
      https;//th-cam.com/video/6JX3NAMc4Y8/w-d-xo.html where both spouses need to hear this.
      Your relationships will fail if you do not know this
      th-cam.com/video/4vTCUdIHlIU/w-d-xo.html

    • @t.6071
      @t.6071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Mo on the Go Yes. Have your own life.

    • @nurarich4945
      @nurarich4945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Don’t pretend, find hobbies and friends.

  • @heatherjbixby3782
    @heatherjbixby3782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men want a wife not a mother.

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about we dress nice have a good sense of humor and we’re smart, but that’s never enough is it’s not enough then we gotta be more than that but if we can bake, but I’m not really good at cooking and we’re good cleaning😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
    Wait did you say we have to put in a lot of effort because I definitely don’t do that!!! 😂😂. I don’t try to get attention. I try not to draw it!!!
    I agree it’s about personality or attitude.

  • @dchewey7798
    @dchewey7798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are SO ON POINT! Where have you been all my life Mr. Evolved.
    That's the nickname imma give ya.😅

  • @juliamissgoolia2030
    @juliamissgoolia2030 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This advice is so fucking confusing. Make sure he knows you are interested but make him work hard. It's like...I'm trying to be clear and send clear signals lol. OF course I am high value but I also want to show someone that I am interested in them.

  • @katrinajadush-bh4im
    @katrinajadush-bh4im ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian Nox I just happened to come upon this because IDK. It was to write a comment on something women had done making fun of women that wear to much makeup or do things that aren't so attractive to the human eye. What I would like to know is am I being useful listening to this? Or is it just another joke?

  • @shaunajin8497
    @shaunajin8497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg Brian ur SOOO FUNNY! FINALLY a man who can wake up entire neighborhoods lol! Ur advice is BRILLIANT! And SO TRUE! I'm doing this very effectively in my current relationship.

  • @Louloupiu
    @Louloupiu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Geert! As usual, your advices are very eye-opening. Boundaries, and yes we are the whole course!

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a headache 🤕

  • @lisaharris1375
    @lisaharris1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good stuff Brian! Thank you.

  • @1Sun111
    @1Sun111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    how can this be kept up after years? is there any chance? how?

  • @rubikscube6722
    @rubikscube6722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think this is your best video, yet. Very insightful

  • @7wa291
    @7wa291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t why i feel like ur words r true but they do not work , cuz all guys i met wouldn’t chase after anything if i act like so then they be like okay bye there r alot outside

  • @jooctober9021
    @jooctober9021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such good points . Big Thanx Brian . Hugs from Belgium ; )

  • @dominolinacole
    @dominolinacole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gross pass who cares what men are attracted to lol

  • @bitsywillmott6881
    @bitsywillmott6881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your presentations are well done. Thanks.

  • @ChristinaPistone
    @ChristinaPistone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love all your videos and books- your advice is so practical and on point! Thank you for all that you do

  • @Mercy1-
    @Mercy1- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:48 😂😂😂

  • @baididolitigan646
    @baididolitigan646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am baidido from Philippine @ working in Saudi Arabia,,, I like the way u xplained,, transparent n easy to understand n direct to the point

  • @julietroberts1385
    @julietroberts1385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so smart Geerd! (I think I spelt that right, I used to live in Holland: a great country and good down-to-earth people). Thank you for your videos, so sensible. You are a very nice person and very funny too! Juliet, a New Zealander living in London, UK

    • @oisnowy5368
      @oisnowy5368 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pretty close, but it's Geert. Listen good around 1:27, he does put the emphasis on the "t" at the end. Plenty of Dutch people make all sorts of spelling mistakes between "t" and "d"s... so your score's 4.5 out of 5 or 9/10. Still great.

  • @dd-ccds
    @dd-ccds ปีที่แล้ว

    haha a man who can wake up the neighborhood and that’s a woman who i want to get know her personality 😂

  • @Awoman-ty7qh
    @Awoman-ty7qh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I´am a banana :-) ok..

    • @Calida2308
      @Calida2308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In Pyjama?

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just a metaphor for that which is desirable. Don't you like the idea of being desired?

    • @Awoman-ty7qh
      @Awoman-ty7qh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edennis3202 being desired was never a problem, honestly.

  • @Nina-pe5uu
    @Nina-pe5uu 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    6:20 actually women like attention and dont want a challenge

  • @annasim5074
    @annasim5074 ปีที่แล้ว

    We all know your name by now.. u should just use your real name 😅

  • @freethinker3305
    @freethinker3305 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian..could you please answer that question ?.. why does a man, that really "loves me"..that can not imagine his life without me..still talk about some of his exes, telling me they were "beautiful women " " BOMBS" which means in french : BEAUTIFULL women....well, and telling me I am the best woman he ever met etc... WHY does he need to talk about these women, who I know were not that beautiful to be honest LOL and I am told since years I am a beautiful woman...Anyway..WHY does this man need to tell me about the women before me ??? Is he trying to make me feel jealous ???? What would you say about this ???

    • @blemast
      @blemast ปีที่แล้ว

      Who cares, just don’t pay it any attention. Let him talk and just listen. Stay strong.

  • @Tran_Nguyen91
    @Tran_Nguyen91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi . I really enjoy your videos. Can you please make a playlist for all of your videos ? Then I can listen all 😜 thank you 🙏

  • @AnnzzLyfe
    @AnnzzLyfe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve realised I’ve done all of this before I even watched this video but he still doesn’t want me in a serious way! He’s a narcissistic f boy. He does keep coming back to me however he jus wants to use me🥺😩he’s claiming he’s serious bout me but Ik he isn’t deep down! So unfortunately this video didn’t work for me! Will he ever come back and realise and change ? Do narcissists change? Can a woman change them?

    • @jonye7511
      @jonye7511 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have a narcissist. This works on normal men.

  • @GenuineMusicDiary
    @GenuineMusicDiary ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the movie Brian are talking about?

  • @bebotbenitez4995
    @bebotbenitez4995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He really makes sense high quality men likes challenge

  • @thehilaryglow
    @thehilaryglow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not a banana though

  • @gynoval
    @gynoval 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for creating these videos Brian!!!! So much insight😭✨🙏🏻

  • @Sims42069
    @Sims42069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i had done all these,, subconsciously without knowing ... :D

  • @finitachiinga1482
    @finitachiinga1482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never fight for his attention 🙏

  • @catdoglover8301
    @catdoglover8301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The intro took too long.

    • @UnlimitedAspirations24
      @UnlimitedAspirations24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m with u on that. By the time he gets on the point I almost lose interest on continuing to listen

  • @pamelametcalf5334
    @pamelametcalf5334 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are right about this...however...u kill me...I love ta listen...cuz..ya get me tickled...🤭🤗

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You give the best advice . Thank you!

  • @ninajones6622
    @ninajones6622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love your videos and your books and feel so much more empowered than before and thats all to do with my mindset. I learned a lot of this from you Mr Nox and I am very grateful to you for your wisdom xx

  • @jennifergodwin29
    @jennifergodwin29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant!

  • @LinLin-fp5dw
    @LinLin-fp5dw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are you considering kids in the picture? Because however it may be easy to " give it all up when things are not working ", it may actually be slightly more difficult when you have a family with that person.

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you have children with a man you aren't married to, you've already proven that you're loose. Really loose. With no sense at all. Unless you're very beautiful, smart, and maybe rich (in other words, super high on the marriage-market scale), your goose is cooked.

    • @LinLin-fp5dw
      @LinLin-fp5dw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edennis3202 Well, with all modesty, I am an attractive, smart woman with a good career. But marriage has never been on the top of my priorities list as I am coming from a family, where marriage didn't mean anything. So there might be a fear of commitment and also unwillingness to lose my freedom or I just never met someone who I'd see as a potential husband within a test of time. There are countless possibilities, all masked up by repression, I guess and not knowing myself enough as we all don't, unless we are psychologist
      going through a regular supervision:)

    • @bitchpuhleese
      @bitchpuhleese 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@edennis3202 This is a pretty patriarchal and sexist way of thinking. Women have children all the time and aren’t married because they don’t want marriage. They want to raise children independently and that in no way means they are “loose”. Smh....

  • @meenakshim4437
    @meenakshim4437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both your names are good so please don't say always that your real name is difficult while introduction.

  • @jtsays429
    @jtsays429 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do a video on married men and their idiosyncrasies, or help them realize we are leaving. And how to change how he talks to you, is it always about leaving?