I was single for almost 5 years until I was 29, and the best thing I did was learning to love myself in the years I was single and it truly is the best thing one can do, love yourself first and you´ll never settle, I met my now husband and it felt I could be the self I learned to love all those years with him, it just felt right, so, great advice Tara! Love yourself and never settle! It's never too late.
I love my kindle. I like that you can make words bigger easier to read at night. Also I used to do,home care and sometimes had 10 or 15 minuets between visits so out come my kindle to read and it’s great that I didn’t need any light to read by.
Completely agree on never settling. I was single for a good few years before I met my wife. The wait was so worth it and I met her at a time when I was really comfortable being myself. I really enjoy the positive message on relationships you’re spreading and like many others, really enjoying watching this period of growth for you in the new era. I’m just getting this good feeling that you’re in the right place now to find the right person.
my daughter learned to make paper cranes in 3rd grade.(she did not start reading until 3rd grade) She started making them and writing the name of a book she read on each one. she kept it up until she graduated high school. over the summer between graduation and college she made a garland of her cranes. 935 cranes(935books that are not text books). Im in awe of her. she said when she got into the university she wasnt reading for fun anymore. and that made her sad. now she is a working girl in a college and on her lunch break she finds the prettiest spot on campus and eats lunch and tries to read at least 4 chapters of a book. she prefers actual books to hold and turn pages she says. I was single mom of 3, and the library was a great free fun place to go and we could get books for free.
I think I'm the "older" one that watches your Vlogs. But you help me understand my kids (30's & 20's) a little more. Let's face it, things have changed since I was a kids & young adult. I was married in my 20's had kids and raised them in my 30's only to have twins at the end of my 30's. I left that drama behind with family & great support from friends I thought I lost. I enjoy your Vlogs and know my kids aren't alone in their mental health journey. Thank you for being open... FYI I've tried your gnocchi "oops" dish .. and I got my daughter to love it too!
I got out of a 5 year relationship, this year, 3 weeks before we were supposed to get married because he decided we werent compatible but turns out he was cheating with a colleague. So as much as that is so awful i have never felt so happy in my single era, i was able to get my own place, built better friendships with my work friends and ive learnt to value myself and build my confidence. So i am very happy being single but am open to love if the right person comes my way. But i do feel that i still have alot of growth to do as a single human and one thing i have grown to realize i enjoy my alone time and i value that more then having the odd days of being lonely
I sometimes see that you posted a video like seconds ago but I wait at least 1 hour so I can watch it and read some comments as well ^^ I love the community that you gathered here - have a lovely day Tara and greetings from Poland ❤❤❤
I always said I wouldn’t settle, but ended up marrying at 34 because all of my friends were in established relationships and had families. It got harder and harder to find people that wanted to hang out. Priorities totally different. Friendships kind of ended. Didn’t end up finding my soul mate until I was 40, husband number two. Even though I’m very happy in my relationship now,I wish I had nurtured my friendships more. Keep doing what you’re doing, and establishing meaningful relationships with your friends. Those are the ones you’ll appreciate more.
Some advice my good friend Miley Cyrus gave me was: if you want someone who reads, go to a library, if you want someone who exercises, meet someone running in the park, if you want an artist, go to a museum, basically, do the things you want in the other person. If you meet someone at a party, you can imagine what their life is like.
Been together for 7 years with my best friend and husband and married for 4 years with 2 little girls! I didn't like being single, but I definitely didn't settle. I was lucky enough to find my other half. The wait was worth it! ❤
Love watching your vlogs! I just turned 31 and I’m married. We’ve been together for 4 years but before this relationship I was just like you. I never thought I’d find my person and I WOULDN’T SETTLE! People will try to put a timeline on you but don’t let them! Everyone’s life is different continue to stay true to yourself! ❤
hearing you mention jill’s 30th was such a trip bc it made me realize how vividly i can actually remember your 21st bday vlog. i just turned 29 so around the same age as you and jill and it’s so crazy realizing sometimes how i grew up alongside you and jill ♥️ INSANE to think i’ve been watching your vlogs for almost a decade.
I love our love story. We got together just over 7 years ago. I was a senior in high school and he was in the army. I was planning on joining the army so I would go to these training events to prepare for it and I met this kid named Conner. At the last minute, I decided not to go because my heart wasn’t in it. A few months go by and Conner messages me that his roommate (my husband) thinks I’m cute and wants to FaceTime. So of course I did, and that was it. I instantly fell for this man, and I fell HARD. We dated for a year long distance - he got deployed to South Korea, and when he got back home I flew out to Colorado to meet him in person for the first time. It was absolutely magical and I moved out there a few months later. We got married that July and we celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary this year. And best of all, we just welcomed our first baby - the most beautiful little girl - last week on Thanksgiving. Our hearts are so full 🤍
I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years but was single for two years prior. And in those two years, I learned so much about myself and want I wanted. It’s so important to fall in love with yourself and find happiness outside of a relationship . I found my partner after I found myself and I’m so happy I did. I don’t think we would be together today if not. I love your take on never settling and living your life. You never know when love will find you!
I absolutely LOVE your chatty vlogs I really think you should do one at least once a month as a catch up with us 😂❤️ love hearing your opinion and perspectives on different things!
Very wise perspective on dating. I started seriously looking when I was happy on my own, but I realized there were ways that a partner could improve my life. The relationship I found ended up adding SO much more to my life than I could have ever imagined.
I was in a relationship straight out of high school worst decision of my life it was so toxic. I left that relationship when I turned 27 & months after I met my now husband. We both just knew what we wanted and how we wanted to be treated. I am a firm believer that love comes when it does and you will be so incredibly grateful. You deserve it all Tara!!
Talking about 5 and 10 year plans and how anything can change in a second is so so true and I couldn't agree more! A year a go I met the love of my life on the OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD! and in 12 days I am about to move from Australia to the UK to be with them. If you had told me that this is where my life would be going 12 months ago I would of LAUGHED in your face! I think, trust your gut and the universe and everything else will fall into place :) Amazing vlog as always girl! been a silent viewer all the way back from the fidem days xx
I love seeing you enjoy your current life and accept change as it comes! There are beautiful aspects to having a significant other and beautiful aspects to leading a single life-appreciating the place you’re in is a big part of what makes your present happy! My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We met at a mutual friend’s party (I was 22, he was 23) and dated for a year before tying the knot 😊 Neither of us was looking for a relationship when we met, but after talking and laughing for a couple hours together, we knew we wanted to spend more time with each other. He lived two hours away from where I was going to college, so every weekend one of us would drive to see the other for a couple days. I affectionately called it a “middle-distance” relationship since we didn’t fly to see each other but couldn’t see each other every day either. The extra effort it took to be with each other really showed me the meaning of “if he wanted to, he would.” Listen to your instincts and trust that you know what you need and that you will find it in the right timing ❤
You have rekindled my love of reading. I was a voracious reader since I was very very young, but mental health issues reduced my attention span to nothing and I couldn't even read a magazine article. Started reading again last year when you recommended Colleen Hoover, who I love now. I've traded book suggestions with my sister and even my 26 year old son so I've had people to discuss books with. Reading definitely helps improve my mood and mental health and I am so appreciative of your suggestions. Just finished reading the Percy Jackson series with my son because it was one of his favorites, so when you suggested Fourth Wing it didn't sound too outrageous. I am reading it now! Please keep sharing...
I feel exactly the same way about the dating life, but it’s super nice to hear it from someone else’s perspective for the extra validation I sometimes need when I’m about to do something really stupid 😂. Thanks for being so open and allow yourself to have this vulnerable conversations online. It has a huuge impact for some of us, more than you can imagine. That’s why you’ve always been and forever will be my favorite youtuber ❤
The "He didn't ask many questions" point is so relevant, as someone who dates through the apps I have a huge pet peeve for guys who only talk about their thing and never ask questions or offer information about themselves. In my experience, it indicates that they are not interested. So I totally understand Tara, don't waste your valuable 'me" time on those dudes.
What's crazy is I started watching you during your time with the witch in LA, I would have never found your channel otherwise...but continue to watch you because you're an enthralling soul in a real and beautiful way...so the take away is everything happens for a reason, and the universe works is amazing mysterious ways.
omg I loved this vlog so much, the way you answer these questions make it seem like I'm right there in the same room with you and it's just so comforting to hear your perspective on all these things! also could not agree more, single >>>>> settling !!!
Hi ya! I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years - we met when we were young (I’m older than he is) - I always thought that I needed to have someone else love me in order to love myself and that took a long time to grow out of - my boyfriend helped me find a healthier less toxic me - from the moment I met him I knew that I had found the person I was going to spend forever with - we had our hardships but we’ve come out the other side TOGETHER and that’s the most important part ❤️ you’ll find your person when you stop looking for him (that’s how I found mine 🥰)
Love your attitude about being single and happy but simultaneously looking for love. Seems incredibly healthy ❤ I'm married to my best friend in the entire world and have been for 22 years(got married young). I too am happy to be by myself but having that one rock and friend by my side for all time is invaluable. Seriously, you have a great balance in looking at things and in life, all around. Ty for sharing
I have been with my husband for 12 years (we were 18) married for 6 and have 2 beautiful girls. We have had rough patches, but we communicate well and still act as if we just started dating. We have a good flow together. It's important to be comfortable but never be just complacent. Keep dating and always enjoy the little things because those are more important than just big gestures
Thank you so much for sharing! Love your story! I appreciate when others share about their relationships because it shows reality. People are not perfect so relationships don’t need to be it aswell. As everybody keeps saying: communication is key! Learning and growing up with each other can be scary and hard but it’s a beautiful thing to do
I thought I was going to marry my college boyfriend, he broke my heart so badly I moved abroad- that’s where I met my husband and we live abroad now with our baby! Almost 3 years married and so thankful for everything that lead me here
I love it when you speak about topics such as dating, loving yourself, not settling, etc because it's like my older sister is giving me advice. I turn 25 in a few months, and I got out of an almost 7 year relationship a bit ago and have recently gotten into the dating world which has been such a shocking experience with how men "date". It is so refreshing to know that my standards aren't unattainable and that I genuinely just have to have enough respect for myself to not settle for what I'm currently seeing in the dating market lol thank you for always being so authentic
Truly never regret the traveling!!! Travel so much!!! I have 2 kids now and it would be way harder to travel! See the world before you settle 🫶🏻 nothing ever wrong with that
I love when you say all the time in your vlogs how you are grateful 🥰 Surah Ibrahim 7. And when your Lord announced: “If you give thanks, I will give you more"
I’ve been married for almost 4 years. ♥️ I love hanging out with my single friends so much!! They remind me to go out and I love hearing about all their adventures !! 🩷
it was so weird hearing you talk about the witch again. that whole saga is what made me follow you in the first place and i was instantly brought back to all of the craziness
And to speak to being single.. im definitely with you on it not being worth it to be in a relationship where you are “settling” in any way. I have a few friends in long term relationships where they are absolutely settling and it’s always complaints about really important disagreements about long term life goals with their partners and it’s so frustrating that they just stay and settle because they’re too scared to be single.
yes!!! I'd wayyyy rather be alone than choose a partner that doesn't add value to my life just for the sake of "being in a relationship"! it's easy to find a boyfriend - but finding the right PARTNER takes time!
Really enjoyed the conversation about change. I think sometimes I get so comfortable I forget that I have the power to change my whole life if I want to. Been thinking about going back to school next fall for a career change and starting to think I just need to bite the bullet and do it 🙈
My personal experience in a relationship is I’ve been in a seven year long relationship and just got engaged to him last December and recently got eloped to him over the summer and by next March we are getting married again but officially in front of our family. I fell for him. The first time I saw him, we worked at the same company for almost a year until both of us left that job for something more. I went to college and started his career in engineering. And now we are in love more than ever before and we get to enjoy our life together with our adorable, two year old son.❤
I was single for the later half of my twenties. I got really comfortable with being single and happy and 2 months after my 30th birthday I met my now husband. Life happens when it happens and it's definitely a waiting game. Definitely live your life and your person will come in time.
When you use your toaster, pull it out from underneath your cabinet, the heat from the toaster can warp and dry out the bottom of the cabinet over time.
Bear and I have been married for 25 years. He's 17 years older than me, but I wanted/needed an older person in my life. The guys my age.....they just weren't for me. I wanted/needed someone who had nothing to prove to anyone other than to me. He's now 76 and it's been a good ride!
I've been married to my husband for 10 and a half years now, together for nearly 13(!). We met when I was 21, he was 23, and got married when I was almost 24 and he was 26. Pretty young, especially nowadays, but he is my best friend and absolute favorite person. We're more in love now than we were when we got married! The only thing I'd say in regards to those that are still single but looking for love is to not consider marriage to be the finish line. It's really the starting line. Also, don't feel like you have to do all of these things in life before getting married (travel, take classes, whatever) because if your potential spouse would keep you from doing those things, they're not the right one. Love a good chatty vlog girl! 💕
I love these videos! You authenticity shines through every single one of them. Love getting the cozy aesthetic vibes mixed with a chatty vlog, perfect balance ✨
I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21, and we've been together for a little over 5 years (met in sophomore year of high school💕). We moved in together when we were both 18 going to college an hour away from home. He decided that it made more sense financially for me to be in school while he works to pay the bills, and that's been our dynamic ever since. He wants to pamper me and let me have my dream of being a stay-at-home mom so he's always trying to make more money for us, and I absolutely love him🥰💗 that's the end of my lovey-dovey relationship spiel lol
I truly ❤ your honesty. You are very inspirational and encouraging to a lot of people out there. ❤ what you said about motivation and feeling self conscious. Being consistent can be hard, but well worth it. Also listening your your body and giving yourself grace to rest and refocus when those times come is very important. Thanks for reminding us to be true to ourselves by being true to yourself. ❤✌️
I got married in May to my partner of 8 years. He is my best friend, and honestly one of the kindest people I’ve ever met. We have lots of friends that are coupled up, and some single friends. I’m the mom friend, so I always give my single friends advice and vibe out the people they bring around ❤️
Hi! I’m in a relationship with my guy for almost 2 years. I met him through bumble and so far it’s been really fun. At first, I was like idk if it’s going to work out but so far…I’ve been loving the moments with him.
Holy cow 43 books!! I've only read 12 books since June, it all started with Don't let her stay that you recommended (best book ever) the last 10 books have been Frieda McFadden lol can't thank you enough for your thriller recommendations! I just started Do you remember. I started following your channel in 2020 I don't know how you dealt with you old neighbor she def was nerve wracking. Your life now seems so much happier and peaceful, I love that for you!
Next year marks 10 years of being with my partner. We met when we were both 18/19 as freshmen in college. And he became my friend then best friend then lover lmao it wasnt love at first sight, but it was comfort and trust at first sight honestly. He is home to me, i can truly be my weird self with him lol the butterflies happened later and are always there occasionally before and during dates or honest intentional speaking eachothers love language. Thats why i dont recommend writting someone off that you dont feel an instant attraction with. That can build later when you get to know them and enjoy their laughter and cuteness!
I'm so glad you shared with us your journey in the dating world. I totally can relate to everything you just said. In my 20’s, I was focused on relationships that wasn’t making me happy. My self-esteem was so bad that I allowed myself to get hurt. Now, that I’m living the single era, I don’t regret taking the time to myself. 😅 It’s been almost a year and I’ve never looked back. I’ve always knew after my last relationship and casually dating one guy who was a good friend of mine from HS, that the dating world was not for me UNLESS I was ready for it. There’s no harm in taking that time and space to clear your head and focus on your mental health. NONE. I feel when your 100% with yourself and set realistic goals on what you want in life, things align exactly how they should be. 🥰
been in my current relationship for almost 2 years, we are each others first relationship ❤️. We met at the gym through friends that actually showed up late, So we hung out anyways. We ended up becoming best friends then came to terms we were definitely more than friends 😅. The past two years i’ve learned so much, It isn’t easy but love is love ! It’s going to be complicated, amazing and beautiful!
I found your vlogs during "The Witch" era. So I came into it not knowing you or your back story. I will be honest I think you handled it well. Better than I would have and I am much older than you are. The way you handled things in that situation is why I kept watching you. Not to be condescending in any way but the growth you have made from back then to now is incredible and I am proud of you. Seeing you and your Dad together reminds me of me and my Dad, sadly he is gone now. As I said not to be judgey in anyway but my age is closer to your parents and I will say they did a great job. Sorry for the novel.
got out of my first long term relationship almost a year ago. i love being single but i also feel lonely but mostly because i'm struggling to find friends. i'm also feeling ready to date again but there's no one very interesting around me. loved this chatty vlog!
I must be the oldest person that follows you. I've been married for 42 years, lived with him for 3-1/2 years before we got married, so together 45+ years. Never settle ladies! Even when you are married to the love of your life, you have to work at it.
Hi Tara I want to tell you about my relationship with my husband. On my first date with him it was a nervous time before arriving because I met him online. But sparks flew between us on the first date. The second date we began living together and had many challenges but he stayed with me and we have been together for 14 yrs and married 12 yrs. So true love can be found anywhere. Love your vibe!
My partner and I have been together for almost five years and we actually met when we were 12/13. Started dating at 14/15 and have been together ever since. We live together now and have had so many up and downs, but we still love each other so much and we have two cats now :) I don't know where I would be without them
super excited for you!! london / paris for the holidays? you girls are gonna have such a great time. def the perfect way to end the year. also, 2024, i have a feeling will be a chill, independent, carefree year for you. i'm already picturing you now doing all the things 🤗 🥰
I was already loving this chatty vlog and then you answered my question! 😍 I wasn’t having the best day today so this made it so much better 🤗 thanks Tara! Already can’t wait for the next video 🤍🤍
This vlog truly made my whole day and world! Honestly, you do, and all your content!! I can relate to so many different things you talked about like the being sensitive part and a lot of it..haha..have so much love and respect for you and who you are! Thanks for always keeping it real! Proud of you!
I am a mom of two girls and I hope they can be like you when they get older..I think you handled that whole situation with so much grace and class..I tell my hubby all the time about how much you help me be inspired and motivated! Thank you!
I was in a really bad relationships back to back since I was 19, I stop doing that around 27. Those 3 years alone really got me knowing myself and love myself to never settle. Now I am in a happy healthy relationship with my partner. It was also very very unexpected.
You’re so blessed to have your home and job and get to travel a lot. ❤️ I have fibromyalgia for ten yrs bedridden in pain 🥵I look forward to seeing you. ❤️🇨🇦
London and Paris will be so fun and beautiful! I had the same idea of hopping over to Europe for the Christmas vibes/my birthday and I leave next week for Rome and Venice lol
My fiancé and I have been together for 10+ years now. Wow that’s the first time I wrote our fiancé because we just got engaged last Friday!! Like I’ve been waiting 10 years for this moment. I have single friends and love hearing about their dating stories it’s so fun.
HAPPY TUESDAYYYY!!! Next vlog.... FULL XMAS VIBESSSS I'm ready 🎄💫🎅🏼❄
I was single for almost 5 years until I was 29, and the best thing I did was learning to love myself in the years I was single and it truly is the best thing one can do, love yourself first and you´ll never settle, I met my now husband and it felt I could be the self I learned to love all those years with him, it just felt right, so, great advice Tara! Love yourself and never settle! It's never too late.
❤ I'm 30 and have been single for a while too. 😅
I love my kindle. I like that you can make words bigger easier to read at night. Also I used to do,home care and sometimes had 10 or 15 minuets between visits so out come my kindle to read and it’s great that I didn’t need any light to read by.
Completely agree on never settling. I was single for a good few years before I met my wife. The wait was so worth it and I met her at a time when I was really comfortable being myself. I really enjoy the positive message on relationships you’re spreading and like many others, really enjoying watching this period of growth for you in the new era. I’m just getting this good feeling that you’re in the right place now to find the right person.
my daughter learned to make paper cranes in 3rd grade.(she did not start reading until 3rd grade) She started making them and writing the name of a book she read on each one. she kept it up until she graduated high school. over the summer between graduation and college she made a garland of her cranes. 935 cranes(935books that are not text books). Im in awe of her. she said when she got into the university she wasnt reading for fun anymore. and that made her sad. now she is a working girl in a college and on her lunch break she finds the prettiest spot on campus and eats lunch and tries to read at least 4 chapters of a book. she prefers actual books to hold and turn pages she says. I was single mom of 3, and the library was a great free fun place to go and we could get books for free.
I think I'm the "older" one that watches your Vlogs. But you help me understand my kids (30's & 20's) a little more. Let's face it, things have changed since I was a kids & young adult. I was married in my 20's had kids and raised them in my 30's only to have twins at the end of my 30's. I left that drama behind with family & great support from friends I thought I lost. I enjoy your Vlogs and know my kids aren't alone in their mental health journey. Thank you for being open... FYI I've tried your gnocchi "oops" dish .. and I got my daughter to love it too!
I'm 70, lol I love Tara too!
I got out of a 5 year relationship, this year, 3 weeks before we were supposed to get married because he decided we werent compatible but turns out he was cheating with a colleague. So as much as that is so awful i have never felt so happy in my single era, i was able to get my own place, built better friendships with my work friends and ive learnt to value myself and build my confidence. So i am very happy being single but am open to love if the right person comes my way. But i do feel that i still have alot of growth to do as a single human and one thing i have grown to realize i enjoy my alone time and i value that more then having the odd days of being lonely
I sometimes see that you posted a video like seconds ago but I wait at least 1 hour so I can watch it and read some comments as well ^^ I love the community that you gathered here - have a lovely day Tara and greetings from Poland ❤❤❤
this is so cute!!! I love this community hehehe ❤❤
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I always said I wouldn’t settle, but ended up marrying at 34 because all of my friends were in established relationships and had families. It got harder and harder to find people that wanted to hang out. Priorities totally different. Friendships kind of ended. Didn’t end up finding my soul mate until I was 40, husband number two. Even though I’m very happy in my relationship now,I wish I had nurtured my friendships more. Keep doing what you’re doing, and establishing meaningful relationships with your friends. Those are the ones you’ll appreciate more.
Some advice my good friend Miley Cyrus gave me was: if you want someone who reads, go to a library, if you want someone who exercises, meet someone running in the park, if you want an artist, go to a museum, basically, do the things you want in the other person. If you meet someone at a party, you can imagine what their life is like.
Been together for 7 years with my best friend and husband and married for 4 years with 2 little girls! I didn't like being single, but I definitely didn't settle. I was lucky enough to find my other half. The wait was worth it! ❤
Love watching your vlogs! I just turned 31 and I’m married. We’ve been together for 4 years but before this relationship I was just like you. I never thought I’d find my person and I WOULDN’T SETTLE! People will try to put a timeline on you but don’t let them! Everyone’s life is different continue to stay true to yourself! ❤
hearing you mention jill’s 30th was such a trip bc it made me realize how vividly i can actually remember your 21st bday vlog. i just turned 29 so around the same age as you and jill and it’s so crazy realizing sometimes how i grew up alongside you and jill ♥️ INSANE to think i’ve been watching your vlogs for almost a decade.
I love our love story. We got together just over 7 years ago. I was a senior in high school and he was in the army. I was planning on joining the army so I would go to these training events to prepare for it and I met this kid named Conner. At the last minute, I decided not to go because my heart wasn’t in it. A few months go by and Conner messages me that his roommate (my husband) thinks I’m cute and wants to FaceTime. So of course I did, and that was it. I instantly fell for this man, and I fell HARD. We dated for a year long distance - he got deployed to South Korea, and when he got back home I flew out to Colorado to meet him in person for the first time. It was absolutely magical and I moved out there a few months later. We got married that July and we celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary this year. And best of all, we just welcomed our first baby - the most beautiful little girl - last week on Thanksgiving. Our hearts are so full 🤍
I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years but was single for two years prior. And in those two years, I learned so much about myself and want I wanted. It’s so important to fall in love with yourself and find happiness outside of a relationship . I found my partner after I found myself and I’m so happy I did. I don’t think we would be together today if not. I love your take on never settling and living your life. You never know when love will find you!
I absolutely LOVE your chatty vlogs I really think you should do one at least once a month as a catch up with us 😂❤️ love hearing your opinion and perspectives on different things!
Very wise perspective on dating. I started seriously looking when I was happy on my own, but I realized there were ways that a partner could improve my life. The relationship I found ended up adding SO much more to my life than I could have ever imagined.
I was in a relationship straight out of high school worst decision of my life it was so toxic. I left that relationship when I turned 27 & months after I met my now husband. We both just knew what we wanted and how we wanted to be treated. I am a firm believer that love comes when it does and you will be so incredibly grateful. You deserve it all Tara!!
Talking about 5 and 10 year plans and how anything can change in a second is so so true and I couldn't agree more!
A year a go I met the love of my life on the OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD! and in 12 days I am about to move from Australia to the UK to be with them. If you had told me that this is where my life would be going 12 months ago I would of LAUGHED in your face!
I think, trust your gut and the universe and everything else will fall into place :)
Amazing vlog as always girl! been a silent viewer all the way back from the fidem days xx
Love that my toddlers nap time coincides with your posting schedule 😂 happy Tara Tuesday, love you!!!
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I love seeing you enjoy your current life and accept change as it comes! There are beautiful aspects to having a significant other and beautiful aspects to leading a single life-appreciating the place you’re in is a big part of what makes your present happy! My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We met at a mutual friend’s party (I was 22, he was 23) and dated for a year before tying the knot 😊 Neither of us was looking for a relationship when we met, but after talking and laughing for a couple hours together, we knew we wanted to spend more time with each other. He lived two hours away from where I was going to college, so every weekend one of us would drive to see the other for a couple days. I affectionately called it a “middle-distance” relationship since we didn’t fly to see each other but couldn’t see each other every day either. The extra effort it took to be with each other really showed me the meaning of “if he wanted to, he would.” Listen to your instincts and trust that you know what you need and that you will find it in the right timing ❤
i have been watching you for years and it’s truly great to see how far you have come in all aspects!
Can we talk about how aggressive that toaster pop was!? Scared me too!
You have rekindled my love of reading. I was a voracious reader since I was very very young, but mental health issues reduced my attention span to nothing and I couldn't even read a magazine article. Started reading again last year when you recommended Colleen Hoover, who I love now. I've traded book suggestions with my sister and even my 26 year old son so I've had people to discuss books with. Reading definitely helps improve my mood and mental health and I am so appreciative of your suggestions. Just finished reading the Percy Jackson series with my son because it was one of his favorites, so when you suggested Fourth Wing it didn't sound too outrageous. I am reading it now! Please keep sharing...
I feel exactly the same way about the dating life, but it’s super nice to hear it from someone else’s perspective for the extra validation I sometimes need when I’m about to do something really stupid 😂. Thanks for being so open and allow yourself to have this vulnerable conversations online. It has a huuge impact for some of us, more than you can imagine. That’s why you’ve always been and forever will be my favorite youtuber ❤
thank you for being here & for this comment!!!! you give ME the extra validation by also agreeing with my thought process hahaha ❤❤
I enjoy all your vlogs but I do love a chatty vlog!! Thanks for being so open and honest with us - it is definitely part of your charm. ❤
The "He didn't ask many questions" point is so relevant, as someone who dates through the apps I have a huge pet peeve for guys who only talk about their thing and never ask questions or offer information about themselves. In my experience, it indicates that they are not interested. So I totally understand Tara, don't waste your valuable 'me" time on those dudes.
Is anyone else getting anxiety with the leaves above the candle? 😳 🔥 LOVE YOU TARA! ☺️
What's crazy is I started watching you during your time with the witch in LA, I would have never found your channel otherwise...but continue to watch you because you're an enthralling soul in a real and beautiful way...so the take away is everything happens for a reason, and the universe works is amazing mysterious ways.
omg I loved this vlog so much, the way you answer these questions make it seem like I'm right there in the same room with you and it's just so comforting to hear your perspective on all these things! also could not agree more, single >>>>> settling !!!
Hi ya! I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years - we met when we were young (I’m older than he is) - I always thought that I needed to have someone else love me in order to love myself and that took a long time to grow out of - my boyfriend helped me find a healthier less toxic me - from the moment I met him I knew that I had found the person I was going to spend forever with - we had our hardships but we’ve come out the other side TOGETHER and that’s the most important part ❤️ you’ll find your person when you stop looking for him (that’s how I found mine 🥰)
I just lost it when you jumped from the toaster 😂😂😂
Love your attitude about being single and happy but simultaneously looking for love. Seems incredibly healthy ❤
I'm married to my best friend in the entire world and have been for 22 years(got married young). I too am happy to be by myself but having that one rock and friend by my side for all time is invaluable.
Seriously, you have a great balance in looking at things and in life, all around. Ty for sharing
I have been with my husband for 12 years (we were 18) married for 6 and have 2 beautiful girls. We have had rough patches, but we communicate well and still act as if we just started dating. We have a good flow together. It's important to be comfortable but never be just complacent. Keep dating and always enjoy the little things because those are more important than just big gestures
Thank you so much for sharing! Love your story! I appreciate when others share about their relationships because it shows reality. People are not perfect so relationships don’t need to be it aswell. As everybody keeps saying: communication is key! Learning and growing up with each other can be scary and hard but it’s a beautiful thing to do
@danachristina1729 yes! And it's important to note that you guys grow and change together. But what is important are values matching up.
3:33 love your self talk motivation!
So excited about your travels. About to celebrate 43 yrs of marriage but I'm as fun as you and your friends LOL. Love ya, Tara - don't settle!
I thought I was going to marry my college boyfriend, he broke my heart so badly I moved abroad- that’s where I met my husband and we live abroad now with our baby! Almost 3 years married and so thankful for everything that lead me here
I love it when you speak about topics such as dating, loving yourself, not settling, etc because it's like my older sister is giving me advice. I turn 25 in a few months, and I got out of an almost 7 year relationship a bit ago and have recently gotten into the dating world which has been such a shocking experience with how men "date". It is so refreshing to know that my standards aren't unattainable and that I genuinely just have to have enough respect for myself to not settle for what I'm currently seeing in the dating market lol thank you for always being so authentic
Haha! The toaster jump had me rolling 😂
Truly never regret the traveling!!! Travel so much!!! I have 2 kids now and it would be way harder to travel! See the world before you settle 🫶🏻 nothing ever wrong with that
That candle looks beautiful. Bring some rain my way to AZ. Love the vlogs .
You home vibes are a forever mood.
Just clicked on your video and it’s already making me miss Toronto 😍 cozy rainy day vibes!
I love when you say all the time in your vlogs how you are grateful 🥰 Surah Ibrahim
7. And when your Lord announced: “If you give thanks, I will give you more"
🤣🤣🤣😭😭 you jumping when the toaster goes made me jump as well 🤦🏽♀️😂😂 gosh!
I’ve been married for almost 4 years. ♥️
I love hanging out with my single friends so much!! They remind me to go out and I love hearing about all their adventures !! 🩷
it was so weird hearing you talk about the witch again. that whole saga is what made me follow you in the first place and i was instantly brought back to all of the craziness
Watching while also working on the couch during a cozy day ❤
I was so sad when the vlog ended, I feel like we just hung out all day ❤
And to speak to being single.. im definitely with you on it not being worth it to be in a relationship where you are “settling” in any way. I have a few friends in long term relationships where they are absolutely settling and it’s always complaints about really important disagreements about long term life goals with their partners and it’s so frustrating that they just stay and settle because they’re too scared to be single.
yes!!! I'd wayyyy rather be alone than choose a partner that doesn't add value to my life just for the sake of "being in a relationship"! it's easy to find a boyfriend - but finding the right PARTNER takes time!
Loved this chatty vlog. So fun! So excited for your next trip to London & Paris! I just love those cities!!
Really enjoyed the conversation about change. I think sometimes I get so comfortable I forget that I have the power to change my whole life if I want to. Been thinking about going back to school next fall for a career change and starting to think I just need to bite the bullet and do it 🙈
it's so easy to get comfortable in our norms, but if you have any desires to change something - I always think you should if the opportunity comes!!!
My personal experience in a relationship is I’ve been in a seven year long relationship and just got engaged to him last December and recently got eloped to him over the summer and by next March we are getting married again but officially in front of our family. I fell for him. The first time I saw him, we worked at the same company for almost a year until both of us left that job for something more. I went to college and started his career in engineering. And now we are in love more than ever before and we get to enjoy our life together with our adorable, two year old son.❤
I was single for the later half of my twenties. I got really comfortable with being single and happy and 2 months after my 30th birthday I met my now husband. Life happens when it happens and it's definitely a waiting game. Definitely live your life and your person will come in time.
When you use your toaster, pull it out from underneath your cabinet, the heat from the toaster can warp and dry out the bottom of the cabinet over time.
Not gonna lie- I just binged watched your witch playlist😂 so happy you are in a safer space
Bear and I have been married for 25 years. He's 17 years older than me, but I wanted/needed an older person in my life. The guys my age.....they just weren't for me. I wanted/needed someone who had nothing to prove to anyone other than to me. He's now 76 and it's been a good ride!
I've been married to my husband for 10 and a half years now, together for nearly 13(!). We met when I was 21, he was 23, and got married when I was almost 24 and he was 26. Pretty young, especially nowadays, but he is my best friend and absolute favorite person. We're more in love now than we were when we got married! The only thing I'd say in regards to those that are still single but looking for love is to not consider marriage to be the finish line. It's really the starting line. Also, don't feel like you have to do all of these things in life before getting married (travel, take classes, whatever) because if your potential spouse would keep you from doing those things, they're not the right one.
Love a good chatty vlog girl! 💕
It was funny when you jumped at the toaster. I had to rewind it. Lol love the fk bomb ❤️❤️❄️❄️🇨🇦
I love the book chats! And iron flame was crazy 🤯
IT WAS CRAZYYYY!!!
I love these videos! You authenticity shines through every single one of them. Love getting the cozy aesthetic vibes mixed with a chatty vlog, perfect balance ✨
thank you for being hereee! ❤❤
I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21, and we've been together for a little over 5 years (met in sophomore year of high school💕). We moved in together when we were both 18 going to college an hour away from home. He decided that it made more sense financially for me to be in school while he works to pay the bills, and that's been our dynamic ever since. He wants to pamper me and let me have my dream of being a stay-at-home mom so he's always trying to make more money for us, and I absolutely love him🥰💗 that's the end of my lovey-dovey relationship spiel lol
My FAV part of a Tuesday! ❤
I truly ❤ your honesty. You are very inspirational and encouraging to a lot of people out there. ❤ what you said about motivation and feeling self conscious. Being consistent can be hard, but well worth it. Also listening your your body and giving yourself grace to rest and refocus when those times come is very important. Thanks for reminding us to be true to ourselves by being true to yourself. ❤✌️
I got married in May to my partner of 8 years. He is my best friend, and honestly one of the kindest people I’ve ever met. We have lots of friends that are coupled up, and some single friends. I’m the mom friend, so I always give my single friends advice and vibe out the people they bring around ❤️
Hi! I’m in a relationship with my guy for almost 2 years. I met him through bumble and so far it’s been really fun. At first, I was like idk if it’s going to work out but so far…I’ve been loving the moments with him.
Gosh I’m loving you more and more with every video. I think I might be addicted haha! Girl, you are so pretty and deserve the best ❤️
Holy cow 43 books!! I've only read 12 books since June, it all started with Don't let her stay that you recommended (best book ever) the last 10 books have been Frieda McFadden lol can't thank you enough for your thriller recommendations! I just started Do you remember. I started following your channel in 2020 I don't know how you dealt with you old neighbor she def was nerve wracking. Your life now seems so much happier and peaceful, I love that for you!
Next year marks 10 years of being with my partner. We met when we were both 18/19 as freshmen in college. And he became my friend then best friend then lover lmao it wasnt love at first sight, but it was comfort and trust at first sight honestly. He is home to me, i can truly be my weird self with him lol the butterflies happened later and are always there occasionally before and during dates or honest intentional speaking eachothers love language. Thats why i dont recommend writting someone off that you dont feel an instant attraction with. That can build later when you get to know them and enjoy their laughter and cuteness!
I'm so glad you shared with us your journey in the dating world. I totally can relate to everything you just said. In my 20’s, I was focused on relationships that wasn’t making me happy. My self-esteem was so bad that I allowed myself to get hurt. Now, that I’m living the single era, I don’t regret taking the time to myself. 😅 It’s been almost a year and I’ve never looked back. I’ve always knew after my last relationship and casually dating one guy who was a good friend of mine from HS, that the dating world was not for me UNLESS I was ready for it. There’s no harm in taking that time and space to clear your head and focus on your mental health. NONE. I feel when your 100% with yourself and set realistic goals on what you want in life, things align exactly how they should be. 🥰
You took the words out of my mouth with the not settling comment, I feel the exact same way! Nice to know someone else thinks the same ❤
been in my current relationship for almost 2 years, we are each others first relationship ❤️. We met at the gym through friends that actually showed up late, So we hung out anyways. We ended up becoming best friends then came to terms we were definitely more than friends 😅. The past two years i’ve learned so much, It isn’t easy but love is love ! It’s going to be complicated, amazing and beautiful!
Love your videos!!! Can’t wait for the Xmas videos. Can you do a GRWM video naming/listing all products you use. From skin care to full makeup.
The kindle part was SOOOO true. I was telling this to my husband. I get overwhelmed by the thickness of the physical books lol
I found your vlogs during "The Witch" era. So I came into it not knowing you or your back story. I will be honest I think you handled it well. Better than I would have and I am much older than you are. The way you handled things in that situation is why I kept watching you. Not to be condescending in any way but the growth you have made from back then to now is incredible and I am proud of you. Seeing you and your Dad together reminds me of me and my Dad, sadly he is gone now. As I said not to be judgey in anyway but my age is closer to your parents and I will say they did a great job. Sorry for the novel.
patiently waiting for you to make a booktok bc i NEED to see in-depth book reviews from you 😂
got out of my first long term relationship almost a year ago. i love being single but i also feel lonely but mostly because i'm struggling to find friends. i'm also feeling ready to date again but there's no one very interesting around me. loved this chatty vlog!
I must be the oldest person that follows you. I've been married for 42 years, lived with him for 3-1/2 years before we got married, so together 45+ years. Never settle ladies! Even when you are married to the love of your life, you have to work at it.
I love the big chatty vlogs...been down so very happy to see you today...enjoy the rest of your week ❤️ 💙 😊
Love a chatty vlog 🥰 thanks for the good vibes. So glad you’re feeling like yourself again! Can’t wait for the Christmas vlogs!
Hi Tara
I want to tell you about my relationship with my husband. On my first date with him it was a nervous time before arriving because I met him online. But sparks flew between us on the first date. The second date we began living together and had many challenges but he stayed with me and we have been together for 14 yrs and married 12 yrs. So true love can be found anywhere. Love your vibe!
Loveeee this style vlog!! So fun and chatty. ALSO you’re gonna love ACOTAR and the rest of the SJM universe ✨✨✨ love all the book content
Fav TH-camr!! 🫶🏼
My partner and I have been together for almost five years and we actually met when we were 12/13. Started dating at 14/15 and have been together ever since. We live together now and have had so many up and downs, but we still love each other so much and we have two cats now :) I don't know where I would be without them
Thanks for uploading today Tara!! It makes the day a little a little easier😊
super excited for you!! london / paris for the holidays? you girls are gonna have such a great time. def the perfect way to end the year. also, 2024, i have a feeling will be a chill, independent, carefree year for you. i'm already picturing you now doing all the things 🤗 🥰
I was already loving this chatty vlog and then you answered my question! 😍 I wasn’t having the best day today so this made it so much better 🤗 thanks Tara! Already can’t wait for the next video 🤍🤍
100% do not settle. You should each complement one another and be best of friends. Your ying to his yang.
Never clicked so fast!!! Morning Tara!!!
I’ve always been a reader but I bought a kindle almost a year ago because of you and I am obsessed with it
“The Only One Left” - wow just finished reading this from your recommendation. Wild wrap ups at the end! Loved it. Thx!!
This vlog truly made my whole day and world! Honestly, you do, and all your content!! I can relate to so many different things you talked about like the being sensitive part and a lot of it..haha..have so much love and respect for you and who you are! Thanks for always keeping it real! Proud of you!
I am a mom of two girls and I hope they can be like you when they get older..I think you handled that whole situation with so much grace and class..I tell my hubby all the time about how much you help me be inspired and motivated! Thank you!
I was in a really bad relationships back to back since I was 19, I stop doing that around 27. Those 3 years alone really got me knowing myself and love myself to never settle. Now I am in a happy healthy relationship with my partner. It was also very very unexpected.
I think we would love a vlog where you put your reading recommendations per category you read 😍😍😍
You’re so blessed to have your home and job and get to travel a lot. ❤️ I have fibromyalgia for ten yrs bedridden in pain 🥵I look forward to seeing you. ❤️🇨🇦
Love your book talks, it always motivates me to read more
London and Paris will be so fun and beautiful! I had the same idea of hopping over to Europe for the Christmas vibes/my birthday and I leave next week for Rome and Venice lol
Yayyy, totally forgot it's Tara Tuesday ❤
My fiancé and I have been together for 10+ years now. Wow that’s the first time I wrote our fiancé because we just got engaged last Friday!! Like I’ve been waiting 10 years for this moment.
I have single friends and love hearing about their dating stories it’s so fun.
OMG! I'm going back to London with my husband for ten days for the holiday season! It's my favorite place on earth, too.