Dealing with rude people

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  • @chiragbajaj6091
    @chiragbajaj6091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    @Professor Javed Iqbal sir, Great job.. Love from Indians!

  • @arindamghorai7597
    @arindamghorai7597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I am intern from the oldest Medical college in Asia and patient burden here is too much and they get abusive and angry sometime. This is very much helpful professor.

  • @uncoverit2010
    @uncoverit2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Sir your voice is amazing & energetic.
    From India.

  • @AlviSultan
    @AlviSultan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dr. Sahib ki Baat bilkul sahih hai. Baat mushkil toh zaroor hai magar na-mumkin nahin. Develop lots of self-control and patience to handle or deal with rude people! Good nuskha Dr. Sahib, it has worked for me, always!

  • @Final_Turn
    @Final_Turn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    سوال دہرانہ اچھا سامع ہونے کی نشانی ہے۔ بہت خوب 🌷

  • @PGuj
    @PGuj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pearls of Wisdom given for free and with a kind heart. Many thanks to you :)

  • @syedasidrabokhari8887
    @syedasidrabokhari8887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir you are great... Allah Pak apko bht kmyabi, izzt or tarqqi dn.. Aameen

  • @abujubayer
    @abujubayer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I have learned a lot sir... U r great... Allah rabbul alamin, Aap ka hayat daraz kare... Aise Doctor hr zagah hona chahiye.... I love u sir... Isi tarah aap ham sab ko motivated karte rahiye.. the more I watch yr videos, the more I am amazed... Such a great personality... . Love from Kolkata, India...

    • @abbgjgvn
      @abbgjgvn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @abbgjgvn
      @abbgjgvn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's also a motivational channel

    • @erumbashir3827
      @erumbashir3827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Asalam O Alekum sir ap looks suna Bohat he acha laga ap life avaz fit on ur peranality . Mera aik bets hen or main us ki achi tabiyat hrna charti hun but I m Singal mother doing job and many many broblems pls help me like ur perfect adviceses and opinion . I wann talk to u please please

  • @wakeelatahir94
    @wakeelatahir94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow first time I have known that what's the difference between response and react?!!! Hats off to you.....

  • @sufiatahseen2129
    @sufiatahseen2129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baba jani ap un bachho ko bhi tarbiyat kar rahe h jinke maa,baba nhi h .....Bahot bahot shukirya baba jani......

  • @wenjingsaf
    @wenjingsaf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i wish he was my professor for life mashallh so much knowledge and wisdom Allah lambi zindagi de kamyab rakhe

  • @fazlurrahman1668
    @fazlurrahman1668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sir. Amazed by ur voice and way of talking. Excellent

  • @ibraheemwafai9543
    @ibraheemwafai9543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir this is sheer brilliance!! Totally relatable! May Allah make immense barakah in your knowledge! May Allah bless you!

  • @HumaaUmar
    @HumaaUmar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are perfectly correct! It’s so difficult to be the more intelligent one all the time, because it seems the majority of humans are not responsible, accountable, or in other words, aggressors😳

  • @aliansari5664
    @aliansari5664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bht bht bht hi pyare andaz me btaya apne .. Allah apko kamiyabi de

  • @shahanazanjum8398
    @shahanazanjum8398 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bilkul yahi bat hai sir 💯 times such kaha apne Sir apka shukriya javed sir Allah apko mahfooz rakhhe

  • @zahidiqbal7367
    @zahidiqbal7367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallha Bhaut acchi or logically baat samjhayi h aapne ... lots of love from india🇮🇳

  • @upwardsacademy
    @upwardsacademy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Respected sir it will help me alot to
    Over come from my daily trifles.

  • @HNK147
    @HNK147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhan Allah
    Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera
    Sir itna cool suggestion dia ha ap na
    Wisdom k sath solve krna.

  • @storytelling.1234
    @storytelling.1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks sir ! Now I finally understand how to deal with rude and anger..This is so much helpful..Sir really you are a best teacher.

  • @ravidasaher1341
    @ravidasaher1341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah Pak apko salamat rakhen aaamen sumaaaamen aaap sy boht seeekh rhay hen Allah Pak aapka aaaayaa hamary sarooon pay salamat rakhen

  • @bhatrazak9973
    @bhatrazak9973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A, a Jazakalakhair Sir very good information...

  • @انقلاباسلامیپاکستان
    @انقلاباسلامیپاکستان 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are brilliant Sir. I am listening you from past 2 days. And during this time when ever i have opened youtube, i have just listened your videos. You have another fan in your bucket sir. Love you ❤

  • @gulzaman5512
    @gulzaman5512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My first comment.I dont think you area medical doctor. I have never seen such a polite and intellectual doctor ever. I wish you every doctor adopt his atitude. Keep it up sir.

    • @a4fun672
      @a4fun672 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every dr is like this also ... it’s all due to attendants jo drs se ulajhtay hain

    • @gulzaman5512
      @gulzaman5512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@a4fun672 Not every dr with apology. Some dr are too rude and impolite they even dont know thr abc of etiquettes

    • @waqasahmad4457
      @waqasahmad4457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the attitudes of a society are linked like a web. Where else do u see politeness and respectful attitude in our society; so doctors r no different.

    • @mohsinkamal3782
      @mohsinkamal3782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@a4fun672 not true!

    • @786helix2
      @786helix2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gul Zameen, why do you write that you don't think Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a medical Doctor?? I don't understand. On what basis do you say this? Look up his qualifications and credentials on the internet. After reading them let me know if you don't understand anything. In some parts of the World (outside Pakistan/Indian) Doctors are exactly like Prof Iqbal. I'm guessing you live in Pakistan?

  • @maryamhafeez6113
    @maryamhafeez6113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We forget all these lessons when we are in a row. The anger overwhelms, as always. May one day we overwhelm our anger!

    • @AlviSultan
      @AlviSultan ปีที่แล้ว

      Try to understand what anger really is, and your anger will disappear. Knowingly, why would you like to make yourself a fool?

  • @syedfaizan9705
    @syedfaizan9705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very well said sir.....this will help me out in dealing with phd supervisor....

  • @sa-ib1wy
    @sa-ib1wy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    sir boht achi bty apki jo mei bachpn sy esi hi ajtk ap ny meri zuban izhar kr rhy boht kushi hui

  • @just_a_woman-h9s
    @just_a_woman-h9s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    @professor Dr Javed Iqbal, My experience is different. If you are dealing with an abuser, that doesnt work. For instance if your spouse is a bully and try to intimidate you perceiving you are vulnerable, you have to stand up against it right away and stop them AS SOON AS they start. Your voice should be stern and should not quietly listen to their threats. My father used to threat my mother, she used to live in fear, he would always yell and scream and all of us would be quite in fear. The day my mother stood up against him and shouted more than he did, he completely changed and mellowed down

    • @just_a_woman-h9s
      @just_a_woman-h9s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Usama Fayyaz , The language u used, the personal attacks u made and the tone u showed in your comment PROVES my point.
      If u want more proof, Look at the gender ratio in prison cells around the world . 95% of inmates are men and only 5% are women. What does it tell you?
      It is because men , "in general", are more likely to be violent and bring harm to other human beings as compare to women. There are always exceptions though.
      So the proof is in the pudding

    • @aabikhan3492
      @aabikhan3492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@just_a_woman-h9s You're right . Gandi zubaan istemal krke baat krne walay ki koi baat theek ho hi nai sakti . Jisko yeh nahi pta ke baat karne ka konsa tareeqa sahi hai aur konsa ghalat . Usko baaki mamlo mai sahi ghalat ki tafreeq kese hogi . Bura ikhlaaq hamare Khuda ko shadeed na psand hai. May Allah forgive us for all our sins .

    • @samaranjum7574
      @samaranjum7574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aabikhan3492 u r right.

  • @shaukatali4970
    @shaukatali4970 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    السلام و علیکم
    ڈاکٹر جاوید اقبال صاحب بہت ہی اچھے ڈاکٹر ہونے کے ساتھ ساتھ بہت ہی اچھے انسان ہیں
    اللہ تعالی لمبی زندگی اور تندرستی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثمہ آمین

  • @aadilashfaqofficial
    @aadilashfaqofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir me apka ehsan adaa nhi kar sakta.
    Meri life apki wjah sy change ho gae hai.
    Ap please kuch na kuch uplaod krty raha kren.
    Mein daily apka koi na koi lecture sun k sota hun or phr next day usko implement krta hun khud py.
    Allah apko sehat dy.
    I love you so much

  • @selftalks3825
    @selftalks3825 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    بہت سیکھنے کو ملا اس وڈیو سے ۔۔۔ اللہ آپکو جزا دے آمین

  • @nutritionist8223
    @nutritionist8223 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir! App bilkul theek kah rahy hn. Me apny husband k saat b aesaa hi karti hun.kabi unky sat badtemezi nahi ki jab wo ghusy me ho nd due to this he loves me alot.

  • @sheebasultan1145
    @sheebasultan1145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Janab, i love listening to your words of wisdom.
    India loves you.

  • @mahwishimran7847
    @mahwishimran7847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir ur videos r so impressive I try to change myself n working on myself by hearing ur videos hats of to u

  • @imvisionhoti7198
    @imvisionhoti7198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are my inspiration Sir.. I keep learning alot towards my attitude grooming and personality development ! Huge respect from the core of my heart !💗

  • @daljitkaur7783
    @daljitkaur7783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr.u r amazing ur way of explaining is fantastic

  • @samaranjum7574
    @samaranjum7574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah sir aajkal main bhi aise hi kar rahin hoon. Aap to bilkul mere bade mamujaan hain. Allah aapko donon ko salaamat rakhe. Aameen .

  • @zaighamabbaskhan7104
    @zaighamabbaskhan7104 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kind person......awlaaa tarbyeat parents ki......dr and good humanbieng.....doing good work

  • @wajihaurooj9964
    @wajihaurooj9964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zabardast.. I learnt a lot from you sir but I can like this video just once. Motivational speaker Masha Allah.
    Allah apko sehat wali lmbi umr de ameen

  • @imtayazali5592
    @imtayazali5592 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a great prrson..... great explaination... voiceway of talking and teaching....awesome...

  • @sumiyabilal2912
    @sumiyabilal2912 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always learn alot from u sir..ALLAH nay ap ke awaz mai asar rakha hai...i never got bore while listening

  • @noorieosman5912
    @noorieosman5912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Asalaam alaikum Dr Javed i really enjoy listening to you its so real and very good learning

  • @farooqkhan5838
    @farooqkhan5838 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashAllah xubr10 Sir G you are Great men and Honestly speaking.

  • @rajpootqueen6613
    @rajpootqueen6613 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma sha allah sir boht acha way diya ma ap sy lecture sy bht kch seekhti ho

  • @Rajeevkumar-ll4hl
    @Rajeevkumar-ll4hl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    REALLY GREAT SIR YOUR WORD ARE REALLY WORTH AND HEART TOUCHING RAJEEV BIHAR INDIA

  • @tahirhussain222
    @tahirhussain222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jazakallah sir.100% true for best life,thank u.

  • @uasb546
    @uasb546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May Allah always keep you blessed with health n joy. I respect you big brother..your intelligent advice always helps!

  • @rpskidsvlogs9049
    @rpskidsvlogs9049 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I m from India,my name is rahima perween and i m a research scholar in education,i m married having two small kids. I always listen and see your videos.You are so nice person sir. Your way of convincing is amazing and wonderful sir.

  • @umararif8776
    @umararif8776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir Allah ap ko zindagi day amin bohat ma'am ki batain hoti Han

  • @hajerajahangir8489
    @hajerajahangir8489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing words with Amazing style. GREAT 👍👍

  • @husainaligour92
    @husainaligour92 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely Right it's experience also I felt something very nice idea thank you so much sir

  • @fathimamalik1980
    @fathimamalik1980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks god youtube came so we can listein your precious teachings 😊👍👍👍

  • @jameelhafeez9796
    @jameelhafeez9796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Learned a wealth of information today.Thanks.

  • @nissarivf
    @nissarivf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jawed sahab jo reasoning aapney Dee hay yeh simple hay agar agey wala jahaalath ki intehaaa pay ajayyeh who app ki mother sister brothers ho to kaisey handle karain it’s like simple conflict we face terrible people in life how to handle them thanks 😊

  • @javeriarehan1072
    @javeriarehan1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zabardast .sir u r really great teacher

  • @rizwanasalam4340
    @rizwanasalam4340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir u are just like psychologist... Great job sir... (Kashmiri)
    Allah bless you

  • @intertainment7706
    @intertainment7706 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    boht hii bakmall treeka btya h dr sahb ne

  • @fauziakhanam7319
    @fauziakhanam7319 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah bless you with highest rewards ameen please....continue to help the..makhluq of Allah.. ..جزاك الله خير

  • @khurramshehzad8035
    @khurramshehzad8035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful words of wisdom

  • @aleezisawar2770
    @aleezisawar2770 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great discussion Mashallah same as it is mera husband ha but hard ha asa insn ko handal karna

  • @sharufhashmi1416
    @sharufhashmi1416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You are psychologist sir 🗿🗿🗿I wish you have always happy 😊😊😊😊and lot love from India

  • @sohailch3498
    @sohailch3498 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kash hamy b koi asa profeser mil jata tu ajj halaat kuch or hoty . You are great sir i love you . Ap ki awaz seedha dil pe lagti hy

  • @anubhavrastogi2995
    @anubhavrastogi2995 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bhot shaandar ...thank you very much sir..

  • @KRD137
    @KRD137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Great explanation. Just to let you know your voice sounds exactly young "Amitab Bachchan" trust me you're a great teacher and speaker

    • @skyangel7311
      @skyangel7311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U r so right he sounds like amitab sir

    • @vikrantverma4772
      @vikrantverma4772 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think so... although his voice modulation is very good. Quality voice.

  • @meresheherkamausam7821
    @meresheherkamausam7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right sir ye to he apni efforts jo apne bas me he

  • @seemabmir4355
    @seemabmir4355 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot. I have learned a great deal. This video changed my perception of many things and made me more positive.

  • @abdulsamadshaikh3696
    @abdulsamadshaikh3696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rude people maybe disturb or stubborn from inside or self, lack of love or lack of emotional support.
    ,😥😥😥

  • @atiqatariq6192
    @atiqatariq6192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aoa dr javade, i like your affective videos, i listen every day, the way u deliver is Awesome 👏.
    Plz this is my request plz explain some effective videos about that Husband,
    Who has some pyhsical problem,
    And he was very smart in earning money, his inlaws helped him many times, but when he is in depration mood in 2times in a year for 2 nd 3 months, since last 10 years his children are very good nd sporting economically,
    But with all blessings his easy victem is wife he humilated her just for notjing, she is also now 54,
    What should she do, everypwrson has some pysical problem,
    Plz plz deliver some video about this kind of husband

  • @muhammadyarchishti3397
    @muhammadyarchishti3397 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great wording Masha Allah ❤

  • @THETIMESOFNEWSTODAY
    @THETIMESOFNEWSTODAY 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent sir u r doing well..very informative video ..ur videos should be viral on every social networking media to people know about what to do or not and change their ..mindset

  • @irsamalik4432
    @irsamalik4432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greatly appreciated sir stay blessed sir amazing...

  • @rubinayaqoob8489
    @rubinayaqoob8489 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are great 👍 you teaching great way of life style proper very well sir

  • @bodmaish9664
    @bodmaish9664 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent verrrry excellent... idea... The more I'm watching you the more I'm amazed on you... :)

  • @zakiaumer4749
    @zakiaumer4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Explanation

  • @thehybrid1116
    @thehybrid1116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video Sir stay blessed

  • @tayyabkachannel8278
    @tayyabkachannel8278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice Docter Sahib

  • @mubeenmalik6876
    @mubeenmalik6876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr sb very big fan of U sir ❤
    Maa Sha Allah

  • @SpiritualityinSandsofMadinah
    @SpiritualityinSandsofMadinah 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zabardast very nice way of illustration

  • @MrRayaan
    @MrRayaan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you, sir, I am not perfect but this is generally the way I tackle such people and you just boosted my morale that I am doing the right thing.

  • @anujbhadana6880
    @anujbhadana6880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salam walequm sir ji
    Very good speech delivery 👌👌👌🌷🌷🌷🇮🇳🇵🇰

  • @talataltaf7376
    @talataltaf7376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wah sir ,what an amazing answer.

  • @mahfuzurrahman9811
    @mahfuzurrahman9811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    .. Is concept koy may bohot dinose choss raha tha..U make it clear sir!..Thank u very much..
    Love from Bangladesh!!!

  • @shayanimproveenglish7014
    @shayanimproveenglish7014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u so much sir for guidelines

  • @parthshahani3071
    @parthshahani3071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful. I'll definitely try this 🌟

  • @lobeo2155
    @lobeo2155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The best speech at the beginning of this year

  • @riffatnaz5832
    @riffatnaz5832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aoa amazed by your way of explination in such a simple and attractive manner please guide us for a high blood pressure

  • @drharris9568
    @drharris9568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incompetency leads to fear and fear leads to anger ....

  • @manojchaudhary6279
    @manojchaudhary6279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir your voice and your thoughts are amazing 🙏

  • @nuzhatislam6758
    @nuzhatislam6758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    جزاک اللّہ
    بعینہٖ یہی صورت ھوتی ھے ۔
    اللہ ہماری مدد فرمائیں ۔

  • @dr.khanitha
    @dr.khanitha 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallhu khair ..from india -vaniyambadi

  • @Templebells9099
    @Templebells9099 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gr8 Sir. Dhanyawaad

  • @amirmughal6103
    @amirmughal6103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    نااہلی خوف کا باعث ہوتی ہے ، خوف غصے کا باعث ہوتا ہے

  • @zeeshanqamar3426
    @zeeshanqamar3426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear professor ,
    First of all thanks you very much for wonderful knowdelge and please give refferences also for further study thanks again sir.

  • @teachatot
    @teachatot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to deal with elders,who are stubborn and rude and dont want to listen to any other viewpoint.Younger ppl we can explain but we are told not to talk back to elders even when they are wrong.

  • @manojpadmanabhan5537
    @manojpadmanabhan5537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A very practical advice. Respect your thoughts and view point ...

  • @javeriasardar6230
    @javeriasardar6230 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir ur all vedios amazing

  • @nasreenkhaan7650
    @nasreenkhaan7650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice message

  • @aafreenali4528
    @aafreenali4528 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalamalaikum sir u are great man lots of love from India

  • @sufiatahseen2129
    @sufiatahseen2129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Baba jani ap un bachho ko bhi tarbiyat kar rahe h jinke maa,baba nhi h .....Bahot bahot shukirya baba jani......

  • @arbaz9877
    @arbaz9877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    lots of love from hyderabad sir ji