Signs of TOXIC People and How To Deal Them - Qasim Ali Shah
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ہر انسان کو زندگی میں TOXIC People ملتے رہتے ہیں جو ان کی ترقی کی راہ میں بڑی رکاوٹ بنتے ہیں۔ ہم TOXIC People کو کیسے پہچان سکتے ہیں۔ جانیے اس ویڈیو میں ایسے لوگوں کی نشانیاں۔
Qasim Ali Shah is not just a Motivational Speaker but an enthusiastic doer. He followed his passions and proved his self a Successful Entrepreneur, Inspiring Teacher, Best-Selling Author, Philanthropist and a Transformational Trainer.
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Signs of a toxic person
1: Blamers, play the blame game
2: Take revenge on the wrong person.
3: Small Paradigm.
4: Never admit mistake.
5: Sometimes dishonest.
6: they invalidate your feeling
7: bad listener, pretend to listen
8: they question your sanity
9: not puntual
10: extreame criminal tendency
11: they are psychopaths.
Desi nishaniya
1: They are energy suckers
Bina baat kiye bhi apki energy suck kr lete hain.
2: aura and energy negative.
3: doubts paida kr dein ge ap mein.
4: symmetry ni hogi.
5: aggrestion
6: ragra lgany mein expert.
Solutions
1: Delete a person if possible.
2: Learn to avoid.
3: limited talk with them
4: Ignore them
Eagle hain agr to crow k level pe akr ap b crow ni ban jaen.
Psychologist ki energy damage ho jati hai cases se.
Energy change/neutral krne k liye namaz, tahajud, physical activity, travel krna...
Jazakallah
Well said
Maire baray Bhai ki tamam nishaniyan yahi hain is leye usko choray huye aj 7 sal hogay hain mazeed 50 sal tak us k nazdeek nai jaunga
husband ho to kia krain
Jazak Allahu khairan Qaseerah for the above comment
جو بھائی نماز نہیں پڑھتا اس سے گزارش ہے کہ نماز پڑھا کریں اللہ کا عذاب بہت سخت ہے تمام بھائی نماز کی پابندی کریں۔کہو ان شاءاللہ🤲
قاسم صاحب كم ہی لیکچر ڈیلیور کرین ۔ عزت برقرار رہتی ہے ۔
Inshallah ❤ thank you for asking
InshaAllah
In Sha Allah 💫
Inshallah
Each of us become toxic at some stage of life , we need to introspect ourself continuously rather than to do it for others.
May ALLAH guide us to become as HE loves.
Ye sach he king kisi na kisi stage pr har koi toxic hpta he life mn
ameen sum ameen ya Rabbul Alameen
Exactly
ہمارا المیہ یہ ہے کہ خود بھی کچھ کرنا نہیں چاہتے اور نہ کرسکتے ہیں اور دوسروں کو بھی آرام سے جینے نہیں دیتے۔
Thanx a lot Shah sb, may Allah bless u
dua hay allah Hidayat dy...ameen
Seriously
اگر زندگی میں آگے بڑھنا ہے تو بہرے ہو جاؤ کیونکہ بعض لوگوں کی باتیں مایوسی میں اضافہ کر دیتی ہے۔
Very good
Dil jeet liya ap k ilfazo ny
@@muhammadarib2296 I like your comint
Nice comment
Copy by Qasim Ali shah 💝💝✌️✌️
یا اللہ ھم سب کے والدین کو عمر دراز عطا فرمائے۔ آمین ثمہ آمین۔.
سر : اللہ آپکو لمبی عمر عطا فرمائے۔ آپ نے تو میری زندگی ہی بدل دی۔ آپکی باتوں میں بہت جادوئی اثر ہے۔
لَّآ إِلَٰهَ إِلَّآ أَنتَ سُبْحَٰنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ ٱلظَّٰلِمِينَ
Sometimes it's so difficult to remove such people from you life as they won't leave you they'll disturb the peace of your mind constantly all you can do is to pray and ask ALLAH to remove them from your life
Well said,especially in a married life and top of that when you have 2 children who suppose to need you in their lives.this situation happens to anyone despite of gender,
@@nidawahid1642aur tab b jab wo apki mother ho
Wow sir....u really highlighted the points of toxic. I met such person who sucked my energy...gave me constant anxiety...wanted to marry me...but Allah saved me... alhamdulillah 😊❤️
Per mai bach na sakii:(
@@Motivate.yourselfff me b
Alhamdulillah me b bach gae mje lga tha k PYAR tha wo or me brdsht krte ja rhe. the itne salo se or mne shadi se bcha lia khd ko q k me mently bht dstrb the us insan ki wja se .. beshak ALLAH is the best planner …jo hta ha ache k lie hta ha
@@Motivate.yourselfff Same here ☹️
@@Motivate.yourselfff same to me wo ulty mujhe ilzam lgaty hain k tum sb kharab karti ho
Bohat Khub !! Kahtay hain *Sanp 🐍 ya Bichoo* kay Zaher ka ilaj hai lakin Negative Insan ka koi ilajj *Nahi* .
*In ko Apni Life say Delet karein* .
👍
“People inspire you, or they drain you. Pick them wisely.”
Very informative session but I'm emotional after seeing this.we cannot easly throw the life some persons and even cant ignore if u r dependent on them.
V much right,
Sometimes toxic people come in our life so that we could learn from them and be ready to face thede type of people in future . I have faced a toxic person in my life tooo but it made me stronger than ever . These type of people do their best to find your mistakes,flaws etc and try their best to use them against you if you are not enough clever or a simple person then you are dead.
The only rule i think like Qasim Ali Sir also mentioned plan for their exit or simply ignore them Trust me just believe in God These type of people will get in trouble too.
I honestly have no words to express my gratitude for your kind information. I would simply say that, "alhamdulillah!"
Alhamdulillah.
Please Allah ka zikr capital letters say kia karain. Allah har momin ko maaf karay.
Alhumdolilah MashaAllah
شکر الحمدللہ آپ کی باتوں سے جو سکون ملا
وہ الفاظ میں بیان کرنا مشکل ہے
اللہ پاک آپ کو اور آپ کی فیملی کو خوش و خرم رکھے آمین یاربالعالمین🤲👍😊
اورادو وظائف کی صحيح کتاب لے کر پڑھو ۔سورہ لھب روزانہ 7 بار پڑھو باقی یہ اللهم اكفينيهم بما شئت يہ دعا پڑھو یا رؤف 1000 روزانہ اول اخر درود کوئی سا بھی یا فتاح یا الفتاح روزنہ جتنا ہو پرھ سکتے ہین
Boht acha lecture hy. Jis ki jitni b tareef ki jai.
Boht kam hy.
Jazak Allah Sir
Qasim Sir, this is one of the best lectures.Amazingly well explained.
Unfortunately my husband is like that , when ever I complain anything ,he said there is no problem and rapidly heat up n yelled shouted and blame me makes dramas every time.
Mera father b aesa he hy dua kryn asy logo k shar sy Allah bachaey.😢
Same
Same here
My husband is same...
Leave him!
Toxic people defend themselves and have controling attributes, take credit for their actions, very good at lying. Plays Victim are two faced people, they are good at seeking sympathy, k mera to koi nahi hai, kuch acha nahi lagta.
Are Highly or overly judgemental.
They are not givers but are takers as if it is their right.
They always blame you for even their mistakes.
They will retaliate from the wrong person.
Thats very true
Absolutely perfect description ,
One of the best lectures Qasim Ali Shah ever gave!
Ma Sha Allah, Subhan Allah
Shukriya. ❤️. ALLAH aise logon par Fazl Farmayein.
Assalam u alaikum sir g ap mry roohani ustad hyn ap ki baton n mujhy himmat harny sy bchany m bohat madad ki hy Allah pak n ap ko logon ko mayoosi sy nikalny ka 1 zariya bna diya hy i want to become like you InshAllah
Sir I’m really impressed with your lecture because it happens in our lives Iv seen people who get faint to get attention from their people around
They think they are always right and they always suppress who are weaker than themselves
They are selfish and they are negative people and make the whole environment toxic and unbearable for others. Allah aisay logon kay shar aur fitnon say hamain mehfooz rakhay ameen
Ameen
@kashf kaifi Allah apki mushkilon ko asan karay
One of the best lectures ever!
Thanks a Mill!
Allah bless him and his family 👪 ❤️ jazak Allah khear.
Jazak Allah o khairan kaseera
My proud full class fellow Mr. Honorable Qasim Ali Shah you are absolutely right but unfortunately many people are toxic in a large number... Keep up guiding the people...You are in right direction .
From: Your college class fellow ..
Exit, avoid or have boundaries ( no discussion or personal) keep contact professional and short ( so ignore).
Much needed❤ ustaad jee Allah pak salamat rkhy apko ❤ Ameen
Masha Allah ♡
Jazak Allah soooooo beautiful .Thank you so much .you know everything. Soooooo true .soooooo genius. So wise so intelligent .full of wisdom .Allah bless you .
Jazak Allah kher
Thank u so much for solving a huge problem of my life. JazakAllah
Very well explained
We need this to understand
Your dignose is absolutely right & you gave us good solution jazakAllah
Thank you for great help...this is video helps me alot ...
Very good positive video , I had no idea that why I’m so restless in life then after watching this video , I totally tried to change my relationship and now I’m at peace . At least I now know what was the problem of my life
Salute u sir
True very very true
Stay blessed always
I'm toxic and I wanna improve my lifestyle. 🙂 May Allah SWT help me with my weaknesses.
Get therapy..
@@mumin1115 Following youth club n it helped alot.
Haroon listen ..remember when prophet Muhammad S.A.W came then it was toxic ppl everywhere..what happened..how those same jaahil change..prophet Muhammad S.A.W didn't do anything..He only convey the massage i.e QURAN .CHANGE came when those Arab did some inner work..No youth club can change you..YOU WILL HAVE TO DO LOTS AND LOTS OF WORK WITHIN..it's the crap that stems from yours childhood..you are suffering from narcissistic personality disorder aka toxicity..it's hard to change..no narcissist ever changed..if they decided to change then change happens..but narcissists never want to change..
It's urs JOURNEY ..and you have to cover it on yours own..look u will decide in this life about yours next life if HELL OR HEAVEN..
@@Haroonjayy if you afford it then go for consultation..find some counsellor who specialises in NARCISSISM..the normal psychiatrist or therapist can't help you..it's only who has specialises in this branch..
@@mumin1115 thankyou for your kind suggestion
I don't have time for getting proper consultation but I started Qur'an with tafseer Alhamdulilah. Trying to become a better human and a better Muslim
BEST speaker in Pakistan.MashaAllah sha G
Boht aala. Jazak Allah
Allah ap ko boht jaza e khair day ameen
"Wakhta paya hoya aye saraya nooo tay sensitive aey"
This is the core line of Yours Sir G.
In my opinion .
Thanks Sir.
ALLAH paak Aap par khaas fazal farmaein, Aameenn.
Jazakallah khair ❤️
Mashalah Allah ne ap ki bato me itni taseer rakhi hy k jab b suny aysy hi lg3rda hy k muj sr bat ker rhy hy mery problems ko solve ker rhy hy ap Allah or pyary nbi ka ziker kerty hy isi liy ap ki bato me aser hy
Behtreen Sir Alla in the end this is last n best soloution from Muslims specially Shukria Jazak ALLAH khair Sir stay blessed AAMEEN
JazakAllah Khair 💕
Ma sha Allah 👏
جزاک اللہ خیر 🌹🌹🌹اللہ تعالی 🌹🌹🌹آپ کو سلامت رکھے امین امین یا رب العالمين 🤲
Well done 👍 sir I need this counseling in both way’s I can say only JazakaAllah
Sir aksar life me hum toxic ho jaty hen doosron ki negativity absorb kr kr k
Great sir 👍 Allah apsy Razi ho.ameen
Thank you sooo muchhhhhh for all your videos it helps me soo muchh ❤️❤️❤️ ... while listening to it i was thinking it could be someone around me but then i realized it could be myself being toxic as you mentioned all those signs.. Also thank you soo much for the AYAT E KARIMA treatment
MashAllah 👍 Kamal ka lecture he Sir zabardast or funny bi bht ta bht enjoy bi kia ❤️👍😀
God bless you sir.excellent
Sir g koi ilfaaz nahi hen mere pass how correct u r...1000% true sir g...
Qasim Sir Masha Allah bohat Achi vedio thi.
Jazakallahu khairan sir
Deep penetration to subject
Dil se salaam sir......
یا اللہ ہم سب کی مشکلات آسان فرمائیں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین
Aameen
i agree with all your points. perfectly examined by you
بہت اعلیٰ بہت خوب جناب !
اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آ پ سے خوش ہو ! آ مین ۔
Mind blowing lecture..helpd m alot
Thank you Sir for discussing this topic
Love you Soo much Sir 💗💗
Qasim sahib I have learn lot of things from you alhumdulillah. At your stage being a mentor more laughing is not expressing
Respected Sir you are great or Allaha ki khas rehmat hay aap par,,may Allaha bless you always.
Bht he fruitful video khuda apka hr naik tamana pori hu
One of the Best lectures 👍👍👍
Awsome !!! MashaAllah Allah aap ko jaza day you are spreading so much wisdom to the masses. Allah aap ko salamat rakhay. Aameen !! Qasim bhai main aap ka bohat bara fan huun.
Aoa sir .
Allah pak apko bohhht taraqqi dy . dil happy hogya ap ka ye lecture sun kr .
Thank you for highlighting this important topic 👍
Avoidance is the best option 😊
Aslamoalekum
Ese logon ka elaj bta dein pleez ???
Elaj btaein ese logon ka ??
JazakAllah
پیارے محترم قاسم علی شاہ
پاک أستاذ کریم
أللہ کریم 🌷 آپ کو شاندار دائمی جزاء سے نوازے
إلہی آمین
بےحد کارآمد پروگرام
بےحد شکریہ 🙂 سر جی ♥️
Ap ny dil halka kr dia l have suffered with that people but Alhamdulillah ab mey ny inko life sy nikal dia
Wah wah wah..........
Nice msg to people jazak Allah
Very good Sir,
Buhut Ala .. Briefinhg di hai toxic person per .. Exactly aise hi hotey hain....
جزاک اللہ خیر قاسم سر۔ گھر میں اسکا بہت پروبلم ہے۔ اللہ مجھے بھی اس سے حفاظت فرمائے۔
یا قوی یا عزیز کا ورد کرین ۔ایسے لوگون کے سامنے ۔ اور پھر یہ پڑھو اللهم انا نجعلك فى نحورهم ونعوذبك من شرورهم اور پھر یہ پرھتے جاو یا رافع یا رافع 100 بار پھر یہ بھی یا سلام 133 بار موقع کے حساب سے ان سب کا علاج حفاظت کی دعائین ہین اوراد وظائف کی صحيح عقيده والا عالم کا لکھا ہوا لے کر پڑھو مناجات مقبول مین سب ۔کچھ ہے ڈاون لوڈ کرین یا خرید لے ۔ بہت اسانی ہے اج کل
I cherished your work
JAZAKALLA
Zazakallah qasim bhai
Zabardast MashaAllah......
Aoa،mashallah Allah pak apko trki dy Apka lecture son kr boring nhi hoti blky mza ata h keyon k apki mesaly hsany wali hoti hy Jo AP msal dety Hy osy bat bohat jldi smaj mean ajati Hy mery kheyal mean AP ek molvi Sy ziyada gahri bat krty Hy Jo sidi Dil mean or jati h Allah oak sehat wali zendagi dy ameeeeeen
Sare signs ap ne bilkul thik btaey hn100%
Qasim bhai, ap ne bohat acha topic select kia hy. Is topic ke bary mein karna bohat zaror tha.
Write write write aap bilkul thik keh rahay hain jazakALLAH for the explain
Thank you very much g, ghar main free lecture mil raha hai. ♡ Alhamdulillah.
Too good 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
God bless you and your family
Great sir, its unbelievable ...... great work
Wery bohat khubsorat video
Narsist personality disorder traits well narrated by Qasim sir.👏👏👍
Yes exactly
Qasim Sir, this lecture is very informative.
Thank u so much
Giving us this beautiful information
Again Thank i Sir
Sir bilkul thek kha apne ..mere Zindagi mein aisa he insan hi .. jis ne Meri energy chos li hi
Me also100%
MashaAllah
Very very true
100% durust Sir
Aisa lga jesey ap ne Meri aap beti suna di ho. Men ne ye sb baten khud bardasht ki hen us waqt samajh b nahi thi.. Boht suffer Kiya, now I simply avoid n ignore. There's no other way out.
wah, kia zabardast batain ki hain,
May Allah protect us from these types of negative toxic people aamin aamin aamin