How to react when someone insults you urdu | Dealing with rude people | Personality development Tips
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In our life we have to face rude people, who insults us. We cannot hide from them, they are every where. We will met them now or then and they will try to insult us. In this video we are going to discuss how to deal with insults and how we can respond to them. An insult is nothing but when someone speaks to you or treats you with disrespect. Have you ever been at the receiving end of an insult? That’s not a very pleasant thing, is it? Well, what do you do when you are insulted? Do you insult the person straight back? Or do you break down and cry? Or do you simply leave the place and avoid the person who has insulted you altogether?
Keep Calm
Well, now we’re going to talk about, what you can actually do or how you can actually respond to insults. Now responding to an insult is much better than reacting to it. So the first thing you’ve got to remember when you are faced with an insult is to stay calm. Now as we’ve learnt that people who insult are people who are probably insecure. They love to control. They are very controlling people, right? So they want to ensure that you get angry or you just maybe break down and cry but you are not going to give them, the satisfaction of that kind of reaction, right? So, before you even respond to what they have to say, ensure that you take several deep breaths, stay calm so that you are composed enough to give a very effective reply to what they have to say.
Use Of Humour
Another very interesting way of responding to an insult is by using humour. You’re right; humour is probably the best defense mechanism when you have to attack an insult. Now how do you do this? Now when someone’s making a joke at you, you can try using that person’s joke and using that joke, you actually put the joke back at them. But of course, you’ve got to do it in a very nice light-hearted way which ensures that they don’t feel offended and at the same time it makes the atmosphere very easy and not so very tense. So you’ve got ensure that when you’re actually doing that, you’ve got to be very you know natural in tone. You don’t have to raise your voice in order to ensure that they don’t get as offended as you’ve probably gotten when they’ve made the insult of the remark at you.
Ignore the Insults
The third point to note when responding to an insult is to ensure that you ignore the insults completely. Now let me tell you, ignoring an insult is sometimes the wisest and the best thing to do. Why would you ignore an insult and not respond to it? Well, you can ignore an insult simply because you wanna ensure that the person who has insulted you should not feel that they’ve affected you in any way. So when you actually ignore the insult, you’re telling the person that, look I’m not affected by it. Okay now, how would you ignore an insult? You can ignore an insult by changing the topic of conversation and talking about something entirely unrelated or you could just walk away from the place that you are having this conversation with or this person.
Express, How you exactly feel
It is also very important to tell the person who is insulting you, how you exactly feel. Yes, even though you are to stay calm, it is your duty to ensure that the person who is insulting you or mocking you knows what you are going through. So, you can also tell them that if what they’re doing is illegal, it can have unforeseen or unpleasant circumstances for them.
Do Something Good to yourself
Doing good things for yourself will always help you feel good and therefore it is my advice to always indulge in self-care. So if you are being mocked or insulted or spoken rudely to on a continual basis. If you actually do some little good things for yourself, you can feel very good from the inside. It could be anything. You can go for a quiet walk. You could go and get yourself a nice haircut. You could go to the spa; you could just work out if that helps you feel better. Anything in order to ensure that you feel good about yourself. So please, please indulge in self-care because not everyone will make you feel good, you’ve gotta do that for yourself.
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ہم ہر برے انسان کا مقابلہ نہیں کر سکتے اس لیے سب سے بہترین طریقہ صبر ہے صبر کرو خاموش رہو اور ایسے لوگوں سے دور رہو
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میرے ساتھ بھی ایسا معاملہ ہے میرے دفتر میں ایک کولیگ کسی طرح بہانے سے میرے ساتھ مستیاں کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہے اور جب اسکو آگے سے منع کرو تو بدمعاشی غصّہ اور بےعزتی کرنے پر اتر آتا ہے۔۔۔ایسے لوگوں کا حساب التا چور توال کو ڈانٹے جیسا ہے
me hmasha khamosh ho jti hun bhot gussa ata hai bhot ro lyti hun lkin phr thori dar bad bhol jtii maf kar ka dill sa nikal dytii hun
سُبحَانَ اللّهِ وَ بِحَمْدِهِ ، سُبحَانَ اللّهِ الْعَظِيمِ
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Alhamdulillah, such thing already is there in my personality, that's why I am surviving in joint family
Me also
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Same here.
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Pehli baat
" kisi ko itna free hi na kro ke woh apki insult kr ske..
Dosri baat
Khamosh rho.. Khamoshi mein nijat hai.
Hazrat Ali ne frmaya tha ke jab insan ki aqal mukamal hojati hai to uski guftago mukhtasir hojati hai..
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@@krizalidmugen2987 hum tw srf Allah se darte Hain or agye wala hmre izzat UTR deta hai Allah k bande kse ko tklf tw nhi daite na....or hmre sath koi bht Bura kre or chup bhi wohe Beth jye tb hum kya kre apna faisla tw hum Allah pr Chor daite hain
@@mehwishkhankhan6025 mola Ali ka frman hai " logo se un ki aqal ke mutabiq baat kro"..
@@krizalidmugen2987 g bilkul mere haq mein dua kijiye ga ..bht preshn hn mein nmz bhi prhti hn koi rasta nhi deikhta mere ansoun nhi rukte logon k lehje se bht tklf Hoti hai
آپ نے جو طریقہ بتایا ۔۔۔۔
کمال کر دیا۔۔۔۔۔ ما شاءاللہ
Bohat achy
ABU AHMAD Nyc
Acha hy
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جزاک اللہ.. یقیناً یہ اسلامی تعلیمات ہیں
الحديث
من صمت نجاہ
جو چپ رہا وہ محفوظ رہا
Hadees nahi hai.. Aqwale zareen hai..
Jisne khamosh raha wo nijaat paai
کچھ لوگ اپنی اکڑ اور زبان کے غلط استعمال کی وجہ سے اپنی زندگی میں موجود قیمتی رشتے بغیر سوچےسمجھے کھو دیتے ہیں.
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اللہ اپ کو خوش رکھے ہمارا چینل بھی سبسکرائب کر دیں 🍁👍🎭🍁👍🎭
mojooda dor main rishtay bachana na mumkinaat main say hai
صحیح ۔
U r right dear
آپ کی وڈیو بھت اچھی لگی ھے سب سے بہترین طریقہ دل میں لا حولاولاقوتہ اللہ بااللہ کی پوری آئت پڑھ لینا ھے اس سے تو روح کو ٹھنڈ پڑ جاتی ھے سکون آجاتا ھے
G wao
جزاک اللہ
MASA-ALLAH
G Bilkul sister
Hy
کیا آج آپ نے درود پاک پڑھا
صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم
پورا پڑھیں... شکریہ
boht achi larki ho
i love you
اسلامی تعلیمات انسانی زندگی کے لئے بہترین فارمولا ہے. عفو و درگذر کرنے والا کامیاب انسان ہوتا ہے.
آپ کا بہت بہت شکریہ جناب صاحب 🤲 اپ کو لمبی عمر عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین 🤲
Plz pray for me Allah Meri mushkil asan krdy ameen kehden
Ameen
Amen
Ameen sum Ameen
Same har
Sameer Sameer as
AAP Ki video dekhnay K bad mujhay apnay andr change feel ho raha
JazakAllah bhai
Allah Pak AAP ko Khush rakhay
Such ma
Buhut achi Lagi yeh video kuch acha sehkny ok melta hey buhut acha lagta hey. Allahhafiz
Khamoshi ka adab kro
Yeh awazo ki murshid hai♡♡♡
میرے ساتھ بھی ایسا معاملہ ہے میرے دفتر میں ایک کولیگ کسی طرح بہانے سے میرے ساتھ مستیاں کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہے اور جب اسکو آگے سے سمجھاؤ تو اوپر سے سینہ زوری کرتا ہے اپنی غلطی کو پس پردہ ڈال کر مجھے کہتا ہے کہ تم غلط ہوں میں کافی حد تک اسکی حرکتوں کو برداشت کرتا رہا اور خاموش بھی رہا پر وہ باز نہیں آتا اب مجھے سمجھ نہیں آرہی کہ اس کمینے اور بےغیرت کو کیسے قابو کروں کوئی مجھے بتا دے
Super video
بلکل صحیح ۔!!
میں ایسا ہی کرتا ہوں سامنے والے بندے کو ہنسی میں جواب دیتا ہوں تو اسے اور تکلیف ہوتی ہے 😉
Me too!!! Lol
Me bhi esa krna chate hu per boht ghussa ajata h
@@yummyfoodrecipes6395 اگر آپ غصہ کریں گی تو وہ اسی بات سے خوش ہوگا اس لیے اگنور کردیا کریں ۔اس سے سامنے والا بندہ اپنی بات پر خود پشیماں ہوگا
Just like my inlws bt mjhy ye trik nhi ati mjhy gsa a jata hy me react kru ya na
I am supervisor main bi asy hi krta hon
Allah hm sbki mushkil asan frmaye
Ameen
Ameen 😭
Mash Allah ❤️so nice vedio 👍❤️
Yupp ...ignore Krna is the best way hai... Koi reply e na Karo 😂😂 agla bnda khud e sar sarrr K Mar Jay gay 🌺😅😅
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Aisa krny sy maza aata hy
hahaaha shayed ap boys ki company say wakf ni boys 3 4 hath agy hoty hian agr ap un ki kisi bt a jawaab ni dyty time py 6 nahi maty tou wo apko agr tou koi sahi makkar ya kamina lrka ya lark hui to wo ap ko next time 4 bndoun k beach m ap ko tease krny ki kohish kry ga woo laazm asi koi na koi bt kry ga jis py ap bolny py majboorr ho jao gay k yaar ab tou jawaab dyna bnta ha agr ap gussa ho jao tb bhi ap week ap ignoure kro tb bhi ap week bhter ha phli frust m bri achi tone m thook kr jawaab dy do mgr gussy say nahi acha boudry wala ap 6 maro gay tou ussi k khmayati ussi ki byzati krry gy
Ignorence is the best policy
کچھ بھی مت کرو۔۔۔۔
خاموشی،صبر،لا تعلقی بہترین انتقام ہیں۔۔۔
Right
Sabar kar kar k kuch nahi hota agla banda or dheet hojata he,, kuch to reply karna parega na... Na karo to gunahgar
Very true..
Right........
❤️
Beshak wesay sabr karna chahyeh😍 allah ka rasta
Amazing video😍 and thankyousomuch bhaijan😌 now I'm feeling way more relaxed🤗
Excellent tips for personality development.
Ignorance is best nd silent is the best answer of insult nd every question So do ignore ✌✌
MusiC QueeN RidZz right
Bilkul Theak kaha app na🙋🙋🆗
Wha
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Bht bht bht bht shukria sir you are great person thank u again .... Mjhy bht faida hua ha apki is nasehato sy ❤️❤️❤️❤️Allah pak apko khush rakhy Ameen
Hamare piyare Muhammad S.A.W ne logo se batt karne or insult karne wslo ke ache tareqe batae hii
Guys mark my words hum jin logon ko zyada izzat daitay hain wohi baad main kisi na kisi moqay per humain insult karnay ki koshish kartay hain.....
Bhot sahi kaha hum jis ko zyada izzat dete he wohi hum ko hhar me maa bhen ki gaaliya dekar baate suna kar jaate he logovko aaj izzat hazam nahichoti
Your tight
200% right
Exactly
💯 right
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Haris khan Fit hai
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It's very interesting and useful for me,I really really like it,it's a natural thing which we ignore many times and give a chance to insulter to get win ourself,now I will do in a different way and practice it ,thanks ,God bless you forever ,ameen,
"Logon itna sur pe mat charhao ke voh aap ki insult karen"
I agreed
✌️✌️✌️
right
This is very helpful video dealing with insulting attitude. Thank you so much sharing this video
G ne ka hosla practical life face krnay ki guide line mili allah paak ap ki mushqilat b asan farmay.
Bohat achi baat hay aur bhi aasi video bhejay gaa👍👍
اگر مسکرا دو گے تو اس کو اور مرچ لگے گی اتنے میں 1 پپو پوائنٹ اس کہ ساتھ جوڑ دو ۔۔۔😍😘
Good
Zabardast 🤗 nice
Lull point
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Papo point??
App bahoot achi trikh logo KO samjathy hai itminan sy nice video
Alhamdulillah
Sunnat.e.nabwi par bhi amal ho jay ga
زبردست ویڈیو ہے
3 din pahlay ik bandya nay mari insulat ki mara client hai woh agar main baat start kar dyta tu bhat masla bhar jana tha. Ap ki video dekhnay s pahlay main nay ignore wala tareeqa use kiya ab reserve rahta hai uos s zayda aana jata baat cheet nai bus salam dua. Ap ki video dekh kar kahfi knowledge milla thx for helping me keep it up.
"Silence is the best reply to a fool "
bywakuuf k liay brother bygart k liay nahi remember fool aur bygart m frk hota
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i agree
میرے ساتھ بھی ایسا معاملہ ہے میرے دفتر میں ایک کولیگ کسی طرح بہانے سے میرے ساتھ مستیاں کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہے اور جب اسکو آگے سے سمجھاؤ تو اوپر سے سینہ زوری کرتا ہے اپنی غلطی کو پس پردہ ڈال کر مجھے کہتا ہے کہ تم غلط ہوں میں کافی حد تک اسکی حرکتوں کو برداشت کرتا رہا اور خاموش بھی رہا پر وہ باز نہیں آتا اب مجھے سمجھ نہیں آرہی کہ اس کمینے اور بےغیرت کو کیسے قابو کروں کوئی مجھے بتا دے
Ek chup sau sukh
Ye sari a6i Qualities muj me hei Alhamdulillah 💯🙈😜😂
Beautiful advice thank you n god bless you
Be grateful to God that He saved you to insult others.
Thanks Allah for your kindness and blessings.
@@LearnKuroojiجیلس لوگوں. سے کیسے بچیں.... کیسے پتہ چلے کہ یہ حاسد ھیں... اس پہ ویڈیو بنائیں
Very useful lecture...Guidance .........Excellent...Thank you sir..Faqir Hussain
very good knowledge, thank you.
Really you are master, good knowledge.
Aaj kal ke log toh rukte hi nahi maghar aap ki video bohat zaroorat mand hai. Shukria bhai!😁
You are the best Person 👍👍
It was really nice video,we have to follow the steps you've given to us
Zabrdast I will do this In Shaa Allah always
Great video, well explained.
Sir apki video bht zabardast h jis men waqeyi seekhney ko bht kuch mila, 👍🌹
Zabardast and helpful vlog
Really amazing.... Thanks for uploading such a great video 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Bhai g ap ki vedio kml h meta to bohat fayda howa sir thanks
Agree,Sensable husband and wife keep politely behaving and Keeping themself busy but l Believe insult bhi Dono pe Jayegi
Best advices ever!!!
A one 👍amazing butifull
Must sir this important topic for me thanks alot bro keep it
You solved my biggest problem thanks 👍
😱😲
Really
Bht bht achy lage video
Thanks for making so good such a motivational video
This video helped a lot I always got angry when someone bad mouthed me but after watching this I got calm and gave my bully such a response that he never bullied me again and we became really good friends and I told him that bullying is not worth and he should perform positive things to make someone happy
very well explaind thanks for the video :)
bohat bohat fantastic vidio
Behtareen Janab
Best way ignores n smile😊✌. .... ye samne wale ko bht kuch fel krwa dete hn...... k ary saro peplz to m hn is pe to asar hi ni. . Lok ksi k kuch kehne sunne s hmne wesa bn thori jana. If hm b insult krden ge to us m n hm m koi frk ni bchna....... so don't worry n ignore these peplz. .. be happy n keep smiling. ... 😊😊
Nice @Noor khan
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@@tauqeerkhan2040 ☺ m gd u
Vry nyce...Apki video Infrmtc hti h👍 aur ach andaz mn smjhany wli b
Bht zabardast vedio thi
1:: workout for 30 min..then
2::watch an action movie
3::break that person jaws✌️✌️
I did the same in my school
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what?
Thank you for your lesson about insult and how to deal with people who insult you nice video
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Video dekh k LAGA m sooooooooope handle krti hn.good ap ne boht se logon ki help ki.jzakAllah
Bohat he accha video
Plz pray for me i am in trouble 😞
nice guid line for me its was so helpfull
nd still helps me to deal my problms thnk u sir
U r great I'll keep these points in my mind at such time when I will feel I'm being insulted
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Yes
Bouhat khoob 👍👍👍👍👍
ALLAH apko kamyabi or khushiyaan dy💋❤ Good work keep it up❤
Aliza Khan how are you
Nice sir now I am change my thinking this way
Tnx video bahot achii ti👍
Thanks achi lagi apki vedio .
Video starts @1:29 your welcome.
Nice video brother.. thanks... keep doing this good work.. May Allah pak give you jaza
Ameen. May Allah bless me and all on this earth.
ماشااللہ سر
بہت اچھی بات ہے آپ کی ❤
MashAllah great!
Ya allah sameer hassan misger ko shifa ata farma AMEEN ya allah
Very Excellent, I face (some time) this situation in my office, I need good and useful Tips same this Our successful Life for Everyone. Thanks very nice.
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MashAllah MashAllah I love you Allah ur greatest and powerful thank you so much brother ur very very nice explained
Zabardast 👌👍
vYour voice is very bettter to show exact response👍🏻
Love Your Content You Inspired Me To Start my Own Channel
I find it very useful & helpful for me .
Zabardast video
Thanks
the best one is
if someone insult you just smile and go away
Ur voice kammaaalll.... ❤️❤️❤️
Achi lagi hy good
خاموشی بہترین بدلہ ہے