Dreaming of The Dead: What Does It Mean?

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  • @kenmayfield3109
    @kenmayfield3109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love this channel.. Thanks for all that you do. This episode really touched me. My wife and I had been married for 37 years when she passed of a chronic illness. That was 3 years ago. I was devastated. Then, I had a grief dream about her about 1-1/2 years after her death and it changed my life in a positive way. She was healthy and happy. I felt like she had come to me in that dream to let me know that everything would be alright and that I needed to get on with my life. ❤ Thanks again for this wonderful episode

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your grief dream about her!! that is amazing...I think the more we share, the more we know and grow and it helps us all to heal and be comforted in times of grief. Thank you so much.

  • @ppod5204
    @ppod5204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I used to wish that my family and friends who died would visit me in my dreams, but they wouldn't appear. But when I don't actively ask them to visit, they sometimes show up, usually in very realistic dreams, the kind that wake me up. Mostly, my dogs come to visit me. I'm always touched and grateful. Even if this is just a trick of my memory, some kind of wishful thinking that builds from an actual event, I'm grateful. These "visits" give me hope. Thank you for talking about this.

  • @charlenemonique1
    @charlenemonique1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In 1981 when I was 17 yrs old, my 21 yr old uncle had suddenly passed away on New Year’s Day. He came to me in a dream like no other dream I’ve ever had until that point - there was a realness to it. My uncle said to me that he was ok and to tell my Grandma to not worry about him. I did not tell my Grandmother or anyone else because I thought it was just a dream even though it was different than any other dreams I’d ever had. I had a similar dream not long after and this time my uncle said to me, “ I thought I asked you to tell Grandma I’m ok and n me?”. It wasn’t until after my mother told me that my uncle had told her in a dream to “tell Grandma to stop crying,I’m ok” that I finally shared my uncle’s messages with my Grandma. My Grandmother strong faith in God - even through her grief but I did not know that she worried about my uncle possibly not being able to make his peace with God before he was killed
    and she was really worried about that and now she had some peace. That was about 43 yrs ago and I have not had any dreams concerning my uncle since then.

  • @Not_A_Tourist
    @Not_A_Tourist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My wife passed away four years ago. She is in my dreams almost night. Many times in the dreams I am surprised to see her because I know that we had the funeral already, but then I rationalize that the funeral itself must have just been a dream. Then I am just happy that she is still with me even though she's usually still sick in the dreams. Then I fawn all over her and try to comfort her like I did for her last few years on this Earth.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for sharing this beautiful story. i am so so sorry to hear of your loss. may she continue to appear in your dreams.

  • @joyspawworld
    @joyspawworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is a very interesting topic. My husband died over 5 mos. ago and until now I still yet have no dreams of him. Before he died, I was able to say goodbye and told him how much I love him and if he has to go,, I told him not to worry I will be fine. and he died peacefully at home but I told him to let me know in my dreams that he is okay, but until now I have no dreams. Before I go to bed, I always pray for his soul and I always think about him but no dreams at all. I guess I have to assume that everything is fine with his soul. I was really sad for about 4 mos. , but I realized that I have to move on and try to be happy again. Each day, is getting much better in handling my grief but it's not that easy to navigate life without him. I try to be a happy widow.

    • @kenmayfield3109
      @kenmayfield3109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This episode really touched me. My wife and I had been married for 37 years when she finally passed from a chronic disease. That was 3 years ago. I was devastated. Then, I had a grief dream about her about 1-1/2 years after her death and it changed my life in a positive way. I felt like she had come to me in that dream to tell me that everything would be alright and that I needed to move on with my life. It was a blessing.. Thank you for this episode.

    • @joyspawworld
      @joyspawworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kenmayfield3109 so interesting that you had dreams of your wife 1 1/2 yrs. later.

    • @jeffremas9180
      @jeffremas9180 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I pray God give us the strength to get on, losing someone you love genuinely can change your whole life forever.

    • @kimsyracuse4031
      @kimsyracuse4031 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you at least expect it he will come in a dream give it time for it dearly so much because they have to go through their review life up in heaven , june of 2019 I move into apt building that along time ago I help person move into and then she moved to Marietta ga didn't live their so I use to stay their I was on 6floor my daughter stay with me and then I was sleeping in my a sound sleep and I heard something In the Apt and I thought no hearing things then I fallen back to sleep and I heard voices of my sister and voice of my husband saying who she sleeping with now sister said I don't know who it is go see maybe it's Sarah and she said well if you're don't go see who it is then I will not I heard that she said its Sarah I told you it Sarah then I woke up 😂😭 and I couldn't go back to sleep so I turned on my television and I turned around get cigarettes and sat down I saw the picture of my friend in my television I shut the television off ran into the bedroom and I woke my daughter up jumping onto the bed I don't know if my husband was asking about our friends or what it really scared me

    • @KimMala-xk4ll
      @KimMala-xk4ll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He probably has come but most people don't remember their dreams. Keep faith, he'll get the message to you! ❤

  • @KimMala-xk4ll
    @KimMala-xk4ll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a few visits from my brother, they lasted quite a few minutes, they were amazing, in one, he took me for a walk and as we were walking along the beach with waves crashing and talking, the next second we were on a snowy mountaintop, a few steps later we were in a flower filled field! It was like the top of the world and you can kind of see all of these seasons/scenery from one spot! The only downside of the visits was having to say goodbye and not knowing if this one was the final goodbye 😢
    Eventually (after our 3rd visit) he told me this was it and he couldn't come hang out anymore because it was too emotionally draining on both of us thanks to my freaking out and losing it when it was time for him to go. To me, at the time I guess it was like losing him again each time (this just made me cry almost like in the dreams, it's intense and the feelings were all more than real!)
    He did give me a chance to see if I could continue in a healthier way and calmly and acceptingly say goodbye but I blew it lol. I would literally beg and basically dragging by his ankles as he walked away (not something I'm proud of but obviously you'd do anything to prevent letting go of someone you love)
    He jokingly told me I'll miss him a lot, lot more than he'll miss me and explained that 10yrs on Earth is like 1 minute in heaven.
    There was something about a 2yr window he mentioned but i was in the middle of begging him not to go. (I wish I could have stayed cool to keep the visits coming!)

  • @barbarawarren9443
    @barbarawarren9443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Thank you for your connection to all of Life and being "real."

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much. i really appreciate your kind words!

  • @KimMala-xk4ll
    @KimMala-xk4ll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The unmistakable difference between visit dreams and regular is that your conscience and emotions are present in visit dreams and you have control in them! ❤

  • @juniperbanerjee5755
    @juniperbanerjee5755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom also had Parkinson's n then she had ovarian cancer. It was terrible suffering. Lots of hugs n love to you for opening up. I too have seen her in my dreams and it's been 5 years but it's a huge void.

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for sharing. Happy to hear you see your mom in your dreams. A huge void indeed... hugs from New York!

  • @PD-se5pd
    @PD-se5pd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing this. I had a dream about my dad 5 mo after he died. I knew in the dream he had passed. I said the same thing as the guest. I said i miss you and i love you. My dad repeated it back and i woke up. Thank you for confirmation

  • @l.ameenaa4669
    @l.ameenaa4669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a great topic Risa ! I used to fear about dreaming of the dead but now I embrace it. Thank you for this.
    We love your channel.. and we love you.. 💛 !! Sending hugs 🤗

    • @barbarawarren9443
      @barbarawarren9443 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you!! sending hugs back to you too!! Glad to hear you have overcome this fear ~ these visitation dreams can be quite cathartic and comforting.

  • @meganmangold1074
    @meganmangold1074 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My daughter was one when my father passed. In my dream i was taking a test and i had her with me. He came up to my desk and pucked her up and i said please dont take her. He said dont worry i will always babysit and watch over her. He brought her back after my test .

  • @jay5474
    @jay5474 ปีที่แล้ว

    If u are vibrating at a lower frequency cause of selfishness,hatred ,greed,worldly pleasures, it's hard
    for u to experience the spiritual side of life.
    We come to this world with nothing and leave it with nothing, so u dont need to boost ur ego or prove to others that u are something .Let it go.
    Empathy is the key to ur true happiness .
    If ur loved ones come in ur dream and they look happy and healthy, its a validation that they are ok on the other side and to move forward.
    Love is the strongest medicine as u can c in the background of the video.

  • @ModernAging
    @ModernAging  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Have you ever had a grief dream? Share below... I would love to hear about it!

    • @basicPROcreator
      @basicPROcreator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dream of a house full of men killing each other. They are two groups one of them is my friend. When we are about to leave we just stepped them over. And when I asked my friend if I will call the police, he stopped me. And there's a part of that dream That we ride of a jeep, and the jeep was moved backward.

    • @determined1TV
      @determined1TV ปีที่แล้ว

      The last three to four nights, I've dreamed only of the deceased people in my life. I was actually speaking with them. I could hear their voices. For example, my father and my ex husband, and my mother and one of my childhood friends all died unexpectedly . All of them looked great and my ex husband was showing me so much love and comfort in the dreams. He has been in my dreams every night. It was very real. I'm not thinking I'm going to die or anything because of these dreams. It's just been interesting to hear, see, and feel actual love and comfort from him. More than what I felt when we were together on earth. Perhaps, he never knew how to express himself when he was here. When I saw my friend in the dream, I actually told him in my dreams, I thought you were dead and he was like where would you get that from? Girl, no, I'm good. But when I woke up, I couldn't believe that he actually was dead in my waking life and was so alive in my dreams. But it doesn't make me sad that he's not here because I know I talked to him and he must be alive in another dimension or something. Thanks for sharing such a mysterious, life changing topic.

  • @gaurav41194
    @gaurav41194 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is very touching video. I completely agree with you on this topic.

  • @lenspencer1765
    @lenspencer1765 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My dream touched me but I didn't no they had died til 1 week after dream

  • @TAMMYGIRL0125
    @TAMMYGIRL0125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just had a experience with my dead mom this morning it was real omg

  • @bevs707
    @bevs707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just texted my cousin whom I'm very close to that I'd dreamed of her parents and other family members who have passed. Two passed more recently. She called me immediately to let me know that she'd dreamt about some of the same deceased family members and she has never dreamt about her parents before. We live on opposite sides of the world and our dreams were like 10 hours apart. We believe it was a visitation dream and both of us had a sense of familial closeness in the dream and she was very comforted after her dream. Coincidence or not that ours dreams were similar to an extent and less than a day after each other?

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that's amazing! sounds like a visitation dream to me! Glad you got to share that with your cousin.

  • @virginiabotha3545
    @virginiabotha3545 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot tell you how many dreams I have had of my late mom. So what does it mean?

  • @RoloJE1
    @RoloJE1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks, this really helps...❤

  • @kimsyracuse4031
    @kimsyracuse4031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After my dad die I couldn't cry and in August 222022 I just started talking to my to my daughter about my Mom and dad for so reason don't know but my Mom and dad came to me in dream and said we are coming to take you're brother John he is really sick and I woke up in tears ,and my son die And I move to Marietta ga and live with a person I woke up in tears 😭 she asked why you're crying I said my son said god told you to come see if you are ok and to tell you that he sorry for what I don't know dearly why

    • @ModernAging
      @ModernAging  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i'm so so sorry for your loss. There is nothing comparable to losing a loved one...

  • @ReginaKadzunge-jh3su
    @ReginaKadzunge-jh3su ปีที่แล้ว

    I dream sleeping with my dead brother