In today’s world, where people are more into giving a speech on how to be physically alluring, you are teaching us exactly how to be mentally attractive. We are grateful for having you as a mentor💞
@@MARIARODRIGUEZ-xb5cb there is nothing wrong in teaching other but many many female influencers focus solely on looks just looks as if it is the only thing that matters . Only what dress to wear what hairstyle . It kind of gets monotonous even and we low maintenance ppl eventually loose interest.
In today's world where people try run before mastering crawling, and attempt to talk about an aspect of jogging they most likely recently tried with high sentiment yet bring up pretty much the same thing from another creator and criticize the length of it. People put in effort in what they do (content creation and people who take interest in things or from work) and people who compare or criticize things over value their intelligence and understanding of their job, let alone reality, there's a big difference with paper and reality and fail to see that what they're thinking is through their own perspective not the person they're criticizing. Those with limits of things that are so close yet far apart because of limits, are the worst to work with, over reliance on paperwork, over reliance on safety rules and trade standards/guidelines, and also narrow mindset. Opinions similar to yours that speak of the same thing, or others who straight criticize other peoples jobs, not them and never constructive criticism. If you focus on you, and on what matters, attractiveness comes with progress, it's a character/personality thing that comes with personal work and life experience. Nothing good comes from making oneself attractive for other people, accept the same people. If you find yourself through doing life, hobbies and personal development, no doubt, you'll find yourself attractive in your own way, that none of these would matter. You know you, and you'll know what you want.
Here's my second attractive list: 1. Kindness 2. Sense of humour 3. Empathy 4. Body language (eye contact, genuine smile, occassionally touchy, leaning in a bit when we're interacting) 5. Relatability (this one actually tops the charts) I never heard of the term reciprocal liking before, until now, even though I've felt it a number of times before. So, thank you, Lana.
Sense of humor is a very specific thing (it's different for different people), so when there's shared banter and laughter, IT IS IRRESISTIBLE. Stephen Hawking (famous physicist): even though he was stuck in a wheelchair for many years and could only talk thru a machine, still had women marrying him because he had a legit sense of humor. Back in the day when Cher and Val Kilmer first met in a group setting, the reason they became fast friends was because they laughed at the same things. Previous CNN host Larry King would be the first to admit that he's not that attractive, but he knew his sense of humor was formidably appealing.
Can’t believe I’ve been watching you for almost 3 years! The first video I watched of yours is the one where you explained how you stopped being judgemental. In fact, I’m pretty certain your video began my self-development journey. Thank you for being around. I love you ❤
00:28 😊 Optimism attracts, negativity repels. Positive outlook on life is attractive. 02:13 💑 Reciprocal liking is a concept where knowing someone is attracted to you makes you more likely to like them. 03:40 👁️ Nonverbal cues like eye contact can enhance attraction and connection with others. 04:57 😄 People with a positive "affective presence" who make others feel good tend to have more friends and romantic interests. 06:53 🤝 Being understood and sharing personal experiences can strengthen connections and attraction in relationships.
i haven’t seen anyone with a more pure soul on youtube. you can tell she is the type of person that corrects her mistakes, gives really good hugs, and is so so sweet. you’re amazing Lana!!
I was just trying to relax a little because my period pain was bad but i needed to study. Man this video was so calm and just gave a warm fuzzy feeling. you cured my pain omg
My advice would be: Don’t feed negative thoughts. Learn from mistakes, but don’t beat yourself up over them. Force yourself to see things you can be grateful for. Don’t focus on what you want people to do for you, focus on what you can do to help others. Popularity and attractiveness should be a by-product of your efforts, not the end goal!
This example of optimism is beautiful. Because this kind of optimism is based on accepting what you can't change. Which si one of the best skills I learned in my 20s.
Loved the side-by-side at the start - felt like I was sitting in front of you as you were telling us the story and the imagery helped with that hahaha, but also helps seeing your facial expressions and hand movements etc. rather than just hearing your voice over the B roll
Thank you so much for your videos! I think I just realized what was missing and what I do wrong when I'm dating, because I am usually such an extroverted, uplifting and energized person, but when I'm around the people I'm interested, I get completely quiet and start being and observer only. In addition to making it difficult to talk to them and making me less sympathetic, and I definitely wasn't being myself!
hi i just wanted to say that you're an amazing person and so is your channel. you have been changing my life for the better since the day i saw your first video in 2022. thank you for everything
I struggle with eye contact because I am autistic but I do try to push myself when I can. Positive affective presence is HUGE though, even when I feel super depressed I’m always able to make people laugh and I’ve been told that people felt “energized” or “rejuvenated” by spending time with me. So even if you struggle with part of socializing you can compensate with one of your other strengths!
Great insights Lana! That expression 'inner game' is SO important.. People want to be part of your world when they instinctively know that your world is beautiful by virtue of your outlook. In other words, by being loving to yourself and others around you, you become irresistable ❤
Keep doing lady in today's era it's kind of tough to be a mentor or teacher . I'm myself a tutor ik sometimes it feels but nothing is personal unless we are doing it with all our hearts .
The side to side editing was pretty cool, Lana! BTW, my dog does that too! 😅. Love the positivity in people also. You become the 5 people you hang around with so I totally understand why you wanted to be friends with this woman. Awesome video, Lana!
I loved the side by side shots in the beginning of the video with the playful music in the background, you've been experimenting lately and im enjoying the vision. Fred looks the cutest in snow :)
I’m kinda a “new” follower of your channel (since I’ve followed for around 5 months I guess ?) but I just wanted to thank you for all your videos, they’re so inspiring and full of positivity ! You give the best advices on very different topics Keep going, I think everyone agrees :)
A person who teaches be that being myself is a real gift❤️ Before her I thought that I can’t be here on YT because I am not like usual content creators. But she proved me wrong, with her example🥰
This video just proved to me how important someone's beauty is in a field like content creation. I read the title of this video after clicking on it. Wow you are beautiful.
Absolutely agree, positive people are more attractive than pessimists. Sometimes I ask myself how we like some people and feel comfortable communicating with them, but not others. The answers are in our attitude and thoughts, in the life and principles of our interlocutors, their behavior, our preferences. Sometimes it should be like that, each person comes into the life of another with a certain purpose. And I am grateful for all my people next to me.
Loving the way of telling a story and then talk about the lesson and I can totally relate to the last point. Btw loving your videos since january 2020 and still loving them. Seeing your channel grow so much in this period has given me so much inspiration that no matter what keep your patience, your time will come. Also very happy for you and never stop guiding me like an elder sister ❤❤
I don’t usually leave comments but you need to know how amazing you are and what you’re doing is. There are times, I looked at a channel and thought,”Oh cool, I’ll subscribe to this”. But then there are other times when a channel from just the first video gets to me so much I want to like the video, subscribe, and then find a like the channel button and click on that. I’ve thought of what else I could click or what other button I could hit to let TH-cam know I’m in love with this!!!! And I’m only 5 minutes in😍❤️
I pressed on the video to see how be more attractive only to find that, most of the tips are things that I do everything, I struggle a lot with my physical appearance and always think that people only like me for my looks, but not really me, as I used to look really “ugly” but when I changed my aesthetic, did my hair and such, I suddenly made friends. But I don’t think that’s the case, I’ve been making new friends recently, and trying to live in the present, as I zone out a lot and think of things like my insecurities, and well it made me closer to them, I got to learn something new about them, and relate to them too. I feel so happy whenever I focus on getting to be close, and genuinely forming a connection without always assuming and thinking that, they only like me for my looks but not who I really am
when I first started watching your channel I was constantly envying you, your mentality and being triggered by everything you were saying because "there's no way I could ever reach such a healthy way of thinking". now, every time I watch your videos I'm like "yessss, I totally agree with everything" and feel like you are literally wording my thoughts. I just noticed this and I am so extremely grateful for finding your channel, you pushed me on my way to becoming who I want to be. thank you🤍
It was a great recommendation from TH-cam to come across. It definitely helped me reconsider the positive affective presence, which you've talked about. I incorporate all the points you mentioned regularly; however, it was a great reminder. Thank you, Lana!
I find myself in those moods as well but trying to be in the moment has been so helpful to me. Like enjoy the pretty of now, the bright yet grey 🩶 colors , how quiet and empty it is outside . The small things 💕 If you're focusing on the now you can't have thoughts about anything else... I learned this in a book, A new earth by Eckhart Tolle. Really recommend it. Always so nice edits Lana , you're awesome ❤️
Thank you so much lana. I am also an infj. And you are the most relatable person I ever came across. It feels so good to listen to someone who has the same kinda thought process! 😊
I haven't watched the video yet, but i already know it's gonna be an amazing one! Thankyou Lana! Thankyou so much for these videos, they calm me down so so much I even write that i am grateful for your videos' in my journal:) you are the best
Lana always know hows to make everyone happy and smile!!! Happy Sunday Lana, good to see you friend!!!! Im excited to watch this, hope you are doing good!!
The last tip resonates with me. I’m a bit of an over-sharer. I feel that I do it as a way to seem interesting because I personally don’t feel interesting and I’m a bit insecure.
Thank you for such a great video! It's my first time at your channel.. and English is not my native language... Sooo I just wanted to mention I love your voice and your speech manner so so much. It's such a pleasure to listen to you, to understand everything and your voice is so calming. Anyways I'm totally in love
Hi besties ❤ Do you like the side-by-side editing in the beginning? Thoughts?
It was fine, Lana 😉
You are amazing! ❤️❤️❤️
yes! even before seeing this pinned question i was gonna comment on that, i really liked it:)
Of course cause this way I can always see your adorable face which honestly makes my day :)
Yess ☺️☺️
I prefer the original. It makes it more like an audiobook and less like a TH-cam video. It's just my taste
In today’s world, where people are more into giving a speech on how to be physically alluring, you are teaching us exactly how to be mentally attractive. We are grateful for having you as a mentor💞
People do both and there is nothing wrong with teaching other what they know so yeah this is a great video.
You should go outside 😡 and touch grass. Do u know what Grass is lil kiddo 😡?
@@MARIARODRIGUEZ-xb5cb there is nothing wrong in teaching other but many many female influencers focus solely on looks just looks as if it is the only thing that matters . Only what dress to wear what hairstyle . It kind of gets monotonous even and we low maintenance ppl eventually loose interest.
Doesn't She looks like fairer version of Ashna Shroff
In today's world where people try run before mastering crawling, and attempt to talk about an aspect of jogging they most likely recently tried with high sentiment yet bring up pretty much the same thing from another creator and criticize the length of it.
People put in effort in what they do (content creation and people who take interest in things or from work) and people who compare or criticize things over value their intelligence and understanding of their job, let alone reality, there's a big difference with paper and reality and fail to see that what they're thinking is through their own perspective not the person they're criticizing.
Those with limits of things that are so close yet far apart because of limits, are the worst to work with, over reliance on paperwork, over reliance on safety rules and trade standards/guidelines, and also narrow mindset. Opinions similar to yours that speak of the same thing, or others who straight criticize other peoples jobs, not them and never constructive criticism.
If you focus on you, and on what matters, attractiveness comes with progress, it's a character/personality thing that comes with personal work and life experience. Nothing good comes from making oneself attractive for other people, accept the same people.
If you find yourself through doing life, hobbies and personal development, no doubt, you'll find yourself attractive in your own way, that none of these would matter. You know you, and you'll know what you want.
Here's my second attractive list:
1. Kindness
2. Sense of humour
3. Empathy
4. Body language (eye contact, genuine smile, occassionally touchy, leaning in a bit when we're interacting)
5. Relatability (this one actually tops the charts)
I never heard of the term reciprocal liking before, until now, even though I've felt it a number of times before. So, thank you, Lana.
@latino1 if those are the kind of people you are attracted to, allow me to respectfully say you have a problem.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 don't mind them they're trolling
@@Ariadne4 as usual.
Sense of humor is a very specific thing (it's different for different people), so when there's shared banter and laughter, IT IS IRRESISTIBLE.
Stephen Hawking (famous physicist): even though he was stuck in a wheelchair for many years and could only talk thru a machine, still had women marrying him because he had a legit sense of humor.
Back in the day when Cher and Val Kilmer first met in a group setting, the reason they became fast friends was because they laughed at the same things.
Previous CNN host Larry King would be the first to admit that he's not that attractive, but he knew his sense of humor was formidably appealing.
@@linneasimchah1621 wow. Thank you so much for that clarity. It's such a attractive thing to have.
1. Optimism
2. Reciprocal liking
3. Body language
4. Positive Effective Presence
5. We like what we understand
Hi dear samiya
Good
I hope you are successful ❤
Thank you so much you save me I am a person hate and boring with long vlogs
Can’t believe I’ve been watching you for almost 3 years! The first video I watched of yours is the one where you explained how you stopped being judgemental. In fact, I’m pretty certain your video began my self-development journey. Thank you for being around. I love you ❤
Wow that’s so cool. I’m grateful that you’ve chosen to stick around for so long ❤ love you too 🥹
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00:28 😊 Optimism attracts, negativity repels. Positive outlook on life is attractive.
02:13 💑 Reciprocal liking is a concept where knowing someone is attracted to you makes you more likely to like them.
03:40 👁️ Nonverbal cues like eye contact can enhance attraction and connection with others.
04:57 😄 People with a positive "affective presence" who make others feel good tend to have more friends and romantic interests.
06:53 🤝 Being understood and sharing personal experiences can strengthen connections and attraction in relationships.
i haven’t seen anyone with a more pure soul on youtube. you can tell she is the type of person that corrects her mistakes, gives really good hugs, and is so so sweet. you’re amazing Lana!!
I was just trying to relax a little because my period pain was bad but i needed to study. Man this video was so calm and just gave a warm fuzzy feeling. you cured my pain omg
You are basically my Therapist at this point. Watching your vids make me pull myself together step by step each day.
You are an inspiration
My advice would be: Don’t feed negative thoughts. Learn from mistakes, but don’t beat yourself up over them. Force yourself to see things you can be grateful for. Don’t focus on what you want people to do for you, focus on what you can do to help others.
Popularity and attractiveness should be a by-product of your efforts, not the end goal!
Thats such a beautiful, accurate and powerful way you've put it. "Don't -feed- negative thoughts" wow.
Wow, what a bunch of bullshit.
"Outer beauty turns the head, but inner beauty turns the heart." I also made a video about this ❤
HI sweet heart
This example of optimism is beautiful. Because this kind of optimism is based on accepting what you can't change. Which si one of the best skills I learned in my 20s.
Loved the side-by-side at the start - felt like I was sitting in front of you as you were telling us the story and the imagery helped with that hahaha, but also helps seeing your facial expressions and hand movements etc. rather than just hearing your voice over the B roll
I’m so happy about the positive feedback because I very much enjoyed editing the side by side part 😄
The one thing that captivates me towards your channel is the way you talk and what you talk about.
Thank you for the content.
I love her entrancing smile and the ways she coaches us.
Thank you so much for your videos!
I think I just realized what was missing and what I do wrong when I'm dating, because I am usually such an extroverted, uplifting and energized person, but when I'm around the people I'm interested, I get completely quiet and start being and observer only.
In addition to making it difficult to talk to them and making me less sympathetic, and I definitely wasn't being myself!
hi i just wanted to say that you're an amazing person and so is your channel. you have been changing my life for the better since the day i saw your first video in 2022. thank you for everything
Thank you for sticking around ❤️
I struggle with eye contact because I am autistic but I do try to push myself when I can. Positive affective presence is HUGE though, even when I feel super depressed I’m always able to make people laugh and I’ve been told that people felt “energized” or “rejuvenated” by spending time with me. So even if you struggle with part of socializing you can compensate with one of your other strengths!
Just believe that you are really the best and very confident person, hold yourself up, get that power of making eye contact, well you're beautiful ❤️
I think being someone with deep and unique thoughts and emotions is a very attractive trait
I'm convinced you're at your most pure, unguarded, and authentic when you're out walking Fred.
Great insights Lana! That expression 'inner game' is SO important.. People want to be part of your world when they instinctively know that your world is beautiful by virtue of your outlook. In other words, by being loving to yourself and others around you, you become irresistable ❤
As a math teacher, students hate me by association. Extra efforts for them to unhate me is necessary. Your video is my lifesaver. Thanks so much! 🤓🙏
Keep doing lady in today's era it's kind of tough to be a mentor or teacher . I'm myself a tutor ik sometimes it feels but nothing is personal unless we are doing it with all our hearts .
The side to side editing was pretty cool, Lana! BTW, my dog does that too! 😅. Love the positivity in people also. You become the 5 people you hang around with so I totally understand why you wanted to be friends with this woman. Awesome video, Lana!
ur calming energy and advices, i LOVE them
❤❤
My comfort channel
I loved the side by side shots in the beginning of the video with the playful music in the background, you've been experimenting lately and im enjoying the vision. Fred looks the cutest in snow :)
Thank you!! I’m glad you liked the side by side because so do I ☺️ And Fred says thank you
You are so wholesome and focusing on what really matters in life ❤
I’m kinda a “new” follower of your channel (since I’ve followed for around 5 months I guess ?) but I just wanted to thank you for all your videos, they’re so inspiring and full of positivity !
You give the best advices on very different topics
Keep going, I think everyone agrees :)
A person who teaches be that being myself is a real gift❤️ Before her I thought that I can’t be here on YT because I am not like usual content creators. But she proved me wrong, with her example🥰
Nice idea
This was a much needed video Lana! Thank you ❤
This video just proved to me how important someone's beauty is in a field like content creation. I read the title of this video after clicking on it. Wow you are beautiful.
The woman's positivity is inspiring - it shows the power of optimism and how it can attract people.
I have to thank the algorithm for showing me your channel
While watching it, i felt so relaxing. Her voice, the place, everything was so calm and warm. I luv it:3
Your videos are always so calm and soothing
i love the way you talk it’s relaxing
Absolutely agree, positive people are more attractive than pessimists.
Sometimes I ask myself how we like some people and feel comfortable communicating with them, but not others. The answers are in our attitude and thoughts, in the life and principles of our interlocutors, their behavior, our preferences. Sometimes it should be like that, each person comes into the life of another with a certain purpose. And I am grateful for all my people next to me.
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She is so pretty!!! I love your hair . Your so calm your voice and your attitude :)
What is a math exam when my fav TH-camr upload a video!
oh no !! go study ;P
Loving the way of telling a story and then talk about the lesson and I can totally relate to the last point. Btw loving your videos since january 2020 and still loving them. Seeing your channel grow so much in this period has given me so much inspiration that no matter what keep your patience, your time will come. Also very happy for you and never stop guiding me like an elder sister ❤❤
Actually I clicked on this video cause I was like "gosh! How did she make that volume hair!"
I love they way you talk, teach me how to be as graceful as you when you talk
Such profound insights on this little video, especially about regulating emotions of others.
I like the way how she said one thing in 5 different ways and elaborated it...woah, THANKS LANA.
I don’t usually leave comments but you need to know how amazing you are and what you’re doing is. There are times, I looked at a channel and thought,”Oh cool, I’ll subscribe to this”. But then there are other times when a channel from just the first video gets to me so much I want to like the video, subscribe, and then find a like the channel button and click on that. I’ve thought of what else I could click or what other button I could hit to let TH-cam know I’m in love with this!!!!
And I’m only 5 minutes in😍❤️
I can watch you speaking whole day!❤
The best notification from the most beautiful TH-camr
She is my comfort person. I love how calm she is
Thanks, your videos tend to pop up at the perfect times.
You are the only person on TH-cam I don’t speed up videos for (being the impatient easily distracted person I am)
I literally love your videos❤❤ they're so soothing and serene!
Hi
Thank you for this video Lana! Can you make a video about unlearning not-so-nice attitude from parents? Or like managing your emotions in general?
After Watching this video I feel so lively and specially praising tthe delivery of your content
I think watching yours video seems so calm and peaceful..
I pressed on the video to see how be more attractive only to find that, most of the tips are things that I do everything, I struggle a lot with my physical appearance and always think that people only like me for my looks, but not really me, as I used to look really “ugly” but when I changed my aesthetic, did my hair and such, I suddenly made friends. But I don’t think that’s the case, I’ve been making new friends recently, and trying to live in the present, as I zone out a lot and think of things like my insecurities, and well it made me closer to them, I got to learn something new about them, and relate to them too. I feel so happy whenever I focus on getting to be close, and genuinely forming a connection without always assuming and thinking that, they only like me for my looks but not who I really am
She is an angel need to be apreciated over her voice and wisdom.
I love this topic. Glad to be taking home all the positive energy 😁
when I first started watching your channel I was constantly envying you, your mentality and being triggered by everything you were saying because "there's no way I could ever reach such a healthy way of thinking". now, every time I watch your videos I'm like "yessss, I totally agree with everything" and feel like you are literally wording my thoughts. I just noticed this and I am so extremely grateful for finding your channel, you pushed me on my way to becoming who I want to be. thank you🤍
Ahhh that’s so lovely to hear. Thank you for sharing and for being here! ❤️
Well Lana, According to science, your videos are a great way to feel better!
i have been told countless times that i make people happier when they are around me---now i know the term positive affective prescence
It was a great recommendation from TH-cam to come across. It definitely helped me reconsider the positive affective presence, which you've talked about. I incorporate all the points you mentioned regularly; however, it was a great reminder. Thank you, Lana!
At this point, I just click on the video without even looking at the title and the thumbnail! Amazing content Lana 🙌
I find myself in those moods as well but trying to be in the moment has been so helpful to me. Like enjoy the pretty of now, the bright yet grey 🩶 colors , how quiet and empty it is outside . The small things 💕 If you're focusing on the now you can't have thoughts about anything else... I learned this in a book, A new earth by Eckhart Tolle. Really recommend it. Always so nice edits Lana , you're awesome ❤️
Your a doll and so real. This was enjoyable and realistic ❤
I saw the title and automatically said: GOOD GENES !
Really love your work young lady✨
May God bless u💐
Wow
This is the most beautiful smile I ever saw in my life .. she deserves to be treated like a princess
Thank you so much lana. I am also an infj. And you are the most relatable person I ever came across. It feels so good to listen to someone who has the same kinda thought process! 😊
These tips apply to only women
Idk why, but you make me see life in a different way.
Thank you for that
Dude you feel like the most mature and realistic youtuber out there
I haven't watched the video yet, but i already know it's gonna be an amazing one!
Thankyou Lana! Thankyou so much for these videos, they calm me down so so much
I even write that i am grateful for your videos' in my journal:)
you are the best
No thank YOU!
@@LanaBlakely ❤️
you are glowing
Lana always know hows to make everyone happy and smile!!! Happy Sunday Lana, good to see you friend!!!!
Im excited to watch this, hope you are doing good!!
I think Lana is incapable of having a bad hair day.
Lana what a amazing edit style and I love your editing style so so much ❤️☺️
When we focus on personality, we will realize how beautiful anyone can be with the traits they carry ❤️
your hair is gorgeous
I find it attractive when someone don't care about other people say about them
your voice is so calming and beautiful
Hi Lana, your videos are always so inspiring and delivered with a calm and confident manner. 😊
I love your editing style!
I love hearing that ! :)
The last tip resonates with me. I’m a bit of an over-sharer. I feel that I do it as a way to seem interesting because I personally don’t feel interesting and I’m a bit insecure.
Calling me out 💀😭
@@browhat6935 sorry, ahah. Well hey you’re not alone though… I’ve been noticing that it truly is better to share less at first.
i love love love your videos they're so comforting and relaxing 🥰
You could not be more attractive than you are already. You are a lovely person.
Your voice is so calming💕
I swear if you work on your posture you will automatically become more confident and attractive
i can listen to you all day everyday
Thank you for such a great video! It's my first time at your channel.. and English is not my native language... Sooo I just wanted to mention I love your voice and your speech manner so so much. It's such a pleasure to listen to you, to understand everything and your voice is so calming. Anyways I'm totally in love
Thank you for this video Lana ❤️
Hey I am village part from India, understanding English is to hard for me but I watch your every video,
Thankyou so much for sharing everything
its been a long long time to grab back your channel and spice up my self esteeem.
You feel so nice and beautiful person. I am thankful finding your channel and also, thank you of doing it, sharing your life, you.
Thank You
I LOVE so much your literary language ❤️
You have a positive effective presence. You're very relaxing. Lovely, lovely video.😊
we need a makeup or skincare routine PLEASE. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS
u look so genuine...
you are so awesome by your unique thoughts also by your spiritual and inspiring thoughts. Thank you gorgeous 🥰❤
First of all it’s the first time seeing you pop up on my feed and I am sooo glad. Second of all you are so pretty I can’t get over it 😭🤍
Thank you a lot!
You clear things up for me❣️
Optimism,Body language,Positive affective presence, understanding others,
reciprocal liking