Not feel sorry for this lady. Don’t blame your parents. You are 32 and choose your own path. When you are married, commit to your husband. It’s not your husband fault either. I feel bad for the husband and also the ex-boy friend.
Wow for someone who has a Dr degree you still have the mindset of 1975 and you didn't really love your bf. I feel sorry for the bf. His dad was right about you, you were just using him for support. Is he still single 🤭
You obviously lost him cause of your stupidity as a DR. SMH. Poj niam lo txiv neej yog tau DR. Es tseem coj tus nib xaim 75 ces tsis tau kawm ua Dr. Li is twb tsis phim lub meej mom hais tias ntsia kawm tiav Dr.
The reason your bf fell behind the degree because he loved you enough to work to support you. You are so ungrateful. If he didn’t decide to work to support you, he wouldn’t gotten his DR. degree at the same time too.
Gosh, even a princess is willing to overlook status of an orphan boy and moved mountains to be with him. This was not true love, this lady may be book smart but not heart smart. She'll probably live bitterly all her life.
Agreed. You're right. Even a princess can leave the crown and married a commoner. A PhD degree is just a title and degree, nothing more. It doesn't make her any better than him, but she talks as if they're as different as heaven and earth.
I was thinking the same! A Japanese princess gave up her title for a commoner. This story here, this lady just loves to be the victim of her own choices.
Now this is the first time hearing a story where a couple can not get married because of their of education level. Come on people, this is AMERICA!!! Let go of the nonsense marriage traditions... like you're too poor or you're an orphan or your parents are no good people etc... LOVE is LOVE no matter their rank in life. Love is what makes us good human beings.
She’s a doctor and she ain’t dumb! She did it to herself by trying to be a good daughter to her parents. She was able n old enough to make her own decisions. No sympathy for her at all
When I completed my degree and told my family my boyfriend and I will get married (now my husband) my side of the family ask me if that is what I truly want since he didn’t not have any degree to help me in the future! I told my family he support me since the day we date so he is the man for me. We both turn out good and I’m happy for what I pick. I don’t feel bad for this women at all she is educated and she know all the right in the USA but she decided to pick someone else because she like and want to title of doctor.
After listening to the story, your degree don’t mean much anymore because your decision to use and take advantage of someone who whole heartedly supported you through every step of the way to help you achieve your doctorate degree. I guess it’s good you didn’t marry him because he deserves someone better. You definitely lost a good man. Making your parents proud or happy should be your second priority because your happiness should of came first!
I think her happiness did come first. Her ex bf wasn't her priority. If her marriage went smoothly, she wouldn't care about her ex. This woman is selfish.
Sorry sister you’re so evil to him. You betrayed him. If you truly love your boyfriend you should tell your parents that he the one supporting you all these year. You don’t really love him like you said. I feel sorry for your boyfriend, he does really love you with all his heart, but for you. You only using him. If I have a man love me and supporting like your BF, I would love him with all my heart, marry him and get him all I can.
Oh another doctor story.. my husband and I have different levels of education and I make a lot more. I never see him less of a person, his characteristics of who he is makes him irreplaceable. You missed out on a great love.
You didn't love your x-bf truly from your heart that's why you betrayed him. If 2 people love❤ each other deeply in their hearts & soul, no body on earth can separate them. Don't blame your parents, it's your decision only.
Right? I don't understand if two people truly love each other, nothing in life should be able to separate them except death. If i am privileged enough to find someone who loves me as equally, u bet i will never let anyone or anything come between us. People don't appreciate love and how hard it is to find true love so they throw it away like that only to regret it later on. She was fortunate to find someone who truly loves her and she tossed it away.
This story got my blood boil. Like everyone else said, you didn't truly love your ex-bf. I got your Dr. degree because someone sacrifice yet you turn your back on that person. You are just as evil as your parents. I have no sympathy for you. Even a princess or an heir can give up their status for a commoner but you couldn't even do that so that makes you no better than anyone. Your status means nothing!!
Exactly, and YET, she has no power. I know little teenagers who have more power over their lives! 😂 zero educated wives from Laos have more power than her. This is ridiculous!
Sadly he supported you through school. You did not love him enough. He didn't deserve that. You could have supported him so he can also get his degree as well. Self centered and selfish
Koj tus txiv neb lam kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse, thiaj ua li niam&txiv hais yuav tus tsis tau hlub vim daim Dr. Degree. Koj saib tsis taus nws kawm ntawv qis thiaj khiav tawm, Zoo qhov tsis tau sib yuav.
One thing that this sister and the Hmong elders need to understand is that having dr degree or bachelor degree doesn’t make you a smart person. The degree is for 1. Better chance of income 2. Pursue one’s interest. Remember many billionaires and millionaires are not dr degree holder. In my eye, dr degrees or high school drop out are still human. Marriage is about love compatibility not degrees compatibility. I have seen many dr degree holders fall short in quality of live compare to non dr degrees holders. You sister despite holding a Dr degree fail to see the above. An intelligent individual would fight for his/her love despite all odd. Parents are parents they live their life already your tern to live your live not pleasing them.
No one just agrees to marry someone they don't know and love like you did, especially when you could've gotten away with frank, stubborn refusal. Deep in your heart, you chose your husband for his degree, too.
Don’t blame your parents. Koj tsis phim koj Lub npe dr. Koj twb tau dr. los koj tseem yuav koj niam koj Txiv hais thiab. Koj yog ib tus neeg ntxeeb siab
Wow! This is so identical to my husbands story, I even thought I shared this by accident. Lol down to every detail! Wowser!! Maybe I’ll have to share his Neej neeg too
Not even 6 minutes in "koj daim degree yog bachelor kuv daim degree yog doctor" I already know how this story is gonna go 🙄🙄 Edit: finished the story and she sounds miserable. Karma...
I already knew how the story gonna go, how you disrespect him from the start with only a college degree. Be thankful he didn't sue you for alimony! I feel his pain!
I have a similar ❤ story and level of degrees was never an issue. We have been together for almost 30 yrs with no regrets. I feel sad for you, sister. You are a very obedient person. You are a doctor and you cannot even make a decision for yourself. I guess you didn't love your boyfriend enough. Once you decided to marry someone else, you betrayed him. You forgo yours, your husband's and your boyfriend's happiness. True ❤ is out of your reach. The only one benefits from this, is your parents. Bon chance.
😮😮yog lawm xav li thaum pib ces tu siab rau koj ua yog tus ncaim es tso nws tseg. Xav rau yav laus no los yog li koj tej lus saum no uas koj hais saum toj no koj kuj txawj xav thiab paub tias koj lub siab zoo tseem hlub koj tus mi zoo phooj ywg. Ua li os mog peb ua neej nyob tsis hais yav hluas los yog yav laus niam no, yuav tau coj zoo siab zoo hais lus zoo yam zoo ntawm yus lub neej uas yus xav Tau yus thiaj Tau txais nawb mog.❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
He’s the good one that got away. He should feel very lucky that you didn’t choose him. If you love him so much nothing can stop you! My husband don’t even have a degree & I fought to be with him against my parents words.
Remember degrees cant replace happiness. U are old enough to make your own decision who u want to married but u let your parents pick a man for u. U fail to mention to your parents that he support u. Without your exbf....u wont get your degree. U should be a shame for betrayal.
I have no sympathy for this lady. Everything she got is her fault. Stop blaming your parents. You're the one who made all the decisions leading to where u r at.
Girl, just admit it. Now u only regret and decide to come out wit your story bc he now has a doctorate degree and you so regret letting him go! You're stuck with a doctorate husband whom u don't love when u could have a doctorate husband who u love. That's why you regret!
Exactly! She's publicly begging him to take her back by trying to justify her despicable actions and making her ex feel bad that she'smiserable! She may have a doctorate degree, but she has no shame and no honor! NO RESPECT from me! SMH!
This is an example of high in degree short in intellect. If I have a strong love like this I would move mountains and river to be with her. No parents can stop it. Ua neej Khuam Siab with Degree 📜
To the brother that went back to continue his education after your ex. Lady Dr. and her family senselessly used you - BRAVO to you, and CONGRATULATIONS on your Dr. degree! Please move on with your life. If possible, RUN, and RUN far from your ex., her family, and friends. Find a true partner, marry her, love her, and live your best life! Forget your cold heart, ex. Lady Dr. She never loves you nor her so-called Dr. husband. She went to school for flame and title, never for her well-being or anyone else. True educators and leaders don't blame someone else. They lead, they prove others’ wrong doing & thinking; also, they make decisions based on facts and science, never excuses! And I am a Dr., too, married to another Dr. where we have known each other since we were 14. I finished my field of studies ten years before my husband did because he worked to support me. And in return, I paid forward for him to complete his as well! I called this love and respect instead of ego and pride; if you are still questioning the BETRAYAL episode of your ex.! Good luck to you!
This is how the couple in the story should have done. He supported her so she needs to support him later on. Instead, she took the high way and ditched him. Now she lives in regrets. Kudos to u and your husband for loving and supporting each other. U guys are a team.
Don't ever wait for her to come back. Please move on. There are better women out there who can and will love you so much better. Old lovers getting back together NEVER ends up well! U guys grew up together, u supported her thru school, and she's able to do that to u. What else can't she do to u? Never ever go back to an old lover, esp one who cheated on u and left u to marry another man. One day if u do end up with her, you're jus gonna be so bitter and u might end up mistreating her too.
@@maryly09Thanks, I know who my supporter is😊because the struggle and sacrifice in achieving a doctorate is not a playing field that someone just forgets and brushes off overnight!
In all your eternal Godly wisdom and glory Your Highness Doctor, there were two classes that you did not take. If you did, you must have dropped it or failed miserably. 1. LIFE 101 - Love Is For Everybody. (It would have taught you that in life, treat others with respect the way you would want to be treated), 2. KARMA 102B - The Boomerang Effect (This class would have taught you that Karma is a bitch and what goes around, comes around). Guess there are things that even a doctor still needs to learn.
Don't blame your parents. You know you want to marry that doctor guy because he has a doctorate degree. You don't love him, but you want his money and degree.
Koj twb yuav tsum tig hlub koj tus Txiv txij hlub koj yuav koj tus Txiv lawm os mog…..hluas nkauj hluas nraug ces tsuas yog ib vuag dua xwb nawb….peb cov Ntxhais ces yeej kawg Ua tus swb Niam thiab Txiv xwb os mog….
I don’t think you should be blaming your parents or the degree for the choice that you’ve made. You never truly loved him because if you did, you would have went against your parents. You agreed with your parents that his education was not to your level and You saw better potential in your husband, so you went for it. That was really messed up of you. You chose the higher degree and now look how miserable you are live with it.
Wow! Someday you're going to regret leaving him. I guess you got your doctor degree but your mind still in 1975. I feel bad that he wasted his time supporting you through school.
I know this is harsh but u never loved him. If u did, u were of never agreed to marry someone else. Especially, after he already proposed to u already. To the dude in this story, move on and start your life. Stop waiting for someone who never loved you. She only thinks about u when her and her husband fights.
Cas hmoob meka yuav tau bachlor thiab Doctor txhuas tus li os pog Ntsuab teev aws. 365 hnub koj txhuas2 zaj yog bachalor thiab Doctor ces hmoob meka tus tseem haus milk xwb los twb taus Doctor ua ntej yuav loj hlob lawm pob . Koj cov Doctor coob tshaij hmoob meka lawm.
So for the hubby. He got a Dr. He should find him a girl that truly loves him. Both Dr in this story are only book smart . Anyway this lady is one selfish person.
Muaj ib hnub twg koj yuav quaj tsis los kua muag vim koj siab phem lim hiam rau tus neeg hlub thiab txhawb koj. May God bless him and lead him to a good wife who will appreciate him and love him for who he is and not the”degree “.
You’re 30 yrs old and still can’t decide your happiness then that’s your loss sis. Don’t blame your parents for wanting a vauv doctor. It’s you who wants a doctor husband that’s why you hesitated to marry your boyfriend even after he supported you for all those yrs and after he proposed you. Just wow. Yeej yog Koj ntshaw lub meej mom doctor thiab . Good luck finding your happiness
The only one who got a good education here is the ex bf who didn't let this woman phase him. Instesd, he went and got his own doctorate. Good job, guy! Now go find your love and you are the clear winner out of the 3 of you. Good luck.
At the beginning my parents didnt like my bf either esp he was from out of state. I didnt care I married him anyways. Weve been together for 20 yrs and my parents moved to live closer to us because none of my siblings was willing to take care of them. They live 5 mins away from us and oh boy i think they love my husband more than they love me. They spoiled him, esp my mom always making sure hes fed and doesnt go hungry 😆. Parents needs to stop picking husband and wife for thier children let them choose themselves.
Degree or no degree...."sighs....you should have chosen love. I value education, but when I love, I love regardless of his education. An education is jus to help you improve your quality of life....and if you are with the one person you love, that quality would be so much more wonderful. It is a sad story....I think we need to give another 100 or 200 years and maybe things will change...especially the mindset. Hopefully....
Some People Need To Move On If You Thought Of Marrying That Person! If The Present Isn't For You Too Then Move On From There Too!! The Past Is The Past For A Reason! This Is Sad But It's Too Bad, We Make Decisions To Do What We Do & Now It's Time To Really Focus On Your Kids & Your Family!!
Niam tais ntxeev siab aw txoj kev hlub ntawm koj tus hluas nraug neb txoj kev hlub tsis tim koj niam koj txiv os, koj twb xav xav yuav koj tus txov doctor thiab mas. Koj nyob meka es nim muaj leej twg khoo tau na xiam tiag tiag, lam muab tuaj rau may hais kom muaj plus kom cov neeg ruam ntseeg nws. Kuv tus no zoo tus pg ntxeev siab no kuv yeej tsis ntseeg li os, dag li dag xwb.
For being a doctor, you're not that bright. Just because a person achieved the doctor status doesn't automatically make them smarter than everyone else. Sometimes the person just has more motivation and perseverance than most to get where they are. I've worked with alot of doctors and no offense, but not alot of them are smart. Last but not least, you don't deserve any of them. You really think he's gonna want you back after what you've done to him.
koj yog ib tug poj niam lam kawm ta siab2 xwb tsis txim nyog koj siab phem heev tsis muaj leej twg qhua koj li os koj pua paub tia koj ntxim ntxub thiab tsis muaj ib qho tseem ceeb kuv yeej yog poj niam ib yam li koj tab si kuv tsis nyiam koj coj li no es koj tseem tau luag muaj los tham koj cov lus hai tia tu siab yog dag li dag xwb tham li neeg tsis muaj kev kawm
Not feel sorry for this lady. Don’t blame your parents. You are 32 and choose your own path. When you are married, commit to your husband. It’s not your husband fault either. I feel bad for the husband and also the ex-boy friend.
Wow for someone who has a Dr degree you still have the mindset of 1975 and you didn't really love your bf. I feel sorry for the bf. His dad was right about you, you were just using him for support. Is he still single 🤭
Exactly! Is he single?
😂 right..
Ib co mas tau dr tsis yog ntse tuaj tseem ruam tuaj vim tseem muab nws tus kheej saib hlob thiab tseem muab meejmom saib loj tshaj.
You obviously lost him cause of your stupidity as a DR. SMH.
Poj niam lo txiv neej yog tau DR. Es tseem coj tus nib xaim 75 ces tsis tau kawm ua Dr. Li is twb tsis phim lub meej mom hais tias ntsia kawm tiav Dr.
😂😂😂😂😂
All I’ve gotta say is, you didn’t truly love your boyfriend. So sad that he gave up everything to support you and you betrayed him.
That is my husband right now he supports his ex wife she throws him away me I supports my ex I got throws away too but God bring him n me together
@@laoyang2014 I hope you guys are in love and is living your best life. This woman did you a favor by not picking your husband..lol
@@laoyang2014sounds like you and your husband are in denial with each other, good luck to you guys
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100% you right.
YOU'RE A DOCTOR. You should know better than anyone that your happiness comes first. Don't blame your parents for your unhappiness.
100% agree with you. She used him for her education.
Totally agree with you
Couldn’t agree more!!!
Cov laus hais tias kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse. Thiaj rau naim txiv yuav thaij plam tus yus hlub.
Totally agree.. doctors degree for no reason.
The reason your bf fell behind the degree because he loved you enough to work to support you. You are so ungrateful. If he didn’t decide to work to support you, he wouldn’t gotten his DR. degree at the same time too.
Agree 100%. And did she say, when they compare their mengmo, he loses to her? Wow. High degree does not equal value... How conceited.
Agree 👍
Gosh, even a princess is willing to overlook status of an orphan boy and moved mountains to be with him. This was not true love, this lady may be book smart but not heart smart. She'll probably live bitterly all her life.
She smart for sure. To be able to used a guy to achieve her goals and then dumped
Agreed. You're right. Even a princess can leave the crown and married a commoner. A PhD degree is just a title and degree, nothing more. It doesn't make her any better than him, but she talks as if they're as different as heaven and earth.
I was thinking the same! A Japanese princess gave up her title for a commoner. This story here, this lady just loves to be the victim of her own choices.
@ThePrincessWorrior that's probably why she's telling her lousy story. She's living in regrets probably realizing that PHD is just a piece of paper.
Bc she is a gold digger
Now this is the first time hearing a story where a couple can not get married because of their of education level. Come on people, this is AMERICA!!! Let go of the nonsense marriage traditions... like you're too poor or you're an orphan or your parents are no good people etc... LOVE is LOVE no matter their rank in life. Love is what makes us good human beings.
People love to be victims.
She’s a doctor and she ain’t dumb! She did it to herself by trying to be a good daughter to her parents. She was able n old enough to make her own decisions. No sympathy for her at all
When I completed my degree and told my family my boyfriend and I will get married (now my husband) my side of the family ask me if that is what I truly want since he didn’t not have any degree to help me in the future! I told my family he support me since the day we date so he is the man for me. We both turn out good and I’m happy for what I pick. I don’t feel bad for this women at all she is educated and she know all the right in the USA but she decided to pick someone else because she like and want to title of doctor.
Or it's a fake story
@maileelor3207 That's how love should be, no matter what. LOVE is the highest degree anyone can earn.
Hmoob are crazy for Dr. Degree
Hmong still ruam like back in the day
After listening to the story, your degree don’t mean much anymore because your decision to use and take advantage of someone who whole heartedly supported you through every step of the way to help you achieve your doctorate degree. I guess it’s good you didn’t marry him because he deserves someone better. You definitely lost a good man. Making your parents proud or happy should be your second priority because your happiness should of came first!
I think her happiness did come first. Her ex bf wasn't her priority. If her marriage went smoothly, she wouldn't care about her ex. This woman is selfish.
Sorry sister you’re so evil to him. You betrayed him. If you truly love your boyfriend you should tell your parents that he the one supporting you all these year. You don’t really love him like you said. I feel sorry for your boyfriend, he does really love you with all his heart, but for you. You only using him. If I have a man love me and supporting like your BF, I would love him with all my heart, marry him and get him all I can.
Well said, she's truly evil 😈
At 32 and a doctor, you should already know how to choose and make your own decision of who you love and want to be with.
Oh another doctor story.. my husband and I have different levels of education and I make a lot more. I never see him less of a person, his characteristics of who he is makes him irreplaceable. You missed out on a great love.
You didn't love your x-bf truly from your heart that's why you betrayed him. If 2 people love❤ each other deeply in their hearts & soul, no body on earth can separate them. Don't blame your parents, it's your decision only.
It’s your own fault! He supported you but you threw it away. Hopefully you lived a miserable life forever.
Right? I don't understand if two people truly love each other, nothing in life should be able to separate them except death. If i am privileged enough to find someone who loves me as equally, u bet i will never let anyone or anything come between us. People don't appreciate love and how hard it is to find true love so they throw it away like that only to regret it later on. She was fortunate to find someone who truly loves her and she tossed it away.
This story got my blood boil. Like everyone else said, you didn't truly love your ex-bf. I got your Dr. degree because someone sacrifice yet you turn your back on that person. You are just as evil as your parents. I have no sympathy for you. Even a princess or an heir can give up their status for a commoner but you couldn't even do that so that makes you no better than anyone. Your status means nothing!!
Exactly, and YET, she has no power. I know little teenagers who have more power over their lives! 😂 zero educated wives from Laos have more power than her. This is ridiculous!
Hai tshaj li. Tau Dr lo niag siab phem2 kau lwm tus dag zog nyiaj mus txhawb yu thiaj li tiav xwb ces tsi tseem ceeb li nawb.
What is the point of your story? That you played everyone? What you did was not fair to your boyfriend or husband.
I suppose it's regrets. She's finding out that she can't live with someone whom she doesn't love. Her doctor degree isn't helping in the area of love.
Sadly he supported you through school. You did not love him enough. He didn't deserve that. You could have supported him so he can also get his degree as well. Self centered and selfish
Someone with that degree and can’t even make their own decisions don’t deserve any sympathy from me.
These people are ruam xwb os. Have PhD and yet can't even make their own decisions.
Koj tus txiv neb lam kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse, thiaj ua li niam&txiv hais yuav tus tsis tau hlub vim daim Dr. Degree. Koj saib tsis taus nws kawm ntawv qis thiaj khiav tawm, Zoo qhov tsis tau sib yuav.
One thing that this sister and the Hmong elders need to understand is that having dr degree or bachelor degree doesn’t make you a smart person. The degree is for 1. Better chance of income 2. Pursue one’s interest. Remember many billionaires and millionaires are not dr degree holder. In my eye, dr degrees or high school drop out are still human. Marriage is about love compatibility not degrees compatibility. I have seen many dr degree holders fall short in quality of live compare to non dr degrees holders.
You sister despite holding a Dr degree fail to see the above. An intelligent individual would fight for his/her love despite all odd. Parents are parents they live their life already your tern to live your live not pleasing them.
Wait! You have a doctor degree, but cant decide for yourself. Shame on you. You don't deserve both your ex and your husband.
😢😢😢😢txaus tus siab heev li os.
No one just agrees to marry someone they don't know and love like you did, especially when you could've gotten away with frank, stubborn refusal. Deep in your heart, you chose your husband for his degree, too.
Tim yus yeej tsis hlub tiag tsis yog daim Dr degree
I hate women who says they love someone but go get marry to someone else who they don't love hahahahaha..that's the town hooooooo haha
Don’t blame your parents. Koj tsis phim koj Lub npe dr. Koj twb tau dr. los koj tseem yuav koj niam koj Txiv hais thiab. Koj yog ib tus neeg ntxeeb siab
She has a Dr degree in liberal arts.😂😂😂
Wow! This is so identical to my husbands story, I even thought I shared this by accident. Lol down to every detail! Wowser!! Maybe I’ll have to share his Neej neeg too
You choose frame and money over love....your frame and future will not last long....
Thank you for sharing
Not even 6 minutes in "koj daim degree yog bachelor kuv daim degree yog doctor" I already know how this story is gonna go 🙄🙄
Edit: finished the story and she sounds miserable. Karma...
Same here! What happened to being humble. The torch light don't often show us what's ahead.
Agreed! She got what she deserved.
Nah, she just tell it that way so she sounds more angelic. She enjoys it fully; if miserable there wouldn’t be 4 kids 😅
@@ThePrincessWorrior you're right too!
Wow. That’s all I can say!
I already knew how the story gonna go, how you disrespect him from the start with only a college degree.
Be thankful he didn't sue you for alimony! I feel his pain!
Wow you used your boyfriend to get your Dr. Degree. Evil!!! I feel so sorry for the boyfriend.
I have a similar ❤ story and level of degrees was never an issue. We have been together for almost 30 yrs with no regrets. I feel sad for you, sister. You are a very obedient person. You are a doctor and you cannot even make a decision for yourself. I guess you didn't love your boyfriend enough. Once you decided to marry someone else, you betrayed him. You forgo yours, your husband's and your boyfriend's happiness. True ❤ is out of your reach. The only one benefits from this, is your parents. Bon chance.
😮😮yog lawm xav li thaum pib ces tu siab rau koj ua yog tus ncaim es tso nws tseg.
Xav rau yav laus no los yog li koj tej lus saum no uas koj hais saum toj no
koj kuj txawj xav thiab paub tias koj lub siab zoo tseem hlub koj tus mi zoo phooj ywg.
Ua li os mog peb ua neej nyob tsis hais yav hluas los yog yav laus niam no, yuav tau coj zoo siab zoo hais lus zoo yam zoo ntawm yus lub neej uas yus xav Tau yus thiaj Tau txais nawb mog.❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Good for you... you deserve it.. you are like a rock!
This chick say there is few hmong doctors... apparently she haven't listen to Niam Ntsaug Teeg... 80% of the people in those stories are Doctors....
😂😂😂
She’s trying to say she the most smartest Pog ruam xwb 🤣🤣
Sib hlub hwv lawm es thov qhuas.
Koj hais yog tshaj nplaws li os
He’s the good one that got away. He should feel very lucky that you didn’t choose him. If you love him so much nothing can stop you! My husband don’t even have a degree & I fought to be with him against my parents words.
Remind me of the song, "Immortality" by Celion Dion.
Cas koj tham ntau2 tom hauv paus laj tos heev li
twb yog koj tus qub hluas nraug nws muaj lub siab zoo nws los ua haujlwm thiaj muaj nyiaj txhawb koj thiaj tiav koj daim Dr los ma me viv ncau aw
You pick money 💰 🤑 💸
Remember degrees cant replace happiness. U are old enough to make your own decision who u want to married but u let your parents pick a man for u. U fail to mention to your parents that he support u. Without your exbf....u wont get your degree. U should be a shame for betrayal.
Sister nrog koj tu siab mog tshe tsi yog ntawv ntxij nkawm o
I have no sympathy for this lady. Everything she got is her fault. Stop blaming your parents. You're the one who made all the decisions leading to where u r at.
Girl, just admit it. Now u only regret and decide to come out wit your story bc he now has a doctorate degree and you so regret letting him go! You're stuck with a doctorate husband whom u don't love when u could have a doctorate husband who u love. That's why you regret!
Exactly! She's publicly begging him to take her back by trying to justify her despicable actions and making her ex feel bad that she'smiserable! She may have a doctorate degree, but she has no shame and no honor! NO RESPECT from me! SMH!
This is an example of high in degree short in intellect. If I have a strong love like this I would move mountains and river to be with her. No parents can stop it. Ua neej Khuam Siab with Degree 📜
To the brother that went back to continue his education after your ex. Lady Dr. and her family senselessly used you - BRAVO to you, and CONGRATULATIONS on your Dr. degree! Please move on with your life. If possible, RUN, and RUN far from your ex., her family, and friends. Find a true partner, marry her, love her, and live your best life! Forget your cold heart, ex. Lady Dr. She never loves you nor her so-called Dr. husband. She went to school for flame and title, never for her well-being or anyone else. True educators and leaders don't blame someone else. They lead, they prove others’ wrong doing & thinking; also, they make decisions based on facts and science, never excuses! And I am a Dr., too, married to another Dr. where we have known each other since we were 14. I finished my field of studies ten years before my husband did because he worked to support me. And in return, I paid forward for him to complete his as well! I called this love and respect instead of ego and pride; if you are still questioning the BETRAYAL episode of your ex.! Good luck to you!
This is how the couple in the story should have done. He supported her so she needs to support him later on. Instead, she took the high way and ditched him. Now she lives in regrets. Kudos to u and your husband for loving and supporting each other. U guys are a team.
Don't ever wait for her to come back. Please move on. There are better women out there who can and will love you so much better. Old lovers getting back together NEVER ends up well! U guys grew up together, u supported her thru school, and she's able to do that to u. What else can't she do to u? Never ever go back to an old lover, esp one who cheated on u and left u to marry another man. One day if u do end up with her, you're jus gonna be so bitter and u might end up mistreating her too.
@@maryly09Thanks, I know who my supporter is😊because the struggle and sacrifice in achieving a doctorate is not a playing field that someone just forgets and brushes off overnight!
So is he still single looking for a girl who only graduated from high school?? 😅😅 asking for a friend
You go girl!
In all your eternal Godly wisdom and glory Your Highness Doctor, there were two classes that you did not take. If you did, you must have dropped it or failed miserably.
1. LIFE 101 - Love Is For Everybody. (It would have taught you that in life, treat others with respect the way you would want to be treated),
2. KARMA 102B - The Boomerang Effect (This class would have taught you that Karma is a bitch and what goes around, comes around).
Guess there are things that even a doctor still needs to learn.
She didn't take Common Sense 101. Haha.
Education ≠ Intelligence
Don't blame your parents. You know you want to marry that doctor guy because he has a doctorate degree. You don't love him, but you want his money and degree.
Koj twb yuav tsum tig hlub koj tus Txiv txij hlub koj yuav koj tus Txiv lawm os mog…..hluas nkauj hluas nraug ces tsuas yog ib vuag dua xwb nawb….peb cov Ntxhais ces yeej kawg Ua tus swb Niam thiab Txiv xwb os mog….
Kev hlub tsi ncaj ncee
I don’t think you should be blaming your parents or the degree for the choice that you’ve made. You never truly loved him because if you did, you would have went against your parents. You agreed with your parents that his education was not to your level and You saw better potential in your husband, so you went for it. That was really messed up of you. You chose the higher degree and now look how miserable you are live with it.
Education or not, love is love. If you truly love someone, despite their background, you will love them.
mloog zaj no kv pab tu hluasnraug tu siab heev os quaj quaj nrog neb lawm g sib tau los cias ua phoojywg sib nug moos mog 😭
Wow! Someday you're going to regret leaving him. I guess you got your doctor degree but your mind still in 1975. I feel bad that he wasted his time supporting you through school.
Tsw qws kawg
Excuses, excuses, excuses!!!! You thought the grass was greener at the other side eh lol.
Koj yog ib niag neeg siab nyoos ua zoo tsam plam tag 2 tus nawb me viv ncaws
Omg, mob2 siab. Congratulations on his doctorate degree!
I know this is harsh but u never loved him. If u did, u were of never agreed to marry someone else. Especially, after he already proposed to u already. To the dude in this story, move on and start your life. Stop waiting for someone who never loved you. She only thinks about u when her and her husband fights.
It was your loss sister. You have the keys in your hand but you thrown away. Brother let her go. You deserve some1 better tan her.
I enjoyed this story very much tus me muam. Ua tsaug koj share koj zaj story thiab.
Koj yog ib tus poj niam siab hpem heev
Cas hmoob meka yuav tau bachlor thiab Doctor txhuas tus li os pog Ntsuab teev aws. 365 hnub koj txhuas2 zaj yog bachalor thiab Doctor ces hmoob meka tus tseem haus milk xwb los twb taus Doctor ua ntej yuav loj hlob lawm pob . Koj cov Doctor coob tshaij hmoob meka lawm.
Vim koj xav tau ntau tu koj yeej tsi yog neeg zoo yuav hlub leej twg
Kuv ngiam koj haig dab neeeg kawg kuv moog ib hnub ib hnub xwb og niam hlob aw lwm hnub kuv mam xa kuv zaj tuaj koj haig og 😢
So for the hubby. He got a Dr. He should find him a girl that truly loves him. Both Dr in this story are only book smart . Anyway this lady is one selfish person.
Be smart guys, be like her husband. You gain all the benefits without the suffering 😆.
Muaj ib hnub twg koj yuav quaj tsis los kua muag vim koj siab phem lim hiam rau tus neeg hlub thiab txhawb koj. May God bless him and lead him to a good wife who will appreciate him and love him for who he is and not the”degree “.
Amen....!!! Vim daim Dr. Xwb. Oh wow😊
The evil side of me want to have an affair with your husband just to get back at you for not fully loving him. 😂
You’re 30 yrs old and still can’t decide your happiness then that’s your loss sis. Don’t blame your parents for wanting a vauv doctor. It’s you who wants a doctor husband that’s why you hesitated to marry your boyfriend even after he supported you for all those yrs and after he proposed you. Just wow. Yeej yog Koj ntshaw lub meej mom doctor thiab . Good luck finding your happiness
Tim koj xwb tsis tim koj niam koj txiv, txhob mus chim rau leej twg
The only one who got a good education here is the ex bf who didn't let this woman phase him. Instesd, he went and got his own doctorate. Good job, guy! Now go find your love and you are the clear winner out of the 3 of you. Good luck.
My hmong people never change when we r go to change.
Koj lam kawm ntawv siab xwb tab sis koj tsis ntse koj thiaj plam tus neeg koj hlub
So sad to hear your story. Zoo siab tias koj tau Dr, txhais tau tias koj kawm txawj, tabsis tu siab tias koj tsis ntse.
The best comment by far!!! She is educated but not smart!
Tus siabtiag2lios😢
Zoo koj tsis yuav nws, yog koj yuav nws ces ntshe koj twb muab nws nrauj lawm os, vim koj daim degree haib dua ne.
At the beginning my parents didnt like my bf either esp he was from out of state. I didnt care I married him anyways. Weve been together for 20 yrs and my parents moved to live closer to us because none of my siblings was willing to take care of them. They live 5 mins away from us and oh boy i think they love my husband more than they love me. They spoiled him, esp my mom always making sure hes fed and doesnt go hungry 😆. Parents needs to stop picking husband and wife for thier children let them choose themselves.
Another fake doctor story 😮😮😮
Tus niam hluas ntawm koj ne kj xav li cas xwb kj uas txhawj ntawm kv sais kv twb pab kj txhawj tias lwm nub ntshe kj tus txiv yuav tau tsim kj no koj txob zoo2 siab nawb.
Tim koj ntshaw txiv Dr xwb txhob muab rau txoj hmoo, vim koj twb muaj txoj kev xaiv thiab koj yeej muaj tus hlub koj koj tsis xaiv ne, koj ntshaw nyiaj xwb
You choose your dr degree over your boyfriend
Tib neeg muaj txiv pheej ua lub maib yuav pheej thab qub hluas nraug ces luag yuav ib ntus xwb neej kawg piam
Degree or no degree...."sighs....you should have chosen love. I value education, but when I love, I love regardless of his education. An education is jus to help you improve your quality of life....and if you are with the one person you love, that quality would be so much more wonderful. It is a sad story....I think we need to give another 100 or 200 years and maybe things will change...especially the mindset. Hopefully....
Txub cov dab neeg dov tawj dhau lawm os
You chose status and title over love so stick with it. Deciding to love your husband is the right choice now.
Koj Yog Ib tus poj niam Liam heev thiab lawm kawm ta xwb tsis tsim nyog
Some People Need To Move On If You Thought Of Marrying That Person! If The Present Isn't For You Too Then Move On From There Too!! The Past Is The Past For A Reason! This Is Sad But It's Too Bad, We Make Decisions To Do What We Do & Now It's Time To Really Focus On Your Kids & Your Family!!
Niam tais ntxeev siab aw txoj kev hlub ntawm koj tus hluas nraug neb txoj kev hlub tsis tim koj niam koj txiv os, koj twb xav xav yuav koj tus txov doctor thiab mas. Koj nyob meka es nim muaj leej twg khoo tau na xiam tiag tiag, lam muab tuaj rau may hais kom muaj plus kom cov neeg ruam ntseeg nws. Kuv tus no zoo tus pg ntxeev siab no kuv yeej tsis ntseeg li os, dag li dag xwb.
Oh, not another dr. Degree story.
Ntuj yuav rau txim rau koj ib hnub tom ntej no vim koj siab phem kuv ntxub cov poj niam siab phem li koj no
Wow can this Dr really are Dr or just completed the certificate to make everyone jealous 😂😂😂 crazy drama
Nej cov moob mekas mas kav theeb tiag2 li plawg. Nej ua neej saib meej mom xwb. Nej tsi muaj txoj kev hlub twg neeg ua hlub nej thiab tau npab nej.
tu siab kawg phem tiag2 yug txhawb2 luag. thaum kawg luag tso yug ua lub neej poob qab tau kev mob thiab tsw tau yuav tsw tas mug txhawb li
For being a doctor, you're not that bright. Just because a person achieved the doctor status doesn't automatically make them smarter than everyone else. Sometimes the person just has more motivation and perseverance than most to get where they are. I've worked with alot of doctors and no offense, but not alot of them are smart. Last but not least, you don't deserve any of them. You really think he's gonna want you back after what you've done to him.
koj yog ib tug poj niam lam kawm ta siab2 xwb tsis txim nyog koj siab phem heev tsis muaj leej twg qhua koj li os koj pua paub tia koj ntxim ntxub thiab tsis muaj ib qho tseem ceeb kuv yeej yog poj niam ib yam li koj tab si kuv tsis nyiam koj coj li no es koj tseem tau luag muaj los tham koj cov lus hai tia tu siab yog dag li dag xwb tham li neeg tsis muaj kev kawm