Wow, after what your Nyab and brother did for you guys, you both end up divorced anyways. Should have saved your Nyab the heartache. Well, glad you moved on and left him. He stopped loving you when he considered a second wife.
You made the right decision! Congratulations! I’m so proud of you for throwing your ex by the wayside. He doesn’t deserve you and you deserve better. Women power!!
True love doesn’t have to have kids nowadays…as long as you both love each other that’s good enough…nowadays your kids don’t love and don’t take care their parents anymore…😩!
Txhob yuav hmoob lawm os mog mi sister aws mus yuav mis kas xwb lawv thiaj li tsi need me nyuam nawb mog peb txiv neej hmoob lub siab phem heev li os😢😢😢😢
I don't understand why your 4 sisters weren't willing to be surrogate for you. I would if my sister can't carry Best wishes to you sister. Hmoob men tsis muaj menyuam los yuav niam yau, tsis muaj tub los yuav niam yau, tsis muaj ntxhais los yuav niam yau. These cheaters will find every reason to cheat 🙄
Yeah, but the woman will eventually leave anyway. Just like this story, she can’t conceive and wanted him to stay too. Not just men that want the woman to stay if he can’t give babies. Lol
Having children is a Great Blessing for life, but if for some reason you can’t have any children, it’s God’s plan for you. And, your brother and sister in law gave you their child and if your husband is happy with that and still wants to marry someone else to have children with, then just let him go. So happy for you and your mes kas husband. Many more blessings years ahead!
Marriage is like an investment….we work so hard and builded so much that’s why it hurts so much….sorry for your marriage that you worked so hard for it..
Hmong men..when a woman cannot conceive they're looking for a 2nd wife. But when it's the other way around, they tell you to stay and forget about having children 🤔
Me viv ncaus kv mob ib yam koj os koj niam muaj niam os kv tsis muaj lawm thiab os tsis muaj tu hlub kv li koj os kv plog koj lub neej ma kv quaj nrog koj li os
Me viv ncaus aw Koj tsi muaj me nyuam es koj tus txiv tsi hlub Koj os nyob li ntawv kuv es twb muaj me nyuam nrog los kuv twb tsi tau txoj kev hlub li os mog tsi txhob tu siab mog hlub2 Koj os mog
If wanting children was truly the issue, paying for surrogacy would not have been a problem. Your husband didn't want kids, he wanted a niam yau. All that time and money ya spent going to laos and on the niam yau, could've paid for surrogate.
Ua tau zoo heev os sister txawm tu siab npaum cas los muab ua ib zaj dab neeg now on if someone life like this move on don’t waste your time with some one didn’t love you
Don't give your husband permission to cheat on you than hope that he doesn't. When it comes to your marriage, don't try to play nice thinking he will change his mind.
What I've learned is that we can't have everything in life. When you have everything, but there's no children, then no love. People are never content with what they have until it is too late.
You made a big wrong decision for having the shots until you finish your graduate program. A lot of couples work, schooling, and still able to raise kids. Having shots for that long damaged your uterus.
Peb ib co txiv neej hmoob mas liam thiab ruam tiag tiag li zaj no. Tsis txawj hlub poj niam ces poj niam kawg mus yuav lwm haiv neeg xwb tiag. You have to love your wife brother hmoob aw!
Cav yuav ruam ua luaj, muab kev nyuaj siab tso kiag rau niag driver kom lub ntuj tig kiag ua daim av ces kev nyuaj siab ya kiag nrog huab nrog cua lawm xwb mas
I hate these kind of stories. So weak and depressing. I would have left back home to USA the minute he flies to Laos. Come on woman! You have a Masters degree!
What he did is not forbidden or against your religion and not uncommon in your culture. You gave up right to say that is evil when you claim shamanism as your worldview.
For a woman with a Masters degree, I'm sorry but the minute he starts looking for a 2nd wife, that would've ended for me. For a man to be this shallow and not appreciate the gift of life your brother and his wife gave you guys, he's not worth it. You did good by leaving his sorry a$$. Only look forward and keep your eyes on the prize.
Omg Sister, why do you even allow this, doesn’t matter if you can’t have kids, if this is what he wants then just divorce him, instead you allow him to go cheat and break your heart in front of you!!! So stupid!
You can't have kids, so let your husband marry a second wife. It's not his fault that he can't have kids. it's you, so why force him to love and stay with you.
@kaciewanh1986 Do you understand that he doesn't want to be with her anymore because she couldn't have kids with him?.. Kids or no kids, when men don't want to be with you anymore, it's best to let him go. Life doesn't end with him, so move on, take the trash out, and leave it outside so it won't stink up your house.
Niag pojniam ruam niag pojniam qaug qib ua tsis taus niam, koj kua muag si laws es koj ob ceg puas si laws thiab ? twb pom xeeb tuaj mus nyob rau lub tebchaws uas pojniam muaj power tshaj txiv neej tseem nyo hau rau txiv neej caij tsuj tau yus thiab ces twb tsis yog ruam xwb tseem dhau qhov ruam lawm ces ua ib siab dai tuag los yog haus tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj thiaj li tsis nyhav av.
Master's Degree but still let your husband go fawk maum dev and leave you for 2 weeks on vacation. Ruam tshaj li os. Ua niam loj siab zoo don't mean shit anymore these days
Wow, after what your Nyab and brother did for you guys, you both end up divorced anyways. Should have saved your Nyab the heartache. Well, glad you moved on and left him. He stopped loving you when he considered a second wife.
Tu tu siab li os peb cov tsis muaj me nyuam 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Nyob zoo os maiv VAJ on tug nyob rau koj ob sab yog koj ob tug ntxhai los maiv VAJ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kj zaj neej neeg no tu siab tshaj plaws li os
It’s his wish. Let him go! Also it’s his excuse to leave.
You made the right decision! Congratulations! I’m so proud of you for throwing your ex by the wayside. He doesn’t deserve you and you deserve better. Women power!!
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Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li o mi viv n aww 😭😭😭😭
True love doesn’t have to have kids nowadays…as long as you both love each other that’s good enough…nowadays your kids don’t love and don’t take care their parents anymore…😩!
Let's him go. Just treasure the gift your brother and sister gave you.
😢😢 tu2 siab
Txhob yuav hmoob lawm os mog mi sister aws mus yuav mis kas xwb lawv thiaj li tsi need me nyuam nawb mog peb txiv neej hmoob lub siab phem heev li os😢😢😢😢
I don't understand why your 4 sisters weren't willing to be surrogate for you. I would if my sister can't carry
Best wishes to you sister.
Hmoob men tsis muaj menyuam los yuav niam yau, tsis muaj tub los yuav niam yau, tsis muaj ntxhais los yuav niam yau. These cheaters will find every reason to cheat 🙄
AND when they can’t give the woman babies, they expect the wife to stick around! Pathetic!
Muaj menyuam coob dhau los yuav2 niam yau thiab 😅LOL
@@maimoua1371hmoob man CAs dabtsi los yeej txauj tas lawv thiaj yog cov yeej thiab zoo txuas yam.
Yeah, but the woman will eventually leave anyway. Just like this story, she can’t conceive and wanted him to stay too. Not just men that want the woman to stay if he can’t give babies. Lol
Having children is a Great Blessing for life, but if for some reason you can’t have any children, it’s God’s plan for you. And, your brother and sister in law gave you their child and if your husband is happy with that and still wants to marry someone else to have children with, then just let him go. So happy for you and your mes kas husband. Many more blessings years ahead!
Tuaj koom nroj koj mlooj xov xwm lawm os sib pab tiv taas caum nawb 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Koj ua yog lawm os peb cov poj niam ces txawm yog leej twg tau tsug txoj kev no los tshe yuav tu siab ib yam li os mog
Nrog Koj tusiab kawg li os sister aw, tabsi niam no ces kuj nrog Koj zoo siab kawg li thiab os nawb.!
Cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj os 😢
Marriage is like an investment….we work so hard and builded so much that’s why it hurts so much….sorry for your marriage that you worked so hard for it..
Glad you stood your ground and let go of him. Wish you the best.
Hmong men..when a woman cannot conceive they're looking for a 2nd wife. But when it's the other way around, they tell you to stay and forget about having children 🤔
When men can not have kids, their pride is hidden under their feet- can not do much then the wife should use women power
Es yom ntshai tsam ib hlub twg kv lub neej zoo li no xb o😂😂😂😂
Txhob cem lwm tus neeg duam thiab txiav txim rau lawv, koj lam tau lub npe kawm ntawv siab xwb koj lub siab yog lub siab duam thiab yeej tsis tsim nyog qhuas yus tus kheej li koj ko, Vaj Tswv yeej pom txog koj txoj kev xav phem es thiaj li tsis pub txhua yam rau koj
So glad you're able to see your worth and move on. If he really love you, he wouldn't care about your infertility.
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Txiv neej hmoob ces ntshaw ntau lub ncua ces tias tim ub tim no. Peb cov poj niam hmoob siab zoo dhau heev lawm cov txiv neej hmoob thiaj saib peb tsis muaj nqis. Yog peb yuav meskas es peb hlub meskas npaum peb hlub lawv mas cov txiv meskas yuav hlub peb poj niam hmoob heev li.
You make the right decision by leaving him. You have your son treasure him.
Hluas nraug txeeb luag tej pojniam, hluas nkauj txeeb luag tej txiv.
Me ntxhai aws koj yeej xav yog kawg kuv tsi yog ib tug ntxhai muaj kev txawj ntse lis koj thiab kuv twb lau laus lawm tiamsis kuv yeej ib txwm tsi nyiam muaj niam hlob niam yau lis es yog kuv los kuv yeej yuav ua tib yam lis koj ua kos thiab os mog.
She go bye bye! 😂😂
Now, the American guy has all the goodies. Hahaha!
Me viv ncaus kv mob ib yam koj os koj niam muaj niam os kv tsis muaj lawm thiab os tsis muaj tu hlub kv li koj os kv plog koj lub neej ma kv quaj nrog koj li os
Yog tus txiv muaj tsis me nyuam, tus txiv yuav tau tso tus poj niam yuav txiv yau los yug me nyuam.
Me viv ncaus aw Koj tsi muaj me nyuam es koj tus txiv tsi hlub Koj os nyob li ntawv kuv es twb muaj me nyuam nrog los kuv twb tsi tau txoj kev hlub li os mog tsi txhob tu siab mog hlub2 Koj os mog
Kuv lam yog koj tus driver ces koj mag kuv tsuav ntsuag. Siab zoo npaum koj ko. Xav hlub nrog koj
If wanting children was truly the issue, paying for surrogacy would not have been a problem. Your husband didn't want kids, he wanted a niam yau. All that time and money ya spent going to laos and on the niam yau, could've paid for surrogate.
Ua tau zoo heev os sister txawm tu siab npaum cas los muab ua ib zaj dab neeg now on if someone life like this move on don’t waste your time with some one didn’t love you
Txivneej mas yeejphem li nov os. Nim no twb tsis xav yug menyuam tub lawm vim loj ces yuav phem li tej neej neeg no.
Don't give your husband permission to cheat on you than hope that he doesn't. When it comes to your marriage, don't try to play nice thinking he will change his mind.
Koj tus txiv no naw tsis tau pom dab ces siab tsis nqig, siag no pom dab phim yujvais lawm ces lig dhau tig tsis tau rov. 😂😂😂❤❤❤
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Ntawm kuv xav, tsis hais txiv neej los poj niam, thaum ntsib tus tshiab lawm ces txoj kev yuav tig rov hlub tus qub yuav tsis zoo li qub lawm. Ua cas txoj kev sib hlub ntawm txoj kev niam txiv yuav tsis ncaj ncees li os 😢😢😢😢
Nyuam qhuav haum xwb os cov niag txiv neej siab phem ntshaw coob tus thiab tus mos ab. Pom dej dag siab thiaj nqig los mas.
Cas koj zaj neej neeg tu siab ua luaj os kuv nrog koj tu siab kawg os me viv ncaus .ua neeg nyob tu siab ua luaj.
Glad you stand strong and recycled your txiv dev. He didn’t loved you that’s why he can yuav niam yau.
What I've learned is that we can't have everything in life. When you have everything, but there's no children, then no love. People are never content with what they have until it is too late.
You made a big wrong decision for having the shots until you finish your graduate program. A lot of couples work, schooling, and still able to raise kids. Having shots for that long damaged your uterus.
OMG, I can't believe you held it together and stayed in Thailand🤬. I'm glad you've moved on because you deserve better.
Peb ib co txiv neej hmoob mas liam thiab ruam tiag tiag li zaj no. Tsis txawj hlub poj niam ces poj niam kawg mus yuav lwm haiv neeg xwb tiag. You have to love your wife brother hmoob aw!
Peb cov txivneej Hmoob siab phem tiag2. Yog Pojniam tsis muaj menyuam ces yuav niamyau, muaj ntxhais tsis muaj tub los yuav niamyau. Tabsis yog tim tus txiv noob tsis qoos muaj tsis taus tubki ces tas tsevneeg txwv tsis kheev nrauj tsis kam pojniam yuav txivyau.
Nrhiav dua tus tshiab xwb tsis u siab li os
Regarding the hotel room situation: let the mistress in with your husband and you share a room with the driver. Justice served!
Omg feel so bad for the boy….never adopt your kid away
You should've saved yourself a whole lotta money, heartache and tears if you hadn't let your txiv dev go fawk off while on vacation 🤦
Sister koj tus txiv thiab kuv tus mas xav ib yam nkaus.
Cav yuav ruam ua luaj, muab kev nyuaj siab tso kiag rau niag driver kom lub ntuj tig kiag ua daim av ces kev nyuaj siab ya kiag nrog huab nrog cua lawm xwb mas
Thaub ruam os thaub ruam aws, nws tub tsis muaj me nyuam es Koj thiaj mus yuav niam mos ab. Es Koj tseem khuv xim ua ab tsi naw ruam aws. Ruam tiag2
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Hauv lub ntiaj teb no tseem muaj tej tug poj niam lub peev xwm ruam ruam tseem caum tus txiv mus yuav niam yau thiab yom
It’s difficult for both. Either way it’s not fair. Best to divorce and go your own separate ways.
Wow, another woman doing it to another when she knew he is a married man. Please, ladies. This isn't the style nowadays.
I hate these kind of stories. So weak and depressing. I would have left back home to USA the minute he flies to Laos. Come on woman! You have a Masters degree!
Mommy got a BIG one now daddy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not sure about that. He is old so…. 🤷🏻♀️.
Yep, and I am happy for her. She gains everything.
@ not everything 😝
Koj mus lub ntuj qub qab ces yuav mus ua neeg puas siab puas ntsws xwb.
What he did is not forbidden or against your religion and not uncommon in your culture. You gave up right to say that is evil when you claim shamanism as your worldview.
You should never started depo.
For a woman with a Masters degree, I'm sorry but the minute he starts looking for a 2nd wife, that would've ended for me. For a man to be this shallow and not appreciate the gift of life your brother and his wife gave you guys, he's not worth it. You did good by leaving his sorry a$$. Only look forward and keep your eyes on the prize.
You treated him too good and he thinks all women are the same which is wrong
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I’m feel painful for you and you’re deserve someone better then him !
Omg Sister, why do you even allow this, doesn’t matter if you can’t have kids, if this is what he wants then just divorce him, instead you allow him to go cheat and break your heart in front of you!!! So stupid!
Very boring story
Useless story
You can't have kids, so let your husband marry a second wife. It's not his fault that he can't have kids. it's you, so why force him to love and stay with you.
You are not in her shoes you won't understand. Hmong men always blame on women fault no matter have a lot kids or none.
@kaciewanh1986 Do you understand that he doesn't want to be with her anymore because she couldn't have kids with him?.. Kids or no kids, when men don't want to be with you anymore, it's best to let him go. Life doesn't end with him, so move on, take the trash out, and leave it outside so it won't stink up your house.
Agreed
Old school attitude.
Niag pojniam ruam niag pojniam qaug qib ua tsis taus niam, koj kua muag si laws es koj ob ceg puas si laws thiab ? twb pom xeeb tuaj mus nyob rau lub tebchaws uas pojniam muaj power tshaj txiv neej tseem nyo hau rau txiv neej caij tsuj tau yus thiab ces twb tsis yog ruam xwb tseem dhau qhov ruam lawm ces ua ib siab dai tuag los yog haus tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj thiaj li tsis nyhav av.
Master's Degree but still let your husband go fawk maum dev and leave you for 2 weeks on vacation. Ruam tshaj li os. Ua niam loj siab zoo don't mean shit anymore these days
She upgraded to a crawfish.. hahahhaha
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