More and more French can speak English in France (except those who forgot their school lessons like my own brother, in the coutryside :+)). But contrary to anglosaxon languages speakers like Dutch or German people, it's rather difficult for a French to speak correctly English, because French language is probably the most NEUTRALLY or MONOTONOUSLY spoken on Earth and is virtually not intonated (it simply dies at the end of a sentence). So since there is no equivalent in their own language, the French have to make a REAL EFFORT... to create intonations or even move the different parts of their mouth to produce special sounds like both the English th, the Spanish jota or rr or the German ch, or for Chinese or Arabic sounds. That's why you noticed that, without talking of the vocabulary, the French sometimes apologise for their bad English. So it's rather difficult as well for a foreigner to speak French correctly since they have to ABANDON totally their intonations and I've noticed that the African or Slavic languages speakers generally succeed well. But the problem becomes similar for an English to switch from his own mouth technique to the one of another type of intonated language like Italian for ex. Another consequence is that French and notably humorists can probably make more EASILY and clearly a fun of the immitation of foreign languages since they simply have to add an intonation on the official French language wich has virtually none, and even for very slight differences in the accents of the other francophone countries or those of the few notables in French regions (about 6). Concerning strikes, the demonstrations are normally calm, but a violent phenomenon has recently emerged since the gilets jaunes (yellow jackets) movement : the black bloc. There have been 2 large suburbs riots in France since 1995, when they put fire to cars and public furnitures immitating what appeared strangely for New Year Eve in... Alsace, next to Germany, several years ago, but it normally didn't reach central Paris and the social demonstrations there. The last times it did ! The black bloc mainly disturbed them as well and the fires concerned public buildings too... which is really unaceptable. This phenomenon seems to have slowed down now but who knows what they'll do next time? All the rest of what you say is absolutely exact. The misconception about Americans probably came from the decison of De Gaulle to withdraw the US military force from France to recover a true political independence, which disliked the US. And a bit thanks to this independence it allowed France to be the champion of the construction of the EUROPEAN UNION and even the voice of the other countries which didn't dare to speak on first line like France did... That brought many problems which in turn disliked the French (opposition to Concorde plane, Ariane space shuttle, even the French chip card or the Galileo sattelite network or the Euro and concerning foods and cultural goods the 1st GAT agreement with the increasing impact of mass media American culture on French one since the 1980ies. Finally, the difference of opinions about the Iraki war didn't help neither! But the French swallowed it like all the other European countries did, and like the US did for the EU competition, and the traditional americano-french friendship which was so strong from La Fayette to the 1930ies has now resumed since the mid-2000ies. Just look at the mediatic extreme (and even extremist :+)) treatment in France of the Ukrainian war for example ! Now that's fortunately again the honey moon between us, above all among the young ones who simply ignore what happened before and consequently don't even understand... this cliché ! :+)
There is no word more important in French than Bonjour. The first time my husband and I went to France, he was certain they were very rude, and decided to count all the rude people he encountered. The total was 13: 11 Americans and 2 Germans. BTW , after three days in Paris, he said to me, “ you know, I could live here.”
I'm french and I can confirm. An happy "Bonjour" is always appreciated and not saying bonjour while entering a place is seen as very rude because when we are kids, our parents are insisting on saying Bonjour/Merci/Au revoir, this is the Holy Trinity of Education ! At a point that when I was a child, if I didn't said Bonjour while entering a place, we were going back outside to re-enter the place and saying bonjour that time 😅
This is standard in most European countries. You definitely say "Buon Giorno" or "Salve," NEVER "ciao" when you walk in in Italy. Same in Germany only there it's "GutenTag." I live in Israel we alway greet the proprieter or workers in a place and often add a "how are you?"
People can be very rude if you skip the Bonjour. I am French and I had that problem just because I didn't say it loud enough :D employee have to be considered as human being and you have to be polite with them, even as customer.
My first trip to Paris was almost 20 years ago. It was late. My travel partner and I were waiting at a bus stop. We did not know the buses had stopped running. Still, a French gentleman realized our mistake and stopped to direct us to the Metro. He spoke no English; we spoke no French. And yet, he got his point across and we arrived safely back to our hotel. People are people around the world; kind, thoughtful and willing to help out damsels in distress. I have been helped by people all around the world who spoke no English and I only speak English. Be humble.
True Parisian since my birth 1956. To approach a Parisian or a Frenchman from other regions, you have to be smiling and not arrive on conquered ground. For Parisians they are also in the provinces badly seen by people because they all know, no arrogance is better. So "Bienvenue parmi nous" everyone 😊
My husband and I are Canadian, and therefore we had the obligatory French language classes throughout high school. It is amazing how much you can forget, but how much you retain. My husband speaks it more fluently than I do, but my trick was always lead with Bonjour and I specifically learned the French phrase "I'm sorry, my French is not very good. Do you speak English?". We received nothing but warmth and welcome. Our standard for travel everywhere is that we are visitors in someone's home, therefore best behaviour instead of entitlement.
This is exactly the kind of sentence I would recommend to say 😊. We don’t expect people to know French, and we know how difficult it is, that’s why we really appreciate the effort ❤
Yes, being polite is the key. My impression was that many who aren't comfortable with their English want to see how you manage speaking French. If you're struggling, they will try.
We don't expect tourists to be perfectly fluent, and are more than willing to switch to english when they really struggle with french. What we don't like is people not even trying. Even broken french will earn you bonus points
My mom had French in high school and college but not much opportunity to use it after grad school in Rome. Whe we went to Belgium and later France in 1958, it all came back to her. She was absolutely fluent. I'm not flutent anymore but I've had a couple of occasions to use mine and was able to. At this point it's been demoted from my second language to maybe fourth.
As an American who lived in Italy for almost 10 years I'd like to add that speaking slower and LOUDER in English isn't going to make them magically understand you. I lost count of how many times I saw tourists doing that. THAT is exactly how you'll get someone to be rude to you... because it's annoying in any culture/language. Problem is, they don't even realize they're doing it in the first place.
@@LesFrenchiesTravel lol turns out abbreviating sentences down to basic words but still speaking English but just louder doesn't actually change anything. Good way to piss people off though.
@@jdkgcp Do people really do that? Speak louder in hopes that someone will understand them? I thought that was something that only characters in tv shows and movies did. Wow, I guess it must come from somewhere. LOL
@@christopherdieudonne100% yes. And they don't even realize they are doing it. The best though is when an American throws a pretend (Italian, French etc) accent onto the English words. That part was my favorite.
@@christopherdieudonne It doesn't. If the person doesn't speak English or speaks very little.... imagine how annoying it is to hear someone yelling at you with a pretend made up accent. Now imagine thats 90% of the tourists.
I've only been to France/Paris twice, but this is 100% spot on with my experience. If you make an effort to respect the language and culture, you will have an amazing time!
Last time I tried to speak French (Which at the time I had been studying for 3 years) The french made fun of me because I wasn't grammatically 100% correct and instead of trying to encourage me to study and improve my french they laughed and bullied me.
@@lisaanimiThey were gross ! But to be honest, french people are also like this with native french speakers if you make a mistake they will think you are dumb, I don't like that behavior at all. I'm french myself, if you want to improve your french, I'll be very happy to help and I'll not mock you, I promise 😋
@@lisaanimiThey didn't make fun of you and they didn't bully you, they tried to help you improve your french by correcting your mistakes, but you took it personally. They were laughing because they were taking it lightly, so they giggled to show it wasn't a big deal, but it seems that you felt offended because you probably aren't used to banter with people that are foreign to you.
As an American who has lived in Paris for over 20 years, I have often heard many of these concerns from friends and family who plan on coming to visit. I'm always having to disabuse them of these misconceptions. NOW, I can just send them the link to this video. Great job !
one thing and I think it might be an interesting way of seing things: french people see american movies and TV shows, americans depict french people in their movies in a very harsh way (we stink, we don't take showers, we don't shave, we're s*x addicts, we're traitors, we're weak , we're cowards...... ) , your family is scared because of this way of depicting french people, and french people might hold some resentment towards americans because of it. It is very , very , very insulting, and has been for decades.
@@backintimealwyn5736 As a French guy watching US movies/TVshows all the time, seems to me the representation of French people is mostly positive, and often, the characters who bash Frenches by stereotypes are rednecks or stupid comic reliefs. Nevertheless, one point or two in the video are nice, but really indulgent: 1. Frenches are just like anyone else : some are rude, others not, but people are usually more rude in Paris, even as a french i experienced it, my thought is its really hard to stay polite when you live and work in a huge theme park, add 280 days/year of grey sky on that, it could make you angry. 2. What's said about strikes is really wise and true, it's a right and a local way to involve citizens in politics, however, there is A LOT of strikes in France, that's a fact.
I wish we had more people striking and standing up for each other here in America. I'm a military kid, very fortunate to have grown up traveling. It has been my experience as a traveler that it is far more likely the American is the rude one. I cannot count the number of times I have witnessed this. Soooo embarrassing. To my fellow Americans, the constitution does not travel with you outside the U.S. Other countries do not use the 'dollar'. Some, in other countries, may choose to speak English but it is not required. So please, travel the world, have an amazing time, and please remember, MANNERS MATTER!
Dont be too embarrassed bc I’ve also witnessed some horrible interactions that I’ve seen fellow french people had when travelling. And I think every country has its own dumb tourists. I was in the us and a French family near me at the restaurant only spoke French and expected the poor waitress to understand WTF are those people thinking???
For the majority of u.s. citizens it's the national exceptionalism that has been instilled since post-ww II that is a large part of the problem. It would take years to turn from that mentality. Prior to the cold war, americans were known for striking for labour rights (battle of Blair mountain, Pullman strike, bread and roses strike, bonus army march, etc.) except the CIO/civil rights March on Washington in 1963. Instead you have this attitude of being a temporarily embarrassed millionaire and acting against your fundamental rights. It's depressing how far we've turned against ourselves just to puff our chest out over things many other nations have as well.
I remember Jerry Seinfeld's comment on how beautiful Paris is. When others say "ugh but Parisians are so arrogant'", he responds, "Well have you been to Paris? Look around, can you blame them?" 😂 I've found most people in Paris/ around France to be absolutely lovely, and always think about Seinfeld's funny quip. The French should be proud of their beautiful country and culture. ❤
@@sabarsabar2231 claiming that Parisians are rude and arrogant is an exaggeration, knowing that most of the Parisians nowdays come from the rest of the country. Like Antoine said, it is more like a big city attitude.
I worked in France for a while, a long time ago. I could read French well, but was intimidated to speak it. Still, I kept trying. I truly admire the French. They have a great history, so many great artists; and really good food. The food is surprisingly affordable, I thought; as were cheap, small hotels. I found people kind; and there was quite a variety of different cities, types of scenery. Paris is not the only place to see!
🇫🇷 yes not only Paris if you have time PLZ visit Alpes, Brittany, centre etc lots of différents landscape like in US but at short distances " le plus beau pays du monde" 😅
@@Josep_Hernandez_Lujan smallest cities are very valuables and people are often more sympas, anyway lots of things to see everywhere, envenimer french people like I can't visit everything.
Yes, French (like most Europeans) understand that the point of good work is not to drive the stock indices up, but to ensure better life. Shouldn't we all?
I read French people are more productive. In other countries (like America maybe ?) people tend to stay late at work just to not leave before the boss, or because the "value" of an employee is about how many hours he was here, while we count how much work he did ! meaning the French guy may stay 7hours instead of 9 but do more work at the en of the day. Also, vacation time is 5 weeks and not 6.
@@mimosal3767 ONE guy can travel 800 miles a day , if he got himself a car or invented a fast vehicle , ANOTHER guy can travel 8 miles in a day by foot ......The guy that walked 8 miles worked VERY hard to achieve the distance , the other sat on his ass to achieve 100 times the distance ....Quantity of work is totally different from quality of work .... But it's much harder to quantify quality , hence the abandonment of it in a bean counter society totally obsessed by metrics .....Also it's counter hierarchical to try to manage QUALITY oriented elements , they're probably better at their jobs than the boss and got more ideas , so in a highly hierarchical society they get dumped despite their added value because they represent "unfair competition"to the top down structure ......Despite beeing progressively anglo saxonnized by big international corporations and their subsequent anglo saxon management methods born from globalisation , France culturally still has some remnants of horizontal structures like cooperatives and lots of companies that operate in quality dependent niche sectors of the economy hence why we're productive , but it's sadly slowly dying due to agressive anglo Saxon mergers and acquisitions ( I worked in pre globalisation France And post globalisation France ...And let me tell ya metrics oriented anglo saxon management fueled ambiances feel like cancer with a hint of syphillis , I mean it's good when you want to reduce personnel using harassement , but when you actually want to do a good job , lord .....H.R is dead weight to ANY company , EXCEPT in a neoliberal society that has to adjust inflation provoked decreasing profits by slashing jobs due to the constraints of an ever expanding monetary mass (fueling wars worldwide ) , and the need to reduce the velocity of said currency to mitigate the hyperinflation monster from lighting up the streets with blowing rage ....)...If I was president , I'd send the WHOLE national H.R personnel to plow fields with their hands , and or put a gun in their hands to go surveil the newly reinstated national borders ( they're agressive S.O.Bs ! ) for those that proved to plow well for ten years eating only shit stained gruel , and I'd fix the currency supply to a backing of the usage rights of a nationalized body of industry crucial patents ( similar to the extraterritoriality of the dollar but smarter ) .....That'd probably make the country's workplace IQ jump 30 points in one go , and the workplace ambiance feel as nice as the golden 60s to 80s
i am french, born and always lived in Paris and these comment section is warming my heart because it hurts a little bit to read bad comments about us all the time.. so thank you 😬 and about the fact that french people don't speak english : don't worry because the new generation is actually getting better and better at speaking english thanks to internet :)
Your analysis is spot on. We just spent 4 months in France and we were treated like honored guests everywhere we traveled. Next to Filipinos, we think the French are the nicest, kindest and helpful people on earth. Thanks for speaking the truth and your GREAT videos.
Thank you very much for this kind comment. We are very honored that you have appreciated your trip in France. I you've been 4 months here, you might have visited not only Paris and you were right. France is not only Paris, the countrysides and villages are so charming and welcoming... even if people speak less english there. ;-)
Everyone in Paris was so nice!! Was there in June, interacting with many people at tourist spots, socially, and some business. I had a respectful attitude about the culture and spoke small amounts of French. Everyone so friendly, encouraging, and gracious. Entire trip was a delight!
I’ve been asked about this multiple times by my fellow Americans and I respond that my experience in Paris this past June was the French were very kind and friendly. Not once did I encounter anyone who was rude. I think the French are more reserved and quiet in general and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Lovely place and people. Can’t wait to go back❤️❤️❤️
Im Spanish and I've been to Paris last June. I can only say good things about the warm welcome that I received everywhere. I did my best effort to speak French, and maybe that helped, but I was amazed because I had been bombarded by the same stereotypes about French people and Parisiens in particular.
We're only rude to americans, because they paint us as rude in their movies ,they also say we stink and we're s*x maniacs , so... we don't want to disappoint. Kidding. Kind off. I have worked in the service industry , I was always nice, exept with some rare americans who were really abusive and hysterical , then I got a tad ruder than the average american service worker. the client is not king in France , we're all due basic respect, if it's not there, some bullies might be surprised. We just don't get fired over one unsatisfied customer so there is less fear and submissiveness and an equal to equal relationship can make a come back when needed.
@@backintimealwyn5736 Bien vu. Il y a des gens irrespectueux dans tous les pays. A eux de s'adapter quand ils viennent chez nous. Je me souviens qu'en Suède, dès qu'on sort des clous, on est rappelé à l'ordre. A l'aéroport de Stockholm, dans la salle d'attente, j'avais posé par mégarde mon bagage sur le siège voisin, libre. Un mec m'a regardé salement et j'ai compris que ce siège est là pour s'asseoir. Ce n'est pas plus mal. Il faut respecter les autres et soi-même. La liberté bien sûr, mais dans la limite de celle des autres...
🇲🇫Remembering a lovely French woman who snuck me into a French museum: I had gotten into the wrong line, it would have been hours in another line for me! She literally created a plan to keep the line checkers busy while I crept into the museum. We laughed and laughed at the ticket counter.
THANK YOU! in capitals for showing all the misconceptions/French People. I'm a French woman living in the US, and I've kept saying that for years! I'm from Marseille ( place that you guys need to visit), and I keep telling people that French people are not rude, we just have different standards. My American Hubby was able to go around by himself, not really speaking French and had very nice conversations with French people and loved it! As long as you are polite and accept the way French people live, meaning this is not the US, you're good!
Thanks for not telling that « parisian are rude and assholes, that paris is shit and province is better » Most frenchies that lives outside the capital tend to insult Paris while they went there one time or not at all. I’m only a banlieusard but it annoys me. J’adore les marseillais, vous êtes très sympa !
@@n0rmal953c'est vrai...Il y a des régionalistes en France, le régionalisme est un produit des notables provinciaux dénigrant la capitale synonyme d'Etat mais en fait de révolution ( avant), révolution qui menace leurs prérogatives.
@@n0rmal953 The thing is, Parisians can be rude assholes. Understandably so sometimes (go to Barcelona or Venice in season and you'll be met with the same situations). Overcrowding and the misbehaving of some crazy tourists can make people's attitude less than wecoming. It tends to be nicer out of season, people are less stressed, but Paris doesn't really have an "off" season. Aside from that, the cliché of the rude, arrogant Parisian didn't sprout into existence out of thin air. As an example, a situation from my job this summer in retail: >me: *usual spiel at the register of the store about customer card advantages" >customer: "I don't care, I'll never come again, I don't even know why you still exist, your stores are useless, I'm just here because my son wanted something on Holiday". >m: "oh, what makes you say that sir, did something bother you in the store?" >c: "No, I just find, more, better, and better priced in Paris. No wonder everybody wants to live there and you cant keep up in the Province". Not the first time I had that kind of experience (I live in an area where a lot of parisians have a summer home). There isn't one single spot in the country, or the world tbh, where you won't meet assholes. But the "Parisian asshole" is a special breed. Not that all assholes in Paris are "Parisian assholes". You'll meet the vanilla kind as well. But that specific kind? Yeah, they are something...
Marseille is very special. Accent, strong personnality, but not chauvinism. Humour, self humour.... In a way, a Marseillais cannot be seen serious. But it's the secondth city in France. .. There're some similarities with Paris : Big ciry, huge social inequalities ( 8000 millionnaires, many many poor people, city of immigration....thus open mind citizens, and of Révolution, working class in class struggle.
I must tell you a wonderful story: One of the first times I was in Paris, 80’s or early 90’s, I was at the airport and was wondering if I could smoke in the airport. I asked a lovely French lady if I could smoke ( I didn’t speak any French) and she responded “ Nobody tells the French where or when to smoke, so if you wish to smoke please do.” I laughed and thought how wonderful of an attitude and I have viewed the French in this way since and have never forgotten that quote after all of these years ❤😊
I was there in July and couldn't have met more nice/friendly/helpful people. Bonjour - and attempting to speak a little French was definitely appreciated and we loved being able to sit in a cafe /etc without being hassled to leave like American businesses. I thought the service was amazing and nice.
We were there in July also. Loved the french. They were warm, genuine, and hospitable. The food was amazing, and I thought less costly and better quality than in the US.
Ha! I'm Parisian, and the day someone hassles me to leave when I sit at a café or a bar, believe me the outrage will be very real! We have a culture of staying sometimes hours in that kind of place (when it's long we usually order several times). That's why Starbucks had lots of issues doing business in France, because they were used to "take your coffee and leave" and not "take your coffee and spend 1 hour just sitting there". They had to adapt!
Visited Paris this summer for the first time, got out of the train one stop early after leaving the airport and right away a local lady was there to guide me back to the train. We had no common language but the helpfulness was touching. Main reason for visiting was the unfortunately cancelled Mylène Farmer concert but at the evening of the concert at the restaurant when the staff heard about my bad luck and bemoaned "Vive la France!" I got a aperitif on the house and when the check came also came a Bluetooth speaker playing Mylène's "Désenchantée". Wonderful people all around. Good luck in this is that the concert was transferred to 2024 so in 13 months I'll be back which is wonderful! ❤
Love this bubble popping episode. Travel is France is like travel everywhere. Be curious, learn enough of the language to be polite, be humble and kindness will find you. I've found this to be true all over the world. People are proud of where they live, their language, traditions and will take you in if you show you are interested and not so full of yourself.
This is both useful and hilarious. Antoine seemed to be really enjoying himself in this one. Love it when he said “that’s not true… we hate everyone” LOL
Whatever his name is, the president ALWAYS goes on the top of the list.It's one of his main functions. Should consider himself lucky for not being a king...@@snipergames9510
I kept saying during our trip to Paris a couple of weeks ago “wow - they really want us to leave happy!!”.. I was so touched by how incredibly kind many Parisians were to us. I also thought it was pretty cool how much they were into their pets. Many brought their dogs everywhere (including fancy department stores), and one lady was literally on her scooter with her Parrot 😂❤👌🏽
I am a French teacher and I just had a student ask me if the French hate Americans! This video is GREAT to clear up these misconceptions. I may just show it to mes élèves! Merci beaucoup! PS: Your videos are so informative and helpful!!
salut . c est étrange ça quand meme ... mais pourquoi un jeune americain en arrive à penser que moi , en tant que français je le déteste . il y à vraiment un truc qui ne va pas là ...
Salut, hi, if you wanna show this video to your students two things maybe to correct (as a French), we have five vacations weeks and 6 public holidays (but most of them may happened on Sundays from times to times), not sure that French are jealous of American freedom of speech, we have it but the hate speech, that’s indeed a crime, some American writers like Stetson Kennedy even had to publish their books in France because they weren’t allowed in the U.S. My guess both system have taboos, both have merits.
Un cours d'histoire vaut mieux que cette vidéo (aussi bonne soit-elle). Du D-Day américain sur les côtes normandes au sabotage de nord stream 2, en passant par l’espionnage et le sabotage industriel subit par notre cher pays au profit de l'Oncle Sam, c'est assez difficile de ne pas comprendre pour les français en viennent à détester les américains. Bien sûr les rapports entre un gilets jaune et un texan ou un newyorkais moyen peuvent être bonnes, mais jamais les français n'admettront la domination américaine en europe.
This is a nice post. I’ve been to paris 25 times, most recently in January and I’m returning for a month this September and agree with your observations. I always try to debunk the stereotypes of both the French and American people. However, I do believe that France and its culture are better for me. So many french people I speak with don’t realize that there are no guarantees of vacations, health services and leave benefits in the US. They are incredulous when I tell them. In my opinion, the French philosophy of Liberty, Equality and Fraternity has inspired a better lifestyle for french society rather than Life, Liberty and Pursuit of happiness which emphasizes the individual rather than society as a whole.
@@lisaw2525 I’ve learned to travel wisely. Airline credit card used for air miles, airbnb, small apartments or small hotels, eat well locally at cafes, bistros, boulangeries. Walk and use the metro or buses. It doesn’t have to be over the top. I like going in winter too. Better rates, wonderful food and smaller crowds. I enjoy just being in the moment and not running crazy trying to do everything.
@@romaincalot9500For me, France and most of western Europe had the chance to be trapped between capitalist US and communist USSR. It created a balance between the two systems and allowed Socialism to rise. Now that the USSR is down, there is no "risk" for the government to go full blast on capitalism and selfishness, destroying every social rights one by one. I am also worried about all the things we are going to lose in the process, even past the obvious good things like free medicine and education.
@@JuChamsA balance ? Where ? I'm sorry but I disagree with your comment. Sure, we're not like Americans but there's no way France is social or is "between" american and USSR concept. We lose our social advantages year after year despite our protests. Sure it's better than the US. But we have a major american culture even in the movies, the candies we can find in the supermarket and it begins to spread in the work culture. Working late, not taking a long lunch break (some of my colleagues are only taking 20 minutes to eat and sometimes, they eat at their desk) and feeling guilty about being sick or having vacation (many people still work during their holidays by looking for their emails and have trouble by stop working). Sure it's worse somewhere else but we surely aren't in the social way. Or at least, we aren't going towards social politics anymore.
France is not only about Paris, and Parisians lifestyle ... There are SO many singular and unique regions scattered all over the country that deserve to be on the spotlight.
@@fabriceclement6587 C'est vrai que Marseille a beaucoup de problèmes, mais touristiquement c'est très joli, avec le vieux port, la mer, les calanques, les montagnes, etc... En plus, l'hôpital de la Timone est un des meilleurs d'Europe... Je connais plusieurs étrangers qui sont allés là-bas et qui ont beaucoup aimé. Et moi aussi j'aime bien, mieux qu'Aix-en-Provence par exemple (même si pour des yeux étrangers, Aix est joli aussi, j'imagine) Après, il y a d'autres villes dont on parle moins : Annecy, Aurillac, Honfleur...
Paris is the most amazing place and I feel bad for all the people who refuse to go based on their preconceived notions of how badly they will be treated by the French. As an American and recent first time visitor to Paris we spent 9 days there and only encountered one woman in a very busy Boulangerie who was unhelpful and a bit rude. I'm guessing that might have to do with the fact that she was very busy and under stress. Everyone else was great, no problems. Most Parisians were very kind, helpful and welcoming, while others were just going about their business and trying to do their jobs professionally. I find most Europeans to be very polite and well mannered compared to Americans. If only people didn't take everything so personally and had a bit more empathy and patience... myself included at times. Just smile and say Bonjour! 🙂
We went last November and the biggest take-away we had, was how incredibly wrong our preconceptions were. The were so nice. Every situation we ran into (directions, being lost, just simple questions) was so pleasant. We keep mentioning it when we talk over our trip and can't wait for our return :) (The guides you both provided were immensely helpful, as well)
This is a wonderful video! As an American, of course I’ve heard every misconception about the French but it never occurred to me that the French are more formal than other Europeans. On my very brief visit last autumn I found the people I met to be very kind & helpful. I can’t wait to return next year when hopefully I’ve learned a bit more of the language! Merci beaucoup!
American, learned French in school from 1st through 12th grade, which was a VERY long time ago. I'm very rusty. I understand maybe 80-90% particularly when written, but far more difficult for me to find the words when speaking. Been there several times, and I was last in Paris in December, and actually felt a lot like a local because I got sick (yeah, 3 years safe and then I get sick there) and right before that, had to deal with running errands (like my wife and I getting Christmas gifts for family in Germany, and me looking for a laptop charger which I'd left at home by mistake, and me trying to get my Swiss watch battery replaced after it died waiting for our luggage at CDG). I think one of the biggest issues is culture; for Americans, the customer is always right and staff at stores are there to serve the customer. But in French culture, it is like THEIR home and you're a guest, and an equal, and you need to respect them. They ARE there to be the professionals that they are, and to help you get what you need, and when you go to a store and say, “I'm just looking” you're really slapping them in the face and saying that they aren’t professional enough. For the most part, as soon as anyone would hear us speaking English (my wife speaks NO French), they'd immediately switch to pretty much fluent English. I often was irritated when I'd try to speak French with a waiter and they'd respond in English. I also found a lot of people there were immigrants (that included in some of the nicer stores) and their English was actually a lot better than their French. One Uber driver didn’t speak any English, but his French was pretty terrible, too. A few examples of the opposite, though, included when I went to an FNAC to try to find a laptop charger, and asked the woman behind the desk if she spoke English, saying (in French, after saying “Bonjour”) that my French wasn’t that good. She replied saying that she doesn’t speak English but that my French was great (not sure how she could tell from only a couple of sentences). She was actually exceptionally helpful, saying that they don’t carry them, they'd be able to order one for me, but that it would take at least a week to get. She went above and beyond, sending me someplace else that might have one (and they did). That other place also spoke no English, but was otherwise very helpful, and even tried to talk me out of buying it from them, saying it was very expensive. Thanks, and yeah, I could buy one far cheaper on Amazon, but I absolutely needed it. Also, several watch/jewelry stores I called that were listed as being repair places for my watch - including that company's flagship store in Paris - said over the phone that they didn’t speak English, which I found surprising since they DO deal with an international clientele. For the record, all both in Paris and Germany said that they’d have to ship my watch to Switzerland to get the battery replaced, and I ended up getting it replaced when back home in LA by the company's own repair shop. I found the comment about how American culture is common in France interesting, and I'm actually somewhat saddened at how much English has made it into the French lexicon. When I was a kid learning French, they were SO proud of their language that they even came up with their own word for “computer” which is some close variant of that word in so many other language. Now, I regularly see French natives (particularly on TH-cam and French programs) use words like “job” and for some reason, AM and PM seem to be more of the NORM in much of Europe. As for French food being expensive and “frou-frou” I think that may come from tourists tending to go to the fancy, high-end, famous places. Go to a three Michelin star restaurant and yeah, it is probably going to be expensive and high end, complex and fancy food. Personally, I'd rather go to a local bistro, or grab a jambon buerre for lunch. And yeah, I find that compared to local places like where I live in LA, even Paris is reasonable. I'd pay four bucks here for a so-so croissant which is maybe a buck and a half in Paris (and yeah, I refer to a Euro as a “buck” as well, especially since they've been so close to par lately). I don’t live in Paris nor am I French, but I've heard a number of French people comment on how the French will almost always end a meal with something sweet. Which is NOT to say that they'll always have a big pastry. It might be cheese, maybe with a few grapes, or maybe a small piece of something. But I think another reason that French people - particularly those in Paris - are generally thinner than Americans is because they walk a LOT more. Here in LA, I'll drive the three blocks or so to the local Whole Foods Market, whereas in Paris, they'll walk much farther than that just to get to the Metro. And a lot more stairs. So I think French people tend to get in a lot more exercise just in their daily lives. And, of course, there's portion size, and longer meals means that your body has time to recognize fullness and to know when to stop. As far as fashion, I know that the French typically buy higher quality items and then keep them for a long time, and mix and match more. They may have a smaller number of items but they're better quality. And you generally wouldn’t see “athleisure” (like sweats or leggings) on the streets. Anyway, love your videos. Watching them makes me want to go back ASAP.
An Aussie commenting here, our first trip to Paris was in 1996 and I can say, I felt the arrogance usually associated with “French attitude”. Although we were at the end of a 6 week holiday so I may have had an attitude too! Although I remember a wonderful, kind and caring French lady helped us as we travelled from Nice to Biarritz, I will never forget her kindness as she helped us navigate our way to our accomodation. We hadn’t been back to Europe in over 20 years and In 2018 on a trip to Paris, we noticed a shift in the general tolerance to tourists with limited French language, and found many French people highly intoxicating with friendliness! ❤💙 2023 back in Paris again and through other parts of France, and we can give full praise to the French - considerate, interested and astute!
Went to Paris for the first time last fall and what absolutely blew away was how friendly everyone was. And especially at restaurants, best service! One of the friendliest capitals I visited in Europe.
I feel your warm welcome all the way to my toes (NOT encased in stiletto heels!). It has been some time since I visited Paris and France with some regularity, as I had been fortunate to do back in the 1980s and 1990s. What I remember from those wonderful days is that when I started my approach with respect and appreciation, it was returned to me 10-fold. I made sure to learn some welcoming words in French, I started out always by speaking French (bonjour, s'il vous plait and merci went quite a ways), I behaved modestly and I can hardly recount how much grace I was met with. That is the impression that stays with me - the graciousness of the the French people and how invited I felt. That is how I feel watching your channel. Merci beaucoup!
This is a review of Les Frenchies from my wife and my France travels in 2023. First of all I want to thank you both because you made our trip to France so much easier and more fun. We spent 8 days in Paris and 8 days in Normandy. From the tips you both give on your videos to the warnings especially about le métro, which we took a number of times comfortably, you seemed to cover most of our apprehensions and concerns. I am So appreciative of your videos and subject matter. We found France to be a warm, inviting and we cannot wait to return. We are so grateful to you both.
First of all, you guys are amazing, secondly, this is such a good topic. Sadly, I think one of the things that Americans forget is when they go to another country and assume that their culture and their language should be used in someone else's country. Understand. I once went on a trip to Mexico and one of the people we were with was frustrated. Then nobody spoke English. That experience made me learn as much French as I did for my first trip and I'm learning even more for my second trip. So wonderful video! Wonderful topics. You guys are amazing! Appreciate everything you do!
This is funny, as a Frenchman i spend 2 month per year visiting my family in Brazil. I heard the same things from Americans saying "Why does Brazilian refuses to speak English". I really don't get it, their country wasn't even a thing that French and Portuguese was already a language.
The point is their culture is used in other countries, if you stand in a street in any European city and look around you will see many American and British inventions and parts of their culture, it would not be a functioning modern city without it. 😂
@@wendyHewBecause the city could function without French inventions? Between public transport, cars and restaurants, good luck. So it's the French who are supposedly “arrogant 😂"
A French person can support/be friend with American persons (Like Lafayette) and an American person the same for the French persons. But gouvernements has no friend but interests. Louix XV wanted the English lose the north American colonies he didn't care about the American people and his ideal. American people don't care about other countries what's why they came only in 1917 and 1941 : because they had interest to do i and still prouv it everydays.
We were in Paris and Nice for the first time in June and we found the French people to be friendly. We did have the basic French words downpat so that helped a lot.
We spent 5 days in Paris this Spring and I found the Parisians to be very nice to deal with. I think if you treat people right they will generally do the same for you. Of course you can always find a exceptions to this, but I look forward to returning to France again someday. ❤
I visited Paris for the first time this past April. We were there for only three days but in our experience everyone was very, very nice, friendly and helpful. I hope to go back one day and see more of this beautiful city.
Thanks for this video! As a French I think you’ll help a lot of tourists 😊 In my opinion it’s necessary to just be able to say “hello” or “do you speak english?” in French, this will open you a lot more doors. We know the language is hard that’s also why we appreciate it so much when you make the effort ❤ Also one thing I would recommend every native english speaking tourists: speak more slowly with easy sentences. This will help you being understood and it’s really more polite to adapt your level with the person you’re talking to. One recommendation for Americans: try to not be as loud when you notice everyone around you is quiet 😂 it’s absolutely okay to be exited 😊 but when everyone is quiet around there’s must be a reason and there are some places in france and Paris where French expect quietness to respect the others. And the authors of the video are right we are fascinated by America and Americans ❤ I can say there are many reasons why french wouldn’t be happy if you start a conversation in english: 1- we feel very insecure about our level in english 😅 years of school learning it and we still mock each other if we don’t have the perfect accent, so many people are very very shy to respond in english even if they can speak it 2- France and especially Paris is one of the most visited place in the world, EVERYWHERE you go there will be tourist… It can sometimes get on your nerves especially in Paris where it’s not really practical to move from place to place and everyone is on the rush everyday… So keep in mind that if you ask someone something, a dozen people before you asked the exact same thing less politely than you… That put French (and especially Parisian) on the defensive 3- French are really proud of their culture, and if they see you don’t even make the effort to say just even “bonjour” they won’t take you seriously or think you don’t appreciate their culture 4- that goes with everything that I said before, When you’re asked the same questions everyday and people don’t make the effort, you kind of feel bad… Like you’re just part of the staff of some giant amusement parc… Some people treat us like robots or NPCs who are just part of the fun place they are in and are here to take pictures and tell them where to go… For exemple: last time I was in the Palais de Tokyo enjoying a gallery with my brother and a woman just asked me directly in english “excuse me where are the bathrooms?” It’s a bit like she expected me to give a service in a language she assumed I was speaking, and a lot of english speakers would not be pleased if you don’t response because they would think you’re doing it on purpose… So I didn’t really have a choice, she didn’t even say thanks or hello…
Regarding item #1 I remember I was the kid trying to speak English with half decent accent, and I was mocked. French education system really doesn't help you feel confident with foreign languages.
I have worked in France ( 3yrs) and have French relatives but the salient point has been mentioned and it's all important for others to understand and that is their intense pride in their country which to me is understandably endearing. Other love for the French is their easy going nature and desire to be different and thought provoking. We all have faults but to berate the French based on misconceptions is a big big mistake.
Thank you for posting this video. You’re correct on all points, especially the dogs and cats analogy / perfect 🤩! Despite being “colonial born” I am fortunate to have been raised and educated in a somewhat formal European family. The first time I went to Paris, I greeted everyone with bonjour quickly followed by an apology, in French, that my French was very rusty. Everyone, even taxi drivers, was kind, graciously complementing my French accent and genuinely friendly. They loved helping me with my French and showing off their English - in a nice way.
Really enjoyed my trip to Paris a few years ago. I greeted everyone with “Bonjour” and looked up necessary vocabulary words on Google when I forgot my very inadequate schoolgirl French vocabulary. Everybody was super polite and helpful. Longing to go back for an extended stay, because three days just wasn’t enough.
I was in France in the beginning of August. With some of the same things you guys talked about in my head. None turned out to be true. Everyone was nice and helpful. Can't wait to come back!
I really hate when people say, French people are so rude. We had a discussion with my husband family (they live in México) about these about a month ago. And I always said, a simple greeting Bonjour will change everything, learning bonjour, merci, parle l'anglais or parlez-vous espagnol is basic a tourist needs to know. As a tourist we need to remember we need to try to adjust that country visiting customs, rules, etc….
I think part of the problem is that *some* Americans (in particular) except the French to be like Americans, i.e. super smiley, friendly even with strangers , providing "the customer is always right" kind of service etc. I'm French and I *just* experienced something that made me think "That would never happen in the US, Americans would be horrified!": I called a relatively fancy Italian restaurant to make a reservation, and was told they were too busy at the time to take my reservation, and to call back 15 minutes later - which I did, and my reservation was made. Although it was a bit frustrating, I understood, because French restaurants are notioriously understaffed - but it made me think that in the US, a fairly fancy restaurant in an upscale neighbourhood like Paris's St Germain would have a staff member dedicated to taking reservations, and that the situation I experienced would be considered very rude and poor customer service. Another anecdote - also in the St Germain neighbourhood, a busy café has had its female bathroom door broken (closes but doesn't lock) for over a month - I've complained repeatedly and the staff are pretty casual about it: "Oh we know, we're tired of telling the owner to fix it, he'll get to it someday" - again, this situation would be unacceptable in the US and would probably not last more than a couple of days at most, and I personally do find it pretty unacceptable considering they charge almost 3 euros for a coffee... the least you could expect is a functioning bathroom door! And again this is in a fancy neighbourhood. PS - When I lived in the US, I lost count of the people who told me "Oh, I've always wanted to visit Paris but I was always afraid because I've heard how rude the French are and they don't like Americans"... I always though, "Oh well, more croissants left for us" :P
In 2019 I went to Paris for the first time , I learnt a little French , and every one was so friendly. It was August and hot , we had a great experience.
I think the Parisians are some of the nicest people in the world. I was there during March and April -two, full months- and experienced nothing but kindness. I do speak French, which helps!
I really have to say that people were so friendly in Paris. Especially people working in service -restaurants, cafes, fromageries, at the open market- were extremly proffesional, friendly and just had an authentic approach. And the quality was always top. Even in "fancy" places, people were not arogant but always made us feel welcome. It was by far the best experience we had as just two people visiting a new place. :) Love Paris!
I’ve been to France three times over the last 30 years and I found the French people to be very warm even in Paris. Big cities can be tough, but Paris was a joy each time.
I am french, and there is one thing that makes french made : Paris is not the France, and the France is not Paris! Most of time, french people don't like Parisians, because they look down on the rest of France. There are so many beautifull cities and people are so different from one region to the other (Bretons, Basques, Gascons..) Just make 150 km, you will have completely different people and landscape. France is a small country compare to USA, but in about 500 000 km2, you have 4 different climates, 5 different mountains.. Go out from Paris to discover what france and french really are.
LOVE IT!!! It's definitely made me want to go to Paris again... Dunno if I'd agree about the French NOT Striking all the time... but it's definitely made me want to book a ticket to Paris for a trip. MERCI BOUCOUP Antoine and Colleen 😎
I´m so proud i´m the tightest neighbour of this great country. 7.5 millions of Belgians live less than 100 k to the french border. We can go every week-end if we wantto. I myself was living a 40 min car trip to Lille when i was a child. Now i live a 40 min car trip to the french Ardennes (département 08). So great a country with everything in it. And they have one great neighbour: Belgium 😂😊😅
Speaking about French people being "lazy": "work to live not live to work" British Office for National Statistics ONS (20 January 2022): *International comparisons of UK productivity* - Main points - The G7 countries’ average (excluding the UK) output per worker was 13% above the UK in 2019. - The UK’s output per hour worked is less than France and the US. - France is between 9% and 28% more productive than the UK, with a central estimate of 18% more productive.
Just visited Paris and the south of France. I prefer french people! They're warm and very hospitable. We were in a bind several times and french people came to our aid and took amazing care of us. They're not obnoxious and just more private, not up in your business and don't assume everyone should know all their business. Americans (mostly, I'm America) are obnoxious and clueless to those around them.
I found the French kind and friendly. I did prepare in advance and didn’t walk around like a bull in a china shop. I don’t like to make small talk in general, try to be mindful of being quieter, and use the polite terms. Even if my French wasn’t perfect, I was not treated badly. When you travel, it’s best to behave as a polite guest. You wouldn’t stomp around a stranger’s house and complain about anything different!😊
My first visit 23 years ago was not an enjoyable because I went into the visit with many of these preconceptions. I just returned a week ago from a visit with my family and I had an amazing time. Going in with a clear head and better expectations made it much more enjoyable. I did not encounter anyone who was rude or who were unwilling to speak English after I politely asked Parlais vous Anglais?
I was in France in July, along with my partner, Andy. I found the French to be very welcoming and friendly, right from the time we got on RER at CDG. I was surprised at how much signage was in English. I was surprised at how affordable the food was. (Hotels and some other things are another story.) I had always heard that French women were the most effortlessly chic creatures on earth, and could put all others to shame just by the way they would knot their scarf. So NOT true. Pretty much everyone I saw was wearing athletic shoes and dressed casually. I very much enjoyed Paris and can’t wait to get back.
We've been to Paris twice so far, 2007 and last month. Both times, we found that people were very friendly and likeable. We even got called cousin sometimes because we're from Québec. What I miss the most about being in Paris, is the lifestyle of people over there. Going to the pâtisserie to get croissants every morning for breakfast, stopping by the grocery store and the butcher shop at the end of he afternoon to pick something up for dinner, and the wine, my God! We're getting screwed over here in Québec. A bottle of Côte des Roses here costs $18.60CAD, and at Franprix, it was €8.80. And going to a restaurant didn't break the budget either and we found some great places too, and one that we went to on île de la Cité in 2007 that we went back last month for lunch. Awesome video again, I would have loved to bump into you while we were there. Salut de Montréal!
Oh, I have the RATP jingle as a notification sound on my phone, that's how much I love Paris. And the SNCF jingle as a signal loss alarm for my Freestyle Libre 2 app.
@@StephaneCalabrese c'est probablement pour ça qu'on s'entend si bien. Pour la majorité des québécois, pas mal tous nos ancêtres viennent de la France et sont arrivés en Nouvelle-France au XVIIè et XVIIIè siècles.
I'm so pleased that I found your channel . My husband and I are coming to Paris in the next few months . So I've been researching everything I could find . And then I found you guys . Your helpful. You've already made me feel a bit better . I have to know everything I can about a place . And you've done that . Gosh thank you so much .
What a refreshing video, so true. I still have some small remarks though: - French have 5 weeks of paid vacation and 11 holidays. And some have extra days off because they work more than 35h/week. - I was in Italy recently in a touristy area and I was surprised by how few Italians spoke basic English. Indeed more French speak English, especially where tourists are, but if you find a French not speaking English it’s more a (southern?) European thing. - Frenchs do love Americans, but quite a few despise American international policies and reject the right-wing-religious-anti abortion-Trump-Republican politics. - Alas there are still some restaurants selling horrible wine to tourists… Anyhow that should not make you not come to France. You’ll have a great time. And that channel will help you prepare your stay here. (No I don’t know the owners nor I’m paid to say this!)
Thank you for this video!!! I just got back from Paris and had an AMAZING experience.I'm planning on going back as soon as I can. I've watched your videos (very positive) before going and decided I was not going to have any preconceived ideas, just go with an open mind to the culture and I loved it!!!🙂🙂🙂
As a french guy, that was really funny to see the conception amaricans people could have from us. But I was really surprised when I heard american could think we hate them. Be ensure we love you !
Never been to France but it is on my bucket list. People say a simular way about swedish people and through watching the beginning on this video then then maybe we are very much alike. Sweden also have 6 weeks paid vacation and when we are on a lunch break its very much about relaxing. We also have swedish fika time and when that comes up, its time for a break and have a cup of coffie/Té and relax.
Bonjour! I spent three weeks in Alsace, France, in December 2023, on holiday. I loved it!!! Prior to my arrival in France, I watched several Les Frenchies videos for preparaion and education. I also learned some basic French vocabulary. The French locals were very impressed and flatteted by my efforts to speak their language (try it, they'll like it) and engage in their forms of social etiquette. The French responded with friendly hospitality and delightful interactions. Be a humble traveller, not an ugly American. Merci beaucoup!
People who travel abroad and expect everyone to fall over themselves when they don't label them "rude". Usually that criticism isn't justified. People in that place are going about their daily lives, you're the one who is unaware of local customs, you're the visitor so you have to adjust and be polite
Best advice I had was from a book by US author David Lebovitz who said exactly as you did. ALWAYS say Bonjour! It opens doors, and is completely true. 1st time to France was 1979, and it was diferent then, but since, we have had nothing but good memories of wonderful people. More than once got invited to stay with amazing people. We are not American, and Aussies seem univerally loved, but always amazed at the fact that people are people, regardless. BTW the quality of the videos are getting better and better!
I saw the title and started laughing about me and my wifes trip in last October and how she asked a french woman for directions and she responded with "No no, shoo shoo little girl" with a Cruella Devil long cig in her hand LOL. Lucky there was someone else that was more than happy to help
I concur with this video. American English is my first language, German is my second, and French my third. The one I am not fluent in is French. However, on both my visits to France I persevered in French and refused to use English unless necessary. Everyone was very hospitable, polite, and fun to be with. I found the French to be very grateful towards Americans because of our liberating them in World War II. I have visited Paris, Haute Savoie, Pays de la Loire, Bordeaux, and the Drôme. Every one of these regions was a wonderful experience.
I LOVED this video. It drives me crazy when people repeat those misconceptions as fact. I also enjoyed all the Paris scenes, most of which I recognize. But viewing this video also made me sad … because I won’t be going to France this year. 😢 Well, I did get to spend about six hours in La Rochelle in May, but I won’t be exploring France or strolling around Paris until after the Jeux Olympiques are history. SUGGESTION: How about a video explaining that “Paris is not France,” which people all over the country have told me.
I have never enjoyed my trips to Paris. I’ve been three different times. The people were very closed, unfriendly, curt, and always in a hurry. It doesn’t help when there’s people constantly trying to scam you at every tourist attraction. The price of food in Paris is expensive, as is the cost of everything else. However if you leave Paris, then you find a wonderful country. Paris is just New York City, but with rats that eat croissants instead of pizza. It’s overcrowded, dangerous, and full of smoke.
That's a great idea, even as a French when I travel to Paris I have not the same mood at all than traveling anywhere else in France. It's a whole other world to me.
So we took our trip to London and Paris a few months ago. I was so apprehensive about Paris due to all of the stereotyping we hear in the US. You know, rude, lack of the ability to speak English, culture differences, etc. I watched countless numbers of your videos and honestly they did so much to calm my fears. After 4 wonderful days in London we boarded the Eurostar and headed to Paris. Upon arrival we were so lost lol. But, we figured it out and made our way to The Hotel St Marć. Our first encounter with actual French people. And what an encounter. They asked what we were seeing in Paris and took a map and highlighted everything including metro stops, places to eat, things to do. They were so kind and welcoming. We tried a bit of everything. Can you say ESCARGOT? Soooo delicious!! We walked thousands of steps and saw some of the most beautiful artwork (Van Gogh’s Starry Night anyone?) and incredible architecture (Sacré Coeur) and only once did we ever have an issue with a Parisian. I can honestly say that Parisians are friendlier that Londoners. Paris was welcoming, friendly, and beautiful. All of that to say we absolutely LOVED Paris. So much that we will be going back and taking our girls with us. We want them to see the beauty and hospitality that is Paris. Paris easily became my favorite city to visit. I cannot wait to see her again. And as a final note…the first time you see The Eiffel Tower is a moment in your life you will never forget. ❤❤❤
As mentioned we are really proud of our culture and our country, that's why we're so enthusiastic to share nice places to visit, we want to share our best stuff to show tourists how nice it is. Like a kid showing his classmates his new toy. People that are actually rude in France will mostly just ignore everyone and do their stuff
So refreshing to hear on point opinions about my culture! Always misunderstood by travellers and tourists who don't make the effort to dig a little deeper. Most (all) points in this video are spot on ! Cheers !
Bonjour! Hahah very entertaining video. And very correct. Knowing enough french people and having enough french friends in order to build my own opinion,I agree with what you said. Important line: Once you know them( know each other or win each others trust),french are great friends,approachable and fun. Thanks for the uplifting video. I enjoyed it. 😀👍🍀
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. No-one can visit a foreign country and expect it to be the same as your own. Lets face it that would be so boring. Travel and meeting people is about learning and respecting each others cultures. You both do it wonderfully.💚
I'm a Parisian and I feel like some misconceptions are very strong in some countries and I'm glad you're debunking it. My own personal example of those misconceptions was this Australian guy I helped once. It was in La Défense, and for those who know the neighborhood, it can get really tricky to find your way there. So there was this guy, lost between all the suits walking in a hurry. He asked me for direction because he had an adress that wasn't very clear, so I basically walked a few minutes with him to help find his way. At the end of the discussion, he asked me where I was from (I have a pretty decent English and don't have a heavy French accent). He couldn't believe me when I told him I was Parisian born and raised, because he was told Parisians were rude, would never speak English nor help a tourist.
Just like any other country, there is also people who doesn't drink alcohol AT ALL. It was kinda frowned upon a few decades ago (because, "CULTURE"), but these days people FINALLY understands that alcohol is not mandatory and drinking a coktail or simply fruit juice is just as fine. You might get scolded by old-fashioned person who are not open-minded and still believe alcohol is mandatory, but it begins to be rare. ANYWAY. That's a simple conclusion here : if you don't drink alcohol, well, you won't know A SINGLE THING about wine either.
As a French who lived close to Paris I can testify that if you go to place were visitors go and you are nice, you'll get nice responses, on the other hand, try to go to quartiers in Paris that are not so friendly and you'll see that people in the street, although they don't represent at all the whole quartier, are not at all nice, and would, if they had the chance, want to be rude to you. If you want to have a good time in France, stay in places where there's monuments or stuff like this, or in places where you can see during the day a lot of people eating a speaking on terasses, it's the best sign to know if it's a chill quartier. Have a good time in France yall!
Si ça peu vous rassurez, certains stéréotype que vous avez entendu sur la France et les français, nous meme ont les utilise en province pour parler des parisiens 😂 Nous sommes un petit pays qui possèdent plus de complexités qu'un grand pays tel que les USA. C'est totalement impossible de faire un jugement global sur une experience de quelques jours pendant les vacances. Il y a plusieurs France dans la France, que se soit pour les rencontres humaines, mais aussi les paysage, l'architecture ect
Franco American here. I find myself not quite American enough in the US and not quite French enough when i am there. I think that because the French are more formal, Americans take it as " rude" or distant, aloof. On the other hand, the over friendliness of Americans and lack of formalité toward total strangers is very uncomfortable ! The first time a stranger gave me a full body hug, i almost panicked !! LOL
I am absolutely loving this channel! As someone with high-functioning autism planning on visiting in September, this is really helpful. If you can offer any tips for visiting with an invisible disability that would really be appreciated.
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More and more French can speak English in France (except those who forgot their school lessons like my own brother, in the coutryside :+)). But contrary to anglosaxon languages speakers like Dutch or German people, it's rather difficult for a French to speak correctly English, because French language is probably the most NEUTRALLY or MONOTONOUSLY spoken on Earth and is virtually not intonated (it simply dies at the end of a sentence). So since there is no equivalent in their own language, the French have to make a REAL EFFORT... to create intonations or even move the different parts of their mouth to produce special sounds like both the English th, the Spanish jota or rr or the German ch, or for Chinese or Arabic sounds. That's why you noticed that, without talking of the vocabulary, the French sometimes apologise for their bad English. So it's rather difficult as well for a foreigner to speak French correctly since they have to ABANDON totally their intonations and I've noticed that the African or Slavic languages speakers generally succeed well. But the problem becomes similar for an English to switch from his own mouth technique to the one of another type of intonated language like Italian for ex. Another consequence is that French and notably humorists can probably make more EASILY and clearly a fun of the immitation of foreign languages since they simply have to add an intonation on the official French language wich has virtually none, and even for very slight differences in the accents of the other francophone countries or those of the few notables in French regions (about 6). Concerning strikes, the demonstrations are normally calm, but a violent phenomenon has recently emerged since the gilets jaunes (yellow jackets) movement : the black bloc. There have been 2 large suburbs riots in France since 1995, when they put fire to cars and public furnitures immitating what appeared strangely for New Year Eve in... Alsace, next to Germany, several years ago, but it normally didn't reach central Paris and the social demonstrations there. The last times it did ! The black bloc mainly disturbed them as well and the fires concerned public buildings too... which is really unaceptable. This phenomenon seems to have slowed down now but who knows what they'll do next time? All the rest of what you say is absolutely exact. The misconception about Americans probably came from the decison of De Gaulle to withdraw the US military force from France to recover a true political independence, which disliked the US. And a bit thanks to this independence it allowed France to be the champion of the construction of the EUROPEAN UNION and even the voice of the other countries which didn't dare to speak on first line like France did... That brought many problems which in turn disliked the French (opposition to Concorde plane, Ariane space shuttle, even the French chip card or the Galileo sattelite network or the Euro and concerning foods and cultural goods the 1st GAT agreement with the increasing impact of mass media American culture on French one since the 1980ies. Finally, the difference of opinions about the Iraki war didn't help neither! But the French swallowed it like all the other European countries did, and like the US did for the EU competition, and the traditional americano-french friendship which was so strong from La Fayette to the 1930ies has now resumed since the mid-2000ies. Just look at the mediatic extreme (and even extremist :+)) treatment in France of the Ukrainian war for example ! Now that's fortunately again the honey moon between us, above all among the young ones who simply ignore what happened before and consequently don't even understand... this cliché ! :+)
"We hate everybody. You take it personnally" 😁😁😁
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There is no word more important in French than Bonjour. The first time my husband and I went to France, he was certain they were very rude, and decided to count all the rude people he encountered. The total was 13: 11 Americans and 2 Germans. BTW , after three days in Paris, he said to me, “ you know, I could live here.”
I'm french and I can confirm. An happy "Bonjour" is always appreciated and not saying bonjour while entering a place is seen as very rude because when we are kids, our parents are insisting on saying Bonjour/Merci/Au revoir, this is the Holy Trinity of Education ! At a point that when I was a child, if I didn't said Bonjour while entering a place, we were going back outside to re-enter the place and saying bonjour that time 😅
@@PolowShow Tu m'as bien fait rire, j'avais complètement oublié que moi aussi on me faisait sortir, puis toquer à la porte pour dire bonjour
This is standard in most European countries. You definitely say "Buon Giorno" or "Salve," NEVER "ciao" when you walk in in Italy. Same in Germany only there it's "GutenTag." I live in Israel we alway greet the proprieter or workers in a place and often add a "how are you?"
People can be very rude if you skip the Bonjour. I am French and I had that problem just because I didn't say it loud enough :D employee have to be considered as human being and you have to be polite with them, even as customer.
@@mimosal3767 Precisement!
My first trip to Paris was almost 20 years ago. It was late. My travel partner and I were waiting at a bus stop. We did not know the buses had stopped running. Still, a French gentleman realized our mistake and stopped to direct us to the Metro. He spoke no English; we spoke no French. And yet, he got his point across and we arrived safely back to our hotel. People are people around the world; kind, thoughtful and willing to help out damsels in distress. I have been helped by people all around the world who spoke no English and I only speak English. Be humble.
So true! If you truly want to communicate with someone you will find a way!
Similar happened to me at Shanghai Metro. I agree everywhere is somebody who try to help.
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True Parisian since my birth 1956. To approach a Parisian or a Frenchman from other regions, you have to be smiling and not arrive on conquered ground. For Parisians they are also in the provinces badly seen by people because they all know, no arrogance is better. So "Bienvenue parmi nous" everyone 😊
If you are kind, most people reply in the same way.
My husband and I are Canadian, and therefore we had the obligatory French language classes throughout high school. It is amazing how much you can forget, but how much you retain. My husband speaks it more fluently than I do, but my trick was always lead with Bonjour and I specifically learned the French phrase "I'm sorry, my French is not very good. Do you speak English?". We received nothing but warmth and welcome. Our standard for travel everywhere is that we are visitors in someone's home, therefore best behaviour instead of entitlement.
Excellent advice, merci!
This is exactly the kind of sentence I would recommend to say 😊. We don’t expect people to know French, and we know how difficult it is, that’s why we really appreciate the effort ❤
Yes, being polite is the key. My impression was that many who aren't comfortable with their English want to see how you manage speaking French. If you're struggling, they will try.
We don't expect tourists to be perfectly fluent, and are more than willing to switch to english when they really struggle with french.
What we don't like is people not even trying. Even broken french will earn you bonus points
My mom had French in high school and college but not much opportunity to use it after grad school in Rome. Whe we went to Belgium and later France in 1958, it all came back to her. She was absolutely fluent. I'm not flutent anymore but I've had a couple of occasions to use mine and was able to. At this point it's been demoted from my second language to maybe fourth.
As an American who lived in Italy for almost 10 years I'd like to add that speaking slower and LOUDER in English isn't going to make them magically understand you. I lost count of how many times I saw tourists doing that. THAT is exactly how you'll get someone to be rude to you... because it's annoying in any culture/language.
Problem is, they don't even realize they're doing it in the first place.
@@LesFrenchiesTravel lol turns out abbreviating sentences down to basic words but still speaking English but just louder doesn't actually change anything. Good way to piss people off though.
@@jdkgcp Do people really do that? Speak louder in hopes that someone will understand them? I thought that was something that only characters in tv shows and movies did. Wow, I guess it must come from somewhere. LOL
@@christopherdieudonne100% yes. And they don't even realize they are doing it. The best though is when an American throws a pretend (Italian, French etc) accent onto the English words. That part was my favorite.
@@jdkgcp Wow. Incredible. I mean, I completely believe you. I just don't get the logic of people thinking that will work. LOL
@@christopherdieudonne It doesn't. If the person doesn't speak English or speaks very little.... imagine how annoying it is to hear someone yelling at you with a pretend made up accent. Now imagine thats 90% of the tourists.
I've only been to France/Paris twice, but this is 100% spot on with my experience. If you make an effort to respect the language and culture, you will have an amazing time!
Last time I tried to speak French (Which at the time I had been studying for 3 years) The french made fun of me because I wasn't grammatically 100% correct and instead of trying to encourage me to study and improve my french they laughed and bullied me.
@@lisaanimiThey were gross ! But to be honest, french people are also like this with native french speakers if you make a mistake they will think you are dumb, I don't like that behavior at all.
I'm french myself, if you want to improve your french, I'll be very happy to help and I'll not mock you, I promise 😋
Same with Quebec.
@@lisaanimiThey didn't make fun of you and they didn't bully you, they tried to help you improve your french by correcting your mistakes, but you took it personally. They were laughing because they were taking it lightly, so they giggled to show it wasn't a big deal, but it seems that you felt offended because you probably aren't used to banter with people that are foreign to you.
@@InXLsisDeo Sometimes they laugh because they think the accent is cute too, they are often not laughing at you personally
As an American who has lived in Paris for over 20 years, I have often heard many of these concerns from friends and family who plan on coming to visit. I'm always having to disabuse them of these misconceptions. NOW, I can just send them the link to this video. Great job !
one thing and I think it might be an interesting way of seing things: french people see american movies and TV shows, americans depict french people in their movies in a very harsh way (we stink, we don't take showers, we don't shave, we're s*x addicts, we're traitors, we're weak , we're cowards...... ) , your family is scared because of this way of depicting french people, and french people might hold some resentment towards americans because of it. It is very , very , very insulting, and has been for decades.
@@backintimealwyn5736 As a French guy watching US movies/TVshows all the time, seems to me the representation of French people is mostly positive, and often, the characters who bash Frenches by stereotypes are rednecks or stupid comic reliefs.
Nevertheless, one point or two in the video are nice, but really indulgent:
1. Frenches are just like anyone else : some are rude, others not, but people are usually more rude in Paris, even as a french i experienced it, my thought is its really hard to stay polite when you live and work in a huge theme park, add 280 days/year of grey sky on that, it could make you angry.
2. What's said about strikes is really wise and true, it's a right and a local way to involve citizens in politics, however, there is A LOT of strikes in France, that's a fact.
paris is not france !
@@flessou It most certainly isn't.
I wish we had more people striking and standing up for each other here in America. I'm a military kid, very fortunate to have grown up traveling. It has been my experience as a traveler that it is far more likely the American is the rude one. I cannot count the number of times I have witnessed this. Soooo embarrassing. To my fellow Americans, the constitution does not travel with you outside the U.S. Other countries do not use the 'dollar'. Some, in other countries, may choose to speak English but it is not required. So please, travel the world, have an amazing time, and please remember, MANNERS MATTER!
Dont be too embarrassed bc I’ve also witnessed some horrible interactions that I’ve seen fellow french people had when travelling.
And I think every country has its own dumb tourists.
I was in the us and a French family near me at the restaurant only spoke French and expected the poor waitress to understand
WTF are those people thinking???
@@n0rmal953 That's mass tourism...
I wish we had more striking in France as well...
@@docgonzobordelthat's bust called being dumb, no need to bring mass tourism for that 😉.
For the majority of u.s. citizens it's the national exceptionalism that has been instilled since post-ww II that is a large part of the problem. It would take years to turn from that mentality. Prior to the cold war, americans were known for striking for labour rights (battle of Blair mountain, Pullman strike, bread and roses strike, bonus army march, etc.) except the CIO/civil rights March on Washington in 1963. Instead you have this attitude of being a temporarily embarrassed millionaire and acting against your fundamental rights. It's depressing how far we've turned against ourselves just to puff our chest out over things many other nations have as well.
I remember Jerry Seinfeld's comment on how beautiful Paris is. When others say "ugh but Parisians are so arrogant'", he responds, "Well have you been to Paris? Look around, can you blame them?" 😂 I've found most people in Paris/ around France to be absolutely lovely, and always think about Seinfeld's funny quip. The French should be proud of their beautiful country and culture. ❤
@@sabarsabar2231 claiming that Parisians are rude and arrogant is an exaggeration, knowing that most of the Parisians nowdays come from the rest of the country. Like Antoine said, it is more like a big city attitude.
We are proud don't worry
I worked in France for a while, a long time ago. I could read French well, but was intimidated to speak it. Still, I kept trying. I truly admire the French. They have a great history, so many great artists; and really good food. The food is surprisingly affordable, I thought; as were cheap, small hotels. I found people kind; and there was quite a variety of different cities, types of scenery. Paris is not the only place to see!
🇫🇷 yes not only Paris if you have time PLZ visit Alpes, Brittany, centre etc lots of différents landscape like in US but at short distances " le plus beau pays du monde" 😅
@@frednoname3714 I didn't like Paris, but I did like Reims and Auxerre. Those were nice places. Especially Auxerre was very cozy
@@Josep_Hernandez_Lujan smallest cities are very valuables and people are often more sympas, anyway lots of things to see everywhere, envenimer french people like I can't visit everything.
We won't make fun at you if your French is not good, we will just try our best to understand you ! Don't worry !
Yes, French (like most Europeans) understand that the point of good work is not to drive the stock indices up, but to ensure better life. Shouldn't we all?
Yes, we even created paid leave. Life should be enjoyed !
I read French people are more productive. In other countries (like America maybe ?) people tend to stay late at work just to not leave before the boss, or because the "value" of an employee is about how many hours he was here, while we count how much work he did ! meaning the French guy may stay 7hours instead of 9 but do more work at the en of the day.
Also, vacation time is 5 weeks and not 6.
@@mimosal3767 ONE guy can travel 800 miles a day , if he got himself a car or invented a fast vehicle , ANOTHER guy can travel 8 miles in a day by foot ......The guy that walked 8 miles worked VERY hard to achieve the distance , the other sat on his ass to achieve 100 times the distance ....Quantity of work is totally different from quality of work .... But it's much harder to quantify quality , hence the abandonment of it in a bean counter society totally obsessed by metrics .....Also it's counter hierarchical to try to manage QUALITY oriented elements , they're probably better at their jobs than the boss and got more ideas , so in a highly hierarchical society they get dumped despite their added value because they represent "unfair competition"to the top down structure ......Despite beeing progressively anglo saxonnized by big international corporations and their subsequent anglo saxon management methods born from globalisation , France culturally still has some remnants of horizontal structures like cooperatives and lots of companies that operate in quality dependent niche sectors of the economy hence why we're productive , but it's sadly slowly dying due to agressive anglo Saxon mergers and acquisitions ( I worked in pre globalisation France And post globalisation France ...And let me tell ya metrics oriented anglo saxon management fueled ambiances feel like cancer with a hint of syphillis , I mean it's good when you want to reduce personnel using harassement , but when you actually want to do a good job , lord .....H.R is dead weight to ANY company , EXCEPT in a neoliberal society that has to adjust inflation provoked decreasing profits by slashing jobs due to the constraints of an ever expanding monetary mass (fueling wars worldwide ) , and the need to reduce the velocity of said currency to mitigate the hyperinflation monster from lighting up the streets with blowing rage ....)...If I was president , I'd send the WHOLE national H.R personnel to plow fields with their hands , and or put a gun in their hands to go surveil the newly reinstated national borders ( they're agressive S.O.Bs ! ) for those that proved to plow well for ten years eating only shit stained gruel , and I'd fix the currency supply to a backing of the usage rights of a nationalized body of industry crucial patents ( similar to the extraterritoriality of the dollar but smarter ) .....That'd probably make the country's workplace IQ jump 30 points in one go , and the workplace ambiance feel as nice as the golden 60s to 80s
@@mimosal37675 weeks, plus around 1 week if you work more than 35 hours per week, depends on where you work.
@@GORANJOVIC631why a lot of French people wish to move to America and Canada if that’s the case?! Rhetoric question.
i am french, born and always lived in Paris and these comment section is warming my heart because it hurts a little bit to read bad comments about us all the time.. so thank you 😬
and about the fact that french people don't speak english : don't worry because the new generation is actually getting better and better at speaking english thanks to internet :)
Merci ♡
Your analysis is spot on. We just spent 4 months in France and we were treated like honored guests everywhere we traveled. Next to Filipinos, we think the French are the nicest, kindest and helpful people on earth. Thanks for speaking the truth and your GREAT videos.
Thank you very much for this kind comment. We are very honored that you have appreciated your trip in France. I you've been 4 months here, you might have visited not only Paris and you were right. France is not only Paris, the countrysides and villages are so charming and welcoming... even if people speak less english there. ;-)
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Everyone in Paris was so nice!! Was there in June, interacting with many people at tourist spots, socially, and some business. I had a respectful attitude about the culture and spoke small amounts of French. Everyone so friendly, encouraging, and gracious. Entire trip was a delight!
You are welcome to come back whenever you want! Cheers from southern France ;)
I’ve been asked about this multiple times by my fellow Americans and I respond that my experience in Paris this past June was the French were very kind and friendly. Not once did I encounter anyone who was rude. I think the French are more reserved and quiet in general and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Lovely place and people. Can’t wait to go back❤️❤️❤️
Im Spanish and I've been to Paris last June. I can only say good things about the warm welcome that I received everywhere. I did my best effort to speak French, and maybe that helped, but I was amazed because I had been bombarded by the same stereotypes about French people and Parisiens in particular.
Thank you for your comment
We're only rude to americans, because they paint us as rude in their movies ,they also say we stink and we're s*x maniacs , so... we don't want to disappoint. Kidding. Kind off. I have worked in the service industry , I was always nice, exept with some rare americans who were really abusive and hysterical , then I got a tad ruder than the average american service worker. the client is not king in France , we're all due basic respect, if it's not there, some bullies might be surprised. We just don't get fired over one unsatisfied customer so there is less fear and submissiveness and an equal to equal relationship can make a come back when needed.
@@backintimealwyn5736by "we" you mean who exactly?
@@backintimealwyn5736 Bien vu. Il y a des gens irrespectueux dans tous les pays. A eux de s'adapter quand ils viennent chez nous. Je me souviens qu'en Suède, dès qu'on sort des clous, on est rappelé à l'ordre. A l'aéroport de Stockholm, dans la salle d'attente, j'avais posé par mégarde mon bagage sur le siège voisin, libre. Un mec m'a regardé salement et j'ai compris que ce siège est là pour s'asseoir. Ce n'est pas plus mal. Il faut respecter les autres et soi-même. La liberté bien sûr, mais dans la limite de celle des autres...
🇲🇫Remembering a lovely French woman who snuck me into a French museum: I had gotten into the wrong line, it would have been hours in another line for me! She literally created a plan to keep the line checkers busy while I crept into the museum. We laughed and laughed at the ticket counter.
THANK YOU! in capitals for showing all the misconceptions/French People. I'm a French woman living in the US, and I've kept saying that for years! I'm from Marseille ( place that you guys need to visit), and I keep telling people that French people are not rude, we just have different standards. My American Hubby was able to go around by himself, not really speaking French and had very nice conversations with French people and loved it! As long as you are polite and accept the way French people live, meaning this is not the US, you're good!
Thanks for not telling that « parisian are rude and assholes, that paris is shit and province is better »
Most frenchies that lives outside the capital tend to insult Paris while they went there one time or not at all. I’m only a banlieusard but it annoys me.
J’adore les marseillais, vous êtes très sympa !
@@n0rmal953c'est vrai...Il y a des régionalistes en France, le régionalisme est un produit des notables provinciaux dénigrant la capitale synonyme d'Etat mais en fait de révolution ( avant), révolution qui menace leurs prérogatives.
@@n0rmal953 The thing is, Parisians can be rude assholes. Understandably so sometimes (go to Barcelona or Venice in season and you'll be met with the same situations). Overcrowding and the misbehaving of some crazy tourists can make people's attitude less than wecoming. It tends to be nicer out of season, people are less stressed, but Paris doesn't really have an "off" season.
Aside from that, the cliché of the rude, arrogant Parisian didn't sprout into existence out of thin air. As an example, a situation from my job this summer in retail:
>me: *usual spiel at the register of the store about customer card advantages"
>customer: "I don't care, I'll never come again, I don't even know why you still exist, your stores are useless, I'm just here because my son wanted something on Holiday".
>m: "oh, what makes you say that sir, did something bother you in the store?"
>c: "No, I just find, more, better, and better priced in Paris. No wonder everybody wants to live there and you cant keep up in the Province".
Not the first time I had that kind of experience (I live in an area where a lot of parisians have a summer home). There isn't one single spot in the country, or the world tbh, where you won't meet assholes. But the "Parisian asshole" is a special breed. Not that all assholes in Paris are "Parisian assholes". You'll meet the vanilla kind as well. But that specific kind? Yeah, they are something...
Marseille is very special. Accent, strong personnality, but not chauvinism. Humour, self humour.... In a way, a Marseillais cannot be seen serious. But it's the secondth city in France. .. There're some similarities with Paris : Big ciry, huge social inequalities ( 8000 millionnaires, many many poor people, city of immigration....thus open mind citizens, and of Révolution, working class in class struggle.
I must tell you a wonderful story: One of the first times I was in Paris, 80’s or early 90’s, I was at the airport and was wondering if I could smoke in the airport. I asked a lovely French lady if I could smoke ( I didn’t speak any French) and she responded “ Nobody tells the French where or when to smoke, so if you wish to smoke please do.” I laughed and thought how wonderful of an attitude and I have viewed the French in this way since and have never forgotten that quote after all of these years ❤😊
Now it's partially truth. You can smoke outside, but inside a building it is forbidden or you can smoke in a specific room.
This happened in the 80's - so it was not as it is today;) @@claude_1c74
@@claude_1c74 It was the case in the 80's/90's , the ban on smoking in all enclosed and covered places open to the public was introduced in 2007. ;)
Times have changed
No wonder the case. It will be seen as anoyance inside ! You should ask next time too ;).
Hi this is Eric from Chicago. I'm in Paris right now. I totally love Paris. Such a beautiful city. A unique city like NY. With a lot of charm.
I was there in July and couldn't have met more nice/friendly/helpful people. Bonjour - and attempting to speak a little French was definitely appreciated and we loved being able to sit in a cafe /etc without being hassled to leave like American businesses. I thought the service was amazing and nice.
We also really thought that eating out was very reasonably priced.
Can't wait to go back.
We were there in July also. Loved the french. They were warm, genuine, and hospitable. The food was amazing, and I thought less costly and better quality than in the US.
Ha! I'm Parisian, and the day someone hassles me to leave when I sit at a café or a bar, believe me the outrage will be very real! We have a culture of staying sometimes hours in that kind of place (when it's long we usually order several times). That's why Starbucks had lots of issues doing business in France, because they were used to "take your coffee and leave" and not "take your coffee and spend 1 hour just sitting there". They had to adapt!
Visited Paris this summer for the first time, got out of the train one stop early after leaving the airport and right away a local lady was there to guide me back to the train. We had no common language but the helpfulness was touching. Main reason for visiting was the unfortunately cancelled Mylène Farmer concert but at the evening of the concert at the restaurant when the staff heard about my bad luck and bemoaned "Vive la France!" I got a aperitif on the house and when the check came also came a Bluetooth speaker playing Mylène's "Désenchantée". Wonderful people all around. Good luck in this is that the concert was transferred to 2024 so in 13 months I'll be back which is wonderful! ❤
Love this bubble popping episode. Travel is France is like travel everywhere. Be curious, learn enough of the language to be polite, be humble and kindness will find you. I've found this to be true all over the world. People are proud of where they live, their language, traditions and will take you in if you show you are interested and not so full of yourself.
This is both useful and hilarious. Antoine seemed to be really enjoying himself in this one. Love it when he said “that’s not true… we hate everyone” LOL
“…& champagne everyday!” 😊
...including ourselves !
@@bertrandgeorgeon3992 Ahahah 🤣 ! Escpecially our president (he's name is emmanuel macron for those who don't know) !
Whatever his name is, the president ALWAYS goes on the top of the list.It's one of his main functions.
Should consider himself lucky for not being a king...@@snipergames9510
I kept saying during our trip to Paris a couple of weeks ago “wow - they really want us to leave happy!!”.. I was so touched by how incredibly kind many Parisians were to us.
I also thought it was pretty cool how much they were into their pets. Many brought their dogs everywhere (including fancy department stores), and one lady was literally on her scooter with her Parrot 😂❤👌🏽
You see the result on the pavements
@@philwanadoo7435 It is unfortunately true, Paris can be really dirty
@@rykzzmoviemaker It is, not so much as Naples, but it is.
@@philwanadoo7435u saw 1 month ago ? Full garbage in paris everywhere
@@lyczsafrt3493 Saint-Ètienne is not better 🤣 !
I am a French teacher and I just had a student ask me if the French hate Americans! This video is GREAT to clear up these misconceptions. I may just show it to mes élèves! Merci beaucoup! PS: Your videos are so informative and helpful!!
salut . c est étrange ça quand meme ... mais pourquoi un jeune americain en arrive à penser que moi , en tant que français je le déteste . il y à vraiment un truc qui ne va pas là ...
Salut, hi, if you wanna show this video to your students two things maybe to correct (as a French), we have five vacations weeks and 6 public holidays (but most of them may happened on Sundays from times to times), not sure that French are jealous of American freedom of speech, we have it but the hate speech, that’s indeed a crime, some American writers like Stetson Kennedy even had to publish their books in France because they weren’t allowed in the U.S. My guess both system have taboos, both have merits.
Peut-être parcequ'il connait l'histoire entre nos deux pays depuis la fin de la seconde guerre mondiale...@@kopekis
Un cours d'histoire vaut mieux que cette vidéo (aussi bonne soit-elle). Du D-Day américain sur les côtes normandes au sabotage de nord stream 2, en passant par l’espionnage et le sabotage industriel subit par notre cher pays au profit de l'Oncle Sam, c'est assez difficile de ne pas comprendre pour les français en viennent à détester les américains.
Bien sûr les rapports entre un gilets jaune et un texan ou un newyorkais moyen peuvent être bonnes, mais jamais les français n'admettront la domination américaine en europe.
I think jealous and resentful is more accurate 😅
This is a nice post. I’ve been to paris 25 times, most recently in January and I’m returning for a month this September and agree with your observations. I always try to debunk the stereotypes of both the French and American people. However, I do believe that France and its culture are better for me. So many french people I speak with don’t realize that there are no guarantees of vacations, health services and leave benefits in the US. They are incredulous when I tell them. In my opinion, the French philosophy of Liberty, Equality and Fraternity has inspired a better lifestyle for french society rather than Life, Liberty and Pursuit of happiness which emphasizes the individual rather than society as a whole.
Wow I’m jealous! I’m wondering what do you do to be able to travel to France so often & for so long?
@@sabarsabar2231 I fly into CDG and always go out of the city. This trip 5 different places in France.
@@lisaw2525 I’ve learned to travel wisely. Airline credit card used for air miles, airbnb, small apartments or small hotels, eat well locally at cafes, bistros, boulangeries. Walk and use the metro or buses. It doesn’t have to be over the top. I like going in winter too. Better rates, wonderful food and smaller crowds. I enjoy just being in the moment and not running crazy trying to do everything.
@@romaincalot9500For me, France and most of western Europe had the chance to be trapped between capitalist US and communist USSR. It created a balance between the two systems and allowed Socialism to rise. Now that the USSR is down, there is no "risk" for the government to go full blast on capitalism and selfishness, destroying every social rights one by one.
I am also worried about all the things we are going to lose in the process, even past the obvious good things like free medicine and education.
@@JuChamsA balance ? Where ? I'm sorry but I disagree with your comment. Sure, we're not like Americans but there's no way France is social or is "between" american and USSR concept. We lose our social advantages year after year despite our protests. Sure it's better than the US. But we have a major american culture even in the movies, the candies we can find in the supermarket and it begins to spread in the work culture. Working late, not taking a long lunch break (some of my colleagues are only taking 20 minutes to eat and sometimes, they eat at their desk) and feeling guilty about being sick or having vacation (many people still work during their holidays by looking for their emails and have trouble by stop working).
Sure it's worse somewhere else but we surely aren't in the social way. Or at least, we aren't going towards social politics anymore.
France is not only about Paris, and Parisians lifestyle ... There are SO many singular and unique regions scattered all over the country that deserve to be on the spotlight.
Merci de souligner ce point. Ils ont tous en tête que France = Paris, c'est tellement dommage.
@@Alfast-EtLuiMemeLyon, Bordeaux, Marseille, la Creuse.
Non je déconne, pas Marseille.
@@fabriceclement6587 C'est vrai que Marseille a beaucoup de problèmes, mais touristiquement c'est très joli, avec le vieux port, la mer, les calanques, les montagnes, etc... En plus, l'hôpital de la Timone est un des meilleurs d'Europe... Je connais plusieurs étrangers qui sont allés là-bas et qui ont beaucoup aimé. Et moi aussi j'aime bien, mieux qu'Aix-en-Provence par exemple (même si pour des yeux étrangers, Aix est joli aussi, j'imagine)
Après, il y a d'autres villes dont on parle moins : Annecy, Aurillac, Honfleur...
Paris is the most amazing place and I feel bad for all the people who refuse to go based on their preconceived notions of how badly they will be treated by the French.
As an American and recent first time visitor to Paris we spent 9 days there and only encountered one woman in a very busy Boulangerie who was unhelpful and a bit rude. I'm guessing that might have to do with the fact that she was very busy and under stress. Everyone else was great, no problems. Most Parisians were very kind, helpful and welcoming, while others were just going about their business and trying to do their jobs professionally. I find most Europeans to be very polite and well mannered compared to Americans.
If only people didn't take everything so personally and had a bit more empathy and patience... myself included at times. Just smile and say Bonjour! 🙂
We are well-mannered and polite indeed. 😊
I found it funny that tourists like Paris better than actual native (im french and Paris is horrible)
@@nicolasfairise8194by "we" you mean who exactly?
We went last November and the biggest take-away we had, was how incredibly wrong our preconceptions were. The were so nice. Every situation we ran into (directions, being lost, just simple questions) was so pleasant. We keep mentioning it when we talk over our trip and can't wait for our return :) (The guides you both provided were immensely helpful, as well)
This is a wonderful video! As an American, of course I’ve heard every misconception about the French but it never occurred to me that the French are more formal than other Europeans. On my very brief visit last autumn I found the people I met to be very kind & helpful. I can’t wait to return next year when hopefully I’ve learned a bit more of the language! Merci beaucoup!
American, learned French in school from 1st through 12th grade, which was a VERY long time ago. I'm very rusty. I understand maybe 80-90% particularly when written, but far more difficult for me to find the words when speaking.
Been there several times, and I was last in Paris in December, and actually felt a lot like a local because I got sick (yeah, 3 years safe and then I get sick there) and right before that, had to deal with running errands (like my wife and I getting Christmas gifts for family in Germany, and me looking for a laptop charger which I'd left at home by mistake, and me trying to get my Swiss watch battery replaced after it died waiting for our luggage at CDG).
I think one of the biggest issues is culture; for Americans, the customer is always right and staff at stores are there to serve the customer. But in French culture, it is like THEIR home and you're a guest, and an equal, and you need to respect them. They ARE there to be the professionals that they are, and to help you get what you need, and when you go to a store and say, “I'm just looking” you're really slapping them in the face and saying that they aren’t professional enough.
For the most part, as soon as anyone would hear us speaking English (my wife speaks NO French), they'd immediately switch to pretty much fluent English. I often was irritated when I'd try to speak French with a waiter and they'd respond in English.
I also found a lot of people there were immigrants (that included in some of the nicer stores) and their English was actually a lot better than their French. One Uber driver didn’t speak any English, but his French was pretty terrible, too.
A few examples of the opposite, though, included when I went to an FNAC to try to find a laptop charger, and asked the woman behind the desk if she spoke English, saying (in French, after saying “Bonjour”) that my French wasn’t that good. She replied saying that she doesn’t speak English but that my French was great (not sure how she could tell from only a couple of sentences).
She was actually exceptionally helpful, saying that they don’t carry them, they'd be able to order one for me, but that it would take at least a week to get. She went above and beyond, sending me someplace else that might have one (and they did). That other place also spoke no English, but was otherwise very helpful, and even tried to talk me out of buying it from them, saying it was very expensive. Thanks, and yeah, I could buy one far cheaper on Amazon, but I absolutely needed it.
Also, several watch/jewelry stores I called that were listed as being repair places for my watch - including that company's flagship store in Paris - said over the phone that they didn’t speak English, which I found surprising since they DO deal with an international clientele. For the record, all both in Paris and Germany said that they’d have to ship my watch to Switzerland to get the battery replaced, and I ended up getting it replaced when back home in LA by the company's own repair shop.
I found the comment about how American culture is common in France interesting, and I'm actually somewhat saddened at how much English has made it into the French lexicon. When I was a kid learning French, they were SO proud of their language that they even came up with their own word for “computer” which is some close variant of that word in so many other language. Now, I regularly see French natives (particularly on TH-cam and French programs) use words like “job” and for some reason, AM and PM seem to be more of the NORM in much of Europe.
As for French food being expensive and “frou-frou” I think that may come from tourists tending to go to the fancy, high-end, famous places. Go to a three Michelin star restaurant and yeah, it is probably going to be expensive and high end, complex and fancy food. Personally, I'd rather go to a local bistro, or grab a jambon buerre for lunch. And yeah, I find that compared to local places like where I live in LA, even Paris is reasonable. I'd pay four bucks here for a so-so croissant which is maybe a buck and a half in Paris (and yeah, I refer to a Euro as a “buck” as well, especially since they've been so close to par lately).
I don’t live in Paris nor am I French, but I've heard a number of French people comment on how the French will almost always end a meal with something sweet. Which is NOT to say that they'll always have a big pastry. It might be cheese, maybe with a few grapes, or maybe a small piece of something.
But I think another reason that French people - particularly those in Paris - are generally thinner than Americans is because they walk a LOT more. Here in LA, I'll drive the three blocks or so to the local Whole Foods Market, whereas in Paris, they'll walk much farther than that just to get to the Metro. And a lot more stairs. So I think French people tend to get in a lot more exercise just in their daily lives.
And, of course, there's portion size, and longer meals means that your body has time to recognize fullness and to know when to stop.
As far as fashion, I know that the French typically buy higher quality items and then keep them for a long time, and mix and match more. They may have a smaller number of items but they're better quality. And you generally wouldn’t see “athleisure” (like sweats or leggings) on the streets.
Anyway, love your videos. Watching them makes me want to go back ASAP.
An Aussie commenting here, our first trip to Paris was in 1996 and I can say, I felt the arrogance usually associated with “French attitude”. Although we were at the end of a 6 week holiday so I may have had an attitude too! Although I remember a wonderful, kind and caring French lady helped us as we travelled from Nice to Biarritz, I will never forget her kindness as she helped us navigate our way to our accomodation.
We hadn’t been back to Europe in over 20 years and In 2018 on a trip to Paris, we noticed a shift in the general tolerance to tourists with limited French language, and found many French people highly intoxicating with friendliness! ❤💙
2023 back in Paris again and through other parts of France, and we can give full praise to the French - considerate, interested and astute!
Went to Paris for the first time last fall and what absolutely blew away was how friendly everyone was. And especially at restaurants, best service! One of the friendliest capitals I visited in Europe.
I feel your warm welcome all the way to my toes (NOT encased in stiletto heels!). It has been some time since I visited Paris and France with some regularity, as I had been fortunate to do back in the 1980s and 1990s. What I remember from those wonderful days is that when I started my approach with respect and appreciation, it was returned to me 10-fold. I made sure to learn some welcoming words in French, I started out always by speaking French (bonjour, s'il vous plait and merci went quite a ways), I behaved modestly and I can hardly recount how much grace I was met with. That is the impression that stays with me - the graciousness of the the French people and how invited I felt. That is how I feel watching your channel. Merci beaucoup!
This is a review of Les Frenchies from my wife and my France travels in 2023. First of all I want to thank you both because you made our trip to France so much easier and more fun. We spent 8 days in Paris and 8 days in Normandy. From the tips you both give on your videos to the warnings especially about le métro, which we took a number of times comfortably, you seemed to cover most of our apprehensions and concerns. I am
So appreciative of your videos and subject matter. We found France to be a warm, inviting and we cannot wait to return. We are so grateful to you both.
First of all, you guys are amazing, secondly, this is such a good topic. Sadly, I think one of the things that Americans forget is when they go to another country and assume that their culture and their language should be used in someone else's country. Understand. I once went on a trip to Mexico and one of the people we were with was frustrated. Then nobody spoke English. That experience made me learn as much French as I did for my first trip and I'm learning even more for my second trip. So wonderful video! Wonderful topics. You guys are amazing! Appreciate everything you do!
This is funny, as a Frenchman i spend 2 month per year visiting my family in Brazil. I heard the same things from Americans saying "Why does Brazilian refuses to speak English". I really don't get it, their country wasn't even a thing that French and Portuguese was already a language.
The point is their culture is used in other countries, if you stand in a street in any European city and look around you will see many American and British inventions and parts of their culture, it would not be a functioning modern city without it. 😂
@@wendyHewBecause the city could function without French inventions?
Between public transport, cars and restaurants, good luck.
So it's the French who are supposedly “arrogant 😂"
I’m American and love visiting France. Don’t forget that the French supported us while fighting for independence from England.❤️
A French person can support/be friend with American persons (Like Lafayette) and an American person the same for the French persons. But gouvernements has no friend but interests. Louix XV wanted the English lose the north American colonies he didn't care about the American people and his ideal. American people don't care about other countries what's why they came only in 1917 and 1941 : because they had interest to do i and still prouv it everydays.
That was a loooong time ago
@@chlore2amine Agree for Louis XV, but disagree with Lafayette who complete with his own money to settle an army and a float.
@@pierre-frederickgalland5810 That's why I said a person (like Lafayette) can be a friend but not a head of governement
@@chlore2amineok sorry 👍
We were in Paris and Nice for the first time in June and we found the French people to be friendly. We did have the basic French words downpat so that helped a lot.
We spent 5 days in Paris this Spring and I found the Parisians to be very nice to deal with. I think if you treat people right they will generally do the same for you. Of course you can always find a exceptions to this, but I look forward to returning to France again someday. ❤
I visited Paris for the first time this past April. We were there for only three days but in our experience everyone was very, very nice, friendly and helpful. I hope to go back one day and see more of this beautiful city.
Thanks for this video! As a French I think you’ll help a lot of tourists 😊
In my opinion it’s necessary to just be able to say “hello” or “do you speak english?” in French, this will open you a lot more doors. We know the language is hard that’s also why we appreciate it so much when you make the effort ❤
Also one thing I would recommend every native english speaking tourists: speak more slowly with easy sentences. This will help you being understood and it’s really more polite to adapt your level with the person you’re talking to.
One recommendation for Americans: try to not be as loud when you notice everyone around you is quiet 😂 it’s absolutely okay to be exited 😊 but when everyone is quiet around there’s must be a reason and there are some places in france and Paris where French expect quietness to respect the others. And the authors of the video are right we are fascinated by America and Americans ❤
I can say there are many reasons why french wouldn’t be happy if you start a conversation in english:
1- we feel very insecure about our level in english 😅 years of school learning it and we still mock each other if we don’t have the perfect accent, so many people are very very shy to respond in english even if they can speak it
2- France and especially Paris is one of the most visited place in the world, EVERYWHERE you go there will be tourist… It can sometimes get on your nerves especially in Paris where it’s not really practical to move from place to place and everyone is on the rush everyday… So keep in mind that if you ask someone something, a dozen people before you asked the exact same thing less politely than you… That put French (and especially Parisian) on the defensive
3- French are really proud of their culture, and if they see you don’t even make the effort to say just even “bonjour” they won’t take you seriously or think you don’t appreciate their culture
4- that goes with everything that I said before, When you’re asked the same questions everyday and people don’t make the effort, you kind of feel bad… Like you’re just part of the staff of some giant amusement parc… Some people treat us like robots or NPCs who are just part of the fun place they are in and are here to take pictures and tell them where to go…
For exemple: last time I was in the Palais de Tokyo enjoying a gallery with my brother and a woman just asked me directly in english “excuse me where are the bathrooms?” It’s a bit like she expected me to give a service in a language she assumed I was speaking, and a lot of english speakers would not be pleased if you don’t response because they would think you’re doing it on purpose… So I didn’t really have a choice, she didn’t even say thanks or hello…
As a Parisian, I agree with most of what you said. Except that not all of us are fascinated by Americans/the US, but that’s ok 😊
@@nicolasfairise8194 non mais fasciné ne veut pas dire en adoration et on se met à genoux devant eux, ça va dans les deux sens la fascination
Regarding item #1 I remember I was the kid trying to speak English with half decent accent, and I was mocked. French education system really doesn't help you feel confident with foreign languages.
@@StephaneCalabrese agreed
I have worked in France ( 3yrs) and have French relatives but the salient point has been mentioned and
it's all important for others to understand and that is their intense pride in their country which to me is
understandably endearing. Other love for the French is their easy going nature and desire to be different
and thought provoking. We all have faults but to berate the French based on misconceptions is a big big mistake.
Thank you for posting this video. You’re correct on all points, especially the dogs and cats analogy / perfect 🤩! Despite being “colonial born” I am fortunate to have been raised and educated in a somewhat formal European family. The first time I went to Paris, I greeted everyone with bonjour quickly followed by an apology, in French, that my French was very rusty. Everyone, even taxi drivers, was kind, graciously complementing my French accent and genuinely friendly. They loved helping me with my French and showing off their English - in a nice way.
Really enjoyed my trip to Paris a few years ago. I greeted everyone with “Bonjour” and looked up necessary vocabulary words on Google when I forgot my very inadequate schoolgirl French vocabulary. Everybody was super polite and helpful. Longing to go back for an extended stay, because three days just wasn’t enough.
I was in France in the beginning of August. With some of the same things you guys talked about in my head. None turned out to be true. Everyone was nice and helpful. Can't wait to come back!
I really hate when people say, French people are so rude. We had a discussion with my husband family (they live in México) about these about a month ago. And I always said, a simple greeting Bonjour will change everything, learning bonjour, merci, parle l'anglais or parlez-vous espagnol is basic a tourist needs to know. As a tourist we need to remember we need to try to adjust that country visiting customs, rules, etc….
Then you're going to hate people from Algiers because they always say things like that.
An ice breaker and complete realization on these misconceptions... thanks for opening people's minds...💙🇫🇷👍💯
The problem is that 4/5 French are not Parisians. Describing France through Paris is way more reducing.
Well I’m not French and I’m proud of how the French are and everything that accounts for it. Totally in love with most things French.
Me also. I'm proud to be able to call France my adopted, wonderful home
France is like my second country and I wish I were born in Paris. I am quite fluent in French, I respect their culture and formalism.
I think part of the problem is that *some* Americans (in particular) except the French to be like Americans, i.e. super smiley, friendly even with strangers , providing "the customer is always right" kind of service etc.
I'm French and I *just* experienced something that made me think "That would never happen in the US, Americans would be horrified!": I called a relatively fancy Italian restaurant to make a reservation, and was told they were too busy at the time to take my reservation, and to call back 15 minutes later - which I did, and my reservation was made.
Although it was a bit frustrating, I understood, because French restaurants are notioriously understaffed - but it made me think that in the US, a fairly fancy restaurant in an upscale neighbourhood like Paris's St Germain would have a staff member dedicated to taking reservations, and that the situation I experienced would be considered very rude and poor customer service.
Another anecdote - also in the St Germain neighbourhood, a busy café has had its female bathroom door broken (closes but doesn't lock) for over a month - I've complained repeatedly and the staff are pretty casual about it: "Oh we know, we're tired of telling the owner to fix it, he'll get to it someday" - again, this situation would be unacceptable in the US and would probably not last more than a couple of days at most, and I personally do find it pretty unacceptable considering they charge almost 3 euros for a coffee... the least you could expect is a functioning bathroom door! And again this is in a fancy neighbourhood.
PS - When I lived in the US, I lost count of the people who told me "Oh, I've always wanted to visit Paris but I was always afraid because I've heard how rude the French are and they don't like Americans"... I always though, "Oh well, more croissants left for us" :P
Great video! Such important points, and well-presented. I get tired of all the stereotypes, it's great to see you debunk them.
We just were in Paris and enjoyed our trip so much because we were prepared after watching your videos! Thank you so much!
In 2019 I went to Paris for the first time , I learnt a little French , and every one was so friendly. It was August and hot , we had a great experience.
I think the Parisians are some of the nicest people in the world. I was there during March and April -two, full months- and experienced nothing but kindness. I do speak French, which helps!
I really have to say that people were so friendly in Paris. Especially people working in service -restaurants, cafes, fromageries, at the open market- were extremly proffesional, friendly and just had an authentic approach. And the quality was always top. Even in "fancy" places, people were not arogant but always made us feel welcome. It was by far the best experience we had as just two people visiting a new place. :) Love Paris!
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I just LOVE watching you two! Thanks for another great episode!
I’ve been to France three times over the last 30 years and I found the French people to be very warm even in Paris. Big cities can be tough, but Paris was a joy each time.
I am french, and there is one thing that makes french made : Paris is not the France, and the France is not Paris! Most of time, french people don't like Parisians, because they look down on the rest of France. There are so many beautifull cities and people are so different from one region to the other (Bretons, Basques, Gascons..) Just make 150 km, you will have completely different people and landscape. France is a small country compare to USA, but in about 500 000 km2, you have 4 different climates, 5 different mountains.. Go out from Paris to discover what france and french really are.
LOVE IT!!! It's definitely made me want to go to Paris again... Dunno if I'd agree about the French NOT Striking all the time... but it's definitely made me want to book a ticket to Paris for a trip. MERCI BOUCOUP Antoine and Colleen 😎
that's awesome, when you do let's meet up for a cup of coffee
I´m so proud i´m the tightest neighbour of this great country. 7.5 millions of Belgians live less than 100 k to the french border. We can go every week-end if we wantto. I myself was living a 40 min car trip to Lille when i was a child. Now i live a 40 min car trip to the french Ardennes (département 08). So great a country with everything in it. And they have one great neighbour: Belgium 😂😊😅
Speaking about French people being "lazy": "work to live not live to work" British Office for National Statistics ONS (20 January 2022):
*International comparisons of UK productivity* - Main points
- The G7 countries’ average (excluding the UK) output per worker was 13% above the UK in 2019.
- The UK’s output per hour worked is less than France and the US.
- France is between 9% and 28% more productive than the UK, with a central estimate of 18% more productive.
Just visited Paris and the south of France. I prefer french people! They're warm and very hospitable. We were in a bind several times and french people came to our aid and took amazing care of us. They're not obnoxious and just more private, not up in your business and don't assume everyone should know all their business. Americans (mostly, I'm America) are obnoxious and clueless to those around them.
We only have five weeks of hollidays, but all hope to have six in the future !
I found the French kind and friendly. I did prepare in advance and didn’t walk around like a bull in a china shop. I don’t like to make small talk in general, try to be mindful of being quieter, and use the polite terms. Even if my French wasn’t perfect, I was not treated badly. When you travel, it’s best to behave as a polite guest. You wouldn’t stomp around a stranger’s house and complain about anything different!😊
Thank you so much !
You understood everything about us.
Au plaisir de vous revoir chez nous 🙂
My first visit 23 years ago was not an enjoyable because I went into the visit with many of these preconceptions. I just returned a week ago from a visit with my family and I had an amazing time. Going in with a clear head and better expectations made it much more enjoyable. I did not encounter anyone who was rude or who were unwilling to speak English after I politely asked Parlais vous Anglais?
Parlez ..
Bonjour, parlez vous anglais is indeed the best way to get friends there haha
I just returned from a two-week visit to Paris (your videos were super-helpful for my vacation!) and I found that the French are very polite.
I was in France in July, along with my partner, Andy. I found the French to be very welcoming and friendly, right from the time we got on RER at CDG. I was surprised at how much signage was in English. I was surprised at how affordable the food was. (Hotels and some other things are another story.) I had always heard that French women were the most effortlessly chic creatures on earth, and could put all others to shame just by the way they would knot their scarf. So NOT true. Pretty much everyone I saw was wearing athletic shoes and dressed casually. I very much enjoyed Paris and can’t wait to get back.
Good piece. We were in Paris in April and it was glorious. Thank you for debunking some of the misconceptions.
We've been to Paris twice so far, 2007 and last month. Both times, we found that people were very friendly and likeable. We even got called cousin sometimes because we're from Québec. What I miss the most about being in Paris, is the lifestyle of people over there. Going to the pâtisserie to get croissants every morning for breakfast, stopping by the grocery store and the butcher shop at the end of he afternoon to pick something up for dinner, and the wine, my God! We're getting screwed over here in Québec. A bottle of Côte des Roses here costs $18.60CAD, and at Franprix, it was €8.80. And going to a restaurant didn't break the budget either and we found some great places too, and one that we went to on île de la Cité in 2007 that we went back last month for lunch. Awesome video again, I would have loved to bump into you while we were there. Salut de Montréal!
Oh, I have the RATP jingle as a notification sound on my phone, that's how much I love Paris. And the SNCF jingle as a signal loss alarm for my Freestyle Libre 2 app.
Oh we definitely consider Québécois as our cousins. You can't even understand the affection and even admiration we feel for Québécois.
@@StephaneCalabrese c'est probablement pour ça qu'on s'entend si bien. Pour la majorité des québécois, pas mal tous nos ancêtres viennent de la France et sont arrivés en Nouvelle-France au XVIIè et XVIIIè siècles.
Merci, cousin :D
I'm so pleased that I found your channel . My husband and I are coming to Paris in the next few months . So I've been researching everything I could find . And then I found you guys . Your helpful. You've already made me feel a bit better . I have to know everything I can about a place . And you've done that . Gosh thank you so much .
Thank you for this! I’m retiring to France next year from the US. Great tips!
What a refreshing video, so true.
I still have some small remarks though:
- French have 5 weeks of paid vacation and 11 holidays. And some have extra days off because they work more than 35h/week.
- I was in Italy recently in a touristy area and I was surprised by how few Italians spoke basic English. Indeed more French speak English, especially where tourists are, but if you find a French not speaking English it’s more a (southern?) European thing.
- Frenchs do love Americans, but quite a few despise American international policies and reject the right-wing-religious-anti abortion-Trump-Republican politics.
- Alas there are still some restaurants selling horrible wine to tourists…
Anyhow that should not make you not come to France. You’ll have a great time. And that channel will help you prepare your stay here.
(No I don’t know the owners nor I’m paid to say this!)
American's ideation caused French people to get lain off from their jobs; that makes people mad.
@@MrJuvefrankno it's just reckless neo-capitalism.
@@matthiasdarrington3271I'm American.
Thank you for this video!!! I just got back from Paris and had an AMAZING experience.I'm planning on going back as soon as I can. I've watched your videos (very positive) before going and decided I was not going to have any preconceived ideas, just go with an open mind to the culture and I loved it!!!🙂🙂🙂
I'm in Paris right now and, as always, loving it! The weather is perfect for walking around and exploring.
I’ve had many great encounters with the French on my trips to France. Thanks for the great video.
As a french guy, that was really funny to see the conception amaricans people could have from us. But I was really surprised when I heard american could think we hate them. Be ensure we love you !
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Never been to France but it is on my bucket list. People say a simular way about swedish people and through watching the beginning on this video then then maybe we are very much alike. Sweden also have 6 weeks paid vacation and when we are on a lunch break its very much about relaxing. We also have swedish fika time and when that comes up, its time for a break and have a cup of coffie/Té and relax.
Bonjour! I spent three weeks in Alsace, France, in December 2023, on holiday. I loved it!!! Prior to my arrival in France, I watched several Les Frenchies videos for preparaion and education. I also learned some basic French vocabulary. The French locals were very impressed and flatteted by my efforts to speak their language (try it, they'll like it) and engage in their forms of social etiquette. The French responded with friendly hospitality and delightful interactions. Be a humble traveller, not an ugly American. Merci beaucoup!
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People who travel abroad and expect everyone to fall over themselves when they don't label them "rude". Usually that criticism isn't justified. People in that place are going about their daily lives, you're the one who is unaware of local customs, you're the visitor so you have to adjust and be polite
Best advice I had was from a book by US author David Lebovitz who said exactly as you did. ALWAYS say Bonjour! It opens doors, and is completely true. 1st time to France was 1979, and it was diferent then, but since, we have had nothing but good memories of wonderful people. More than once got invited to stay with amazing people. We are not American, and Aussies seem univerally loved, but always amazed at the fact that people are people, regardless. BTW the quality of the videos are getting better and better!
I saw the title and started laughing about me and my wifes trip in last October and how she asked a french woman for directions and she responded with "No no, shoo shoo little girl" with a Cruella Devil long cig in her hand LOL. Lucky there was someone else that was more than happy to help
You have a good story though!
I concur with this video. American English is my first language, German is my second, and French my third. The one I am not fluent in is French. However, on both my visits to France I persevered in French and refused to use English unless necessary. Everyone was very hospitable, polite, and fun to be with. I found the French to be very grateful towards Americans because of our liberating them in World War II. I have visited Paris, Haute Savoie, Pays de la Loire, Bordeaux, and the Drôme. Every one of these regions was a wonderful experience.
I LOVED this video. It drives me crazy when people repeat those misconceptions as fact. I also enjoyed all the Paris scenes, most of which I recognize. But viewing this video also made me sad … because I won’t be going to France this year. 😢 Well, I did get to spend about six hours in La Rochelle in May, but I won’t be exploring France or strolling around Paris until after the Jeux Olympiques are history.
SUGGESTION: How about a video explaining that “Paris is not France,” which people all over the country have told me.
Big 👍 to your video suggestion. Thanks!
I have never enjoyed my trips to Paris. I’ve been three different times. The people were very closed, unfriendly, curt, and always in a hurry. It doesn’t help when there’s people constantly trying to scam you at every tourist attraction. The price of food in Paris is expensive, as is the cost of everything else.
However if you leave Paris, then you find a wonderful country. Paris is just New York City, but with rats that eat croissants instead of pizza. It’s overcrowded, dangerous, and full of smoke.
That's a great idea, even as a French when I travel to Paris I have not the same mood at all than traveling anywhere else in France. It's a whole other world to me.
So we took our trip to London and Paris a few months ago. I was so apprehensive about Paris due to all of the stereotyping we hear in the US. You know, rude, lack of the ability to speak English, culture differences, etc.
I watched countless numbers of your videos and honestly they did so much to calm my fears.
After 4 wonderful days in London we boarded the Eurostar and headed to Paris.
Upon arrival we were so lost lol. But, we figured it out and made our way to The Hotel St Marć.
Our first encounter with actual French people. And what an encounter. They asked what we were seeing in Paris and took a map and highlighted everything including metro stops, places to eat, things to do. They were so kind and welcoming.
We tried a bit of everything. Can you say ESCARGOT? Soooo delicious!!
We walked thousands of steps and saw some of the most beautiful artwork (Van Gogh’s Starry Night anyone?) and incredible architecture (Sacré Coeur) and only once did we ever have an issue with a Parisian.
I can honestly say that Parisians are friendlier that Londoners. Paris was welcoming, friendly, and beautiful.
All of that to say we absolutely LOVED Paris. So much that we will be going back and taking our girls with us. We want them to see the beauty and hospitality that is Paris.
Paris easily became my favorite city to visit. I cannot wait to see her again.
And as a final note…the first time you see The Eiffel Tower is a moment in your life you will never forget. ❤❤❤
As mentioned we are really proud of our culture and our country, that's why we're so enthusiastic to share nice places to visit, we want to share our best stuff to show tourists how nice it is. Like a kid showing his classmates his new toy. People that are actually rude in France will mostly just ignore everyone and do their stuff
@@nariareynhardyou should be proud. Paris is amazing!
So refreshing to hear on point opinions about my culture! Always misunderstood by travellers and tourists who don't make the effort to dig a little deeper.
Most (all) points in this video are spot on !
Cheers !
Bonjour! Hahah very entertaining video. And very correct. Knowing enough french people and having enough french friends in order to build my own opinion,I agree with what you said. Important line: Once you know them( know each other or win each others trust),french are great friends,approachable and fun. Thanks for the uplifting video. I enjoyed it. 😀👍🍀
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. No-one can visit a foreign country and expect it to be the same as your own. Lets face it that would be so boring. Travel and meeting people is about learning and respecting each others cultures. You both do it wonderfully.💚
Merci
I'm a Parisian and I feel like some misconceptions are very strong in some countries and I'm glad you're debunking it.
My own personal example of those misconceptions was this Australian guy I helped once. It was in La Défense, and for those who know the neighborhood, it can get really tricky to find your way there. So there was this guy, lost between all the suits walking in a hurry. He asked me for direction because he had an adress that wasn't very clear, so I basically walked a few minutes with him to help find his way. At the end of the discussion, he asked me where I was from (I have a pretty decent English and don't have a heavy French accent). He couldn't believe me when I told him I was Parisian born and raised, because he was told Parisians were rude, would never speak English nor help a tourist.
I had a great time in Paris last weekend. They were very helpful and nice.
Just like any other country, there is also people who doesn't drink alcohol AT ALL. It was kinda frowned upon a few decades ago (because, "CULTURE"), but these days people FINALLY understands that alcohol is not mandatory and drinking a coktail or simply fruit juice is just as fine. You might get scolded by old-fashioned person who are not open-minded and still believe alcohol is mandatory, but it begins to be rare.
ANYWAY. That's a simple conclusion here : if you don't drink alcohol, well, you won't know A SINGLE THING about wine either.
As a French who lived close to Paris I can testify that if you go to place were visitors go and you are nice, you'll get nice responses, on the other hand, try to go to quartiers in Paris that are not so friendly and you'll see that people in the street, although they don't represent at all the whole quartier, are not at all nice, and would, if they had the chance, want to be rude to you. If you want to have a good time in France, stay in places where there's monuments or stuff like this, or in places where you can see during the day a lot of people eating a speaking on terasses, it's the best sign to know if it's a chill quartier. Have a good time in France yall!
Si ça peu vous rassurez, certains stéréotype que vous avez entendu sur la France et les français, nous meme ont les utilise en province pour parler des parisiens 😂
Nous sommes un petit pays qui possèdent plus de complexités qu'un grand pays tel que les USA. C'est totalement impossible de faire un jugement global sur une experience de quelques jours pendant les vacances.
Il y a plusieurs France dans la France, que se soit pour les rencontres humaines, mais aussi les paysage, l'architecture ect
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I am french and I can tell you that everything you said is very accurate ! Thank you for visiting us
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Franco American here. I find myself not quite American enough in the US and not quite French enough when i am there.
I think that because the French are more formal, Americans take it as " rude" or distant, aloof. On the other hand, the over friendliness of Americans and lack of formalité toward total strangers is very uncomfortable !
The first time a stranger gave me a full body hug, i almost panicked !! LOL
I am absolutely loving this channel! As someone with high-functioning autism planning on visiting in September, this is really helpful. If you can offer any tips for visiting with an invisible disability that would really be appreciated.
i try as much as possible to speak french and the french are lovely