I am a christian woman.. but because of this man Sir Mufti Menk i am encourage more for converting to Islam.. but i need an advice and help on how and where i will begin? May Allah the Almighty will guide me.
Mecute Pretty, May Allah guide you to Islam. Insha Allah go and speak to the Iman at a Sunni masjid (mosque) who will aid you assist you in your journey to take your Shahaadah. Also ask him to sign post you to practising sisters who have sound knowledge of the deen ( religion of Islam) so that they can support you in your life journey as a Muslim. Also accessing lectures like this to further assist you Insha Allah ( as Allah wills). May Allah grant you success Ameen.
it's not him who is to be admirable here, it's what he is advising or preaching, and that's the teaching of Islam. he does not say what he thinks, he is saying what he have learned from the Islam. So admire Islam, don't accept it if you don't understand it now. but do respect it. as we respect all other religion.
aaaahw....Welcome to Islam sister. I am very happy to hear that not everyone has fallen for the insane propaganda against islam. may Allah make your life easier and reward you and your family protection and with the highest level of jennah.
+Idiley Idil ......thanks! anyway..... As I stay Saudi Arabia going to be almost 3years my employer the second family with I work with the madame or mama she asked me vvvvv much but I am bad I refused I was been a dark path until I meet a very esp person in internet anyway I will direct it Facebook then He started teaching me regarding about Islamic lecture.... values and this is it by December I am going home In Sha Allah will get marry also to this ESP person.... he Will coming from a distance only to proved to me that this is it no racist no color but In giving the new life in Sha Allah .... in Janna
I'm trying to convert my gf, do u think this would work? she believes in God but she doesn't know wut religion? I'm afraid I mite scare her with this :(
I pray salah five times along tahajjud Alham du lillah . But when I speak to my friends nobody prays for 5 times and top it they make me feel that I am alien. Because in todays world praying for 5times is difficult and people will tell you are doing this to show off but it is my routine Shukar Alham du lillah ...
Mufti Menk you are so purely so correct I strongly think us American human beings should carry with in your belief systems mentality's. I have complete Respect to you and your Muslim people. EyE will be sharing your words of pure wisdom full of true pureity. Will be my priority.☝
amazing and you truly a blessed Muslim Allah protect you from all difficulty and your lectures are just eye opener .I was in a haram relationship and he was delaying marriage delaying and delaying ....I was very confused what to do but after listening you Allah has given me the hidayat .....god bless you mufti menk I will always remember you in duas
Subhanallah jazakallah khair very well pointed out that beauty is temporary but taqwa/piety is permanent n anyway beauty lies in the eyes of beholder, really it's true
While it's important for the primary caregiver-- statistically the wife-- to have good character, it's essential for the husband to have EQUALLY good character. Muhammad (pbuh) said of men who would marry your daughter to give preference to those who are God-fearing because he will be inclined to treat her right no matter how the marriage goes. And realistically speaking, so many people look for those who are more religious than they, but don't you think those same people are in turn looking for more religious people? If you want a certain level of quality, you should work on developing those qualities within yourself.
Pray to God first. Then try your best. And keep praying and trying. Prayers have a profound effect on our character it gives us strength and hope and keeps us optimistic in the Mercy of our Creator. The strongest people are the people of prayer. Pray for yourself and pray for others also. But pray to the One Creator who is alone in his Divinity and has power over all affairs.
SUB HAAN ALLAH It is true. I also pray to ALLAH to grant me a righteous and pious man who can bring me closer to ALLAH and to the correct sunnah of Prophet (S.A.W.W)
Mufti I love you, but why is someone with wrinkles automatically called ugly? That's kind of discirmination isn't it? I know women with wrinkles and they look good.
Asalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu What shall I do bro, when parents & sister take a loan to build house & when we get good proposals at that time I cannot have to manage my marry. Then again we loss business & we reject from bride to late, they think I lied to them. What shall I do tell me. Sometimes I think being single is good. Alhumdulillah I Muslim I don't want to be single.
@aalat Muhammad - as a practicing Muslim person, who respects the parents, pays charity both obligatory in my religion and voluntary, who prays five times a day to remember my creator and be thankful, fasts in order to correct the wrongs i commit, who tries their best to respect people, Muslim or non Muslim because my creator told me to. Is my brain really destroyed? No, if God wills. May God guide us to what is good.
The Quran relieved 1400 years ago what 'critical thinkers' are discovering just today . you are welcome to read 4 urself:"'If all the humans and all the jinns bonded together in order to produce a Quran like this, they could never produce anything like it, no matter how much assistance they lent one another.'" (Qur'an 17:88) And if you are in doubt as to which We have revealed to Our servant, then produce a sura like it, and call on your helper, besides Allah, if you are truthful. (Qur'an 2:23)
so what about a new convert Muslim like me? I pray that Allah guides me in Islam and submit my will to Allah. I also pray to Allah to give a Muslim husband to help me be a good Muslim wife, mother, and woman.
I am not married yet. A man who came to see me as a woman said he did not like me the reason is I can't speak English fluently. I worried It is impossible to get out of that anxiety What kind of people is this
Thank you for your teachings. I am an American, however I have always lived as a chaste woman. I have experienced terrible times through 27 years of stalking by a Black Italian Mafioso Pimp who although he never touched or had a relationship with me, after one encounter he decided to buy and sell something that was never intended to be bought or sold by Allah. He has since deceased, and it was only then that I regained my freedoms and life. I hope to give all women hope and faith in Allah.
Its almost impossible to look into how the potential person's friends are like nd everything. Because here in pakistan arranged marriages happen thru marriage bureaus and there is not much u get to know aboht unknown people. I am going thru this phase. And i hve already lost interedt in marriage since all of this has become very intimidating for me
On behalf of a freind. She is in love with her cousin and her cousin loves her too (they are first cousin from mothers sidof the family). She spoke about it to her parents but her parents donot agree to it. They reason for their deniel is that it will bring problems to between two sisters. They say the boy is alright in everyway but they will not ruin two sisters relationship for this marriage. They give the reason that for two people 30 more relations will be ruined. The boys family says they do not have any problem to the marriage if the girls family agree. What should she do? How should she convince? She and the boy are very upset about this. Can muft menk help us eith the best advice Allah has given us.
May i get answer....for eg. If a marriage proposal has come n u saw picture of the guy..it made u angry and didn't like him. Does the verse of Quran (there's thing u like but its bad for u and there's thing u hate but its good for you) impacts here..may Allah forgive me for not quoting it properly
@@kaifianaaz9986 according to my understanding NO that does not apply here. I believe that verse is talking about trusting Allah in general and always being content with the Qadar of Allah. But at the same time listen to your heart. It you are not content ask yourself if you wanna keep searching. Don't get into something this important having negative feelings. Allah knows best.
because he is the last messenger, and he is example to us even in the small matters. Jesus (pbuH) was a special prophet and he came to accomplish the message of Moses and bring the Jews back to the right path, but Mohamed was a messenger to whole mankind.
Most cases I saw that even pious man will choose pretty girls over pious women. So what about the girls who aren’t pretty at all? I feel this discrimination that people care more about the look. No matter how kind you are, how pious you are, if you don’t have the look, it’s like, nothing.
It's not like that, I understand as humans, people tend to search for a face that pleases their eyes but not caring too much about pleasing Thier souls....and yes, sometimes i feel the same that without beauty we can't have a 2nd look, but stay firm on the path of ALLAH, for indeed ,if you happen to enter Jannah / heaven, there will surely be ultimate pleasure that you never want to trade for Worldly desires.....and for Noble men are nobel women and vice versa.
Some People who are behind girls for looks and shape, they're are people who destroy the life of girls after their desires are fulfilled and later they are harsh on them ,so even beautiful girls should look for a great charactered man.
@highwind8124 bcoz he was 4 all nations till de day of judgement ....de bst jesus pbuh was de best at his time , moses pbuh was de bst at his time ......each prophet is de bst at thier times ...
As'salamualaikum!☺ I want to ask can a women tell a man that she likes him If she realise that he contains the characters which prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said are good when looking for a husband. especially in this generation where it's awkward to tell a man such stuff. I need an answer mufti please. salam💝
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May Allaah(SWT) grant u hidayah and may he shower his blessings upon you brother Aameen 🤲
"...she developes wrinkles on her face, because beauty goes away...But the internal beauty developes with the wrinkles" Subhanallah! Love this sheykh
I love how he says "may-allah-protect-us-all" randomly. I'm not muslim, I am christian. I hope that we can all live in unity and peace some day.
RicksStuff respect and welcome from a muslim girl .
RicksStuff. Ameen
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I am a christian woman.. but because of this man Sir Mufti Menk i am encourage more for converting to Islam.. but i need an advice and help on how and where i will begin? May Allah the Almighty will guide me.
If your heart wishes so and Allah will ease you to your dream :)
Mecute Pretty, May Allah guide you to Islam. Insha Allah go and speak to the Iman at a Sunni masjid (mosque) who will aid you assist you in your journey to take your Shahaadah. Also ask him to sign post you to practising sisters who have sound knowledge of the deen ( religion of Islam) so that they can support you in your life journey as a Muslim. Also accessing lectures like this to further assist you Insha Allah ( as Allah wills). May Allah grant you success Ameen.
Mecute Pretty I swear you make me cry sis. I’m Muslim but I become better Muslim after I watch him.
Mecute Pretty. Sis if you buy the Quran in English it will help you and if you know any Muslim person ask them for help and I’m sure They will.
@@amalabdi2382 thank you so much sister. May Allah bless you..
i am an orthodox christian and i admire this man. one of the best advice ever.
it's not him who is to be admirable here, it's what he is advising or preaching, and that's the teaching of Islam. he does not say what he thinks, he is saying what he have learned from the Islam. So admire Islam, don't accept it if you don't understand it now. but do respect it. as we respect all other religion.
I decided to be Muslimin, reverted to Islam to be very good spouse Subhanallah! In Sha Allah.... Allah blessed me to my right path... Ameen
aaaahw....Welcome to Islam sister. I am very happy to hear that not everyone has fallen for the insane propaganda against islam. may Allah make your life easier and reward you and your family protection and with the highest level of jennah.
+Idiley Idil ......thanks! anyway..... As I stay Saudi Arabia going to be almost 3years my employer the second family with I work with the madame or mama she asked me vvvvv much but I am bad I refused I was been a dark path until I meet a very esp person in internet anyway I will direct it Facebook then He started teaching me regarding about Islamic lecture.... values and this is it by December I am going home In Sha Allah will get marry also to this ESP person.... he Will coming from a distance only to proved to me that this is it no racist no color but In giving the new life in Sha Allah .... in Janna
Loida Mopal which nationality are you? Well I am happy for you that you have met a great guy.
I'm trying to convert my gf, do u think this would work? she believes in God but she doesn't know wut religion? I'm afraid I mite scare her with this :(
Welcome to Islam sister, I hope you've been blessed with a great spouse considering I've stumbled upon this comment 3 years later.
We are soooo lucky to have this sheikh in our time.
Alhamdulillah!
I pray salah five times along tahajjud Alham du lillah . But when I speak to my friends nobody prays for 5 times and top it they make me feel that I am alien. Because in todays world praying for 5times is difficult and people will tell you are doing this to show off but it is my routine Shukar Alham du lillah ...
Make dua to Allah that he keeps you and all of us sincere.
Mufti Menk you are so purely so correct I strongly think us American human beings should carry with in your belief systems mentality's. I have complete Respect to you and your Muslim people. EyE will be sharing your words of pure wisdom full of true pureity. Will be my priority.☝
What a lovely comment. May Allah swt bless u with great success and reward for being so nice! Ameen
May Allah(SW) protect us All!!...
“The best among you are those who give the best treatment to their wives.” [Tirmidhi, Radah, 11; Ibn Majah, Niqah (Wedding), 50]
Jazakallah khair, for this most amazing lecture you given to everyone, especially us muslimah! SubhanaAllah
May ALLAH guide muslims and others to select a spouse according to sunnah...
He is delivering in a great way...mashallah
amazing and you truly a blessed Muslim Allah protect you from all difficulty and your lectures are just eye opener .I was in a haram relationship and he was delaying marriage delaying and delaying ....I was very confused what to do but after listening you Allah has given me the hidayat .....god bless you mufti menk I will always remember you in duas
you r an amazing and influencing lecturer.i like you so much. may Allah grant us to follow what you
say.ammen
Beshak
Subhanallah jazakallah khair very well pointed out that beauty is temporary but taqwa/piety is permanent n anyway beauty lies in the eyes of beholder, really it's true
Thank you so much Mufti Menk Sahab for guiding us. I feel blessed to have found your channel. Alhamdulillah!
Good spouse 😩 I admitted, I'm not so good,but I'm trying to be a GOOD MUSLIMAH 😇
April April hai
hai i want to say something with u
he has alot of noor
I love the sermon of sheikh mufti mnshllh may allah grant u in janah
i wish to listen to your lectures all day
and dr zakir naik
khalas i'm subscribing!!!! subhanaAllah what a reminder!
May He da Almighty bless muft Ismail Menk
While it's important for the primary caregiver-- statistically the wife-- to have good character, it's essential for the husband to have EQUALLY good character. Muhammad (pbuh) said of men who would marry your daughter to give preference to those who are God-fearing because he will be inclined to treat her right no matter how the marriage goes.
And realistically speaking, so many people look for those who are more religious than they, but don't you think those same people are in turn looking for more religious people?
If you want a certain level of quality, you should work on developing those qualities within yourself.
True bro
Who searches a good wife, will find a good wife one time isha Allah.
Am looking forward for the man of my dream, who is loving, caring and focus.
Pray to God first. Then try your best. And keep praying and trying. Prayers have a profound effect on our character it gives us strength and hope and keeps us optimistic in the Mercy of our Creator. The strongest people are the people of prayer. Pray for yourself and pray for others also. But pray to the One Creator who is alone in his Divinity and has power over all affairs.
You are my role model, Subhan Allah
Islam encourages all to be critical thinkers. :)
Mashallah he mentions many beautiful advice.
You are a gift to us all from God with your wonderful teaching..thankyou for your words of wisdom
May god bless u mufti menk
i like listening to his inspiring lectures
SUB HAAN ALLAH It is true. I also pray to ALLAH to grant me a righteous and pious man who can bring me closer to ALLAH and to the correct sunnah of Prophet (S.A.W.W)
I wish it wasn't so hard to find a good man as a muslim woman. But soon inshallah I will...... find my man.
Insha’Allah 💞🥰
@@seynaboufall4072 ❤️❤️
Insh Allah
so true dear Mufti so true,allah bless you Mufti(:
Mashaa Allah May Allah reward u abundantly
i don't agree with the spirituality, but i agree 100% with the character part
O Allah grant us best spouses in india 🇮🇳 too
Very powerful advice Mashallah
ma shaa Allah, this is the best advice.....
Tabara llah!!! Jzk for posting. Nice lecture
MASHALLAH 🥰🥰🥰🥰
mashaAllah
well said
very true
Love listening to your talks ..always relatable .
May Allah bless you
May Allah protect you❤
May Allah Help us on that matter also.Ameen.
very true... Awakening
Peace and Blessings
Mufti I love you, but why is someone with wrinkles automatically called ugly?
That's kind of discirmination isn't it?
I know women with wrinkles and they look good.
That wasn’t his point
Mashallah 😍
I agree with you are the company you keep but it can vary
Is it me or Mufti Menk said urdu word " CHALO" at 0:52? Walah! Mufti menk knows urdu:)
He has quite decent urdu. Just type mufi menk speaks urdu on TH-cam
Asalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
What shall I do bro, when parents & sister take a loan to build house & when we get good proposals at that time I cannot have to manage my marry. Then again we loss business & we reject from bride to late, they think I lied to them. What shall I do tell me. Sometimes I think being single is good. Alhumdulillah I Muslim I don't want to be single.
WISDOM___For Men of understanding.
At 0:52 He used urdu word "Chalo چلو" am i right?
no
yes
He was born in Zimbabwe
Do you know brother that Honorable Mufti menk studied at Jamia Kantharia, Gujarat( India )so he knows Urdu very well?
Yes
How to know if a person swears and abuses if u are meeting him for the first time?
What are the qualities for choosing a husband in Islam?
Good video, but I wish he would have elaborated a bit on a woman’s perspective
Agree 🤭
It’s as if we don’t exist 😒
I don’t think he meant it on purpose.. but I get what you mean nevertheless
Sister These are the vice versa conditions applying to both Gender.
@aalat Muhammad - as a practicing Muslim person, who respects the parents, pays charity both obligatory in my religion and voluntary, who prays five times a day to remember my creator and be thankful, fasts in order to correct the wrongs i commit, who tries their best to respect people, Muslim or non Muslim because my creator told me to. Is my brain really destroyed? No, if God wills. May God guide us to what is good.
The Quran relieved 1400 years ago what 'critical thinkers' are discovering just today . you are welcome to read 4 urself:"'If all the humans and all the jinns bonded together in order to produce a Quran like this, they could never produce anything like it, no matter how much assistance they lent one another.'" (Qur'an 17:88)
And if you are in doubt as to which We have revealed to Our servant, then produce a sura like it, and call on your helper, besides Allah, if you are truthful. (Qur'an 2:23)
so what about a new convert Muslim like me? I pray that Allah guides me in Islam and submit my will to Allah. I also pray to Allah to give a Muslim husband to help me be a good Muslim wife, mother, and woman.
Jazakum Lau Karen
I am not married yet. A man who came to see me as a woman said he did not like me the reason is I can't speak English fluently. I worried It is impossible to get out of that anxiety
What kind of people is this
May ALLAH guide muslims
Well Said !!
May Allah guide us all
And protect as all
That's what matters
JazakaAllah khair 💕💖💞❤
How to see his friends even we first time meet the person for marriage proposal. Can anyone suggest?
I will leave this to my parents
Thank you for your teachings. I am an American, however I have always lived as a chaste woman. I have experienced terrible times through 27 years of stalking by a Black Italian Mafioso Pimp who although he never touched or had a relationship with me, after one encounter he decided to buy and sell something that was never intended to be bought or sold by Allah. He has since deceased, and it was only then that I regained my freedoms and life. I hope to give all women hope and faith in Allah.
Woah whatttt?
she must be trolling lol.
mashALLAH NICE
thank you brother..
It goes both ways, also for women looking for husbands...Iternal beauty should come first. Im I making sense?
God bless you Sheikh good lecture to young people
How to know the man is spiritual or religious?
Its almost impossible to look into how the potential person's friends are like nd everything. Because here in pakistan arranged marriages happen thru marriage bureaus and there is not much u get to know aboht unknown people. I am going thru this phase. And i hve already lost interedt in marriage since all of this has become very intimidating for me
I don't care what shape they are what they look like as long she loves me for the sake of Allah swt
On behalf of a freind.
She is in love with her cousin and her cousin loves her too (they are first cousin from mothers sidof the family). She spoke about it to her parents but her parents donot agree to it. They reason for their deniel is that it will bring problems to between two sisters. They say the boy is alright in everyway but they will not ruin two sisters relationship for this marriage. They give the reason that for two people 30 more relations will be ruined. The boys family says they do not have any problem to the marriage if the girls family agree.
What should she do? How should she convince? She and the boy are very upset about this.
Can muft menk help us eith the best advice Allah has given us.
@Mufti Menk
Does height matter when choosing a husband even tho he is practicing, good, good family and is loving ?
Indeed it doesn't matter.
Religion and Good character matters and others are the secondary things depends on person to person.
May i get answer....for eg. If a marriage proposal has come n u saw picture of the guy..it made u angry and didn't like him. Does the verse of Quran (there's thing u like but its bad for u and there's thing u hate but its good for you) impacts here..may Allah forgive me for not quoting it properly
@@kaifianaaz9986 according to my understanding NO that does not apply here. I believe that verse is talking about trusting Allah in general and always being content with the Qadar of Allah. But at the same time listen to your heart. It you are not content ask yourself if you wanna keep searching. Don't get into something this important having negative feelings. Allah knows best.
because he is the last messenger, and he is example to us even in the small matters. Jesus (pbuH) was a special prophet and he came to accomplish the message of Moses and bring the Jews back to the right path, but Mohamed was a messenger to whole mankind.
Who noticed chalo for 10 the chalo word😄😄
Asalaamo alaikum
Jazakallah
Yes, indeed. You're right :)
Most cases I saw that even pious man will choose pretty girls over pious women. So what about the girls who aren’t pretty at all? I feel this discrimination that people care more about the look. No matter how kind you are, how pious you are, if you don’t have the look, it’s like, nothing.
It's not like that, I understand as humans, people tend to search for a face that pleases their eyes but not caring too much about pleasing Thier souls....and yes, sometimes i feel the same that without beauty we can't have a 2nd look, but stay firm on the path of ALLAH, for indeed ,if you happen to enter Jannah / heaven, there will surely be ultimate pleasure that you never want to trade for Worldly desires.....and for Noble men are nobel women and vice versa.
Some People who are behind girls for looks and shape, they're are people who destroy the life of girls after their desires are fulfilled and later they are harsh on them ,so even beautiful girls should look for a great charactered man.
yo, this maulana's so swaggie
That's matters
mashallah we all human and we all peatifull
Ummu Muhammad yes of course my sister, beautiful isnt about having a pretty face its about having a pretty mind, pretty heart and pretty soul.
MashAllah very nice
@highwind8124 bcoz he was 4 all nations till de day of judgement ....de bst
jesus pbuh was de best at his time , moses pbuh was de bst at his time ......each prophet is de bst at thier times ...
Im a female revert if i dont know much but im learning surely this will delay my whole completing half of my deen 😔
Don't worry, sister! May Allah guide you
we are learning until the day we die, God willing you'll have a righteous spouse so you can learn and grow together
How can someone looks for his or her own spouse if thier parents is the one who arrange thier marriage?😢😢
Sayed ASLAM good advice
As'salamualaikum!☺ I want to ask can a women tell a man that she likes him If she realise that he contains the characters which prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said are good when looking for a husband. especially in this generation where it's awkward to tell a man such stuff. I need an answer mufti please. salam💝
ask him that does he would like to marry you or else approach through your family. dont take the wrong way.may allah bless you sister !
😇😇😇Good adviser 😇😇😇
Mnshllh may allah grant u in janaah
A Proposal came to me. Man has been into zina & hardly prays. What should I do ? I'm very attracted towards him.
You know that he's into haraam and you are still attached to him then you need to evaluate what is your attachment to your Creator.
Facts.
As Salamu Alaikum !!!
he is talking like we have 1000 spouse around we cant even find 1 in this era of time every parents demading like the end of the world
Ameen